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It's arbitrage. You're more likely to be common where you are from so less valuable. If you go where you are rare, your value goes up. However, if you can't get girls at home, going abroad isn't really going to change anything. You need value to begin with.
/r/seduction12/06/26 11:03 AM
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I'd say as long as it doesn't look like you've done it on purpose then it's a positive. Also who cares, maybe she wants to fuck, you maybe she doesn't. Do what you want to do.
/r/seduction12/06/26 10:40 AM
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In my experience, I wouldn't read into that too much. Tuesday is further away than what her break up was so take with a pinch of salt as things will be changing quickly.
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:32 AM
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If anything it's made me trust more. I've only had literally one or two experiences with women that would be classed as bad and I pretty much brought those upon myself. I know how women see me and how they treat me. They go out of their way to try to be with me, they are responsive and interested so I trust them to be themselves. I know in that sense I'm an outlier and they treat me accordingly. For the record, I have rock solid inner game and don't really carry any insecurities into interaction…
/r/seduction23/04/26 01:12 PM
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Well I am going to tell you what works for me but it might not work for you because we are in different stages. There are many ways to do this, there's not one way to look at these things so just try what works for you. I don't really escalate on dates anymore. Well what I mean by that is that I escalate a lot less than I used to. I used to kiss, touch etc and almost create like a ladder until it was time to pull her back to my place. I thought I was using heavy make outs as an attraction tool a…
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:41 AM
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Start talking to women without any pressure on yourself and that means genuinely talking to them with no motive other than to give compliments and walk away. "I like your scarf, it really suits you" will get you used to talking to women rather than thinking you need to be getting numbers straight away. Rome wasn't built in a day.
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:05 PM
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Agreed to disagree. Peace
/r/seduction22/04/26 06:00 PM
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Failure is part of the journey but failure is fleeting. Some guys haven't even started because they are so afraid of failing. I know this because these guys are messaging me asking what they need to do. There's no way to avoid rejection in this, it's baked into it. That's what I mean, it's not that deep.
/r/seduction22/04/26 05:30 PM
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Hey man, props for taking some action. That feeling is completely normal and anybody who tells you they don't get a small tinge of anxiety when they approach someone like before they are warmed up is lying to you. It's hard and that's why it's worth doing. I would actually just break this down. Firstly, take the pressure away from the approach. You aren't looking to pick up a girl. First you are just looking to get into a conversation with a girl and that it. Damn, maybe you just want to break i…
/r/seduction22/04/26 03:42 PM
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From experience, Finland, Slovakia, Serbia.
/r/seduction20/04/26 04:10 PM
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After getting to the point where I have literally lived the life I always wanted in terms of girls and don't really feel like I have anything to prove to myself or others. You want to get the skills as quickly as possible then get to the point where you are meeting people about your day to day life. It can happen, you won't rack up huge numbers that way but you have a manageable lifestyle where you can consistently meet women. To get the skill you need to prioritise it for X amount of time. I sa…
/r/seduction20/04/26 03:31 PM
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I think it's important to have a good smile but you don't need to smile too much. A good smile is disarming and conveys that you are friendly and not a threat. Smiling all the time makes you look simple. But I think the biggest problem with smiling is that it lets the girl off the hook. If you want to be increasing tension in the interaction, you can't be too agreeable or give her "outs" like nodding and those "uh huh" sort of noises. A neutral face gives you authority and you will find people s…
/r/seduction20/04/26 11:04 AM
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I definitely still really like girls but I also just put up with less bullshit. Where one guy might think "oh I can't get a girl like this again" and put up with some crap, I don't really care. There are so many great women out there so when one of them does something questionable I'm more likely to not put up with it. No one is perfect and people have their moments but patterns are important. Do you lose your soul? I would say it depends. I have definitely been through phases where I've just be…
/r/seduction20/04/26 09:59 AM
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I gave up even caring about how long I wait to message back. If I'm around I'll message, if I'm not...I don't.
/r/seduction15/04/26 03:52 PM
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I do enjoy his writing even though he does occasionally go on some odd rants but if you want motivation on getting amongst it, look no further.
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:26 PM
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As subtle as a sledgehammer and unfortunately it's in your place of work too. She knows the deal of course but she's not biting. You're going to see her again in IRL so just see how she behaves then. If she's a bit distant, you have your answer.
/r/seduction14/04/26 09:37 AM
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I think what you're describing is not sexual tension but arousal. You're getting her aroused by kissing her and getting her ready for sex. If you get a girl horny enough you can definitely override her "better judgement" and get her back to yours and into bed. Sexual tension is by definition broken once you do something sexual. Lingering eye contact, holding hands, proximity etc all create sexual tension but the tension grows in the ambiguity. Not knowing what happens raises the tension. There a…
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:51 AM
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Wrong mindset. You're going in looking to impress her and think that some of your actions can be considered "fucking up"... Reading this it's like you see it as a video game where you get to a part of a level and make a mistake so you need to reset and go back but dates are fluid. If you're willing to put yourself out there, firstly you should just escalate, it's the best form of feedback in a situation. If you're "giving up", just do the smallest possible thing to escalate the situation. I like…
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:08 PM
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Interesting take. I find that sexual tension is created in the absence. Kissing a girl breaks the tension. It's a release and a hit of validation for her. If she's really into you and is unsure what you think, you've just broken the tension. Just think about it, before you kiss her, you have all these emotions and you're not sure what's going to happen etc. Think about your mindset change after that moment, especially when you're out. You are no longer confused. I've pulled so many girls without…
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:58 AM
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Comfort. She's probably not that comfortable with you. You can be turned on and not that comfortable in a situation. This so rarely happens to me anymore. In general I find that comfort helps with this. That being said, I know I've got attraction etc sorted but I'm assuming if you're getting them in bed, this is also covered. I'm just completely myself on the date, it's a curated version of myself but anyone watching the date who knows me would be like "this is consistent with who he is as a per…
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:41 AM
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She's just not that into you. I would bet that you are reaching for those examples of footsie and hitting you playfully. Secondly, vulnerability is a two way street. Thirdly, make your move and get your answer. This whole "I'm not looking for a hook up" is just cope. You know she'll reject you so you're delaying it. If you don't make a move you get to live in the fantasy world that it might happen. Live in reality my brother and you will reap the rewards and not waste your time on girls who aren…
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:21 AM
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It depends what you mean by worth it. I think knowing that you can get many girls is useful in itself because one particular girl can't just hold one over on you. I don't chase 'em, I replace 'em kinda mentality. I definitely got burnt out but I never regretted it. In fact I was burnt out for a couple of years but recently the itch has come back. I have so many amazing memories that I wouldn't trade out for a settled life.
/r/seduction13/04/26 10:40 AM
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I am kinda going through the same thing. I think a key difference would be that I've got an agreement with my girlfriend that I can sleep with other women if I want to. At the moment I haven't really felt the desire to, just a bit of flirting here and there is enough for me. But I completely get missing that sense of adventure, I think without that agreement I'd really struggle to be in a relationship. I think some men just aren't built that way.
/r/seduction04/02/25 12:49 PM
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I disagree. I've been in a relationship for a while and I still get messages out of the blue from girls I've dated/had flings with who remember our times fondly and there's no animosity. They just know the deal at the moment. I would say that most of the girls who I've dated in the past 3 years would say I'm a good guy but not a typical "nice guy". There's a huge difference and it starts with holding the frame.
/r/seduction21/01/25 09:33 AM
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In my experience women don't usually express sex with you another man as a joke.
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:45 PM
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I mean move in interaction forward. As in did you take the two of you any closer to sex? She did her part and it was your turn.
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:03 PM
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Being a high value man makes it easier to get and keep girls in your life. Women definitely chase guys they like, I've seen it and experienced it. Being proactive about approaching is just once piece of a complex puzzle and the longer I'm in this community the less importance I place on it.
/r/seduction20/01/25 12:12 PM
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She gave you all the signals and you didn't escalate so she probably assumed you weren't interested and found someone who was.
/r/seduction20/01/25 11:50 AM
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It's very relative. If you're starting from zero then yes, you'd probably spent your best years in a relationship. If you have something about you, you can catch up pretty quickly and have some fun out there. It just depends how stagnant you've been in your relationships.
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:31 AM
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I like Spanish girls. I've spent many weeks in Madrid for work and always have a great time there. They are liberal and friendly. Probably my top 3 countries, I also just love the look of Spanish girls.
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:19 AM
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The answer is not really. I've been in the community for a long time now and most of the old boards were taken down for a variety of reasons. Everything in the community slowly drifted to the right which creates image issues for wider society. That's a whole different conversation. But the reality is that the topics being discussed are controversial and people don't want to be too closely linked to them. Hence all the nicknames and anonymity. The best players out there got good and just left the…
/r/seduction17/01/25 12:47 PM
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Of course context matters but even so most of the time guys are trying to bail women out too much and end up getting run over.
/r/seduction16/01/25 06:34 PM
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She's grabbing the frame and basically saying. You're not fulling worth investing in this and now the ball is in your court if you want to bend the knee. If she's straight up asking you for that before you've even met she better be sending you nudes and have serious intentions.
/r/seduction16/01/25 05:01 PM
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Firstly, of course there is more to it but I can't type it out right now because it's frankly not worth my time. There are lots of free resources out there but nothing beats going out and doing it. Think of it like this, you going and repeating a line is useless if your vibe is off. For body language, look at some infield videos on Youtube. This is free advice, you're asking me to get into specifics but that's not how value exchanges work. https://krauserpua.com/day-game-model/#jp-carousel-5035 …
/r/seduction16/01/25 04:58 PM
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Once she's reached hook point. That's when she's invested in a longer conversation. You basically just have a normal conversation and occasionally spike it with some flirting. Tell her what you're doing out, whether it's shopping for an outfit for your friend's costume party or whatever it is. Then maybe more about your life, who you are etc.
/r/seduction16/01/25 04:30 PM
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I've approached hundreds(maybe thousands) of women directly at this point and instant blowouts are rare if you are calibrated in the street or in bars and clubs. Women love being approached directly even if they have a boyfriend and it genuinely makes their day. Women just love attention from cool hot guys. The conversation isn't over if she's unsure about you. If that's happening then you need to work on your look and how you approach because that's what they are rejecting at that point not bec…
/r/seduction16/01/25 04:28 PM
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They are flaking because you didn't create enough comfort in the initial interaction. You have to put yourself in the mind of a woman. They are cautious by nature. You didn't give her a good enough reason to see you again. Cool guy, nice chat in the moment but there's nothing for her to hold onto.
/r/seduction16/01/25 03:28 PM
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I'll try and point you towards some free stuff or low cost stuff you can try. Where are you primarily hitting on girls and what is your success rate at the moment?
/r/seduction16/01/25 03:17 PM
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There's a lot of good free material out there. In fact once you accept that what you read in a book can only ever help you get laid but can't do it for you. I got good without paying for anything but what I did do was go out and find out what worked for me. The one thing you'll notice about all the guys who got good is that they are self starters and are doing something slightly different from the other guys. You build your own path. Before even picking a course. Go outside and just talk to wome…
/r/seduction16/01/25 02:46 PM
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Just send her the occasional ping text to stay on her radar. Little check ins are important over a long period of time.
/r/seduction16/01/25 02:23 PM
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Stand near him and look approachable.
/r/seduction16/01/25 02:20 PM
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It just sounds like you're afraid of rejection, reducing your rejection rate doesn't make you anymore efficient or effective. We're here to fuck hot girls, not to "decrease the rejection rate". Whether you like it or not, you have to put yourself on the line at some point to get the girl. For a sports analogy, it's like constantly playing for draws, yes you didn't technically lose but you can bet your bottom dollar the guys fucking the hot girls are going for the win. I'm curious to know what th…
/r/seduction16/01/25 02:18 PM
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So for 100 girls you get 3-5 numbers and then how many girls are you getting into bed monthly?
/r/seduction12/01/25 05:05 PM
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This might work given your situation but I'm curious what your success rate is doing this because there's a huge difference between a pleasant conversation on the street and getting a girl naked in your bed. Like I said, I've tried it all and my success rate is just way better going direct but if indirect works for you then good for you.
