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Looks are a filter not a factor, and since its as filter the latter is true
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 01:54 AM
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The very fact that you believe the "pills" are wrong means that practically no one(yourself included) acknowledges it, ever. Physical attractiveness is the only thing that matters and it is objective, you're either it or you're not, there's no negotiating. Literally the only people I've seen argue against that statement is non black pillers or inceltears folk.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 06:30 PM
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r/engrish moment right there lol. Yes of course, I don't believe in your Just world fantasy so it must mean I only go for the hot chicks... sigh, you people are so tiring lol. Bye bye now.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 06:24 PM
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Black pill is true everywhere you're just not paying attention or you're being disingenuous. I also live in lower middle income country and everything I hear about dating in the west holds up here.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 06:15 PM
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I go out everyday(I study fulltime) and doing so only proves black pill not the other way round.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 06:04 PM
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Get out of social media and go to a place where humans gather, a shopping mall, a supermarket, a train station, an airport. And I would throw it right back at you because you need it way more than I do. There's no such thing as ugly men in relationships, you talk about ugly, fat and OLD men. All those Walmart people we're supposed to take as proof of black pill being supposedly wrong is just old people, 99% of whom I guarantee were stereotypically good looking when they were younger. I go out ev…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 05:56 PM
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It's not so much as life is over per se, it's just not as worthwhile as it would if I wasn't ugly. I have so little motivation 5o even try to find other ways to cope, I know I can do stuff, I've been told that I'm smart my whole life but I've always had average grades in school, it maybe because I don't have any motivation which is true, I put on the bare minimum of effort and I lie to myself that I'm just not that smart so I can cope, that's my whole life. I've never felt like this is supposed …
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 03:28 AM
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I don't really know what to rate myself. My left side is a bit smaller than my right side, like that dude from Teen wolf but not as asymmetrical, my skin isn't so good, and I have crooked teeth. I have already visited an orthodontist and will soon pit on braces, for my skin I'll buy those products my sister told me to buy. I do have a few good features like my jawline, I have brown(Black African) skin with darker, thick eyebrows and dark brown eyes that give some contrast, masculine face shape a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:37 AM
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Dude that hypothesis doesn't hold up because most of the traits that make a man "sexy" either depend highly on her genetically or are tied to their upbringing(which is also tied to the mother), because: A- Male height on the genetic side is more influenced by the mother's genes not the fathers, and on the nurture side it's all about enough sleep and nutrition before and during puberty. B-Facial bone structure depends on being able to avoid sickness that causes inflammation and other stresses on …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:39 PM
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After reading your response, I have to agree with this- "I have absolutely never in my entire life met a man who thinks he is owed sex for basic displays of courtesy. I'm inclined to believe this is largely a strawman meant to demonize a certain demographic of men." I normally wouldn't agree with anecdotes(even though I can say the same about all other dudes in my life) but this is very true as far as I've seen these types of posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:54 PM
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"Because you guys lack nuance. no one told you to be nice and do nothing else." No we don't(or at least I don't and never have). When I hear the "Women like nice guys" thing, I take it as strong, dependable, fair and independent, I know that because I grew up around women, a guy who's "nice", does not get tail nor respect(many men here agree with that). The only constant in the difference between the guys who are successful with women and those that aren't, is looks. I could be an exception to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:34 PM
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"They should pursue goals for their own fun" How do you know that men aren't doing any of this? Take me as an example, I can speak three languages, can sing and play drums, I draw logos for fun, like reading, write alternate history and Sci-fi fiction and was/is a farmer(from age 14, had 25 cattle, 3 horses in 2018, before the drought) until a drought killed all my animals, have two diplomas and am studying for a degree, all at the age of 22. I do have a life, it just doesn't revolve around ente…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:07 PM
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Bro, I was thinking the exact same thing. There's no way some of the things said on here are by legit dudes, because if they are then they should clearly be banned or something cause it makes every guy on here look very bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:21 AM
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"Men who are sexless shouldn’t have to pay for public schools." What? LOL, is that a legit post? And would you you disagree with it? Edit: Oh, never mind I just found it here, hahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:45 AM
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Depression and insecurity made me think I was ugly and undesirable. My cousin told me that her friend liked me a lot and always talked about me. The more I think about it, the more I understand that she wasn't even the only girl who showed interest, but for both girls(the only ones that I know for sure) I was too insecure and depressed, so I told myself "she doesn't like you that way, she's just being friendly"(I do this for every girl I meet btw). I told someone on here about one of the girls, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:28 AM
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There's a huge difference between East Asian culture and the rest of the world. Imagine if South Africa or Brazil were as rich and in the same situation, do you really think they would "suffer in silence"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:47 AM
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Dude, these studies have been proven wrong countless times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:10 AM
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Just, wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:29 AM
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"but they are not happy" What difference does that make? Also, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:25 AM
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What is it with you people, nowhere in my comment did I say anything about good guys and bad guys, I just pointed out that she's definitely not talking about the average to below average looking guys stringing women along, because they wouldn't(by virtue of their looks) have the opportunity to do so. And I also said that these guys(excluding the really weird ones) would not be watching pornography if they had women who were willing to have sex with them. Her arguments suffer from both the Apex f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:20 AM
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As you've established with one of your links about 77% are watching porn, but that doesn't mean all of them are addicted to porn, and again, I'm speaking as a man, most men, especially when younger, have strong libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:25 PM
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I'm not really sure why you want someone to change your mind on this TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:24 PM
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"Yes" Or no, because you know, you're not a man and you don't know how male libidos work. The only instance where it would be "yes", would be when the woman the guy is with, denies him sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:15 PM
