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People aren't banning abortion because they hate women, men and women want to ban abortion because they hate murdering babies. You guise it under the idea of hate in order to make yourself the victim, opposed to the humans you're chopping up and flushing down the toilet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/25 07:07 PM
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Women have publicly started encouraging women to be as unlikeable, insufferable and intolerable as possible, only to turn around and have the Pikachu shocked face when men find them unlikeable, insufferable and intolerable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/25 07:17 PM
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I'd say that most stable and sane women interested in marriage and building their own family do not go for "bad boys" archetype. Yeah, in their 30s after they realize those men don't want to do any of that with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:07 AM
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Bodybuilding misc forum was the best example of a male "safe space" since the modern woke environment took over. Men don't necessarily need safe spaces we just need the ability to present our thoughts if they're within tos. The disadvantage men have on social media is that we're all mostly productive in our individual lives. So we don't have time to spend all day on reddit opening, marketing and controlling subs spaces. That means when the opportunities present themselves, the first people to ta…
/r/MensRights02/02/25 05:51 PM
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I'd say the biggest factor is the fact that there is a burden of performance on men which only gives us value if we serve a purpose or have social competence. That's the reason why if you look at the social experience of autistic men and women and see a stark contrast. Women could be absolutely useless, dumb and unpleasant but they'll just surround themselves with other useless women and have a support system. We've all witnessed women who flat out hate each other and still congregate, or women …
/r/MensRights02/02/25 05:40 PM
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Lmao very, very accurate dialog for the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:24 AM
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Happiness has declined for everyone thanks to the relentless march of capitalism. What the hell do you think it was all throughout society? You think having to wake up and work on your farm during all of the daylight hours made people happier than waking up and working at a job? I truly don't think redditors actual think about what they're saying before they type it. You just run to your typical tropes to excuse your own laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:21 PM
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Childfree, single women are the happiest in society. Lol they most definitely aren't. They sure as hell do project this idea to make themselves not feel like failures though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:16 PM
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Because we are starting to regress on women's rights. Oh really? What rights have you lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:14 PM
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I'm too still patiently waiting for this economic system better than capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:13 PM
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Because a lot of us didn't choose this. I was fat during my prime "high school and college". Well, you chose to be fat so you kinda did. Then you go on to victimize yourself by claiming you were in an abusive relationship like a lot of women who don't want to have a real assessment about their relationship skills. Also, I wanted to marry young. Problem is, nobody else did. No, the men you chose to associate with didn't want it. This whole post really just shows how women get in their own ways, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:11 PM
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We could go on a back and forth but honestly these are pretty weak arguments. The idea that women are socially and legally allowed to beat their man is a weak argument? THIS LITERALLY PROVES MY POINT!!! Are you slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:54 AM
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Because women experience the same emotional damage from men. It’s a relatively equal experience on both sides. No it's not. Women have tremendous social privilege to the point their abuse of men is normalized. For example, a woman beating her spouse literally isn't seen as abuse by men nor women. To the point where social experiments show strangers won't intervene when a man is getting his ass kicked in public, and will even get attacked when defending himself from a woman. There are laws in sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:20 PM
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I think it's a little deeper than that. They pursue men they see as providing tremendous value like celebs and tall, highly physically desirable men who offer the ultimate validation socially. The men whom they're just attracted to and make more money, these are who they think they're entitled to so they simply enthusiastically leave the door open. The men who are their equal, they'll deal with if no other options are present but have to be convinced and courted. Men that are less attractive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:09 PM
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I'm not sure why this simple concept is so hard for women to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:32 PM
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It kinda feels like the only reason this one particular case stirs up so many men is they find her attractive and wish she would have dated them instead of doing porn. This makes absolutely no sense whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:31 PM
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She isn't smart enough to have the men wear condoms for oral sex and lets them cum on her face and in her eyes. What the fuck are you talking about? She's a porn star. That what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:25 PM
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According to the manospherians, older "cat ladies" are typically former party girls or boss babes. You literally made this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:06 PM
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The only step that remains would be to consider; High Value to whom? Women are interesting. They think they're high value based on what other women tell them, only to think men are high value based off what they do for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/24 08:06 PM
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Right. Men have to accept being second to the guy with more height, muscles, clout, etc. Usually it's all the same guy. It makes us realize being not first has consequences. But with women even though there is the top girl in the school that's a bombshell, the distribution is flat. There's girls that get attention for having the the biggest racks more with the best asses, another group with the cutest faces, some with the best legs etc. Every last one of them can at minimum sleep with the top gu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/24 12:16 AM
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You can tell some of yall see one comment by troll in a comment section on Twitter or something, internalize it then go write a whole dissertation based on some silly emotion it made you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:28 PM
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Men are. It's one of the largest reasons TRP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:37 PM
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When you start playing the "it depends" game and typing out paragraphs instead of answering a simple question, it means you're deflecting. The answer is Chris Evans. Which shows that yes, what you'd do sexually does indeed depend on how attracted you are to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:38 PM
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The problem isn't the women that like freaky shit because a sexually liberated woman will likely only deal with men that trigger that sexual itch. The issue is the women that aren't kinky but seek validation through the types of men they pursue. These are the women that will turn into superhead for the tall Chads they met at the college bar, while the thought of doing those same things to the man that would take a bullet for her and who's paying her bills turns her stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:25 PM
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I try things because I'm interested in the thing itself, not based on how attracted I am to the guy. So let's say you go on a first date with an average guy one day then Chris Evan the next. Both proposition you to do some freaky shit, which one are you more likely to do it with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:21 PM
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Of course. When you have an entire society based around making excuses for every thing they do, how could they logistically even start to take accountability for their internal issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:14 PM
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they are still ideologically incompatible Political ideology has never in history been a reason for incompatibility. Household were probably always split because western liberalism is a luxury afforded solely due to having a conservative patriarch that allowed women the financial freedom to live ideologically. There is a reason the younger you are the more liberal you are, because the younger you are the fewer responsibilities and accountability you have. Only recently has left wing tribalism cr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/24 06:53 AM
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It's just due to the overall societal pressure to not over estimate a woman's age. So people say they look younger than they are opposed to simply saying they look good for a woman their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:35 AM
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Most women don't know anything about TRP, when they argue against it they really just create a strawman and project generalized negative dating tropes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:19 AM
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Wrong. You're right, the dating statistics prove it. Not my experience at all. Your experience of what? You expect me to believe you have a social circle outside of worldoftshirts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:33 PM
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They were born rich raised rich and have been involved in corrupt deals since day one Are you seriously talking about corrupt deals when Biden has been caught in bribery deals for proximity to his father? And has been paid for consulting he has never done? Are you that dense??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:30 PM
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They don't want "her", they want sex. That's like saying men who women use for food dates want him. The man is inconsequential to what she's after, just like the woman that men are using for sex are nothing more than the avenue for their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:28 PM
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Wanting to sleep with a woman does not equate to "wanting" her. Being used as a free prostitute isn't an example of desirability of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:08 PM
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I mean are the Trump kids doing great? Yeah, they're doing quite well lol. Millionaires, businesses, educated, families, and aren't all being invested for corruption and tax fraud like Biden's kids. What kind of ridiculous question is that? The fact that you keep trying to dig yourself out of this hole of your own doing instead of owning up to the nonsense of your argument is concerning. You still haven't addressed the rationale of who you voted for president but still keep criticizing the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:05 PM
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I thought Hunter was a crazed drug addict? So just so I understand. The guy you voted for not only raised a crazed, tricking drug addicted son, but despite being a crazed, tricking drug addict he is still disgusted by his own father's sexual behavior. Do I have this correct? Don't you ever try to judge anyone else's voting choices without analyzing your own. You should be disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:37 PM
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Did you vote for the man who's own son call him a pedo and has been accused of rape for decades? Also what rights were you stripped of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:10 PM
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No, that article was revenge fantasy. I reality most young women have never been on a proper date, and most women Uber liberal in urban areas are unmarried. It's not because they're too awesome to handle. Like I said, how many times have you seen men crying on social media because they can't find liberal values in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:05 PM
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That article was probably written by women that spend all day posting to their Taylor Swift fan accounts. It's not conservative men crying on tiktok about not being able to date men that pays for dates. I can bet there isn't a demographic that struggles more getting what they want in dating than far left women. Men likely play the part to get them in bed and use them for sex but that's the extent. There is a reason all older miserable and lonely women are left and all young women that have never…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:28 PM
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Red pill men sleeping with promiscuous women means they want them. Why are PPD women so constantly off base?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:27 PM
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Women are great at math!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:29 PM
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All that means is that they probably have so little in their life that shopping for bread is the highlight of their week. Yeah I think this is true but I don't think it's negative as you're trying to put it. Everyone use particular activities as excuses to get out from their box. Zoomers and back end milennials are so socially remedial that anything that pulls them away from Instagram or reddit is seen as a chore. Most of you aren't even "brunching with friends" you're ordering IHOP on instacart…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:25 PM
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Maybe but this is a generation that don't even find clothes shopping enjoyable. That speaks more to the failures of women than anything. The women I know that are domesticated enjoy grocery shopping, and all the older women I know like grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:39 PM
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If you want to act like shopping is a chore for women (which is akin to playing video games for men), then you have to acknowledge stuff like driving is a chore for a man. When both people are in the car together, what percentage of the time would you say the man is driving?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:45 PM
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I hope you don't expect me not to steal this...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/23 01:14 AM
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manipulating vulnerable women into sex is part of PUA Technically isn't buying a woman flowers or taking her to a nice restaurant manipulating her into sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:44 AM
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Because they say they want equality, the privileges and equitable outcomes as men but don't want to do what men do, or be what men are in order to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:07 PM
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The sooner men realize most women drift through life exploiting their femininity and the desperation of men for resources and attention, the sooner men will reach enlightenment. Women don't want to be put in the shoes of any man they want to ride on the shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:15 AM
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When men give birth to and breastfeed 50% of the children in a relationship Did you have children with all the men you were in a relationship with? Also, why would I ever hold myself responsible for caring for you financially for life just because you had to carry a baby and breast feed for 1 year and 9 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:12 AM
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You haven't seen "too many" you've seen a few. There are women out there that have superiority complexes and need a man they can control so they date those bums. And also the counterpart of a man who's a bum isn't a woman who's also broke. A woman can be on the level of a bum and have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:10 AM
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Because that would take accountability. When society provides women endless excuses and justifications for the bad paths they take, there is no reason to not kick the accountability can down the road until there is no more road left.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:42 PM
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The idea that men are intimidated by their woman making more is female cope. When women get in a position of power over a man, she becomes insufferable. Look at how women in higher positions look down on men of lower socioeconomic status. Men don't become insecure, they simply become tired of being talked down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:21 AM
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I think it's split based on demographics. Mid 20s and down are probably mostly organic. Over mid 20s I bet are mostly OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:45 PM
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Ah yes, tell me how lost we'd all be without your contributions to society as women's studies teachers, executive assistant and baristas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:15 PM
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Construction, plumbing, mining, sanitary, carpentry, etc are all going to become automated? Are you slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:14 PM
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No, unattractive with all that shit can make her average, and average can go to above average. Most of the stunners you see out in public have horrible skin, flat asses and uneven complexions when you take all of that off. Have you seen those before and after pics of porn stars in makeup? A woman can literally go from meth head to Jessica Rabbit with enough skill, and turn around and think they're better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:38 AM
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No. By mining all of the resources, creating all of the technology and laying all of the infrastructure to provide you the phone and internet so you can play stupid on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:35 AM
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How many men actually keep the world running? Overwhelmingly more than the number of women. To a 1 million to one margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:32 AM
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Cool. So the extent of your contribution is taking dick. It's hard to wear makeup when you're building all of the structures, laying all of the infrastructure and producing all of the food.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:31 AM
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Why don't men put on makeup and hair weave? Probably because we're too busy keeping the world running.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:17 AM
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A woman having male friends 9/10 is them being unreasonably mean to the single man because unless she's known him since her formative years, she's using him for unpaid labor, attention, or resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:03 AM
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This answers a completely different question. How people have met compared to how people are meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:57 AM
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I think that it is more common to see a hot women with average/below average men No, you see women with makeup, hair weave/dye, and fat molding clothing with men that don't have makeup, dye and fat molding clothes to mask their mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:51 AM
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What, what is your point here. She is definitely fat but fuckable to some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:49 AM
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Imagine if a dude was like "you know what babe I know I took my exes around the world on trips but I don't think I'd enjoy that with you so let just do road trips to Cleveland instead."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:26 AM
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Traditional masculinity would be considered toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:15 AM
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Are you a man or a woman? You don't seem to comprehend that your marriage may seem easy to you because your partner does it is needed to make it seem easy. And like I said before, that's contingent on how much one person appreciates the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:12 PM
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If you've never been in a relationship just say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:04 PM
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No they're not. Because it requires work in order to make them easy. That work seems easy based on how much you like that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:42 PM
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No they're not. Disagreeable, authoritative men treat me and women with the same level of disdain, people like you think when women don't get special treatment it's sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:17 AM
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Women couldn’t open a bank account to do the contracts or wills until the 1970s. Wrong 1970s were also when women were allowed to purchase and have homes in their name. Wrong again. If this was true it would make sense, you're showing the complete lack of common sense and gullibility from this post alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:17 PM
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“Women in the 1950s were not allowed to make contracts or wills, Not true could not buy or sell property Not true had little control of their earnings in most situations, What does this mean? were discouraged from acting politically Not true even though they could vote. Interesting! Was this source AOC?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:28 PM
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Men back then intentionally subjugated women Any proof of this other than watching Mad Men and reading reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:06 PM
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Us military propaganda? Let me guess, you have pronouns in your social media and drink lots of soy milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 01:26 AM
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Don't ask me disengenous questions. Use your brain and figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:22 PM
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Liberalism requires critical thinking, which is learned and practiced in academia and from a family and social sphere which support higher education. If liberalism required critical thinking then liberalism would support the free market of thought. It obviously doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:59 PM
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A masculine liberal is an oxymoron. The idea of masculinity is standing in principle and reality. When you have an entire identity based on fleeting emotions and sliding realities, you don't have a moral or structural foundation to build an identity as a man. Liberalism means floating with the crowd which in the west are women. Being a follower, let alone a thought follower, is genetically adverse to masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:57 AM
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How does one appear to be masculine? You're a prime example of the feminine men she hates. You can sense the estrogen from this emotional, nonsensical post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:49 AM
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TRP is witnessing a crazy amount of grifting that's for sure, but it's far from dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:06 AM
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Why don't actual intelligent women go on and refute their points though? They have women of all education levels on, you can't refute reality. Hell, most of the time they reinforce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:03 AM
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No it didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:02 AM
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The woman has access though. If a woman can sleep with a man she has the opportunity for a relationship with him based on the type of woman she is. A woman who is just used for sex is simply a woman that fumbled her chance at a relationship. On the flip side men don't even get that shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:20 AM
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It's pretty obvious, there is a reason lesbian relationships have the highest levels of domestic violence by a large margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:02 PM
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Women can't be trusted for anything that's self reported. They will always respond in a way that maintains their privilege. Whether thats supporting simp behavior that will continue to delude men into giving them free attention and resources(it turns me on when men pay for dates, even though I fuck the men that don't) , or victimhood that will continue supporting economic privileges or dating entitlement (women do all the cooking/cleaning therefore men should pay for everything, even though I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:21 PM
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There's a difference between saying some men are these things and all. That's my point. Women aren't saying some men rape, the narrative is that all men rape or are responsible for it. I'm literally having discussions with women in other posts where they've said men should stop raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:49 PM
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The bulk of us are not told this and do not believe this. It's being told in this thread alone. Men are raping you (not rapists). Men make more money than you for the same jobs(which is an easily debunked lie and women make more in metropolitan cities). Men hold you down in patriarchy, you don't need men, men don't treat you like humans, etc. These perspectives is literally why young men are so checked out and done with fighting your battles. They're being gaslighted by an entire hemisphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:27 PM
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You mean by pretending that that's not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:23 PM
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"They defended him!" video shows them literally not defending him "Well, since they didn't curse him out and jump him on air it's essentially the same thing!" That's the level of discourse we're dealing with as men. And they wonder why we aren't throwing on capes for their supposed monolithic issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:22 PM
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They do. They expect men to take care of all or the majority of bills so they can spend their money under their own discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah because most can't find a man that makes enough money to let them while sustaining their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:45 PM
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I love how having a willing and equal partner who chooses you out of appreciation, desire, affection, love, and respect is getting less than your fathers got. How is this possible when women are being indoctrinated to see men as oppressors and competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:16 AM
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Both! All while he gets nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:15 AM
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Those goalposts must be on skates they way they're moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:13 AM
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If it's that simple I imagine you've told women to stop raping the teenage boys they teach, did you stop it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:09 AM
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No, patriarchy theoretically is the system where men have the power but never was based on boosting the man. "patriarchy" has always been about the family unit in where everyone had a role, and in turn nationalism. The only people that benefited from so called patriarchy was politicians and leaders. What the west is doing now is literally nothing but boosting women at the expense of everything else, including the family and the country. And you expect men to invest in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:06 AM
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First liberals and feminists need to stop manipulating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:54 AM
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Haven't heard anything about a trial or sentencing yet, however. Because latest info out there is showing it to be a farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:13 PM
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That's what he was arrested for, but he hasn't been convicted of anything. But I'm sure you're going to suddenly pretend everytime black men are arrested it's based on factual reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:11 PM
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It's no coincidence you and the other person said the same thing. It's a talking point that has been fed to you, an "issue" that in no way affects women or forces you to take any action. So a cop out to use to pretend you care about men, in which not a single man has asked you to take up the mantle for. It's like a man saying the women issue they chose to tackle being public breastfeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:10 PM
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But is a man's choice if they want to invite a woman to a date the one who invites, pays the bills, its a fact and the golden rule. Right. So women use their beauty to be lazy and lacking in initiative when dating, forcing men to do all the work and in turn do all the paying and taking all the risk. Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:07 PM
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Objectively false. College was pushed pretty heavily on pretty much anyone who went through public schools in the past 15-20 years. Now you're moving goalposts and shitting on yourself. You were originally complaining about an issue that had encompassed numerous generations and now you're attributing the issue to the last few decades. And different schools have different focuses. Some schools are for performance arts, some for trades, some for STEM. Different schools and different districts push…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:55 PM
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The "not treating women as human" slogan that people like you sling is just stupid, especially how you referenced it. How is discipline someone not treating them as human? What gets disciplined that isn't human? Do you discipline books? Have you ever disciplined your shoes? Red pillers telling men to leverage your wealth to treat women how they WOULDN'T want to be treated. Yeah that's what people do. For example women leverage their beauty to treat men how they don't want to be treated. They mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:42 PM
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This dumb ass post is a lot to tackle, kinda encompasses the lack of focus and direction of the average zoomer and milennial. Boomers didn't push for college, milennials used college as a bandaid to substitute for hard work. Particularly women. People act like getting a degree mean automatic economic success. That's why online college blew up the way it did. The lack of plans and intentional career choices is what killed us, not boomers and not college. Feminism is largely to blame too. Secondly…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:06 PM
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I don't know what fantasy would you live in but women are not saying that about Rich men. You guys just make narratives up I've personally seen this narrative numerous times when athletes and celebrities were hit with false accusations. I've also seen it when an article was posted about men in the Hamptons getting vasectomies in order to avoid women stealing their sperm to get pregnant. Hell, search for posts around the web about when Drake put hot sauce in his used condom, you'll see women sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:26 PM
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This is taken out of context. They are saying nothing more than women have to own some responsibility in their outcomes. People seem to understand this concept when it comes to men but not women. When the question of false rape accusations against rich men come up, women say that they should stop having casual sex with randoms and stop being promiscuous. Only to turn around and say that women aren't able to avoid going into men's rooms alone with supposedly no intentions of having sex. There is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:15 PM
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Women only argue stereotypes in modern time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:21 AM
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The didn't instigate anything. They demand anyone that comes on their show to respect the platform and listen. If they don't do it, they get kicked off. There have been many tough but good conversations on the show when everyone is cooperative and respectful. These ladies weren't, if black women feel they aren't being represented well or set up, it doesn't do them any favors to play into the trap. All they did was confirm stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:29 PM
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Ding ding ding!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:53 PM
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As someone married to an ex model, if this ends I can promise you the next woman I deal with will be average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:08 AM
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Where my feedback is narrowly pointed towards is this minority of extreme RP men who think that they are god’s gift to all women because they make $100k and are maybe 5’11”. You’re not all THAT special. You're contradicting yourself. Even if this man was puffing their chest out, which is unlikely and I bet you can't find a man doing this realistically, how do you know he's not special based on his local population?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:15 PM
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Respect is earned, not owed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:03 PM
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Rp men don't shame promiscuous women, we just don't want to wife them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:02 AM
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You're trying to convince yourself this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:57 AM
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This makes me.think of the American capitalist dream. Everyone think they can win the game crushing them and become Elon Musk, therefore they don't want it to change and engage in it when actually, they have 99,99% chances to lose and just be miserable. Apex fallacy in action. Fellas it's either Elon Musk or homeless on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:55 AM
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By earned your submission you mean "paid" for your submission. You should submit because you know the man will lead you to prosperity. If you think he will but won't follow because he hasn't paid for it, then you're just going to end up single, broke and in disarray anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:14 AM
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a man who wants a girl to make her own money but still wants to be the “leader” I guarantee you've never came across this in real life. Being a leader is something a man falls into, not something they sit around and discuss with a woman. Even if you did, being a leader isn't contingent on paying for stuff, it's contingent on having your life together, taking accountability and being rational. Just like there are men who make all the money but let their women take the wheel, women need to compreh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:54 PM
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The one that got away is pretty different than alpha widows. The one that got away actually requires a relationship of some kind. Women are alpha widowed just from dating or having sex with alphas. Or even just getting attention. If a slightly above average woman got hit on by a celebrity, that's the baseline for who hits on her in the future. The one that got away doesn't necessitate a high value person. It could just be someone that puts up with a terrible person's shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:44 PM
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I take any happiness study with a grain of salt. Modern narcissism causes miserable people to project faux happiness to the world in order to validate the choices that got them to where they are. You can easily tell people who are single and sexless, they'll very soon tell you how happy they are traveling, eating and living by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:54 PM
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Getting a well paying job is the first step to getting a woman. Get into TRP content and you'll be on your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:21 PM
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Women's agency is victimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:44 PM
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You will never be falsely accused of SA. And if you actually commit it you'd never actually be prosecuted for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:42 PM
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Violence is one of the most logical things in history. There is a reason every single animal on the planet resorts to it one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:53 PM
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I don't think anyone debates this. Whore are awesome. We just ain't wifeing any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:10 PM
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Very true. Which is why women say they won't "settle" ad nauseum for a man who offers literally the same things they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:30 PM
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Somehow, naming my own email small dick energy is a great insult to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:46 PM
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I'm not going to lie the argument you presented is dumb as fuck. The point you're trying to make may have some validity but you're presented like an idiot. Men absolutely can be a good investment but just like any other investment, there are good bets and bad bets. The problem with women is they're interested in investing in penny stocks than US treasuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:50 AM
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What is a "top" woman? When people discuss red pill they're not talking about fucking Joe Biden. The whataboutisms are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:47 AM
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It doesn't matter if the people at the top are men or women, they don't represent anyone but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:56 PM
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This is exactly why MGTOW is important. This post demonstrates how the people at the top gamble with men's lives for their own agenda, and at the end of the day when the men die off all that's left is the powerful to have their pick of the litter with the women and either enjoy the spoils of war, or get rich with the economic upside of post war assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:36 PM
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That second frame should be her looking away. Women are seriously a hot mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:03 PM
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So to counter the idea of an entire sub of men telling women to be accountable, you post an obscure video of a man supposedly mad someone wouldn't fuck him as proof men don't like women vetting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:13 PM
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It balances out because so many men that used to assume they'd just get a wife by going through the motions What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:09 PM
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The balance of attention between the sexes remain the same. Not really. Many men are starting to check out of the game entirely and on the flip side women, due to social media, are providing more attention to the top 20 percent. There is a reason women today are the most miserable in history. The typical levels of validation from are evaporating, which is why average women do so much complaining that men are dating as much as they used to and not approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:06 PM
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Not anymore which is the problem. Women of today are doing things that make them less valuable and there is a cognitive dissonance when men don't value them anymore. Which is essential putting them on par with men as far are worth hierarchies. For example look at the women who want to be sexually liberated but get mad at the men they want not accepting them for it. A sexually liberated woman is about as worthless to as male cashier to a HVM and they can't handle it. This is despite the privilege…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:57 PM
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You must be conflating ideas because no man gets mad at women for vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:51 PM
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Men don't need sex for validation, we're just biologically predisposed to want lots of sex. You're also comparing one guy to an entire society of women. Women in 2022 are the most miserable in history. Ironically the unhappiness of women corresponds to women getting more power and influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:51 PM
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That's because the women's perspective is self victimization and ignoring accountability. No one in the real world is going to sacrifice their own self interest in order to protect you from yourself. Manosphere preps men to be what women truly desire instead of a simp that women say they want only to exploit. The answer to that is to simply stop exploiting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:02 PM
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Men seem to innately think of themselves, each other and masculinity in general as a disgusting and corrosive force. Add in a massively overinflated sense of their own value and women no longer willing or having to put up with their shit and we get... this. This sounds like women actually. There is no force more fragile than female femininity. You live for moment to moment validation. The minute you don't get it, everyone in your vicinity is scorched. Which is the reason society if trending the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:57 PM
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Men don't want women more than women want men. Men want the average woman more than the average woman wants the average man, but women also want the top man more than the average man wants any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:23 PM
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So you've never come across a hot woman who wasn't a match but still wanted to bang her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:25 AM
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Oftentimes, law enforcement training on sexual violence is inadequate and perpetuates misinformation about false reporting (Archambault, 2005). This is called conjecture, this isn't scientific. Which is the issue with any statistics related to sexual assault. Statistics are often mixed with assumptions in order to paint a narrative. False reports can't "tend to be inflated" if there are no scientific methods to prove they're valid in the first place. Going by the statistics presented in your art…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:26 PM
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You ignore the part right before that; To date, much of the research conducted on the prevalence of false allegations of sexual assaults is unreliable because of inconsistencies with definitions and methods
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:25 AM
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Only like 9% of reported sexual assaults lead to conviction (if I did the math right, here's a source How many of these reported sexual assaults have validity to where they should be convicted?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:21 AM
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Also just being at the gym and seeing accomplishments does a lot to confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:38 PM
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No shit. But having a frame filled out with muscle opposed to fat makes your clothes fit better and is more attractive to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:33 PM
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I'm married to a very attractive woman who got hit up by athletes all the time in her 20s. I can say I'm above average in looks. I can say without a shadow of a doubt if I divorce the next woman will be extra average. Not due to the attention or anything, but due to the entitlement and solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:39 AM
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Women can maintain value, they just can't maintain all of it. So the best they can do is maximize value. It's like a car, nothing will ever make your Honda accord as valuable as it was when you drove off the lot. But if you keep up on the maintenance and avoid accidents you'll get the most you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:46 AM
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And you dont think theres some men out there with outrageous stipulations to their relationships with women? Like the men who require their wife to cook, clean, etc? Lol a man expecting their woman to cook and clean is outrageous to you??? Jesus the bar is in hell. And no, I don't think many men expect that in 2022. Men as a whole expect little more than a woman not look like Garfield and have a pulse. I was actually buying into what you were saying before this, now I think you're a bit delusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:41 AM
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Like I said it's something you pick up the more you deal with women and people as a whole. You remember in high school how the virgin guys moved completely different then the dudes you knew were just slaying all the girls? From how she interacts with men, to the organization and condition of the things in her life, the types of validation she seeks, the places she hang, the views she holds, how up front she is, etc. Women are different so there is no one size fits all. But over time you'll see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:35 AM
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Have you ever been in a dating situation where if you, for example went 50/50 she would have never dated you anymore? Or one where if you didn't spend enough money or invested enough there was no chance at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:59 AM
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They do, you just seem obvious to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:30 AM
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All of this is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:57 AM
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Men don't tell women they value anything else because women don't want to be valued for anything else. They don't want to be valued for their chastity, cooking, cleaning, accountability, ability to provide, initiation, etc. So you tell me what tangible things a man should value a woman for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:56 AM
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You're an absolutely terrible debater. You literally just accused u/peteypete78 of putting words in your mouth refusing to acknowledge your own implications, only to turn around and disengenously do the same thing with even more assumptions. I hope you get some pussy out of this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:53 AM
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Why would you expect me to share my reward? If I give you money to go on a shopping spree as a reward for meeting my standards, how silly would it be for me to expect you to spend half of it on me? Women want to have your cake and eat it to. Either see sex as a reciprocal act in which you don't use it as a carrot on a stick, or see it as a manipulation tactic that the man uses for his benefit once gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:46 AM
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how on earth is the guy supposed to be able to tell the woman's sexual history in order to make his decision based on it? As you get older you grow discernment. I can tell if a woman gets around within a few minutes of talking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:07 PM
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It’s called being the bigger person. These women definitely live by this rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:55 PM
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What exactly are you doing? Does bitching on reddit count?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:10 PM
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All you have to do is take a quick trip to r/datingoverthirty or r/datingoverforty to see how there is some reality here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:07 PM
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this is stupid, people don’t just up and decides what or who they are attracted to, You say this but why is it you see fat, ugly, broke people who can get together with their counterparts? I'm sure a 4 in looks is attractive to a 10 but they aren't dumb enough to go after one, yet average women happen to be the only people on the planet who can't muster up the ability to be attracted to men on their level?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:00 PM
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This is true. But it's not that women should be settling for someone they're not attracted to, it's realizing the man you're settling for is your equal and you need to calibrate what you're attracted to. I tell women this constantly. If you want a new benz but you work at McDonald's, you're not settling because you can only afford a 2001 camry. You need to learn to appreciate what you can afford or get on the bus and have nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:10 PM
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Because it takes the power away from women who have to start providing more to men than a means to get off a nut. Before men would have to put up with all sorts of bad behavior and abuse to get off and porn has allowed men to be more selective and self preserving
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:02 AM
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Lol if you think so. When you deal with women and grow older you acquire discernment. I knew my wife was a virgin literally after the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:25 AM
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Women realize this, that's the point. Women's advice for men is always blue pill because they want the average man to be a simp so they can exploit them for resources, attention and preferential treatment. They know the alpha males naturally are red pill and will act in their own interests regardless, making them attractive nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:11 AM
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Most men don't have never had the opportunity to be heartbroken by Stacy. And it's not that men don't like doormats or go after bad women. A woman being attractive and put on a pedestal her entire life makes her develop a complex which makes her a Stacy, and men go after attractive women. On the flip side women who aren't that attractive are more likely to be a doormat to attractive men because submissions is natural from women to men they value. An attractive doormat is just as holy grail and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:43 PM
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I've really come to learn over the years that women truly want men to be their lap dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:20 PM
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Women's preferences are considered bad literally everywhere. The lies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:13 PM
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There is a reason lesbian relationships have the highest domestic violence rates by a large margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:11 AM
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Self esteem is how you perceive yourself. You're not hearing me. Self esteem is how you perceive yourself, which is majority based on how other perceive you. No one likes the things about themselves that other people don't. The people with the highest self esteem have the most traits that are acceptabled by society as a whole. There are people who are beautiful but are stupid, or fear how people perceive them behind the beauty, and are insecure. Fat people don't truly think they're beautiful, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:28 AM
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That's not true. Self esteem comes from within, which is why beautiful people can be insecure and ugly people can be confident. You're proving my point, no one said it ends at attractiveness. Self esteem comes how others perceive us as a whole, it encompasses more than beauty and includes intelligence, social acceptance, skills, etc. The only way you're going to like what you see in the mirror is if other people approve of it. No one likes what they see in the mirror if no one else likes it. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:11 AM
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It's not about knowing what women want, it's about the logic behind human behavior. If you're taking an action so more people can find you attractive and gain more self esteem, the underlying tone is social acceptance. Not self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:53 AM
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It was found in the last few years that most women do it because they enjoy the ritualistic aspect to it and self-expression If it was about self expression, then women would experiment more with it opposed to doing the same styles that highlight what men like about women's facial features. They would contour their cheeks to be fatter than thinner. They would darken their faces instead of brighten it. They would make their noses appear wider opposed to narrow. Same with lips, eyebrows, etc. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:25 AM
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The only way a woman does superficial things for themselves is if it goes against favorable mainstream attributes. For example if a woman dresses Goth or in baggy clothes to hide her figure. Or get a breast reduction not due to pain. If a woman does something that's preferred mainstream in order to make herself "feel better", the reason she feels better is because she knows the majority of people like it. A woman who feels insecure with small breasts get implants to make herself feel good, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:05 AM
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The reason why they're doing "better" is because of their embrace of capitalism. Liberals are like a cult with critical thinking skills of goldfish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:56 AM
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You having your head so far up your ass that you think it works well in China exemplifies why people stay as far away from leftism as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:54 AM
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I don't think this idea that men aren't happy being single just because of violence from a couple of disturbed individuals is based in reality. This narrative is nothing more than more mainstream misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:32 PM
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Most of the women on here are just saying - don’t pretend you want a romantic relationship if you know up front you only want sex. Men don't pretend to want romantic relationships, women assume just because we're having sex that you're eligible for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:11 PM
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I hate when women say "this unilaterally benefial trait is my preference". That's not a preference that's you trying to exploit men due to their desperation and socialization. That's like me saying "my preference is women that can take it down to the balls, make me a sandwich after finishing me off then leave without saying a word and ask for nothing".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/22 06:13 PM
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The idea of dressing this up as a preference is putting lipstick on a pig. People associate with traits and attributes that they think are the best. Women don't want a tall man because height fits her lifestyle better. They want tall men because they see them as superior to shorter men. Just like lower N count women are superior to women that get around. The difference is men are forced to accept their realities while women have people helping them hide from how their choices affect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:39 AM
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Men ALWAYS equate a womans worth to some commodity in the world and that right there is dehumanizing and in turn misogynistic. Women are not objects, we are human... just like you. We as human beings are commodities whether you don't want to accept it or not because what we have to offer is subject to supply and demand just like a widget would be. Vagina is a commodity, attention is a commodity, providership is a commodity. And the value of that commodity changes based on the market and the envi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:34 AM
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Women really don't respect you unless you treat them and talk to them like they're disposable. The absolute best compliance I've ever gotten from women were those who I treated like nothing more than fwbs, even if it started off with them holding the power balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:44 PM
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"a 6 yo rubbed a booger on me in daycare and momma said get over it, because of that now I let a 30yo BF roundhouse kick me when I overcook the chicken." Yeah I'm not buying it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:13 AM
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There is a reason lesbian relationships have by a large margin the highest levels of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:58 AM
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I totally agree with this. The people saying "it happened to me" are probably lying to avoid the accountability of ignoring the red flags that led them to these situations. A lot of times the women also contribute to the toxic environment that leads to mutual abuse, but don't recognize it from their side because in their heads there is no such thing as abusing a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:58 AM
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Making people feel better doesn't make their lives better as you put it. Trying to force people to accept the delusions of other people doesn't make them happy, it makes them frustrated. And it makes trans people more suicidal. So how is society better in this scenario? The fact that you can't comprehend that is exactly why people are antiprogressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:43 PM
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That’s also why TRP and the alt-right are both rooted in anti-modernism and are both anti-progressive. They just can’t fathom the idea that society could be a better place for all of us No, they're both antiprogressive because progressivism isn't trying to make life better, you're trying to make everyone feel better, which leads to overall misery for everyone. I. E. let's all pretend that trans people are the actual sex they want to be. That will humanize them. Also trans people have the highest…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:03 AM
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No it won't, there are thousands of women turning 21 every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:29 PM
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You notice how anything in the interest of men is contrary to the interest of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:05 PM
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It comes from mideval women who supported themselves through weaving. Insert calculating gif
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:43 AM
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Just own up to the fact you don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:11 AM
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The idea that women were unable to support themselves is false. Marriage rates have never been 100 percent. And unmarried women didn't starve to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:10 AM
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How did men create the issue, you think women are hypergamous because men told them to be, opposed to genetics? Let's use our brains here. And how is it "better"? All women have some form of sexual currency. Most men don't have enough resources to share, or even for themselves. Do women even attempt to think about the world from a holistic standpoint or is one sided victimization the standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:59 AM
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Neither is being seen as a thing existing for someone else to exploit your resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:32 AM
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You're the type of person who thinks repeating a scary word like racism will end an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:54 AM
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If someone WANTS to be gendered, why not just let them be? Why not just let people identify with gender in the biological sense? There is no reason to dismantle social constructs around gender just to appease to people with a mental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:44 AM
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I've been physically attacked in some form or fashion by every woman I've been in a relationship with. It's very normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:20 PM
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Name men who are just nice and are considered a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:54 AM
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Women's perception of standards are disengenous because they're build around the apex fallacy. Even in this thread you see women playing stupid saying you just need not be a rapist. Yet if I put Flava Flav or a 5'3" man in front of them they'd probably gag. The bar is on the floor for the men who they think they're entitled to, which would he one who's better than her in every instance. But for the man who's her equal, she's going to look for any minute detail to disqualify him. The bar is on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:13 AM
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No it's not. It's considered emasculating to be sacrificial to a woman who isn't giving anything back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:09 AM
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Only in America is not being a pig considered an impossible standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:05 AM
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This point is pretty silly to be honest. Nobody is skill at absolutely everything, and people doing things that they aren't expected to will garner a response because of its rarity not because the bar is low. For example, instances of a woman taking accountability go viral because it's so rare. Bit because no one wants you to but because society doesn't expect you to. If there was a video of a woman fixing a roof would that mean the bar is low for her? Or changing a tire? Or washing a car? Or ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:02 AM
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Not all the time but my wife was recruited by a modeling agency associated with Victoria Secret actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:52 AM
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Supermodels aren't meant to appeal to the male gaze. They're meant to sell stuff to women. What women need to do is stop thinking their useless opinions on a gender you don't have sexual attraction to should be reflected in men. Women's perception on attraction is usually a projection of their own social agendas and perspectives. Ours is based on what makes our dick hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:45 PM
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Yup. And these social media personalities play into this dynamic because they know the overwhelmingly majority of women are living vicariously through other people online. So it's a race to create the perfect lifestyle for women to project onto.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:37 PM
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There are broke and unattractive guys out there who are good partners, but there are also broke and unattractive men who are awful partners (same for attractive men). And believe it or not, there are women who claim they know their worth and will never settle who are all terrible mates and people. I actually looked at the post history of a couple women from this forum who stated something about never settling, and every single one of them had posts that revealed mental illness, personality disor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:34 PM
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In real life dating is nonexistent, marriage is at historic lows and women are having sex with a small number of men. Around 30 percent of men have had sex within the last year. If you think this is isolated to online then you need to get your head out of the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:22 PM
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I’ve never heard the women I know say any of those things. Except maybe the don’t settle and know your worth thing, but in that case it’s not about money or looks but when talking about men who mistreat you, cheat don’t give you the same effort you give them...etc. It's always about money and looks because guess what, a woman can go out and get a broke unattractive man to treat them exactly how they want them to if they wanted to. But they don't want those men, they want to be treated like a que…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:38 PM
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There definitely is a cultural component of it. But let's not play stupid and act like these aren't tropes you see frequently in any dating forum or sub, on dating shows and media and especially on this forum alone. Feminism alone tells women that men are enemies who are trying to oppress you at every chance. The minute I would hear a woman say "I know my worth", I knew what kind of woman she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:38 PM
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I respect this perspective. The thing is most women already express the equivalent of my posting history naturally. Look at how mainstream "men ain't shit", any man who doesn't glorify me is a fuckboy, and feminist rhetoric is. The overwhelmingly majority of women say the same tropes like never settle, don't chase men, I'm the prize, I know my worth, and all women practice hypergamy openly and easily. So in reality, any woman you date especially in 2022 is already going to have my posting histor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:08 PM
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Although I agree I think social media is the biggest culprit. Just like people think porn has given men unrealistic expectations on sex, social media has given women unrealistic expectations on social aspects of life. Women want to live what they see people pretending to do on social media, and of course they want men to do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:09 PM
5

