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| 1 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsNegative comments? | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsPersonally, I don't feel out of place at all. Some people won't want to hang out with you no matter what your age is, so why worry about the reason? That's my thinking. I'm probably the "Hello, fellow kids" meme but as long as you are polite, pleasant, smiling and fun, and not expecting anything, you're good. It just recently hit me that I don't look like one of the 20 year olds. I have taken care of myself and am in good shape but I have a lot of gray hair and yeah, I look like I'm around 40. B… | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 01:46 PM |
| 14 | What are my chances of me catching herpes from this girlGo look it up, if she takes medication and does not have a flare up, odds of catching are low. Now compare that with random chicks you know nothing about. 25% of population has HSV2, according to statistics that I find hard to believe (haha) but that is what they say. Risk isn't zero either way but I don't think it is as risky as it seems | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsyeah, i like it! Maybe after the laugh hits go "no, i wanted to see the [whatever people go to that area for]. How about you?" and that's it, you are off and running | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsI actually think that would be funny and would probably work (if said in a light and playful tone) 😂 Men wanting women is not creepy, it's normal. Acting creepy/being a creep is creepy. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsWhatever draws you out into a life of adventure is fine. Maybe it starts with women. Sexual interest causes the first step towards a longer journey. This is not stupid as fuck. Stupid as fuck would be seeing a greater life possible but not going for it because you need the "right priorities". We all end up the same way, dead as dirt. Stop rattling the bars, walk out the jail door; it's wide fucking open. M46 | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsYou can always make money. Opportunities slip away for following your dream to have an adventure. Do it, don't let these "have to build yourself up with status etc" thoughts get in the way. Maybe change it a bit where it is not just about girls but I'm guessing that you already aren't interested in doing this JUST for girls. Girls are an ingredient but life is the meal. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsDon't let these anonymous people shake you off your dream. Get another job when you're ready. (I'm assuming you can swing this financially, with savings or whatever. It is a different story otherwise. But hostel living can be very inexpensive.) | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsHis plan is to be happy. People need to lighten up and live! | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostelsIt sounds like a great idea to me. [M46] 27 is still quite young and the only way to surpass YOLO is realizing YOYO (you're only young once). I wish I had worried less about my career and focused more on living it, and I still got out there way more than most people. If you are in a technical field, you have a greater safety net as well. I'm an engineer and feel like I can get a job anywhere at any time. Probably not a "job I love" but it will pay well enough to live comfortably, and you can get… | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Church may be a viable option, one issue Ive seenExtremely high risk v reward I think I just found Jesus | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a hookup/kiss at a nightclub as somebody who overthinks what they doYou did the right thing, always go for it and if rejected, back off. That's what you did, as you should have. As for judgement from her friends, kissing is normal. Also, misreading the situation is normal. You're a human being dammit and you acted like one. Be proud! | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 12:37 AM |
| 2 | I’ve set the date, interest is high, do I keep texting her?No Stop texting until the day of You can send a text saying you will be 15 minutes late if you want to be sure she's going to show | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 03:08 AM |
| 3 | I (27m) don’t have an Instagram account. Thoughts?It's helpful to have one to use as a messaging app. You can still benefit from it in that way even if you (like me) don't post frequently or ever. However, I recommend having a couple photos so people will remember who you are when messaging. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How to get a threesomeGo find my other comment on this in here, I gave you the truth you need. It was in response to a don't do it post from someone. (A valid opinion but one I personally think is totally wrong.) | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 12:27 AM |
| 8 | How to get a threesomePeople say this and you're not wrong BUT You can always find another woman to date. If this guy is young, he has plenty of time. Maybe she is into it, but just nervous. I don't think he should work hard looking for reasons she might not want to do it. I think it's a medium risk for high reward. Makes sense she doesn't want to do it with a friend. I don't date in my friend group. Go to a bar and have fun, maybe you'll find that girl you're both interested in finding just while having a fun time o… | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to approach milfs in your mid 20sNo Not weird, not even a little Do it | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 04:35 AM |
| 10 | Full texting analysis - Getting laid with a goth chick from TinderStage 1 took 4 days?? Is that typical? That is really interesting, I usually get impatient and lose interest in the back and forth of a slow text. I guess the lesson I'm taking from this is: girls do not get as bored as I do or as I expect. Just keep hitting the ball back over the net and wait for her to hit it back to you. Thanks for posting | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Milf I fucked twice asking to meetAlso now that I'm 45, it seems crazy to think those women were "too old" at 35 lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 10:47 PM |
| 41 | Milf I fucked twice asking to meetWhen I (45) was in my mid 20s, more than a few times had milfs/cougars proposition me and I usually turned it down because they were too old. Felt beneath me, or something. I totally regret that decision. If you want to do it, do it. (That said, don't catch feelings. If you both want to have a fun time, you should do it.) | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What's something that you have learned from getting rejectedWhat I've learned is rejection doesn't matter so move on and keep grinding | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or?No, I never had sex with my friends. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or?A few of my female friends helped me get laid a lot of times, tbh. I can get girls anyway, but two of them keep introducing me to girls they know and I have banged several and it rules. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 09:04 AM |