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"I am so sick of the assumption on here that the world is full of 2 types of men: The sweet loving guy who would treat you like a queen but is ugly. The mean alpha bad boy who will treat you like shit but is attractive." I didn't say any of this, I only said "good looking guy, who most likely has only his looks going for him", key words there, are most and likely, stereotypes exist for a reason. Also I didn't make the assumption that you're saying I made in the first part of the "two types of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:27 PM
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So, even if polygyny were to be introduced, it would be ok so long as it helped maintain stable birth rates? That was the point that was unclear for me, sorry for not specifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:16 PM
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"Choosing to string women along or lie in order to get sex is not an 'issue men are going through' men have self awareness and are responsible for the choices they make." Your not helping your case friend. This is what these people would call the "apex fallacy", you two aren't talking about the same type of man, he is talking about the average or below average looking guy and you are talking about a good looking guy who most likely has only his looks going for him. The kind of guy you're talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:48 PM
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What? Can you explain a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:33 PM
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The only problem with feminism is it's tendency for historical revisionism. The vast majority of men never reproduced and that Traditional conservative fantasy is just that, a fantasy, Homo Sapiens has always been polygynous. The only way the "every man" gets to reproduce is if he's part of a militaristic culture, like the Islamists or the followers of Mithraism in ancient Rome, where they conquer other people's, kill the men and take their women by force. In the world where egalitarianism is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:59 PM
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Where I'm from, the idea of "needing" someone, especially amongst men, is really frowned upon and it's seen as a sign of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:23 PM
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That's not necessarily true, height mostly depends on living conditions and nutrition, and attractiveness also depends on living conditions, as being healthy enough and avoiding major illness is what allows the facial bone structure to develop as it should, if the child gets a cold and starts to mouth breath and or suffers from a congenital disorder, then it doesn't matter how hot the parents were, these things are mostly nurture, granted the parents aren't heavy drug users and alcoholics, and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:21 PM
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Then you can't really call it a "Sexual marketplace", unless you think lust and love are the same thing. Edit: And what kind of weak men does your country have?(no offense) I know for a fact that any guy in my country would be happy to fuck a prostitute, the world is a fucked up place and you shouldn't "need" anyone else but yourself, that's just an easy way to get fucked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:58 PM
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Are you a man? And If so, then you'll know what it feels like knowing that you're getting fucked. The only way uprisings won't happen is if there is no sense of brotherhood(there's no trust) amongst the men of your country, which ironically could be much worse than any uprising that could ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:55 PM
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"but it does strike me as a little scary that some men think they should have access to my most private parts, just for their own satisfaction..." Don't worry, most normal men don't think that way, in fact I find the idea of "Sexual Marxism" very cringe and disgusting, I'd much rather pay for a prostitute or better yet, just watch porn. The few internet trolls don't speak for all men, in fact, dudes like that would literally be beaten up and burned in tires where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:44 PM
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Or they'll just choose to be alone with their dildos. If this is truly a problem, the only solutions are, A-lower taxes(something like 16-24% will do), B-legalize prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:40 PM
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Have you read any history book, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:31 PM
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Exactly. "Men" as a whole never subjugated women, it was nature and the few powerful men that did. Free men couldn't build their own boats and raid other lands without the say so of their Chieftains, the strongest men monopolized resources and women, it was very anti-egalitarian. What makes all of this worse is that the young men of today are irreligious, educated and live in a world of abundance, the only thing standing in the way of young men forming any radicalized militias is that most are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:17 PM
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Ok then, if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:07 AM
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"A lot of men out there are bitchy, picky, and don't really want sex, they just want to complain about not getting sex." Right on. If that were the case then they'd pay for prostitutes, what they really want is female validation(as the philosophers say, "they are still not over they're male mother need"). You know, unlike the many women on here who act like they have men figured out, you actually do understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:55 AM
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5'3? What country do you live in? And how tall are you? If you don't mind me asking. "Because your gf is hot and you're not going to lower your standards to average girls." I agree with you on every point except for this one though. Men don't think that way. My best friend and I were very popular in Hs, I was the "quiet, smart guy who's chill and athletic" and he was the "cool rapper/dancer, who's also hot", we were both popular with the girls, but unlike him I was very slow(and honestly a bit s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:24 AM
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This isn't a problem. For most of us young guys who are studying, sex is mostly secondary to the studying and hobbies, sure, having a gf would be a plus, but it's not that important as university is for studying and building you skills repertoire. I also think that the majority of women in university are having sex with older more established men, so I wouldn't say that it's only a minority of men who are having sex with all the women in university, of course there are a few dudes who do have re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:11 AM
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WTF? Is this sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:48 AM
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It's a big issue because sex is the primary reason for male participation in society. And the men in question here aren't NEET's or "incels", they are college students and if you take into account gender preferences in career choices, you'll know that it's 90% of your country's future engineers, 90% of your country's future CEO's etc. Thankfully these men are playing the long game, they know that now is not the time for sex and all that, they know that now is the time to build themselves up, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:36 AM
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Introversion doesn't always equal being socially inept, and being quite introverted I actually don't enjoy going to clubs or any of those places, although I occasionally do enjoy some company, but in a chill way. Also, I wasn't socially ostracized, but I meant us below average looking people. With that said, I only hate being below average looking ironically because I tend to attract objectively attractive girls and it's hard for me to know whether they actually want me or the image I represent …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:15 PM
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I agree. Also, I see a lot of people on here obsessing about online dating and casual sex. Most normal people just want relationships, children and a somewhat comfortable life. I wish I had "handsome face"(like the OP) but it's not because I want to "smash three chicks a week" it's because for a guy like myself(usually praised for being kind, intelligent, academically proficient, huge potential apparently, you get what I'm saying), it's hard to impossible to know whether or not someone likes me …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:41 PM
