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SCROTES MADElizapornberry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:40 PM
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Makes sense. They can’t pay their reporters so they’d probably not be cool with paying for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:06 AM
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Reddit is running low on female spaces to ban and shit on basically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:59 PM
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So these probably aren’t female centered movies but it’s just part of my break up routine: -forgetting Sarah Marshall (the directors commentary is also a hoot!) -yes man -Pineapple Express
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:56 AM
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I imagine it was also the non consensual assault by a man that also made him squirm. Men are sooooo bothered by men assaulting men (homophobia lol which is interesting because they also make so many dick jokes or jest about sleeping with one another) but when it’s men assaulting women is “not surprising”. Big whoosh on your friend not realizing his hypocrisy that you spoon fed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:01 PM
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Yes! “We had a baby” really?! Did YOU make a spinal column?? Do you know how complicated a circulatory system is?! Let alone spending 9 months creating the child, then the biological side effects: postpartum depression, dysphoric milk ejection reflex, also recognizing your child’s cry and being stressed from it even though you need to let the child “cry it out”. Literal chemical changes in a mother’s brain! There’s soooo much more past the creating of life bit that men have no idea about (and do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:50 PM
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I literally told my BF I want a house instead of a diamond ring. We will be looking at houses this summer. Edit: he’s also proposing before we get a house officially. He got the ring designed made and in his possession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:28 AM
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I feel like older men are giving “extra” In the bedroom for themselves not for their partners. Feels so performative and shows how they lack a true sense of self even at the age of 50. Boy in a old mans body. No thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:19 PM
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Thank you for saying this. My BF plays video games to unplug from his extremely stressful job (he’s a therapist) he plays mostly indie games and avoids AAA games due to the rape gore and misogyny that most games have. He’ll play an hour two hours at most. Maybe more if he’s really into it. He’s cleaner than me does more of the chores, works out, eats healthy, and is totally fine with turning off a game if I ask. Granted we are both passive gamers. But otherwise no it’s not video games it’s prior…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:14 PM
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I know!! I also get so inspired by the athletes on there. Personally I’ve want to just lift heavy shit get powerful and scare men away with my muscles (I know muscles won’t do that but it’s something I hang onto) I also love that she shows various athletes of size. And the creator is a veteran as well and an athlete I believe. Her store is pretty cool too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:01 AM
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So many IG handles that are geared towards calling out creeps are getting banned: @you.look.like.a.man is one of em. And yet is see handles that call for death and rape of women (specifically a four letter word used against radical feminists) and that’s fine...apparently IG is now scanning DM’s for hate speech as well for banning a so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:37 AM
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It’s the internet. First rule of the internet: don’t be a woman. Also because feminist liberal men are usually trying to creep or sow out understanding to peddle as pick up lines or fetishes. Then again I hold some gender critical views that might differ from the current liberal feminist propaganda most women are bullied into echoing. Edit: see whose Modding the “inclusive big tent” lesbian subreddits. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:54 AM
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Yea I unsubbed there a while ago ... Which is modded by a man I believe...case in point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:32 AM
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Feminism sub modded by women always get banned...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:08 PM
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Woops let me clarify! my SO and I met at a casual lunch place as our first meeting. Which was what I asked to meet at. Because I wanted to make it clear I was feeling him out before allowing him to take me on a nice date (and even call it a date) We paid for our own meals. Then he asked me out and paid for all our dates after that. Which I accepted because I was interested. Yea I had little to know self respect on the exes I mentioned. I cringe remembering an ex insisting he was treating me righ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:45 PM
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You know...this is something I’m not 100% on in this sub. I respect everyone’s thoughts on the matter though. But for me I usually pay for my half in the first date. Usually the first date is something very casual like a sandwich shop or drinks. Now the second date is usually something more formal and I expect if I am asked out that he’s paying. HOWEVER if I don’t like him or the date went poorly? I pay. For me paying for my meal and drinks is a sign of affection. I want to get to know a man or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:30 PM
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Literally a die hard liberal couple my SO is friends with the wife is all sex work is work lip service liberal. But as soon as her husband found out I used to be a stripper he told my SO “that sucks I’m sorry dude” luckily that was 7 years ago and he never told his wife (as I really am not into sharing I used to be a stripper) but I’d imagine if I was more open about it now her tune would change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:03 PM
