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No women ( or men ) will like the same personality, different personality traits will hit different spots in us, some of us will like that spot stimulated and some won’t for different reasons. Women have different personalities so they can’t like the same personality even if the claim that they like the same physical type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:00 PM
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I like to hold men accountable for being trash, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:22 PM
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No women are not. It’s funny how you claim women are teaching men lol and is this the only one thing that men were able to comprehend? Hmm funny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:00 PM
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You did blame women and claimed that women were teaching men how to treat them badly. Can men take responsibility for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:48 PM
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No. You can’t blame women for your shitty behavior sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:44 PM
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Ah yes let’s blame women for men’s actions 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:29 PM
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I think it’s okay as long as he can accept rejection, and isn’t being nice to collect points to cash out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:14 PM
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Being in the military or law enforcement. Being religious. Working a high risk job, like fire fighter. Being a celebrity/influencer or works with social media. The less social media presence the better. racist or sexist. Being overweight or too hairy. Being middle eastern (im middle eastern and I suffered a lot due to the toxic culture and I don’t want anyone who share the same roots, I don’t want to be reminded by him). Overly jealous, controlling, possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:53 AM
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My standards are being a decent human being, I don’t have a check list but i have a deal-breaker-list.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:09 PM
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I would tolerate job loss as long as he’s working to get another job, mental issues and health issues are fine too as long as the mental issues are not something that would put me in danger. Sadly as superficial as it sounds, I can’t tolerate massive weight gain without any effort to fix it, because it would mean loss of physical attraction to him. Dead bedroom, as long as it’s temporarily due to stress and not because he’s not attracted to me anymore. Crying every now and then is not a reason t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:46 AM
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She wanted commitment, you said you’ll think about which probably came as you stringing her along, she gave you a chance to commit again and you blow it.. she’s moving on.
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:50 AM
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So he doesn’t know if he wants a ltr relationship but I should sleep with him if I know I want to? Why? So he can make up his mind? 😂 wasn’t already made up by then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:24 PM
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If both parties want ltr then it’s not about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:16 PM
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And about the evidence, same here .. show evidence of your honesty before you demand a woman to be sexual wherever you demand, cuz remember she too have options
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:13 PM
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I don’t see the world as a market, im not a cow and a man is not a bull. I will sleep with a man when i feel comfortable enough to be that vulnerable, if he keeps “options” he can use them cuz I don’t want a man with that type of mentality. Just remember i will always have way more “options” but I choose to act decent and not pressure people into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:12 PM
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Why do men think if a woman wants them lt = not physically attracted?! Who the hell lied to you? You think all women are gold diggers who will marry rich ugly men, but fuck hot poor dudes? Wrong. But again, I won’t “give” sex to keep a man around, if he doesn’t respect me and he doesn’t enjoy my company, then he won’t stay after he gets sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:08 PM
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No, in ltr sex is not something i do for my partner. It is and should be something I want to do. Im not giving sex to keep a man around, he can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:49 PM
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You say one thing but you wish for another hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:48 PM
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No we should not be jumping too fast. When women complain about men being trash, your response will be “choose better “, we are choosing better, and we deserve someone who is respectful and able to form a connection way beyond his dick. I would not be dating someone who I don’t like physically, but i am able to control myself enough to make sure he’s good enough to invest in and keep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:42 PM
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I can have casual with men I don’t want a ltr with how are not stranger on the streets. You think casual or ons is something positive, we don’t. If a woman takes you for a ons she thinks you’re good enough for a quick lay or that you have bad personality but good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:27 PM
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I think you’re thinking about this issue with your man brain. I don’t see a strange man on the street and think I want to sleep with him, never. I need deeper connection if the aim is to have a ltr, because the sex will be different for me, it will be happening form a place of trust, love, security rather than just a 2 minutes sexual attraction to a person that I don’t want them in my life, the 2 minutes sexual attraction will be happening from a place of “scratching an itch”, me using this pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:07 PM
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could be, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:46 PM
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Show her this post 👍🏻 she’ll love it
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:44 PM
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Neither, thank you i have my own money, and a sweet vibrator who’s never tired, never is demanding, never disappoint. Edit; women HAD to mate with the strongest man, they never had the free well to choose him, stop fooling yourselves women don’t want to share a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:26 AM
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I didn’t say that, it’s only natural to be attracted to attractive people. Im expressing out frustration as women to be treated as nothing but a pretty face, and giving an example for men to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:06 AM
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Okay baby you’re special, happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:15 PM
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That’s what YOU would rather, because it rarely happens to you. And when/if it does there’s almost zero risk for you int. Women know they are sexually desirable, and it’s not a compliment because men have very low standards when it comes to fucking. And it comes with a lot of risks for us. We don’t want/like to be objectified by random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:38 PM
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Because i say so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:23 PM
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Not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:21 PM
