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FlakeyGhost/r/seduction18/01/19 09:09 PM
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He likes you.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:09 AM
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Hey all you idiots. You forgot one of the first rules of seduction. Don’t be thirsty. You look desperate af trying to see this girls legs now.
/r/seduction27/05/20 12:35 AM
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Since nobody else is fucking saying it and apparently it’s so fucking taboo to say it in this sub. Become more physically attractive.
/r/seduction03/04/20 03:44 AM
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Absolutely do not in any situation. It’s a huge bitch move and it’ll make you look like a bitch. Oh and as for needy behavior? Years of practice of approaching women, learning to deal with rejection, and working out to improve your appearance. What you’re doing right now is needy behavior.
/r/seduction01/04/20 09:27 PM
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You have to talk to them all.
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:02 AM
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You’re very likely right. So lose weight, tone your body, get a better haircut, and get better clothes. And in the mean time join clubs and take on leadership positions.
/r/seduction20/11/19 06:49 AM
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There’s no secret man. You just talk to her. Also there’s a 99.99% chance she rejects. But that’s not why you’re approaching. You’re approaching to get practice so that when you approach another girl after that the likely hood goes down to 99.98%. No matter what the outcome is with this girl it’s a success.
/r/seduction20/11/19 06:27 AM
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Lose weight, gain muscle mass, buy better clothing, join three clubs that are woman dominated that you would probably enjoy and commit to them for several years. Make friends with the women in those clubs and integrate into those social circles. Outside of that do cold approaches daily or bi daily to cut your anxiety. It takes a couple years. All the finer details you see on here are generally useless for people that haven’t been in game for half a decade honestly. Game is something you learn fo…
/r/seduction20/11/19 05:44 AM
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This is kinda incomplete advice.
/r/seduction10/11/19 05:11 AM
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I’d commit to a slut for sure yo
/r/seduction01/11/19 01:58 AM
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Guys need to initiate kissing unfortunately. Now that I said that a bunch of y’all will think I mean forcing yourself on her or misreading queues.
/r/seduction28/10/19 05:43 PM
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Opposite for me.
/r/seduction28/10/19 05:40 PM
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Omg jesus where are you from?
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:56 PM
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To be physically attractive. I hate that we don’t talk enough about this on here. Lower your body fat % and start building muscle mass. Fitting stylish clothes and a good haircut,
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:10 PM
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Yeah but what if I don’t want a relationship but a FWBs.
/r/seduction27/10/19 03:01 AM
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“That’s all right. Talk to you soon” Any variation of that. But tbh this means she’s not interested.
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:09 PM
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Men have no experience hitting on men so your best bet is to ask other women. Careful taking a man’s advice on here.
/r/seduction19/10/19 03:13 AM
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Guess I better tell the girls i dated after approaching them in public that they shouldn’t have liked it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:18 AM
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The trick is to stay quiet and reserved in the beginning. Don’t approach or be chatty. They’ll start to get curious. It’s gotta be a loooonnnng time though
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:38 AM
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Agree
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:47 PM
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Lol me too. I’ll literally walk away mid sentence.
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:43 PM
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I wish I had more time to reply man, but as someone who very much has been in you’re position I totally know how you feel and still feel that way from time to time. Just don’t give up. You’ve learned more than you realized. It WILL pay off.
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:15 AM
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She’s not interested. She likes the attention. Trust me, attraction should be simple and kissing is like shaking hand of attraction ngl. Hard cut contact. I’d block tbh.
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:16 AM
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Yup and this is where the douche bag is born. Be humble but assured in your decisions.
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:20 PM
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Excellent advice. Girls I didn’t find attractive initially became very attractive to me after doing these things I’ve noticed
/r/seduction25/09/19 09:57 PM
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Get the fuck off tinder.
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:32 PM
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This is 100% flirting. Nothing ambiguous here. And to signify interest you don’t need to flirt back you just need to talk. Ask questions about them.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:57 PM
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Just be real careful on how you do it. It needs to be something she wants to hear and something that sounds sincere
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:19 AM
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I’ve been doing game off and on the same amount of time and these are the exact things I’ve noticed. Good shit bro.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:16 AM
