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Agree with everything here. I don't understand how this girl was seen as a good girl. OP seems to have got her pretty easily, uncovered a major lie and still proposes, the girl is going out to bars and reducing communication, she's competing financially. The impression I got is boss babe, so recreation only, not ltr and def not marriage.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/26 07:12 AM
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It's important because she said that was her state. Finding out she's not, means she is lying, with the purpose to gaslight him so he stays in the relationship. OP said she was hot, so he'd likely still date her if she was not a virgin. The truth is the issue.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/26 07:09 AM
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The time you get this feeling, is exactly the time you should be making the move to get in closer with a kiss or even sex, depending on environment. Like when you are in a dangerous situation and you get adrenaline telling you fight or flight and you are choosing flight. Challenge yourself to take the risk, step out your comfort to get the benefit at whatever the cost is. Try it once, see what happens. Just remember, if she doesn't go with it, you stop, be nice, and make up some reason why you h…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:38 AM
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I think I experienced something similar to you. I love sex, but sex with plates is kind of empty without the emotional connection. I really prefer sex with the emotional connection, it's way better than plates.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:29 AM
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I've barely changed my weight, I'm about 6'2. Long ago, I hit max of 340lbs, much fat. I went down as low as 229lbs, but had no muscle. I'm currently about 245lbs with a pretty good amount of muscle that has changed my shape to look somewhat athletic. The treatment is much different. I used to feel invisible to women, now I catch them looking at me. Most will engage in flirting if my approach is on point.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:08 AM
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OMG I'm living this right now. The intense feeling and butterflies that don't go away. That week just ended and I don' t know what's coming next, but I know I need to talk to some new girls. I thought I was strong enough to keep that oneitis away, but fuck it's strong.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:32 AM
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It's not that bad, once you get the hang of how they think and react. The important part is making sure you are mentally strong, because they will always try to get you worked up over something. The strength they look for in men is more mental strength than physical.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:45 AM
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Leave her at plate status and spin her with other plates. If you can't trust her, she's not relationship material, so keep that off the table. Use her for your interests and don't get bothered if you upset her. You seem to be having a oneitis thing going on with her, so make sure you are talking with other women(including sex).
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:39 AM
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Some women don't feel fulfilled in their relationship. Something the SO isn't doing. Usually has to do with paying attention to her or the way he treats her. So in some way she feels unwanted. This woman that feels unwanted is vulnerable and you can get her to cheat by doing what her bf isn't doing for her. Could be something as simple as letting her vent about her day to you. Each woman is different, but there are a lot of things that are the same with how they want to be treated. Especially wh…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:29 AM
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Not on your own, don't do it. I'd just sit there watching with a smile like that meme of michael jackson at the movies with popcorn. Now if she comes and hides behind you requesting your intervention/protection/safety, then you should ask the guy to leave her alone politely (always try to allow another male to retain his respect and dignity to avoid a physical fight/drama). If he wants to continue and starts getting physical, then you want to make the decision of either leaving the place with he…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:48 AM
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It's urine, 100% sure of that. There was a recent scientific study using ultrasound to measure bladder contents and there was a significant reduction of urine post squirt. However, the fluid itself isn't 100% urine, there is a small percentage of other material in it. It's also a very pleasurable feeling for the woman. So the way I like to look at it now, is that it's a very pleasurable release of urine. So might want to get used to getting peed on, if you give a shit about women climaxing with …
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:41 AM
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Look at it from a manipulation point of view. If she knows that she can get you to attack other men because they hit on her, she's going to be hella inviting. She's going to be craving that excitement of drawing some guy in and then making sure you find out to see how dramatic you react. Now if she has to possibly take a punch or something physical before you step in, she's going to be much more choosy about when she actually needs you. Not only that, but you can't watch the girl 24/7. Do you re…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:34 AM
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If you are at 0 it might be difficult. However, after you start gaining confidence and the intuition on when to move in on a potential plate, you will find it's pretty easy to get an average girl to want sex with you.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:42 AM
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I don't really see how you care about this. As long as she is free of disease, what's the big deal? You think you own her or that you should be the only partner she will ever have in her life? It's just your turn with her, enjoy it while it lasts and stop getting hung up over her count.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:45 PM
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TRP should not be making you be someone you are not. It's just techniques to bring the best of who you are and how to deal with others that are actually the ones that would try to change you.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:55 PM
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There are some women you can have a deep conversation with. It's unlikely they will catch your interest sexually as well. There are plenty of dumb men out there too that can't think deeply. It's just people. When you open a woman for conversation, you set the tone for what's going to happen. If you open flirty and playful, you aren't going to be able to go into a scientific discussion. They are just as capable as men of deep thought, but when they WANT to do it can be different. The best general…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:26 PM
