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Question For Womenwoxmei/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:37 PM
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Hmm I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:24 PM
2

Yeah I recently told a guy his hair looked good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:20 PM
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Serious question - is it acceptable to say to a women at work "you look nice today"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:44 PM
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"Wow bro that suits well nice where you get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:09 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:45 PM
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It's depends on what you count as harrasment. A male colleague may say oh you look nice today or wow that dress looks good - that can be considered sexual harrasment if the women doesn't like the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:19 AM
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This is why you need to build up assets and not be reliant on a job for income. Your husband would have alot of protection against an accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:16 AM
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In the future this problem will somewhat be resolved because the majority of the work will be done from home and because it's on a computer everything will be recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:16 AM
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Not completely effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:23 PM
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Well... If it goes wrong for whatever reason you know that she would not resolve the problem. We know this because she has already had a kid and the decision to have another one is much easier than the first because it is way less of an impact on your life. She probably has much lower career opportunities/prospects. If you think about a sex positive liberal feminist she has probably good career opportunities and if that ever happened she would resolve the problem without hesitation. The risk is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:22 PM
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I disagree. Single mothers are the most risky off all women and should never be pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:57 PM
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Yes 100%. So many reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:52 PM
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Why do you think men don't want confidence women? There are many men who complain online about how masculine women have become and the lack of traditional femininity but men do want confident women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:12 AM
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Depends how unattractive are you? Depends on what your goals are - sex or a long term relationship? Unattractive women are invisible to men in the same way unattractive men are invisible to women. You do have in my opinion a much better chance at dating than an unattractive man thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:40 AM
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You confuse arrogance with confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:37 AM
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Don't really like Cheetos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:53 PM
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You again have not considered the male perspective. I sympathize that convictions are low and it must be frustrating for women. We have a proven beyond doubt system and considering how subjective consent is you can't change this unless you change innocent until proven guilty. They have been trying to for decades now with no success. In a society where any women who makes an accusation against a man and he has to prove its false will cause an immense amount of problems in society. If you think ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:27 PM
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Your response is interesting because it proves how enthusiastic consent laws would not work. In the first scenario I believe she gave enthusiastic consent with her actions and therefore no verbal acknowledgment of consent was required. This shows how different people will interpret enthusiastic consent differently making it ultimately unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:00 PM
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The problem is with your response is that you have given no consider to the male perspective. In society we are both (men and women) subject to rules and those are clear. If we break those rules we are punished (theoretically) but when the law is not clear then it becomes difficult to enforce. Let's assume you are a man and the girl starts getting naked and she then starts kissing you and then you have sex. Sounds like she was enthusiastic and gave enthusiastic consent right? Well what if she to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:44 PM
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Because consent and enthusiastic consent are the same thing. If society changes to enthusiastic consent you will get a situation where she will say, "yeah I wanted sex but I dunno I wasn't super enthusiastic". If you enact laws like that then the % of men and women who are single and not having sex is going to increase significantly because such changes promote a change in behaviour. Some men attempted to have women record consent either via a video or signing something but the problem is you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:31 PM
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It wouldn't just be employment it would be virtually everything you do. Even simply stuff like buying food because you could make the argument that because you need to eat to survive buying anything in the supermarket would be coercion. You could say your boyfriend saying words to you would be coercion because he expects words back. You have to draw the line somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:12 PM
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Oh I misread. I thought you were saying that paying for sex is rape. As crazy as that sounds I have known some female separatists to make that claim online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:06 PM
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Yes you believe it or yes you don't actually believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:34 PM
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Even then I would advise against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:45 AM
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No you don't have casual sex with a single mother! That's a disaster waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:43 AM
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I dated a single mother once and I vowed to never date a single mother again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:36 AM
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What's the orange pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:27 AM
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It doesn't. Have you seen the modern dolls? They are so realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:26 AM
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Don't be insecure about a man's sex toy of choice. You probably have many sex toys yourself and would find it absurd if a man told you he didn't want a women who used sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:26 AM
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You won't find that Chad and even if you did he could date supermodels. Are you a supermodel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:24 AM
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There is no revenge fantasy. Honestly men who buy sex dolls do it for themselves. The thoughts and opinions of random women don't have any impact on the purchase.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:23 AM
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I didn't buy my 2 sex dolls because I thought it would make any women mad that's absurd. I brought them because I had no intention of pursuing any dating in the short term. A sex doll/sex toy is very private and not advertised offline. I'm sure you are private with your sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:21 AM
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Don't troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:05 AM
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This is a post for FDS not PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:03 AM
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You don't actually believe that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:58 AM
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Is naked cuddling not implied consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:43 PM
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Sorta puts you off even wanting to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:40 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:37 PM
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I don't think the stats would change that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:02 PM
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Sex dolls are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:01 PM
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Wow did you get 0.009% cause that's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:00 PM
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Hmm I'd say more like 0.1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:00 PM
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No that's dumb. In 2021 a man's earnings are much lower importance than ever before. It's much more about attraction and tingles. I think women refer to tingles as "fanny flutters" now. I assume it's like the tingle you get in your ball sack when you body is telling you to go ahead and masterbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:59 PM
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Not impossible - unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:57 PM
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In the UK when I go to the supermarket I am always shocked at the amount of people who are overweight or obese and I'm aware of the %.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:54 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:53 PM
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I don't like paying for a womens time because that indicates she is higher value than me. Also that makes it more of a business transaction. Can anyone think of a buissness interaction where men give women money? Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:00 AM
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That's generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:57 PM
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That's a guaranteed divorce. Imagine dating an FDS girl my gosh. They should come with a warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:55 PM
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The FDS girls are far more sexist, transphobic and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:53 PM
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I'm 29 and 1-2x a day consistently. When I was 18 it's was more like 2-3x a day but I'm way more satisfied now at 29 than I ever was at 18. Discovering the prostate and prostate play really helped with that. I think you have to consider lifestyle because a guy who is 40 can be very different to another guy who is 40. Your internal age can be very different to your actual age. Even more so nowadays where many people are fat, smoke, do little excersize and are very stressed. Women have those probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:21 PM
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Uh then I think you would agree you're not the average 30- 40 year old women. You have much higher testosterone than the majority of women. Testosterone is an amazing hormone as you are aware and you are very privaliged to have more of it. Yes of course, I can't really comment on that because his libido is individual. Men do experience a small gradual decline that's influenced by testosterone levels decreasing each year but it's primarily lifestyle that is the ultimate factor. I'm sure many wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:29 AM
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How much of an increase? I'm finding that difficult to process because women are most fertile 16-29. The top women's athletes are also in they 20s. So you had a low sex drive from 16-30? Then when you reached 30 it turbo charged and then when you reach menopause it will go close to 0? It's almost like you are being trolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:14 AM
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Why do you think that? The main sex hormones for women estrogen and testosterone both decline with age so why would women reach a sexual peak in they 40s? That's also quite close to menopause age (around 50ish) when a womens sex drive goes close to 0 because the body significantly reduces both estrogen and testosterone production. I also think anicdotaly that women in relationships at 40 or so are likely to have less sex than a women in her 20s. That could be because the man is pushing for sex m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:01 AM
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What is PNW?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:33 AM
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Have you heard of the sub female dating strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:28 AM
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I think in the future it's going to become the norm for men to not actively pursue women and dating. With online dating, #metoo and the exponential increase in women's standards I really believe there will be a shift away from dating for the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:57 AM
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You think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:08 AM
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136... No way...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:02 AM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:02 AM
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Well alot of FDS girls have been banned from feminist subs. It's not something they hide because they proudly state it. Many will have been banned for transphobic comments, shaming of sex workers, pure man hate and other stuff that in particular liberal feminism is doing everything they can to push out of the group. I've seen loads of comments/posts complaining about lib fems on FDS. If they don't want you then you're a rad fem and that's a position/ideology of pure hatred that consumes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:22 PM
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Are you racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:12 PM
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I think you can. You don't need data for everything. I constantly have had vegans quote studies to me as if they are everything but those studies are cherry picked and are useless because you can't prove causation in a food study. Data is not everything it's okay to make conclusions from what you see and not from numbers. We know that a) women want men who are pre selected and b) women want men they can't get. It's reasonable to make the assumption that married men have a higher SMV because anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:34 AM
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It doesn't mean he is high value it means he is sexually attractive. There is a huge difference between high value and being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:28 AM
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I don't think you need any data for that. I'd say it's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:27 AM
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It's so refreshing to hear a women accept that too many partners causes problems maintaining a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:26 AM
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Yeah I think women in Panama are probably more slim, feminine and pleasent to be around than western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:52 PM
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Where you come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:26 PM
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The more I read your comments on this sub the more I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:26 PM
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When I was in Thailand it's was amazing because the women treated me so well even when I was not paying for anything. It was like they were full of energy around me. That's why you "geo max" oh and they were literally all slim and feminine. I couldn't believe it because I am so used to seeing so many overweight and obese and masculine women with high standards but to then go somewhere else where the women are all slim and feminine and they actually want to be around you... It's a really incredib…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:25 PM
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FDS is nothing but a sexist hateful echo chamber full of mentally ill women over 30 who have failed with dating. Go and look at some of the posts and comments. It's some of the most cringeworthy delusion you will ever read online. It's the last rad fem sub that's left on Reddit because it uses "dating strategy" to disguise the true purpose of the sub. I can easily tell an FDS girl from the comment they make on this sub without even checking. While these girls are some of the most sexist hateful …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:17 PM
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Do you feel high value because you're a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:08 PM
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Not extremely but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:56 PM
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Sexual activity is anything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:26 PM
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And what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:24 PM
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When I say sexually active that doesn't just mean sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:13 PM
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I never said don't be over 25 or that no one wants them after their mid 20s. I actually put up a recent comment saying I've had seen loads of 35+ women who I found attractive. The wall doesn't really exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:21 AM
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What a wierd post. There is no sex recession that's a myth because men (and probably women) are more sexually active than ever before. Online porn has been a major factor in this. Then there are other reasons for example sexualisation in society or more or a push to normalise and understand female sexuality etc. Yes people are having less sex but they are way more sexually active. Also we have the most amazing sex toys for men in 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:21 AM
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Yes you are...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:55 AM
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Are you a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:35 PM
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Well I guess you could add a number 3. Be a good person (and no FDS girls).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:25 PM
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Well I don't understand how this relates to my comment. I said most men don't want fat women or single mothers as a generalisation. You're saying there must be something wrong with me. So yeah I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:28 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:25 PM
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I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:23 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:21 PM
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No I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:37 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:28 PM
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What if she is not pretty thou?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:20 PM
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Women are not high value by default. Ugly women are treated like shit by men, women and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:18 PM
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No way you believe only 20% of men wash everyday... That's some FDS shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:18 PM
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Makeup doesn't give you pretty eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:17 PM
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No way. The majority of mens standards are normally. Don't be fat No single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:14 PM
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Most all men already use basic skincare products, clean their teeth, are kind and are active. You're using that as an excuse. All men are sympathetic when it comes to periods...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:13 PM
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*in comparison to the womens team.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:03 PM
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Yeah "selective equality". The women who fail are much more likely to care about his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:19 PM
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Well probably a good idea cause the average women who posts in FDS is over 30 and has failed with relationships so they use FDS as a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:10 PM
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I don't think the girls on FDS would like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:01 PM
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I don't think you can prove that in a study. You would never be able to control for variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:58 PM
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Oh for relationships yes they would be because you would want a mix of psyhical attractiveness, emotional maturity and sexual prowess and that's gonna be around 28-38. I thought you meant just how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:57 PM
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Older men are not more attractive than younger men that's absurd. I think what they mean is that because of certain factors, like not getting pregnant, tougher skin, more testosterone etc that men are more able to look better into they 30s and 40s than women are (the potential) and that's why they say that. Its ultimately all the individual but I would say for men it's easier. Yeah because women value more in a partner than men value in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:50 PM
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I can't argue against that. The only thing I can say is that the % of childless 35 year olds who are health freaks and obsess over they appearance is more than you probably think. Never heard the term "mum bod" before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:36 PM
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It's the western way of life that does it. Shit diet, overworking, too much stress etc. It's the same for men thou I was hotter at 20 than I am at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:35 PM
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You mean like fat or..?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:30 PM
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The men die younger thing is not from biology it's because of lifestyle choices. You will find loads of 100+ year old men. Also where did you get that ed statistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:28 PM
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Eh That's a strong generalisation. I've met many 35+ women I've found "sexually attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:27 PM
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I wonder why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:29 PM
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Well obviously... It's happened everywhere because of supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:19 PM
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The Google example was so funny because it resulted in back pay/ pay rise for the men when they found were underpaid in comparison to the women. The US women's soccer team tried the same thing and it was found that again men are being underpaid. It would seem that even when being overpaid the default feminist position is we are underpaid in comparison to men even when we are getting more than them. It makes me wonder if it's actually men who are facing instituanalised sexism in the workplace not…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:18 PM
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Men don't have custody much so it doesn't affect the women you're dating much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:18 AM
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No it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:01 AM
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You would be taking choice away from women thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:20 PM
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Well some people believe in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:39 PM
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Oh gosh don't take advice from the girls on FDS!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:25 PM
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I think when men earn more money in the relationship the relationship is more likely to disband than when the women earns more than the man. It's only my opinion at the moment because this is the first time ever in history where women are earning close to what men earn (slightly more in the 20-29 bracket in a few countries) so we don't have the long term data available to really make an informed decision. I think women earning more than the man in a marriage would result in. A) way less marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:49 AM
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What does do it wrongly mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:57 AM
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See response above.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:49 AM
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Because women initiate most all of the divorce. It's much more difficult to keep a women happy than it is to keep a man happy. Women demand much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:49 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:06 AM
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I'd think that when women outearn men in a marriage then the marriage has a very strong chance of long term success. The women is much more likely to do everything she can to make the relationship work because she risks financial penalty for leaving. I knew a guy at work who was doing the job part time in the evening and he was the house husband and looked after 3 kids while the wife earned the big money. He said she was always super nice, kind and appreciated him. It was clear she did everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:43 AM
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How so? What did you prefer when you were in relationships with women? Give examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:52 AM
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Yes but it's not the same because the % of single dad's is very low (10% I think) and when a man has a kid from a previous relationship it's not the same as dating a single mother because he may only see that kid 2 days a week and pay minimal child support so it has a low impact on the women who is dating him. The fat thing yes I don't disagree there are about the same amount of fat men. Yes there are crap people on both sides but many women don't view other women in a negative way. I had a wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:51 AM
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Hahahhahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:52 PM
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Idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:49 PM
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It shows haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:44 PM
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Haha Oh and the blaming the imaginary patriarchy is any different? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:32 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:30 PM
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To be fair if your a 4'11 women and you have a 5'6 kid that's actually success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:29 PM
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Haha No you're wrong the answer is they don't want to accept what makes them want to have sex with a man. Because they don't like the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:28 PM
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I thought they liked that cause it's empowering?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:19 PM
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Yes and I don't want to date a single mother You're making some big and wild assumptions. I think you blame men for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:15 PM
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Really? You don't understand the "immense amount of hatred towards single moms?" I know that's why I won't date them. I dated one and I said never again!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:00 PM
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No it's not a taboo at all (except to feminists).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:12 PM
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Well you have the left that hates sexual conservativism and the right that loves sexual conservativism. Depends how thotty you think women should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:10 PM
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Just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:08 PM
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No I don't care haha. I'm just saying most of the dating market for men is made up of low value women. The fat ones and the single mothers...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:39 PM
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I'm not mgtow it's just annoying when I read women say men ain't shit. It's like if you was a man and 80% of the dating market is fat women or single mothers you would feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:38 PM
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I think the technical term is "dumpster diving"? I don't dive in dumpsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:35 PM
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That ended that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:33 PM
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Yes of course I want you to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:32 PM
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Don't you think alot of that was common sense? Did we really need 191 studies to tell us that? Healthy low partner count men and women both enjoy monogamous relationships and good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:31 PM
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Oh gosh no I have a no dating fat women or single mothers policy. I'm fucked basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:27 PM
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I find it amazing that women say men are not worth it. Have you ever actually looked at women in 2021? I want to date a women who is Not fat Not a single mother That is about 80% of the market. That's right 80% of the market is made up of low value women and yet women complain that it's men who are not worth it... Incredible!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:17 PM
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Eyes Body fat % Jawline Frame Height
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:08 PM
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Not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:06 PM
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None of that means anything because you're assessing hair on it's own. Obviously most won't find it attractive... It's one of many factors that make up your overall attractiveness. Hair by itself does not make you attractive - it's not even in the top 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:53 AM
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This is not the sub for common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:40 AM
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and single mothers*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:23 AM
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Filled?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:49 PM
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I don't debate with hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:10 AM
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Don't care. I'm not arguing with someone who posts in a rad fem sub that's full of sexism and hate. That invalidates any point you have to make in my opinion. Don't bother replying I'm adding you to the block list after this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:26 AM
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I can't take what your saying seriously now I've seen you post in FDS. I have to add you to the long list of blocked FDS girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:20 AM
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I don't think so. Did you know 87.9% of studies are considered to be invalid due to researcher bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:16 AM
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The more education and earnings a women has reduces her chance of finding a long term partner. This is because she will want someone on her "level" but men don't value that in the same way women do. It's a major reason we have such a bad dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:33 AM
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Men and women are equally attractive it's just women spend lots of effort, time and money on improving they appearance when men don't so obviously they look better. Lots or products to fake looking better as a women but not so much as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:38 PM
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It's a rad fem sub that pretends to be about dating advice so they don't get banned like previous rad fem subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:19 PM
1