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Tl;DR It's How natural selection works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:13 PM
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This one. I(22) would like very much to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:27 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, why don't you support it? And what would you have the guys who have no other way to experience that intimacy(apart from paying an escort), do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:28 AM
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Then why not destroy it if it's rigged?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:51 AM
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But, but. I'm socially competent, although doesn't mean I enjoy social situations. And in what ways should men improve themselves? And for what reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:49 AM
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"People expect me to be funny and entertaining while they drone on about smooth-brained takes they've uncritically adopted from mainstream media." That's too true bro, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:32 AM
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No, not at all. Unless you have have a developmental disorder of some kind, the determining factor of whether you have good social skills are, 1-Looks. Social skills are developed, so if you don't get the opportunity to develop them with people from a young age, you won't have them. People who get bullied and ostracized at a young age are usually the ones who are socially inept. The only counter to this is if you are somewhat intelligent and adaptable enough to learn those social skills just by …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:27 AM
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If you're paying for nudes, there's something fundamentally wrong with you, you could get nudes of women who are hundred times hotter than some camgirl, and no you can't argue about it being "personalized" bc at the end of the day, it's just masturbation, and you don't need to pay for it. It's fundamentally different from paying a prostitute, because when you pay a prostitute you're not paying just to masturbate, you're paying for actual intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:17 AM
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Or you could vote for it to be legalized, just as you could also vote for taxes to be lowered, it's a democracy, use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:11 AM
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I guess you're right. In hindsight, I shouldn't be saying anything when I'm high, depressed and suicidal, that stuff makes you say shit you would otherwise never say. I wasn't lying about myself never doing any of that stuff though, being ugly I don't really have the luxury of "shooting", I mean hopefully I could find something so I could take an actual shot, to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:30 PM
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Well duh, you can only be desperate if you don't have any other option, that's very obvious and doesn't need to be explained which is why I said that you only responded because you want to feel superior, you get off on making other feel bad about their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:12 PM
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AND I never said that I wanted to, I said that it was the only way I could have sex. I said that because I'm ugly women aren't attracted to me, I'm not desperate about it, I have other things going for me. But yeah, if making someone feel shit gets you off, well, then have at it. I mean why else would you reply to my comment after 2 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:01 PM
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Many do. A rule of thumb for young women who do want that would be, look for the guy who doesn't party, focuses on his studies and goes about with his hobbies in his spare time. Most of the times those guys won't be super hot, but if that's what you want, then it wouldn't matter a lot since personality is all that counts. When I said most young people, I was referring to the ones that are (apparently) interested in marriage as the person I responded to said. And yes, that line about personality …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 01:13 PM
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Nah. Maybe it's men who never develop as men or have never had fathers/male role models, because that is the most girly thing I can think of. My dad taught me from a young age that as a man you have to accept some things and not hold a grudge. "Do what you can that makes you happy and be selfish but don't be a bitch", that's what my big brother told me, a year before he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:24 PM
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But most young guys aren't shooting out of their leagues, the guys you see chasing hot chicks don't represent every guy. The delusional PUA dude who tricks hot girls into sleeping with him isn't every guy out there. Many of us don't have the time, nor interest in going out to bars, clubs or raves, I'd prefer to jam all night with my buddies. The reason many young people don't get married is because many girls don't care for commitment from an average to below average guy who has potential, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:19 PM
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Lol, what ? So you'd have, uh, relations, with a dude who doesn't turn you on, just cause he has money?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:12 AM
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"fundamentally never understand or accept the truth about why they can’t get women to pay them any attention." And what is that, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:07 AM
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I'm not "red pill" or anything but I don't think these people are referring to EVERY SINGLE MAN, should have to "pay" for sex. I think they are saying that some dudes have to compensate for their lack of good looks in some other ways. I rather disagree with that premise though, you could be a drum playing, athletic, "smartest" and "coolest" dude around(like me) but if you don't have the looks, you ain't getting laid(believe me, my dude Nathan can't dance, isn't as articulate nor is he as academi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:04 AM
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OK, that's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:28 AM
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That's good though, because(and correct me if I'm wrong) Russian culture seems to tend to be Macho and despise cowardice, unlike western culture which seems to be quite passive, which means, whereas America would see lone gunmen, then a country like Russia might see militias, which could be bad for global peace and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:29 AM
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True. If I may ask, could insecurity and depression cause a guy to disqualify himself, even though a woman or two have shown interest? Or could he be right when he says that he's just ugly? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:29 PM
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LOL, I edited that out as I thought it was irrelevant to the discussion, sorry. I kind of agree to your counterargument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:03 PM
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The thing many people on this sub miss/avoid is that attraction is non-negotiable, and an unattractive guy can't get a woman, even if he has good social skills, a good career or good paternal traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:47 PM
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Thankfully they are in general(as in for building a career and making friends), but not when it comes to dating, where looks are the most important(in many cases only) factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:44 PM
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That.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:39 PM
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Hopefully they aren't capable, are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:41 PM
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"He’s pretending men do nothing to earn those insults." Why do you say men, why not some or most? Just because there are creeps who rape women doesn't mean I should be called a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:22 PM
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Didn't OP say that bots, while they don't rate anyone, do message quite a lot of people? I know I'm late to this discussion but pls clear this up for me cause maybe I missed something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:51 PM
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The most prominent one wants to make vaginas a public property, to "socialize" it. Wtf? That's sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:37 PM