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Yup. Every guy on here could be getting laid far more often if they lowered their standards to below their own looks. But they won’t for the same reason the women they want won’t.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:14 AM
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Yeah i started getting better solidly a couple months ago and stopped coming around. I totally see why guys don’t stick around. There’s just so much differing opinions on low context questions.
/r/seduction15/08/19 03:26 AM
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So you’re agreeing with me?
/r/seduction15/08/19 03:20 AM
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You’re right that timing is important. However the way you think timing works is wrong for the way a man needs to think of timing when it comes to women. Women are flighty, forgetful, and have no attention span even with men they liked very much. I’ve waited more than a month to meet up with a woman that I’ve met at say a party or a bar and ended up sleeping with her. Would I recommend it as a strategy to other guys? Absolutely fucking not. And no experienced seducer would either. The longer the…
/r/seduction14/08/19 01:07 PM
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Who gives a shit. Their loss. Next.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:06 AM
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Isn’t that the guy that faked some of his day game videos?
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:05 AM
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Bad advice. Man this sub is a jerk around.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:02 AM
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That’s a no fellas. Take note. She’ll text him a bit. He’ll try to set up a quick date more than one time then she’ll ghost him once the validation she’s receiving from him turns stale.
/r/seduction14/08/19 04:41 AM
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She was underage for bars. Not for college campus. She was 20.
/r/seduction29/06/19 02:49 PM
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Lmao. She was 20.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:14 AM
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handsome
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:54 AM
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Lmao. Lots of experienced guys would disagree hard with you.
/r/seduction25/06/19 03:01 AM
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I agree
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:17 PM
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Lmao dude. I hit on like 8 girls that night and I showed up with a girl.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:33 PM
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That could be it yeah.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:32 PM
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Yes she was!! Totally forgot girls do this. !solved
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:01 PM
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Yeah. Haha. Who knows what was going on.
/r/seduction23/06/19 05:36 PM
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I was just standing around drinking. I was with a female friend. I think she was just seeing what my pull was. All looky no touchy.
/r/seduction23/06/19 05:22 PM
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Oh yeah
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:55 PM
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The Briggs Myers test is a feel good data vacuous test. https://youtu.be/Q5pggDCnt5M
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:58 PM
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I needed this
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:55 AM
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Just be yourself is absolutely terrible advice. It’s a completely vacuous statement that provides no real and actionable help. You can test this by asking 100 people what the statement means and you’ll get 100 differing answers.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:37 AM
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Yes, but who?
/r/seduction18/06/19 06:03 PM
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That’s the million dollar question, man.
/r/seduction18/06/19 05:20 PM
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It’s no worse than it was. It’s just different. This a logical fallacy.
/r/seduction18/06/19 05:19 PM
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Which ones were frauds and why?
/r/seduction18/06/19 05:16 PM
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Hey man. Get off tinder. Get out into the world and do it old fashion. Trust me. It’s just so much better.
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:36 AM
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Lmao It’s boot camp
/r/seduction15/06/19 04:29 PM
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Nice, man.
/r/seduction15/06/19 04:15 PM
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No amount of book reading and gaming can replace good looks. Start with grooming and weight loss. Don’t get too deep into game before you even take care of your fundamentals.
/r/seduction05/06/19 03:23 AM
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Love your shit man.
/r/seduction04/06/19 09:14 PM
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That’s is very attractive yes.
/r/seduction04/06/19 08:42 PM
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What differs between the two fundamentally?
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:38 PM
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Describe your looks.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:36 PM
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Nice man. I’ve read up on best cities with male to female ratios and young ages and DC regularly comes up near the top. What do you mean that “about something”. Off to spend money, do errands?
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:33 PM
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Well if you knew that then why did you tell him not to approach women he didn’t already know?
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:30 PM