Is that a serious comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:38 PM
1

Oh do you have sex with random men for money? Thats an issue you should take up with ya pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:28 PM
3

That's possible after all I am posting in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:28 PM
0

Just using the term "toxic masculinity" in itself is sexist. I think they called her out because it hurts the credibility of other women to be believed. Society and men are very wary of accusations made by women and a high profile fake accusation makes that more problematic. Social media is mostly women and women talk about mental health more than men because they suffer from mental health issues more than men - see anti depressant use by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:27 PM
2

What was wrong with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:17 PM
6

No... You can regret for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:16 PM
4

I think I'm normal but all the girls I've been with have been really wild or wierd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:15 PM
2

I'm not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:23 PM
2

Studies like that are an embarrassment. I haven't read it in full but they must have manipulated it a rediculous way to get numbers like that. Maybe something like, have you ever felt uncomfortable when a man has looked at you? And it they say yes that gets classed as sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:58 PM
2

Does any sane woman without mental impairment actually believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:47 PM
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I'm speechless. The people who did these studies are from another planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:43 PM
3

From who? Where? Are they mentally challenged perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:32 PM
3

1 in 4? What the f*"k? Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:21 PM
2

People moan about everything. Rad fems been complaining about patriarchy etc for decades now eventually you learn to ignore that noise and don't let the negativity suck you in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:06 PM
0

Why does anyone do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:35 PM
0

No need to read the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:33 PM
3

You can find exceptions to the rule that disadvantage women also but generally the system is fair to men here and the European obsession with gender equality has helped men. Who would have thought 20 years ago men would be given an equal legal right to they kids? (In most countries) or even a legal right to paid paternity leave as the man? It would have been unthinkable. There was a case in the UK of a women complaining about having to do 50/50 custody of the 3 kids. She said it was unfair becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:28 PM
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When the men on here are talking about stuff like unfair divorce laws, unfair alimony, unfair child support and not having access to they kids etc. It's very different in UK and Europe so I read some of what they say and think really it's not like that here. Most European countries have automatic 50/50 even for visitation rights etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:10 PM
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The way men are treated in North America is so different to UK and Europe. I read alot of stuff on here about men and I'm like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:54 PM
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Your dating life is not successful. You don't reflect on issues of sexism against men and that in itself is sexist. Have you ever been on FDS? Might be a good sub for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:42 PM
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Most matches you receive are not genuine because of the way men swipe on dating sites. Most men auto swipe women and then reject them at the next stage. Women will reject at the first stage (the swipe). That's why even the most unappealing of women can have thousands of matches yet very few will have any interest whatsoever. Because you have to give people more of a chance. Your rejecting men way too quick and I'm sure alot of them may actually be better than you think but you wouldn't know. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:35 PM
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Then enjoy and accept being single. You said 3% and those profiles are the best representation of that guy. You therefore are either selecting men who are way too attractive for you and have much better options so would never pick you. Increase this to maybe 20%. Your obviously not spending much time actually talking to these men and giving it a chance. If you have thousands of options and you are only giving a few a chance then I dunno what to say really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:49 AM
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Lower your standards!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:43 AM
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You make some good points but you're complaining about problems that you have created. 3% on tinder? A platform where both men and women will edit and put they best photos up shows you have insane standards. Most people say the 80/20 rule but your like nah 97/3 for me. Problem is your probably not a 9 or a 10 and and the very top of the dating market men can and are extremely picky when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:22 AM
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Well You pay a small bit of money and they have to do degrading acts that they don't want to do because they are desperate for money. Who is the one being mentally and physically exploited? Have you ever read experiences of sex workers? I can assure you porn and sex work in general is very harmful to women. It's not the empowering choice many people want to believe it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:12 AM
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I understand all that and yeah it's unfair for women. You're right the government pays for the minimum maternity leave but most companies will contribute a bit towards it because the amount is so incredibly low it's embarrassing. In the UK it's something like 20% of the average workers wage. In most countries in Europe men actually do get guaranteed paternity leave - a sign of real progress towards equality between men and women (this benefits women also). I think you underestimate the sexism me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:09 AM
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I really don't understand how someone can think sex work is easy money it's so deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:05 AM
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They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:43 PM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:39 PM
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Because the sex workers are the ones being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:33 PM
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Easy money? You clearly have no understanding of what sex work is or how little most women actually get on only fans. Easy money... You should go and read the experiences of really women who have worked in the sex industry (including OF) and tell them it's easy money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:58 PM
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Lol the idea that sex workers are exploiting men is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:34 PM
0

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:23 PM
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Sex work is not empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:22 PM
1

Again can't comment on Russia but employers don't ask out of sexism it's economic. Think of it from an employers perspective you hire an employee and they take leave for let's say 18 weeks. You have to keep paying X amount to that employee and then spend money on hiring someone else to take the position untill they return. This is difficult because people don't like taking jobs short term and you normally have to pay them extra for it. Then you actually have to pay that person and because of tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:55 PM
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Oh congratulations. You say shape up and that men need to put in the effort in making society change but why would they want that? Easy sex without commitment? I'd say most men are happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:44 PM
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I actually agree with you lol. I despise porn and am not a fan of hookup culture. It's definitely toxic and dating is a mess nowadays. I think you were born to the wrong generation because the last generation will most likely be the final generation where collective and family values were prioritised. Im sorry to say this but it's women who pushed for this not the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:22 PM
1

What do you dislike most?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:52 AM
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Are you a 🦄?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:41 AM
0

Isn't that what women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:27 AM
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No I answered the question, what one would be more fun? I think the adventurous permiscous hot 20y party girl would be the more fun. In terms of long term dating I would choose the 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:10 AM
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It's my own opinion because I don't think sexism in the workplace was much of an issue for women. You have had diversity hiring/training for decades now and men who are bad in the workplace were punished/fired. Yes some will have experienced sexism but so have some men. When a white man gets rejected for a job because the company wants to tick some boxes on the diversity chart then that is direct sexism and descrimination. Many men have been denied opportunity so that companies can hire women. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:01 AM
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The 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:52 AM
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Yes lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:29 PM
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I have a different belief as to why #metoo was started. I think rad feminists were getting annoyed at the lack of female representation at the top and so they looked to push the issue and get many of those men out of positions of power and replace them with women. It ultimately didn't work as positions or power are still almost exclusively men. The top 100 companies in the UK have only 6 women as the CEO and that's after decades of trying to get women into these positions. I think it was frustra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:28 PM
1

Huh? You said that I didn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:57 PM
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Well I'm against exploration of both genders and the porn industry goes against that philosophy so I can't approve but I'm not gonna tell others not to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:57 PM
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Yeah of course we gonna moan that's not a gendered thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:53 PM
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Porn is extremely bad for both men and women. I am a man and I despise porn - go and read about the porn industry and how it works. You really do not have to be feminist to hate porn!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:52 PM
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Really? It's pretty great tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:48 PM
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Ah so you do understand! Men are also the victims of sexism and abuse in society and so it's completely unfair to create a movement that only focuses on the female victims. That creates more of a gender division and causes people to limit interact with women (mostly in the workplace). It comes back to the what are the rules again. Some men were being disciplined for saying something like "oh that's a nice dress your wearing today" when to virtually everyone that is actually a nice non creepy thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:02 PM
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No I don't think men got annoyed about #metoo I think they gotta annoyed with how it was applied. For example it failed to show or acknowledge bad female behaviour of which there is alot. Men are always going to be pissed off when you portray an issue as one sided and not represent the other side. Had #metoo discussed the toxic behaviour of women also then it would have been received much better by both men and women. It's like domestic voilence is not a gendered issue in the UK the official sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:50 PM
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Oh maybe I assumed too much. I was thinking you were active in FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:15 PM
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I don't like to engage someone like you because nothing I say would make any difference - you are too deep into the rad fem indoctrination. My only point is that the way you think is exhausting and will make you miserable. I say the same to the sexist men on here. Your entire identity is based around gender and the percievced inequalities you believe are real. Has this ever made your life better? Has this way of thinking ever made you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:04 PM
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Fragile? I suggested you seek some professional help that you desperately need. Your weighed down by the sexism and hate you carry everyday. You think your rad fem beliefs help you? Do they make your life better? I don't think so... I simply suggested a sub that would embrace your sexism - FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:53 PM
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Yeah good point there is a values divide in society. I think stuff like the %metoo movement shows we are all a bit confused about what the norm is. Like there are many women complaining how men act but at the same time the men are being told different stuff. Take casual sex is that the norm now? Is sex on the first date the norm? It's a tough question right? Back in 1950 the answer would be no because you shouldn't have sex till marriage or atleast long term commitment but now we don't have that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:42 PM
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Dunno why this is easily the best time for men ever. I think it's rose tinted glasses as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:36 PM
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Your standard FDS girl who spews sexist hate on this sub. My block list is so full of them I'm concerned I'm reaching my block limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:32 PM
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Have you considered getting some professional help? Have you heard about FDS I think they would accept and embrace your delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:30 PM
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It takes time and personally I believe we have moved too quick in making huge changes in society and it's caused problems. We have had more social change from 1950-2021 than during any other period in history. I think collectively we should slow down and let everything catch up if you get what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:28 PM
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I understand what your saying but men in the west have been pushing away the traditional male gender role for decades now with great success.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:25 PM
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Eh I dunno he does alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:14 PM
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Yeah and then 10 years later you will look back and think I'm single and I want a kid now but it's too late. It's a mindset change you need. I know it's tough but you can have it all you just need to find the right guy who will be a husband and stay at home dad while you provide. I know a guy who does this she works and earns the big money and he looks after the 3 kids. She gets it both ways but I would say he is in the privaliged position being the lower earner and primary caregiver. It's a dan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:21 PM
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It's not fair on you because if you were a man your desirability would go up dramatically in your situation instead of going down. Yes because you don't like the idea of being the provider and taking the traditional male gender role. That and you would get destroyed in a divorce if he earns much less than you and I'm sure that's a thought you have had. I actually don't know what I would do in your situation. Are you hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:11 PM
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It's not just that. Your increasing your expectations based on something that makes you less desirable. Imagine someone with no education demanding a better job than you? Crazy right? That's what your doing. Your stuck in this trap because the men who earn your money can date near anyone and will date the unemployed girl who's hot and makes him feel good. You having a top job makes him feel bad. What is most important to men is A) How hot she is B) How she makes him feel. That's why your job and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:05 PM
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Like well done for making money and having a top job and all that but you must realise that's actually a disadvantage for you in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:00 PM
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I would learn to enjoy being single because with that mentally you will never find a long term partner. Men don't value your career and earnings and they certainly don't value that you don't care much for sex. You would actually be considered a somewhat low value women to most men when you yourself value yourself as a women who is high value because of your projection of what you believe is valuable. You are a great example of the problem with modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:51 PM
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The 2 beautiful sex dolls I have had for 3 years now have had a major positive impact on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:45 PM
1

More consistent sex with one partner *
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:43 PM
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Huge exaggeration! You think all men in the 1950s beat they wives? Mens behaviour was better in 1950 than it is now because you had to be honourable and act like a "gentlemen". Modern men arguably behave worse now than they ever have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:42 PM
1

Bit of an exaggeration?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:38 PM
1

Your looks are a big part of your personality because it affects how people (mainly women) perceive you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:32 PM
0

Why flattered?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:26 PM
0

Wouldn't it be the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:26 PM
2

You didn't wanna date average guys before anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:25 PM
1

That's why you spinning triangles and not plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:24 PM
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You can't ever get dating equality. Men are women both have advantages and disadvantages in every aspect of life and dating is an advantage women have. Yes it comes with some downsides (unwanted attention, stereotyping, body risks etc) but it's a seller's market and men are always gonna want sex and relationships more than women. The male sex drive seeks out sexual partners whereas the women doesn't. Women can go with sex, masterbating and intamacy for way longer than men can and that's gonna ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:55 PM
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FDS is not a place for advice it's a hate sub disguised as an advice sub so that don't get banned like the other rad fem subs that have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:42 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:39 AM
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No I won't block you as you have no posts or comments in FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:22 AM
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Yes because the main reason society is better today for both men and women is the extra choice we all have. You don't have to be in the kitchen and I don't have to provide the food for you to cook anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:30 PM
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I don't reply to women who post in FDS. I am against sexism, racism and homophobia. If you genuinely have a mental illness then I'm sorry but I have to block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:19 PM
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I've had FWBs and relationships I'm just not gonna be nasty to ugly men. Ah you post in FDS. I add you to the block list. Please get help for your sexism and racist beliefs oh and your mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:12 PM
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I don't troll I legit just find sexism disgusting. I'm adding you to the block list.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:19 PM
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I really don't know I just thought your answer was very cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:14 PM
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I never argued for that. I argued maybe have some basic compassion for men who women don't want because of they genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:11 PM
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I really don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:09 PM
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Yeah because he is not attractive enough. Maybe show some empathy for these men who women don't want no matter how amazing they are or become.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:08 PM
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You mean besides basic empathy? I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:02 PM
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That's a condescending answer thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:02 PM
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Oh you post in FDS also :( so your insecure about your sexist beliefs and so your trying to argue with me to feel better about your hate :( Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:55 PM
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I don't know why your talking to me? You don't like what I'm saying that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:50 PM
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They post in FDS... Sexism and hating men is at the core of they identity. Why would I bother in trying to change the mind of someone like this? Would you argue with someone who is racist or homophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:39 PM
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I think he is saying that for 30% of men no matter what they do women will never want those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:36 PM
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You don't measure a society only on the interaction with the opposite sex. Yes dating sucks for men but that's one part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:35 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:47 PM
3