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"College/university and/or have a job, a social life and some amount of social media". Non of these except maybe college/university are good ways to meet people, especially below average people who, because of exactly who we are, are mostly introverted and many are socially ostracized, so apart from maybe a specialised dating website these are good ways for normal people to meet but aren't feasible ways for below average looking people. And one more thing to add as well, it's only looks that I(a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:24 PM
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Few women never tell the truth though, so men will go try the next best thing. I'm not hating on women(I live with women so that'd be stupid thing to do), I'm just saying that many women aren't incentivised to tell young men the truth. Saying that it's not effort and personality but looks that does it for young women is in fact a counter-intuitive thing to do for mothers, aunts and female role models since it's us young men whom they'll be relying on in the future. If the guys with no problem ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:42 AM
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Sure, keep putting down the angry, belligerent dudes, see where that gets you. SMFH. Have you ever read anything about social programming and propaganda? If you did, you wouldn't be saying dumb shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:13 AM
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"you're such a great catch! You're like the perfect boyfriend and someday some girl is gonna be sooooo lucky!! Since when are any of these a complement. Anything Mom says is not a complement, it's a comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:09 AM
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While the majority people are highly malleable to social programming(let's face it, things like Socialism wouldn't exist if they weren't), quite a few aren't. The vast majority of men are quite malleable to social programming(they still believe that looks are the most important factor when it comes to dating and sex), but women many women aren't(exhibit A-u/SmurfESmurfson) because women are the ones choosing men based exclusively on looks and since they are women they know full well that the "wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:02 AM
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It's maths. Occasional for one attractive man is not going to make a big difference but occasional for 20% of men(which, even though it isn't a majority, is still a sizable chunk of the population) means it's basically happening all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:42 AM
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OK dude, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:42 AM
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Since you're not below average(I'm assuming), you don't know that being below average looking doesn't disqualify a guy, many average to above average guys date down, so that takes the women in our "league" unavailable(meaning there are no women in my league). I'm below average looking(I'm not deformed just below average) so believe me when I say that it does. Good thing about me is that I'm not as thirsty as most guys around my age and I'm not too proud to pay for a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:42 AM
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Wasted effort. Don't get me wrong when I say that, I'll happily put in effort on something where there's a chance or some degree of a guarantee, I don't feel it's the case with women because of my looks. Of course it doesn't mean I'll avoid any interaction with women, that's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:22 AM
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What's this about then? https://ifunny.co/picture/if-a-sexy-man-compliments-me-that-s-fine-if-vgTD0GJW7?s=cl I know that not all women are like this, but are you going to tell me to risk it? Because I have well developed social skills and definitely have zero intention behind interacting with people, when I say "Hi" that's literally all I mean and I don't have any ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:25 PM
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That doesn't change the fact that it isn't social skills that disqualify some men from being able to have consensual sex, it's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:14 PM
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Dude I'm not playing some childish game or trying to outsmart women, haha, why do you assume guys like me are automatically pathetic? I don't care if I don't marry or be in a relationship. If I want to become a father I'll just use a surrogate and buy some eggs. What are you on about, bro? Again, as I told another dude on here, it's trade offs, I couldn't smoke weed, go sandboarding in the desert and have some drinks with my buddies if I were married. "oh great now she can extract the money from…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:31 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:43 AM
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Effort and risks as an ugly guy=wasted time and energy and being labelled as a creep. I don't know what posts OP is talking about, but I personally never said that my problems are due to just being average not have I seen anyone on ppd say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:36 AM
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Sexist right-wingers don't represent all men. I'd hate to live in a world like the 50's USA, there's just something off about that era and it's culture, I'd rather be me in 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:48 AM
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This. I keep saying this to people, personal experience is subjective, but reality is objective. Unless you're truly ugly, you're not going to understand what's truly going on because that's not what you're experience has been, so it is literally impossible for you to comprehend. "It's an unspoken expectation that guys in that situation are supposed to just find a way to be find meaning and purpose in life without dating/sex/intimacy with women; and you have no right to be upset, unhappy, or com…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:35 AM
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This was an actual thread on twitter. https://ifunny.co/picture/if-a-sexy-man-compliments-me-that-s-fine-if-vgTD0GJW7 At least they're being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:27 AM
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For some men, yes, social anxiety is the problem, but not all of us. I'm very comfortable talking to women, especially if I've known them for a while. It's just a looks thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:16 AM
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Cool. I just hate that people associate relationships and female validation with happiness, if that's true then some of us will never be happy but that doesn't mean that anyone has a right to shame or ridicule us for it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:50 PM
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Is the dude ugly? or is he just full of himself and delusional. I'm not delusional nor am I going to hit on a chick(let alone look at her). I'm not socially awkward and I'm very fit(footballer and silver medallist in HS) and am academically proficient at 22 and I'm not going to let myself go, the only thing not going for me is my looks(being below average), so being compared to someone like that sucks. Why do people try so much to put other people(who they don't even know) down? What do you get …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:27 PM
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Yeah dude, I feel you. But these people don't really care and only care about putting you(and guys like us) down, so I don't expect them to understand where you're coming from, even if they tried to. Thankfully, being ugly won't keep us from making money though, have you tried paying for a prostitute? When I start working I won't mind doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:16 PM
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Correction, 70% ugly guys. Don't agree with the being mad part. Socially awkward is a complete cop out and it's not the reasons guys like us struggle. I've literally given a presentation on stage to more than a hundred people, so you can't tell me that the reason is me being socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:12 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:07 PM
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Uhm, I think you should go back and re-read those posts and/or comments. As far as I've seen those dudes aren't calling themselves average but in fact are calling themselves ugly, and they're not complaining about being average and sexless but about the prevailing narrative being about how attractiveness is something you can control and/or how women don't judge or choose men based on exclusively looks, which runs counter to their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:01 PM