Women hate the manosphere because it teaches them not to put women on a pedestal. Every mainstream social application tells men to sacrifice themselves for the woman's benefit. TRP is the first thing to every challenge women's stronghold on social privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:55 PM
2

Men don't pick bad as much as they take whatever they can get and because of feminism, it's likely to be bad regardless. But men with options do pick bad often but when they do, there isn't a large scale victimization campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:16 PM
2

So your car breaks down, you should have picked a better car? Yes. What's so hard to comprehend about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:13 PM
8

Women like you want to be able to pick the most exciting toxic man then get coddled when it blows up in your face. It doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:55 PM
-1

Because he's good at his job?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:28 AM
0

They got them, not knowing it would do more harm than good The only harm thy was done was to the left. Most of us had quite a great life under Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:26 AM
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The average woman is broke and in debt and will never be able to afford to retire. Don't get it twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:11 AM
3

But that's all they offer up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:55 PM
2

I can bet money she never responds to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:04 AM
-1

Even if this was true, only in America is "be the weight you biologically should be at" is a high standard. Nowadays men appreciate thick women so this is still a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:24 AM
8

"I'm not looking for a grown child" - a woman who's being taken care of like a grown child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/22 05:18 PM
1

That's like telling someone they have to choose being ran over by a dump truck or a fire truck, then when they complain about being squished saying it's too bad since it was their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:44 PM
3

These men are settling for women that they are repulsed by I actually agree with this. But thats only because modern women are generally repulsive and we have no other choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:21 PM
3

Attractive people can also be awful people. I'd go out in a limb and say unattractive people are more likely to be awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:18 PM
1

People SHOULD have self confidence. People SHOULD be confident that they are attractive enough and/or likeable enough for most people out there. Self confidence isn't also synonymous with arrogance or being an asshole either. Self confidence also isn't synonymous with thinking you're entitled to the best of anything. The women on this sub don't realize they're trying to compensate for their inadequacy through their dating practices. No amount of standards will make up for the fact that most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:16 PM
2

This is ironic considering you expect a man to not feel some type of way when they're settled for. More hypocrisy from PPD women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:11 PM
16

I hope you're not this gullible in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:57 PM
0

Dating isn't fun for women when they're running out of time and when they're running out of time and when they're attractive enough to get attention but not attractive enough to get the high value attention they truly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:57 PM
1

Where did I say that's all they are? Also notice how you didn't mind the part about how women only view men as resources but complained about the other side of that coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:16 PM
1

Do you know what misogyny means? Please look it up and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:06 AM
-8

Only on PPD can facts be "borderline delusional".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:20 PM
-7

The point being that overweight for men is different than overweight for women. Go to your local gym and all the men in the weight room are statistically overweight. On the flip side all the women that are statistically overweight are just fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:18 PM
-1

They do if they meet the financial requirements of women. Men provide lifestyle and women provide image. Many women would happily date bigger rich men just like many men would gladly date broke beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:52 PM
-10

You realize that every male professional athlete on the planet is considered overweight, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:47 PM
-1

Yep, they have an attitude of “not my problem it’s harder to make you orgasm than me”, which is shitty. It's not that. It's moreso that women treat sex as the only thing they care to offer men in return for meeting their own high standards. So if that's my "reward" for courting you and catering to your emotions, then why would I need to make it something to benefit you? Does buying you flowers benefit me personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:31 AM
2

I would bet my left nut that as a whole women commit more violent crimes against men than men do against women. Because violent crimes against men aren't seen as crimes. Hell, Amber Hurd is the only person recorded admitting to abusing Depp and yet people still try to make her out to be a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:26 AM
1

The responses to your posts really show how there is always some excuse or deflection when it's time for a woman to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:54 AM
1

It’s not a two way street. I’m good at sex because I’ve put a lot of effort into learning how to please a partner. All women think they're good at sex. The overwhelmingly majority of you suck at it and don't think just because men tell you that you're amazing means it's the truth. Men lie about it to feed your ego and keep those legs open.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:21 PM
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Seems to be more lowlife, deadbeat men than not, hence my original statement. Yeah. Women sure do know how to pick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:43 AM
10

Most likely out there being the lowlife they are. Which is exactly why you don't have kids by lowlifes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:09 AM
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Most men aren't built to lead if we're going by that criteria. Sure modern men most definitely aren't. They've been raised in single household by useless women and in a gynocentric culture so they lack the accountability and skills themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:38 AM
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Women aren't built to lead because leadership requires accountability. Women don't even want to be held accountable for consenting to sex. They want men to be able to read their minds and figure out when they want it or not. That doesn't bode well for being a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:02 AM
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That's because men's aim in life is to pair with women, and their advice reflects that. Women's aim in life is to exploit men, and of course their advice reflects that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:17 PM
0

So women have no problem saying "men are trash" publicly without any repercussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:21 PM
2

If overt misogyny is a negative, why do women think overt misandry is cute and acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:28 PM
1

I didn't mean that as a personal attack towards you. But moreso the reality that if a man isn't having success he knows his shortcomings even if that doesn't stop him from trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:47 PM
1

You think I'm about to go to work digging for post to disprove your delusion?? You need to leave the crack alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:33 PM
0

I've had years of singledom, but I never really thought about or needed to wonder why people don't want me. This says a lot about the female mentality in my mind. Women seem to think that acceptance is a born right and if you're not accepted, it's society that's glitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:26 PM
1

Absolutely wrong. Women are absolutely reliable to men who they see as valuable. But if you're just an average man and she just wants a little attention, you're about as fungible as a homeless man on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:23 PM
1

Is this your first time on the sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:22 PM
2

No, everyone only deserves to be loved to the effort and extent that they love. If you have a shitty, weak expression of loving then that at most what you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:21 PM
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Guys who act misogynistic who get laid are laid because they're hot not because they're misogynistic. It's a combination of both. Women value men who stand out, is better than them and show dominant traits. In a gynocentric society, a man who values himself more than women stands out and is implicitly saying I'm more valuable than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:18 PM
2

No. A woman who can't get a man she wants is the equivalent to a man who can't get a woman period.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:34 PM
3

Only an idiot would act like flint Michigan is the only place to compare Manchester to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:49 PM
3

Only to idiots who think SF, NYC, and LA are the only cities in the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:29 PM
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I don’t get dates because I don’t want them. Yeah, and I'm not a billionaire because I want to avoid all the supermodels who would be trying to sleep with me for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:52 PM
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You can tell looking at someone and watching how they act and looking at their possessions if they have money or not. LOL you have the slightest idea what you're talking about, you have never been around money before have you? This is the case of not recognizing new money vs old money. My neighbor is a anesthesiologist and you can tell he has money by his lifestyle, he's also a bachelor and came from nothing. Another neighbor is a Kroger heir with a family and you couldn't tell he has millions o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:12 PM
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No you don't. You see some, but I live on the south side of Chicago and I see more down here in poor areas than in river north and downtown. For an example in my friends group I know a manager at Amazon, a girl who's father is a Russian oligarch, a lawyer at Michelle Obama's old law firm, two other lawyers, banker, me and my wife work in finance earning 6 figs+ and one of the top insurance saleswomen in the country and the top vehicle any of us own is a xc60. Every other person owns a Subaru, Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:10 PM
2

Go to the nearest neighborhood in your town with million dollar houses and see what cars are in the driveway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:49 PM
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You don't know the socioeconomic status of any of these men. They may be average in looks in your opinion, but they also may be top percentile income wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:36 PM
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Done
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:55 AM
1

