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| 15 | Age Demographics of Failing SocietiesThe Right just wishes I would stop being such a rascal, find a nice girl and get married and settle down. That's their sales pitch. But as things stand right now, they want you to dive on a grenade to save their vision of society. The right is actually more dangerous than the left, because the left's malice is obvious and therefore easy to avoid. The left is standing on your lawn, naked and smeared in its own excrement, waving a butcher knife and screaming that the voices told it to kill you. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/22 05:02 AM |
| 11 | Man Selling His Body (NSFW)Yes. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/22 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Imagine if this was the other way aroundWasn't it modeled on PatriarchyPhoneTM? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 8 | Imagine if this was the other way aroundIf that were true, you would be telling this random person. Not us. You're not mad at her for hating all men for being men. You're mad at her for embarrassing you by saying the quiet part out loud. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/05/22 01:59 AM |
| 5 | How can I get more in touch with my sensuality? Struggling with a low libido and I’m concerned it may cost me my relationship.What's missing in all of this is the part where you talk about how he feels about it. I suspect that's because you have no idea... because you haven't asked. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/22 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Bf admitted to losing respect for meHe would also get annoyed with my clumsiness, and overall “chaotic” energy which I understood and am working on improving. ... I’m honestly quite offended. He knows firsthand how I worry about people thinking I’m not smart/competent and here he was thinking all of the things I feared. You each have expectations of the other that you haven't clearly expressed in a way the other person understands. We call this a "covert contract". You imagine you have a contract with him, and he is breaking it by… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/22 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Sex Premarital, Casual and OtherwiseThe reason that you're wearing a flair saying "Endorsed Contributor" isn't because you're wise, or insightful, or a good writer. None of these are enough. It's because you're capable of writing these three words: my immediate feeling When you wrote those words, you did something very important, which is what TRP/RPW/etc is all about. You externalized your instinctive reaction. You othered it. You treated it as something other than you. This allowed you to examine it. TRP/RPW were really founded … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Design the ideal woman for this man?Exactly. Our culture's myth is that relationships are initiated by men, once a woman has attracted them simply by standing around looking desirable. This is completely backwards. It is the woman who initiates, because the man has successfully looked awesome. People get this confused because man generally make the first overt move. Pickup, TRP style, is about being masculine and attractive, and then recognizing what we call "IOI"s (indicators of interest). These are a woman's come-hither signals,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 11:38 AM |
| 15 | Sex Premarital, Casual and OtherwiseWomen's sexuality has the most value (and hence power) at the very beginning of their sexual adulthood. It's pretty much as if you get handed a rocket launcher at age 13, with no instruction manual. Then you're thirteen years old, don't know what you're doing, don't even know how to use this thing, and it can blow stuff up... including you. So the message here isn't "never use it". Anything that's powerful enough to be dangerous is powerful enough to be useful. And vice versa. The message here i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/22 05:00 AM |
| 9 | Sex Premarital, Casual and OtherwiseSlut-shaming is the only part about RPW that makes me uncomfortable You've misunderstood. RPW has no moral stances. There is no position here that a slut is a "bad person". Hell, we have a literal prostitute who reads this stuff, and comments occasionally, and no one's interested in kicking her out. RPW doesn't recommend for or against things because they are "right" or "wrong". Instead it does so because they are good or bad strategy for getting what you want. The women here don't care if you b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/22 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Why N-Count MattersYes. From a man's point of view, a girl's N-count is the number of times she has switched sexual partners (once she has sex with him, otherwise it would be N-1). Every sexual partner swap is a failed relationship. That can be for one of three reasons: She didn't make an effort to keep the relationship (hookup sex falls into this category.) She tried to keep the relationship and failed. She chose to have sex with a man who was completely unsuitable for a relationship. Now, it is near impossible f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/22 04:53 AM |
| 12 | Ah yes, completely necessary in a game where women already make as much as men.Succinct illustration of what feminism actually is. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/22 01:01 AM |
| 6 | Your husband comes before your children. Almost always.He has a school project due tomorrow that he didn’t get supplies or do any research for. Now he has to scramble to get it done, and he needs her help and to spend the entire night working on it! "Your lack of planning does not constitute my emergency." | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/22 05:44 AM |
| 8 | Your husband comes before your children. Almost always.Nobody 'becomes' a narcissist without either a predilection to being one, or serious pressure and encouragement in that direction (i.e. fan/media pressure on actors/athletes, etc.) Yes, in fact praise doesn't create narcissists at all. Narcissists seek praise and admiration because they were not given love and don't know how to get it. Actors and athletes don't become narcissists because they are given admiration. They were already narcissists, and they became actors or athletes as a way of seek… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/22 01:23 AM |
| 10 | Your husband is your number one. Always. - Sage advice from my grandmother.+1 /u/livelylychee /u/luckylittlestar | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/22 05:59 AM |
| 4 | Does feminism really mean ‘the right to choose’?I think "choice feminism" is a rationalization originating with women who have been taught to believe that feminism is synonymous with women's rights, but are appalled by the poisonous reality of how feminism, as a movement, behaves. "See, I'm a feminist, too, because I'm making my own choices!" But feminism isn't about choices, or liberation, or empowerment, or freedom, and it never has been. The woman who fully embraces feminist ideology is just as submissive, obedient, and controlled as the h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/22 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Oh no, little boys must be incels if they’re using that word 🤣What do you mean, they're "involuntarily celibate"? You're not SUPPOSED to have sex with little boys, you freak. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/22 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Reported for Hate Speech. Does this look like hate speech to you?"I don't want men around me." "Okay, I'll stay away from you." "No, not like that, you sexist!" | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Red pill spaces being quarantined and targetedCorruption is part of the life cycle of societies. In the early stages of a social order, individuals participate in institutions, build up a store of value in that institution, and are rewarded for doing so. The store of value is both tangible (assets) and intangible (knowledge and trust). But a successful society reaches a point where the sheer magnitude of these stores of value is so great that the winning move (in a game-theory sense) for any individual is to loot or liquidate these value st… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/22 12:47 AM |
| 7 | Feminist says women abusing men isn’t as bad as men abusing womenYes in normal sense when woman slaps a man it doesn't leave as much as damage as when man slaps a woman. You have no evidence of this. A slap leaves NO physical damage. It leaves psychological damage. | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/04/22 04:10 AM |
| 6 | "Let’s Start Charging Men to Have Babies"; Absolutely atrocious article dehumanizes, antagonizes, & degrades men (TW: Misandry/Sexism)Wait a few years, they'll have reinvented the traditional family. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/22 04:08 AM |
| 33 | western anti feminists: "feminism isn't needed in the west, rather in 3rd world countries" feminists in 3rd world countries:They always say that to us, instead of to the other feminists that are busy hating men. That's how we know it is not a sincere sentiment... just damage control. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/04/22 12:30 AM |
| 2 | On the other hand, if they had hired 3 men instead, she would've been screaming 'misogyny'. You're damned if you do, and damned if you don't. No matter what, they'll always play the victimFeminism becomes completely understandable when you grasp one simple fact: The appearance of victimhood is empowering for women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Is Will Smith the personification of the modern or future man?At 94th Academy awards, Chris Rock mocks Will Smith's wife for having alopecia. Will Smith slaps Chris Rock. No charges will be filed. Social media is hit with sudden wave of discussion about alopecia. Pfizer is coming out with new drug for alopecia. Pfizer is sponsoring 94th Academy Awards. People start to draw conclusions. News is suddenly flooded with articles dismissing "crazy conspiracy theory" with no quotes, rebuttals, or contradictory evidence, other than the vague notion that "they woul… | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/22 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Ten years a RPW, hit the wall with no loving marriage in sight. Trying to figure out why?https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/b708vd/always_be_sure_to_tie_a_live_duck_to_your_right/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Ten years a RPW, hit the wall with no loving marriage in sight. Trying to figure out why?I suspect there's a "live duck" moment somewhere in here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/22 08:15 PM |
| 21 | Ten years a RPW, hit the wall with no loving marriage in sight. Trying to figure out why?I genuinely think meeting the right person is pure luck Being the right person isn't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Facepalm. Coerce: persuade (an unwilling person) to do something by using force or threats.Wait, so if I'm paid to work, I must not be willing to work, therefore slavery? | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/03/22 04:04 AM |
| 8 | Patience with different love languages aka 'the STFU rule in practice'Affirm the shit out of her! He even used our own jargon on us (yaaaaaaaaaaas 💅)! And then he basically pat us all on the head, told us to “go get’em ladies”, and validated that what we are doing is right and effective and special. And suddenly, this TRP guy, who has written stuff that would definitely cause some pearls to be clutched and understandable outrage to be had (even if there’s a bitter truth to it that can be useful to us), is suddenly welcomed into our community with open arms (or at … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/22 03:22 AM |
| 8 | How do you deal with girls who KNOW about redpill and try to make you admit to it and humiliate you because of it?Why are you wasting your time interacting with girls who actively try to humiliate you? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Cringe comedianShe can't. It's impossible to play pool with a rope for a cue. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 9 | The use of the word “mansplaining”Just tell her not to womanterupt you. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Interested to hear some anti fem opinions. Thought I could gain some new perspective. I am a feminist and major in cultural anthropology. This is an experiment through discourse.Do your own homework. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/03/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Would women be happier if they stopped thinking about themselves/perfecting themselves for the “male gaze” or if they improved their lives to be deemed attractive by men?https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/1556 | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/22 11:30 PM |
| 12 | Would women be happier if they stopped thinking about themselves/perfecting themselves for the “male gaze” or if they improved their lives to be deemed attractive by men?Happiness is not pleasure. Happiness is different. It comes from two things. A feeling of accomplishment, and a feeling of connection to other people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/22 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Shower thoughts: being waterI learned this technique from you all and use it when dealing with leftist types making accusations. Sure I'm racist, homophobic and sexist...and your point? It's an incredibly powerful tool. Yeah, it's basically just shit tests 101. The thing to understand is that calling you an istophobe isn't a serious discussion of anything. It's just a derailing tactic. If I say "the federal budget has not been balanced since the 19th amendment was passed", and someone calls me a "sexist", then they are att… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/22 08:48 AM |
| 4 | What do you guys think?I do concur that being an extrovert makes life easier for me in terms of cold approach. Absolutely. Extroverts have an easier time with pickup, and introverts have an easier time maintaining the upper hand in relationships. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/22 01:58 AM |
| 8 | What do you guys think?lot of men use introversion as an excuse to be anti social weirdos and/or as an excuse not to approach women and so actually aren’t introverted but instead lame and ghey spergs who have decided to go pussyless by building their own prison. Yes. Real introverts like socializing just fine. They just do it differently. Go to a party. If you talk to large groups all night, and are energized and bouncy even after the party is over, you're an extrovert. If you talk to people until you find an interest… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | TRP, Late Stage Capitalism, and The monetization of sex & relationshipsOh, so you mean late stage regulatory capture. You've noticed that companies tend to consolidate over time, and that, lately, small, agile competitors are failing to undermine big dinosaurs. So you mistake that for an inherent property embedded in the free market itself. Yet, if free markets always tended to consolidate around a single player over time, all of the big corporations you are talking about would have Egyptian and Latin names, would they not? If what you are seeing is simply late sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Horrible post about how a lot of men don’t like consensual sex, click link to seeFor your sake, I hope this is sarcasm. Hitler was a socialist. Stalin was a communist. And this is what feminism is. Belief systems and movements are not defined by what they say about themselves. They are defined by the effect that they have in the world. Anyone can write a manifesto saying that their ideology means "we all live in paradise, and everyone gets a pet flying pony", but what actually matters is the shit they keep doing. From day one, feminism has always been a hate movement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/22 08:36 PM |
| 14 | Horrible post about how a lot of men don’t like consensual sex, click link to seeI'll tell you the precise moment a man wants a woman to "give up" sex. It's the moment when he sees that she understand who he is, rather than seeing him as "some dude". That's the moment where sex stops meaning "she bangs strangers", and starts meaning "she really likes me". | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Shower thoughts: being waterI just don't like you. And I don't like mint, dogs, or jazz music. So what? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | TRP, Late Stage Capitalism, and The monetization of sex & relationshipsLate Stage Capitalism Please explain how the unrestricted and voluntary exchange of good services has stages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Shower thoughts: being waterI guess I just get sick of the intellectual grounds always being situated on their home turf and their constant reminders of that fact. Who is this "they" of which you speak? If you complain that the "other team" has the home field advantage, you are saying that someone is the "other team". RPW is all about not seeing men as the "other team". | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 6 | Shower thoughts: being waterIronically that's usually the self proclaimed misogynists. Those are the men that will call me out if I say something stupid or uninformed and I count my husband among them. Reading this just made me have a tangentially related idea. I've noticed for some time that men are called "misogynists" if we do not treat women as if they were fragile statues made of porcelain, from which all goodness and light emerge. After a while, most men who know, or can learn, how to pass a shit test, will, rather t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Shower thoughts: being waterJust for women, but only for women who are willing to accept every thing you say as truth, or at least keep their mouths shut when they disagree with your ideas. Damseling again. This is indeed a red pill subreddit. If you don't agree with the red pill, why are you here? I was just angry because her response to your questions was incoherent and made it seem like she was unable to put her ideas into words when ordinarily she is fluent and spot on in her writing. So, in other words, you didn't tru… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/22 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Shower thoughts: being waterI think that there is a strong push to only trust yourself and do it all for yourself... However, what I was specifically considering this morning was adapting to a leaders vision (or desired lifestyle). When there is no place for the group there is no need to adapt to it. When the expectation is that we all stand on our own, being submissive is a detriment. Ah, so what you are focusing on is the cultural emphasis on "leadership". The early 21st century western model of leadership is to achieve … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/22 06:34 AM |
| 5 | Shower thoughts: being waterI just wish sometimes you men would just let us close the door and think the way we think Okay, better, but you still haven't reached the minimum threshold of courtesy. First of all, being offended on someone else's behalf is not a virtue. It speaks over them, selects their response for them, and is generally engaged in for the purpose of virtue signalling rather than virtue practicing. /u/girlwithasidecar is perfectly capable of deciding for herself how she feels about my comment. Secondly, pre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/22 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Shower thoughts: being waterPerhaps from the perspective of a society focused on individualism and capitalism this adaptability seems a less desirable trait. Please explain how adaptability is not desirable to: favoring freedom of action for individuals over collective or state control or the free and voluntary exchange of goods and services | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/22 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Men are cruelImagine seeing a man get permanently blinded and disfigured and having this be your take on it. I guess one out of every hundred people really is a psychopath. Go have have yourself institutionalized so you don't hurt anyone. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/03/22 03:25 PM |
| 0 | not my story but a typical case os the dsI doubt that's how you meant it. Hmm, perhaps you should consult some sort of expert on how I think. I wonder who that would be. But i'll accept it. Imagine my relief. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | not my story but a typical case os the dsPlease work on your reading comprehension. If you are passed out drunk, you are passed out. You don't do anything. There is no behaviour. Someone else having sex with you while you are passed out is their behaviour, not yours. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/03/22 08:46 PM |
| 0 | not my story but a typical case os the dsThese are contradictory statements Wrong. Read them again. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/03/22 08:16 PM |
| 76 | not my story but a typical case os the dsIf you were passed out drunk and someone had sex with you, you were raped. If you were tipsy, and disinhibited, you weren't. I don't care if you're male or female. If you are on a drug you chose to take, you are responsible for your behaviour. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/03/22 08:39 AM |
| 8 | He wants me to live in a trailer. With my newborn baby. I'm struggling with accepting this idea, or considering it. But if I don't, for us to make any money we'll be seperated.I feel like I got pregnant at the wrong time. "I have just jumped out of an airplane without a parachute. What do you recommend I do now?" | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | "racism vs activism"So don't eat an entire handful of men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/03/22 03:24 AM |
| 63 | Is this power move or silly?So, her complaint is that she met 28 men who did exactly what she was doing? | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/03/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Just posted an hour ago… this is the feminist mindset you have to deal with (and a solid MGTOW argument)… oh, she better be looking into her cat standardsIf it's a 'them problem', why is she the one complaining about it? | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Is Love even fckin real?Wrong question. The question is not whether love is real, but how many totally different phenomena get lumped together under the name "love". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotBold of you to assume that men who date the women of PPD have any self-respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy)The reason for this is that heterosexual online dating suffers from a case of perverse incentives. The goals of heterosexuals in using a dating website, and the goals of the owners of the site, are inherently divergent. This means that any heterosexual dating site/app that works will go bankrupt, and any heterosexual dating site/app that is profitable will become unusable over time. Grindr made money and satisfied its user base because Grindr was for gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:22 AM |
| 2 | I wrote an anthropological master's thesis on MGTOW / Red pillI got to the first "Foucault" and then bailed out. It was like reading through a medical journal and then suddenly encountering a discourse on phrenology, or finding quotes from Velikovsky in an astrophysics paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do PUA coaches and Manosphere Gurus bash each other so much, is it because they are fighting for money?Pickup teaches theory, yes, but PUAs tend to be highly pragmatic and only focuses on a specific theory if it benefits you infield. Exactly. PUA game is outer game: "What can I do right now, in this very moment, taking who I am as a given, in order to make this woman, who is front of me right now, desire me sexually?" TRP game is inner game: "What can I do, over a period of months or years, to shape myself into a man who more women will sexually desire?" Of course, there is a good deal of overlap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:06 AM |
| 5 | Fundamentally believing grown women biologically think like teenagers is sexistOf course it's sexist. I am sexist. You are sexist. We are all sexist. Because nature is sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | TRP is wrong about 35+ being a man’s primeI feel like it’s disingenuous for the red pill to preach to guys that age doesn’t matter for guys and as long as you put your head down and grind out your money and status, you will attain “high value” and be rewarded in the future. Quack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:08 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on this one-sided ad?Nearly AII intelligence services use them to continuously screen their personnel. You do understand that intelligence services don't care about false positives, right? Yes a tiny fraction of the population can defeat the polygraph I'm not sure you entirely understand what a polygraph is. There's nothing to "defeat". There's no algorithm. There's just a person. Whether or not a "lie" is "detected" is just basically asking a person their opinion. The fact that this person is looking at some biomet… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/03/22 05:34 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on this one-sided ad?Because remember, kids, violence against a woman is Violence Against WomenTM, while violence against a man is just plain old generic violence! | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/03/22 05:25 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on this one-sided ad?Allegations without any supporting evidence must be supported by positive polygraph test. Polygraph tests are a tool for fabricating false evidence. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | The red pill of job hunting, a recruiter's perspectiveAmazing. You've worked in HR for six months, and you don't know what HR's real function is. Your job isn't recruitment. You lack the skillset and domain knowledge to properly evaluate prospective hires, or even to find them. That is the hiring manager's job. Your job isn't payroll, 401k, time tracking, benefits, or any of the like. For all but the largest companies, that is the job of a woman named Marge, who is fifty years old, slightly overweight, speaks with a hint of a southern accent, and c… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Guy makes a noise in workplace, she proceeds to verbally abuse the man.I cannot help but notice how vague she is about what the provocation was. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Wtf. Feminism continues to encourage this.Wealthy men don't care if you use their money... Tell me you haven't met wealthy men without telling me you haven't met wealthy men. Truly wealthy men, who made their money through investments rather than hitting the professional sports or rap star lottery, understand how to manage money and are often quite frugal in their personal habits. They also want to be valued for themselves and not their money, so they frequently will hide their wealth when dating. Above all, they are not interested in g… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Starting to become afraid of having kids, because I'll be an older mom (30F)I have not studied the hormonal contraceptive pill in detail (both my girls have copper IUDs), and I cannot comment on "Grimhood" because I've never heard of him. However, I can weigh in on the general idea that you are trying to express to /u/_Pumpkin_Muffin... the notion that the expertise of the medical community is no longer trustworthy because it has been subjected to institutional capture. If you don't know what "institutional capture" is by this point in the game, you're in trouble. What … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/22 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Is being in the medical field an obstacle to a healthy love life ?your status as a doctor will allow you to date high quality men Don't give misleading advice. High status allows social contact with high status men... but it does nothing to attract them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | FDS celebrating the decline of men’s health. Seriously, are the people in that sub okay?TRP is a means, not an end, so I don't actually care if it has a future or not. If it continues to help men, great. If some other way is found to do that, that's great, too. I didn't put ten years of my life into "TRP". I put ten years of my life into "young men who needed my help and advice". TRP was just the place where it happened. You cannot help "men" unless you are first willing to cool your jets and help a man. There are plenty of people who talk a big game about being "pro male", but all… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/02/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityPrecisely. Feminism's collective attitudes and actions seem nonsensical up until you have the realization that the appearance of victimhood empowers women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:44 AM |
| -1 | Someone calls a woman cheating “sexual freedom” and says you must be right winged if you don’t respect thatGood to know. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/22 09:35 AM |
| 8 | Someone calls a woman cheating “sexual freedom” and says you must be right winged if you don’t respect thatSo, anyone with two wives is a gigachad? | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/22 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Someone calls a woman cheating “sexual freedom” and says you must be right winged if you don’t respect thatYeah, the difference between cuckold and cuckold fetish is the same as the difference between rape and rape fetish. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | FDS celebrating the decline of men’s health. Seriously, are the people in that sub okay?will ruin the lives of men if they follow this advice Who exactly are you? And your accomplishments in this arena are what exactly? | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.Almost forgot about this... PM me an email address, and I'll send it to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | FDS celebrating the decline of men’s health. Seriously, are the people in that sub okay?But the MRAs and TRP have gained nothing. All i'm saying that will the TRP ever be able bring any change in our society? You mistake the purpose of TRP. TRP is not a crusade to "change society". It is a toolbox for individual men to unfuck their lives with. As such, it has been wildly successful in the lives of many men. Which is not a surprise, because its basic framework is "shit I wrote on and about my transformation from angry frustrated dude to jacked member of the 1% with two girlfriends a… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 0 | something i found in the wildI wonder how lesbians would feel about that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 8 | FDS celebrating the decline of men’s health. Seriously, are the people in that sub okay?The struggle for men's rights cannot take the form or imitate the actions of the feminist movement. Men and women are different, and are treated and perceived differently, and the same tactics cannot be used by both. The great fallacy of the Warren Farrel, Paul Elam, AVFM version of the men's rights movement is the belief that if men do what feminists did, they can get what feminists got. This is dead wrong. The feminist movement gained power by pointing out (largely fictitious) injustices suffe… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 10:51 AM |
| 25 | FDS celebrating the decline of men’s health. Seriously, are the people in that sub okay?TRP co-founder here. A lot of what you say is absolutely true. TRP is kinda predicated on the idea that human beings are upgraded chimpanzees, rather than exalted angels clothed in flesh... and that our mating instincts are just as base, and as basic. FDS is kind of the most extreme example of this, as witnessed through the lens of some women who are mentally ill enough, not only to go full mask-off, but to be the most extreme and retarded example of the basest of human instincts, in the absence… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 05:39 AM |
| 3 | FDS celebrating the decline of men’s health. Seriously, are the people in that sub okay?"Productive" in this sense, doesn't just mean benefiting women, it means benefiting them, personally. In a way that they don't already have, and completely take for granted, like... all of human civilization. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 05:31 AM |
| 23 | Sweetheart, you look a Barbie clown.Bold of her to assume we want to be useful to her in the first place. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 04:27 AM |
| 7 | Found this on tiktokHow does it feel to be this predictable? | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/02/22 09:18 AM |
| 13 | Found this on tiktokFeminist calling her a "pickme" in 3...2... | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 08:29 PM |
| 2 | girl beats other girl til she's knocked out ... woman complains that no man stepped up to stop her ... thank your fellow females for this because helping her would be "a man touching a woman without her consent" breaking several laws ... have fun living in a world where no man will help anymoreWhat, exactly, is your goal in posting this comment? Do you imagine that someone will read this diatribe, and suddenly agree with you? Do you not only lack the skill to persuade, but even the very basic knowledge of the fact that persuasion is a skill? What do you do when berating and insulting people doesn't get you what you want? | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 07:47 AM |
| 2 | CatcalledMen hear variations on this story a lot. We never really see anything like it happening, but we hear it a lot. We have no way, of course, of knowing if it's true. Because, generally, by default, we tend to assume people tell the truth, but we also know that an awful lot of women's victimhood stories are lies... told because the appearance of victimhood empowers women. So, left unable to know, we ask the only question we can actually ask, which is... "why are you telling us this?" Do you expect u… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Interesting: Female logic 101. A complete failure.You don't understand. You're supposed to know what and who she wants, and give it to her without her having to speak it aloud and thereby take responsibility for it. Also, women are fully functional mature adults, and if you say otherwise, they'll cry and ask daddy patriarchy to punish you for being a big meanie. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/02/22 10:12 PM |
| 6 | FDS is now going after non-feminist woman, nothing special here.The FDS end game is cut themselves off from all relationships except with cats, who can't run away because they don't have thumbs and can't operate doorknobs. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | 20 pictures of women who don't need feminismI do want to point out, though, that most seem very young and didn’t live through the days when date rape wasn’t considered ‘real rape,’ when a woman’s sexual history was used against her in her rape trial, and when men were systematically passed over for promotions and they were given to lesser candidates because they were men. They are able to live the life they have because of the earlier feminist movement. To establish context: how old are you? | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Should I wait for marriage or strive to be taken more seriouslyLifelong commitment TO someone is a big choice. Lifelong commitment FROM someone is a big ask. In order to make that big choice well, you need to understand what and who it is you are choosing, and to make that choice wisely. In order to be able to ask that much from someone, you need to be able to convince others that you have the ability to stick by a commitment you have made. So what are doing, in your life, right now, to make yourself ready to choose a husband, and to make a husband ready to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.For OP to still be acting like this, when she’s old enough to be going on important business trips, is pretty unseemly. That's because, ironically, FDS doesn't know how to vet. They're thinking of vetting wrong. They think of vetting as "eliminating low-value males from consideration". But it's super easy to do that... just reject everyone. Foolproof. The real purpose of vetting is to identify men who have a robust reciprocal response. That's all. It's not about his morals or whether you like hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 3 | "Predator" is a becoming a meaningless buzzword hereWhat you've spotted here is just a female habit called "damseling". It's the practice of pretending to be a victim when one is not, or of exaggerating one's fear or trauma, to exert more social influence. For women, the appearance of victimhood is empowering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.Message me when I'm not on my phone, and I'll give you my recipe for a pecan pie that doesn't use table sugar. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.It's called a "covert contract", and it's a recipe for disappointment. Basically what you do is decide you have an agreement with someone, and they have an obligation based on that... but you don't tell them what you think they're supposed to do. You just expect them to do it. It's really nice when other people can guess what we want, but that's the exception, not the rule. It's a feat of interpretation and guesswork, and no one is going to have a very high batting average. One of my girlfriends… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 05:30 AM |
| 8 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.Don't sweat it too much. Here's something I learned from eleven years of running TRP: you cannot help someone without their active cooperation. There's enough work to do right here, with people who have already decided they want and value your advice, that you have no reason to waste time regretting the woes of those you don't appreciate the value of what you have to offer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 05:20 AM |
| 7 | Scottish feminist wants to scrap jury trials for rape cases. This man would have been in prison had it not been for a jury which demonstrates why she’s an absolute imbecile.Since when did the Scots turn from warriors into a bunch of giant pussies? | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/01/22 07:35 AM |
| 2 | FDS at it again!My new theory is that if a woman doesn't have an orgasm from thirty seconds of thrusting, it's due to vibrator-induced frigidity. Throw away your vibrators, depraved females! | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/01/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | If the mascot villain for the black pill/incels is The Joker, and the mascot villain for the red pill is Tyler Durden, who is the mascot villain for the blue pill?Use of fiction or other controlled narratives (reality tv, etc) should only be used as an example of the author's psychology, not the character's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | If the mascot villain for the black pill/incels is The Joker, and the mascot villain for the red pill is Tyler Durden, who is the mascot villain for the blue pill?Tyler Durden Rule #6: No examples from fiction or lyrics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it moral to have hook-up, one night stands but withhold sex from guys which are relationship material.There's a distinction between moral, fair, and a good idea. Which are you asking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | US dating market if prostitution was totally legalNot a lot different except at the top and bottom of the market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 3 | would you be willing to date a woman who did not have sex?This question is far too unclear to be answered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 06:54 AM |
| 7 | [CMV] Men are not getting sex because they participate in normie cultureYou are incorrect because you don't go far enough. This phenomenon is not unique to sex. The goal of mainstream modern western culture is to extract the maximum amount of work from heterosexual men under 40 while allowing them to keep as little as possible of the value they create. The reason our civilization is in decline is that this process has become so refined that young men are simply checking out. The juice isn't worth the squeeze to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 10 | One More Condom in the LandfillI just read all these men complaining about how much they hate that they can't get sex right away, and how awful that is. https://englishforeveryone.org/Topics/Reading-Comprehension.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 39 | I Will Never Be Like You GuysDon't be like them. Be like you. A better, wiser version of you. Go read the sidebar again. The words are no less true now than they were when I wrote them. Being feminine and acting submissive is not a moral obligation. It's a way to play on man's reciprocal and protective instincts. The point of "girl game" to make men not only treat you better, but be happy to do so. If a men doesn't respond to good treatment with love and kindness, then move on to another man who will. But don't prejudge... … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/22 07:41 AM |
| 3 | I am a platemen are those who choose to offer commitment and postpone sex not because they had to, but because their religion, values, and beliefs dictate that they do These men are a very combination of the lower risk of Cat4 men with the higher reward of Cat3 men... but they are only a good choice if you share those religious values. This is because a good relationship is supported by three pillars: Mutual attraction. Shared values. Shared goals. No matter how desirable strong religious beliefs might make… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | We should boycott this guy. He respects women boooooooo!Respect is earned. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/01/22 07:33 AM |
| 4 | Would you guys still marry a female if you found out she was a feminist?So you think that all women are unreasonable children, who can't tolerate even the slightest criticism, not of themselves, but of absolutely anyone else with girl parts? That's kind of an unflattering view of an entire sex. In my personal experience, both my girlfriends know my reddit username, and see me commenting here on a regular basis. They haven't thrown any tantrums yet. Although this is possibly because neither of them is a raging narcissist, and consequently they don't have trouble with… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/01/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Would you guys still marry a female if you found out she was a feminist?Breathing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/01/22 07:24 AM |
| 3 | I say A, what y’all say?Allow me to make this simple for you. You want something from me. Specifically, you want me to change my opinion about something. You don't know what my actual opinion is, because you haven't bothered to ask, but you think you know it, and you want me to change it. I don't want anything from you. I don't care if you change your opinion about anything or not. So, if you want something from me, but I don't want anything from you, how exactly are we supposed to make a deal? I'm not going to give yo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 3 | I say A, what y’all say?I'm not dumb. That remains to be seen. I can tell when a descriptor is used as an insult This conversation is becoming increasingly bizarre as you say more and more nonsensical things. "Don't say that." "I didn't say that. If you heard it, that's because you were thinking it already." "Don't be disingenuous. I know what you were thinking." So what you really meant was "don't think that". If you want me to stop thinking something, persuade me otherwise. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | How should I handle my boyfriend admitting to me that he is not 100% straight and finds some men sexually attractive?I was surprised, so I asked more questions: “do you find male genitalia attractive?” he says “yes,” “do you like big ‘p*nises?’” he says “yes,” etc. Also, he has admitted that he has watched gay porn. However, towards the end of our conversation, he assured me that he has never liked men romantically/sexually throughout his life. Your boyfriend is bisexual. So what? I felt hurt because throughout our whole relationship, he has not mentioned anything about this. Quit lying. You're not hurt "becau… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 3 | I say A, what y’all say?If you didn't already think it was an insult, you would not have taken it for one. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/01/22 10:59 AM |
