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7

“Shall I compare thee to a summers day, thou art more lovely-jubbly and more temperate” that’s what a high a value man would say.
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:17 PM
2

I totally agree with you, hold off if you have bad mojo
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:30 PM
2

Yeah I’m too eager to get back. Thank you for that
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:29 PM
2

Thank you I appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:29 PM
3

Thanks man I appreciate that
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:02 PM
1

I’ve never used numbers because it seems superficial. I either like her or I don’t.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:37 PM
2

Men are goal orientated, Women are socially orientated Because there’s high levels of emotional connection in groups of Women, when they are around Men they don’t feel the same level of emotional intensity. Hence why they start acting up. Women crave emotion like Men need oxygen to breathe. It’s just in their nature.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:40 AM
1

Agreed. My female friend is fucking lousy at conversation over text. It’ll usually go like this; Her: Wuu2 Me: just started watching love death and robots, it’s an animation I think you’d really enjoy it. Wuu2? Her: just chilling on my bed To me that conversation is over but she wants me to keep on talking even though she’s given me nothing to work with.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:17 AM
2

One ‘ha’ means she’s not into you Two ‘haha’s means she likes you as a friend Three ‘hahaha’s means she likes you Four ‘hahahaha’s means she wants you
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:05 AM
1

Just look at what the mannequins are wearing in the clothes shop and then add your own style to it. For grooming go to a barbers
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:57 PM
3

It’s not a shit test she’s just crazy
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:43 PM
3

Yeah seriously. She’s playing mind games with you. Once she knows you’re into her, it’s game over and she can control your emotions. She’s manipulative.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:18 PM
9

My advice to you is run like the wind before you catch feelings for her. Seriously. She’s the type of girl that when she finds out you like her, she’ll loose interest and try to make you jealous whenever possible. You really don’t need that in your life.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:07 PM
3

You’ll be aware of how not to fuck up the next time (in general)
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:57 PM
14

At least you’re aware of how you fucked up
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:30 PM
11

Don’t lay all your eggs in one basket. If she does it again just move on.
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:04 PM
2

I get the feeling this is a circlejerk thing
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:57 PM
1

The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion, it’s not a pickup book but i do recommend it (it is related to Women and seduction).
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:57 PM
6

How are you dating someone if you’ve yet to meet them? (visible confusion)
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:39 PM
3

You’re only going to attract gold diggers if your using your car and money to attract a Woman
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:12 PM
3

Facebook. Phone number is more personal (until you get to know her etc)
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:52 PM
2

Why are Women so shy though. Like sometimes it can be frustrating
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:36 PM
2

Agreed. Incel mentality is the same as femcel mentality. Both complain about the opposite sex without trying to improve themselves.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:28 PM
192

Being friendly? Just because I’m not attracted to said person doesn’t mean they don’t deserve respect. If a Woman treated you like shit because she’s not into you I’m sure you’d have a problem.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:24 PM
1

Then just assume she’s into you
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:58 PM
17

Whether you believe it or not Women are very aware of the energy you’re projecting. For a Woman to ask you to vibe with her basically means you’re giving out good energy and she wants to be around that. It’s a good compliment. I’m aware it sounds woo-woo, but Women really respond to it. This is why meditation can be a game changer for some people (like myself). The more aware you are of what you’re projecting outwards (angry, confident, sexual, shy etc), the more you’re dating life can improve. …
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:47 AM
8

No you'll never beat face-to-face. OLD is kinda lazy imo. It just boils down to what you feel comfortable with.
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:25 PM
2

I'm honestly not sure. Some days I feel handsome and other days I feel like Gollum. It just depends how I feel when I wake up.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:13 PM
1

Agreed. Women are bad at handling rejection.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:58 PM
3

It'll only get worse too. Save yourself months of stress and move on. You really don't need that in your life regardless of how attractive she is. It ain't worth it chief. She's a walking red flag. A Woman at work found out I liked her. It was fine for a while but I eventually stopped having feelings for her because of the mind games and now she takes every opportunity to try to make me jealous. Luckily she's moving shortly. Some Women are just manipulative and vindictive.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:56 PM
1

This might sound stupid but just because I think a Woman is beautiful doesn't necessarily mean I feel attraction towards her.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:48 PM
3

I'm happy for you
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:37 PM
2

This is the correct response
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:56 PM
11

That's not how it works, Son
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:36 PM
5

It’s not what you say, but how you say it that matters. Is there passion in your voice, is there boredom, is there shyness, is there confidence. It matters
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:18 PM
2

I think it means there’s more of a ‘hook up’ culture than there is dating. People want the sex without strings attached. I don’t know if it’s true.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:12 PM
4

Remember, how people treat others is a reflection of their inner state.
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:42 PM
2

Agreed. I’ll probs get downvoted but it’s better to approach Women you’re interested in rather than just for the sake of approaching. Women can tell when you’re not being authentic.
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:34 PM
2

They want to feel your passion. It’s not what you say, but how you say it that matters. You could be talking about the sexiest thing ever in a monotone voice and it’ll bore the fuck out of her, or you could be talking passionately about space and it’ll captivate her. Passion is infectious
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:31 PM
2

Just curious but how tall are you?
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:18 PM
9

Confidence. If you're insecure about your height she's going to sense it. You can't change your height so stop overthinking it.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:17 PM
1

What's with the incel mindset on this sub all of a sudden
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:16 PM
7

Guys won't like the simplicity on this sub. They prefer an overcomplicated thesis on how to pickup Women. Great post btw. Too many guys overcomplicate and wonder why they get nowhere with Women.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:15 PM
1

Agreed well said
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:33 PM
37

Yeah cold approach isn't for everyone, just like night game isn't for everyone. You've just gotta find the one that suits YOU the most.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:30 PM
0

Would probably work on Amber Heard then
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:06 PM
5

If you don't view yourself in a sexual way you're cockblocking yourself when it comes to Women. I don't mean become narcissistic, but just own your masculinity. You're a Man, she's a Woman. It only becomes creepy if you get awkward about projecting it, or if you can't take a hint that she's not interested. Be confident in your sexuality.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:04 PM
1

