The reason why I want to talk to you about this is mainly because I see such a high percentage of men babbling around, over-complicating things and stressing way too much when it comes to just having fun in a conversation.

Ok, so these 4 mindsets are :

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1. She’s going to respond with a good reaction.

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Why is it crucial to keep that in mind? Women are wired in such a way, that they respond more to energy conveyed rather than words. Words are merely a vehicle from which your inner state is carried in the external world, and onto the girl. Before you open your mouth to approach her, your energy will. Let’s say for example there’s a guy that has negative beliefs, thinking that he will get rejected if he goes and talks to a girl. Imagine what’s going to happen when he comes near her. Exactly, she will smell his repulsive vibe from miles away and instantly reject him. Don’t be that guy. Believe she is going to respond in a positive way, and she will!

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2. You two already know each other for years.

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This one is big. Once you adopt this mindset and act as if you two already know each other, the girls you talk to will actually keep telling you they feel like they already know you. This will give the conversation a flavor of ease, making it flow smoothly, making her feel very comfortable and open to spending time in your presence. Generating this familiarity will make you stand out from every other guy around her, humanize the interaction, and make the connection warmer between the 2 of you.

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3. Patience wins her over.

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As you probably know, the more time you spend with the girl, the more comfortable she will feel around you. Whenever she feels like you’re rushing things, or the sexual escalation doesn’t “just happen”, she will immediately start turning cold on you or even remove herself from the situation. That’s when you should just back off and calibrate accordingly to the given scenario. Always keep in mind that less is more. The less you do, the farther you’re gonna get with the girl.

DISCLAIMER: If you don't genuinely like the girl, having patience with her, despite you not wanting to, will only make you resent yourself and her in the end. Do this with girls you actually want, not for the sake of wasting time.

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4. You genuinely offer value to the interaction, and that makes you a win for her.

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It’s really important to trust that you actually bring a huge plus to the table. Start thinking of how you add to her experience, and how you’re making it a win-win situation, without her feeling that she is losing in some way by staying and talking to you. This mindset will put you straight into a rejection-proof zone, where you literally have this halo effect around you, emanating just good energy around you, without trying to take anything from the girl. Even if certain girls wouldn’t respond to your approach, that’s more of a logistical/screening issue, rather than something you’re doing wrong.

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P.S: Feel free to contact me if you have ANY questions related to pick up. I'll make sure I'll answer them.