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Fundamentals imjustdumbaf/r/seduction03/12/24 11:41 AM
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Fundamentals imjustdumbaf/r/seduction23/11/24 12:09 PM
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What did you just say? What language is this? Am I dumb?
/r/seduction06/07/25 09:35 PM
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I don't wanna speak for him but I have the same experience in France. There's no "a girl who's racist", in general they don't like us. People are not openly racist, they pretend to be not racist but they have an instinctive disgust. Unlike the other guy I won't even blame it on society or the girls. If they instinctively feel disgusted by us then it's not their fault, not ours either, it's just is what it is. Though I don't disagree with the points you made, I agree that there are some guys who …
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:34 AM
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I am a bit late to the party but I don't think anyone is talking about actual statistics here. Everyone is pushing the agenda of pros and cons the naturals face. If you look around in real life, I don't think most guys are on this subreddit looking for ways to seduce women. The success most guys get obviously varies but I think most guys are still pretty natural in terms of getting girls. Two weeks ago I heard my friend talk about one of his friends who got asked for Instagram in the university …
/r/seduction24/03/25 10:57 PM
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I feel like being average is very underrated. Sure a lot of girls might fantasize about tall black men like you but fantasies don't always become real, most people have to settle with less than their ideals. Being average gives you a sense of familiarity and a non threatening vibe which makes it easier to build trust. If an average guy can have a little bit of spice in him and implement what this most is talking about then they would get hella bitches.
/r/seduction20/03/25 12:09 AM
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looks only get you in the door I agree, just because someone is attracted to you doesn't necessarily mean they would 100% sleep with you. You still gotta "rizz" them up for a lack of personal vocabulary. But that being said, if you're unattractive then the "door" is pretty much closed. I never saw your friend and I do believe you but I still don't understand how he would get himself in so he can "last in the lobby".
/r/seduction19/03/25 11:59 PM
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Actually I genuinely 100% agree with you
/r/seduction03/12/24 09:02 PM
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I get what you're saying but this is based on the initial attraction, not how much you would like someone over time. It is obviously personal preferences but like I said we're making generalities here. A girl's physique definitely plays a huge role in terms of pure attraction. So does a guy's height.
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:26 PM
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I get that sometimes we get ideas in our head that seem like the best ideas when they're actually shit. It's one of those ideas. I been there too man. Just accept that it was dumb thing to do and next time actually talk to the girl you like. Learn from your mistakes and get better. Also don't be mad at the girl, holding grudges won't do you any favor. If someone doesn't like you, they don't like you, doesn't mean they're a bad person.
/r/seduction03/12/24 11:49 AM
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Bratha Ik you starting out but don't be a creep. You don't need to call someone you just met that many times. That shows desperation but more importantly makes them uncomfortable.
/r/seduction30/11/24 11:49 AM
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Almost anything slightly abstract can be reduced down to being subjective options. Does that stop anyone from discussing such matters? No. Whichever side is right it's still interesting. And one guy commented that understanding this skyrocketed his dating game so I would assume it also has some practical implications.
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:11 PM
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Seduction in its basic sense is about sex, not love or attraction. Never said it was. All I'm saying is that seduction can't take place if there isn't any attraction initially. I might be wrong, I'm just curious to know how I could be wrong. Is it possible to convince someone to have sex with you sex with you who isn't attracted to you? Sure I don't see how one goes about doing that without blackmailing or something. I get that sometimes people just need sex. But c'mon let's be real here, if a g…
/r/seduction23/11/24 02:34 PM
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I believe that a person attracted to another will always express it in one form or another. It's just that it doesn't guarantee the other person noticing them. Yea I agree with that, but what I meant is more like getting the other person to "admitting" or in some way conveying their attraction. Like let's say you see a hot girl in the gym. You might look at her or what not but if you don't talk to her or actually somehow show interest, you're not really expressing your attraction. And it goes bo…
/r/seduction23/11/24 02:11 PM
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What do you mean by "biological conditioning"? Isn't that just plain old physical attraction due to healthy reproductive signals like height, physique, hygiene, etc.?
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:50 PM
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Basically what I'm saying, yes. Seduction = not fumbling.
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:46 PM
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So you're saying you can actually build attraction even if it's not initially there? Telling me how to do it is probably too much of a hazard for a comment thread so I totally understand if you can't be bothered. But I would really appreciate if you could tell me how it works though, cuz I'm genuinely curious about it. Also I'm more interested in understanding the subject rather than the technicalities of practical implementations. Don't take it the wrong way, practicality is obviously more impo…
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:45 PM
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I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say. it’s finding who in the crowd is attracted to you and allowing their desires to come out using the right words and actions from a man’s to woman’s perspective to say “I’m available tonight if you are”. This is exactly what I'm saying. My definition of seduction being the manner in which implicit attraction becomes explicit is exactly this. “seduction” as a magical phenomenon that could make someone who’s repulsive find someone who’s Godly attra…
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:50 PM
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Bruhh don't get killed
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:19 PM
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Wesh je connais des belles meufs à Bruxelles et j'habite même pas là bas.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:21 PM
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english is my first language OP got me a little confused but I assume he's tryna say he's not good in English so yea this is what he should try to do. But that being said I live in France and I have immigrant friends who somehow got girls even when they didn't speak much french. I couldn't do that so I can't give tips but a lotta time things can happen even with language barrier.