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And? A gold digger will spend her time in hopes of getting into your thick wallet and will fuck you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:12 PM
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Yes, but still i bet it’s not flattering to be approached for your money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:43 PM
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Would you like it if a girl approached you with “hello.. you look rich, I would like to get to know you”, how would you feel about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:13 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:40 AM
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You know, a toothbrush that has been into many mouths is a dirty brush, but a mouth that has 10 toothbrushes is an okay mouth. and i don’t want a used, filthy toothbrush 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:09 PM
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I don’t like this dumbness, apparently men are masters at manipulating women and stringing them along, knowing the right words to say and right things to do at the perfect moment.. but a woman you are deeply intimate with, you can’t understand her?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:07 PM
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Good for them, I hope they find happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:44 AM
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Better than before, listen to your woman to understand exactly what are her needs. Again, if men want to die single it’s their choice, np. You believe that women don’t rather stay single then to settle with a shitty man? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:43 AM
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That’s their choice to make, women shouldn’t lower their standards to appease to these men. What’s wrong with being better for your wife? Im not American, so maybe the things i see in my society are different than yours, but i see the same thing ( men leaving because women want to be treated better ) and honestly nobody cares. It’s childish ( do it my way or im not playing) fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:51 AM
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Sure, leave then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:38 AM
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Okay, either ways you’re still not respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:37 AM
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That’s fear not respect, you want to walk around terrorizing women to be polite to you? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:51 AM
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Im living a pre-feminism (that is transitioning into more liberal values with small feminist movements) .. yeah no thank. Rp love to talk about islamic societies and how the women are happy with no control over their lives and no human rights, complete bs. Freedom, human rights >> any man. The only cost i would say, is that men will have to be better and work harder, now there’s consequences. As for feminism in the west? Lol a complete joke. Too white too care about real women’s issues. I apprec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:46 AM
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You are pathetic, no wonder you have no success with women, natural selection have excluded you 😷
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:47 AM
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Men in islamic countries are shamed to the point of killing their own daughters/sisters/mothers. It’s very powerful and easy to control a man through shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:14 PM
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It’s a power thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:39 PM
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Maybe just maybe if you men spend a little more time shaming those men who harass, beat, rape, kill women as much you spend on shaming “simps” or beta bs, maybe ??? Idk we won’t talk bad about men? Or instead of bitching and whining why us women aren’t friendly anymore, maybe you should sit for a minute and think of the reason?? Even you men won’t trust men 😂 But no, because of the lack of sympathy and selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:23 PM
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I used to think this, but turns out it’s not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:33 PM
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No physical strength is very important in combat dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:28 PM
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Then go be, if you can then this sentence doesn’t apply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:27 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:05 PM
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On top of my head, women do better in universities and colleges
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:59 PM
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Let’s say we all have the right to take a college entrance exam < this is equality. Of course on the smart ones will pass it. Should we make it easier so everyone can get in and be engineers and doctors even if they don’t have what is tales? < this is childish and nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:35 PM
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Honestly it’s annoying and dangerous. If a woman can’t pass the physical exam for entering the military for example, the standards for acceptance should not be lowered 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:29 PM
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Good luck then, odds are you’ll loose
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:23 PM
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I don’t agree. I can’t treat a mentally disabled person like everyone else, but I shouldn’t also take any of his human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:22 PM
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Gold diggers will share an atm card if they need to, self respecting women who support themselves won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:34 AM
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Gold diggers will share an atm card with a dick if that’s what you guys mean. But a woman who can support herself will not, it’s not a female nature to share their parents no matter how you delusional try to push for it, never was never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:58 PM
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No woman who is capable of supporting herself will. Take the woman’s ability to survive on her own? She’ll take the only option she has. And that is NOT women’s nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:56 PM
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What’s a high value to someone might be low value to another. Women are not okay with sharing a man, never. And it’s not about his “resources”. Some women may want you to lead the relationship, but not them. Alpha/beta??? grow up :) Playing cold and distant game will only get you girls with self esteem issues, maybe. Women aren’t happy at home, cocking and cleaning all day, if they were, more women would strive to get married instead of having careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:55 PM
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I don’t trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:07 PM
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You’re funny 😂
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:34 PM
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I don’t think they act any differently, but they are prettier than me so maybe that’s why
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:23 PM
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Oh 😕 I think i see it now
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:19 PM
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Sometimes but if I always looked like that girls won’t come right?
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:16 PM
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Umm some of my friends thought i was arrogant before they got closer to me
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:14 PM
