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| 10 | Should I STFU or address disrespect? | Victim Puke | EitherBedroom2341 | /r/askMRP | 02/10/23 10:36 PM |
| 9 | Where is the sidebar? | Basic Question | EitherBedroom2341 | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Got laid off a few days before filing | Need Support | EitherBedroom2341 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Custody/RTO | Custody | EitherBedroom2341 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/25 01:14 AM |
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| 6 | I could use some help.Ship has sailed. You are even lucky she is cordial with you. My advice is to accept that feelings change and she has feelings for someone else at thia point of her life. You are not the same person who met her years ago and neither is she. It’s tough.. but you are a man. Take it like a man. And trust .. one thing that cures heartbreak is new p**$$y.. get you something new under 25 years old even if you spend $$ to get it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 01:16 PM |
| 3 | How to show my ex-wife's new boyfriend that he has no authority over my children or me.48 laws of power. Never let your enemies know your strength. Pretend to be weak. To let his guard down. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How soon is ‘too soon’ to start ‘exploits’ after telling your husband you no longer wish to be married to him?I’m hoping you didn’t give her the satisfaction of a reaction. Mine was met at the door coming home from work and given the paperwork. Because tge first one I gave her, she just dismissed it and didn’t give to her attorney .. time does heal wounds. keep your head up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 2 | How soon is ‘too soon’ to start ‘exploits’ after telling your husband you no longer wish to be married to him?In my opinion, i rarely reacted.. so she kept trying.. it hurt but I didn’t give the satisfaction of a reaction. But inside.. I kept asking myself why? I spent a lot of time on that. Its all good now | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/26 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How soon is ‘too soon’ to start ‘exploits’ after telling your husband you no longer wish to be married to him?Not like I was looking.. made it obvious that something is off.. started using douche soap and went through bottles, took a urine test and left the jar of urine in bathroom so i see… I ask if she is ok and she throws a fit.. leaving dildo on bathroom sink, i get home from work and she on phone with speaker on talking to male- i say good evening and she hints me to keep quiet because she’s on the phone, cooking and taking to him at work, coming from 12 hour shift and as soon she as she gets home-… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How soon is ‘too soon’ to start ‘exploits’ after telling your husband you no longer wish to be married to him?You will be surprised to find out that everyone knows but you! Stay strong. It could have been worse. Imagine you didn’t find out for the next 5 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | How soon is ‘too soon’ to start ‘exploits’ after telling your husband you no longer wish to be married to him?Why do they deliberately leave the evidence? She did it multiple times. I reacted only once, a year later. That was so triggering for me. Not because I found it, but why? Why will she try to twist the knife after stabbing me? I never found the answer and spent a lot of time ruminating. It definitely changed my perception of her as someone with zero empathy. She wants to end it quickly. All I can say is that in my case I got the message clearly and I filed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/26 12:30 PM |
| -2 | Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back inFirst of all you should never move out. Move back in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Marriage adviceKids are grown.. you both are busy. Divorce seems like you will not be missing mich.. especially if amicable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 09:02 PM |
| 2 | “I never asked you to do everything you did for me”My guy.. that is their national anthem. Know this and know peace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 01:03 AM |
| -5 | Told my wife..Of course you are. There’s a ton of rhings you can do to make yourself more attractive to her or any other woman. I doubt you are working out and muscular. Start there and come back here in 90 days. Look in the mirror and.. Put yourself in her shoes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 6 | What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife?I don’t ask him about anything and she has already trained him not to talk. I feel bad for the poor kid (8). If I ask him how his weekend was, his response is.. ‘do i have to tell you?’ | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife?She told me she had a right to cook for her friends.. and I told her I can’t continue being married to someone who exercised that right. So I filed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 03:29 PM |
| 23 | What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife?Nurse .. worked nights .. and was always taking extra plate of food for ‘coworker’. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 01:15 PM |
| 8 | Wife having affair while we have 2 young kids. Trying to stay calm and protect 50/50 custody/assets. Advice from people who've been through this?Don’t confront.. Let her assume you are dumb. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/26 07:44 PM |