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You need new friends, especially if those are guy friends. Tearing you down? No, that's not normal. I'm getting nothing but positive support over my body transformation, better attitude, ambition, etc.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:45 AM
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I don't think you did bad, but maybe you aren't cut out for that kind of style of just meeting a woman for sex and going. I'm kind of like that, too. I'm thinking maybe you should have spent a little more time with her kind of flirting before jumping to sex, that way you feel more comfortable around her. It's pretty easy for us to enjoy just being around a woman. You know the whole men love women, women love children thing. I'm kind of going through something similar where I wanted to just mess …
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:41 AM
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Hurting women or people in general is not my goal. Even my ex.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:21 AM
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Yes, you are right, they are going to say they already have a bf. We are telling you that it doesn't matter if a girl has a bf. A girl with a bf should not be indicating ANY interest in YOU. Her interest should be with her bf. That in itself, means that you actually have a high chance of getting laid, because she doesn't have the time to play games with you. She needs to get to the point quick, so she can get what she wants from you, then go back to her beta for the comforts she's already receiv…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:13 PM
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You can start by watching any kind of movie that has a player in it. Like James bond movies. Note that it is all scripted, but pay attention to how he times things, how he plays with her in the speech, it's a fake situation with social tactics that actually work. Youtube has a lot of social tutoring not just for flirting, but making small talk and conversations fun in general. Also, if a girl is taken, that doesn't mean you can't do anything with her. Girls cheat a lot, if you are ok with being …
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:56 PM
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I have something similar going on, but longer terms. Basically demoted to plate and I talk to others too, with no guilt. Much more peace of mind. With only 3 months you hardly had anything going, even if it felt like a lot. You should be able to easily spin her and not care much.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:43 PM
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Don't even need her number really, just take her to your place. If she's groping you like that her ASD might be completely down.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:32 PM
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Seems like an easy catch to me. Just start throwing out commands to her so you can escalate to sex. If you she's groping you then you've got a green light for aggressive escalation. It also means you need to keep your frame strong though, because she will shatter the whole thing if she finds a crack (which it seems like she's doing week after week). I'm amazed you got so many chances.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:01 PM
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It has more to do with her and not you. Stop trying to accept blame. Stop thinking about this one girl. Go into your Monk Mode and start improving yourself. Get in shape, Do something fun, do what you need to do to make more money. Ultimately, talk to some different girls. Now that you see how things can turn out, don't feel bad when you are playing women and sleeping with 3 in the same week. This is just Hypergamy or branch swinging. She found someone that is in a better position than you (righ…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:02 PM
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Well, at least you don't have to take her back on the same terms. You know what she is now. Improve yourself, so you can pull others. Then you will be more independent.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 12:00 PM
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You are certainly right, but you are presenting a new question. If you have something to offer a person of high value, how do you get noticed? That is where you see all the struggle. Even in this section of redit. A lot of the focus on this board is about getting women to see the value in us (over and over).
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:58 AM
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This is why religion exists. Reality is not very nice. If you aren't going to go to church, stop thinking about this before you go mad.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:54 AM
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There is no person on this planet that you have nothing to offer to. You don't know who will find you funny. You don't know who your point of view helps. You can offer companionship. Loyalty. Not everything has to be about a currency mark. Everyone needs support, we are social creatures, we need each other.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:14 PM
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I agree it was too needy. Likely they were looking for laughs, but you still could have pulled something out of it. If you haven't made her validate herself to you in some way, you shouldn't be asking for her number. Unless maybe your looks are 10/10.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:08 PM
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The kind of show where you demonstrate how little she meant to you so her feelings get hurt more. Which minimal chance are you asking about? Chance she'll get back together with you? There is always a chance, but do you really want that? I don't think I've followed the whole story, but you said here she cuddled with another man? You think if she gets back with you she will have learned her lesson and not do it again? That is what has a minimal chance. She'll cuddle with more men, she'll just do …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:58 PM
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Travel junkies are a turn off for me. Even if it's a front. I'd like a destination vacation here and there if I could afford it, but it's not a big deal. I've never been to Europe, I'd like to go to Spain, but if I die having never done that, it wouldn't be a big deal (not just because I'm dead either).
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:51 PM
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oh that would be great
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:40 PM