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I do sometimes, my friends get noticed but not me. Im wondering if it’s something im doing.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:09 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:04 PM
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Im not butch or boyish at all, I’d rather not to say.. but i get girls (that aren’t boyish as well) here but literally no guy has ever came to me.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:01 PM
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Not in my country, nope
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:56 PM
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I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:48 PM
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Im not asking for advice, i am asking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:46 PM
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I don’t want or like to be told what to do, even if he asks nicely 😁 Unless he is unable to do whatever he’s asking, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:44 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:38 PM
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Not really, I don’t like to be ordered around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:38 PM
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Yes. But Dinosaur is not meant that he is ugly, but not stereotypical beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:56 PM
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I saw a clip on YouTube about korean girls talking about types and I think they have nice categorization: the puppy guy ( big but affectionate, can be clingy, has cute face ). the cat type ( looks cold, sharp features, playful, sexy) the prince type ( the nice guy that everyone likes, respectful, kind, handsome, mothers love him, romantic) the dinosaur type ( bone structure, thick bones, attractive but not beautiful, can look intimidating, simple man )
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:49 PM
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Hmm maybe women (and human beings) aren’t a machine that if you press this and that it will act like this or that? People are different, some women will like that and some won’t. But; I believe that most people will want a person that is responsive/reactive to THEM. I don’t think anyone will want to stay around a person who seems uninterested in them.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:49 PM
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I agree with you, what im saying is.. it’s okay to make mistakes and get hurt here and there, it’s called expensive, it makes us stronger and wiser.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:15 PM
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You really should act the way you feel it’s right and learn your way through life. There’s no woman this men that.. she might have a bad day? She might be busy? She might be shy? Just live
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:00 PM
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For me, respect is more important than playful. Playfulness should happen after we are comfortable and know each other.. other than that i see it as disrespect and douchy behavior.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:04 PM
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Yes some of us like nice respectful people. I would have probably done the same or at least I would be turned off by it.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:59 PM
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These are the requirements for a type of women, you have to ask yourself is this the type of woman you want? If yes; then you would have to achieve these requirements. If not; know what type of a woman you want and what are the “requirements”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:10 AM
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Im sorry, but what do men these days provide to women? Sex? Meh we can get anywhere if we want it. Loyalty? Lol Money? We have it and you don’t have much of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:08 PM
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Sex isn’t a reward you deserve, or a chore i have to do to keep you around. If I don’t desire it now and I don’t enjoy it? Then no im not going to do it even if i did it with chad before you 😁 Except it, it’s the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:06 PM
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Nope not true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:19 PM
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True. I opened an instagram account and I don’t even post anything provocative and i got a lot of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:07 AM
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They are, but how do you react when someone demands the same treatment even if it hurts you rn? For example, financially it would hurt you to spend money on expensive dinners
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:29 PM
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Enthusiasm yes, but not pressuring them to do things they don’t want to just to prove to me something i am insecure about. They can be enthusiastic in different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:28 PM
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Not how much you liked her, it’s how much you did/gave. Say you used to buy your first gf many gifts and that was effecting your savings or you didn’t have enough money for yourself but you did it because you were you and impulsive , how would you feel if later another gf demands the same treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:27 PM
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Cap but okay 😂 A good partner won’t demand gifts that would hurt you financially, or sexual act that would hurt you physically/mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:07 PM
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What if buying her expensive gifts that would put restrain on your bank account was something you did in the past, would you continue doing that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:03 PM
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What if buying her expensive gifts that would put restrain on your bank account was something you did in the past, would you continue doing that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:03 PM
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Tbh i was waiting for some bs but you seem reasonable and balanced. Yes and if you want my opinion as a woman, I think it all boils down to (because we can). If civilization collapses tomorrow it will all the selectivity will disappear. Thank you for the pleasant conversation 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:01 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:51 PM
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Yes but then when people are young they are reckless and easily falter under pressure, it’s not always about attraction/love. Although sometimes it can be. Im curios, what is the truth about women selective and hypergamy in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:50 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:24 PM
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Again, I agree with you. My question was directed at some people who were demanding that she does the same things regardless of whether she wanted them or not..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:24 PM
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But what of she did all these things because she was young and naive and she didn’t enjoy or want any of them.. would you still want her to them again?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:21 PM
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Pressuring your gf into sexual acts she doesn’t want isn’t normal either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:06 PM
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I actually agree with everything you have said. And I understand that if a person had no problem doing something (and still doesn’t have a problem with ) to every partner they had except for me, then it’s a red flag. But to demand that women should fo the exact same sexual acts (that they didn’t and still don’t like or want) they did with previous parents to you or that means she doesn’t love you,is immature and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 08:05 PM