| 3 | I wanna hang with my exDoes she want to hang with you? Focus on yourself, make yourself attractive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/26 08:36 PM |
| 7 | An UpdateToo late. You don’t confront. You play dumb and plan your exit. If she played you for 9 years- how do you know she is not playing you now? It will hit you hard when you realize you are living a lie. It’s best to split. He probably got more from her than you during the whole marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 02:00 PM |
| 2 | I’m sick to my stomach about barely seeing my daughterA lot of our problems boil down to money. Make money. Do it for her. Let this motivate you. Imagine an apartment with no or less roommates. Work on making more money to live the life you want. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Wife has moved on-big timeMake sure she is under 25 and even better when you pay for it. Easy way to heal from heartbreak is new 🍑 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Divorce agreement helpMy guy it’s not easy.. i know you don’t want to nickle and dime. Typically one person pays healthcare and is not reimbursed. Insurance is different from copays etc. My agreement is I pay healthcare insurance and we split copays. I have paid over $1000 in copays this year. She hasn’t paid any. I don’t feel like communicating to her about this because she willi say she didn’t approve of me taking our son to physical therapy. I will simply fole fir a reimbursement at the court when i am fed up. May… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/26 02:05 AM |
| 20 | Wife’s Having An Affair.Don’t confront. Play dumb. See her true nature. Easier said than done. Talk to an attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Felt close to finalising divorce and a weight being lifted Monday to now being potentially made redundant.Keep moving. Don’t look back. Luckily i kept the house. She kept her pension. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Felt close to finalising divorce and a weight being lifted Monday to now being potentially made redundant.Exact happened to me. I lost my job when i filed.. 8 months unemployed when she moved out.. but now have best job i ever had. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 04:06 PM |
| 4 | She wanted 80/20 custody… now she wants to reconcile after everything came out and I’m messed up over itShe is coming back to finish you. She sees that didnt do a good job in finishing you last time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What to do...Why are you on this page? Seriously. Respond in 1-3 bullet points. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 02:27 PM |
| 2 | My wife today while on a car ride and she handed me her phone and it was one of her exs and he told me thank you for holding his spot he’s getting out of prison I said thank you for telling me this info I’m gonna move accordinglyActually look at it this way. It could be worse. Imagine if she hadn’t told you. And you kept investing with zero returns. Look at it like a business. Cut your losses. Emotional, financial, spiritual losses. Cut them all. You don’t know how lucky you are! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 06:45 PM |
| 9 | I'm just done.File bro. She won’t change. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 12:12 PM |
| 11 | I’ll forgive you, starting todayYou are probably years late, but expect to see a different meaner version of her after you file. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/26 08:40 AM |
| 6 | Them leaving is the best thing to ever happen to you 🙌Terrorism is the weapon of the weak. She wants a reaction from you. Yes its hard. Don’t give her what she wants. Act like you don’t care and she will try harder. Keep your head up. Stay indifferent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/26 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Need help to stop this urge to find women for sex.Ur a man. Sex is a physical need. Just like food. Pay someone and get it out of your system. Make sure she is hot and under 25. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/26 02:40 PM |
| 2 | I ruined my marriage and now getting a divorce.Failure is an inevitable, temporary, and necessary part of success that provides, "feedback" rather than a final judgment. Take it as feedback and do better. Don’t wallow in it.. look at it from the perspective that ur lucky you got the feedback to improve. If you change yourself- the world will change. You got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/26 12:45 PM |
| -2 | Considering escortMake sure she’s under 25. It cures heartbreak. You are a man. Your biology is wired that way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I start a divorceplan your exit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one experiencing this?Before you said the other 50% isxa matter of time before they divorce.. now you’re saying 10-15% are happy marriages- which is which? You don’t have any idea but seem so sure of yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Please give me strength...Hope you didn’t go. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 01:34 AM |
