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Your wish is my command.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 09:09 PM
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Fat, Drunk, and Stupid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 05:05 PM
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Once again: If you, woman, are demanding commitment from me, then anything and everything about you is my business. If you want my commitment, then "my business" is whatever the fuck I decide it is. If you are demanding commitment from me, then I get to know whatever the fuck I want to know about you, and I have the right to find it out by any means necessary. If you want a lifetime legal claim on my money, time, attention, and resources, then your past - and anything else I want to know about y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 05:00 PM
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No. People struggle to empathize and sympathize with men who struggle in dating because men are disposable and expendable, and because no one gives a shit about us except ourselves. I feel that it's hard to "sympathize" with sexless men, for most of us, because it's one of the most comfortable problems to have. No, it's not comfortable at all, under any circumstances. I can tell you that sexlessness is extremely, exquisitely uncomfortable. It's excruciatingly painful. (You're a woman, right?) Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:19 PM

Replies here make me want to do my usual dad bod thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:32 PM

No, it's impossible to debate on this sub because when an argument isn't going someone's way, the first thing they do NOW is block the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:01 PM

Women use the word "audacity" to mean "cocky asshole who doesn't give a fuck what people think about him and who's probably going to get arrested for rape someday". They also use this to mean "unattractive man trying to act like an attractive man".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:50 PM

Fuck no any guy like that doesn't get a lot of girls LOL that's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:49 PM

That's what women consider a dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:48 PM
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Or... Women lie. Women lie about this. They lie about this because it's in their interest to lie about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:28 PM
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Women don't get to tell men to stop talking about whatever they want to talk about. If you don't like the conversation, go somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:26 PM

Yeah, that was...weird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:01 PM
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I didn't know it was The Purge Week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:19 PM
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Oh. Well, all we have to say is "we didn't want the same things".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:09 PM
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Do men say those things because they're trying to rationalize their own urges because male sexuality is so demonized? Or so they'd seem less creepy when explaining why they don't want to be around someone? Sometimes it's because they don't want to be seen as "just wanting sex". Sometimes it's because they'd love to have a relationship with the woman they want to fuck. (See, we want the relationship part because it means we theoretically will get to fuck you whenever we want. That's why men get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:49 PM
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It appears at least to me that when women do it to each other, it's an inside joke type of thing. Like "I'm doing this to you cuz you know we do this to guys and it always works!" You don't think it's nefarious. I don't think you think you're being nefarious. I think you're doing this because it works. You're doing this because you know you can trade on your sexuality and looks and the possibility that "if you do this for me, I might have sex with you" to get men to do what you want and give you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:00 PM
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Have you ever heard of a man asking a woman to unclog a toilet for him? Fuck no. That's a "man's job". Every woman in the world will tell you that. It's a "dirty job" and one that no woman would ever do unless she absolutely has to. No woman will ever pick up a plunger if a man is around. Half of women don't even know how to use them properly. I've been visiting at women's houses with no other men around, and a toilet gets clogged, and they all stand around, pensively looking around, and then at…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:46 PM
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Yes. This. You said it better than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:42 PM
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I have a lot of experiences with men doing unrequested favors for me, being explicitly told that I am not likely to reciprocate to the same extent, and still going through with it and then getting salty that the relationship isn't equal. Those men want to fuck you. They're not salty because you didn't help them. They're salty because they wanted to fuck you and you wouldn't. They're deceived. They're orbiting you and they think that if they do something "nice" for you, you'll do something "nice"…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:40 PM
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I thought he was pretty clear. He said he ended up getting used. He said they did the "puppy dog eyes" thing. Every man who's ever been around a "female friend" has seen that look and knows EXACTLY what that is. It's what women do to manipulate, fraud, deceive, and gaslight men into doing shit for them or giving them things. It's the damsel in distress move. It's the "but I'm just a widdle ol' gurl!! Won't you puh-leeeze HALP ME!!" thing that girls do when they need something (usually money or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:35 PM
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So much that you can't value doing anything else with the person if they won't bang you? In the movie "when Harry Met Sally", the Harry character says men and women can't be friends, "because the sex thing always gets in the way". He's explaining how men see this. He was right. To men, women are sexual creatures. Always. All the time. In every circumstance, situation, and event. I'll put this very bluntly. If I want to bang you and can't, you have no value to me. Being around you just reminds me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:33 PM
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What do you not understand about "they used him"? Why is that not helpful?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:14 PM
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I have had platonic female friendships but none were really positive. Yes, they affected how I view women. Men and women cannot have platonic only relationships. One wants the other sexually. Or they both don't want each other sexually but the woman trades on her femininity and prevails on the man's natural tendency to provide and protect. In doing so she uses the man for money, favors, and muscle. She manipulates and gaslights him into providing for and protecting her. All my nonsexual relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:12 PM
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Maybe you don't want to be more because their goals or values are incompatible with your goals and values for a life together, Has nothing to do with sexual attraction. You still want to bang. why would sexual attraction kill a friendship? Why do you place so much importance on your infatuation as a feeling that it overshadows other stuff? Because we're men. It's what we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:08 PM
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They used him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:07 PM
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No man would ever, ever ask you to help them unclog a toilet or help them move. Ever. Even if you'd do it, they wouldn't ask. If any man ever asked a woman for help, that woman would never forget it and would always view him as a pussyboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:07 PM
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That's different. That's not friendships which are voluntary. Relationships with sisters and female relatives are mandatory, especially when you're a kid. Having relationships with girls when you're a kid has nothing to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:05 PM
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She says, while on Reddit and social media. She says, advocating abstinence from the very substance she (ab)uses. Physician, heal thyself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:06 PM
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agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:55 PM
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FWIW, I agree with you. Someone has to lead, someone has to make the final call, someone has to be the final say. It doesn't happen often. In almost 26 years of marriage I've had to do this a few times. As a general rule that tie breaker function happens only when it's a matter fundamental to the marriage, and only when both people are intractably set and the tiebreaker MUST be employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:53 PM
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I have no shame in not having empathy for people who think they should control other peoples behavior s because they are unwilling to do what an adult does and put in the work to get what they want. OK. No one acts entitled. No one is talking about "controlling" other people's behavior. For real, you said you resent women who fuck hot guys? Really? No I did not say that. Not at all. Go back and read what I wrote again. Let me explain it step by step. This was an explanation to you about women's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:09 PM
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Not one man who posts here thinks he is "entitled" to anything. Thanks for illustrating your lack of empathy. QED. I was answering your question about what women's roles are in fucking up the SMP. But, as usual, you blame men for it. How men are responsible for women's role in fucking up the SMP, I'll let you do your usual response gyrations and finger pointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:00 PM
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Of course they can. Most women can find a decent man. They just can't find a perfect man. Too many women demand perfection which is unattainable. They've watched too much TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:53 PM