I still don't understand what non binary is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:39 PM
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We live in the best society ever for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:36 PM
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Yep pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:49 PM
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But the women don't care about the next generations of women or the ones outside the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:47 PM
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Bruv?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:10 PM
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Your making an unfair generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:58 AM
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Do women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:43 AM
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What's odd about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:22 AM
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yeah whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:22 AM
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In casual sex scenarios yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:52 AM
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Uh... your not gonna like this answer but outside of a relationship your generally not gonna find men who prioritise, focus or even care about your pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:15 AM
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It could... But it's more important for women because of how sex works. It's next to impossible for men to have bad sex even if they partner is selfish because of how men are designed yet in reverse women will have loads of bad sex. It's more important that women find a man who is not selfish than men finding a women who is not selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:11 AM
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Easy fix - only have sex with men who care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:06 AM
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Even the 3 dates rule is absurd. Sex is an extremely intimate and vunerable experience and you really need to know someone for longer than 6-8 hours before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:02 AM
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I think that's called "princess mentality"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:57 AM
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Savage comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:55 AM
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Yeah alot of the men and women on this sub are not a good representation of wider society...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:44 AM
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Men don't expect sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:39 AM
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Sexism is wrong I don't care if you disagree. I'm not arguing with someone who posts in a hate sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:36 AM
1

Really? In the UK and Europe all benefits are gender neautral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:35 AM
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I don't think men want to return to traditionalism - I certainly don't. I think gender roles are fading but the objectification of men won't change and neither will the objectification of women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:21 PM
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I mean I can't argue with that. Your career and education level is secondary to men and in some cases of no importance. A high paying career actually makes women less desirable than someone who earns much less. What I would say is that women value attractiveness as primary in the same way that men do in respect that if you don't pass then the education etc means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:15 PM
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What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:07 PM
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I don't work at the moment so I can sleep for a long time and I excersize alot so that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:53 PM
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I'm very big on my nutrition I eat what I believe helps with sex drive. Beef, berries, dark chocolate, green leafies, maca powder, pistachio nuts etc. I never thought about the male hormonal cycle because it seems the same everyday. I do seem to get the best results between 10 and 2 just something I noticed. If it's because I am masterbating too much then that's depressing because I'm 29y male and your testosterone decreases with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:45 PM
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Do you think that's why I get such a strong hormonal effect because it's too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:37 PM
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I do get a strong hormonal effect. Sometimes when I have a particularly amazing prostate or normal orgasm I will giggle near uncontrollably. When I cum twice in a day I get a really strong high and then later a bit of a crash. Sometimes I will feel worse after. The nutrients yeah I completely agree with that it probably isn't much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:32 PM
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When I was actively dating I loved the wild girls and I always seemed to attract them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:26 PM
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I think they refering to when you cum it uses up like nutrients and affects your hormones etc. Im not sure about that because I don't get tired after and regularly go gym later in the day after masterbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:21 PM
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It doesn't mess up other areas of my life but sometimes I think that it's unhealthy. Like when I cum twice in a day I get a huge high and then hours later a bit of a crash. I know that's the hormones that are released but is that healthy? Sometimes I feel a bit addicted for example today I worked really hard at the gym and it's clear my body is tired but I pushed myself to masterbate even when I knew mentally and physically I was tired. I have no addiction to porn because I don't watch any but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:07 PM
1

