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Their successes in finding a partner has to do with something else Yeah, with the women in question settling for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:06 PM
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"They may sleep with her but not date her" Women don't date NOR SLEEP with men they reject. Women's complain is "the super hot dude won't commit to me and swear me everlasting love! Men suck bla bla bla". Average men can't get ANYONE!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:07 PM
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"A lot of people are shallow, it’s unfair to claim that women are the only ones willing to look past bad behaviour due to attractiveness, men do it as well" Except that you will never find men trying rationalizations for rejecting a woman. It's ALWAYS "She ain't hot enough or easy enough". We don't go around inventing faults in women (more than they already have, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:25 PM
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Which was not shown BEFORE the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:41 PM
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And sometimes it really is that I can sense an underlying bitterness or trauma or hatred I'm not interested in being the one to heal AND how come you only Sense that in some men, but as soon as you meet a Henry Cavill lookalike your "Senses" turn off by art of magic??? How many tragedies women could avoid if they actually had the "super senses" they claim to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:36 PM
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Yeah, that kind of grind my gears. Is most likely ex post facto rationalization. Most women can't just admit they think with their genitals, si they invent any sort of excuse in order to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:27 PM
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It's not even the same, women can't complain about rejection the same way men can't complain about rape or domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:32 PM
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Not actually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:27 AM
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Men suffer that on a MUCH HIGHER SCALE. Is not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:27 AM
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"Boring men are unwanted and undesirable for a reason" Test, because they are not HOT AND Exciting. Women again trying to rationalize their lust and poor decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:08 PM
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Character? I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:05 PM
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Then ehy do we have so many women complaining about jerks and playera? If hot guys were good, they would get out of the market soon and their partners would be happy as it IS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:05 PM
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Buttons? No matter what buttons you push, if you are overweight you aren't going to accomplish anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:03 PM
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I don't care. Women don't suffer rejection. Not securing everlasting love from the impossibly cool hot guy is NOT rejection. How women can be so deluded is anyone's Guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:04 PM
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Bullshit! How many times were you rejected ON A SINGLE NIGHT? It's not the same, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:17 AM
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The problem is the men you like, are ALSO liked by most women, which mean they have an abundance mentality. Problem is, in order to sustain a monogamic relationship, you need an SCARCITY mindset. The men you like, would rather be having fun with every half decent women they can get their hands on, instead of commiting to a single woman. That's why we have so much women in non-commited relationships and so many men alone AND sexless. It's not women's fault, but it IS women's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:55 PM
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"What Is so good about having the privilege of initiating and asking out if the answer is ALWAYS NO?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:45 PM
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Because only a small percentage of men are attractive, and therefore are in high demand, so most of the time, attractive men Will turn into womanizing douchebags. Love and fidelity requiere a SCARCITY mindset, which less attractive guys have. But nobody wants them. If women's desire were so well calibrated, we wouldn't have female dating site saturated with questions about the "commitment phobic" dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:14 PM
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I think i was clear when i wrote UGLY men, not AVERAGE men. I would ask just a little reading comprehension before telling me i am wrong. Thank you very much. PD: For that matter, i had 300 cold approaches, 0 dates, 0 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:30 AM
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Prove it. I never saw an ugly man be successful with women, except having fame, power or a lot of money. However, i did saw hot men getting women like there was no tomorrow. I know it because i had the chance of being friends with some.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:31 PM
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Sure, except that not confidence nor social skills have any impact on being successful with women. Think about it: how many ugly guys can pickup hot women with social skills alone (not counting other factors like money, power, fame or artistic skill). AND my point was that misogynists are a large group that includes many types, of which the maligned "basement dweller incel nerd" is only a small subtype.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:42 PM
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Here we go again: a Lot of misogynists are successful with women. O would even dare to think that most (if not all) womanizers are misogynists by definition, but those men are NEVER condemned, instead, they are celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:48 PM
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Hay que ser obsesivo para revisar mí historial. Búscate un problema honesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:13 PM
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But feminists say that women are smarter and wiser than men. How come they could be manipulated like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:47 PM
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Yeah, sure. Women see men as walking ATM or sex toys (depending if they are hot or not) so spare me the lecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:46 PM
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Yeah, as if women could actually be manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:51 PM
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I was taught to act just like my hot friends. I was treated like shit by women, while they didn't. For women, the key is not WHAT you do, but WHO does it. Pretty boys have A LOT More Leeway interacting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:04 PM
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Another súper Chad flexing his hotness. I know for sure how hostile women can be with unatractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:01 PM
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Keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:32 AM
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Fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:32 AM
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All the women worth a damn gravitated to the same elite boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:52 PM
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Sure, masculine men should do masculine AND feminine tasks, so women can rest in a sofa and polish their nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:50 PM
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"Well if you can spend your entire life destroying a single moms life by not offering them jobs at the same rate as a single one without kids then maybe yeah you pay the price." Why the fuck should that be my problem??? If women are so strong and independent, they could, you know, stop leeching from others (including the goverment). "And when do men pay the price for children? Apart from single mothers when do men pay price for kids that's not their own?" Aside from the fact that paternity fraud…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:49 PM
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"Women also want to be desired and cared about for more than their holes." They could actually filter out men that only want to get off. But they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:44 PM
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Men want to feel desired. No self respecting man would be happy with duty sex once per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:54 PM
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Sure! To be fair, women should start from scratch but with all the modern technology and tools. Plus, enough supplies to last for a while during the building of the new settlement. EDIT: so you have ANY proof that women invented agriculture and software? Really? "Just because a man did something somewhere doesn’t mean you deserve any credit for it at all." Not the point. You live in buildings and houses built by men. Your crap flush in sewers made by men. Every that surrounds us is built by men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:51 PM
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I expect men to stop chasing the carrot they will never get. Ideally, we should tell women to GTFO of OUR society and tell them to build their own men-free utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:06 PM
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Sure, and society (ie ugly working men) have to deal with the Fallout. 1.6 MILLIONS of unwanted pregnancies per year JUST in the United States. We have to pay the bill for those childs or the abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:18 PM
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Women settle. That's not a remotely good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:12 PM
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It doesn't have to be money: Time, Energy, emotional effort, etc. The principle remains: hot guys have all the fun while ugly guys do all the heavy lifting. Dating rules are a complete scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:09 PM
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Simple: with an ugly face. In fairness, it Didn't happened to me. Barely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:55 AM
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Are you kidding? School was the WORST. There was a handful of hot guys that monopolized all the action and the rest of us had to eat shit. I'm surprised the Red Pill took so fucking long to appear in Western Civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:24 AM
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Exactly, but the (fatal) difference Is that those women get rejected AFTER getting pumped and dumped. Men such as myself ALSO aim for the moon at first, but the only thing we obtain is a polite rejection (at best) or a full load of pepper spray/mace (at worst). AF/BB exists because: 1) Women are too fucking picky. 2) Men are disgusting horndogs willing to drag themselves through the mud just for a slim chance of sticking their dicks in something. 3) All of the above. That's why i believe female …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:20 AM
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Even the queer ones are quick to demand "strong men" to show up and solve their problems (sure, we men are going to help man -hating lesbos ASAP)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:07 AM
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If men were not violent we would have been chomped by predators AGES ago. Not much use in complaining NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:00 AM
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The point is that feminist women live in a contradiction: they want masculine men but nobody wants to cook or change diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:04 PM
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Again: do you think you can compare the men at the Chess club with the Football team? REALLY? Stop trying to lionize hot guys. If a man is a douche, then is a douche. All this bullshit Halo effect women fall for gets me every single time. At least be honest and admit you are shallow, don't do that BS of inventing defects in ugly guys, while inventing virtues in hot guys. AND YES: I did Martial Arts for YEARS and most of the MEN there fancied themselves to be hot shit. Maybe you don't BECAUSE you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:50 PM
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Dude, i can't believe we still roll with that bullshit in 2026. I had 300+ cold approaches with ZERO success, how come no one though my confidence was sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:46 PM
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Sure, the dudes at the Chess club are equal to the Football team in aggressiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:37 PM
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That's because they are rich. Maybe you should actually CHECK, instead of going by what you see or "feel".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:24 PM
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"Playing a sport does not make you dominant or violent" Sure, American football is for timid pansies. Dear Lord. For all the feminist talk about "women have to be wary of men" women REALLY FUCKING SUCK at detecting and weeding out "dangerous men".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:12 PM
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And yet they choose the most violent and dominant men. They choose the quarterback instead of the nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:59 AM
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Yeah, pretty nice but, i'm still waiting for women to accept the DUTIES of men. Any time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:28 PM
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Yes, of course. We men should settle for being happy eunuchs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:06 PM
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The guy who had to wait MONTHS must be feeling like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:17 PM
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Yeah, sure, the guys that are desired by hundreds of women will commit to you because you are SUPER Special. No one values what doesn't COST you, that's a Golden Rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:49 PM
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"Adult dating isn’t a reward system for bare-minimum decency." And yet, hot guys don't get punished for lack of it. "We’re assuming she knew he was a piece of shit and/or he showed obvious signs that he was one" So, a woman can deduce everything wrong with you just by looking you (the famous "icks") but ONLY if you are ugly. The second they see a chiseled 6 pack 6 ft handsome man their "ick radar" just turns off. Funny thing. And for that matter, to all the women that claim "we women like what w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:42 PM
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What???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 07:06 PM
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Read again. It's not my fault that you don't understand ANYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:02 PM
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So, women only finding less than 10% of men attractive seems reasonable to you? So much for "patriarchy beauty standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:23 PM