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Lack of empathy (as set out in your answer). Come on. You know goddamn well what the answers are, and no, it is NOT sexual communism, and you know it. You just don't give a shit. I just wish you'd come clean and admit you don't give a shit.) Generally acting like bitches. Generally fucking up their lives and demanding that other people (usually men) pay for it. Demanding more and more sexual "demilitarized zones" in which men are not free to act as men. Demanding the continual serial emasculatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:43 PM
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This from the same women who scream "don't need no man".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:40 PM
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Sorry - I have a hard time believing that. There were probably some red flags. There always are. You just missed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:37 PM
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And before you die alone, you can, if you want, get a good 30 or so years with a decent man. If you want. And if you can manage to give him some things he wants and to get along with him and work with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:32 PM
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Come on. You know what the post is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:08 PM
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You could not be more wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:17 PM
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Comments like this just prove my point. Anyone who hears or reads the word “submission” in conjunction with relationships absolutely loses. Their. Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:46 AM
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Do you think that "doing what he decides" means she NEVER gets her way? If so, that says more about you than it does anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:13 AM
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You'd be amazed at how disagreeable the average woman can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:39 AM
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I didn't think about that. "agreeableness" is a psychological term, a metric. It's measured and written about in relationship/sociology terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:38 AM
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Women in relationships fight with their men for control and dominance. When a woman is not sexually attracted to the man she picked, she starts picking fights with him. She also shit tests him. This is what women do, especially when they're afraid, when they feel out of control, or they are in a relationship with a timid simp who cannot or will not stand up for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:37 AM
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FFS. Not one FUCKING WORD of that says that women can't do that either. I am NOT going to explain plain words to you and I am NOT going to defend things I did not say. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:23 AM
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Yeah. That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:15 AM
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Do you mean "You can't follow someone..."? Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:13 AM
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Didn't say that either. Try again. Please. Just quit while you're behind. Just stop. You're embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:11 AM
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No, it's just that you don't understand what I wrote. You're determined to be offended by nonoffensive words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:10 AM
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There is literally nowhere I said "women don't have the right to express strongly held disagreements" or anything like that. Nowhere. Absolutely nowhere. Why are you trying so hard to find something offensive to complain about? You're lying about what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:09 AM
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My meaning is perfectly clear from the words I used. I was very clear about what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:07 AM
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OK. You can believe that if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:07 AM
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Again, that is NOT the same as "women fuck everything up". Stop lying about what I wrote. Give it a rest. You lost this one. It's OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:06 AM
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Point out where I have EVER said "women don't have the right to express strongly held disagreements". Go ahead. Point it out. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:04 AM
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Good thing I didn't say that, chicky. Let's take a look at what I actually said, which was.... "Because when we let women run the show it inevitably gets fucked up and nobody's happy." In the context of male-female relationships. That's what I ACTUALLY said. I did NOT say what you claimed I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:03 AM
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And yet, those are the guys who do the best with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:02 AM
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That isn't just "my" interpretation. That's what it means when TRP and MRP talk about female submissiveness in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:45 PM
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All right. I see hyperbole is not making the grade here. Let's try again. A woman wants a man who is considerate, thoughtful, and kind to her and assertive and "take no bullshit" with everyone else. She wants a man who will be aggressive when he needs to be. She wants a man who cares about her and who is polite at best, or indifferent, or forceful and assertive when necessary, with everyone else. She doesn't want him to "care about" other people because that means less "caring" will be directed …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:36 PM
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Becuase women do not see a man's kindness or consideration as "cooperation". She does not WANT him to "cooperate". She wants him to take care of shit so she can cooperate with it and with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:27 PM
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But the differences in connotation denote fundamentally different traits and manners of relating. No woman wants an agreeable, cooperative, submissive man. A woman wants a man who is considerate, thoughtful, and kind to her and a fucking asshole to everyone else. She wants a man who cares about her and tells everyone else to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:25 PM
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Because it is a fundamentally attractive trait when expressed in women. It is a fundamentally repulsive trait when expressed in men. "Agreeable" men are viewed as pussies. "Agreeable" women are viewed as attractive, pleasant, and, well, at least nonoffensive. "Agreeable" does NOT mean "has no opinion" or "stupid" or "unable to think for herself" or "unresourceful" or "worthless".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:20 PM
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Good comment. I don't understand why this is so hard to understand. Could women just please not fight us on every goddamn thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:18 PM
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That first paragraph answer is actually pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:15 PM
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No. It's men who don't want bitches who fight over everything. We want submissive women who step into our frames and get with our programs. Because when we let women run the show it inevitably gets fucked up and nobody's happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:14 PM
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I just want to note that my comment was IMMEDIATELY downvoted within 30 seconds of my posting it. I wonder why that might be. OK.... Thank you for your honesty. You're welcome. That's why I'm here - to speak the truths that other people don't have the balls to speak. What does her being the submissive party exclusively mean to you? This has been explained 500 million times at TRP and MRP. It means he lays out the course, vision and mission for their relationship and lives together. It means he s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:10 PM
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Why is “agreeableness” something men often say they desire in a partner? It means "cooperative" and is also a euphemism for "submissive". We can't say "submissive" because that word immediately gets deliberately misrepresented and lied about as "doormat". Comparatively, this term isn’t something I hear or see women list as a desired trait in a partner. Because "agreeableness" in men means "spineless simp pussyboy who can't or won't stand up for himself." Men are not supposed to be agreeable. We'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:03 PM
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Yeah, but the question is what an FDS "HVM" would be advised to do. I read the post as asking what an FDS HVM does. For the record, an FDS "HVM" is a plowhorse beta bux who submits to his "queen", gives her his paycheck, supports her financially and othewise, and essentially acts as her butler, footman, and chauffeur.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:46 PM
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Well, revise it and put it back up as a CMV like mod said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:35 PM
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No, an FDS "HVM" is basically a plowhorse beta bux who immediately and without question signs his paycheck over to his kween and who bows at her feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:34 PM
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goddamnit I worked hard on that reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:14 PM
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Taking a woman out to dinner, whether it's the 1st date or the 101st, isn't simping. Yeah, we Gen-Xrs took women out to dinner and movies. You can call us a generation of "blue pilled simps" if you want, but at least we engaged in the time-honored tradition, of spending money on the women that were actually WITH US. Taking a woman for dinner on a first date is simping. I'm a gen Xer too and I did it. But times have changed. First dates do not get food. They get a drink. One alcoholic drink. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:13 PM