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And you still don’t see how stupid and immature it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:56 PM
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Okay, if you have taken someone on a trip, or bought them something expensive, or proposed to someone before and not for me, then you must not find me good enough or whatever 🤡 Sorry, that’s childish AND stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:52 PM
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It’s not about what women want (not that you would care), it about the stupidity of the logic “if she did anal with her ex but not with me, then she doesn’t love me)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:47 PM
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And if you want a woman to do all these unpleasant sexual acts for your own pleasure.. there’s a market for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:41 PM
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And women at that age who did some things they didn’t want weren’t morons and learned????👀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:39 PM
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So you are aroused by pressuring a woman into a sexual she doesn’t want to do anymore? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:37 PM
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Men simp with money/attention and women simp with sex/attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:33 PM
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Yes and pressuring women into sex or sex acts is not healthy either, but men still demand it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:31 PM
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Idk it was pretty logical for you guys to demand that women treat all the men they get with exactly the same in terms of when/how much/how far the sex happens
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:30 PM
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Exactly, so why does some men hold women to the same standards of when they were younger? Sexually speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:28 PM
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I’d say she maybe detected the dishonesty and was turned off by it. You would look desperate and iffy if you appeared to be lying imo.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:10 PM
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Yes, I think it’s one of many reasons. That is the reason i see the most around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:38 PM
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I would say that it depends on the woman’s life. If she feels the need to “survive” she might be after someone with a lot of money because that what makes her feel safe. Other than that, from my community when you take love and loyalty off the table, it’s going to be money and status. Me personally, i grow up feeling like i had all the things I ever wanted, so materials don’t equate love or safety for me, I already have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:23 PM
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If men accept women with makeup and hair extensions and shape wear, women should accept men with wigs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:41 AM
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Talk about something other than her, anything she’s interested in. Ask her about her opinions and express yours
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:06 AM
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I think the most important equality is the equality of the value of a person. Wither it’s male vs female, rich vs poor, black vs white etc People are different, genders are different there’s nothing wrong with that. Men will have their advantages and women will have their own too. You can’t take away the genders inherent advantages, we developed this way for a reason. The idea the we can all be the same is ridicules and we shouldn’t waste time trying to achieve it. I don’t see how simping or the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:46 AM
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Give me the same education and social status and they will act the same, humans aren’t that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:16 PM
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🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:48 PM
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Not to be a pick me BUT attractiveness is subjective. Sure there is universal traits that are considered attractive: like clear skin and good body proportions. You find him a 2 someone else finds him a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:45 PM
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Saggy throat 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:41 PM
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Yes, go to a segregated school and see for yourself. Girls still want to look nice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:40 PM
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Wait, does your throat sag or change because you have been stretching it with all the food you’ve been swallowing? No? That’s not how muscles work? Okay. And please explain how does 20 dick changes a vagina but the same dick x20000 times doesn’t? Im confused..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:39 PM
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Suction vibrator 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:18 PM
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Mohamed bin salman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:31 PM
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It’s not but it’s doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:30 PM
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Nobody likes a desperate partner, but too many options and i’d feel like in a competition for his attention and I don’t have time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:26 PM
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That’s not rape it’s not the same and stfu nobody cares about your peepee
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:21 PM
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MBS doesn’t care 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:13 PM
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Idk did you get raped before? No? Stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:11 PM
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Yes blame men’s actions on women’s again. No body cares really, no body wants a man that measures a woman’s value by her hymen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:07 PM
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My vigina is not a reward lol Im not rewarding anyone when is have sex with them. But im humor you, the sulotions for all the problems you mentioned is for men to stay virgins until marriage too and not pursue fwb or ons. Or rape or molest sm See problem fixed 👍🏻 Men should fix themselves and 90% pf the problems between the genders would be fixed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:21 PM
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Ew no thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:15 PM
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I don’t understand, say i keep myself and marry a man. What do i get out of it? A man? Not good enough. Do i get a special treatment that the non virgins wives how married men that don’t care about virginity, don’t get? Probably not. Is he virgin too? Probably not, and even if he is I don’t want an inexperienced husband. What if I stay virgin until marriage and then I discover I don’t like sex, then what? Any man who values women based on their hymn, is unworthy and could be dangerous as he does…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:12 PM
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Keeping myself for a man is not a good deal, that is the story im 100% sure of. a man who is that insecure or doesn’t see me as a human is not worthy, so I don’t mind fitting his standers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:00 PM
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How is having sex i want and enjoy = me not loving myself? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:18 PM
9