| 1 | My (30M) Ex-Wife (28F) Reached Out After 2 Years NC?The issue here is trying to figure out Why. You really never knew her otherwise you would’ve understood why. Move on mentally. She is history now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one experiencing this?You may be right. My cousin had a happy marriage by all standards. Then his wife died 3 days ago. All marriages are bad. I agree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 01:49 PM |
| 8 | 53M. Married 26 years. Found out she never really loved me. Trying to understand how I stayed.You stayed because you believed you were doing the right thing. You are going to ask yourself that question for years. You may never get a satisfactory answer. Its best to get therapy and hit the gym and more importantly get you a young girl under 25 even if you have to spend some money. It cures heartbreak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one experiencing this?Your and my experience doesn’t mean that is the global experience. Plenty of good marriages exist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/26 05:08 PM |
| -12 | Divorcing a nice womanMy guy .. find a sidechick. Be a man. Tell her about it. Monogamy is not for everyone. Some people have ED because of monogamy but perform perfectly with other women. I wouldn’t advise you to leave without telling her what you really want. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/26 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one experiencing this?You and I got bad marriages. Others didn’t. I know folks in good happy marriages. If bad exists, then it must make sense for good to exist. Unless you are trying to convince yourself that there’s nothing like a good, happy marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one experiencing this?Good happy marriages exist. If bad marriages exist-why can’t good, happy marriages also exist? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one experiencing this?Happy marriages exist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one experiencing this?I don’t agree. There are many great marriages. The other 50% are not necessarily going to divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/26 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I divorced my wife after 10 years. Does it ever actually get easier?It does get easier but ur gonna have to work on yourself physically while going through hell. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 11:51 PM |
| 5 | CrushedFind a cutie under age 25. Even if you pay it cures heartbreak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 10:57 AM |
| 16 | Ex wife is claiming I owe her half the value of MY inheritance from my late father, my GA divorce lawyer isnt helpingAttorneys overpromise women. They fall for it and end up paying unnecessary attorney fees due to their greed | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 10:28 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this?She’s trying to get a reaction. Find a distraction. Make sure she is under 25. Pay if you have to. It cures heartache. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/26 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Struggling internally on stay or go…after second chance attemptYour old ‘self’ is holding you back. Human beings are creatures of habit. You know what to do! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 02:54 PM |
| 4 | I found my ex wife in sexually explicit promotional materials for her jobFind a young lady under 25 to soothe your heartbreak. Even pay for the attention. Never look back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | So, I gave myself a Move Out DateSo long as u don’t mind legally abandoning your family. Do you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | So, I gave myself a Move Out DateShe can move out. Stay put. Especially if you have kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:19 AM |
| 1 | So, I gave myself a Move Out DateShe can move out. Stay put. Especially if you have kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:19 AM |
| 1 | So, I gave myself a Move Out DateNever move out. Its not as bad the repercussions. Trust and believe. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/26 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Wife MonkeyBranched and I've become the needy ex PART1So you believe it started on December 14? Many of us have a similar story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/26 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing narcissist wifeMy guy. Cut your losses. As much as possible don’t attach yourself to worldly possessions. You can rebuild your life from scratch. What you need now is peace of mind to make the right decisions. I was as fair as possible but still.. it cost me over $20k in legal fees dealing with someone who tried to get over. Rebuild your life. It gets better. Focus on your self. Hit the gym. Find someone under 25 to heal your heartbreak. Under 25 or nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:01 AM |
| 1 | "A Man's Faith" Suffering Physical Loneliness after DivorceUr too much in your head. You didn’t mention your age. Find you a hot under 25, and pay for her time. You need some good physical touch to get ur mind aligned. Under 25 or nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Does this make sense in the agreement?This is exactly what I have.. me 2-5, her 2-5, I have him every WT, and we alternate weekends.. with 6pm exchange. I wish I coukd have him 💯. It provides more structure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 03:01 PM |