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"I'm not an idiot so I do not offer my body to someone who can get me pregnant and land me in a situation where health, security, and safety is now compromised because I couldn't put 1+1 together and procreated with a guy solely for "who he is inside"." And yet i see the opposite: women completely disregard character in a man, instead they focus on sleeping with good looking douchebags that won't commit to them. If women filtered on character, we wouldn't have a surge of single moms. But good lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:33 PM
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"Obviously there has to be enough of a physcial attraction and chemistry for someone to want to date you a guy helping children and being kind to animals def does make you more attractive to most women." And here we go again... Just tell me... How many men are good looking enough to "spark" attraction in the first place? Not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:26 PM
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In hindsight, yes. No man (let alone a successful one at that moment) should that much time trying to pull out words from a woman with pliers. Maybe he spent quite a bit of Time driving and he fell into the sunken cost fallacy trying to make it work. It should be like this: "-Wanna do something? -Not really. -Ok, go f*ck yourself, bye" And that's it. It ain't Rocket Science. I COULD be more forgiving with a woman that has EARNED my respect (like an Astronaut or something) but for a failure worki…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/25 11:39 PM
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"I think we've all been a foodie call at some point in our 20s. That's a data point." I don't. I never even scored a date in my 34 years of life. Yeah, i know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/25 01:43 PM
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Some people enjoy leeching off others. Socialism exists for a REASON ...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/25 01:40 PM
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Dude, you tried TOO MUCH with a substandard woman. You are part of the problem. Women have way overinflated egos thanks to idiots that dance like monkeys around them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/25 12:35 PM
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"Acquaintances are a thing and that's who you should try to date. Like, get to know a woman a little bit. See if you get along, have anything in common, or even like each other. But take your shot before a deep friendship develops." They friendzone you long before that. With women is try within 5 minutes, and get rejected or try within 5 months, and ALSO get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:02 PM
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Then he should just approach you and invite you a drink???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:33 PM
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You started encouraging me to approach more. The irony Is that women with your Attitude are the reason some men are wary of approaching women. 0 empathy on your part. Keep up the good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:31 PM
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Classic woman Attitude. How cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:26 AM
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They shouldn't but sadly, most women throw their dignity through the window when they see a pretty face and a nice 6 pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:30 PM
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And why the fuck should i respect women? Just because they were born with a vagina? They can't fight. They can't do hard, heavy, dangerous or unhealthy jobs. They can't even have a fucking sense of accountability!!! (See the Door Dash scandal explanation in this very sub). And not only that, but insted of showing us gratitude for building the FUCKING CIVILIZATION they keep shitting on us saying that they don't need us and that we are "useless" while living in buildings built by MEN. I wonder why…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:37 AM
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Women attack EVERYONE considered undesirable who dares to approach them. You can approach them if you are hot. If you aren't they will put you in your place in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:27 AM
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"Nice try on the ol’ flipperoo, but I don’t believe I am inferior. It is men throughout the ages who explicitly stated that they believed women were inferior." Maybe because women are not scoring very high on the"strenght " and "bravery" aspects. And, for that matter, maybe men today are not as strong and Brave as before, but certainly we are scores apart from modern women. You complain but you don't do shit to earn our respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:11 PM
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Oh yeah, and be labeled a creep in the process? No thanks. Been there, done that. I got tired of being burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:19 PM
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FFS you make approaching women sound like bomb defusing AND you have the gall to complain about men being reluctant to approach women. What the actual fuck is wrong with your Brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:16 PM
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According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:36 AM
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And i said i disagreed. You only cited age, but also goes against men. Men like fit bodies, which can be archieved with exercise. There is no exercise that can change your face, eyes, height or skin colour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:35 AM
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"And nothing more annoying that someone who is dumb and stubborn" Those two features tend to be related. "Anyways, the women who get the most swipes on dating apps have a college degrees" Except that the PhD hottie is not going to make you a sandwich or change diapers. That's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:39 PM
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That's why we used to teach women to get married early. But you screwed that up. Patriarchy didn't came out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:36 PM
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Ok, but that doesn't excuse her. For the record i ALSO find creepy to be nude at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:35 PM
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It's her job to look into other people's houses? It said LEAVE AT DOOR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:09 PM
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The point Is, losing weight is not imposible. Changing your face or height, on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:32 PM
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What they are trying to say is that the "dumb girl" Will comply and not cause troubles, while smart women tend to be problematic and high maintenance. EDIT: AND good thing you clarified "HOT" researcher. More points for the blsck pill team.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:26 PM
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By that logic i should have Bren successful in my teenage YEARS, since i was a prime douchebag. It wasn't the case, in fact, women despised me. Women will take crap from rich or hot guys. Ugly guys have no leverage to act like assholes in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:13 PM
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REALLY? When was the last time a woman was rejected with violence? Don't give me that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:47 PM
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Excuse me? did you read what i wrote? Nobody complained about rejections. If women can be hostile to men, just for being ugly, then i guess it would be fair men can do the same to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:30 PM
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AND wouldn't you be? Are you kidding me? I wish women had to face the same hostility we suffer from women. How would you react if the man you like slapped you or looked you with disgust for dating to ask him out???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:59 AM
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Translation: "You can be a man ONLY when it benefits women".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:20 PM
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I was quite outgoing BEFORE the pandemic i only got 300+ rejections from cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:19 PM
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Yeah, until some dipshits started crying about "toxic masculinity".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:43 PM
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Why should we care? Women only care about fucking hot guys. They don't care if you are Brave, honest, or hardworking. No. They only care about how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:41 PM
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"The lack of nuance, the moody obsession with persecution, thinking that when you want something, people have to give it to you instead of earning it on your own. Blaming your environment for your failures. Hyperbolic thinking (ie “what does try to be FUN mean?? Do you want me to be some kind of DANCING CLOWN? I have to AMUSE you??”) Also, claiming something impossible before it’s even tried" You are describing modern women to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:29 PM
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Which would prove that women LOVE useless deadbeats, instead of honest, hard working and accomplished men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:23 PM
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Oh dear Lord... "But, my god young people, if you went to some random house party and had a few keg beers instead of sitting in your bedroom swiping on Tinder, you might make out with a cute stranger and get her number." Only if you are a hot guy. Women back then only cared about fucking hot guys. Now is even WORSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:21 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:10 PM
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"Because people want to hold women "accountable" for bullshit like enjoying sex" Nobody said that. The problem is that the ladies don't want to take responsibility when "accidents" happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:50 PM
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Dude, you need to have 5% of body fat to have a six pack. I'm on 15% AND still have a man's V shape. And money? Really? Women can't be bought, dude. You say men overstimate themselves? How many women have 5% of body fat??? And my point remains: an overweight woman can have sex with hot men with no problem. An overweight man can't even dream of getting close to a hot woman, unless he is a millionaire. The problem is that women are too picky, and men too forgiving at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:45 PM
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EXACTLY! That's why it blows my mind how careless can women become when they see a pretty face and a nice 6 pack. Women SHOULD be better than us, since they face greater risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:30 AM
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Do i have to interview 10.000 subjects and make a report to say water is wet? Friggin smartass...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:19 PM
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Interacting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:15 AM
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Because they have a health problem. Women are defined by who carries the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:14 AM
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Because women's desires are unrealistic. Men don't complain about women not being 10/10 Victoria's Secret models.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:40 PM
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"If sex is really that good then why won’t men give women what we want in exchange?" Because women want super hot alpha men. It goes beyond saying that most of us can't become súper hot alpha men by reciting three magic words in front of a mirror on february 29th at midnight in a full moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:30 PM
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"Have you ever considered, subjectively, that 80% of men really are unattractive and on a completely different level than women?" We are THE SAME SPECIES, yet women collectively consider us Neanderthals while they consider themselves Greek goddesses. Reality is that most women can't even maintain a decent BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:23 PM
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"Now just imagine how much more sex men would get if women orgasmed every time like men do" The same amount, actually, since women only care to fuck the top 3% of men, orgasm or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:17 PM
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"But it's also common sense that an activist group for women focuses on women's issues and leaves the men's issues untouched" Then it's not about equality, but female privilege. "Men needs their own group to specifically be thoughtful on men's issues" Like, a Men's Rights Activism? Don't we have something like that? What does feminism think of MRAs? Go on, tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:14 PM
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"What is your evidence this happens?" Yours truly. +300 cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:34 AM
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"What to you mean by "treated like shit"?" Being looked at with disgust as if you were a Leper or a hobo. "People tend to date those of similar physical attractiveness" No, men always have to date LOWER. Even if both are of the same "league" of attractiveness, the Man has a higher status/income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:49 PM
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If i remember correctly, there was an OK Cupid which stated that women find 80% of men unattractive. That's not how "average" works. That is another POINT for the "women are incredibly picky" theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:45 PM
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No, you are WRONG. Women STILL reject a lot even in apropiate contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:41 PM
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What would i gain by doing that? It's not like i can become a woman. In fact, i would become a hideous abomination like most trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 09:40 PM
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Yeah, i know. But women are also very picky. Both things can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:22 PM
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It's only marginally better in nightclubs. My friends (male MODELS) had more success than i, but still only had 2 or 3 "scores" out of 10 atempts on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:45 PM
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There's no "transitioning" I would end up being an UGLY MOTHERF... When was the last time you saw a trans "woman" giving birth? That's what i thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:42 PM
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Dammit dude, if you heard some of the wild stuff women do, you wouldn't be asking this out. Women are too capricious with their sex Drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:40 PM
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That explains why they idolize hot guys while demonizing ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:38 PM