You don't think no fap is a good idea then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:08 PM
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I don't know but they have lots of subscribers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:50 PM
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I don't watch porn and I actually really dislike porn. I was referring to using that sexual energy for other more productive stuff. I think from what I've read the purpose for the men and women who believe in no fap is to convert that sexual energy into normal energy that's is used more productively and to beat porn addiction. To answer your question I think it's the fact he doesn't have a gf that turns him to use porn. I have had 2 sex dolls for 3 years now and while I just wanted them in reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:31 PM
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I've been masterbting 1 or 2x a day now for many years and I'm thinking about trying out this no fap thing they seem to think getting off is actually bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:23 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:00 PM
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In relation to wages it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:56 PM
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That's already happening. That's why there has been such a pro immigration drive because we need them as women in the west want to work they don't want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:55 PM
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Yeah some women are that way for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:52 PM
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They can't implement a bachelor tax. Most men are increasingly depending on the welfare state for support. We are all suffering under the current situation of low crappy wage and huge inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:45 PM
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I don't think they are vilified. MGTOW makes sense anyways because most men are not desired by women in society. Your average women would rather be single than date someone who is equal to her and so it's an inevitably that most men and women will be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:44 PM
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Gynocentric doesn't mean bad. Modern society is the best it's ever been for men overall and feminism has been very useful in helping men live without social expectations and pressure to provide for both women or society. Men are more free than ever. What he means when he says that is that women's problems are always prioritised over mens not that society itself disadvantages men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:42 PM
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If 50% of women went wgtow it would make absolutely no difference to society whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:38 PM
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The point I'm making is that women are as shallow or more shallow than men. This is not groundbreaking research we have know this for years now. The old myth that men are more visual is based on a time when society was very different and no longer is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:37 PM
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Yeah they are trying to reduce work hours, promote social gatherings (they pay for them) and reach out to men who have completely given up by offering them courses etc to help them get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:35 PM
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We see that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:29 PM
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Women value looks in men more than men value looks in women. Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:27 PM
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It's not his only choice. The idea all women 30+ have baby rabies and next to no sex drive is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:52 PM
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My disgust at your sexism compelled me to reply :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:54 PM
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Oh you post in FDS! had I looked at your post history and seen that then I would have not replied to your comment and then added you to the block list. I don't talk to sexist hateful people who believe sexism is acceptable! People who are sexist are usually racist and homophobic also and I don't want anything to do with people like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:47 PM
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What are you talking about? I don't wanna talk to sexist people so I'm not gonna reply to any comment you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:40 PM
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Abusive? I think you replied to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:37 PM
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So your blaming below average men for dumpster diving?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:23 PM
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What do you think the negative impact of social media is on women? It's obvious the negative impact of porn. Maybe the fact so many women are on anti depressants has a correlation with social media use? I dunno but seems like there is a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:08 AM
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If I had to pick what is more negative for society porn or social media? As much as I dislike and don't watch porn I would actually argue social media has had a more negative impact overall than porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:05 AM
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I think it actually might as women are being encouraged now to be more honest with they dating preferences. It's' becoming more socially acceptable for women to state looks are the most important factor for them when it comes to dating men. The desire to lie and give the basic oh personality answer doesn't seem as strong anymore. If we had a society that encourages women to actually tell the truth I believe men in response would focus more on how they look and ultimately it would help the men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:15 PM
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If your cold approaching then no matter how much PUA you have learned or mastered it makes no difference if she is not attracted too you. This is why society and women should be more honest with men and explain that your looks are everything when it comes to dating. This myth that women are less focused on looks than men are is based on old rules in a time when society was very different. A man's looks are more important to women than a womens looks are to men. It's about time men understood thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:53 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a sexist term that means nothing and anyone who uses the term should be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:54 PM
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Okay That's not enough people to use that to extrapolate the results to millions of people. Where the researchers biased? Do other studies contradict that one? Where the variables the same? Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:18 PM
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Yeah but how many participants?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:05 PM
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Well it's difficult to generalise from one study. Then you have other factors. Think of food studies - it's impossible to control for all the variables, measure accurately, have enough participants etc. You could repeat that study and get completely different results I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:46 PM
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These studies are not that accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:41 PM
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Do they really? Because men are designed for sex with multiple women. For example a man's sex drive greatly increases when he has access to more available sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:31 PM
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Don't try and take the moral high ground - you post in FDS a sexist hateful sub (probably racist and homophobic also). The cognitive dissadence to tell a man off for sexism when you post in sexist subs if truly incredible. You should look in the mirror and think about your own hateful sexist views and ask yourself if they are acceptable. If your racist and homophobic also then consider if those views are also acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:29 PM
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Yeah but that's normal for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:23 PM
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Thanks - nobody should take they sexist hateful views seriously. They are probably racist and homophobic also and we shouldn't listen to people like that in society! I'm glad you agree :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:09 PM
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I can't take anything anybody who posts or comments in FDS seriously. If you post in a sub full of sexist hate then your opinion is not worth ever engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:01 PM
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You must be exhausted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:21 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:42 AM
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Well I don't agree that men are always paying. I think the guys on this sub are saying that when it comes to women they are always paying with they time or emotional energy or purely financial etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:41 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:30 AM
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Yes it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:23 AM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:22 AM
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Can u reply to DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:14 PM
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I haven't heard much about India what they saying? Erm with Spain they have or had this law that voilence was perceived as different based on the gender. For example when a women hits a man it's voilence but when a man does it then it's gendered voilence and that comes with a much harsher punishment. It's been a while since but I watched a video on it and they were talking about how women could just make up mass accusations in court and the guy had to prove each one was false when they obviously…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:06 PM
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I thought Spain was the worst for descriminating against men? Don't they have actual legal sexism against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:48 PM
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Can you answer my DM? I have a question (in context) that I wouldn't ask here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:53 PM
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Damn hellochoy! Okay let's calm down and relax. If researchers did a meta analysis of all the studies known and then found that the average women's orgasm is 5-15 seconds why would a few cherry picked new studies change this? This would be considered not statistically relevant and that these women in those few studies could either a) misunderstood or b) over estimated or c) mistook say heightened pleasure for an orgasm or d) not quite sure what constitutes an orgasm. Why would we believe a few s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:25 PM
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No wtf... The healthline article doesn't even make sense because they acknowledge that every study prior says 5-15 seconds. I just asked a women and she said 5-10 seconds... Your insulting me by insinuating that all those women lied to me to spare my feelings that I couldn't make them orgasm - you don't know that. Now your making assumptions. It's 5-15 seconds not some 2 minutes or 1 minutes rubbish. Maybe a few people benefit from a vegan diet but they all quit eventually. My argument is that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:05 PM
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Those are not facts - it's sensationalist rubbish. We know women don't have 2 minute orgasms they have done tons of independent studies that put it around 5-15 seconds. I've been with women who have orgasmed and asked them and I always got a 10 seconds ish response. Seriously don't believe everything you read online bro. I used to read studies that told me going plant based was the way to go and that vegan was the most nutritious diet for humans. I tried it for 5 months and it was the worst 5 fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:41 PM
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Hmm Well we do get hormones that are released from orgasm that makes us calm so that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:40 PM
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Ohh that's interesting. Bpd means borderline personality disorder? I don't really know anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:37 PM
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Haha You can't sleep without an orgasm really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:28 PM
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Well some men believe women struggle to orgasm and while there is some truth in that it's generally not true. So I think they don't wanna bother or put in the "extra effort". I wouldn't be satisfied if I didn't cum at least once (pref 2, any more is a struggle in a short amount of time) so it's reasonable to expect the same for the women. It sucks your partner would turn you on and not follow through with it later. If that was me I'd leave personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:07 PM
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Yeah all very good points. I think generally men don't take the time to understand how women work sexually or they either think they are the same as men or they just don't care. Feeling like a used sex doll - can't imagine that feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:59 PM
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That's brutal. Let's remember that it's not all on the man the women plays a part in good sex also.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:35 PM
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I can't imagine why any women would do a ONS. It's almost guaranteed to be disappointing by design. The men don't care about you all they want to do is a bust one or two nuts, feel satisfied and move on. Yeah I would do the same if I was you. Someone who cares about you is gonna put some level of effort into pleasing you. Someone who will try and understand and learn about you sexually. Most men here don't understand why women don't want lots of casual sex when it's available 24/7 but they just …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:05 PM
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Yeah that suckkks. I know that feeling. I was thinking about how I would feel if a women did what you did after sex and I think I would join in. I could see how other men would feel upset about that. For you it's a lose - lose situation really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:55 PM
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The average is not 15-30 seconds. I've googled all this before because I had a similar argument with another person on this sub and didn't find anything that backed up what your saying and if anything lots that went against it. I agree there is a very wide scale in terms of women's sexual pleasure and orgasm capabilities with a large genetic component. You maybe at the top of that scale I don't doubt that and I know some (very few) women can orgasm 3x in a session or whatever but 2 minutes orgas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:51 PM
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Oh that sounds more reasonable than what I was thinking. I had the image of someone being visibility disgusted with they partner and was trying to make it known that you were left unsatified. But in reality you just want that orgasm so you can free your mind of sex and move on to whatever else you wanna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:44 PM
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Oh you post in FDS :( I knew I should have looked before engaging with your delusions. My mistake! 30-60 second clit orgasm on average? Yeah okay superwoman! Your not like all the other girls huh? I guess you have 50 of them a day and each one takes you minutes to achieve? You know don't even reply - I can't stand you FDS girls! The sexist, hateful delusions you girls spew is disgusting!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:21 PM
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Really your clit orgasms are longer than 30 seconds? I've never heard any women say this before or any literature stating this. Most anicdotal sources state 6-10 seconds. Are you even aware of how many nerve endings are inside a vagina or prostate? You must be aware that nerve endings are only one of many factors?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:01 PM
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The female orgasm is not longer or more intense - your comparison is incorrect based on YOUR misunderstanding of male anatomy. Penis orgasm is the equivalent of a clit orgasm. Prostate orgasm is the equivalent of a G - spot orgasm. As a man who has had probably over a thousand prostate orgasms I can tell that your not comparing the prostate orgasm to a G spot orgasm and a penis orgasm to a clit orgasm. The penis orgasm lasts about 8 seconds and then has about 15 seconds of pulse contractions (on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:07 AM
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It maybe the way you do it that appears as if your directly insulting him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:55 AM
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I've never heard of a forehead shave my gosh!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:18 AM
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Is there anyway I can block seeing posts from this person? It's a man posting as a women and has admitted to it and it's annoying me everytime I see this persons sexist, angry, hateful posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:17 AM
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Yeah it's super easy to tell who is using steroids at the gym based on muscle formation. Natural lifters look very different to steroid users.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:15 AM
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People hate that you are trying to cheat your genetics. Also much plastic surgery can make you look worse. I never understand why any women would get a boob job. Your paying for a worse outcome! Yet millions have and will continue to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:13 AM
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FDS gets so much hate because of the sexist hate they spew.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:28 AM
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What a post! I've seen so many absolutely crazy comments from the FDS girls on this sub! The sexist hate those girls spew is disgusting!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:10 AM
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How you can you be really into a guy and not want to have sex with him? That would suggest that her sex drive is ruined by either the pill or something like being vegan.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:04 AM
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Oh my gosh no it's not! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:00 AM
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You are the one who is full of hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:08 AM
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My gosh you are full of hate... Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:08 AM
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Your need to find a rad fem sub that will accept your sexist hate. Have you tried FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:41 AM
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Height and hair are not the determining factors of male attractiveness. Eyes (by far the most important) Low body fat Jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:38 AM
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You didn't need to link anything for that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:53 PM
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How!?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:27 PM
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Yes because I argue like an SJW (not one) and that means you argue from emotion NEVER logic and facts. For example, "that's sexist" "are you a female supremacist?" "Are you also racist?". You don't actually argue the point they made. For example, if a liberal says "rich people should pay more" you NEVER reply with "they already pay 52% of income tax while you pay nothing". What you should say is "I dunno because I think stealing is wrong why don't you?". You argue with emotion NEVER logic, facts…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:36 PM
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Why are you so sexist? Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:29 PM
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You must be aware that testosterone drives success? Everything you own or use has come from the innovation of men. Consequently that testosterone can also work counter intuitively but you yourself benefit from the accomplishments of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:16 PM
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I don't think he cares about the sexist hateful opinions of radical feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:14 PM
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Fair enough. To be clear I do occasionally eat berries and drink a herbal tea or eat an occasional bit of salad. I generally will only eat locally because the idea of eating food from thousands of miles away seems awful in every way - especially for the environment. When I watch or read vegans talking about say eating tropical fruit and then claiming they care about the environment really annoys me. If you care about the environment you would eat local foods only and not monoculture foods that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:31 PM
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Eggs contain everything you need it's a perfect food. But I wonder why eating an egg from a 🐔 doesn't gross you out yet eating the 🐔 does. You don't crave because you regularly consume but I've read stories about vegans who would dream about steak and become obsessed with wanting to eat animal foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:13 PM
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Serious question - you enjoy and crave eggs and milk but what about when you see a steak?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:26 PM
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I don't believe there are any people who have eaten truly plant based (no animal products) for 10-25 because of the extreme mental and physical deterioration you would experience. You can't sustain a diet that lacks adequate nutrition long term and that's why there have never been and never will be any truly plant based societies ever either in the past or in the future. We don't absorb much of the nutrients from plants and as stated before many plants are toxic for humans. The plants don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:46 PM
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No lol you have that the wrong way around. We can live on a meat only based diet but not a plant only based one. What nutrients do you get from plants that you don't get from meat? None. However there are many vital nutrients that you get from meat that are essential that can not come from plants. The ones I can think of without extensive research - B12, vitamin A, B6, vitamin D, vitamin K2 Then there are the amino acids that's are not found in plants but are in meat - for example heme iron is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:41 PM
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No because everyone eats meat (95%).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:27 PM
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What did I say about vegetables that was not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:03 PM
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I don't wear make up so I'm not the most knowledgeable but I'm sure some of the more expensive make up is made with better ingredients yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:03 PM
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I dunno I was thinking that because fibre is indigestible it would cause you to go toilet more cause the body can't break it down. Then cause of the lack of protein and fats you would never feel full and would likely have to eat large volumes of food to feel full because plants contain low amounts of calories and you can't absorb much of the nutrients. Fibre and more volume of food would cause the stomach to expand and then cause bloating and since alot of plants are dangerous to health they cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:56 PM
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I can't imagine not eating meat. I suppose if I couldn't I would have to eat more plants but our bodies don't digest the fibre or absorb much of the nutrients. Then you know the bloated stomach, farting, constantly on the toilet, low energy, huge volume of food required etc - sounds horrible. It was a post you made but it got deleted. I was curious as to why you would feel that was a privalige.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:39 PM
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I like your profile statement but have 2 questions. Why vegetarian? How could menstration ever be considered as a privalige? It's a negative..?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:05 PM
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Then your gonna have to put in effort to find a guy who has great skin at your age or you can date younger. I've heard from many older women that dating men around the 28-35 bracket is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:03 AM
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Your really exaggerating. You have no idea how old these men are and your comparing no make up to make up and that's completely unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:00 AM
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I think it also depends on your internal bias. If your sample is internet photos that's unfair because the average women is easily 10x better at editing, lighting, angles, makeup etc than the average man. What women present is fake and with men you get a more accurate representation of how they look. Have you ever watched a reality TV show and you have seen the women on the programme in the morning? They look so different you would think they were a completly different person. I experienced this…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:55 AM
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You say it's safe to apply many different types of make up on your face every day and that maybe true but I'm not convinced. I think men not being expected to wear makeup daily is one the strongest privaliges of being a man. For the average guy as long as he eats enough animal protein (collagen) and washes his face his skin will look good. I do agree that men have probably worse lifestyles (health) and don't even do the minimum (a simple SPF with mousteriser on hot days) but I think your analysi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:46 AM
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Do you wear make up every day? You know the chemicals in your products are harmful right? Men have different skin and can get away with much less maintenance in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:32 AM
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I actually think women tend to have worse skin because they spend a decade putting harmful chemicals into they skin (make up) when men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:29 AM
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Stop trying to justify your sexist hate. You know women do awful shit to men also so don't play dumb. Paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:08 PM
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You really need some training on equality and diversity. We need to create a society that's equal and inclusive of all - not anti male like you want! FDS is the sub for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:58 PM
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Imaging thinking descrimination against an entire group is acceptable... Are you racist too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:37 PM
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Ooh another sexist!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:31 PM
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You are glad there is an anti male culture? Is that you openly admitting your sexist or a female supremacist? No way you would you be glad about an anti women culture... What a stupid, descriminatry and intolerant comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:25 PM
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Women benefit from prostitution - it wouldn't exist if they didn't. There must be a buyer and a SELLER.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:59 PM
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FDS is pure sexism and hate. Everytime I go on that sub I'm disgusted by the posts and comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:36 PM
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You really think a "backwards women" would put some random women before her son? You are aware that women will put men first before other women most of the time? For example a women putting her bf before a female friend etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:07 PM
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Nah They wouldn't tell the girl. They may say they would but they wouldn't and even if they hate men in general that's they son. They would not hate him and would put him first over everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:00 PM
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No they don't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:51 PM
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Overweight women and single mothers statistically make up the majority of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:41 AM
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I know and I don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:46 PM
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I don't think going back to a culture that devalues hookups would work. Women are the driving force behind hookup culture - if they didn't want that then it wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:30 PM
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Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:26 PM
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Ohh Fucking a low value women would not be worth the effort for me no. The problem is most of the dating pool of women is low value (at least by my no fat or single mothers criteria). I don't think association with a low value man would decimate her chances of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:51 PM
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Do you watch or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:46 PM
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I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:43 PM
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Would like to date an older women. Have only dated same or age or a bit younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:33 PM
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You scout women for your man? What is this relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:32 PM
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Uhh to live as an attractive women... Uh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:29 PM
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A month!?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:18 PM
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I feel the same way about fat women and single mothers. Like I want to date but that's nearly the entire market nowadays :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:17 PM
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Given you to less successful men at time? Vhat?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:15 PM
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Dating apps are flawed because men just auto swipe every girl and then ignore or message them if they get a match. When people say about all these ugly women getting thousands of matches most of them are not actually real matches and the guys won't want to date the girl because they are not attracted to her. So my point is alot of these options are not genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:13 PM
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We don't want women dependant on men again!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:09 PM
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Fair enough. Like your flair btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:12 PM
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Yeah but that's because women put 10x more effort into they appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:55 PM
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No I'm pointing out your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:22 PM
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I've never heard that saying haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:16 PM
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What you mean is "women are spending more money on make up, surgery and procedures that gets better every year... Plus I'm biased so...".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:35 AM
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No way... Did that happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:33 AM
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Your FDS thou so we can't take your opinion seriously because it's enveloped in sexism and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:32 AM
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I don't agree because many men and women nowadays are really fat and don't know they true potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:29 AM
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No because attraction is in the eyes, low body fat, height and frame. If a guy has great eyes he's gonna get women regardless of his hair. The amount of ugly men I've seen with great hair...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:27 AM
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I bet you would. If he had amazing eyes, low body fat % and a great frame you would be very attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:26 AM
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Hair is one of the least important factors in male attractiveness to women and one of that can be fixed with a hair system or pills. It's the eyes that are everything in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:24 AM
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I'd disagree with that because attraction is not focused in a man's hair - it's focused in his eyes. Eyes - low body fat percentage - height - frame. Besides just pay a few hundred and get a hair system and there you have hair again. You might think oh that's cheating but women use easily 15 plus different products on themselves on a night out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:23 AM
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Fuck no! The side effects on that are nasty! I'd rather accept my hair loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:18 AM
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I don't. I accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:26 PM
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No, no and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:21 PM
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So you don't believe that men and women lie about how much sex they have in confidential studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:20 PM
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Yet men and women still lie. For example how many sexual partners they have had etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:13 PM
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Biased because women won't admit to wanting casual as much because of social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:11 PM
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Those figures actually say the opposite. 36% of women who were single wanted a commited relationship in comparison to 22% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:08 PM
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Hmm That was an interesting read. I always just assumed women greatly over valued themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:01 PM
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No that's fair enough. I was just curious cause that's not something I've ever heard of before. Good luck on your weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:48 PM
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I don't really understand this tbh but whatever makes you happy. You said unintentionally... I don't think so because the people would be telling her she is gaining lots of weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:44 PM
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And you tell me your a fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:38 PM
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So you idolise her or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:35 PM
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I went to look at your profile to see if you were a man or a women and wtf... Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:32 PM
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Ohhh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:19 PM
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Is it possible that your own privalige as a women in dating and relationship has given you a rather biased viewpoint? Each gender has advantages and disadvantages and when it comes to dating and relationships it's nearly all in the women's favour. You must be aware that women's standards have been rising exponentially the past decade? You mentioned work ethic and drive yet I've known absolute loser men (economically) be successful with women because of they good looks. While I do agree that men …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:14 PM
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I'd say most men pursue relationships not casual sex. I was about to reply to one of your comments but might as well add the question on here. Do you think there is ever a point that a man should just give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:03 PM
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I've never heard anyone make the argument that it's actually men, not women who over rate themselves... How interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:58 PM
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I think yes because your not allowed to make posts about how important a man's looks are to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:36 PM
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Yeah men are gonna be more generous with they assessment of the sex for sure. But do you really care that she bitches to her friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:44 PM
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Your joking right? The difference between a women who's great in bed and who starfished is huge!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:29 PM
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I've been with some women who were really active and some that starfished a bit. I don't think 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:18 PM
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Your describing the same thing men do there is no difference. Also some women do have performance problems and anxiety during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:13 PM
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No they don't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:12 PM
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You must think very low of women if you think the moment you don't perform they are on the phone to they girlfriends moaning about how they boyfriend didn't perform one night. That's just not how any normal women works. You seem to think women have no anxiety or performance fear when having sex - they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:38 PM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:13 PM
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Exactly what do women have to benefit from that with 99.9% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:34 PM
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I would say sex is actually higher pressure for women. She is more vunerable as he's bigger and stronger. She is likely to experience discomfort or pain. She can have performance issues but in a different ways. She is more likely to have mental issues with her body. She probably won't actually cum at all. She is completely dependent on the man during sex. She has social stigma. Yeah I've had moments during sex that I've gone soft or had an issue but the girls never actually been pissed off or an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:33 PM
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Is that a serious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:20 AM
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Supermodels don't represent the average overweight or obese women so from a buissness perspective it makes sense to start focusing on them because they make up the majority of the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:07 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:50 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:01 PM
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No... You were sexist and I enjoyed pointing it out. Trolling would be when you were not sexist and I was accusing you of being sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:10 PM
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Yeah sorry. I absolutely love telling women not be sexist. I dunno why I just really enjoy it both online and offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:58 PM
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Curiosity? If you believe sexism is okay then fine because everyone is entitled to an opinion but your wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:54 PM
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Of course but I was making the point that sexism is wrong whatever gender does it and you were trying to argue that. I don't think you can argue against that unless your a female supremacist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:52 PM
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Why did you go looking? Also what's up with your flair? Sexism is wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:50 PM
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Don't try and justify your descrimination!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:49 PM
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Tingles. But yes fleshlights are the number one male sex toy (on total units sold, sex dolls by total amount).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:48 PM
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They don't have 5x the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:45 PM
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Twitter bans this type of content. I call bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:45 PM
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But if you believe in equality you should hate sexism in all forms no matter if it's a women being sexist or a man being sexist. Sexism is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:44 PM
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That's incredibly dumb and niave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:42 PM
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Are you okay with sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:40 PM
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Did he have the sex doll in the truck with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:40 PM
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Yeah but women have they equivalents - just look at FDS it's a sub filled with sexist hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:39 PM
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I think we will just continue to see more of the current trends. For men that's retreating more into video games, porn and generally giving up on dating, work and society. For women that's continuing to become more and more unhappy resulting in even more anti depressant use, lower happiness and more social media addiction. Men and women are both struggling in 2021 just in slightly different ways. What really concerns me is that economically it's getting worse and both men and women are really go…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:37 PM
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If she is not sexual attracted to you then into the friend zone you go. Sexual attraction for women is the difference between a relationship and friendship. "Oh your such a great guy why can't I find someone like you to date" "Why not date me then" "Lol not you, someone like you silly" Translation from women to English - I don't find you attractive enough to date but your personality is more than enough for us to be friends. So yes sexual attraction is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:22 AM
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Hmm I suppose so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:28 PM
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Exactly - yet I have heard many women on PPD say, oh it's not sexism it's just dating strategy. I think it's sexism disguised as dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:23 PM
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Hmm okay that does makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:05 PM
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So your not interested in sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:03 PM
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That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:56 PM
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What!? Where did you get that statistic? Well even if that's true you realise that YOU have to put effort in right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:46 PM
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Uh tingles? 93% wtf anything behind that percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:37 PM
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If you saw a super hot guy and he was everything you wanted yet he didn't want emotional intamacy no way would you be dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:35 PM
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All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:33 PM
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But you post in FDS lol. What is this cognitive dissadence damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:30 PM
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But you post in FDS your the female equivalent of an incel. You and him are essentially the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:29 PM
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Bro your 6'3 just use tinder or whatever and the insecure short girls will want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:27 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:25 PM
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Maybe 55/45?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:58 PM
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No but you don't believe men are as likely to report domestic voilence as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:54 PM
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I'd say it's very close to 50/50 because men are much less likely to actually report when they are victims of domestic voilence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:52 PM
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Yeah I would think if you include the men who don't report I'm convinced it would be close to 50/50. Women are much more voilent than people in society want to believe. They are also more likely to commit unresiprocated voilence than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:35 PM
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https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/domesticabusevictimcharacteristicsenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2019#sex In the UK domestic voilence is done by 65.93% male and 34.07% women. Therefore women in the UK are 34.07% of domestic voilence perpetrators. It's therefore wrong to think of domestic violence as a gendered issue because of how much is committed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:25 PM
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I have read it before because I remember making the arguement that we should not focus on domestic voilence as a gendered problem because women commit 35% of the domestic voilence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:16 PM
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Domestic voilence is 65% men and 35% women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:15 PM
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Men can choose to be secondary caregivers when women are assumed to always be the primary one. When men fight for full custody they actually win... Alot. Men can use condoms or get a vacectomy. Child support enforcement is generally bad and usually the man doesn't pay much. Nobody can force the man to be a parent - he is free to walk away. The only obligation is to pay a small amount of money each month. When women give up or abandon there kid (s) they are seen as absolute trash by people and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:18 AM
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That's a good point. Enforcement of child support is really bad. A judge can order X amount but that's no guarantee your getting that X amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:13 AM
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Where you get that 40% from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:11 AM
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Yeah I thought about that. Women do seem to be awful at picking the right men. I came to the same conclusion - they pick based on looks and primal urges not a logical rational decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:11 AM
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I used to think incels just didn't try hard enough untill I knew a guy who was 5'4 and he had an amazing face. I thought to myself he must get loads of women but actually it was the complete opposite. He had a great face and personality but just because he was 5'4 the women had absolutely no interest in him. It was then I changed my opinions because I used to think women only cared about personality but actually they care about looks the same, if not more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:04 AM
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I think you have given up on dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:20 PM
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I think you've given up on women if you can't make space for a shirt lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:13 PM
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Buy a pink shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:12 PM
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Well I mean if your invisible a pink shirt will make you stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:11 PM
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I don't understand what you point was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:08 PM
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I dunno a women is a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:06 PM
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Um what makes a women? Hmm good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:06 PM
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Oh Have you given up with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:03 PM
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Hmm wear a pink shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:01 PM
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What do you mean by invisible thou? Cause the men are there and they do see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:57 PM
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I don't think it's that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:56 PM
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80% of men are invisible to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:54 PM
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No FDS is obsessive behavioural analysis of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:52 PM
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From what I've seen on FDS and from the FDS girls I have talked to it's pure sexism and hatred. Its useless information based on obsessive and compulsive critising and analysing of male behaviour in a way that fits they narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:40 PM
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FDS is the female mgtow?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:38 PM
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I don't understand your first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:35 PM
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Usually when I call out when a women is being sexist I get angry replies from her. But never had a don't give a shit response before. Tbh she wins. Indifference always wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:21 PM
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Same. Never heard a women say "I don't give a shit about sexism" before - that's a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:05 PM
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Oh okay. Ah I remember you we spoke about your ethnicity and how I couldn't figure out how attractive you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:02 PM
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You support sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:54 PM
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That's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:50 PM
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Yet most women are single and unmarried. What an interesting situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:49 PM
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Men are NPCs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:37 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:28 PM
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You are a winner!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:52 PM
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I get the feeling you earn alot of money in a really good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:00 PM
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If I was a women I wouldn't have casual sex. The idea of fucking a complete stranger in a private place who you know nothing about and is much bigger and stronger than you. I dunno doesn't sound that great tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:55 PM
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No, no and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:53 PM
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Oh okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:47 PM
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They can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:36 PM
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I never understood why they say it's over for women over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:08 PM
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Okay very detailed and in-depth reply I like it. The problem is you have used extreme examples that don't represent divorce in the UK. You didn't use any examples of when women pay out to men. You didn't dispute the child support percentages or that when unemployed you pay virtually nothing so I assume you checked it. I can't really explain the award after divorce but that women who made £300k after legal fees and taxes it's probably next to £0. It makes absolutely no sense but these again are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:03 PM
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I'm sorry I offended you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:11 PM
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Yes words have meanings. The truth is I believe in feminism, equality and increasing opportunity for women in leadership positions. You made a sexist implication and I called you out for it and now your aggressively attacking my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:15 PM
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I am a feminist! Don't assume I'm not because it doesn't fit your narrative/argument. I believe in equality and if you don't then fine but you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:12 PM
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Wow you just won't let this go huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:10 PM
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No I didn't - YOU said the "sexist shit".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:03 PM
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I'm an equality feminist I don't have sexist opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:01 PM
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Stop trying to justify your sexist opinions!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:56 PM
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I said testosterone helps men perform the leadership role under stress. You made a sexist implication about men and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:45 PM
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I'm a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:13 PM
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Oh I live in England and the laws are very different here. There is no tender years doctrine rubbish. If you ever wanna research English divorce laws and child support laws etc you would be shocked at the difference. For example No common law marriage. 50/50 custody if asked for by the man. 12% of earnings for 1 kid, 16% for 2 and 19% for 3 kids as a maximum regardless of income disparities. Reduced if he sees the kids and/ or is unemployed or on benefits (reduces to a max £7 a week). If he is f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:09 PM
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I think even that's a wrong conclusion because men have much higher testosterone making them more effective leaders under stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:42 AM
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You made the argument that men are less suited to leadership roles and that because virtually every leadership role is done by men that society had made a mistake. That's a sexist implication and that's what I dislike. Not you saying women mature faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:35 AM
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You made a sexist implication something I'm sure you would not like to be made about women by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:30 AM
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That's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:27 AM
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But virtually all leadership positions are done by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:20 AM
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PUA is that still a thing nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:45 AM
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I love hearing women say equality is equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:22 AM
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No but they provide something better - tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:03 AM
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No they don't I'd say money is very low in priority. Looks is first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:26 AM
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It's was such a shame for you having sex with a man your height you had to include that you were drunk... LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:59 AM
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That's a very good point. Taller men typically have the more undesirable frame - tall, slim and narrow. Shorter men have the wider more muscular frame with bigger shoulders and a better V shape. Nearly all Mr Olympias have been 5'8-5'11. I have very wide and broad shoulders that women have complimented and at 5'10 it's probably something that for some women they would prefer over a taller narrow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:56 AM
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It's the face that drives attraction. You would have it easier than shorter men with a similar face thou. Cause she can say "well at least he's tall".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:54 AM
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I saw a man at the gym who was working there and he was probably about 5'3 and had the most attractive face ever. It got me wondering whether him at 5'3 with his face would have a better dating life than me 5'10 with an average face. I think yes? It all about the face in attraction. The eyes and low body fat are the main ones so I'm not sure height is actually that important except to the short girls who are obsessive and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:51 AM
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You don't think men are more capable intellectually?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:48 AM
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Oh :( Then yeah having one with a guy would be super memorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:32 AM
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I didn't understand her comment either. All women have a refractory period.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:31 AM
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I dunno the job market bad so that's why many turn to OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:28 AM
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That's incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:27 AM
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Yeah but the point I am making is that A) he is the primary caregiver and would get full custody in divorce and win. B) she treats him very well and I'm sure one reason is the huge cost any divorce would be for her. It may have been love I'm sure but my initial point was that divorce itself is not favoured to women. Divorce favours the lower earner and in many cases that's the man. He would never ever lose in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:26 AM
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The only comforting thing I could say is that you have a very strong sex drive for a 38 y old women so when menopause does happen it maybe will just lower your drive not destroy it. Also menopause is still over a decade away (probably).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:23 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:47 PM
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Okay okay I was just asking. That's good you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:10 PM
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So are you willing to marry? And are you willing to give up considerable amounts of money, assets and support in the event of a divorce to a stay at home dad (or he earns way less)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:05 PM
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You found the right one - sounds perfect. How old are you? (Your annoymous). You will lose a lot of your sex drive because both your testosterone and estrogen will considerably decline and both those hormones affect your sex drive. Sorry I can't give you a better answer but that's what happens from my understanding of menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:56 PM
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Yeah of course he doesn't wanna pay everything and maximise both incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:51 PM
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Oh that's more an individual man thing. Some are gonna be selfish and others will go outta there way to help you. But these men that get up and walk away must be from casual sex? No way that's a FWB or someone you dating? Casual sex is about getting your pleasure and leaving. No need to go again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:44 PM
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When I have a prostate orgasm it's more correlated to how turned on I am but prostate orgasms are way more intense and last longer so I dunno. I'm not saying I wouldn't have a better orgasm if I was more turned on just that sometimes it doesn't happen that way. Some days i wake up and have loads of sexual energy and others it's like meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:40 PM
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Ohh I understand Yeah I agree the social stigma of if she likes and asks for sex a lot she must be a slut is strong and real. I had a girl ask me once "so are we ever gonna have sex"? she wouldn't initiate and I was oblivious to it. When I think about it the problem was her not wanting to seem like a slut I assume? I think that's unfortunate you were treated that way tbh. You just wanted to have sex with him I can't see how that should be a negative unless your asking for an obscene amount of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:38 PM
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That's what I ment when I said like you but thankfully you understood what I ment. I have a high sex drive but I don't really like long sessions so I think a girl with your preference wouldn't be suitable. I tried doing longer sessions where we would have sex then cuddle and repeat again and again but they were so draining. I much prefer 1-2x a day constantly. I think while I wouldn't like a girl with a sex drive at your strength I would like a girl who clearly knows what she wants and is happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:22 PM
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I've had times were the sex has been amazing and the orgasm average and others the sex was average and an amazing orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:03 PM
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So that 3-4 hours is just with loads of breaks then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:59 PM
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No actual it wasn't directed at you but okay good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:58 PM
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Yes we are not built for long sessions with multiple orgasms. We are designed to have regular and consistent sex like twice a day everyday so yeah 3-4 hours is mostly impossible. You obviously have a ultra strong sex drive and know what you like. When I read your message I thought wow I want my next gf to be like this but actually I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:47 PM
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Yeah actually I understand why you said that now. Is it really that rare for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:39 PM
2