| 2 | The 'after-divorce' trapAll facts. I got divorced last year and was at my highest weight ever a few months later- 290. I have since lost 30 pounds, feel more confident and the confidence motivates me to workout 5x a week. Gym is like therapy for me. I go to feel and overcome the pain and that makes me focus on myself and not on my past. I also met someone also divorced who seems too good to be true .. respectful, intelligent, good looking, even drives an hour and a half to spend the night.. its been a few months and sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myselfGet you some new young pu$$y. It helps to cure heartache | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Should I Do It?See if you can add another wife .. that is an old school remedy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/25 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Men over 45 after 27 years of marriage I haven't been intimate with my wife for 4 years. Thinking of calling it quits but I am afraid of not finding anyone. How hard is it out there?What you mean you have your kids full time? Ur married.. What is she doing while you have the kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Hardest part is the kids?You can decide to stay for the kids but on your terms. Do not follow her.m suggestions. Don’t complain. Accept your faults. Stay quiet. Very quiet. Don’t discuss why you changed. Work on yourself. Go to the gym. I can bet a million bucks she out there blowing someone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 12:24 PM |
| – | My wife wants me to divorce herMine didn’t ask me in words- but in action, and I did not have a choice but to give her what she wanted. We have 50/50 now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Am I in the wrong or should I even do thisMy ex works in healthcare as a RN night shift. Her schedule changes every week We agreed to split childcare costs. She works 12 hour shifts 3 days a week. Divorce was finalized a week ago. She says she didn’t understand the custody agreement and has a different schedule for June when we supposed to begin new 2-2-3 custody agreement with rotating weekends. Her schedule changes every week and is not fair to our autistic 8 year old. Its in his best interest to have a regular schedule. She insists o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 04:01 PM |
| 4 | How to manage going through a divorce?If she’s not attracted to you anymore, there’s nothing you can do. She’s filling her holes somewhere and even gave you hints .. cut ur losses. Easier said than done, but the view from the mountain when ur done is beautiful. You know the saying “Nature abhors a vacuum”? When there’s a void in a relationship—emotionally or physically—something or someone often fills it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 05:07 PM |
| 19 | Very happily married and wife suddenly in big rush to leaveYou got comfortable. Never really knew her. Now ur facing reality. Most of us here have been there. My guy- it does get better. Don’t discuss too much about this with her. Divorce her in your head before the papers are signed. Move on bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/25 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Wife Wants Divorce, Affair?Waste of time. You will never know if she decides to hide very well. And it will bother you. Move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Anybody here from NJ?NJ here. Settling exactly a year after filing next month. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Completely Devastated & BlindsidedBest time to get a divorce is when she is in ‘affair fog’. You will get less when the dust settles. Move quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Business transactionOnly conflict we have is scheduling. Its 50/50 but insists on not having a set schedule as she is a new RN and her schedule changes every week. She gives me a schedule at beginning of month with different weekly schedules. We have an autistic son and I prefer a set schedule. Is it something I should let go or fight for? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/25 02:52 PM |
| 6 | Divorced from sexless marriageShe pregnant now - not mine… and we finalized and sign next Monday. I never understood. We had sex once every 18 months and she worked nights for years … I eventually had to file. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | She gave me the death sentence.Go and let us know how it works out. FAFO | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Custody/RTOHow will this play out if she is pregnant? I should just worry about my 50% right ? I heard rumors and she looks pregnant and I am surprised she’s given such a hard time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Custody/RTO.. I spoke to my new manager who is allowing me to work hybrid and come in at 9 instead of 8. This gives me an opportunity to drop him off at daycare and get to work on time. Thanks for your advice .. She works 3 overnight shifts per week but I notice she has been doing 4 some weeks but if falls within the 50/50 range. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/25 12:26 AM |