Well said. I've always been skeptical of Mystery as he relied way too heavily on dressing like a gimp to get attention from Women (drunk Women might I add). It's very low value behavior (the same with negging). Confidence comes from within, not without.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:55 PM
5

I’m not OP, but as a guy I’m the same. As soon as a Woman starts playing games I mirror the energy and move on. Some Women don’t like that and become very petty and immature.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:48 PM
1

What do YOU think?
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:11 PM
2

Hitting the gym won't automatically make you better at talking to Women.
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:52 PM
2

Yeah I do, do you?
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:21 AM
2

Why has this sub turned so pessimistic
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:31 PM
2

I don’t know why you’ve been downvoted because it’s true. As Zan Perrion said, Woman can tell when they are in the presence of a guy who really loves Women (seen as though OP thinks he’s an incel he’ll be giving off bad vibes).
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:20 PM
3

I went to a gig yesterday and there was a Woman who wasn't conventionally attractive but the way she carried herself and the way she danced to the music, she just oozed sex appeal.
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:11 AM
2

Agreed. That’s what I meant to say. Random Women have called me gay a few times and I now realise it’s not because I give off a gay vibe but because they were attracted to me and I didn’t show interest.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:06 AM
2

Because it doesn't happen as often as Women make it out too, because it makes them appear to have high SMV and makes other Women jealous.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:54 AM
5

Also if you're projecting confidence and don't act interested because you're shy etc, she'll assume you're gay. Women want to be desired.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:52 PM
28

I'm white so maybe I'm just accustomed to it but I don't find White Women to be difficult. Yeah Black Women and Latino Women are more openly sexual, but with white Women it's more of a flirtatious dance.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:11 PM
7

If you’re projecting that sexual vibe Women will pick up on it. This is the beauty of non-verbal communication.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:43 PM
33

Straight away but don't be a sleazeball about it. Otherwise if you don't show interest it won't lead to another date as she won't feel chemistry. Bitches love Chemistry.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:30 PM
1

It means you didn’t make it kitty growl
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:03 PM
6

Women are indirect so its very rare they would be bold enough to stare at you. If you see a Woman you like the best thing to do is look her in the eyes and smile warmly at her. Just don't stare because it can be intimidating for Women. Considering Women are very discreet when checking out a guy, you might notice when you look up you'll see a Woman looking at you and quickly looking away making it look very obvious she was checking you out. She did that on purpose. Smile and approach. Women want …
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:40 PM
2

I've only just started it myself but from what I've heard everyone raves about it, including Women.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:05 PM
8

Also cut off porn. It’ll help you a lot.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:02 AM
5

If you’re showing off your money you’re only going to attract superficial gold diggers
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:43 AM
5

. Alabaster girl by Zan Perrion . Seventy-Four Women by Christian Barnett . Carlo, a modern day Don Juan by Andres Ambriz
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:41 AM
1

You can still go out and not drink. You don’t need alcohol to have a good time.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:35 AM
1

40 per month? WTF!
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:10 AM
2

That’s your opinion but this is my experience with Women
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:00 PM
112

. Women are far more in-tune with Men, than Men are with Women. This is why meditation CAN be a game changer for Men. Become aware of what you’re projecting outwards, Women WILL pickup on it. It’s not mumbo jumbo. . Women are far more sexual than Men are, but they have to feel comfortable around you for you to see it. . If you’re projecting confidence Women will naturally test you (they might ignore you or act disinterested to see how you react. Sometimes it’s projection as well). . Seen as thou…
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:37 PM
4

Just ordered it thank you
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:15 PM
5

What’s with the incel attitude on this sub
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:10 PM
1

I don’t think it’s as black and white as that though. I’ve been to a few house parties and there always seem to be women who totally ignored me. Naturally I wouldn’t approach. When I’ve left they’ve always asked my friend if I’m gay because I didn’t go up and flirt with them. I like Women don’t get me wrong but they can be weird as fuck sometimes.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:59 PM
1

I totally understand how you feel (making you feel depressed). I know there’s nothing I can do about it now so I just accept it.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:53 PM
1

Pick up lines might have worked in the 90s but not in today’s society.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:47 PM
7

Maybe you’re holding it wrong
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:43 PM
5

For me the most useful advice has been from . Zan Perrion (he’s released a book called The Alabaster Girl and whilst it’s not gaming material it’s a very good read) . The Fearless Man . Chris Bale . Rom Wills There’s no PUA crap, it’s just about being authentic
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:38 PM
0

Looks matter to a degree, yeah. Confidence and attitude are just as important though. I've always wondered why i get more attention from Women when I'm not at work, compared to when I am at work. And it's because when I'm not at work I feel confident in myself, I feel handsome. I can get into 'the zone' sort of speak. I can be myself. At work I'm miserable, I don't have much confidence in myself and I'm ready to leave. I must give off bad vibes.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:12 PM
1

Agreed with this. Some days I feel confident and other days my low self-esteem gets the better of me.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:58 PM
2

I do still get the occasional anxiety attack but weirdly it's mostly at work. When I'm not at work I'm a different person. Thanks for asking.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:46 PM
45

I used to suffer from anxiety attacks a lot so I definitely agree with number 7. Women are much more in-tune with Men, than Men are with Women. They can literally look at you and know how you’re feeling. It sounds a bit woo-woo but your vibes speak louder than words. You might be the most charismatic person in the room, but if your energy is off she’s going to go with her gut feeling.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:54 PM
1

It started off well but got repetitious and the ending was predictable. I’d give it a 2/10.
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:46 PM
36

You need therapy my browski
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:07 PM
1

You're too Feminine. Be masculine.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:18 PM
2

It's ironic you don't like prudes because you sound like one. Everyone has preferences and that's fine but I don't see the point in this post other than just slagging random Women off who I assume aren't into you.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:21 PM
2

I don't recommend r/femaledatingstrategy it's full of misandrist femcels that weirdly still want to date Men.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:14 PM
2