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This reminds me of the Valtrex commercial that showed active young adults rock climbing. The message was clear: Herpes doesn't have to slow you down! Get the herp, take the pill! You'll be fine!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 08:32 PM
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Yeah. agree with all of it. But his math is that 20% of men between age 40 and 59 have never been married. I think that's quite significant. One in 5 men in that age cohort has never been married. That's quite different from my experience of men growing up. Nearly ALL men who had reached age 40 either were married or had been married. Most unmarried men at that age were divorced, with a few widowers. Most never-married men at 40 and up were either out of the closet gay, severely mentally disable…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:00 AM
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Wow. The number of never married men age 40-59 is 20%? That's a really big number.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 11:57 PM
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This blog was at planktonlife.wordpress.com Dalrock did at least one piece about her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 08:20 PM
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I want to fisk this one so bad....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 08:48 PM
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"I demand that any man I'm with indulge my mental illness and fuckedupness and if he won't, then he's just not crazy or fucked up enough for me!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 05:06 PM
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See how much better "Yo Babe want sum fuk?" works?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 05:05 PM
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Every time I think you can't top your last headline, you manage to do it. Sir, I envy your command of the English language. Bitch, you should be happy ANY man is willing to put up with your bitch ass. He and his kids were nice enough to make you a nice gift and all you can think about is how he should have spent $ on a goddamn necklace. This man loves you, but you don't love him. He should drop kick your cunt ass and find someone else. He's got EVERY GODDAMN RIGHT to be furious with you. I'd bre…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/22 05:04 PM
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Oh. I see. Banned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 03:59 PM
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Removed. This isn't about race, and this is not about black men. That's shaming men. Post something else like this and I'll tempaban you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 03:53 PM
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I'm gonna make a guess that u/itsjustmemaggie is saying that the OP is "not wrong" in that OP is accurately describing the dating/sexual landscape. OP's observations are correct: The men who approach her want her to do some kinky shit. It is difficult for her to get a monogamous relationship with an attractive man. Most of the men who are interested in her want her only for sex. Her sole value is between her legs. For the purposes of Maggie's comment, it doesn't matter that the OP's actions set …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 02:26 PM
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Yeah, I'm with u/loneliness-inc Tell me why she's not wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 02:11 PM
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Pathetic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 02:07 PM
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I'm going to springboard off your comment for this. Men have more to lose in dating, sex, and marriage too. Bullshit that women risk more, are at more risk, and are at greater danger. No. If that ever were true, it isn't true now. All the risks attendant to sex for women have been eliminated or neutralized. He beats her up/kills her? He'll be hanged from the nearest tree or put in the electric chair. This almost never happens, either. R@p3? White knights will cut his balls off. The real risk of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 11:55 PM
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OLD turned dating into a numbers game. It's as simple as that, and young women love it. Yep. More to the point, OLD gave women an entirely new problem: Choice overload. OLD gives women access to men they would never otherwise have even been able to meet. That blows the doors off choice. When you give women more choice, that exacerbates an already impossible situation: how do you expect fickle, flighty, unserious, indecisive women to be able to make a decision between Chad, Chang, Tyrone, al-Chad…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 09:32 PM
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I personally am beyond tired of this shit. Dating, mating, sex, and marriage are all objectively more difficult for men by every conceivable metric. Always have been, always will be. It is not more difficult for women, at all, ever. Men have it harder, at all times, in every arena, in every possible way. I am so tired of hearing women bitch about having to sort through chaff. At least they have things to sort through. At least they have men showing interest. I am so fucking goddamn tired of hear…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 08:27 PM
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She's really looking for free labor. Or perhaps looking to trade. Labor for... feminine charms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 07:23 PM
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Good to see men pushing back on this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 03:05 PM
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"How tall are you?" How much do you weigh? What do you call someone over 150 lbs? -you don't. LOLOL aren't I soooo cleverrrrr
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 03:03 PM
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That's only part of it. The rest of it is because most black women are raised in a "matriarchal" culture to be "matriarchs". Most black women think they are kweens and princesses who deserve the entire fucking world handed to them on silver platters. Most black women have entitlement complexes the size of Texas. Most black women don't know the first thing about how to have an actual relationship with a real man. Most black women have an adversarial, sinister, pessimistic view of men. They presum…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 02:42 PM
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Yeah. Mmmhmm. Tell me again how this never ever ever happens, ever. Tell me again how women never ever ever hook up with hot guys who won't marry them in their 20s. Tell me again how women never ever ever seek out "stable relationships" (i.e. dead bedroom "marriages" to wage slaves they're not sexually attracted to and whom they mercilessly abuse and torment) after they finally figure out they can't commitments from the hot guys they used to fuck. Right. Tell me again how this never ever happens…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 06:16 PM
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God fucking forbid a man should want anything from his relationship. God forbid a woman should fuck her man because he wants to fuck. God forbid a woman should, you know, give her man anything or do anything for him. It just cannot be that women should do at least some things in relationships not because THEY want it, but because THEIR MEN want it. Nope. We can't have that. We can't have men getting things they want in their relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 04:34 PM
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I really had to think about this one. Rewriting or rewaiting? What's "rewaiting"? Is this a new hamsterism? Rewaiting: Where you are waiting for sex now, because you didn't wait before. Guys, that's what this is. When a woman fucks a baby daddy and lets him knock her up, then she decides to wait for marriage to have sex again, it's now called rewaiting. There's nothing funny about "I'm literally pregnant and will be waiting for marriage". Waiting for sex, of course. Right. You didn't make Baby D…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 02:20 PM
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Yep. I know. I chose to use your post to make a larger, serious point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 03:37 PM
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Fuck "emotional labor". "Emotional labor" is a euphemism for "getting in touch with your feminine side" and "meeting her needs while yours go unmet". You need to take your "feminine side" out behind the barn and put a bullet in the back of its head. Choke the shit out of it until it is DEAD. She'll have to meet my needs, rather than me continuing to go without. Fuck that bullshit. Another one I hate is "emotional unavailability". "My man needs to be 'emotionally available'." Men need to be "emot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 03:29 PM
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I have no problem with women preferring "Good looking and fit" men. I just want women to FUCKING STOP LYING about it. I just want women to FUCKING STOP USING MEN who aren't "good looking and fit". Since they aren't going to do that, you need to assume that women are lying about this, and that they'll use you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 03:27 PM
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they can't name a single thing that their male partner ever does-- because he is out "doing nothing" while working at his full-time job. Then they reach the conclusion that the man is a leech on them because he "does nothing" while she is forced to endure the hellish torture of pushing buttons on the microwave. I feel a post coming on. Here is a list of things I do around my house and have done for the past 25 years as a married man. budgeting bill paying and bill coordination vehicle maintenanc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 03:51 PM
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This. It's not fucking hard to take care of a house. It's not hard to cook or clean. I was a bachelor for 3 years and I did just fine by myself. I did not get sick from dysentery or scurvy or malnutrition, nor did I get fat from eating fast food or processed food. I washed my own clothes, did my own shopping and meal prep, and took care of myself. If I can live on my own and take care of a house and apartment, then anyone can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 03:39 PM