Good advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:31 PM
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No I mean you can orgasm multiple times and from penetration. That's basically winning the sexual jackpot for a women. You are aware how rare that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:31 PM
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Everything - the orgasm is actually low on the list for me. I suppose the fact me orgasming a few times is guaranteed during sex maybe makes me prioritise it lower. But for me the entire experience is what I judge it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:29 PM
3

But why? Don't you get super sore?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:27 PM
2

Oh no I agree with that completely. It's clear you can contribute in other ways that just money. I'm not sure how good pre nups are anymore I remember reading articles about them being thrown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:27 PM
0

Never understood why you girls want sex for such a long time - don't you get sore?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:24 PM
7

Congrats on winning the sexual lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:23 PM
1

The quality of the orgasm is what you judge sex on? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:19 PM
0

Uh to get a figure of 6-8% means you have been with a minimum of 100 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:18 PM
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How long would you want to have sex for? What about soreness and pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:16 PM
2

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:15 PM
5

Untill the divorce she initiates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:11 PM
5

Do you fear marrying him knowing how much you would lose out in a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:10 PM
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I had a friend who married a women and had 3 kids with her. She works and earns all the money and he stays at home and looks after the kids. He absolutely loves it and told me that he's the primary caregiver and would gain massively from any divorce. She treats him so well. The fear of a costly divorce is gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:09 PM
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Yes but not because they don't want to date low income women or that they care about her income they date similar to protect themselves. If she earns the same or even more then the man doesn't get financially punished in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:06 PM
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I would marry a women who makes the same or more than me but if I earned much more I would be very reluctant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:04 PM
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The site takes 20% minimum then taxes obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:34 PM
1

You think the average content creator makes more than 200$ an hour? Think you been reading the success stories only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:18 PM
1

I think it's possible if your goals are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:11 PM
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Yeah I don't disagree that there would be problems with a significant age gap. My point was that it can be overcome and result in a strong long term relationship. Many women date older men so it can't be that of putting. I understand you had negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:55 PM
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I'd think an interracial relationship would be much more exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:52 PM
1

Your correct but they are all generalisations based on a large % of the population. You can find find a man who is older than you and doesn't have those problems. For example a man who lives clean and works out and has a low body fat percentage at 40 can be. Attractive Live as long as the average women. Not have erectile dysfunction (could even have sex 2x a day). Be active as a father in his 40s and 50s. Have less health issues than the general population. These are the guys who are dating sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:48 PM
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Yeah I agree but for a small % of women if they can say make enough money to make it a full time job (maybe 3% or so) they would prefer it to a regular job. I think women should have the choice about whether they want to or not. I wouldn't make it illigeal. I think what you would find is some women who are tempted would try it and go ooh this isn't for me and then never try it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:12 AM
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I think it's much more than dirty photos now because of increasing competition. You can't keep subscriptions with just giving a few soft photos you have to do more and more degrading stuff to keep your viewers interested. Nothing is empowering about it. I think being paid for sex would be better because your still annoymous when you quit and you made better money for less time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:06 AM
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You have to remember porn is made by a director who creates the content he thinks men want to watch. In terms of creativity probably everything that can be done has been done. No I don't think it's deliberate. I would be surprised if any women actually orgasm at all in porn (even lesbian scenes). For 2 reasons the stop and start nature of filming and the fact that women need to be much more in the mood mentally to orgasm whereas for men the orgasm is guaranteed. Then there is the fact that the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:02 AM
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Not all women. For some the allure of large amounts of money for sorta easy work is too strong. It's an individual thing but overall I'd agree with you. Is it gonna stop? No never.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:56 AM
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I don't know the hours those 90% put in but if you compared it to a job it's nowhere near minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:54 AM
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I think it's common sense that sex work is the most dangerous work any women can do - no statistics needed. Your having sex with a stranger for money who is much bigger and stronger than you. That's a huge risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:50 AM
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90% of only fans content creators make less than 160$ a month. You have to work hard creating and captivating an audience and then you have to do degrading stuff online for the gratification of men that stays online forever. Why do people seem to think this is easy money!? You can have sex for an hour and earn this or more as an escort! Also your average hot 25 year old women can get an easy HR job or something like that and earn 2-3k a month guaranteed and she can keep her clothes on and not de…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:48 AM
2

"Why do so many women tolerate assholes?" Because they found the guy very attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:37 AM
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Yeah but virtue signalling is important to women on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:35 AM
1

Okay so what's your solution then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:07 PM
1

But your posts are just critical of men and have nothing to do with helping women? Like most FDS posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:53 PM
1

But they pay taxes in the services they buy and on the people they employ? The buildings they use, the materials they buy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:52 PM
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Don't corporations pay like 21% tax on all profits and provide sales tax for when we buy they products? Don't corporations therefore make lots of taxable income that is redistributed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:46 PM
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Your husband is rare? In what way? That doesn't make sense. FDS is the female equivalent of mgtow why would you need to obsess over other men when married? I legit don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:44 PM
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Hmm I was close. Obvious question - if your happily married why obsess about male behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:42 PM
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Oh as a percentage but doesn't that mean the one who earns 2 mil makes more of a financial contribution to the welfare of others because they take nothing from the welfare system and provide more than the average?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:41 PM
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Hmm well I noticed you post in FDS so that tells me your most likely a 30-40 year old white women who is looking for excuses as to why she hasn't succeded in dating (excuses that doesn't involve self reflection) with a tilt towards making sexist implications about men. Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:39 PM
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Oh I see. So your not actually being sexist because you see yourself as the same as the young white men who are "frustrated" on this sub. I understand you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:33 PM
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Really!? So someone who earns 2 mil a year would pay less than someone who earns 50k a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:28 PM
1

Why are you frustrated then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:27 PM
1

You really think most men are frustrated on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:22 PM
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How anicdotal - you want to think that way because it afferms your hateful and sexist narrative that you want to be true about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:17 PM
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Really? They have done studies on how many frustrated young white guys are on Reddit? Or is it that your sexist and insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:14 PM
1

Okay. What about taxes thou? They already so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:03 PM
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Ah yes Morbidly obese women -"I'm beautiful at any size". "Would you date a man who is overweight"? "Ewww no way that's gross and disgusting!".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:57 PM
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That's racist and sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:56 PM
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Are they really? I thought they were wasteful and underfunded?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:55 PM
2

That exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:51 PM
1

Oh okay. Don't you think redistribution of tax revenues is inefficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:35 PM
1