| 28 | I say A, what y’all say?Neither. If she wants to dress like a whore, she can do that. If he doesn't want to date a woman who dresses like a whore, he doesn't have to. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/01/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | RedPilled men: What qualities in a woman would it take for you to agree in good faith to an exclusive relationship with a girl.If you want a meaningful answer, you're going to have to rephrase your scenario, because the way you wrote this character is already a red flag. Both sexual attraction and emotional commitment are feelings, they cannot be negotiated, but must be inspired. If a woman were to try to negotiate for my commitment instead of inspiring it, I would take that as a sign she didn't understand this, and as a cue to move on. If you're having trouble understanding how this plays out, imagine going on a date w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Triggered by a confident woman."I know my worth." is code for "I am confrontational and have poor social skills." People who actually know their worth and have good social skills don't say "I know my worth". They simply move on from people who treat them in a way that they don't like being treated. They can do this because they have plenty of other options for people to befriend/date/have sex with/hang out with/work for/hire/whatever. The fact that you say this, and the fact that you ask this question, shows me you have poor … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree - Even if having sex with a man would literally save his life, a woman has NO moral "obligation" to do soFair enough. This is basically the question from the book of genesis: "Am I my brother's keeper?". In genesis, god doesn't answer that question, because Cain is asking it disingenuously... he has actively murdered his brother, which renders the question moot. But the question, in abstract, still has possible answers. Your answer appears to be "no". Which is a perfectly consistent attitude to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:10 PM |
| 3 | I owe you nothing, and I don't have to fix anything for you.What exactly were you fixing for women before that you're not doing so anymore? I'm confused by the tone of the post it sounds like a big declaration, so what exactly are you proclaiming here? My argument is actually not just composed of what I am saying here, but of the responses to it. I was able to make an argument that is partly composed of what other people say, because I knew just what they would say if I said what I said. The goal here is for people to notice that when the correct stateme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 3 | I owe you nothing, and I don't have to fix anything for you.You've actually expressed my exact intended point here. People who lecture others about their supposed obligations are losers who are trying to get something for nothing, because they have nothing of value to offer. Between people who have their heads screwed on straight, and their lives in order, the concept of "obligation" never even enters into it. They simply treat each other with consideration, and receive it in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | I owe you nothing, and I don't have to fix anything for you.I actually agree. All rights fall into two categories: Negative (your right that I NOT do something TO you), or contractual (your right that I do something for you, because, and only because, we made a fair agreement where I promised to do it.) This excludes positive rights (which would be you somehow having a right to demand I do something I never agreed to do). So I actually agree that women owe men nothing. However, I am also noticing that a lot of people get reeeeeeaal salty when one points … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 4 | I owe you nothing, and I don't have to fix anything for you.That's the first non-salty female response. And I suspect it might be the only one I get. I agree with you. In reality, people with real value don't run around trying to get things from others by lecturing them about obligations. They offer them incentives instead. People who lecture others about their moral obligations are trying to get something for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 01:41 AM |
| 4 | I owe you nothing, and I don't have to fix anything for you.They will use shaming tactics on you for this one 😂 And that will provide much humorous entertainment for all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 12 | Men who plan to marry in their 40s are ruining the dating marketOkay, well when we look at your list, see that it includes only women and children, then see you summarize it as "everyone"... Then we know everything we need to know about you. I owe you nothing, and I don't have to fix anything for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Do you agree - Even if having sex with a man would literally save his life, a woman has NO moral "obligation" to do soSo, /u/Artistic_Guest4386, I take it you always vote against any form of taxpayer-funded public assistance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Where have all the good men gone?Typically when a woman asks the question "where have all the good men gone?", the correct answer is "far away from you". Men are as "good" as women inspire them to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?High value to whom? To women? Or to themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Men who plan to marry in their 40s are ruining the dating marketRuining for themselves? Or ruining it for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Confused about date invitePerhaps we should consider sidebarring this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/22 01:28 AM |
| -1 | UK: Female who stalked male college worker, 42, is slapped with a restraining order. She smashed up his sports car, followed him to Benidorm and spray painted 'n**ce' on his fence OP: He lost his job and she was still not jailedSo, be celebate or gay? | /r/MensRights | 14/01/22 11:31 PM |
| 6 | A feminist told me to kill myselfFeminism has always been an attempt by certain women to flip the table because they don't like their hand of cards. They hate certain other women even more than they hate men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/01/22 11:50 AM |
| 3 | A feminist told me to kill myselfShe's trying to help women catch up to the male suicide rate. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/01/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Is crying a turnoff for you?Do you understand the difference between "control" and "control for"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Is the only way to increase fertility rate to take away women's rights? If so, why not let fertility rate decline?That which is asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Viewing dating as a marketplace might be the biggest failure someone can makeGood luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Is the only way to increase fertility rate to take away women's rights? If so, why not let fertility rate decline?It's one word. I don't know how to make that any simpler for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?So there's no biology, no feminine/masculine, and everyone is just for themselves? Okay, I can see I've been expecting too much out of you. I apologize for that. Good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Is crying a turnoff for you?There's no such thing as emotional intelligence. Once you control for IQ and the five-factor personality model, all testable consequences ascribed it to vanish entirely. Also, I don't actually know why you consider masculinity to be toxic, but don't bother explaining, because I also don't actually care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Is crying a turnoff for you?How's that whole "self-awareness" thing working out for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?So the point is to realize that the world is shitty and one has to become shitty oneself in order to survive? That's sort of vague. I have no access to any definition of what you consider "shitty", and you have no access to any definition of how I actually act, so this statement is pointless. That kinda takes away power from men who always have built societies That's a very bizarre way of thinking about things. Any man has whatever power he has, regardless of whether you consider him "shitty" or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Then what's the point of the ideology if it's individualistic? It's not an ideology. Ideologies are normative. The red-pill is non-normative. I assumed the beliefs were based on biology which cannot be individualistic since it sees men/women as groups and can therefore predict an outcome, for example. Ah, I see. You don't understand what I mean by individualistic. Individualistic doesn't mean the belief that individuals are beautiful unique snowflakes, and they are all born completely different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Because relationships aren't based on outlooks. A good relationship needs three things: Mutual attraction. Shared values. Shared goals. Red pilled men and women will frequently have the first two, but not always the third. When RPS and I created RPW, we started from the idea that each human being, man or woman, is an individual, and is going to want to pursue their own benefit. Anyone who is red-pilled, man or woman, is ultimately pursuing their own ideal life. If a red-pilled man, and a red-pil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Not quite. The practices of tradwives are governed by the traditional rules of society, usually transmitted through religion. The practices of red pill women are governed by understanding men's instincts and what they respond to. Tradwives are taught to do what they do as a matter of duty. Red pill women adopt their practices out of self-interest. Yes, they treat men well, but RPW material doesn't teach that this is their duty or their moral obligation... it is simply the thing that men really r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 7 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Red Pill Men and Red Pill Women are different. They have many overlaps, but there are some ideas they do not agree on. Not quite. TRP and RPW are working from the same set of facts about how human beings are, but they're getting different tactics from those facts, because they have different goals. With one notable exception that insiders will already be aware of, TRP and RPW are not necessarily each other's dating pool, and their definitions of success look quite different. Nonetheless, the two… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | If everyone has insecurities , then why don’t women like men with insecurities?Women like men who hide their insecurities very well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Is the only way to increase fertility rate to take away women's rights? If so, why not let fertility rate decline?In the past, women were not allowed to be educated or to work. Bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP take into account all of the ways that women describe other women’s behavior, in particular FDS or are all women just one homogenous type?In the dark, all cats are grey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 04:47 AM |
| 3 | When to let go of a relationship?I'm trying to deliberately steer the conversation away from "he's just an asshole and you need to work on your self esteem" because then, any man you don't inspire to commit to you is an asshole! Whereas the truth is - some men that are assholes turn into gentlemen around a lady. This is important enough to be worth repeating. Male protective behaviour is instinctive, and most of your modern "misogynist assholes" are simply suppressing it because it has been used to exploit them. When you treat … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 18 | RP Success Story from an initial skeptic! Thanks galsGlad to hear things are going well for you. Stories like this are a vindication of what we are trying to do here... provide other people with the tools to find happiness, in an age where their society is trying to condition them to seek pleasure instead. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Polygamy is inherently harmful.There's no need to feel bad. Lemme tell you some more secrets of the male worldview and social structure. Unlike among women, mockery among men isn't always intended to hurt. Sometimes it's intended to instruct. This young man is pontificating about what an ideal world looks like, when he should instead be playing the role of a sponge, absorbing information from the world as it is, and trying to learn wisdom. By mocking him instead of taking him seriously, I am attempting to awaken him to the ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Polygamy is inherently harmful.Yes, I suppose so. But who could possibly doubt the wisdom of this guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Have you been able to trust women since discovering the red pill? If so, how and if not, why not?The onus isn't on me to make myself trust women. The onus is on women to inspire my trust, or not. Some have, some haven't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:58 AM |
| – | Young red pill philosophers and young men in general, should be wary of older red pill philosophersYoung men should be wary of everyone. Including you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Polygamy is inherently harmful.Lastly, true love must be one-on-one between two peers who respect and care for each other. Hey, FunSize, FanGirl... sorry. It's over. We've been living a lie. A love-starved twentysomething virgin has written on the internet that we don't truly love each other. We must now cancel our sham of a family, because we have failed to match his theoretical ideal. Start packing your stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:41 AM |
| – | Families aren't automatically better if husbands and wives stay together. Red pill philosophers who believe wives should always 'work it out' with their husbands are wrong.PPD is always so diligent in refuting shit no one ever said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:35 AM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realYeah, doesn't he know that all these groups are sacrosanct against criticism unless they happen to not vote Democrat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Alpha/beta/sigma is just astrology for straight men.Yep, I was born under the sign of the Giant Black-maned Lion, with the moon in the House of the Lingam. My birthstone is the Husafell Stone, and my birth flower is the Amorphophallus titanum. Today, I should avoid soy-based meat substitutes, women who own more than two cats, people who vote Democrat, and idiots who don't understand the concept of a "metaphor". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 06:41 AM |
| 7 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewAlso the projection... "you are being mean to me (by not acting as my unpaid servant), you'll never get laid with that attitude". As if every single woman in the universe were as mean-spirited, entitled, and demanding as she is. That's why she noped out when I told her that I was in my late forties and have two far younger girlfriends. The idea that a man who isn't a doormat might still be loved by women undermines her whole approach of "I have a vagina, cater to me". Such women simply cannot co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 06:31 AM |
| 2 | What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS?I think a person or group's values consist of what they do in practice, not what they say about themselves. It's easy to say, for example, "we're about self-improvement", but to improve something, you need a definition of what you want to improve, a plan for improving that thing, and a way of measuring the improvement, so that you know if the plan is working or not. Otherwise, the phrase "self-improvement" is just that... a phrase. I don't think the man-hate is the primary problem with FDS... be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS?I can understand being interested in the subject and wanting to talk about it. But which of their ideas did you think might be good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 03:22 AM |
| 2 | According to TRP, every successful person is betaTRP define 'beta' as men that women want to be with for anything other than pure, burning desire. Every time I get bored and open up PPD, I find that I have some new and exciting opinion that I don't remember ever saying. I wonder if I have multiple personalities or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS?Out of curiosity, why were you there in the first place? Curiosity? Or did you feel like they might have something to offer you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 02:50 AM |
| 0 | What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS?Test tubes, petri dishes, microscopes, particle accelerators... I'm tellin' ya, the girl likes to experiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 5 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewThat's why she's spending her sunday evening on reddit complaining about online dating, instead of with her husband. If you are surrounded by trash, examine the possibility that you are in the garbage can. If you keep winding up in garbage cans, examine the possibility that you are trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | For those who asked about a male calculator like the female delusion calculator...Doesn't create a real equivalence. Men don't give a shit about income, almost none care about height, and most don't care about race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why is acknowledging the fact that most men are not physically attractive to women seen as massively controversial and even TRP'rs are in denial about it?Male attractiveness is mostly behavioural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 11 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewYou chose not to respond to what I said, because it doesn't fit your worldview, and you aren't equipped to understand it. I'm going to give you the most valuable advice you will ever receive, and you're going to ignore it, because you won't like it. I'm still going to give it to you, because you're not the only person who reads my comments. Almost every social interaction is a negotiation. The goal of negotiation is to reach an agreement that is acceptable to both parties. This means that every … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:02 PM |
| 5 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewBecause it affects you also, as women will simply leave the apps and dating altogether. That doesn't affect me. I'm a relationship with two girls that looks to be permanent, and am not looking to add a third unless someone really special happens along. I'm also closer to fifty than forty, so online dating ain't gonna really be my thing regardless. As for women leaving dating apps, that always happens. The people who run dating apps are incentivized to keep people using them forever, because clic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:28 PM |
| 6 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewWhy would we care about fixing online dating for you? You're a strong, independent, liberated woman. Fix it yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 08:20 PM |
| – | Online dating apps are pay to win and are riddled with micro transactionsWrong. OLD is pay-to-lose. The only OLD site/app that was ever good for both itself and its customers was Grindr. Why? Because the incentive of readers and publishers was perfectly aligned. Grindr wanted gay men to keep clicking, because that was how they got paid. Gay men wanted to keep clicking, because that was how they got laid (by a new dude every week). But any heterosexual OLD site doesn't work that way. Women don't want endless hookup sex, they want a relationship. This means that female… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why Mastering Stoicism Will Make You Emotionally Unbreakable And Is A Must For Every Man to Practice?https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/1556 | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I wonder which gender do these "scientists" belong :DI'm in my 40s. I've been here since before there were subreddits and comment karma, both of which I was against. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/01/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | I wonder which gender do these "scientists" belong :DFeminists: "We don't need men!" Feminists, five minutes after men go on strike: "Hey, why did the power go out?" | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Does doing that stop false sexual harassment claims?I missed the part where this is my problem. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/01/22 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Fitness, Finances, Fun, FuckingThe 4 F's to a good life No. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/22 04:50 AM |
| 2 | FDS, and by extension, TRP, is a cult that traps you into alt-right thinking patterns. That's the thought terminating cliche they use to couch learning critical thinking skills.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlOSdRMSG_k | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?Perhaps. We could certainly talk about it, although different women do it for different reasons. What I'm sick of, here, is being asked to defend claims I never made, by clowns who have no idea what I actually write. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Is the dating game easier in a small town or big city?Higher population density ==> Easier to get NSA sex, harder to find a suitable relationship partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?For example I've heard from redpill that women only wear makeup and dress up to impress men. Can I please see your source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Have any of you experienced guys who use dating coach tactics on you recently?You seem to be criticizing something that you have constructed in your own head. All of my advice is free, and it's mostly centered around SMV improvement, with PUA tactics playing a significant, but secondary, role. That's pretty much what TRP is. I make too much money at my unrelated career to make it worthwhile to try to monetize what I do with TRP. Any time I devoted to "building my brand" or "marketing" would be a huge pay cut. Not to mention that there's no physical product to sell, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:08 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Have any of you experienced guys who use dating coach tactics on you recently?It's a scheme that lures men in and keeps them paying. Who, exactly, is paying me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Dr. Phil tells abuse victim that he isn't allowed to defend himself from his abuser and the audience cheersDo not turn your back on someone who is attacking you. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitWomen aren't impressed with abstract, intellectual, self-regarding, pompous intelligence that reads Lacan, joins MENSA, and sits around patting itself on the back. Women are impressed with the ability to apply intelligence and get practical shit done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men how many women have personally told you they regret making an Only Fans due to its effect on their dating or work lives?Zero because I don't hang out with whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 16 | Surfing the Whorely Yuga+1 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 4 | I am a platehttps://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/7za0r6/the_talk_is_socially_retarded_dont_do_it/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/12/21 01:16 AM |
| 8 | I am a plate"The Talk" is socially retarded. Do not go about expressing your desires this way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/21 05:02 PM |
| 6 | I am a plateHe also may be trying to test if she's potentially okay with a polygynous relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 0 | The rise in obesity and decline of testosterone is a good thing for menBy this argument, "95% of men getting wiped out by a sex-selective plague" would be "good for men", because the remaining 5% would "face less competition". OP, have you considered getting some psychological testing to see if you are a sociopath? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Treat yourself as if you were someone worth fighting for.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EwcYwax4Oo | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/21 11:36 PM |
| 6 | "I Love You" but i don't love myself.you can't love others unless you love yourself first This is a Hallmark-level platitude, not really true, but also not really false, because it simply isn't meaningful enough to be true or false. It's just a noise people make because they think it will make them sound compassionate and wise. If you struggle with being able to express affection, because you feel like you're not "good enough", then here's a tool for you, something for you to put in your toolbox and take out when you need it: It do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/21 05:49 PM |
| 28 | High Maintenance vs. Low Maintenance Energy"I have always thought it would be cool to visit X place." Some men (myself included) prefer communication a little more direct: "I would like to visit X place sometime. Would you also like that?" ... but that's just a minor detail. /u/Fractal_Visionary's central point here is be mindful of how your communication can create a positive or negative environment. And she's not only correct, she's articulate and very skilled at laying it out in a clear, understandable manner, leading with a well-chos… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 5 | I feel like Vice just said the quiet part out loudI was alive in the seventies, before feminists realized this needed to be the quiet part. Feminism has always been about destroying the nuclear family. Any self-professed feminist who says differently is either lying or, more likely, is a useful idiot being manipulated by those who know. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 5 | FDS are "pick me" womenIf you don't want to be misunderstood, try communicating better. "Gee, somebody thought I was an FDS reader when I showed up in a thread about FDS and used their talking points and terminology! How deeply offensive! Why didn't he stalk my entire posting history to find out the story of my life instead?" You could, for example, try saying "doormat" instead of "pickme", which is the normal-person metaphor that's been around for decades. Of course, you'd still be wrong. Doormats are doormats becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 05:34 PM |
| 4 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?Okay, cool. That's what I thought. I think it's very good to listen to the experiences of others, but we also have to be cautious when doing it. Because when we hear them relate their experiences, we're not only getting "what happened to them", we're also getting "how they interpreted it", and "how they feel about that". The first is very helpful to us. The second and third, not so much. There are people out there who are quite willing to exploit us, either out of desperation or sociopathy. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 09:49 PM |
| 3 | FDS are "pick me" womenYou sure you wanna use words like "never" or "always" when you're making assertions like this? That's setting the goalposts a lot further than you can probably kick. All anyone would have to do to prove you wrong is find one single girl you would describe as a "pickme", who prospered. And since most FDS readers tend to use this term for any woman who considers a man's needs and desires at all... well, that's not very hard to do. I could simply say "/u/sunshinesundress", and girl you would descri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 09:18 PM |
| 6 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?Has this been your personal experience? You've labeled yourself as aged 16, so I'm having trouble imaging that men see you as a potential trophy wife, or that anyone sees you as a dishwasher besides your parents. And if you're already being treated as an "advanced fleshlight", well... let's just say I hope you are not. So, I guess I'm wondering if this is your actual experience of dating, or is this what someone has told you the dangers of dating are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:50 PM |
| 15 | How low can you go.....Financially speakingTo answer this question, you need to separate the consideration of the visceral from the calculating. A woman doesn't become less sexy, fun to be around, or desirable if she has a degree in Theater Arts, $100K in student loan debt, and a job as a cashier at Walmart. But men would certainly hesitate before committing to her, because every man knows that if he does, he will eventually be expected to pay that debt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 3 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?As opposed to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:46 PM |
| 4 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?You might enjoy reading Abraham Maslow's book "Towards a Psychology of Being", particularly the parts where he talks about the difference between "D-cognition" and "B-cognition". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Precisely my point. So why the hell can't you do the same? I'm not stopping you. So you must be stopping you. Why are you doing that to yourself? Why are you using a mental caricature of me as a sock puppet to call yourself unpleasant names? Is there some part of you thinks you're an "abomination", and you're projecting that self-loathing onto me? Or have you simply been angry for so long that having someone to fight against is part of your identity? I don't care if you like fucking other women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Do you need my permission? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:22 PM |
| 0 | TRP or FDS: Which side deals in absolutes more often and has the most bitter followers?shitty communities full of bitter dickheads That's kinda the point. If your community is for teaching people how to stop being a loser, then it better have some losers in it, or you are failing at the mission. The critical question is whether people who follow the advice eventually stop being losers, or just stay that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 09:08 AM |
| 5 | TRP or FDS: Which side deals in absolutes more often and has the most bitter followers?https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/femaledatingstrategy FDS users are 2.03 times more likely to be subscribed to r/datingoverthirty than they are to /r/femalefashionadvice. 2.82 times more likely to be subscribed to /r/datingoverforty than to /r/makeupaddiction. 1.5 times more likely to be subscribed to /r/witchesvspatriarchy than to /r/xxfitness. 3.8 times more likely to be subscribed to /r/survivinginfidelity than to /r/loseit. Slightly more likely to be subscribed to /r/antiwo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | TRP or FDS: Which side deals in absolutes more often and has the most bitter followers?I certainly hope TRP holds more appeal for bitter people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | FDS are "pick me" womenThey are nice. That's the point. They get men by being nice. Niceness works on most men. Any man who niceness doesn't work on is psychologically broken, and needs to fix himself before trying to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | FDS are "pick me" womenPickme is a term invented by skipmes. You either do what appeals to the opposite sex, or you settle for the people who aren't attractive enough to be choosy. Pick your poison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:44 AM |
| 4 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?We most likely don't think about you at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:39 AM |
| 7 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Many men are unsuccessful in dating women precisely because they are displaying far too much empathy. Heterosexual women do not find empathy attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:32 AM |
| 3 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Nothing is profitable on reddit. That's why they had to sell r/politics to the DNC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Gender professor claims men can never truly "Like" woman. Do you Agree?This person makes a lot of claims about men. I'd like to know what experiments were designed and performed to test those claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 09:33 PM |
| 31 | Is there a reason why a woman would intentionally destroy her value among men and instead flatter other women for their beauty?I don't know if it's necessarily worth your time to examine the details of self-destructive behaviour. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.It 100% depends on the reasoning. I once had a woman tell me, flat out, that she was into anal sex now, but if we were to hook up again, she would refuse to do it with me. The reason she gave was "your dick is too big". Emotionally, I didn't feel bothered at all. We did not, however, hook up again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Republicans understand Democrats a lot better than Democrats understand Republicans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Women should not be shamed or judged or pressured over who they allow to touch their genitals. Its really simple.Men should not be told what opinions they can and cannot hold with their own brains, and what they can and cannot say with their own mouths. CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 7 | Proof that this sub is mostly red-pillers and not truly a purple pill debate?That's not proof. Reading =/= practicing or believing. Lack of reading =/= lack of practice or belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Follow on from "angry at the truth" post. Do some men virtue signal about "greater good" when its actually just sexual frustration?Where do you get this idea that people need "justify" their feelings? People can do whatever they want with their feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 05:58 AM |
| 16 | As a younger man who’s a kissless virgin, what’s the point?That post was very much how old school trp was. Thanks for telling us all how "old school TRP" was. What would we do without you? I’m not sure if you were around this sub in early 2017 Truly, you are some sort of ancient being. Betas lose and alphas win. So puncture your narcissistic bullshit sphere and get to work. You are not at special greater disadvantage. You are just an ordinary little boy who hasn't done his homework yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/21 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Women Should Not Be Expected to Work or Have a Career.Once women enter the workforce en masse, being a homemaker is not an option except for the upper classes. This is why the American standard of living has steadily declined since the 70s... when you massively increase the labour supply without increasing the demand, the price of labour (relative to the price of capital) drops. American industry set about automating the role of the housewife, advertising this as "liberating" her from drudgery. This created several problems... first of all, they di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?idea that there is barely any women who are fit for LTR. Nope. There are barely any single women who are fit for LTR. Most relationship-worthy people are in relationships... unless they are so young that they haven't really gotten that part of their lives going yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Is a woman who approaches men low value?Why would she be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Can vetting go wrong?No, you won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Can vetting go wrong?If your partner cheats on you or hurts you in some way it’s your fault for “picking wrong.” But this only seems to go one way and one way only. Okay, if you're going to keep going on about "TRP says" this and that and the other, you're going to need to show me where "TRP" says it. Otherwise, I'll be forced to conclude that you are arguing with phantoms that inhabit the interior of your own skull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Can vetting go wrong?I'm puzzled as to what you mean by "fault" in this context. Like, someone did something morally wrong? If that's what you mean, please link me to the TRP article that discusses this, because that article would violate the "no moralizing" rule, and I'd need to fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Can vetting go wrong?This is vague. If what goes wrong? Goes wrong how? Held against her by who? With what consequences? Perhaps if you gave me an example, it would be more clear what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:58 PM |
| -1 | Is there a category beyond alpha and beta for men?Every time I see the alpha/beta dichotomy discussed, it seems as if those are the only two categories a man can fall into - they're either a simp with no self-respect, or an asshole with no respect for women. So you're prone to dichotomous thinking? Is it really that uncommon for a man to treat himself AND women with respect? Define respect. Does he fall into the "alpha" category even if he's not trying to manipulate women? "Manipulate" is a snarl word for "persuasion I don't like". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Can vetting go wrong?Puzzling. Since "shit isn't perfect" is one of the basic premises of TRP, I wonder what it is that you've got in your head, and are arguing against. Perhaps you could link me to some articles by ECs that would make it clear what you are attempting to respond to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Can vetting go wrong?Will you also be surprised if I say that seat belts will not make you invulnerable to car accidents? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Can vetting go wrong?said that vetting can go wrong. I found this to be surprise So... up until he told you that, you thought you were an infallible judge of character who could never be mistaken about anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | 41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats?Self-report studies are worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 6 | A whole what??? 🤣If the goal is to stop wanting to date, why isn't it called FNDS? | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/21 05:04 PM |
| 9 | What skill has helped you the most? Formerly awful person here.We've gotten into a rut of no sex as I've gained tons of weight Lose tons of weight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | This has to be the most hateful and predatory thing I’ve seen in a good minute… (she’s a lesbian btw)"Pickme" is a term used by "skipmes". | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/21 08:46 AM |
| 17 | How do you decline sex without making husband feel rejected?If you get skilled with your lips and tongue, you can bring a man to orgasm within a minute or three, without fail. This requires a certain amount of precision, but very little physical effort. You can do it when you are tired, without becoming more tired, especially if the two of experiment to find a position that's comfortable for both of you. If you do this anytime he asks, no man in the world will feel hard done by, even if you only want penetrative sex occasionally. It may take a little wor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | "Men are MEANT to be expendable. Women are not." J Walters for Congress on TwitterMeant by whom? | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?If you don't need men, why do you care what they think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 08:49 AM |
| 3 | So I am new to the idea of “men’s rights” and am genuinely curious what you guys are advocating for. Could someone provide a couple of rights you guys want to see passed? (Serious replies please)It isn't actually made of gold and diamonds, you know, and no one particularly wants to see it. Half the human race has them, and there's nothing special about yours. Now if you could show me a ban on infant circumcision, or equal time for equal crimes, or a moratorium on arresting male victims of domestic violence, I'd get excited about that. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously.Women love it when you take them seriously as a partner Partner? Woah, woah, slow your roll, there, kiddo. We haven't even been introduced yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 2 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?Lol I love being compared to a fish. Shall I compare thee to well-stocked seaway? Thou art more wet and full of life... However knowing “what woman want” as you said is a skill a lot of men think they have but very few actually possess Yes. It's difficult because our culture attitude towards and about women is profoundly broken, which leads to it not only failing to tell men what they need to know, but actually misleading them into all kinds of awkward mistakes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 0 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?Well, you're not looking pick up women, yeah? Seriously, tho... the understanding of women you get from being one, and the understanding you need in order to attract one are not... quite... the same. You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish... you ask a fisherman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | If average men have such a hard time getting in relationships, why do men cheat far more than women?You don't know that they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | TRP advocates for working on your fitness, money and status, but basically preaches against taking the women who appreciate those "qualities" seriously.We advocate against taking any woman seriously. Women hate it when you take them seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?Talk to her... while equipped with an understanding of what women want, how they feel, and what they think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | If you only focus on looks, status, and money then don’t be surprised when you attract a lot of shallow people.I prefer my women no more than a handful of inches deep. Also no more than eighteen inches wide, and around 48 to 70 inches tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The art of “Negging”…I unfortunately feel like it works…Yeah, that's actually most of the reason why it works. When I take a girl's hand and point out to her that she has dirt under her fingernails, it doesn't just make her want to qualify herself because she feels bad. It also tells her I am not afraid to just talk to her like an ordinary human being. You're welcome. Good luck out there, and stop being ashamed of your instincts! They evolved for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | The art of “Negging”…I unfortunately feel like it works…Okay, awesome. Now we can talk about "negs" in context. So here's one of the things I tell men, when I am teaching them how to be attractive to women: In order to be attractive to women, you can't put them on a pedestal or in a hugbox. This makes them hold you in contempt. You have to willing to give them either praise or criticism or just plain honesty, depending on what will work. Most modern western women respond much better to being challenged, teased, or even sometimes criticized than to pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The art of “Negging”…I unfortunately feel like it works…Okay, so you agree, in principle, that higher or lower self-esteem is not necessarily better, it just depends what effect it has on our happiness, or long-term well being, or whatever. If you agree with that, then do you also agree with this: Criticism, express or implied, is not necessarily detrimental. ...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?AWALT: All women contain the same basic set of instincts. What they express of those instincts depends on their long-term life experiences, and on their immediate situation. The phrase "AWALT" was coined to refute the idea some men have that their pwecious pedastalized pwincess would never do "that". The response is, no, ALL women are like that. Any woman is capable of X under the right circumstances. 80/20 rule: This is not a redpillian thing at all. It's the Pareto distribution, a well-underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:41 AM |
| 0 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?I know what standard TRP beliefs are. I wrote them. What I want to know is where the hell you got this: So you believe all women are the same and 80% of men will never experience mutual attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?So you believe all women are the same and 80% of men will never experience mutual attraction? Where'd you get that from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCMGWRoPuMY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?So you don't have anything besides "Because I, a random person, say so". I thought not. That which is asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?That's not evidence, either. That's a request for contradictory data, which I could provide... if that was what we were talking about. But we're not. You made two claims. I am giving you an opportunity to back them up. If you cannot, you effectively admit you were speculating about something of which you have zero actual experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?That is not evidence. You made two assertions: "If you believe AWALT, AF/BB and/or the 80/20 [rule], then you are doing damage to your ability to ... have a ... relationship." "TRP ... harms the people who believe it." Back those assertions up with something. Anything that is actually evidence... not a "just-so" story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | The art of “Negging”…I unfortunately feel like it works…Before I can answer that, I need to understand one of your preconceptions. Do you think the most healthy level of self-esteem is the maximum possible level of self-esteem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?TRP is indeed about accommodating the female imperative. Accommodating the female imperative requires misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Evidence, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:57 PM |