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:15 PM
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This guy asking the right question
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:18 PM
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I feel like OP explained it poorly. It's kinda like white girls are the only options anyway. Like the school that I go to is mostly white. There's like one black girl in my class and a few in the whole school. If I go about talking to girls just randomly I would still be talking to mostly white girls. But the problem is that a lotta time the racial difference would come to mind and you make posts like this asking strangers about it.
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:40 PM
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Bruhh wtf. White girls go crazy for 6ft black guys. Like you said you got a lot of other good qualities too so there's no reason for them to not like you. Have ever tired to game a girl? If not then that might be your only problem.
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:30 PM
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Man just say anything. The first thing you say probably ain't gonna register anyway. I opened a girl standing next to me while raining by saying "how are you not wet?"
/r/seduction28/10/21 08:27 PM
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Imagine going to a group of strangers on the street and saying "have you met xyz?"
/r/seduction28/10/21 08:20 PM
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Reading too much mystery method and not having enough awareness will get you there.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:26 PM
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I actually didn't think about it like that. Also she was taller than me as well so it went better than I expected. So theoretically yea I should be able to talk to more girls. But that being said I would really like to know how other people can just take actions almost everyday.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:16 PM
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I guess it works in English but not the other way around lol. Like native English speakers kinda appreciate if you got a different kinda accent. Tbh probably only European accents. But speaking other languages with an accent doesn't always came off as charming lol.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:35 PM
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Just realize the fact that most people don't look up to PUAs. People get into relationship n what not all the time without ever needing YouTube videos telling them what to do.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:36 PM
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3 yea I know I'm shit. 2 of the girls gave me their Snapchat. I didn't even ask the 3rd one cuz I realized after talking to her that she was too old for me. My problem is that I just can never be consistent with it, I just do it once in a few months. Hey I might do it today ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:29 AM
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Sounds like an excuses. I totally understand why you would say that. Maybe I am making excuses to myself but I can't really tell. I swear to god I would literally do it tomorrow if I see a girl on the street but idk if I will. Seems strange but it's true. Like the gym is where I go most frequently, it's a 30 mins walk and I think I have never seen a girl on my way there. I do talk to other people. A lot of people actually come and talk to me. It's usually people who workout with me or older folk…
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:25 PM
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If theres no girls in parks I know what you tryna say but it's not that kinda park lol. Idk how would I explain this, it's like a playground sorta park. Like there's a basketball court, pull up bars, dip bars and stuff like that. Not really the kind of parks where girls walk their dogs. go to another park or try malls or even on the road theres a gazillion woman Well... Other parks don't have pull up bars and dip bars. I don't wanna sound like I'm making excuses but I rarely go to the mall and b…
/r/seduction20/08/21 10:28 PM
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Man you wanna write a book? Write a book.
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:07 PM
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It's not really a reference lol. I have a friend named Thamas who's 5"7, good looking and girls like him but he's not the best with girls. I wouldn't say he has no game but still your description sorta fits him. Today I challenged him to bench 85 kgs or else he would have to talk to the cute girl at the gym. He got so much adrenaline that he actually did easily (his last pr was 80 which he got not too long ago)
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:40 PM
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Thamas is that you?
/r/seduction16/08/21 05:53 PM
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Watch Craig Ferguson dude
/r/seduction06/08/21 11:59 AM
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Casanova slept with nuns bro. Conservative environment might as well work for you. You doing something that bold because of her might as well make you more attractive in her sees. Also if you're in a so called conservative country then most likely girls would never do the approach.
/r/seduction20/07/21 07:19 PM
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This is because OP or you or whoever isn't socially aware of this and won't approach the right way, or say the wrong thing. Hey, I'll even admit that I am not socially "calibrated" to approach a girl at the gym. Heck, every girl at the gym that I go to are older than me anyway. And people go to the grocery store to not socialize. People go to the mall to not socialize. With this attitude you might as well just make excuses that it's never good to approach women anywhere in public. Yea you're rig…
/r/seduction20/07/21 07:01 PM
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Man, I understand what you're saying but still. Gym is a place where people go to work on themselves, not to socialize. OP being concerned about being creepy doesn't make him socially calibrated but I think it makes him socially aware. Girls' gym wear a bit sensual but they probably wear them for comfort rather than looking sexy I assume. A girl might think you approached her cuz of how good her ass looks in her leggings. He's aware of what the gym is for and doing something like that might even…
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:35 PM
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