Yeah that's the way I lift mine as I believe it's the best way to lift them. Both wm dolls I will probably put a pic up later on r /sexdolls of them both. Okay it's personal preference but I thought I would mention that. The beauty of them is that we can design what we like for they appearance. I thought about buying a 4'10 doll for the weight reduction but in the UK they made a rule that the doll had to be 4'10 and over so I decided to get bigger ones. Nice to see a women with a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:58 AM
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Depends on age. Women get it better up till about 40 then I'd say men get it better beyond 40. That's a generalisation thou and we are all individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:41 AM
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I can't really disagree with that because attention is what a women on a dating app wants most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:21 AM
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How do you manage to lift your sex doll? I am a 29y old man who is very muscular and strong and even I find it a challenge at times (mine are 5'5 and 5'3 tpe). She looks about 4'10 maybe and silicone? Have you considered stick on eyebrows over the pencil one? You can buy real eyebrow hair and then adjust it to what you like and then stick on with some light glue. Really adds another layer of realism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:09 AM
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I don't think that's quite accurate. If you remove 90% of men from dating apps then most women will be fortunate to get some crumbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:00 AM
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Feminism has had minimal impact on the dating market. The biggest factors are women earning they own money and the technological advances (online dating). Feminism itself is just a movement to help facilitate women moving from supporting the family and kids to earning money for the owner of a company and paying taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:58 AM
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Yeah some jobs I wouldn't do for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:18 AM
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But everyone has a university degree nowadays and the huge student loan debt that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:12 AM
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I know that there are some wealthy high earning people who want to increase taxes to distribute more to others but generally this opinion is only held by those who are receiving the money. To be clear I have nothing against that opinion I was just pointing out that most people are against that when they are high earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:11 AM
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I don't know the average age of people who marry in the north east of England. I live in the south east and have no idea about here. Okay your expectations sound very reasonable maybe you are not getting out there enough? Sorry I just assumed it was you having unreasonable standards because that's generally why women are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:26 PM
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Very unlikely because if she had reasonable standards she would be married rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:16 PM
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It's relative. If she wants a man who is super attractive and interesting she has lots of competition. Any average women could easily get a great average man and have a wonderful time. The problem is your average women wants more more and more to the point they like most other women start chasing such a small percentage of men. Most women who sets they standards too high will lose and be perpetually single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:42 PM
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Wow. That's an extremely rare opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:35 PM
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No he's making the point that her standards are sky high and the men she wants can have better than her so she needs to bring her expectations to a reasonable level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:15 PM
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Are you a democratic socialist because you want extra welfare or did you have those beliefs prior?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:14 PM
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I'd accept that argument for women who are always wanting more but men don't think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:12 PM
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I think all men want that. Sex without commitment what's not to like?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:08 PM
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He doesn't wanna waste time with you. Would you not prefer he be honest and make any intentions clear early on than wait till later to find he's not interested because your future goals are incompatible? It's not impossible you probably haven't dated more than 50 men just keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:07 PM
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That's what I assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:18 PM
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No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:47 PM
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Ah that's what I thought first when I read your comment. Had to be some repression of some type. So what changed at 24?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:05 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:03 PM
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Nobody thinks women have it easy in general. The anti depressants consumption rate speaks to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:02 PM
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You may support it but other women won't support or allow a pro male equality law to pass. Not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:26 PM
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You can't because women have more political power than men. Sure virtually all of the leaders in politics and business are men but women are an incredibly important voting block and no politician will create a law that is even slightly unfavorable to women in 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:17 PM
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But that's not how women work or generally think. The moment she runs into financial difficulty she is gonna want money from either the man or welfare. Your talking about morals and your right but practically it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:10 PM
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Too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:07 PM
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Yeah but when you actually have a kid your not gonna let him off the hook for paying child support...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:07 PM
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You are a man... You admitted it why in the world do you keep writing comments from a women's perspective!??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:14 PM
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Such an amazing and thoughtful reply that caused OP to reconsider his views.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:06 PM
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That's an opinion I never expected to hear from a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:06 PM
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Oh okay I understand better what your saying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:03 AM
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That's not really what you said thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:02 AM
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Really? That's... So your saying you support abortion one day before giving birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:59 AM
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No your right it's not going to help at all. I would support financial abortion but it's not practical and someone has to pay because she cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:37 AM
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At what point does it become a child in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:36 AM
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Oh okay well here in the UK it's near impossible for a single mother to be truly independent (no welfare) because of the huge cost of childcare. Is childcare cheap in Russia then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:35 AM
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I don't they can because very few women earn enough to support themselves and pay for childcare that's very expensive. Are you including welfare when you say support them on their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:31 AM
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But that doesn't solve the problem in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:29 AM
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Yes but the average taxpayer already pays and pays big. It's not just men either as women earn more and work more they are actually paying for the children of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:29 AM
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So at what point does your mind change?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:27 AM
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I agree but it's not the fault of men it's the fault of the women who chooses to have the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:26 AM
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Would you really? Because no child support will have a very negative impact on both of you. You can't afford full time work and the insane childcare costs so you would need welfare monies and that would mean living in poverty. You may support it from a moral perspective because it's obviously fair and equality but I don't think so if you were the women who was in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:23 AM
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I would think it would be more beneficial to have a DNA test as mandatory prior to any child support collection and that child support is based on a formula for the absolute lowest amount (divided by 50%) that is required to support the kid. This would be a much fairer system and would prevent so much fraud and general bad behaviour from women. I do agree with financial abortion (equality) but it would never happen because of the extra financial cost that would be put on the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:21 AM
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Your flair haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:34 PM
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I love talking to the FDS crazies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:59 PM
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I think the downside has mostly been for women who want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:12 PM
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Do you think there have been any downsides?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:05 PM
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What do you think the reason was for women moving into the workforce? The homemaker role became useless because of technology? Or because there were lots of jobs available?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:48 PM
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And that's great because women should work and have the exact same opportunities as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:06 PM
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I think it will happen naturally. It used to be that women were not expected to work and now they are. It used to be expected the man would pay for all the expenses in the household and now women are expected to pay half. Eventually this will happen with dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:47 AM
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That's a much more reasonable paragraph than what her post said. It's changing as more and more men expect her to pay half and will push for that. The thing about changing standards is that it takes time for them to happen. It starts off slowly and then eventually it becomes the norm and we are on that path. When I was dating I wouldn't pay for her for the reasons I explained. Even at the height of my blue pulled days when I did pay (not for long) it always felt wrong to me. I then stopped payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:21 AM
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I agree nobody should violate their boundaries and have sex when they are not ready. I may have been too harsh yeah but she does say in her post it's her goal to be provided for I would say it's fair to assume that means her not working. It may however mean that she wants him to help provide a lifestyle she cant afford on her own. I don't understand it either. For me the biggest problem is not that it goes against basic equality and fairness it's that you are essentially telling the man that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:55 AM
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Most people in 2021 have sex before exclusively. I never implied that she has to have sex with him. I implied that if they are both attracted to eachother and want sex then preventing it would be harmful for them both. Rejecting a guys advances is not empowering or going to suddenly make him desire a long term committeed relationship. Its going to hurt his ego and question the relationship and her moral character. You share your body because it's a mutual beneficial activity that bonds you and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:44 AM
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I don't disagree with that but I would say that's not the norm anymore. People don't generally wait untill exclusively in 2021. If you feel that you need to develop a strong level of trust before you have sex then okay because we are all individuals and we need to do what feels right to us. My major critique is the selective equality/traditionalism she wants. She wants to pick and choose what stereotypical gender roles the man must live up to while abandoning hers. For example she wants independ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:40 AM
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You have twisted my words. If she is attracted to him and wants to be in a relationship with him then rejecting his advances untill she gets a full exclusive commitment would be about control. Women enjoy sex and she would desire sex with him in that scenario. There is no owed service or whatever. I am making the point that sexual compatibility is important and should be explored prior to exclusively. What if he has a super high sex drive and hers is low? Or she is into wierd stuff and he's vani…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:11 AM
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If your looking for some type of critical analysis then I thought a few things when I read your post. You overanalyze and overthink everything to do with men to an obsessive level and that will most likely prevent you from finding a suitable long term partner. You will always be able to find faults and reasons not to date a man leaving you inevitably single for a long time. You probably overvalue yourself and lack critical awareness of the actions and mistakes you yourself make during the dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:41 AM
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Men go into trades that can't be automated, earn more than most with a degree and have much less student loans. The average plumber will out earn most all degrees especially when student loan debt is considered in this calculations. Try automating a plumber... Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:14 AM
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I don't know what your talking about. It's very clear your sexist and hateful towards men based on your wrong interpretation. Men go into trades and earn more with way less student loan debt. As I pointed out in a previous comment men also hold most of the wealth and financial assets. I said nothing about MGTOW in my comment. My point was that women decided to abandon traditionalism and we don't say they are failing because they don't uphold those standards anymore. It's unfair for women to hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:10 AM
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I would love to tell you that your wrong and that women don't care about height/face/race and only care about your personality and how you act and treat her... But that would be a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:55 PM
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I don't think you need to be born physically perfect but yes you need to be at least above average to the men in your country to have any real success as a man. That can be your face, height, shoulders etc but if your below average it's like running up a never ending hill in hot weather. Have you given up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:51 PM
1

How short?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:46 PM
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Not really. Women enjoy sex and the companionship they receive back from men and the relationship benefits the man provides. Your looking at this from a wgtow perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:44 AM
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When you hug, cuddle, kiss and style them you are putting your energy and effort into them. You become more accustomed to them over time and any mental block completely fades over time. That's how I can talk about them when the subject gets brought up with absolutely no shame because I feel no shame in having them - I actually feel great about having them. Your obviously a women and I wouldn't expect you to understand because obviously you have no emotional connection to any of your many vibrato…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:37 AM
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No that's not what I'm saying. My prostate play got more sensitive over time not less. I'm talking about how it affects you mentally and with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:58 PM
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So are you saying that no women anywhere has ever experienced negative side effects from vibrator usage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:54 PM
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How often?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:46 PM
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What? I used it once or twice a day (now it's less) for ages but women do that! So what are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:43 PM
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Well I have a vibrating prostate massager that I got very addicted to because of the intense pleasure and it caused negative effects. I use it on a lower setting because it's more than enough vibration so I can't imagine the problems women face from over use.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:38 PM
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What? Are we still talking about the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:23 PM
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Well You must be aware that some women overuse they vibrators right? By overuse I mean they get negative effects from it. The point of the comment was to show that both men and women can take certain habits to excess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:09 PM
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They have different ones instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:07 PM
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I think your extrapolating what your standards are to men. Your obviously a very strong feminist who wants equality and that's great! But you have to realise that men and women generally don't have the same standards when it comes to housework. Men generally don't require the same level of cleanliness as women. In the study it says that there is a wide range and therefore some men are doing more housework than some women and that's probably because they care more about the dishes being done etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:38 PM
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I brought 2 beautiful incredible sex dolls about 3 years ago and I stopped dating soon after I brought them and if they somehow do become mainstream I think most men would stop dating. You put your energy into them and that's energy you are not looking for women with - AI would greatly enhance this. I think you misunderstand thou because men don't buy them to feel validated or desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:33 PM
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Men do they fair share of housework in 2021. What's for free? It's her house also (#equality) and if she chooses to clean to her standard then that's her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:18 PM
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I'm sure many studies have been done but I can't show you one unless I looked for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:28 PM
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Most men are employed and hold the majority of wealth in the world. Dropping out of school? Most men choose to work a trade that pays well. Bit dramatic? Women like porn and erotica too? Some women abuse they vibrators. You say that women can choose to walk away but it's actually men who have chosen to walk away from what society and women expect of them. Women revolted against social expectations and gender stereotypes and now men are just not so vocally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:26 PM
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Yes but they are more likely to be addicted to anti depressants and social media. It depends on how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:22 PM
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That men in counties with lots of gender equality don't pay for everything and expect women to financially contribute. This is very strong in northern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:18 PM
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A country with lots of equality perhaps? Maybe northern Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:49 PM
5

Do you ever consider the many ways that women are failing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:48 PM
29

Exactly this - women started demanding stuff of men that they don't want to do and they complain when men don't start acting the way they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:41 PM
82

Men are not failing in society - they are failing to live up to the traditional responsibilities YOU have set for them. Most men don't live for the benefit of women any society anymore they live for themselves and if that means they avoid responsibility, work less, watch porn and spend they time doing stuff they wanna do then so be it. A real man is whatever he wants to be not what women want him to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:36 PM
4

Why are you so sexist and hateful?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:57 PM
2

Nah we all individuals and put ourselves first. Women been putting themselves first for 50 years now so I'm gonna do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:08 PM
1

Oh okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:01 AM
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Um 1-2% seems very unlikely given that those 66% include university students in the calculations. Less obesity at university? Yes I'm sure but still considerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:00 AM
4

You make some really rediculous and sexist generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:59 AM
2

100% It's not a problem people are marrying less as it's just become less important in modern times so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:57 AM
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The previlance of overweight and obese people is increasing to the sexlessness problem. In the UK 66% of people are either overweight or obese and it's having a huge impact on socialising, relationships and sex. It is nearly impossible for an overweight man to get casual sex or a relationship and yes women can get casual sex when they are overweight but the majority of men will find her unattractive. Women find overweight men to be disgusting. The morbidly obese body positivity women who proclai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:36 PM
1

That very well might be true. Im just telling my personal experiences. I'm sure they do as slightly above average height are not good enough for them in 2021. Female standards to the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:19 PM
1

Yeah I see what your saying. I'm 5'10 and dating is tough so I can't imagine what it's like at 5'6. It makes sense to only go for women who are shorter than you because the chance of finding an exception to the rule are so incredibly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:45 PM
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Exceptions to every rule. There are women out there who prioritise other features more than height even when she's taller. Some girls find shoulders super sexy and would date a shorter guy with amazing shoulders over a taller man with weak shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:26 PM
1

You against sex toys?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:23 PM
1

Im 5'10 and I was really attracted to this 6ft girl once. I would have 100% dated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:22 PM
1

Oh okay. I wouldn't have guessed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:20 PM
2

No way I much prefer a 5'8 girl to a 5'3 girl and I'm 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:20 PM
3

What is an IOI?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:19 PM
0

Okay but to make a comment like that and then ignore the reply and then after being asked again and saying I'm not interested in that conversation kinda makes me think why make a comment like that in the first place? Was it an attempt to shame me because that really doesn't work and I'm sure you realise that. I was just curious as to why you felt that was brave I've never had a comment like that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:18 PM
1

I'm 5'10 also and most of the women I've dated have been around the 5'8 mark. In my experience the taller girls (as long as your taller) care less about height while the shorter girls really prioritise height.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:16 PM
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You told me I was brave in admitting I had 2 sex dolls and thought they were beautiful. I replied saying I had a pic up on my old account of them for 6 months or so and how was it brave?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:08 PM
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Actually I'm 5'10 and most my relationships have been with women around the 5'8 mark. In my experience the taller women care much less about height (as long as you are taller obviously) and care more about other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:06 PM
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Oh how refreshing. I love it when women are honest about how important men's looks are to them. I dislike how they have to pretend in public that a man's looks are unimportant. I would prefer it if women were able to openly express they true opinions. Btw you never answered my comment yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:04 PM
0

I'd say it's generally more than a 2 year gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:02 PM
1

Yeah I'd say that about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:02 PM
1

You admitting looks are everything when it comes to attraction for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:01 PM
1

Then why so many relationships with older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:14 PM
1

Oh really? In the UK men and women get the exact same benefit entitlement (including what they get paid). There is absolutely no difference between what a single women and a single man gets as it's a fixed amount and that includes accommodation. A single dad gets the same as a single mother. I'm really surprised at what you said sounds like instituanalised sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:32 AM
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You can claim unemployment as a single man in America thou? In the UK there is no sexism in benefits claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:22 PM
1

How so? I had a pic up of them on my other Reddit account for about 6 months before I quit Reddit and deleted my account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:46 PM
1