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What feminist is saying you gotta sleep with a man after he pays for dinner? I’ve never ever ever seen anything like that on this sub. How about no one asks for nudes tho Kay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:59 PM
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Hmmm I’ll check it out not sure I’m ready :/ lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:58 AM
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Hold up there’s bumble for friends? I’m nervous to be a woman on an app. Like that men could “sneak” into my life. How secure is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:01 AM
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YUP I wish more women woke up to the patriarchal lie that men are worth fighting with other women for (lol no ones worth losing your dignity and self respect Over) I firmly believe the world would 100% better if women teamed together instead of being divided by the standard that men’s approval means value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:45 AM
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I completely agree it isn’t perfect by any means. It was just the first time in fantasy I’ve read that a male WANTS and DOES go down on a woman. Also I enjoy her throne of glass series for the sheer fact of so many female characters and friendships. (And the first time in fantasy that a swaggering badass woman likes baths and getting her nails done: that being strong doesn’t mean you have to lose your humanity or any type of softness) SJM will have the male romantic interest go down on a woman a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:45 AM
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Hell yea! Here’s my thing: if I gotta see needless breasts in shows and movies I wanna see a dick. Thing is NO ONE wants to see a dick! Men even though they’re so obsessed with their phallic prowess and size they’re so terribly afraid of being faced with one (lots of homophobia in bro culture which is so contradictory as they’re always joking about sleeping together or anal sex...BUT NO HOMO BRUH!) so no one gets to see dick. Where as women get weird with oral on women because it’s going over th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:30 AM
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I always thought the women were egging the men in. Get louder moan more makes them finish and get the fuck off you. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Also I think if you have extensive scenes of men going down on women it will 1) remind female viewers what they most likely aren’t getting and make them insecure 2) more importantly any potential boyfriends husbands in the room will get insecure. Just my theory though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:24 AM
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Literally I was 17 and my first “real” boyfriend was a 27 year old man I worked with. Lost my virginity to him and he took me to prom. Looking back on it I’m so ashamed and shocked of how it must have looked to have this grown ass man in a gymnasium surrounded by high schoolers and me hanging on his arm. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:15 PM
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Mother says she understands...spoiled by the mom because he’s the only boy of the family. He’s an asshole but I’m wondering who raised him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:51 PM
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Sounds like my ex. He lambasted me on Reddit in meme form. Calling me a bitch because I was 2 days late on rent but expected him to split the grocery bill (food that he ate). Edit: he spends his time on bad women’s anatomy For some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:47 PM
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And yet feminist subreddits and lesbian only subreddits are being banned... I guess valuing safe spaces over porn makes me a conservative prude (even tho the majority of these male users are Bernie die hard liberals)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:25 PM
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So I have a story. My previous employer was awful and full of sexist boomers mostly women but the CEO was coddled like a child by all female employees. I’m talking like they would come in early and didn’t about whose gonna make him his breakfast and bring it to his desk. They’re all 50-60 year old women and he’s 50 obese fake tan blonde tipped comb over trump lover. Anyway. The three boomer women were lecturing me on marriage during the holidays. Informing me that as soon as I marry my SO (lol w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:21 PM
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I hear you but I think the program would probably vet heavily vet women as well as do a lot of training for example the women’s abuse shelter that I volunteer at we had to do a $275 course they took about a week just to be trained on how to help and communicate to victims of domestic violence in a volunteer setting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:53 AM
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Do it! SIGN ME UP! I’ve thought about this for any scenario - call it the buddy system and make it an app. Woman just got in a car accident? Send a buddy. Woman headed to a car dealership? Send a buddy. Need to go to your exes to get your things? Call for a buddy! I love love love the idea of women reaching out to support one another with only 1 thing in mind: support and help women. DO EEEET
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:05 PM
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My SO is bald and HVM porn free empathetic great communicator. I don’t miss the hair at all! You can’t spend your life with JUST a head of hair - wish other men would get this like you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:03 PM
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RIGHT?! He mentions a full head of hair and height at my HVM is bald and only 2 inches taller than me lol! Like....dude cmon get a clue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:02 PM
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I got a bot vibe they sent 2 more messages and it felt like sentences were gathered and placed together with buzz words not no inherent point. Lots of talking about full heads of hair 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:45 PM
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I wish there was a women’s buddy program or something like a government social program where fellow women can be hired to come twice a week or whatever to come help a newly single mother with life. Like would we be more apt to leave hurtful relationships if we knew we would get the support we needed? I’ll totally show up at a random woman’s house and do her laundry and clean her house if it means she stays away from horrible men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:05 PM