It’s a shame this doesn’t have more views because it’s true.
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:13 PM
5

“These Bitches be trippin” - Abraham Lincoln
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:31 PM
1

I think it just depends on the guy really. Some guys show way too much interest, whilst others don’t show enough. If you approach a Woman whilst looking miserable and robotic showing disinterest, she’s obviously going to think it’s weird and creepy. For me, showing interest works more than showing disinterest does.
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:22 PM
7

I’m 9 days away from 5 months 🙌
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:52 AM
11

I’m doing it to go dating so I don’t know why that would be considered immoral.
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:51 AM
1

Game does work but I have to be in the zone for it to work
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:13 AM
1

Hell no.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:46 PM
3

Maybe you like a daddy figure
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:34 PM
6

“Those leggings are really flattering, they really bring out your CT”
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:16 PM
3

Well if it works then I applaud you haha
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:44 PM
1

This sub has definitely gone down hill that’s for sure
/r/seduction03/06/22 07:59 AM
1

I bet she showers naked too
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:58 PM
9

It just seems kinda bitter to reject someone purely because someone else rejected you. You're supposed to enjoy talking to Women.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:57 PM
8

Love listening to Alan Watts on YouTube
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:42 PM
1

Yeah probably 👍
/r/seduction01/06/22 08:00 PM
1

Where in OPs post did he mention about having a phobia?
/r/seduction01/06/22 07:24 PM
1

Is this a joke? I feel like it is lol
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:38 PM
220

This is why I don't approach Women when I'm not in the mood because I know I'll give off a bad vibe.
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:39 PM
1

Coffee shops are a good place because people are relaxed and minding their own business.
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:38 PM
3

Please don't delete. If I had money I'd give you an award
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:37 PM
1

Yeah but the majority of Women are old
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:37 PM
3

Sam from Cheers
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:35 PM
2

This is an unpopular opinion but don’t force yourself to go out if you aren’t in the mood. I don’t approach Women if I’m not in the mood because I know the interaction will be bad. If you aren’t having fun, they aren’t either. If you do want to go out then 1). Have a good nights sleep 2). Limit yourself on alcohol, prob best sticking to water or cola etc 3). Hype yourself up, give yourself a good prep talk and use affirmations 4). Enjoy yourself and don’t take yourself seriously
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:35 PM
0

Having “drip” won’t automatically make you better at talking to Women. I’m sceptical of PUA’s, particularly Mystery because he relied heavily on dressing up as a gimp to get attention from Women who were pretty much drunk anyway. If you rely on your clothing then you need to step-up your innergame. Confidence comes from within, not without
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:17 PM
3

Yes I'm aware
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:46 PM
2

Is the lifestyle challenge any good?
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:01 PM
38

If she does it to him, she’ll do it to you
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:00 PM
3

I’d imagine Women who are wearing headphones don’t want to be disturbed (especially when in the middle of a set)
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:17 PM
9

Women are a lot more in-tune with people than guys typically are. If you’re projecting sexual vibes towards Men you’re interested in and showing disinterest towards Women, they will naturally pick up on it.
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:52 PM
8

Firstly why would you want to date someone like that. She’s a massive red flag. Secondly he’s got masculine presence. He knows he’s a man and he acts like one.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:55 AM
6

You’re not wrong
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:55 PM
30

I think she's saying she likes black guys
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:11 PM
1

I'll watch you watching this thread 🧵
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:06 PM
5

I hate how shallow this sub can be sometimes
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:05 PM
43

Has happened to me a few times at different house parties. Some Women have ignored me and then when I've left they've asked my best friend if I'm gay because I didn't approach or flirt. Like from my point of view it looked like she didn't want to be disturbed, but ya'know 💁
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:00 PM
4

Are you from The Netherlands? The land of giants haha
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:53 PM
2

Unless you're doing something weird if you notice Women looking at you you're most likely attractive.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:49 PM
0

How handsome are you or are you just confident af?
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:53 AM
55

Agreed. I've always wondered why I get more attention from Women when I'm not working compared to when I am and it's all down to different mindsets and attitudes. When I'm not at work I feel really confident within myself, I feel like a snack. I'm nice and relaxed and happy. I have good vibes. At work I hate it there, I've had enough. I'm miserable and don't get enough sleep. I give off bad vibes.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:46 AM
4

Cafe’s are also good
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:30 PM
7

Not to sound narcissistic but I'm handsome but my confidence is low because of upbringing
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:00 PM
1

Ah that's fair enough
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:24 PM
80

Considering how much Women typically want sex it’s ironic they call Men pigs for wanting it too
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:49 PM
5

You're too stuck in your head bro. Feel the music. The majority of people on the dancefloor are too drunk to notice what other people are doing. Everyone is out to have a good time. You're putting so much pressure on yourself. Just copy what the guys are doing next to you. You'll find the majority can't dance. Don't take yourself seriously.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:28 PM
1

You probably don't have a weak jawline as you'd know.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:37 PM
4

She slurped my soul out, d'ya think she likes me or is she just teasing. Jesus some guys are clueless lol
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:59 PM
11

If she's avoiding you it's time to move on 100%. I liked a Woman at work but she always seems to have a problem with me. She's got guys wrapped around her fingers and because I'm not simping over her she doesn't like it.
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:17 PM
1

Why would you be on hinge if you have a family
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:53 PM
1

Probably because they lost interest as they think you aren’t interested from the wait in replies.
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:49 PM
23

Thats because a lot of guys on here are too analytical and don't understand Women
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:28 PM
6

What do you mean by sexually non-selective?
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:26 PM
39

Please mark this handholding as NSFW
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:21 PM
36

Dude Women really aren't that complicated
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:20 PM
1

Maybe you come off as a bit of a sleazeball. Yeah Women want sex just as much as Men but they want to be romanced and not treated like an object.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:06 PM
3

Seeing your post history it seems that you have a fascination with male genitalia as that's all you talk about. Maybe you're projecting.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:00 PM
1

Meh it depends on your mindset if you’re pessimistic it won’t work
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:15 AM
2

