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I said I have no interest, negging would be insulting you. Lmao @ the autist that doesn't know the seduction techniques from this sub ahaha.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 08:40 PM
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get into my pants. I’m not that easy you know I've no interest in that so great.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 04:19 PM
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I told you I wasn’t interested. I'm not even the person who responded to you the first time,.. are you fucking stupid?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 03:41 PM
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I like the imagery, but let’s take things slow and get to know each other first. God imagine being this autistic lmao.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 02:35 PM
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Who said I don't bring anything to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:04 AM
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No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:01 AM
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This is one post, with 80 likes.... FDS had 170k subs. That would be roughly 0.05%....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:37 AM
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How is having standards and boundaries being abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:57 PM
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This is a video of a guy talking about what women should want? What has this got to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:46 PM
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Men not giving a single shit about women or mutual enjoyment? Yeah seems to be, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:22 PM
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No. this is what MEN expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:50 PM
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They wouldn't have high numbers in the first place if women didn't want to fuck them And? Women who sleep around don't mind being with a guy who sleeps around. This is not the same as women who don't sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:48 PM
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I have no clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:47 PM
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Nah that's a load of shit. Typical RP 'Muh wimmin ride the cock carousel' crap. I'm a virgin and I've yet to meet a guy who didn't have the bullshit double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:47 PM
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No, because women prize men who other women fuck. NO we don't. That's rank.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:45 PM
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"men abuse women", Who said anything about abusing women? You can choose to do whatever you want, the hypocrisy normally though is that men expect but don't want to give. Women should simply dump those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:44 PM
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Well then, you just provided a very good reason for women to steer clear of older men, since they're damaged goods who can't feel love anymore lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:43 PM
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it's relevant to men who are trying to date. Yeah, you might actually have to treat women better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:40 PM
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Smart guy for not wanting to go down on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:33 PM
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The risk of oral cancer only exists if you whore around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:33 PM
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And then the ability to love switches of completely?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:32 PM
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you.... linked me to a google search?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:31 PM
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Real men don't even date women, women like men and liking men is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:30 PM
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Plus I know a lot of guys who don't give a shit about her pleasure, they just wanna jeet and delete. 'Bu- but why don't women want to have sex with us bro?'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:26 PM
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Damn you're on fire
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:24 PM
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So basically, men don't feel love. They only pretend to feel it in order to get access to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:19 PM
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Most men are not worth submitting to. Why do women have to 'submit' to you? What is with the male obsession with dominance and control?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:17 PM
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6 inches long, 6 feet tall, and 6 figure income Since when is this the standard requirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:15 PM
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He has to please her sexually, care about her pleasure and do things like give oral So.... the bare minimum?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:10 PM
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1 from a one night stand, Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:40 AM
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That's not one study, let alone 80 of them, Yes it is, it's literally a list of studies which you can click on to get more information on? You apparently don't even recognize the difference between peer reviewed research published in academic journals and propaganda. Click on the studies to view them? Then why do you find it so hard to provide any and instead rely on polemicists who are obviously pushing their own political agenda? Why are you using the website the studies are listed on as an ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:22 AM
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without linking to a shred of clinical evidence Sure, here are 80 studies: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/brain-studies-on-porn-users-sex-addicts/ This is the kind of "ideology trumps facts" kind of argumentation I expect from a women's studies major. Hold on to your fucking hat then because there is overwhelming evidence for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:53 AM
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Don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:43 AM
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Any casual sex out side of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:18 AM
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I would literally rather die than date a man this old, I don't care how much money he has
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:08 AM
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Smallest: Virgin Largest: 5 Men who sleep around disgust me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:07 AM
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Found the coomer
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 09:09 PM
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Men will be unhappy forever in silly, superficial relationships. They’ll never know the love of a strong woman. Let them, i doubt many of them will even get that. More and more women are walking away from relationships. it just isn't worth it. We’ll be alone but not unhappy, just alone. The good news is, it's fairly easy (and not so costly) for women to have kids via a sperm donor. It's not the same for men though, eggs and surrogates are extremely expensive. Since a lot of these men are obsesse…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 07:16 PM
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By this logic people bying cheap clothes or people who are bying and throwing away clothes all the time are also bad because they fund third world fabrics with the most trashy working conditions etc. Clothes are an essential item needed to live, you literally can't walk around in public without them. Porn is not an essential, you do not need it. It is. They don't have sex on a tap and they weren't in relationships all the time either. It comes from the time being single or goes way back into tee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:30 PM
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Trafficking aside since it doesn't have anything to do with the guys. Funding an industry that features abuse of women and human trafficking as a large part of it has 'nothing to do with the guys' are you serious? porn is a symptom of next to no sex and relationships not the cause of it. No it isn't, men who are in committed relationships watch porn too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:08 PM
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which most of them want to date anyways Yeah they endlessly talk about wanting a virgin because it 'decreases divorce risk' yet few of them are virgins themselves and ignore the biggest divorce risk: Large age gaps lol. I’m saying this because at one point I was that young kid being traumatized by useless, immature, disrespectful men. I'm really sorry to hear that, I hope you're in a much better place now. Check out my post, you might find it helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 05:27 PM
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I’m told these basic standards are too much to ask. That's not a coincidence either. Changing your behaviour long term and sticking to it requires a lot of dedication and willpower. Most of these guys can't be bothered. They'll try and scare you by saying that even the most basic and reasonable of standards is 'too much', 'entitled', 'feminist' because they are hoping you'll just give up and settle for what you can find. Don't fall for it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 04:55 PM
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How it is selfish from men to watch porn? Because it has a direct impact on relationships and motivation. Not to mention the horrific abuse and trafficking that takes place in the adult industry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:10 PM
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By reading the graph that shows 22% of women are the breadwinners. Yes I understood that part, DUH. I was asking how this led you to the conclusion that 'some women are sacrificing money for looks (80/20 rule in full effect)'. I didn't say 100s I'm saying that social media gives them the option to fuck hot guys. And? The gender ratio on tinder is way more men vs women, most women aren't interested. My wife doesn't want me dressing up and wearing make up. As long as I'm well kept and fit she's ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:18 PM
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Which adds up to some women are sacrificing money for looks (80/20 rule in full effect) Wait wait, what? How did you get to that conclusion? It's not just online dating. Social media means women are being hit up by attractive men on Facebook/instagram/wherever. Why would I blow money on fashion and make up when I'm married? And? Not every woman is receiving hundreds of messages daily from men lmao. Why shouldn't you? Or do only women have to try to look physically perfect for their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:42 PM
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Masturbation is not the same as porn. Porn affects the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:09 PM
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But every sexual living being has a strategy regarding sex. You talk a whole lot for someone who didn't really say much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:09 PM
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Because old men aren't attractive to the vast majority of young women lmao
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 12:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:55 AM
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"hypergamy isn't real" is based on the principle that men's level of attractiveness is based on status and money. No it isn't. 37% of women are now breadwinners in their marriages, how would this work if women refuse to date men with a lower income than them? The current reality is that you have to be physically attractive to get your foot in the door to even talk to a women. Well you're mainly talking about online dating. Also why not try spending 1/3rd of your income on your appearance like wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:54 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:33 AM
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Yes exactly, as I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:35 AM
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Go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:34 AM
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he literally said 'your sexual strategy' he WAS making it personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:47 AM
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So? Is that a problem for anyone besides the dude? Well if you wanna complain about higher drop out rates in schools and colleges. Plus the increased deaths of despair and substance abuse. Also I was making a general point to echo the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:45 AM
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Most women have gigantic n counts No they literally don't you just made this up from nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:27 AM
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I made a post about this and men in the comments were very angry. Modern western culture promotes unhealthy habits. It promotes living in the now rather than planning for the future, the encouragement of instant gratification and the throwaway aspect of culture all contribute to this. The introduction of hard core porn has mainly been the cause of a lot of these issues I think. Porn kills motivation, rewires the brain, changes arousal responses and is linked to th Don't care, porn is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:12 AM
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to simp and "provide" and "have ambition" It kills motivation period, for everything, not just women. female parasite LOL, I'd love to see the absolute mental gymnastics you performed to reach the conclusion that women are the ones who are parasitic in relationships. Oh noes! The men don't thirst for women anymore and won't work their assess off for some Bulging Becky who would decide to settle for him. You really don't like women do you? It's fine you know, since you're one of the MGTOW crowd y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:09 AM
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Let's follow the actions. Alright? My actions have been in line with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:15 AM
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Doesn’t matter what you claim you want Did you actually read ANY of the evidence or
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:51 PM
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I've previously made a post about how I think women should plan for a life without a partner because of how bad these issues have become in recent years and men in the comments were pretty angry. I think modern western culture promotes attitudes that lead to these behaviours. The culture of living for the now rather than planning for the future, the culture of instant gratification, the culture of throwing things away at slight inconvenience instead of fixing them. Porn is extremely addictive, i…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 09:19 PM
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This is nothing to do with maturity, it's to do with fact vs pure speculative bullshit. I'm sorry to burst your oversimplified bubble, but you've been led into believing lies by sociopaths. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ho4cvx/red_pill_detox_first_aid_kit_start_here/ your sexual strategy and to realize you’re the more privileged sex here. PLEASE point out my 'sexual strategy' please go ahead. The fact that you would even word it like that shows how badly your mind has been infected…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:16 PM
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'Sexual strategy' is a load of redpill evo psych bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:03 PM
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Which is what in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:52 PM
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You could say things could be better, but compared to even the 90s? It's way way better. I don't think so, things have gotten better in some ways (men can't legally rape their wives now) but worse in other ways (most men watch porn and have porn shaped sexualities now)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:52 PM
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I made a post about this and men in the comments were very angry. Modern western culture promotes unhealthy habits. It promotes living in the now rather than planning for the future, the encouragement of instant gratification and the throwaway aspect of culture all contribute to this. The introduction of hard core porn has mainly been the cause of a lot of these issues I think. Porn kills motivation, rewires the brain, changes arousal responses and is linked to the development of paraphillias (e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:54 PM
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Well not all men are interested in random meaningless sex with strangers. I've already prepared for a life without a partner though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:58 PM
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Just shows that more women have sex when compared to men I never made any claims about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:25 PM
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However, finding a guy who would turn down casual sex even when single would be a near impossibility. Exactly, and I'm not into men who believe in whoring around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:22 PM
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This doesn't say anything about women having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:55 PM
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Then don't there are lots to choose from I should add, I don't want a man who wants to sleep around but can't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:50 PM
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You literally just made up that women have evolved to have a sexual preference because of rape from neighbouring tribes in the past, with zero evidence of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:42 PM
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It's a load of shit, hence i'm making fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:11 PM
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This is not what you claimed, you claimed that men who whore around are better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:11 PM
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By 1%. It's not that women are cheating more, it's that men are cheating less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:27 PM
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Women hardly EVER orgasm from one night stands, manwhores care about pleasing themselves, not their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:25 PM
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There's a new post about women not getting off during sex here every week, now all of a sudden women want men that haven't slept around. Why would you assume a manwhore is better at sex? This is possibility one of the stupidest things I've ever read on this entire website.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:24 PM
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It's fine, I've planned for a life without a partner now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:03 PM
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Nah, I've pretty much given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:11 PM
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No, it's disgusting regardless. No smart woman wants a cancer giving wart spreader as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:51 AM
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Oh my god That was the fucking point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:51 AM
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so according to my point Give me actually data or i don't care, once again people on your side think 'me and my 3 mates' is a good source.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:49 AM
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Everyone wants a better partner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:47 AM
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women prefer seasoned men, This is a myth, most women prefer men who haven't slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:32 AM
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Yes, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:30 AM
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It's not always that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:29 AM
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Hypergamy isn't even real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:04 AM
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but doesn't change the fact that women still go for i Most women don't have regular casual sex. average woman has a higher n count Completely untrue but anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:31 PM
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There is nothing to be proud of to be a slut. Agreed, that's why I would never date a man who has slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:30 PM
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truth is that women can literally fuck anyone in less than 4 hours if they wanted to Because men are desperate and will have sex with women they don't even like. Being used as a fleshlight has no appeal for most women so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:47 PM
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UGHHHHH do you guys actually have ANY arguments other than 'Muh 80/20', 'Muh Chad'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:43 PM
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I'm so sick of you people using 'muh biology' as an excuse to be a degenerate. As a woman, having children from many different men increases the likelihood that one of them will survive due to genetic diversity. Women having evolved to have completely different sexual behaviour than men, that in and of itself, would be a contradiction. If women are all trying to be monogamous with one man, who would you be sleeping around with? Men have dicks shaped like mushrooms to 'scoop out' sperm from their…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:42 PM
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Women talk about stuff like this constantly, it really isn't. It'd hard to tell which men are whores too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:19 PM
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The job of the goalie is to stop shots and the job of the shooter is to shoot. This metaphor is meaningless. He can still say that's a shitty goalie that let him score. So men aren't responsible for degenerate behaviour, women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:10 PM
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Most aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:40 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:39 PM
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So you admit that these men having sex with women who they will then shame and hate is predatory and exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:37 PM
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Once you've slept with someone, you can't un-sleep with them. You can make more or less money in your life time. It's very hard to find men who aren't into casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:51 PM
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What do you make of the actual stats OP included?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:25 PM
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Sleeping around is disgusting and damaging behaviour, the amount of money you make changes in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:24 PM
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But you think it was fine for you to do that, yet you wouldn't tolerate that in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:15 PM
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women want attention and help The fact that you'd even suggest this is so disgusting and vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:06 PM
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Okay so you've read everything OP said, all those stats and you come back with 'nuh-uh, family court dicks men' with absolute nothing but your word. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:06 PM
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I used to be one of them 'Standards for thee, not for me, teehee'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:05 PM
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Obese, excessive balding, huge/crooked nose, extremely messed up teeth (crooked and off white is fine, but black and rotting is a no go)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:19 PM
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Great! You can go have sex with men you like :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:42 PM
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Why not just be honest if you don't want a relationship?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:59 PM
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That's awful, is there any way you can counter-sue?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:05 PM
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Source or is this another meaningless rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:59 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:53 AM
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no self respecting dad Many aren't self respecting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:53 AM
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No, men and women attempt suicide at the same rates. Men are more likely to use more violent methods like guns and are thus more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:50 AM
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Men rape >wimmin bad ???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:48 AM
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every single aspect of society in which men get dicked over, According to the statistics, women are more likely to get dicked over. You just want to play victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:44 AM