| 10 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?Exactly. Economics isn't the study of money... it's the study of choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"?There is a common sentiment around here that says red pillers are just bitter mysogenistic boys who are upset because the women blah blah blah That sentiment is common to people who cannot stand to hear anything negative said about women in general, ever, and so they must immediately try to discredit the source because they cannot discredit the statement. If you are a red pill subscriber, did your life change for the better or for the worse? Do you get the results you want or you wish you've nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Quality time love language tips?I finally went and checked out this test, because I keep hearing people talk about it. I think the basic idea that people send and receive affection on different channels is sound, but I have my doubts about the actual test. It's made of self-report questions, doesn't weight answers, and is probably influenced as much by current state as by personality. If you have something that you feel is clearly your "love language", run with that. If the quiz tells you something, take it with a grain of sal… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Moving forward post-divorceI'm not responsible for what you can see. I'm not focused on your experience here. Can't chase two rabbits at once. If you want advice about something, start a thread, and that one can be focused on you. This one's about her. If this is a gospel you don't believe in already, why are you here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Moving forward post-divorceYou sound frustrated. Here you are trying to build up her self-esteem, and you don't understand why I am not helping you, and seem to be trying to do the opposite. Well, I've been doing this for a minute or two (ten years), and I've learned along the way that the intuitive response doesn't always work out the way we planned. So I'll let you in on my thinking, here. You're absolutely right that I am not trying to boost /u/Crafty-Resident-6741's self esteem right now. That's because doing so would… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Moving forward post-divorceWomen who come from a wealthy background are often well-positioned to appreciate other virtues in men. Poor women often think that a man's wealth is indicative of his drive, persistence, courage, intelligence, and other virtues, and this is frequently, if not necessarily always, true. However, to women who grew up around around wealth, money is a bit like air... it's just there when you want it. This allows them to see the difference between men who are wealthy but lack other recommendations, an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Moving forward post-divorceNot really talking about wealth here, or financial support. What I'm talking about is an attitude that RPW has to spend a lot of its collective time fighting quite vigourously to quash... this attitude of "I'm a good person, why can't I find the type of man I deserve?" I'm aware that YOU do not have this attitude, but you are talking to a whole bunch of other people, some who are very prone to falling into it. Many women need to constantly be reminded that good person =/= good partner, and that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Moving forward post-divorceIt’s doesn’t make you less worthy of being a wife I'd be very cautious with this kind of thinking. Men are not all-powerful gods with the ability, and the responsibility, to bring justice to the universe. They are people trying to live the best life they can, as defined by their wants and needs. Women can't waste time thinking about what they are worthy of, or what they deserve... because the definitions of a 'good person' and a 'desirable partner' are different. To believe that men will, or eve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Moving forward post-divorceIt was really for the safety of our children. You're making a moral excuse, but it's unnecessary, because I am not morally judging you. RPW is specifically set up so that we don't talk about morality. I'm not talking about your character, I'm talking about your attractiveness, as a partner, to men who don't know you yet. You could have the best reasons in the world for doing what you did (which might actually be the case, I don't know) and still be less desirable because of it. I generally advis… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/21 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Moving forward post-divorceI wanted to call out your comment because it's a good educational experience for women. If you are a divorced single mom, you're going to end up with someone, if you do, who is lower in market value than the last one. What you did, however, was leverage the difference between "apparent market value to other people", and "real value specifically to me". Your first man's apparent market value was high because of his career and wealth. He probably had other things going for him as well, like confid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/21 03:40 PM |
| 17 | Moving forward post-divorceBut, I also still feel as though I bring a lot to the table. You are delusional. Here's what you look like to men seeking a partner: Past your attractiveness prime. Spent the most energetic growth periods of your life building a shared history with someone else. Come as a package deal with two of someone else's kids. Come as a package deal with an ex who will expect to be, and have a legal right to be, involved in those children's lives. Not only unable, but unwilling, to bear his children. Thin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/21 03:12 PM |
| 6 | More suicide exist in men not because they don’t ask for help, but because not enough help exists.Men don't ask for help because they know perfectly well they won't get it. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it really better to be red pilled?That brings me to a question, since the society is in a decline (majority of people), are we devolving in a sense? No. Our society is in decline because that is a point in the lifecycle of societies. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qtctsi/what_exactly_is_the_end_game_for_redpillersmgtow/hkqpazy/ | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 8 | Is it really better to be red pilled?Society was structed in a way that men did not have to be red pilled. Wrong. Society was structured in such a way that men were red pilled. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Benedict being an actual Cumberbitch - simps about how “men need to shut up and listen”Quick, someone get Ja Rule on the phone! | /r/MensRights | 25/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 4 | #NoNothingNovember 2021 Tribe on TRP.RED - Drop 3 bad habits / vices for November and Track Your ProgressWhy on earth would I want to sell you a book on how to get laid? You're young and broke. If I wanted to make money writing books, I'd write fake feel-good self-help books for fat depressed middle aged women. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/21 05:21 AM |
| 33 | Reddit Case Study on exactly what NOT to doThe single most important difference between RPW and FDS/feminism is trust. Demands that you not give up a single iota of power or control to a man you're supposed to love are based in distrust. Which demands of us that we ask the question... "if you don't trust this man, why are you with him?". One of RPW's most important core beliefs is that, while there are bad men, and men behaving badly, men, as a whole and in general, are actually good... especially towards women. And the better, sweeter, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"It's a sign that women are delusional, and that, to charm them, you should feed this delusion. They want very much to believe that there is such a thing as a "natural", which, of course, there is not. They want to believe that their vagina tingles are a magic dowsing rod that sniffs out "character" and "good genes", as opposed to a knee-jerk response to instinct, just like a man's erection. So, when courting women, don't let them see your struggle. Don't let them know where you came from. Don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Most Red Pill Influencers have likely suffered some sort of traumaRed Pill YouTubers like Fresh and Fit, FITXFEARLESS, AMS Bwahahahahahahahahahahahheheheheeehheeeesnort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 11:56 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?"Why are men different from women? That's very puzzling and inconvenient for us!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 11:54 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?The answer is as simple as the word "corruption", but that word is used so much that we don't really unpack what it means. Dictionary cor·rup·tion /kəˈrəpSH(ə)n/ \1. dishonest or fraudulent conduct by those in power, typically involving bribery. the action of making someone or something morally depraved or the state of being so. \2. the process by which something, typically a word or expression, is changed from its original use or meaning to one that is regarded as erroneous or debased. the proc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What are your discovered preferences?The overwhelming majority of women aren't funny. But every woman who has ever lasted more than three months in a relationship with me is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 05:49 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?blah blah scripture: Woman bad, Men Good blah blah blatant misogynistic blah blah expect any self-respecting woman to be okay with that? 2013 called, and it wants its arguments back. By now, even TRP's most fervent haters have admitted that it works, and are focusing on criticizing it on moral grounds. You are a throwback to a bygone era, here. Stats are showing men are becoming more sexless, woman are opting out of relationships all together, people are becoming more and more lonely like... the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 12:14 AM |
| 23 | I am a bit scared of older menit suddenly hit me that he is 37 and I am 24, that’s a 13 year age gap, why would he be interested in me if it’s not the fact that I am young? If your sense of your own worth is very low, your brain will start making up excuses as to why people who like you don't really like you. And your sense of self worth can be discerned just from reading your user name. Of course he likes it that you are young... men are attracted to younger women. But can you see how your brain made an unnoticed and unsupp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 3 | To RP men: Do you communicate your RP views to your irl friends, family, acquaintances, etc...?Women are gaslighted to death Stand back, everyone! Don't contaminate the crime scene! Hmmm... from the way the victim collapsed backwards, this discarded lace handkerchief, and the faint odor of smelling salts, I deduce that that this poor unfortunate lady died of... criticism! Clearly, the suspect we are looking for is a liar, a bounder, and a cad of the first water. Jeeves, alert the constabulary to on the lookout for a mustachioed man, possibly with a swarthy, foreign complexion! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?You think women do this intentionally? Nope, they're just clueless. No one understands women less well than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill isn't hatefulPeople on TRP have said that if not for sex, women would be hunted for sport. Nonsense. Hunting women would be no challenge at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:02 AM |
| 3 | "Femininity" isn't the natural state of women and what we call "masculinity" is normal animal behavior.Femininity and male protectiveness evolved because women cannot be powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Be honest, do you really think women are more attracted to celebrities than non-elite men? And if so, if you were a woman for example, would you also find said men attractive?The question is meaningless. If "I" were someone else, then "I" would not be "I". If pigs were seagulls, then those would be seagulls, not pigs being seagulls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?Indeed. Training spaces have specific purposes. When you are at the gym, you only lift weights... you do not, in any meaningful way, display your skill at cooking. When we came up with TRP, we very deliberately and carefully designed it to interact with the things that would happen to men off TRP in order to produce a meaningful result. This is why the point is repeatedly emphasized that you cannot understand TRP's exact impact and role, unless you are a heterosexual male who actively goes out a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill advice would be perfect if all the women in the world had Borderline Personality DisorderWhat do you mean, "if"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:02 PM |
| 7 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”It's good that you recognize that men are gods, our voiced opinions are divine law, and that anything we express disapproval of, we are actually forbidding you to do. But sometimes, before forbidding something and changing the laws of physics so that it is actually impossible, we like to gather information from you mere mortal female types. So we ask questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.One example of a selection bias might be the act of cherry-picking articles which argue for the conclusion you want to reach. Once I reached the article that incorrectly defined a neg, I didn't see the need to read further. It is useless to parse the arguments of those who cannot pass an ideological Turing test. I would be curious to see if you, yourself, are capable of passing one in this context. What I find slightly more interesting is the more general question of "who understands human matin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men."Here's a list of journal studies. These studies prove that what you experienced didn't happen. Who are going to believe, a bunch of highly respected scientists... or your own lying eyes and ears?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:01 PM |
| 3 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?On the internet, there are no actions, only words. And, as TRP writers have been observing for years, women don't tell the truth. This is not because "women are liars" so much as it is because women use language differently than men do. While men use language to exchange information, women use language to navigate the social matrix. Under the primitive conditions in which humans evolved, men's survival was dependent on working effectively with other men as a team, while women's survival depended… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Happy to help ya out. Let me know if there are any other obvious things you need explained to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How is someone supposed to have a low N-count and be happy, if they have a bad time at finding lasting relationships ?She might just not be interested in having relationships with those men and were just hooking up for fun. True. But this is also a reason why she would not be desirable as a relationship partner, so there's no need to try to parse out which of these is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How is someone supposed to have a low N-count and be happy, if they have a bad time at finding lasting relationships ?They're not supposed to have a bad time at finding lasting relationships. The real reason a high N-count is unattractive is women is that a woman with a high N-count has been dumped a lot. This means "other men didn't want to stay with her, so odds are you won't, either". A woman's N-count doesn't tell you how easy she is, it tells you how long partners stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:49 PM |
| 7 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?So it's time men started giving you an honest one. Yes, we notice. Yes, it matters. Yes, we will dump you if you get too fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?I don't need you to tell me what FDS is, I can and have read it for myself, and see no reason to insert you as some sort of filter between me and direct raw data. What you are useful for is telling me how you experience FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:31 AM |
| 3 | How important is it for your spouse to be a virgin?Virginity is nice, but it's less important than "was trying to establish a permanent LTR every time she had sexual intercourse". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?I think the sort of woman who would read FDS without being appalled would not be attractive to me. Ironically, FDS and TRP look very much alike, if you don't look too hard and/or aren't very smart to begin with. This is because their intake end looks very much the same... losers who are unsuccessful at getting what they want from the opposite sex, and are angry at the opposite sex about it. The difference is where they go from there. TRP teaches these angry men that their failures are due to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | To RP men: Do you communicate your RP views to your irl friends, family, acquaintances, etc...?I am not a TradCon but I could live quite comfortably in a TradCon world. Bloopers tend to get all worked up with any disagreement; TradCons just want me to be less of a player and finally settle down and get married. Tradcons aren't a danger to old dudes with game. Tradcons are a danger to young, unconfident men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 07:42 PM |
| 22 | How do conservative women convince men that they are not gold diggers?You are one. Do you know why so many billionaires have reasonably hot wives their own age, as opposed to smoking hot professional models twenty years younger than they are? Because when you are very wealthy, one of the hardest things to get your hands on is someone you know is committed to you, not your wealth. So they tend to marry girls who were with them out of the starting gate. Not ones who did what you are doing, which is wait at the finish line in a short skirt. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 7 | This is what modern feminism and modern women refuse to admit when they say it is ok to have sex with anybody you liked. Women, they are destorying you. These comments also dropped truth bombsPeople can, may, and should say what they want to say. No one is forcing you, or even trying to force you, to listen. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Hey antifeminist pick-me choose me petty babesThis is a gaslighting tactic called "forced teaming". We are not a "team". We are not "in this together". We do not share the same goals. I have my goals, and you have yours, and they are not the same. If you are telling me to change my goal so we can "work together", then you are not my friend. You are a predator who is trying to hijack my efforts. If you truly want to be my friend, then help me achieve my chosen goals, in exchange for me helping you achieve yours. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Data Shows Women's Standards Are Impossiblehttps://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/qoftxq/tinder_data_shows_womens_standards_are_impossible/hjyj0d9/ | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Data Shows Women's Standards Are ImpossibleFounder of /r/theredpill here. This is true, but it doesn't mean what you think. One of the early observations that got TRP started was me sitting around in a mixed group of friends, going through an early website called "hotornot.com", and having the men rate a female photograph when it showed up, and vice versa. I very quickly noticed that the men tended to use the numbers 4-8 on a 1-10 scale a lot, and women tended to use 2-6... basically replicating the results of this study. And yet, in my … | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Or just maybe to get away from you.Why exactly does she think we should need an excuse before we talk to other men? | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/21 05:02 PM |
| 15 | This is what modern feminism and modern women refuse to admit when they say it is ok to have sex with anybody you liked. Women, they are destorying you. These comments also dropped truth bombsThat's correct. They prefer other things. Men and women are different. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/21 05:01 PM |
| 13 | This is what modern feminism and modern women refuse to admit when they say it is ok to have sex with anybody you liked. Women, they are destorying you. These comments also dropped truth bombsIt's okay to prefer whatever you prefer. If you only want to date midgets, or policemen, or amputees, or stockbrokers, or left-handed jugglers who speak Urdu, then knock yourself out. The common thread is here that other people can also do what they want in response to that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 22 | Real life RP effects: men in 40s divorcing wives who helped them reach high SMV/RMV?Remember that you have a parasocial relationship with these people. You don't know if she was supportive or not. You don't know what she did or didn't do, what he did or didn't do. You only know what the press makes up, then tells you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?If a woman isn't willing to have sex with me, she's not making an investment in me. She's avoiding risk. Why would I waste my time with someone who's not all in? Who doesn't believe I am special? Nah, I'll pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 11 | Destroy Your Dick DecemberThe reason we get this is that people tend to remember the good stuff, and not the rest. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.Let’s go back into time. Until recently, every single thing marketed to women was created by and controlled by men. Women's clothes and accessories were designed by men. Make up was designed by men. All products designed and marketed to women (think mens razors with pink plastic) were a male creation. Romcoms were written and produced by men and romance novels were published by publishing houses owned by men. Even our underwear was designed and sold by men. Meaning that for women older than the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 04:34 AM |
| – | Dating advice post: "Is it weird to travel an hour just to walk around looking for girls to talk to?" - do you consider this a normal thing to do?If you don't do something unusual, you won't get any unusual results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 04:31 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltbusting each others balls when they sleep with sluts. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Wtf has fragile masculinity to do with angerI assure you that brain cancer in children is anything but imaginary. If you think that there is no good, psychologically sound reason to ever punch a hole in a wall, then you are incredibly privileged, and live in a metaphorical ivory tower so whitewashed that it cannot be looked at in direct sunlight. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/11/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Wtf has fragile masculinity to do with angerYour obsession with the genitalia of totally strangers is kinda creepy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/11/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Wtf has fragile masculinity to do with angerThere’s nothing strong about breaking down and punching a wall in an impotent shitfit. That’s some weak ass toddler bullshit. He just got a call with the scan results, and his five year old daughter has inoperable brain cancer. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/11/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Wtf has fragile masculinity to do with angerNo, you see, "toxic" masculinity is when men hide emotions, and "fragile" masculinity is when men display emotions. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/11/21 12:04 AM |
| 2 | I feel sexual attraction towards older high power women. I wonder if this is partially how women work with sexual attractionYou are sexually submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?they consider themselves a failure in life (not just a failure in that regard but in life) if they are unable to have lots of mates. You do not understand Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Tech VC calls men who take six months off to parent ‘losers’, says working harder to provide for their future is the correct masculine response. Are gender roles just acknowledging reality?He measures masculinity by success in climbing the corporate ladder, or moving around large amounts of money. Other men measure it other ways. For example, he could be characterized as a pencil-necked geek who doesn't even lift, a coward who never served in an 03xx MOS, a philistine who doesn't make or even understand art, a chode who can't pick up women, or any number of other characterizations. It all depends what your values are, if we take "values" to mean "what you think is important". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?You have a knack for taking my very long and verbose posts and breaking down what I mean into highly effective but very concise conclusions. How?!? Writing practice. Been doing this for ten years. You have very good ideas, but putting them into writing is a different skill, and it's one that our society doesn't really teach very well, because most of our society's intellectuals are focused on sounding impressive, rather than making ideas clear. Writing is at its best, not when there is nothing l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?Going "all in" is risky, but it really pays off if you correctly spotted a good investment. Thus, when we look, in hindsight, at a woman who went all in, and had it work, we can definitely say she has good game. However, this doesn't mean we can always uniformly advise women to go "all in", without knowing whether they picked a good investment, or are good at spotting investments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?Here's how I see it: I, personally, as a modern, sexually successful, not to mention highly oversexed, male, will not buy a cow if I can get the milk for free. Since I can get milk for free, I will not buy a cow, even if THAT cow is selling milk at a premium price, because milk is milk, and it's all the same unless it's sour. Therefore, I will not, in any circumstances, buy a cow in order to get milk. This only needs to matter to you if you are a cow. And have nothing but milk to offer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Books for MEN?I got the data points that I was looking for ... deliberately pushing buttons. I rather thought as much. But, rather than be unfair to you by making that accusation, I chose to say something that would elicit a confession. That particular tool isn't useful here, or actually allowed at all. Your pride is how you wield it is perhaps justified, but no tool is appropriate to all situations, and I often find myself wishing that someday you will evolve from a man with a tool, to a man with a toolbox. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Books for MEN?I don't recommend it, and am I not huge JP fan. (Not that he doesn't have some useful things to say now and again. Let's look at these rules. "Stand up straight with your shoulders back." If you could do this, it would be because your serotonin levels were already high enough not to be your problem. "Treat yourself like you are someone you are responsible for helping." Yes, absolutely. "Make friends with people who want the best for you." No. Because some of those people believe they know, bette… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Books for MEN?Did you write this whole thread while you were high? Or do you just not understand who the audience is in here? RPW is a bunch of tradcon-adjacent chicks who realize that the sexual revolution was a bad thing for them, and they would like to please catch the last train out of clusterfuckistan before the institution of marriage dies altogether. And here you are trying to lecture them about globalism and Zizek and whose daughter gets "cum-blasted". They don't give a shit about Zizek. Of course, no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | A practical guide to self discipline by a former army rangerNot all science is bad just because it came from a modern institution. No one anywhere near this thread has made any such claim. You are arguing with phantoms who occupy the inside of your own head. The alternative you suggest is to take word from you which is not backed by any factual research, just anecdotal examples. Do you understand the meaning of the word "hypothesis"? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | A practical guide to self discipline by a former army rangerI recommend you dig a little deeper into the philosophy of science, as opposed to just getting it from the customs of the modern institution. Ask yourself whether, and why, you should find an alternative hypothesis unsettling. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | College student "scared" that workers who installed radiators in "Female and Transgender Collective" housing were all "cisgender men."Imagine spending your life terrified of the very group of people you are utterly dependent on. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/21 12:51 AM |
| 36 | Do men tend to care more about you when you're thinner, and more attractive?Somebody summon Captain Obvious, please. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | A practical guide to self discipline by a former army rangerThat's the common definition of these terms. I don't agree. Notions like "self-discipline" and "motivation" are arbitrary terms people invented to describe the observable fact that some people put off gratification and do work, and others don't. But there's no real evidence that these two things are in any way distinct. In fact, there's no real evidence that either of them is a thing at all. "Motivation" and "self-discipline" are treated like health bars or strength bars in a video game. You hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | A practical guide to self discipline by a former army rangerpeople become self-disciplined You are proposing the existence of entities for which you have no evidence. There are plenty of people who believe that there is such a thing as "general" self-discipline, which is applicable to any task, and can be developed on one task, then transferred seamlessly to another. However, these people tend to believe that because there are plenty of people who already believe it, and they believe it because there are plenty of people who already believe it, and they … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/21 12:59 AM |
| 5 | A practical guide to self discipline by a former army rangerBeta males love the idea of self-discipline because they don't like to make choices and take responsibility for them. They want a life where success is a function of exerting effort to follow a set of clear and easily available instructions, rather than a function of correct strategy selection. Beta males who have attained success will thus often advise people to hone their "self-discipline" by performing useless nonproductive conformity tasks, such as making your bed, or getting up at 4am. It i… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/21 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Professor: Fewer Men Going to College Will Lead to a ‘Mating Crisis’Well written as usual, Vas. Gets right to the point, and makes it crystal clear. However, there is one small point I'd like to unpack further. -Avoid going into debt unless you have a clear path to prosperity. While you are literally correct here, "clear path to prosperity" is somewhat ambiguous, and there's a risk that some of the young bros will misunderstand. So, let's add some further detail: Debt is not inherently bad. One of the major differences between the rich and the poor is that the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Some additional shower thoughts about sex and marriage and dating (oh my)I don't think there is an ultimate fix to every sex question in a Judeo-Christian culture, because Abrahamic religions transmit, and sometimes are predicated on, a profoundly unhealthy attitude about sex. The socioreligious structures of other cultures, mostly ancient cultures, did not have this problem. Sex was accepted as a simple biological imperative, rather than being sequestered behind a barrier of guilt and shame. When elements of our culture seek solutions to sexual imperatives, they do … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/21 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Why do feminists get annoyed when male victims are brought up?Because feminism is Marxism applied to the family. The distinguishing characteristic of Marxism is the act of replacing any nuanced and complex description of life with an oversimplified, one-dimensional narrative of oppressors, who are wholly evil, and oppressed, who are wholly good. When you apply Marxism to the economy, you get communism. When you apply Marxism to ethnography, you get critical race theory. And when you apply Marxism to the family, you get feminism. Marxists react angrily, and… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/21 05:29 PM |
| 11 | Ah yes, the male species is a prestige type of speciesThere are only two kinds of women: pickmes, and skipmes. The choice is entirely hers. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/10/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it unrealistic to expect a guy to want to marry me and stay a virgin until he does? Is it too old school?😞Yes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/21 08:06 PM |
| 13 | Some additional shower thoughts about sex and marriage and dating (oh my)Mutual desire is great, and mutual simultaneous orgasm is great, but not every sexual act has to be done that way. If only one participant is aroused, then it is perfectly healthy for the other person to focus on getting them off, without having to feign need or pleasure. Men despise starfish sex, and duty sex, not because they have some strange need to witness the female orgasm every time, but because they despise indifference or poorly feigned enthusiasm. You don't have to be turned on to suck… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Update on my previous post about OneitisYou're overthinking this. Any woman who rejects you is dead to you. Not because you hate her, but because any moment you spend thinking about her or talking to her is a moment you could have spent on a woman who does want you. Who gives a shit why she won't just say "no"? Figuring that out is a game with no prize if you win. The moment a women rejects your advances, ghost her and invest your time in something else. | /r/askMRP | 07/10/21 05:19 PM |
| 16 | I can't get over Redpill's (especially TRP's) treatment and attitiude towards ugly women.Part of taking the red pill is acceptance of the fact that men are human beings, and are entitled to exist for their own good, instead of existing as a means for the health, happiness and prosperity of others. This is the part you're having trouble with. You're still seeing men as our culture typically does... as a sort of combination of all-powerful gods, with the power to bring justice to the universe, and servant automatons, whose role is create this justice for the sake of others. Women don'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/21 06:14 PM |
| 16 | I'm 15 want to be a housewife, I feel really isolated and everyone at school is bullying meHaving things doesn't make you happy. Money doesn't make you happy. Pleasure is not happiness. Happiness is contentment and inner peace. Only two things in life create happiness: A feeling of accomplishment. Relationships with other people. If you are wise enough at 15 to know this, then you have a huge head start, and head starts are important, because we don't have all the time in the world. Four score and ten years may seem like a long time, but it's not. If you have a dream, no matter what i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/21 06:44 AM |
| 7 | Should I be concerned if a man doesn't think sex has to be deep / emotional?If you're disappointed to learn that men and women are different, I have bad news for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/21 09:14 PM |
| -1 | how much of an age gap is too much?Men can father healthy children up the point they die. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Still not official after four months - any advice appreciated!What's official? Is there a registry? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/21 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Husband sleeps in till late on weekends, even if we've got daytime plans?He doesn't want to tell you because he sees his work as something he does to take care of you, and he doesn't want to burden you with the knowledge. The social plans you enjoy are just an additional duty to him right now, because the job is so draining. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Husband sleeps in till late on weekends, even if we've got daytime plans?He works hard during the week and deserves to sleep in... He will stay in bed until the very last minute.. Sometimes he will be late, and other times I have to wake him myself. We don't have plans that often so it would be 1-2 days a month... He will proceed to play video games till all hours, and stay in bed. He hates his job, and he's depressed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/21 07:28 PM |
| 41 | lets see how feminists survive a day without men.Men only need women at the beginning of their lives, before puberty. After that, they merely want women. Women need men throughout their lives, but men have collectively done such a good job of taking care of women that women often don't realize that men are, in fact, taking care of them every day, just as any job done perfectly tends to become invisible. I find FDS fascinating and read it regularly. It's a very useful source of insight on certain types of psychological malfunctions that women c… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/10/21 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Are woman as horny as men ? What do you guys think about itWomen are biologically hardwired to act as the gatekeepers of sex, so they have to put the brakes on it frequently, regardless of how much they want it in the abstract sense. Think about it has way: You might want a relationship. You might want one a lot. You might want one more than some women do. But do you want a relationship with her? That's how women feel about sex. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/10/21 05:49 AM |
| 6 | 🚶Just replace the first "OK" with "no", and the problem is solved. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/10/21 02:28 AM |
| 2 | zhang yong knows whats upI don't actually care about Mr. Zhang's sex life. Only what he has to say. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?The reason that two-way monogamy has been a cultural norm since the advent of love marriages is because 99% of women will suffer emotionally by infidelity Incorrect. must all our requests have a logical basis? If you don't know why you're doing things, you won't be able to get them right. The purpose of introspection is not justification, but insight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menIf you can't take criticism from a man, you cannot have a healthy heterosexual relationship. You are not a mind reader, so your man will need to be able to tell you what he likes and doesn't about how you are treating him, and be heard... just as you would with him. However, the example that you give is not a good one, because pushing back would be entirely appropriate. This tradcon male may have ideas about how a relationship "should" be, but how you and your boyfriend interact with each other … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/21 01:00 AM |
| 2 | "Why the f--- am I single bro?" Thoughts on Crystal Lizaola's viral Tik Tok videoI can't imagine being able to spend two continuous hours with this woman without having some sort of argument. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 3 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?It should be obvious to him Okay, this is the attitude I was checking for. This is relationship poison. Never assume your partner shares the same set of assumptions and ground rules you do. People are raised differently, they are not mind readers, and everyone has subtly different definitions of right and wrong. Spell it out. Can you explain to your boyfriend why you don't want him to have sex with other people, without relying on concepts like "should be obvious", "cheating", "what everyone doe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 3 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?That's a curious way of phrasing it. He doesn't have to "earn" the right to control his own body. Under the rules of our culture, he can do as he likes with it. Other people, such as you, however, are going to have their own reactions to that. He's not obliged to be "faithful" to anyone, and you are not obliged to stay with him. Those are our cultural rules. But you are going to have to have a more nuanced understanding of yourself than "I think that's lame", before you can know what you want to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 08:41 PM |
| 4 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?Okay, so it's a pretty serious relationship, but you are both very young, so serious, effective communication about emotionally charged issues is going to be very difficult. Still, you're going to need to do it. First, ignore every answer you've just received telling you that he is "in the wrong", or a bad person. We don't do "right" and "wrong" here. Moral assertions won't help you fix this problem. Second, you're both going to need to be able to understand what the other person really means by… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 08:32 PM |
| 4 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?How much have you invested in this relationship so far? How old are you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 5 | A practical guide to self discipline by a former army rangerBeta males love to be hazed so they can feel elite when they are finally given acceptance by daddy. Beta males love to be taught the "correct" way to do trivial, and sometimes unnecessary, tasks, so they can have pride without needing accomplishment. Beta males love to be judged and evaluated by authority figures because their primary source of self-worth is pleasing those in authority over them. Beta males love top-down structures that impose obedience and harsh conditions on them so they can b… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | For the Old Ladies: Laura Doyle is not real lifeAre you saying that I'm not old and wise? I have no idea how old you are. Married or un - I've long believed that it's more important to understand the trade offs than to have a strict set of guidelines. Yeah, one of our perpetual struggles in TRP is to teach people to stop sperging out and inventing lists of rules or "the seven essential traits of an AlfaTM male". | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | No matter what it’s the guy’s fault. They treat women like children and get mad when people treat women like childrenSo, you don't know how to say no to a request, but you want to be treated like full adults. I don't know how to do that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/09/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Maybe I don't deserve a high-quality man after allIt doesn't matter if you are worthy. It only matters if you are wanted. And that is his decision, not yours. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/21 02:59 PM |
| 2 | For the Old Ladies: Laura Doyle is not real lifeThe current SMP is practically making vetting impossible. Yes. But... so what? Wanting to go back to a kinder (to women) and gentler (to women) time, where men had more obligations and assumed more risk, is pointless without a plan to make it happen. And for any plan to work, it needs to contain incentives for everyone whose cooperation is required. Think about it this way. Why would I, a man, want to make the world better for women by waiting longer for sex? It doesn't get me anything. I'm curr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 5 | down for this, anyone?Why is it that I seem to hear feminists taking so many more pains to escape blame for man-haters than they do to correct them? You're not sorry they think that. You're just sorry they said it out loud. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/09/21 08:11 PM |
| 28 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythPeople grow up selfish if they are not taught to be otherwise. Since women no longer have a defined role in society beyond "whatever she wants to be or do", it becomes impossible to impose any standards on women unless you ignore this variety of "progressivism" and be "problematic" instead. Do a thought experiment. Come up with a list of things that a man has to do to be a "real man". It's pretty easy to do. No one will agree with 100% of any list, but anyone can generate them. Now come up with … | /r/MensRights | 23/09/21 06:12 PM |
| 3 | For the Old Ladies: Laura Doyle is not real lifeYou don't need to be wise, smart, or right about anything to be Chad. You just need to be charismatic, and Obama is certainly that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 4 | For the Old Ladies: Laura Doyle is not real life1) I objectified my man into a shiny pretty thing that I could show off to my social circle for my own ego, and then I became entitled and angry when, SHOCKER, said “object” had obligations of his own. 2) My SO didn’t stand his ground and hold frame. If he had obligations, he should have stuck with that instead of acquiescing to my little tantrum and making promises that he couldn’t keep just to make me feel better in the moment. 3) Going cold and giving my SO the silent treatment was just about… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/21 02:01 AM |