I didn't mean her personally, I meant you as "women"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:49 PM
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i mean we do know most men value nothing about us other than our pussy. that's not our fault. That's toxic masculinity. Do women have anything else valuable to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:45 AM
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Men don't pretend they want a relationship and only want pussy. What happens is women don't have what it takes to retain a man after they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:34 PM
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I will say that I have seen way more couples of a beautiful women with an ugly guy than I have seen of gorgeous men with an ugly girl. Have you seen those women without makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:08 PM
1

We can feed ourselves. We just want to know if you can do It. And we can handle our own "emotional labor", we just want to make sure capable of doing it for when our children need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:57 PM
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In many modern relationships men make the same as women...I don't know why you think they can contribute more than 50% Even when women make the same as men, they still philosophically believe men need to pay for the large bills while women pay for the small ones. And the idea that it's women handling emotional labor even though they can't even take accountability for feeding themselves half the time is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:08 PM
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Modern lifestyles men's that traditional male tasks ends up being less than 50:50. Modern lifestyles dictate that men pay more than 50 percent financially. So they expect it to be made up for with domestic duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:24 PM
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A relationship where things aren't panning out because she feels the man isn't doing his part IS a bad relationship. Exactly. And HIS part is spending all of his money and doing all of the work for little return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:59 PM
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The thing is that women consider any relationship where a man isn't taking all the risks, making all the sacrifices and sacrificing his own standards a "bad" relationship. An average woman with an average man is a bad relationship to modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:24 PM
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That "study" consisted of a very small sample of women and wasn't scientific. Across the board every real study shows women are the unhappiest they've been in generations. Antidepressant use is the highest it's ever been and studies actually show that the most unhappy demographic on the planet is the middle aged, unmarried woman with a career. It's not me who need to accept reality it's women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:22 AM
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You're leaving out the at the expense of the emotional health of womem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:24 AM
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This is kinda dumb. Casual sex isn't supposed to benefit you emotionally. It's a physical activity. And the question is why do you think casual sex should benefit you emotionally. Women have casual sex with men who are out of their leagues. It's a way to negotiate for attention you're not entitled to. Just like men will go all out for dates with a woman who's out of his league. My question is why are there always so many studies on women and how stuff isn't beneficial for them. I've never in my …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:28 PM
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I agree whole heartedly with this op. Women have traditional expectations for men and modern entitlement for themselves. They need to start approaching, empathizing with men, being conscious of what they bring to the table and understanding that their actions have to reflect the reverence they expect men to hold them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:46 PM
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I don’t think that’s what studies show. They show that single women are usually happier, and that women do more of the work in relationships. No, what studies show is that women say in polls they're happier. Women's egos would never allow them to say they're unhappy being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:57 PM
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Just another form of the ever present lack of female accountability. Please hold the guys I'm fucking instead of you accountable for me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:16 AM
1

Begging the question fallacy has no purpose in this argument. If you aren't hitting anyone then no one should be hitting you either. The question is if you are hitting your partner, why do you feel entitled to a partner that doesn't hit you? If you aren't living up to the standards of men, why should they live up to your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:01 PM
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Yeah. We were screwing for almost a year. Sooner or later she fell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:13 PM
1

There's no way you can be this dense. Reread it and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:11 PM
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If she realizes you have tangible value that she wants to extract, she'll make you wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:24 AM
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I used to have a Fwb who rarely gave me head because she said an ex she hated used to make her do it too much. This is the same woman who swore she loved me more than anyone ever and wanted to marry me. Women have structured sex services based on how valuable the validation is from the man they're screwing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:11 AM
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There is no such thing as a pickme girl. It's literally an online myth. Much like Bigfoot before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:22 PM
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The fact that you claimed he was an MRA for no reason shows you only "don't care" not because you believe he's lying or amber is telling the truth, but to prevent him from going against your narrative. It's always great when the femcel expose themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:21 PM
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Two reasons. One because not paying shows self respect, which women admire even if it's at the expense of their free meal. And two because more like than not the women who you felt the need to pay for were higher value and your chances were lower, and the ones you couldn't care less about were more average and your chances were higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:04 PM
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Ons - person you had sex with out of convenience. Fuck buddy - a person you only have sexual compatibility with so you have sex with repeatedly out of convenience. Fwb - person you actually have a personal compatibility with and would possibly date if not for a lack of compatibility or circumstances. Relationship - person you have emotional and personal compatibility with and circumstances match up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:47 PM
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Simple to answer. What is the idea behind "a real man" or saying a man isn't man enough? Literally dehumanization, on the basis of man not having free will to do what he wants. The minute a man does something for his own benefit a woman is told to leave him. Go to any dating forum on reddit. Women objectify in dating on basis of attributes the way women claim men do sexually. Women see men as nothing more than checklists half the time, and a means of validation. 6 feet, check. 6 figures, check. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:34 PM
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To be blunt, men don’t seem to try that hard. This is literally, literally another aspect to the mentality the OP was talking about. The top percentile of men don't try too hard. The avergae man definitely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:37 PM
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The problem with women is that when they list standards they intentionally leave them ambiguous to avoid criticism. An example of this is when women say they want someone "attractive". They don't say what that entails for them because more often than not, it's top percentile. Same thing when they say "successful". Are we talking 100k or corporate lawyer successful? Something else that makes the standards unrealistic is how they correlate with what you offer. Historically women provided image and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:08 PM
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The math just doesn't add up. It really does. An unlimited number of men can pass around a set number of women, then marry the woman who wasn't passed around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:47 PM
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Absolutely. Because if you want to draw this asinine example out, the issue is that women aren't assessing their own behavior and positions in life to understand the results they're experiencing. So if you're only getting men who hit you, and the reason they're hitting you is because you hit them first, then yes, a standard of "doesn't hit me" is too high because you don't have that same standard for yourself. Just like fat women who want bodybuilders Or broke women who want rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:43 PM
1

Women hate when their men find pleasure and entertainment in things that don't relate to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:45 PM
1

Capitalism doesn't argue what "great" or not. Capitalism is about efficiency and maximization, even if there are inherent societal quandries about it. That's what makes it a math. Comparative advantage has throughout history literally proven what you'd read about it in an economics book. You're complaining about the moral aspects of it. No one cares about your moral compass. I'm not sure what you don't comprehend about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:00 PM
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See now you're just arguing perspectives and opinions not arguments. You won't find the concept of outsourcing being "great" in an economics textbook. I'm not sure what you mean about your last point. You don't think working hard will help you get ahead in a capitalist society? Do you really have a coherent point to provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:32 PM
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There are no myths in capitalism, it's been around for so long all scenarios have played out. It's a math at this point, not a theology like socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:00 PM
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You have men here who have never been in a relationship and didn’t grow up with a father in the home telling you that men do equal housework and child rearing as women. And you have women here who have never cooked for a man, never been in a relationship and grew up without a father talking about women do all the housework and child rearing. Women know their position of power is victimization. So women will always claim they're over worked when most sit on their ass on Twitter all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:46 AM
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Because most women are lazy and work less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:45 AM
2

You wish that, don't you? It'll be around for longer than you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:44 AM
1

No, capitalism is a way of life. Socialism is a religion, just like religion it's a ideology entirely based on theory and faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:44 AM
1

This way of thinking is dangerous isn't it? Sometimes women aren't transparent when they do go on dates that sex is off the table, or that they're not sexually attracted to the man. Does that mean men owe women sex according to your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:33 PM
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And then they get mad when you turn around and say "men don't owe you priority, men don't owe you dates, men don't owe you relationship, men don't owe you marriage", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:57 PM
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Because men have more to lose in divorce and women usually come up. So when things aren't going their way they run to the court house while men just stop performing their duties and start cheating, enticing women to file.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:48 PM
1

Did you read your own backup. Also, do you cook for your man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:13 AM
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This isn't reality any more. Most of the women who argue this point have never even cooked for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:50 AM
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I, a qualified applicant, was not simply handed a scholarship even when my husband with lower grades was offered one in business. Your husband did what it took to get one, you probably thought because you had better grades you were entitled to one. More female entitlement. Those sexist jokes I had to.put up with were preferential treatment?! Who knew? No, the fact that people had lower standards for you and never challenged you like a man were preferential treatment. I'm tuankful for that, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:28 AM
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I mean, they can, but it'll be even harder than it is for a man. No it's not. Men actually have to compete with each other. Women don't, and are coddle by the men in these spaces. You don't think men are interrupted by other men and women in conversations? Are men being incentivized, handed scholarships and preferential treatment just to join programs? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:17 AM
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I did what I was supposed to do. So what's stopping other women from doing what they're supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:49 AM
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interrupting you when you speak If women had as much initiative as they do excuses, you'd be running the world. Who knew being interrupted every once in a while would cause you to settle for a life of mediocre income.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:13 AM
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Guarantee you she won't respond to this dismantling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:03 AM
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If they don’t meet her requirements then they aren’t actually good options. There is a difference between entitlement and requirements. Requirements are something like he has to have a job. Entitlement is something like he has to be a doctor. Just because a man doesn't fulfill a woman's entitlement doesn't mean he isn't a good option. Most women can fulfill their objectives with most men. That's like saying because a car isn't candy apple red it's not a good option to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:23 PM
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So what exactly makes a slim girl unachievable? Do you know what unachievable means? There are plenty of slim or curvy women on the planet. There is no such thing as a woman who looks like a supermodel. That's just a slim, pretty woman. And you've never in your life heard a man say he wants a supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:07 PM
1

Please explain, what is an unachievable preference that the average man would have for a woman? Tell the class.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:23 PM
1

Yup. Especially in relationship forums, women usually can do no wrong, their actions are put in context and no one reads in between the lines of their posts. When the discussion is a man, the worse is always assumed, he has ulterior motives and if he's looking out for his own interest he's a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:57 PM
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The deflection and gaslighting going on in this thread is depressing. It's solely up to non female identified men to change things and be zero tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:10 PM
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Yeah, I've been abused in pretty much every relationship I've ever been in. It's very weird, women will be physically and emotionally abusive and the actions just slide off their back like it didn't happen, being free to make themselves the victim. I know that's how narcissists operate, but women have a way of doing it where in their minds it's like it never even happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:48 PM
3

The single stranger who've approached me in public I was so impressed I would have married her if she didn't smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:11 PM
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Women can be such cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:50 PM
2

The men they want won't bend the knee to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:26 AM
1

You've heard the term "equality to the privileged feels like oppression? That applies to women and criticism. Men in the manosphere hold women accountable for the dumb shit you do. It feels like it's all encompassing just because you've never experienced it. If you act like a logical adult and hold your own actions to the standards you do men, then men would have nothing to criticize you on. Claiming that you're damned if you do and damned if you don't is just another way for you to dodge accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:18 AM
1

I doubt a single man would marry you let alone 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:43 AM
1

This is another disengenous statement. There is a difference between low entitlement and low standards. No man on this forum will judge a woman for not being entitled when dating, but you will be judged for lacking discernment and having a baby by a crackhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:43 AM
1

I'm employed at my profession of choice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:20 AM
1

I’m not saying it’s great for men but I feel women sacrifice a lot after marriage and kids Are you marrying every man who takes you on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:59 AM
0

Are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:57 AM
1

This is very disengenous. Simple dates don't make a man low value. The only low value men women "give a chance" to are Chads who are out of your league, and the only men you require to put tons of work are your equals who you think you're better than.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:57 AM
1

Women make more money than men in metropolitan areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:54 AM
1

despite my qualifications, I get no traction. No offense but maybe you come across as shitty in interviews as you do in this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:53 AM
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The fact that you've convinced yourself that there is a such thing as "looking adult" alone says that you're lying to yourself, let alone that it has anything to do with attraction. What are you getting out of this delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:32 AM
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No you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:10 AM
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Older men who take care of themselves look better than older women that take care of themselves. That's just the reality. Aged features look better on men than they do on women. Grey hair, wrinkles, etc. For the women do look good for their old age, take away the makeup and they'd be exposed. There is nothing wrong with this. Women clearly have the advantage at young ages, men have the advantages at older ages. That's okay. But to deny it is just playing stupid. Most women would probably say act…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:12 PM
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I think men are starting to realize everything women shame or fight against as it relates to the dating market is an attempt to keep things tilted in their favor. If you're doing something legal that women have a problem with, you're doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:39 PM
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Humans are absolutely numbers. You nor anyone else are special. We all mostly have the same motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:51 AM
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There definitely seems to be a significant albeit small percentage of women doing it, but what's concerning imo is the number of women who want to or are trying to. Just looking at sugar forums and the number of basic, normal and below average women who are like "yeah I'm fat and non-binary and whatever other buzzword but how can I get a rich conventional SD?" It just exhibits how entitled and unrealistic women have become in dating. It also shows how women want what other women have, and how mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:29 PM
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The only time women feel pressure to perform is if the man is extremely high value. Then in that case, it's not so much performance as it is submission to the man's sexual desires and fetishes. That's why you see stories of women who when they were chasing Chads they were giving head in public bathrooms and doing anal, then when they marry the beta don't even let him get it doggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:34 PM
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There's the narrative that if he couldn't get hard or cum, it's woman's fault. I can't believe how much y'all lie on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:31 PM
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It's a bit rich to ask this when so many of you complain about high n-count women. I'm my experience, high N count women are absolutely terrible in bed. The idea that experienced women are sex experts is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:30 PM
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What do you mean "by staying behind"? The man is the president, where the hell is he going to go during war?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:06 AM
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That being said, there is nothing hypocritical in wanting something from a partner you do not have yourself, or not being able to fulfill your own standards. Someone doesn't know what hypocrisy actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:24 PM
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He's an example of how the Twitter generation will be when they old enough to become leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:47 PM
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This faux love for zelensky is liberal projection. they're simply using fake positive reinforcement of him standing up to a supposedly conservative mascot under the guise of sexual appeal. It's similar to when women say a man asking for consent is "sexy". It's not the asking that's sexy to them, it's the idea of a man abiding by their feminist/liberal socialization and pretending it's attractive as a way to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:39 PM
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No, you said it's who you attract. A woman may attract a HVM but that doesn't mean he wants her for anything other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:58 PM
5

Exactly!! Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:22 AM
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Put in more effort for what purpose exactly? Regardless if it's a good pic or not, I know exactly what the men look like in each of the pics. I personally respect that more than having nicer pics where I could walk past one of these ladies on the street while staring at this thread and couldn't tell. I think this just shows the difference in the way men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:28 AM
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The men seem more comfortable presenting unadulterated representations of themselves, opposed to the women who have filters, head shots, grainy pics, washed out pics, b&w pics, phone covering a face, etc. Hell one dude is damn there naked yet most of the ladies look like there is Vaseline on the lenses. I give props to the ladies with straight up pics. With that said, lady #5 could get it. To the fellas, get your asses in the gym. My 9 month old got more muscle tone than some of yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:06 AM
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All women who are real estate agents because usually they do it because it's an easy, low effort, low effort hustle. Women in nursing, psychology, childhood education and flight attendants because they're usually promiscuous and think it makes them an expert in the field without putting in the work to be a doctor or psychiatrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:00 PM
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Of course it's anti government and anti censorship. Any male centered support or ideology is censored and the government has proven to be gynocentric at the expense of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:57 PM
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No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:58 AM
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I always say, attentions to a woman is like exp in a RPG. Women allow attention from average and below average men to boost their self esteem and then "level up" to attempt to slay high level bosses, or the high value men and celebrities. If you notice, women will literally not do a single thing to or for a man that doesn't benefit herself. Thats literally the reason they won't pay for dates or fuck men unless they meet certain requirements that do benefit them. Men as a whole need to comprehend…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:31 PM
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Lol what? You sound bitter. No one "seeks" dominant women. Weak men end up with dominant women because they have no other choice. Just like fat women end up with felons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:23 AM
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Yeah, that's called SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:22 AM
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Submissive =/= not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:24 AM
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You're probably asking this because you have a functioning non-toxic family. I thought the same way until I met my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:37 AM
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How you feel about your reflects what others feel about you. People who feel good about themselves, do so about attributes that are valued by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:56 AM
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I encourage you to put down the LSD prior to posting on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:16 AM
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The overwhelmingly majority of men want submissive women even if they don't realize they do because of liberalism or lack of experience. Take one of those men, give him a submissive and a dominant woman in the same package, he'd choose the submissive 9.99/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:16 AM
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I do think there are women who do specific styling solely for self expression and to reflect their mood like Goth for example. But for the very few women that put on makeup to sit around the house, they still do it for the validation they know the makeup represents. I think this is proven by the fact that a woman wouldn't put on some ugly makeup or poorly apply the makeup and sit around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:10 AM
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Driving a Bentley does absolutely nothing more for you than increase your SMV. Absolutely not a thing. For a driver, the driving experience is no different than driving a full size, high end Audi, S-class or even Lexus. The purpose is to let the world know you can afford a Bentley. Just like the purpose of wearing makeup and heels to a funeral is to let the world know you're capable of looking this good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:46 PM
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I'm not sure what where they're going has to do with their intentions. Women want to have their highest SMV regardless of who they're around. Whether it's family, friends or potentials. Hell, I'd argue they want to stunt the most around family due to inherent competition among family members. It's no different than men driving their Bentleys to the golf course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:40 PM
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Are you married? So all those men paid and yet you're still single? Doesn’t sound like a winning strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:23 PM
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Even women who approach men or meet on dating sites expect men to pay. There is nothing more entitled than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:21 PM
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Even women who approach men or meet on dating sites expect men to pay. There is nothing more entitled than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:18 PM
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A lot of women act as if you're coming from a position of power.l when you say this. Most of you are sitting around single, watching reality TV to live vicariously through people who are in relationships, only to run to reddit to brag about not dating men who split bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:12 PM
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No they don't. No amount of effort will make a woman like you. Just like no amount of lack of effort will make a woman who likes you, not like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:05 PM
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I can easily find a man who will pay without making it a big deal. Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:03 PM
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Women's mentality is why I don't care about women who cry about imbalances in relationships. You want balance in marriage and relationships, then strive for balance in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:02 PM
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This means you value your friends over a potential love interest, but expect a man to value you as a love interest over his own friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:00 PM
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This "you're not special shut the fuck up" stuff comes off as aggressive and out of touch with the reality of how it actually feels to fall in love with someone, and how it feels to actually want to spoil them. Yet this trait skips women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:54 PM
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That's why you don't listen to what they say, you watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:53 PM
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Some of them can, but only like 7 percent of women earn over 100k. There are more successful women but there isn't a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:30 PM
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Is the bra measurements different in the UK? There is nothing "E" about those breasts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:25 PM
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The premise of this thread is absurd. The annoying thing about this thread is the fact that in a few decades when these never settlers end up on the streets because they can't afford to retire and have no children to take care of them, their burden is going to fall on society. The men who aren't good enough to settle for will be footing the bill for your hubris which is infuriating. The irony behind this argument is that the average women who won't settle for an average man are begging HVM to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:31 AM
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There is nothing traditional about TRP or its goals. This is an example of creating a strawman. I don't know how many times I have to say this, TRP is about men achieving whatever goal they want by appealing to their true nature. It has nothing to do with specific outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:46 PM
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Is he wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:43 PM
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Words can't explain how that quote sums up PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:25 PM
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Most women's hobbies are limited to watching reality TV, virtue signaling on Twitter and living vicariously through social media stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:07 PM
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Probably not, the problem is modern women find anything that is not top percentile to be pathetic even though they aren't above average at anything. They could be happy but their entitlement and delusions of grandeur prevents it. It's like someone on welfare refusing to eat unless it's at Alinea, when a meal from shake shack would fill them up just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:04 PM
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It's easier for women in the moment to be content with being alone because society will always serve as a partner for them. It's also easier for them because they know they can get male attention easily. Even at older ages they could always pull someone albeit a very undesirable someone. Men are pretty much shunned by society as a whole so the loneliness is more dire, but these single women aren't out here loving life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:59 PM
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Moreso bluepill = if you're kind and thoughtful women will respect you Redpill = respect doesn't equal sexual attraction, here's how to get that Black pill = who cares what they think anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:47 PM
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Who mentioned anything about hurt feelings? Follow the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:11 AM
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A belittle is an unnecessary insult; calling them LVMs is speaking the truth. Abusers have little value in relationships. That's literally something an abuser would say. "You're a cunt. I'm not belittling you, it's the truth." "I didn't want to beat you, you made me." Then how come men can go in public without being afraid of women leering, raping, and attacking them? Why would you? Do men go out in public with fear for being killed? Men are killed by a very large margin more than women. When me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:10 AM
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What the hell are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:03 AM
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The same women who think so little of men she won't even pay for a meal? See how it goes both ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:33 AM
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You just called them low value men. That's a belittle. You're showing your lack of incompetence, which justifies a lot of the hate you receive. Regardless men can never hate women as much as women hate men. Women actually treat men hate as a sport. It's considered "punching up", sexism against men is pretty much accepted and women fully engage. For example, women can publicly joke about cutting men's dick off and it's laughed at. How would you feel about a man joking about slicing your breasts o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:32 AM
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abuse is any action that makes the victim feel belittled, devalued, or dehumanized. Hmmm. Kinda like calling someone low value. So FDS women are abusers and therefore low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:47 AM
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The only reason you think this is because the pervasive idea that men are easily replaceable. This ideology is why there are so many old, single, bitter women turning to FDS in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:44 AM
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This is the difference. TRP tells you that society down plays your value and over values women, so increase your own SMV to compete and level set your view of women so you don't get exploited. FDS on the other hand acknowledges and plays off societies overinflated value of women and tells below average women and take advantage in order to exploit men. The advice about exercise and femininity is just superfluous in order to appear legitimate. FDS thinks women are entitled to more regardless of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:30 AM
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What are low value women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:21 AM
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I'm starting to think most of y'all have no outside experience other than what's read on Twitter. Boys are raised as kings, girls are raised as servants. Boys are raised as kings, true. Which means men have to serve a purpose and aim to rule the world. Women are raised as princesses. Which means you serve no purpose and are praised for simply existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:20 AM
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A high value man using OLD seriously is like a model using adult friend finder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:44 AM
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I always have said attractive women tend to be more down to earth and relatable. That because they thirst the least for outside validation. I put it this way. 9s and 10s are the most grounded because they get treated the way thy matches their smv. 7s and 8 are some of the worse to deal with because they think/wish they were 9/10 and expect to be validated like them. There are the women who talk about their worth and that they won't settle. Often they'll get advanced degrees or start a business a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:09 PM
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We're hammered with realities about our smv since birth and don't have anyone telling us we're great without having to achieve anything. And if we haven't achieved anything we aren't entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:43 PM
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That's exactly what settling is. Just because you want something really bad doesn't mean you're entitled to it if you don't have what it takes to get it. Whether a car, house, or boyfriend. If Flava Flav married a regular woman, is he settling just because he can't get a Victoria Secret model?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:37 AM
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Settling is buying a $200,000 house and being annoyed by it, despite the fact you believe with all your heart that you actually deserve a $1,000,000 mansion with servants. But for some reason couldn’t get one. Yeah, that reason being you can't afford one. Just like a person thinking they're settling in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:21 PM
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There is no such thing as settling.. If you are approved for a 25k car loan and you want a Benz, you aren't "settling" because a civic is the only thing you can afford. If you decide since you can't get a Benz that you're just going to not drive, that shows a character flaw, not standards as these low value women would want you to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:20 PM
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Nope, my friends used to tinder troll on my account. One time every response was show me your tits, and at the end she gave her number.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:46 PM
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Just mimic women, they've been dating like they're autistic ever since the feminism movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:10 PM
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Those literally are jokes and memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:20 PM
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Women still want relationships, that's the reason why there are numerous articles about them and how miserable women are. The problem is that modern women are lazy and don't want to put in the work to get them. They want it to happen easily and naturally but most don't leave the couch.. You rarely ever see a woman who looks like she belongs on a runway talking about she doesn't want a relationship. That's because those women can get what they want easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:59 PM
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Lol. Man cheats: "Yeah I mean, did you see those titties?" Womam cheats: "YOU WEREN'T SHOWING ME ANY ATTENTION BECAUSE YOU WERE WORKING SO MUCH TO PAY MY RENT!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah with marriage, we're talking about screwing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:00 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:06 PM
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It's just as pathetic as when men fall for it, but to be fair there is an accepted dynamic where men are eager and willing to trick on attractive women so it's easier to think it's one of those situations. One of the things I picked up on from the documentary is when the first woman said she liked this guy literally after knowing him for a couple of minutes. You didn't "like" him, you saw him as a lick and thought you hit the jackpot. Talking about butterflies and slept with him immediately. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:57 AM
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No, I don't like misrepresenting myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:50 AM
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If you strip away the makeup, body shapers, heels, weave, etc women are as average as men. So all dolled up a 6/10 man is the spiritual equal of a 8/10 woman if you want to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:23 AM
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I know right, how dare a man who's not naturally high value to go and make something of himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:26 AM
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Oohhh it called you a massaginist. Your life is over!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:28 PM
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And here I was thinking infrastructure was more than high speed rail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:35 PM
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Lol it works for China? The hell are you talking about? The overwhelmingly majority of China is rural poverty with no infrastructure period, and the large cities with great infrastructure are newly built off pretty much slave labor. What large countries in the western world with western wages have top notch infrastructure that span an entire continent, not an area the size of Vermont? People like you are so stuck in your anti rhetoric you can't think rationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:23 PM
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Because it's easier to have a centralized government and invest in infrastructure when you're the size of Wisconsin opposed to spanning an entire continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:00 PM
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Because it's easier to have a centralized government and invest in infrastructure when you're the size of Wisconsin opposed to spanning an entire continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:00 PM
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Because liberalism is inherently idealistic and focuses on what should be as a whole, while conservatism is inherently realistic and focuses on what's happening as an individual. Since women live monolithicly liberalism attract them and men individually, conservatism attracts them. Add on the fact that women are dependant and democrats encourage dependency, and being able to constantly bitch and nag about issues is an added benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:45 PM
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They'd also probably be the size of Wisconsin also.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:39 PM
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What kind of impression do you think FDS women give off?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:15 AM
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Women want men that are better than them in every area. Looks, height, wealth, intelligence, charisma, ambition, etc. Men don't want women who are more attractive, men want women who make their dick hard. That could be a butterface, a bbw, an attractive broke woman or an average wealthy woman. Men go for everyone, including women with universal attractiveness. But a man isn't going to feel he settled if he gets an average girl with his idea body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:12 PM
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I like how you linked to a thirteenth year old study in order to quantity the idea that men are more picky with women, only to provide conjecture about women being less extreme. It would have been just as easy to search for a link that shows the exact ratio that women pick men, which is around 20 percent. That old study isn't close to being relevant, it's not scientific and online dating was in its infancy. Regardless of your ad hominen, the difference between men and women is that naturally the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:10 PM
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Society is threatened by man reaching to dominate everything. Society has no problem with men dominating everything else because it improves your personal quality of life. All of your western privileges come from the dominance of men. You can't pick and choose when and where men should thrive. Because as you can see, you want men to thrive when it serving to improve your life but not when it comes to women. Men aren't your worker ants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:59 PM
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Of course you don't because you believe the power should exclusively belong to women in dating. Life is all about aggressively taking control of the outcomes you want. Whether it's your career, fitness, social life, etc. I'm not sure why people think men should take a subservient approach to their love lives. It's almost as if society is threatened by the idea of a man living life by his own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:10 PM
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I know I’m not. Are you a woman? The world isn't centered around you. TRP isn't really about manipulation, and even if it was the dating game is centered around manipulation. Women wear makeup to manipulate you to being more attracted. You approach women due to manipulation. You pay for dates due to manipulation. Buying flowers is manipulation. Smelling good is manipulation. The fact that you associate it to TRP shows your lack of self awareness and lack of real world comprehension. TRP is about…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:54 PM
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No they weren’t. Herein lies the myth. Desperate outcome dependent people yearn for a quick fix, an easy formula that ‘guarantees’ a shortcut to romance and sex, cry in frustration when they don’t get it on their time and fall into a depressed state. What the hell are you talking about? Don't play stupid, gender roles were a lot more rigid in previous generations and relationships were contingent on both parties living up to them. The woman of today is a different breed than their mothers, and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:37 PM
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There are way more people getting laid and having relationships than there are rich or famous people. Yeah, and they're doing it with red pill techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:28 PM
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Well there you go. Men aren't going to invest the same amount of money into an asset with elss return.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:15 PM
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Do you think women are putting in less effort than their previous generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:06 PM
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In my experience younger men here are expecting to get the same results with less effort than the previous generations put in. Previous generation were actually guaranteed something for that effort. They were guaranteed a non promiscuous, domesticated and submissive woman who accepted their role in society. Do you expect men to continue that same effort for overweight women who can't cook and view you as a rival?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:05 PM
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I disagree. Blue pill advice is any gynocentric ideology thats standard in the mainstream. Any advice that puts women on a pedestal, downplays the real motivations behind women and manipulates men into not serving their own self interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:30 AM
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I’ve noticed that a lot of men in PPD justify certain behavior with “my biology,” and then shut it down or make a case about how we “aren’t our lizard brains” when we discuss women’s biological drives. So from a female perspective, it feels very double-standard in that regard too. The difference is most men actively shut down most of their biological drives when it comes to dating that don't logical equate to equitable dating outcomes dictated through society. Men are biologically predisposed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:34 AM
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This isn't even remotely close to being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:22 AM
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Apex fallacy is a bitch. Every man I screw ends up having other women, therefore all men must be able to easily screw multiple women. Ignoring the idea that maybe I only want to screw the men good enough to have other multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:15 AM
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Even more fallacy. Literally didn't address a thing and started attacking me because you realize how dumb your arguments are. I hope you're not a man, because your future isn't looking too bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:52 PM
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Women aren't more shallow than men, men just have more variety in the things they like. Some men prefer breast, some like booty, some like legs, some like skinny with pretty faces. But all men will appreciate combinations of the above that don't involve their preference, in all shapes and sizes. Women are more monolithic with their preferences. There are no women on planet earth that prefers a 5'6" man over a 6'5" man if given a choice. There are none that prefer skinny or chubby over tone. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:23 AM
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No, you shouldn't be fallacious and make a general statement based off the most extreme cases. Have you ever heard of the apex fallacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:17 PM
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In that case blame your mom and father for failing to give you the ball at the 10 instead of those who did what they are supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:36 PM
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There are thousands of companies besides fortune 5. What about the CEO of the company that made your pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:33 PM
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Why are there always articles and studies on the mental and emotional aspects of dating about women. I've never in my life seen any about men. Not saying they don't exist but they aren't put out there like with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:31 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:37 AM
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The true reason why women withhold sex is because it's a man's responsibility to maintain her attention before they have sex. After they have sex, It's a woman's responsibility to maintain the man's attention. A man who's "relationship material" is a man who has attention and resources for a woman to extract. A man's main goal in dating is sex so he offers them up freely in order to get it without much reciprocation. The longer he has to wait the more time money and attention he's forced to spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:32 AM
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It's all related to low accountability. The goal is to dominate social perceptions that will keep standards and expectations for themselves low. If every woman is beautiful including the ones who could block for a 1000 yard rusher in the NFL, then that means a woman who's attractive has an advantage and if she decides to let herself go then she's still "beautiful".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:59 PM
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You're not wrong. Most women seem to take pride in being emotional and financial liabilities. So really you can't expect anything other than sex from many of them. I had an argument with women about how men want to hang with their friends over women. And I asked if they could blame us, friends actually care about our wellbeing and offer utility. Women care about you as far as they can derive resources from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:17 PM
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Either that or they don't have much value outside of sex in the first place. The onus is on the man to show value in order to get sex, but the onus is on the woman to show value to keep the man after sex. A lot of women don't realize that responsibility and don't step up, thinking the sex is adequate enough to keep a man invested. Truth be told a lot of women just aren't worth keeping around after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:14 AM
2