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My ex spent over $250,000 on legal fees and that was reasonable. He went after me with one of the most unethical lawyers and made my life hell for over a year. What was he trying to get out of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:43 AM
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The combative moron my ex hired who was instructing her in a such a way I told her to consider getting a new lawyer because if she forced me to "play" with that particular one I was simply going to dump a large amount of money into hiring a bigger shark - and maybe going for full custody. She had (ahem) liabilities she knew I could exploit. Why do redpill/MGTOW men always go for an anecdote when asked for evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:41 AM
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Exactly, these guys base their sense of place in the world on this imagined persecution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:19 AM
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I'm already well on my way to success buddy lmao, you're so hopeful that I'm going to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:05 PM
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You're completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:12 AM
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interest in casual sex If they are interested in casual sex, I don't want them at all. I don\t fancy getting an STI or cheated on by some low impulse control whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:12 AM
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No, statistically it's actually the minority that don't want to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:11 AM
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I like shorts n tank tops so don't care lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:42 PM
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Not happy when the shoe is on the other foot eh? I expected as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:33 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:20 PM
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. Next week she sexually assaulted me from behind in public, attempted to coerce me into a sexually charged interaction with her on the spot as a fake apology, mocked my shocked reaction when I didn't do as she wanted, then enlisted her female friends in the immediate vicinity to join her, mocked me loudly to get them to join in, a Men lie about assault all the time, haven't you heard about false rape accusations? You probably did it then just regretted it. Or maybe you were wearing shorts or a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:19 PM
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Women, like men, have huge blind spots for people who cause their sex organs to become engorged. Sad, but true. I'm a fucking virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:44 AM
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"I can get treated like a masturbation sock for hot men out of my league and justify it by rationalising that lesser men would treat me just as badly." I'm a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:43 AM
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It's not bias, there are HUNDREDS of studies on this: yourbrainonporn.com I'm never dating a coomer, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:46 AM
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No, when it comes to porn it changes your sexuality to get off to a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:23 AM
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Yes, promiscuous men don't make good partners. I made the point that most men are into casual sex, which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:48 AM
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I had low self esteem, very low. And he was nice to me initially. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:47 AM
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Because your assuming intention when they're never implied there was. If they're into casual sex... I'm not into them. Get it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:38 AM
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I know women tend to overrate themselves by a few points It's actually men who do that but alright. Quit acting like you did some ugly dude a favor by gracing him with your beauty. What happened was, two ugly people got together. Plus, you’re on purple pill, how cute could you be? I'm average height, healthy weight, long hair, clear skin and i've done modelling in the past. He was balding, short, weird lips, bug eyed and ugly as shit. I wasn't attracted to him at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:38 AM
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How is a woman wanting a relationship with you wanting to have their cake and eat it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:23 PM
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"most" men are which is proven to be false You. Don't. Get. It. I'm counting the men who stating they would be looking for a relationship or casual sex, they count too. Add those and the ones interested in only casual together and you get.... a majority of men. Which was the fucking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:49 PM
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Bf game doesn't require me to be good looking. I just need to lie on the same level as women. They remain interested for 3-6 months, until it dawns on them that I'm not gonna take it to the next level. Why would you even want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:46 PM
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... you literally don't know what i look like....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:06 PM
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'B-but it wasn't REAL redpill' Yeah we've red the sidebar, we know what it is. We don't want to be in 1000 miles of any man who uses or supports this sick ideology.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 09:30 PM
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So I'll just stay a virgin forever then lmao, fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:26 PM
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You're a black piller, don't pretend you're even in a position to manipulate women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:26 PM
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We don't fucking want 'RedPill' men.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 09:25 PM
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and in every single one of them there were multiple signs and symptoms of what they truly stood for that Such as what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:55 PM
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Ah yes, every single decision they made to hurt me doesn't really count because I chose them in the first place. When I first got with them, they were lovely, kind and the most wonderful people. This may surprise you, men lie. Men know that if they show their true selves the woman won't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:14 PM
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I'm confused, are you happy about that or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:51 PM
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Your logic folds in on itself No, it really doesn't. Guessing you're somehow immune to the brain changes too? Nah, didn't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:51 PM
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22% is not the majority, compared to the over majority who are looking for relationships. Are you stupid? I'm counting the ones who want a relationship OR casual sex. They are interested in casual sex, therefore they count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:50 PM
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No, no porn watching period, it's addictive and destroys the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:45 PM
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No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:56 PM
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Because when you look at what men are actively seeking out, the majority and interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:51 PM
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You are totally wrong about this No i'm actually not. Oh, and most men ARE looking for relationships. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Lol not true. You have a generalized delusional disorder of the mind where it pertains to sex. Painting a woman as mentally ill because she said something you don't like isn't going to work here I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:42 PM
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half of the men and women who are single are not even looking for anything Irrelevant because I'm referring to the people who are looking. So yea only a small amount of men are looking for something casual sex while the majority will take a relationship. The whole point was that they are interested in casual sex, which I'm correct is the majority. I don't want to date someone who's open to sleeping around, so yes, it's still the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:17 PM
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That sentence didn't even make sense and what the fuck are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:41 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Here you go :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:38 PM
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That's an assumption and no they do not. Yes they do. If so have you met most men? I don't have to meet most men, I have stats. Most men are not even having sex, and that is straight from the data. So again have you met most men? No, you haven't. It doesn't matter. I want my dream job with a 6 figure salary, does that mean I actually have it? No, it means I want it. Show me the stats :) Here you go :) 78% of men express an interest in casual sex, aka the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:18 PM
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And what happened with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:49 PM
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It's disgusting. Women need to spread awareness so we an avoid men like this.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 01:49 PM
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just want to use women as a fleshlight even though nobody insinuated that, Most men want casual sex, that is what casual sex is. if that's been your experience that just means your probably not worth being with long term. You're* and I don't have casual sex so it isn't my experience. According to the data and popular concern here most men are not even having sex at ALL, This is irrelevant. Most men express an interest in casual sex. Whether they actually get it or not is a different story. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:39 PM
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No they don’t Yes they do actually, you hang around duded that have many options and don’t want to settle down This is a failed and oversimplified argument. Ugly men don't want to settle down either. I dated 2 really ugly guys in the past and found out one of them was on tinder desperately trying to get hook ups for half the relationship (he didn't get any matches though)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:16 PM
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I don't want to be used by men. At all, it's disgusting, repulsive. If you're jealous of women because they have a bunch of disgusting, horny men pestering them for sex, maybe you could try grindr?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:13 PM
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Not being abusive? Yeah that's pretty fucking important, I ended 2 relationships because the guys started becoming abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:47 PM
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I don't want to be used as a fleshlight for a man to masturbate into. Most men just want casual sex or short term relationships. This is nothing to do with me, it's what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:45 PM
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Ok that’s bs No, it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:44 PM
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If a man catches HPV or Herpes, it can give a woman cancer or in the case of herpes, her unborn child can be born with brain damage. These STDS stay in the body for life, there is no cure. Women do and should care about men sleeping around because it is dangerous to our health, it's also disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 12:41 PM
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That's like saying you're lucky because you have a bin bag full of used banana skins. I don't want used banana skins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:38 PM
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Mature enough to be in a relationship, no abusive tendencies, doesn't watch porn, is motivated and moving forwards in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:36 PM
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That's a shame because this stuff is actually repulsive to most women.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 12:22 PM
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Go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:11 PM
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There are plenty of men who wouldn’t mind being in a relationship. Yes, and how many of them are actually suitable for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:09 PM
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Yes. It was my choice though. I am trying to navigate this weird life now. Oh I'm so sorry. You mind me asking you what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:57 PM
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Is this what happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:39 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:21 AM
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Most people aren't going to be okay with polygamy, keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:19 AM
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while you're some 200IQ princess. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:16 AM
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0.1% > 1% is growing in popularity Do you really think anyone notices or cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:02 AM
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Most women seek from 18+ and a lot never find one that is suitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:01 AM
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Yup, pure conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:15 PM
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There is no info or study that correlates physically attractive men with abusive behaviour. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:05 PM
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There's an article about it because it's a weird outlier. If it was the norm, no one would read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:51 PM
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If a man abuse a woman- He was a chad, she deserves it If a woman is cheated on - She only dates chad If a woman hates casual sex- She secretly likes it for chad. We can't win, you just make up stuff to get mad at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:33 PM
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Exactly! And expecting him to pay on a date is good proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:24 PM
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That's amazing! What kind of stuff have you done? How has your life changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:23 PM
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You've missed the point entirely. Men want casual sex more than women, the demand is more than the supply. Many men will lie about their intentions to get casual sex from women. Having ways to weed out these men is a GOOD thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:24 AM
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Men want casual sex more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:38 AM
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'Muh chad' 95% of all arguments on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:39 AM
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This assumes men and women use each other for casual sex in the same capacity This is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:24 AM
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Oddly enough, even coomers and videogame addicts (and other kinds of addicts) have no trouble getting girlfriends You're right. It's because these women have low self esteem and don't believe they can demand any better. Then can, they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:36 PM
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One of them was a meme. But yeah, I wouldn't accept a man using fraud to make himself attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:59 PM
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So you don't want a porn addict, you just want a guy who doesn't watch porn at all Precisely! Okay well then this is like me asking for a woman who doesn't use a vibrator. No it isn't. Masturbation is not the same as porn use, it doesn't have the same affects on the brain. Your standards are ridiculous, and despite what FDS has told you, watching porn once or twice a week doesn't have any of extreme side effect your post cries about. No my standards are completely reasonable but the majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:41 PM
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You do realise that was an internet meme that was made up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:38 PM
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LMAO I'm actually a virgin coming from a very religious community. And men are less likely to be dishonest about what we want whereas women will due to social pressure. Random statement pulled out your ass with nothing backing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:19 PM
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Do you have a bunch of studies showing the negative effects of 'romance novels' on the brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:17 PM
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Well here's two parking lots full of guys who (statistically speaking) are by majority not lazy porn addicted misogynists. I'd argue your post is taking a minority subset of under achieving, loud men, and is strawmanning the overwhelming majority of guys as being that way. You aren't getting it. I don't want a man if he watches porn at all. The negative effects of it are too much for me to tolerate. It doesn't matter that he 'has a good job' if he goes home and jerks off behind a screen, no than…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:14 PM
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Well the same can be said about men, most of you aren't marrying virgins so why the hell should we listen to what you have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:54 PM
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I'm fine with being alone if I don't find one, hence the point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:54 PM
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No it isn't. You can stop watching porn at any time, you can't un have sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:53 PM
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but it matters less for a man than it does for a woman. Wrong, HPV is an extremely common STD and is responsible for 99.7% of cervical cancers in women. Then there's the increased risk of cheating, lower risk of marital satisfaction. I am a virgin woman, you bet your ass you become less attractive to us when you sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:43 PM
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I don't care if a guy is the most hardworking guy in the world, I don't want him if he watches porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:13 PM
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Why do I need help?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:55 PM
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No, it is not unreasonable to want a man who doesn't watch porn. The end. I do not need to seek help for having standards and i'm very sorry but painting women as 'crazy' for having any expectations of men will not work anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:26 PM
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Yeah i knew you couldn't answer, because you know damn well what the answer is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:47 PM
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Oh dear, my condolences for the women in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:46 PM
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I certainly didn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:46 PM
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Let them do it, we just need to live full lives without them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:44 PM
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IS WANTING TO DATE A MAN WHO DOESN'T WATCH PORN UNREASONABLE.? YES OR NO?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:09 AM
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Nope. You are the one that has done nothing but keep on bring this up. Because you still haven't answered, why can't I want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:57 PM
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Then live on welfare or off grid, what the hell do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:45 PM
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No, if you don't like your job: work on getting a different one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:14 PM
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Most people who watch porn are not addicted to the lengths that you suggest. This is irrelevant. If you know anything about the negative effects of porn, you aren't spared either way, it destroys the brain, motivation and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:13 PM
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Why would I answer your stupid question? Because you've taken great offence to me not wanting to date a man who watches porn, you can't tell me why though. And you should seek help because you need it in general. LOL, seek help for general what? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:06 PM
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And that is fine with me, I have no intention of ever dating one. I'd rather be alone and have a child via sperm donation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:02 PM
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You didn't answer the question. Why would I need to seek help for not wanting to date a man who watches porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:22 PM
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So? All you doing is proving my point this whole thread is about you not able to find a guy. What is unreasonable about not wanting to date a coomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:09 PM
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Lots of people have a job they don't like, should you start giving them oppression points too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:08 PM
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If a man would rather watch porn than be with you, that is probably the fault of YOU No it isn't, read : https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:55 PM
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If you watch porn, yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:33 PM
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That's the biological equivalent of a man watching porn No it's really not. You know nothing about the science of porn: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:08 PM
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Cool, go do that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:34 PM
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Go your own way then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:33 PM
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What is any of that supposed to prove The idea that men watching porn is somehow the fault of women is bullshit. Men get addicted to porn because.... porn is addictive. Ok, I can concede that porn can be a detriment to some with addiction issues. I don't believe that most men have these problems with porn though. Even small amounts have negative effects. You were the last woman he ever kissed? Yup, he's now alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:14 PM
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77% of men in my country watch porn regularly, the majority are already excluded SOLELY based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:02 PM
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When did I say that it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:59 PM
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n. You are basically saying that you are such a shit person that men would rather jerk off to pictures than even think about touching you. How is that not completely embarrassing? 'Guys perspective here. I've been addicted to porn for 10 years. (Only realised it was an addiction 3 years ago). What porn does is hijack your bodies evolutional urges for reproduction and trick your brain into thinking that the porn on your screen is an endless source of female partners, actually using the same addic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:10 PM
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Why's that? What have I been hypocritical on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:59 PM
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I'm a virgin, never had casual sex, don't watch porn. I don't even expect a man to be a virgin, I just don't want him to watch porn on be into casual sex. I have lower standards for men than I have for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:58 PM
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What is unreasonable about not wanting a guy who watches porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:57 PM
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Not wanting a man who watches porn is so unreasonable to you guys huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:48 PM
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You're moving the goalposts and also playing victim. I didn't say YOU had unrealistic expectations but you took responsibility, if the shoes fits. Nobody wants degenerates, etc. You're not breaking some kind of barrier. Exactly. What I want is the bare minimum. Look at how viciously the men in this thread attack me for stating this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:47 PM
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Heh, yeah, men are the unreasonable ones. I don't want a man who watches porn, according to the men here that makes me akin to a monster with mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:40 PM
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Do it then, you should support what I said since i said women should prepare for a life without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:38 PM