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"Traditional or not, it's not healthy. We encourage women to break away from a lot of traditional stuff that is not good for them, so we shouldn't just let that kinda stuff slide for men." That's ANOTHER ISSUE. If men don't fulfill their traditional roles, society will go to the drain. Even radical feminists complain about men not being brave enough to protect women on the streets. Feminism was supposed to erased gender roles, not enforce them for one gender only. "Hot abusers might always find …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:36 PM
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You are a gay Man. You don't even KNOW the concept of abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:40 PM
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Women don't have to do complicated bullshit to get laid. I could search for the experiment with a woman asking 100 dudes for sex, but i don't want to waste More Time on this stupid crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:38 PM
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Weird? The guys Is arguably MUCH better looking than the average men. It's not enough. It's NEVER enough for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:37 PM
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Then why they so obsessed with FUCKING HOT GUYS? When some feminists advocated on Twitter for a sex strike after Roe v. Wade was overturned, most women said "aw hell no! I'm not leaving my precious cock!" Women are even worse than men on some matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:35 PM
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Because, as a Man, you know you Will most likely wake up in a bathtube filled with ice, minus a Kidney.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:33 PM
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Yeah sure, women talk big about equality, until we apply equal DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILIES. They ALWAYS forget that last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:46 PM
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"I’m sociable, but my ability to hibernate and be left alone is unmatched. But maybe as a guy I’d have more sex drive driving me to do things I don’t wanna do lol." That's something i'm curious about. Given how sensitive are women to hormones... How would they deal with testosterone poisoning without starting a nation-wide riot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:42 PM
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Women dying from abortions is mostly a self inflicted problem (and no, only a TINY percentage of abortions are due to rape/incest, even BEFORE Roe v. Wade was overturned). Most of the men that die in war or other acts of violence had no say on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:37 PM
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I'll just paste my previous post on the subject: "This is BS. Is OBVIOUS men have it harder. Average Women can get sex very easily. They can get love with more effort. They only suffer because they RARELY get LOVE from the super alpha guys. Average Men are treated like SHIT by EVERYONE. They can (with a lot of luck) only get relationships from ugly women that STILL think they are settling, since (in their minds) they could be DATING super alpha guys, with a bit of luck. The equivalent of women's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:32 PM
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https://youtu.be/jjR9F9tPNhc?si=AiF1wGIp-kcp2FJk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:25 PM
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Have you seen the social experiment when a Man has to ask 100 women for sex and then the genders are reversed? Even good looking men are treated like shit by women. So much for "oppressed gender"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:19 PM
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You have to be heavily scarred or deformed to be rejected for SEX by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:14 PM
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Ask ANY woman about their ex partners. She Will tell you that MOST of them were: 1) Idiots. 2) Abusive assholes. 3) Useless parasites. 4) All of the above. I have seen so many cases of this that i begin to ponder why women use "incel" or "virgin" as an insult, given their universally poor track record on choosing mates. In fact, i'm inclined to think the opposite: The fact that a woman doesn't like me (besides lack of attraction, of course) proves that i'm a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:12 PM
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"I've seen more men do more stupid things for hot women than the other way around". Of COURSE, traditionally men were supposed to "earn" the favour of a woman. Not the other way around. Now you see WOMEN working to support their hot boyfriends. I mean WTF??? And domestic abusers NEVER run out of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:06 PM
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They are willing to tolerate ANYTHING from a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:39 PM
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"It's SO hard to be hot like me!" Cry me a River, darling!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:40 PM
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And yet women drag themselves through the mud for men. But only the top 3%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:40 PM
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Yeah, i'm sorry too. If the women on "my league" prefer to become fucktoys for the hot guys, that only leaves me with only the BOTTOM OF THE BOTTOM. I'm, doomed, DOOMED let me tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:14 PM
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So, you don't have a problem with being cuckolded? Dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:12 PM
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My friends are MALE MODELS and they banged they fair share of whales, along with Slender trashy ugly women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:08 PM
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Men are rejected for sex AND for LOVE. Thinking that, somehow men could have a bit more chances of success by aiming for steady relationships is wishful thinking. Maybe it was true back then, but women don't give a shit about common men now. They can only get aroused by TOP TOP MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:04 PM
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This is BS. Is OBVIOUS men have it harder. Average Women can get sex very easily. They can get love with more effort. They only suffer because they RARELY get LOVE from the super alpha guys. Average Men are treated like SHIT by EVERYONE. They can (with a lot of luck) only get relationships from ugly women that STILL think they are settling, since (in their minds) they could be DATING super alpha guys, with a bit of luck. The equivalent of women's plight would be average men complaining about not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:55 PM
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Yeah, because women NEVER IN HISTORY have hurt men or let them down. NEVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:54 PM
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That doesn't explain why women can bang men WAY hotter than them. Doesn't match your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:44 PM
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"If most women in your life are curt and businesslike in your interactions with them, its safe to say you aren't attractive." Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:56 PM
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None of that matters if you are not hot. In fact, displaying confidence is even more off putting to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:44 PM
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Yeah, we have to state the obvious, since so many men and women STILL perpetuate the "looks don't matter" barefaced lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:43 PM
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AGAIN, thank you for your input. And no, it seems i have ZERO seduction value, since women love me until i make a move, then they run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:28 PM
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Thank you for taking the effort of answering this. Yeah, i agree with you, except that i got similar reactions with women i met and bonded with in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:26 PM
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That's because they lack discipline. I believe they can be beaten into a proper fighting force, if time and resources are available. I'm LESS optimistic about creating a military force out of emasculated soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:06 PM
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I prefer to be in touch with my inner caveman, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:03 PM
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Fair point. We have become complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:59 PM
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At the end of the day, you need boots on the ground to claim territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:54 PM
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I stand corrected then. I misunderstood you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:53 PM
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Yeah, sorry for not having super hot women in my workplace or college. I can only meet women at nightclubs (not that i had much success in college either).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:42 PM
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Dude, how can a woman look like me AND be rated differently??? For fucks sake. Why are so obsessed on this "market is ALWAYS right" we shouldn't be having fatties fucking male models if that were the case. Women's price is inflated and you don't offer other argument than "it works, therefore is not broken" approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:29 PM
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Women don't need skill. Why are you so hard on the concept? I even had one guy pointing out a girl that looked like me, and she was rated a 7 while i was rated a 3. Men are much MUCH less demanding than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:16 PM
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Flirting? Conversations over dinner? Are you on crack? My experiences with women are limited to 300+ cold approaches, and every single time the lady in question reacted with utter disgust, as if i were a homeless asking her for money. There is no self steem that can resist being treated like shit for 15 YEARS.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:12 PM
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Dude, i'm taking about facially ugly women too. My counterpart would be a "butterface" yet those women are busy being the fucktoys of the alpha men. You are using a free market approach, but you are proving OP's point: Women's value is too fucking inflated. But it's not women's, fault entirely .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:08 PM
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In other words: limp wristed progressive beta males. How come the men modern women like are the ones with WORST chances of survival in a war?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:03 PM
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PRECISELY MY POINT. That's why i mentioned "fit, but not very attractive women" treating me like dirt. Those women SHOULD be my match: Fit = Fit Below average face = Below average face. Yet these women treat me like shit, thinking they are supermodels just because they are prime targets for hot guys searching for an easy lay. Women are not to blame here: hot guys slumming it are the ones at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:00 PM
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Yeah, but there is a HUGE disparity in standards. I'm fit and 6'0 but my "league" is overweight and hideous women. Even fit but not very attractive women treat me like dirt why? Simple: the alpha dudes slumming it ruins dating for EVERYONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:50 PM
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If you think Western men are bad? What's left for the rest? Is there a group of men that women don't despise?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:32 PM
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"What exactly is not enjoyable about the process of getting to the point of having sex with a woman?" Dude, are you FUCKING KIDDING ME? Trying to seduce a woman is the most frustrating and tiresome game ever. Jumping through hoops and taking crap 24/7 for no real gain becomes emotionally draining very quickly. Playing "Getting Over It with Bennett Foddy" isn't as frustrating as picking up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:26 PM
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I agree, but again: if casual sex Is so unfulfilling, how come feminists glorify it so much? Are women THAT obsessed with hot guys to chase them even though they won't enjoy it? Why do casual in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:54 PM
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They won't LITERALLY push them out physically. They will stop bothering with the welfare state and social network that women rely on. Women have more to lose than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:15 PM
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"So why can’t they put themselves in the other person’s shoes?" Because that would require men to develop EMPATHY. Do you realize how crazy does that sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:07 PM
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You are missing the point: If we create sexbots, men's Attitude towards women will get WORSE. I hate to say this, but men's horniness is the reason they tolerate all the crap women throw at them. The most likely outcome involves women being banished out of society. Except for the few that ACTUALLY contribute something (PhD level or above).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:05 PM
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Yeah, you got that right. Forcing women to be with men they don't like is out of the question. I stated in another thread that many ancient societies rewarded acomplished men with a woman. But to be fair, if i were a woman, i WOULDN'T want to be treated as a PRIZE.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:45 AM
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Hmmm i thought something like that at first, but prison staff could also include professionals like psycologists and/or social workers but i don't have the details. EDIT: Anyways, thank you for your input!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:50 AM
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Oh no, don't get the wrong idea. We men suck, no doubt about that. Problem is women KNOW this and WILLINGLY get into the trap. In another post, OP was narrating how female prison staff kept engaging with the inmates. I mean WTF??? What is so attractive IN A FUCKING CONVICT. Why can't women admit they have twisted desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:25 PM
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"You do realize alot of men actually pretend to be those "nice guys". Right? These men switch up in relationships" Oh not this bullshit AGAIN! Will women ever CUT this crap narrative? Darling, the tattooed crook/bad boy is bad news for EVERYONE with two braincells to rub together. Instead, you need to demonize common, law abiding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:49 PM
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Women are just fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:26 PM
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For sure Man! But the problem is i only developed feelings for her months LATER. It's weird but lust at first sight is not common in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:59 PM
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A girl in college was always happy to see me and acted coy with me. She friendzoned me. You can't NEVER know for sure with a woman. It's ALWAYS hit or miss.. EDIT: Thank you for correcting!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:09 PM
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That doesn't mean anything. They could still reject you. Don't expect logic from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:07 PM