| 35 | Got access to her WhatsAppDo ur best not to confront again. Shut up. Play dumb and contact an attorney. The Art of War says to appear weak infront of ur enemy. This is a war. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Reason for divorceEvery mathematical problem has an answer- but most likely u will break up in a few years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Livid at my STBX for never prioritizing our sonA lot of this applies to me. I even requested 50/50 so she will spend more time with him.. because I felt like she was taking advantage of me. I even insisted she take him for extra curricular activities i pay for on the days she has him. It took a while to comply but she didn’t take him this weekend. She doesn’t involve in any activities or take him anywhere unless its somewhere she is going and he can tag along. She doesn’t know anyone in his class at school. Just busy being a new RN and cooki… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Please advice me to be better as a woman to my husband.I’m African so I understand. You have seen the light… even taking accountability. My advice just stay in ur feminine, that’s all you need to do. The rest will fall in place. And maybe find his love language as icing on the cake. I wish my wife would read this. Maybe she will see the light too. Ur situation mirrored mine except more extreme because she found out and cheated back and tried to emasculate me - always on speakerphone with new ‘classmate’ .. cooking and taking to school.. got him a jo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to proceed with the new living situationStop overthinking it. We live 5 minutes away from each other. She works 3 12 hours a day shifts which change every week, and is a struggle for our 7 year old autistic son. Learn to control what you can control. Try and get ur kid on ur 4 days off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 08:54 AM |
| 19 | I know there is a hidden camera, what do I do?Pretend u don’t know.. tell ur attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/24 10:23 PM |
| 9 | Wife starting to threaten divorce, feels inevitableShe divorced u in her mind at least a year ago. Its hard to accept but its too late to save ur marriage. Don’t try and work on a relationship with someone who doesn’t want you. You may never understand why she made the decision. Be ready to accept that. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/24 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Ok to go through life as a single dad?The time away is tough for me because I have a 7 year old son… i worked from home and was the baby sitter as she was in nursing school and was living her best life with classmate/coworker and never home. Now she has him 3 days a week which seems to be what most men want but even that is miss him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/24 12:59 PM |
| 3 | ResentmentSounds exactly like me except that after 5 years of wfh… I had to start going to the office.. and due to her schedule, I was getting to work 15 minutes late .. I was fired/ laid off 3 weeks later. I filed right before i was laid off.. If she was a bit flexible with work I probably would have my job today .. we have our custody mediation on Monday. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Post separation solo vacation recommendationsHow do you arrange vacations with custody? I am taking a vacation with 7 year old son which I prefer to go alone, but she is inflexible with her new career as a registered nurse but yet changes her schedule always to suit her and I have to adjust. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Looking for recommendations for a good divorce lawyer in Morris County NJKristi Terranova- she is not cheap but a fighter | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Started the Process todayHow will she be able to pay the mortgage? You’re thinking of a best case scenario here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Got laid off a few days before filingUPDATE: So yesterday attorney said paperwork ready to file.. also yesterday I asked her for half the rent.. and date it will be late. She paid before end of day.. came home on time which is rare- was cold and went straight to bed at 4pm. I took son to park, got back, gave bath and was getting ready for bed when she woke up and made him dinner. I then went to do laundry and ignored her. I am confused (Stockholm Syndrome) because this is the most she has ever contributed in bills.. she is not doin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/24 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Got laid off a few days before filingExactly.. I am so clueless.. I not only didn’t realize.. I am a victim of manipulation.. I tolerated so much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Got laid off a few days before filingI pay extra so we are month to month on the lease.. but I now dont have the paystubs to rent a place unless i use last 2 stubs which means moving ASAP. She agreed initially to move out so I was counting on staying here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 11:44 AM |