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Having a job is now wage slaving lmao you guys make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:36 PM
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I haven't the slightest clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:36 PM
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be because of women's skyrocketing expectations. Skyrocketing expectations that I laid out in this post being: Don't be a degenerate coomer with ED/Brain damage, don't be into casual sex or sleeping around. Don't be a video game addict or a manchild. You're right, I'm such an unreasonable MONSTER for expecting the bare minimum lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:35 PM
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That's not going to happen, inequality exists and it always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:30 PM
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Don't care. Go breed with ugly women or women with bad genes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:30 PM
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We'll know lmao. We'll check out the family and baby pics before making a decision, no having children with fraudsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:29 PM
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We will have children with whoever we want. Let those pathetic women haters go and jerk off their limp dicks into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:28 PM
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What mental disorder do i have exactly? I don't want a man who watches porn, therefore I'm mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:27 PM
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Then you'll need to become worthy of that and even then it's not a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:26 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:24 PM
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Which is another way of saying men aren't filling their traditional roles for you women. Not jerking off to porn to the point of brain damage affects you more than women. It's not me destroying my dopamine receptors. You might as well be FDS with that mentality and what you said in this thread Can you actually attack my argument instead of this pathetic mud slinging? What is incorrect about what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:29 PM
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This is the exact type of man I was talking about though, they're too far gone. Best to just leave them and focus on our own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:02 PM
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Yes? I noted the issues we are having to deal with as women when we date men and better alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:36 PM
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That's true yeah, but lots of them are former porn addicts so I'd be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:12 PM
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cheating if their partner is the King of the world. Most men aren't king of the world and never will be. We're never going to be okay with polygamy, accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:28 PM
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I broke up with them because they were horribly abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:27 PM
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Every man has watched porn at some point. Newsflash, so have most women. Should all men disqualify you since you’ve watched it? The knife cuts both ways. Most men are not addicted to it. It’s a rare thing when they’re bored, and has no effect on their psychological health. Strawman. I said I wouldn't date men who watch porn, not men who've ever seen it in their entire lives. Most men are not abusive. I know it’s the trendy feminist thing to harp on about but the reality is most men aren’t beatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:11 PM
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I've never found a man who hasn't slept around and is anti-porn. Not a single one. I'm 25. I've had 2 relationships. I ended it both times. I wasn't very attracted to them but they were 'nice' initially so I gave them a chance. I met one through friends and one online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:00 PM
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The majority do and that's not all. I wouldn't want a men who has slept around/is interested in sleeping around because similar values are important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:54 AM
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Then you’re either being approached by low tier men This has nothing to do with being approached. Most men watch porn, therefore i don't want most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:47 AM
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So all men are going to become the richest men on earth? And once again, women still aren't ok with it. It's amazing how after being cheated on and humiliated multiple times, you actually believe the women are the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:43 AM
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Ew no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:30 AM
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There are plenty of decent. They can probably just spot your red flags a mile away I'm the one doing the rejecting but men can 'spot my red flags a mile away' Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:29 AM
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And? Those are some of the richest men on earth. Give what happened to Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates, I'd say they aren't so okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:28 AM
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Did you bother to read the other 80 studies or?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:27 AM
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When in reality A LOT of men want to settle down it's just incredibly difficult for a man to find a woman who is worth settling down fo https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ men are more interested in casual sex compared to women. Women are more interested in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:25 AM
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I actually just decided at 35 I am going to make a pact to myself to not date until 40. I only want to be in situations with men where I am confident they have my best interests in mind or that I am not letting them in. And I am not there yet. And I also don't miss dating at all yet (been a year). This sounds smart, glad it has gone well for you so far :D. My plan is to make strong relationships with people, feel fulfilled through my art, get rich and buy an even more beautiful home in the count…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:00 AM
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As a generalization of a whole, not to each individual, in very small affects. You literally couldn't even be bothered to read the studies. Pretty much all males consume porn, plenty are able to have perfectly fine relationships in which porn has 0 affect. Nope, 77% of men watch it regularly in my country, that's not 100%. Nope again, I don't want someone who functions okay despite watching it. I could think of a dozen things that are far greater detriments. I don't care, I'm never dating a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:32 AM
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It negatively impacts relationship quality, intimacy, self esteem and sexual satisfaction. It shrinks the grey matter in the brain and decreases motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:26 AM
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You want me to explain 80 studies to you rather than just reading them yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:12 AM
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Yeah guys stop watching porn so you can go buy dinner for a chick that’s blowing her guy best friend because he “just gets her”. You literally made up a scenario from thin air to get mad at lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:05 AM
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Literally don't watch porn, don't have/had casual sex, don't be abusive, don't be a gaming addict and be family orientated. Those are my disney prince tier standards lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:04 AM
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I was a drug dealer/trafficker for a while, some others I know of are dead, in prison, or alcoholics/drug addicts. Just wondering, do you take any responsibility for your own actions, or is mommy always to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:02 AM
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Women want a traditional man but want to be non traditional themself. No, this is actually what men want. Have fun with the 'sluts' but settle down with the religious girl. No thanks. Frist fuck all alphas have a high body count and then "settle for a man", and then complain that he is not the classical provider, but peter pan. I'm a virgin and I've dated men with peter pan syndrome before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:01 AM
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I can go get a sperm donor tomorrow if I want one, you're bragging about 'distant technology' that has only been tried on mice. If you want to clone yourself and have a child, feel free, I have no problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:59 AM
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Women not wanting to bother with 80% of men is actually hypergamy on a nutshell. Came from an Okcupid study, the same one where 66% of men were sending messages to the top 30% of women, that's not 'muh hypergamy' though since those men were also willing to use less attractive women for sex :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:53 AM
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Who are my age, single and not gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:50 AM
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More feminist victimhood fantasy. And so soon after posting https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital\_rape
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:49 AM
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Give me a study that shows what % of marriages end up because of porn. I just linked 80 studies about the negative affects of porn use. At least I wouldn't need it if I was in a relationship with sex being available Cool! Guess all the studies were wrong then because you personally wouldn't watch it if you were in a relationship. P.s. I'm still waiting for your answer on my other comment. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:48 AM
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Wanting to have a child without a man is hate speech? Lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:47 AM
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women swipe left on 95% of guys on tinder Most women aren't on tinder and the gender ratio is massively skewed. men are giving up and adapting to the new situation. Cool, go do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:46 AM
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The exact opposite is true for me. That's why they aren't pursuing relationships. Cool, I've got no interest in them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:45 AM
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Wait so men are supposed to wait in celibacy, not having any release while women have fun with several men until she hits 30 and decides to settle down? Have you even read the post? I'm a VIRGIN and I DESPISE casual sex. I will not ever date a man who has slept around. I don't watch porn either. I'll cut the porn when I get the sex, until then, my body my rules. Keep on watching porn to your hearts content, I don't give a shit. But I'm not dating a man who watches it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:44 AM
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Did you even read the post or
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:42 AM
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(because women’s hypergamy is out of control) Stop watching the Jordan Peterson videos, it's giving you brain rot. Most of TRP evo psych is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:40 AM
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Because I shared opinions as well as questions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:39 AM
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Every man who doesn't watch porn is a default male model by definition? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:38 AM
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You literally don't care at all how it affects your brain or health, pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:38 AM
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Some men. That's not a viable genetic pool if the sperm banks are shut down. Cool. Unless you manage to shut down sperm banks in the next 5 years, then I'd have multiple kids by then lmao. And artificial wombs are also coming, which means we can procreate without you... Okay, do it? You still need an egg which is much harder to get compared to sperm, far more costly too. You'd then have to raise that child as a single parent, but hey if that's what you want then best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:37 AM
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I would have the child DNA tested the second it comes out, if the child was not mine and the donors, I would sue the DR for fraud and put the child up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:32 AM
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So your plan is for men to go without sex due to rejection and go without porn and have no sexual release at all. At least now we know you hate men and want them to suffer. Well in that case I want amazing sex with a guy who gives me at least 4 orgasms, any man who denies me this hates me and wants me to suffer. You know what your problem is? Men no longer need you. Women are losing relevance. When these men stop using porn guess what they're never going to turn to dating women like you who try …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:30 AM
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Once again nobody is asking you to do anything. No need to play tough here. You literally implied that if men don't get the access to womens bodies they think they are owed, they would go on a mass raping spree. All because i said I would never date a guy who watches porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:28 AM
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Monogamy seems to be part of our make-up. I fell in love when I was twenty with someone I couldn't marry (meth). I never fell out of love with him although he did eventually achieve sobriety. I could never develop an interest in anyone else and I did try. That's a really painful story, I hope you're alright now? I know exactly what you mean though, I would in the past only like one person for years and years, took me so long to get over it (to the point of being mocked by friends). There are oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:27 AM
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the anger phase of understanding the world as it actually is seems to be upon you. Not dogging you, it’s probably healthy. It's not anger, it's indifference and it's not the world, it's how men choose to behave. I imagine can be frustrating for women because some men don’t want to play your game or cater to your wants after seeing that it’s not the best option in most cases They can do whatever they like, I'll be happy with a sperm donor :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:23 AM
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This. "My wife is wearing nothing but thigh-highs and glasses begging for me to take her, but I prefer pornhub" - said no man ever. Look at my post history, that literally happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:18 AM
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Women don’t reject men for watching porn. Porn isn’t the be all end all of 80% men being shut out of dating. I know you’ve an obsession about it. However, porn isn’t the reason why sexless ness is rising amongst men. Don't care. I personally won't be with a man who watches porn or who sleeps around. Complain all you like, talk about the cataclysmic collapse of civilisation all you like, it's not happening. The people doing Revolution don’t quit their jobs in a corporate fashion. You should actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:17 AM
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Cool, I literally already wrote in my post that I don't care and I'm very prepared to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:12 AM
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God you're really that desperate for absolute control huh? Fine lmao. Some men want to donate sperm so we'll just seek out a private donation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:11 AM
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So your plan is for men to go without sex due to rejection and go without porn and have no sexual release at all? 'Wimmin need to have sex with me or I'll damage my brain with porn REEEEE!' Yeah... no. You are responsible for your own actions. Fuck that. We'll do whatever the fuck we want. You're being replaced by porn. Deal with it. Cool, go do it then! Why are you still here talking to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:10 AM
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"how can we help men out of this" ? Look at my post history, trying to 'save' a porn addict nearly cost me everything in my life. Men do not want to be helped, nor is it healthy for me to spend my entire life trying to save them in the hopes that they might just change for me. If you want to date men, wouldn't you rather have a larger pool of men to date than be forced to stay single? Sure, but men have to willingly decide to be better people by their own initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:08 AM
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Women are sexless because of their own volition. They aren't "sexless" like men. It's not comparable. Women persecute men because 'they no give me coochie' > :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:06 AM
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Just more propaganda. Everything is all Men’s fault! Blame shifting & consequence dodging What on earth are you talking about, I don't want to date a man who watches porn therefore this is propaganda? They will not shame my rights as a man from me What rights are being shamed for you exactly? I have to say, I have read some bizarre things online but this weird paranoid monologue about how persecuted men are in a post I wrote about women trying to live without being overly focused on finding a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:05 AM
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No need for porn if you can just force yourself on a woman... So 80% of men will start mass raping women because women don't want to date them if they watch porn. If this really is true, then men really are vile, despicable beings and I happily welcome the end of the human species. October Revolution Cultural Revolution Reign of Terror Just some examples of what folks are able to do when pissed. You're talking about political revolutions. Not 'average man gets rejected by women for going on porn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:55 AM
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Oooh this sounds interesting. What were your reasons? What sort of volunteering did you do, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:43 AM
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I did link to over 80 studies in the 4th line of this post, happy reading :) https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/porn-use-sex-addiction-studies/studies-linking-porn-use-or-porn-sex-addiction-to-sexual-dysfunctions-and-poorer-sexual-and-relationship-satisfaction/#less
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:42 AM
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Cool, they can do that if they want. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:18 AM
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God, you don't even know how the economy work and you really believe that you're going to sustain yourself alone? Oh i guess you're right, the entire world will collapse because some men didn't get the sex they think they were owed. The irony is if society would collapse then there would be no internet and no porn watching which would solve a huge part of the problem lmao, maybe this is a great idea! You can't run a government that leans heavily on the biggest taxpayers if half of the population…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:18 AM
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He can go jerk off and damage his brain all he wants, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:08 AM
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So your definition of a good man is someone who doesn't watch porn? No, it's the bare minimum. Obviously I would like a kind, caring, intelligent partner who is interested in the same things as me and wants a big family. But a hard standard I have is that I don't want a man who watches porn, most of them fail at the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:06 AM
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willing to make an effort to give a man what he wants in a relationship then, Why should we bother? I'm a virgin who grew up in a religious community and I've always wanted to have a big family with kids, I started learning domestic skills at age 4 and I started a little cake business at age 15. I'm what a lot of RP types have described on here as a marriage type woman, but I'm not actually interested in men who don't share my values so I've accepted it's unlikely I will ever get married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:03 AM
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it's not at all difficult to find a good man Most men watch porn regularly, 77% in my country. The odds are already not good. Men don't want a whole lot, if you can't find a man on your level, you aren't on the level you think you are. I'm sure I could find a man who wants me, but I don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:00 AM
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A man who only gives up destructive habits for a woman? Pathetic. Also not true since porn use correlates with divorce and many men have lost their marriages and families because of porn use. Also you can't go back, if you've spent years having casual sex you can't just undo that. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:58 AM
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The point of the post was asking women what kind of stuff they plan to fill their lives with instead of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:56 AM
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Most women who get cheated on break up/divorce the guy. They don't think 'my husband is highly desirable, I am ok with sharing' they would rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:54 AM
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Women are sexless by choice. Sometimes yeah, so? You literally think that it's some kind of oppression if women choose not to have sex? And housing and economic factors have nothing to do with that. Especially in college. Young people live with their parents later and later, that's a big reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:53 AM
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Haha sure, it's not like porn is highly addictive, rewires the brain, shrinks the grey matter and leads to the development of paraphilia or is heavily correlated with divorce and poor relationship satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:52 AM
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Nope, most women divorce their husbands after being cheated on, that doesn't change just because the man is attractive. We aren't okay with polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:50 AM
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Young men are replacing them with porn and they're happy with that. Cool. Hence the point of the post, I was asking other women what they think they will fill their lives with instead of a relationship and got some interesting responses/new ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:49 AM
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Okay let's put it this way: we don't care how it affects women Alright, that's fine. If women see men as worth less then let the human species die. Where did I say this? What you don't understand is that the value of female companionship is no longer worth the effort. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Go your own way. Men of this generation have porn and video games and fewer of them care what you do. Cool, that's literally what the post is about. Nobody wants to read that giant word wall of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:47 AM
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All I am reading is complaints that men are bad, pathetic, beneath you, etc. I never said that. With such an extremely warped negative view of average and decent men you will never find anybody indeed. Always you will find some flaw. All I said is I don't want to date a man who watches porn, is abusive, is addicted to video games or has casual sex. The problem is you. No it really isn't, i meet all of those standards. Entitlement princess. So, just be alone. Take your own advice, give up. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:46 AM
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I'm a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:42 AM
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Sexlessness is rising for men and women, largely due to housing and economic factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:38 AM
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The shortage of sperm donors isn't only started with COVID, it's periodic and highly dependent on the country. If it was really that bad I'd seek a private donor. Who is going to pay for you and your kweens when 80% of men don't bother paying taxes that make hospitals, roads, schools, electricity, and other infrastructures running? Who is going to pay for your retirement with 80% of men not bothering to pay? I grew up in a semi rural community, I'm very ok with living off grid and growing my own…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:36 AM
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Hahaha just ignore the question then. Less than alimony is paid in less than 3% of all divorces, 0.7% of that time is the woman paying the man. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:56 PM
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In practice, one donor can't fertilize 1 million women, that's not how it works. It's more complicated than that. Yes, but the point is sperm is plentiful. No, there isn't. There is in fact a shortage of sperm donors. And not just in the US. The Covid pandemic, which made many more people eager to start a family, kept many men away from sperm banks to avoid the virus. I'm guessing you bothered to read the article you linked, right? Lmao. I don't want kids for a couple years yet, unless COVID goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:51 PM
