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| 3 | Can't leave her because of kidsstaying "for the kids" while being miserable every day isn't really protecting them either, they pick up on that stuff more than we think worth at least talking to a lawyer just to know where you actually stand, not to file anything yet. a lot of guys assume worst case is guaranteed when it's usually not, especially if you're the one doing the day to day stuff with the kids. that's actual leverage, not just a feeling also just start keeping track now, who does school runs, bedtime, doctor stuff.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 06:04 PM |
| 3 | She is insinuating things that never happened. Not sure how to respond.this is so on brand for someone who cheated for 14 years lol. she needs to be the one who "found peace" so she doesn't have to sit with what she actually did. classic. for your son, you don't need details, just something true. like "sometimes people break trust in a marriage and that's what happened." not mean, not a lie, just enough so he's not filling gaps with whatever she's hinting at. he'll piece it together eventually anyway as he gets older. you don't have to rush that, just don't let her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 7 | I'm currently laying on my 10 year old sons empty bed crying like I would if I had lost him foreverthe playstation still running, half eaten doritos, the little 3d print thing... those small leftover bits of him are what get you every time. five nights a fortnight isn't enough for anyone, doesn't matter how "normal" it's supposed to be. the fact you're this cut up about missing him just means you're a good dad. hope the next visit comes quick for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/26 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Divorce is finalizedman this hit different. going through something similar rn (high conflict, not bipolar but close enough) and the log thing is no joke, my lawyer said the same thing about courts loving timelines over "she always does this" the "not your wife anymore" line though, that's the one that took me forever to actually feel not just know. you keep expecting old partner behavior and get none of it, messes with your head more than the actual fights do congrats on the relief man, even messy relief counts | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 02:40 PM |
| 12 | Coming to the realization my wife cheated on meyeah reading this from outside it's pretty obvious honestly. decade of "friends houses," months long trips to "parents," then suddenly acting like you don't deserve summers with your kids... that's not normal resentment that's guilt talking. and the olivia rodrigo thing lol, people who did the thing get real defensive about songs that hit close to home, that's a projection thing fr. you don't need her to confirm it to know what you know. cheaters rarely just admit it unless they're caught dead t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 02:17 PM |
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