Okay, then don’t love us.. it’s not like we have been drowning in love anyways 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:28 AM
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A man who only loves a woman for her intact hymen is not a man that is able to truly value a woman as a person, so no thank you we don’t want your love or you children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:23 AM
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Basic human dignity, I don’t need feminism to tell me that locking myself waiting for a mam is not a good deal. Plus any man who cares about virginity that much and view women as new or used objects is not a man i want to associate myself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:13 AM
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Why should we care? Women have kept themselves for centuries and got nothing but shit thrown to their faces when mr.husband cheats. It’s not like men care about what matters to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:56 AM
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Why would a woman need to lift 1,100 pounds? And even if she needs to, she can hire workers. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:00 AM
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An answer coming from non white/ non western woman: American society is progressive, and the white man is portrayed as a different type of man in movies (loyal, honorable, romantic, isn’t superficial etc) so many women sadly believe the lie. The truth is, men are just men no matter what skin color or what language they speak, they behave similarly. And some women view the white man as a survival ticket, and she’ll pose to be the type of woman he’s looking for that is not available in America any…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:59 AM
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Rpw? No thank you i have a brain of my own I don’t need someone to lead me through life while i wash his dirty underwear 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:31 PM
1

Yes do this and watch her interest fade away
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:31 PM
0

Locking myself up wasting my best years, fucking and pushing babies for a cheater who can’t even make his own sandwich should be considered payable labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:46 PM
1

