So I've just seen this video titled 'The Demise of Guys?' which discusses some things that are increasingly being noticed by young women dating in the modern world.

It points out the increasing number of men failing across society. Most men in the modern world watch porn regularly which destroys motivation and massively decreases relationship satisfaction. Most have been watching highly stimulating internet porn since their early teens and their brains and sexualities have developed around this, quitting porn entirely is something very few will have the motivation/desire to do, many will call you crazy for even expecting that.

When they aren't watching porn, they're spending days on end playing video games and being trapped in an online virtual space. Many adult men have so called 'Peter Pan Syndrome' and get trapped in a state of perpetual immature childhood and aren't capable of sustaining a long term adult relationship.

Even men who are interested in so called 'Self-Improvement' stuff (which would otherwise be a great thing) only do so for self benefit and many develop a nasty hatred of women alongside their self improvement philosophy (TRP being the best example of this)

For women seriously interested in marriage/children this even more difficult. Most young men have no interest in 'settling down' without fearing they've missed out. Many will lie in order to get sex, or string you along for years in a 'forever girlfriend' type of situation until you eventually get tired by the lack of commitment and leave.

Going for a man who's 'had his fun and ready to settle' is also not a good option. Promiscuity predicts an increased rate of cheating and couples with vastly different levels of sexual experience prior to marriage report lower sexual satisfaction. Not to mention the potentially lethal or cancer causing STDS he could be carrying.

Men in my own country do not expect to pay for anything, but fully expect that marriage type women will cook and clean for them with no strings attached.

All of these issues are likely to get worse, not better in the coming years. Since many women do not need to rely on men any more to provide an income, many women will not stay in relationships with chronically dysfunctional men and instead choose to leave and be alone. I think we are already seeing this by the percentage of women who initiate divorce and overall divorce numbers. You only need to take a look at certain subreddits to see what awaits if you get married to one of these types of men: Being the housewife and cooking food for everyone, doing most of the cleaning and taking care of every little logistical thing whilst also working full time, while your husband gets home from work expecting a clean house and a cooked meal, before sneaking off to masturbate to porn before another 4 hour gaming session.

Of course there are wonderful men out there who aren't like this and make great partners, but they will marry quickly and there certainly aren't enough for every woman wanting a serious LTR.

Instead of obsessing about finding a partner, women should just accept that the possibility of finding a great man with few issues who will be a good husband and father is growing increasing unlikely.

Women should instead invest in themselves, plan their lives around other things like hobbies and friends. If you want kids, look into adoption or sperm donors.

For women, what would you do if you were unable to find a suitable partner? How would you occupy your time instead? Do you feel you need a relationship in order to be satisfied?

For men, what would you think would happen if increasing numbers of women became intolerable of these issues and swiftly ended relationships over them? If you are such a man, would it motivate you to change?

How do you think society overall would be affected by this?