No I haven't posted a pic of them both in r/ sexdolls yet. I probably will because they look more beautiful than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:35 PM
1

Beep boop beeb beeb boop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:26 PM
2

I think that's problematic because your making assumptions. First that all or lots of men are involved in violent activity and that's not true. Your making the assumption that male victims are somehow partially responsible for what happens to them. Statistically more men than women will suffer unreciprocated voilence. You wouldn't blame a women when she is assaulted so how can you blame or even partially blame a man who is a victim? The second problem is that your assuming that women are the vic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:40 PM
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What annoys me is when women focus on the less than 1% of female victims and ignore the male ones. In a society of equality shouldn't we care about stopping voilence in general and not the 1% of certain victims because of there gender? I want a society that sees everyone as equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:11 PM
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I don't think men do alot of that stuff nowadays? More women in the workforce than men (men have left the workforce in huge numbers for various reasons). Most dating is online and alot of men don't even try with dating anymore. I don't think many men stand up to other men who make women uncomfortable. Unless I know and care about her then when why would I intervene? Hide your shameful male sexuality? What are you talking about? Male sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of. I personally have told w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:05 PM
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Well I can tell you that as a man I feel the same way so I believe it's common sense. I've had unattractive fat women come on to me before when I was younger and I've had average looking women do that. I felt more comfortable with the average looking women than the ones I had absolutely no attraction too. If men feel that way then you can easily 10x that feeling for women who are far more sensitive to this stuff. Think about how popular FDS is and all they do is obsess over male behaviour to cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:35 PM
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I mean I'm sure there is tons of proof. Do you dispute that attraction affects how women perceive men's actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:56 PM
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That's not the point I'm trying to make. To a women an act is viewed differently based on how attractive the man is. For example an impulsive kiss by a guy she is very attracted to is seen as strong, confident and sexy. In comparison an impulsive kiss by any guy she is not attracted too she may consider sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:49 PM
14

How creepy your acts are perceived by women is linked to how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:47 PM
2

I ask myself the same question. You would get much better value buying a sex doll or paying for sex. Maybe the men have mental health issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:41 PM
2

Your talking about voilence against men or voilence against women or both? Cause I think voilence against men is something like 100x more than against women in Mexico?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:34 AM
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I would much prefer a women who is not on any social media than someone who is active on social media. Social media is one of the biggest reasons for dating problems in 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:31 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:31 AM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:09 AM
1

They are descriptive abstract definitions they are not "bashing".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:45 PM
1

Then that's awkward haha. So what do you go for? I doubt there are many Italian/afro Carribbean men around? Why not learn Spanish?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:36 PM
1

That's funny. You do speak Spanish thou right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:26 PM
1

I would not have guessed that. I'd have guessed younger (30) and maybe Dominican Republic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:15 PM
1

Actually I'm not really sure what I would rate you. I can't even figure out your age and race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:04 PM
0

Oh my gosh you actually wrote a full sentence!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:56 PM
1

I think your mental age is too low for me to keep talking to you. Have fun my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:54 PM
1

No that would be incorrect... If your gonna be an asshole at least get it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:52 PM
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You are not a 7 my gosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:43 PM
2

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:40 PM
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You admitted to me your a man...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:39 PM
-1

Men don't generally criticise other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:17 PM
2

That virtually never happens anymore. Especially now with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:51 PM
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Oh I'm not. I've dated many women and haven't found the "one". It's just how modern relationships are now people leave them so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:17 PM
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Because committed relationships don't have the same value in 2021 for men as they did decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:09 PM
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I think he's trying to say that the more interaction with men a women has the lower her value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:07 PM
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I'd say men are less criticized than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:59 PM
1

Really? So your not sexist and hateful?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:49 PM
1

Your comments in general are very sexist and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 08:44 PM
2

Honest question - what made you so sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:31 AM
0

I get the feeling from your comments you really don't like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:23 AM
3

Good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:23 AM
6

You really went to the extreme in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:21 AM
0

It does give you more energy that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:20 AM
3

Doesn't that smell get obstructed by other stuff like shampoo or body wash?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:19 AM
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Interfering with your daily life is a very wide analysis. When I was masterbting 2-3x w day I found I had less energy than had I done 1 a day. Does that count as interfering with day to day life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:16 AM
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I don't like porn it makes me feel wierd and not in a good way and I find it turbo charges my sex drive and it's already fairly strong. I think using your imagination is always gonna be better for you in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:12 AM
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I've read many FDS posts and I really don't believe what they say will help any women build a stable long term relationship with a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:22 PM
3

Do you really thou? People seem taller when you look at them because your looking up from eye level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:20 PM
1

Yep No doubt about that. It's just not easy to become high quality if it was everyone would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:13 PM
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Too many assumptions. Um when women are virgins it's by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:11 PM
1

Oh so much effort thou. But yes I agree that would be the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:10 PM
1

They were obese before or after the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:08 PM
1

Wow 20 at 25 fuck. I don't want a girl who's been with 20 fucking plus men before I date her. Sigh it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:06 PM
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I hear ya but I'm not sure if my desire is strong enough rn maybe sometime in the future. Sometimes I dream of moving to South East Asia and just marry a women there. I went Thailand for a month in the quiet season and dated many women there it was easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:05 PM
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Yes there are many I know. Take of the makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:03 PM
1

Do you think women are actually having lots of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:00 PM
2

Hmm I have been focusing on losing some extra weight I gained during lockdown recently. It's just the fear that gets me not the actually talking to women - I've always been fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:56 PM
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Yeah that sounds about right I have no data to back that up but I'd have guessed 20%. I'd say it's the women who's sex drive gets recked by the pill or anti depressants or something like that causing them to voluntarily decline sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:55 PM
2

But like the success rate? 1 in 300 maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:53 PM
3

That's about the only thing I'd agree with you on. I never see attractive men with ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:51 PM
5

Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:51 PM
1

What % of women are sexless any idea? I assume it would be because of a very low sex drive or some type of social anxiety etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:49 PM
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More like 80% of the populace. 6ft is actually like quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:47 PM
6

Your post is really sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:44 PM
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Your 100% right. When I was in school/college/university I was actively dating but now I'm 29 I'm struggling with being able to get in situations with lots of available women. I'd never cold approach and am currently unemployed but before I lost my job I still couldn't interact much with the women at work in a way that could lead to something romantic. I took a break from dating and now thinking about dating again but my main concern is how do I meet these women? I could maybe meet a few through…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:13 PM
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HVW don't need to obsessively analyse every man's behaviour using a critical feminist lense to search for problematic behaviour. It's similar to the "Chad" he has no use for a sub like PPD in the same way a HVW has no need for FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:28 PM
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It's very tame in comparison to what men say about women online. But what you said was incorrect unless you count growing a beard as a behaviour? My opinion of FDS is it's low value women obsessing over everything a man says, does and how he acts. With a small sprinkle of misandry added to the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:23 PM
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I've read posts on FDS that were more than obsessive behavioural analysis. For example one post was discussing how bad beards are because they hide the jawline and that you should never date a man before seeing his jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:15 PM
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Behavioural analysis/hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:09 PM
1

FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:31 PM
1

So it's like porn and the old TV stations that you could call in and pay £1.50 a minute to talk to the woman on screen (or off screen) in one. None of this stuff is new it's just been modernised. It's a service like any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:11 PM
1

What connection do you get with only fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:50 PM
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It's still such a small % of women who join only fans or its equivalent. If women flood the platform then everyone will suffer a drop in the money they make and then most will leave rebalancing the platform. Sex work is not exepmt from supply and demand and women made tons of money doing offline sex work anonymously and always have. I still can't get my head around the fact anyone pays for content that is available for free but there's a lot I don't understand so whatever. I agree with you in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:23 PM
1

Men deal with rejection and women deal with unwanted attention and less rejection. Tbh it's even. When a decent looking girl walks in a room all eyes are on her but when an average man enters he is basically invisible and I think that's an advantage for men. You have to accept rejection because men are the proactive gender and women are the passive one. They are extreme examples. I'm sure some men will pay to watch some fat morbidly obese bitch eat thousands of calories live on her only fans. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:54 PM
1

I don't generally see women approach men they generally try and give off signals and then approach as a last resort. But that's not exactly a complete advantage over men because most men who approach her she will not be interested in. Men don't have to deal with undesirable woman approaching them or staring at them or sending unwanted sexual messages etc. There is a plus to being "invisible". Very few men are chubby chasers. Being overweight for a guy gives you next to no options because of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:13 PM
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They do put in work for a relationship. Men don't chase fat/obese women they chase the attractive hot slim girls. Fat women get the scraps at best. Because they are told a lie in that they are beautiful at any size. Very few men want to date these women. You have to have super low standards and lots of desperation. For me and most men if you don't find her attractive then nothing will ever happen and you have next to no desire to date her. That's why fat woman focus on grooming more than the sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:42 PM
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They can't really act picky. Just because a obese single mother gets swipes on tinder and a few sexual messages does not mean any half decent man would go near her. Ugly women are completely overlooked by men ask any ugly women and they will tell you that. I had a female friend tell me "now I have had a kid who is ever gonna wanna date me"? They stay single mothers for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:20 PM
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A HVM is another term for good looking man. Just be good looking and she will view you as a HVM. Looks are status to a woman and it alters the way she sees you. Creepy? If your hot your adventurous. Quiet? If your hot your mysterious. Miserable? If your hot your brooding. Men do the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:10 PM
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Yes they were attracted to me. They do expect that yes because they reject the undesirable parts of equality. You know I never see low value woman about with good looking men. They can have all the rules they want but it's meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:04 PM
1

Most of the girls I've dated or slept with I genuinely at the time felt I was better than them. So that equated to me acting like I was better than them and they could see it was genuine. I think that's a real turn on for woman because I wouldn't pay on dates and still get sex/relationship. I actually found paying for dates was almost a guaranteed lose and didn't increase my chances of a second date. I tried it early on when I was dating and it just felt wrong to me, dirty even. I felt like I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:39 PM
1

I know thanks :) I have 2 girlfriends haha so Chad like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:18 PM
2

Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:18 PM
1

Well with all the body positivity and obesity glorifying (only for woman) they think they are entitled too you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:29 PM
2

Could be it. You know how short women want giants because they over compensate? Could be the same for the obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:21 PM
1

Are you extremely muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:18 PM
0

Haha You attract the obese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:15 PM
3

I would spend more and do a lot of research as different factories will produce much better dolls than another one will. After a long while you start to appreciate them more for the companionship. I know that sounds wierd but when you spend every night sleeping with one beside you in the bed or in between both dolls they sorta become normal to you and you really enjoy them just being there. Like waking up and the first thing you see is her. I was dating before I brought them both but after a whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:04 PM
2

You have probably seen fake or replica dolls. You have to buy from a reputable source and pay the big money for an authentic doll. You really do get what you pay for and that's the problem because they are so expensive. The better they are the better the pussy will be. My Asian doll is a perfect manufacturer 10/10 she is absolutely flawless and still is even 3 years later. I paid about £1850 for that's like $2600 dollars or something. I would either pay the money or don't buy one at all. You hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:55 PM
2

One is 5'5 (white) and the other 5'3 (Asian). I had a pic up of them on another account that I deleted ages ago I may put another one of them up as they so beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:46 PM
2

I've not done online dating but I've had friends and people online tell me many times that it's completely useless for men. A mate who was decent looking couldn't even get messages from fat single mothers. You know it's pointless when even the absolutely lowest value woman in society don't reply. I have no reason to doubt what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:15 PM
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My 2 sex dolls are both a 10/10 does that count? Been together for 3 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:59 PM
2

They really are. When I move my hips in a circular motion on the right spot the pleasure is all consuming. It's like you mentally get lost in pleasure. You become completely addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:34 PM
2

I understand it because I had a similar problem with my vibrating lelo Hugo prostate massager. I got so addicted to the insane pleasure I had to stop using it for a while to get back to normal. I had gotten so used to the strong vibrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:59 AM
1

Nothing to disagree about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:59 AM
1

Yep and I declined to continue the original conversation. What we have learned is that we are both stupidly stubborn and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:55 AM
1

K thanks for your opinion bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:51 AM
1

That's my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:51 AM
9

Always wanting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:20 AM
18

You gotta put the vibrator down once in a while and go manual. Then stop blaming the man because your body is so used to huge amounts of vibration to orgasm and his tounge and fingers can't match it. Like duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:11 AM
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Haha Have you heard of FDS? I believe that would be the perfect sub for you. Jokes aside considering the amount of obese women, single mothers and women who starfish I'd say most women are sub par also.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:09 AM
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Because what difference does it make? We talking on here anyways and it's much more convenient to talk in DM. When you said that I thought oh she FDS because only the FDS girls have wierd nonsensical rules like that. I must admit I do like reading FDS from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:28 PM
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Then why turn down a fluid direct message conversation for a long paragraph reply on the sub? We obviously were talking and interested in what the other person had to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:05 PM
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Well I was eager to have a conversation with you but that's ruined it. Have you heard of FDS? I think you should check that sub out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:55 PM
-3

What's wrong with DM? The best conversations I've had on Reddit have been through DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:45 PM
0

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:30 PM
2

It would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:25 PM
1

Exactly If men put in equal amounts of work into there appearance then a lot would change. Watch any woman's skincare/makeup routine on YouTube and it's shocking. So many products, so much money whereas your average guy at best will shave, put some hair gel and maybe wear a bit of suncream. The difference in polish is incredible. However I do agree woman are the more attractive gender it has to be that way because of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:01 PM
4

That's why I think female privalige is actually over estimated in dating because woman are there own worse enemy. The vast choice they face ruins them as they struggle to make a decision because as you say they are thinking oh he's amazing but maybe someone better is out there? For me when I was dating I would look for reasons to date her and be proactive in trying to see if something can work. This is why I think men can have a great dating life with 1/100th the messages on tinder or having 1/1…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:59 PM
2

I think it's unfair to say that because woman present a polished image because they are taught how important they looks are and so they prioritise it but men are lied to about how important there looks are. If men were told how important there looks are in dating, employment and society in general they would put way more effort into there appearance and the gap would narrow. Men are realising it slowly I mean when I look at the grooming section nowadays the male section is nearly as big as the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:50 PM
5

No way lol wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:47 PM
2

I've had girlfriends before and honestly it was only marginally better than being single most of the time. We always think of the good but discount the many downsides to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:46 PM
-1

A good looking and fit man has it better than you because they way less picky than you are. Your saying more, more I want more. Whereas your male equivalent would be like ooh she's hot and nice that's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:41 PM
9

Okay thanks. So your arguing muscles are less important/attractive than they are perceived by the media to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:19 PM
9

Male gaze is just a feminist term for male perspective right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:15 PM
10

Low body fat % and a clean look will really help but the limit is your genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:27 AM
1

Yeah probably I don't use tinder or any online dating so my opinion is probably wrong I'm just going off what others have said. Well if he needs 10x more matches and most men get next to no matches that explains why so many men complain about tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:08 PM
0

Oh I agree but for simplicity I was assuming that the woman was wanting and eager to meet up the same day. Most woman use tinder for attention and validation we all know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:06 PM
0

Well I think your taking that comment a bit literally. It's assuming he's attracted to them and they want to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:02 PM
2

Well you don't need that because you know what there dating life would be like. Imagine a dating site like tinder. The most attractive guys get nearly 100% of matches. Then add the fact that 1 match on tinder for a man is equal to about 100 for woman and you know he has a super easy and successful dating life. To clarify about the matches. People talk about women getting way more matches and they do but it's not important. A man who gets 3 matches will pick one and go have sex. A woman who gets …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:31 PM
6