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put the pictures away where you won't see them for a long time. Some people like to destroy stuff, but it is part of your life. The main goal is you don't want to look at them and start fantasizing about how good life was back then or what if it worked out and then start trying to spark it up with her again. I don't see the point in putting up a show for her if you aren't trying to win her back. Do it when you feel like it or have the time, don't kill yourself trying to do it before she arrives.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:38 PM
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It will take a long time for the gym to transform you. Yes, keep doing it, but what's more important is your mind. You are still being controlled by her. Learning the logical and emotional techniques of TRP will put you in the right place faster. The gym will also help your mind. Excercise relieves stress and anxiety in a lot of people and that will let you make better decisions (like not stalking your cheating ex or letting her control you further). You need to look back at your relationship wi…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:19 PM
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A self validating person competes with himself. It's not about gaining the approval of others, it's about doing something better than you did it before and striving to do it even better in the future.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:24 PM
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Your problem is fear. You need to learn to release it. In this place, it's called outcome dependence. You care too much about things going bad, so much so that it bothers you emotionally. Stop caring about outcomes. You act to make a good outcome, but after you decide, you don't worry about it. Just do. You still need to think about what you are doing, but rp men here are putting decisions together in a logical manner (not emotional) to attempt the best outcome. If it goes bad, you don't cry abo…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:46 AM
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Not paying her much attention and flirting with the friend sounds fun to me.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:45 PM
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It's hard to fully understand how you put it. However, maybe consider seeing the time you invested as being used and not wasted. Just as you can't get that time back, you can't change it either. You said that previously the person was a decent person. So if this is about your time spent with that person, it's fine. You spent your time with that person while they were decent. The person then changed, if you continued to spend your time with the now shitty person, you can consider that time to be …
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:55 PM
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Agreed 100%, but fyi there is no dark side of the moon, it receives light all over it, to be precise. The pc version is the far side of the moon, because of the tidal lock, that part of of the moon is never seen from Earth and would always take longer to get to. The dark side of the moon is a Pink Floyd song or album, if I'm not mistaken.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:36 PM
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Meeting women should be pretty easy. With all that money at your command, the biggest problem you are going to have is you. I read through the comments, so I know you are a programmer. The fun part about gaining programming skills is that you usually sacrifice social skills, fashion sense, learning to dance, etc. Basically everything you need to know to attract people is not there. I don't know if that's the case with you, but it's a very common occurrence. When you have your social skills and f…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:39 PM
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sorry, somehow I missed the part about getting drunk 6 times and accidentally slipping and falling onto 6 different men. She's not worthy of future trust. That can happen again at a moments notice, really.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:23 PM
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This ^
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:11 PM
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I think everyone is going to have a different opinion in here. The most important thing that I think everyone can agree on, is to not react emotionally and keep everything going as though nothing happened. This is a critical point where you need to setup what will happen next. In order for that to happen, you need to understand what YOU want, in order to know how you are going to proceed. I'm paying for 2 kids right now and it's huge drain on my finances. Being able to eat the way I need to for …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:08 PM
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With that many kids and that much time, he cannot just next her like a 6 month fling. Everything is deeply tied up and he will still need to closely coordinate things for the kids. it's not really an option.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:53 PM
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I struggled with this somewhat and it took a bit of observation before I could internalize it. The key principle that helped me though, was when I saw someone post that you get a turn with the woman, not ownership. This ties into your progressive caring and investment. If you know from the start that you don't have something permanent, why invest in it? I mean you can invest in it, but not anything risky. When I say observation helped, just look at what they are doing. it's not that every woman …
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:04 PM
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So, you're asking how do you recalibrate, because you are b/w. It's simple. You have formed an image in your mind of how a woman is. It's wrong. b/w, no gray about it, it's just wrong. In turn, your approach is wrong. It's likely setup to be friends. To recalibrate you need to tear down your image of what you think women are like. Do not apply logic to their image, based on what they have told you. one of the primary teachings here is you listen to what women do, not what they say. Form your ima…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:28 PM
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I can't stand the golden rule. Sometimes it works, sometimes it's an excuse to treat everyone the same, even if it bothers them. For example, I don't like it when people hold doors open for me. Especially in a doorway that has multiple doors and even more when there is a large distance between the person holding the door and me.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:22 PM
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I get triggered by certain things as I analyze what people say. I don't know how to explain it, I'll be normal one second, someone will take a jab at me and then it happens. My mind goes into witty mode and I start countering. When they are out of my proximity, I go back to normal.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:51 PM
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So you want people to throw out their anonymity and post identifying information. I don't see this going well.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:46 PM