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Any games you recommend? I struggle to find games that are engaging for adults but not just straight Nintendo titles (long live ACNH)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:32 AM
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“The tent is too big” is what I say when people ask me if I’m a democrat ugh 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:11 AM
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Ugh I know of a woman whose husband has forgotten her birthday two years in a row. And he makes it into a joke and she’ll laugh it off and make passive aggressive jokes. I don’t get it. She’s super successful bought her own house etc. He’s also cheated on her and is a former Coke addict. She even filled their wedding website with passive aggressive jokes about how he had no involvement or helped in the wedding. She even told my SO she was bullied into a big wedding by her husbands family and did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:19 PM
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Ehh the over compensation and the invisible competition with the mans wife wreaks of insecurity to me. They are so miserable with themselves they do not love or value themselves so they want to make other women hurt (because as a society we are pitted against each other..yay) they think that if they get a married man to cheat that they are ‘better’ than the wife and ‘preferable’ over her. Aka a win! Aka ‘look I’m not that bad he wants me instead of her! I must be amazing!’ But they dont feel ama…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:03 PM
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As a former I guess pickmeisha it’s to do with their father. Emotionally unavailable distant father leaves young women to want men’s approval. They want a mans approval with the only Way they know how: sexual desire. Because we do not receive value from men any other way (except from our fathers who value us as daughter aka platonic) so essentially: they’re fucking their dads. And it still won’t fill the hole they’re trying to fill with older men’s approval. Took me a long time and a lot of mist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:58 PM
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Well You do get to choose if the female avatar has pubic hair and it offered shapes but if you choose no hair you’ll see it’s a preferred “innie”. Sorry didn’t mean to make it worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:21 AM
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Woof yea the intense fandom in The AAA video game world is insane. I mean just with last of us 2 rape threats and death threats against a female voice actor just is ..unfathomable to me. You’d think these players who can support such a hobby ($70 per game and $500 systems so they have to have jobs and old enough to maintain said job to financially Support this hobby) would be adjusted enough to NOT get so violent against something based in pure fantasy. But they aren’t so I just don’t know what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:16 PM
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It’s honestly very common and popular to have interactive sex scenes:Witcher for one is very popular because of it and god of was once a game that included those type of things (it’s recently has a brand change entirely and focused solely on story and no female violence or sexual themes) So yea it’s ugh..popular to say the least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:50 PM
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I mean it’s rated M so it cannot be physically sold to a child. Online digital download all depends on parental settings on the system (if any were turned on when setting up the system most likely not tho) so in theory-yes kids will be playing this. And grown men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:43 PM
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Yea and the small wasn’t even small... I will say there’s video games that are completely devoid of gender sex and violence. A lot of indie games are very focused on story telling and puzzle making. There’s a niche group of gamers that want nothing to do with games like this. I mean I play video games but I’m super choosy and vet before purchasing (as I am not a privileged male to have the world make everything explicitly for me.) and I just do not bother playing a game with any type of sexual t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:40 PM
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They’re complaining about glitches in the game because it was made for the newest system but they decided to have it play on an older system too. So there’s glitches and bugs during game play. No one I mean NO ONE gives a duck about all the sex nudity graphic sex acts and obvious male gaze when customizing a character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:05 PM
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They refer to sex scenes (where you pay a prostitute non playable character to have sex) as “romance scenes” You can customize a female avatar’s nipple size but there’s only one Vulva shape (small lips “innie” aka the most popular desired shape by men but the majority of women don’t have that shape or lips) but your male character can have 3 different type of dick sizes. First mission you have to rescue a passed our female-who of course is naked. Every single frame you see her very large perfect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:03 PM
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Yuuuuup as you said you can easily imply rape (and is argue most plot points don’t need this and it’s lazy to use it) but the fact that it’s shown for no other purpose I argue is to make male viewers slightly aroused and confused by their arousal which some directors says that’s “the point” but really they’re just edge lord men who feel inferior from their moms so they make art instead of therapy. I hate hate hate rape in any story-and I’m a big fantasy nerd and yet that’s where a lot of rape is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:44 PM
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Good let’s teach men that even tho they may “ignore” porn titles or certain scenes that they’re still voting with their dollar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:56 PM
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That sub is run and posted by people who don’t have XX chromosomes. Which is why I unsubbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:33 PM