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Written by the same women who, next month, will be wailing "where are all the good men" and "why is my dildo my best friend". Written by the same women who, next year, will be complaining about having shitty jobs and having to work like men. Who, in 10 years, in their 50s, will be complaining about not being able to retire because "401k? Roth IRA? Huh? What's that? All I need is social security. My Obama money. Or my niece. Or my nephew. The government will take care of it. It's Biden money now.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 03:31 PM
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She's right. Men want pussy. If the only way to get pussy is to go out and take a woman, we'll go out and take women. (Society until the beginnings of Christendom. ) Men want pussy. If the only way to get pussy is to get married, we'll get married. (Christendom/western civ - approx, 1960) Men want pussy. If the only way to get pussy is to be a fuckboy or a jerk, then we'll be fuckboys and jerks. (Western "civ" post sexual revolution - approx. 2015) Men want pussy. If the only way to get pussy is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 02:57 PM
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Thank you sir. Black men en masse tell me they've been dealing with this shit for at least 30 years. And people wonder why black women marry at a rate of only 26%.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 02:50 PM
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How to Guarantee Satisfaction. By Dalrock. January 11, 2018 I think there is another side to the same coin. These women don’t just want to build a better beta, they want to tame the alpha. In fact, I think the former is just another way they are trying to approach the latter. They want to take an inherently unsafe activity and make it safe. They want to submit to a man without having to submit; they want a man who can tame their feral self. They want him to trip their danger signals. Even better…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 08:09 PM
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Impoverished baby mama. Small business and dog breeding business that don't make any money, are money pits, and don't come anywhere close to supporting me and my thugspawn. Moved here in 2019 and since then have allowed a few drug addicts, felons, and players to fuck me. Looking for a beta bux/walking ATM I can use for money to pay my bills and baby sit my daughter while I go on some Girls Nights Out. If you pump and dump, I might be interested if you have a good body and 8"+ cock. No ex boyfrie…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:42 PM
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Translate this. 21F here. So, long story short, I met a guy (23M). We started fucking, and 2 weeks later we were fucking regularly. That fucking regularly lasted 3 months because I wanted more from him, I wanted his resources and I wanted him to not fuck other girls. And then he told me "no" to all that and I stopped fucking him. We went no contact and fucked other people. And then he texted me again when he couldn't find anyone else to fuck or decided that I was the best fuck he could get at th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:29 PM
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This. Women say they don't want drama. what horseshit. Women absolutely THRIVE on drama. They have to have it because it gives them a sense of "fun" and "excitement". When they get bored, they seek out drama. It has to be like Dalrock's Roller Coaster: It has to look and feel dangerous, without actually being dangerous. And there have to be men there running the roller coaster to make sure everything's safe. "WHEEEEEE, MagaShiv! That was fun!! Let's do that again!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:05 PM
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Great discussion on this thread. Kids, I just want you to know the mods and I are so proud of you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:02 PM
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I need all these things in a man because they're everything I'm not. I'm narrow minded, selfish, inarticulate, foolish, and impulsive. I need someone to talk me down from the ledges. I need someone who's well adjusted and can prioritize, because I am poorly adjusted and cannot prioritize. You need to show me interest. You need to do things for me. Give me everything because I can't give you anything. I totally need reassurance all the time. I need tons of materialistic things. I want sex; just n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 02:54 PM
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I'm 30 I'm a babymama I want a real sucker with money to marry me and I have 2 children I expect him to support and pay for and I am an arrogant bitch I'm just looking for a betabux that's going to do what I say. I'm a bitch and a cunt and entitled and I am real insufferable I'm totally into hookups just not with you you asshole. Also I want a working employed man that's not expecting sex I want him to be thinking about being my slave I like different culture men like from Atlantic but I'm total…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 08:56 PM
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you $illy $ucker $impleton. Of cour$e not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 08:31 PM
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Oh ye$. I'm $ure you're $eriou$ about $eeking $tability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 06:05 PM
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This is the author of the article in question, one Aimee Lutkin. I'll leave it to you to decide why she might have written this article and why "inspin tears" might be particularly apropos. u/typo-magashiv u/moorekom
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:12 PM
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You don't have to be physically beautiful to be attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 07:02 PM
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Women want men around. They want men to do all this work. Talk about how great it is having men around. They do a bit of self mockery with "women are better than men, and we must obey them (men) because they are our masters." But they don't really mean it. Because if they really meant it, women would be talking about what they'd be willing to do in exchange for it. Women would be talking about what men will get out of the deal. If women want men around, if women want men to take on all this resp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 06:02 PM
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I take that back. I think I do understand it. It's faith. Astrology is their god. They need something to worship, something to have faith in. The stars and the planets - that's what they put their faith in. A set of cosmic rules by which to live. u/overkillengine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 03:43 PM
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A lot of women are into astrology and put a lot of stock in it. I truly do not understand it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 10:26 PM
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No.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:11 PM
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If you're broken you shouldn't be online looking for men. If you're damaged you shouldn't be online looking for men. LET ME BE VERY CLEAR, if you bring up anything monetary, you will get blocked. Stop being so materialistic and cunty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 07:01 PM
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Thank you sir. Simple translation from womanese to English.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 06:55 PM
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It didn't make sense to you probably because it was an average relationship that proceeded very average-ly. So why would a woman in an average relationship with you marked by average sex be so obsessed with you after you broke it off? Could be any number of reasons. You broke up with her and she wasn't used to getting dumped. She really cared about you more than she thought. She never met anyone else who really did it for her better than you did. She couldn't explain her behavior because she her…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 06:53 PM
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Thank you sir. Fortunately I am fluent in womanese.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 06:28 PM
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The OP was written to an advice columnist named Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Here is the "advice" she gave back to her love-and pussy- weary correspondent. Just look at this bullshit: You know those lyrics by the Whitlams: “There’s no aphrodisiac like loneliness”? I think there’s no aphrodisiac like memory. Nostalgia gilds things. It paints old moments with a flush of promise. If we’re not careful it can lead us to perpetual distraction; keep us looking away from the present and back at something that …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 05:47 PM
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Ten years ago, I knew I was getting the ever loving shit fucked out of me for a short but intense year, but I ended it. He liked fucking me, but he was fucking two other girls at the same time and he wasn't going to commit. I needed to end it because I couldn't take him stomping on my heart and using me publicly anymore. Now I am miserably married to a boring, predictable beta bux who I use, and have young children sired by another man. And yet I think of how backbreakingly my Chad fucked me and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 03:59 PM
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Translation: My hawt baby daddy pumped and dumped me. He left me with this nice 18 year renewable souvenir, too. He did all the shit I loved, but hated: lied to me, destroyed my trust, hid shit from me, ignored me, played games with me, used me, took advantage of me, took me for granted, didn't appreciate me, wasted my time, and (did I say) lied to me. He also threw a bunch of bullshit at me and I put up with it. But goddamn the sex was good, so, yeah, I put up with it. Lesson learned. Every man…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 10:15 PM
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It's kind of funny... China's population is 1,412,000,000. OK, that's 1.4 BILLION (with a "b") people. Of that population, 51.3% are male. That's roughly 760 million males. Let's say 400 million men are of marriageable age. Let's say half of those men, 200 million, are available for marriage because they're unmarried, employed, and interested in marriage. Girls, if you can't find ONE good man among 200 million men, you got a problem. 200 million men is about 60% of the entire population of the e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 07:26 PM