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Have fun getting rejected, it's not so bad then
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:53 PM
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I play games, but I do other things too. If something has to get done, I'm going to make sure it gets done. I have goals and priorities. Gaming is just lower in priority than work and fitness for me right now, along with any side hustle. So if I'm off work and I got my workout in and there is no side business. I play some games. If there are some chores that need to be done, I do the chores and then I play some games. It's not that hard to take care of important shit first, before relaxing.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:31 PM
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That part should be pretty obvious. Most of the time the woman's goal is to escalate commitment out of you. This is one of those cases. The attempt was to manipulate you into dating her or being her exclusive bf or at least her being your exclusive bf while she hamsters side activity. It's classic damsel in distress, which works on any beta. In fact, she even revealed it you with this statement "how she only wants to have sex with people shes dating".
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:44 PM
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"Is it really okay to “train” a woman? Why? I don’t think it’s okay for a woman to try to “train” a man, either. Shouldn’t we be respectful of each other, if you’ve committed yourself to someone?" The dynamics don't work this way for the majority of people. Women want a man to take the lead, but men have to be conditioned to do this. Usually it's done by dad during the late stages of puberty, but many are lacking that for whatever reason. I don't think this is disrespectful to a woman, if anythi…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:33 PM
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Most likely from the sound of it, she's getting the I'm too tired and stressed from work to have sex excuse. I don't understand it, but some guys are like that.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:29 PM
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Sounds like she wants to go in that direction
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:23 PM
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If you make a girl your gf, you are likely to pay out more for her than you would a sex worker, so either way you are paying for sex. With the sex worker you are also paying for her to not get her feelings attached to you, so you get what you want drama free and with minimum wasted overhead time. It's very efficient. So what are you missing? Transactional vs validation. Sex is much more enjoyable for you when the woman is validating herself through you. The word "IF" helps to differentiate these…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 12:24 PM
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1 year and I'm guessing no kids or marriage, may not be worth it. I believe it can be reformed. You have re-establish your dominance. I've been doing this with an LTR over 10x longer than yours and it took almost half a year while I learned trp principles. You will get a lot of shit tests, but that's fine. It's supposed to happen. I have fun passing shit tests now. If I didn't have so much time with her and kids, I think I would just do what most guys do here and spin a few plates, which is what…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 12:11 PM
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If you are cooking for him, he should be able to buy the ingredients. I'd recommend just straight up asking him to pay for the groceries, since you are cooking. Not ALL your groceries, but those needed for the meal you are making him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 07:54 PM
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abundance mentality is the only answer to your problem of oneitis here. She loses interest, it just doesn't matter. You know the hamster can come up with anything and it's pointless to understand it. Follow the rules.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 05:54 PM
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Sounds like a segway to a new argument. Calling someone out is just inviting a new argument of a different target. You are making an accusation. You don't need to do that. You don't need to argue. You're also giving her terminology to lead her right to your source material. If she's smart, she might read up on RP and your activities with her could become much more difficult.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:52 PM
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I never really had to consciously think about it. I typically like being alone and rarely (but still do) get lonely. However, going full hermit would not be good, our biological design requires others and as a species we have strength in our numbers. Just slowly make high quality friends that will understand you and respect you.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:19 PM
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I don't know what all this BS is over read receipts. That shouldn't mean shit to you. If she doesn't respond, then she's not interested and you move on. Don't get bent out of shape over it, you gave her a chance.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:53 PM
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I'm kind of in that monk mode stage right now. I approach and respond to any IOI I encounter, but I've got a long way to go physically, but I'm doing exactly that.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:33 PM
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Well, you got the part about her being out of state right? I need a plane to get to her and I'm nowhere near her friends. However, I do agree with your assertion about her outlook and position at the wall. I'm not giving her exclusivity again though, nothing really good came of that. I had opportunities with others and I still didn't get action on the regular.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:26 PM
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yes, so you are getting with the program. I'm in the same boat as you, I have a very hard time understanding why these things work, but they do. You make yourself scarce and they want you more, just because you are scarce. The exclusivity thing sounds like a win to me, great deal for you.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:19 PM
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How ironic this would pop up. I actually just got the chance to test my transformation this past weekend. My ex of over a decade, our relationship was a classic dead br scenario. Awesome at first, then moved in and kids came into the picture, slowly the relationship changed for the worst. We end up being like good friends/roomates, with me wanting more attention from her and her just not giving a shit really. At the start of 2018 I began internalizing trp after finally accepting a formal breakup…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:03 PM