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And this why women often give bad advice to picking up women. They don’t have experience picking up women and They think they speak for more women than they actually do. It’s why I try not to give women advice on how to pick up men. I have no experience trying to pick up men.
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:00 AM
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Approaching random girls isn’t creepy if you’re not being creepy. Source: guy who approaches randomly and gets dates from it.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:29 AM
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I see you around a lot man. What kind of city/environment do you live in? I’m in a college city.
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:22 AM
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Will it make me cringe? Lol. Brb gonna watch it.
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:52 AM
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So basically what I do already. Guccie. How do you usually walk up to them though?
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:45 AM
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My man! Keep doing it as much as you can!
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:17 AM
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Yeah I’m the only guy I know that does it.
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:55 AM
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It’s my bread and butter. I get more results out of it than anything else.
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:55 AM
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Don’t double text her. She’s not interested. Go talk to other women.
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:48 AM
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Lmao. Been there man. My advice is probably shit but you’ve got to make her do the work here. Make her feel the need to make it up to you. “Yeah I was really uncomfortable, glad you’re okay though”
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:26 AM
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I more so meant that the most of a compliment I’ll give is that.
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:06 AM
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Yeah that’s how I do it now. Tons more progress. I may say “hey thought you were cute and wanted to come say hi” then slowly try and steer the conversation into her trying to impress me.
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:39 AM
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Get off dating apps. The competition is to fierce for men. Go out into the real world and learn to approach.
/r/seduction27/05/19 07:22 PM
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It kinda is :/
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:13 PM
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I’m a little confused. Are you saying damn cuz it’s cringey?
/r/seduction24/05/19 08:32 PM
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Wut?
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:01 AM
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Literally anything. Eventually you’ll find your own rhythm. Just got to talk to hundreds of girls and get rejected.
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:01 AM
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Number 2 is excellent. I’ll def be using it.
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:58 AM
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Same here. Very strict no double texting rule.
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:49 AM
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It’s just spam. Report it.
/r/seduction12/05/19 02:14 PM
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There really is no other way. Approaching a lot of girls in quick succession is what gave me the most.
/r/seduction04/05/19 08:05 PM
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Knew all of this but regardless I always like to say thanks. You’ve taught me quite a bit all together. Please keep posting.
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:01 AM
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No you won’t if you drop it fast and move on.
/r/seduction04/05/19 12:51 AM
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Yeah. u/hector_castillo taught me this. It works really well. Don’t skirt around it but don’t be butt hurt. State it as matter of fact. Let her know you’ve got self respect.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:14 PM
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Still do but I’m sooo much better now. Takes literally hundreds of approaches.
/r/seduction03/05/19 06:30 PM
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I’m 23 man and I def get results from it. It’s pretty much all I use anymore.
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:55 PM
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You should have absolutely no problem finding dozens of women your age through the day to hit on. Also I can’t imagine your campus shutting down over the summer. That’s hard to believe. They must have a summer semester. Do you have cafeterias, student unions, libraries? You don’t need bars and clubs to hit on girls.
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:38 AM
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Yeah, guys aren’t nearly as picky as girls. Not that just by texting him he’ll come running.
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:42 PM
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Okay, what country are you in? What kind of university are you attending? A large state university? What’s the size of the city the university is in?
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:25 PM
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You’d be surprised to still find girls even then on campus. Also no summer classes?
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:45 AM
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Literally anywhere on campus.
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:33 AM
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Takes a lot of practice man. No one answer either. Just need to start reminding yourself periodically through out the day how few things actually matter.
/r/seduction20/04/19 09:33 AM
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Lmao, absolutely not. Don’t think twice about it.