| 13 | For the Old Ladies: Laura Doyle is not real lifeOne important thing to realize is that, while older people may be wiser, it's also easy for them to lose sight of the sorts of situations and difficulties that young people find themselves in. It's very easy for a woman who has been married for ten or twenty years to tell a twenty year old girl "no sex until marriage, or long commitment at the very least". It's cost-free, and fun, and makes the married woman look really virtuous. But it's not helpful, because it totally ignores the realities of … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/21 01:58 AM |
| 22 | NARS: The Real EpidemicYes. Here's what I would have said if my audience could be relied upon to have an IQ at least two standard deviations above the mean: Any time there is a metric, it can be gamed in proportion to the gap between it and the quality it seeks to measure. Any time there is profit or power to be gained from gaming a metric, the amount it is gamed will tend towards a maximum over time. There is absolutely no way of systematically reversing this process. All you can do is replace the metric. However, wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/21 06:08 AM |
| 11 | NARS: The Real EpidemicPeople tend to sort themselves into those who have already developed critical thinking skills, those who can be taught them, and those who aren't worth the effort. The intended audience for this article was the second group. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 13 | NARS: The Real EpidemicIntelligence test: Do you believe this article was about SARS-Covid-19? Or about something else? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/21 03:17 AM |
| 8 | NARS: The Real EpidemicHey, anything that makes the chaff self-identify is a win. I don't think it's worthwhile investing much effort in NPCs who are so used to being told what to think that they don't know when they being told how to think. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 16 | NARS: The Real EpidemicThe point of the article has nothing to do with covid, your reading comprehension skills suck, and I don't think you're intelligent enough to make it worth my time to spoon feed you the actual point. Good luck out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/21 12:56 AM |
| 10 | NARS: The Real EpidemicWhat is the point of this post? To discredit that Covid is not a real epidemic? https://www.k5learning.com/reading-comprehension-worksheets | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Oh shit they figured out our resilience method of identity (re)construction. "undertheorizing is the communicative construction of resilience in precarious and problematic spaces online"I'm down for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eKmRkS1os7k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 11:23 PM |
| 21 | Oh shit they figured out our resilience method of identity (re)construction. "undertheorizing is the communicative construction of resilience in precarious and problematic spaces online"I could pick through the numerous errors in this polemic, not least of which was the rather humorous reference to a study done on TRP in 1984, when none of its founders were out of middle school. But let's take a step back and ask some broader fundamental questions, instead. What, exactly, is the purpose of this paper? What ends does it serve? What change does Sean M. Eddington, PhD, hope to create in the world by the act of committing it to paper? It is couched in a language that clearly marks … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.You’re asking me to provide you an answer for EVERY possible outcome. No, he's asking to not provide vague generalizations you pretend are answers. No asked you to provide an answer for everything. I've been doing this for ten years now, and I still can't distill everything down to one post. Don't pretend that you can, then serve us water and call it soup. It's okay to just address one question at a time. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 06:57 PM |
| 11 | This is why I dislike fourth wave feminism. This right here.Okay, I'm gonna sit at home and you can bankroll me. And you can try to tell me what to do, but if I refuse to do it, you can't lay a finger on me or you're going to jail. I don't have to stay in shape, perform oral sex ever, perform any kind of sex unless I want to, or be considerate or even polite. And if you decide to divorce me to get out of this deal, you'll still have to bankroll me and I get to keep the kids if I want them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/09/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Back to Basics September: Male Attraction v Female Attractionthree people who get along well enough to make this work? [doffs hat] I appreciate the sentiment... but you are still harbouring a fundamental misconception that will cause you more pain until you learn to set the millstone down. You said "people who get along". That is the symptom of a misconception so fundamental that most people can't disbelieve it... because they can't imagine any other possibility. This shibboleth is called "compatibility". You're thinking of us as three people who "fit" to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Back to Basics September: Male Attraction v Female AttractionYou are welcome. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Back to Basics September: Male Attraction v Female AttractionI’ve always wondered what your dynamic is like with friends, family, and the general public. What do you guys usually do when meeting new people - selectively tell those who are more open and understanding, or just let everyone know and anyone who has a stick up their butt can eff off? We're completely forthright about it. I have zero patience for people who can't mind their own business. The pattern is that no one gives us crap in red-state areas, and tolerant liberals... aren't. What was it li… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 8 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?younger women are more attractive, but most of them are shallow vacant people. If you want spend your time filming stupid dance Tik Toks of your 18 y/o gf, be my guest. Clearly the superior option for me is to date women of exactly your age, and spend my time proofreading spiteful reddit posts about how anyone younger than you is "shallow" and "vacant". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 02:19 PM |
| 2 | One logical question, and they melt like a block of cheese in an oven 😂So, does that mean that feminists will leave me alone and stop talking to me? Because I'd really like that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/09/21 06:45 AM |
| 8 | One logical question, and they melt like a block of cheese in an oven 😂Frame control failure. She didn't want to answer the question, so she tried to change the subject to whether he was angry or not. By saying he was not angry, he allowed this. The appropriate response is "We're not discussing my feelings right now. Are you going to answer the question, or not?" | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/09/21 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Back to Basics September: Male Attraction v Female AttractionWhile I think it’s certainly possible for some couples (er... maybe throuples is a better word) to enjoy them, for many others it just isn’t feasible given their culture, personality type, or temperament. One of the greatest obstacles that "FunSize", "FanGirl" and I have faced in this respect is lack of cultural acceptance. It's a little like being gay, but without the support network and pride parades. People feel totally comfortable being bigoted against us where they would feel ashamed of doi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?LOL so women SECRETLY love older men, they just don't actual go for them? Point to the place where I said women desire older men at all. I didn't. Quit trying to change the subject. Your science is junk. I have pointed that your science is junk. What else might be true is not under discussion here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?If women were just dying to be with older guys, there would be a lot more. That's not how the science game is played. You have to look at what you want to study, instead of at other things that are only connected by a "just-so story". We are talking about who women desire, and you are looking at statistics about who women end up with. https://dianegenders.co.uk/figures-show-correlation-between-age-gap-and-rates-of-divorce/ https://lovin.ie/news/this-is-the-perfect-age-gap-in-a-relationship-accor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?Do you think it is entirely a coincidence that your attitude at every age exactly aligned with that which most flattered your ego at that age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?Most younger women generally aren't attracted to older men What is your source for this conclusion? Age gap relationships are a divorce risk with a bigger age gap being associated with a higher chance of divorcing What is your source for this conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4Red-Pillers: What are your thoughts on modern-day sexual consent laws?The simple reality of human mating instinct is that the female of the species is hardwired to act as a gatekeeper on sex. If any indication of resistance, followed by intercourse, is held to be rape regardless of what occurs between these two events, then the only sex that isn't rape is sex where no resistance has ever occurred. Apart from groupies having sex with celebrities, and prostitutes having sex for money, this is not really the sort of thing you can expect to have happen all that often.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 06:41 PM |
| -3 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?So what’s going on here? You're posting nonsense, that's what's going on. When a handful of us founded TRP about nine years ago, people didn't like it. TBP was founded to criticize and disagree with us. We also got death threats. But we didn't pretend TBP was the source of those threats because we are not a bunch of disingenuous liars who pretend that everyone who dislikes us is the same person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is something about equality something something somethingIf, when you encounter someone who disagrees with you, you immediately start explaining how they are neurotic, and how their mental illness led to their disagreement... you are essentially saying that no one can disagree with you and be sane. This means you have no respect for anyone who isn't a clone of you. Why should anyone else have any interest in hearing from you? | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 3 | REPOST: Shit to Avoid Saying in ModmailYou don't understand leadership yet. A man of abundance may be able to reject, without preamble, those who don't meet his expectations. This is Indifference Game. But then he is stuck rolling the dice again, trying to find someone who accidentally happens to do everything he wants. A leader, however, has Control Game. He makes expectations clear, and is able to reward those who meet them, and punish those who don't (usually by rejection). /u/CrazyHorseInvincible, /u/TheRedPike, and the rest of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Day 1 cold approach | got a number!Okay, first off, anyone who is serious about lifting, and can afford gym membership, can afford a set of barbells and the wood for a DIY squat rack. Therefore, his gym is his garage. Going to a gym is okay, being dependent on a gym is stupid. Secondly, be attractive, don't be unattractive. A woman who thinks you are attractive may still turn you down, but she won't complain about you. Third, be a man of abundance. If a woman isn't into you, you won't persist if you have plenty of other women ava… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/21 07:26 PM |
| 24 | How To Bring Down A Herohttps://www.theonion.com/girlfriend-changes-man-into-someone-shes-not-interested-1819565990 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/21 03:03 AM |
| 34 | Day 1 cold approach | got a number!Learn to care less about conversion rates. Yes, as you self-improve and learn game, conversion rates will increase for you. But the greatest milestone of success is learning to give less fucks. When you don't emotionally invest in converting, it will happen more. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 11:58 PM |
| 17 | The Importance of Manliness.Exactly. Some questions are sincere requests for information that it is in your best interest to give. Many others aren't. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 22 | The Importance of Manliness.That's my whole point. Using "frame" to mean composure is retarded misinterpretation by people who read red pill material but haven't the wit to understand it. You don't "have" frame and you don't "hold" frame. You control the frame, which is the subject, context, and rules of the discourse. My game isn't "poker" or "failed ideologies from a century ago". It's "whichever game has the highest expected value at the moment". That's what I mean by talking about the concept of frame control in respon… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 10 | The Importance of Manliness.If you answer to many form questions you end up living in a box. https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/1654 | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 27 | The Importance of Manliness.If “just being yourself” or “Being a Nice Guy” was the Pathway to Pussy Just make yourself into a real fucking man. THEN be yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Did I have sex too soon?You have that rule because you do not understand that men and women are different. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Did I have sex too soon?"I really enjoy spending time with her, and she seems to care about me and what I want, but I'm going to dump her because she had sex with me too early" No man ever | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | The Social Credit Score: Coming soon to a country near youA society can't be any better than the people who compose it, in the same way that you can't build a skyscraper out of meringue. Once parents delegate the responsibility to educate their children to the state, you end up with generations of people who have been taught to be fearful and dependent. Libertarian cultures tend to be frontier cultures. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).A problem for whom? Anyone who doesn't like it doesn't have to read it. Anyone who chooses to read it, and is damaged thereby, is just hurting themselves, and could have done so anywhere. FDS is a symptom, not the disease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do men take such interest in avoiding child support, but so little interest in avoiding pregnancy?Because men don't complain about being "oppressed" every time the laws of physics or biology have inconvenient consequences for us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 02:52 AM |
| 6 | My Insane 1 Year Muscle Building Journey With SteroidsI think we differ in our normative views of the solutions, but not in our perception of the problems. The way I would describe the situation we face is this: The overwhelming majority of the institutions of our society have failed in their missions, not through weakness or incompetence, but through malfeasance and dereliction of duty. In most cases, the mission has shifted from abolition of the problem the institution was designed to deal with, to profiting off the continuation of that problem. … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | My Insane 1 Year Muscle Building Journey With SteroidsYou're not prone to understatement, but this time you did. Our entire society, medical caste, and zeitgeist cannot be trusted on the topic of what is and isn't healthy to put into your body. We are in the midst of the greatest mass poisoning in recorded history which is being carried out with the full consent and active cooperation of the medical industry and the FDA. Not only that, it is now fashionable to give meth/speed to little boys because being masculine is considered a pathology. It is e… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.You do know that people complaining about something doesn't actually prevent you from doing it, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 05:40 AM |
| 0 | [Q4All] What is your opinion on monogamy?"No, thanks. I'm good." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.Sounds fairly reasonable. We have a deal then. I won't complain about women not giving men compliments, and women won't complain about men not giving them commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.Are men also entitled to not engage in behaviours they don't want to engage in simply because it's not worth it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women?If I am seeking a woman for sex, younger is preferable. However, if I am looking for a wife or girlfriend, younger is preferable. That's not the real question you wanted to ask, though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/21 04:52 AM |
| 5 | I don't understand why he left"I'm not looking for a one night stand" is easily translated by men as "I have had a lot of one night stands, and have been disappointed by the results. I now want more from you than the previous double-digit number of guys, but I won't offer you anything more than I offered them." Girls who are actually not into one night stands will just say "no thanks" to sex if they're not really feeling it... and that is boundary enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/21 06:29 AM |
| 4 | I don't understand why he leftNow that you put it like this, it occurs to me that there are some implications here. I always teach men who are beginners at seduction to "text for logistics only". This is not a strict rule when you gain more skill, but the point is, don't hang about having text conversations forever, because you can only make her wet for you in person. Now that you say this, however, I realize that it is also important for women not to text a lot instead of meeting... because you can only evaluate him in pers… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/21 06:26 AM |
| 62 | I don't understand why the hell I am still singleYou've told us how you see yourself. But to answer your question, we would need to know how others see you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?Being traumatized by your man's sexual present (having other partners). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them?Neither. They are better off watching them and deciphering their behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 08:53 PM |
| 11 | “I can’t be open because they will use it against me” is a common thing I hear men say, but not women as much — why?Because when women are open, men don't use it against them. Men are protective of women, women are protective of children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Traditional submissive Choose one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 12:32 AM |
| – | What does 'Hypergamy' mean to you?https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/848 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 0 | [Q4All] What are your thoughts on The animosity between sex workers and their clients?It's projected self-loathing. There is nothing wrong, in principle, with selling sex, or buying it. No one is ashamed to pay for a professional massage, even if their girlfriend will give them one for free. But our culture's sex industry is broken, and only psychologically damaged women are selling sex. They are ashamed of selling sex, and they take it out on their customers. And the customers respond in kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Ah, yes, a very cunning and relevant argument "You are not having sex a lot". I'm actually a labrador retriever who has learned to type with his nose, and since that trip to the vet, I'm not having sex at all. But human mating habits still fascinate me. Okay, bored. Done responding. Good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Redpill ideology: what is it's moral stance on sexuality?"Should" means one of two things. The Categorical Imperative: "You should take care of your kids." The Hypothetical Imperative: "You should turn that bolt to the left (since you want to loosen it)." Categorical imperatives are banned from TRP: Nothing in TRP prohibits you from having and following a code of ethics. You're welcome to discuss why certain morals or values might exist, or their benefit in the context of strategy, however arguments that stem from morality (i.e. this is evil, therefor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Yeah, I don't think I'm about to be taught critical thinking by a guy that can't even fact check himself. I don't think you'll be taught critical thinking at all. Also, your sexism is showing Good. assuming I'm some stupid woman that couldn't survive without your guidance. I'm a man, for starters And this matters because? Is being mistaken for a woman somehow insulting to you? If so, why? I'm a man that knows when a psuedointellectual is going to wax poetic to make himself feel smart Ah, "pseudo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Alas, there is no joy in having a contest of wits with someone so far out of her depth that the fish have lights on their noses. I was rooting for you... I really was. But I can't teach you rhetoric, or critical thinking, or anything else that matters, without your permission. Good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Along with a few other people, my writing has kind of defined what TRP is, so I don't really know if I can "disagree" with it. It isn't really all that possible to "disagree" with yourself. However, my daily life doesn't look like my writing, because my writing is not a cross section of my daily life. It doesn't consist of "everything a man needs to know", only of "everything a man needs to know which is untaught, or suppressed, elsewhere". I teach men to neg, play hard to get, show indifference… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Without the ability to convince me of that, all you are doing is wasting electricity. Don't bother trying to tell me you "have no need to convince me", either. Of course you do. If you did not want me to believe differently you wouldn't have played thread necromancer with your unsolicited response to a month-old comment. The ability to persuade people of things is a basic life skill, and without it, you're in danger of ending up perpetually disappointed by the difference between what you feel yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Why exactly would it "suck"? A stranger disagreed with me on the internet, and felt compelled to tell me so. That's the standard experience of saying things on the internet. You say something, and then some troll says "ur stpd" or "I fuked ur mom", or some such. The only thing that disappoints me is that it would have been nice to be argued with by someone who knows how to argue. I'd rather be disagreed with by a challenging and interesting person than agreed with by a boring one. But it doesn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Healthy eating and portions when cooking for a manGlad that helped. One of my girlfriends once told me a hilarious story of an accidental duel between her Southern father and her Russian maternal grandmother. In Southern culture, when you are a guest, it is polite to clean your plate. In Russian culture, a guest with an empty plate is still hungry. You can well imagine the consequences. Psych studies (I don't remember the exact ones, but if you need a source, it shouldn't be too hard to find) do seem to show that plate size has an effect on how… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 11 | Extreme sex positivityHow much you wish to trust others is always a personal and situational choice. If we trust others too little, we miss out on what they have to offer us. If we trust others too much, we give bad actors and incompetents a chance to harm us. So, the question to be asking yourself is "what do I stand to gain from this?" and "what do I stand to lose?". | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/21 04:48 PM |
| 13 | I am a 26F and I am socially awkward around people of the opposite sex.Okay, so here's how it really works. Most relationships are initiated by women... men only make the first overt move. Women initiate by sending readable, but deniable, "come-hither" signals. Women who don't know how to do that, or don't know that they should, typically end up being ignored and not knowing why. Sound familiar? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/21 01:09 AM |
| 10 | I am a 26F and I am socially awkward around people of the opposite sex.And so, having followed your mother's advice so far, you ended up being "socially awkward around the opposite sex" at the age of 26. All things considered, is that advice working out for you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 4 | I am a 26F and I am socially awkward around people of the opposite sex.I was educated not to make the first move as a woman By whom? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Healthy eating and portions when cooking for a manUnless he has a problem with being fat, and has asked for your help dealing with it, it's not really necessary or appropriate for you to decide how much he should be eating. However, you do need to decide how much food to make. Women generally underestimate how much men will eat, especially athletic men. If a man has twice your mass, he's going to eat more than twice what you do, because a larger percentage of his mass is muscle. So here's how you deal with it. Make more food than he will eat. M… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Explains everything...I dismissed his argument, because it was nonsense. CS Lewis was a skilled writer, and clearly rather intelligent. But intelligence does not armour a person against self-deception in any meaningful way. In fact, intelligence is often pressed into service for the goal of constructing more elaborate rationalizations for the conclusion they already wanted to reach. There is a shining example of this here. Lewis's argument that Jesus must be divine apes the form of a logical argument, but it rests up… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 10 | I am a 26F and I am socially awkward around people of the opposite sex.I didn’t want him to think I am flirting with him. Why not? You were interested in him as a man, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question here. Sounds like flirting with him was the appropriate move. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Explains everything...I have indeed read them, although I don't know what you mean to say by bringing them up, other than "I liked something CS Lewis wrote". | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/21 06:13 AM |
| 5 | Explains everything...The basic problem with CS Lewis is the curious flexibility of his knees. Tradcon writers tend to be stunningly solipsistic when talking about atheists and free men. They assume that because they feel the need for something to worship, everyone must... so they talk about "god-shaped holes in the heart" and people "worshiping themselves". This is convenient for them because it so vague it could mean anything, and thus can never be disproven. Thus, having satisfied themselves with this little airy … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 15 | Got kicked hard in the groin last night by a girl showing me her 'self defence' moves. Was laughed at and told to get over it as they have to deal with periods and child birth....You're wrong, but okay. I suspect I am not. When I encounter someone who believes that training in hand to hand combat skills creates a magical shield against being sucker punched by someone they know and trust, I tend to think that they are either not trained, or badly trained... in sense that they are delusional about what their skillset will and will not do. Action beats reaction. This is why alertness and situational awareness are even more important than technical skill. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 14 | Got kicked hard in the groin last night by a girl showing me her 'self defence' moves. Was laughed at and told to get over it as they have to deal with periods and child birth....I think you need to learn to defend yourself. Taking boxing classes or something or BJJ. Don't give advice you haven't taken. It's very clear from this comment that you have little or no unarmed combat training. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | How to get over the fact that your guy has casually hooked up with other people before you?You don't get it yet. I am pointing at the horizon, and you are staring at my finger. Stop staring at the finger and follow what it is pointing to. Even cats understand pointing. My moral argument was obtuse. Your moral argument was obtuse. That's the whole point. If we have a screaming argument where you say that I have lied and deceived you, and exposed you to STDs, and I say that you are petty and vindictive and are willing to destroy our family and traumatize our children for the sake of pet… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/21 05:29 PM |
| -1 | How to get over the fact that your guy has casually hooked up with other people before you?Yes. And women will devastate their happy family, and make their kids grow up in a divorce home because their man gave some other woman a tablespoon of replaceable sperm, and their oh-so-important feelings are hurt. These two things are one and the same. Don't you get it? It's not logical. It's not reasoned. Humans are wired how we are because of the conditions that we evolved under. Whatever made more copies of our genes. That's all it is. You can say that's immoral, pretending very hard not to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | National women's soccer team gets crushed by under 15 boy's team, feminists madThis is why the only women's sports that people want to watch are the ones where the women wear skimpy outfits. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/08/21 10:44 PM |
| 4 | How to get over the fact that your guy has casually hooked up with other people before you?Okay, cool. Once you understand that male sexual instincts arise from sperm being cheap, getting over sexual jealousy becomes possible. Our sperm is not "expensive" no matter how top-quality our genes are, because it is endlessly renewable. Would you vet someone, or charge them money, before you let them have a drink of water from your garden hose? What is valuable is our commitment, time, attention, labour, etc. So, there's no point in being jealous over women your man has had sex with before. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/21 06:32 PM |
| 6 | How to get over the fact that your guy has casually hooked up with other people before you?What exactly is there to get over? You are projecting. Because sex is an act of deep meaning and intimacy for you, you assume it is that way for him. It's not. Men are different. Tattoo this on your forehead, backwards so you can read it in the mirror: Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. Men are simply not going to be as careful with their cheap and renewable sperm as you are with your limited and irreplaceable eggs. Why? Because our sperm is cheap and inexhaustible. We are huge sluts. Every las… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Do other women fell less than to a manYou say you want to run and hide right now, but you've actually done the first brave thing I've seen you do... and that is to be honest with me, and with yourself. What you are telling me is that you are ashamed of being a woman. That you see feminine accomplishments as valueless, and feminine virtues as meaningless. That you feel worthless unless you get the same kind of credit that the most successful of men get. You were "fronting" to HSP and I because you feel worthless. And I'm wondering, w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/21 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Do other women fell less than to a manOkay, so you don't have an MOS, because you're not enlisted yet. You're a boot. Your accomplishments in the military so far amount to signing your name on a piece of paper, filling out a bunch of forms, and possibly doing some PT. And yet, "I am in the military" is what you said to /u/humansockpuppet when he speculated that perhaps you did not covet accomplishments, but the respect they bring: Unless, perhaps, it's not the achievements of men that you envy, but the attention they get for it. You… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Do other women fell less than to a manThat's interesting, but it's not an MOS. What is your MOS? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Do other women fell less than to a manWhat's your MOS? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.RP also advocates for dread which only works for anxiously attached types. I'd be interested to hear about your results from trying it on other types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Are women capable of empathizing with men that they don't find attractive?It's called the "anger phase". And we came up with just how we wanted to handle and use it very early on. We knew that without anger, men cannot be motivated to transform their worldviews or their lives. We also knew that if men remain angry, they can't master their sex lives... because women adore a happy misogynist, but fear an angry one. So TRP has a designed-in entry and exit to the anger phase. We deliberately stoke men's anger at women, then give them projects in their personal lives upon … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Are women capable of empathizing with men that they don't find attractive?Another thing worth pointing out here is that since this phenomenon is based on perception of risk, not actual risk, it varies widely from woman to woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Where did the "Men only want sex and women only want attention" come from and why is it repeated so much?Both men and women want both sex and attention. But women are the gatekeepers of sex, so they must decline it sometimes, and pretend indifference sometimes. And since men are the gatekeepers of attention, a similar principle applies. Additionally, a result of this, men tend to be thirstier for sex, and women for attention, because they do not control the supply. Similarly, women who do not gatekeep sex, and men who do not gatekeep attention, invite the contempt of their peers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Women have lost big on feminism, men have won big, everyone is in denial about thisMen have more access to sexual entertainment than at any time in the past 2000 years. The odds are good, but the goods are odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Based on the RedPill philosophy, shouldn’t men who desire monogamous long term relationships be considered as “beta males”?Incorrect. Hypergamy is an inevitable result of women being more naturally monogamous than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Based on the RedPill philosophy, shouldn’t men who desire monogamous long term relationships be considered as “beta males”?What do you mean, "anymore"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Based on the RedPill philosophy, shouldn’t men who desire monogamous long term relationships be considered as “beta males”?No. The alpha/beta metaphor serves one purpose and one purpose only... to point out that two groups are almost entirely the same. These two groups are "men who other men will naturally deffer to", and "men who women desire sexually". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women's dating/relational motivations are seen by mainstream society as more noble than men's, but they actually aren'tNah, it makes complete sense, because not everyone understands just why eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap. If more people read my articles, there would be less angry people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Uh no, no it doesn't. Unless you call working yourself into an early grave yet still somehow being broke your whole life a "benefit"What do you mean by that? | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/21 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Uh no, no it doesn't. Unless you call working yourself into an early grave yet still somehow being broke your whole life a "benefit"Last time I checked, your consent is being asked for three times... when he proposes, during the ceremony, and when you sign the papers. If you don't like the deal, say no. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Women have more diverse tastes than men, and it makes little sense to try to appeal to some made-up universal standardIt doesn't have to "make sense". It just has to work. It works. If you have some alternate explanation for why it works, go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?Don't mistake redpill for tradcon. Redpill isn't about changing society. It's about learning to navigate whatever society you find yourself in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 01:44 AM |
| 16 | Women's dating/relational motivations are seen by mainstream society as more noble than men's, but they actually aren'tThat's an interesting way of spinning "women expect to be paid for sex". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 0 | How can there be one standard of attractiveness that applies to all people?Yes, and the reason I asked is to help me understand why you would pose this strangely binary question, and what sorts of answers you might be able to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How can there be one standard of attractiveness that applies to all people?It's not an argument. It's a question. You can answer it or not, as you choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women push for marriage to later initiate 70-80% of divorces?Why do children want chocolate cake for breakfast, then eat so much they throw up? | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The 6 Best Places for Daygame in ChicagoA useful guide to how to pick up pennies in front of a steamroller. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat womenDepends what ya mean by fat. I am attracted to )( and ).( and )..( I am not attracted to ( ) So, it's a semantic argument whether you consider )..( to be "fat" or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?It's more a matter of dose and timing than provenance. What Big Ed sells you is overwhelmingly likely to be quite pure. You just have to know what you're doing when you take it. Lots of people do. Some don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | TRP post: Ever suddenly become repulsed by a partner despite nothing obviously wrong happening?Poster is jumping to conclusions. The only thing it is evidence of is that women aren't aware of what they are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyThis once-again confirms alpha/beta dichotomy. Don't jump to conclusions. It only confirms that women do not understand what they find attractive or unattractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How can there be one standard of attractiveness that applies to all people?Do you by any chance have Asperger's Syndrome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How do we explain all the happy couples in their 20s and 30s on social media and in real life?TRP isn't there to explain every interaction. It's there to give you enough of a handle on human behaviour so you can have positive results from some of your interactions. Sure, we're doing better social science than the social scientists, but that is an extremely low bar to clear. Give a giant research grant, a whole bunch of assistants, and a guaranteed salary from a position spending six hours a week giving lectures, and I'll happily come up with an actual verifiable model of human mating in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 6 | An angry feminist lectures a man who doesn't care. It gets funnier every time you watch it.raising kids to have such thin skin and to think that they're entitled to have everyone cater to their feelings. You have touched upon it exactly. Wanting to be compassionate is a virtue. But any virtue, if it is practiced by itself, without other virtues, becomes a vice. A civilization cannot function if it believes that rights come from needs... because needs are infinite and resources are not. Similarly, a person cannot function if they believe rights come from needs, because this effectively… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 5 | There is no 100% PC Way of Approaching Women Without Risking to Appear CREEPYIt's not our job to make sure women feel safe. We cannot control their feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Everyone's feelings are valid (unless you're a man who was just rejected by a woman) [vent]It could also be just a reaction to a single rejection, but it was a very important rejection from a very important person. Yes, that can happen when men don't hear "yes" a lot also. They start to view opportunities as precious, and emotionally invest in them too much, too early. All women are unique, but no woman is irreplaceable. Both of my girlfriends are great to me, worship the ground I walk on, etc, and I love them, but they are very different girls. And what that tells me is that I could … | /r/MenSupportMen | 24/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 9 | Everyone's feelings are valid (unless you're a man who was just rejected by a woman) [vent]If you are male, not gay, and sexually active or trying to be, you will get rejected a lot. Even very very expert "pickup artist" types will usually be rejected by more than 50% of women, if they just approached them all. Most people who complain a lot about "niceguys" taking rejection poorly are not quite understanding that they are seeing a reaction, in a single incident, to many accumulated rejections. And it's that last part that tells us how to address this problem in our lives. If we are h… | /r/MenSupportMen | 24/08/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Someone being a "strong and independent woman" is a major red flag for most manI'm not going to argue with you, because you have a point. As Shakespeare put it, "Bright are angels, though the brightest fell, and all things foul would wear the brows of grace, yet still grace must look so." For example, I'm certainly not going to go around saying that I am a moron, unless I'm doing it for effect. There is, however, a certain qualitative difference between people acknowledging their strengths, and people who are trying to pretend to virtues they not only do not possess, but a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | META: Is anyone else feeling extremely stressed being in the "neutral" space that is the purple-pill on the red-pill and blue-pill spectrum?You can certainly be excused for thinking this. It seem logical when you just sit down and think about it. But in practice, it turns out not to be the case. The women who have the "where is this going?" conversation with you are not better partners than the ones who tell you "you are more important to me than a ring or a princess party". The quality of a relationship for a man doesn't just consist of how attractive a woman is, and what she has the leverage to "demand". It also consists of how sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenYour approval was neither requested nor required. But by all means keep typing if it makes you happy less unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenOkay, so there are two separate arguments about the "The Patriarchy<sup>TM</sup> has failed to protect women". The first, made by /u/AquaChip, goes like this: "Why are these Afghani men who are trying to get out of the Afghanistan leaving their wives and daughters behind?" The answer to that is what the actual fuck. We don't know who these men are, we don't know why exactly they are leaving, we don't know that they aren't taking their wives and daughters with them, and we don't even know that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Report this shit post fam! Don't let such insanely huge pages sell this toxic feministic bullshit!Men are not repair shops for broken women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/08/21 05:07 PM |
| 5 | How to handle your boyfriend following women on Instagram?Yes, this is often very foreign to women. We had a woman come in here not too long ago, practically in tears because she had found her husband masturbating to porn of other women in the middle of night when she was sleeping. No one had ever told her that the male sex drive is like the female menstrual cycle, only a lot less predictable. A man can wake up in the middle of the night, suddenly far too sexually aroused to sleep. He doesn't want to wake someone else up for sex. He doesn't even want s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.You just don't seem to be able to leave this alone, do you? Look, you're not understanding what I am trying to tell you, and I've run out of ideas for how to get you to reach that understanding. So I give up. I've been helping men fix their lives and get what they want for ten years now, not just by writing articles, but by counseling individual men, hearing their stories, listening to their thoughts, and providing new perspectives. And I've had a lot of success helping them reach happier places… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | How to handle your boyfriend following women on Instagram?I know it's hard to imagine. But for us, sex is very physical, and quite detached from how we feel or what we want out of the rest of our lives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Struggling with the sexual aspect of my relationship - feel like a man eater.He has being going through some stuff at work and with his finances which he says are affecting his libido. That'll definitely do it. There's a stress hormone called "cortisol" which is only supposed to go high very briefly. If it stays high for a long time, it can kill libido and do other nasty stuff. Get him to one of those "men's health clinic" doctors that specialize in pumping older dudes full of testosterone, HCG, and Cialis... because when they are not doing that, they are looking at real… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it?What's important about female submission is the form, not the effect. Because of some sexual dimorphism in the human species, femsub BDSM isn't actually a kink. It's mainstream human sexuality. So when women act submissive, and men act dominant, it increases attraction and strengthens the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it?Incorrect. The "appeal to nature" fallacy is to state that something is good or desirable because it is natural. This is the statement that submissive behaviour is effective because it appeals to human instinct. There is no categorical imperative here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:33 AM |