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"Yet with advanced technology, machinery, and social systems, the physical advantage is no longer as decisive" That's just feminists bullshit. Physical strenght is EVERYTHING. You can't rely on fancy gadgets in a SHTF situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:05 PM
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I told you: i can't see women as objects. If i could, i would have hired a sex worker ages ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:17 AM
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34 here, not shy by any stretch, just FUCKING UGLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:32 PM
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Thank you for the compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:18 PM
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"Being a "chaser" isn't just a one time thing" It will if you chase tornadoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:29 PM
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How many times you have to kill to be a murderer?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:09 PM
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Then why women drink in the first place? Why indulge in an activity that can lead to a lot of bad CONSEQUENCES? It doesn't match with the idea of women being permanently threatened by everything and having to be on their guard 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:09 PM
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Yeah, i get you. It must be that pesky sex-drive that makes us focus on women, even though they suck at being decent human beings or even when they consider us 3rd degree trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:44 AM
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Nobody asked YOUR point of View. We were debating the point of View of the Man: The "superior" men, hace to deal with the burden of a relationship, deal with your bullshit and mood changes and be there for you in hard times. The "hot but not that cool" men get to enjoy your body for FREE. No strings attached. Pretty shitty deal, sorry to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:17 AM
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"It's the book-smart white-collar men who aren't really as biologically attractive to women;" FAIR POINT, but not all blue collar workers are jacked. Many have pot bellies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:08 PM
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Yeah, but one man has to buy the cow while the other gets the milk for free. See the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:33 PM
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"Bad for the previously artificially-boosted mediocre men, but overall good for society" It doesn't seem good for society, since it destroyed the concept of nuclear family, which was the backbone of modern civilization. Women are having less kids, leading to a population decline, which some people want to solve with unrestricted immigration. The kids they do have are raised in single parent households. That increases the chances of becoming a criminal. And lastly, the average men (the ones that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:28 PM
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Are you THAT hot???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:29 PM
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"Hybristophilia is not more common in women. There are just more male criminals for women to choose from" Supply shouldn't affect demand, so you are contradicting yourself: if Hybristophilia was equality common in men, we would have the same amount of men fawning over a SMALLER sample of female criminals. The number of admirers wouldn't change. "In addition women are not obsessing over men who like criminals" That's because men are not the PRIZE. Women are. Women are the ones that educate MEN, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:26 AM
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So, you want a Man with egalitarian values that protects you and provides for you? In other words: have your cake and eat it too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:27 AM
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Fair point but, i would have to know the details on that Gallup study. I don't think most women have the same concept of liberal/conservative. How many women would agree with the phrase "we have to get rid of communists or everyone that poses a threat to american people and values. It's us or them, we have no choice"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:24 AM
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"Looks get you in the door, but it quickly fades if you're not fun and have nothing to back that up." As if anyone would CARE about that. We live in a XXI century Western society, which means that, by the time a woman gets bored with a man, or finds his character flaws, he most likely got TIRED of banging her. In these days, looks are a complete game breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:52 PM
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Oh no, not the bullshit moral relativism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:41 PM
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"Most women don't like criminals" TOO MANY of them do. "And men are guilty of the same thing." Hybristophilia Is WAY More prevalent in WOMEN, to the point of being previously thought to be female exclusive. So, no, keep trying. "The only reason there are fewer instances is because there are fewer women killers." That's ANOTHER ISSUE we could debate. "Strange how you haven't noticed how young girls and women like boy bands for example. Young teens particularly like them for their pretty boy quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:26 PM
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"Meanwhile, women see men as the ones who have all the power to move a connection forward". That's not a positive thing. Men have the burden of taking the initiative, muster their courage to make contactact with a woman, endure rejections and making relationships "happen". For women, relationships just "happen organically" to them. After 15 YEARS of constant rejections, i am too burned to keep on trying. Maybe that's for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:53 PM
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Men CAN be happy without a relationship. In fact most hot guys ARE commitment-phobic. It just happens that, for the AVERAGE Man, a relationship is the only way they can get SEX (barring hiring prostitutes).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:45 PM
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Nah, that's what women think. The reality is, hot guys won't buy the cow if they know they can get the milk for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:39 PM
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No, that's another problem. Average women CAN get access to hot guys wanting a quick and easy lay. That is another reason to not date average women: they will be dissatisfied with you, thinking they could do better banging hot guys, and eventually cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:32 PM
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"You are projecting harder than an Imax theater. Men are the ones that most often have poor impulse control. Here are some real facts not your made up fiction". Yes, i admit that, but the point was to find a reason why women seem fixated on criminals. Men have poor impulse control, sure, but our desires are at LEAST more "reasonable": Men like hot women. A woman CAN theoretically be hot AND be a good person and caring partner (yes, i know, most hot women WILL try to use that to their advantage, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:54 AM
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Exactly, but my little rant was due to the fact that, well into the XXI Century, women are STILL unable to deal with these kind of Situations. It's not that i blame them for being in that situation, i just find their lack of willpower frustrating. We can have the best DV response team, but if the woman lies to the cops and refuses to press charges or even cover up her abuse, it's basically all for nothing. Made worse by the fact that only women seen to have these psychological "barriers" accordi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:32 AM
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Not necessarily, but men have to face worse things and we keep on. I don't know why we can't admit that women are weak willed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:48 PM
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My bad, i will remove the personal insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:39 PM
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I don't know how divorce laws were back then But even NOW, some women try to kill themselves instead of getting a DIVORCE. It's sad, but many women are HORRIBLE at dealing with problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:38 PM
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Yes, but OP explained that even female staff "fell" for convicts. I mean, women that had jobs and families. My theory is that women's brains are STILL the same they had in prehistoric times, and they somehow filter for aggressive AND dominant types, which maybe was good back then, but now is a MASSIVE hindrance. PRISONS are FILLED with "Alpha" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:25 PM
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Darling, WOMEN face more risks on their bad decisions. They SHOULD be extra careful. And women's shitty decision making ruins EVERYTHING for EVERYONE. Criminals are born from women that made a bad decision. Many families are destroyed by women that made a bad decision (not in every case, mind you). Women are the ones that educate men, not the other way around. Shitty women leads to shitty men, and then, to a shitty society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:57 PM
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Not MY problem, but women's shitty decision making ruins EVERYTHING for EVERYONE. Criminals are born from women that made a bad decision. Many families are destroyed by women that made a bad decision (not in every case, mind you). Women are the ones that educate men, not the other way around. Shitty women leads to shitty men, and then, to a shitty society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:53 PM
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Good for you! At least you have SOME sort of filter. Best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:51 PM
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"Ooh, guy, so much anger. Why? What is in it for you? Like okay, i might get myself abused, i’m not perfect, why are you angry at me for that? How about you’ll use your advice and start using your brain instead of feelings?" Because women's shitty decision making ruins EVERYTHING for EVERYONE. Criminals are born from women that made a bad decision. Many families are destroyed by women that made a bad decision (not in every case, mind you). Women are the ones that educate men, not the other way a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:46 PM
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So does logic. Yet you choose to use emotions. They way women do things leads them to get in trouble. They NEVER reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:41 PM
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YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:39 PM
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Di you think it was "free hypergamy" like some feminists say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:33 PM
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How would i know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:25 PM
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Glad to know we agree on that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:24 PM
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Your reaction to the concept speaks VOLUMES about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:08 AM
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Seriously, just looking at all the women that fall for toxic, immature, narcissistic or abusive men proves that women simply have SHIT for brains. What they think about me is worthless. In fact, being rejected by women proves i'm an upstanding Man and not a complete scumbag like the ones they like. I take it as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:06 AM
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I'm surprised. Women are supposed to have a Sixth Sense that detects virgins, neediness, or low status men but they can't detect manipulators or abusers. My comment was in response to the woman above that "filtered personality" in a FIRST date, as if such a thing were possible. Women are obsessed at making the WORST decisions at every turn, AND then COMPLAIN about it and try to twist the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:03 AM
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"and we could argue that marriage is also far away from our natural behavior" And what would be our "natural behavior"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:58 AM
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A man, so? Men are bad, yes, but women are monumentally stupid for falling to their tricks. And they NEVER take responsibility for that. An abuser will necessarily need someone that allows himself/herself be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:54 AM
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Women should learn to shut the fuck up and stop complaining that men don't take them seriously. Or complaining about men not commiting. Or ANYTHING. Women educate MEN. They choose looks? They'll get looks! Kindness is not on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:47 AM
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"it's about doing whatever personal assessment of the situation and making a decision based on that" They're doing a fucking bad job at it, let me tell you. "were you just super excited to find a way to call women emotional ?" Can't be excited about something that happens ALL THE DAMN TIME. Women have a REALLY shitty decision making. Any domestic violence victim and pregnant teen is a testament of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:26 AM
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Tell that to the women that slept with my hot friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:20 AM
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We don't have time or patience for fucking subtleties. You want to fuck or not? Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:15 PM
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"I fuck stranger on a first date, but with screening his personality" How TF you "screen personality" on one damn date? Feminists constantly claim that "abusers don't show signs on the first date". So, which one is it? And feelings don't mean shit. Women could learn to use their fucking brains instead of "feelings". You don't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:13 PM
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You are the one that calims the gender gap exists, you are the one that haves to PROVE IT. Averages don't mean SHIT. It's EQUAL PAY for EQUAL WORK.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:55 PM
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"Average". Can you make a proper match? same company, same experience, same position and qualification?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:32 PM
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"People with degrees and experience can still struggle with finding jobs because they aren’t taken seriously due to their race or gender." Cry me a River. "DEI is a way to bypass those biases and be judged based on merit like any other candidate." That could be solved by hiring on score, rather than interviews. But we are not ready for this. "Would you end a program that helps veterans simply because it also helps women?" We could make a program for veterans only. If i may suggest. "Also, we are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:50 PM
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Not less PER HOUR, but less money overall, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:31 PM