/r/seduction20/04/19 01:38 AM
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Good job man. Keep it up. :)
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:07 PM
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Let me know how it goes, bud. They show up?
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:29 PM
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Yeah I am being a bit negative. You’re very right. I’ve gotten dates from my first approach in a week and not gotten one after 15 approaches. Guess I’m trying to curb the guys expectations lol.
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:22 PM
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Meet more women. A lot more women. I’m too lazy to explain why rn.
/r/seduction17/04/19 05:00 AM
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That’s good! But they usually do... I’m not saying it would surprise me they actually show up. Just that it’s far more common what I’ve told. Other more experienced men in here can corroborate I would assume.
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:26 AM
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Lmao. That’s not how it works, bud. I’ve done that before. Doesn’t do shit. The closer it gets to time of date the more anxious they’ll get and the more likely they will flake then ghost. Especially here at the end of the semester as time gets tighter. That’s even if they were interested to begin at all and not just being polite. 7 cold approaches is too few to get a date out of cold approaching.
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:20 AM
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Fuck it man. Who gives a shit. You had the guts to go for something. More than she can probably say about most things she’s wanted. She’s one of many. Her opinion means little... and so does mine.
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:07 AM
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And she WILL flake.
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:03 AM
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Are you me? Lol. It’s like reading my own FR’s. Also they’ll both flake.
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:00 AM
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Now do that 100 more times.
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:57 AM
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What happened?
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:55 AM
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What you mean man?
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:13 AM
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I hot on a third girl. Don’t worry. Senior going to med school.
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:10 AM
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This is is really dishonest. There are girls that are willing to be FWB only OP. Don’t do this.
/r/seduction12/04/19 01:45 AM
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Lmao “give up”
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:12 PM
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I love it. Now if only I had more time to approach. I’d be further along lol.
/r/seduction10/04/19 07:59 PM
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Oh I’m VERY aware of that. Game has far more to do with how she’s feeling and what’s going in her head and life than it does with how smooth or charismatic the guy is (not that it doesn’t have an enormous impact). But we’re looking for girls that are open to being approached and meeting new guys (in the moment we approach at the very least). We just got to talk to a lot of them to find the ones that are.
/r/seduction10/04/19 05:11 PM
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Lots and lots of eye contact and smiling if you want him to come to you. But be careful asking guys on how to pickup guys. We don’t have experience seducing men.
/r/seduction08/04/19 05:52 PM
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Calling bullshit.
/r/seduction08/04/19 05:23 AM
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Get off tinder
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:26 PM
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REALLY needed this. Thanks man.
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:20 PM
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Hey man, nice to hear from you again. Feels like a myriad of things. But it seems to be a mix between AA and girls flaking/no interest. Girls give out numbers like hot cakes so that's not a problem. I started game November of 2017 when I had a lot more downtown. I was really after just approaching and getting AA and really got it down 9 months after starting. Since the beginning of this year, this semester, as a fifth year senior I've become much more encumbered in school work and well... I didn…
/r/seduction30/03/19 07:49 PM
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It’s most likely she sees you as only a friend. Girls are just like that. Guys become “only friends” to them very fast. Unless she’s been given you signals that she finds you attractive (eye contact, sheepish smiles etc) I’d say go after other new girls and turn those into FWB.
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:36 PM
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YES!!!!
/r/seduction27/03/19 05:34 PM
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TL;DW? I’m in class
/r/seduction27/03/19 05:16 PM
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You’re my favorite dating coach. Just wanted to tell you. No cringey pick up lingo, no fake tool persona, just honest wanting to get better with women. I like to read more than I like to watch. You should write articles more.
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:31 AM
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Abs are in first place with the large majority of women.
/r/seduction18/03/19 03:33 AM
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Get ready for so sooooo much more of this.
/r/seduction18/03/19 03:28 AM
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That’s why they’re here.
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:44 AM
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Literally every expert says day game cold approaches are the way to go.
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:42 AM
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Learn to club without drinking and do cold approaches.