| 0 | META: Is anyone else feeling extremely stressed being in the "neutral" space that is the purple-pill on the red-pill and blue-pill spectrum?I am a guy, and RP will tell me AWALT and that I will eventually get screwed by a divorce Incorrect. TRP does not say anything of the sort. Not all marriages end in divorce, and not all marriages are unhappy. This is obvious, so saying you will get screwed would be obviously stupid. What TRP does is advise you not to get married. Why? Because it is an additional risk for no reward. There is no benefit in the legal status of marriage for men. Any benefit a man gets from marriage, he gets from coh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:29 AM |
| – | Reexamining the Primordial Gender BargainBy rewarding male labor with a disproportionate amount of resources compared to the effort This is the labour theory of value repackaged. It was wrong in the 19th century, and it's wrong now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.I'm sorry. I can see I have expected too much of you. Good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.Everyone knows deep down what's right for them. Even that statement is ambiguous. It could mean "each person knows what is in their best interest", or "each person knows what they want", or "each persons knows what their goals are". And every one of those statements is wrong. There are plenty of people who don't know one of these things, and some who don't know any of the three. You clearly have some sort of mental picture of some essential quality which you have chosen to call "authenticity", b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 04:02 AM |
| 95 | How to deal with boyfriends success?You believe he will have more options now and that you are not good enough to hold his attention. But what, and who, he wants, has always been his choice. If he likes you, who are you to argue with that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.Authentic: Of undisputed origin, genuine Made or done in the traditional or original way, or in a way that faithfully resembles an original Based on facts, accurate or reliable. Relating to or denoting an emotionally appropriate, significant, purposive, and responsible mode of human life. comprising the notes lying between the principal note or final and the note an octave higher. If told the average person to "be" any of these things, they would look at me like I was nuts, and they would be rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | How to handle your boyfriend following women on Instagram?But maybe that’s one of the differences between men and women Precisely. Women are generally far less able to sustain attraction to more than one other person. Hypergamy is a natural consequence of monogamous instincts. If you were eyeing other men, feeling significant sexual desire for them, it would mean you no longer loved your mate. But him eyeing other women just means he is healthy and normal. Our culture is arraigned in a way that suits women's sexual preferences far more than men. Men ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of this video?US individualism is harmful for relationships. Rationale? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill does not work, CMV.Hi, I'm Whisper. I'm one of the founders of TRP. Perhaps instead of telling me what I think, you could ask me what I meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenAs I was watching all the men flee leaving behind their wives and children to get raped, enslaved and killed by the Taliban What makes you so sure they have wives and children? One of the reasons that Southwest Asia is so violent is that polygyny and the sequestering of women leaves a lot of young men who can't get laid hanging about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill does not work, CMV.TRP has never been able to demonstrate that any unique Red Pill ideology is responsible for success There is no unique redpill ideology, therefore it cannot be responsible for anything, and the way that you expect it to is kind of odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenWhen you were confronted with an answer to your specific question, your response was... rather uninspiring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:46 AM |
| 0 | There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner.Precisely. It wasn't feminism that killed marriage. It was technology and state-sponsored education. Feminism is just molesting the corpse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:44 AM |
| 7 | Would customizable robots, indistinguishable from humans, solve everyone's problems here?Being able to create a human-equivalent being that wanted to exist only to serve others would certainly solve everyone's sex problems. But it would also solve so many other problems that this would be trivial. You're proposing the technological singularity in order to fix something comparatively trivial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships?The word "lie" is a compound proposition. It asserts two things: that a statement is a falsehood, and that the speaker knows the statement is a falsehood. Only the first is necessary to cause harm to someone who believes a statement and acts on that belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:34 AM |
| 8 | Getting sucked into RedPill content distorts your perception of realityRedPill content creators HAVE to sell something to make money. They sell and image, or they sell their particular spin on Red Pill ideas. No, I don't. I write flight control software to make money. I write content because I find it rewarding. If I tried to make a living off RedPill content, that would be a huge pay cut. Yeah, let's sell information, once, to a bunch of broke young dudes. Great business plan. Kevin Samuels, Rich Cooper, Donovan Sharpe, Fresh and Fit. Who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.I am a research psychologist And yet you demand faith like a priest. who teaches a research design class, so you're going to have a hard time bullshitting your way through these topics with me. And that would matter if we were in your class. But we're in mine. And we use different standards of evidence around here. Specifically, we know what the word "evidence" means. It means "that which is seen". Let's examine what you have shown us: Hi, I'm here to tell you that a guy came up with a bunch of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.It's not actually, which is why it's still used in every scientific discipline that works with people. This is nothing but an appeal to popularity. If a lot of people make a mistake, it is still a mistake. This comment is pure science denial. Describing skepticism with a snarl phrase does not change its essential nature. If it were completely unreliable it wouldn't have test-retest validity I believe you mean test-retest reliability. Please learn the difference between validity and reliability i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Someone being a "strong and independent woman" is a major red flag for most manIf you're going to tell me what I think, rather than ask me what I think, then you can easily have this conversation by yourself. Have fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPersI cannot imagine how strange that must be, to be anonimous and get anonimous messages containing such content, while real people are behind it and are helped by it in their real lives - I can completely understand that this is a powerful motivation for you, as you described Yeah. It's been a surreal experience overall. The whole thing, start to the present day. We didn't come into any of this expecting what we found. We were just some guys who made a new subreddit because the seduction one was b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Someone being a "strong and independent woman" is a major red flag for most manNo. Why would we care what sort of women you like? Knock yourself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.It's quite useful... as a helpful guide to get people to ask the hard questions of themselves, such as "am I personally happier in my life when I'm more authentic? How can I be more authentic? If not, is it possible that I have some psych issues that can be monitored by a professional?". That's something you can do with the information. That's my point. This is completely vacuous. Someone has come up with a subjective concept, described it subjectively, come up with some self-report questions th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.But I think it's common knowledge that, in the fields of psychology and sociology, questionnaires are quantified into a numerical scheme based on expert-level experience. I am familiar with this, it's precisely what makes me dismiss social psychology as pseudoscience. Self-report data is completely unreliable and invalid, and we all know the psychologists collect it because it's easy to collect, rather than because it is useful. Are you happiest when you're actually living your values and being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.I did not say define. I said measure. There is not a word on how these measurements were made, or what instruments they were collected with. And since the actual study is behind a paywall, I'm not going to believe this based on the abstract. Seeing is believing, and if someone wants me to "Believe the science", then I want to see the actual science. So it's the null hypothesis for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Someone being a "strong and independent woman" is a major red flag for most manI'd go with "most". Some women are too damaged and distrustful to allow themselves to be psychologically vulnerable to pretty much anyone. Those would be a corner case, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 10 | Someone being a "strong and independent woman" is a major red flag for most manWhen someone is called "strong and independent", "nice", or "alpha" by someone else, it is moderately likely to be true. When someone calls himself that, it is somewhat less likely to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Someone being a "strong and independent woman" is a major red flag for most manThis may flip out some of the RPs here Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.I am highly skeptical of how one measures "psychopathy", "authenticity" and "well-being", what the units of measurement of each one are, and what instruments are used to measure them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 7 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenWhen you were confronted with an answer to your specific question, your response was... rather uninspiring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 4 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenThe question isn’t if I am going to head over there to help them. Of course it is. You have this set of women, feminists, who claim to reject the idea of female submission, but any time they want to solve a problem, their first, last, and only, way of addressing it is to complain to daddy and wait to be rescued. Sounds pretty submissive to me. Of course, the problem with asking "The Patriarchy<sup>TM</sup>" to solve your problems for you is that it does not exist and never has. But that doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPersturn off your empathy and start being okay with deceiving and blocking chicks Welcome to the world we live in. Kaylene has turned off her empathy. In order to deal with her without being exploited, Michael must stop whining and learn to turn off his. Empathy is an advantage when dealing with empathic people. It is a disadvantage when dealing with sociopaths. And for young men in the sexual marketplace today, the majority of women they encounter will be the latter. For better worse, we are a soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPersIt would be very interesting to know how many people (especially men) TRP had effect on to the point of action, change. The scope of TRP in general; how many people are or have been actively reading it? This is a slightly different thing, which I do know about. I don't have a precise headcount, but before reddit quarantined us, we had about four hundred thousand subscribers, and got about a million unique visitors each month. (Once you are quarantined, you don't get those statistics any more.) I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenYour Patriarchy says it protects women. I am not "the Patriarchy". I am a patriarch. The question here is, why is it not doing so? Because it doesn't exist and never did. If you say it shouldn’t, then you can stop complaining about women always getting protected by men. Hi, I'm Whisper. You seem to have me confused with someone else, or a group of other people. I am one of a small group of people who founded the "red pill". I don't complain about female behaviour. I analyze it and tell men how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:28 PM |
| 9 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenWhy is this relevant? Do you somehow need my permission, or the permission of the US armed forces, to go help women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather women be more lenient with LOOKS standards.....or FRAME standardsNeither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | The Problem Is The Lack Of Positive Sexual & Relationship EducationYou entrusted education to the government. What did you expect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Are the warlords who control Afghanistan alphas or betas?You do understand that "alpha" and "beta" are metaphors, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:23 AM |
| 20 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenBut they are totally not submissive, unlike those Afghan women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:21 AM |
| 68 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenSo when are feminists going to strap on a plate carrier and M4 and go fight to liberate those women? Or will they just whine very non-submissively for the Patriarchy to do it for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPersI don't know. People can always find an excuse for having the emotional reaction they already wanted to have. It's easy to quote-mine TRP to support the position you already want to hold. It's easy to notice that, when he is venting his anger to sympathetic audience, Michael can be interpreted as a bit of a jerk, if you really want to. And its easy not to notice, if you don't want to, that many of the people he's dealing with are downright sociopaths: I told them you cannot have your cake and ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 09:27 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPersSo you agree with TRP that women like game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Where do men get motherly love from after their mother dies?They don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I made a unique political orientation test, what is your score? Are you more blue-pilled or red-pilled?The political spectrum does not go from left to right. It goes from authoritarian to libertarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 06:10 PM |
| – | Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it?But my question is, how is that different than a healthy partnership? It is a healthy partnership. Why does submission of one partner need to be involved if they both love and respect one another Because humans are hardwired that way. and decisions are made together? That is a recipe for arguments and conflict. Relationships are supposed to be a give and take, Supposed by whom? I believe that submission of one partner makes the relationship unequal and ignores the strengths of the submissive and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Michael's Story proves all the negative stereotypes people have about TRPersWhy exactly is this story required reading for TRP? Because it demonstrates that what women want, and what they say they want, are two different things. And that therefore you must observe what women do, rather than ask them what they want. You seem to think that TRP's founders (e.g. me) believe that Michael "should" have gotten laid a lot, or found a wife, or whatever. This reveals that you haven't a clue what TRP is about, because you don't understand literally the first thing about it. The fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor?To answer this question, you would first have to locate a reasonable woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 05:52 PM |
| – | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill Specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Struggling with the sexual aspect of my relationship - feel like a man eater.Okay, the first thing you need to go is understand the real need that is going unmet. Is it physical and hormonal desire for sex? Is it the need to feel desirable? The need to feel loved? Next, you need to understand each others' point of view. He needs to know what sex means to you, couched in non-judgmental language. And you need to understand that for men, sex is a performance. You may not know this, but most mammal species have a bony mass in their penis that aids in fast, reliable erectile … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you become more mature as an adult?I’ve also noticed that I’ve been called emotionally immature a few times. I’d like to work towards improving this, but I don’t know how. You're talking about how other people describe you, not what you are experiencing. What is it that you want to be different about your life? What do you want to be able to do that you currently cannot. Can't get what you want if you don't know what it is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 46 | Bothered watching red pill YouTubeNO HOST ever tells guys to be careful of wasting a woman’s time ... The honourable thing for a red pill guy to do ... A man who is red pill aware should not This is skirting the "no moralizing" rule, but let's answer it, because we can deal with some important misconceptions. The reason TRP exists is because men got tired of looking out for women who were only looking out for themselves. Obviously, in any kind of functional relationship, both partners must look out for each others' needs, or els… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 27 | This Definition of HVM Is FlawedAt the end of the day, a HVM for the intents and purposes of YOUR RPW journey is simply a man with DESIRABLE MASCULINE BEHAVIORAL TRAITS that manifest in a way that fits your goals, lifestyle, morals, and preferences. Let's try breaking this into two elements. All of the men you describe are value because they apply effort successfully to achieve their goals. A man whose high value is about being wealthy isn't a high value man simply because he has lots of money. He is high value because at some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 7 | I'm Pregnant and Struggling with Telling my MotherWhy would you tell them anything? Why would you even speak to them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Might be the only group in history that can simultaneously be so oppressed by a society while also being so offended and surprised they have to pay for their own food.That sounds like a you problem. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificThe most interesting story villains are the ones who have a point. The least interesting ones are completely unintelligible, vaguely communist, and wear face masks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 04:02 AM |
| 10 | One of the most hypocrite things I've ever seenjust get a prenup ... because family courts love a good laugh, and could always use some spare toilet paper. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/21 03:50 AM |
| 3 | One of the most hypocrite things I've ever seenNot only can you simply not marry a women, you can marry a good woman. Victim blaming. The problem is not that abused men "stuck their dick in crazy" (as if crazy bitches wore helpful forehead labels). The problem is that the law not only allows crazy bitches to abuse men, it assists them in doing so. Would you accept being married to any man under Islamic law, where you own nothing, can't get a divorce, and he can beat you if he wants? No? What if he was a "good" man? The problem is not that wo… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | One of the most hypocrite things I've ever seenThis is excellent news. All I have to avoid prolonged contact with girls like this is to not pick up the check. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | People that think that creepiness is based on being ugly clearly don't have any EQ nor social skillsWell, but let's first consider who makes those claims: TRPers What claims would these be? Please cite where an EC or other established TRP writer has claimed that being "creepy" consists simply of being unattractive. We already know you like citations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificOf course I wrote the misogynistic parts. I made them extra misogynistic. I went out of my way to make them misogynistic. If I don't already have a reputation with you as a horrible misogynist, I shall have to redouble my efforts. You don't know why I do what I do, and I'm not sure you would understand even if I did my very best to explain to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:35 AM |
| 3 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificYou are free to spend zero time learning, thinking or talking about this if that would make you happy. That's what I don't get about you PPD oddballs. You take a bunch of brainsmoke my friends and I wrote, which was intended for dudes to go out and try out and get laid... and you analyze it like high school English teachers taking out their sexual frustrations on a Jon Steinbeck novel. I didn't write this stuff to be a scientific theory, or a literal description of the universe. I wrote so that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Might be the only group in history that can simultaneously be so oppressed by a society while also being so offended and surprised they have to pay for their own food.To the privileged, equality feels like oppression. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/08/21 12:08 AM |
| 9 | How young is too young to be in a commited relationship?I am wondering if I am too young to be in a commited relationship. That depends on you. It's not about how old you are, it's about what you are and are not capable of. People tell me that dating is about discovering yourself People say a lot of stupid things which are intended to sound wise, but are actually meaningless. when does that switch to finding a husband? When you are ready to work on building a permanent relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What is the highest caliber of partner that would commit to the opposite sex version of yourself?Me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] The Manosphere Consistently Gives Terrible Nutritional Advice and It's Hurting Men in the Long TermYou are perfectly welcome to shove bagels into your face every two hours if you believe this is necessary for your survival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificYou don't know which parts of redpill advice do what, and why. This is just what you think, based on your speculation. You haven't tested anything, and you reject the conclusions of those who have, so you can think what you want to think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Well, yes. As I explained in the "giant heads" article, human sexual dimorphism has imbued the entire species with a powerful protective instinct towards women. The idea that women are oppressed and disadvantaged, rather than protected and privileged is simply a manifestation of this instinct. People are more upset and disturbed by a slight or theoretical inconvenience to women than by the actual suffering or even death of men. When people who are slaves to this instinct see sexual equality, or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe your current personality would be enough to be sexually successful if you were transformed into a genetically unattractive male?There is no point in speculating about that which can be resolved by experiment. Any woman who wishes to know the answer to this can make a dating profile as a male, using pictures of a man she finds unattractive, then try to get dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 07:26 PM |
| 11 | On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guy"How to be an alpha widow". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 07:22 PM |
| 9 | People Who Advocate For The End Of Monogamy Never Talk About The Downsides Of Its Alternatives, But There Are ManyI'm hearing a lot about what poly relationships are like from a lot of people who have never been in one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."So the Space Rabbits got to you, too, huh? What did they pay you off with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 5 | [CMV] The Manosphere Consistently Gives Terrible Nutritional Advice and It's Hurting Men in the Long TermDon't recall ever having asked you to take anything from anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodThe problem with this is that it makes no provision for assortative mating, and for distributive mating, both of which make a woman's odds better. Assortative mating: Similar phenotypes tend to mate. Finding a rich white man to mate with is easier if you are a rich white woman. Distributive mating: More desirable mates have more options. A woman with a smoking hot figure, pretty face, and an easy going personality who is outgoing and enthusiastic is going to have many more potential partners to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Where do you get your ideas about who TRP's audience is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Does the advice of “just be confident bro” work for unattractive women?No. Confidence does not make women more attractive at all. Some women can be unapproachable because they are so shy you can't talk to them, or so overconfident they are unpleasant to be around, but between those two extremes there's no real correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:57 PM |
| 17 | [CMV] The Manosphere Consistently Gives Terrible Nutritional Advice and It's Hurting Men in the Long TermEven though I'm vegan now I don't take dietary advice from people with eating disorders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:54 PM |
| 0 | If it's fine for hot guys to settle on ugly girls for sex, then it should be fine for girls to settle on ugly guys for relationships.Fine for whom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:53 PM |
| 0 | MGTOW and women who say “they’ll never settle”, what do you plan on doing after 45?I am over 45, going my own way, and unmarried. I live with two girls, both of whom I am in a relationship with, both of whom are about 15-20 years younger than me, so they will probably last longer than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The "Red Pill" is just "Women like sleeping with men they find attractive."Anything can be a red pill if it's both true and widely denied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Don't allow yourself to become distracted by language you find upsetting. TRP is hardly looking at FDS as a potential dating pool. The point is the giant baby heads forced proto-humans to adapt their psychology in certain ways, with the result being that men are to women as women are to children. Specifically, men are instinctively protective of women, and women are instinctively submissive towards men. And that female humans are more risk-averse in mating than, say, female cats, because their r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Stance on porn addiction and availability to kidsYou do know that women are a large portion of the demand for this kind of porn, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 12:34 AM |
| 7 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodOur food industry is owned by several large conglomerates, who are poisoning us with sugar and processed starch while telling us it's our fault we're fat because "a calorie is a calorie". If you tell most Americans this, they will get mad at you, and angrily agree with the people poisoning them, because they don't want to give up their sugar addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).No, there is advice. The advice is mainly on vetting. That's the kind of advice that feels good to hear, yes. women are naturally more selective Old news. We went over this years ago. Eggs are expensive, and sperm is cheap. This is because human babies have giant heads. Women grow up with endless resources in their communities and in the media telling them how to be attractive and behave acceptably. The fact that this information is largely incorrect, misleading, and counterproductive has probab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).FDS is among the few places I came across online that doesn't encourage women to sugar-coat their frustrations about men. That's precisely because this is what FDS is actually for. It's not dating advice at all. It's a safe space for women to vent their frustrations over not getting what they want from the sexual marketplace, and receive emotional support from other women. Since criticizing absent third parties who are a source of frustration is a pretty popular emotional support style among wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Women can't, they get banned. Wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all).Bad for whom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: the TRP adage "don't listen to women" actually shows that TRPers have too few women in their lifeYou are missing the point. Plenty of women want to help men be more attractive. They're just bad at it. The general level of self-awareness in the female population at large is extremely low. They cannot tell men what to do to be attractive, because they don't know. A woman generally knows if she finds a man attractive, but not why. This leads men who listen to women's advice into a pattern of cargo-cult behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do i always go through the same cycle?Since you've given no details, it is impossible to know what you are doing that leads to breakups. That's where to start. You are either choosing the wrong men to pursue, or interacting with them in a way that kills the relationship. And you won't know, can't know, how to behave differently until you understand just how what you are doing leads to the results you are getting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I’m (25f) like this guy (19m), I am unsure if he likes me back, what should I do about it?You sound a emotionally immature. This is not advice. Regardless of how "emotionally mature" (whatever that might mean) she is or is not, she still needs to play the best she can with the hand of cards she has been dealt. "Have better interpersonal skills" is not helpful. If you think she needs better skill at reading a man's inclinations, and you believe you possess such skill, start teaching. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Why do i always go through the same cycle?The common element in all of your failed relationships is you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where else to get adviceI think it's absolutely ridiculous to avoid fighting altogether. That's how you end up with two people silently suffering because neither one of them want to speak up and cause waves. Trust me, I was in a relationship where we never fought, he was all sunshine and rainbows and when he had a problem he didn't say anything and I didn't want to keep bugging him about little things when he had no complaints so I stopped talking to him about stuff and we had to break up because there was no fighting.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 19 | I don't know where else to get adviceYeah, you care so much about his feelings that you got on the internet, told a bunch of strangers and story about how unreasonable and mean he was being, and asked them how to make him stop being a big meanie. You're still in an argument over who's right and wrong, and you're trying to recruit RPW to play favorites. Let me explain to you how relationships work. In relationships, you are a team, not opponents. You are asking me how to win the fight you are having with him, by making him change hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/21 08:10 AM |
| 47 | I don't know where else to get adviceNeither of you is ready for a relationship because you're both fucking nuts. "Technically, I didn't cheat on you because we weren't official yet!" "Yeah, well, technically I didn't cheat on you because I didn't sleep with the girlfriend I hadn't dumped yet!" What the fuck is this? Small claims court? A chess tournament? Law school? Nobody gives a shit about "technically". They care about how you treat them. And both of you care how you were treated, but give not one single solitary fuck about th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/21 07:42 AM |
| 25 | I don't know where else to get adviceIf I had to guess, I'd guess that she cheated on him, and is now trying to pretend he's the bad guy for being angry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 6 | A Typical Conversation with a FeministFair enough. My term for them is "skip-me girls". | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/08/21 01:41 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on Promising Young Woman?Never heard of it. Don't care to. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/08/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | I actually wanna thanks r/FemaleDatingStrategy/r/TheRedPill | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/08/21 01:31 AM |
| 4 | A Typical Conversation with a FeministI’m sure if I were to talk to a feminist Why would you do that? | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/08/21 01:28 AM |
| 4 | #IfAllMenDisappearedForADay is trending on Twitter and it's the cap to the misandry cocktail this week has been.The reason this makes any sense at all to any woman is men in high visibility jackets are invisible to them. They don't think of the infrastructure of civilization as "men working", think of it as just, you know, like, stuff. And stuff just happens, by, you know, ways. And because once they saw a woman on a road crew holding a sign and directing traffic, therefore having roads has nothing to do with having men. So I think a lot of women would really enjoy a day without men. After a week without … | /r/MensRights | 09/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 19 | How to be a better Auntie to 16yo boysYou have small children, and small children need to be guided, taught, and cared for. She has teenagers, and teenagers, especially boys, need to become adults. If you want to conversation to flow with a teenage boy, speak to him in a way that acknowledges him growing into an adult. Instead of being directive, like you would with a young child, ask him questions and allow him to teach you something... even if it's only about his videogame that he likes. He's going to need to take the lead as an a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on a man with a low to potentially no body count?What's important is the a man has the ability to participate in the casual sex market, not that he choose to do so. The tricky thing, however, is that lack of inclination is often an excuse to cover lack of ability... so it's hard to be sure he can unless he, at one point, has. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional routeMake it in their interest to do so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Is becoming a “traditional woman” lowering your social status?Your social status with whom? And does their opinion matter? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/21 05:27 PM |
| 28 | My bf went camping with another woman.It certainly does seem odd. But we need to focus on what you can do, because "this is not okay" isn't helpful advice. What you need to do is get an understanding of what he was thinking... of why he didn't expect you to object to this. Only then can you decide what to do. You have some fairly serious questions to ask. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Do I need to submit more? Or are my concerns more than just paranoia?. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | TRP men have unicorn fallacy about Muslim girls and I am about to destroy it with realityEveryone has a purpose in life. Some are meant to be an example. Others are meant to be a warning. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/21 03:27 AM |
| 9 | What happened to r/mgtow is a wake up call for r/mensrightsI am glad you enjoyed them. I shall continue to write regardless of whether out-of-touch Bay area tech nerds approve or not. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/21 03:25 AM |
| 24 | What happened to r/mgtow is a wake up call for r/mensrightsr/theredpill is still there and that will be gone also. We have our own backup website and they know it. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | R/femaledatingstrategy is a gold mine for misandry. They literally call men "scrotes". Guess we should stop existing.That sounds like a you problem, dear. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/08/21 10:05 PM |
| 29 | Detained by police for "Man with child"Feminism is about equality for everyone. That idea didn't make it past the meeting where they picked the name. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Detained by police for "Man with child"Lawyer up. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or are websites like only fans just super depressing?Just wait. The market price of pussy is still stabilizing. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend is sending mixed signals before first trip together, and I'm lost. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Do you recommend living with your boyfriend or fiancée before getting married ?Many answers recommend against it because you "will become a forever girlfriend". Anyone who writes that fundamentally doesn't understand men yet. Being a wife is different than being a forever girlfriend to women. To men, it isn't. Withholding something to have a bargaining position makes sense to women. To men, it doesn't. Men do not give so that they will receive, or in anticipation of receiving. That's Briffault's Law, and it doesn't describe male behaviour. Men are reciprocal. They give bec… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 4 | TRP men have unicorn fallacy about Muslim girls and I am about to destroy it with realityI keep hearing all this weird shit about "YouTube redpill guys". I don't know who these guys are, and what I'm hearing about them doesn't really seem to contain any actual red pills. Expatriating to another culture for pussy is a tradcon idea. Female nature is the same everywhere. You either learn to swim, or you drown. To expect "society" to solve your problems, especially low-level ones like pussy, is to make yourself dependent on society for that problem. Society doesn't care about you. Islam… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/21 04:21 PM |
| 5 | How do I become a red pill women?How do I become a red pill women? Split and divide yourself into two individuals, like an amoeba. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/21 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Interview with Whisper - WORLD EXCLUSIVE!definition of sperg but that wasn’t really my question You asked the wrong question. Spergs think that things are good and bad. Nuanced thinkers think that things are better and worse. Spergs think that plans are possible or impossible. Nuanced thinkers think that plans are low-risk or high-risk investments. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/21 07:19 PM |
| 3 | TRP men have unicorn fallacy about Muslim girls and I am about to destroy it with realityI always see USA and European guys talking about how muslim chicks are such naive angels, such perfect mothers and such pure unicorns. Who the fuck have you been talking to? Do they live under a rock? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 4 | How do I find/date men who actually care about me?Do men treat women who are overweight badly? You are not looking to be treated "not badly". You want men to be attracted to you. Accusing men of treating you "badly" for not being interested in a relationship with you is not exactly taking responsibility, now, is it? You need to understand that men owe you literally nothing, not even a casual conversation. So long as they are not coming along and hurting you or taking your stuff, their moral obligations to you are entirely fulfilled. Anything yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | How do I find/date men who actually care about me?You don't find men who care about you. You create them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/21 05:53 PM |
| -1 | Do you like to send selfies while in the dating phase?I think there is something I am not understanding here. You show your face to every stranger you pass on the street. What is different about showing it to him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 67 | Beware the Female PsychopathBut DAMN were there points where she was convincing. What exactly it is that you think a whore's entire job is? Do not compete with experts in their area of expertise. No matter how smart you are, do not allow detectives to question you without your lawyer present, do not attempt to negotiate price with salesmen, do not attempt to detect deception from whores, do not give interviews to hostile reporters. Yes, you will think you are smarter than they are. You probably are. But experience, prepara… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Interview with Whisper - WORLD EXCLUSIVE!I know that question sounds spergy(because it kind of is) but it’s mainly the contradiction I’m trying to clear up where we say it’s possible to reform yourself as a human being based on forming the proper habits but on the same breath a lot of people say “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife”. Do you know what makes a question or assertion "spergy"? It is the quality of being overly literal. It reminds us of spergs because spergs can't interpret nuance, or generalities. They interpret them as … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexHere we see a woman who believes that "writing the weekly grocery list" will make men sexually appealing. She is complaining about her unsatisfying sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:24 AM |
| – | Is women being submissive a taboo now? And if so, why?Last 3 years online it seems so many women refer to themselves this way which every fiber in my body sees as degrading. How is it any business of yours how they choose to refer to themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:20 AM |
| – | Is women being submissive a taboo now? And if so, why?My girls wear locking collars, and no one says a damn thing except "I love your necklace!" (or "I love your collar!" if they spot it for what it is). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveWhy would you think that women who talk like this want to be productive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men?If you have found a way to measure happiness, then please tell me what the unit of happiness is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.What do you mean by calories don't exist? A calorie is a unit of measure, not a substance. Also is the poisonous substance that you're talking about sugar? Fructose, which is a particular type of sugar. The white stuff you know as "sugar" contains it, but not all sugars do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Interview with Whisper - WORLD EXCLUSIVE!/u/RealJoeDee ... pick us a date, we'll make it work. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/21 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.i don't have much weight to lose (10-15lbs maybe at 5'9), but have been found to have the beginnings of fatty liver and insulin resistance. my doctor told me to cut out saturated fats and if that doesn't reverse things he'll look at medication. Replace your physician. Saturated fat does not cause fatty liver and insulin resistance. after doing some of my own reading i've fallen on low-carb intermittent fasting I agree that this is a wise approach. i've spent a couple of weeks fasting from 8pm un… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Why They Hate YouThere is always a small percentage of loud and useful idiots. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/21 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.Oh, now I get it. You read Lustig's papers, but didn't listen to his talks. That's the part where he fills in the background information that you need to understand his work, if you don't happen to be an endocrinologist. If you don't know about the differences between glucose and fructose metabolism, those papers aren't going to make any sense. The video you want to watch is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBnniua6-oM But some key points you need to know are: Glucose metabolism is basic to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/21 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.Fructose has three sinks. The first sink is the gut microbiome. It has moderate affinity and moderate capacity. The second is glycogen repletion in the liver. It has extremely high affinity and low capacity. The last is hepatic triglyceride synthesis via the citrate path. It has low to moderate affinity, but its capacity is as close to infinite as makes no difference. The hepatotoxicity of fructose is a product of the third sink. So why is almost everyone in the modern west afflicted with some l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 11:35 PM |