And we are the ones complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:52 PM
2

Yes, badly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:26 PM
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No one is forcing you or making you do anything, if you don’t want to you can leave. And if you stay then you take responsibility for your choice. Again if you want her to use you and throw you out, just tell her you might get what you want or at least half of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:02 PM
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Because it’s not, if you want her to use you and throw you out please be honest and tell her, I doubt she won’t do it. And if you want women to treat every man the same, men should treat women the same. You took you ex to x and y, you should take her too. You committed to your ex after x weeks, you should do the same to her etc.. how childish does that sound to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:28 PM
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So? Women aren’t allowed to fall in different depth of love with different people? And she didn’t treat him better, she was a fool and now he’s a mistake in her life, you want to be that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:14 PM
1

Men assume and refuse to listen.. men stay hurt and angry. Like im sorry some women wanted you for life.. that must be horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:03 PM
1

Yes and yes, women want it but don’t need it like men do. And even when the occasion happens when a woman needs sex, it is available and with many options to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:26 PM
2

I think there is true risk for men to marry with the laws you’re mentioned, if anyone is calling you names they are bullying away for the facts that works against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:24 PM
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Some do, some don’t. Projecting your unhealed wounds and causing more harm is selfish and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:46 PM
2

I think societies are changing faster than we can cope. But I don’t think anyone will settle in the future if they work on themselves, once we as a society catch to the change and balance ourselves. Anyone with a major flaw will have to settle sure. But both sides will need to put the guns down and listen to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:45 PM
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Toxic but gf can play this game too yk? And probably way better than you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:42 PM
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I guess that’s how it is in usa, im from another country so I wouldn’t know about the laws. But i hope they fix them soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:38 PM
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That’s a lot of assumptions. Many women assume negative things about men as well. And it’s cowardly to not take chances when we find someone who we love and want. Idk when i see an elderly couple traveling I want that when im old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:23 PM
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Women don’t sleep with everyone, it’s not your turn it’s you have been chosen. (Your turn) implies that you have some sort of entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:56 PM
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Not true, wives and gf offer love, support, stability, nurture, family (the normal ones, not the gold diggers). And yes traditionally men provide many things money is one of them, women traditionally provide many things children, homemaking among them. We provide things and we take things. I understand that American divorce law is biased so im not talking about marriage, im talking about ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:54 PM
1

Yes. You want, 94782 other man want it too, she gets to pick and play.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:45 PM
1

YES!! And let’s stop rating others like they are some commodity who deserve/don’t deserve this or that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:44 PM
2

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:32 PM
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Ik men can go and buy sex, if they do women don’t lose anything but the leverage over the men they didn’t want anyway. And i want to know, is paid sex with hockers satisfying for men? Say if you live your life paying hockers will you live a happy man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:31 PM
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This is what im saying, until she gives sex she’s the one holds power. Until she sleeps with a man or catch feelings she is holds the power over majority of the available men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:29 PM
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Ik.. do the majority of men want to pay for sex forever? Im sorry but that’s sad. Human need deeper connections
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:27 PM
1

Umm I guess, on the other way around don’t you think men will have to settle someday too? Im curious Do you think more women in the future will settle or less?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:25 PM
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Ik, ik men value sex and see it as a form of validation, im not saying sex is meaningless. And I believe that sex with a loved one > sex with a ons, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:21 PM
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Yes be ruthless see where that will get you man. Don’t ask for something you are unable to give back. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:19 PM
1