The fact that he has the opportunity to cheat makes him high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:58 AM
2

I don't think men are failing more than women based on what each person wants. Most women end up in a purely sexual or unintentionally polygamous relationship. Both are "failing" at the same level if anything. Both based on female delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:57 AM
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What makes them unrealistic?? What do you consider to be the components of an equitable dating market? To you what is dating meritocracy? If you answer those questions you get why most women's standards are unreasonable. Here are the facts, women want men who are better than them in pretty much every way. They want men who make more than them, who are taller, who are more charismatic, more entertaining, etc. Women want catches and the best value for what they bring to the table. Men aren't out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:25 PM
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This isn't an example of low "standards". This is an example of the privilege that extremely high value men experience, women doing everything in their power including fighting for a top percenter. You can bet women aren't out here fighting over average accountants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:15 PM
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You say this like it's a triumph or something. I don't know your situation but any of the guys being called "husband material" could be in the same position, being settled for after the woman hits mid 30s and need a simp to be impregnated by.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:45 AM
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Just women who are using made up association to disprove TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:49 PM
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They just share the same influencers, read the same content, share the same spaces and hold many similar views. Pedophiles and LGBT+ share the same influencers, read the same content and hold similar views. Does that mean they're the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:47 PM
1

Incels are part of the manosphere. They really aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:46 PM
1

If a woman lets someone treat her like crap See that's the issue with women. You think not kissing a woman's ass equals treating her like crap. Any woman who truly let's a man treat her like crap, and I'm not talking about the modern woman definition I'm talking about legal and clinical abuse, is damaged and doesn't have any value to a non damaged man herself. TRP says women don't respect men who kiss their ass so don't do it. FDS says men are inherently trash so treat them like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:40 PM
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A low value woman is one who lacks femininity, lacks sexual discretion and lacks self awareness. Most important they lack any utility for a man. I had a girl I was messing with who was promiscuous and was absolutely useless as a mate. Was attractive and intelligent but just brought not a thing to the table and had an amazing frame but couldn't care less about her presentation. I was a nice guy at the time but even I couldn't hide my disgust at the idea of her being a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:31 AM
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The is definitely the case for FDS but not TRP. With TRP in theory you're giving women what they truly want based on their well publicized actions. If a woman says she wants a nice guy who writes poetry and complements her, but she bangs the Chad that negs her and drives a Benz, TRP says be the later. On the flip side FDS literally says treat men like second class citizens until a high value one deals with it happily, which means he's worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:30 AM
2

Sex is a mutual beneficial arrangement. To say wanting sex for free is entitlement is like saying wanting to shop at the mall for free is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:56 AM
1

I'm stealing this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:53 AM
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The fact that you felt the need to add all of that other stuff makes you come off as disengenous. It sounds like you and your family have an issue with choosing men. If anything women with poor decisions is what's normalized in some families.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:05 PM
1

So you're telling me that they specifically told you that they got their ass beaten by their boyfriends and husband's on a regular basis? The laws have absolutely no bearing on what was normal for the time. There are still jurisdictions where beastiality isn't legal. It doesn't mean that everyone is out there fucking their dog Dingo does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:11 AM
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Being cheated on and left is a completely different animal. I asked whether they were abused and where is the proof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:10 AM
1

Yet those were also the women who told their granddaughters to get married early. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:09 AM
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Think about how much of the norm it was to physically abuse women back then. One thing I've learned about reddit is that most posters are impressionable idiots. A few weeks ago I saw someone use Mad Men as proof that abuse was normalized. So do you have any proof that this is a true statement other than that's what you've assumed based on media you've consumed? Was all your great aunts and grand mother abused on the regular?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:12 AM
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You're right, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a nice evening with someone as long as I'm not the one fronting the bill. A nice evening with someone is still a nice evening with someone if she splits the check.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:23 AM
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Exactly. I've had this dumb ass argument with women on this sub before arguing that multiple husbands benefit women. I swear to you I asked them 10 times how that arrangement benefits the men and they avoid that question like it's the IRS. The idea of polygamy triggers penis envy in them because they see it as a man winning by having sexual access to multiple women. Acting as if the women are victims who up and decided to make a lucky man's life play out like a porn movie. But they refuse to acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:39 AM
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Things that happen in nature don't happen simply and solely because it benefits the male or the female. They happen because it benefits either of their biological imperative which is to produce the strongest offspring. Women always devolve this argument to how it benefits women, but refuse to answer how it benefits the men. Polygamy benefits women because they get to share a powerful man's abundant resources or his DNA which grants them the strongest children. A man doesn't benefit sharing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:10 PM
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No, doing something in order to attain a resource isn't coercion, it's supply and demand, tf wrong with you? Is you employer McDonald's coercing you into working because you want money?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:26 PM
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You actually do to be fair. My girlfriend has read them. Women don't have books about how to pick up men, they have book about how to be picked up by high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:00 PM
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Sure, I mean in terms of a Chad who is comfortable executing pressure, negging, guilt tripping, reward or ultimatum etc etc. Why even bring this up? You seem to be arguing specific assumptions and abnormalities in order to achieve a goal. And It's weird. The majority of women chase after, fuck and start relationships with men because they want to. High value men and Chads get what they want from women because they're in demand, and women understand they have to bring value and compete when deali…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:47 AM
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I’d be very much inclined to say that while yes, I’m sure some women are manipulated into seeking Chad validation I want to focus on this real quick. What do you mean "manipulated" into seeking Chad approval? How are they being manipulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:13 AM
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Some women may have tried it for the first time with their ex, find out they don’t like it, and then never do it again with their ex and current partner. I don't think we're talking about those people, but I recognize why you'd attempt to extrapolate those instances across the entire spectrum in order to shut down the argument. We're talking about women who gave special unique experiences to men they felt socially worthy but not to the man who would take a bullet for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:00 AM
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Rape is forced sex. You can rape with words you. People with your kind of logic is why despite being conservative I support abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:18 AM
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The point is many women are coerced or manipulated by abusive men into these acts. Please save this shit for someone gullible. Women aren't coerced into these actions. The men they're trying to lock down are valuable in their eyes and they'd do anything for them. So when a man says let's try anal, they say yes enthusiastically. When they say let's try a threesome they say yes enthusiastically. If you need me to dumb it down for you, do you think rappers are coercing groupies into following their…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:11 AM
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Would you take a dildo up your ass to satisfy your partner? You're playing stupid. We're not talking about doing sexual acts by themselves. We're talking about doing sexual acts for an ex then acting as if you're above them with your current partner. If was the type of man to take dildos up my ass to satisfy my last partner, then I'd do it for my current. It's about people investing more and getting less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:37 AM
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Let's say for example a man used to take his exes on yearly vacations that spanned the entire world. Europe, Thailand, Caribbeans, Japan, etc. He got with you and only rakes you to Midwest cabins every once in a while. When asked about it he said that past relationship was financially exploitative and didn't want to do it. So deal with it. Fact of the matter is when you care about someone something a minute as sex isn't a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:05 PM
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"Maybe she realized she didn't like it". That's the issue. She didn't like it but she cared so much about the validation from the Chad she went with it enthusiastically for his needs, despite his lack of care. On the flip side the current man cares about her and she couldn't care less about pleasing him or giving him a sexual experience. Here is a secret. Men don't like doing any of the shit we do for women yet we do it because we're socialized to sacrifice for other people's benefit. And women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:58 PM
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Yup. I'm was the same way. I refused to play the game with women after a while. I started expecting them to pay, reach out first, initiate and show enthusiastic effort etc. As a man if you're validating a woman for nothing in return you're contributing to the degenerate dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:03 PM
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Not in America
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:01 PM
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Yup. That or he didn't allow her to abuse, gaslight or manipulate him without reacting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 10:01 PM
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Women really don't want simps. The way they have ruined the dating market is through inflating the self image of average women. Attention to women is like currency and its almost worthless coming from simps. But what women do is accumulate that worthless currency from many basic and average men and use it to attempt to "buy" high value men. It's like on Instagram, all of the followers and interaction comes from normal men and when her profile gets to a certain point, she'll slide in the DMs of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:15 PM
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Nowadays most women don't do anything in the audience of a man that doesn't grant her some form of validation. The reason a woman demands more from a date isn't because she's high maintenance, most of these women sit at home all day watching reality TV and browsing Instagram. They wouldn't go to a restaurant unless a man took them. A coffee or walking date simply doesn't validate her femininity. The audacity of a man being on her presence and not providing validation whether in money, effort or …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:32 AM
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There are fewer men in the planet. Moreso widespread price collusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:19 AM
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Only thing this tells me is that no matter who you are are, when you date men there is an automatic entitlement that comes along with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:35 PM
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Negging 100 percent works. Women like men who are interesting and who stand out. Most women have betas kissing their ass and sucking up to them, so when a man comes around with banter and challenges her self image, she can't help but to be intrigued. Most people are boring so when someone is able to break social molds, people are attracted even men. Which is why you have books like "Why men love bitches"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:22 AM
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Everyone is flawed to a certain extent, the thugs and the betas. From the perspective of those good men, women claim they want things like loyalty and respect only to chase the men who you know will give you the opposite. You'll claim you want security while you chase Chad and Tyrone and deal with their personality flaws for the excitement, and ignore the men who also have personality flaws but at least you won't end up a single mom with HPV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:13 AM
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Men don't resent it. There is no reason why a woman should GTOW. The world is already handed to you on a platter. If you haven't gotten what you desire in life its not a result of men or of society, it's a result of either your own terrible life choices or your own entitlement. Men GTOW is a result of them refusing to play a losing game. So men aren't expressing resentment they're just laughing at you because you're acting like a rich child having a temper tantrum because the lambo you've been b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:59 AM
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Is this satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:23 PM
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Right now I consider any woman who says she was in an abusive relationship long term a red flag. It means one of two things; she either was actually in an abusive relationship she didn't have the mental fortitude to exit which means baggage the next man will have to sort through. Or a victimization mindset and you'll be the next on her list of men who have been "abusive" for not giving her what she wants or not putting up with her shit. Men, stop dealing with these perpetual victims. Don't even …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 06:52 PM
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If you treat a woman like a celebrity, she's going to treat you like a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:20 PM
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I don't trust studies that ask women for their perspectives when it centers around an agenda or accountability. Women lie and put on facades for social currency and victimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:14 PM
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I don't trust these studies. Have you ever seen how proud single women are? They go out of their way to show the world they're the happiest people on the planet when underneath it they're miserable and want relationships. Single women know the image they project is failure for not being able to secure a relationship so they over compensate by expressing shear happiness. I would never expect one to admit this in real life let alone a survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:11 PM
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I would go as far as to say the amount of effort put into their relationships is disproportionate to what they put into their friendships 75 percent of the time, in favor of the friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:22 AM
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Huh? Men don't have tits so how could we be hypocrites for wanting "bigger tits"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:13 AM
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So women can want men to be taller, richer, more generous, more hard-working, more patient, more good looking, more sexually experienced, more confident, more charming, etc. But a man be damned if he wants a woman more chaste huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:54 AM
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I don't think switching to online dating is an alternative to bettering your interpersonal skills. It's a crutch actually and something to hide behind. As far as everything else that's great, but there are too many people, particularly women, who seem to get too comfortable in their social deficiencies that are likely to impede getting what they want out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:07 PM
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I'm not sure of the direction of your post. But you're right take away the makeup, weave, body shapers, heels and push up bras most women are straight homely. The biggest issue is that a woman who looks like a 6 out the shower will make herself up to a 8 and think she's entitled to a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:04 PM
2

So why haven't you worked at being better at social interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:36 PM
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I know right. If anything she liked her ego being stroked from the idea that her feminist ilk successfully socially manipulated someone into beta behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:35 PM
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There was a guy who my GF would flirt with, I gave her permission to go out with him trying to be the cool, down and secure boyfriend. In reality I just didn't have any self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:31 PM
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No. F&F put it best. it's the man's job to keep her interested before they have sex, It's the woman's job to keep the man interested after they have sex. For a woman who has long term plans for a man, she tries to extract as much as possible and maintain her position of power for a long as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:24 PM
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They don't need to. It's all throughout media, social media, and pop culture. Regardless, yeah!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:36 PM
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Only if you have the looks and game to pull it off. But truth be told most women are thirsty for real life attention. With most men too scared or turned off from approaching women, men have a better chance by standing out from the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:15 PM
1

Of course they're not in the same ballpark, there are thousands of companies and hundreds of industries but 82 billion is a Hella ridiculous number. Left causes including feminism is likely the majority of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:49 AM
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You are paying your man for sex essentially. Your situation seems to be because you have no other choice, not because it's ideal for you. If all you got out of this is about paying for sex, then please pay someone to read this to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:38 AM
1

Can you link to some sort of study that shows social conservatives want women at home working?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:24 AM
1

There are as many special interest lobbies as there are corporate lobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:23 AM
4

I think even you can realize how unique your situation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:19 AM
4

Yup. A lot of women truly think they're blessing men by laying on their backs like dead fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:18 AM
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And most women use sex to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:17 AM
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All relationships are conditional, which means they're already tit for tat. The only reason she loves and desires you is because of what you're doing for her. If you stop paying the mortgage next month, she ain't desiring you, is she? If you're in a relationship you're already having sex, obviously. But unless you're exceeding expectations from your woman, it's going to be on her strict and limited terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:59 PM
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Modern women who work just as much as the man and does all the cooking and domestic work. Every, and I mean every, single couple I know the man and woman works but the woman doesn't know how to cook and don't clean either. All of the husband's including myself are very culinarily inclined and our wives can barely turn in a stove. And we're all domesticated, maybe more than the wives, and very involved with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:55 PM
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If her man is unfulfilled, possibly. I know women expect more than they're willing to give 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:41 PM
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But that's how women set the game up to be. Women use sex as a dangling carrot pfor men, Do you think humans are going to go all out for anything if there is no benefit or reward at the end of the tunnel? Or let's look at it this way. If a woman was giving Olympic level sex to a man who sat around and watched TV all day, would you think she's being taken advantage of? People like you only see tit for tat when it's a man looking for reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:40 PM
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Sex is as much about effort and experience as any other thing in life. If you want me to reach for the stars regarding dates and treatment, do the same thing regarding sex. Oh you want me to send you across the globe for vacation? Okay, send me to the moon tonight and I'll book the ticket. A lot of women want you to be creative and ambitious when planning stuff for her to do in return for mundane, inconsistent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:14 PM
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The big difference you see with feminism and the manosphere is the former pits women against men, and the latter pits men against society at large. This has caused the foundation of TRP to seek happiness, and feminism causes women to seek validation at from women at the expense of happiness. Feminism says these are the things you didn't have access to. You should want it all, so prioritize getting it regardless if it's at the expense of what you know will make you happy. So you have women chasin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:01 PM
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I find it funny how women say men should pay because women spend all their money on clothes, shoes hair makeup, etc. Then turn around and say men need to put more effort into their clothes and shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:33 PM
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People who have a partner it's usually just because they get comfortable with having someone in their league instead of aspiring to meet someone superior to them in looks. Women like you like to pretend that if a man won't accept Precious it means he wants 1990s Tyra Banks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:35 AM
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Enough to where I could recognize that it confirmed every last single one of my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:33 PM
2

Struggles of dating men? You realize most lesbians bi women who loath dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:09 AM
2

It's incredibly low. Simply have sexual attraction, provide provide peace and cooperation. I would say provide some sort of value but most men don't even require that. Somehow a large swath of women fail at those basic tenants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:22 PM
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Do you think I'm denying that woman who want attention exist? Then why are you arguing then? Nothing you're saying is of relevance or significance. Please go argue with a lamp post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:27 AM
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You being a woman is irrelevant. If anything it reinforces your inability to acknowledge anything outside of your own false sense of reality. The current generation are all scientifically and statistically proven to be high anxiety introverts but all happen to be Instagram attention whores. Hell, the majority of women in porn are medicated for anxiety. And all of them have no problem with showing their ass in social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:43 PM
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Women have no idea how much this situation benefits them. I remember reading an article about a woman who didn't realize how much of an attention whore she was until she got old and men stopped paying attention to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:35 PM
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You couldn't possibly be slow enough to think introverted women don't like attention. There literally are women who show their ass on social media who admit to having anxiety and shyness in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:33 PM
2