Men and Women communicate very differently. You’re trying to get her number from what I assume is “game theory”. The problem with that is Women aren’t logical like us Men are, they act on emotion. Whilst you’re trying to memorise what goes next she can’t connect with you because you aren’t present with her. You’re stuck in your head. She can’t feel your masculine presence. A lot of seduction is non-verbal. The way you carry yourself and how you project yourself. This is why tonality and eye-cont…
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:49 PM
186

It’s probably because you’re too analytical and stuck in your head
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:23 PM
4

It didn’t. He’s just highly sensitive and can’t take a joke.
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:11 PM
2

I’d be putt off but that’s just me. Maybe she needs more iron in her diet
/r/seduction13/05/22 05:42 PM
5

It's when a Woman tests your confidence to see if you can handle her
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:22 PM
9

You don't understand Women. Of course Women want to get laid but they want to be romanced first so they don't feel like a slut.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:51 PM
2

What about un-remotely?
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:39 PM
7

Sorry forgot to reply. I love Women but they can be weird af sometimes. Like for example (it’s happened a few times before) say I’m at a house party, there will be a Woman who totally blanks me and acts disinterested (so based on that body language I will leave her alone). Whenever I’ve left they’ve always asked my friend if I’m gay because I didn’t approach. Just because she doesn’t show any interest doesn’t mean she isn’t interested. She’s probably too nervous from fear of rejection or just wa…
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:22 PM
17

Women will assume you’re gay. Not hating I’m just saying how it is.
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:29 PM
35

Yeah it happened a few times but Women aren’t as direct like Men so you might not have realised
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:18 PM
2

Pretend that your friend is in the background watching (but don’t imagine anything weird)
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:34 PM
6

Or just say “Those leggings really bring out your cameltoe”
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:56 PM
1

Yeah I’m working on myself 100%. Just started going to the gym, going to start rock climbing soon and I’m trying to go out with friends to bars as much as possible.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:48 PM
3

All the PUAs have the same material because it's a giant scam designed to overcomplicate a simple interaction between a Man and a Woman. The only thing you really need to learn is inner game. When you start to love yourself, relationships with people naturally improve. Unpopular opinion - I believe porn is the problem as to why many guys have such a hard time talking to Women. They spend their days jerking off feeling emasculated and unmotivated to talk to the beautiful Woman.
/r/seduction23/04/22 01:16 PM
1

You ok there buddy?
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:35 PM
2

You really want to destroy a relationship over some Woman. Dude there's literally billions out there. If she does it with you, she'll do it too you.
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:35 PM
25

I know How I Met Your Mother isn't real, but you have a whiney simp called Ted, he's a cringy hopeless romantic, and you have ladies Man who loves Women and just wants to get laid called Barney. TED is a bit awkward with Women whilst Barney is confident.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:00 PM
2

I said red flags
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:43 PM
2

If she has commitment issues and has a lot of Male friends, those are definitely red flags. If I were you I'd move on before you get too invested in her.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:25 PM
14

“Those yoga shorts really bring out your cameltoe”
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:53 PM
3

This is what confuses me. It seems really counterintuitive to approach a Woman only to act slightly disinterested.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:48 PM
0

Well said. It's all about your vibe and what you're projecting.
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:24 PM
2

Are you just naming the first ingredients that come into your head?
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:15 PM
1

Is this a joke? You have zero game that’s why. You’re relying way too much on your profession and car which makes you come off as insecure and arrogant. If you do attract a Woman that way, you’re only going to get the wrong type of woman, a gold digger. You need to build an emotional connection with Women
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:34 PM
1

Haha yeah exactly!
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:20 PM
6

Cameltoe
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:10 PM
5

Those gymshorts really bring out your CT
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:19 PM
225

Not at all. Working on yourself is the highest form of self love.
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:16 PM
4

Nothing good can come from having oneitis. You're putting all your eggs into one basket and it'll eventually make you needy and desperate for her affection and she can smell it a mile away. If she's a bitch she will use it against you. The more Women you talk too, the more your confidence increases and you'll gain an abundance mindset with Women. Whilst you're only talking to one Woman she's talking to multiple guys and wanting to slurp their soul out. You have the disadvantage.
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:25 PM
1

Maybe lower your standards lol
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:21 PM
4

You're wasting your time saying hi. The music is loud, the last thing they want to do is talk. Just dance but you have to own it and don't take yourself seriously.
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:42 PM
5

The way I see it is, Women are emotionally reactive and are creatures of the present. If she rejects you (unless you're acting like a weirdo or can't read body language) you aren't the problem. Maybe she's just having a bad day or she's just not in the mood to talk etc. I know when I've had a crappy day the last thing I want to do is talk to a Woman sending IOIs.
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:02 PM
3

I think there's far less pressure on yourself if you do it alone
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:24 AM
3

I follow a guy on TikTok who goes out every weekend by himself and only drinks coke. He doesn't go out for the sole purpose of meeting Women but to have a good time.
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:21 AM
4

It effects everyone differently as everyone's genetic makeup and bodies are different. It's like how some people have a high tolerance to caffeine whilst others can only drink a small amount and they will be depressed or anxious.
/r/seduction27/03/22 09:20 AM
3

People who call themselves alpha are cringy as fuck
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:52 AM
1

You waited far too long. Initially she was probably interested as she gave you her number but you acted more like a friend than a romantic interest.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:18 PM
6

You’re not alone lol, you’re not alone.
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:26 PM
1

What do you mean never take a woman at face value and let her emotions dictate how you react?
/r/seduction21/03/22 11:02 PM
2

Simple advice but it’s tough at times, when you get an urge rather than masturbating or watching porn distract yourself. I usually meditate. Realise it’s just a feeling and it will pass. Anyone can do it you need to change your mindset and attitude.
/r/seduction21/03/22 12:36 AM
1

That reminded me of this guy lol https://youtu.be/B_86DuIkYIs
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:09 PM
0

Let’s agree to disagree
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:03 PM
1