/r/seduction12/01/25 03:21 PM
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I don't know why this has turned into a debate because I've met women both directly and indirectly. It really depends on the situation and your goals. For example on a plane, going direct is stupid and going indirect in a nightclub is a waste of effort. If you're trying to fuck as many hot girls as possible, going indirect is inefficient. If you're targeting something more meaningful, perhaps indirect works better. There are too many factors for us to go into and I'm not discounting either as be…
/r/seduction12/01/25 08:25 AM
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I have fucked nearly 300 women so I might have an idea. Anyway we probably have different goals in all this, mine is to fuck as many hot girls as possible. Yours might be to get a shy girlfriend and that's fine.
/r/seduction12/01/25 07:54 AM
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Being direct doesn't mean you're trying to fuck her in the first minute, it just means you are making your intentions clear. You're not there as a friend and she now knows that. Shy and quiet girls are perfectly capable of following your lead, there are tells on whether they are interested or not. Eye sparkle, not leaving etc. A girl who is neutral can be gamed of course but whether you make your intentions clear or not, won't change that you'll have to put in work. She might give you a chance a…
/r/seduction11/01/25 07:16 PM
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I've always done well with Italian girls, they're generally fun and up for a good time.
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:15 PM
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Going indirect with your approach is fine but at some point you have to make a move and let your interest be known. If you do that in the first 30 seconds, you cut a lot of the crap out. Some women just don't like your face and it will never happen, I'd rather find out in the first 30 seconds she's not interest than long game a woman who may never be interested. Being direct is just way more efficient. Women are perfectly capable of rejecting you if they're not interested.
/r/seduction11/01/25 01:13 PM
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Nothing is good or bad in isolation. It really depends on how the dates have gone. Have you fucked her? What's the vibe like? In general though, I would steer away from this and let your actions do the talking. Some things are better left unsaid. Like why do you need to say something?
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:36 PM
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Women approaching is the exception. Even in the most progressive countries it's not common. It's hard coded in women to not take the lead as it's innately masculine. They would rather go without.
/r/seduction02/01/25 07:31 AM
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Keep living the dream bro.
/r/seduction31/12/24 06:02 PM
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In general I disagree with this and you should place more focus on the output. Firstly, this is a results based business and it's dog eat dog. Guys don't like to think about that because it's scary and they are getting crushed but that's the reality of it. Someone is fucking the hot girls and if it's not you, it's another bloke taking more than his fair share. But that's not really the main issue with focusing on inputs, the real issue is that is stifles any creativity. If you have a set of acti…
/r/seduction31/12/24 10:21 AM
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Move the interaction forward. Ask her out. Suggest a place. Tell her the time, make it a cheap place and pay the bill. Walk somewhere with her after. Kiss her.
/r/seduction31/12/24 08:03 AM
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She thinks you're interesting or hot but doesn't know you. That kind of note just seems intense early on. Keep it as generic as possible, with online apps it's just about staying in the game with enough interest until you can get the meet up. No need to heavily filter before any conversation.
/r/seduction30/12/24 03:38 PM
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Power. Walking in the room and everyone shuts up and stands up kind of power.
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:22 PM
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If she's rejected you, no. If she has some value in your life and there is no romantic interest, why not.
/r/seduction27/12/24 12:02 PM
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The answer is move on. There are millions of women out there in the world who will be into you. Why chase one that isn't?
/r/seduction27/12/24 10:07 AM
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If you're awkward, don't start practicing on the job. That's a one way ticket to funemployment.
/r/seduction23/12/24 09:39 AM
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Lol okay, just given the fact that this post even exists tells me the dude has no chance
/r/seduction19/12/24 02:03 PM
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What I mean is she's not some magical unicorn, the dude doesn't know her and has created a fantasy in his head about how she's different and has likely projected a bunch of attributes to her which don't match reality.
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:21 AM
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Either way get on with it. If you're asking strangers online what she thinks when you could easily go and find out yourself, something doesn't add up.
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:14 AM
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You need to have a strong frame with these things. It's her job to be pushing for commitment, you don't have to do anything. She can leave at any time, if she wants to stick around, it's by your rules.
/r/seduction19/12/24 08:30 AM
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...she is not different
/r/seduction19/12/24 08:29 AM
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Well if you don't make a move, what do you expect? This isn't Friends, there's no will they, won't they. She's just going to move onto a guy with some balls. If it wasn't over at the hotel, it's definitely over after that drive and you throwing a strop.
/r/seduction19/12/24 08:09 AM
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Either way it doesn't sound like she wants to see you again. There's your answer. Move onto the next one.
/r/seduction18/12/24 07:16 PM
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Lol Pedro Pascal is gay but I take your point. It's rarely personal, I would chalk this one up to a lack of congruence.
/r/seduction18/12/24 06:37 PM
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This. It's all to do with your risk/tolerance level. If the well is dry you will put up with it and allow her to behave like this. If you have 5 other options you wouldn't even schedule a date with her. Then again if you're doing all the planning but still fucking, she may get a pass.
/r/seduction18/12/24 05:34 PM
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Are you dating other women? Because if you're seeing 2-3 other girls and she digs your vibe, she'll fight her way to the top. If you have no other options, she'll smell that and just act up as you're experiencing. One girl I was dating last year said that because I was still only messaging her once or twice a day, it was a green flag. I was also great at scheduling because I'd do it way in advance and stuck to those dates. Little did she know I was like this because I had to be to fit all the gi…
/r/seduction11/12/24 07:40 AM
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You have to do it for the love of it. I used to really enjoy it, then there were times I enjoyed it less. If you don't live to please others you will find your own path, seek that path and walk it.
/r/seduction11/12/24 06:53 AM
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If you're talking about the real basics then I think you should just work on socialising to the point where strangers enjoy meeting you and spending time with you. Let's say you went speed dating, the goal would be for the women to say that you're a normal guy even if they're not attracted. The core requirements are good body language, eye contact, vocal tonality and finally what you are saying. I'm actually thinking about putting something together for guys like yourself. I'm just figuring out …
/r/seduction04/12/24 07:16 AM
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Out of curiosity. Why?
/r/seduction03/12/24 05:01 PM
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You're probably not building enough comfort. Think about from her point of view. She's been approached by fun hot guy from the street, in the moment she has a good time and gives you her number. She can tell her friends and whatever. But later on, she thinks about and thinks what she actually knows about you? Why should she go on a date with you? There has to be some grounding in your sets. You can weave this in just through the conversation, say you're out getting a Christmas gift for your mum,…
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:45 PM
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I'd go with 3 tips. Just start moving your feet (when it comes to approaching) Be a normal socially adjusted man with an edge Grow some balls (kiss her, take her back to yours, end a relationship that has run it's course)
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:25 PM
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Good on you for street approaching but guys don't generally care about a woman's profession so it feels like a weird way to qualify these women. When I was single in the last 6 months I dated a VP at the Bank of America, a CCO, a fashion designer, a waitress, a professional singer and a nanny. Their jobs literally meant nothing to me and one of those girls ended up being my girlfriend and their jobs had zero influence because as a man I make my own money. I treated them all the same in a dating …
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:17 PM
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I have only done that with girls I've known previously and one new girl from Feeld.
/r/seduction30/11/24 07:22 AM
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My girlfriend and I pick up solo girls in bars pretty regularly. As a girl, it's actually better if you do most of the work at the beginning and just let your boyfriend come in later. Do the whole "you're so pretty" in the bathroom, come meet my boyfriend but also be up front about things when the time comes. My girlfriend has gotten pretty good at it so I just let her do the work at this point. Make out with them. Then ask if she wants to make out with your boyfriend. This is where girls usuall…
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:54 PM
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I haven't looked too hard into any content recently as I mostly do my own thing. Have a nose around my profile, there might be some stuff that can work for you.
/r/seduction27/11/24 02:31 PM
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Yeah, probably not. Keeping it short again, most girls like roughly the same avatars. They like certain looks and don't really fall too far outside that. Think of it like business guy in a suit, cool biker guy, chilled hippie dude, they are some avatars. Find an avatar that you most blend with and go with that. You don't have to be hot but look like a guy that she'd want to fuck. So make sure you look the part, compound lift 3-4 times a week and get your body fat around 15% and dress to the avat…
/r/seduction27/11/24 01:28 PM
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Nope, you want to do the opposite. You want to lead her into qualifying herself and showing you why she's thinks she cool. Of course it also helps if you already have a cool guy aura. It's not that job interview if you mix in some eye contact and generally look very self amused. It's hard to tell you where you're going wrong with flirting without more details. Do you flirt? Do you tease? Do you know how to create sexual tension? Regarding your phone addiction. Is it serving you? Every app is des…
/r/seduction27/11/24 01:04 PM
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I have never been a big texter with girls. This is because I've always had so many girls on the go that messaging them all constantly would be a full time job. No time for that. So that means that days go by without messaging. Believe it or not, it's only ever been a good thing for me, I do little check ins every so often if we haven't go a date set but I then set a date in those check ins. However, I think your issue isn't one with messaging. It's that point you mentioned about going from basic…
/r/seduction27/11/24 12:43 PM
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Take her number. Always be in control of the interaction. That's coming from experience. Women have a habit of not being very proactive.
/r/seduction27/11/24 12:12 PM
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Short answer is no. And I would change always be closing to always be moving forward.
/r/seduction27/11/24 12:10 PM
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I am currently in a relationship and I know for a fact that I'm sleeping with more girls casually through threesomes with my girlfriend then some of my single friends are. It's not a simple answer as there are many factors. Sex drive, availability of women, skill when it comes to dealing with those factors. You need to give yourself the best possible chance at being successful in this. That means doing the work, going through the pain. Feeling a bit awkward and managing your expectations. You ma…
/r/seduction23/11/24 04:23 PM
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Yeah, I only managed to sleep with one who couldn't speak a word of English. Some had really shit English and the rest essentially worked for British companies. I find it's easier to only speak English with them, my Spanish is pretty bad and I have to speak slowly, it's just not worth it and probably a complete turn off.
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:40 PM
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I don't know how many women I've had sex with on the first date but it got to the point where I was going on dates thinking "try not to fuck this girl and let's get to know her." Women like to be led, if you naturally lead them it will take you to places. Also logistics is an important factor, you need a place to fuck her and generally on the first date it will be your place. You've also got to think about the product you're selling. I don't talk sexual before or even on the date. I general keep…
/r/seduction23/11/24 10:56 AM
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Yeah, the problem is that you're actually not Brad Pitt. You're some average dude from some average city. Depending on how well you know the girl trying to get that level of compliance and interest early on will often leave you high and dry. Yeah, don't bend over backwards but there's some wriggle room there, especially if she reschedules.
/r/seduction19/04/23 08:13 AM
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I get what you're saying but having a particular ecosystem that gets you a lot of pussy isn't always sustainable, as you could see. Your value was only in the context of the club and party lifestyle, put that same guy in a room on the other side of the world and you're just another average Joe trying to climb the greasy pole. Game unlocks a wealth of options because it gives you the skills to work any room, in any situation. That being said, there are plenty of ways to get laid, I don't think on…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/22 08:45 AM
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I think the problem is that guys play the game when they're younger. They're out there having fun but as soon as they find someone they want an LTR with or one that they fall into. They forget everything they have learnt. Within the first 3 years, 90% of guys hand over the keys to the kingdom and leave themselves wide open to some serious damage financially and emotionally. They're too ready to enter a LTR and to stop gaming her to stop being that tiger she got initially and they become a house …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 08:51 AM
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It's one of those ones where given your environment, it will never be acceptable. The reality is that you need to move, I understand that people are tied to family etc but this is where you need to swallow TRP and realise that even people who love you can and will hold you back. That world is never going to be the place you want it to be. It's like guys in small rural towns complaining that there aren't enough women. You have to maximise your own situation. If you can't move due to financial rea…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 08:37 AM
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As people have already said, you need to keep looking up. You're in your mid-20's with a unicorn but still craving the days when you can run wild, that feeling isn't going to go away unless you numb yourself to it. If you numb yourself to it, you will backslide. I've been there, hot virgin girlfriend and all that. I chose what I wanted, not what I should want on paper. I've chosen a life where things are simple, I don't have to fight any demons and wishing I was taming some strange because I jus…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 03:24 PM
2