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. sure, just tell men not to date. let's see what happens lol I didn't tell men not to do anything. I just said I think most women should prepare to be alone if men don't meet basic standards and most now don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:38 PM
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"do everything to improve yourself, create yourself and you will have to do nothing but receive pussy" I'm not interested in men who sleep around anyway, so again, they would be weeded out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:35 PM
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Men are masters of their destiny and women are victims of their circumstance no matter what. This gets tiring quick. I don't care that men are failing that much, but seeing entire institutions existing around women's issues and the amount of mindspace women's issues occupy really puts into perspective what it's like to fail as a man as opposed to woman. Women have addictions too, women struggle with mental health too. I'm not trying to date women, I'm trying to date men. If I were trying to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:32 PM
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Fair enough but that's just you. If I focus on working hard then I should have enough money to raise my own family comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:26 PM
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You just made up a story and got mad at it lol. Red pill guys are really something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:25 PM
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Where is the proof that men pay more than 50/50 bills and expenses? But anyway they do not all the housework and childcare by any means, at least not in my country (this I guess, is very culture related). Women do more housework than men in every country on earth apart from one, it's unlikely this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:24 PM
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Well I'm a virgin and a fair few of my friends are. Men who aren't virgins want virgin partners and that's just utter crap. Also you can give up watching porn at any point, you can't un-have sex for the first time. I know it's difficult, hence the post is about life without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:23 PM
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Okay so what does that mean for child-free women? Nothing? If they don't want kids they don't have to have them. Then why are you saying that people are underestimating child-free people? Being child-free isn't a temporary thing meaning that people are child-free for the moment. People that are child-free don't want children at all. Okay? And that's fine. It's just not what i want?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:21 PM
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That's actually not how it works. Men produce 200-250 million sperm per ejaculate, around 4% of these are viable for conception. 4% of 200 million is 8 million, so it's actually more than 1 million. Assuming some sperm do not survive thawing, it would still leave thousands and thousands of sperm able to fertilise and egg.... and it only takes one. Why should men agree to give their sperm while they are excluded from the dating market? You plan to milk the top 20% of men like cows to inseminate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:20 PM
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Women do almost all the housework and childcare even when they work full time, this is utter bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:13 PM
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I'm a virgin who wouldn't have sex before marriage. RP men are obsessed with having sex as soon as possible, they'd be weeded out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:12 PM
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my own studies Hahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:11 PM
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Yet the majority still watch it regularly so it hardly matters. Red Pill men are even worse than porn users, I'd literally rather jump of a bridge than go near one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:09 PM
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True but sperm donation is becoming more and more popular, women are literally starting youtube channels about raising a child this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:08 PM
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Do you really think women would be able to make money off of Twitch and Only Fans if it weren't for thirsty men? Are you saying the majority of modern women make a living off of Twitch and OnlyFans?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:06 PM
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Men end up richer after divorce and women end up poorer. A little bit of extra cash in a divorce settlement hardly makes up for decades of being out/limited time in the work force.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:05 PM
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You do realise that the volume of sperm in a SINGLE ejaculate is enough to make over a million babies right? That also doesn't address the fact that child-free people won't be wanting or having children so they will not pass on their genes unless they change their mind and stop being "child-free." Not an issue, they can stay child-free, I'm talking about the women such as myself who want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:04 PM
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Low self esteem sadly means they end up with shit men, but yes I agree that women are massively impacted by social media and I highly commend any woman who recognises and walks away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:02 PM
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Men are responsible for their own actions and women can and should walk away when we are faced with destructive behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:01 PM
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Instead of helping men, asking why this is happening, we just shame them. Smart. Help men stop wanking? They don't want to lmao. Men go to porn and stop chasing women, or men can't get woman so turns to porn. False, if you'd actually bother to read the link in my post, you'd know that men often use porn in relationships. The idea that men use porn as a substitute for being alone is a complete and utter lie. Video games provide a sense of accomplishment that young men can't get in the world today…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:00 PM
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​ 'same level of damage to intimacy, sex and relationships as porn?'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:52 PM
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Because women just sit back and expect romance and fun to happen to them. Women literally beg men for years to put in interest, they usually change for a week and go straight back to not giving a shit. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:50 PM
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You do realise sperm donation is a thing right? Lmao and unlike surrogacy it's not even expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:49 PM
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....how? What 'more' do they receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:45 PM
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Yeah i don't know where this guy even got his tangent from, bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:34 PM
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What are your plans if you don't end up meeting someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:27 PM
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That was implied No it wasn't. If a man looks at a time with you and considers a video game to be a better reward and a far better ROI of his time then sweetie I hate to break it to you but you are about as interesting as a blow job from a great white shark If I meet a man for the first time and he plays 50 hours a week, I'm not interested. His opinion on me wouldn't come into it because I wouldn't want his regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:17 PM
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That's literally what the post is about, can't you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:51 PM
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I don't want to date men who watch porn and advise women do the same and you manage to turn this into a 'men are the victims' comment ????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:42 PM
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What has this got to do with literally anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:33 PM
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never go to sperm donors Lmao, wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:32 PM
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I don't want a man who watches porn at all. The effects it has are extremely negative and damaging. I don't watch porn and I want a partner who doesn't either. You don't need porn in order to masturbate so 'muh libido' isn't an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:31 PM
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Men do they fair share of housework in 2021 No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:29 PM
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So you can't find a male wage slave I never mentioned money at all. My main issues are porn, excessive video gaming, lack of commitment and casual sex having. I suppose it's too much to expect you to reflect on the simple question of why a heterosexual male would choose to play a video game over taking you out for a date? Ah of course, mens behaviour is somehow my fault. There are many women online who are married to men who ignore them and the kids to play video games for hours at a time. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:28 PM
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So just don't date then? If you don't want to meet the standards, then stay alone. How is controlling women the answer to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:26 PM
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I don't, I asked questions at the bottom and I was interested in hearing peoples opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:25 PM
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First off porn has been around for a long time. Ridiculous argument, a drawing of erotica from a few hundred years ago does not have the same damaging affects as high speed internet porn, watch your brain on porn. Porn in and of itself is not damaging Yes it is, even small uses change the way that men see women and shrink the grey matter in the brain. Men if not having sex need to masturbate and as we are highly visual creatures we like looking at naked women so porn is part of that. No porn is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:23 PM
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......did you... did you even read anything I just linked to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:17 PM
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Well I grew up in a very religious community where getting married and having kids was seen as an ultimate goal for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:16 PM
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And why is this an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:15 PM
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Women won't suddenly be ok with polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:15 PM
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Oh, we're back to this myth again. Men and women work virtually identical number of hours: https://www.bls.gov/news.release/pdf/atus.pdf So men get to put more into their pension and savings account while women get.... nothing? Sweet! Also this is the USA and I'm not from there so this has no relevance to me anyway. Then there's this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:14 PM
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Oh, it does work. Just because you don't see it, doesn't mean it hasn't been impacting the world you've been learning about by observation, and worse for you, others have been doing the same. Okay? Good luck, chances have it you'll need it much more than you realize. Nah, I already have a good enough career with a good amount in savings and plenty of plans for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:10 PM
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I'm not talking about immigration, I'm talking about this guys comment specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:08 PM
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You really need to learn to read. I read it just fine. Do you understand men at all? What? You're incapable of abstaining from highly damaging behaviour? Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:06 PM
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Men have been telling you this for about a decade now, out loud, repeatedly, while at the same time pulling further and further away, out of reach. I was still a child a decade ago so this doesn't really work. Many will never return, making the prospects for women wanting to form families look seriously bleak That's fine, hence i suggested an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:04 PM
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Single mothers are usually broke and leave their partners voluntarily or their partners abandoned them leading to deep emotional trauma. Have you got a study that examines women who are well off and well adjusted who choose to have a child via sperm donation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:02 PM
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What has immigration got to do with this guys authoritarian fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:00 PM
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You haven't listed anything specific so I'm genuinely curious as to what you're referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:56 PM
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Nope, I'm just telling you that in that environment that's what will happen. Then I'd hang myself. Don't shoot the messenger and maybe don't import millions of men who think that way. I don't recall ever doing this, nor do I see how immigration is relevant. This guy was talking as if the men currently in society were to 'take control' whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:55 PM
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...you do know that when that happens you have no choice right? I'm not sure what you're getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:53 PM
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Well if you don't want to do your share of the housework, then just hire a maid? Why just assume your wife will do it for free whilst she is working as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:52 PM
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Feminism changed women in such a way that pursuing a relationship with them is no longer worth the effort. How exactly did feminism do this and what did it do specifically? Men were never asked if they wanted to pick up half or more of women’s traditional duties. Hint: They didn’t. Well a man could just dump a woman and trade her in for a newer model the second she started to commit the unforgivable crime of ageing. Then the fact that a man could legally rape you within marriage with no conseque…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:52 PM
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What if they’re married to a nurse that works hard hours and also Exactly, they're looked at limited information and just come to a full conclusion from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:47 PM
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No problem? I just think that looking at wider trends that young women should no longer have relationships/marriage as a center point/goal in their life giving how bleak the outlook is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:47 PM
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Clearly it isn't because things are getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:45 PM
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I’m over 6 feet tall, have a degree and a white collar job and I am mostly ignored. I'm not sure what your height or degree has to do with this post. I know other men who are in my position, who are also single or just date fat chicks because those are the only girls they can get. A couple of them are under 6 feet sure, but they work for fortune 250 companies and have their shit together. And none of these men watch porn, right? “hurr durrr all men under 30 are fat neckbeards covered in Cheeto d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:40 PM
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What studies? Have you posted one anywhere? I literally posted a link: 'massively decreases relationship satisfaction' to 80 studies 4 lines into the post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:30 PM
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Can you show me some actual data evidence of this and how it impacts relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:24 PM
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What has race got to do with this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:23 PM
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Men are not failing in society - they are failing to live up to the traditional responsibilities YOU have set for them. You don't consider skyrockting rates of unemployment, dropping out of school, developing paraphilias, jerking off to a screen to the point of brain damage and increasing difficulty being self reliant as failure? Well, alright. But this post is about what women should do instead of being in a relationship, so you can keep doing all that stuff to your hearts content and we can ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:22 PM
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All the time, I don't think the ways that women are failing are unique to us though, where as some problems are affecting men significantly more. (Women are much less likely to be addicted to porn or be video game addicts for instance)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:20 PM
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punish every single one of the men that act any other way but the right way with inceldom. Well being an incel isn't a punishment because no one is entitled to sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:17 PM
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What point are you making here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:16 PM
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I mean that's your choice but I honestly don't believe that a child is going to be permanently handicapped because they don't have a father in their life. Many men would die in wars in the past leaving small children behind, did they all turn out screwed up? Of course they should have masculine role models though, that would be a good thing to think about if you were considering sperm donation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:16 PM
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Almost all that watch porn do. Check out r/pornfreerelationships and see how many end up leaving their boyfriends/husbands over porn use. Porn use in marriage is also linked to divorce. If you'd have bothered to read my post rather than get outraged over it, you'd see I linked to 80 different studies showing that porn use decreases relationship satisfaction, why would such studies even exist if men only watched when they're single as a substitute for being with someone? I myself dated a porn add…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:13 PM
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This is what these people would call the "apex fallacy", you two aren't talking about the same type of man, he is talking about the average or below average looking guy and you are talking about a good looking guy who most likely has only his looks going for him. I am so sick of the assumption on here that the world is full of 2 types of men: The sweet loving guy who would treat you like a queen but is ugly. The mean alpha bad boy who will treat you like shit but is attractive. This is called bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:08 PM
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Again, this is not the end of the world. You get used to it. I actually thought this was serious for a minute lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:02 PM
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So men are chronic porn using, video game addicted, casual sex/lack of commitment making manchildren because of... women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:00 PM
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we've cucked ourselves By allowing women what exactly? if all the men collectively stood up and started controlling all the women, then it's a no brainer who would be successful. but men would never do that, because we're cucks If men even tried to do something like this then I would walk away entirely, no marriage or kids ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:55 PM
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Why are you responding to what you think 'most women' want instead of responding to what I specifically said?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:52 PM
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Men's response to hookup culture that they were mostly excluded from was to turn to porn. What the fuck else did you think was going to happen? Not watch it? Because high speed graphic internet porn has not existed for almost all human history and is by no means a necessity? Also you're placing the responsibility for the way men act on women, 'Well if you don't give us random meaningless sex on demand then of course we'll damage our brains with porn !!!11' Doesn't work sorry. Weird how porn beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:49 PM
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The numbers in sexless studies back this up too. I'd like to see studies that show that men are actively pursuing women for commitment/marriage and women turning them down until age 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:42 PM
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P.s. men don't chose porn over sex, we watch porn when we can't get sex. Many men will decline having sex with their girlfriends or wives and go watch porn instead, if you know anything about the Coolidge effect, it's the novelty and high level of stimulation that attracts them to it. Equating porn to being a mere consequence of being sexless is a completely false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:38 PM
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Yeah you sound like someone who's in deep, the exact type of person I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:37 PM
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I live in Western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:35 PM
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Against, this information is not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:29 PM
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Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:25 PM
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No, men who are serious about family and kids would not want more than one woman. He'd just rule himself out in that case. Also most women don't want to share, we'd rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:24 PM
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I wouldn't say so right now unfortunately, too many young women have marriage/relationship as a central goal in their life. I was like that as well until fairly recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:23 PM
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My point is, you wrote down a bunch of problems men are going through, Choosing to string women along or lie in order to get sex is not an 'issue men are going through' men have self awareness and are responsible for the choices they make. you just care about how it affects women. When it comes to things like mental health I do care, but when men are choosing to do something, I'm not sure what kind of response you are expecting? Depressed people cope By engaging with bad behaviors, videogames an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:22 PM
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Yup. I'm already planning on it. Ideally I will get married and travel the world with someone n shit, but if I suit myself up for marriage and it doesn't work out I'm a lot more fucked than if I work on myself and end up getting married anyway. That's a good attitude to have. I'm not bitter or anything about it. I don't have the sex drive of a man, thank God, so I'm not going to get violent or anything from lack of sex. I've been alone most my life, I'm pretty happy with it, I'll be just fine be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:15 PM
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I’m sitting at a tire shop full of guys busting their asses. Theres a construction site full of guys working themselves to death out in the Sun across the street. Everywhere I look there are men working their butts off to make a living. Good for them being hard working and productive citizens, but being realistic here, seeing what people are doing out and about in public gives you no real idea of what other parts of their lives are like. But yeah none of them count because they don’t have a Mast…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:12 PM
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ah, the weekly misandrist post. I don't get it, what about this is hateful towards men? you are not entitled to a mans life! Nor did I say I was, the title of this post is literally 'Women should plan for a future without a partner'. what he does with his time is none of your business. If we're in a relationship it is, I have a right to leave if I don't like it and choose to be alone instead. proclaims men are the evil of humanity and they should pay for research why they are evil. This is a dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:10 PM
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Men choose to watch porn, choose to spend hours playing video games and choose to not commit to relationships. >Why can't women see that this isn't my fault. Also I never mentioned income or depression this is an insecurity you're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:08 PM
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Ah the 'Whataboutism' comment, I wondered how long before you showed up. Can you please post studies showing that women regularly spend time on social media and that it has the same level of damage to intimacy, sex and relationships as porn? Can you also post studies that show that men are the ones expected to/are doing all the housework and childcare you claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:05 PM
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I like this answer :) Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:59 PM