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They don't care about that, lol. They'll say "fuck you, have a nice day" when you make a point they can't rebut, happened to me just an hour ago. Those( the latter group) people are weird, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:28 PM
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I wasn't being specific to you, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:25 PM
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Most people probably died at 21 years old and weren't able to reproduce in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:22 PM
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"If loneliness is a problem, grow up and be a man" my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:16 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't alpha and beta, behaviours? And isn't "Chad" just a sexually attractive man? I ask this because I've beaten up good looking dudes, so I don't understand why you'd call someone a beta, based on whether or not they can get sex for free other than they're behavioural traits. I'm no alpha or beta(because I don't agree with that theory) and I won't feel lucky being settled for by a 35 year old woman(there are plenty of hot prostitutes, who are actually fun people to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:14 PM
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I meant in which area, looks, money, status, personality? And it does matter, if you can't compromise based on aspects of a person that can't be changed it definitely matters in this context because if you complain about being alone because no one meets your standards, you're either delusional or uncompromising. There is literally only one Chris Hemsworth and he's currently married and he most likely won't cheat nor leave his wife unless you're really special, and since you're complaining about …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:49 PM
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Some women and "sexually successful/feminist men" on here might disagree you. I don't agree with the solipsism part though, I don't agree or disagree with the post, I just think it's an interesting thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:39 PM
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Either way, his point still stands. Plus, Why are you trying so hard to put men(or at least thinking that you are). I don't care if I don't get to reject some chick, that's childish AF. "Marriage benefits men more" That's only true for mommas boys who can't handle being alone. Most dudes I know(including myself) wouldn't be able tolerate being told to "stop smoking weed so much".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:28 PM
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Substandard in what way? Is it in a way that can't be changed or not? Those men are a minority compared to the vast majority of men who don't, "empty tins make the loudest noise" like my mom says.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:10 PM
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Haha, you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:05 PM
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What xenophobia? Since when is stating the fact that Islamists(who don't even follow true Islam) subjugate and use women as sex slaves, being xenophobic, I'm not even American. Plus, I only responded to you because you assumed all men would bitch and moan because we can't get pussy, so I responded by saying that as long as I'm not paying for it, I don't care whether or not I get it. I'm not entitled to someone else's body, that shit is gross. I never ran my mouth, I just stated fact. All I did w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:47 PM
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"Except society has given women the tools to do what men do" I'd hope so, who else going to pay for the police and military that'll protect them from those Islamists who want to use them as sex slaves? Plus, I never went to war, nor do I plan to. If I have to I will, like if the Socialists try to take whatever wealth I build away for the "greater good", I defo will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:28 PM
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We live in a Society, we pay into it and expect to get something from it. Now, society is not government, we need the government(and are perfectly willing to pay for it, like a membership). Men will only become resentful if they are expected to pay(directly or indirectly) into society when we're not getting anything out, because lets face it, apart from sex and offspring, what do men need from women? Society exists for that very reason, a group of men providing stability and resources to a group…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:42 PM
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One person just said that it's not about dating strategies. this, "gauge a man's attitude toward dating and his general financial well-being" sounds like a strategy, because if you don't care about having a relationship, it's irrelevant. You know how I know, it's because of this, "trying to get a man who isn't selfish and has traditional values in terms of dating." Again, If you don't want or need a man in your life, then all of that is pointless and irrelevant, if you want to have sex, then fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:03 AM
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Think of it this way, in nature, which gender chooses and which one competes to be chosen? I think it's not only stupid but also a complete waste of time for me as a guy to complain. Men have three choices: Accept that women choose men based on factors we can't control(we can argue about this all we want, that's not going to change the reality of things) and find alternatives(prostitutes and surrogacy), build yourself up in other areas and hope that a woman will choose you based on those or comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:10 AM
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All true. But they shouldn't complain when they end up alone. No one's against high standards, people are against unreasonable standards because they indicate that someone is delusional and unwilling to make a compromise(which is a very important thing for any relationship). If you haven't gotten that by now, then you'll never understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:53 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't a relationship supposed to be a two way street? Sure, their filters might be work, but if a guy that fits all of their standards comes along, would they fit his? And what if he thinks they're toxic as well? Would they then say that he isn't a good man, because he doesn't like them? Preferences only work when you have something to back them up with. A good person, who knows as much doesn't need those "filters", he/she already is one all by his/herself and doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:45 AM
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"Men on the other hand will stay in a toxic relationship for as long as possible for sex or because they have 0 other abundance." Simply not true. Some men are, definitely but not all of us. There are also women who stay in shitty abusive relationships. This post reeks of man-shaming, lol. I'm a guy(pretty young guy at 22) and I'm not scared at all of being alone for my entire life, don't get me wrong I'm insecure about a few things and wish I could change them, but if this is how the dating sce…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:31 AM
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But the fact is that only those top 5% of men are the ones that are wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:21 AM
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People's standards are only relevant if(and only if) they are worthwhile. A truly worthwhile person has the intelligence and maturity to understand that most people aren't their bodies and achievements, a worthwhile person isn't shallow by definition, so people will make fun of a delusional person with extreme standards but we won't care much to criticize them, because that would mean we give a shit about them, which we don't. I mean why would people care about someone who clearly doesn't care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:18 AM
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But men don't use make-up though. You can't make a conclusion if you haven't tested it out. I personally am quite impressed by the amount of change, even if they aren't ugly, they aren't as attractive as they are with make-up on, and considering the fact that people do look different(mostly better because of angles and filters) in photos, guys can use make-up(in a way that enhances male features) to improve their chances of online, if that's what they want. In most of those after pics, the ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:01 PM