My take on these situations is that you can't win them all. She had plenty of chances to fuck you but didn't. There was something about the situation that didn't sit right with her so she passed. It's normal, over life you'll get many "near misses" and girls you wish you'd fucked but in reality unless it's a logistics thing, there's a reason why you didn't fuck her. There's so many variables it's not worth thinking about, you're better off putting that energy somewhere else. It's frustrating but…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 10:08 AM
6

You're probably giving off player vibe, it's pretty normal if you find it easy to get laid. Women can pick up on it and will probably be worried that you'll stick around. Girls tell me this a lot, they ask probing questions about other girls if they are emotionally invested in you. It's normal.
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:39 AM
32

It's good that you're taking action, that's the most important thing at this point. I wouldn't recommend what Neil Strauss is doing but it's miles better than sitting at home and bitching on the internet about not getting any pussy. Your next steps after those 30 days should be to refine and pursue your own direction. You will have your own strengths so work out what they are and use them. Just remember the game is always rigged so you're better off rigging it in your favour.
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:02 AM
6

Yes and this goes deeper in the sense that as men, we have to go for what we want. If you want that girl, you have to go and get that girl. Women rarely make the first move so if you are waiting for her to do that, you're going to live a life of scarcity. You have to put yourself on the line and realise that 90% of what is discussed on here comes with the caveat that you have the balls to implement it.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:59 AM
2

This is very true, pretty much all the guys I speak to with issues have a victim mindset and that's the first thing I try to beat out of them because it's so unattractive. No one wants a loser in their life, it's like never washing and dressing like shit and wondering why no one wants to talk to you.
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:13 PM
4

That's literally one woman's preference. I've fucked hundreds of women from all races. Besides most women won't like you and it won't be because of your race, it'll most likely be because you're a loser.
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:53 PM
1

Sometimes you're unattractive and you just need to work on yourself. If you're the absolute best version of yourself then you can complain the game is rigged. Plus things get better as you're older so just keep working on yourself because I haven't seen a pic of you but I can bet you're leaving a lot on the table.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:56 PM
1

Why would you try to go for girls that aren't into you. There's very little benefit in trying to overcome a weakness, concentrate on what you are good at and hammer it home.
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:10 AM
13

London is a tough market, lots of hot girls but also lots of guys going after them. It's like anywhere else in the world though. Women aren't really that different anywhere you go.
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:00 PM
1

Interesting, I've never read it.
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:45 PM
1

It's always good to get started and have that positive energy to use when you go out. That puts you ahead of 95% of guys who just sit online and theorise. But I would say that I would change your approach on it from a technical point of view. Going in with an opinion opener is weak sauce, you're a man and you have masculine intentions. Be direct but socially savvy with it. I always state my intent as the first thing I do, it's liberating and it lets her know what you're all about and if she's no…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 12:08 PM
2

It definitely applies. We will live in a fast moving world, long are the days where you could send a letter to your girl when you were at war. If you're out of sight, you could very well get passed up on quite quickly. Everyone is looking for the next shiny thing.
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:09 AM
1

My advice would be to get real and say to yourself that if you can get to one or two levels up on what you have now that's a massive victory. Realistically if you go on 1-2 date a month with a 3-4, that's a marked improvement to where you are now. That should be your end goal, fuck the lofty heights of whatever movie you've watched recently. Get in the game. Given that you're autistic, it will make it more difficult and I'm not a doctor so I don't want to talk about how autism will influence on …
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:48 AM
11

Agreed. The proof is always in the pudding, at most there's probably weak correlation. If I get an IOI and I like the look of her, I'll definitely go and chat to her but most girls just don't really show you anything. Then later on they'll tell you they saw you and liked you.
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:41 AM
13

As unconventional as my lifestyle is, I'm happy and I wake up every morning with a smile on my face. I spent years trying to please other people who frankly never gave a shit about me. I live on my terms now and I recommend everyone does the same. When this eventually gets stale, I'll move onto the next thing and still be happy.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:51 AM
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I have hobbies, this post is about women. I'm sure you wouldn't give a shit about how I like to go hiking, camping, play football, workout, read and travel the world. Wasn't relevant so it wasn't included. I literally said in the post that it's low investment, I can go on a few dates a week in the evening from online and have a good time.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:09 AM
18

I find it fulfilling at the moment. I don't have to invest too much time in it. I have hobbies and interests that take up my time. Most importantly I have periods of time when I don't feel like sleeping with anyone new or even dating anyone, so I don't. I do what I want, it goes both ways. Last year I basically stopped dating anyone new for 8 weeks because I didn't want to. Then eventually I had the urge so I put myself back out there, I'm fully aware that I won't be doing this when I'm old but …
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:05 AM
3

It doesn't sound like your game is tight. Having balls is 75% of the game.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:44 AM
1

Honestly just fucking go out there and blow the joint. Have fun, who gives a shit, you'll never see them again. Pic your favourite and let her know.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:14 PM
1

It's everything. The chat, the energy, knowing when to make a move and being able to close. How's the boat?
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:59 PM
4

That's my style, simple, direct and honest. I don't think I've ever had a negative reaction to that because it's a genuine compliment. I'd say that whilst drinking makes things slightly easier don't give yourself a pat on the back for doing things the hard way. This is a zero sum game. You're getting what you want or you aren't. A lot of guys mentally find a way to mentally shuffle things around in their head so they feel better and justify why they aren't getting the results they want. I do dri…
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:36 AM
3

I'm 29, I game mostly alone and the girls were from online and bars. My approach is usually really simple in bars, I just say hi and that I thought they looked interesting. It's mostly about the vibe I'm projecting.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:54 AM
7

I'm going to do a follow up post because naturally guys have been asking a ton of questions. Fucking one girl a week isn't that hard, it's really not difficult if you break a looks threshold, know how to game and have good logistics. I reckon, if I had the drive and actually put time into it, I could hit 80-90 a year. You only really believe things that are in conjunction with your reality. If you're not seeing it, you can't really believe it. I understand women very well, I speak to their soul …
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:42 AM
3

I've been to one of those nights in London. Fish in a barrel if you have game. Curious to know what the ratios are like. I've got the app and had a look, could be interesting.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:10 AM
7

You don't need to learn a whole language just to fuck a girl. Waste of time. Think about all the women that pie you off in your home town. If you want to see what it's like get Tinder, upload some good photos, get the paid version and swipe in Moscow. You'll find out really quickly if they like Indian guys.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:39 AM
3