| 5 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.Yes, exactly. If you reduce portion sizes, but still eat frequently, your insulin will stay high, because your blood glucose stays elevated. This makes your fat cells unable to release fatty acids into your bloodstream. If your cells can't release fat, your body can't burn it. If your body can't burn it, you can't lose weight. It doesn't matter if you run a caloric deficit, because your body can't get at those fat stores. So it has to economize by slowing down you metabolic rate, decreasing your… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 5 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/m34yr5/how_not_to_be_fat/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBnniua6-oM | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.Our bodies do not realise we live in a world where food is everywhere, and that we dont have to keep fat stores incase of times of starvation. This is why you are "diet cycling". Because you believe this. You are attempting to lose fat by eating in such a way as to reduce "calories", in the belief that it is "calories" that make you fat. This doesn't work, because calories don't make you fat. The people of the mid twentieth century had just as many "calories" available to them as we do, and they… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.How is the primary source of fuel for the brain - poison? Please explain to me how, after having read and presumably understood all of Robert Lustig's research, as well as having passed the exam to become a certified nutritionist, you can still be confused about the difference between glucose and fructose? The only explanation that occurs to me is that you do not want to understand. If that's the case, then there is no point in further conversations, because evidence is not useful in talking jun… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 07:09 PM |
| 13 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.Victoria's Secret must rebrand itself or die. We are in the midst of an obesity epidemic. The "food" industry has replaced the housewife and the kitchen, and its primary function to sell people a substance that is both toxic and addictive. If you eat this substance, you get addicted and you buy more, and you also get fat and die. This is not the "food" industry's problem, because while you are slowly dying, you buy a lot of more of this poison. So the only problem is how to convince you that thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 07:26 AM |
| 22 | Why They Hate YouThis question is interesting, but not necessary. It doesn't matter to the purposes of Upside Down Clown World (UDCW) just why young white males are the most libertarian demographic on the planet. It suffices to be aware that they are. The leaders and driving forces of UDCW may not be super deep thinkers, but they can certainly read poll data. That alone suffices to tell them what is in their best interests. If I, personally, had to hazard an educated guess as to why young white males are the mos… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/21 01:52 AM |
| 4 | How to be Lovely: A Guide to Attracting a Wonderful ManThat's not really an answer at all. Let's think about this systematically, rather than metaphorically. You say: A woman attracts a man. Do you imagine that this is exclusively the case? Do men not also attract women? You never make the first move. Why do you believe this is good advice? What specific negative consequence do you think there will be to a woman who makes the first move? What leads you to believe this negative consequence will happen? Men want to hunt. What leads you to believe that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 01:34 AM |
| 7 | Interview with Whisper - WORLD EXCLUSIVE!/u/humansockpuppet Let's make this happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/21 06:31 PM |
| 7 | Interview with Whisper - WORLD EXCLUSIVE!When the guys on seddit started saying "leave her better than you found her", I knew that no matter how easily and gracefully they put themselves out there risking rejection, they were still cowards. They knew damn well that they didn't care about these women's welfare... and that it wasn't their responsibility. We are not baby-sitters, or bodyguards, or therapists, for random women at large. Women can take care of themselves, and choose what they want out of life. If they don't always do a very… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/21 10:27 PM |
| 6 | Interview with Whisper - WORLD EXCLUSIVE!Women covet the products of male creativity, energy, and innovation... but many of them resent the process itself, and will try to halt it with zero awareness that everything they want out of life depends upon it. The simplest course of action is to exclude women like this from your life, either before or after depositing a load of inexhaustibly replaceable sperm inside them. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 7 | Interview with Whisper - WORLD EXCLUSIVE!What puzzles me about people who accuse others of "not lifting" is that they must somehow think that lifting is hard. That's bizarre. It's the easiest male responsibility. All you have to do is get a handle, some heavy things, attach the heavy things to the handle, then get under the handle and push it up, then over the handle and pull it up. Monkeys could figure this out. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/21 10:11 PM |
| 10 | How to be Lovely: A Guide to Attracting a Wonderful ManA woman attracts a man. You never make the first move. Men want to hunt. Let him chase you! What gives you this idea? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/21 04:49 PM |
| 18 | How do you deal with the feeling of " but I deserve better" when it comes to settling down with a man?If you are not satisfied with the best man you can attract, then improve your appearance and behaviour until you are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/21 03:43 PM |
| 18 | Meta-Post: What is TRP, r- and K-selection, and political contextAn important insight to add to this understanding is that as western civilization has become more and more wealthy, and less and less close to questions of pure survival in a hostile universe, its social customs are naturally drifting towards r-selecting patterns. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Why does this sound so fake?? Maybe I'm just overreacting, IDK.Ma'am, this is a Wendy's. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/21 03:03 AM |
| 5 | Besides sex - HOW do men need women?We don't. We want them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/21 08:33 PM |
| 15 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" isHow do you deal with someone trying to steal the frame? When I read your post I get the idea that I'm mistaking shit tests for people challenging my attempts to set the frame. Are there any analogues to A&A, pressure flip etc. for maintaining the frame in the face of a challenge? Here are some things that help: Don't allow yourself to become distracted. If someone says something that tempts you to disagree, remember that if you agree or disagree, you are now talking about that thing. Be willing … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/21 05:36 AM |
| -2 | Why is talking about sexual strategy much more inflammatory than practicing it in real life?Spite comes from anger. Anger comes from hate. Hate comes from fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 12:04 AM |
| 28 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" ismetadata of a interaction I like that metaphor. Clarifies what frame is with relatively few words. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 14 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" iswhen some egotistical MIT grad comes at you with his credentials, clearly trying to score points for being wicked smaht, rather than bust out your credentials if you have them, you can quickly shut him down by using A&A in the context of said smahts. "Oh yeah, I'm just a regular guy, I wish I was as smart as you." This sort of thing is happening on a societal scale as well. "ScienceTM" and Ivy League credentials are being used today in the way that the religious sects of the past used "JesusTM".… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 10:49 PM |
| 33 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" isAnd whose acceptance and validation are you looking for? Mine? That of TRP in general? Have you been taught here talking tough and calling someone you never met a "man-boy" will allow you to be perceived as more manly? Playing "who is the smartest?" is indeed a popular game among coastal-city-dwelling liberals. This is easy to notice. What fewer people notice is that there are many, many games of this form, simply with the adjective replaced. These games can, and indeed will, be found in every g… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 05:01 PM |
| 58 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" isFrame control also isn't relevant only to getting laid. The other day I found myself in conversation with a good friend of mine, whom we shall call Matthew for the purposes of this story. He is moving, with his wife and children, to ${redstate}, on account of being sick of the bullshit. While he sees this is a good move overall, he expressed fears to me that he would not find a social group for discussions of sophisticated topics that he likes, such as machine learning and so on. I started out b… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 24 | Why do women put down other women for wanting a HVM/provider?When you use the toilet, you don't examine the results. You flush. Do not waste time examining the motives of people who hate you and hold you in contempt. Exclude them from your life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Don't use the new AskTRP website. They just want to monetize your attention.This puzzles me. I'm rather confused as to how you think I am making money off this. I understand that you don't want to getting advice from people who have an ulterior motive, but how exactly is it that you think I am getting paid? The website itself doesn't run ads that I am aware of, and while it does accept donations, it's not breaking even. RPS (and some generous donors) are essentially paying money for the right to have TRP the way it was before a bunch of social justice warriors with admi… | /r/newTRP | 03/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 4 | I am surprised she knows that Cucumbers exist.👏 You 👏 Are 👏 Not 👏 Entitled 👏 To 👏 Men's 👏 Attention 👏 (There. Did I do that right?) | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 4 | R1ggedved's Guide to Amazing Intercourse and Why It's More Important Thank You Think It isThere's no easy way to answer this. I analyze individual women using the same methods that I use to analyze women as a species and write articles about them. I've learn to spot fetishes and kinks and play on them. Sure, you can learn easily to spot a submissive girl (or just take it for granted, because most girls are), but then what kind of submissive. Rape kink? Wants a spanking from Daddy? Humiliation fetish? Everyone has at least one paraphillia. The more precisely you are able to spot it, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/21 06:42 AM |
| – | Men: what is your perfect waifu like?Tsk. Kinkshaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 02:54 AM |
| – | Why do you think younger women (gen Z) tend to like more feminine men, meanwhile older women tend to like more masculine men?You haven't yet established that younger women do, in fact, like more feminine men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Are Sugar Daddies considered Winners or Losers?Did someone's favorite failed economy theory of the 19th century get disparaged? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 4 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenHere's a video explaining this phenomenon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | "Abusive men"I'd never hit a woman in a relationship I would. To say otherwise is to claim that there are no circumstances under which a woman might deserve an ass-kicking. That's not true for men, why would it be true for women? One of the basic reasons that most men are decent to each other is that they know there are things they could do or say which would result in an expensive emergency visit to their dentist the next day. I see no reason to exempt women from that rule. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?Which means that what I said is on point. The only difference is that we are discussing your daughter, not you personally. There are plenty of reasons for your daughter to attend college, some good, others not so good. "Attract a man" is not among those reasons. This fact isn't really a problem for anyone, including your daughter, unless they choose to be upset about it... which is kind of a made-up problem. As I said before, if I become angry that my girlfriends like me for X instead of Y, that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?Nah, it's alarming about your future. The only implication it has is that you are going to have trouble finding what you want, which is apparently a man who doesn't just like you, but likes you for your education. If I were on a quest to find a woman who liked me for my collection of rifles, and my ability to mimic James Earl Jones as Darth Vader, or other shit women don't care about, I suppose I would be frustrated, too. But I am not, because I don't try to tell women to find qualities that alr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doSo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 01:22 AM |
| -1 | What have you learned from PPD that has actually improved your life?How to phrase TRP ideas so that people who aren't very intelligent will understand them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's "Hypergamy" is women "masc-optimizing" when seeking a male partner in the same way men "femme-optimize" when seeking a female partner.Everyone wants better. Hypergamy means "only wants best". And, as the article explains, this is an inevitable result of only being able to want one of any available set of choices. If men were inherently monogamous, we'd be hypergamous, too, and we'd branch swing just as much as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why?I've noticed that (at least some) men seem to love the idea of being with a woman who is bullied by other women So you have noticed your own beliefs, and can correctly perceive how the world seems to you. Good job, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?So what, exactly, is your plan, here? You're going to scold men, and they're going to rearrange their mating priorities to suit you? You want them to do something, but you offer nothing in return. How do you think that is going to work out for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 4 | R1ggedved's Guide to Amazing Intercourse and Why It's More Important Thank You Think It isIt's focused on getting inside a girl's head and creating sexual excitement, both by using things girls generally like, and by discovering and exploiting a girl's particular kinks. I've found that physical sexual techniques are almost irrelevant if you get a girl worked up enough. Yes, she'll need some physical stimulation, but it doesn't need to be intense or precise if she's highly excited. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?If you say that having a Phd in history has no value as a relationship partner, it’s because you yourself don’t value education.. am educated man will respect that aspect of her and actually find it attractive that she has ambition.. You don't actually get to tell men what we find attractive. We decide what we find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?So you agree with me. But you are affronted that men don't want to do more work for the same reward, so you rephrased what I said with some spin doctoring to call it "laziness" instead of "basic economic sense". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Guy gave me an incurable Std and has blocked me, I’m angry.I'd also be super interested to see what TRP sub would say if a girl gave her male fwb herpes but didn't tell him anything or lied to him about it, and then just said 'gtfoh' and blocked him like a skank when he confronted her about it. I can tell you exactly what TRP would say, because TRP is pretty much what I say it is. You're not going to be able to get any justice for this, either through legal means or social ones, because society is intensely protective of women, and not of you. Attemptin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?That’s a bad deal is very vague.. what do you mean by that Because education increases a woman's relationship expectations without increasing her relationship value. If she has a PhD in history, her baseline expectation is that her future husband have a PhD as well. He might make up for not having one by being impressive in some other way, but there would need to be something added to do that. And her PhD in history doesn't make her one iota more desirable as a relationship partner. It only make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?Doesn't mean they are threatened by them in particular. There are plenty of other reasons for not dating one. In fact, it's usually a bad idea to date a woman who's more educated than you. But that's not because they are somehow dangerous. Educated women are no more dangerous than the female baseline. They're just a bad deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?Neither are other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women?Why are uneducated men threatened by educated women? They're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's "Hypergamy" is women "masc-optimizing" when seeking a male partner in the same way men "femme-optimize" when seeking a female partner.https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/848 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What is “red pill”?Can't say I overly agree with that. Doesn't matter. I'm not here to debate, for reasons we've gone over. I'm here to articulate. In other words, if readers understand what I am getting at, then my goal is accomplished. Whether you, or anyone else, believes it or not is up to them. Not only does debate settle nothing, it's not even particularly important for things to be settled, especially between people where at least one has no skin in the game, and thus is not materially affected by what they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 06:09 AM |
| 10 | Remember- Reddit Admin Tacitly Endorsed Male Abuse and Denies its Victims - Then tried to secretly recant without apologizing.If you wonder why your world is a wasteland, with every normal function — jobs, government, art, culture, family and friends — perverted into a replica of the larger control structure, this is why. The West is a ruin because it is existential misery with excellent shopping. The soulless person says, “Hotdogs only 5 dollars! I love this country, such a bargain!” and then goes through life ignoring crises, and rationalizing the loss of time and autonomy as necessary for the highest value, which is… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/21 02:45 AM |
| 26 | The Great Reddit ExodusHopefully this can be sorted out or at least efficiently moved to the external forum. Weird how it goes. Subs like FDS stay active and keep strategically planning on how to use men, while we're getting shut down for merely having open conversations about how to improve our lives. That's the plan. The Control-Left isn't accidentally hurting and marginalizing young men in pursuit of some other goal. That is the goal. They want you not talking to each other and sharing strength, support, and insigh… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/21 02:11 AM |
| 24 | R1ggedved's Guide to Amazing Intercourse and Why It's More Important Thank You Think It isThis is good writing. I'm not a yoga guy, and my sexual technique is very different, but the way these ideas are presented carries some more universal, and important messages. The important takeaway here isn't "do yoga". I don't give a shit about yoga, and I'm going to laugh at anyone who calls himself a "spiritual master". Instead, it's... look at how /u/riggedved has owned and confronted each thing about himself that he didn't like, both honest with himself about his weaknesses and what he did… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/21 01:56 AM |
| 12 | R1ggedved's Guide to Amazing Intercourse and Why It's More Important Thank You Think It isYou have incorrectly identified the primary organ responsible for the female orgasm. It's the brain. The way you get a woman off is to get inside her head, and get her in the right mindset. Sure, some girls are vaginal-thrusting girls, and other girls are clit girls, and there are girls who like all sorts of things. But the thing that all girls need is to be in the right headspace. So don't be so quick to assume that anyone who doesn't share your physical tech manual is a liar. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 2 | RIP itiswr1ttenAny loose association like TRP generally requires a few people who are useful, but limited, and thus unaware of their true function. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Can you guys expand on the idea of frame?https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/o5ck0g/can_you_guys_expand_on_the_idea_of_frame/h2neoqm/ | /r/askTRP | 23/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 33 | Can you guys expand on the idea of frame?Okay, if that doesn't feel like enough of a definition, try this: Think about a "frame". Not metaphorically. Literally. The frame of a house. The frame of a door. The frame of a picture. What is it? What does it do? Well, it provides structure, and it defines the boundaries. So, when we talk about "controlling" the "frame", we mean the frame of an interaction. The frame of an interaction is its structure and boundaries. What is being talked about. Who is talking. What the goal of the interaction… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 19 | Can you guys expand on the idea of frame?Apparently, they can't. Every single person who answered you got it dead wrong. You're going to have to wait until I'm not on my phone. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Can you guys expand on the idea of frame?Nope. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 10:19 AM |
| 6 | My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself?Say nothing. Document everything. Consult an attorney NOW. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | RIP itiswr1ttenMaybe we should just create another subreddit for them, invite only, and make out that it's some kind of VIP lounge for the smartest and cunning of debaters. The TRP Master Debater area. Then we promote all the Master Debaters by giving them exclusive access, and they can go there, Master Debate the other Master Debaters, and expel shining white streams of Pure Rationally Derived Truth, without any empirical observation or experience to get in the way. Then, fifteen minutes after the sun goes no… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/21 02:26 PM |
| 8 | RIP itiswr1ttenThat which is asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 7 | RIP itiswr1ttenHave you personally experienced the thing you are trying to tell us about? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | RIP itiswr1ttenStrike one. Let's try this question a different way. Which past eras have you personally lived through? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/21 07:41 PM |
| 6 | RIP itiswr1ttenOut of curiosity, how old are you? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/21 07:30 PM |
| 5 | How do I (F20) tell my boyfriend (M25) that I would like him to cover the expenses during a date?Not really. ... It was very embarrassing for me to admit that I had been seeing a man who was letting me pay for myself and it definitely hurt my self esteem because it feels like my boyfriend was insinuating that I’m not worth his generosity. Furthermore, besides the shame and embarrassment (not of him, but for not clarifying this with him before getting into this relationship which reflects poorly on me), my friends and family would oppose this relationship if they found out he lets me pay. I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/21 06:23 PM |
| 9 | How do I (F20) tell my boyfriend (M25) that I would like him to cover the expenses during a date?So, in other words, you want your boyfriend to bankroll you so you can look cool to your friends? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | What is “red pill”?I’m sensing a distaste for PPD and debate Not the point. Debate, feasts, and underage slave sodomy are all fun even if you're not an Athenian noble. The only issue is the delusion that the first arrives at truth. In practice it tends to never arrive anywhere at all. If you look at trends in non-scientific academia, you tend to see this. Proponents of a school of thought tend to abandon positions through death or retirement, rather than any process of having theses disproven. What you have here i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? There is no point in arguing about that which can be resolved by experiment. Try to guess which group each of the follow post titles came from: How to give better blowjobs? LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success! Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a house Ladies who have overcome daddy issues, how did you heal? Moving in with my fiance next week “Lorena” - the Lorena Bobbit documentary o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy frequency and cause: Potential theoriesHypergamy is an understood phenomenon and a solved question. None of 1-12 describe it correctly. Hypergamy is monogamy expressed as instinct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Is the value of "Red Pill" media help or entertainment?So how exactly did you measure the increase in violence towards the self caused by exposure to red pill ideas? And how did you measure the increase in violence towards others? I'd like a link to your data and a description of your methods, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Is the value of "Red Pill" media help or entertainment?I'm not aware of any material on YouTube, beyond /u/realjoedee's podcasts, that I would consider "red pill". All I see is hucksters emulating our label, but not our empirical methods. Avoid taking advice from someone who gives advice for a living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What is “red pill”?Id humbly offer men have potential value rather than inherent. ... because you are trapped within blue-pill woman-centric slave morality, and thus you instinctively measure value by usefulness to others (probably female others). Step outside that mental prison, and it becomes obvious that every man is inherently valuable to himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | What is “red pill”?AKA if someone didn’t fully agree with everything a TRP EC espoused, they weren’t immediately banned, which is what typically happened when those individuals attempted that sort of discussion on TRP. Whereas on PPD they could debate it out... This points to the essential difference between TRP and its satellite spaces. These exist on two axes: Empiricist vs. Rationalist and Skin in the Game vs. No Skin in the Game. The idea of "debating it out", whatever "it" is, carries the hidden, if not very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 03:50 AM |
| 3 | What is “red pill”?THANK YOU for taking the time to detail this. Welcome. And I agree “misogyny” is the secret sauce if “misogyny” simply means taking women off of the pedestal. That's all misogyny has ever meant. You can count the number of people who hate women for being women on the fingers of one tomato. But women don't see it this way, because modern western middle class women are the single most privileged class of beings in the known history of the entire universe, and thus experience it as a terrible hards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 12:22 AM |
| 9 | What is “red pill”?What are the origins of RP? In your opinion. Well, presumably you know who I am, so it's not just my opinion. Here are the basic facts: It started with the pickup artist (PuA) phenomenon. On reddit, discussion of this subject took place in a now-largely-defunct group called r/seduction. Obviously, the material was much different back then (more focused on what to say and do in the moment, and less on how to shape yourself into the sort of man women desire), but this was early days and we were st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:15 PM |
| 6 | What is “red pill”?You are correct, and this allows us to ask and answer the next obvious question: Why? Why do they do this? Why are there blue pillers at all? After all, if empiricism helps us understand the universe, and understanding the universe empowers us, then there are powerful incentives for empiricism. For anti-empiricism to exist, there must be some counterbalancing anti-empirical incentive. The answer lies in the observation that there are no blue-pilled animals. Bower birds, chimpanzees, and lobsters… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:10 PM |
| 33 | What is “red pill”?It's a metaphor we selected for accepting the world as you see it is, rather than as you wish it be, or as others tell you it is. It's empiricism. Since we discussed this in a sexual context, it's mostly sexual empiricism. This means we focus on what we think is, striving to perceive and understand it without being hampered by the need to judge it. Does that mean we can never be wrong? Of course not. We have discarded many ideas and embraced others as our understanding evolved. But it does mean … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathreadalreadyredschool (who I think started the sub and was also a mod at TRP) Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How to start going to the gym?This might be a dumb question Ya think? but I honestly don’t even know where to start. I have a membership, but I don’t know what to do, how many sets, how many reps. That's not your problem. You are connected to the fucking internet. Your problem is you are too chickenshit to just websearch a program and get started. You want someone to hold your hand in order to ease your anxiety. Overcoming that anxiety is an essential part of the process, numbnuts. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Is Online Dating a Scam?Instead of asking whether it is a scam or not, try asking what the incentive structure is. How do they make their money? Well, they either monetize page views, or they charge for services. In either case, they need people to be actively using (or at least paying) the site in order to get paid. So their definition of success is lots of people using the site. Well, what is the users' definition of success? For female users, it is being in a relationship, and no longer using the site. For male user… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: FDS and TRP's goals are similar in that each of them tries to prevent running into the otherboth of their goals are similar in that each of them tries to prevent running into the other. Incorrect. TRP's goal is to increase its readers' degree of sexual success. FDS's goal is to increase its readers' degree of psychological comfort. This is why FD contains no actual S. Don't believe me? Go look right now. Look at whatever are currently the top ten posts. How many of them contain any strategy? How many of them contain any strategy that isn't the 10,000th repetition of "refuse any man who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Experiment where women rate men in a lineup, then explain their reasoning.The patriarchy is in your cheeseburgers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 5 | all men are trash???????It would be interesting to see how long even the most zealous of radfems could go without using something invented for her by a man, then built for her by men, and transported for her to where she bought it by men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/06/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | It’s better for the man to ask you on a date, asking a man increases the likelihood that he’s settling.Better for who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Experiment where women rate men in a lineup, then explain their reasoning.The point of the patriarchy is that it’s locus is unidentifiable, yet all-powerful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaD5mAC3P2s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 04:25 AM |
| 7 | Society hates you and everyone like you+1 "Society" will not save you. It is not there to help you. It is not your incubator. You can jerk off to Marx or Evola all you like, whichever suits your utopian vision, but ultimately you have to face the fact that what you want out of that is someone else to do your job for you. And no one but your mommy and daddy actually give a shit about making your individual life better. That's on you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What are RPers view of body positivity?There is no body positivity. There is only female body positivity. This is because the whole idea springs from the human race's hardwired protective instinct towards females of the species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 06:57 AM |
| 2 | The Reason the Redpill and FDS Types Don't Post PhysiqueIf they’re hot, then their beliefs are 100% right? In fact, if we are super hot, then our methods are called into question, because we might be successful just because we are super hot, rather than because our methods work. In reality, it doesn't matter what has happened to us. What matters is what will happen to those who follow our advice. And since our advice is free, any heterosexual male can test this for himself. There is no point in arguing about that which can be resolved by experiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 04:37 AM |
| 13 | The Reason the Redpill and FDS Types Don't Post PhysiqueAlso, he didn't post physique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 04:33 AM |
| 3 | These are the type of people that are altering our legal systemOkay, so... don't sell sex. Problem solved. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/06/21 04:18 AM |
| 4 | My ex-girlfriend texted my new plateWhen someone is calling you a horrible psychopathic villain, the best way to discredit them is to seem as calm and reasonable as possible. Do not call her a crazy bitch. Instead, speak about her compassionately with a few gentle hints about her having some struggles with her mental health. Then the more vehement she gets, the more she will color in the picture you have sketched out. In your case, since she actually is crazy (and BPDs are an extra helping of crazy), she will shortly furnish plent… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Extremely fucked up situation with roommate. Advice needed.This is not a you problem. You do not have to get involved. There is no "win condition" for you if you do get involved. Stay out, do not form an opinion. On the down low, start looking for somewhere else to live. Drama has a splash zone. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Am I being too sensitive or... do I have a right to be upset?+1 This is exactly the right call. No handwringing about how kinky men are evil, no fetching the fainting couch, just pointing out the fundamental incompatibility between someone who is kinky and someone who is not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Am I being too sensitive or... do I have a right to be upset?You always have the right to be upset. Your emotions belong to you. What you do not have the right to do is demand that others change because of how you feel. You are vanilla, he is kinky. This is a fundamental incompatibility, and you two idiots decided to have a relationship anyway, each thinking that the other would change. This is not a thing that happens. You need to go find a vanilla guy, and he needs to go find one or more kinky chicks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesIf you don't want me to do anything about the number of women who you think get "raped", then why did you fly in out of nowhere, and start a conversation with me to tell me all about it? I said that women don't know what they want, and instead of agreeing or disagreeing with that point, you joined the conversation and launched this total non-sequitur of "yeah, well, some men are rapists". That has nothing to do with anything I said, and it's not my problem. And if you don't expect me to care, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Debate: Divorced parents are NOT single parents.I think arguing semantics is an extremely good use of someone else's time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesYou say that 1 out of 5 women have been "raped". You have no way of knowing that, and I don't know how you define "rape" to make that even remotely make sense. Moreover, whatever is happening that you don't like is a you problem, not a me problem. I'm not your unpaid bodyguard. So why the fuck are you even complaining to me about stuff? What is it that you want me to do, and how do you plan to incentivize me to do it, other than trying to appeal to guilt, honor, or shame... which I will ignore? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Update: all you want from me is sex"Sure, gimme a call in two weeks." | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?So what you are asking is "How do I use this thing?". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 5 | FDS being as large as it is shows how out of touch some women are and that doesn’t help get women results.Everyone here has at least heard of FDS and what’s it’s goal is, to help women attract high value men No, that is not its goal. Its goal to soothe women's emotional pain at their lack of romantic success by shifting blame for it to anyone other than themselves. It's a massive ball of "cope". Want to see for yourself? Go look at the top ten posts there on any given day. How many of them contain any "strategy"? How many contain any actionable advice at all? How many contain a new piece of advice t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesMany women have been using the word "society" to mean "my opinion" for some time now. Ain't fooled no more. Sure, you can pull some numbers out of your ass, and by "your ass", I mean "a feminist social pseudo-scientist with an extremely flexible definition of words like 'rape' and an over-reliance on self-report data when it can be massaged to say what she wants to hear". Ain't fooled by that no more, either. But neither of these answers the question "why exactly should Whisper give a fuck?". Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesEverything someone does is a behaviour. It's impossible to not behave. You just mean we don't obey you and behave the way you want us to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 04:56 PM |
| -1 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedNo. They are symptoms of the destruction of the family structure and the social network. The causes of this were technological and economic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, female subjugation & male sexlesness.You are responsible for your successes & failures, failing to meet your goals in dating simply means you are failing and that’s on YOU. This is the part of TRP's message that young men, in general, struggle the most with. They've been raised to think of society as a sort of engine that's designed to take care of people, providing them with a path to a good life. But this isn't true. Society is a word we use to describe a heap of stuff left lying around as a result of others' efforts to care for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel bad when women say the male body is unattractive?If you take what women say at all seriously, you're going to have a rough time of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Men don't have to be attractive to get girlsMale attractiveness doesn't have all that much to do with looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, female subjugation & male sexlesness.So what is your proposed solution? Solution to what? What is there to solve? Things are as they always have been. About 1/3 of men are winners, and get laid anywhere from "a decent amount" to "staggeringly a lot", and 2/3 are losers and get laid anywhere from "occasionally" to "never". This is hardwired into the human species, and nothing short of sophisticated gene-tampering science fiction tech will ever change it. {women are FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE now!} Yes, they are. I don't pay a damn thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingIf you want to have some idea about what their actual life outcomes might be, consider the following two observations. Most of them are very angry at men in general. Those who have been subscribed for a long time are not less so than those who have been subscribed for a short time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingNo hymen, no diamond. Fixed that for ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre.When men here aren’t misinterpreting what women say, their ideas of how women and dating ”should” work seems to come from entertainment created by men blah blah blah blah That's because PPD is the shallow end of the pool. And you're in it with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:42 AM |
| 5 | What is the best way to ease a date into me eating a special/restrictive diet?For example, after a few dates of hiking or hanging out, the idea of a dinner/food date comes up. Or after hanging out for a while, he'll be hungry and want food. If I just sit across from him not eating, it'll be weird. Also I may be hungry too. He also may not want me to pick all of the restaurants. Oh, dear... I hadn't thought of that. You might have to communicate clearly with each other, and accommodate each others' needs. You might have to work together as a team to overcome logistical pro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceSo advice given to a woman on how to maintain her marriage is failing spectacularly as one of TRPs greats has losing battle after losing battle (as time goes on) trying to "reason" (argue) with young women online. I can see why you can't get laid. Because the one defining trait of men who can get laid is that they are persistent and not discouraged by failure. The occasional success looms larger in their minds than the failures in between. For you, the reverse is true. This is why you looked at … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/21 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Does it get better?It gets better if you make it get better. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some advice*Sigh* I have no recollection of you, but your objection is as old as time. What you jokers cannot seem to realize is that I am not trying to save western civilization. You keep telling me it's doomed, and that my efforts are futile, because you can't conceive of any other reason why I might be doing this. You don't understand what I mean by "Parables of the Sower", and don't understand what I mean when I say the word "collectivist", and that I am not one. Collectivists think that problems must … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 07:52 PM |
| 62 | What is the best way to ease a date into me eating a special/restrictive diet?I feel like just by needing to eat this diet my SMV drops because it limits the activities and food we'd be able to eat together. Time for a "man here" comment... because in this case, it actually matters. Speaking from inside an extremely male mind, I promise you that I, and the vast majority of my XY bros, do not give one single solitary FUCK what you eat, so long as you do not do either of two things: Try to control what WE eat. Make it OUR problem to find food for you that you can safely con… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceSo you don't like having your motives characterized based on some text that you wrote? Well, then try imagining how /u/spazzkitty's husband might feel, to have his entire character assassinated based on selected portions of what his wife wrote. And then imagine what would happen to her marriage, if she were foolish enough to take those knee-jerk reactions at face value. This is not a game. SpazzKitty is a real person, with a real life, and a real marriage. There are more important things going o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.We DON'T want to settle down with a loser When you are a loser, this is exactly who is available to settle down with. This "problem" is simple economics. When 99% of the available supply of "hookup sex" goes to 15% of the demand, there is a great market opportunity for anyone who can create an alternative product which can service the remaining 85% of the demand while consuming only 1% of the supply. Enter porn. Porn is diluted hookup sex. By digitizing the product, you make it copyable. Then wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:37 AM |
| 8 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Or, in the more complete view, a positive feedback loop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 12 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Contrary to popular belief, boys are neither stupid nor oblivious to what is going on around them, and are quite capable of forming opinions about, and emotional reactions to, things before the point at which they personally experience them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:21 AM |