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"If you want to avoid alimony don’t marry a poor woman or have a stay at home wife" Aire, because most women are incredible successful in finances. /s "If someone has a degree and experience in the industry why would you think they’re unqualified?" If someone has a degree and experience in the industry why would they need DEI??? "veterans" The only ones that deserve respect. They risked their lives for a country that treats them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:03 PM
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"Sex should never have a punishment because there’s nothing wrong with having sex." Yeah, tell that to the men paying alimony. If men have to face the CONSEQUENCES, so should women. EDIT: yes, it impacts in my life. DEI policies benefit less qualified women/LGBTQ+ at the expense of more qualified straight White men. Not only makes it more difficult for me to get those jobs. It also harms society, by putting underqualified people in places they don't deserve (destroying meritocracy) and hampering…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:16 AM
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True, but i see that attractiveness is the major factor. And women focus mostly on things that can't be changed, like height and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:08 AM
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Please, keep demonizing White men. BRB going to vote for scumbags that hate me no matter what i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:11 AM
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"The world will happily carry on without them" The whole FUCKING SOCIETY functions thanks to the blood an toil of the "average men" you despise so much. Who TF do you think built the buildings were you work and live? Who keeps the electricity grid? Who maintains communications? Who built AND takes care of the sewers that take your shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:04 AM
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"If you're concerned about childish things like videogames and not how to provide for your family and community I'd rather you not vote" You are a liberal woman. You defecate on the men that provide for their families and community. I love how feminist women demand MEN to fulfill their traditional role, yet they cry bloody murder when men ask anything in return, specially when that involves fulfilling a traditional female role. Bunch of Hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:58 AM
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"Religious women, uneducated women, suburban family women" They are much better that the "strong independent women" that need big daddy goverment to change their diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:27 PM
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PRECISELY the point: The disadvanges women face are not created by the System. They are created by NATURE. It's nature's fault that men are stronger, more violent and More horny than women. Some branch of Feminism wants big daddy goverment to give benefits to women in "compensation" for the disadvanges of being a woman. Sorry, but it doesn't work that way. It's not my fault that you can't throw a decent punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:04 PM
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"You're not being very coherent. Paying women the same money for the same work is not socialist, it's just fair". Except when they fail at the "same work" part. Men don't need pregnancy or maternity leave. Nor do we have to take days off due to painful periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:59 PM
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Okay, but we want capitalism in both cases. Get rid of that shitty DEI policies, abortion and welfare state. Women want to fuck around? Then they should DEAL with the CONSEQUENCES.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:57 PM
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"filtering out men who don’t make above a certain threshold". This means women would finally reward merits and accomplishments in men. That would be WAY better that the current dating scene we have now, in which women fawn over attractive but unproductive and immature scumbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:50 PM
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Yeah, my experience PRECISELY. I would, if i may, suggest that in the ugly guy case, being nice is ACTUALLY a detriment, since it leaves you vulnerable and prone to get abused/manipulated. No one broke my heart when i was a partying asshole eager to have fun. Everything went to hell AFTER i fell in love with a college mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:51 PM
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My reasoning, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:49 PM
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I plead guilty, your honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:48 PM
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You were rejected by TWO FUCKING GUYS I have been CONSISTENTLY REJECTED BY HUNDREDS OF WOMEN OVER A PERIOD OF 15 YEARS. Women don't have a fucking clue about what common men have to endure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:25 AM
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"You don’t “measure” anything. You just act normal. If you wanna chat with her do it" "If she’s not interested move on" https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fjust-talk-to-her-v0-qkncg87jevaa1.png%3Fauto%3Dwebp%26s%3D18e79908ff4701b2cd2b2db74b6a2fa068b0c87e
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:16 AM
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"But yes women do have to be attracted to u first to start looking at your behavior" THAT'S WHAT I BEEN TRYING TO SAY AND EVERYONE THINKS I'M CRAZY. My point is that: women care about behaviour AFTER they filter you on attraction. The problem is that in this "modern times" by the time you filter out a man due to bad behaviour, he most likely ALREADY BANGED YOU a few times. That means that, in practice hot douchebags have all the fun and leave a trail of broken hearts, while decent average men ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:39 PM
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Yet they NEVER seem to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:30 PM
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You already passed and they were playing hard to get. How do you know a "playful" rejection from a REAL rejection (without having to get maced or having security called upon you). This is the crux of the matter: my hot friends were rejected, but they pushed regardless and they succeeded. I (we are talking about my teenage years) imitated them and got a HOSTILE answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:12 PM
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"I've even had a hard no, become a yes" How do you measure that without becoming a sexual harassing Creep? My experience tells men that women go into Red Alert mode when a stranger adult Man becomes too agressive and openly disregards her boundaries (with good reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:08 PM
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Never said i "deserve" women but i would certainly appreciate if women stopped busting my balls complimenting me for being kind and caring while complaining that "most men are scumbags that don't even care if i get assaulted". EVERYTHING men do in this damn planet, we do to get sex (yeah, it's a VERY Freudian approach, but bear with me). If women wanted to fuck men with dog feces on top of their heads, then EVERYONE of us would have dog feces on top of our heads. In ancient societies, men risked…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:04 PM
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Thank you for the compliment. "Were you the same users who point blank asked a woman why she doesn’t date you when she said you’d be such a catch?" I don't remember being in that situation, but i certainly agree with the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:47 PM
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EXACTLY, but they refuse to admit that reality. They want men to "play nice and behave" when doing so has a lot of downsides and no upsides. While douchebags face 0 downsides and even save themselves some problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:44 PM
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That's the point, as much as i think, i can't have a solution to this problem: women won't stop liking what they like, and at the same time, they won't stop complaining about the men they choose. At the same time, average men keep being discarded or settled for, while hearing women complain about men not treating her with care and respect. Like i told: I was an asshole party animal, but 15 YEARS of constant rejections "tamed" me quite a bit. If women were as harsh with the hot men as they were w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:29 PM
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Because i'm ADORABLE. But to be honest, my comments are in response to the Blue Pill bullshit narrative that is still prevalent online and in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:03 PM
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Agree on everything except this: "You need to rewire your brain… start jerking it to porn of women in your league rather than the 7,8,9, 10/10s you’ll never touch… idk man figure it out." This is were you screw up: ALL women want hot guys, AND (unlike men) they CAN fuck hot guys with a bit of luck if they throw themselves at them hard enough. Men have a different approach to sexuality, mainly for biological reasons ("sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive") and even many hot guys actively chase less…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:02 PM
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"But are YOU worth a damn?" That is precisely what i'm trying to explain: women don't give a shit about what you think or if you are nice. They want VALUE, AND value can come in many forms, but physical attraction is gaing ground as the priority. This is in response to the Blue pill bullshit narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:32 PM
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I did, but the ladies in question did not liked me back. Granted, they were beautiful women, but i wasn't attracted to them at first sight. It took months of spending time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:21 PM
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"Fish don't want to be caught and actively struggle against the attempt" And women don't want to "waste" their precious eggs sleeping with any average Joe that asks them out. Women's game is filtering out undesirable men as quickly as possible. Men's game is PASSING the filter in the first place. That's why women's advice is tailored for a man that is ALREADY in a relationship (which means he passed the test) not for SEDUCING a woman. You don't go to a theorical qualification test and ask the as…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:56 PM
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"Stop focusing on the hot men" Ah, the classic "just be yourself" bullshit. Whether you talk about relationships, politics or business, you DO have to check out the competición. "Ugly people get laid all the time". Not with any woman worth a damn. My IG favourites are NEVER seen with men remotely resembling me. "The problem is that if you are ugly AND a shitty person, that’s like being a cripple and blaming your one good knee" Yeah, the same classic gaslighting. If i were a shitty person, no wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:46 AM
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Yeah yeah, all women say the same bullshit until they run across a Greek god at the library or bus stop. Rules are for the ugly men, ALWAYS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:34 AM
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Not my case. I can cold approach women at any place and time of the day, with or without alcohol and in all weather conditions. Women don't care about my "courage" in fact they COMPLAIN about men like me: "Men i like don't dare to approach me, but ugly guys are bold as brass!" Actually, i believe all this crusade against "sexual harassment" is meant to take us ugly men OUT of the game and stop bothering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:24 AM
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Guys =/= HOT guys. It's not that complex dude. If all men were hot, then MAYBE your attitude could make the difference. Since hoy guys are so few and in such high demand, they get to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:20 AM
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There's Is no "less attractive". For women is either you pass or not. I don't pass the attraction Threshold. Being a dickhead at least made rejections quick and painless. Being kind led me to being dragged along and getting my hopes high in vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:17 AM
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Hot guys start as a maybe. Ugly guys don't even have the possibility of starting a conversation in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:14 AM
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EXACTLY my case. The three times i fell in love was with college mates. And i wasn't trying to seduce them. I was just myself ande they were themselves too. I developed feelings for them by virtue of being FORCED to spend Time together but NONE of them developed feelings for me. If i were a disgusting creep, they wouldn't have wasted Time with me (i had no money nor anything they could exploit) The last rejection involved cutting off all contact with her and ended up in a REALLY sour note. A sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:13 AM
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I am the guy that consistently loses against the hot guy no matter what i do or what kind of shit i try. And to rub salt in the wound i have to deal with blue pillers of peace and prosperity that claim "just be kind/confident" as if women gave a fuck about that. Women don't value virtue in a man, yet they complain about men not being virtuous. Virtue requires rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:04 AM
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Then why hot guys get women like there's no tomorrow even when they are complete idiots that have to get drunk to gather courage to speak to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:59 AM
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Not my case, in fact, dragging me along only made the failure MORE painful because i though "i was SO CLOSE of making it" when in all likehood i never had a chance to begin with. I was happier when i was an asshole. I cold approached women and they rejected me ON THE SPOT, no time, money or Effort wasted. Hope is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:57 AM
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But sometimes even women my age perpetuate this bullshit. In other post i mentioned the case of my female coworkers complimenting me for being chivalrous, kind and caring and every time i have to point out that my attitude landed me 0 WOMEN in the past (but being an asshole in my teenage years was ALSO a complete failure, so it would seem that this is everything about looks and nothing else). Women DON'T CARE about attitude, they don't demand kindness from the guys they like and if they do, is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:53 AM
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True, i can confirm: i was an asshole in my teenage years (not dales) and still didn't had success with women. Problem is, on one had we have elite douchebags doing whatever the fuck they want with no problem at all, while a majority of men struggle no matter what they do, in the best case, we get settled for. Many societies "rewarded" accomplished men with a woman (look at the mass wedding scene in "Zulú"). Granted, women should not be treated as prizes and i wouldn't want to be with a woman th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:17 AM
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EXACTLY and i would suggest that, in those cases, being kind Is not only useless, but actually NEGATIVE, since you come as needy, and even sets you up for being exploited (the dreaded "friendzone").