I should clarify a few things. I'm too selfish to have kids, I love my life and have no interest in raising a child. I'm not living now worrying about when I'm 60, I might never make it. I don't have sex with every girl I meet on the first date, sometimes I do like to get to know them better and things are more traditional in that sense. I do date girls over a longer period of time, I was recently seeing a girl for a couple of months and cut down on the other girls I was seeing. I do what feels …
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:21 AM
1

Then try and fuck her, it's not rocket science. Make a move.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:44 AM
1

If you have 5 other quality leads in your phone you'd not even be thinking about this single mother, let alone chasing her. Move on.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:27 AM
3

Women are perceptive and if you're holding this resentment inside you, it'll be showing whether you choose to show it or not.
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:21 AM
6

This is hard to read. I think you need to go and speak to someone about your issues. You seem to be very angry at the world, it's very "gamma" behaviour. It's the secret king complex, everyone should be able to see how awesome you are but they don't. The reality is your negativity is toxic and unattractive to not just women but everyone around you. You need to break away from this mentality or you'll be trapped in it forever.
/r/seduction30/08/22 09:41 AM
3

For the record, I've slept with girls on the first date and gone onto seeing them more.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:03 PM
2

Online mostly but also some from bars and just randomly meeting people.
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:22 PM
1

Haha I wrote it like that so guys can see what I'm thinking and my mindset. A lot of people's internal monologue or view on themselves is negative, mine is really good and when it needs to be, I turn it up to what you see in #9. Last night a girl said to me tongue in cheek about how I'm god's gift and come across as confident. We laughed about it again this morning over pillow talk. Girls let a lot of red flags go if they're into you.
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:47 PM
3

I'm laughing because I only recently learnt what a lot lizard is. I'm from the UK, we don't have those here. These are all girls from online dating, bars or I've just met out and about. I prefer privacy, it's loose advice, I'm not trying to make money off it so I don't give two shits who believes it and who doesn't. That's the thing with giving any advice online, you obviously want to verify it. I said in the post, I'm a good looking guy but a lot of guys are good looking and still suck with wom…
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:41 PM
2

I don't want children. I naturally just enjoying meeting new people and it's just part of it. I'm also quite used to breaking up with people now, I don't think many things are meant to be permanent and I'm at a point in my life where I think I want to have good experiences rather than have something drag on because you feel attached to them.
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:31 PM
0

I'm not selling anything...I have a good job and have no desire to become some online marketing guru.
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:19 PM
2

I travel a lot for work and pleasure. That certainly makes it easier but I do see the girls I do like for longer periods of time. I just find that after a few weeks, I'm bored and I move on.
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:50 PM
1

I don't text girls a lot, texting is just for meeting up. I'm naturally pretty good at remembering information about people anyway but if you don't remember things, don't worry about it, just ask. It really doesn't feel like work though because I enjoy it. That's why I said you have to do it for the love of it.
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:48 PM
4

Lol you're not wrong
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:45 PM
11

I've fucked a lot of women and I rarely get asked. She can tell I fuck a lot, it's not even a question in her mind. Those who do ask are usually looking for something more than a quick shag.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:37 PM
0

I just evade the question at first. If she insists she'll get a rough range and usually enough to not ask any further questions. It really doesn't make a difference if she knows or not, by this point I've usually fucked her and most girls know better than to ask that.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:34 PM
2

In order to have women in your life, she needs to get something from you whether that's tingles, money, status, experiences etc. The cold hard fact is that if you're a loser, women can smell it.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:58 PM
1

Well what are you looking for? To just have fun or hook up or what? I live in London and I've been to Budapest 5-6 times but never Mykonos.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:21 PM
3

It's socially uncalibrated to do that. It's too in your face. Taking a pic of where you are is fine but keep her out of it. You want to allude to you potentially being on a date rather than shoving it in people's faces, which is crass.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:20 PM
2

Unless she's amazingly into you from the get go. You're best bet is to have a chat with her, you want her to leave thinking that guy was interesting, I want to know more. Not...why did I just give that guy my number. Short interactions without much filling are flakey as anything.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:56 PM
2

Well you're going to have to grab your balls and go and talk to her. Don't even go into there thinking about getting her instagram. Just talk to her see what the vibe is. In terms of what you can learn before tomorrow. I think you'll do well to move your two feet towards her and say to her "Hi I've seen you around, I just wanted to introduce myself." Don't get anymore in your head than that.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:53 PM
3

Once you have attraction. You can just have completely normal conversations with women, you don't need to be saying anything amazing or trying to impress her. You do need to escalate and keep things light and fun but there's no need to be doing anything extraordinary. On dates etc I speak to girls like I'm speaking to my friends, my boss or whoever with a few sprinkles on top and the results are great. Girls like a normal guy who they find attractive, especially when he still moves the interacti…
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:50 AM
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There's more than one way to skin a cat but for my lifestyle which is fucking new women weekly, this just isn't efficient. Cold approach, Tinder etc is the most efficient way to do that because you need the anonymity. Plus in a social circle, all it takes is for one girl to like you too much and you get cut off from the rest/end up in a relationship, I've seen it again and again. Also social circles take work and I just can't be bothered to manage all those relationships with people who I don't …
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:45 AM
2

It's like that in any situation. You don't know if a girl likes you until you put yourself on the line. You will naturally get a lot of no's which is why guys don't do that often but I love doing it.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:04 AM
1

I'd say yes if you have a good page it's absolutely worth it. But for me, I just can't be bothered with the effort.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:30 AM
2

Get her off the app as soon as possible. I like a bit of chat but nothing more than 3-4 messages before you ask her out.
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:53 AM
2

From experience or perception? I think you should take a step back and think about what you're actually offering her when you're looking for a ONS
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:31 PM
4

Some really solid advice here. I especially like your second point, women won't make it easy for you. You need balls to get success. Every date I go on has that leap of faith moment and over the years I've realised the only real thing you need to pay attention to is her presence. If she's still there act as if it's on.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:03 AM
0

I'm not going to say it's easy but if you're in Europe, the girls won't be conservative. They're just not fucking you. I've fucked a lot of girls from a lot of countries, fucked virgins on weekend trips, slept with girls with bf's. No where is too conservative. It's all about the image you are portraying. If you look like a pussy but look for a ONS, you'll get laughed out the door. But if you're image says player or adventure sex, that's exactly what you get. I fucked a girl last night on a firs…
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:45 AM
1

I've slept with women from 43 countries and I'm a Brit too. Women live a British guy so you can play up on that but also travelling gives you the added advantage of them not expecting anything from you other than a fun experience. There are obviously cultural differences and you need to be adaptable but broadly women are universally attracted to the same things.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:36 AM
3

Because it's open to interpretation and it's not overt. I say friend all the time for girls I've previously time. Women live in the covert space so meet them there...let that hamster go.
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:27 PM
1

Natural stuff works really well for me. If you sat down and watched an interaction from first meet to the bedroom, you would call it natural because it is. At most I have checkpoints that I have to tick but the words and the meat of it is all me.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:41 PM
1

This is going to be a long term project for you. Paying a pick up coach is pointless unless you are getting regular check in points and there's some accountability. You can go to a weekend fantasy camp but the reality is that you are unattractive to women in so many ways. You need to start from the beginning. The easiest things to fix are aesthetics in the sense that you get a better haircut, get smarter clothes and shoes etc. Then the hardest bit is changing your mindset, you need to get to the…
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:25 AM
7

Women always say how polite and nice I am. However, I fuck a new girl a week on average and I still talk to or end up on good terms with pretty much all of them. Be honest with your intentions, keep yourself honest, positive and charming. Mixed in with some actual genuine interest and guess what... everyone is having a great experience whether it's for one night, a month or a year.
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:10 PM
2

Early 20s was okay but now I'm in my late 20s it's actually great. Huge caveat is that I didn't just sit there and just expect to get better with age, I actively improved myself.
/r/seduction17/04/22 03:48 PM
3

I think your point about having something interesting to say will lead guys to overegg the pudding (such a British saying) because you don't need to do that much. 90% of my conversation with women is just day to day chat. If you sat next to me and just listened it would be a normal chat and that's what you want it to be. Then your other 10% are your teases and compliments etc just to remind her of your sexual intent. You don't need to beat her over the head with it. When I realised I could just …
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:49 AM
2

The longer I've been into this the more I just think women respond best to authentic behaviour. It doesn't really matter what you do, as long as it's unapologetically you. I just say hi, tell them why I've come to speak to them. Compliment, tease a bit then some form of close. On a date it's more of the same stuff, just lots of comfort and sprinkles of attraction then lead her to the bedroom.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:28 AM
1

I love women, I enjoy their company. I like talking to them and connecting with them. Physical sex isn't my primary motivation otherwise I'd just visit a local brothel. I also enjoy the act of seducing, I guess you could say I get off on the process as much as the end goal. Like last night I slept with a German girl, it was a first date and knowing that she doesn't do this a lot but she wants to give it up for me is a big motivation.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:21 AM
12

It's not too late but your first step will just be to become more social. No matter how social you think you are, you'll need to be better. It'll be a long road and you need to be realistic from the start. For you just getting a fuckable girlfriend will be a good achievement to start with. After that if you choose to, you can set loftier goals. It will be a long road, you'll want to quit but in the end it's worth it.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:17 AM
1

29. I thought the same way but the pull of being single was too appealing. I don't regret my decision at all.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 07:23 AM
-3

No, I really like casual sex because I enjoy connecting with new people. Over the last year I'm averaging over a new girl every week and it's just not getting boring.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:22 AM
1

Live the life you want to live. If you have an inkling that you will look back at your life and realise you gave up things for a woman that you really didn't want to, that's on you. I'm from London too and was in a somewhat similar situation and now I'm single.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 07:14 AM
2

I say don't suppress them, just let things be. When it's done, it's done. Just be honest about what you want, I always say something along the lines of... "No relationship lasts forever and some people stay in shitty relationships longer than they should. I think it's really important to just give your all whether it's for one night, two months or twenty years. Once that drive has gone, it's time to move on. I'd rather feel passion for a day than something souless just because it may be longer l…
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:41 PM
1