| 12 | The purpose of a blowjobIn contrast, girls that are relunctant to blow me tend to be quite the opposite and thus, are what many would deem "marraige material." Give less advice, work harder on inspiring desire in women, and you will shed your madonna/whore complex. Every woman is a slut for the man she desires passionately enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/21 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceI was just so upset for her. Exactly. Empathy, like everything else, is good in moderate amounts, but if there's too much, it can get in the way of other stuff. Many readers simply dismissed what she had to say about her relationship being generally good... they felt for her so strongly that they didn't listen to her or give her credit for the ability to know if her relationship was good or not. They treated a married woman like an idiot child. We're not automatically doing someone a favour by f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 02:18 AM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?And, to my readers, in a third installment: Here we see Briffault's Law in its more blatant form. She is quite comfortable acknowledging that she is using him, because she feels that her ability to "win" has been called into question. Were she instead being challenged on the morality of her behaviour, she would not acknowledge this, but argue the opposite. The moral of this story is, never extend value to a woman in the hopes that she will reciprocate. She will not. Instead, you must demand that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Again, to my regular readers: Watch how she rationalizes when the inconsistency between her words and her actions is pointed out. She acknowledges that the behaviour she rewarded was the opposite of what she says she wants, and points out "But it made me feel bad". Which means that what she was talking about all along was how others could organize their actions to make her feel good, not to make her attracted to them. You, dear readers, being mostly male, are prone to confusion on this issue, be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:33 PM |
| 5 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?To my regular readers: Check this girl out. Look at her speculating about what men would do if they felt this or that, which she by implication wants them to feel... then she reveals that she went for a man who did the opposite. Never try to understand women by listening to what they say... instead, you must watch what they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceGood. I don't think there's really anything to be defensive about, here, in fact. I don't get the feeling he's telling you he's dissatisfied at all... it's more like he's just trying to tell you what would be even nicer. And here these other women were telling you he's a gaslighting abuser... *sigh*. Women are so protective of other women that they will even put that ahead of fucking listening to them first. But his communication skills do need some serious fucking work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 12 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceOkay, time to speculate a little. Imagine a man with a wife who is conventionally pretty attractive and has a healthy and aesthetic height to weight ratio. This is fine, but he's got two additional things going on. One, he's confrontation-averse and doesn't like to communicate directly. Two, he finds this more attractive than this. If he were willing to be direct, he might ask her to do less aerobics and more heavy squats, and that would be a simple conversation. But he doesn't want to make her … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 07:24 PM |
| 19 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceAh, okay. I suspected that's where we were going to end up going. If your husband were on TRP, the advice I would give him would be somewhat like this: You are an idiot. Women barely manage to sometimes know what they want, how the fuck are they supposed to figure out what you want from some sort of oblique hint game? Frankly, I'm starting to suspect you're a pussy as well, because you don't have the balls to just say what you want and take responsibility for it. How the fuck do you expect her t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 06:42 PM |
| 14 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some advice"Just joking" is very vague, and clearly it's not really communicating any sort of message to you. This leads us to two possible conclusions: Either he doesn't want you to understand, and his purpose is upset you. He's trying to say something that he is afraid to say more directly. Now, many respondents have leaped with great alacrity to the first conclusion, and gone on to call him abusive. They might as well be saying "Look at ME! Look what a compassionate, supportive person I am! Showing you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 9 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceIt's very hard to interpret his intent or mindset from this small description. Could you give a more detailed description of how the conversation goes when you try to talk to him about this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Is Going to the Gym “Too Much” a Thing?Do your joints hurt a lot? No? Then you aren't lifting too much. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 2 | AWALT is a feature, not a bug.Alright, now that we have definitions out of the way, I believe this is a feature of women, not a bug. With this knowledge in hand, you know how to deal romantically with the women in your life, rather than randomly guessing how they are. It's, frankly, a good thing. I'm wondering who it is you believe is saying otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesJudging by how angry you are about this problem of yours, you've either had it over and over again, in which case your current approach isn't working... ... or you're in a habit of reading about it happening to other people, in which you seek out things to be mad about, and I dunno what you might do about that, apart from stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 02:07 AM |
| – | Asian men and black women are the least desirable dating demographics in America.If you want to be strictly accurate, say "least desired". People are desirable, or not, on an individual level... talking about desirability in terms of demographics gets a little unclear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesYou're free to interact with others however you like, and then to deal with their reactions. Personally, I find that when I take some effort to calibrate my message to my audience, receptivity goes way up... but that requires some capacity to react to one's circumstances, rather than solely to one's feelings. If you would instead like all of mankind to adapt to your preferences, okay, good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesI think that 30 year old women are probably not the best example of how to handle unwanted attention with the appropriate combination of assertiveness and grace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesWhich is why 16 year old girls have no interest in acting like 30 year old women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I think we all need to calm down a littleI'm (older) gen z and there's a weird trend of girls going "ew men and the way their balls hang and girls are prettier", etc. etc. If I had to guess at an explanation for this, I would say that because women are more attracted by behaviour than aesthetics, it's easier for them to pretend disinterest in men's appearance, which they gain social capital from doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Men, do you value women based on their popularity?Bold of you to assume I value women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesI am impressed by your one-handed typing skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesMake sure a 20 year old girl can handle herself like a 30 year old. So, get 15 cats, drink wine out of a box, and complain that her life isn't turning out how she planned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesWomen have no idea what they want. They only know how they feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Older men using their experience as an unfair advantage over younger women is an extreme exaggerationIt's not an exaggeration. It's a complete fabrication ex nihilo. The description of an experienced partner having an "unfair advantage over" an inexperienced one reveals our culture's underlying attitude that relationships are oppositional in nature. This is pathological. It was also inevitable the moment we, collectively, insisted on putting two people in a relationship where they are expected to have no separate areas of responsibility, to wield precisely equal power, and to make all decisions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?I was being cheeky because you were. It's nice that you're so willing to follow my lead, but that may be the best way to get your question answered. I am fielding responses and as you can read Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismIt's slightly more difficult than that. But the sacrifice is merely social in nature. The plain truth is that we live in a culture that will eat alive any man that follows its expectations. In order to prosper in it, he must to willing to look like the bad guy. That leap is not easy to make. But once it is made, men often quickly discover that the sacrifice was not so great as they thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 12:37 AM |
| 14 | Update: Letting my husband pursue me.Yes, your husband is also a coward. You are both so afraid of saying something that might make you look bad, or get someone else upset at you, that you have literally waited until your relationship was on the rocks to start being honest with each other. Not that I believe for a moment that either one of you is being completely honest even now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 20 | Update: Letting my husband pursue me.Okay, so you let yourself go. This not only makes you physically unattractive to him, it's disrespectful. Because you took him for granted. And you are still not taking responsibility. Because you're pretending you just found this out. You knew you were getting fat. You just expected him not to care. You expected him to be sexually attracted to you regardless of how you looked, based on your pre-existing relationship. That is not how men work. And you knew that, too. You just didn't care until i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismOkay, so what you should understand here (and by "should", I mean for your own good) is that, because women have embraced full hedonism, you are completely free to ignore all these expectations. The only material way that women can retaliate against you would be to withhold what they contribute... but they've already done that. What are they going to do, withhold it twice? The reason that you are being barraged with appeals to guilt, honor, and shame (which is the phenomenon you are pointing out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?So what is it that puzzles you? The fact that two men disagreed with each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.Imagine all the time she spent putting this together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 10:18 PM |
| 12 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?Dear diary: Today I noticed a man who was upset about onlyfans, but yesterday I heard a man express enthusiasm about porn. I am confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 09:23 PM |
| – | "men don't take good pictures of themselves, men don't dress fashionably, men don't work on their personality" is BS. Truth is, female taste rules the dating market."but but but men don't get matches and women do... this means women have something men don't!" A vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?There is one primary reason why most men prefer younger women: the traits that attract most men are characteristic of youth. Beauty (especially the sort of comes from health and vitality) Openness to experience Playfulness Cheerfulness Excitability Enthusiasm Energy High sex drive ... what does this all sound like? A teenage girl. Not all teenage girls have these qualities, and not all older women lose with age, but that's the trend. So what do teenage girls lack? Emotional stability Caution Wis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Backing off and letting my husband pursue me?I think you're not being entirely honest with me. You have alluded vaguely to "a difficult stretch of marriage", but you haven't described what the issues were, despite your obvious willingness to complain about your husband's attitudes and actions. Which indicates to me that you may be somewhat unwilling to discuss or acknowledge your role in those marital difficulties. If you are not willing to do this, then there is zero chance that your husband will let go of his resentments towards you. Ame… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Backing off and letting my husband pursue me?You have problems you can't fuck your way out of. And no man is going to initiate sex with, or enjoy sex with, a woman for whom he has deep seated anger and distrust. Stop fiddling with the sex knob and fix your relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/21 01:16 AM |
| 7 | Backing off and letting my husband pursue me?Stop asking me how to implement your solution, and tell me what your problem is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 5 | My ex wants me to do certain things in order for me to see him more oftenOkay, so here's the advice I would give to a man in his situation: "If this girl dumped you, and now she wants you back, she wants you back because option one didn't work out. Do not commit to her. You do not want to live your life as someone's second choice. Plate only." But what he is doing isn't following my advice. He is seeing if he can get you to do things you find degrading, precisely because he wants to resuscitate the relationship. You see, he knows something about women that all men kn… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/21 02:51 PM |
| 7 | I hate being grouped into an all-encompassing definitive. I am completely capable of knowing when my rights are in threat of infringement. Do these type of women just think men are stupid?men don't even entertain the thought that someone would not allow him to use his own hard earned money Allow me to introduce you to a concept called "taxes". | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Should I demote my LTR back to plate or am I overthinking this?Agreed last week to make one of 4 plates my exclusive LTR. She is an absolute smoke show and I guarantee she gets guys in her DMs all day but this just seems like blatant disrespect and potentially like she’s doing things with this guy after she was the one to bring up the exclusivity talk. Go to the back of the class. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 6 | This is degeneracy at it's peakThe phrase "emotional labour" is only used by those who don't do any. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 3 | How can you tell if you're just a "practice wife/girlfriend"?Annnnnnnd we have a winner. This is precisely it. RPW and TRP have very different "tones", but what they share in common is the idea that what happens to you is at least partially your fault, and you want to focus on that part because that's the part you can control. All this business about "the practice wife" and men who "aren't ready for commitment" is just a way of blaming them when you haven't inspired their commitment. All this business about men "loving the chase" and being "put off by a w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 20 | How can you tell if you're just a "practice wife/girlfriend"?But I've heard so many people talk about "the practice woman" that men want to work out their kinks with before they meet and marry their wife. And by people, do you mean men, or women? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/21 03:28 AM |
| 3 | My brother wants to LTR a 22 year old with 2 kids and two fathersYou cannot help someone without their permission. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 40 | Low testosterone?There is no sense in arguing or speculating about that which can be resolved by experiment. If you are concerned about your testosterone levels, have your blood tested. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:01 PM |
| 0 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?You miss the point. Why did you answer the question? If you are off the market, your answer is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?I'm happily married. So why are you making lists of what you want in a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 11:33 AM |
| 3 | What are your standards for your own "side?"In my defense though I have a medical condition known as an engineering degree which causes me to have seizures when exposed to small talk. So you lack social skills, haven't bothered to put in the effort to learn them, and are in the habit of using excuses and humor to deflect any expectation that you do better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:10 AM |
| 3 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Anyways, I thought I was going crazy reading some of the replies because nothing about her list struck me as unreasonable but obviously some disagree and me being a woman means I can’t see their point of view. For those who do, why? And is this what men mean when they say women have unreasonable standards? You're confused because you're reading her list, but you're not reading his response carefully enough. You broads will whip up a 16 point checklist of what you deserve in a man in a couple min… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy/polygamy is the fantasy, assortative mating is the realityTRP claims that through the right behaviors you can rise above your station in the SMP and plate hotties What exactly is "your station"? How is it assigned? Yet almost all the red pill coaches and red pillers I know have one girlfriend/wife You don't know any of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy/polygamy is the fantasy, assortative mating is the realityThe vast majority of men will never be able to do this The vast majority of men will never do what it takes to do this, able or not. which is the falsehood TRP preaches You're going to need to produce some quotes on this one. From me, or other TRP founders/thought leaders... not from throwaway_2273, three years ago, with 3 upvotes. Not just because I don't remember preaching anything of the sort, but because I'm actually not even sure what you think I was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.3) Women are perma-children in the sense that they expect others to take responsibility for their safety, welfare, and happiness even after they have reached the age of majority. 4) All of the above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 24 | Why do we excuse women's bad behaviour by saying 'it's just their nature'To expand on this for the audience... When we talk about "excusing" behaviour, or what "should" happen, we've started discussing morality. Here's the rule: Nothing in TRP prohibits you from having and following a code of ethics. You're welcome to discuss why certain morals or values might exist, or their benefit in the context of strategy, however arguments that stem from morality (i.e. this is evil, therefore) are strictly prohibited. And here's why I wrote it this way. TRP is ultimately about … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 13 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?If you want to be attractive to women, purge the word "unfair" from your vocabulary. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 09:16 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW and Red Pill should only be followed by men who have totally failed at the dating market.we don’t want to discourage otherwise potentially successful men from getting married Who's "we"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all?I have no idea, because in my life, I have met or seen only one woman who is funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What most women want in a manWho decides who’s correct when everything is arbitrary and situational? That is incredibly difficult. Everyone, by definition, thinks they are correct. And if self-report doesn't prove anything (which it doesn't), then if self-report is all you have, all you can do is argue. Which is diverting, but not conclusive. But if that were all we had, we'd just be stuck. But we can find some illumination if we stray into the realm of philosophy and ask "what IS truth?". Well, it's a word humans invented.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What most women want in a manThe general response of someone who doesn't have anything useful to say is to question the motives of those who do. It doesn't matter how we feel. It only matters if we are correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested.And that's why the red pill exists. Because some ideas are safer to express than others, and which ideas are safe to express has no relationship at all to which ideas are true. Because TRP is already subject to the maximum amount of disapproval, we lose nothing by saying what we believe to be true. What are people going to do... call us misogynists twice? That's why we set TRP up this way. Most of the institutions of western culture have wandered away from the truth as a core value, precisely be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | What most women want in a manLet me understand the red pill man? Is this the right winged man or the man that refuses to commit? This paragraph doesn't make any sense until I substitute a period for the first question mark. Even then the phrasing is strange and unclear. I'm going to assume that your meaning is: Help me understand the red pill man. Is he defined by being right wing, or by declining to engage in long term romantic relationships with women? No. "Red pill" is a metaphor we borrowed from a popular film for the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested.Men invest effort in anyone, regardless of sex, who makes that experience rewarding. What you are noticing is not that men don't want friends who happen to be women, but that women are generally bad friends to have. If you do something for a man today, he tends to believe he owes you something, and he will try to do something for you tomorrow. If you do something for a woman today, she tends to believe you now owe her that thing, and she is entitled to it again tomorrow. Women aren't generally w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What most women want in a manI find it disturbing that young men are this angry. Why? How did it happen? Was it my generation X that created this? Was it because everyone got a trophy? Lol because I saw much less of this kind of attitude in the 90s when I went highschool. Is it because of social media? I've chosen to answer these questions separately, because they are very different from the main subject of this conversation. Every culture has a set of expectations for its members about how they are supposed to live their l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What most women want in a manIn psychology and behaviorism, the only way to conduct a study is through reporting on what people say is true. They have no other means to do it Okay, now you have graduated from complete non-sequiturs to raising points that have already been refuted: The fact that it is not practical to perform such a study does not magically make self-report data valid. Let me make this even more clear: Psychologists and sociologists often perform self-report studies because it is not economical, practical, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What most women want in a manThis response is such a complete non-sequitur that I don't quite understand what sort of confusion of thought could have produced it. I did not say "the study's conclusions are invalid because the PI is dumb and icky". I said "the study's conclusions are invalid because self-report data on human choice does not yield valid data". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What most women want in a manThe article above is a study conducted. It’s a viable source, I checked credibility. No, it's not. Just like every other study out there, it relies on self-report data. Self-report data is worse than no data, because at least when you have no data, you are aware of your ignorance. To accurately assess people's desires, you have to observe their behaviour, not ask what their desires are. They can't even be honest with themselves, much less you. In order to find out who a woman is attracted to, yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)So, here is a thing that is generally less desirable, but also harder to get. Okay. So what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Are men too sexually aggressive, or not aggressive enough?: Contradictory narratives on male sexualityBoth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 35 | Dear Michael from Toronto…you need to stop.Group founder here. Thanks for the laugh. I'm thinking of writing an article entitled "Don't be Michael from Toronto". | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 34 | Dear Michael from Toronto…you need to stop.Jesus fuck. No matter how carefully I explain myself, there is always some giant retard who listens carefully, nods at all the right points... and takes away the opposite of the intended message. Michael, you giant pussy, it doesn't matter what /u/SFVisitor84's sisters thinks of you now, or what she thinks at all. If you had any sort of abundance mentality, she would already be fading rapidly in your rear view mirror, and you would be busy chatting up some chick who might actually like you. How … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 1 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers."Should" just means "I want", and "shouldn't" just means "I don't want". So... you don't want men to feel proud. Well, okay, it's fine to want things. What's your plan for making that happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 09:18 AM |
| 0 | Dads dont want their daughters to be housewives/submissive womenAnd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 09:16 AM |
| 4 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?What exactly did you hope to gain with that reply? To convince me that I haven't seen and heard what I've seen and heard? Of course you haven't seen what I've seen, or heard what I've heard. Because you're not looking at or listening to what I see every day, and I have seen every day in the almost ten years since a couple of us created TRP in the first place. Young men don't confide in you, and why would they? You've done nothing to earn their trust, except hang out in this little fanclub and po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 09:15 AM |
| 5 | Laura Bretan and the Vanishing VirginYoung men have no romantic goals - only sexual ones. Well put. +1 for that. It's very, very true. The young men of TRP confide in me, and while there are still some who want to be loved, romantic fantasies on their part are becoming increasingly less and less common. Why? Because there's nothing left in romance for them to want. The modern notion of a pair-bonded relationship, as told through our culture's fiction and public discourse, increasingly has nothing for them but an ever-expanding list… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/21 08:13 AM |
| 10 | And of course, dumbass bitches neglect to notice that a queen is the piece most often taken first in chess, and if you lose your king, you fucking lose. Of course, FDS is stupid enough to not understand that, and chess is not about female empowerment. It's a fucking board game.Ever notice that Female Dating Strategy doesn't contain any actual strategy? No tactics, no advice, no techniques for self-improvement. Just declarations of how wonderful they are, and little memes design to salve their wounded egos. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?Because of all the feminine men complaining to us that they don't do well with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a woman with great sense of humor?Once. I have met one woman in my life who is actually funny. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Does the manosphere have something against childfree women? If so, why?It's my observation that the manosphere has a particular resentment toward childfree women. Translation: I wanted to think this, so I searched until I found two or three people saying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Is there such a thing as Vagina Envy?Of course I envy women's genitalia. Watch a woman have rapid-fire orgasms for half an hour, and see if you don't feel envious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Radical RP men are vehemently ill-mannered toward women over 25.So I’ve been broadcasting some redpill channels recently because I’ve always been a curious person by nature. hehehheheheh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Why is locker room talk a bad thing?Of course it's exclusionary. You don't belong in the men's locker room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work.It's as heavy or as light as you make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work.Preferences, Hopes, Dreams, Aspirations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I hate having to ignore.You don't need to discuss much. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work.Won't give you a list, because you're the one who has to be creative. But here's an example. Take her to an indoor climbing gym. Find one where you are belaying her at the bottom, rather than one with grigri tie-ins. (That way she's literally had the experience of putting her life in your hands.) Spend a few hours getting hot, sweaty, and physical next to each other, and working together to solve problems. Then take her to a local pub (not a raucous bar, but a quiet watering hole you've picked o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 5 | I hate having to ignore.Once a woman starts voluntarily and deliberately treating you with disrespect, it's a lot harder to fix her attitude than it is to find another woman. I don't generally recommend relationship resuscitation unless you are married and have kids. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?Nope, Viking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 12 | I hate having to ignore.Look at it this way: when you reprimand someone, you are trying to correct their behaviour. The more options someone has, the easier it is for them to choose to interact with someone else, rather than trying to correct behaviour. The more you improve yourself, the more options you will have. The more options you have, the less anyone's disrespect will make you feel hurt (because you don't need them). What you are doing right now is emulating the behaviour of a high value, high option person, in … | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 12 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?For some reason I am a Jew magnet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: what are your Big 5 Personality Traits?The MMPI has some glaring flaws, even if we assume the five factor model is valid. What the test measures is how a subject answered a question. But what actually correlates to personality (habitual behaviour) is why they answered that way. The MMPI (and similar tests) take an answer of, say, "strongly agree", and interpret the answer in such a way as to assume they know why the test-taker strongly agreed. In addition, it interprets all five axes of the model wrong. It interprets Axis I as "socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:36 PM |
| 10 | Let’s talk about arranged marriagesArranged marriages work much better in cultures where gender roles, and the responsibilities of a husband and a wife, are much more clear. If being a good partner is a matter of doing what you're supposed to do, and you know what you're supposed to do, then "compatibility" (the shibboleth of the modern west's take on relationships) isn't as important a thing as you might think. However, when expectations are not clear, people tend to need to spend years randomly bouncing off other people, trying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work.Starting a conversation with the deliberate intent of "getting to know someone" is spergy and sterile and can fall into a "job interview" dynamic. Not fun. Here's a few pointers I give to students about how to set up a good date. It's not necessary to hit all of these points, but a good plan will incorporate at least some. Shared tasks provide something to interact about, and a sense of camaraderie. New experiences that take people out of their comfort zone make them more apt to associate emotio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 10 | Girl I like just told me she wants to pursue another guy. How do I steal her back?It's not simply oneitis. It's simply oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 14 | Women don't think that women can make adult decisions and be held accountable for those decisionsYou have no idea what I think. Nor do you have any idea where you are. Or what the local mores are. You've just wandered in here from mainstream reddit, and you're so far out of your depth that the fish have lights on their noses. You see the part on sidebar that says "You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse." ? Yeah, that's the part you missed. Bye now. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/21 07:07 AM |
| 18 | Women don't think that women can make adult decisions and be held accountable for those decisionsI would like to point out you are being bitter How the hell do you have any idea how I taste? Pretty sure I don't recall you licking me. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Does religion appeal to and/or create alpha/beta behavior?Religion is for people who like having rules to follow, and being spanked when they don't obey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Be Honest: Does A Woman Doing Certain Things in The Bedroom Change Your Feelings For Her?Sometimes it's hard to tell. I had this one plate for a while whose bed was absolutely covered in these small cushions (she liked to "build a nest" to sleep in). At one point, we rolled over during sex and one of those cushions gave a plaintive meow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 05:01 AM |
| 0 | What exactly do tradcons want? Would you describe RP as tradcon?Well, let's see... did I, or did I not, write an article called "The Great Trad Con, and How Not to Get Conned"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Guys' caring about a partner's sexual history is incompatible with a sexually free society. Thus, such guys should not commit, since then it doesn't matter.What's on offer isn't suitable. Exactly. Relationships have benefits, but relationships with the sort of women who ride the cock carousel do not actually yield those benefits. Thing is, it's not the promiscuity that makes them unsuitable... it's the unsuitability that makes them promiscuous. N-count is a trailing indicator, not a cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Why all the Salty fighting over age gap relationships?Because this is the designated area for bitter cat ladies and anger phase dudes to yell at each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Neither the RedPill nor the FDS strategy on first dates work.Meals are a bad date idea, period. Do something together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Dating over 30+What is the problem in having these standards? The problem is that women over 30 feel entitled to your attention, so they pretend they are just trying to "protect" younger women from you. This makes zero sense, of course, because if you are toxic to a 19 year old, you'll be toxic to a 35 year old, too. Do what you want. Just don't expect women to listen to reason and stop whining, because they ain't gonna. Just ignore the noise. You don't want or need their approval anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Woke college educated women should date down men in terms of income and status."Should" just means "I want". You want women to date down. Historical evidence says they ain't gonna. They prefer to continue whining about where all the good men have gone (answer... far away from her). You also want people in general to call these women out on their bullshit. But they have no incentive to do so. It's not like these women are going to be grateful, or learn something. They're just going to throw a tantrum. But here's what you can do, in your life, to prevent any of this shit fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are alike. Posit #1.She might care, she might not. That's up to her. If you don't go and talk to her, she doesn't get to make that choice. So why would you not give her that choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Guys' caring about a partner's sexual history is incompatible with a sexually free society. Thus, such guys should not commit, since then it doesn't matter.It seems to me that such a guy will have to work to genuinely change his perspective if he is going to commit to a woman in a sexually free society Where is his incentive to do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | 'Alpha' and 'beta' in the red pill are merely substitute words for 'jocks' and 'nerds'It's all just a metaphor. Choose whichever one you find illustrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 04:23 AM |
| 68 | Women don't think that women can make adult decisions and be held accountable for those decisionsWomen know they are submissive and easily controlled. They just don't like to talk about it because it's embarrassing, and it gets in the way of their demands for adult levels of respect. To a man, "coercion" means you put a gun to his head, threatened to out him as gay to his church congregation, kidnapped his children, etc... To a woman, "coercion" can be anything, including you making a frowny face. They really have so little internal rudder to them that they can experience criticism as force… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Not a good look 😬😬Demanding compassion while extending none only works on suckers. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | women's high standards is mens fault.Precisely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | women's high standards is mens fault.You were the one who said it first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | women's high standards is mens fault.Dude, we already know that women have no agency, can't be expected to police their own behaviour, and anything they do is therefore men's fault for letting them get away with it. You don't need to tell us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime".So you're using divorce rates as a rubric for marriage contentment? How very... interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are most college graduates women?If failure of certain racial minority groups to thrive is considered ipso facto evidence of systemic racism, then failure of men to thrive is ipso facto evidence of systemic sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Men do care about a woman's occupation. (CMV)Everything that a woman's career might tell me about her mateworthiness, I can assess much better by having a five minute conversation with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What should Young people do aged 20 or under who want a stable long-term relationship/Marriage in the current relationship landscape of the U.S.Read articles by TRP endorsed contributors. Learn stuff. Put it to use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | For men who complain about AWALT, and the CC, why don’t you just date a religious girl?All women are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most debate on manosphere subs is just lonely dudes trying to "out-alpha" each other with their philosophiesPeople with something to say write articles. Then anyone who wants to disagree can write an article of their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Does religion appeal to and/or create alpha/beta behavior?All religion is bluepill as fuck. "There's a big invisible wizard who wants you to do as I say and give me money. Then you'll get rewarded after you die. No, you can't talk to the wizard. I'll tell you what the wizard wants. No, you can't talk to anyone who has been rewarded. The wizard won't allow that. Mysterious are the ways of the wizard." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:57 PM |
| 23 | Serotonin, Dopamine, and Covid-19There's such a thing as too much dopamine. You can overdose yourself with your own behaviour, and get tolerance and addiction. Serotonin doesn't work that way. No tolerance, no addiction. Sure, too much could, theoretically, kill you, but the only way to get that would be by injection. I know of no behaviour you can indulge in that will wreck your serotonin system through overuse. But by the same token, I know of no way to productize serotonin. Sure, there are things you can buy that can help yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”No. Women want to be treated good enough by someone awesome, men want to be treated awesome by someone good enough. For this reason, a man with high value (as a mate) has a baseline of "nice enough" with as much awesome as possible heaped on top, and a woman with high value has a baseline of "awesome enough" with as much niceness as possible heaped on top of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 10 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.You're surprised by the fact that women lie a lot? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | BasedIf her value is based on something other than sex, why is she posting naked pictures? | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/21 09:00 PM |
| 35 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.Precisely. Decency is not attractive. Complaining about how decent men aren't getting laid is like complaining about how women with PhDs aren't getting marriage proposals... the trait they are talking about does not produce the results they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 7 | I’m new to the term Red pill.Red pill is used as a general metaphor for truths that go against cultural consensus, and "taking the red pill" is a metaphor for making life decisions according to these truths, rather than the cultural consensus. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/21 10:12 PM |
| 8 | Following the advice of 99% of people will get you the same mediocre results as the 99%. Lift LIGHT weights, if you want to look good.The cut-but-weak vs. strong-but-lardbucket debate rages eternal. As usual for these kinds of debates, the answer is different for each person, and lies somewhere in the middle. Some people need to lose their damn manorexia and eat some fucking rice so they can grow and stop being weak. Others need to stop bullshitting themselves that soda is okay because they do benchpress, and start doing keto and IF. That's true on the lifting side, too. 5x5 doesn't work forever, and eventually you have to spe… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/21 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Looks plays a massive role in men’s value in women. How can I work on this when I'm average-looking? I am also not a very agreeable girl.Have I told you lately how proud I am of you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 8 | The Endgame - Why you lift, study, and make money.The guy who has a bucket load of money? He doesn't walk up to a woman and thinks "man I better get this secured and done with fast because I have work at 6am tomorrow". He doesn't have a single moment of hesitation to buy the woman as many drinks as she wants because it straight up doesn't even vibrate his wallet. WTF is this weak shit? You don't buy women stuff before they suck your dick. Doesn't matter how much money you have. You don't do it because you are the prize. Prizes don't bribe peopl… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 6 | What to do when someone tries to steal your girl?Watch what she does. A good mate will mate guard herself, and wants nothing to do with other men who hit on her. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Rules ClarificationIf we wanted people to know, we'd have told you already. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend was banging her landlord in college and he still lives in our town.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7n3oXKwwuA | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 15 | Should I leave my wife?Good. But you left out: Contact and consult with a divorce attorney before telling her you want a divorce. Follow that attorney's advice to the letter. Have a device capable of recording sound and video quickly and easily. Keep it on you or next to you at all times, even when you sleep. Be psychologically prepared to be accused of beating and/or raping your wife and/or daughter. These are standard tactics in a divorce case. Do not move out of your house. Even for the night. She will change the l… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Katie is at it again with this time saying that Men being nice and holding the door open for a women is sexiestHow the fuck did I end up in this shit hole subreddit. Isn't that the question I started out by asking you? You could do anything, absolutely anything you wanted, and you chose to look at things you hate, and be angry. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Katie is at it again with this time saying that Men being nice and holding the door open for a women is sexiestI'm actually being paid to hate women. I can hate all women for a simple hourly rate, with a minimum of four hours, or I can craft custom hate for individual women on a per-job basis, with free estimates. No job is too large or small, and your dissatisfaction is guaranteed, or no money back. Please be aware that due to pandemic conditions, we are experiencing a massive influx of orders, and wait times are currently 4-6 weeks or longer. Your patience is appreciated. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"?So don't wife them. Next. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Katie is at it again with this time saying that Men being nice and holding the door open for a women is sexiestNot particularly. But you do. Problem is, you're chasing dopamine when what you need is serotonin. Are you really happy in this conversation? Wouldn't you rather be doing something else? Instead of being mad about stuff you don't like? There's always going to be stuff you don't like. Dwelling on it isn't going to make it go away. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/05/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Katie is at it again with this time saying that Men being nice and holding the door open for a women is sexiestOkay. Do you know anything about dopamine and serotonin? | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Katie is at it again with this time saying that Men being nice and holding the door open for a women is sexiestSo, out of curiosity, you devote pieces of your limited lifespan to reading stuff that makes you upset because... | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Katie is at it again with this time saying that Men being nice and holding the door open for a women is sexiestOut of curiosity, you are here because... | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Katie is at it again with this time saying that Men being nice and holding the door open for a women is sexiestWhen I see a woman coming, I hold the door closed, so she can fight with me to get inside, and know that she has truly earned it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Can I save my buddy?The one person you cannot save people from is themselves. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Why We Avoid 50/50 "Men."So all I have to do to avoid FDS readers is split the bill? Awesome. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/21 05:59 AM |