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:01 AM
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"Golly, thanks so much for mansplaining women’s attraction to women" Ever heard the phrase "you don't ask fish how to catch fish"? Well, that. Ask a woman what she WANTS in a Man, and then look at what kind of men she ACTUALLY fucks. Boths groups seldom overlap. I don't know how women can be so clueless. Most men KNOW what they want in a woman and admit it outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:57 AM
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Yeah, sure, i've seen hot guys openly disrespectful and women throw themselves at them. And every time i point this out they answer "women are not behaviour police". So, that means women want to be respected, but they refuse to do anything to get respect, as if things should just happen by magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:53 AM
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They have a WAY more generous Threshold for fucking it up than average guys. In my experience if you are not attractive, you already "fucked it up" no matter what you do or say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:50 AM
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Bullshit, a woman knows if she's going to be with you on the first 5 seconds of meeting you. The woman that doesn't say yes in 5 seconds, won't say yes in 5 minutes, or 5 hours, or 5 months. Saying a woman can be seduced with kindness is utter blue pill shit. I had WAY too many failures to confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:48 AM
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"right and who looks after you when you're sick and too old to move by yourself?" It's LDAR Time! "nurses. a majority female profession" OF COURSE, and a VERY underappreciated one at that. I can't stress that enough: EVERYONE sing praises to doctors, but nurses are the ones that do all the heavy lifting in a hospital. "don't make me laugh." Yeah, you got me there fair and square, i admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:32 PM
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"women have jobs too" Yes, of course, but, although women are overrepresented in menial labour, MEN are the ones that do the heavy and dangerous jobs. Not to mention men do all the heavy lifting regarding violence (98% of casualties in war are MEN). MEN built civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:03 PM
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Quite the opposite: they want to be with men that don't commit. But they have to be hot. Otherwise, they wouldn't be complaining about "emotionally unavailable" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:47 PM
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Fair point, but that is ANOTHER reason why men are opting out of relationships. We have to deal with A LOT of crap, for an increasingly smaller reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:39 PM
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"name one large society where women aren't punished socially for being sexually active." This one, for starters. Women are celebrated for being promiscuous. Some women are even ashamed of being virgins can you believe that??? Virginity was a premium in a woman, and now they all think like men. "So why are you blaming people for not wanting to do something they know they'll be punished for?" We were talking about "relationship sex" which women seem to frown upon, just to suck a nameless loser's d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:32 PM
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"political lesbians" That made me laugh. "Dykes for Congress!" Anyway, your experience is why many men (myself included) are opting out of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:11 AM
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I actually accept your reasons, that doesn't deny the fact, just explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:06 AM
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That's is exactly why i was saying: Women have LESS desire than men. For a variety of reasons, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:49 PM
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"So, women are frigid for not wanting to experience pain and discomfort?" Oh no no no, PLEASE. I'm not saying that, just pointing out that pain and discomfort does NOT deter gay men from having sex. And many of the comments from women here said that even if the sex was good, they would STILL have to be "in the mood" for it, unlike chocolate. That is why i said that women are frigid (compared to MEN). Sorry if my comment implied something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:47 PM
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I don't object that it takes preparation. But they do it regardless. Gay men have way more sex than heterosexual couples, and some people say that lesbian couples have the LEAST amount of sex (i should check that out).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:42 PM
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"Probably because we are the ones being penetrated and if we aren’t in the mood then it can hurt". Hahahaa don't make me laugh: Gay people have it HARDER (compare a vagina with a butthole) and they fornicate LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW. I'm not condemning you, but women are waaay too frigid, that's why they only accept SUPER hot guys (they are the only ones they find "palatable").
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:10 PM
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That's the problem: why do women have to be "in the mood"??? Men have sex to feel good. Women need to feel good to have sex. Another chapter of "Men and women can't be on the same damn Page".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:15 PM
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I reckon that my words were off putting. I actually AGREE that women don't owe me ANYTHING, and i don't want them to owe me anything, but it bothers me a bit to hear them complaining about immature men, mainly because i was a dickhead, but time and rejections Made me put my crap together. If women were as severe with the hot guys as they were with me, then the hot guys would have become monogamous and decent, either by application of carrot, or by stick. But it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:08 AM
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"Be less angry, dude. Expect less (but don't aim for less), and understand some people are just stupid and leave it at that." Oh no, it's not THAT WAY. I might be VERY disappointed in how women behave, but i DO NOT RESENT THEM. In fact, i want to be with someone attractive too. And even more: i want to be with someone that TRULY likes me, that's why the incel fantasy of going back to the 50´s is pure crap. I don't want a woman that is with me for necessity or obligation. The problem i have, is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:25 PM
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PRECISELY MY DAMN POINT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:15 PM
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That doesn't apply in a hook up culture. Women STILL rate their fuckbuddies higher than their "orbiters". Which would suggest that women (not men) consider friendship a consolation prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:28 PM
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That's the point: they KNOW that i truly respect them as equals and peers, problem is, i do NOT give away my respect to every woman. They have to EARN IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:19 PM
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You nailed it, lady. Thank you for your insight. EDIT: didn't read you were a woman and called you dude, edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:15 PM
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Okay, but that doesn't explain why it's easier to get friendship than sex from a woman. Strange thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:16 PM
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Okay replace that with "getting sex from a woman". Satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:34 PM
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Another point for: "women only like scumbags".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:05 PM
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I admit i chuckled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:02 PM
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"He still has plenty of female friends who would move heaven and earth for him and know that his struggles on that front had nothing to do with his morals". That thing happened to me, and it blows my mind how can a woman would care for me but wont touch me with a 10 ft pole. If women can't be "conquered" with effort then... Why make the effort??? Women are complaining about men becoming immature and lazy, but that is their own doing. They do not appreciate honor, morals or bravery or hard work i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:58 PM
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Then by that logic most women are shitty, since they accept narcissistic toxic types.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:54 PM
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I don't care about that, i only know that ALL the women i liked were with super hot guys. Or millionaires (but that's suspicious).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:53 PM
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Again, their "radar" only works with ugly, clumsy and/or socially awkward guys. Never with narcissistic, toxic, immature types. Even my female coworkers compliment me for my gentlemanly attitude, and every time i have to point out to them that my attitude landed me 0 WOMEN in my entire life. Granted, being a party animal wild card in the past landed me 0 WOMEN too. XXI century is everything about looks AND NOTHING ELSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:51 PM
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Yes, specially considering that every single time i ask women about their exes, EVERY man they dated was an idiot, an abusive asshole or both. It seems their "character radar" only works with ugly dudes. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:52 PM
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Aahh, you were a frat boy. Everything makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:24 AM
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I want to, but i don't want to waste my love in a woman whose body is not "special". Ir would be like buying a diamond and treasure it, only to find later that it was a cheap $1 trinket. I want "High investment / high reward" not "high investment / low reward". I don't want to feel scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:23 AM
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Because being in a relationship entails a lot of effort and shit. A hook up it's free pleasure for the Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:14 AM
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Yeah, i'm SURE dealing with your bullshit, drama, mood changes AND paying your credit cards must be a pleasing experience right? Clown world, he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:12 AM
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Keep believing in unicorns. I wish i could be considered a fuckboy back then, or now. It's like "you are not good enough for this job, so we will pay you the salary without you having to work" Me: "uuuh, okay. Thanks!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:09 AM
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FLASHING NEWS: MEN HATE BEING CONSIDERED INFERIOR TO OTHER MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:03 AM
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So, the fuckboy gets to enjoy your body for FREE and doesn't even have to put effort in pleasing you, while your husband has to make that effort, on top of paying your credit card bills? What a lousy scam some women are running!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:59 AM
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I did, but i'm not good looking so, in the end it doesn't matter if you are a party animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:57 AM
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Oh dear Lord, you must be joking right? "Some of these sweet lovely men either don’t realize that we categorize some of them for “recreational use” the same way they do for us women" Men can't even be possibly used for sex. SEX IS WHAT WE WANT. "OR they don’t understand that it’s a lesser status than being the person we share our lives with" Because the fuckboy gets to enjoy your body for FREE. No strings attached. Your "privilieged" husband gets to deal with your crap and drama FOR THE REST OF …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:55 AM
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Exactly, and it seems only the super duper hot guys are "worth the risk". Welcome to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:49 AM
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So: You have less requirements to give a guys "free sex" than being a relationship with a Man (with all the trouble that entails???). You can ask a Man what would he chose: hook up or marriage? What do you think he would choose??? Do some women actually believe they are men? Your commitment is not a treasure, lady. Your body is the treasure, AND you are supposed to exchange it for commitment. When you give it for free in a hook up, you are basically riping off the poor bastard that marries you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:45 AM
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Yeah, it just happens that women "fuck up" with ELITE MEN, while the losers watch from the sidelines. Until suddenly you "learn what is important in a Man" and start noticing us (translation: i need an idiot that pay the bills). No thx Jeff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:37 AM
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This could be prevented if women actually cared to KNOW a Man before jumping into bed with him. Like 4-6 months waiting period perhaps. We have waiting periods for guns, then why not for sex? But no, "girls just want to have fun" and all that. Which wouldn't be bad if not for the fact that a vast majority of men are labeled "undesirable" by women. Hook up culture ended up being a huge benefit for a tiny percentage of men, while making the rest of us (men and women alike) frustrated and miserable…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:31 AM
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He meant "be good looking". I did all of those things (minus the drugs) and women treated me like SHIT just for not being a male model like my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:21 AM
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Where you living under a rock? "Dick is cheap and of low value" say the feminists. What do you think would happen if i offer sex to a woman? She will laugh at my face IN THE BEST CASE. There is a reason prostitution is a business for men. Feminism caused women to crawl and beg for male validation, but ONLY the hot guy's validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:15 AM