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This, "She probably thought you were quite attractive yourself" and this, "women can only take so much friend-zone/rejection as well, which is why we go cold" Are making a lot of sense now that I think about it. Plus, one thing I forgot to say as well is that about a few months back she texted me but I was in deep(suicidal) depression(I still am but it's not as bad as it was back then), so I ignored her text. Now that I think about it, it's interesting how much depression actually change a perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:11 PM
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I think you're missing the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:33 PM
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Bro, did you see those before photos? Non of them had high cheekbones and a jawline. Yes, they weren't deformed or anything but they weren't good looking either. It's like a scale, if that woman can go from 5 to 9(I'm talking about pic no. 1), then I definitely believe a guy can go from 3 to 6, granted he isn't underweight or overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:32 PM
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I disagree, most of those women weren't ugly yes, but they weren't hot either. Plus the difference between the before and after pics are staggering. It's literally from "meh" to "holy shit she's hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:27 PM
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Yeah, and the fact that most guys(actually all of us) don't use make-up. I'm legit shocked by how different they legit look. If guys used make-up they would get some likes, seriously, the amount of change in those photos, is just... amazing. I'm sorry if I sound crazy, but I've never really seen how make-up works. Do they pay professionals or do they do it themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:23 PM
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No way!! Those aren't the same people. WTF!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:17 PM
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"Poverty is a social and economic issue, caused by mostly unnatural (artificial isn’t inherently bad) social and economic matters." No, they are created by competition, which is very natural. A person with a Master's degree most likely won't(even when things go really bad) end up in poverty, maybe if they are extremely irresponsible and/or an addict of some kind, which you can say is unnatural, but then I can argue against that and say that they are exclusively responsible for it, which isn't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:05 PM
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"I would just hope aside from non-smoking and a couple bucks you bring other things to the table. Like confidence and not being controlling(if every guy, and girl for that matter, could bring these 2 qualities alone to a relationship I guarantee the dating game would be half way sorted out)." Definitely, I can only speak for myself, so yes. Like being able to make anyone laugh without even trying, sarcasm(my best friend says I'm like a darker version of Ryan Reynolds) and heaps of unnecessary fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:37 PM
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Haha, no. I'm a student. I just said that because men aren't "giving up", maybe cutting themselves out of society and what have you, but not really giving up because you can't give up on something you don't believe in to begin with, but at the same time not really trying to find or create something to replace it, you get what I'm saying? IMHO, I don't think this(the whole "young men are quitting society" thing) isn't a problem. I think of it as trade-offs, I may not have all of the things I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:36 AM
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"Except they often believe something is a generality (and hence anything contrary is some sort of outlier/ exception) when there’s no real evidence of that being the case" For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:46 AM
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No, it doesn't line up because women say that they want "good guys" but when approached/pursued said "good guy" they reject him(generally speaking). To add another point, when men "give up", as I have, it doesn't mean let everything go and become a fat and disgusting weirdo, it means I gave up on trying to attract a woman(because if attraction was based on more than looks, I'd not have been single my whole life). Believe me when I say, when a guy says "fuck the world" he means "I'm going to fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:17 AM
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No, I'm saying that there's no shortage and I'm also saying that you( and other women who say that) are lying about what you actually want, which is clearly not a "good man", I say that because what you say doesn't line up with reality, making an effort to treat someone well and to show them that you love them isn't hard, I wouldn't even call it effort, I know for a fact that if I had a gf, I would never let things go dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:20 AM
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It should be, especially in a Liberal/Egalitarian world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:02 PM
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I personally do(and I believe other guys do as well) but the thing is, I can learn to build a boat(not necessarily a yacht), if wood is expensive, I can use alternative materials to build it, that's if I want it. You don't need money for everything, maybe for travel, but as a single man, my lifestyle is pretty minimalistic so I could save up enough money to travel(and as a Science major, I have a high earning potential, I could easily afford it without saving up)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:59 PM
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It's not that men can't get laid, it's that sex(being the main motivator) is not a guarantee if you work hard and earn money to have an above average lifestyle. Those "socio-economic problems" aren't hard to solve, men could very easily go study trade and artisanal skills and form a brand new economy all on their own and settle back in rural areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:40 PM
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Growing up. We should connect it with growing up. In a supposedly Egalitarian world, that shouldn't be hard or a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:37 PM
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If you wanted to understand why, you would've by now. Your question has been answered twice over.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:27 PM
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I get what you're saying. But can we call it a problem when no one wants to fix it? Are you going to tell a young woman to date an ugly guy(like me) because he doesn't smoke, goes to college and has high earning potential and has morals? Whether we like it or not, nothings gonna change, that sounds nihilistic, but it's also true(plus I haven't felt suicidal or depressed today). Women's value isn't looks, that's true, but they are(the vast majority of them) only concerned about men's looks thus g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:18 PM
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"Men who can't get pussy deciding "fuck the world" and gaming/watching porn/drinking themselves to death aren't "good men" we missed." Then why on earth are you on this thread? The men who say "fuck the world" are the focus of this thread, and the reason for why they do so is women rejecting them, as has been established, so you're clearly not contributing to this thread are you? Plus, you misuse the word "good" quite a lot, what does that mean? As I said in another reply to you, most people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:57 PM
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Where'd he blame women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:53 PM
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bc women mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:48 AM
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But you do acknowledge that there is a legitimate reason for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:18 AM
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I can't speak on behalf of men but I can speak for myself, I don't pursue that because women around my age(22) want that but only from "hot" guys, that's how these men get harems and it's why I don't actively pursue it(even though I sometimes do want it). I'm not going to go after someone when they've made it clear what they want if I don't have it. I'm just going to pay for prostitutes(after I start earning my own money of course). I'm from Namibia btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:34 AM