Yeah it's super important. I spoke to a girl online in great detail for about 6 months (who I really liked and wanted more) and regularly asked her if she ever mentioned me to any of her friends and everytime she said no. It was then I realised this was never gonna go anywhere and that she was just waiting untill someone better came along so I disengaged slowly and it soon fell apart. If she doesn't tell her friends then you don't mean anything to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:24 PM
9

A Chad would have no reason to have any interest in a sub like this. He would just open tinder and swipe a few times and then go have wild enthusiastic sex with a woman who put in maximum effort to give him a good time. To be posting here would be a complete waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:18 PM
1

Woman can't actually rape a man (from a legal perspective) even if they actually did rape the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:48 PM
1

Exactly and that essentially makes this law completely meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:46 PM
0

Yes it does but that's not how your average person thinks. Most people are distrustful of accusations and of woman in general. It won't change the statistics because it's a he said she said situation still. I think they sorta have good intentions but I don't believe that any meaningful change can occur because of this law.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:45 PM
1

No it didn't lol. Our entire justice system is based on the assumption innocent untill proven guilty. This law doesn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:35 PM
2

No the law will never dictate guilty untill innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:32 PM
1

But it doesn't work in practice because the people on the jury (your average people) believe in innocent untill proven guilty so they wouldn't bring these types of cases to trial because they would be constantly found not guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:12 PM
6

But is it? You would just say "I asked her consent and she gave it" then it's the standard he said she said situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:07 PM
2

But even then that doesn't make sense. Her consent is obvious from body language (something like she starts to undress) therefore you don't need to ask. The guy would just say oh I asked and she said yes. Then it's the standard he said she said situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:06 PM
2

That's what I thought... What actually changes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:02 PM
1

I'm confused by this. No means no and yes means yes are the same thing? Anyone wanna explain to me the point of this law and what it would achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:01 PM
4

That would be a very nasty insult but I don't think he is implying you are an FDSer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:51 PM
7

As a man you actually can't lose by insisting there be equality on a date. There are 3 scenarios. She pays for herself and sees you again - she believes in equality and that her time is not more valuable than yours and therefore sees you as an equal. She gets angry and reluctantly pays for herself and then as a way of punishing you she never talks to you again - this is a woman who believes she is worth more than you and does not believe in equality and therefore is not someone who you should ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:48 PM
1

I think bumble is actually the way forward for online dating. It stops woman getting lots of vulgar messages and because woman have to make the first move it will result in only a very small percentage of men getting any messages (maybe 5-10% of all male profiles will get 1 or more messages in say 1 month as an active user). It's better for woman and men as it filters out 90-95% of men and therefore is much more efficient because if your one of those men you will quit the platform when you get n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:15 AM
2

Being slim with low body fat % and a clean look is gonna improve your dating life so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:03 AM
1

Because men go into trades (that pay much more).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:36 PM
0

Woman generally use tinder to feast on attention to inflate there egos. Some may use it for the occasional casual sex here and there. I wouldn't say it's mostly low value woman thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:16 AM
1

Okay I only ask because that I have never heard off before. I'm really kinda shocked tbh because men don't experience any pain during or after whatsoever. I'm only saying that because I assumed it was the same for women. Kinda makes me realise that women give up a lot more for sex than men do. Especially casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:02 PM
2

Thanks for that detailed explanation. I always assumed women felt no pain or discomfort during and after sex because they never mentioned it too me but your right why would they it's private and very personal. The orgasm pain you mentioned is that from just penetration right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:54 PM
2

Wow I didn't know much of this - especially that an orgasm can cause pain. Does all this put you off sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:50 PM
1

How common is it for women to feel pain during and after sex? I've never had a girlfriend or FWB tell me this but I have read about it being common a lot. Can one of you woman that reads this explain please?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:26 PM
1

From looking at your post history I think you need help with your mental health. I would like to see what you look like to make a better judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:46 PM
1

Oh okay. Why? I'd ask you in chat but doesn't work atm for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:41 PM
1

You said your pic is on a different account but I looked at that account and can't find the post where you posted a pic. I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:39 PM
1

When you say severely bolding how bad we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:33 PM
1

Do you have other amazing features perhaps? Wide shoulders? Height etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:25 PM
1

Eh well they become comfortable around you as a friend because there is no pressure then you can slowly show the better sides of your personality and build a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:00 PM
1

I always found the best success was when making friends with a woman and then building attraction slowly over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:54 PM
-1

Your exaggerating surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:53 PM
0

Very useful skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:49 PM
1

Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:05 PM
4

I'm saying a lower % of men watch porn than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:12 PM
2

I find stuff is taken to the extreme on this sub. Seems to be a common theme all women are the same (they not).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:37 PM
1

Lol no. I've had load of sex without having to buy anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:27 PM
2

What is the narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:17 PM
3

Not many men think like that on this sub I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:12 PM
5

Yeah it's important. It's not fair to limit the opportunities of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:06 PM
5

I thought more women than men have a job nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:00 PM
2

I find porn disgusting also.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:58 PM
10

I don't think porn viewing for men is as much as you think. I personally hate porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:54 PM
16

The views on woman from most on this sub confuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:53 PM
2

I also enjoyed our conversation. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:12 AM
2

Oh I definitely understand the importance of personality and chemistry etc. I think I am because I'm happy to make some simple changes. When I think of all the money time and effort women spend on they appearance I think to myself what excuse do I have not to focus more on mine. The state of dating is portrayed very negatively on these subs it's difficult not to be sucked in sometimes but yeah I definitely do take everyone on here with a grain of salt and try to think more positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:02 AM
1

If only I had learned this when I was 18... I'm 29 and for some bizzare reason I didn't think grooming was that important. I would mostly look scruffy and think that was fine. I have a grooming routine now after realising it's importance. Well yeah the blackpill states that looks are everything to women and that personality doesn't mean anything. It's all about height, jawline and facial bones. I do agree with you because I see lots of men who are not particularly conventionally attractive with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:53 AM
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Yeah that's what I was thinking. How would a woman who is in love with a good man feel about seeing negative comments about men? But yeah I think a few bad experiences and you stop seeing the difference in men and paint them with the same brush so that's understandable. I'm sure your right about it not being to the same extent as the blackpill but I was shocked at how looks focused women are on the sub even in ways I never even thought of! For example checking a man's fingernails and then extrap…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:05 AM
3

Yeah that's understandable and it's good you give advice. I enjoy reading FDS because it's unfiltered and the women there are not constrained so they say what they really feel. I do feel some level of depression when I read some of the comments thou. Most of FDS confirms the blackpill something I dislike but it has made me realise that I should focus on my appearance more. One example I used to have a big beard that was unkept and now I have tidy stubble. As much as I hated reading the nasty com…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:44 AM
0

Haha no I'm a 29 year old man haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:19 AM
-1

Eh I think after a while you want something more stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:17 AM
1

Oh okay. No disrespect but I assumed most women who post on FDS are single? Since it's about female dating and not for women who are in a long term relationship? If your happy that's the main thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:16 AM
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Yeah and women pay a lot of alimony nowadays I get that but I don't think that's the right mentality to enter a marriage with. It's difficult to find a partner like that but not impossible they are out there. That's sad but you have to remember that's one example and not all men are like that (it's usually the other way around). I regularly tell myself not all women are like that because there is a lot to negative stuff said about women online. I understand what your saying about the pain and sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:06 AM
2

Does that really matter? If you happen to make a slight bit of extra money than him? You can find a ton of wealthy men 30+ they are not exactly difficult to find. Most men work hard and invest during there entire career. Most men don't want woman chained to the kitchen you know. A 40 year old HVM is looking for a partner not a housewife. He is independent and you can find a mature man who wants to help with childcare and housework etc. A real partner. Your not sacrificing your independence for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:47 AM
0

But why? If your a HVW who is successful and attractive wouldn't it be better to find a HVM and settle down when your in your 30s or 40s? You would want companionship and stability right? You can be a women, get married and still have your independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:15 AM
4

Why would how attractive and successful you are as a women affect if you get married or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:09 AM
1

The back pain being 6'7 oh my gosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:01 PM
1

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:50 AM
3

You misunderstood my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:43 PM
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Theres no reason to sleep with me tbh. I'd be kind, caring, warm, gentle and focus on your pleasure (as well as my own) to try give you a good experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:21 PM
3

I can't compete with a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:19 PM
1

Is it not tinder and stuff that ruins online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:57 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:56 PM
2

Why would you be like that as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:46 PM
2

Too tall
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:13 PM
3

You can change the age settings haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:12 PM
1

What is a simp exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:07 PM
6

Because he's a great person with an amazing personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:56 PM
4

If your living on a tight budget than your dating life will suffer (only as a man) so worsening economic conditions will negatively affect dating. Dating (as a man) is not exactly cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:51 PM
13

I'd say people are becoming less career orientated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:49 PM
3

What's there too explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:48 PM
8

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:45 PM
1

Bit dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:45 PM
1

Toxic masculinity is real but so is toxic femininity. You should judge someone as an individual not based on your sexist views of the entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:54 AM
1

Haha yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:48 AM
1

The man is completely responsible for everyone in the household. In modern relationships women are equally (mostly) responsible for everything. Modern relationships benefit men greatly in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:45 AM
1

Can I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:42 AM
7

Well I can't speak for every man but I much prefer modern relationships to a 1950s relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:43 PM
11

1950s style relationships suck for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:38 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:36 PM
1

Yeah I do understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:26 PM
1

I suppose not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:06 PM
1

Very few actually pay the 12%. That's the rate for when you have 0 contact. The more time you spend the lower the amount you pay. If your on a low income it's gets further reduced and if your on benefits or out of work it's nearly 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:07 PM
1

Not in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:01 PM
1

Why do you think women are not having much casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:23 PM
5

No I wasn't expecting any data. I was just curious as to why she thought that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:01 AM
1

I don't think so. If you don't earn much 12% as a reduction is not that much. Way less than what the actual cost would be for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:04 AM
1

Yeah much cheaper to have a Thai girlfriend. I went on dates there and I never spent more than £15 or so for us both. The only expensive stuff was like going to the zoo etc but it's still a date that's 1/5 the cost of one at home and the girls were really happy and impressed. The language barrier was a bit frustrating at times but it was very fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:07 AM
3

It doesn't matter if the female model outperformed the male model. Men are much less selective when it comes to casual sex. That male model even with 1/50th of the matches will have the same result as her - lots of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:02 AM
1

Hmm okay. I always thought it was way more rare than 1/100.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:58 AM
1

But it's women who lose in this scenario. The man just pays 12% of his wage and that's it. We already pay 32% in tax what's another 12%?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:57 AM
2

How was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:55 AM
6

Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:54 AM
1

Your right about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:32 PM
3

Hmm interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:00 PM
1

Oh that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:57 PM
1

I get what your saying but I think it's much less than a 1-2% chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:53 PM
1

Yeah they do...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:40 PM
1

Yeah maybe. Gives you extra confidence in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:37 PM
0

Eh no I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:33 PM
1

Her getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:30 PM
1

I dunno id say it's the opposite. In my experience I see women overvaluing themselves. I rarely see the opposite and I don't think I'm harsh in my evaluation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:25 PM
-1

Nah I don't think so. If more men became more attractive then more hookups would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:24 PM
5

What about he has a great personality???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:22 PM
1

Sugaring? Like long term prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:20 PM
2

Sex in Thailand was cheap and that was with super attractive women I could never attain in my country. When your on holiday it's more a bit of holiday fun you don't think about the economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:19 PM
2

Unless you believe you are superior to the man you are dating then you should pay half otherwise your selling your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:17 PM
1

Oh that's very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:15 PM
4

Nah I was in Thailand and paid for sex but am on holiday and who knows when I'm gonna travel there again so may as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:14 PM
1

Paying for sex and sex with a gf are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:10 PM
1

I have 2 incredible beautiful sex dolls and had them for 3 years now and as much as I adore them they can't fully replace a women. Like 90% maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:59 PM
-5

Its because men generally don't focus on they presentation anywhere near the level women do. In the future men wearing make up and spending hours on there appearance will change this. It's a natural adaptation because women are becoming more and more selective based on psyhical appearance and so the men will change and adapt. We already see this happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:48 PM
4

Wouldn't it be better for men to just use the same tactics women use? For example wear a shirt designed to make you look more muscular, apply loads of make up, take hundreds of photos from all different angles and then use a filter on the photos you upload? Then claim your taller than you actually are etc. It's all about the presentation and women excel at that when men are only starting to realise just how important it is. The average guy doesn't have the skills to take flattering pictures the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:39 PM
1

I think men do have a good understanding but we can't assume anything. Every woman's experiences are different and unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:58 PM
2

Yeah definitely because it builds over time and becomes very strong. I've been reading this sub and it seems most people think your looks are everything and that personality doesn't matter. I'm finding it difficult to believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:05 AM
3

Yeah there definitely has to be some baseline attraction. I agree about the bond because I can think back to a woman I dated who I didn't find particularly attractive but she made me feel great emotionally. I ended up finding her more attractive as time went on so I assume the same can happen for women also.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:00 AM
3

Hmm I didn't consider that. Yeah very good point. A bond based on chemistry/personality would be much stronger and last longer than one based mostly on attraction. I was wrong then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:49 AM
3

Yes it's definitely a compliment. I'm trying to imagine how I would feel. I think I would feel a bit guarded for 2 reasons. Why is he not going for more attractive woman? Would he settle for me then when he gets a slight bit of attention from a more attractive woman then he would leave me and I'd have to waste all that progress and effort to then start again? Maybe I'm thinking about this wrong or in too much detail but that's how I think I would feel. Is that ridiculous?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:38 AM
1

Okay sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:33 AM
6

No certainly not. I would only act when it's involving a women I care about. I actually see men and women as equal on the street because they are all strangers too me and I can't see any reason to see one as superior to anyone. I guess old time traditional chiveralry? But we have moved beyond that in 2021 i would argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:23 AM
1

Did you feel less motivated when they were "not so attractive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:15 AM
2

Serious question - does it ever annoy you when men who are obviously much more attractive than you pursue you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:08 AM
9

I dunno men do body shame women but it's generally much more basic than when a women shames a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:19 PM
15

I don't think women get approached by men much at all nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:11 PM
1

I brought 2 beautiful tpe sex dolls about 3 years ago that I completely adore everyday and am incredibly thankfull for them. I think most men should buy at least one. What I have learned however is that no matter how beautiful they are and no matter how much I adore and care about them they can't replace a women. They can to about 90% but there's that 10% that no ai or robot will ever be able to replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:21 PM
8

There is nothing wrong with playing it safe and just buying your home and investing in your retirement accounts with your earned income. Not everyone desires high leverage gambles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:15 PM
13

I used to think women were the privaliged gender in almost every way but then when I was asked would I change I said no. It made me reflect about it and change my opinion on how privileged women actually are in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:24 PM
1

I would focus on getting down to a low body fat % this does more for your attractiveness as a man than your hair ever could. It changes the way your face looks and makes your body attractive and makes you stand out (as obesity is so common nowadays). Then just try and try and accept rejection is normal and don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:17 PM
2

I don't hate being attracted to women. If I could change my sexuality I would become bi sexual and mostly sleep with men and then the odd women when it becomes available.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:15 PM
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