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the women are working and want men who earn more than they do They want their own money so they don't have to do what an icky beta tells them to do. If they're gonna take orders, it's only gonna be from a man who "deserves" the "right" to order her around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 06:27 PM
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So. Wives try to run everything, bark orders, run roughshod over their husbands, and demand all the money. Wives are lazy and make their husbands do all the housework. Husbands are henpecked and pussywhipped, but have permission to go out and play (as long as they can afford a sugar baby). Unattached women will fuck for "allowances" (i.e. pay for play, i.e. sugar babies, i.e. prostitution lite). Sounds familiar. Pretty much the same wherever you go....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 06:26 PM
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And the moral of this story is: 1) Human nature is the same wherever you go. This is some evidence against the idea that the state of the sexual and relationship marketplaces is a direct result of Western classical liberal philosophy and democracy. 2) Women naturally gravitate to feminism. Women naturally gravitate toward ruling the roosts wherever they are, and dominating and ruling over men when men allow it. Thus revealing the Curse of Eve. Men naturally gravitate toward supplication and tryi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 06:22 PM
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You two are walking talking "TRP CONFIRMED"s. You are living proof that TRP is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:14 PM
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No. They don't. No man said anything on here about "random women minding their own business who won’t give them sex" You're just making shit up now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:18 PM
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Not true. They don't think they're "entitled" to anything They WANT things. That's NOT the same as "entitled".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:11 PM
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You're lying about men thinking they "deserve" anything. You're lying that men don't understand life isn't fair. Trust me - we know more about life's unfairnesses than ANY woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:09 PM
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No. Men have no problem with "life isn't fair". They're just tired of women like you lying about it and about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:01 PM
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Yes. But that does not mean the women think their men are "hot". Nor does it mean they'll stay together. Nor does it mean the woman is happy in that coupling. Nor does it mean they're fucking. Nor does it mean either of them are satisfied in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:59 PM
1

So, 5 feet 9 inches, 209 lbs, black man in London?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:50 PM
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I know. I read the exchanges. I was reiterating that he said there's nothing he can do. He has already tried everything you and your ilk tell him to do, and more. Nothing's worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:35 PM
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Uh huh. 1) Where do you live? 2) How tall are you? How much do you weigh? The answers will inform your posts and position on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:34 PM
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He just told you - there's nothing he can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:31 PM
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You might have a point if average and unattractive men were making the complaints you say they are. They aren't. There's a wide gulf between what you claim they're complaining about, and what they are actually complaining about. What they're complaining about is that they can't get any traction at all. What they are actually complaining about is that they can't generate visceral attraction in ANY woman AT ALL. What they're complaining about is that they can't get anything. Their best bet is to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:29 PM
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How? There hasn't been a patriarchal culture in the US for at least 60 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:58 PM
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Yes. See red pill played out all the time in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:15 PM
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It's not their genitals; it's their conduct. How old are you? Do you know anything about actuarial science and assessing risks? Do you understand anything about observing how people behave over time and then making risk assessment decisions based on that? It was well known based on actual trends over time that men were worse driving risks than women were - especially young unmarried men. That's changed over time, and auto insurance premiums reflect that reality. It has to do with how people actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:17 PM
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You can't guess the answer because i didn't answer it. Don't put words in my mouth. I'm not engaging you on this because this isn't being posited in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:52 PM
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You are incorrect. If there's a reasonable basis for the decision based on risk assessment, then it's OK. The basis is the risk level, not the sex of the persons involved. So yes, it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:39 PM
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I don't know. Maybe I'm not explaining it. And maybe it's a combination of internal and external stimuli. EDIT: By "internal" I mean your inner thought/feeling life. You might be reading, or watching a movie. Or yeah, it might be organic/hormonal. End edit. But my strongest arousal moments have happened because I was aroused by something, someone, a situation, or I was tipsy. This sounds like a combination of external and internal factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:32 PM
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See, this is an important thing. I agree with what you're saying, but there's a little more to this that men seem to understand implicitly and women don't. WARNING: UNPOPULAR OPINION AHEAD Women's inherent value has much to do with who they let into their pussies. Who a woman fucks tells us a lot about her. Who a woman lets into her pussy speaks directly to her character. It speaks directly to who she is as a woman. It tells us about her own relationship to herself and her own sexuality, and abo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 10:29 PM
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You're mission is fucked. hopefully you told him that women are never the mission. His mission should be his overall life purpose. Women are not a life purpose. Getting laid is not a life purpose.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 10:25 PM
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addicted to dick!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 10:20 PM
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There was a reasonable basis for it. I also agreed that it was sexism - but if we're going to talk about it, let's be honest about what it was. There's a reasonable basis to limit credit or decline to extend credit based on sex at that time - they didn't have as much money, or credit histories showed women were greater risks. Used to be this way with young men and young women with car insurance. Young men were worse risks - they got into more accidents because they took more risks and spent more…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:17 PM
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Question: Does the thing that arouses a woman's libido have to be external? Or can something internal arouse it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:09 PM
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What is an ACE
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:08 PM
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Yes, maybe. I do agree with this overarching principle - that women's sex drives, libidos, attraction, whatever - have to be awakened and aroused. Something has to happen to arouse that libido. Men just don't experience libido or sex drive the same way at all - we are in a state of near- constant arousal and it takes very, very little to get us going sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:05 PM
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I dunno.. what are we gonna call him??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:01 PM
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Trust, but verify.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 10:00 PM
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I don't have experience with women with low libidos or low sex drive. I personally don't think there is such a thing as a woman with a low libido, or if there is, they are so rare as to be statistically insignificant. And I probably shouldn't have said "some" women. Probably should have said "a few" women. But yes, most women don't have the same libido as men do. But when most women's libido is awakened or triggered, it easily outlasts that of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:53 PM
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doesn't matter, the white Jeremy Meeks is objectively good looking and a lot of women will find him sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:44 PM
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I get your point, but some women do have abnormal and broken libidos. It isn't normal for a young healthy woman to have little to no sex drive. I also think that what people have a problem with is not so much the lower libido as we have with women lying about what triggers that libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:42 PM
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Yes, there was sexism. That doesn't mean women were being totally and completely shut out of a major life activity. They were not. Or at least the evidence hasn't been presented for that. There's a huge difference between "Women could not have their own bank accounts" and "Banks had the discretion to decline to extend credit, or limit credit, to women based on their marital status" There is NO evidence for the former. There IS evidence for the latter. You with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:32 PM
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Has any woman here ever had a ONS that was good sex? All we ever hear about is women complaining that casual sex isn't good sex, that ONS are always bad sex, and that the "best sex" is with a "romantic partner who cares".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:28 PM