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Why would they be raising the men we are railing against? Women who've chosen to remain single and raise children alone wouldn't want to create more men who end up like that, they'd be actively pushing against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:58 PM
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You get what you reward. What? Don't go complaining to me now that you have to reap the fruits of a century of feminism. What has feminism got to do with this? High speed internet porn is the result of.... the internet being developed. Are you saying men just wouldn't watch porn if feminism wasn't a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:55 PM
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reposted after removing it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:44 PM
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Men are almost instinctually repulsed by women that have had an excessive amount of sexual partners, Most women who don't sleep around are repulsed by men who sleep around too. You just want to have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:00 PM
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I've never slept around and i think it's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:57 PM
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First things first, let's talk about the women/men who are currently 18-21 years old. The men are suffering due to sexlessness. The women are riding the CC as much as they can. Basically, the women from ages 18-21 are taking advantage of their youth as much as they can. From the age of 30, they will find a BB and they will live happily, cruising on the backs of men and living a happy life at the expense of the thousands of backs that she rode upon. It's actually worrying how many men online genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:47 PM
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Why isn't it correct, which data is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:28 PM
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Men are 3-4x more likely to be assaulted, it's only when you consider the one form of assault that favor women that they come out ahead. But, it's not feminism if it's not cherry picking...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:12 PM
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Magnitude matters. If 0.002% of men are violent, then it's not 'most men', I never said it was most men. I said if you're going to be attacked, which is what you complained of, the assailant will likely be a man. No, you want to complain about most women being assaulted. They aren't, and that's a fact. I've never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:01 PM
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You can't complain how oppressed you are in society by women when in fact it's men who are going to be the ones attacking you, and then when confronted with this fact, try to evade it with 'judge men as individuals'. You want to complain about men being assaulted? You are assaulted most often by other men, that's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:49 PM
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Men are 3-4x more likely to be assaulted ...by men. It's almost as if men are the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:30 PM
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non trivial amount of bitches t It sounds like men have more of an issue with this because it is 'emasculating' to you. Most women I know have zero problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:39 PM
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while they play hopcock So any unmarried woman MUST be 'Playing hopcock' there's literally no alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:27 PM
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Yes and you still didn't explain why each individual request was unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:25 PM
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So you admit men only care about looks but then bemoan women wanting a good looking guy? Also bemoan women who are actually interested in a guys personality? Lmao we can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:36 PM
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Nothing in this list is unreasonable. But the list itself is what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:34 PM
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Do you have any data that shows that men are constantly renovating their houses to the whims of their unappreciative girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:03 PM
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The paper considers the important aspects of identity politics when choosing replacement screws, and discusses further avenues of research. This is not what I asked, nor what was claimed. Do you have any data that shows that men are constantly renovating their houses to the whims of their unappreciative girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:15 PM
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The unpaid labour of men - why this faculty doesn't give a shit!" Can summarise the things in this paper? Does it address the question I put to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:46 PM
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Yeah, unsurprisingly, that's a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:30 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Try and break out of your 'Red Pill' Coom brain for a minute and answer the question: Do you have any data that shows that men are constantly renovating their houses to the whims of their unappreciative girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:55 PM
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Not what I asked Do you have any data that shows that men are constantly renovating their houses to the whims of their unappreciative girlfriends? Also this question is UNPAID labour, if the house increases in value due to the renovations, it isn't unpaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:32 PM
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How often does this actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:10 PM
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Funny how you went for a cop out, can you actually answer anything I said?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:51 PM
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I´d rather buy him the dinner and be paid with penetration, but perhaps that´s going too far in the opposite direction haha Wow, you're so quirky. Not at all like the other girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:52 PM
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Oh they have a libido, but having sex with men is rarely a good solution to that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:51 PM
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'When masturbating, 95% of women orgasm. In 1st time hookups with other women, they orgasm 64% of the time. In 1st time hookups with men, they orgasm 7% of the time.' 'mUtUaLlY bEnEfIcIaL' LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:46 PM
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So you've never lied to any date for any reason? Nope. Not that I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:59 PM
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Or too old?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:29 PM
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And then this thread pops up where everyone thinks it's vile that a man lies about his age. Because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:28 PM
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No, he lied about his age and tried to surpass my desire for who I want to date, that's wrong and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:14 PM
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most people dont want a partner who looks/acts like an "significantly older man/woman". thats a differen thing ... but ofc they often are the same. No, I don't want a decade older man, period. maybe he just wanted to have sex ... maybe he thougth he could lie forever ... or you would fall in love with him and dont care ... maybe he was insane. dont know. Exactly, the discussion on that was the entire point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:04 PM
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you judged this guy for being an underachiever at 27 Not financially, I didn't even ask about that. He didn't have many hobbies or friends or anything like that. So eventually you'll converge to sightly older men than you. And I'm okay with slightly older, not almost a decade though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:02 PM
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you giving a "chance" is already an insulting thing to say Well he looked older than 27 (obvious now because he was) But I was still willing to give him a chance because of personality. Hasn't it occurred to you that people maybe want to be with people genuinely into them and do not want them to waste their time with someone who think they're giving chances? It's not as bad as lying about your age, but it's pretty shit too. If he actually was 27 and just looked 30, then I would've been okay with…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:01 PM
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Most women don't want men a decade older, different age bracket. Nothing wrong with not wanting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:55 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:45 PM
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of course age is just a number No it's not, most women don't want significantly older men. so i am sure you know why he said something like that. Not really, what was he expecting me to do when I found the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:43 PM
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It's only a lie if people find out, right? No? By lying like this you are taking away their ability to make an informed decision about who they date. Some lies are also acceptable. Especially the ones that we make for ourselves. No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:42 PM
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Giving him a chance was me being deceitful and bad but his lying about his age wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:40 PM
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women like men who look like men, who have money, status, independence, and are socially adjusted, I couldn't give a shit about that. I just want a normal, functional guy who wants a family, shares my interests and does not lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:39 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Most women marry men their own age or 1-5 years older. I don't want to marry a man a decade older, nor do most women. despicable career oriented c*nts Having a family is actually the most important thing to me and I want at least 4 kids. I do like my job too and have interests other than wanting to be a baby making machine. You seem to be massively triggered by this for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:38 PM
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oid provoking users as part of your debate tactics. Any further questions sh then let me edit it? You removed the entire post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:34 PM
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But this is stupid? Lying is a dealbreaker for almost all women I imagine?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:33 PM
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It is creepy. And he's the one who lied here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:32 PM
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Discussion posts must be neutral It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:31 PM
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Good move, lying like this is really frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:29 PM
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Yeah that's what confused me, I literally couldn't figure out where his mind was when he lied...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:28 PM
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men likes younger anyway Well, I and most other women don't like much older.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:27 PM
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What has this got to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:26 PM
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WTF How common is this? And what did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:25 PM
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You've selected him, not someone younger, right? No, right from the get go I thought he looked older than he claimed and it turned me off, i assumed I was just being paranoid or maybe he was tired because of work. I don't like/want much older men. your nature We aren't apes and didn't evolve from apes before you try and bust in here with the evo psych bullshit. I don't want old looking men, his looks were already a turn off because he looked older than he claimed he was. I made excuses for that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:09 PM
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That's really gross :( Sorry that happened to her, never thought 'checking his ID' would now be on a first date to do list ffs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:38 PM
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wtf, he was 10 years older?! What happened with your friend? Is this more common than we think?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:28 PM
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Thankfully it was only a couple times before I found out. Learned a lesson though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:27 PM
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That might be it actually. He said he was 27, looked about 30 on his pictures, looked much older than that in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:22 PM
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No I wouldn't. I don't care how much money he has or how good looking he is, I don't want a man who's a decade older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:21 PM
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But why lie? Surely he'd have to come clean at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:20 PM
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then you lost nothing by running away.. Well I'm completely confused as to why something would do that. That's massively different, I want to be with someone in their early/mid 20's like me. I want to have at least 5 healthy children and advanced paternal age is a risk factor for that. He's almost a decade older, I don't want to date a man that old, I want someone close to my own age. Age is not 'just a number'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:16 PM
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You were attracted enough to give him a chance No, I just like to date people who work in a similar field because I love my work and like to talk about it with like minded people. and you were compatible despite the age gap No we weren't, he was nice and had good manners but that's about it, he really didn't seem to have achieved anything for a 27 year old, when I found out he was 34, it was even worse. He wasn't particularly interesting or funny or had any interests or anything else. He looked …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:09 PM
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if you liked him .. why are you running away? He was balding, not physically attractive at all and I only gave him a chance because we work in a similar field and I like that. age is just a number. No it isn't, i don't want to date a man almost a decade older than me. but lying isnt so cool too ... but many men do it to trick the tinder search ranges of women. That's disgusting, again what was the thought here? That i wouldn't ever find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:04 PM
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bullshit reasons Not wanting to date a man a decade older than me is bullshit? I hardly think so. yet you still went for him and were attracted to a man more aged, so apparently being older works nonetheless Nope, didn't find him physically attractive and I only gave him a chance because we work in a similar field. I was having doubts as I said, he looked older than his "age" and I didn't like it but I tried not to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:01 PM
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I'd say 70-80% of men in TRP have some kind of mental illness/personality disorder.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 01:08 PM
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I'd tell her that if she continues with this man, she isn't my daughter anymore. No way I'd allow my child near any man who tries that manipulative bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 12:50 PM
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How so? Still not hearing an actual example.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:08 PM
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Why are they being horrible and oppressing you? Genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:34 PM
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As men we know they're literally all doing it because they think it will help them get laid. And what does that say about you then? Men are manipulative and fake.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:31 PM
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If male pattern baldness correlates with the amount of partners a guy has had, I’d ask you to post a reference because I’d like to read through it. Are you stupid? Did you completely miss the point? Male pattern baldness correlates with AGE. By the time a man is ready to stop sleeping around, he looks an ugly mess You’re always going to get soppy [sic] seconds, because you’re most likely not going to find a virgin. Yeah, there's a difference between a man who's had a small number of partners and…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:50 AM
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I mean men of the 'Red Pill' and other bullshit philosophies that insist that it's perfectly fine for men to whore around and have a 'harem' of 'plates' in his teens and twenties. Then when the male pattern baldness and erectile dysfunction start to set in, it's time to look for your perfect tradwife who's been waiting for you, and then she has the privilege of soppy seconds and STDS (:
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:39 AM
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Ok. So don't marry. And? Many of us aren't. No one needs to be a victim to observe that sacrificing as though something is lifelong when it isn't is WORTHLESS You completely ignored what I said. Women divorce men because of the way we are treated, if we are treated better, the divorce would be lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:17 PM
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I'd have a different take if the divorce rate were 4% like in 1960. It was legal to rape your wife and women couldn't even open their own bank accounts in 1960. The reason women didn't leave isn't because they were happy, it's because it was hard to leave. Now women can choose not to put up with poor treatment and leave and all of a sudden, men play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:38 PM
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Because they don't want to date shitty men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:32 PM
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So most men will forfeit marriage and a family to just sleep with hookers forever? Lmao alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:05 PM
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So do it then? Why when women complain about how they are treated in marriage you come up with 'just fuck hookers bro lol'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:51 PM
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that men care for women as a whole. They care for us by expecting to work ourselves to death by being both employed full time and being a housewife full time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:48 PM
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Why do you think not getting married and sleeping with hookers is some kind of weapon to throw in women's faces? We don't care, go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:47 PM
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No that's the case for men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:46 PM
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How about a woman politely and calmly asks her husband to clean up after himself and if he doesn't after multiple times, she calmly hands him the divorce papers? Would that be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:41 PM
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he preferable one is choosing a dude who watches porn. Contrary to the women of this sub, catladyhood isn't an attractive option for women. The majority of marriages end in divorce and women initiate 80% of those divorces. So yeah, even the ones who don't want to be single, most get sick of men and dump them. Yes. Do you understand how percentages work? Fucking YouTube has videos like that from time to time. They get removed just like those on pornhub do. Yeah? And? This sick industry funds huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:16 PM
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But when they do soyciety doesnt give a f.. You say with no evidence, just an opinion. Law wise besides custody?No. We live in a pretty equal society law wise. Guessing you haven't seen the stats on custody either then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:05 PM
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That's not the point. Men are more likely to have prior convictions, they're more likely to commit violent crimes which change the degree of sentencing. Is that all though? Any other ways men like you feel oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:17 PM
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Prof. Starr emphasized that it is not possible to "prove" gender discrimination with data like hers, because it is always possible that two seemingly similar cases could differ in ways not captured by the data. Given the size of the apparent gender gap and the richness of the dataset (which allowed many alternative explanations to be explored), however, Starr believes that there is "pretty good reason to suspect that disparate treatment may be one of the causes of this gap." Seriously, that's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:13 PM
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Yes but I don't see what that has to do with your point. It's a logical fallacy to suggest we have the choice between a man who watches porn and a man who cheats. We can choose neither, we can choose divorce and we can choose to stay single. That wasn't because there was actual porn like that. Pornhub was very effective in removing any such cases. The criticism was the usual baseless feminist screeching. You wouldn't be able to find such porn there even if you tried. Right right, so actual victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:10 PM
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A fuckton of them did. Magnitudes more than they do now. Well, we have the option of divorce now (: What new delusion is this? Involuntary porn is a negligible percentage of porn. Pornhub recently removed millions of videos because of the criticism they were getting for featuring child porn/revenge porn/rape. They couldn't verify who and how those videos got on to the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:28 PM
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Yeah you're right, the man probably cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:26 PM
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Sources? (Don't waste your time saying 'google it', either you have proof or you don't)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:25 PM
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Why? It would , supposedly, hurt her and it's not beneficial to me or the relationship and in the end won't change anything. Do I really need to explain why people have the right not to date a liar? Let me guess, you're one of those guys that blames women for ending up with bad guys because they should have 'chosen better' even though liars like you exist? Even then its rare that it will. Divorce stats say otherwise. Yeah pretty much. Or you could you know, not be a piece of shit. These women di…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:03 AM
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still live off his earnings through both direct child support payments Do you have the stats on alimony and child support? Do you think a woman should just pay for the child of 2 people by herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:29 AM
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If men didn't have porn, they would just cheat. So all men cheated without porn? And we should be grateful for you jerking off to potential victims of human trafficking? Lmao no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:27 AM
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Which laws are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:16 AM
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If I knew it would hurt her I just wouldn't let her know That's worse, knowingly doing something that your partner hates and then lying about it, just be fucking honest my god! It won't hurt her enough to end the relationship anyway. Yeah it many cases lying to your partners face would be enough to end a relationship. You just reek of 'Me me me me me....'. Oh who cares what my partner wants, why should she have a choice in who she dates when I can just lie to my own benefit? What is that suppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:19 PM
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Because I don't care Even if you knew it would hurt her? No woman is gonna dump a dude she is into because he watches porn. Err yeah they would: r/PornFreeRelationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:24 PM
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Adblock on laptop and phone
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 07:23 PM
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Just date women instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:20 PM
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Why unfortunately? Why should we have to settle for mediocrity, especially when we are not that ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:16 PM
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How can you get the police involved? It's not ilegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:15 PM
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It's not but we aren't trying for sainthood. It's a minor unimportant lie. Why do you get to decide that? Why won't you respect her decision to want a guy who doesn't watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:13 PM
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Which would you prefer? Neither, I would just leave. He can have all the novelty he wants, but I would never play the part of a dutiful wife to a manwhore/coomer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:12 PM
2