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Do you really want to be in a situation where you are constantly pushing her for it? I had a dead bedroom previously and that was a big part of it. I could sit there and ask and ask and ask, she would give it up. However, it would usually be a poor quality experience. It's better if she wants it as much as you do or more, so if you are getting too much resistance, my experience says it's not worth it, even if you do eventually get it. Also, it may not be bad right now, but you said potential gf …
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:53 PM
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I think this is a good part of why you should have multiple plates. She's not in the mood for whatever reason, instead of you continuously trying to get this one (oneitis), you just hit up one of the others.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 12:59 PM
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I lost my hair in my 20's too. Your max smv will go down a little, but not enough to bar you from any woman. Just like everyone else said, make sure the rest of you has a good appearance. If you have a nice beard, that goes a long way. Stay in shape and dress nice, you will still turn female heads.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:55 AM
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Yea, if you don't want their money, tell them to fuckoff. You can do better things with your time. If they are coming to you for tutoring, they are not doing it because they think you're hot, they see you as a letter grade improvement, that's it. Fuck that, let them fail.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:48 AM
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The problem with your mentality is the part about the covert leverage you are trying to get. Sure these girls are pretty, but the chances of them taking an interest in you over your knowledge is pretty close to nothing. Dumb jocks always get the women, because it's more about how fun and interesting it is to be around them. Most of the time they are dumb as rocks. If they ask you for help, you make them pay with money. You see them as dollar bills and nothing else. There are millions of attracti…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:22 AM
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Your turn is over
/r/askTRP24/05/18 12:16 PM
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Maury is likely the most believable of the two. Basically it's a daytime show with a lot of drama. Usually a woman is on the show to complain about how a man treated her in an ltr. She's become pregnant at some point and believes this particular man is the father. He is brought on the show to defend his position and Maury is the mediator. There is typically a lot of drama. At the end Maury will reveal the results of a dna test, adding to the drama. In my experience, I never understood what the w…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 11:37 AM
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It's not too late. Father is your best mentor.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:19 PM
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Jerry Springer and Maury should now make perfect sense to you.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:17 PM
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It has to do with your upbringing. Your father is supposed to teach you how to be a man. If your father doesn't do this or isn't around, then you have a pretty high chance of going beta until you get tired of being stepped on or someone shows you the way.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:57 PM
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yea, so you flirt back. Are guys saying negative stuff to you too? Most likely they don't care about you at all. They aren't interested. Positive or negative comments from a stranger means they are interested in you. Unless they are trying to fight you, the girls are likely obtainable if you want them.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:03 PM
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Not just her name, strike up a conversation. If it seems like she's in rush, try to get her number so she can do what she's trying to do and go out with you later. The point is, indicators of interest give you the all clear to engage with her, without it being creepy.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:00 PM
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She's only creeped out if it's unwelcome. If she's showing interest, stopping her for her name isn't going to creep her out. If she holds a smile you can use that as confirmation that you are not creeping her out.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:09 PM
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To me it sounds like you made the best of it. We all have a limited time and you formed a great relationship. Do you have regrets? Missing him is fine, you don't need to get past him. The memories are still a part of your life. I think the worst is when the person is gone and you are left with regrets, especially over something petty.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:49 AM
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I see this more as an opportunity than a real challenge. Unless you are trying to chat with racist girls that like watching blacks get degraded.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:42 AM
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So basically, now girls have begun initiating flirting with you and you are upset? That's how I read it. Control your frame, it sounds like you are on easy street now.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:34 AM
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Why she was turned off could be anything. If you spend energy trying to decipher it, you go back to beta territory. That's trying to change for her comfort. Accept her decision and meet new women. It will likely happen more and you will get better at not giving a fuck about it.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:28 AM
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Are your friends women? I don't see why your friends would care about your genital size. If they did, it's likely to make fun, so the response is just to own it and make a jab back at them. As for the girl, she stays as a plate and you have more comfort in keeping her in that position instead of considering her for anything more than that.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 06:47 PM
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That area on a woman is not handled hygenically like other areas. It is a complex ecosystem and hitting it with soap is not the end all be all of hygiene there. Let her know about the smell you are smelling, she may need to see her gyno, as opposed to her not showering well. I can't play devils advocate about the deodorant though. If you smell bo coming from there, it's just plain bad on her.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:33 PM
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I'd argue it's the vagina, because if sexuality weren't involved, mens lives would be much simpler without this massive urge.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:46 PM
2