Okay good luck then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:16 PM
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By meaningless i meant no emotions or deeper connection, English is bot my first language sorry for the miscommunication
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:15 PM
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Ik, im bot saying relationships are just sex for commitment. But for men how are after sex, relationships are the easier solution imo. He will get sex, and other things like love and support. She will get stability and security plus good sex with sm she trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:13 PM
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Women now have other options, sperm banks or adopting. So the need for marriage is not present anymore.. unless it is for companionship, and I don’t remember see any women settling these days. And yes I hope both parties can be more honest and upfront of what they are looking for instead of leading the other on and causing more hurt and damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:10 PM
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Oky kalm dawn.. i never kown sraikan man are too emotionally over written mistake Oh be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:06 PM
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True, hope they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:02 PM
1

Why would women sympathize with men who aren’t sympathetic towards women? Most men here chose to lie and manipulate women to get sex. And please stop acting like you are entitled, you don’t deserve something because you want it! Listen to woman and maybe just an idea.. give something they want to be of a value to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:01 PM
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I need (not feel, but actually need) to shut down my brain to be able to have a conversation with most the men around me. The fragile egos and the stupid jokes and i-know-it-all attitude.
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:56 PM
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Men will always want sex than women. The number of women who just want sex is less than the number of men who just want sex, women will get to pick and choose. Good luck winning that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:53 PM
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No I agree there will always be women who just want sex. But the number of those women at any day will always be much less than the number of men who want just sex. These few women will hold the power in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:52 PM
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Right, but the odds are the man will still want it more than her and she want sex AND other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:01 PM
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And these girls will use you in return
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:35 PM
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Women are happier compared to men, but we still want connections. We won’t settle but we will take a good deal if it comes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:28 PM
1

Okay as long as becky for an hour can make you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:22 PM
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Okay but do you think that most want commit relationship before they have sex? And if more men are entering committed relationships with these women (if they want them) then everyone will get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:19 PM
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I am a woman and im trying to understand how men think, obviously whatever im saying will not help any of them achieve anything, good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:17 PM
1

My experience is different since im not American maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:05 PM
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It is easier, but we are still humans and crave connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:03 PM
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Interesting, I agree with a lot. But I don’t it’s true that the left women are only the bad ones, yes good men who have a lot to offer want a good woman and will not tolerate any bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:51 PM
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I like your approach. If more people were honest, less people will be hurt and disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:37 PM
1

Say a skinny guy goes to the gym and bulks up, he goes from 3 to 7ish imo. Say a guy who has a good body (tall, natural bored shoulders, not fat) the gym won’t help much in terms of physicality, but it will build his confidence and that will help him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:25 PM
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Speaking for myself. Finding him sexually attractive doesn’t equal willingness to have sex with him, or wanting sex. I don’t do causal or ons, so i need more than a 3d picture of someone to want to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:17 PM
1

Maybe, we will never know until more men try and do the work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:09 PM
0

I agree, it’s another transactional relationship and if that’s what you want then good luck 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:08 PM
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Yes, and no one is happy anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:05 PM
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Women have money now, you can only “buy” gold diggers. And if that suits you then good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:03 PM
1

I see, it could work for some men but not for the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:01 PM
1

And waiting around for women to pick you for a night is safer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:57 PM
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Woman want and enjoy sex but still don’t need it as much as men, women don’t give it because men want it. And yes, I think it’s healthy to focus on yourself rather than chasing after the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:56 PM
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No, it does take much to become desirable man, or else 80% of men will have became desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:27 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:25 PM
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If they have feelings they probably will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:17 PM
1