Why did you get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:36 PM
1

Well that's a statement to how low the bar is if I ever saw it.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:33 AM
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Simply that for 30-40 minutes I'm checked out. Because being fucked by a soulless robot is so much better? lmao
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:19 AM
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phenomenal sex? 'phenomenal sex' that you describe as akin to showering? Would you sign up to such a deal if the roles were reversed?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:41 AM
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(should she prove herself worthy) What's the point in her doing that though?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:21 AM
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You say that but marrying a whore also has risks for women.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:18 AM
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Again, writing weird dramatic 'woe is me' quotes doesn't really explain what happened...
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:29 PM
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For no reason at all?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:28 PM
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This isn't really an answer, what specifically happened?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:43 AM
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Why did she leave?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:34 AM
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But if she's at home for all those years, cooking for you, cleaning for you, raising the kids at home, you still consider the money you earn all yours? How would she support herself if you got divorced? Not like she's easily gonna be able to get a job after being out of the workforce for years.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:33 AM
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Oh more of this 80/20 bullshit. You people are straight up OBSESSED with that okcupid study, even though it was years ago, was a small part of the population and showed the men were sending messages to the top 30% of women. Get a better talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:46 AM
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most girls your age are not into you and are dating older men with their shit together wrong, most women date people their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:44 AM
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Women get wet from looking Wrong. This is literally the projection of men who send dick pics because you think we get aroused like you do lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:06 AM
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Complete strawman, I never said any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:45 PM
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No, it really doesn't lmao. I like how even after being told otherwise by a woman, you still insist you're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:10 AM
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the "traditional woman" excuse was obviously a face saving lie How do you know? Also, what made you attracted to her in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:21 AM
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They say a man must reserve his sexual energy for his woman but how is this possible if many men are either single, being told to wait 6 months for sex or are dealing with a woman who has an incompatible sex drive or repeatedly rejects them due to minimal attraction. Men are entitled to other outlets. Because you can masturbate without porn and the associated damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:48 AM
1

Would you ask out a woman who's hairy? Unkempt? Average looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:46 AM
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Woman: omg, no, I'm a traditional woman ; I'm not interested in you any more, byyeeeeee Just a question, why is this bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:42 AM
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marrying a man you arent getting wet by based on his looks. This isn't how sexual arousal works in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:41 AM
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Yes because it increases the likelihood of infidelity. And it does the same to men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:22 AM
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I wouldn't go for anyone under/over my league. And I'm not having casual sex for fucking anyone..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:14 AM
1

So you would expect your wife to work full time AND take care of the kids and household?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:05 AM
1

So if you split from your wife after years of her being a homemaker, you would still expect to keep everything?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:03 AM
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never talk finance with girl. Look and live like a poor guy. She pays half. Everything. Don't marry if she can't pay half of downpayment. Buy house before marriage. If you and your hypothetical wife divorced after she was a stay at home wife for years, would you still expect to keep all investments? Or would you go 50/50?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:02 AM
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and just have casual sex with HVM We don't want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:03 PM
1

I'm really sorry. I hope you're recovering and building yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:08 PM
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Yeah, you were in love, and then you fell out of love with that person Because they left? So yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:57 AM
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So, why have you chosen those childish partners then? At the time? Low self esteem and i didn't know better. Now I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:55 AM
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Good good, mind me asking why you did in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:47 AM
1

I've been in multiple relationships and ended every one because my partner was childish. I don't need advice from a middle aged man who is still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:45 PM
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Attitude? God you even talk like middle aged boomer parents talking to their kid. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:53 PM
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My attitude of not wanting old men is going to chase away young men my own age? Lmao makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:29 PM
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just not with someone who has your attitude ;) Yeah, because we don't want old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:42 PM
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Look at my post history. I'm a relationship-minded woman who's 100% not cool with sleeping around. Cool, so you get where i'm coming from then. At all, ever? People will try things and decide it's not for them. Try things like a drink, not something as serious as sleeping with someone. I don't know where you live.. but here on the west coast, it's hard enough to find someone into monogamy, let alone someone who hasn't casually slept with someone at least once. This is where I think you're being …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:33 AM
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Who is "we"? Women who don't sleep around. As for most men not turning down sex if offered; a lot of that is biology, motivation, psychological differences. Like, the way testosterone short circuits the frontal lobe when a man gets aroused. 'Muh biology', not an excuse. Men still have self control, it's still a choice. Also, do you live in a western country like USA or UK? This is just how men are here. That's where we're at in society. Cool, I'm still not being with a slut. I don't like it eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:59 AM
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well you are free to do so, however OP obviously has problems finding someone your age who is valuable and not promiscuous And? Dating old men is not the solution. I certainly don't need women my own age for anything serious, when you get to my current age you'll understand why ;) Oh I see, you're one of those 40+ men who still 'dOeSn'T fEeL lIkE sEtTlInG dOwN' lmao go try your luck flirting with teens you utter clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:57 PM
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No. If he's not in a relationship and has a lot of options, he will end up indulging in casual sex. Not necessarily. Not all men are sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:55 PM
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Fine, they can do that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:28 PM
1