You need to set up the expectation from early on that they won't be getting daily attention and you yourself must have the expectation that some girls just need more time and attention and will fall off. Nothings personal. Find people who fit your vibe and enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:21 AM
3

I have feelings for a lot of the women I date. I'm not a robot, I can also just accept the feelings for what they are and move on from them.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:02 AM
18

Doesn't mean she's not revisiting some her previous guys.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 10:43 AM
1

Said hi, went very direct...
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:38 PM
1

At a festival it was about 20 seconds from first meet to going to a tent
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:31 PM
1

You can move much quicker than you expect, don't waste time when you could be trying to fuck her. If she's not interested, she'll let you know.
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:18 PM
1

This year I've slept with 33 new girls and probably 40 overall. But this has only been from July to the end of October as I was in a relationship, then I needed break from women entirely. But on average it's probably around 25 a year...2 new girls a month sounds about right.
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:22 PM
1

I have no advice other than you need to take responsibility for all of this and forge your own path.
/r/seduction27/12/21 11:46 AM
2

I think it's a completely viable option and I've had success with it. Based in London.
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:12 PM
4

London Pros: Constant refresh, anonymity, cool places to go, Europe is a short cheap flight away, all types of women. Cons: You need to stay shiny, draining, a lot of competition.
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:46 PM
2

I personally always feel the call of freedom. I love seducing and fucking new women and I think the key is you have to do it for the love of it. If it's not something you love doing, don't do it. This year in a 3-4 month period I fucked 33 new girls because I enjoyed it. In the last 2 months I haven't slept with any new girls because I don't have the desire to. There's no rules, just do you. Also at 25, you're still developing as a man, believe me you're not a catch just yet... don't rest of you…
/r/seduction26/12/21 02:43 PM
10

I think it's all about finding our niche, there will naturally be places or environments that you do better in. Play up to it, if you do well in clubs, go to clubs. If you do well online, stick to online. If you haven't tried daygame, do it because it's a great way to find out where you are with women... in my mind it's the purest form of game.
/r/seduction26/12/21 02:27 PM
2

Haven't seen this mentioned but it's very important. Women are naturally submissive and people pleasers, if you're happy and having a good time, she will feed off that energy.
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:09 PM
4

Bar, 2-3 drinks, walk back to your place, play silly beggars for a few mins, bang. A story older than time itself.
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:51 PM
1

Congrats on taking the first step but it's reality check time. What actually makes you high value/attractive? Are these things that are attractive to women? You're better off finding out what your flaws are early on rather than have women slowly tell you through their actions over a number of years.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:33 PM
2

I think with the advice people put there should be a disclaimer...are you actually getting laid? My addition to this would be 60 Years of Challenge. Yes, it genuinely did change my mindset and get me laid...a lot
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:21 PM
1

I live in London, so lots of foreigners here and whenever I go abroad, it's easier than London that's for sure.
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:27 AM
4

I'm black and banged women from I think 40 different countries now. Some girls just don't like you and it's not necessarily a racial thing. There's plenty who will like you so you have to go out there and flip those stones.
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:32 AM
2

Plough...if she's still not engaging, move on.
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:32 AM
6

Curious to know what makes you think that? Attraction > Comfort > Seduction is pretty accurate. He also explains the pitfalls when you miss a step. But interested to hear your thoughts on it.
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:02 PM
4

His model is pretty accurate in terms of the general structure of how you meet women. Wouldn't bother with the routines though.
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:48 PM
3

You don't. Positive behaviour gets rewarded. Negative behaviour does not. Walk away with your dignity, you'll thank yourself later.
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:36 PM
1

Well there's levels to this. Can you have a conversation with a girl for 10 mins and if someone asked her after how the conversation went, she'd say he was a normal guy? That should be a base level. If you can chat for 10 mins without a girl running away you're probably good on that. But then there are levels, can you essentially escalate on her sexually whilst it being socially normal. I find a good way to do this is to talk about the things you would do if you weren't constrained by the situat…
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:38 AM
3

No one can every girl and no one can get any girl. There will be a subset of girls who are open to sleeping with you if you do certain things correctly.
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:12 PM
5

I'm around 140 women now and I pretty much agree with all of this. I would especially agree with that game is overhyped. Game is missold as some weird routines and things you need to do to trick a woman into bed, when really you just need to be socially calibrated and know when and how to escalate. Game is just about being as socially calibrated and "cool" as possible. The one thing I'd add to this is that you need some balls. I always found that the dates where I failed in the past was because …
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:16 PM
3

My go to qualify stuff early on at bars or clubs is ...will she move with you? If a girl won't move with you even if it's just 3 metres to the left doesn't like you. If she moves it doesn't mean she'll fuck you but you've worked out there could be a level of interest. Other qualifiers could be the questions you ask. If you ask an open ended question and she sounds like she's thinking about the answer or trying to impress you. That's her qualifying herself. Most of it won't be overt signals bit i…
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:38 PM
4

We don't disagree. What I'm saying is that if you can't get attraction worrying about what she's doing later is irrelevant. By the sounds of it, the OP is getting to the point where it's relevant so I wouldn't even be thinking about it. Start simple. Can you walk her away from her friends to the bar. Yes or no?
/r/seduction03/11/21 11:56 AM
6

Well looking for logistics shouldn't be part of trying to gain attraction. If a girl is attracted to you and moving around a bar with you, sure see what you're working with. But if it's a conversation starter, it's just weak chat.
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:57 PM
3

This is why you need to qualify girls in the first 30s to a minute of meeting them. Some of them are just not interested. Don't waste your time if she's not. Maybe you're just not the type of guy she likes and that's life. Girls who like you will tell you everything you need to know when you lead. They will follow the male/female courtship ritual.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:19 PM
3

These are all positive signs. It's a sign the interaction is going in a positive direction but I wouldn't say there is a particular line you should say to any of these comments.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:15 PM
7

It's always good to see other dudes doing well. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:10 PM
4

Take the energy out of it and excuse yourself to go to the bathroom. Come back and comment on something you saw on the way back.
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:21 AM
1

Yeah, I have 3 girls who I sleep with regularly with no commitment. I have other girls who I see less often but usually reply if I ask. The key is getting a rotation that isn't too much work.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:43 AM
2

Approach anxiety is assessment anxiety. You are afraid of her judging you and it's completely natural. Anyone telling you otherwise and to become a robot probably hasn't got as much experience as they're making out or they're autistic. The first few approaches if you have never approached before or for a while will be fucking rough. You just need to be easy on yourself and warm up to it.
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:31 PM
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I think in general for most guys it's the initial approach and getting a girl attracted to them. So approach anxiety and attraction. If you said to 100 guys you have a day to find a new attractive girl to go on a date with you, the vast majority will really struggle.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:00 PM
3

In the past 3 and a half months I've fucked 32 new girls. Being sexual doesn't mean being overt. I find that as soon as you become to overt you become sleazy and break the bubble so to speak. She wants to get fucked by a guy who gets it and being overt shows a lack of social skills. I ask a girl out on a drink and lead from there. But that's because I know I can sit in front of a girl for an hour and half and not fuck up. Do you back your social skills to be able to do that?
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:03 PM
1

I've had sex with 2-3 girls who couldn't speak a word of English. Just Google translate and eye contact haha
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:57 PM
1

I'm 5'11 and I'm black
/r/seduction26/10/21 09:22 AM
1

I'm probably at around 140 women and I can tell you that their are no prizes for getting triple digits but it's fun getting there. In terms of the how, well I'm pretty good looking but I'm also efficient. I know that if I'm going on a date with a girl there's a strong chance that I'm sleeping with her on the first night. I'm at the point where I don't go on dates thinking anything other than to be myself and enjoy it. Just make sure your logistics are right and I'd add it gets easier as you get …
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:55 AM
1

Pick up coaches generally suck because they either do what works for them and it's not transferable. They have a set of circumstances unique to them. Or they are straight up trying to teach something they can't replicate themselves. I personally do well but I wouldn't monetize anything because it's pretty unique to me and I do it for fun.
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:43 AM
2

Never, there will always be a twinge. It's like going to the gym, you get stronger but lifting a weight is always an effort. It's never zero.
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:01 AM
6

I strongly disagree with your second point. You absolutely need a general structure to be able to get what you want. You're not talking to this hot girl because you want to be her friend, you want to fuck her so act like it. Having that structure/roadmap let's you work efficiently and when there are curveballs you can find your way back to the straight and narrow. Obviously it's not a laser focused interaction but having the guidelines stops you doing things like giving her your number...which i…
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:13 PM
1

All I'll say is that most guys don't get anywhere because at some point you will have to take a leap of faith but especially when you're younger that can be scary as fuck. My general rule is that I am always thinking about how I can move the interaction forward, I know where my next marker board is.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:31 AM
4

Okay, hear me out on this. It sounds like you're approaching but you're not putting yourself properly out there because you're afraid. In any interaction you have to take the leap of faith and ask her out but if you're just going to "make their day" then you don't have to face the rejection but you still get that slight dopamine hit from the approach. It depends what you want from all this but maybe it's time to burn more sets by going for it.
/r/seduction27/09/21 06:26 PM
2

You just don't deal with it. It's generally a reflection on one her feelings for you but also her character. She doesn't respect your time and doesn't give a shit if you've made plans around her. Women like this are trash and usually have some sort of personality defect anyway.
/r/seduction27/09/21 06:09 PM
1

Yeah, I went on a date recently. We went for drinks, vibe was great. I just walked her back to my place. She did the whole "oh I didn't expect this" ...5 mins later she's naked. Never kissed her before we were in bed. It definitely happens more than you think. Each situation is different. I just see kissing as a form of escalation but it's not the only form of escalate. If you're calibrated you can escalate in other ways. I've also had these experiences in clubs, bars whatever....
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:10 AM
1

I agree with this. In a club, if you can hold her hands, it's on. And if it's on you can break the sexual tension by kissing her and giving her that validation release. Just walk her to where you're going to fuck.
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:07 AM
1

As a guy in 95% of the interactions you have with women you'll have to take the leap of faith and go for a kiss or make a clear signal of intent. If you're too afraid of being rejected, it will paralyze you.
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:04 AM
1