It sucks to find this out. However, you haven't detailed any actual damage. So far as we can tell here, the real bullet hasn't struck yet. You feel like shit, but you can still dodge the bullet it sounds like. You said she is a good mother to her little girl, sounds like that is not YOUR little girl, too. So from what I understand, you have no kids with her and you are not married to her. Perfect! Make sure it stays that way! You can just keep her as a plate for fun if you like or just get rid o…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:59 AM
1

After expressing nearly every beta trait possible and being unable to explain why over a decade of ltr slipped through my fingers and I read on here that she's not my girl, it was just my turn. I began releasing all my remaining attachments and now that nothing can bother me, I effectively become invulnerable emotionally.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:36 PM
2

See one of the big problems is that she could do any number of things before the marriage to make you happy. Anything. Then once you are locked in legally, all that goes away and you left with a bunch of responsibilities and liabilities. You might get the same benefits, she doesn't have to stop. However, it's very common for a lot of the benefits to stop and you are left undesired and beta af. The law will protect her if you try to start something with another woman. You can't leave her, without…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:37 PM
1

All this is happening at work anyway. You are likely fiending for it inside, but messing with women from work is dangerous.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:02 PM
1

Keep frame, low chance of winning against all of them.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:47 PM
1

"I just am affraid of fucking up" That's the root of your problem. Fear makes a pussy out of you. Stop being scared of fucking up and do as you please. Take the risk and stop giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 12:48 PM
3

I see it as control over emotions. Your frame is like an aura or boundry around you, if you need to see it that way. It mainly relates to people trying to get a reaction out of you. It also relates to how you handle yourself in stressful situations (watch a Bond movie and see how he reacts to his various dangerous situations, do you ever see him seriously plead for mercy or his life?). Women are going to shit test you constantly throughout your interactions with them. All of these tests are desi…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:27 AM
1

I'd say good job on the approach, you already doing better than me. Ultimately you need not fear rejection, but expect it. Even really good looking guys get rejected. I think our power to grab just any woman is not as powerful as a woman's ability to grab any guy. Still, just keep doing it and don't internalize rejections and you will find one will go along. Then another and another.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:59 PM
1

You dodged a bullet. She is not LTR material. Be content having a turn to use her every now and then.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:55 PM
2

hmm, I hadn't previously noticed this, but you are right. I've been told things I know are way off. It was an obvious ego boost, but I never understood what it was being used for. Now it makes sense, it was a seizure of power and it worked in the past.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:51 PM
2

oh ok, then it's fine how you wrote it
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:50 PM
4

"Oh they won't sleep, that's for sure" "Sleep? We didn't have time for that" Native translator: "We won't be sleeping, that's for sure!" "Sleep? We won't have time for that!"
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:23 PM
1

This is just like any shit test. You know that if you follow her advice you won't get hurt (physically)and she will get attracted to some other guy and not want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:56 PM
2

sounds like you are jealous. Work on casting it out for real. If you weren't jealous it wouldn't have you on here talking about it.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:22 PM
2

You had no commitment to her, she made none to you. I don't understand why she can't bang other guys. Sounds like there is no problem to me.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:59 PM
1

I feel I have a lot of willpower and mental control, however placing conditions on emotions has helped. For example, "I must do this, before I am allowed to be upset at something". I think it's important that you retain the male ability to approach things in a logical way, but that makes understanding important. You must continually learn and analyze so that you understand what triggers you. You need to have backup plans. Contingency plans. All these help with your emotions. Controlling your exp…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 06:19 PM
2

lmao that would be fun
/r/askTRP16/02/18 02:41 PM
1

Seems like something only possible 1 time :D
/r/askTRP16/02/18 12:40 PM
2

You don't sacrifice them to the first girl who puts your penis in your mouth. u wut m8?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:57 PM
2

That second sentence in your tldr should have been you the entire night, imo
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