.... you sent me a wiki article as a way to prove your point Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:27 PM
1

but women are far more desirable sexually. So? How is this relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:03 PM
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He's gonna end up indulging even if he wants a relationship. Men can't help but be cheaters? That what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:00 PM
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I did, I don't date men who watch porn? I've already said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:59 PM
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Then don't date girls who are addicted to social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:26 PM
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Women are manchildren addicted to porn and video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:11 PM
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Also doesn't make much sense does it. If women only want commitment and men only want sex, neither will get what they want and the species will just die out. Also, plenty of women *gasp* sleep around, acting against their very "nature". Many men stay committed to one woman for a lifetime. Weird. *eyeroll*
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:36 PM
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It's called sexual conflict theory. It's called evo psych bullshit. I'm not 'TRP' and I don't have autism, I don't subscribe to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:28 PM
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You are only debating it because you don't like the conclusion. I'm not debating it, what exactly are you trying to argue here? That all men are actually sluts? Lmao. Better start looking for a cat. It's funny how despite being a virgin who wants a family and a man who wants the same, this is considered so unlikely that you recommend I give up now lmao. As I said previously: "Well we need to realise just how entitled men are. A man slut wanting a woman who doesn't sleep around? Fair, wise choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:09 PM
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It's not a failed argument. There are some men, by direct observation that are like this. If I can't find/don't end up with one, then I'll continue to stay single. How is this a failed argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:19 PM
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No, but they are indeed out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:01 PM
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Nope, would rather just not date most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:00 PM
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Then don't settle. But most men do want family/kids eventually so you and the rest of 'TRP' men aren't the majority here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:18 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:18 PM
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Imagine lying and scamming someone into a relationship just to get laid lmao no fucking thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:10 PM
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Wether you like it or not, most guys who are as OP described fall in that category. That's fine, they can have fun trying to find a 'good girl' to settle down with once they're done whoring around/start to go bald (:
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:09 PM
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The thing is, i've met men that are desirable and find casual sex disgusting. So I know this isn't completely true, it's just black/white logic written online by egocentric men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:08 PM
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It's obvious in the way you try to disparage other life choices that don't include you or men you want who don't want you: "The only thing he will get from 'playing the field' is meaningless sex with strangers and maybe a few lifelong STDS." Well yeah, there aren't benefits to casual sex. Casual sex is correlated with substance abuse, higher likelihood of developing mental illnesses, higher likelihood of cheating on a future spouse, higher risk of disease/infertility, lower satisfaction in a lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:05 PM
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Just know, that unless you are way hotter than the women around you it will be very hard to find a man who has a lot of options but would still choose to pick just one woman. Can you not see how unappealing men are considering this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:49 PM
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Yes, I never said ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:41 PM
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This is just getting silly now. I literally said a few comments ago: There are some good ones out there though, but best to focus on yourself. You've somehow turned this into: but I can’t believe there is not even one man left who isn’t a man whore or isn’t an abusive arsehole I never said every man is a manwhore or an abusive asshole, you pulled that out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:32 PM
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That's good, do you not date at all now then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:25 PM
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I never said you did. But most men aren't good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:09 PM
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I know how you feel but trust me. Being in a relationship with a bad man is 1000% worse than being alone. I'm generally positive, happy, motivated person. When i was dating a bad man? I felt suicidal, almost took my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:07 PM
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I'd say invest more time into doing those things. Finding a good man is not a guarantee but you can still be happy and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:03 PM
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Isn't there a chance you're already doing that with IVF? With IVF, I'd screen well and vet the donor for lifestyle choices. I've already found a website that offers sperm donors will full transparency, some have been married since they were really young. I'd go for one of those. And for some reason the only man you think you can attract would be a scummy manwhore who would never pay child support? I didn't say that. Most men don't make good partners for one reason or another. One big one for me …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:00 PM
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Yeah I know what you mean, I'm in the same place. What actually makes you happy on a daily/weekly basis? Family? Friends? Your job? Your hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:53 PM
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Not all men pay child support. I'm not interesting in paying the state extract resources from a manslut monthly, i don't want an involvement or association with one. Why the fuck would I give one the privilege of having kids with me? lmao hell no. Then there's the risk of cervical cancer or herpes that said manslut could give me? Yeah I'll stick to a sperm donor thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:52 PM
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No, Western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:48 PM
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It's true I'm afraid. There are some good ones out there though, but best to focus on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:47 PM
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it just means you're not aware of it when you are How am I 'unconsciously' trying to argue someone into being with me? So long as you can't understand how long term commitment with you is not more appealing than short term dating with other women, then you're not ever going to be able to present a worthwhile relationship offer. No one deserves love, or a connection. It's something you have to work at and earn. If a man wants short term commitment with any woman, he's not the one for me, that's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:46 PM
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Yep, but I learned after a few bad experiences. I won't date an ugly guy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:29 PM
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oh wow. yeah that sounds like a exception. of course that inflated his ego - just like a night with "Chad" inflates the ego of a ugly girl. i don't entertain 'muh chad' talking points. And nope, wasn't an exception because it happened to me again. It's happened to almost every girl I know. crazy that you had a relationship with a man you didnt find attractive just because he asked you out and was "nice"... would you say you had very low self esteem and the "asking out" part was good for YOUR ego…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:14 PM
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Haha that's funny. Most men on here claim that women whore around in their 20s and then immediately become ready to settle down at 30+. No thank you, I didn't whore around in my youth and I don't want someone who did that. You don't want me in your prime, I don't want you in your decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:12 PM
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Do you have an example of what you would find as an "excellent masculine role model"? Well I have many great men in my family, plenty of uncles and relatives. Hobbies wise, I'll make sure my sons have masculine teachers, coaches. etc. Yes, marrying a "manslut" would be an incredibly unwise decision. Exactly, hence I'm not doing it. Ever. Being a single parent via IVF would be a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:10 PM
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I'm just being honest, I'm 25F virgin. I'm in great shape, perfect skin, long well maintained hair, I have a lot of hobbies, a good job that pays well, a good family, I'm very nurturing and caring, don't drink or smoke or sleep around. And in years all I've seen in men is entitlement and double standards. They don't care if you're massively out of their league, they'll ask you out and if you say yes? You get devalued.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:08 PM
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What's to be attracted to? Manchildren? Misogynists? Incels/Mgtows? 'TRP' men? Poor hygiene? Porn Addicts? Video Games addicts? Current/former sluts? Yeah, pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:01 PM
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This is some black pilled bullshit. I've been in love before so I know it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:54 PM
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Apologies, didn't know that. It has defo been hard during the pandemic. Yeah I think decent men who don't want to sleep around and want to commit to one woman are rare. Best to start preparing for the reality of never finding one and if one comes along then great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:53 PM
2

So what you're saying is, men want to settle down in their 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:49 PM
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Well I've actually been in that situation. I was heavily into fitness, working full time in a good profession and this guy asked me out. He was very ugly, going bald and not very smart. I said yes just because he was nice to me. He ended up treating me like shit and one day when I went on his phone, he had a tinder account where he was trying to hit up random women (Didn't get any matches though, on account of how ugly he was). Give an ugly man a chance and it will inflate his self esteem. He ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:48 PM
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What? In their teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:44 PM
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You need to seriously expand your social circle, set aside more time for socialising, do more and more things to meet more and more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:43 PM
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You're not going to argue someone into being with you. Nor would I ever intend to. You need to provide value to his life to get his attention, and provide a unique combination of value to get his commitment. I'm not a dancing monkey. I provide plenty of value and I've had plenty of guys interested in an LTR. Unfortunately they were either manchildren, sluts, former sluts, or did the whole 'lets see where things go' thing. And I'm not down for any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:39 PM
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You're just deliberately ignoring the points I'm making now. I don't want men who are taken. I don't want to date a slut/former slut, and I don't want to date a man who wants to be a slut because he glorifies casual sex but can't get it. The attitude is the issue, if you're pro casual sex, you aren't for me. Why is this so unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:34 PM
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You're making the correlation equals causation assumption. I would make sure the children had excellent masculine role models and I would provide everything they'd need to have a good life. Also if I marry a manslut, he'd probably cheat anyway, same exact result except the first skips all the drama and bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:30 PM
1

You completely ignored the rest of what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:27 PM
3

Why put up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:25 PM
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Question: Why on earth would you accept being treated like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:08 PM
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Well we need to realise just how entitled men are. A man slut wanting a woman who doesn't sleep around? Fair, wise choice. A woman who doesn't sleep around wanting a man who also doesn't sleep around? OMG so unreasonable! Boys will be boys and they all sleep around if given the chance, don't you know the male sex drive is higher? Smdh you will die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:04 PM
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No it isn't. A lot of men sleep around, a lot of men want to sleep around but can't because they're repulsive. Most of the guys who are decent enough are already in relationships, for years sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:53 PM
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its like 2 people who search for a house ... a is rich and b is on a tight budget... a will look at more houses to find a perfect match ... while b will probably buy the first or second one thats ok and within his budget. You're using black and white logic here. 'It makes sense to me, therefore it must be true'. Also in this scenario, the ugly men without options will 'lock down' the pretty girls who won't sleep around because that's all they can get, but the men who sleep around will also someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:45 PM
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It's hard to find an acceptable man who isn't a slut/former slut, because the only acceptable men to you are the kind of men who are most likely to be sluts/former sluts. Wrong. Also, a man who wants to be a slut but can't because he is so ugly/repulsive is a no go either. All we want is a normal guy, who is disgusted by casual sex and wants a relationship. It's really not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:17 PM
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Your comment implies that women weren't doing the same which not true. No, I'm speaking from the same perspective as the OP, a non promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:14 PM
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Because it's hard to find a man who isn't a slut/former slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:09 PM
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So just accept that men are greedy, entitled and want to have their cake and eat it too? Accept a 'reformed' manslut?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:08 PM
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Yet most guys want a 'nice girl' to 'settle down with' once they've ran out of options/had their fun lmao, it's entitled and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:49 PM
1

We are not responsible for male behaviour. Men are responsible for themselves and what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:27 PM
1

what i can perfectly understand ... why do you wear sexy clothing in public? you KNOW that this triggers a ton of that unwanted male attention... and you do it nontheless. I wear clothes that I like the style and fabric of. I might wear a long sweater that covers my entire body one day and a cropped dress the next. I don't dress for men or with men in my mind, I dress in clothes I like. If men give me unwanted attention, I tell them to fuck off and leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:25 PM
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He may get more out of playing the field than settling down in his youth. The only thing he will get from 'playing the field' is meaningless sex with strangers and maybe a few lifelong STDS. We don't want guys like that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:22 PM
0

Where's the evidence that women lie better? Oh yeah... none/ And how do women entice a man to commit to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:19 PM
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We don't want to date men significantly older than us, we want to date someone our OWN age. Please stop fixating on younger women and go find someone your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:16 PM
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This is a bizarre way to look at things, any man with the option to sleep around will sleep around, and any man without options will 'settle' for a relationship with a non promiscuous woman because that's all he can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:11 PM
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Are you trying to say that all men really want is sex and that a "relationship" is only something they enter because the woman wants it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:09 PM
0

Are you claiming that men don't want/get nothing out of a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:08 PM
0

Why is 'settling down' seen as a bad thing from your perspective? Being committed to someone who you love and who loves you back is actually a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:08 PM
8

Volunteering, church, serious academic courses, gardening clubs, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:06 PM
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So you want men who have options but don't exercise them? If she's a woman who has options and doesn't exercise them, then she's literally looking for her equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:05 PM
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There are also people who will abandon hookup culture should they meet the right person We don't want someone who has engaged in hookup culture at all. Most men will not turn down sex when it's offered. And we don\t want men who see sex as so meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:03 PM
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I feel the same, I would rather die single alone and childless than get married to a reformed manslut, they actually physically disgust me. I've accepted the fact that it might not happen, so I'm looking into adoption/IVF to start a family alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:44 PM
0

Yes I am, lying in order to get sex is fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:18 PM
1

I’m not marriage or family inclined so eventually I will have to cut her loose so she can find her hubby. Why not tell her that right away if you know she wants those things?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:40 PM
1

Not at all. I don't fuck around with sluts But a huge part of TRP is how to 'fuck around with sluts' while also hating them, how does that make sense?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 07:32 PM
1

But if no women were 'sluts' then you'd also be unhappy, because there'd be no one for you to fuck around with?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 06:05 PM
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Girls pretending to not be hoes while cucking a guy who raises the children. (the feminization of men in the media and in culture is of course also fundamental when talking about what is fucked up in the system) Does this also apply to women? We don't want to 'husband up' a slut either.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 06:02 PM
1

Women pretend to want a relationship in order to get intimacy from men? Yeahhh.... no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:09 PM
5

Will you make this clear to her as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:59 PM
5

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:58 PM
0

What's wrong with alimony? You think women should take on the lions share of the housework and childcare for years, forgoing promotions or giving up work entirely and then get nothing if a couple divorce? How is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:44 PM
-1

That's horrible, puts me off men entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:38 PM
1

When men treat women better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:37 PM
13

We have sex, then get married. I don't think we have a contradiction here. A woman who is willing to have sex with you before marriage would be in girlfriend category because you could just leave and then she would've had sex before marriage. It sounds like you want a woman who has strict rules for sex, but breaks them for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:25 PM
10

It reeks of Madonna/Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:22 PM
7

So you will only marry a virgin, any woman who is willing to have sex with you before marriage isn't deserving of marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:49 PM
9

I'm a woman, over 10 is way too high for me, i would be cautious over 5 though. I don't think there is a ''too low"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:42 PM
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level 1ElleDreamface13 hours agoTo get random sex with strangers? Maybe.To get a relationship? No, never been easier for them.1ReplyShareSaveEdit level 2bowserfire7310 hours ago You must be an absolutely abominable monster to require 100k to look acceptable to any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:32 PM
1

You're basing the 'extreme look standards' on dating apps. Also, women spend a small fortune and a hell of a lot of time of their appearance, why not actually put some effort into self improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:59 AM
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no it hasn't. That doesn't make sense as at all. How is it easier for them? Because the bar is literally in hell. If they have a harder time getting sex that also makes thats it harder to get relationships by default. No, it's hard for men to get casual sex because few women are interested in just casual sex. You're competing with tons of men for few women. Most women actually want relationships though, easier to get, wider pool of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:35 AM
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Disadvantages in family court and the burden of paying alimony. Women are seen as the primary caregiver because statistically, they are; women do the majority of the childcare within the household, even if they work full time. - Only 2.7% of divorced men pay alimony, a tiny fraction of divorces and if often paid to compensate the loss of earnings that women take by taking care of the kids and doing more domestic duties. No resources in abusive relationships, to the point of men always being seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:29 AM
0

To get random sex with strangers? Maybe. To get a relationship? No, never been easier for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:41 AM
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Most modern men are completely undatable. Most women get lonely and end up settling but that doesn't make their choices any less poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:13 AM
1

