Do not try this, I basically went up to a girl at the bar I found attractive and after small talk got into breaking down her barrier of self esteem by making gradually increasing negatifr social value judgements regarding things a lot of women are insecure about (weight, face, hair, demeanor) I was hoping to basically tear her down and seek validation through my attention (basically try and prove to herself that she could get someone through me, in which at the very end of the encounter I would be more receptive) unfortunately this approach has not worked and I think I have gained a reputation for women to avoid me. Hoping I can find a new location eventually in another nearby city.