| 6 | Got laid off a few days before filingActually I was looking at Headphones today. Thanks for the advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Wife keeps whiningLong story short.. Mine got papers last August through me.. graduated as a RN in January 2024. We were married in 2018. I didn’t know what cuck was. I thought my purpose was to support her achieve her goals. We discussed custody on Sunday- she is dismissive and not ready to talk about it. I gave her the custodyexchange link to review. She said is moving out but plans to stay as long as possible as she doesn’t contribute to rent. Divorce is ready to be filed when attorney comes from vacation. Its… | /r/askMRP | 18/04/24 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Absolutely terrifiedYes.. abandoning the home automatically gets her alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Struggling 3.5 months in.I know exactly how u feel.. it’s something in hospital water. Medical staff cheat the most. My stbxw starts her new job on Monday as a RN .. she has a work husband/ classmate she helped get the job in the same hospital.. they start together.. she cooks and takes to school/work for them both.. while I paid all the bills. Suspected her cheating but has hidden it very well. I have no choice but to divorce or live an empty life. I have been patiently waiting for over a year to file in the next few d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/24 12:49 PM |
| 8 | I’m back after 6 monthsShe’s now someone else’s problem. Always remember the bad times. It will help you get over it. Keep ur head up bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 11:23 PM |
| 2 | UpdateHow can I copy this on iPhone? Nuggets bruv.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/24 05:50 PM |
| 10 | Is it better to divorce when wife is working or not working?Mine starts working in a month.. just finished nursing school. I immediately gave attorney the date after she told me yesterday. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?I don’t think its even heartless. It’s more than that. Women hate weakness. They find it repulsive. She sees me as her enemy and for so long I have been trying to figure out why. She told me on Friday she isn’t paying her share of rent anymore. She was paying 25%. And she just started paying in July- paid for only 3 months, July August and September. The way she told me was rude and dramatic and I think she was trying to bait me into a fight. I was thankful I knew about RP. The old me will have … | /r/askMRP | 08/10/23 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?This is really deep. Thanks. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Update: so I go pick up son from daycare.. she is gone to school till 9pm. The house smells of food when i walk in but there’s no food in the house. She probably cooked and took to Chad.. because that’s what accelerated the choice to divorce because she said she has a right to cook for her male friends. So I stopped eating her food because it felt like she was cooking for him and leaving leftovers… She’s not doing it openly but is still doing it. And I am trying to stay in my frame but i feel li… | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?I wonder how I never knew this all my life.. seriously. lol | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Thx for feedback. Ur probably right. I don’t know what I don’t know.. the wait is not something she’s aware of. She thinks i am waiting till she is done with school. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Thank you! I am working on cybersecurity.. I just passed the CISA but there’s a few more courses before i can switch careers. I have not been to class in 2+ weeks because I have not done homework. Because I am not in my frame. I am glad to get this advice.. I didn’t have goals. I thought supporting her to get citizenship and finish school has been my goal for years. I need to get goals. Short term is to finish cybersecurity class and then cloud security. I will do an OYS post soon. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?That’s actually a really good point… I don’t have to continue bs… feels like a part of me is scared to take the plunge and this addresses it directly. Thanks. I have gotten a lot of good advice. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Yes indeed! And she walks around the house with an attitude! | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Thanks. I am glad I am on this path. I appreciate all you brothers. I needed the right frame of mind. Is that where ‘frame’ comes from? We keep on moving. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Thanks for this! | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 10:24 AM |
| 0 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?So she just walked into the house 12am on the phone with someone. Is this acceptable? To me, it is not and I feel like she trying to emasculate me. Am I overthinking it? I don’t think I am insecure or can I address it? | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Surprisingly I didn’t. I was so focused on how soon this can end that I forgot the most important thing. We had discussed 50/50 previously. I will email. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?Thanks. There a lot to learn | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 03:50 AM |
| -3 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?I sppke to the parents this summer. I finished paying the attorney last week Friday. I don’t see the point ur making. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?We agreed to split so I don’t care about who she is fucking.. my issue is regarding my son.. i think he was out too late for a Sunday and i didn’t know where he was or in whose company. I spoke to attorney today who said I should not rush it due to her significant increase in income soon.. but if i insist she can serve her tomorrow. But i like the fact you suggest i should not address it. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/23 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?What? That makes a lot of sense. Her suspected Chad is also a coworker - she got him the job at hospital and they both in nursing school.. she puts a lot of effort into her new relationship and I guess she may be competing with others for him. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 02/10/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Haven't talked in 5 daysThis is exactly me.. I don’t know if i have it in me to change the situation because she also is cheating.. I am filing for divorce.. my worry is i just found out i am beta so i have to unfuck myself. | /r/askMRP | 29/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 5 | Wife met up with her ex in the early days of our relationship, behind my back.She stuck with the ATM.. but does she have feelings for him? | /r/askMRP | 27/09/23 08:26 PM |