The majority of relationships are ended by women. If all of her relationships were ended by the men, that means there is something glaringly wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:53 PM
1

This perspective is silly. Don't women who are approached by men, see those men as "options" too? Oh yeah, that's a privilege you think should be reserved for women. Truth be told women only feel empowered to approach the men who they feel they are too good to pass up. Which inherently means they're incredibly high value, which inevitably means the woman won't measure up to their standards and the results reflect that. Instead of women not approaching anyone, they need to either approach with re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:16 PM
0

Forever girlfriends are interesting enough to keep around but don't provide enough value or utility to marry. They need to figure out what the men in their lives needs and find ways to contribute to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:03 AM
2

The way people on reddit can be so sure but still be so damn wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:08 AM
2

That's literally the goal of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:14 PM
1

It takes a very mentally stunted person to think a career and relationship are mutually exclusive. Yes, most women are mentally stunted. The big issue is that most of these women do t really have careers. They have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:55 AM
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I can assure you there are more threads about women ignoring their relationships than men ignoring theirs. The difference is men are self aware enough to assess and acknowledge their issues, while women think neglecting their men is the natural way of life, regardless of the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:17 AM
1

I mean picky looks wise. As if having a degree means you deserve a better looking man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:40 PM
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Lol I don't think this "study" is broad enough to make general statements off its conclusion. Only 161 people, all undergrad, and not very diverse. And most importantly I don't see how the perceived results allude to men overestimating themselves. I'd be more interested in how many people rated themselves the highest. I can bet fewer men rated themselves the lowest but more women rated themselves above average or higher And it find this interesting. Women who were more intelligent were harsher c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:34 PM
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We don't. We vilify women for being average or mediocre and thinking they're entitled to the top portion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:53 PM
1

Lol exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:38 PM
1

Maybe I'm crazy, but I don't think a super rich man with a young hot GF cares what a redditor thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:42 PM
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It's funny because I think if anything when a man dates a really hot woman it puts him off hot women in the future. Women find the drama that comes from Chad's invigorating. Men find the headache that comes from fine women tiring. My wife was recruited my Victoria Secret as a teen. I'm telling you if we divorce, my next woman is going to be average as fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 04:13 PM
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Consuming porn and not being willing to wife a pornstar is no different than women who are willing to go to restaurants but not being willing to marry a waiter. Or call the police when in trouble but not willing to date a cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:45 PM
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Men are never willing to compromise?? So you're telling me every man is with a dime piece woman who can cook, clean, and fuck like Riley Reid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:03 PM
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Lol are you delusional? Stacy has far more options for penis from the men she wants, but Chad has way more women wanting commitments?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:08 PM
3

You should be ashamed of yourself for this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:15 AM
2

But women are doing better than men now on a vast number of metrics. LOL like what exactly?? College enrollment? Men still make more money, so you're going to college to make less than a male high school grade. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:49 PM
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Men have always been below women's theoretical floor. But eventually reality and statistics caught up with their delusions and "settled" for their equals. Hypergamy really isn't reasonable in a world where men are bullied into dropping all of their standards to accept the fat, promiscuous, broke, and the hairy. The idea of settling is silly in itself. You're refusing "settle" for a man who offers what you offer, while expecting men who are better than you to settle for you. And in the past, men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:11 AM
6

Yeah, based on movies. But if an ugly man is with an attractive woman, he 9/10 has money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:55 AM
1

In what aspects are you traditional and what aspects are you modern? I'm willing to bet my left nut that the things you like that are traditional happen to be the ones that benefit you, and the aspects you don't want are the ones that benefit him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:24 AM
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Nobody is dating men under 6 feet? The overwhelmingly majority of women date men who don't measure up to their expectations. Is this your first day of PPD? So men don’t have race or weight preferences, men are super easy going and will date any girl as long as she has nice legs and big boobs? Yes! If you want to break it down to numbers, let's say a man only dates white women. That means what, 100+ million women fall into that standard? Okay he only dates women with nice breast. The average bra …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:40 AM
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Height and muscles aren't model tier. Let's not play stupid, height is very important to the overwhelmingly majority of women, is it not? This isn’t true at all Admittingly that was an exaggeration, but men don't have specific things were attracted to. We may like breasts, ass, legs, or cute face. All that encompasses a large number of women. A women on the flip side may want a man 6'2", which is like a 95 percentile man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:56 AM
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Usually when women say they want a man that's attractive, they're looking for traits that are top percentile. Height, muscles, eye color for example. 80 percent of women could put on makeup, weave and a dress and be attractive to the overwhelmingly majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:54 PM
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What standards would a man ask for that would ever be too high? That she can breath? That she isn't fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:01 PM
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I'll keep my manners even if many people nowadays don't have any. It's not good manners to expect someone else to pay for your food. It's just socially acceptable sexism. After all, do you expect someone else to pay for your dinner when you go out with friends? Didn't think so. It's pretty rude actually. So when you get ghosted, or get used for sex, then don't get mad because you could have simply made the choice of not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:38 PM
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No one cares if you think it's a cowards way out, just like you don't care if men think it's unacceptable that women expect them to pay for dates. We have to deal with your entitlement, you need to deal with getting ghosted. The only way to mitigate for us is to not date, the only way for you to mitigate is to not date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:21 PM
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If the cowards way out isn't good enough for you, you don't have to date. The beautiful thing about dating is you don't have to do it and if you want to avoid ghosting and other mechanisms that feel shitty, you can just avoid men all together and buy a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:50 AM
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There literally is an upward curve of the divorce rate on relation to the number of sexual partners a woman has. Sex with a lot of men is a highly risky activity for a woman. A woman who engages in it values whatever she gets from it over her own health and safety. If she values sex with many men to that extent, it means sex with a single man will never be able to fulfill that satisfaction she gets from variety. Also people forget DNA is an extremely recent discovery. Before that men had to use …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:58 PM
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Yes it has. Promiscuity is viewed differently today than it was in the 90s, Viewed differently by women, not by men. And women aren't divorcing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:38 PM
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"If you don't want a nanny state, don't act like toddlers." This explains why women were treated as second class citizens through out history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:27 PM
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Women love to make it a point to avoid LVM but when you get into a relationship with one, women come up with every excuse in the book for why they can't leave. Hot damn, this is some hard hitting stuff right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:42 AM
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Statistically there are a lot less. The simple truth to the matter is that catches and prizes get snatched up as time goes on. At 20, the overall majority of people are still available, and every year the best of the best are coming off the market. By your late 30s there are few left and the question becomes why would they choose you out of all the women that are left?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:14 PM
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The question is whether the can find the men they want, and men to marry them. Of course they can get men, there are many simos out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:41 PM
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I hate when women use this trope, only to turn around and act like men want Instagram models just because he doesn't want a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:38 PM
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They can. Women have trouble taking accountability so to justify in their own minds why they're single, they blame it on their careers instead of owning up to failing at interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:15 AM
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Both my ex-wives were prettier and a fuck of a lot smarter than Trump's trophies. So you've failed at your marriages twice, and you think you're some prize compared to a president? Lmao. The delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:29 AM
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How many model wives do you have, or ever had? Lmao are you smoking crack? That man became president of the United States. What's the biggest accomplishment you've ever had in your life? Making the reddit front page?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:42 AM
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Who has more value you or trump? If his is low, you're is depressingly pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:08 AM
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What's up with this current trend of concerning yourself with who other people are fucking? It's funny how liberals went from "love is blind" to "love is blind, well, to gender. But not age, assumed mental situation, power imbalance, race, or anything else that doesn't necessarily fit my agenda".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:06 PM
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So were the women. LOL at what point in history were the men allowing their women to go out and fuck other men? Are you playing stupid or being difficult so you don't have to admit being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:21 PM
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There is nothing traditional about men being monogamous. If anything, traditionally men are non monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:18 PM
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Crazy that women are out here looking for a man to treat them like a queen, most men are out here just looking for a woman to treat them like a human.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 12:33 AM
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Wjy is it so hard for women to admit that they have an advantage in somthing Because victimization is their weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:55 PM
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Chad's have different SMVs just like regular men. They're not all 10s who can get absolutely any woman. They're just the preferred man for the women within their attraction and economic proximity. Also men even those with options are opportunistic. Men who have had sex with all women will rather have great sex with an average woman than boring sex with a great woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:52 PM
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I don't trust these studies. There are different dynamics at play between men and women in marriages. Women are happier single because men don't expect anything from women which allows them to lazy and catered to. Which is why when women become bored in marriage, they start to fantasize about being single. I think this builds a dynamic where women become accustomed to having low expectations. In marriage your husband and children demand things from you, which is a shock when you go 30 years havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:21 PM
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There are two things that are universal provable law. Women who love horses are crazy and nurses are slurs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/21 09:55 PM
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It's not a man's job to "improve" in order to appease women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:25 PM
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It's very weird to me how content women are having an online identity that is considerably different than the one you face in the mirror every day. What's worse is that women expect you to value them based off thay online identity. They want you to spend real money to compensate for fake likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:57 PM
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Failure is often a great precedent to good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:19 PM
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There is a reason dowries existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:32 PM
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Right. Most women know more about some random instagram influencer than the man who they let bust inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:27 PM
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Lmao!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:20 PM
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No man would want his woman to be into any of those things because if she was, then he would have to participate in them with her instead of his friends. You think a man wants to sit around playing poker with his wife? What men want is for women to respect his hobbies and allow him to do them peacefully. It's women who want their men to have similar interests. Men aren't that stupid. You're confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:57 AM
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Once again, every insane disfunctional person think they're sane and functional. Not saying it's impossible that you're sane and functional, but truth be told the beat course of action is to not focus on what you are and focus more on what you aren't that sane functional men are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:09 AM
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See how when women explain what they want in a man, it's tangible and measurable. But that same woman explains what she brings, it's idealistic and philosophical. "I want a 6'2" man who does half the chores, makes at least the same amount of money and shares hobbies. For that I provide the theory of relativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:52 PM
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Never in my life witnessed a man say he wants a woman that's "one of the guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:48 PM
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I would say there’s fewer of them than functional women. If you think this, it's likely because you have considerably lower expectations for women than you do for men. And men still don't think women live up to their low standards. That shows how much women have failed in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:06 PM
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If you were to walk up to an insane, non functional person and ask them if they're insane and non functional, what do you think they would say? Essentially, you've met functional sane people at some point in your life and non of them snatched you up. That should tell you what you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:01 PM
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Lol you expect women to hold other women accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:10 PM
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This is very true. I think your example is too shallow to prove the point. I think a primal example is how women think men have to prove their providing capabilities through paying for everything during the dating stage under the idea of masculinity. On the flip side any expectations from the man in any shape would be seen as misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:02 PM
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The gynocentric society and victim culture of women really have men blind to the realities of this world. Men need to realize that we're seen as nothing more than means of exploitation, even in situations where we think we have control like these dating websites. Men need to realize it's time to walk through life with a professional skepticism of everything we're told and everything we involve ourselves in. Especially white men. You're being told you're an oppressing privileged class throughout …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 08:40 PM
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If it wasn't work, then women wouldn't lobby so much against doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:55 PM
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It felt fun and exciting. Yeah, stuff you don't do often is fun and exciting. Baking cookies is fun and exciting when it's your first time When you're expected to all the time it turns into work. Bakers don't find baking cookies fun and exciting. So yes, it is "doing it all"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:08 PM
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You don't want a woman that refers to herself as any type of royalty. But if a woman past the age of 22 labels herself a "princess", run like the fucking wind. A grown adult if anything should consider herself a queen. They label themselves a princess because subconsciously they're exposing the desire to be valued for their existence, not for their work. A 40+ year old referring to herself as a princess is one of the biggest red flags you'd come across.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 01:17 AM
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It is a hot take because if you listen to women, they only like fucking guys who pay for dates, buy them flowers and write love poems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:02 AM
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I knew this show was gonna work it way onto here sooner or later. It's literally a red pill case study.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:30 AM
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The narrative that women are doing the brunt of domestic work is outdated. Most women of today's generation don't even know how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:53 PM
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Another example of how women society's coddling of women sets them up with detrimental unrealistic expectations is how we lie to them about how old they look. When discussing their age we undershoot by 5-10 years solely to be polite and we use age to portray attraction. There are very few situations where a person looks younger than their age. There are women who look great for their ages, and some who don't take care of themselves and look terrible. But for the most part no mid thirties woman i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 07:49 PM
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BMI excludes muscle. When you go to the gym every man there with 10 percent body fat is considered overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:55 PM
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Th average woman has gained like 30 pounds over the last 40 years. The average man has gained like 5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:30 PM
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"I watch movies that grossed a billion dollars in the box office, ImMa nErD"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 05:00 AM
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It absolutely is. You think if the women posting their Starbucks cups on social media would do so with a Caribou or Tim Hortons cup?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 04:54 AM
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Yup. This has been statistically proven. Men like a wide variety of women and have their personal preferences. Slim, thick, tall, short, busty, flat, big hips, big ass, petite ass, etc. Most if not all women prefer tall, dark features, square jaw, muscles. Even if it's not what a woman ends up with, that's what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:53 PM
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The statistics I just looked up show that more men are overweight or obese in the US (73%) than women (66%).* This statistic you pulled is from a survey, all those CDC articles you passed up to find your source indicates the rates are the same, but that's based on BMI making it irrelevant for men for the most part. Go to any gym in America, all of those muscular men are considered obese by those standards. Regardless my point wasn't to compare who's obese or not, but to point out how physically,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:59 AM
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This is a reasonable take. I do think men are much more conscious of their physical offerings and you see men taking grooming very seriously as well as working out. If anything women have pulled back on the physical aspect. Women are what, 30 pounds heavier on average than they were a century ago? Men are much more domesticated and emotionally conscious so I think men have stepped up quite a bit. And to be fair women have also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:15 AM
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My point is very clear if you try to grasp it, if it went over your head re-read it slowly. If there is still no comprehension just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:35 PM
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I hate how the word "anger" has been liberalized. It's used to invoke an image or reaction opposed to representing a true feeling. People expressing an adverse opinion on something, I want people to react to that adverse opinion, let me label them expressing that opinion as being" angered".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:29 PM
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The fact that you pretty much proved my point and didn't even realize it is scary. Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:22 PM
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I know right. Fat acceptance is a figment of my imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:18 PM
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I was going to take it there but I figured I'd let someone else do it. Essentially our fathers got a good looking woman who could cook clean, raise virtuous kids and they required protection and provision. In 2021 they want you to accept their obesity, they no longer cook, they're raising sex crazed children and they want you to provide a lifestyle to show off on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:03 PM
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This is an example of how women's expectations from men are modernizing, but the standards they hold themselves to aren't. For previous generations women didn't place physical standards on men because that's what they brought to the table along with sex in exchange for a provider and protection. Nowadays a lot of women are expecting men to provide both of what women and men brought to the table because they've been told they can have it all. They want men who are at the top physically, they're e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:05 PM
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Those are health issues. Dry skin damages the skin and becomes painful. Sunscreen prevents you from getting cancer. Does lip injections improve your health? I think you can recognize how asinine your argument is, you're going off the deep end comparing something to prevent your skin from splintering to makeup, just to prevent from accepting defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:45 PM
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There is a difference between stripping away things from your body that are a detriment like hair and adding foreign objects to your body to lie. Grooming and styling maximizes what's natural on your body to be the best you. Adding things to cover up your genetic weaknesses is misrepresentation. Me brushing my teeth reveals my naturally pearly whites under the coffee stains. You getting lip injections hides your mediocre lip genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:38 AM
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Baggy t shirts can disguise a beer belly. Baggy pants can make it difficult to tell the size and shape of the body. Words really can't describe how silly this sounds. Seriously. Baggy clothes are unsightly and low brow. No one is wearing them in order to boost their status, it would make them look poor and uncivilized. If someone is overweight, they wear baggy clothes because they FIT. Beards and mustaches are a part of your face. It's natural. Do you grow your hair out because you look ugly bal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:27 AM
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Point being that you can't complain that it's women who aren't seen as good enough when only 6/10 men aren't good enough to even breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:40 AM
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Women are expected to get plastic surgery and wear copious amounts of make up, have perfect hair, skin, nails and fashion, also work out and become fit. No they aren't. Men value natural beauty. Men hate women with fake bodies and pounds of makeup. The issue is that women are entitled and want access to men who are valued higher than what they provide in their natural state. So you throw on makeup and get fake bodies because you aren't satisfied with what you can get without it, and build a comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:07 PM
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Are you kidding me? No one ever told women they weren’t good enough. Huh. How about that. Women are very solipsistic. Only a woman can victimize herself based off self improvement imagery, even though throughout history 99 percent of women have bore children compared to only 40 percent of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:48 PM
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Right. I don't understand what's so hard to comprehend about this. A lot of women think what they accept determines their "worth". No woman, you're worth is the same regardless of who you're with. Your standards just determines how lonely you're going to end up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:44 PM
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Men, don't pay for dates until you get the drawls
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:39 PM
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There is a pay gap, women in their 20s make more than men in large markets. Women should be paying for dates
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:52 AM
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"prove them wrong" by giving them everything for nothing? This is illogical. See how you just called sex "everything", right after chastising men for thinking it's all you're good for? If women didn't have bad logic, you wouldn't have any logic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:50 AM
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I was going to write a post the has reminents of this post. I looks at the posting history of a "never settle" woman and she had clear signs of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:26 AM
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I have them placed as second most beautiful just closely behind the pretty pinay girls. Yes!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 02:47 AM
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When a woman is single and dating, it's all about them. Women don't have to provide utility until they're in a relationship. So it makes sense they theoretically would be more happy single because men are the ones catering to their ego in order to get in their pants. While with their boyfriend they have to somewhat cater to his needs in order to convince him not to go screw other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:54 PM
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They always come back around after life hits them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 04:59 AM
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By chocolate cake, she means Chad penis
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 08:33 PM
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Of course, nothing is guaranteed. And it becomes harder to find chaste women as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:10 PM
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Women with low body counts carry themselves a certain way compared to those with high ones. Men with discernment can tell. There is a reason born again promiscuous women go after men with very limited experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:40 PM
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It's guaranteed when you only go after women with no to low body counts. Even more reason to avoid the promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:35 PM
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Nothing. Now stop trying to marry men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:20 PM
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It simply boils down to a woman has to exhibit the behaviors that show she's afraid to lose you. She will do whatever to make you happy. When posts are made about men finding out their women used to do all kinds of freaky stuff to a man that they don't do now, that man was a Chad and even if they didn't inherently enjoy the act, they respected the idea of doing it to keep him satisfied. The truth is that women have tiered services plans for different types of men. Men at the top percentile of ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:33 AM
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How you going to want to have sex with someone who isn't guaranteed to satisfy you before they eveb start? I can't understand this. There is no way in hell you're an engineer with this logic. No way. I don't think you're really trying to put together a coherent argument, and at this point are arguing because you simply don't want to lose. What is your stance? First you said we're supposed to vet, but when addressed with the fact that sex is vetting, you immaturely reply with a meme. Now you're s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:11 AM
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If a man told her that his last gfs made him a sandwich every morning and he expects nothing less, how would that blow over?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 11:02 PM
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That's your opinion, but sex is the best way to test sexual compatibility and chemistry which is critical to most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:52 PM
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and a fat persons inner monologue telling them they are worthless for being fat. There is nothing wrong with this theoretically, as that realization is what motivates them to lose weight. Without that inner monologue and that societal pressure, no one gets better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:51 PM
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Do you think women just screw every man to see if they're boyfriend material? Often times, yeah. Vetting is necessary for each level of a relationship. Talking on the phone vets dating. Dating vets exclusivity. Exclusivity vets relationships, and relationships vet marriage. It's natural for a couple to get to a certain point in this chain and realize their partner isn't eligible for the next. Just because someone gets to a certain level doesn't mean they're entitled to the next. I think you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:48 PM
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Asking a woman out and sleeping with her IS vetting. How the hell can you vet someone before dating them. That's the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:23 PM
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In context expecting a man to have a car and job isn't a lot for a late 30s woman. But the way these women come off in these profiles don't seem to exhibit any humility or rationalization considering their situations. They seem to post like they still hold the cards in this sexual marketplace. They don't seem to realize they're no longer the prize, and aren't offering any reason why a man with a job and a car would deal with the headache
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 06:39 PM
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It's him who approaches her. Worse than accepting a clown offer, is literally chasing the clown. Now why would such a woman not think she brings value? This is a silly fallacy. Men approach based on looks. There is much more to a relationship than appearances. If you can't provide more to the connection then you shouldn't be surprised if someone isn't dying to be in a relationship to you. I think you, and men in general, need to take responsibility for such vetting as well if you intend to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:27 PM
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You want to know why it's frustrating? Because when you want something you put in the work to meet the requirements to acquire it. If you want to be a lawyer you'll take your ass to school, take the bar and apply at a law firm. If you want to be a body builder you take supplements, diet and spend time at the gym. It's frustrating when a woman wants you but don't think enough of you to meet the requirements that will help you pair bond. That's entitlement. You provide value to her life but wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:14 AM
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My point is to say: it is obvious to all humans that one man's unavailability is not a reflection on a woman's looks or even her "sexual skills." It really is though. People decide to be with whoever impacts their lives to where it would be counterproductive and a downgrade of that person leaves their lives. Which is the root of the problem. A lot of women are attractive and opens their legs to men, but don't provide any other utility to that man where it would be worth committing to and dealing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:06 PM
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This isn't surprising one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:58 PM
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Women are very lose with the term successful when it applies to them. This woman is probably a CNA, although she may be a nurse because they're the biggest sloozies. Many women think having a job where she can pay her bills is successful. Yet by "successful man" she means someone top 5 percentage of earnings in the US. Even though she has no body and an average face, by attractive she means 6'2"+ and fit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 07:56 AM
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Men idolize stunning women because they've never been with one and assumes it's glorious. As someone who's had a few, trust that it's not all its cracked up to be. When you're really attractive, it's hard to develop other personality attributes and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:13 PM
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You sound very uneducated on the subject. You should probably stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:32 PM
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Even before the makeup, weave, Spanx, hair dye, contacts, miracle bras, waist trainers, lip injections, ass and tit jobs, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:27 PM
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That's a fair way to look at it. But trp purpose is to accept and use the true nature of women in order get what you need from them. It's possible to get some of them to fulfill their purpose, not all. Dating needs to do what the economy did and globalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:16 AM
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No it's completely different. Prime example, promiscuous women don't suddenly love monogamy when they get married. Monogamy simply becomes the tool to get what they value the most at the moment which is security. When that simps wife starts fucking every Chad and Tyrone in sight in a few years he'll say she changed but no, her motivations just changed. The goal is to find out who your wife is before you marry her, get past all the facades and don't disregard all the red flags. People don't chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:27 PM
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This may be true but with the men you see complaining, it's not the case of a woman going from great to terrible. It's usually push overs men where it went from she didn't respect you but needed you to save her, to she saved you now she doesn't have to pretend to want to be with you. But for the most part people don't change. People's motivations change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:31 PM
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100 percent agree with this. Those divorce rape stories don't garner any sympathy from me. So many men want to be mister provider when things are going good, over looking all warning signs and flaws because they want to be mister provider who's happy having someone on their arms. The flaws that caused your divorce were there before you got married. If your wife is a lazy, useless and entitled now, she was when you proposed which makes it your fault. You put yourself at risk by not making her wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:07 PM
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Women don't do anything for free unless you're 6'5" even if you make their legs earthquake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:43 AM
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Sex is transactional. If it weren't, women wouldn't use it to get things they want. MEN don't make it transactional, WOMEN make it transactional when they refuse to do it unless you meet certain requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:28 AM
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Like I said before, more proof that when women can't find a man they pursue further education to make themselves not feel like failures and use it as an excuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 12:22 AM
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Says women. Explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:24 PM
2