| 1 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuing100000000% | /r/seduction | 12/08/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl sent me a picture of her in a bikiniThis is the way | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How to not lose frame when a dude is flirting with a girl in your groupDo not do this. Ever. Women are interested in confident men with unclear intentions. Try flirting with her instead. (Sorry to so harshly disagree, but 🤷🏼♂️) | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 0 | How to not lose frame when a dude is flirting with a girl in your groupI would have said something like "Whats up, my man?" fairly loudly and just kind of stared at him with raised eyebrows, like I was waiting for him to say something to me. If he didn't either scram or start talking to me, I'd do it again. When he talks to me, I'd be friendly, smile while talking, whatever, but I would not be welcoming. I would definitely not be threatening or act like I was upset at all. For me, this scenario isn't about the girl. It's that this clown doesn't know our situation, … | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 5 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?Ok, that's good. Sorry if I got all worked up in my response, I have been doing that today lol I would send that text if I was going to a friend's place, you probably would as well, so good idea | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 10:49 PM |
| 7 | Had sex with this girl before. Now going to her place to ‘watch a movie’ at 9PM. Do I go empty handed?What the f If you go empty handed because you are afraid of the signal it sends then you are a robot which (to me, at least) is as bad as bringing something because you think it will get you laid. Actually it's worse because you have a good situation that you want to turn weird over some rules in a book or blog or whatever. It's also ok to bring something because she would like it. She's already doing something you like. If you don't drink, that's fine; you don't have to bring something alcoholi… | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Approaching during the day is a futile effortNo prob I like Reddit karma too | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Approaching during the day is a futile effortStart with some hit and runs Those are when you decide ahead of time that no matter how well it goes, you're going to give a compliment, say have a nice day, and leave. Do that a bunch of times to warm up. (I guess if you do it and the woman begs you to stay, then fine, you don't have to leave lol) It's this: Hi, I saw you a moment ago and I just wanted to say, I think you look really nice. Then you leave. After doing this a few times, you'll see it's NBD. You're doing it free from outcome, so i… | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Beginning Daygame: should I leave if she's not immediately receptive?Read my other response. You have to go all the work at the beginning and you don't ask them any questions until the hook point when they ask you one or give you an indication of interest. The other thing I would add is the success rate of this is very low IF you measure success by did you get the girl. If you measure it by did you have fun flirting, then it should be about 95-100% (and that will in turn help the other number) | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Beginning Daygame: should I leave if she's not immediately receptive?you just stick it out, the more awkward the situation the better (up to a point, be James Bond not a guy from jackass) I thought you aren't supposed to ask them any questions until the "hook point" when they either start asking you questions or are giving you some other IOI. Isn't it: hello, I just wanted to say you look nice, what I noticed about you is (blank) I bet you're a (something related to blank), they say: no I'm (other thing), you say: oh you're (other thing). then either: I have a fr… | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What are a few relatively small things that can seriously hurt your success?To me, most of the good rules of game for men are about controlling your interest enough to act like a normal person and prevent scaring off a woman who might have been interested. People who think pick up is creepy/sleazy don't understand this point. (Sleazy pick up guys also don't get this, imo.) I like the analogy of game is like getting a fisherman who re-casts his line whenever he sees a ripple in the water to instead relax, enjoy the day, and let the fish bite. Also, for me, it's easier to… | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 2 | What are a few relatively small things that can seriously hurt your success?Giving a shit never helps 😂 This sounds flippant or bitter but I'm not either of those, seems like caring less is always a good policy. Be nice, don't be a jerk but if it doesn't work out, hey, you can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs I mean for real, if small things wreck "it", then "it" was going to end eventually anyway. Who wants to walk on eggshells and why am I obsessed with eggs today There's always another one coming | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | As a younger guy, am I going to regret avoiding casual sex when I'm older?Yes | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 10:56 PM |
| 3 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.Oh ok, I'm sorry..a little hungover and missed that detail (which you were clear on, I just missed it, my bad lol) So, let's say she comes back or this situation happens in the future. Trust me, do not expect her to explain and don't ask. A key is to care less than they do. Be nice, don't be a jerk, care for them, show love but care less about the outcome. If one you like is coming back to talk to you, it means she likes you, so don't fuck it up by creating an awkward situation. I did this so ma… | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 0 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.I see this differently. You held frame by saying no to bring friends. She came back because of that. Your were non-needy and that was really good. But then, your pride got in your way. You only went on one date; why should you be her "first pick"? You were hurt by the rejection, ok that's normal, but now she knows it because you're acting hurt. That's showing weak frame and it's unattractive to women. More importantly, it's sabotaging your own success. You should have been unaffected by the reje… | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Tom Torero Deleted YouTube & WebsiteI would love to get a copy of those... I can say daygame still works in Chicago | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | (21M)Why can't I do more push up?Eat more. I put a lot of work in without making much progress in terms of getting bigger and stronger until I learned to focus on nutrition. (That effort still made me healthy and I looked fit, so it was in no way a total loss.) If you want to get stronger and bigger, make sure every set is to failure. Eat 18-20 calories per pound of current body weight. (That is a lot if you eat clean, which you should.) 50% carbs-30% fats-20% protein. Eat/drink protein and carbs before and after (within 45 min… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 04:58 PM |
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