You’ll feel miles better for it 👏
/r/seduction20/03/22 09:21 PM
53

I know I'll get downvoted to hell but I believe porn is the problem. Too many guys are spending their days jacking off which makes them loose desire and motivation to do anything. I know when I was addicted my confidence was at the bottom of the barrel. Lonely Guys seem to be trying to buy love and attention from Women and it ain't the way to go.
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:13 AM
2

What has she done to disrespect you?
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:31 AM
1

They are leaving their scent
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:27 AM
5

Have you been to see a therapist? Maybe that'll help with an unresolved issue.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:39 PM
1

Exactly. The Women are only with him for his money.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:37 PM
10

What I've noticed with groups of Women is - if all of them are getting attention (in general) they will be happy and approachable, if one of the girls isn't getting enough attention then she'll be a moody mare and she'll make it difficult to anyone who approaches (also she'll cockblock her friends).
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:34 PM
5

It's because I gave him a 'starry' award. This award gives the comment a red box because I think the information is useful.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:29 AM
40

Please don’t delete it. I really needed to hear this today, thank you 🙏
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:52 PM
21

Unless you're doing something weird, if you catch a Woman staring it's most likely intentional. Women are very subtle when it comes to checking a guy out.
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:34 PM
3

She might have an infection
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:28 PM
2

Numbering yourself is self-sabotage as your setting limitations in your confidence and self-esteem. It's always incels that complain the most about looks.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:47 PM
3

Relax your facial muscles, close your lips and smile with your eyes. The eyes are very powerful, people forget that.
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:08 AM
2

Women seem to like ‘Semen Demon’
/r/seduction02/03/22 12:51 AM
1

I know you said they give you glances but how do they act around you before you approach?
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:43 PM
397

I'm glad you're not a pilot because those where clear signals.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:13 PM
45

Ma’am the energy you radiate is making my genitalia scream
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:47 AM
6

Yes this is what SMV means 👍
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:51 AM
1

I've never read that one before. Would you reccomend it?
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:12 AM
20

I’m still surprised seeing Women on this sub asking for help. I always thought flirting was second nature to Women.
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:50 PM
59

Because you wish to be them
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:01 PM
2

Maybe you're too focus on what the book says rather than being in the moment and going with the flow
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:04 PM
38

Women tend to be shy around Guys they like
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:07 PM
1

If you want to be approachable, smile and give eye contact. Look like you’re having a great time and don’t take yourself seriously. Women are far more likely to approach you if they are drunk or if they can sense you’re into them. They probably won’t be direct like us guys are, maybe she’ll bump into you by “mistake” and then it’s up to you to start the convo.
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:17 PM
2

Because you want to date her? It’s not rocket science lad
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:12 PM
5

Agreed. I know someone who is a bit of a Female neckbeard. She doesn’t look after herself and she’s quite obese. Every month at some point I always get an earful from her saying that guys don’t like her and that she isn’t going to change herself to suit a Man. She’d rather be lonely and lazy than put in any effort to improve herself. Some people just like to feel like they are victims of circumstance.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:53 PM
3

You’re overcomplicating it. Women are far more in-tune with Men, than Men are with Women. With that being said Women will pickup on your vibes. If you feel sexy and feel desire towards her, she will feel it (obviously if she’s not into you, move on). Women are far more intuitional than Men are. For some reason this community tends to overcomplicate Women.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:38 PM
1

And don't forget to hit the bell 👉 🔔
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:41 PM
15

Ma'am your booty has me mesmerized like a snake charmer
/r/seduction14/01/22 11:21 PM
1

Don't know if it's because I understand Women more now, but I've definitely had more success now than I did when I was younger.
/r/seduction13/01/22 01:26 PM
6

Totally agree with you. The good thing about Niche colognes is that not everyone is wearing them so you'll stand out of the crowd. Paying more for your cologne does go a long way. Also if you live in the UK I highly reccomend trying www.fragrancesamplesuk.com I've bought tons of niche cologne samples from there. This way you aren't blind buying. If you do purchase any samples I reccomend trying African Leather by Memo.
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:23 PM
10

Brilliant post thank you. Have a nice Christmas!
/r/seduction25/12/21 02:56 PM
2

Women LOVE talking about the Civil War
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:36 AM
2

She expected you to simp over her
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:43 PM
2

Ah right I get ya, thank you.
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:16 PM
2

When you say you're attracted to a certain type of energy what do you mean? You can feel a guys energy?
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:06 PM
1

I thought it was the opposite really, well that's how movies portray Russian Women - strong and masculine (I don't mean looking butch).
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:04 PM
2

Let's be real. He only go attention from Women (who where drunk) because he dressed like a gimp in a nightclub.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:06 PM
3

The thing with English Women is you’ve gotta act a certain way around them. I think it’s why Americans find it tough because they are typically friendly (and English folk are sarcastic and blunt which may come off as unfriendly if you aren’t used to it). At the end of the day it literally just boils down to confidence and how you project it.
/r/seduction18/12/21 01:05 AM
3

You can, you just need the right mindset 😁
/r/seduction17/12/21 06:58 PM
2

I think it's because they want you to know they are looking at you. I've had it happen before. I think it's kinda cute.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:53 PM
1

I did that too lol oh well at least we learn
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:59 AM
2

I totally agree with you. I’ve always been skeptical of Mystery. He only got attention from Women in nightclubs because he dressed so unusually like a gimp.
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:54 AM
3

But aren’t Yoga thots really obnoxious though?
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:44 AM
14

I doubt it’s to do with the pandemic and more that the price of living in NYC has soared ridiculously
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:41 AM
8

Soulsnatcher3000
/r/seduction20/11/21 09:59 PM
6

It's just another word for making you feel guilty
/r/seduction16/11/21 07:05 PM
17

You could just say i don't see it working out. Women would rather you be straight up with them anyway. The problem with single mothers is that they typically want to settle down and have long term commitment relationships. If you're not looking for anything serious don't let it get to the point where she makes you feel like a father figure towards her children, otherwise she'll use them against you to guilt trip you when you want to end the relationship.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:29 PM
3