Women: I'm entitled to loveable things even though I'm barely tolerable. Men: I'd appreciate likeable things but all I can expect is tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:51 PM
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Everyone WANTS to, but women are the only who think they're entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:44 PM
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Why is this question never posed to women? Especially considering they're the ones who think all men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:16 PM
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Women aren't happier single. If you were, there wouldn't be countless TV shows, news articles, YouTube videos and magazine features of women complaining about being single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:04 AM
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I'm not sure what the hell this has to do with our discussion. If course men are happier in relationships than single, that's the only time you can have expectations for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:11 AM
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Let me put it simple enough that a child could understand. Yes there is an orgasm gap because there is an initiation gap, reaching out gap, planning dates gap, paying for dates gap, opening doors gap, following up gap, giving compliments gap, empathy gap, etc. Bringing it back to your point, give more effort in paying for dates and I'll give more efforts in making you orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:53 PM
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I'm not sure what you're getting at. If men felt like dating was more equal and there was more to get out of it than sex, then we'd probably feel more obligated to please the woman. But no, women treat it as a carrot at the end of a stick. So don't be mad or surprised when we eat the whole carrot and don't break off half and hand it to the woman holding the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:41 PM
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No, women sees sex as a reward for men. Most women won't have sex with you until meet whatever standards or expectations they have. Most women will admit they won't even entertain it until a man spends money on them, and in turn women won't reciprocate any of those actions because they believe sex is the reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:29 PM
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Because women use sex as a reward for a man's efforts and initiative. So if a man goes through hoops in order to get sex, it wouldn't make sense for him to not be selfish about it. It's like letting Roger Goodell wear your superbowl ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:24 PM
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A woman saying online dating is her only dating strategy says a lot about her entitlement, personality and effort. If a woman can't put any effort into leaving the house putting on a feminine disposition and engaging in people in real life, she's not going to offer a lot in a relationship. Women are sprinting toward their divorce, excited thinking they can sit on their couch and order up Chads on dating sites to give them attention and relationships as easily as they order Spanx on Amazon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 06:54 PM
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The terms cognitive dissonance and woman should be considered synonymous terms on thesaurus.com
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 06:30 PM
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She says I want boys to give me the benefit of the doubt, but I won’t give them the benefit of the doubt. I cannot expect others to do something for me that I am unwilling to do for them. It's crazy that it takes a therapist for a woman to comprehend this. Absolute jem right here. Women are solipsistic and don't understand they're expecting men to settle for them. It's like someone without a law degree saying they won't settle as a paralegal, but thinking they're entitled to someone hiring them …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:50 PM
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Any study that involves any woman over 30 can't be trusted. Men live in reality and women live in validation fantasies. Women after they get a certain age and realize their hopelessness enter a stage of putting on the happily single facade to mask their relationship failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:18 AM
2

By open minded she means she's desperate enough too accept any man of any race and any lifestyle who is self-deprecating enough to deal with her and her baggage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 06:34 PM
2

It's crazy how women show how disposable they think men are through their dating profiles, only to turn around and tell men to treat them as their queen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 07:22 PM
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When you're a HVM if you don't ask for a relationship after 2 weeks you're a commitiphobe. When you're not a HVM they only want to keep you around for attention and dates and any talk of a relationship is moving too fast. Women don't have logical foundations they have emotions that support whatever they feel entitled to at the moment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:40 AM
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Women will use pickme whenever they see a woman trying too hard. At least you're woman enough to admit it has nothing to do with being a doormat. Just simply not doing the bare minimum as a woman is considered pick me behavior. And I already did a post on this, but a simp is nothing like what you would consider a pick me. A simp sacrifices his own humanity to uplift a woman and expects the same of all men. What you would consider a pickme is someone who sacrifices her privilege in order to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:40 AM
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If pickme has a very specific definition, then you need to stop calling women pickmes whenever they do something you don't like. You saw the Twitter hoe babble about "Cater to You", and women were calling it the pick me anthem. No where in the song did they imply anything was out of desperation or for approval, nor was the implications it was for low quality men. Any search on Twitter or Reddit and women are called pick mes for any action that benefits a man, not for very specific situations of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:04 PM
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The only branch she was able to grab onto was my dick. Fucked her one time and left her on read. She still texts me once a year hoping I'm desperate enough to settle. I married someone much younger and better looking so it would be the ultimate validation for her if I acknowledge her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 09:12 PM
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Do you recognize how nonsensical you sound. Let's summarize your asinine argument. A woman says she keeps her husband happy. You call her a pickme. The other guy said she's not a pickme because you can't assume she's a doormat. What you're literally saying is that you called her a pickme, and since a user generated site called pickmes doormats, by called her a pickme she's therefor a doormat. Please tell me you see how dumb that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:58 PM
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"Research shows that single women are the happiest people on the planet". I always want to say "oh yeah, then divorce your husband and try it. This is a jewel out of the piece. And a perfect response to these "studies" I always say that women's egos and pride is the strongest on the planet as it is tied to their interpersonal relationships. There is a reason why when women can't secure a man after they hit their wall, they start proclaiming how happy they are being single and brag about the bene…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 06:59 PM
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it's because she, at 35, finds traits desirable that she didn't find desirable at 25. Or in other words, there are things she knew she could get when she was more valuable but now that she's old had to give up on and chose boring traits. The same men you wanted at 25 you want at 35. If that Chad you fucked said hey let's get married and have kids you'd go running even at 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:26 PM
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This is incoherent rambling. I made a post about how pickmes and simps aren't the same. An example of this is how women like you will call a woman a pick me for anything she does that benefits a man, but then write drivel like this claiming they don't have a backbone and never prosper. Pickmes don't exist, it's just a term used to shame women who don't take pride in being a useless woman like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:09 PM
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The very definition of a pickme is a doormat. No, that's something you project onto the term because if there isn't a negative connotation then you can't pretend to be better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:06 PM
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Anyone else notice how it's almost a fetish for a lot women to want a man raising kids she had by another man? I've come across so many posts and threads on various forums where women aggressively argue how normal this is or how virtuous it is for a man to "step up" in this situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 04:33 PM
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I can't deny this. There definitely are some cultures where older mothers are the mules for their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:55 PM
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I don't trust those statistics as they're self reporting. And we already went over thr fact that women will lie to maintain their victim status to maintain their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:51 PM
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Not only can women not cook, they think it's funny they can't. Seeing the wives of my friends laugh at the fact they can't function like adults is kinda infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:50 PM
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I have NEVER seen a truly 50/50 division of labor in which the wife works as many outside hours as the husband. NEVER. Not ONCE. You've never been in anyone else's household in order to make that affirmation in the first place. A lot of women think there should be 50/50 labor split even though there is an 80/20 split of the bills. If I'm paying for the majority of everything, yeah you're going to make up the slack around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:27 AM
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We assume men want domestic slaves because of how many men refuse to do domestic work once they start living with a woman. I don't know if I agree with that. I ask again what men from your past proves this to be true? Using posts on relationship subs proves that women don't have first hand experience of the things they argue for, but expect men to compensate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:20 AM
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I make 6 figs but the salary is irrelevant. Even at low salaries women expect men to provide. I had a gf right after college who made twice what I did who expected me to still pay when we went out. Many women expect you to starve so they can have a full belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:01 AM
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Absolutely not. If my paid work is allowing you to do unpaid work, then they're equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:06 AM
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This is an issue. Women who have no personal oppression are piggybacking off the trauma of previous women. There are women who have had the right to vote their entire lives using women not being able to vote as excuses for their actions. "my great grandmother wasn't able to vote, so now you owe me money for that oppression".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:03 AM
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No, you used to be housewives. If you consider that being a domestic slave, then you can say men used to be financial slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:01 AM
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Butterflies is nothing more than the anxiety that comes from having something you're not entitled to in your reach and the feeling that it may blow away any moment. Think of the feeling you get when you find a 100 bill laying on the ground and wanting to grab it but you have anxiety from being watched or someone coming back as soon as you grasp it. I'm willing to bet if you did a study the same brain function you get from gambling and women get from dating Chads and high value men will be exactl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 09:56 PM
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Someone on here put it perfectly. Men say mean things to each other and don't mean it Women compliment each other and don't mean it. It's all based on societies expectations for each of us. We highlight flaws in men and tear them down so we can overcome obsticals in order to compete and build up society. Women treat other women how they want to be treated, which is emotionally supporting them at the expense of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:44 PM
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I find it funny how women don't believe in the concept of withholding sex because it's not entitled. But yet they believe in the idea of withholding commitment. Ironic innit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:58 AM
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What's good to most women is nothing more than what validates her. This woman thinks spending money on her makes you "good", yet her disregard for the wellbeing and circumstances of the man who's spending the money makes her "good" in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:47 PM
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The problem of course is that you're trying to find men who don't have contempt for you but will accept your contempt for him. After all, how can you think a man not being generous to you in the very specific ways you expect him to is full of contempt, all while you are not generous with him in the same way? FDS and women like you talk out both sides of your mouth, and try to cover it up with flowery ideology of character and generosity. Simple question, would you date yourself? Would you date t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:42 PM
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And most women aren't into being cold approached. I agree with mostly everything you've said but I don't think this is to be true. Don't apply what the femcels and Karens on Twitter virtue signal to the rest of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:25 PM
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That's the whole point. Women want a man who find her special. How can you find someone special if you just met her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:07 PM
2

I 100 percent agree with you. People online date because it's easy and they don't have to risk a lot. Not because it's effective. Essentially people are cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:55 PM
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According to who? Also, realize that just because other people are doing it doesn't mean you have to. Jumping off the bridge and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:54 PM
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Yeah. That's why social media is like porn for women. When you see nothing but clout chasers doing stunts for likes on special occasions, your man just tating you to dinner seems relatively underwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:41 PM
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Yup. The one good thing about social media and the internet is that it really has exposed the nature of women to men who naturally and by default suffer from "Women Are Wonderful" syndrome. With things like FDS, Twitter, divorce rape stories and OLD profiles, a lot men are less likely to approach relationships and dating fully sacrificial under the assumption that the women are angels that have only good intentions. We can protect ourselves more and finally start getting something out of dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:37 PM
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You pretty much took the words out of my mouth. I don't care how much I make, I'm never allowing my wife to stay at home. For men it's just not a fair deal. Women aren't nearly as dedicated to the household as women of yesteryear, so essentially you'll be responsible for this woman's well-being for the rest of her life in exchange for a low effort meal and clean laundry? Nope. Make her ass work, hiring a cleaning lady and eat out if it gets too tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:14 PM
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You should be grateful that you had a system in place where you had money in the first place. Oppression isn't having money but only being able to manage it under the family structure, oppression is not being able to participate in the structure in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:43 PM
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In the US, it wasn't until the 60s that a woman could open a bank account in her name alone. But they could open a bank account with their husband. Which exemplifies what I'm saying. You sat under privilege and benefited from privilege, now you think you can relate to black people who were completely unable to open them period, and if they opened their own banks they were burned down. THAT'S oppression, not you being unable to open an account with your husband's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:38 PM
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You're talking about different situations. Women act like they have been enslaved by men. In reality all you did was sit under men and benefit from all of the privilege you say they have. Black people actually had to deal with something called the Atlantic slave trade and supplied slave labor to create the privilege you were benefiting from. Now you're you're acting like you don't need men because we've taught you skills and built companies to give you positions. You haven't built shit to claim …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:53 PM
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You're grandstanding. Stay on topic or move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:21 PM
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I don't see how telling women well past their prime to stop being entitled would lead to dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:21 PM
2

I’m not sure why you all continue to take advice from a man whose cheated on his wife. This is a logical fallacy. His discretion are completely irrelevant from his advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:00 PM
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I'm black and absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:27 PM
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No one can deny independence. At any point in history women could have step up and invented, created and initiated but you didn't because your motivations are different which is okay. But if you're a coder you didn't create Python. A man did along with the internet you work on, the hardware you code for and created the company you work for. A man built the school you were taught at and you were likely taught by a man. So for women to take their situation and use it as a middle finger to men as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:03 AM
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You really shut that shit down lol. It's quite amazing, women literally have men to thank for granting them their independence, only to turn around and act ungrateful for it. It's crazy, you do your job because a man invented whatever your specialty is, taught you how to do it, then built the infrastructure in order to make it thrive. You're not independent based on the glory of women, you're independent based on the glory of men who were tired of carrying your dead weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:59 AM
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Lol "medical field". In other words a CNA or nurse's assistant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 02:30 AM
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Wait, so saying that women use men for dates and attention is sexist, but claiming men will use women who approach them as cum rags isn't, even though numerous studies have shown the extent to women using men for free meals? You sound like an idiot using the sexist angle because you have nothing else at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:41 AM
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It’s crazy how y’all try to be a strong, independent new age women who doesn’t need anyone and,simultaneously, the most unfortunate victim of circumstances FAR outside of your control. I wish I could post a preach gif
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:08 PM
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I think modern studies would show that women watch porn at the same level as modern men. The female sex toy trade is booming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:06 PM
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There are plenty of women who use men for dates and attention the same way men would theoretically use women for sex. Men are forced to adopt that risk so I'm not seeing why it would be different for women? On top of the fear of rejection, women also don't want to approach because it would force them to take accountability for the men they associate with. That argument is a fallacy because like I said, women complain about being used for sex regardless of who approach. So there would be no diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:04 PM
0

It's not hypocrisy to accept unilateral standards on a bilateral application. Expecting a man to pay for our dates as long as I keep my legs closed to other men is acceptable. Being mad that men expect me to keep my legs closed even though I expect them to pay for our dates is hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:39 PM
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To be honest, the only thing that's hypocritical is when women call out the hypocrisies towards them while fully indulging in and enabling hypocrisies that benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:19 PM
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I'm sure there are plenty of women who hate men with standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:32 PM
3

When men realize they can outsource their women, the game will be totally changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:13 PM
0

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:09 PM
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It's really pathetic. They try to justify it through biology but in reality they're just cowards scared of rejection. It's really pathetic when they complain about the types of men they attract but won't take any initiative to get the ones they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:06 PM
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Logic like this is only justification for women to be cowardly and not take initiative. As a man, you're not going to approach every single attractive woman you come across. It's unrealistic to think you're any special or different than any other of the 100s of women he comes across every day. Men are just as opportunistic at dating as we are at anything else. The problem when women is that because of their own inflated self worth, the only times they do approach is for an extremely high value m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:03 PM
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Now you're being intellectually dishonest if not just flat out silly. If you think the women at your local Walmart represent the average woman, then women don't have the right to talk about men not being attractive. Most women are ugly. You take away the makeup and shape shifting clothes even most dimes are mediocre. Women know that and shame any attempts at men using enhancements because women center their identities around their looks. The women who complain about men's looks are usually avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:11 AM
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The alternative is men stopping the validating of women through bending over backwards for them, trying to meet their fleeting standards, simping and giving them free attention. Then fulfilling your own desires, doing things that make you happy and only entering in any sort of situation with any woman if it give you incentive and benefit. The only reason why women make men jump through hoops is because men like you allow them to know they'll get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:45 AM
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Telling men to chase a waterfall isn't helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:48 PM
1

It's funny seeing you complain about this, considering women think simply dating a man without compensation is "a waste of time". You for the most part reinforce the reality that women can't handle what they dish out to men. That and you really love talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:10 PM
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I mean you're not wrong, I'm fashionable and advocate it. But you're not trying to help men, you're handicapping them by telling them to race to the top of a heap that is always rising for a prize that may or may not be there. If it's there, it likely won't be the prize he requests but he's forced to take it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:24 PM
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Men have never provided fitness and submission? Are you on the spectrum? I'm not even joking. I don't want to call someone with mental disabilities stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:29 PM
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Just like broke women who hate broke men despite creating a consumerism culture which makes everyone broke. Not really fascinating just stupid and hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:58 PM
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This post really exemplifies the how socially greedy modern women are. Let's put this in context. Generations ago men needed to protect and provide and in return they got fitness(image) and submission from women. Now in 2021, men not only need to increase our responsibilities in providing so women can keep up with instagram stunting, we need not only protect our women physically but also protect all women socially AND now according to people like you we're supposed to supply fitness(image) and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:54 PM
1

Creep is one the truly proves this point. You see it being tossed around a lot recently. As a man if you even breath wrong you're a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:59 PM
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FDS isn't a strategy to get men, it's a strategy to cope when men don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:33 PM
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You're right, women are by and large the cause of failing marriage rates as men no longer feel its worth the risk or the headache. You don't see research or TV shows centered around men complaining about the inability to find wives. Because we don't want them. On the flip side how many studies, TV specials and editorials have there been with women complaining about men avoiding them like the plague? Falling marriage rates correlate with rising average weight of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:30 PM
1

Have any of them proposed to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:51 PM
1

Because you mentioned "dating". You didn't mention relationships or marriage. Men of value can "date" hundreds of women, don't mean they think anything of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:20 PM
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There are women who are in fact happy to be alone, those woman aren't on Reddit preaching about how happy they are to be alone. Most of you are undesirable and using high standards as an excuse to why men don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:19 PM
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I think there are a bunch of reasons (more on that below) people find the high standards frustrating, but a key element I see in the complains of men abut women’s standards is that they feel like we’re changing the rules of the game in a way that reduces the enormous advantages men have had in dating and marriage. If men had enormous advantages in marriage then you wouldn't see men trying their damnest to avoid it for as long as possible. On the flip side you see women feigning that marriage isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:17 PM
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Well if you're just dating and none of those men feel the need to lock you down, then yes I'd say there is a problem with your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:06 PM
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The real way to get a man’s attention (in this case) is to continue living your life. One of the top 3 dumbest things I've ever heard in my life. "the best way to become a lawyer is to continue being a cashier"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:15 PM
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I feel you man. One of the reasons why I became so red pill is because I would be considered a high value man looks wise. And I still came across women who desired to be with me and around me but were still so damn effortless and entitled to my time. For women if you're on their level or a catch to them, in their eyes you should put them on a pedestal. Only men who they have no business with will you see them putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:31 AM
1

But let women tell it clerical work is like brain surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:26 AM
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Absolutely, but the difference is that women expect and flat out demand that from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:45 AM
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Women with good jobs who contribute financially and emotionally to their relationships. You know, normal women. And there really is no such thing as a career oriented woman. Just a woman who lives vicariously through her job. Working hard in your career is a default, it's nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:27 AM
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Most women use their "careers" as a scapegoat for all their failures in their personal lives. Having a career will never get in the way from you from achieving marriage, kids or anything else. There are women who are much more important and with many more achievements who did it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:26 AM
0

You have to be quite remedial to think these are the only options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:14 AM
1

Have you thought about maybe these women just love their jobs? Very few people love their jobs. Particularly us in corporate. People who live their jobs don't love their jobs as much as it becomes their identity. And people like that are miserable, particularly women who think living their jobs make them entitled to more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:13 AM
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I think it's funny when women try to feign control over rejection by saying stuff like "if you want someone skinny swipe left" etc. No shit. You don't have give permission to someone who thinks you're ugly to not bother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:14 AM
1

This is absolutely true. The fact of the matter is that women don't want to compete on any other level besides beauty. And that's because a woman who cooks well or has a great personality is only glorified by the man she's doing it for. While a beautiful woman is glorified by any any man she comes across. So if a woman wants to increas her perception and market value, she'll rather run and get surgery or pile on makeup because the most important thing to her is validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:25 PM
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So an adult is subject to detailing the accusation and collection of evidence in order to begin an investigation. You're in a thread about the infantilizing of grown women and here you are acting as if grown women are too weak to talk about an attack in the name of justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:23 AM
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Yes! It’s weird that they look at a criminal and then the victim of crime and wonder why the victim isn’t being punished more. I've never in my life seen anyone try to punish or prosecute someone who was raped. Can you please post some sort evidence of this? Or are you playing stupid and conflating criticizing dumb actions that lead to a consequence "punishment"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:19 AM
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Having a list as a whole is unrealistic. But vague lists like these are disengenuous because anyone with the audacity to write out a list in the first place knows the specific things she desires. She knows the dollar figure she's comfortable with, financial stability doesn't mean anything. She knows they type of man she's attracted to, attracted to each other doesn't mean shit. "accepts me for my quirks" is dumb, because would she accept him for his quirks? Women as a whole need to stop writing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:39 AM
0

Exactly. She used vagueness to mask how reasonable the requests may be. A fat woman wanting a bodybuilder can be described as her wanting them to be attracted to each other. Does that sound reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:32 AM
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Only fat women think not wanting overweight, broke and useless = must be a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:27 AM
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That list seems to be written in a way to make irrational intentions sound palatable. "Find each other attractive" may sound innocent, but what if this woman is 200 pounds and only finds fit men attractive? "Has plans for financial stability in the future" could mean she only wants men with a trajectory to make 6 figures and she's working at McDonald's. I'm not saying there are any ulterior motives with this list, but the fact there is a list, and is written like this and is long reads to me lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:22 AM
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Talking to women is the worst way to find out what they're actually doing. Women use words to project a facade, not reflect reality like men. Which is why fat women are BBW, lazy women are oppressed, and slutty women are liberated. The only way to know what's real with women is to study their actions and take what comes out of their mouths with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:44 PM
1

Men are the perpetrators of DV at higher rates than women (NCADV 1 in 7 women and 1 in 25 men have been injured by an intimate partner) These two sentences aren't related. Women most likely perpetrate DV at a higher rate because women slapping, throwing things, and initiating violence when angry is normalized and under reported. But that's has nothing to do with you stat for being injured, considering one could still commit domestic violence without injuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:41 PM
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No, then women are less incentived to tell the truth after that age because after that, they rely on the victimization from the stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:54 AM
6

Statistics show that women cheat at the same rate as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:39 PM
1

Yup. Even reading up on red pill for years will never hit you as hard as watching it play out in your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 11:10 PM
1

This post exemplifies how as Kevin Samuels explained it, how women don't use words to express reality but to create facades. It's all throughout the short bio. BBW = fat, wonder woman = puts herself in terrible situations, "no time for a broke mfka" = need someone to save me for potentially some vagina.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 11:08 PM
2

When I was single if I knew the girl was into me I would pay for the first date then have her pay for the second. There was only one woman who I knew wasn't enamored and I had her pay half. If a woman was really digging me I had her take me out. When you're a man with value, women won't be cheap towards you and will bend over backwards to appease you. I assure you as a man, you're relationships will be more fulfilling if you only date generous women. Entitled women aren't worth the caked on foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:42 PM
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Lol you're not dominant you're just a simp in denial. There are two types of men in this world, ones who have to foot the bill to get laid and those who don't. You could pay for every date and not get laid, and you could pay for none of them and still get laid. You and men like you need to worry less about your cost benefit ratio and start worrying more about how imbalanced your relationship end up being.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:37 PM
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I don't get this one, my wife would, as they say, take me to the cleaners if I divorced her but so what? I mean, you clearly get this one you just don't care because it probably don't apply to you. The reason why it's so hard for most of these men is because they probably were getting anything in their marriages, so to lose all their assets with nothing to show for it is a hard pill to swallow. Which is why men need to stop trying to be the big bad provider. Make your woman invest just as much i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:25 PM
1

You don't know your worth of you think it's high even after your baby daddies busted inside you and still ran for the hills. People don't get up and walk out in the middle of blockbuster movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:59 PM
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Women's whole identity is centered around being unappreciated and unhappy regardless of how beneficial their relationships are. If anything, women especially those of today's generation over estimated the work they do. I wouldn't trust any study where women estimate how much work they do in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:53 PM
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Numerous reasons. Women as a whole look for men to provide excitement and entertainment in relationships. Which is one of the reasons why when women regardless of relationship status are looking for thrill, they're answer is to start dating. This is exemplified by the countless posts online of women saying they want a divorce because they're bored. So when the thrill is gone in marriage, their answer is to find a man who will provide it. Men on the other hand, when we're bored we find a hobby. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:49 PM
1

