I’ve set the date, interest is high, do I keep texting her?

Glacier_Sama · 2025-01-15T23:20:37+00:00

Normally I go silent until the date, but my dates are always scheduled within the next 4 days.

In this instance.. Maybe tell her you're looking forward to the date and she should enjoy her trip or whatever(didn't read the post.. ADHD) and that you will hit her up closer to the date to make sure yall are still on.

Then maybe reach out once randomly, don't mention the date. Just to refresh yourself in her mind. Maybe send a Pic of you doing something cool.

Then go silent again until three days before the date. Reach out and confirm that yall are still on for the date in 3 days... Then continue as usual.

ShadowWalter · 2025-01-15T23:19:22+00:00

Here and there sure (once every other day or so but also don’t make it obvious you’re doing it once every other day be spontaneous about it), def don’t just go cold but it should be short and witty, don’t want to use your material before the date. I think the real learning lesson here is when the iron is hot, don’t schedule a date 10 days out. The sooner the better because that’s when tensions are excitement are high.

korokhp · 2025-01-16T03:07:24+00:00

Why do you think that keeping texting her would suddenly change her opinion of you and even cancel the date worst case? You mention you overtexted and that made women move on? Why so?

antonthecad · 2025-01-16T14:23:26+00:00

Just send her the occasional ping text to stay on her radar. Little check ins are important over a long period of time.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-01-17T09:33:38+00:00

It's a lot of days until your date . Just text her a couple of times in between to ask her how she is and how things are going

PeterLamb87 · 2025-01-16T01:11:39+00:00

I dont text before a date, only to confirm the appointment but the 25th is a long time for a date, so maybe here and there; something funny, or short convos, unless she is the one seeking to talk.

everydayguy_ · 2025-01-16T09:02:24+00:00

Honestly man stop giving a flying fuck about what women think, say and do.

Go about your day man, lock in, eat some steak and eggs and if the bitch shows up (or not) on the 25th then so be it

ElWierdo · 2025-01-16T03:08:39+00:00

No

Stop texting until the day of

You can send a text saying you will be 15 minutes late if you want to be sure she's going to show

Fine_Leather · 2025-01-15T23:29:23+00:00

You can send her insta reels that are funny or about something you know she likes to show you’re thinking of her.

ZeusxIsxGodly · 2025-01-16T04:45:33+00:00

You in DC? Barcelona is lit for finding shawties lls

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2025-01-16T01:47:26+00:00

Please do not check in.

Chunkstyle3030 · 2025-01-16T01:27:50+00:00

Imagine a woman wanting to date you

purplethizzle · 2025-01-16T02:36:55+00:00

never take a girl on a date who asks for it… make her earn it

Title	I’ve set the date, interest is high, do I keep texting her?
Author	itstrey720
Upvotes	4
Comments	30
Date	January 15, 2025 11:13 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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