| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 87 | First cold approach | Elipwnsyou | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 12:05 AM | |
| 30 | Got my first number yesterday! | Elipwnsyou | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 03:52 PM | |
| 17 | I've been friendzoned? | Elipwnsyou | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 01:03 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How can I get a good personality ?You have to start talking to people more. This sub often makes people think talking to girls is some super complicated formula with push pulls, responding to shit tests and whatever else but it really boils down to just being able to have a regular ass conversation with a woman without being a creepy weirdo and making your intentions known. The building block for talking to women is being able to talk to people in general, so make small talk, get good at it, and then transfer the skills to the o… | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Advice when you’re sure she’s into youGrowth and change over time is significantly different than changing your personality to fit the wants of some girl you just met. This weird psychoanalysis is cringe and I advise you to touch grass. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | How to create conversations people can respond to? or ask questions back to?A surefire way to tell if an interaction is going well is if the person you're speaking to is engaging in the conversation. If I ask a girl where she goes to school, and she gives me a one word answer, then i ask her if she likes it, another one word answer, and then i ask her what she likes about it and she gives another one word answer, chances are she's not into the conversation. A reciprocating question is like "What about you, where'd you go to school". A woman who's interested in you is go… | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Adding a girl you only got the first name ofIt'd be weird, get her number next time. You can try it, cant guarantee it'll work out | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you want to be her friend there's no reason not too, but don't stick around in hopes that she will suddenly change her mind and be with you. That's how you get stuck talking to her about all the people she's fucking that aren't you. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:58 PM |
| 10 | Good methods to stay calm around girls...Hold up... Girls shit? | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Is this fucked up beyond repair?This is a wrap my guy. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | I wish I was being drilled Rn <3? | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Is this guy trying to seduce me and what should I do?If you were in a foreign country would you be looking at your phone trying to text someone who isn't your boyfriend? He's enjoying his time in Mexico, so don't think anything of it. He'll hit you probably hit you back when he's in the states. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Any Wisconsin dudes in here that want to team up and game?What area? | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 11:55 PM |
| 2 | I love Trader Joe’s.Mr. Kelly we've talked about this | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 08:49 PM |
| 2 | 16 (M) never been laid, help me with this girlWalk around a non-boring part of your city and find something to eat there. Gives you more opportunity for physical escalation than sitting across from someone at a coffee shop. Not sure what your driving situation is at 16 but hopefully you can do it without parents involved and in the evening. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 02:01 AM |
| 3 | 16 (M) never been laid, help me with this girlI would say that if you have 0 experience with women at all, spending an entire day with a girl is a bit much for a 2nd date. Downgrade that to something more casual. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What should I snapchat her?What'd he say? | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm not very witty or funny. Am I screwed?You can get better at humor and wit just try to make people laugh and make your jokes with confidence. Learn what works and what doesn't and refine from there. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Got rejected thrice by my close girl friendRead Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | First cold approachYou know I will homie | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | First cold approachI feel you on that homie but i legitimately think if I had said something she would have stayed | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | First cold approachYeah, I definitely should have done that but i'll learn from it | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | First cold approachWorst part is how right you are man it stings. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | First cold approachThey were headed to like this big mosh pit and before I stopped her and when she came for her she said "I'm just gonna steal her well come see you afterwords". And this girl had this like, are you just gonna let her do this kinda look and I just froze up and was like yeah sure.And I wasn't really by my shit for like the next hour and a half so if they did, I missed them. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | First cold approachWell I had just finished up a beach wrestling match and I must gassed, washing myself off and she passed me, I had that second of self doubt shrugged that shit off came up touched her on the back of the elbow, got her attention and started talking. Whole thing went so fast I forgot her name and didn't think to get her number. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | My life with girls is literally over because I’m not good lookingI'm barely a beginner but, Attractiveness isn't a all in the physical, if you carry yourself like someone with confidence and self esteem, you can be attractive even if you aren't a 10/10. Focus on the shit you can control, don't just quit because you think your face is fucked. Getting muscles wont fix that, but to say that it wont help at all is a lie and its taking the easy way out. Ugly dudes hook up with hot girls all the time, whats stopping you from being like them? | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 06:10 AM |
| 1 | My life with girls is literally over because I’m not good lookingIf you can't even like yourself why would a girl want to be around you bro. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 04:50 AM |
| 27 | First cold approachI think it's still there my friend | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Got my first number yesterday!I mean, I sort of was worried about response time between but I think i'm doing alright as far as overall smoothness but once I realized that even if it doesn't work out, it'll be alright I stopped stressing and just started flowing. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Got my first number yesterday!I shot her a text the next morning and didnt get a response until like midnight, plan is to have like a 5 message back and forth before I set it up but if response time is as is then it could take a while. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Got my first number yesterday!Well I think the cold approaching thing seemed kinda weird to me at first, but then I looked at what my friends and I and 90% of dudes were doing, just sitting around, hoping, waiting and, swiping. I did that experiment for 21 years, and and it's pretty useless. Cold approach to me is taking life by the horns and making it what you want it to be, because you have to be confident in your appearance and yourself to make it work. I really couldn't care less about push pull, methods, or numbers but … | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Got my first number yesterday!Well during like the half hour before they started I talked to everyone around me to warm up, and then I gradually started talking to only her. She was a huge fangirl and I commented about how excited she was and how I wasn't sure if I could match her energy. Asked what songs she wanted to hear most, favorite songs from the album and told her my favorites and when they came on she would look at me or touch me and i'd smile back/touch her. During the show I wasn't doing too much, maybe I could ha… | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 05:19 PM |
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