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Going on 2 years still waiting to finalize everything but when they say the man above sends you someone when you need it the most I can say its true met a wonderful woman 8 years younger then me I am 46 and its completely night and day its been a year and its been an amazing ride no arguments no dodging pots and pans. Had to learn that talking it out was a thing in a relationship. Had to teach my self to stop asking her if she was mad all the time PTSD is real. Random hugs and kisses and touch s…
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 03:31 PM
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My Ex threw her ring at my face it hit the couch and fell on the floor. I was like I'll keep it and sell it paid 15k I think she thought the same thing as me because she picked it up and took it with her. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 07:37 PM
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Regretted it so much she did it over and over again
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 08:43 PM
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I was cheated on 5 different times and stayed to work things out. Now that I think back I should have left after the first time. But I was very heavy at the time and now feel that I lacked the confidence. The bedroom was dead for years. So to make a long story short I left it's been over a year got a subscription blue chew and had a few dates to test it out and built up the confidence. Met an amazing girl who treats me amazing and don't need the chew assistance anymore. Hope everything works out…
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 05:25 PM
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Before I even knew we were headed for divorce
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 04:35 PM
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I had a lot of mutual friends and even some family choose her side over mine. Mainly because she took to Facebook and started pushing her narrative I remained silent I figured the people who really knew who I was would see through the nonsense. The ones who stayed on her side really were not the people I would want in my circle so I feel like I am better off the way things turned out.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 04:24 PM
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Hey Man had the same issue as you my ex did the same to me and it was defeating get your self a sub to bluchew or another product like that. It helped me build my confidence to the point where i didn't need them anymore. Granted i still pop one once in awhile to have a little extra fun. follow these steps and you will be putting in work like a 16 year old again . Good Luck my dms are always open
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 08:52 PM
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Look I don't know your situation past what I just read but in my experience its always the man that was the problem. Did you hear the therapist say these things about you or is it coming from her. Sounds like gaslighting to me. I know you want to be the nice guy but in the end you have to look out for yourself so don't just hand over everything because you were told its your fault. Im sorry man that this is happening to you in time it will get better keep your head up and get your ducks in a row…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 07:27 PM
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Sounds like a hit n run for you brother enjoy
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/25 03:24 AM
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Congratulations... Send me the coffee maker lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 05:14 PM
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Bro I went when she wasn't at the house and rescued my dog. She never said anything been a year dog and me sleep in peace every night
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 12:54 AM
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Bro it happens don't be discouraged I started having issues during my marriage and couldn't figure out why. Took it out on my self pretty bad so I got 9mg tadalafil from blue chew when I started dating again The first time I took it I felt like I was 16 again so many rounds we lost count. I will say I don't take it on the regular anymore and don't have the ed issue anymore. I honestly think it was the issues in my marriage that caused it. I do pop one on occasion when I want to give myself a lil…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 05:24 AM
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I was in your place 6 months back 20 yrs married in a dead bedroom situation. Different rooms in the house did sleep in the same bed but there were no cuddles or anything to that nature. I love her still and always will we came up from two dumb kids in their 20s with nothing to having a home and being stable. But loving someone and being in love with them are two different things. The question is do you love her for everything that you been through or do you love her to where you couldn't live w…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 07:04 PM
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I will say this and I hope it helps was married 20yrs and it was 15 years too long. Catching her one time 5 yrs in and multiple times after. If you let them get away with it once they will do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 04:55 PM
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Welcome to happiness brother !!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 04:25 AM
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Caught my s2bxw 7 times talking to other men. Very graphic and with photos she never would do half the stuff she talked about with them to me. I stayed longer than I should have and my only advice would be that if she is doing it now she will do it again and unfortunately probably has before this as well. Good luck it's not an easy decision I left 3 weeks prior to r 20th anniversary but after sometime I feel like myself again and have started living again. Feel free to DM if u need to talk.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 07:47 PM
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Honestly I had problems sleeping like my mind couldn't shutdown. I started taking 3 or 4 puffs of herb before bed and have slept amazing since.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 02:57 PM
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I went on blue chew 9mg tadalafil for a few months because I was having issues worked amazing now I don't need them but use them from time to time still
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 03:42 PM
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I moved out finally after 20 years with a narcissist. Lucky for me my parents had no issue with me moving back. I realized how much I lost myself and who I was. It made me sick when my sister was like why do you keep asking me why Im mad I was just so used to someone being pissed off at me that it was just a natural thing to say. So to answer your question yes I feel so light and slowly gaining the old me back.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 12:10 AM
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Amazing read and great job brother!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:51 PM
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It was 20 years of events 5 years into the marriage I caught her cheating and it seemed like every few years after 8 in total. I always wanted a marriage like my parents through thick and thin. Gave her everything she wanted. Eventually sex became less and less seemed like a chore for her. I spent lots of time alone in my gaming room and life in general one day 5 months ago she started on me saying I was cheating and I just had enough of the narcissist and controlling behavior. No less than two …
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:24 PM
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I finally left and had enough the week before my 20th anniversary. I suffered in silence for a long time staying through the fighting and cheating.it was a complete shock to her and my family because I hid a lot of what was going on. It's been about 3 months since I have been out of the house I was lost at first but I will say it gradually gets better. I feel like everyday with the help of my family I am finding the guy inside me who was lost. Keep your head up brother.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 07:43 PM
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