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:39 AM
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Maybe once or twice a day. Not every day though. Maybe 3 times a week. Many times I don’t even ask for a number. I used to be a lot better. :/
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:32 AM
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Not in the US it is. 5'5" for white women under 50. 5'4" for all women.
/r/seduction13/03/19 08:25 PM
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I'm in a frat and live one street back from all the clubs/bars in my city. I'm getting tired of the loud music and snotty girls. I like day game girls better.
/r/seduction13/03/19 08:23 PM
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Take my advice with a whole salt shaker as I'm not an expert, but my few years in game has taught me that unless you are literally the top 10% of looks and photogenic any game done online is a complete dead end. You will waste so much emotional resource and time on it with nothing in return. They will never message you back in if by some miracle they do expect a couple sparse terse messages then ghost. Messaging online is easy and that's why so many men message women online. The competition is u…
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:36 PM
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Yeah, I get this from time to time too, and it's straight slut shaming for men. Could also use some advice too. lol
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:29 PM
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Do NOT use dating apps. We cannot stress that enough.
/r/seduction26/02/19 12:41 PM
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Dude seems like a total tool. Can’t stand him.
/r/seduction26/02/19 11:47 AM
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Just means you need more practice.
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:20 PM
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/u/hector_castillo taught me that this is badd advice unless you are a real baller.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:58 PM
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Dude, we have all been in your position many times and have tried many things. Listen to us. Ghost her HARD and go talk to other girls.
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:16 AM
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This is actually something studied in psych. Humans value things of low obtainability.
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:06 AM
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Talk to more girls. No faster or better way.
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:59 PM
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Just move on man. Finding her on social media will make you look desperate.
/r/seduction17/02/19 11:33 PM
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I needed to hear this. Thank you.
/r/seduction16/02/19 09:14 AM
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The first few are the hardest.
/r/seduction16/02/19 12:23 AM
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That's a non sequitur. Your attractiveness doesn't keep you from physically walking up and talking to a person. You want to learn how to get better with men? This is how you do it. Walking up and practicing conversation is the name of the game in seduction. I understand what you are saying though. For attractive people this will work much better and a lot more dates will come of it. But even though you may not look like them it doesn't mean you won't ever get dates from it. Cold approaches are t…
/r/seduction15/02/19 03:51 PM
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Yeah, I always feel bad for girls here. I have a female friend that’s really shy and insecure that asks me advice (I’m novice at best mind you) from time to time. I tell her I don’t have much advice because I have no experience picking up men. So be wary of advice from men on here. But I’d imagine that the rudimentary things still hold. Fundamentals as most call them Improve your appearance (physique, good haircut, hygiene, flattering and well fitting clothes, acne care, posture, etc) Then work …
/r/seduction15/02/19 12:27 AM
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Yeah sounds like I could benefit from such
/r/seduction04/02/19 04:11 AM
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Where’d you get this from?
/r/seduction04/02/19 04:07 AM
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Chase amante
/r/seduction04/02/19 04:06 AM
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Yeah. I get it. Thanks bud.
/r/seduction19/01/19 01:32 AM
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Oh yeah I’ve done that before. I usually go with a hard ghost though. Figure I don’t owe her an explanation and that I run the risk of coming of as weak.
/r/seduction19/01/19 01:12 AM
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What did she say?
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:57 AM
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Lol. I know. That’s why I deleted her.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:42 PM
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Lmao. Big deal.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:23 PM
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Yeah, she seems pretty timid, but she did show up to the last frat party saying it was the first party she'd ever been to. Said she looked for me but I was working the bar and she never came to the bar as it gets pretty over run. Over all though I agree with your view a bit.
/r/seduction18/01/19 09:30 PM
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Spread out your texts more, so as to keep the convo going without her going into full autorejection but keeping you sane. .
/r/seduction18/01/19 09:26 PM
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Because the title is why women date assholes and what nice guys need to do. You’re comment very much seems like you’re disagreeing in one way or another.
/r/seduction14/01/19 03:44 PM
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Kinda think you’re missing the point. He’s trying to say that girls don’t necessarily like assholes but that they like confident men which plenty of sweet/nice men are. He even calls it a myth in the first 10 seconds...
/r/seduction14/01/19 03:09 PM
1