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I'm pretty sure there are more than enough men out there who want that(and even pursue it), which makes that question pointless. You do get why most men, who are normal(not evil but also not perfect angels), capable and well off, who also want exactly that(and end up not getting it), would call you out or call you a liar when you say that? I did say that I'm not a bitter person because I don't have gf, but I still find that question very condescending and I strongly believe the men I've mentione…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:17 AM
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If that's the case, then do you mean Good=Capable, trustworthy and morally rigid?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:12 AM
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How do you compete sexually if you're ugly, asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:52 AM
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It's not pride, it's ego, ego that was build by mom telling you how special you are and that you deserve everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:50 AM
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What makes you so sure that men aren't doing this? The only thing keeping me from doing it is money, being a student, I don't have non.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:49 AM
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Just say handsome men, why'd you have to lie and say good men? My friend Merin(31) is a great guy, he's a genuinely good person but he's also entertaining, intelligent, funny and has a six figure income job(by US standards) in an African country, yet he's alone and only pays prostitutes. I don't get you people, no one's going to kill you if you tell the truth, this makes me laugh every time I hear this from women, why do you ladies do this, just... why? What's the point, I genuinely want to know…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:37 AM
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Not all men, a handsome dude could fuck a woman behind a dumpster and a drug dealer can buy a villa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:28 AM
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You don't get it. Men don't need much to enjoy life, much less survive. I don't need a high paying job to have a decent lifestyle, men only aim high because they believe that's what will get the attention of women, the thing is men today know that it's good looks and not money or stability or even personality that gets the attention of women. It's nit hard to understand. I kind of hate the fact that this question has to be asked(especially here on this sub), and more so the fact that it's being …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:25 AM
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No, it's sex, territory(house) and legacy(children). These are all instincts, and they are merely rationalized. From childhood we form hierarchies, where we learn our place in society, we learn who are the guys who women prefer, we learn who the leaders are and we know who we are, these are all subconscious(instinctive) and unfortunately(for society) non are meritocratic. Most men aren't adonises, geniuses or leaders, we are average, those aren't incentives they are the average man's instincts b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:56 AM
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Thank you. Also Isn't Japan one of those countries with a strict culture that emphasizes achievement? How does that happen? And why don't they just save up some money and leave for better opportunities elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:27 PM
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I guess so. But my point still stands as well. Let's just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:41 PM
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Whoa, first of all I didn't ask you and second of all I could but what I find could be something wholly unrelated to what I was asking for. I'm not an internet person, this is isn't something I do all day everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:04 PM
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I wash my face quite regularly with clean water as recommended by my doctor. Plus, I'm just a student, so I can't afford many of the things you probably do and even then, how sure am I that I'm not wasting my time. If it nothing has worked by now, then most likely nothing I do will. I'm not asking for help by the way, I just pointed out that you're not like 99% of women(especially young women) because of the way you are, I wasn't trying to debate the cause of my failure. I'm still young though a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:15 AM
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Or they've tried it and it hasn't worked? Men do everything for women, the sheer simplicity of the things you mentioned means that a vast majority of us have most likely already done it. I get a new haircut every two weeks and do everything(except for facials, what's that?), so I'm not sure what you mean by "not taking care of themselves".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:23 AM
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What does NEET mean/stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:37 AM
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Then you're definitely not like the vast majority of women, especially those around my age. I observe people(not in a weird way) and there's a pattern on the type of men who are successful with women vs the type who aren't, and the only constant is looks i.e. jawline, wide cheekbones and good looking eyes, all of which are genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:14 AM
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IMO, I played it right. As a rule, I always expect the worse from people, that way, I feel a lot safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:06 AM
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Guess you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:02 AM
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Not really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:59 AM
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No, only the real dumb ones, plus, to make it clear, they weren't mean to me, I'm not sure how they could've been considering I ignore everyone there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:58 AM
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I've never tried because of the ugly=attention not welcomed and hot=welcomed, thing. I know this from a young age, it's subconscious, guys like me don't talk to to girls, they have to talk to me, for me to be absolutely sure that there's no chance of misunderstanding. I've killed a Snake with a bloody stone once but I won't take chances in that situation(it's too risky) and I wouldn't feel safe, unless a girl tells me straight that she likes me(more than a friend), but I won't complain, thankful…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:50 PM
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He just means ugly, basically. No amount of muscles, good grades, degrees, six figure jobs or personality changes that, if you're ugly, be prepared to pay for prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:02 PM
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What if you're below 4 in looks? I guess there's no point to this question because if looks are objective, then saying something like 4+ makes no logical sense because by then the words attractive and unattractive stop making any sense. It can't be "looks are objective" and "there is a threshold" at the same time, so which one is it. I'm a young guy(22) and I genuinely want to know which it is? I have a lot of people who say they like me, who call me a genius and all that, I can sing and play dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:49 PM
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That's the only way morality can function. I genuinely admire you, seriously I do. Either these dudes are dumb as fuck or you're a god, honestly my money is you being god, there is just no way, no way this many people could argue with an obvious narcissist and solipsist for this long. Please teach me your secrets, oh great master, I want to rule my own country some day, just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:47 PM
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Ok, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:23 PM
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Damn, I must be a crazy one then, because I'm very fit, can sing, play drums, have school teachers literally brag about me and am respected by literally everyone I've ever met(no seriously, I get called a genius and am told how admirable I am, I am the very last person to know all that TBH). I didn't say that so you'll feel sorry about me, I said it cause it's the truth and if it's going to spare some dude from the delusion, I'll keep doing it. Attractive means good looking face, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:05 PM