When I start getting jolly that's when I stop (maybe 2 beers). This way you aren't coming off as a guy who can't hold his drink and you're still able to make fun conversation.
/r/seduction12/11/21 08:33 PM
3

Please don’t delete this it’s really helpful!
/r/seduction09/11/21 09:15 PM
1

Please don't delete this comment it's brilliant
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:42 PM
2

I love Women too. The world would be such a boring place without them.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:04 PM
1

Jesus the internet has ruined me. CBT (cock and ball torture).
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:14 PM
7

Hello m’lady (tip fedora and bow) that’ll make her knees weak!
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:36 PM
41

Women are more intuitional than Men are, so if you’re projecting a sexual vibe she will pick up on it. But you have to own it and not be hesitant about it.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:56 PM
6

It's entirely up to you, it's not a deal breaker if you don't respond to her story. Maybe she's waiting until she feels better to make another date. If she wasn't interested she wouldn't have liked your message. She did respond to your message flirtatiously asking where her coffee is. So just take her lack of word response with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:29 PM
38

You're thinking too deeply into it. When she asked where is her coffee you could have teased her.
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:17 PM
6

It's both innergame and the fact that you're too attached to the outcome. If you just approach her with the thought of just having a good conversation, you'll put less pressure on yourself. You'll find things go better than you expect. Then you ask for her number when it's going well.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:19 PM
4

It's frustrating you've not given any additional info. Have you been on a date? Do you see her often? Did you just walk up to her and get her number and now she's not as invested?
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:11 PM
18

It's her mating dance, she's trying to lure you in with those hypnotic booty moves.
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:10 PM
22

If she's twerking on you she's the one invading your personal space. Don't overthink it and grab her hips and grind. She wouldn't get that close to you if she didn't like you. Trust me.
/r/seduction23/10/21 01:10 PM
2

Game is just understanding how to flirt with Women. The majority of PUA stuff is just fluff. The important stuff is innergame as things flow naturally when you're comfortable within yourself..
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:16 PM
2

Negging is for people who feel inferior about themselves. I've always been skeptical of Mystery. The only reason he got attention from Women (who are drunk i might add) is because he dressed like a gimp, not because of his game or presence.
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:17 PM
15

I think Women know how oblivious some guys are (hence why you always hear them calling Men stupid and simple). We know they flirt indirectly but it must be frustrating at times, but then again it's not like their putting their egos on the line.
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:49 PM
1

I know it’s irrelevant but it’s hard to flirt with someone that acts innocent. Do you just imagine they’re a semen demon behind closed doors?
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:55 PM
1

He’s avoiding your eyes but he obviously likes you. Just curious but what does sexual tension feel like to you?
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:06 PM
1

Make it fun for yourself and naturally people will enjoy being around you.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:29 PM
2

He likes you and is embarrassed about it so he looked down to avoid your eyes. Maybe he has a foot fetish too.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:17 PM
1

Maybe I'm one of a few guys who thinks this but I think if they act too innocent it kills the desire.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:12 PM
9

If a Woman’s got a lot of guy friends she’s a flirtatious type. If you want to have sex then go for it but at the same time still talk to multiple Women because there’s nothing worse than getting oneitis.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:34 PM
5

I know you asked for a Woman but I usually don’t approach someone if they have their arms crossed. I can tell they are not in the mood 😂
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:05 PM
1

I highly recommend The Fearless Man
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:28 PM
6

The thing is the people in USA and Canada are quite friendly (in general) where as the UK people are more stand-off(ish) and sarcastic. This can be a surprise for foreigners, but if you're born here you don't know any different. You just gotta know how to talk and act around them.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:22 PM
1

You do realise the majority of PUA stuff is just fluff, right? The only good information is about inner-game, everything else follows from there.
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:19 AM
2

Is the Author Pierre Alex Jeanty?
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:00 AM
3

This 💯. If you're fapping daily your confidence is going to be in the gutter.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:57 PM
1

Maybe you're giving off a desperate needy vibe (I don't know you so I have no idea), Women can sense that shit a mile away. Rather than trying to find love, why not just be happy being around Women and let things happen naturally that way.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:54 PM
3

Being distant only works for a bit but after a while you're just going to push her away when she realizes what you're doing. Women aren't stupid.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:09 PM
2

What’s the book called?
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:45 PM
2

Because shyness is seen as submissive behaviour which is Feminine.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:58 PM
5

Us Men do that too though to a certain degree
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:52 PM
2

Women like chest hair?
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:49 PM
1

I'm guessing you have a porn addiction?
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:32 PM
2

Will it be on Amazon?
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:46 PM
3

😂
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:19 PM
9

I’m not saying this subs perfect, I know sometimes it can be toxic but the majority of guys here genuinely love Women and want to succeed with them. It’s not about playing games but trying to understand how to make a connection.
/r/seduction08/10/21 09:32 PM
17

Female Dating Strategy is the most toxic dating sub there is. It’s full of femcel misandrists that still weirdly want to date Men. I’m not surprised it’s been quarantined. Do yourself and your mental health a favour and get away from that toxic sub.
/r/seduction08/10/21 08:54 PM
24

This is why I think confident Women are a breath of fresh air, though sadly they are a rarity.
/r/seduction07/10/21 03:04 PM
3

I'm on it now (day 24) and relationships with people have totally changed. Women can sense something within you.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:16 PM
62

I love Women. They're so mysterious and yet so batshit crazy.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:02 PM
2

I appreciate this post please don't delete
/r/seduction04/10/21 05:02 PM
116

You said in your other post that you have no game and that you assume Women won’t like you. That’s the problem. You don’t have self belief. You think you’ve already failed before you’ve even approached. Start believing that you’re a snack and Women would be lucky to have you. It’s a cliche answer but stop comparing yourself to your friends it’s not helping your confidence one bit regardless of what you believe is the reason for their success.
/r/seduction03/10/21 03:50 PM
11

Tinder clearly isn't working for you so why not approach? It's only creepy if you don't understand social cues and can't read body language. The more Women you talk too face-to-face the better your confidence will get. Don't aim for her number, take baby steps and you will soon get there.
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:41 PM
2