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"I have no problem dumping hot men that give me “the tingles” at the first sign of disrespect" Yeah, provided they are stupid enough to openly disrespect you. Hot guys have to screw up monumentally. Ugly guys don't even have a chance to participate in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:09 AM
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Except that men's sexuality is not a "treasure". Sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive and all that crap. That's precisely the point: women are degrading their sexuality to a man's level. And women still complain about men not commiting. Not much incentive to commit under those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:23 AM
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"Sure, I was a drunk 19 year old and still learning about relationship dynamics with men" WTF does that even mean? Women don't have to learn ANYTHING, attraction is not LEARNED. It's all about the "tingles" with you folks. In fact women are at their PICKIEST between 15-25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:54 AM
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"Meanwhile, my husband gets the passion, high frequency, experimentation, and condomless sex that I would never do with a hookup. That’s the privilege he gets from me being his wife, on top of all of the other life things i do like making him meals, combining finances, vacations and soon we are planning for me to give him the gift him fatherhood" Yeah, but at X1000000000 the price (Time, effort, emotional commitment AND money) tour hookpup país. There's not a way to win this: hot guys get all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:50 AM
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"If the manosphere has done you all wrong in just one way (and it's definitely screwed you all in many ways) it's the idea that you deserve hook ups". I'm sick of this feminist man-hating bullshit. We Men DO NOT think we "deserve" hook UPS. It's called INSTINCT. Even a filthy rat will try to reproduce. It's nature. Men want to fuck women, that's nature. We are not going to neuter that desire, despite how much feminists want to demonize our lust. We are not going away to leave you alone and comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:17 AM
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You would have to bring evidence of misogyny first, instead of feeling oppressed by trivial things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:53 PM
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"Misandry is bad", misandrists come and say "Well, misandry hurts men's feelings, misogyny kills women" SO??? Tell that to the families of men that killed themselves over a false rape accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:52 PM
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Nice flex there, buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:34 PM
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I don't know myself, i was told (and keep hearing from old people) that women can be "earned" by doing the right things: 1) Game for PUA / TRP or 2) Being an accomplished member of the community for the Blue Pill. Al bullshit, either you are hot or not. There is not a damn thing to do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:13 PM
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Aw come on! How many dudes have self steem issues and adicción problems AND still get women? Granted, the only examples that come to my mind are celebrities, but the point remains: confidence without something that "backs it up" Is DELUSION. "Something that backs it up" WITHOUT confidence STILL brings success, if to a Lesser degree. But it gets the job done. Game Is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:05 PM
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That's shifting the goalposts: pay gap Is meant to be "men are paid more for the same job" since that was debunked (like most feminist BS) the changed to what you are saying. Still, i agree you should do the job for him. Men are highly competitive and wouldn't tolerate being under someone inferior. For some reason many women don't have that "shark" mentality. It's something that SHOULD change, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:55 PM
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OF COURSE IT'S UNFAIR but it's not technically "pay gap". Pay gap should be considered all factors equal: company, position, experience, qualifications AND workload. But i understand you point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:30 PM
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If he's your senior, there Is no pay gap. Some people have trouble with the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:22 PM
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A man being used for SEX??? Jajajajajaja damn. Women are deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:38 AM
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True but not always. It depends on how a man matures emotionally. When i was a teenager, i acted like a douche, because that was what the hot guys were doing. Obviously that didn't worked out for me. Yes, hot guys shouldn't have a reason to hate women, but they are no less misogynostic for that, they don't even respect women boundaries that much (just think of your average frat boy) it just happens that 99% of the time, the woman wants the same that the hot player wants. But don't delude yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:23 PM
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I'm not sure if i understand the concept. Who's More likely to abuse? 1) The Super Chad that has women throwing themselves to his crotch 24/7 or 2) The guy that landed a GF by pure chance and knows that it could easily be his only opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:21 PM
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Yes, i agree, but i also agree that the "player" type is actually WORSE, because he has POWER over women. And power corrups people. Take a look at your AVERAGE politician's son: would YOU trust them? I sure wouldn't. The problem is (as always) the maligned "Halo Effect".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:17 PM
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And what do you prove with that? If you can't PROVE the crime, identify a suspect and PROVE guilt BEYOND ANY REASONABLE DOUBT, then too bad. Do you actually want me to make a list of all false rape accusations? Women are too comfortable with the idea of throwing men to jail "just because".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:25 PM
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"Sounds like those men should have chosen better" I dare you to say that to every woman victim of DV. And they claim feminism doesn't hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:07 PM
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Don't give me that bullshit again. Women do not rely on brute force, but they can be every bit as evil and dangerous as a Man Even More so, because they act in insidious ways. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/rajkot/police-detain-four-in-alleged-false-rape-case-leading-to-mans-suicide/articleshow/120970171.cms
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:03 PM
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You gave me a MEDIA report on feminist activism!!! Precisely the point, feminism is actively INFLATING the problem of femicides. I already told you: FOUR TIMES More women die from traffic accidents than femicides, Yet i don't see feminists raging at CARS. https://luchemos.org.ar/es/estadisticas/generales/quienes-como-y-donde-cifras-detalladas-de-siniestros-de-transito-en-argentina-2021 YOU should seek help and stop believing half the damn population is out there to kill/rape you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:26 PM
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See? That's the point: in my country (argentina) over FOUR TIMES More women are killed in traffic accidents than murder. Yet feminism KEEPS complaining about an epidemic of violence against women. Your answer to EVERYTHING Is demonizing men further and further, regardless of whether is justified or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:55 PM
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I fail to understand why a woman (regardless of age) would wan't to be with a young male. Specially if he's a teenager. They are violent, brash, misogynostic, horny, immature, irresponsible and arrogant. I wouldn't Trust anyone with my daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:42 PM
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"Leagues are heavily based on the face" Awww fuck. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:53 PM
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Exactly. And the problem is: one can't change his own face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:43 PM
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But it doesn't make any Sense. A man can be a literal MODEL and be rejected by a 200 pound woman all the same. That's the point of this debate: nobody is arguing to sleep with someone you don't like, but the dynamic of relationships between men and women caused women to have unrealistic standards (while denouncing the "Patriarchy's beauty standards"). I'm 6'0 in shape. No deformities and can't get a date with a decent looking woman to save my life (i stopped trying 10 years ago thought). And yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:39 PM
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"It can help you pay for escorts or sugar babies, that's it." Like hell i'm going to touch a woman that doesn't desire me. I'd rather spare myself the humillation (and save money, while i'm at it).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:58 PM
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Most end up in prison, or a psychiatric ward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:56 PM
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"Pretty sure old men suck" I can agree 100% to this, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:53 PM
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I concede the point. My respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:08 AM
1

Who has the pants in the relationship? If i may ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:04 AM
1

True, money can no longer save ugly guys. It's all Lay Down and Rot now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:01 AM
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Oh come on! Women don't have to BUY anything. For women, it's free sausage forevah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:56 PM
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Yes and i only recently came to that conclusion: Being rejected may suck, but being with a woman that doesn't desire me Is OUT OF THE QUESTION.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:54 PM
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Because modern women suck, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:51 PM
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Tell me you are trolling. How the fuck doing drugs builds character???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:43 PM
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And with good reason. Why buy the cow if you can have the milk for free??? On the other hand, ugly guys can't get the milk not even if their lives depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:39 PM
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If they fall so easily for a fallacy, that means some women are not very smart. Like, NOT AT ALL. That and the fact that women can't stand up to abuse, are proof of women being WEAK and Ineffectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:36 PM
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They are not doing a very good job at filtering out these men. So much for "female intuition".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:27 PM
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"Most don't, women on average have 3-7 lifetime sexual partners" That we know of ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:49 PM
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Yeah, Yet women jump into bed all the fucking time with hot assholes without worrying too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:29 PM
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That doesn't prevent women from consistently sleeping around with hot, immature, narcisistic and Toxic good-for-nothing assholes. Women know that some glasses might be poisoned, Yet they drink them without bothering to double check, because "muh tingles".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:27 PM
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If casual sex is so unfulfilling for women. WHY THE FUCK THEY KEEP DOING IT???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:43 PM
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If paying child support is not the same, okay. Let's allow abortion but charge a hefty fine to any woman that has an abortion. That would be a nice way of "leveling the field". Both end up paying with money, not with their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:00 PM
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"Incorrect" Because you say so? Right... "So what country is this where men are jailed for failing to pay alimony but women aren't?" Argentina. Next question?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:42 PM
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1) There shouldn't be any draft. If women could fight as good as men, they wouldn't complain about domestic violence, you genious. 2) By men. Not the point: somehow Patriarchy is the only oppressive system that kills more "oppressors" than "oppressed" funny that. Women are not the víctims of Patriarchy, they are just collateral damage. 3) And how that goes with men that actually apply for custody? Women are still seen as pure angels. No, you only want to get rid of things that hurt women. Men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:36 PM
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Not in my country (and a lot of others for that matter). And no, there is no invisible forcefield preventing women from entering STEM fields. Women aren't oppressed, they just are too weak willed and cowardly to face challenges and succeed at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:16 PM
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"It's not reproductive rights after the child is born" Aha and tell me: how the child will be borne IF YOU ABORT it first? HOW CONVENIENT FOR WOMEN. I swear, women are irredeemable screw ups of human beings. They can't take responsibility for ANYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:34 PM