You're getting a lot of numbers, so you're obviously doing something right and there's something about you. But if you want to take it to the next level you need to filter to wheat from the chaff really quickly. If you're filtering those numbers and you're getting little success out of it. Take a step back and think, it's probably something to do with the interaction you had with her. Maybe she's attracted to you but she doesn't have comfort, you can't always get a girl out just because she's at…
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:02 AM
1

Yep, if it's a one night thing it's genuine there's no lies. We're both on the same page. That's pretty normal. The context is that I'm a good looking, socially calibrated guy who has been in the game for like 12 years. I've been through the bad times and definitely had enough rejection for a few lifetimes. Now I know my strengths and how to maximise what I have to fuck a lot of women. A lot of people here just don't have a clue but they're here to learn.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:51 AM
1

Yeah, you'll get laid less because women are socially adept. It's your categorising them like school folders which shows you're not seeing them as the people they are and it'll hurt you. They pick up on vibes and that is not a good one. If you can't see that, I don't think many of those numbers are coming out on dates and fucking which is what we're here for. In the last two and half months, I've had my dick in 22 different girls and I don't categorise them in anyway because each interaction is …
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:24 AM
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I think the goal is to be as socially normal as possible and lace that with flirting. Being a socially calibrated guy is underrated, so work on your social skills because most guys don't get it. If you're regularly meeting women and can't work out why they don't like you, you are not socially calibrated enough. Women will always give you the answer through their words and actions. Another thing that improved my results was just by being unapologetically direct about what I want. Please note the …
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:11 AM
1

You made a thread, you are getting feedback on it. It's nothing personal.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:23 AM
2

Not at all. Being your best self is important. So be the best introvert you can be.
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:37 PM
1

I'm cool, I just think this is actually bad advice, like you'd get laid less if you do this.
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:36 PM
4

I'm an introvert. I love my own space, I have to be selective about when I use my energy etc. If you're into Myers Briggs I'm ISTP. Very much enjoy my independence. I have definitely notice when I've overextended on the number of dates I go on, I visibly get bored and have to moderate my behaviour. I don't have high energy interactions with girls because they are disingenuous for me and it's unnecessary. I like to move things on quickly because like you, I just get bored or my energy drops so I …
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:40 PM
1

I mean it might be a filing system but it's not really going to help you fuck hot women
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:04 PM
0

I mean you need to be a certain type of guy to pull this off. This won't work for 99% of guys and most women will find this lame, yeah you'll find the odd one who goes for it. But do you know what works best...just being social normal, dominant, cheeky and just escalating. That's it.
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:34 AM
1

Haha this is actually quite funny. I think it comes under the category of mental masturbation. Personally my file system is all in my head and I don't think you need to categorise women on where and when you met them to be successful. I usually just have the girls name and maybe something different about them if they have a common name. I also delete contacts regularly because holding onto numbers for ages is basically just an ego thing. If they don't want to sleep with you when you've just met …
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:31 AM
5

Yeah, I'd say I've fucked a lot of women. Way more than my fair share and I still get rejected all the time. Some girls just aren't there for what you're selling. Girls I've expected to come out on dates haven't and sometimes the ones you speak to less are into it. You just have to blast on through. I would add that a rejection isn't always some harsh put down sometimes it's just a girl not accepting a small escalation that you do whilst be perfectly polite socially. At this point, take the hint…
/r/seduction11/09/21 08:10 AM
3

This isn't game. You don't ask questions and suddenly a woman is attracted. Let's go back to basics most guys fail at two points with women, either they fail to approach due to nerves or fail to get attraction. Attraction can be attained in a few ways...looks, social proof, game etc. Also you talk about outer game like it's something separate from inner game but once you have your internals sorted you can pretty much say anything. I say 10% of the interactions I have with women are that shiny sp…
/r/seduction11/09/21 08:03 AM
2

The thing is that you do want something from them. You need to get to the point where you shamelessly hit on a woman. You're a man, you want to fuck hot girls but society doesn't want you to express that.
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:46 AM
1

Go where the girls you like go. You like alternative girls, head to Camden...you like posh birds, head to Chelsea etc
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:38 AM
13

I drive a crap car and I fuck a lot
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:37 AM
4

Sometimes things like this happen which you just can't explain. I just don't read into it because you have no idea what's going on in her life, just keep moving forward. I understand this is a lot harder if you don't have abundance.
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:36 AM
1

Most girls get hit on a fair bit but from their point of view not all attention is rated equally. In general you need to bring the fun, be socially savvy and take your chances.
/r/seduction08/09/21 08:34 PM
1

Don't necessarily get caught up in the new and shiny mindset. You'll find yourself chasing shadows. Work out what you want in general, if it's going through a lot of women, that's fine...just make sure do it right
/r/seduction08/09/21 08:25 PM
1

You haven't met this girl and you're not getting what you want from her. Go and find other girls and see if you give a shit then. If she can't even meet you face to face which has been the most basic human interaction for millennia... she's wasting your time.
/r/seduction08/09/21 08:21 PM
1

It's a journey, it means learning yourself. Finding your boundaries and sticking to them. If you can't even stick to your word for yourself, you will just come across as weak to others. I can walk away from anything as long as I've stuck to my core values.
/r/seduction08/09/21 06:59 PM
1

Being normal with a sprinkle of game will take you far. Most guys struggle with one or the other.
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:29 AM
1

Just lead her
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:54 AM
3

Taking a girl back to yours is just one of those moments where you have to put yourself on the line. That's a big part of seduction in general. I just overtly say, let's go back to mine. She'll make an initial comment putting up some form of faux objection, ignore it and keep walking towards your place/the cab or whatever. If she really doesn't want to come, she'll physically stop. If she does stop, you can argue the toss at this point and go for the "it's just to have wine" or whatever.
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:51 AM
1

The best time is when she's alone with time on her hands. She'll be way more receptive than if she's late for work or whatever
/r/seduction24/07/21 08:57 AM
3

I'm 28 now...I think the peak for guys is between 30-34. But only if you've put yourself in the right position to take advantage of it. You won't maximise your opportunities sitting on your ass in your twenties.
/r/seduction14/05/21 09:27 PM
5

"I don't chase them, I replace them."
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:53 AM
1

You're mentally trying to rationalise an excuse not to approach because it's scary. You have the time to do it, you just don't want to put in the effort and take the hits to your ego.
/r/seduction08/04/21 11:51 AM
7

I always feel the best response is no response at all. Don't buy into her frame.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:20 AM
10

Some people need to learn the hard way. Say your piece then leave him to it. It's not your life and this doesn't sound particularly threatening.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:41 PM
3

What I mean is that you want to naturally be challenging to women. You can do this through teasing etc. If you're agreeing with everything... that's boring for her. More of a 'I know you exist and I'm just having fun with you' kind of thing.
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:23 AM
12

It's about creating a personality that girls are forced to make a decision on. Most men barely make a blip on the radar. It's the old saying that any sort of emotion is better than indifference. You can fuck a girl who has a strong dislike of you but you won't fuck a girl who doesn't care that you exist. Just think of it this way, it's always about the next girl. The way you act with this one will effect how the next one goes.
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:20 AM
1

21/22
/r/askTRP02/04/21 06:33 AM
2

But here you are getting and giving ultimatums...no other girls. Think you need a bit of a reality check
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:28 PM
7

You don't understand the concept of plates. What you have is a girlfriend. Every relationship has an expiry date, start dating and sleeping with other women. The moment you agreed to exclusivity, you gave her the right to make such demands.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:15 PM
54

You can always tell what girls have high notch counts...they don't have that uneasiness around strange men.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:55 PM
34

I just see this relative to myself. I have a high notch count and have slept with plenty of girls with low to no previous guys. Those girls open their legs just as easily as the higher notch count girls if they like you. I took one girls virginity on a one night stand and another virginity on the second date. I think what's more important is how those numbers came about. 5 guys isn't a lot until you find out she was gangbanged. But 7 guys is more but they could all be relationships, even if they…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:51 PM
5

Intent. Guys shy away from it because when you show intent to a girl you are forcing her to make a decision about you. You don't have to make this intent amazingly overt and crass, it can be subtle but it needs to be there. I always do the smallest possible escalation that I can at that particular time. That might be a slight touch, a qualifier or whatever that makes her have to make a small decision...
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:09 PM
1

Don't get emotional about it. It's feminine. I'd go on the third date and try to fuck her, you'll either get in her knickers or get kicked to the curb and you can draw a line under it. If you let your ego get so invested in someone you haven't slept with...the whole situation is more on you. Take a step back and think about why you even care so much... If someone is truly disrespecting you, there's no need to get angry about it. Just vote with your feet and move on. No angry messages, no ranting…
/r/seduction31/03/21 09:49 AM
3

There are many ways to skin a cat. If he's congruent with it, there's no reason why he can't have a measure of success with it. Find your own path with this, find something that suits your personality.
/r/seduction30/03/21 06:41 PM
3

I mean the fact that you're asking this tells me a few things. You don't have fear. Despite 2k approaches you are not too socially savvy. Confidence is just backing yourself and that self belief oozing through your vibe.
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:05 AM
2

You haven't found the one...you technically don't even know if she has a functioning vagina. Take a deep breath, take a step back and see it for what it is, it's a lead. You can go to meet her for a drink or whatever and see if you vibe in real life but don't hold much more to it than that.
/r/seduction30/03/21 09:12 AM
5

I think the examples he gave are extreme examples of women testing guys. If a woman is testing you like that, it says a lot about you as a guy...she sees you a guy she can openly disrespect and at that point, just walk away because even the perfect response isn't going to fix that.
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:07 PM
1

Don't...if you don't enjoy it, don't do it. Imagine forcing yourself to do something you don't want to do because you think you should be doing it. Pretty much textbook example of how to not live your life. I went my own way a long time ago now and I'm happy with the choices I've made. I'm an introvert, I like my own space but I do enjoy socialising in specific situations. The whole thing about being social and socially dominant comes from the obsession about being alpha...which to me sounds lik…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:50 PM
1

Most guy are beta, it's not necessarily a bad thing if you want an easy life. If you genuinely don't have the drive to scramble out of the hole you're in, you'll still be in it in 10 years time.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:45 PM
2