You really should. Just put it on in the background. I did it while doing dishes and folding laundry. Lots of good stuff in here. Some stuff I have heard but it was a great refresher.
/r/seduction27/12/18 09:35 PM
5

There’s some good nitty gritty stuff in here. I recommend people check it out while doing a chore or driving.
/r/seduction27/12/18 09:25 PM
4

YES!!
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:02 AM
1

This works better than anything I have ever used.
/r/seduction23/10/18 08:13 PM
1

Absolutely wrong. I say that from TONS of field experience.
/r/seduction23/10/18 08:11 PM
3

Dude, I started pick up a year ago and the last couple weeks I've been thinking the same thing and have been wanting to make the same post. Just as you noted its persistence until the next milestone is hit but goddamn is so much effort needed to be put in. It's hard not to find yourself getting bitter from time to time.
/r/seduction12/10/18 04:02 PM
1

Yeah.
/r/seduction09/10/18 09:34 PM
1

Yeah, girls don't to be partiers for you to pull them but she just seemed boring and that's always a no go. Stay chill brochacho.
/r/seduction08/10/18 01:08 AM
6

Good article btw. Spot on.
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:56 AM
1

Just to see how'd she react. Wish I had a better answer. lol.
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:55 AM
1

The mailman bit I'll often do if I'm on the run but I'll usually go up and say hi and everything. It's not the only thing I do. Plus I'm not into cheesy routine like pick up lines. Just not my thing. Good if it works for you though. The reason I deleted hers was because during our convo she said she never goes out, never drinks, never really does much, seemed like a boring person tbh. Combine that with her having a bf it seemed like it would just not go any where so it defaulted her as a good ca…
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:54 AM
1

I want to gild this.
/r/seduction29/08/18 06:43 PM
1

Don’t fall for it. Now is the time to pull back even more. That’s my personal opinion but I’m honestly not that good with women but I’ve noticed the less attention I give to women the better.
/r/seduction29/08/18 06:37 PM
1

Sure you don’t have much to lose but I think you need to learn to never ask girls out on insta.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:54 PM
1

To not message her, unfollow her, and talk to other girls AFK.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:37 PM
1

You can’t. This will not work. Lower your expectations.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:22 PM
1

She’s not interested and she’s not going to be interested the next time you text regardless of what you text her. Next girl.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:18 PM
5

Well I’m not the least bit familiar with pickup principles that’s why I’m here. Thought you were being a dick. Sorry bro. Wasn’t trying to tell you how to do your job.
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:21 PM
3

Put that in your edit. I almost downvoted you.
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:16 PM
1

It's probably a gradient. She's flaking because she's busy. If she was more into you she'd come out. If she were less busy she'd come out. In either case stop making plans with her cold turkey and next girl! NEXT!
/r/seduction24/05/18 08:00 PM
1

That's it. If she doesn't reply she doesn't reply. She might text back, but I wouldn't bet on it. I'm failry novice, but it looks like you were just a bit too pushy. Lesson learned. Next girl. NEXT!
/r/seduction24/05/18 07:56 PM
1

Yeah that's what I'd give myself too.
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:26 AM
1

I've never been able to get a girl that attractive to give me the time of day. Maybe I just need practice but still ya know? I don't have the money to get professional photos and don't have friends that have a nice camera and I don't think even if they would they would come out and take pictures of me for tinder. Any other Ideas.
/r/seduction20/05/18 08:56 PM
1

All right here https://imgur.com/a/CJW0F3D
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:38 PM
1

Well I think I do have good pics. Don’t think I could do much better.
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:39 PM
1

https://imgur.com/a/snTLdvj More pics
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:15 PM
1

Haha. Well I tried.
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:05 PM
1

I very much know this but I’m in a place where this is no girls whatsoever. I tell every guy that’s on tinder to get off it.
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:04 PM
1

DTW?
/r/seduction18/05/18 04:16 PM
1

When I was in psych classes we read studies that stated significant efficacy for actively thinking 5 positive thoughts for each negative thought.
/r/seduction14/05/18 03:17 AM
3

You handled that pretty well. I would have said “I’d rather get your number”
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:36 PM
1

I wondered that for a long time too and tried using MS paint before buying an app that would do it. It’s called “Stitch it!” Worth the money. You’ll use it more than you think.
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:22 PM
2

I don’t chase and neither should you.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:31 AM
3

They dooooo but not enough to actually pursue you back. I just approach with no expectations. It’s just fun to feel myself getting better at approaching girls. Once in a while you’ll get one that actually bites back and then it’s even more fun.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:11 AM
2

She more than likely will ignore your text. Be ready for it.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:29 PM
1

Thanks man! Great feed back. I’ll be sure to do this. The reason I want to keep this bar is because I want to be able to enter it if my friends so happen be to go there when be hop. But I’d love here what alternatives you got. Always looking to expand my social life.
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:23 PM
1

Thanks man. Really appreciate it!
/r/seduction07/05/18 03:40 AM
1

Thanks man. Any advice on how to handle this situation? Like usually who’s the best to talk to? Would I even be on a blacklist?
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:52 AM
2