I just checked out foreveralone and God that subs depressing.
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:35 PM
10

She got in a random person's car late at night?
/r/seduction26/09/21 09:23 AM
9

Would you rather hang out with someone who's boring and takes things seriously or someone who's fun and entertaining to be around? Women typically make decisions based on how they feel towards someone. You're pretty much cockblocking yourself because Women respond to the energy your projecting (Women have a weird sixth sense to this shit). Next time you go out don't focus on getting a Woman's number but focus on having a great time with your friends. You'll soon notice Women looking at you and w…
/r/seduction26/09/21 09:01 AM
3

Women LOVE Yugioh
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:37 PM
2

I’m guessing it’s excessive fapping
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:29 PM
2

I understand what you're saying but maybe lay off the stimfap for a few days. When I fap I loose desire and enthusiasm. When I stop for a few days my libido skyrockets etc
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:21 PM
2

You need to create sexual tension. Feel desire towards your partner and let your eyes do the talking for you. Make her feel special. Take her on a date and then put on smooth music when you come home and dim the lights.
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:14 PM
1

I always thought night game would be easier because Women have had a few so they are more relaxed.
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:11 PM
5

That's the same for me too. If I don't act interested, Women seem to get offended and turn a bit petty. I guess they're just trying to make you feel bad.
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:43 PM
7

What exactly is an intimidated signal though?
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:34 PM
8

It’s nice to see Women on this sub
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:29 PM
101

If they put you in second place they are wanting you to simp over them
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:17 PM
3

Unless you're socially retarded (and don't read her body language) and come off as a creep, you aren't the problem. Maybe they are having a bad day, maybe they are in a happy relationship, maybe they are Femcel misandrists, maybe they just aren't in the mood to talk. The point is it could be thousands of reasons.
/r/seduction03/09/21 09:36 AM
3

If she cheats on her Boyfriend, she'll cheat on you.
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:17 PM
14

They just mean that your confidence will naturally increase as you get older because you start to care less of the opinions of others. I'm 27 now and I'm miles more confident than I was at 18. You just learn lessons a long your life and it makes you grow as a person. Yeah Women typically do prefer older Men and that's because they are more mature than an 18 year old. Though it's best not to bring it that up during conversations with Women lol.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:51 AM
2

It’s just jealousy. My friend always gets jealous when I get an ounce of attention from Women. He starts acting up in front of them it’s really cringe.
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:29 PM
1

Meh... If you don't have any game, then you don't have any game. It's the same as people who think making money suddenly makes you attractive. If you don't have any game then your still gonna be shit with Women. Sure it may help to a degree. It's more about your confidence and how you carry yourself.
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:10 PM
8

You grab her phone and run. In all seriousness you need to create chemistry. Women make decisions based on how they feel. If you don't make her feel like a Woman (don't mean be a simp) or if you're in head all the time she won't feel you.
/r/seduction25/08/21 05:42 PM
2

Thanks for that I will use affirmations to get my self esteem up 👍
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:05 PM
4

It does sometimes feel like it’s only you with self esteem issues but in reality everyone has it, they just aren’t going to all openly talk about it.
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:01 PM
6

Cheers for that I appreciate it 🙂
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:37 PM
3

Don’t tell a Woman she looks pretty, she already knows it and makes you seem superficial. Next time go up to a Woman and say “excuse me you look like my cousins friend who was at a house party a few days ago, do you know (insert name)……” and go on from there.
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:58 PM
32

Chemistry. Without it, it’s all meaningless.
/r/seduction17/08/21 08:36 PM
3

I have no idea who Tyler is but I totally agree it's your behaviour, not words that gets the deal. I know Mystery fans are going to hate me for saying this but he only got attention from Women because he dressed like a gimp. That's like moths to a flame for drunk Women.
/r/seduction17/08/21 07:02 PM
39

What I'm saying is that British Women are just as bad. Even the mediocre/average ones have big egos.
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:00 PM
102

You've never been to the UK then
/r/seduction16/08/21 07:53 PM
2

Incels hate Women and believe they can't get a GF because of how they look. In reality it's their vibe and low self esteem that's holding them back. If they looked after themselves they'd get a GF. Maybe your problem is that you're not projecting your confidence enough. Start walking around thinking you're a snack. People will believe it. I know it sounds narcissistic but Women do it too, they hype themselves up and you should too.
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:18 PM
3

Only confident Women will approach you but even then they still need some IOIs before approaching (smiling and eye contact etc). This would typically happen in a bar or nightclub because she's had a few to drink. In day time she won't be as direct but she'll try to position herself in a way that gets you to talk to her or at least notice her. The main thing is, show interest. If you don't you're only cockblocking yourself (if you're into her).
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:12 PM
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I always hear people on here say 'don't hit on workers, they are being paid to be there'. Like yeah, but just because they are working it doesn't mean they turn off their feelings and turn into robots. They are still Women at the end of the day. Cashier's could be flirting with you right now and you'll just assume they are being friendly.
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:00 PM
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This will get downvoted to oblivion (I love Women I really do) but it's easy for Women to be mean or judge guys that approach, but if it was the other way round it would be like a deer in headlights. I know Women aren't obliged to give time to Men, I'm not suggesting that. Just making a point that it takes balls to approach.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:40 AM
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What about if they act disinterested? I’ve had this happen a few times when I’m at a house party and they’ve acted like I’m not there, only for me to go and them to ask my friend if I’m gay because I didn’t approach or bother talking to them.
/r/seduction13/08/21 06:08 PM
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I know what you mean hahaha
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:55 PM
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Nah dude you flirt with the Father too
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:13 PM
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Yeah it’s usually because of disinterest
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:33 PM
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Being avoidant of the girl you like is kinda dumb. It wouldn’t work unless she’s invested in you and even then she’ll probably loose respect for you for playing mind games. It’s ok to make her a LITTLE jealous as long as you aren’t making it obvious and/or overdoing it. Women do it all the time so you shouldn’t feel bad about it.
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:35 PM
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Imagine how it feels to approach though lol. Surely it would do your confidence some good if you just gave the guys you liked your number. I wish Women would approach me it be such an ego booster lol
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:09 PM
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She wants your kids. Run while you still can!
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:28 PM
1