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False. You're talking here about the Equal Credit Opportunity Act of 1974. THis has nothing to do with bank accounts. It has to do with credit cards. Banks could refuse to issue cards to unmarried women. THey could also require a married woman to hold a joint card with her husband. The prior laws did NOT IN ANY WAY state that banks were prohibited from extending credit to women, married or not. It simply allowed banks to decide whether to extend credit, and how much credit to extend, based on ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:51 PM
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Well, when patriarchy has all the power, then you can complain about it. There is no patriarchy anymore and hasn't been for at least 70 years. So if Grandma was "harmed" by patriarchy, well, you're not Grandma, so just put that little strawman away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:37 PM

It depends. I think cheating on a boyfriend is easier than cheating on a husband. With most women, a lot of things have to be just right, a lot of stars have to align, for a woman to cheat on a husband. The marriage has to be pretty bad. She has to have lost almost all respect for her husband. Has to be right time, right man, right circumstances, and low risk of detection.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:34 PM
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1) All women born after 1960 are feminists 2) Feminists are much easier to identify than red pillers 3) Feminists are horrible risks because divorce rape and abusing men are their bread and butter. Far more men have been destroyed by feminism than women have been even "touched" by Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:15 PM
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Women: No way would I ever date a Red Pill man! (then proceed to date Red Pill men who they don't know are Red Pill, because they don't understand that red pill men aren't the caricatures they've created in their heads)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:58 PM
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The problem here is not so much with her having an OF account. The problem is the lying. It's the fraud, deceit, and subterfuge that troubles him. The problem is that she isn't honest with him about it and hid it from him. The problem is the differing treatment. She sells nudes to men other than her boyfriend, but won't even GIVE him any nudes. Other men are getting different, better treatment. The problem is that she doesn't want a full relationship with her man, she doesn't respect him, and sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 07:50 PM
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Yes. There is no other viable course of action.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 07:43 PM
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at common law, when a woman gave birth to a bastard, the child was 100% the mother's responsibility. The mother had no legal recourse to force the baby daddy to support the child. The father did not have to support the child, but he had no rights to the child either. He had no right to see the child, have any kind of relationship with the child, or give the child anything, not even his name. If the mother wanted support from the father, she had to marry him. If the father wanted access to the ch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 07:37 PM
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struggle how? Figuring out which guy to go home with? Whether to date Chad, Brad, or Thad? The toughest things most elite women ever have to do are figure out where to get the abortion; or which marriage proposal to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:23 PM
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Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:15 PM
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Or, you're not looking closely enough. Or, YOU are the one who's biased. Or, you don't know what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:13 PM
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They might know or not know about your romantic feelings This is always women friendzoning men, and women know. They always know if a man is sexually interested in them. It's never acknowledged because he's too timid to say anything; and she's too anxious to tell him directly she doesn't like him in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:12 PM
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I'm just doing what you women told me to do - I went outside, and I looked at what was actually going on and what was actually happening in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:09 PM
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No, they're elite because they're women who are white AND college educated AND married AND urban. They have to have all of those factors. They're the elite because they're at the very highest echelons of social and sexual power in today's gynocentric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:58 PM
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Do you think going from bi to lesbian is like a "coming to terms" for women? Like they're really lesbian, but call themselves bi because they're not fully at ease with it and it takes them time to get there? Or that bi women are really hetero, but just experiment with women here and there because they can?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:56 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:53 PM
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Hmm. Most of the women I know in long term relationships with women are full lesbian. Or at least "identify" as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:53 PM
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No, because I'm not a woman nor am I in a large urban area.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:52 PM
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Most psychiatrists or mental health professionals will label someone who responds that way as a sociopath. It doesn't mean you are a sociopath. But - lack of empathy is a hallmark symbol of antisocial personality disorder or sociopathy. By that measure (lack of empathy), all women are sociopaths....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:47 PM
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every Bi woman I've ever met has the following characteristics: --they're all batshit crazy --they have a very strong preference for men. They fuck women only for fun or diversion or "they're feeling it at the moment". They consider themselves bi because they fucked a woman a few times Most bi women are like 90/10 or 85/15 hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:44 PM
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IDK about that. Most of the women who have been posting here a long time are the elite of the elite: White, college educated, married, and living in a large urban area. They have been handed literally everything on silver platters
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:42 PM
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I also think that the phrase "don't listen to what they say, watch what they do" is apropos here. I really don't understand anything about "questions for women". Why are we listening to anythign they say about their own actions? We really should stop asking them. We should just point out to them their actions, over and over and over again. Just call bullshit, and just say "Bullshit. this is what you do." EDIT: Not even one day goes by and this thread proves me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:05 PM
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that's true. But women respond to constraints or incentives. Or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:56 PM
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I didn't get that. If that's what she's saying, she's wrong. Women used to fuck average men because of former societal restraints on women's sexuality. Or, because they married an average dude. And women usually do that because they run out of options. When women have the option and no restraints, they fuck Chads. Because they can, not because of societal pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:50 PM
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You're both right. Society just frees women up to fuck Chads. Women are not naturally monogamous. When you free them up, they fuck Chads for free and make Billy Beta pay for it. I thought the argument was women bang chads because "society" pressures them into it. That's 100% false. Or, because their friends push them into it. Also false. Women fuck Chad because there's no downside to doing so, and because "society" has removed all the restraints on doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:43 PM
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36-24-36 - a precise 2/3 WHR. .666666667
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:32 PM
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anyone have a link to the thread? Tried to find it. Is it the "demisexual" thread? Women don't bang because of "society". They bang because they want to, because they can, and because something or someone tingled them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:28 PM
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I have. Several times. Once because I caused the breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:27 PM
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Women have a little bit of a pooch there. They're supposed to. They're supposed to be a little soft there. No reasonable man is going to kick her out of bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:21 PM
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Yes they do. Yes, I've seen men and women both date and get confused about leagues, what is "dating" and what's just sex, and the whole mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:20 PM
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That is NOT chubby. That's curvy. That's ACTUAL, REAL "curvy".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:17 PM
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And the moral of this story for men is: --if you ever marry (because you want children, make it clear to her that that is the only reason you will enter into any long term relationships with any woman) make clear from the get go that you will paternity test your children. --follow through on that. Paternity test every child born to your wife/paramour. Never acknowledge paternity in any way until it is factually established via DNA testing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 04:44 PM
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PPD Women: Nuh uh!! But but but Women have all these problems! The STDs! The pregnancy risk! The risk of "rape"! The risk of "sexual assault"! The risk of "abuse"! The unfairness! Muh sexism!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:41 PM