I have pretty much zero social media presence and I have done perfectly fine with women. I do have it but I can't be bothered to update or us it... especially in the past 5 years or so. Having that whole Instagram lifestyle is just one way to get laid but it's not the only way to skin a cat. If anything, not having it but being an interesting well adjusted guy just raised her interest.
/r/seduction29/03/21 04:33 PM
11

Less is more. Most guy fuck things up by chatting or just trying to "do something"...you need to do way less than you think
/r/seduction08/03/21 10:31 PM
2

I think you misunderstood what confidence is. I am irrationally confident but don't mistake that for extroversion. I'm an introvert by nature, my confidence comes from within. It comes from my experiences and it comes from knowing that nothing actually matters that much. If you hit on a girl and she rejects you...meh so be it. There's very little to lose when you release yourself from the shackles of decent society.
/r/seduction08/03/21 10:19 PM
0

I'm going to assume you're projecting a weak frame and giving off K selection vibes. You're saying that you want something casual but girls are slotting you as the boyfriend type rather than the casual adventure sex guy. When the boyfriend type guy tries to get casual sex, he gets shut down... that's not the role he's there for. Women can sniff out incongruence a mile away.
/r/seduction08/03/21 10:15 PM
5

Vote with your feet. She has disrespected you and everything you allow her to do from this point on is on you. You've had your warning...
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:59 PM
6

You're not friends with her, you wanted to fuck. She didn't and she always knew you wanted to fuck but liked the attention. Now you need to move on with your life, don't be messaging her or giving her the time of day unless she wants to fuck. It is what it is. You need to develop a mindset and personality that stops this from happening in the future. At first you will probably go too far and come across as too much of an ass but that's part of the learning curve.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:44 PM
2

The longer term you see someone, the more casual and sex based it has to be. If you're dating someone for a year, feelings will play a part... that's when you commit or dip. Plates aren't meant to be a long term option, just part of a rotation. Some fall off occasionally but there's always another.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:33 PM
1

Nothing "always works" but to get the best bang for your buck...do that
/r/seduction08/03/21 03:30 PM
1

When a girl asks what you are looking for, just say something none committal. You are looking to spend time with someone who you connect with. It's vague but women will infer what they want from it.
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:37 PM
4

Are you the man or the fan? Get the number
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:34 PM
1

I have no idea, I've had the ebook for ages. It's knocking around somewhere
/r/seduction07/03/21 07:32 PM
1

Back in the day it was decent for overall lifestyle and mindset. If you were wanting more precise help, it lacked a little but it was a positive male environment which a lot of men lack and don't experience.
/r/seduction06/03/21 11:13 AM
6

I'd add 60 Years of Challenge. Really strips back all the bullshit.
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:07 PM
2

Damn this takes me back to my days on SS. Pook was legendary, there was some good advice there back in the day.
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:04 PM
1

Little tip. Hold her hand. If she lets you hold her hand, you can kiss her...plus it's far less of a move if you don't have much experience.
/r/seduction04/03/21 11:03 PM
2

The game is played in qualification, you got that right. That's why it's so important to hold your frame and the sexual tension, that's where you win the prizes...
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:53 PM
-1

Women in general give the worst advice on how to seduce women... because they have never seduced a woman as a man. Men don't cold approach women because they're worried about how they feel about it, it's a primal drive to fuck.
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:38 PM
6

I have met virgins with high body count vibes and more wholesome looking girls who just go through cock like M&M's. Unless you're looking for a wife, I wouldn't worry about it and just enjoy the ride. If you are looking for a wife, screen properly. The high count girls always give it away with their behaviour.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:57 AM
1

You just need to be organised. I remember going on a family holiday to Hong Kong and sneaking off to get my end away with a local. You're an adult, get online and find some leads and you probably won't have a lot of time to play with.
/r/seduction25/02/21 08:41 AM
2

Nope, if you're that type of guy. They already know or have a feeling. When you're unavailable on random nights of the week continually, they tend to pick up on these things.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:53 PM
1

This is the answer. If you don't know what to say, go back to basics.
/r/seduction24/02/21 12:52 PM
10

You're better off having no description than one giving off that vibe. You have a pic in a messy bedroom. Edit: posted before I meant to... I'd get some pictures, like one in a suit can't hurt and keep the general vibe light hearted. Also one plate in 9 months should ring alarm bells, that's basically a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:16 AM
57

Delete everything and start again
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:40 AM
15

Fuck what everyone else thinks. Do you. Die happy.
/r/seduction22/02/21 05:57 PM
0

I have a job. I mean even if you go on 1 date a week which easily achievable you can do that in a couple of years. If you are more efficient, reduce the time taken accordingly.
/r/seduction22/02/21 10:57 AM
2

I've fucked women from like 30 something countries and Eastern Europe certainly produces feminine women. I wouldn't say they are promiscuous by nature though, they respond to strength.
/r/seduction22/02/21 06:17 AM
29

Imagine you're fucking 3 other women and you've got a fuck date set up with one of them in an hour. How would you act around her then?
/r/seduction21/02/21 11:26 PM
4

This is just what I've learnt over the years through my own experiences. The more you do, the more you're trying and the more you're qualifying. On dates I just do the following hold strong eye contact, don't act too agreeable, smirk and let that natural sexual tension linger.
/r/seduction21/02/21 11:17 PM
0

Literally the opposite mate. One woman means nothing. She's laughed out the door. Over time, you can review and reflect but it's never about one woman.
/r/seduction21/02/21 11:10 PM
1

I am very much a lone wolf. I will just say this being vague early on won't hurt you. If you're in a relationship, it will probably lead to issues but for women you're just meeting, it's a winner. You can engineer so that you can be a month or so down the line before she realises that she knows nothing about you. That's how I am a person and it matches my personality type. If you want you want to speak more on this pm me.
/r/seduction21/02/21 11:08 PM
15

Let me clarify, not necessarily dates but extended interactions. You get her number and you're talking. 100 of those...
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:43 PM
3

Then this post isn't for you. Not everyone has their shit figured out or has a clue where to start when things aren't going right. You've got it set. A lot of guys don't and are feeling around in the dark, leeching to the first girl who shows them any attention...which will hurt you more in the long run.
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:42 PM
14

It's not about any one women. The point of the post is more about not putting any one woman on a pedalstal more than anything else. The 100th woman on her own doesn't tell me anymore than the first. It's about the trend...wider samples sizes. I don't care what woman #66 says if the previous 65 haven't indicated that I talk too much. But if 40 women are telling you something whether that's through ghosting you or whatever, you probably need to pay attention to that.
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:35 PM
11

Dates
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:27 PM
4

I don't mean literally, I mean by how they treat me. Their actions speak the truth.
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:25 PM
6

Yeah, you're not going to be good with women after 100 girls but you'll have a pretty good idea of where you stand at that moment.
/r/seduction21/02/21 10:24 PM
3

Yeah, I don't think you got the point of the post. Done plenty of improving etc.
/r/seduction21/02/21 06:36 PM
5

If it's to break a slump, it's probably okay but don't make a habit of it. Dumpster diving is bad for the soul.
/r/seduction21/02/21 05:20 PM
4

If you tolerate this level of disrespect, you deserve everything that will happen to you going forward. Ultimatums are for the weak. Vote with your feet.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:46 PM
1

I mean who cares, you've banged her and now she's being difficult. Walk away. If anything that will get her running back.
/r/seduction21/02/21 02:45 PM
2

She didn't have a good experience. The old adage applies...what would you do if you had another 4 girls who would suck your cock at the end of the phone? Answer, you wouldn't even be thinking about this one. You two have had your time, move on...
/r/seduction21/02/21 02:23 PM
2

You steer the convo in the right direction then let her go. You'll be surprised how many women just end up qualifying themselves and end up getting nervous.
/r/seduction16/02/21 07:27 AM
1

If a sleeve is the only difference. If you're not fucking without it, doubt you'll fuck with it either. If you take on a "bad boy" persona, that's a different story. Besides you see all sorts of guys with tattoos these days, they ain't what they used to be.
/r/seduction15/02/21 09:55 PM
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Less is always more with women. I find that by not biting and getting into textual intercourse you're more likely to actually bang her. If the sexual tensions there, don't let her rub one out. Make her wait for the real thing.
/r/seduction15/02/21 01:43 PM
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Sexual tension is created in the pauses but it also natural between men and women. Shut the fuck up and let her talk. Don't break the tension by speaking and bursting the bubble. The more you fumble around, mmm and ahh the more the sexual tension is being sucked out the room.
/r/seduction14/02/21 11:09 PM
5

Before my relationship it was like a self fulfilling prophecy. Girls get girls. Once you hit a certain level you just give off a vibe that girls can just smell on you. During my best hot streak of 7 girls in 7 days, I didn't have to work for it much at all. I literally had to turn up on a date and not act like an idiot.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 10:54 PM
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Women will make any number of excuses for a guy who gets them wet. If you feel like you don't deserve the younger women and you're a hard sale, then that's exactly how they'll treat you. I don't categorise women into micro groups because it just creates too much noise. I would even bring up age, they probably won't even notice.
/r/seduction03/02/21 02:52 PM
4

Nope, that's "super creepy" to women. Damn you might even end up getting screenshotted on social media...and deserve it too.
/r/seduction03/02/21 11:23 AM
3

You know when someone cold calls you trying to push some product you don't want. This is how she's going to feel. Do your own work.
/r/seduction03/02/21 11:01 AM
2

Yeah, guys forget to add strings to their bow. Good game is great but good game with a solid foundation is a different level. I'm timing things so by the time I'm 30-35 I'll be truly peaking.
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:54 AM
4

I'm here to give free advice. I have no desire to make money off of this. Besides what works for me may not work for the next guy.
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:48 AM
0

I've slept with 100s of women and had a 9-5. I know a few other guys who have as well, they just lead chaotic lifestyles. You don't need to be a dating coach or a writer to do it.
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:33 AM
2

But remember to keep it light. I see too many guys trying to get into intellectual tussles with women and just dry up the pussy. Rule of thumb, treat it all like a big joke.
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:15 AM
3

Most players I know are fuck ups. Like actually a bit weird and their lives aren't necessarily in a great place because they prioritise fucking women. I spent 4-5 years prioritising women and my career went no where. I pumped up my numbers though. I've been in a relationship for 2 years and have received 2 promotions since and doubled my income. Fucking women on an industrial scale is time consuming unless your lifestyle is designed around meeting women(club promoters etc)
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:12 AM
1