Being an emotional tampon isn't simply being a friend to a woman. It's being in an unbalanced power position where the woman exploits the admiration from a simp to unilaterally use him emotionally, financially and attention wise. Friendships are bilateral. If the man stopped being the emotional crutch and stop helping her move, then there is nothing there. Even women don't like their female friends who contribute nothing to the friendship other than their problems. Simps would be a lot less bitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:38 PM
3

Incel? I'm married lmao. No worries though, as long as I'm not claiming I'm single by choice because only homeless men want me, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:08 AM
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If you're single because no good men want you, then it's not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:11 AM
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Dies on the streets? Woman this isn't 1820.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:14 AM
3

If anything this is an issue with women. How many times have you seen women cry because they aren't able to swipe right and find the love of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:40 AM
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The only men who are into the whole curvy thing as you put it, are low quality men who don't qualify for fit women. And she doesn't want to settle for those men, so herein lies her conundrum. And most women in this category. They're solipsistic to the point they don't realize their entitlement to not settle causes them to expect men to settle for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 12:16 AM
1

What's the purpose of this perspective? Should they be scared or ashamed their views are conservative? TRP ideology is quite progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:19 PM
3

Being a doctor or astronaut and being submissive aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:53 AM
1

Am I speaking Latin? How. Do. The. Men. Benefit. From. That???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:53 AM
2

drive from the work place into home. My uncle was one temporarily it was just a few months yet the home fell into such disarray that my aunt ended up doing both roles. Same with my parents my mom surpassed my dad in earnings and education. She was the breadwinner working the most hours yet it was me and my grandma doing the work and child rearing. I'm sorry but your bum bloodline doesn't represent the field. And I'm moreso reflecting modern generations and relationships. You can look and find wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:38 AM
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This is one of the most intellectually dishonest threads I've seen on this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:28 AM
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I worked from home because honestly house husbands tend to be lazy dudes IMO. How many house husbands do you know and have witnessed for you to make this statement? Or are you simply assuming this based on your biases of men and house labor? You think women are out here acting like mary Poppins while their men are at work? I think most men would bring whatever ambition and drive from the workplace to the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:50 PM
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Those studies are based on surveys submitted by women estimating their time spent on activities. If it's one thing my time on earth has shown me is to take a woman's word on her value and contribution with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:33 PM
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All of my good female friends do the majority of cooking and cleaning. You're assuming all of your female friends do the majority of cooking and cleaning. I'm sure you're not in their houses to be able to asses their level of input. On the flip side I know the wives of all my friends don't cook, because they all laugh about it and think that shits funny. Women in 2021 think it's cute they aren't able to function like normal adults and it's being enabled by men, even myself. I’m not saying at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:50 AM
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That goes for women too. Nothing worse than a broke ass woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:11 AM
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If what we get back from men in exchange for being personal servants is, well, a pile of non-compost friendly shit, we probably do not value that. So tell me, how many men have you dated where they expected you to serve them hand and foot daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:06 AM
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And like I said how many women are cooking and cleaning for their man consistently? I think most women who argue these points are arguing vicariously through old school assumptions. Out of all my educated, well earning male friends, all of us are great cooks and absolutely none of our wives can even boil water. When I go out I see fathers holding their kids and pushing their strollers. This ideology that women are doing all the work is beyond outdated, but women like yourself hold on dear to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:05 AM
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we’re complaining that we’re expected to be servants with nothing remotely equivalent in return. Truth be told you get a lot in return, the problem is you don't value what you get because, as Ruxin from the league put it, when a woman is happy she looses her power. You get bills paid, dates planed, protection, leadership, someone to make decisions for you, someone to take accountability for your shortcomings, someone to boost you ego, someone to tell you lies to protect your self esteem, someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:42 AM
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Considering the low level of emotional intelligence you've exhibited, the only person you'd be able to make cum is yourself, likely while looking at a photo of bell hooks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:54 PM
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Do you even like men? I sense carpet munching in your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:49 PM
5

I doubt any of those men think they're missing out on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:48 PM
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Why are there so many studies for men and porn, but so few studies for women and social media. And there are many women addicted to porn and toys themselves and it's never addressed, but I guarantee you if they start studying social media men will be included.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:53 AM
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So does feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:45 AM
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Lmao!!! When women need a hit of endorphins, they pick up their phone and check the likes on their pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:45 AM
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Creepiness is nothing more than a man who lacks the social awareness to realize whether his actions line up with his SMV. Although the word has been hijacked by Twitter feminist and used to attack men in all situations, you're still responsible as a man to have the emotional intelligence to know how to approach based on your social perception. Men who don't are likely to be psychopaths. With that said, people need to stop assuming that social media narrative translates into the real world. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:55 PM
4

Easier said then don't. I've literally been physically assaulted by every women I've been in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:23 AM
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I understand why some men cheat. Men are required to invest so much in relationships with little to no guaranteed tangible reciprocation. A system that's set up so that men become overly invested from the beginning to where they have to weight that investment with leaving empty handed. From the beginning you've planned every interaction, paid for everything, sacrificed ego and pride just to keep the peace and accepted emotional and physical abuse normalized by society, being required to protect …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:05 PM
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I have an even hotter take, most of the people on the internet arguing the most arguing about relationships have no experience with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:45 PM
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Yes, the rich nerd is going to be more attractive than the broke supermodel-esque hotties with older and/or more relationship minded women. Who are you trying to convince? There is a reason why married kept women cheat on their providers with the starving artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:41 PM
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No, the ceiling is the effort. If your effort is unlimited, your ceiling is unlimited. Elon Musk looks like a carved pumpkin, yet he can have almost any woman he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:22 PM
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PUA has existed since the beginning of time, it was just referred to as "game". The intersect to the point its about the individual male imperative, but they aren't the same theology. It's like comparing Islam to Christianity, and saying they're the same because of the focus on a higher being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:03 PM
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Depends on what you would consider the ceiling to be. An ugly or short man could become a millionaire and achieve all of his dreams. The threshold is contingent on how hard you want to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:00 PM
0

What is a fascist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:03 AM
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This post is kinda ironic. If you knew what you were talking about, you'd realize Kevin doesn't think hypergamy is an issue. TRP doesn't think so either, which is why it advocates for men to level themselves up. You post exemplifies why trp and KS exist, because women speak on things they have no knowledge about, make up things so they can argue against them, and low quality women wanting more than they're entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:03 AM
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Women truly are the most solipsistic things on the planet. Newborn babies aren't as unaware of themselves as grown adult women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 06:42 PM
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Yet western women are all mostly fat, broke, and on antidepressants so it must not be thay easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:30 PM
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It’s poly relationships are uncommon period. Most women aren’t okay with sharing just like most men. That’s the point. You ever hear of a mistress? Men with multiple families? Rich men and celebrities with women on every city? Mormons? Under what circumstances have you seen multiple men sharing one woman? I find it hilarious that I’m arguing that it’s not beneficial to anyone whilst you’re arguing that it’s beneficial to women to be loyal while the man reaps the benefits of multiple women. I'm a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:25 PM
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You’re talking about me ignoring the man’s perspective when that’s exactly what you’re doing. What the hell are you talking about? I already explained how men and women could benefit from polygamy. Shared resources and biological imperative. You seem to be arguing from the perspective that men would enter into polygamy for the fuck of it. The situation would need to benefit both the men and women. So stop dodging the question of how a polyandrous relationship would benefit the men? Simple questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:32 AM
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How many women do you think Bezos can fund by himself without any of the women feeling the hit? Come on, don't play dumb. Yes reproduction is a major issue, it's our biological imperative and like I said, has societal importance. It's the reason there are alpha males in the animal kingdom with multiple females in their harem. And secondly you brought up the fact that a woman can multiply her resources through polyandry but conveniently left out the perspective of the men. So once again, how do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:28 AM
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It's the fact that there are women who are butt ugly to mediocre in their natural state, who put on makeup to look down on men who don't use unnatural things to boost their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:03 AM
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Absolutely. How does sharing a single woman benefit a group of men? With polygamy, a single man can impregnate multiple women at the same time. Multiple women can also all benefit from abundant resources from a single man. On the flip side, men aren't benefiting from resources from a woman, and reproduction is stunted when there is more men than women, let alone just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:54 AM
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Polygamy if outdated makes social and biological sense. Polyandry makes absolutely no sense based on any criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:40 AM
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Men have similar standards for who they marry as who they sleep with. If you want to use the coat analogy, women have jcpennys money but feel entitled to hermes, but try to settle for h&m in their thirties while even though they're aroused by coats from Goodwill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:27 AM
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You don't plan to wear a coat for a week. You buy coats, then get another once it's outdated, worn, or you grow out of it. Most people live off h&m coats, very few people buy hermes. This analogy doesn't make any damn sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:43 PM
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These really aren't requirements though and you're being dense. I'm an ass man, but there is no demand on the size. I'll take a small ass if it's shapely, I'll take a big ass if it's tone, I'll take a small fit ass if it pokes. Breast men don't have cup requirements. They'll take anything plus C. Men's physical requirements cover a large portion of women. Let even take into consideration the most popular porn stars are skinny women. Men may not be completely devoid of requirements meaning they'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:47 PM
1

Absolutely. Social media is the woman's equivalent of porn, attention is the woman's equivalent of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:39 PM
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This is the inherent problem though. Every man has different preferences to what constitutes high value to them. But if you were to ask women, you'll definitely see trends that fall to the physical and financial. Which is where women get tripped up. Some men like breasts, some men like ass, some men like legs. The majority of women have all of them. All women like height, most women like muscles, all women like money, 130% of women like power. All of these are in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:16 PM
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There is a lot of truth in this post. You rarely see implicit high value people walking around with laundry lists of requirements, mostly because they're surrounded by their equals, and people are eager to accommodate to their preferences anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:12 PM
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The argument is presented wrong but I completely agree with you. I remember reading a story about a doctor who was divorced raped by a woman who by the end of the story was a lazy narcissist who did nothing the entire marriage and got the kids and all the money while he went broke. The thing is, she was just as useless, lazy and narcissistic before he put a ring on it. Just like women need to take accountability for the bums they associate with and have children with, so do men who need to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:22 PM
1

At least men become useful after 30. Women are pretty useless in their 20s, then become even more useless and desperate in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:15 PM
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Complaining about simps is completely different form the social coercion performed by women, as the goals and motivations are on opposite ends of the spectrum. Men complain about simps because they lower the standards of all men, which is a legit threat to our mental and financial well being. Women complain about pick mes because they raise the bar for women which has been kept disgustingly low throughout history. To simplify it let's look at paying for dates. Simps will advocate that men should…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:08 PM
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Quite possibly one of the top 3 Reddit posts I've ever read, based on numerous criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:52 PM
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Absolutely not. Women are lazy as hell and completely risk averse when it comes to dating. I'm what other situations on God's green earth is there a group of people that feel entitled to something and want so bad, yet they sit around and do nothing to get it? Name one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:41 PM
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Did you think this post through?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:24 PM
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Prejudging much?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:32 PM
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I know you're acting as if you're in an active search for this man, but I'll be honest with you, all "non promiscuous" women I know are socially awkward at most, and have restrained social skills at minimum. Meaning you're most likely not going to be proactive at looking for and approaching men who you as fit. I say this as a very non promiscuous man who married a virgin that acted uncomfortable and unapproachable every time she saw me. I'm sure you have came across plenty of men who have fit yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:54 PM
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Who said it's evil? It should be taken into consideration just like anything else. But don't be mad when the man who you're judging based on income judges you based on other things. Thats the issue. Women thinking they should be accepted because they're nice while they think they're entitled to fortune 500 money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:31 PM
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One of the biggest relationship objectives for some women is to have a man financially and socially locked in their situation. No outside options, and opportunity costs too high for him to leave after she gets fat and stops having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:53 PM
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people often regurgitate things they think people wanna hear, Especially on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:10 PM
1

This entire post is 100 percent fax
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:54 AM
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Yup. And there is something I like to call preemptive rejection. When people of lower SMV pretend they don't like people with higher SMV as a way to make themselves feel better about not being desirable. I remember seeing a post where a woman said she doesn't find attractive men attractive. No sis, you just know attractive men wouldn't approach so you say you don't want one in order to make it seem like you're the one controlling the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:40 AM
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Thanks for your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:24 AM
3

Yo ass better preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:01 AM
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Liberalism has made it to where whenever there is a victim, there has to be a privileged victimizer. Which would have to be women. Leftists of course would never let that happen. Look at how false rape claims are swept under the rug to protect women. Also simps would undermine it in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:59 AM
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Speaking of books, pick one up read the definition of "correlation" and educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:17 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:55 AM
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I think it's amazing how Western culture has weakened so much that we believe fitness dedication equates to being unable to enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:51 AM
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Yup. Women want to get comfortable in relationships, and desire a man who's not going to suddenly become in demand while they sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:39 AM
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No, it's women pretending to have low standards to get internet points, while sliding into personal trainer DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:38 PM
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Lmao! Right, because there isn't a whole body positivity movement made up with fat women trying to normalize being fat and trying to stop men from expecting them to be fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:36 PM
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I also want to mention this is contingent on your own SMV. If you're 220 pounds or look like a female Flava Flav, your exes we're fat because that's all you could get, not because you like dad bods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:23 PM
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See how women bend reality to fit their bullcrap? Don't give me a fit man, give me a man that runs marathons and works out 6 days a week but eats burgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:19 PM
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What benefit is there to lying about what we find attractive? Posturing to create a false sense of security so men will continue to chase and allow themselves up to be used for your benefit. Same reason why women say they like "nice guys" or the few who say "money isn't important". Very few secure women will all things similar, will take a man with a beer belly over a man with a six pack for reasons other than emotional insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:17 PM
0

But they weren't defending the pedophiles. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 12:45 AM
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That means a lot of Quasimodo-looking men think they're "average" and a lot of average women think they are supermodels. I really don't buy this at all. If anything, I think that below average men think that if they improve their efforts their value increases. Which is why simps and nice guys often get butthurt. They think if they blow money, help women move, be an emotional tampon, etc it makes them equal to Chads in the woman's eyes. And it never does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:49 PM
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Yup. Every society in history has essentially been built upon the idea of the sacrificial male. Which is the reason the unmarried man has been demonized throughout history. Because when a man lives for himself and his own desires, he's less likely to go to war, produce the nation's next children(soldiers), and work hard labor for someone else's goal. Hell, in ancient Rome unmarried men were fined.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:29 PM
2

You'd probably be able to buy a dictionary and look up misogyny!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:10 PM
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Women are solipsists. I was just about to post this. It's amazing how some of them think the world revolves around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:18 PM
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You don't know what misogyny means
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:57 PM
2