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I'm not a woman but I think the most appealing body type would be that exhibited in Avatar. Lean, well-defined musculature and V-shape. That's inline with evolutionary biology, runner/hunter body like Usain Bolt but not as excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:36 PM
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It's not eugenics. It's figuring out a way to get more female births than male births. It's pre-empting eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:33 PM
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Jah, exactly my dude. What sucks though is the fact that, when I start making a lot of money, I'll be "obligated" to pay taxes, which will reach those people indirectly through welfare. I don't wanna be a criminal but I'll evade those taxes like I evaded that situation LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:22 PM
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ITT:1-An OP baiting women to make the point of women being unempathetic to men. Especially men who are objectively unattractive 2-Women who take the bait, not knowing that the actual point of the thread is that women shouldn't be giving dating advice, period. 3-Me, an unattractive guy thinking to myself, "How on earth did he think this was going to go?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:18 PM
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Your face can't be changed. Thus any "self-improvement" is just day-dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:10 PM
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I don't think it's her problem though. As a dude, I've always practiced my own rule, I call it the "Stay safe rule": Don't flirt or talk to or look at a woman, that means no chance of sex but more importantly no chance of humiliation or misunderstanding or awkwardness. That Vs Talk to her and be rejected, thus making the situation awkward plus no chance of sex, and there's no competition TBH. That rule has worked wonders for me, maybe if I wasn't ugly, a girl would've initiated a conversation th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:04 PM
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Typical hot girl and friends in the background and an unattractive guy(unattractive by means of below average face), doesn't really take a genius to figure out what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:50 PM
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Then I must be a zero then. But I don't really care about that though, the thing that sucks is knowing there's something wrong that I can't fix and not necessarily the not getting "chicks" aspect of it because my personality kind of makes it easier. I'm a naturally a loner, I work better on my own and feel better when I'm alone, don't get me wrong I appreciate the occasional hugs and kisses but generally I dislike any physical contact, and I tell myself, if the universe allows it and I make it p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:02 PM
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That's the point. Because there's an order of monogamy, those low-status males, believing that they have offspring won't rebel but in societies like most African societies there's no such thing and even if there's an attempt to establish that kind of order, it wouldn't work because of the environment being so harsh meant that the only males that survived were the strongest ones, so they would oppose it, even though some of them were low-class in their tribe, they could still go and fight for oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:52 PM
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Reading this I find it hard to believe that you were ever ugly or unattractive(in the face, bone structure and all).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:59 PM
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Story of my life dude. I have had one instance recently on campus, there's an open area with tables for lunch, there was a group of girls sitting at a table, being me, I sat as far away from them as I could, I opened my lunch and played subway surfers on my phone with headphones on listening to Alice in Chains, then this girl with a smile on her face comes up to my table, clearly one of the girls from that group because we were the only people there, as an instinct I pick my head up and she clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:53 PM
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Enforced how? Seriously how? Today we have technologies like DNA testing, back then they didn't, back then the women would just marry their "assigned husband"(which I still find hard to believe because a lot of historical writings are flawed) and eff the man they wanted and have his children, children that would be raised by the husband thinking those are his children. I mean what better revenge than that on people who think they can control your body? That's what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:31 PM
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On paper. In reality, powerful men would marry one woman, yet they'd have unofficial harems and countless offspring, honestly I kind of doubt the legitimacy of monogamy, I don't think it has ever worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:25 PM
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Against women, because you assume women are dependent on men, when there's fewer resources. Girls don't sleep with ugly dudes here, not even when it gets real hard, Idk how things work where you are but this country is not like that. And Chad, really? From what I've gathered from American pop culture, Chad is the obnoxious idiot that people make fun of, or am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:21 PM
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No, not really, those dudes are just weak. I mean I have no problem against porn, but the amount of taxes they pay(assuming they work at all) shows that they have no rebellious spirit. Of course lower class men are not very likely to rebel against their own countrymen(that's what upper-class young men do because they still have reason to believe in the nation and it's cause), and so they likely leave and conquer other nations, take those resources and forcefully mate with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:14 PM
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Maybe those men are just weak and are less manly, have you thought about that? Plus, I mentioned Nigeria and Boko Haram expecting that you'll deflect in some way, guess I was right. Edit: Plus Japan is very open about pornography and I'm guessing they allow prostitution as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:07 PM
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Of course without monogamy there will be a civilization, just not a very peaceful one though, or do you think ugly men will be "good boys" and not mind paying taxes and build buildings for those rich old men to do women in, while they get nothing? Do you know about Nigeria and pretty much the entire world that practices polygyny? Have you heard about Boko Haram? Where and how do you think they get their fighters?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:54 PM
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Plus, you didn't answer my questions, there are two of them. Be a bro and answer them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:48 PM
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I only blame myself and those that don't are not worthwhile human beings IMO. Plus, what's obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:45 PM
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What's the truth then? Edit: and what's a "Chad" or who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:44 PM
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WTF is up with the blatant sexism and superiority complex my dude? I live in Namibia, a country with a lower-middle class economy, about 20% of people live in poverty(and more illegally immigrate to NA from poorer countries like Angola and Zimbabwe), so the necessity is there for women to be dependent on men, but, economically, women are better off than men, how do you explain that? I'm not against women's liberation, in fact I'm all for it, otherwise I couldn't ask my sisters for money while I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:22 PM
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And what's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:01 PM
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"And their personality tends to be more conforming and obedient to societal messages." I disagree. Maybe the majority but not all(and being quiet and minding your own business≠ Being obedient). I'm ugly but I'm not afraid to speak up, I've beat my bully to a bloody pulp once and I have made many people look stupid. Plus, who the hell is Chad? And why is he an exception to the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:58 PM
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