Uhh. I disagree. Everybody has their favorite hangout for drinking.
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:15 AM
5

Lol. Love it. Holding hands is so innocenct how could a girl have that much reservations about it?
/r/seduction07/05/18 01:15 AM
6

Yeah, I wouldn't be putting anymore effort into this.
/r/seduction07/05/18 01:04 AM
4

I ate her out.
/r/seduction05/05/18 06:09 PM
1

This was from long ago man. Way passed forgotten.
/r/seduction01/05/18 04:16 PM
3

Honestly man. Just text her and say “hey it’s ____ put my number in your phone” if she texts anything back ask her out. If she ghosts you or gives you a run around delete her number, go get other girls numbers. Go do cold approaches.
/r/seduction01/05/18 01:48 AM
2

Expect 100% that she will give you the run around or just straight ghost. Numbers mean nothing.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:17 PM
1

Yeah, tinder is pretty useless.
/r/seduction28/04/18 10:24 PM
2

They aren’t
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:31 PM
2

Wish I had that problem. Good luck man.
/r/seduction28/04/18 03:56 PM
3

I’ve lived around the country. I’m not trolling. Girls on the extreme majority want LTRs no matter where they are.
/r/seduction28/04/18 03:46 PM
1

The United States. Big college city too.
/r/seduction28/04/18 03:40 PM
5

Wtf are you talking about? The extreme majority of women want LTRs.
/r/seduction28/04/18 03:34 PM
1

And expect her to not reply or just give you the run around. This is the first number of, and I’m not kidding you, hundreds that you should be aiming to get.
/r/seduction27/04/18 11:44 PM
5

I'm a novice so don't take what I say as standard. What I've been taught by men that have been doing this for decades is to have the mannerisms and voice of a guy like this. Speaks with conviction, low tone, not hyper, slowly. He speaks this way because he can. He speaks the way he does because the world comes to him. I've been practicing this and I've noticed a big improvement in how women see me.
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:03 PM
2

Is it? Or are you joking at how grandiose this is lol.
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:45 AM
2

Honestly wish this wasn’t true tbh
/r/seduction26/04/18 09:59 PM
1

Yep you got it lol. I didn’t nut but I think she did. I knew these guys super well too.
/r/seduction26/04/18 09:50 PM
1

Dude I couldn’t fuck her on the couch. People are constantly coming in and out of that room. Also she was damn hot. Total babe. And I did like her. I think you’re over playing how much I said I like her. I think I said it once?
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:42 PM
1

Well I want to know your opinion now. Lol.
/r/seduction26/04/18 07:23 PM
2

Oh please man no don’t think she was so gone that she wasn’t able to consent. I have never and would never take advantage of a girl in that situation. Like seriously it brings me to tears to think of myself doing that. If it makes you feel any better we’re known as hilariously tame. We don’t haze, we don’t discriminate, our parties are very small and tame compared to every other frat and most of our brothers are DND playing dweebs.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:56 PM
1

I wasn’t taking advantage of her? I don’t understand. I never once gave her a drink or anything. We just started talking. She wasn’t not of her own volition at any time.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:42 PM
7

Yeah I’m so pissed at my frat bros. When the hell in the history of frats did that not become okay?
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:37 PM
1

Whys that? Do I sound that much like an idiot? Lol.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:34 PM
3

Ask him to come study with you.
/r/seduction25/04/18 01:43 PM
14

How’s “Im not sure when I’m going to be free this weekend” ?
/r/seduction24/04/18 11:19 PM
0

I respectfully disagree, both humans with the same broad spectrum of interests, aspirations, and emotions. What’s different is the dynamic of which our society has women and men interact. Switch those roles and you’d have similar results. And that’s why these things are so powerful in my opinion. They center around the human. Not the gender.
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:53 PM
1

Yes, the law of least effort and unobtainability works on everyone. It’s so powerful that even knowing the other person is doing it doesn’t take away its efficacy. Also I wouldn’t be asking me for advice so much as 1st I’m a novice and 2nd a guy, meaning I have no experience picking up men.
/r/seduction24/04/18 07:55 PM
2