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Ah, how very convenient for you. I cannot force a woman to become a mother, yet she can force me to become a fathers. A Man AND a woman have sex. A peegnancy ensues. One can get away from the consecuences and the other can't. You can spin plates ALL you want, but the principle remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:31 PM
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Abortion is not a right: is a privilege for scumbag women that don't wan't to take responsibility for what they did last night. Meanwhile MEN are put in jail in my country for not paying alimony. Feminism NEVER talks about equal RESPONSIBILITIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:11 PM
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Women are not empathetic to men. They claim men are the privileged ones, while in REALITY: https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fexternal-preview.redd.it%2FxuZ_lEfNA1vPZIeeNYDcfFVaQbssxDOolrPTNxonVRs.jpg%3Fwidth%3D1080%26crop%3Dsmart%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D6baec1d0e0aea992842828692050a674c80be061
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:50 PM
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Nah, there are 2 problems with 4th wave feminism: 1) They want equal OUTCOMES not equal opportunities (i.e gender gaps in STEM fields). 2) They want rights and benefits WITHOUT equal RESPONSIBILITIES and DUTIES. I mean, really: are men AND women subject to the same standards??? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:48 PM
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Because feminism EXPECT men to care. See the "He for She" campaign. Like Mohamed Ali Said: "no Viet Cong ever called me nigger". I ain't moving a finger for a group that despises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:51 PM
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Again: what rights do men have that women don't? And please, spare me your rant on abortion: men cannot choose to be a parent or not after conception. Women ALWAYS have it easier yet they complain More.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:48 PM
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Men don't have that right: running away after impregnating a woman Is NOT legal. Yet women never take issue with that. Women always talk about equal rights, never about equal RESPONSIBILITIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:41 PM
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I need to hit the gym, ASAP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/25 03:03 PM
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Don't give me BS. Women can make their own decisions (at least according to the feminists).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/25 02:28 PM
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I gotta love feminist logic: Girls at 16 are mature enough to have an abortion, Yet at 25 they are "young and gullible" enough to fall for "predatory older men".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/25 08:29 PM
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The problem Is that you demand agency without responsibilities. You demand equality and respect without bringing anything to the table ("i am the table" and blah blah blah). "Your issues with dating are not the fault of women". REALLY? Is it not being weak, cowardly, immature and irresponsible the fault of women??? Whose fault Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:14 PM
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Can i take that as a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:12 PM
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With all honestly: What can a woman offer BEYOND her body that justifies a relationship? If i want company or emotional support, i can have a friend, or even a dog. If i want your skills or intelligence i could HIRE you. You Said "be there for him"? But... Will you? How many women can follow their men to hell and back? I appreciate your response, because i came to believe otherwise: women cannot fight for us, or do heavy lifting or ANYTHING remotely useful in a relationship. Even when discussing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:45 PM
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"If the only person you can control is yourself why don’t abusive men control themselves better? It’s actually an ironic statement since abuse is about controlling the other person" BECAUSE THEY DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HURTING PEOPLE. Were you been born Yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:23 PM
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"Of all the disgusting, lying, cheating whores, or the vile, abusive, violent pricks I've known, they didn't come dressed as strippers or in stained wife beaters. They looked like you or me, and hid what they were for years at a time, until it was too late." Aw don't give me that bullshit. Most petty criminals and Junkies are not LVL 99 master manipulators, Yet we all know someone who falls for them. I believe women to be more perverse than men in a sense because men AT least are attracted to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:15 PM
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"What? If you’re enough for a relationship, you are a higher standard than a ons". So, Let me get this straight: The "Lesser" men get to enjoy your body no strings attached, no drama, no problem. The "better" men have to commit to you, support you, be there for you, deal with your baggage and drama and bullshit AND have their credit cards obliterated on your purses and shoes. SOUNDS LIKE A DEAL TO ME. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:31 PM
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Well that depends. Being rejected by women is not a big deal now, in fact they are saving me from having to sleep with someone that doesn't desire me. I would be happier if women could actually learn to take care of themselves and be responsible adults. Baby steps, i suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:24 PM
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IDK, i think that being stronger/fitter really pays off (other men are less likely to piss me off, for example). Not to mention the health improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:06 PM
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Good question, TBH. In my "traditional" mindset, a 5/10 Man Is still better than a 5/10 woman, by virtue of being the MEN the ones that have to provide financially, the ones that have to do all de heavy lifting and the ones that, as a last resort, have to protect their homes. A woman can't do ANYTHING of that. So much for "equality". I understand that things have changed, and a woman would rather not waste Time with a man she doesn't like. And i, for one agree with that. The problem is that, man…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:04 PM
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Yeah, the problem is that getting a 5/10 GF is not what i would call "success". In fact, having to TOUCH a 5/10 woman would suck (at least for me).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:49 PM
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I disagree. Self improvement offers a lot of boons besides getting chicks. For example, during the Covid-19 lockdown, doing home gym was the best. I train to be physically fit, and strong not to be pretty. Sadly, i can't surpass Dwayne Johnson. I seems TO ME that i'm receiving more attention from women, but that may be for other factors. Not that i care (i don't have time to date, either way).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:40 PM
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I don't know myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:43 PM
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Is not enough. Women should stop trusting men altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:31 PM
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I agree with you 100% on that, sister. The problem is that, somehow (some) women are not strong and independent enough and they settle for a poor chump (unaware that he is being settled for) which ends UP in a HORRIBLE relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:29 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:20 PM
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"But if, hypothetically, I was just having sex for enjoyment, it wouldn't be with a guy that works a regular 9-5". Thank you for proving the point of the Red Pill community. Men must be thrilled at the opportunity of dating an Alpha Widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:56 PM
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Nobody complains, but telling me that MEN are the ones with emotional need Is a laughlable projection. We don't have drama, women create it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:50 PM
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"They don't do emotional heavy lifting." Really? When was the last time you acted as a therapyst for a Man? We deal with our crap by ourselves. "Maybe try to talk to women who aren't white". I'd rather die. "If you're not getting your needs met, fine. If you're not getting your epic wants met, most people don't. Tough shit. And no, life "shouldn't " work that way for you. That's pure luck." That i fully agree, just don't complain about men being commitement-phobic or emotionally unavailable or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:48 PM
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Dude, i already realized that life Is not fair, and that NOBODY OWES ME ANYTHING. What bothers me is that society NEVER holds women to the same standards. That's why many ADULT women are pampered and immature. And why feminism Is not making any progress. Equal rights should come with Equal responsibilities. Plain as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:36 PM
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"Finally, have you ever heard the term "stay in your lane?" It is incumbent uopn men to hold other men accountable and see that they "mature and take responsibility for their lives and decisions." There is very little of that in these pilled subs because the "men" here only want to project, obfuscate, and refuse to take personal accountability". The same applies to women, Yet feminists ALWAYS give the same answer: "women are not police, we don't have to do anything ". Women are NEVER held accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:27 PM
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You are just doing what the OP is pointing out. Just pointing out ANY contradiction in a woman Is "incel alert" or "so you were not as nice as you thought". Don't give me that bullshit. I told you, i agree that women should date people they are attracted to. I don't want to settle myself and even i would never accept being settled for. But some women REALLY need to mature and take responsibility for their lives and decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:41 AM
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That's bullshit and you know it. No amount of self improvement will turn you into Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:52 PM
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Yeah. You just forgot to explain that "Creep" Is womanese for "not hot". I'm as respectful to women as a man can be (without even being pratronizing) and yet i get the "ick" treatment. I agree that physical attraction is important, i just resent that "inverse Halo effect" that i suffer Constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:44 PM
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Because other men are COMPETITION. So yes, you SHOULD care. Even some women are honest enough to ask "Why should i pick you instead of another?" IT'S THE SAME in the Animal Kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:34 PM
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That's another load of bullshit. Ted Bundy received love letters WHILE IN PRISON. Women are more perverse than men. We want hot women. They want sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:24 PM
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If that were the case, sex wouldn't be unveliable difficult to archieve. And women wouldn't react so badly at men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:09 PM
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Then why complain about men? Why engage in casual sex with avoidant types? Women keep parroting this "men suck, i don't need men" for DECADES and yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:03 PM
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Maybe it's because in a commited relationship MEN are the ones who do all the heavy lifting (emotionally, financially, and even literally when moving heavy objects). Do you expect me to do ALL THAT for a woman that cannot even give me a boner??? I understand women not wanting to be with someone they are not attracted to. But come on, give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:56 PM
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"But the tingles! I don't feel the tingles". At the end, women are more controlled by their genitalia than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:50 PM
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Nah, women are the one that come with the bullshit and drama in a realtionship. Women are the ones that literally expect their partners to "know what i want and feel all the time".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:45 PM
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Sex Is much more difficult to get (and therefore much more important) for a Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:41 PM
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Not even that. The problem Is that these guys don't tell them to fuck off right off the bar. They first pump and dump them and then kick them to the curb. Good looking assholes slumming it are the responsibles for 6-7 women acting like Brooklyn Decker. I'm 6'0, in shape and i can't get a date to save my life because the women in MY level once hooked up with a súper hot guy and they kept pinning for a chance ("this one slipped, but i was SO CLOSE of getting him to commit, next Time i'll get lucky…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:37 PM
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If a man friendzones you, then either he's gay or you are a mutant. Even overweight women have snatched super hot guys for sex. Women have it incredibly easy at getting men. If they fail, IT'S entirely their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:54 PM
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Darling, 80%-90% of men are unnatractive (at least according to women) so no, it doesn't go without saying. Women are the ones with unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:11 PM
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Not All Heroes Wear Capes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/24 05:10 PM
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No, there not. In my country (argentina) a lot of fuss is made against violence against women. And yet a woman is 4 times more likely to die in a traffic accident. Is called LOGIC, is not that difficult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/24 10:46 PM
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