| -1 | What if you want your wife to lead big parts of your life?I’m a newbie.. I dunno if even qualified to talk.. but.. it seems you want a shortcut. Go add value to your life.. pursue your career to the highest level. Ur too comfortable. There’s millions of people making 2x ur salary ur so happy about. Why not u? Your are even more beta by asking this question. Why should you not lead? | /r/askMRP | 15/09/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Where is the sidebar?All her classmates know the guy. I don’t know if coworkers know.. but it will be awkward continuing if she is not even remorseful. Talking about abundance, i met the CEO of Fortune 500 company yesterday while driving Uber… and we exchanged numbers and we talking today.. she is 10 years older but doesn’t look it.. she is single and looking.. but said cant get on social dating sites because of who she is… its going good but i suddenly remember i am in her frame.. and i dont know whether I messed u… | /r/askMRP | 10/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Where is the sidebar?Yes.. long time to dig myself out.. That’s my biggest concern. I have a long road infront of me. I can’t get over the fact that she was working 8 hours a week when i met her 8 years ago.. and now she about to be a RN and she talks to other men in my house and they talking about nothing.. gossiping about coworkers. I hear that if a woman cheats and u take her back she hates u more than her enemy and punishes u for taking her back. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/23 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Where is the sidebar?Thanks .. ur the man! I found the sidebar!.. now begins the journey. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Where is the sidebar?Why don’t you try and then I try after you? | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Where is the sidebar?Ur so right Thanks.. I was depending on her to cook … i used to cook before but she hated me in the kitchen so i stopped cooking.. I made spinach and shrimp today and my sugar has been perfect.. | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Where is the sidebar?Thx.. -My attorney ex got a divorce last year and recommended her as a fighter. -Yes I think about my son and the reason I stayed so long is because I discovered want a broken family.. and it will be sad for him to see me as a cuck. That will be a poor example. - Financially, all my money is in real estate.. I have literally only 10k savings but 2 properties in various stages of completion.. a $700k flip going to the market next month and a $525k which will be ready in 3 months. | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Where is the sidebar?Dmt meaning please | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Where is the sidebar?I don’t care about the divorce rape. I mean i care.. but if i have to start from scratch i will.. there’s folks jumping the wall into this country today who will end up being millionaires.. Knock me down 10 times i will stand up 11. I have a rental property i sold and bought another she doesn’t know about .. also put the proceeds in another investment property.. she thinks I won’t leave and my motivation is to prove her wrong. Worst case we can try and rekindle after divorce, but the divorce mus… | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Where is the sidebar?I agree. I do cardio every day for 30 minutes before I lift. I will have been bigger if not for cardio.. but since i heard about lifting on here i started.. i can do a humble 190.. without pushing too hard.. this is my first real month of lifting | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Where is the sidebar?I accept.. I will never know… She told me she going to DR. for ultrasound today and on Thursday went to ER for pelvic pain.. we had sex on Fathers Day only time this year and even i was surprised.. just stepped to me and said ‘can we have sex to have sex’? I gave her all my stress.. pounded her good.. surprisingly when i came i was still hard and she was like wow ur still hard.. I knew there was possibly something off.. so i did not ejaculate in her.. I will ask for DNA if shw is pregnant. | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Where is the sidebar?Thanks for the feedback.. yes its the diet.. I am so upset i stopped eating her food because she has been cooking and taking to Chad and leaving leftovers in the house .. she stopped after i complained.. but sometimes i come home.. smell food in the kitchen but no food to be seen.. and this is someone i paid $10k credit card bill last year. I will do better with my eating. I’m also diabetic for past 15 years on insulin. I should know better. | /r/askMRP | 08/09/23 05:52 PM |
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