Thank you. I aspire to be in your position one day.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:57 PM
3

Yeah that was him trying to get her attention and see if she was interested but she more or less didn’t give him a reason to believe she was.
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:48 PM
1

How old are you and how long did it take to reach that level?
/r/seduction24/04/18 04:45 PM
1

Thanks man! Yeah I knew I shouldn’t have texted her but my friend was very adimant and I was high and drunk and caved. I’m thinking texting her Tuesday or Wednesday to come study with me where I’ll have her come get coffe or some shit near my place then back up to my place to watch tv and I’ll try to fuck her. I think she might be coming to our frat party Wednesday? Idk if I can close there. Parties are really hard for me.
/r/seduction24/04/18 01:41 AM
2

thanks man. I'm fully aware too. lol. Just wanted to start up a case study I guess.
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:13 PM
1

yeah i kinda unghosted lol
/r/seduction22/04/18 09:12 PM
1

What games am I playing and what should I do?
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:02 PM
1

I guess it's something I'll try practicing.
/r/seduction22/04/18 04:01 AM
1

Yeah that is true. I do better with hotter girls when I'm hornier cuz I give less of a fuck lol.
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:37 AM
0

Lunch cuz I wanted to try something different and try not to act like I was trying to fuck her... which means mid day. Lately I've been in a rut because I've hiked my standards up way high and that I get too antsy to fuck them which hotter girls aren't so eager to because my looks aren't enough to win them over like less attractive girls so I look thirsty which is a turn off. But yeah there's a pizza place across from where I live that serves beer and I usually take girls there and back to my pl…
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:21 AM
1

Dude, I'm telling you the truth.
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:17 AM
2

Just this once I want to disect a girl. Is that okay with you? All the other countless numbers I trashed just like you would approve of but this one I figured I'd slow down and study it. Big deal.
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:07 AM
0

Seems like most of this I could do or have done. Couple questions. Calling is super weird for our age. It's strictly reserved for family and professional calls. I'm not sure if you know this and have taken it into account. Also the "adventure" dialogue reads a bit... and Im sure it's not in practice and done correctly... but cringey to read? Maybe I just don't know the finer mechanics.
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:05 AM
1

Hahaha. Settle down. This girl is a case study for me. I legit approach girls constantly and get their numbers. It's in the triple digits since I started 6 months ago.
/r/seduction22/04/18 02:58 AM
6

Grammar was atrocious but I learned something lol.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:21 PM
1

I don't know man I'm just trying not to over think this and I know once I start trying too hard it's not going to be fun. And to me all of a sudden trying to get into her pants just isn't going to work for me. So I'm just gonna talk to you nice people and learn and see what happens ya know?
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:19 PM
1

Oh yeah I'd love to fuck her but I'm doing this more for the practice and experience rather than anything else.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:13 PM
11

It was an honest mistake. I was peak high and drunk lol.
/r/seduction21/04/18 10:12 PM
3

I actually know here because of my frat brother that went to her party. I met her at one of our frat parties. She's the stereotypical hot girl with the vocal fry and everything. We are having an around the world party, is that good enough to invite her to?
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:44 PM
7

Thanks man haha. It is pretty funny isn't it? lol
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:41 PM
2

What does "aired me" mean?
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:40 PM
3

What kind of response would I get and how do I respond to that? My text game is really really bad. I'm much better in person.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:01 PM
5

Really have no Idea what to do tbh lol.
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:51 PM
1

Dude, So proud of you.
/r/seduction21/04/18 07:26 PM
1

Abosulutely great advice thank you.
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:23 PM
3

Why should I even go?
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:18 AM
3

She’s like 18. I’m 22.
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:41 PM
2

I'll be honest with you. I don't think I have enough game to do that lol.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:46 PM
15

Hahaha. This is a real possibility.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:45 PM
1

What makes you think that?
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:29 PM
9

Oh for sure. Lol. Thanks for corroborating though. Sometimes we need a little outside perspective to confirm our best assessments.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:12 PM
15

I know right? Huge turn off. I don't even want to go anymore. Thinking of whether or not I should ghost her.
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:02 PM
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