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Thank you. Best comment on the whole thread. Yes. There is such a thing as pretty privilege. Looks DO matter, in fact they're paramount. So can we please stop pretending as if pretty women (and good looking men) don't have it easier? Can we please stop pretending that the fact that ugly celebrity men can get hot wives means ugly men have no problems at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:35 PM
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Not to the same extent as it applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:30 PM
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Yeah, it wasn't an invitation to a theological debate. Good call - no consequence for adultery or a bastard child. In fact, she profits from it - her children are living credit cards she can use to take cash advances on through their father(s). Or in this case, their "father".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 04:25 PM
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Let's go, Brandon. Anyway: Again, notice how all her relationship failures are always the men's fault. This woman takes no responsibility at all for her relationship failures - not even for selecting shitty men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 04:12 PM
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Christ's moral lesson to the adulteress works as an illustration of mercy and what humans' response to that mercy is supposed to be: I gave you mercy... THIS TIME. Now don't do this stuff anymore. And the response is supposed to be "Thank you for your mercy. I won't do it anymore." And nowhere did Christ say "well, all your debts are wiped clean and you're put back in the position you were before." He didn't do that. She still had to walk out all the earthly consequences of her past sins - any d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:54 PM
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Single Mom Face
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:43 PM
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She: My body, my choice. He: My time and money, my choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:27 PM
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twin brothers slept with the same girl and each had to pay half the child support. Holy shit. Market share liability applied to paternity law.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:24 PM
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*Puts on lawyer hat OP will be able to establish nonpaternity for both children. He will escape child support obligations for the second child. It will be much more difficult for the first, because he acted as the child's father. Most legal decisions are in favor of the man who acted as father and paying child support being required to continue. The reasoning is usually as follows: The man allowed himself to be listed on the first kid's birth certificate as the father. OP supported the child. He…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:08 PM
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Yep. Story as old as time. But when the wifey poo is unhappy and bitchy, it might not necessarily be infidelity. Most of the time, almost all the time, it's lack of sexual attraction. It's just that she doesn't want to fuck you. It can also be --she's mentally ill (this is a big one. Borderline personality disorder, past sexual trauma from promiscuity, PTSD, depression, history of mental illness in her family). --she's just a bitch --she works too hard/too much/unhappy with her job Those are the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah, dude - not how that works. If you ever marry and divorce, the courts and lawyers, not you, will determine what your rights and obligations are, based on the following things --the law of your state --your financial and employment position at the time of divorce --your spouse's financial and employment position at the time of divorce --your, her, and the marriage's financial assets and debts If you don't agree, the court will decide how the assets and debts will be divvied up. If you're mar…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 07:07 PM
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Whatever "it" is, "You" are done here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:32 PM
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If you have to say so, you probably aren't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:29 PM
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Yes. Now be gone. You're done trolling here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:29 PM
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Yep. She wants good sex from very good looking, sexually skilled men with appealing bodies and dicks. That's still her "expecting to get something".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 02:26 PM
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wHo HuRt yOu
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 02:25 PM
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Oh my fucking God. ITS PARODY. IT’S SATIRE. It’s illustrating absurdity by being absurd
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:41 PM
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Sir, ifyou are not from the US, you must be from an English speaking country or English is your first language. I must say that your command of the language is simply unparalleled here at WAATGM. Kudos!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 09:15 PM
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Yes. What were her issues? What made an addict get healthy enough to leave HER?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 07:47 PM
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She wants kids so she can fit in and so she can get her Instagram likes. That's only part of it. When you get all the way down to it, she wants kids because she needs to make babies. Women have a deep, deep psychological need to reproduce. They need it like we need to fuck. They need to be fertile ground for seed like we need to spread the seed. You know how men feel like failures if they can't find ground to plant their seeds in? Women feel like failures when the seed planted in them does not t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 07:43 PM
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In the law, we have a saying: Hard cases make bad law. This isn't necessarily true. I think it's more appropriate to say "Hard cases can make unfair results" and "Hard cases can make us feel bad". Since the founding of the Republic, there has been an inexorable march toward maximum individual liberty. More liberty means less accommodation to others and more demand for "fairness". More liberty means less to the greater good and everything to the individual good, to my own personal good. I've noti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 07:29 PM
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"I understand that those are facts, but they make me feel bad, so I am going to ignore them or blame them on someone else"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 06:47 PM
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It's not just that they want to "get real". Women always expect to "get something" in return for sex. "I had sex with you, so you need to give me something." The monetary value of that something bears an inverse relationship to the man's physical and sexual attractiveness. If he's very physically attractive, then all she wants is his attention and time. If he's not so physically attractive, she wants commitment, usually in the form of monetary outlays. Sure, men say "I spent money on you for dri…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 06:44 PM
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I find posts like this to be incredibly useful for translation skills. When doing so, you must look at not only what's being said, but what's NOT being said. You must also look for the usual euphemisms and womanese. takeaways: --Women do not want to admit basic facts, no matter how much evidence exists to establish those facts. Women will avoid and ignore those facts even when faced with irrefutable overwhelming evidence and even when they have no choice but to acknowledge the existence of the f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 04:39 PM
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Nah. Men date who they can and marry who they can as well. Men always take what they can get. Women always get what they want (at the time).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 03:33 PM
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I'm sick of it. Women will lie to me and fuck, then demand a relationship to gain access to my money. Or they'll demand I wait 90 days to fuck while demanding I take them out for expensive dinners. I hate dating. I don't like feeling used. I don't like the fake affection. I don't like when people who don't care about me demand that kind of access to my resources and waste my time and money. I just want someone to fuck. :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 03:13 PM
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I am relationship material not one night stand material Yeah, um, not your call to make. We men will decide what "material" you're made of. We men will decide whether you're relationship worthy or good for nothing other than a one nighter. If you'd said "I want relationships not one night stands", that would be fine. If that's what you want, OK. Then go earn it. Go qualify for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 03:11 PM
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No external links. No links to porn sites. We know she's a pornstar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:35 PM
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Yeah good point. This woman couldn't pair bond if her life depended on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:34 PM
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Yeah. ridiculous. She's a pornstar as well. So she has very high SMV and very low RMV. Typical slut.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:34 PM
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"Attractive". Women keep using that word. I do not think it means what they think it means. Chick - he DID think you were attractive. That's why he fucked you. To men, "attractive" means one thing and one thing only - fuckable. When a man says he thinks you're attractive, he's saying he wants to fuck you. When he says he wants to spend time with you, he is saying he wants to fuck you. When a man gives you any attention at all, he's telling you he wants to fuck you. First, we find out if you're a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:30 PM
