So I cold approached this girl on campus, got her snapchat she texted me later that ight and we went on like a 2 walking date. Didn't try to kiss her because I am a betamale. She contacts me all the time, a sign of high interest, we've hung out a couple of times. I tried to kiss her on the second date and she sort of matrix dodged it to a hug (feelsbadman). So she texted me she thinks I'm a great guy and she wants to keep talking to me but she doesn't do anything with anyone she isn't in a relationship with. So i'm clearly somewhat in the door, but like how much effort is too much effort to put into a girl who won't even kiss you until you're official? We eat breakfast like every other day but I feel like it's long ass time commitment and I might be clinging to this because it's my first approach that's gone this well. Thoughts?