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Good. Fuck the moon. Women were made for mars. Or wherever men aren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:16 PM
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Ok aside all the idiotic male shit I just wanna say: I’m so sorry you had a bladder infection and endometriosis! I’ve had friends who’ve had it and an outsider looking in it seems ducking awful. I hope you’re doing okay and are getting all the medical/mental/culinary help you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:55 AM
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Lol yea I left that trash looooong ago for various male reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:35 AM
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Becuwse they’re men there rarely have to exert themselves in life why would the bedroom be any different?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:32 AM
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Also the “she’s having problems with guy friends” any man that started talking to me about their failed relationships or female friendships were 100% looking for a way to get me to prove myself to them that I’m “not like THOSE women” married men complaining about their wives or girlfriend is code for “look I’m lonely and my dick is sad don’t you want to gain my approval and therefor have more value by sleeping with me?” And sadly sadly I would thinking “ah ha I’m totally better than THOSE women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:24 PM
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“Men are visual creatures” but they close their eyes during sex. Smhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:17 PM
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Yea for me I don’t do guy friends. Used to. Very much the “I’m not like other girls I get along with men better” not realizing I got along with men so well because they were vying to date me. Every single male friend would come out and confess their love or complain they’re waiting for me to be single or would tell me how hot I am etc etc. I was never ever seen as a friend just a pending girlfriend. Turned 25 and just decided no thanks and tried my hand at being a picky bitch looking for 1 man. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:13 PM
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It’s the Kink meisha vibes for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:43 PM
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Lol so they blame porn but then it’s our job to solve the problem porn made (which is made by men) and then it’s “Communicate otherwise he’ll never know” I mean sure but you can still dump him. It’s not one or the other. Let him know not for him but for the future woman whose gonna be choked. Women shouldn’t be used as rehab for man made problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:42 PM
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Yea just not my bag. Mostly due to all the rape outside the relationship really really bums me out and seems excessive. For me. Just a personal choice. I totally get why people like the book and show I just can’t do those scenes or justify consuming that type of story telling for my own mental well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:24 AM
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In my experience, as one who likes romantic fantasy novels (not outlander!!) if it’s written by a woman usually there’s no rape, the sex is romantic based, and the male partner always always always goes down on his partner first. Also how I can tell a woman is the author (I say this jokingly) there’s a lot of mention of baths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:50 AM
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Yea see there’s something that makes me believe too clean is a responsive behavior to something. My man just grew up in a very hoard-esque home as a kid. So much so that he was embarrassed to have friends over. So when he moved out-way before I met him he was always super clean because of all that. Again a responsive behavior to some sort of trauma or environment. Cleanliness even the other way is so telling about a person IMO. Edit: also that’s crazy I would never guess addiction when seeing su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:02 PM
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Yea it was lived in but it would be things like ONE towel where as I have 2-3 sets of towels when I lived on my own. Again we had growing pains of learning to adjust to each other’s cleanliness but it was simple things like he really prefers empty countertops for the kitchen island. Where as that’s where I dump mail, or I prefer more than one towel to have on hand. We learned from each other and sure we would get into petty arguments over these arbitrary things but it wasn’t a deal breaker to me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:45 PM
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Yea I can see that thought process. But it was just because he is a very frugal person and spent more time working overnights and doubles at the ER so he saw no reason to decorate his home if he was only there to sleep eat and then go back to work. He was/is very hardcore into monogamy romance/commitment so I never thought it more than his obsessive nature that made him clean so much. I’m semi messy so it was growing pains for sure when we moved in but honestly I adopted better cleaning habits b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:42 PM
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Oh yeah I totally agree with you like Messi is a huge turn off for me. But I was also kind of freaked out with how clean it was. Like if a place is to clean does that mean he is hiding something like being a murderer. I am half joking but like being a woman I obviously have to kind of keep those thoughts in the back of my head which is really fucked up. Just to clarify my boyfriend is not a serial killer but he is definitely serial killer clean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:17 PM
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Is it possible that being too clean is weird? See my SO’s apartment was stark like no furniture cept for what he needed. It was like stepping into a Scandinavian serial killers apartment. Clean as hell but the man had just the bare necessities. Kinda freaked me out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:10 PM
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I’ve learned that Reddit will never be a space for women or feminists. Just lib fem talking points to coddle the big man tent known as the DNC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:47 AM
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