Alright, if you get it, what am I getting at here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:38 PM
1

You really don't get it do you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:26 PM
1

So a short, balding, overweight man was chad and also out of my league?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:17 PM
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Looks are not everything and I bet you are over valuing yourself. I knew you were going to say that. Which is it then? Was he out of my league and i was chasing chad? Or looks aren't everything? I'm not over valuing myself, I described what I look like objectively, I was actually teased by my friends for liking him. refused to mention (the aspects that made you want him in the first place). He was just a normal guy, but we had lots of similar interests and he was very intelligent. I am guess he …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:32 AM
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We were best friends and he was considerably less physically attractive than me, I was constantly teased by my friends for liking him. My point is, attraction doesn't work on a linear scale that a lot of incels/MGTOW/TRP think it does. Just because your attractive friend is single and likes you, doesn't mean you're going to like them back. It''s not the automatic A+B=C logic that you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:27 AM
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'Hey fellow brothers of TRP, I met a girl, she's so perfect, sweet, attractive, kind, pays for everything while I sit at home playing video games, she never complains and tells me she loves me. Is she clingy? Should I cheat on her? Is this oneitis?' 'dEfO bRo, SpIn PlAtEs BrO!'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:14 PM
0

Quick question, do you have some type of autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:11 PM
1

If they were so naturally attractive, why do they need to use manipulation in the first place? How often do they advise leading girls on for gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:10 PM
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I didn't approach him, we were friends who met through studying, we had similar interests and I really liked him. Over time I developed feelings for him, he didn't feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:47 PM
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Ah I knew it wouldn't be long before ''MUH CHAAAAAD REEEEEEEEEE' Question, how many men on TRP are "Chads" do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:46 PM
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Do you have any reason why the numbers would be vastly different for non college goers? Non-college goers are prudes acc to you? College goers tend to be more liberal, non college goers tend to be more conservative, so yes. How is that relevant here? We are talking about prevalence of consensual casual sex. Wanting only to have sex within a committed, loving relationship and having sex casually because a man feigned interest in commitment would still fall under the umbrella of having had casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:16 PM
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The context being casual sex? The context being anything. That said, why did he reject you? Do you have a shitty personality? Does his dick not work? No reason, just said he didn't like me as more than a friend, which is fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:08 PM
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This is just the people who went to college? Also, I'm not even from the US. And doesn't answer the question about women being manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:11 PM
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When did I ever use the term "solely". That's not what I said. I said "always", not "solely". Apologies, you said the 'main' reason. That's not how it works most of the times tho. Well it is like this for most women, which is why almost all are pushing/looking for commitment. That's not what men do. They don't just go to random woman and instantly ask them out on a date. They strike up a conversation and judge the woman's attraction level and if she is down then they ask her out. Again, if they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:27 PM
1

Now I don't want to date men at all.7ReplyShareSaveEdit level 2EdwardCircumcizehand45 minutes agoNo man was dating you in the first place lolVoteReplyGive AwardShareReportSave It wasn't a happy marriage, the husband was so used to the wife cleaning up and doing domestic duties that he genuinely thought that the pepper grinder magically filled itself. Yeah if I was in a marriage like that, I would be suicidal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:25 PM
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I guess, that's not exactly the point I was making though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:23 PM
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I wouldn't tell it to any woman I like. Haha yeah, and why is that? Nowadays I spend about 20-50 minutes a day watching, but I find It's still to much. That's absolutely insane, that's almost 7 hours a week watching porn at max, that's a part time job. I have friends like those men. Men in their 30's with a great life, a lot of dating experience and a decent choice of women. Unless you are great catch yourself you are probably not gonna make them settle. They just want to have their fun and don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:23 PM
1

You're strawmanning into oblivion here. I never said anything about the 'male sex drive'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:54 PM
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I wasn't talking about cold approaches on the screen, but about any approaches in general. If a group of people at work become friends, and 2 of them end up being a couple, then that's solely about sex? What do you think is the reason they even want to get to know each other? You're missing the point entirely, feelings should come before sex and not the other way around. Do what? Say "I'd like to get to know you better"? Approach a woman they don't know/know very little and openly ask her out on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:54 PM
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Well yeah because I refused the ones who asked. So yes, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:51 PM
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I didn't say anything about you being a virgin is making you bitter. It's the tone of your comments. Very very bitter and attacking. Even to people that were being friendly and honest to you like me. I'm not being bitter and attacking you. You admitted you have artificially high standards because of porn (a very common occurrence in the modern world) and I pointed this out. Most women don't want to date a current/former porn addict. Porn addiction has a very high rate of relapse, I mean, it's ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:48 PM
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Maybe in the USA, not here. Also 'cold approaching' or whatever the fuck you call it fails almost all the time. Women know they're just interested in sex, and they don't want anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:26 PM
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No, it's biology put in everyday language No, it isn't, it's evolutionary psychology. Evo psych is a much discredited and laughed at area of study there is. They choose a variable or trait and try to assign meaning to it based on nothing more than speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:22 PM
1

He didn't say that he didn't know them, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:20 PM
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I don't know about you but from the comments you post you sound really bitter and passive-aggressive,and are still a virgin even tho you are +20 years old. I'm still a virgin because I grew up religious and refuse to have sex without a serious and committed relationship. Nice of you trying to twist that into me 'being bitter' You've just admitted to being a porn addict with serious dopamine issues and yet you still protest that neither men or women are better than each other, and everyone is try…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:19 PM
1

You've pretty much contradicted your own point there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:16 PM
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From the get go, sexual desires drive him to her. Feelings keep him with her. This is a load of evo psych bullshit used to justify what you assume is a unilateral standard, it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:09 PM
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Source? Also a lot of guys lie in order to get sex by feigning interest in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:07 PM
2

Every single guy who approaches you wants to fuck you. Every. Single. One. Men don't approach random women on the street in my country, it's not part of my culture thank god. The only ones who do that are weird foreign men and we just laugh at them and call them pathetic. People get to know to each other and if attraction happens one person (usually the guy) makes it known, and they enter into a relationship. "I'd like to get to know you better" lmao. That translates into: I'd like to spend some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:06 PM
1

Sound like a real catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:57 PM
1

Would you say a man who is overweight/obese, has bad skin, lives at home, is starting to go bald in the front of his hairline, has a fairly weakish chin and patchy facial hair is out of the league of someone with: waist length hair, close to perfect skin, works out 4 times a week, lives independently, and is a healthy weight? You wouldn't but I still got rejected by the first guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:52 PM
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Sounds to me like you're shooting out of your league. Men will fuck down, but the're reluctant to date down. So if all the guys you're shooting for are only looking for sex, you know you've gone too high. It doesn't just work on a linear scale of 'If he rejects you for a relationship but wants to sleep with you, he's too hot for you' I've been propositioned by guys who literally look like trolls before. A lot of men just can't be bothered putting any effort into a relationship, they'd much rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:50 PM
2

Guys want to bang me all the time but when they realize I'm actually looking for something special and romantic, they want nothing to do with me 90% of the time or play the "let's see where this goes" game. It hurts just as much. Yuppppp, same here. I've always been in good shape, got good grades in school, have a pretty good job, I eat well, sleep well, really take care of my hair and skin. A lot of guys express interest, but as soon as I make them aware that I am ONLY interested in serious rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:48 PM
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It's really not. It's just a difference of language usage. Yes it really is, don't try to reinvent it now. Sex is something special and incredibly intimate that should be shared between two people that have seriously feelings for each other. Women want feelings to be described in grand, all important, intense ways. For men it's "I don't know you, it would be weird and creepy if I felt all that for a total stranger. You were hot and that made me want to get to know you, have sex with you and then…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:38 PM
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'I'm a man and I rejected many women...and they weren't ugly. I only like cute girls, and they were never interested in me, because they were out of my league. My league is average girls. Or it was like that before corona.' Literally from a comment from the guy above. but but 'wOmEn OnLY dAtE cHaDDDDD!'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:30 PM
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Yeah.. no it isn't. 40% of households with a female breadwinner and average height men get married all he time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:29 PM
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but but 'wOmEn OnLY dAtE cHaDDDDD!' Ironic that you've rejection many women based on looks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:29 PM
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"you were hot and I thought I might have a chance to have sex with you". Eugh that's vile. Now I don't want to date men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:13 PM
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Plus men say they want women pursuing them, the reality is not being the 'chaser' will eventually turn them off entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:10 PM
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to which someone replied that they're both bad options and that she should expect more. Yeah because most people aren't like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:10 AM
1

You ever heard of confirmation bias? Yeah well that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:08 AM
1

Pre-selection can also be a way to avoid dangerous men (E.g a man with a lot of female friends is less likely to be a dangerous serial killer) Men also do this with women, I don't know why this is some kind of unbelievable claim or proves all the disgusting things TRP says to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:53 PM
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No, it's the assumption that traits and looks coincide together. Like an highly intelligent person could never be exciting or extraverted. Those traits don't 'go together' according to a lot of autists on the internet that like to sort things and people into 'categories' to make themselves feel better about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:51 PM
1

Wow tinder? You mean the hookup app where people seek out mostly good looking people? Where there's also a massive gender imbalance? How surprising!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:49 PM
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Oh I know it isn't. I just wanted to see if you applied the same concept of 'nEeDs' to a woman, looks like you don't though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:37 PM
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And this is meant to prove what about TRP exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:33 PM
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I already said I don't care lmao. I just hope she clues up and stays away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:28 PM
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No my argument is you have no actual evidence of what you're claiming. If you have it, then please post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:27 PM
1

So much autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:25 PM
1

I don't care what you do, continue to point women away from men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:22 PM
1

Eugh, not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:18 PM
2

Does it mean 'Give me sex whenever I want, including after 2 traumatic miscarriages and another baby on the way or I will act like a spoilt angry manchild and try and guilt trip you.' Is that what it means?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:17 PM
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I'm genuinely curious what you mean by 'evidence' Do you mean anecdotal stuff that you've heard from your 5 mates or actual stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:11 PM
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Yup, a lot a women say things like 'gIvE hIm A cHaNcE' until they actually give one a chance and realise that it was the worst mistake of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:10 PM
1

Good. Continue to be 'blackpilled' and stay away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:09 PM
2

Okay, women have needs too... So if your wife wanted to fuck you in the ass with a strap on, I'm guessing you wouldn't take issue to this because 'nEeDs' right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:08 PM
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I wish you every happiness for you, your girlfriend and future kids :) I really wish more guys thought as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:32 PM
1

Yeah.. this is complete bullshit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:29 PM
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I don't think you understand what black and white thinking is....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:15 PM
1

How come so many women have no problem having NSA sex with complete strangers then? Majority do have a problem with that, but a lot of men lie and act like they are interested in a relationship because they know it will give them an increased likelihood of getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:31 PM
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demand that men work their asses off in the worst possible conditions without even so much as a "thank you" from their spouses. When did his woman demand this? Imagine struggling with intimacy because you've been through 2 miscarriages and your husband tries to guilt trip you because he 'works hard' lmao what an entitled piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:57 PM
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No you don't understand, she went through 2 miscarriages but his pp :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:56 PM
1

This whole post reeks of autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:54 PM
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Is he the life of the party? Probably spends a good amount of time partying, and his grades (and possibly his fidelity in a relationship) are questionable. Bookworm? Just the opposite. And so on. You know this is black and white thinking, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:49 PM
1

A. Wouldn't even look at a guy who treats me as a 'casual companion'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:48 PM
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No male except for the most physically unattractive or autistic will wait a year for you when there are millions of options on tinder waiting. Well men who just want fast sex with women are the ones we want to avoid anyway, so it works lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:11 PM
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1.3k commentsAwardsharesavehidereport Sort bybest View all commentsShow parent comments Damn I wanna know what he said to counter this now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:35 AM
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Hahahahahaha oh my god. You haven't yet discovered that women are able to clench and unclench their vaginal muscles voluntarily? Lmfao. What's 'average dick' got to do with it? Most women don't even orgasm from penetration ffs lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 07:07 PM
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It's not manipulation to want a guy who doesn't damage his brain, his dick and his life with porn. It's not controlling either, if a woman wants a man who doesn't watch porn, she's well within her rights to want that. Does 'watching soaps' cause grey matter to shrink? Does it lead to ED? An increased risk of cheating and divorce? Yeah, I don't think so. There's nothing wrong with masturbation, but porn use? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:03 PM
2

HELL no lmao. Let him go jack himself off into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 01:41 PM
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This is so stupid 'If you don't have sex with us, of course we're going to jack off to porn' what manipulative bullshit. You can masturbate without porn, it's not a necessity. A large number of women are also sexless at this age, believe it or not, being used like a fleshlight by some misogynistic incel doesn't have the appeal you think it does. ​ Nobody has right to control his/her partner's sexuality. Deal with it! His body, his choice. Right! And we have the right to not date pathetic coomers…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:37 AM
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Pretty sure they faked it. Women do not orgasm this frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:34 AM
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I seriously hope this woman moves on and never looks back.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 02:40 PM
4

You seem to really hate this woman suddenly, despite marrying her?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:10 PM
1

Just curious, would you split your income equally with your wife?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 01:11 PM
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She needs to understand my clothing style and keeps me updated. You want a woman to dress you? Are you sure you're looking for a wife and not a replacement mother?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 01:37 AM
1

He has the right to have slept with the whole world and still expect a virgin bride. When stats show that casual sex affects both genders, why is it ok?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:21 PM
1

Are you a virgin?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:12 PM
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Nope, have had many female friends in my life, all of us liked different guys. I thought some of the guys my friends liked were ugly, and the same in reverse. Didn't care, still don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:10 PM
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So she isn't allowed to have ever had casual sex and decided it wasn't for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:03 AM
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