That happened to me too. Beautiful woman with h cups didn't know how to clean her ass properly. She had bodies on bodies but was lazy in bed with unenthusiastic oral. Pure waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:54 PM
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No he won't be disappointed in every other woman.Men don't glorify the experience, we glorify the victory. A lot of y'all women believe men think like y'all do. The sex probably wouldn't even be that great with the model.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 02:36 AM
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I'll say this. If an average man were to catch a supermodel slipping one day and had sex with her and got tossed aside, I assure you he won't start perusing Paris fashion week for a wife as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:48 AM
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That's because women date for validation, not for partners. There is much more validation when a man is so intrigued by her that she doesn't have to say or dictate anything, he just does what she wants automatically because she's so awesome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/21 12:40 AM
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That's the case in some scenarios, but I've called out at least 5 women in my real life who would complain about lack of men approaching them only to own up to only being approached by types they don't want. When women say "there aren't any good men left" they mean there aren't any good men who will settle for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:12 PM
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Imma be honest, I think you're exaggerating to force a false equivalency. Men who are out there partying, drinking, doing drugs and screwing beautiful women aren't on Reddit PPD. The last thing they'd be doing is complaining. Secondly, I don't think you're scenario would fit under lack of accountability in the first place. Being attractive shouldn't preclude women from being good and having something to offer. Why wouldn't a man who's in demand be able to pursue something on his level? That's di…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:08 PM
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When do you see men who party and drink and screw beautiful complaining about lack of women? Seriously, you could have thought about this more before posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:57 PM
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That's the problem. If I gave the average person $10mil dollars, he'd be overjoyed at his riches. If I took away $990mil from a billionaire and left him the same $10mil dollars, he'd curse his poverty. It's all relative to where you started from. There literally isn't a better way to say this. Good job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 07:26 PM
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Social media has set up an environment that has exacerbated the lack of accountability with women and their dating situations. I've come to see that the "men ain't shyt" and "he's a fvchboy" narrative comes not from a man's actions being performed in a vacuum, but whether his actions validate the woman. I told the story of a friend who went on a date with a woman who wasn't engaged, stayed on her phone most of the night and had no conversation. After he politely declined another date she cursed …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:21 PM
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You ever hear the phrase "lightness and darkness can't exist in the same space"? As you get older you and experience different people and their actions, you come to realize that people aren't able to compartmentalize behavior with different situations. In simpler terms, your character traits will exist in most or all areas of your life whether good or bad. If you procrastinate at work, you're likely going to procrastinate at chores. If you're blow up at strangers for simple stuff, you're going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:42 PM
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Women's obsession is being validated through their man. Men don't look for validation from their women. Most men don't expect anything from women aside from cooperation and fitness. Men are taught its only themselves they can depend on, which is why when we're bored in a relationship we find stuff to occupy our time. When women are bored in a relationship they press their man to provide entertainment. If the man doesn't, then they leave/divorce to find someone who would. A man just finds a hobby…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:58 PM
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Right, it's kinda like when women say men don't approach me. And in reality they mean men who they want don't approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:10 PM
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What what do men feel extremely lucky about? Literally having a woman that knows how to boil pasta and pays for her own food every once in a while and he's on the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:06 PM
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This is silly. You can have sex without all this investment. From the sound of it you're having high risk sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:04 PM
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I think it's ironic because these are the same women who still date unilaterally, meaning they think men shouldn't expect any benefits or privileges from dating them but they should strive to meet their standards. They expect courting with no fitness, cooperation or entitlement to sex. Don't even expect her to text you first. So if the bar is low for men, the bar for women is buried next to Jimmy Hoffa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:58 PM
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When your doctor tell you you have cancer they don't say "you go girl! ", they say you have fucking cancer. Straight and direct. You need to ask your doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 11:40 PM
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What's frustrating about women who think like this, is they're really not the ones who deal with it in the first place. The whole sexual and social dynamics are being manipulated by people who don't interact with the opposite sex in that manner in the first place, just internalizing the cherry picked things they see on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:30 PM
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I don't know if women have gotten more fragile, or if liberalism has commodified victim hood so well to where it's socially beneficial since it reinforces political stereotypes and agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:27 PM
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Men aren't women. If you said that to a man he'd know you're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:08 PM
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Lol you think men with high SMV who are knocking down everything in sight give a damn about their sex skills? You need to get a grip on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:51 PM
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The difference is: many men are terrible at sex. They are selfish, they think jackhammering with little to no foreplay is at all satisfying to women, and they have 0 interest in learning otherwise. Absolutely, because women treat sex as a "reward" for proper courting and generosity of resources. So why wouldn't men be selfish with it. Do you share your paycheck with your bosses?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:59 PM
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I didn't say I never had good sex, I said most of you are terrible at it but think you have the bomb vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:57 PM
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This flippant and solipsistic way of looking at these socially engineered issues men are dealing with is exactly why we're are so triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:51 PM
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Men and women have different standards when it pertain to income. Men's first priority is fitness and cooperation. Income is the icing on the cake. If a woman makes less money but makes us happy, we'd easily adjusts out lifestyles down if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:09 PM
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Even some who were very into me and having orgasms left and right were mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:07 AM
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The fact that you think having lots of sex means you're good at sex, shows you're bad at sex. The women who were the worst lays were the ones with the biggest numbers. Prostitutes and the promiscuous are good at taking lots of dicks, not doing anything special to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:03 AM
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And yet you think you were good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:07 AM
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I find it funny how women think a man should have to arouse her, but don't think men should have to be enticed to take women in dates and spend money. That should just come naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:06 AM
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No they were giving a lot of sex to secure commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:03 AM
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Most women think you're good in bed. Here is a secret, the majority of you suck at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:48 AM
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Real talk, most women think they're enthusiastic and engaging but most of you suck in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:47 AM
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Men are asking for sex, therefore the onus is on them to make things sexy. So if women are asking for men to court them, women need to plan and execute dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:44 AM
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Have you heard of the term conformation bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:32 PM
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Not just the women, but us relatively average men who don't see the same distorted reality you do (and generally enjoy life because of it) The relatively average man is a beta, whos not really enjoying life as much as you're content in your position in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:59 AM
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The loudest RedPill guys shout about getting their dicks wet and hating on women who have more than 3 sexual partners. This isn't true at all. Those are just the guys people like you choose to focus on because it's easier to demonize trp if you use the extreme examples as broad representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:57 AM
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Not only are young men being left by the wayside, but the same women who got to where they are due to the handouts and privileges are looking down on those young men for not being where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:35 PM
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For some reason a lot of women don't comprehend this. They'll be dull and unengaging but still wonder why men aren't totally enamored by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:59 PM
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The women with high body counts are sleeping with all of those 20 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:06 PM
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If there was a spectrum, men are on one side and children are on the other side. Men are accountable for 100 percent of their adult actions and as a result live 100 percent in reality. Children are on the other side. They live 100 percent in their fantasies and are held accountable for 0 percent of adult actions. Women are smack dab in the middle. They live half in their heads and half in reality, and are held accountable for half their adult actions. In today's society women aren't even held ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:08 PM
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This. I lost interest in my longest relationship because he became/(probably was always but I didn’t see it) such a boring person I definitely understand this, but my issue is the fact that women who say this are boring themselves, and place it on the man's shoulders to entertain them and make their own lives fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:52 PM
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That's because women have been conditioned to use oppression as a manipulation tactic. If women stopped complaining, then they lose their leverage and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:37 PM
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This comment is an example of the strawman I talk about women creating. People who parrot this can't name a single person who just cooks and cleans, yet there is a pandemic of women doing everything under the sun for men whom are as a whole avoiding women like the plaque. Apparently, pick mes are mommy, therapist, sex bot, cook, housekeeper, nanny, etc. Even though modern women don't know how to turn on stoves, are dead fish in the bed, have father issues, live in nasty houses, and are raising d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:07 AM
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I don't disagree with any of this. You're right, the goal may not be necessarily "fairness", but I think it's fair to say what results is fair, at least in context to what FDS is offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:02 AM
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No, YOU'RE idea of fairness is solospsitic. As you can see, it's women who hold the idea of childbirth over men's heads. How many times have you seen a man in a wheelchair from breaking his back working dangerous jobs so his woman can sit at home playing patty cake all day with the kids hold it over her head?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:17 AM
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Women's bodies aren't ravaged by anything. Women's are made to bear children. You aren't amputating an arm. You want to know what really ravages a body? Hard, back breaking work. More men die from working to provide a household for women and suffer irreparable damage than child birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:05 AM
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How could a man he threatened by an unsuccessful male? Does that make sense to you? There are two types of men. The men who date women on expensive dates, and the man who she calls after the date to come have sex. You're telling me the one having sex is threatened by the one feeding my fwb?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:05 AM
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How are you going to tell me about the fundamentals of trp, I'm damn there one of the originators lol. You don't make sense. Women don't want things they want people. Which is why when the right type man comes along they will disregard all of their rules of chivalry and standards and latch on to him. Trp says be the person she wants. If a woman wants a Chad, then a beta won't come by and get what he wants from her. It doesn't matter where you take a woman or how much you spend, if she don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:02 AM
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This can be used to excuse away any topic of any social ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:58 AM
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Notice how you didn't answer my question? Urban dictionary is a user submitted platform, the fact it threw in the conjecture about the men being of low quality exemplifies the goal of the entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:57 AM
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TRP is completely self interested. It’s main promotion is to encourage men to get what they want from women without any regard to what women (or that woman) might want. This alone shows your premise is nonsensical. It's impossible to get what you want from a woman if you don't give her what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:54 AM
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I'm sorry you're full of it. As another poster noted, the definition of pick me is a woman doing something for the respect and acceptance of men, regardless of how minute it is. And to prove this consider this. Pick me and the term pickmeisha has been repeated ad nauseum on social media and the internet. Even you can admit that. You're trying to tell me that these women calling other women these names are doing it after women have stated they've been abused and exploited? You're telling me, if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:35 AM
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We're doing it more. I usually make women pay for the second date after I pay for the first. But the social conditioning has definitely made it a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:31 AM
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Doing things to get men to respect you is the definition of pick me. Exactly, glad a FDS woman can admit this, instead of pretending pick mes are abused women, With that said, the purpose of dating is doing things to get the opposite sex to like you. Advocating women don't play the game, while expecting the world solely to validate your own personal hate of men, is exploitation of their gullibleness and mental state.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:27 AM
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ThE RuLeZ StAtEd On lItErAlY ThE fRonT PaGe Of HoMe Of FdS aRen'T ApPlIcAbLe!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:25 AM
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Show me the literature or evidence that TRP says treat women like sex toys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:21 AM
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The first and biggest thing FDS does is help women avoid predatory men. No, this is the way you market it to hide your true intentions. Because FDS essentially places men in two bucket, HVM or predatory. Essentially, the goal and the men you step on to get to the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:17 AM
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Let's put it this way. Women have a market value on the sexual market place and a price tag which is likely higher than the MV. TRP says offer what the market value is. FDS says place your price high even if it's ridiculously over inflated based on your market value. And for them men who call to inquire about purchasing at market value, make sure you hit them with hidden fees while you have them on the hook before they realize they can't afford the sticker price.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:23 PM
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That doesn't mean they aren't looking for providers. financial independence and hypergamy aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:16 PM
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Except... TRP IS exploitative. Not financially, like FDS, but emotionally and sexually. The only reason why you say this is because of the sexist ideology that sex is something that men do to women, not something that men and women engage in bilaterally. In other words you're not doing me a favor by letting me give you an orgasm just because I'm a man. I've literally seen women say even if she's the one who wants to have sex with a man, he has to pay for something or invest first before it happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:14 PM
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Her mental/emotional well being. How? what kind of women do you think are agreeing to this? Pick mes. There are very few women agreeing to this and you know that. More red herrings Only Rich men paid for everything. Poor women have always had to work and even kids too up until a certain point. Before the boomer generation I believe 70% of households were single income and 70% of men weren't rich. So no, this isn't correct. But we're talking about dating, historically men have always paid for eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:06 PM
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EXACTLY! there is a reason FDS shames women for doing things that increase their competitiveness in relation to other women. Things like paying for dates, approaching men, empathizing, etc. They're afraid of the bar being raised for women as a whole. On the flip side, TRP realizes a man simping for a woman doesn't do anything but degrade himself. Men aren't threatened by simps the way women are threatened by pick mes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:03 PM
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Nope, it’s not for fairness because they claim the male sexual imperative is at odds with the female one. Because it is at odds. I don't understand what you don't understand about that. TRP says stop being what women say they want, and start being what women prove they want through their actions. So it’s not about equality it’s about giving men a competitive edge so they can get what they want at women’s expense. FDS is the same way. At the expense of what exactly? Prove your assertion, what is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:51 PM
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That’s not what a pick me is. A pick me may or may not pay for dates, that doesn’t really matter. What matters is that she complete conceals and swallows her own identity - including her likes and dislikes, and her personality - in order to try and fit the “cool dream girl” fantasy of literally any available man that she crosses paths with. This entire post reads like a strawman fan fiction you created solely to debate against it. How invasive and realistic is this scenario? How have you, in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:37 PM
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TRP is not for fairness. It’s for helping men reach the male sexual imperative which allegedly is inherently at odds with the female one. TRP and FDS are literally the same thing just with the genders reversed. Which, theoretically, is fairness on the sexual marketplace. TRP says if you get out the basement and work out, make money, and grow confidence you can get women who are attracted to those things and all the benefits that come with it. FDS says you have a vagina and men want it, so if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:30 PM
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But as a whole, FDS is just a means to reject modern feminism and sex positive dating. This just isn't factual, when these same women are encouraging others to have FWBs and don't actually advocate improving on traditional skills HVM want. FDS is a means for women to get validation from two types of men. First through resources and attention from men who are consider not high value, and two from actual HVM by making them jump through hoops by making you feel "worth it". An issue women have had s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:38 AM
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Companionship and a potential life mate and potential mother to his children. He can find someone to give him that without the hoops to jump through and with sex immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:26 AM
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Most people marry within their socioeconomic level, but men are very open to dating women from all classes. It's women who believe they have to marry someone on their level or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:30 PM
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When I dated I made women pay for stuff. Society has made it to where it felt like I was doing something wrong. But my desire not to be exploited made me break through that ideology. My wife pays for dates now and it still feels 85 percent fine and 15 percent weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:53 AM
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All the men I know are amazing cooks and they all have success careers in tech, finance and law. I don't know a single woman with a career who cooks. Not a single one. I'm sure that most of you operate from stereotypes that support your own personal agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:16 PM
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Exactly. Women don't know how to treat men as friends, not a source for favors, resources or attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:15 PM
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I think it's very possible for people in their formative years to be friends with the opposite sex. But as you grow older you place people in boxes based on what they contribute to your life, and friendship tends to be one of the more irrelevant ones for men and women. People don't even bother with the same sex as friends if they don't provide social or financial benefit. And with the opposite sex, the box people are looking to fill will be romantic. If they don't belong in that box, there is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:46 AM
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Many men feel like they shouldn't have to "change themselves" to find someone to love them. This is a female talking point, not male. It's women who spew jems like "accept me for me" or "take me in all my flaws" or "if you don't want me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" nonsense. Anyway this is an oversimplification. In order to justify men having to pay for dates by using the excuse "women spend money on looking good", men have been led to believe they shouldn't have to put that much…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:38 AM
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That's exactly what I said!! I swear I'm not trying to toot my own horn, but according to this woman she was having numerous amazing orgasms every night. She would call me every night begging for sex and, I orgasmed twice over a 10 month period. Couldn't cook which is why she loved coming to my place. Never actually tried to put in effort in her looks, told me since I accepted her looking basic when we first met never felt the need to dress cute around me, and yet this woman thought she was enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:18 PM
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She ended up leaving me a voicemail "dumping" me one weekend because I needed to study for a professional exam and couldn't meet up but she saw me having dinner with roommates. Guess she expected me to beg her to come back but I just never responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:24 PM
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I was a simp who put women on a pedestal and got dumbed by someone who went to a dude who wasn't much but put on a good presentation. Started working out and really hit my peak and women started pouring in. Realized that no amount of simping makes up for lack of self worth, and women value men who value themselves. Then got falsely accused of DM by said ex when I rejected her when she came crawling back. Realized that women aren't these perfect creatures who deserve to be pedestalized. Also as I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:45 PM
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I think you know that men don't judge a woman's child if her husband died. Are you a woman? You don't seem to be arguing because you have a point, you're just arguing to argue. But in regards to if the father got addicted or abandoned, yeah I judge women who have babies by low lifes just like I judge men who do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:58 AM
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Sure, but that man's bastard isn't the result of the wife's bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:48 AM
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That's still a relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:50 PM
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Did you seriously just try to hold adopting an at risk relative over someone's head to prove a point? Some of y'all seriously need mental help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:35 PM
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Do you know what misogynistic means or do you just use it to describe something you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:28 PM
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Men aren't down voting the truth, they're down voting the absurdity. A short woman demanding a tall man is like an obese man demanding a fit woman. Men know the role height plays in dating, you're conflating advice with delusion in order to do more short shaming, and I ain't even short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:57 PM
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I'm not going to derail but yeah that's the idea with FDS, find a guy that works and pays for everything then comes home and does even more work, who's deluded enough into thinking he's the one benefiting because he has the honor of having a woman in his life when all he's getting is mediocre pussy. If it works for you, dive in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:40 PM
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Absolutely nothing. Men need to start forcing women into investing in the relationships. I cringe when I see men paying for their women's tuition, paying all the bills and refusing or let her pay for dates or even plan anything. In a few years if she dumps you, she's literally walking into her next relationship with a full bank account while you're left with cc debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:43 AM
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Lol your wife is making off like a bandit. FDS would love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:32 AM
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FDS isn't concerned with getting women in relationships or marriage. It's a front for women to encourage the exploitation of men who they don't deem worthy while they wait for a high value man. The reason why every piece of advice is essentially cutting and blocking every man off for every minute reason is to reinforce the idea that the average man disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:29 AM
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The average woman is attempting to leverage the sexual attention she gets into a relationship with men who don’t see her as relationship material. Then, when this strategy doesn’t work, is placing the blame on ALL men, and not taking part in her decision to try to put sex tokens in and get commitment out. Jebus man, you literally couldn't have put this ANY better. And there are so many examples of this in real life. Whether it's women thinking that sleeping with rich men or athletes means that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:26 AM
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How absolutely unwilling most women are to take control of their dating lives. It's the weirdness, pathetic, most frustrating thing to see something like a woman who complains about lack of a dating life admit she hasn't left the house in 4 years. Or a woman who doesn't like the men she attracts refuse to initiate with men. Or women lash out frustratingly about not getting men of value when she's broke and overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:39 PM
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You mostly see this from women. And to be honest I think it's more about them postering for control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:31 PM
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Ahhh. So we're things like toilet paper taxed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 10:22 PM
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I totally agree with you on the first point. It’s disgusting that in many places, those products are taxed as “luxury” products when they’re fucking basic necessity products. Is this really true? I feel this is one of those things that is pushed politically that people now use as a talking point but never looked into how true it is. And if they did they would see its outdated or extremely small in scope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:08 PM
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Women being intellectually disengenuous, you don't say!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:03 PM
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Accountability for women is shrinking to an all time low. It seems women nowadays think they're actions and behavior is impeachable. As an example I was talking to one friend who was on a date with a woman who wouldn't put her phone down, didn’t have much to say and overall wasn't very engaging. After the date he politely declined another date and she went off saying portrayed himself as a "good guy" but he wasn't shit like the rest of them. She essentially equated being a good guy with putting …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:03 PM
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This isn't a stereotype at all. I've seen heard this assumption prior to this post. Men want easy sex sure, but most men have too much pride to beg for it. That's the reason why we develop game and personality, sex is a lot better when we compel a woman to give it up willingly and enthusiastically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:40 AM
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Women claim looks aren't as important solely because the only thing they're providing is looks themselves and they want the man to provide resources. So they can't expect a man to provide looks and traditional resources when they're only offering one half of the equation. But there is a reason athletes are the most sought after men, many average women are walking around hoping tall rich men will settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:25 PM
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That's not what statistics and surveys say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:35 AM
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The split in housework should be the opposite to the split in bills paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 11:45 PM
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Women wanted to work like men, are realizing working like men is hard, and now want to backtrack after completely altering the work fabric. Big surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:58 PM
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An oxy moron how? And you’re wrong married people have more sex than single people. Your source included people aren't aren't sexually active, which completely misses the point. Men are not actively avoiding relationships. They’re actively avoiding marriage. We're actively avoiding both, and ironically enough if sex is what the goal is, and your source just indicated married people have more sex, then all of this completely conflicts with everything else. Why wouldn't mean get married if it mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:16 AM
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Plenty of average to ugly men will get into relationships because they know offering commitment is the only way they’ll get consistent sex. However they don’t really like their girlfriends and it shows in how they treat her. This is an oxymoron, I'm recall statistics saying men in relationships and marriage get less sex than single sexually active men. Regardless men cannot expect consistent sex in relationships in today's market. And men are actively avoiding relationships, so to present the ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:52 PM
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Not true at all. A man won't get in a relationship with a woman unless he feels she is worthy. Which is exactly why so many women complain about men pumping and dumping them. And when we get in a relationship, men usually matches a woman's effort. When you see women complaining about men not taking them out and whatever else, ask her what she's doing in return for him specifically. You'll find she's not doing a thing to make his life easier but tasks him to add excitement to her life. And no, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:33 PM
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A lot of women will be with a man but not be fully invested unless she's getting most of what she wants or getting more value than her own perceived value. It's like the women who call into youtube shows and say they may have loved a man but didn't do certain things he wanted because he didn't make enough money or she thought she could do better. Or when women say they'll submit only to a certain type of man. Women are the only ones who have a service menu for the type man she's with. Oh you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:37 PM
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This is a lie. FDS is literally all about how a man pursues you, and truth be told the ultimate goal isn't finding hvm, it's exploiting men who aren't the top percentage while you wait for a hvm to find you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:34 PM
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The issue is the fact that these women are low value themselves. A bunch of overweight, emotionally stunted women saying they're not going to date other overweight emotionally stunted men isn't a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:31 PM
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Do you know what a high value woman is? You can't become high value as a woman just because you get a job. If anything that lowers your value since your entitlement increases. With TRP you can at least see the logic play out in real life and observe success stories, even among all the incel. With this FDS delusion it's really nothing more than femcels trying to convince themselves this all or nothing mentality will punish men for not living up to their delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:00 PM
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I'm not short so I'm not trying to cop pleas, but all men know women are genetically disposed towards height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:22 AM
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Yeah, because height trumps all. But yes you have to work with what you got and if you ain't got looks, work on other areas. Thats something women could learn also. Many average and overweight women sit around and complain about the standards of men instead of working on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:37 AM
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This is probably true to an extent. Some men could help themselves with some styling and exercise. But the things that women covet in men can't be enhanced. Nothing will make a 5'7 man 6'2. Nothing will give a man with a thin jaw a square one. Men can't cover pointy ears with hair. And contouring with makeup isn't acceptable in society yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:03 AM
1

Pick mes don't put men on pedestals. They look at interpersonal relationships from the perspective of the other side and try to meet half way so needs from both side can be fulfilled. For example women think men should pay for the dates. A "pick me" says that's not fair, I'll pay for half and you'll pay for half. Since the woman is raising the standard for you, calling her a pick me is a hostile way for you to shame her. A simp on the other hand says "it's my job to pay every time since you're g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:24 AM
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People marry who they have the most exposure to. People have the most exposure to their own socioeconomic classes, and that's who they marry. For example I know a doctor who dates literally not a thing other than other doctors, solely because he's surrounded by them. Now think about how hard it is for MD chasers to find ones to date. With that said most men will marry whoever is agreeable, fit, and submissive even if they don't align in their social class. But due to options, they simply rarely …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 08:28 PM
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Labeling women "pick me" is nothing more than a defense mechanism from women who are threatened by women not staying on code with the social manipulation and exploitation of mens generosity. "pick mes" aren't trying to side with men just because they're men, they're hoping equitable behavior will grant them equitable results. It's not similar to simps and white knights, as they are serious threats to other men. Simps will sacrifice their own dignity and self respect for mere acknowledgement, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 08:20 PM
1

Right. When a woman says they get turned on by affirmative concent, it's not the act itself that turns them on its the fact they have a man who's submitting to her societal agenda. It's societal dominatrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:12 PM
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The non tangible and many tangible contributions of men in the home aren't valued by women and never surveyed. Repairs, overall maintenance, planning, preparation and decision making, but also protection and financial/emotional submission. It take a lot of effort to concede arguments when you're right for the sake of maintaining peace, putting up with gaslighting and catering to a woman's emotional healthy, and being expected to sacrifice your own life and happiness for the sake of the family. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 07:15 PM
1

No such thing as a former slut, only women in a position where being slutty isn't currently beneficial
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:30 PM
1

They really aren't "large" allegations though. Look at the liberals who flat out called for assassinations of trump and wish him death. People simply comprehend that it's very possible it's all bullcrap from a populace who will do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:27 AM
1

Whether you believe that Trump harassed women or not, the perception is that his election in spite of those allegations means that harassment doesn't carry any penalties No, it means that an accusation is simply that and doesn't prove anything, and most importantly an allegation shouldn't be strong enough to prevent someone from their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:13 PM
3

Another hallmark of nazism was social witch hunts and aggressions which is a hallmark of liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:12 PM
3

All of this is irrelevant to whether he committed sexual assault or not. This is apparently the same thing as slut shaming according to your species.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:10 PM
13

Fatherless children? Last I checked every child has a father, the mother just needs to go find him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 02:07 PM
1

Why would men participate in surveys gears towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 11:39 PM
2

Did you also know that in households with female breadwinners, the gap in housework is even more uneven than households with male breadwinners (with higher-earning women doing more)? I really don't believe these studies as they're nothing but surveys and as a whole, women tend to victimize themselves and exaggerate the extend of their usefulness. Society thinks the unsatisfied and overworked wife trope is cute, which is why married women tend to complain about marriage and men tend to rationaliz…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 07:28 PM
3

He's too beta to deal with the women he goes for. Money really isn't enough to handle models.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 05:30 PM
3

Elon has a clash of ideologies. He's beta as hell but he wants to date super models and dime pieces. All of which requires strong alpha tendencies to keep them in line. It needs to be made clear, women aren't simply attracted to money, women are attracted to certain sets of traits that tend to coincide and correlate with financial resources. Primarily dominance. It's triggers cognitive dissonance when you have someone who accumulates resources but are as beta as Elon, and models who are at the f…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 08:15 PM
2

Because validation. A woman winning over a difficult man validates her delusions of grandeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 07:47 PM
8

Most men know when they're women have promiscuous pasts, if the guy doesn't ask then most likely he'd rather live in willful ignorance. It's also likely a man wouldn't care if he's not a exactly looking at you as a LTR in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 04:12 AM
2

The red pill helps you get in a better and more fulfilling ltr. When I was a beta I pretty much allow mediocre women to walk over me and they didn't provide shit. After absorbing the red pill I moved on to literally a model who respects me and provides tangible benefits.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 08:30 PM
3

When looking at a long term partner you should assess her personality traits, motivations, and character in tangent. Every action has a key driver behind it and typically the ones that cause promiscuity and risky behavior aren't synonymous with emotional health, which doesn't bode well for relationships. It's up to the individual to decide what level of risk they would like to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 05:12 AM
1

Just to reiterate how true this is, I had a fwb say she felt used for sex after she started falling and I wasn't budging. She was the one who made me a fwb. Only a woman can make herself a victim after she intentionally used someone.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:00 PM
1

That stuff is all secondary to looks. Looks trump a man's game which is why a man could be awkward or quiet and they'll be intrigued. As far as status it trumps in the long run but like I said they'll balance that with looks and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 08:28 PM
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TRP is a logical foundation built upon observation and mathematics. You don't need to exemplify an extreme perception of the subject in order to be able to know the simplicities about it. I'm not sure how you expect a rper to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 07:23 PM
0

Women care about looks just as much as men do. The difference is that women have to balance looks and ability to provide when it comes to settling down, and as they get older and lose smv. While looks are one of the few requirements men have traditionally so we don't have many other things to compare it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:28 PM
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Women like to irrationally make people feel the negative emotions they're feeling so like a bully the attack the ones who are Weaker than themselves. And beta males are emotionally weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:08 PM
1

You can tell by how cavalier women are regarding things that unilaterally harm men. For need example false rape accusations, suicide, justice system bias, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 06:28 PM
2

Compared to jobs with comparable education and training requirements obviously. Let's not play stupid here. Nurses don't go to post graduate school nor spend 5 years in residency so they won't make as much as doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 04:59 PM
1

Explain why nurses make so much damn money then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 11:28 PM
5

What's funny is half of women don't agree with this and believe a man should pay regardless. The other half agrees, but due to this rule they simply refuse to ask a man out. There is a small percentage of women who adhere and follow this rule though. It's amazing how women reiterate that paying is such a miniscule task that men should do it willfully, but yet it's not small enough to actually be proactive to do it themselves in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:31 PM
1

Kinda like mansplaining huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:08 PM
2

Why do people keep bringing up babies in relationships as if an incredibly large amount of pregnancies don't come from wedlock and mistakes among non couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:02 PM
1

Must be if women are avoiding these jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:48 PM
9

I worked with a college friend who was a woman at a lower position. I told her that my department made more money and there was a spot open. She said she didn't want it because she saw how stressed I was and she'd rather stay at the easier job. According to feminist logic I should make her want a more stressful job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:18 PM
3

I had a roommate who's GF said she hated muscles. I started being his personal trainer and she'd catch herself feeling on his arms. She only said she didn't like muscles because she didn't want to be judged for being out of shape by association. Women project their insecurities and issues with their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:13 PM
3

Let's say a man wants a certain type of woman. That woman says the important traits for a man to have is to be nice, accommodating, respectful, listens, smart, humble, treats her well. Looks aren't important to her she says. The type of men who she spends her time chasing are tall, handsome, outgoing, player types who are emotionally unavailable, keep her on a rotation and doesn't invest much other than Saturday night romps. The types of men who has the traits she wants are all good friends with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 07:08 PM
3

Don't forget a lot of women are being sponsored by their sugar daddies and travel with them. If there are a bunch of pictures on boats and in clubs but no actual pics of them with other travelers, she's likely with an old white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:32 PM
1

What you want her to say is that you're "sweet" or thoughtful. You can be sweet and still get her wet. If she calls you nice then it's the Sahara down there. Same implications but one is beta and the other isn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 12:59 PM
1

Most attractive women are not that engaging or intelligent. The few that are thinks the world owes them everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 03:13 AM
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As did my ex. She would check my phone whenever I left the room, come to find out she was flirting with another dude. Them cheating and acting inappropriate makes them realize how possible it is for it to happen to them. Ironically they find it acceptable from their part but they he damned if you do it. Me being the beta at the time came up with every excuse for her. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:32 AM
1

Why are all these women out here giving unreciprocated bj's? They probably like the attention and many people get pleasure out of pleasing others. As for my answer it's also 4 and anything sexual adds to it. I wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman with anything more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:56 PM
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Values aren't changing if you're being forced by circumstances to accept something. If you lose your job and can't afford eating out anymore, you're values haven't changed because you're relegated to sitting at home eating Ramen noodles. Betas need to be aware that there is a good change they're being settled for and there could (will) be issues they need to handle in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 04:09 PM
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I think the argument is more that Hollywood, the media and society tells men that being nice, putting women on a pedestal and valuing them more than yourself will be seen as an advantage and give them favor in all aspects, not simply sex. As a result there is a large number of men who admittedly don't have the raw natural attraction women really appreciate catering to women thinking it will make up for it, only to end up alone feeling used since the things society told him women like aren't gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 10:54 PM
2

Every promiscuous woman I ever had sex with was terrible. They're known for taking it, not doing anything special with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 02:12 PM
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So he did a reverse pump and dump on penny stocks, raised prices by 50 percent on drugs he bought, used the profits on bonuses, forces patients to jump through hoops to get it at a discount only after the uproar, put incredible pressure on insurance which in turn spread those costs to everyone, and is claiming to fund research even though his company only buys unpatented drugs and drugs that already exists with new delivery mechanisms. And yet he's not that bad? You're full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 02:46 PM
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You said it yourself, it's only his family, not MAJORITY of families. How are you at logic? A culture would indicate something that's accepted by the majority. If the majority of people find his crimes deplorable and punishable, then what would be the effective culture? One of disgust to his actions or one supporting rape? You're for some remedial reasons are saying an isolated incident speaks on the culture as a whole. If that's the case, does that mean there is a culture of false rape extortio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 05:07 PM
1

The fact that the sentence would be questioned in the first place shows there is no rape culture. Rape culture would indicate that this is normal, would it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 03:54 PM
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