This list is very subjective. I also find the criteria for reaching level 7 quite weird. Surely at that point it's more about results than spam approaching 100 women in a day or even going out on 3 dates neither of which actually show any sort of player status. They need to be end game goals.
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:06 AM
1

Mate you can marry a woman, get divorced and you'll still get robbed.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:34 PM
1

Absolutely. Had it happen many times...if you craft your profile correctly, you'll attract those girls
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:13 PM
1

Nah, it happens but either the stars have to align or be a certain type of guy.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:38 PM
3

Mate you can definitely initiate contact back up at some point soon. She may even reach out to you, she'll definitely be curious as to who the other girl is. Just play it off and play it cool. Don't give much away...
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:13 PM
2

She's not different. You've never even met the girl. It's done.
/r/seduction04/01/21 03:43 PM
3

Stack yourselves like dinner plates
/r/seduction04/01/21 12:22 PM
15

Mate, I have fucked 100's of women, have a good job and play video games. If you want to unwind with a video game instead of a book, go for it. Just make sure you have balance and don't let one particular area dominate your life.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:27 PM
2

There is no step by step guide. You'll need to find your own path and use the resources out there when you're stuck. You have your own personality, own environment and own set of circumstances that some cookie cutter programme can't pick up on. Get out there, flirt with women, when you get stuck over and over again in the same area. That's when you come back for help.
/r/seduction03/01/21 07:23 PM
1

Nice and out of interest what "method" are you using to course correct?
/r/seduction03/01/21 05:34 PM
2

If you wait until you think you're ready, you could be there a long time. It's your mind weaseling it's way out of getting rejected.
/r/seduction03/01/21 05:33 PM
1

What steps have you taken to get those options?
/r/seduction03/01/21 11:42 AM
2

You need a certain amount but not as much as you'd think. You can be sexy without being humourous that's for sure.
/r/seduction03/01/21 11:34 AM
3

I think that this is good in the short term but in the long term you can't be depending on external factors to have self confidence. It needs to be self fulfilling. All the best players I know have one thing in common, complete irrational self confidence.
/r/seduction03/01/21 11:28 AM
1

Well done for taking action but have you approached a girl before? You have to get real. If you can't approach a girl for whatever reason you don't need to spend a ton of money, it won't change much. You'll go to this workshop, get pumped into state maybe do a few approaches then when you're back in your normal life you can't replicate it. Why? Because you haven't built the actual foundation that you need. Once you don't have the guys from the workshop around pumping you up, you'll be back where…
/r/seduction03/01/21 11:20 AM
1

I'm black and have been to SE Asia once but slept with a few girls from the region. Wherever you are different and unique you can do well if you play your cards right.
/r/seduction03/01/21 12:58 AM
1

How would you describe your personality? Instead of trying to force ideals on yourself. Find a way that closest matches who you are anyway. That way you won't feel like a fraud and you'll probably enjoy the process.
/r/seduction03/01/21 12:28 AM
1

What do you think most women are bringing to the table apart from their looks? Not a lot... Get your ass in the gym asap. Lift heavy weights and keep your body fat low. You don't need to be super jacked so don't aim for that if it's not your thing. I nor anybody else can convince you that you are good enough. You'll most likely have to work hard to get results but it's achievable with effort and the correct course correction. If you can find one in real life, try to find one online. It can reall…
/r/seduction02/01/21 11:50 PM
1

Would you able to get mentored by the people who are highly experienced? You'll definitely learn a lot faster if one of them takes you under their wing. How does your mentality hold you back?
/r/seduction02/01/21 10:59 PM
1

Be careful about reading too much information on here, it can harm you in the long run. There's more than one way to skin a cat so you've probably read a hundred ways to pick up women. What you need to do is find a style that talks to you and fits your personality. I'm definitely more the lone wolf kind of guy. I'm introverted, I need space and don't like to make a big show. So a lot of the traditional pick up stuff just turns me off. But I found guys who were similar and spoke to me more spirit…
/r/seduction02/01/21 10:51 PM
2

You're right, I do have a big ego but I don't let it hold me back. I use it to drive me forward, I know how to turn it off when it will benefit me in the long run. I have unwarranted self confidence and it has certainly helped me. I could probably talk all night about the ego, how it can be used etc but this is not why I'm here. I do want to help others get to the point where they are self sufficient enough to not be held hostage by a single woman. When it comes to having meaningful sex, what do…
/r/seduction02/01/21 10:43 PM
2

You don't want to be friends with her. You want to be with her/be in her. Make your move, chances are you will get shot down but you can walk away knowing you gave your all. No magic lines. The answer is staring you in the face, you just need to see it loud and clear.
/r/seduction02/01/21 06:50 PM
1

Really simple buddy, the fact that she was back at yours tells me she's interested. The fact that she's a virgin probably means that she didn't want to sleep with you there and then. But you can fuck her next time if you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:37 PM
1

Firstly don't count your chickens before they have hatched. There's a long way between what you've described and fucking a girl. In this situation, it all means nothing unless you're fucking them. But yes, you can date as many women as you can handle. I found through trial and error that 3 regular girls was my max as anymore takes up too much of my time and becomes a chore.
/r/seduction02/01/21 06:31 PM
1

The medium is the message. If she hasn't responded that's exactly what she thinks about you. She's meh about you and isn't that bothered if things slide between you
/r/seduction02/01/21 05:31 PM
2

Yes, I spent 4 years spinning plates in the UK. I just had a rotation system. Also fucked girls from like 30 different countries and there isn't a huge difference between any of them.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 05:28 PM
0

Who are these women saying this? It doesn't sound like a shit test if you aren't trying to fuck the women saying these things. Fuck the noise.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 05:22 PM
1

I'd say most of the sex I've had has been to satisfy my ego rather than my sex drive. It's not all healthy though, you can get caught up in an ego trap once you start tracking runs and comparing yourself to others.
/r/seduction01/01/21 11:46 AM
1

There's no real way out of it other than to grind though. Your ego will get a reality check but it's actually not personal. You won't be able to read something that will take that away that pain so you need to make a choice. Take the hits but come out stronger in the end or accept your lot in life. The reason why so few guys make it good is because they can't take it.
/r/seduction01/01/21 11:41 AM
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It's normal if she's not feeling you. But if she's willing to go on a second date, she may be unsure about you but wants to give you another shot. If she said she was nervous, do the smallest possible escalation at that point. In that case, hold her hand and look into her eyes. Use your other hand and put it behind her neck and just hold for a second looking into her eyes. If she doesn't want to kiss you then, it's not nerves.
/r/seduction31/12/20 12:26 PM
1

The real question is why do you continually have to beg for scraps rather than eat like a king? You're putting these women off somewhere
/r/seduction31/12/20 06:15 AM
1

The first step is always in practice. You learn more by having skin in the game. Get out there and hit on women. Fail. Refine. Repeat. It took me years to get to the point where I was getting consistent results with quality girls.
/r/seduction31/12/20 06:10 AM
1

Okay, is that due to you not putting yourself out there and approaching enough women? I always think the barometer should be what happens in your everyday life rather than your online interactions. The mod seems to have put a good link up there with the right topics to aim at. Are you willing to go through the pain to learn?
/r/seduction31/12/20 12:21 AM
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If she re-engages, play it cool. Just do the minimal escalation at that point to see if there is any interest to play off of. But given that she hasn't give you her number, it's not looking positive.
/r/seduction31/12/20 12:14 AM
1

This is obviously a shitty time to be trying to get consistent results. Online game is very dependent on your pictures. I made it work for me by having a profile designed around getting casual sex. How often are you getting laid at the moment? Once a year? Once every 6 months?
/r/seduction31/12/20 12:11 AM
1

It depends on what the results you want are. I will always recommend 60 years of challenge. It's a great series of ebooks which took me to the next level. I think most of the guys who I followed when I was learning have moved on though. I'm sure there are lots of newer YouTube guys selling programs which others can recommend. What kind of results are you getting at the moment?
/r/seduction30/12/20 11:56 PM
2

Read that back. You were "sorta flirting" ...what does this mean? You gave her your number? Did you ask for hers and she didn't respond with it. She hasn't called or messaged you You're worried about her messaging other guys when you haven't met this girl, let alone fucked her. You mentioned red flags...there are no red flags, she's just not interested. I'm glad you know this is AFC behaviour because you've put the pussy on a pedestal. Unfortunately you can't ditch her because she ditched you fi…
/r/seduction30/12/20 11:10 PM
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Congrats on getting your first date. I honestly think the best advice I can give you is that you should enjoy yourself. Don't worry about the outcome, I know it's easier said than done but embrace it. Just don't leave with any regret like not trying to kiss her when you want to etc. The last thing you want is to get in your head with a thousand tips and tricks. All that can come later, make sure you feedback on how it went and what you did.
/r/seduction30/12/20 11:03 PM
1

It's about your overall mindset. There should be no "oh I'm in the gym" just think that if you like a girl you should go and meet her. Then see where the cards lie.
/r/seduction30/12/20 10:28 PM
1

This is one girl. Make any excuse that you can justify to yourself about speaking to her. Then go and talk to her about it. The danger of putting so much emphasis on one girl mentally is that you don't know her, she may be getting married next week, a lesbian or you just won't be her type. Asking dudes on the internet isn't going to change any of that. Just shoot your shot and good luck.
/r/seduction30/12/20 07:53 PM
3

I have a girlfriend now but I just have irrational self belief. I don't warrant it but I think I'm awesome. I back myself to fuck any girl(doesn't mean I do haha).
/r/seduction30/12/20 07:40 PM
2

It's never to late to get going but you have to take it seriously. It sounds like you need a shock to the system. I don't know how you're doing at the moment with women but it doesn't sound great given what you've said. As you mentioned this is bigger than a getting women problem, your life is a mess. I feel that even if you got women you'd know that these issues run deep and ultimately you won't be happy. I'd start off at the gym gaining the weight, it's easy enough to do if you follow a progra…
/r/seduction30/12/20 07:38 PM
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People don't care about your feelings. They are the perfect mirror of your value. If you are getting positive attention, it's no mistake. Own it and get to the point where you feel entitled to it.
/r/seduction30/12/20 02:01 PM
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