Having one woman committed to you > no woman committed when your looks fade with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:14 PM
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And you’re just a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:10 PM
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And still have no options
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:10 PM
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Yes, and im not claiming that my solution will solve all the problems but maybe one or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:09 PM
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Umm okay good luck with not giving women anything they need and waiting for them to pick you for a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:08 PM
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Yeah and when women get the 20% we still don’t loose but gain money/social power. And we have 80% of men to leverage out bodies over them, we still win.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:07 PM
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Yes getting sex is not giving women power, but WANTING sex for women give them power. And yes but do all men have options all the time? No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:05 PM
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And she will, they all will eventually.. and your attractive looks will too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:04 PM
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Women still win though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:03 PM
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If love is not based on some degree of involvement then what is it based on? You need to be around someone and to be in some type of relationship with someone who o develop feelings for them. But whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:03 PM
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It doesn’t.. you don’t get it and that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:01 PM
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And how is your point discredit mine? You’re arguing for the sake of arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:00 PM
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Lol Women enjoy sex but don’t want it or need it as much as men. And sure we enjoy it too. Women have ons with a small percentage of men. That leaves the majority of men with not much options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:58 PM
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Ltr=\= marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:55 PM
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Do the majority of men have options available at all times? No. And all or your options don’t need or want sex as much as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:52 PM
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I didn’t say that emotionally invested women will do anything to keep a man, im saying that she will be open to comprises. But yeah I agree with everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:49 PM
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Nothing applies to everyone one, dah!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:46 PM
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Im not an English native speaker. When a wise man points at the moon the imbecile examines the finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:45 PM
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Men claim that sex is a need and not just a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:44 PM
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Who do you think have more options? Women do. Average women have more options than average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:43 PM
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Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:42 PM
1

You think women fall in love at first sight? How will she fall in love with a man she doesn’t intact with? And yes I think women fall more deeper into love than men, hence the leverage im talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:39 PM
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No it is true, but your leverage will last for a short while.. I don’t think she will stick to the fuck zone and get hurt over and over. (The more you give the less leverage have) that’s what im saying, The reality is : women give less sex = have more leverage. Men giving more sex = have less leverage. The problem is, women don’t need sex or relationships anymore, they want them yes but don’t need them unless they are already involved emotionally with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:38 PM
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I don’t subscribe but hv/lv people mentally. But I assume you mean sexually attractive guys? Sure women want sex for them but don’t need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:33 PM
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Still, these women choose to get with them. They want to but don’t need to. Women don’t need it as men claim they do.. so even if she’s aroused she can still decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:31 PM
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How will she have feelings if she’s not in a relationship with her? Feelings don’t grow out of nowhere. And if you’re talking about being fwb and she catch’s feelings.. then yes you will gain leverage. But is this case she will 99% want to stop those un-returned feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:30 PM
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Okay, but im not calming that feelings last, her having feelings for you even for one month give you leverage for that one month. Her not having any feelings for you, will give you nothing and she will have 100% power over if you get to have sex with her or not, if she doesn’t finds you sexually attractive and doesn’t want anything more.. you have zero chance of getting with her no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:26 PM
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No, it man who is sexually undesired, he will not get causal sex no matter how chill he acts. And small percentage of men arouse women sexually by physical looks, and physical looks won’t last and some new hotter guys will come along eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:23 PM
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Not native speaker 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:20 PM
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True, only a minority of men are lusted over by women, which leaves the majority of men with no baskets
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:19 PM
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Idk what scotital power is .. but no, i mean as women still have leverage over men generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:17 PM
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True, but relationships for women aren’t a necessity as it’s sex for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:16 PM
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But do you have that many baskets at all times? Do men collectively have “baskets” to put their eggs in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:13 PM
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Okay let’s say that all women by tomorrow decide to stop having ons, fwb.. any sexual activity outside a relationship. What will men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:12 PM
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No, you wanting to sleep with her gives her the power. Not you actually sleeping with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:09 PM
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True, but as long she is love with you you will have some leverage, as opposed to her not caring about you at all but you still wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:07 PM
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In typical healthy relationships they will, that’s why and how women enter relationships, because they have feelings for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:04 PM
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Not true, you are presuming that women in relationships won’t be emotionally invested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:01 PM
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