| 11 | Gf blocked me on her instagram storiesIf you have to ask "Should I be suspicious?", you should be suspicious. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 7 | The existence of all red pill ideology highlights one big issue: Why do we tell people looks/money/personality type doesn't matter when it does?Exactly. And the reason, the only reason, that all of this makes you angry or sad is that you are comparing the real world to the ideal world that exists only in your head. It's not the reality that's hurting you. It's the illusion. When you let go of the illusion, the pain will stop. Then you can focus on improving your situation, without the expectation that things should be easy, or perfect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 9 | The existence of all red pill ideology highlights one big issue: Why do we tell people looks/money/personality type doesn't matter when it does?So, what is the point of all this? I am not sure, I am just thinking. You're thinking out loud. Thinking out loud is how I stopped being just some guy and became Whisper. Though I don't really love that this is the way the world works, I am fully aware that this is a system I CHOOSE to participate in, one that I will be a part of for the rest of my life. The red pill is the simple realization that What I want to be true and what actually is true have no relationship to each other. I'm not sure h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How to Handle the Fat Ugly FriendJust shows I picked the mod team right. Some carpenters build cabinets, others just sort their tools by size, color, and weight. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How can I begin working on myself to feel worthy of a HVM?Well, the girls here aren't too ambitious about being plates, but the principle is the same, and lesson is simple: work on yourself, always. Maybe some girl might accept you as a fat, easygoing, nonthreatening teddy bear, but she's not gonna be enthralled. And avoid women who have been indoctrinated into having too much "self-esteem". Because not only will they not be happy with you, they won't be happy with anything or anyone, which means they won't be happy, period. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/21 09:49 PM |
| 3 | How can I begin working on myself to feel worthy of a HVM?Codependency is a concept invented by Alcoholics Anonymous (a rather cultlike organization) as a means of describing someone who panders to and enables another's addiction. Hence, co-dependent. Someone who shares another dependency. Telling you that a relationship unhealthy if you look up to a man, or enjoy serving or pleasing him, is just modern western culture's way of sub-shaming. But their expectation that you listen to and adapt their values is, in and of itself, a demand for submission. Wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | According to RedPill/MGTOW, are healthy long term relationships just not possible?What an excellent question. To understand that, it becomes necessary to understand what TRP is really about. When you put aside all the handwringing and crying about moral imperatives, TRP is really about the fact that human instincts can be channeled but not suppressed, ignored, or done away with. That any sexual strategy must take into into account, and work with, the fact that we are a bunch of intellectualized apes, rather than angels clothed in flesh. A healthy relationship, then, is one th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManosphereYes. Dying, however, is only a moment. All the moments before that are called "living". And we don't have to live alone. But we do have to live with the consequences of our life choices. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 0 | How do I “care less”?You are assuming that men are just differently shaped women. Men do not stop caring because women "care too much". If men are acting indifferent to you, it is for some other reason. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/21 03:18 AM |
| 20 | How can I begin working on myself to feel worthy of a HVM?You don't have to "feel worthy". Just because a man has to be confident to attract you doesn't mean you have to be confident to attract a man. Men and women are different. A man doesn't need you to agree that you are worthy of him. He just has to decide you are. Let him decide, instead of pre-disqualifying yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 8 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManosphereImagine watching a video of some random dude rehashing content you wrote pretending it’s his own and without ever interacting with you or the community here. I don't have to. Welcome to my world. If you keep writing, eventually they'll do it to you, too. It's funny that other dudes made more off repackaging my writing than I ever did coming up with it, but here's the thing... marketing is its own hustle. If I tried to monetize this shit, I'd have to do all sorts of things not related to coming u… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 41 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManosphereI think you are onto something here... I can't count the times and ways that I have been, in effect, offered the crown. I've always refused it, because one of my most important points all along has been no gods, no kings, no masters. Kneel to no one, and only do what is asked of you if someone convinces you in it's in your interest as well as theirs, or offers you a big fat bribe to make sure it is. The truth is that the vast majority of the human race, especially women, but also most men, simpl… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] I think my gf is cheating on meKinda reads like you invested before the sucking. Was this not the case? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Finally..... After 50 years. A black woman has broken the girl code and said what black men have known about feminism. And why black feminists and their allies HATE black men. Damn THIS IS SAD, and the mentality of ALL the women on r/blackladies and r/blackgirdiariesThe difference between a priest and a scientist is what they do when you don't believe them. When you don't believe a scientist, he responds with a deluge of words, which he will patiently produce for as long as you will sit still and listen... words intended to explain, in great detail, why he believes what he does. This is of course intended to persuade you, to make your thinking follow the same path as his thinking, but he isn't angry. When you don't believe a priest, he gets mad at you. Now,… | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 48 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManosphereThere will always, inevitably, regardless of field, be a split between amateurs and professionals. Between those who do something for the satisfaction it gives them, and those who do it as a primary source of income. The professional has a great deal more freedom to pursue his craft, simply because he need not divide his attentions between it and whatever means he uses to earn his bread; they are one and the same. However, he is also exposed to temptation, in proportion to the gap between that w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 4 | [UPDATE] I think my gf is cheating on meNever spend money on a woman who hasn't yet sucked your dick. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Finally..... After 50 years. A black woman has broken the girl code and said what black men have known about feminism. And why black feminists and their allies HATE black men. Damn THIS IS SAD, and the mentality of ALL the women on r/blackladies and r/blackgirdiariesWhen the institutions of science are used as an authority to sell a system of control, that doesn't legitimatize the system of control. It just casts doubt on the institutions of science. Now people are legitimately wondering how much reported research results reflect reality, and how much they reflect what the funding institutions wanted the research results to say. And scientists have no one but themselves to blame for this. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Yes, because every boy from age 3 to 18 do this on purpose to assert "dominance". I can't believe this sub has been able to spread misinformation for this long.Sounds like you had a good father. Many parents lie to their children and present themselves and the adult world as being idealized people who have all the answers. This just leads to teenage rebellion when the kids figure out that's not true. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Yes, because every boy from age 3 to 18 do this on purpose to assert "dominance". I can't believe this sub has been able to spread misinformation for this long.Exactly. Normal, healthy adult heterosexual males are sexually attracted to girls aged 12-17. Whether they do anything about that or not is another issue. Everyone likes money, not everyone robs banks. However, normal, healthy adult heterosexual males are NOT attracted to toddlers. That's a mental illness. Totally different thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Yes, because every boy from age 3 to 18 do this on purpose to assert "dominance". I can't believe this sub has been able to spread misinformation for this long.Yes, the problem is that sexual attractiveness starts at puberty. Humans are evolved to use secondary sex characteristics as sexual cues. Now, whether you want to place young, but post-puberty, people sexually off-limits to older people is a policy decision, but that's not what we are talking about here. Being sexually attracted to children is a mental illness. Being sexually attracted to teenagers is normal. If you bundle the two together, you are suggesting that sexual attraction to children i… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Yes, because every boy from age 3 to 18 do this on purpose to assert "dominance". I can't believe this sub has been able to spread misinformation for this long.Calling sexual attraction to teenagers "pedophilia" doesn't protect teenagers. It just normalizes pedophilia. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanWhy would they? What can you tell them, true or not, that they haven't heard out of many other women's mouths as a lie? Remember that feminists themselves claim to be "one of the good ones", and that they "don't hate men", and that they are in fact helping men because "the patriarchy hurts men, too". Misandrists aren't all standing naked on your lawn smeared in their own excrement, holding a kitchen knife and screaming that the voices told them to stab you. Some of them are wearing a pretty dres… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/21 03:09 AM |
| 54 | Just found out my boyfriend is using steroids. How do I put my foot down without losing him?You don't put your foot down. You tell him your actual problem, which that you are nervous about him using anabolics, since you know nothing about them. Then you address the actual problem together, rather than arguing about whether he will use anabolics or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanYou say not all women agree with feminism. Okay. But your time is probably better invested telling feminists that than telling me that. Because they have the power to stop being feminists. I don't have the power to make them stop being feminists. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist not anti- womanWhat would being "anti-woman" even mean? Pretty sure they're not going away anytime soon. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Feminist would put men in a ''camp''How would a society of feminists even have guns? I've love to see these bitches try to figure out how to machine a rifling button. Hell, that would be way more entertaining than most of the wokeist crap that Hollywood is pissing out nowdays. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Feminist would put men in a ''camp''Women would very quickly be clamouring to be let into the camp, because it would have running water, electricity, food, and shelter. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 4 | According to RedPill/MGTOW, are healthy long term relationships just not possible?Healthy relationships are possible. I have spoken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Are Misandry and Mysogyny becoming more common?"Although deliberately framed as if it were a law of nature or of mathematics," Godwin wrote, "its purpose has always been rhetorical and pedagogical: I wanted folks who glibly compared someone else to Hitler to think a bit harder about the Holocaust." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 20 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWLooks are more important for women, and age deteriorates looks. It also exacerbates the effort of lifestyle on looks... a beautiful 18 year old girl might be getting drunk every night, sleeping four hours, eating lots of sugar, and never exercising, but a beautiful 36 year old woman is taking care of herself, or she wouldn't be beautiful. There are attractive older women out there, but most of them are living with their boyfriends or husbands, not posting selfies on tinder. The older the woman, … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Any opinions?The amusing part about it is that it doesn't actually say which is which, yet people's own brains fill that right in. I wonder why? | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Are Misandry and Mysogyny becoming more common?I didn't ask what he did. I didn't even ask what his supporters did. I asked what they did to you. Saying a mean thing about John McCain (who, for the record, was pond scum and brain cancer did us all a huge favour, on both sides of the aisle) is not something he did to you. Neither is tradcons having their own biased news networks just like you have CNN, the New York Times, the Washington Post, etc. What did Trump supporters do to you, personally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Why is a man’s biological desire towards women seen as “objectifying” aside from it just being harmless sexual attraction?The appearance of victimhood empowers women. Therefore it is useful to women to construe anything they can as oppression. This will continue until the appearance of victimhood is no longer empowering for women. A society that worships weakness will have people competing to appear weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Are Misandry and Mysogyny becoming more common?On the one hand, feminism has turned into a massive kill-all-men shitshow Always was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Are Misandry and Mysogyny becoming more common?Every intolerant group makes the same argument: "Our enemies don't deserve tolerance!" But what did Trumpists actually do to you? They made fun of you. That's it. That's all. Hell, they didn't even make fun of you. They made fun of wokesters, and you got caught in the splash zone because you vote Democrat. If you don't like being hit by snowballs, maybe you would be better served by not standing next to someone who's in the middle of a snowball fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Are Misandry and Mysogyny becoming more common?It is also why obesity is a big problem, we are not designed to deal with abundance fructose. Fixed that for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 0 | If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into.In my experience, even the most privileged and pampered of people can manage to pity themselves over even the most trivial of inconveniences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overYou don't even know what any of this is about. It's not an argument about whether calling a landwhale a landwhale is a good idea or not, or a sign that you are winning at life or not. It's about you alleging a moral imperative. This is against the "no moralizing" rule, and it's also against Rule Zero (because you gave him advice that was intended to benefit someone other than him). Those rules exist for reasons, and I have attempted to contextualize those reasons for you, explaining why I wrote … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Toxic masculinity is because of men who are to feminine apparently but they say not masculine enoughI believe history will not side with you History doesn't have a side. History doesn't inevitably move in a direction. It's just a series of events that happen as a result of people pursuing their particular individual goals. I hope that if nothing else you can think about your beliefs a bit You have no idea what my beliefs are. , and why you really think this way And you have no idea why I hold them. The only thing you know about me is that I don't like feminism, and that I expect people incenti… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 11 | Toxic masculinity is because of men who are to feminine apparently but they say not masculine enoughDear tired lesbian feminist: I don't care what you want anymore. You have given me no incentive to care. Your movement's sole interaction with men is to scold them, and I have no interest in living my life surrounded by naggy scolds who don't appreciate me and have nothing to offer me. You and your sisters keep making remarks about what you want me to do and not do, but never once have you bothered to address the obvious question "what's in it for me?". Why would I even want to negotiate with yo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Toxic masculinity is because of men who are to feminine apparently but they say not masculine enoughOur society is suffering from a shortage of real masculinity & it brings great harm to women and children And here the tradcons tip their hand... they don't see us as people whose welfare is an end unto itself. They just see us as a means to serving women and children. Make no mistake, just because feminism is your enemy, and tradconism is feminism's enemy, doesn't mean tradconism is your friend. They are just fighting over who has a better plan for exploiting you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Losing interest in sex, barely maintaining bonerI don't know how other men manage it... I've cheated in every relationship I have ever been in. Eventually I just picked a woman whose level of jealousy was less than zero. That worked out very well indeed for me. I don't know how jealous your girl is by nature, but if you are so strongly tuned to variety that you are getting limp dick after two years, you're going to have to find some way to scratch that itch so you can have a relationship at all. Women don't really understand that a man can lo… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | literally just LTR'd a girl to fuck her now don't know what to do....help please.Yep, that's a real classic. Winger is sorely missed. Would still like to see /u/protocol_apollo's take, though. I'm thinking it would bring in the contrasting male perspective and why we run on respect, honor, and investment. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 3 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overI'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop. It's funny, because he clearly has some image in his head of who we are supposed to be, so much so that he's yelling at us about how his mental idealized version of us would disapprove of... us. But he's missed the point. We didn't make TRP into what it is today as a seduction skills forum. That already existed... we were all on r/seduction. We did all this because r/seduction was infiltrated by the self-appointed niceness police. TRP was literally cr… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 0 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overNah... hold onto your hat, I think this one is actually sincere. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | literally just LTR'd a girl to fuck her now don't know what to do....help please.That’s because you are thinking like a guy. You believe in a credit system. You accrue credit so for future use; you can take something out of the bank. Girls don’t. They believe in cash system. You pay now for what you want. The future will be the same, you will have to pay whatever to afford what you want. There’s no credit system. This needs to be an article. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Losing interest in sex, barely maintaining bonerOkay, there's two things that can be happening here. One, you're feeling ambivalent about her for some reason. Did she do something to piss you off or disappoint you? Or, two, you're craving variety. Men are not really wired for monogamy, and it's harder for some than others. If you recently gave up porn (I think I recall you saying that), then the only woman you're seeing naked now is... her. No matter how gorgeous she is, and how much you love her, that can get somewhat routine eventually. If … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Losing interest in sex, barely maintaining bonerAnd are you losing interest in sex, or losing interest in sex with your girlfriend? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:25 AM |
| 4 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overAny of the authors on the sidebar would laugh at you. I can tell you with absolute certainty that the specific guy who wrote the sidebar, and picked all the stuff to link from it, is laughing very hard right now. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:21 AM |
| 5 | if every girl is a whore, who am i going to start a family with? a whore?Why do you want to get married? What's in it for you? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:42 AM |
| 5 | What to say to teen girls cold approaching ?If teen girls are cold approaching you, the best response is probably "Yeah, okay.". | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:41 AM |
| 26 | How to deal with letting go of an LTR, knowing she’ll go straight to pound town.Yes, you were. It's my fucking subreddit. You don't need personalized advice. You need to stop ignoring the general advice. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 5 | I (18M) have tremendous performance anxiety.Your girlfriend is a lousy lay. She's letting you take responsibility not only for her arousal and pleasure, but your own as well. Nobody can stay hard while unilaterally shouldering a boatload of responsibility. You need to clearly have the expectation that she is to be an active participant. Next time she says she is "good" with not doing a thing for you, do a freezeout. You know how to do a freezeout, right? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:38 AM |
| 13 | Why are 'less hotter' chicks more confident?Women don't hit on you because they are confident, they hit on you because they are not. The more confident they are, the more they believe that you will do all the work if they just sit back and wait. This is why women who are too confident are unattractive. Who wouldn't rather be chased? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Losing interest in sex, barely maintaining bonerHow long has it been since you've been with someone other than her? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 5 | "With most women I need to make them think that THEY have won me over." How true is this for you guys and how do you internalise this mindset?Here's how this works: You are a sexual being who likes sex, and is not going to try to hide that. You are not, however, in need of her in particular, because there are lots of women out there who will do just fine. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:27 AM |
| 13 | literally just LTR'd a girl to fuck her now don't know what to do....help please.Chill the fuck out. You said some words. You didn't sign anything, you didn't pay anything, you didn't hand over anything. You can change your mind tomorrow if you feel like it. Whether you feel like or not is up to her. It's about how she treats you. Promises have literally no place in modern relationships, and you can regard them as valueless. Women don't need us to support them financially anymore, they won't starve if we leave, and therefore you can feel free to leave anytime you aren't happ… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 50 | How to deal with letting go of an LTR, knowing she’ll go straight to pound town.Why would you ask me for advice after having ignored everything I've written in the last seven years? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:14 AM |
| 6 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overYou seem to be under the impression that we care about our "rep". Why would we? TRP is here to talk about real shit, not win popularity contests. /u/RelativeWear0 feels disgusted by fat women, so he says so. When we created TRP, we did so with the explicit goal of not policing for politeness. And we don't. This creates honest and productive discussions. The only drawback is that we occasionally get people like you whining that we aren't "nice". I'm curious what purpose you think being nice would… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP lost track of itself?too often I forget who created TRP That's your problem right there. If you're going to gossip with the other freshmen in the back of the class, instead of listening to the professors, it's pointless to complain that you aren't learning anything. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menWhatever, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menNah, man, how else will they know we all 'bout dat hu$$le? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Am I being stupid?Online long distance relationship initiation is very difficult because no personal contact can occur until someone travels, which is a great deal of investment... but investment is difficult to do without the kind of assessment and bonding that only happens with in-person contract. Chicken and egg problem. Consider this carefully. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys set the frame when she pushes for monogamy?tell a women you want to date other women Why would you do that? I don't ask women permission to do things. I just do them. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Women escalate too.Admit it... when I gave you that tag, you had no idea it really meant "herdsman of autistic retards". | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/21 02:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menNah, brah, we need to sell magic testosterone-increasing soap, and phone consultations, and merch! We could totally get rich targeting broke 19 year old boys as our sole income stream! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Bad Redpill arguments against promisciousness of womenYep. Game over, we have a winner. Female promiscuity isn't a cause of relationship unsuitability. It's a trailing indicator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Body Acceptance/HAES is a female on female psyopIt's not svelte sexy chicks pushing HAES. It's landwhales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Why does this sub give better dating advice then dating advice subs?Why is advice on this sub better then the dating subs?! Because even a watered-down version of the red pill is better than mainstream alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menSo, there at the beginning, but role largely ceremonial? Sounds about right. He's the only one of the names you mentioned I ever heard of. We can't stop hucksters from cherry-picking our work for shiny objects they can sell to suckers. There's always going to be some broke bitch who needs to hustle this stuff because he has no other source of income. No point play whack-a-mole with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Women escalate too.You just said you wanted women to love you. That means that women's love has value to you, no? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/21 08:54 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menThey are labeled on TRP for your convenience. Look for labels that say "Endorsed Contributor", and especially ones that say "Vanguard". The later are group founders, although only a few are still active. I think what you're doing is looking at youtube channels with "red pill" somewhere in the name. There's a fair number of dudes who go over our stuff looking for usable sound bites, then cycle then into the Sponsor Internet Personality ecosystem. Anthony Johnson, and his "21 convention"... those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menYou don't even know who TRP's major contributors ARE. I've only ever heard of one of those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Dating women who have advanced degreesNot entirely. Beauty gets you attraction. Behaviour gets you commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating women who have advanced degreesThing is though if I ask people in real life they will sugar coat everything. Congratulations, you just figured out the point of TRP, and the reason it exists. Thing is, I have seen many women who do describe themselves as "smart, accomplished and attractive" yet complain over the internet about their inability to find a man. These women are often in their late 20s and above. Exactly. This is not because an advanced degree makes a woman less attractive, but because it increases her expectations … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Default masculinity is attracted to vulnerability (hunter mindset). Default femininity is repulsed by vulnerability (choosy mindset). This dichotomy is cyclical, and the source of most gender based issues.Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. That's because humans have giant heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?Exactly. Anger motivates action. That's what anger is for. The trick behind TRP is that misogyny is a tool in this context. By focusing on the worst the women are capable of, we make young men angry. Are you watching closely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 3 | TradCon is RPW but RPW is not TradConcom·mit·ment the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc. a pledge or undertaking. an engagement or obligation that restricts freedom of action. The goal of RPW tactics is to create #1. Wedding ceremonies are #2. Signing a marriage license is #3. Why? Try thinking of it this way. #1 can create #2 and #3. Neither #2 nor #3 creates #1. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?I would rather have a few people find my ideas very interesting than have many people find them sort of dull, but unobjectionable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 7 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?It means that a person has their own desires and ideals and should strive to meet them This is why TRP and TBP end up talking at cross purposes. TRP concerns itself with what is, and only alleges hypothetical imperatives. TBP concerns itself with what "should be", and alleges categorical imperatives. And since you can't get "ought" from "is", or "is" from "ought", the two discourses end up being completely orthogonal. To put it in simpler terms, we don't actually care what you think we should do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?Bless your heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?The point of an analogy is to illustrate what someone is thinking, not provide evidence for anything. If you are arguing with someone about what their analogy "should" be, you are missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?TRP describes the worst of women, but then generalize this to all wome Yep. So ask the logical next question. Why do we do this? What's the payoff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?Blue pill is technically everything that isn't red pill, so that's a pretty big net. You are correct. What TRP means by "the blue pill" is "the cultural zeitgeist regarding human mating behaviour" (held to be false and misleading). What TBP means is "a slightly sarcastic way of asserting that TRP is morally bad". These are two totally different things. People who hate and loathe TRP don't necessarily subscribe to the beliefs of the "blue pill". They simply don't like our alternative. Forcing you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?Look, you don't seem to have realized that I understand you. Yes, you are literally answering OP's question. I know. From square one, however, I have been trying to move on to the logical next topic, which is to understand why women's collective disapproval doesn't change male behaviour in this regard. It's about incentive structure. Men have no use for a little bit of approval from a lot of women. They benefit much more from a whole lot of approval coming from a few. That's why "stop doing this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?So, basically, your plan is as follows: Women who a man is less attracted to, who are not having sex with him, are going to stop him from continuing to have sex with a woman he is more attracted to, who is having sex with him, by withholding their approval. Good plan. I have one small question, though. Are you entirely sure that men want sexless approval from old women more than they want sex and approval from young ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?I could play the autistic robot game, too, and ask where I said you said they would. Instead, I will present you with two options: A. "There is no reason for men to care about the opinions of uninvolved women, I am just telling you what those women think. Next I will tell you what tree frogs, Mongolian herdsmen, and the French think." B. "I expect the disapproval of uninvolved women to mean something to men, and here's how I plan to incentivize them to care." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?I didn't ask whether they should. I asked why they would. A man trying to get laid doesn't need every woman to approve of him. He just needs a few to approve of him a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Pick Mes are not the female equivalent of Beta SimpsAny man who thinks only low quality women display "pickme" behaviour is a man who not attractive enough to ever have been pursued by a high quality woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?women find it insanely creepy Women other than the ones they are hooking up with. But why would men care what those women think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:06 PM |
| 0 | If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that?If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 4 | How not to be fat.This is a big mess of fatlogic. It's not about logic. It's about evidence. The moment people go wrong is the moment they believe they can figure the universe out of sitting down and reasoning about it, instead of testing their assumptions in an experiment. What I did here was give a general explanation of how human fat metabolism works. Every single piece of this information is research-based and has been experimentally verified over and over again. We know exactly how insulin works. We know exa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Discussing relationship deal breakers and the adult entertainment industryHappy to be of help. It's very important to me that this group be available for any woman who needs advice, rather than simply shaming any woman who hasn't stuck to a certain set of rules in the past. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I am completely lost financially. Looking for advice.Solid financial advice. I would support this argument by pointing out that small false economies can lead to overspending later on, as we are not in total control of our behaviour. If I had one recommendation to make, I would advise being miserly with frequent expenses, and being more spendy with one-time purchases which you will use or interact with repeatedly... up to the point where additional marginal cost has little marginal value. In other words, don't dine out so much, buy a really nice c… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Discussing relationship deal breakers and the adult entertainment industryWhile the basic interaction of human mating instincts with the laws of economics make prostitution inevitable, one of the drawbacks to it is that it does tend to blur the line between the personal and the professional. Once you've engaged in sex for money, it inevitably impacts how you engage in sex as an act of intimacy, both in how you perceive it, and how you are perceived when you do. So when any current or former prostitute has a relationship, there's always a certain amount of baggage to s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 04:15 AM |
| 19 | Discussing relationship deal breakers and the adult entertainment industryTo clarify, yes I still work in the industry. I see myself as emotionally and physically monogamous to him because I do not desire to be physically intimate in a "non professional" manner with any other man. I don't seek out any men for my own personal satisfaction or orgasms. Okay. So what you're going to need to understand here is that men and women don't have the same idea of what intimacy and fidelity are, because different things are important to each. So, you may see not sexually desiring … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 17 | Discussing relationship deal breakers and the adult entertainment industryI'm a little bit puzzled, here. You didn't use the past tense and say "I worked" in the sex industry, you used the present tense and said " I work". Then you said you were "monogamous" in your relationship. So perhaps I'm not quite understanding what it is you do that you get paid for. Because presumably you are doing it with someone other than him. I'm not sure everyone would call that monogamy, and how many people would see it that way probably depends on what you are doing. Since you are not … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, I’m done holding doors and making space in the walk aisle.This is not me trying to protect you. It's me trying to protect TRP. The "anger phase" is a necessary step in the process, and with newcomers, I deliberately stoke anger and misogyny so as to inspire them to kick women off the pedestal and grow a spine. If I get a bunch of retards hanging around here chortling "lolllolol why u mad bro?", then they are hindering that process, especially since new guys are more susceptible to being shamed. Anger is very important to starting the growth process, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 07:08 PM |
| 14 | Seriously, I’m done holding doors and making space in the walk aisle.This may seem a small thing, but you have grasped the essential point of TRP. Women and society have stopped repaying male protectiveness and care, so it's time to reserve those things for those you have a personal relationship with. TRP is here to train you in how to turn your protective instincts off when you need to. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 06:57 PM |
| -1 | Seriously, I’m done holding doors and making space in the walk aisle.Are you a woman? No? Then stop trying to be his mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 06:55 PM |
| 8 | Looks like my boyfriend is RP and I don’t know what to doWomen tend to present a ready-made solution to their problem... it's what they would want: clear expectations and a simple request. But men don't like to be told what to do. So instead, tell him what difficulty you are experiencing. This allows him to figure out a way to reconcile both your needs, and gives you an opportunity to observe his leadership skills at work and see if they are up to snuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Intimidating? The most common backhanded comment I receive from women and men."Intimidating" is a verbal device used by women to get out of a tough social situation. You see, it is socially unacceptable for women to be "mean" in the same way that it is socially unacceptable for men to be "weak". So in the same way that men will lie in order to avoid looking weak, women will lie in order to avoid looking mean. So, they are faced with a situation where they have to tell you that you repel men, or tell you why you repel men, without saying anything about you that could be co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | How to make my boyfriend feel cared for?He’s putting the responsibility of his emotional state on you No. /u/rose_auden is holding herself responsible for his emotional state. It is very possible that he is actively trying to fight off this attention because he doesn't want it. Being mothered by their partner is not something most adult men want, and, frankly, if one does, that it a cause for concern. It very frequent for men to want to be alone for a while after suffering an injury or setback, or at least to want to NOT talk about it… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 9 | Looks like my boyfriend is RP and I don’t know what to doFollowing this conversation, I told him I need more in terms of communication. I need to know how he feels about me and I need him to communicate with me when we aren’t together. I don’t need him to check in 24/7 but a couple times during the day would be sufficient to show he’s thinking of me. You brought him your solution, not your problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 8 | The Eternal BoomerOkay, good. Thanks for being a good sport and playing along, eventually. Your patience will be rewarded. Now that I know what you are on about, we can start communicating effectively. What you have given, here, is a brief summary of how communists would answer the question "how is value created?". However, in my criticism of Boomernomics, and the ways it resembles communism, that wasn't actually the question I was getting at. The actual question that Boomers have the wrong answer to is not "how … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/21 07:08 PM |
| 6 | The Eternal BoomerAlso not the question. Quit trying to change the subject and either say what you have to say about where value comes from, or shut up. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 7 | The Eternal BoomerAlso I'm not so sure boomers rest on the laurels of labour theory of value so much as the APPEARANCE of a labour theory of value. Oh, absolutely. That doesn't mean they aren't crypto-commies, though, just because they're hypocrites. ALL commies and socialists are hypocrites. Hell, even the writing of Das Kapital was funded by das kapital gains. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/21 08:21 AM |
| 3 | The Eternal BoomerWhich reminded me that maybe "don't be reactive" or "don't get triggered" shaming language in trp community deserves it's own post (disclaimer: not saying you used it here). Perhaps I write one because I think it's just another way to shame and control others to be able to say or do whatever person wants. I've seen it used that way. But what I am trying to tell you is that anger is a weapon only to one's enemy. If you need do something about someone, do it cold. Do it prepared. Don't let them se… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | The Eternal BoomerWe had some back and fourths here and there over the 1-2 years until he decided to make this personal and start insulting me. Oh, he does that with everyone, eventually. Even tried it with me. You can well imagine how that went. By allowing him to upset you, you gave him what he wanted. It makes you look weak, and gets your attention off the original topic of debate. This is the practicality of what we call "frame control". The "frame" encompasses a bunch of stuff within any social interaction, … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/21 08:13 AM |
| 7 | The Eternal BoomerNot the question. Do you have something to say, or nothing to say? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/21 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Is it bad to be motivated by anger and rejection?What the hell do you think anger is for? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 07:07 AM |
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