Just focus on making yourself feel good. Know that you're a snack. Women respond to confidence.
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:25 PM
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Like you said he’s confident within himself, he’s probably been flirting with the Women there for a while. You aren’t because you lack confidence. Honestly hitting the gym is the best thing you can do for yourself. You’re the only person holding yourself back.
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:04 PM
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She wants to feel your desire and attraction to her. She doesn't want you to be stuck in your head trying to memorize a complicated method, she can sense that shit a mile away. Just approach her and be genuine and go with the flow. Women are creatures of the present.
/r/seduction08/08/21 10:27 PM
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If they can tell you like them they are more likely to approach. If you do like them but don't give any signals or interest then they won't risk putting themselves 'out there'. They'll try to make themselves closer to you but they'd want you to make the first move. Obviously a Woman approaching would most likely happen in a bar once she's loosend up a bit.
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:36 PM
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People will often forget what you said, but they’ll never forget how you made them feel. Make her feel like a Woman. Good post bro pls don’t delete!
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:48 PM
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This is why I focus on myself on days when I feel like crap because I know Women can sense it a mile away.
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:02 AM
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That’s why Women say they need to feel chemistry
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:52 AM
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Hence why I said ‘as long as you’re not coming off as a creep or someone who’s socially retarded’
/r/seduction06/08/21 03:08 PM
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That's awesome to hear! Keep it up soldier!
/r/seduction05/08/21 08:20 PM
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Congrats, you’ve just won The Niceguy Mindset Award 🥇
/r/seduction05/08/21 04:49 PM
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The thing is Women get just as nervous as we Men do. They feel the tension talking to the opposite sex just the same, if not more. They are just people. Everyone wants to feel desired. As long as you’re not coming off as a creep or someone who’s socially retarded, it might make her day. The problem is too many guys are stuck in their head and not going with the flow. Women need to feel emotion in order to feel attracted. If you act like you’re a snack, people will believe it. If you walk around …
/r/seduction05/08/21 04:33 PM
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Don’t know why you’re being downvoted but that’s awesome!
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:26 PM
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Totally agree with this post
/r/seduction04/08/21 04:46 PM
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Just remember that Women are just like Men. They all have their insecurities and anxieties and also get nervous from the tension around the opposite sex. Everyone wants to feel desired. You never know if you approached her you might make her day.
/r/seduction03/08/21 09:59 PM
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Thanks for this comment. You've just made me realize my own sabatoging behaviour.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:05 PM
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Bitches love chemistry yet they never want to talk about different chemical reactions.
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:51 PM
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Of course they can, Women are just like Men. We all have anxieties and insecurities. We are all Human 👀 If someone walks around with confidence then people will low self-esteem are bound to project onto that person. Low energy Man attracts low energy Woman. High energy Man attracts confident Women.
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:21 PM
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It’s an ego booster for them. Online is different to real life. Online she might have like 5 guys trying to get with her but in real life the attention isn’t the same.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:26 PM
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When they put a hand on their hip. I don’t know why I think it’s really cute. Also when they act goofy, love it and when they don't take themselves seriously.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:24 PM
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Seduction is surrending to vulnerability. It's not a means of manipulation, but a way of appreciating the feminine Woman. Growing up I had a lousy love life and could never get anywhere with Women. After a few years of trying to understand them and what they desire, I feel like I've grown as a person.
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:07 PM
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Loads of people seem to get that wrong. They think 'no more Mr nice guy' means being a douche. It doesn't. It just means grow a backbone and don't put up with BS in the hopes of getting laid.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:41 PM
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Talking to Women in real life is a whole different ball game compared to talking to camgirls that you can't even see the stadium anymore. Those Women are interacting because they want you to spend money on them. They have to be friendly because it's their source of income.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:33 PM
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I hate sounding shallow but even mediocre Women are doing well on SM. All Women are. With that being said there is a downside to being glorified on Social Media and that is, if they don’t get enough attention in real life then it can make them become very insecure. We all know people have a fake online persona but the reality is often different from real life.
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:44 PM
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Don’t act like you’re above anyone and just know that you’re a snack that a Woman would be happy to have. Some Women won’t like the confidence because they have low self esteem and are projecting but high value Women will.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:18 AM
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It’s more about how you value yourself. If you walk around thinking you’re attractive people will believe it (not saying be arrogant, cocky and narcissistic). Women are in tune with this stuff they sense it in your vibe. Days when I feel handsome I do well with Women, other days when I feel like Gollum I don’t approach cause I’m not in the right mindset and I’d rather just focus on myself. There’s a notable difference in how Women act around me depending on my mindset.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:58 AM
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More likely she's jealous
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:45 PM
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What a pessimistic view
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:40 PM
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I'd be a happy boii
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:04 PM
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We need more context as it’s hard to narrow it down to one answer. It could be multiple things. Maybe it’s your vibe, maybe you’re not projecting confidence, maybe you aren’t looking at her body language, maybe you’re being needy/pushy, maybe they are just having a bad day.
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:56 PM
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Chris Bale books. You can buy them on Amazon
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:49 PM
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(visible confusion)...... Lol
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:38 PM
1

At first I was like DUDE!! But then I realized you will obviously feel more fullfilled having a good dating life. Money doesn't buy happiness at the end of the day. You will be happier in the long run.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:37 PM
2

Zan Perrion is awesome
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:50 AM
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It's obviously a fake account
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:49 AM
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My Friend doesn't have any fashion sense at all but he somehow still manages to pull cause he's cocky.
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:39 AM
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Agreed! I was at my friends house party and there was a fit Woman there. Anyway long story short she just blanked me most of the night so I just left her to it. When I left she asked my friend if I was gay because I didn’t go over to speak to her (as she liked me). Women are an odd species but I love em.
/r/seduction29/07/21 11:46 PM
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I’d rather not thank you 🤚
/r/seduction29/07/21 04:59 PM
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