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I know it. There are two things I will never ever understand with women on these OLD profiles: giving the finger, and sticking tongues out. I suppose women think this is edgy, sexy, and cool. In reality what they're doing is acting like the men they think are edgy, sexy, and cool. Women who act like this are acting masculine. Putting on a poor facsimile caricature of what they think masculinity is. Because the bad boys who fuck them act like this; they think this attracts men. It's not edgy or c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 02:02 PM
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Yeah, but it's good parody. Kind of like "my criminal history is none of your beezwax!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 02:11 PM
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You can call this a hot take if you want. I am not sure that the writer, or anyone else, objectified Caleb based on his height. Are you asking about the fact that the writer of the RS piece pointed out specifically that he's 6'4"? I think that she took note of Caleb's height because it points out his attractiveness. I think she was suggesting Wow. This is an objectively attractive man. How horrid it is that this objectively attractive man is acting like this. He is being so mean and nasty. He's …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 08:25 PM
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Yeah. It's important to point out that it's now a crime to be a man who's "not nice". It's "not nice" to pump and dump chicks. But it's now a federal offense for a man to be "not nice".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 07:07 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 03:29 PM
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This is women getting beat at their own game. Caleb uses his attractiveness and the current SMP to maximum personal advantage - just like women do. And women scream and cry foul. They're pissed because Caleb's getting over on them and beating them at their own game.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 02:59 PM
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Nah, "Caleb" isn't the FDS "high value man". To FDSers, Caleb is a fuckboy. He is the guy you fuck on the side while you're "dating" what you believe to be a "high value man". Caleb is the guy you cheat on your beta bux husband with. They'll take it if Caleb spends some time or money on them, but they don't view him as serious boyfriend material. See, FDSers have fucked Caleb before and they know what he's all about. That's why they're at FDS - because Caleb's gotten over on them before. All tho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 02:37 PM
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Hi kids! Let's fisk! the women who say they have dated Caleb described how these relationships generally included romantic dates, active texting, and Spotify playlists. Many creators have used the phrase “love bombing” in their description of Caleb’s dating style, or the use of excessive flattery and romance early in a relationship that is often a red flag. These stories also end in the same way: Caleb becomes distant and eventually ghosts, like a mirage in the New York dating desert. Ladies, th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 02:22 PM
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it just means "normal" in English language parlance. comes from Latin: "trans" - across "cis" - on this side transgender - crossing gender, different gender from that "assigned at birth" cisgender - "normal" gender, you're the gender you were "assigned at birth"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 03:54 PM
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I know I have been with you. I cheated on you 5 years ago with like 20 other women. But that was in the past. It doesn't matter anymore. I'm not like that anymore. My preferences have changed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 11:39 PM
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Dude, I'm $300,000 in debt and declared bankruptcy twice... Mr. Al, we are sorry, but we cannot loan you money for a new car. But, dudes, that was in the past! It doesn't matter anymore. Anything that I did before I met you is totally irrelevant and has nothing to do with anything. And it is none of your business anyway. So get your fucking checkbooks out and give--- Hello? Hello? Hey!! Goddammit....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 11:38 PM
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Yeah. It's all in the past and it doesn't matter anymore, baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 11:33 PM
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Preferences don't change. Only priorities change.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 10:43 PM
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Yeah. Origin is that bloggers were critiquing articles line by line, point by point, which articles were by a man named Robert Fisk. So the act of point by point, line by line critique/takedown like some bloggers were doing, became known as "fisking".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 10:42 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 09:39 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 08:16 PM
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Two things: 1) If women are entitled to know about the background of a man pointing to his good future, then men are entitled to know about the background of a woman pointing to her good past. 2) What matters is that he wants to know it. It's important to him. He wants to know it. Just as he might not understand why she might want to know something about her, she still wants to know it. So why in the ever loving fuckity FUCK does she get to know what SHE wants; but everyone loses their minds whe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 05:22 PM
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Looks like we misunderestimated him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 04:31 PM
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Why do you think it's fake? DO you have any evidence that it's fake?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 04:29 PM
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So fucking what? It's important to him. He wants to know it. He's paying for this relationship. He's financing it. He's expected to be responsible for it. He's going to suffer if it all goes to shit (and this WOULD have gone to shit, trust me). So if he wants to know it and it's important to him, then it's his fucking business and who are you or anyone else to call him "insecure" because he wants to know it? People do due diligence on business deals all the time. They do it to increase their sec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 04:12 PM
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Patrice could really put it pithily, couldn't he? That's exactly how men look at women. If all you got's pussy, I'll take it and leave the rest. If you got more, I'll take that too, but it has to be on offer and it has to be what I want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:52 PM
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I used to be a ch!ld m0l3st3r. But that's in the past and none of your business. I used to make $300K a year but now make $40K doing something I llllurrrrve. But that's none of your business. I'm gonna be with my sugar baby at work today. But where I am is none of your business. My criminal past and long rap sheet is none of your business. I can't hold down a job. But that's none of your business. I make my living selling drugs and doing contract murders. My last two girlfriends were killed as c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:43 PM
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Yes. When a man commits to a woman, everything about her at any time is his business. "His business" is whatever the fuck he decides is his business. He's paying for it. He's financing it. He's expected to be responsible for it. He's going to suffer if it all goes to shit. So if all this is true, then "his business" is whatever the fuck he decides is "his business".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:21 PM

Story as old as time. Only difference is that now, women are writing and talking about them openly. Let's fisk this a little more. "I'm not attracted to him because of his success but because he's a smart knind man who I know would make a great father to the children we'd have together." First of all, the man makes $600k a year plus investments. He's 35 years old and is already a multimillionaire. THAT is why a 33 year old post waller is with him. No other fucking reason. She's with him for his …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:02 PM
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I was going to the gym 3 to 4 times a week and during that time I had become friends with the Capoeira instructor, before I knew it we were having sex. I knew what I was doing was wrong but I somehow justified myself because I didn’t have any feelings for the OM [“other man”], it was only sex and it was a small compensation for all the experiences I had missed out in my youth. I wanted to stop the affair every week but the truth is that I didn’t stop till my husband found out 2 days ago. Transla…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:53 PM
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This is an important post because it shows how women actually talk about beta bux men. It shows, in their own words, how women talk and write about this. No woman will ever come right out and tell you "I loved fucking hot guys but I can't ever get them to stick around. You're not a hot guy - you're not for fun and fucking; you're a plow horse to be used, exploited, and taken advantage of. You're here to take care of me, spend your money on me, and get nothing in return." No. What they will do is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:44 PM
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If she ain't banging me, related to me, or paying me, I owe her NOTHING. No police report, no immediate emergency medical treatment, no r@pe kit? No r@pe. No police report, no emergency medical treatment? No "abuse". No police report, no DV. Ladies: If you believe a crime was committed against you and you didn't IMMEDIATELY go to the police, then NO FUCKING CRIME WAS COMMITTED. If you believe you were r@ped and you didn't IMMEDIATELY go to the hospital, demand that a r@pe kit be done on you IMME…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:13 PM
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"Abusive relationship" = -he wouldn't do what he said he'd do --he didn't marry me --he wouldn't give me everything I wanted --he wanted things from me --he had expectations and standards for me and expected me to meet them and when he didn't, he confronted me about it --we fought about things where he didn't immediately capitulate to me and what I wanted
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 02:53 PM
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Paulina Porizkova alleged her late husband, former Cars frontman Ric Ocasek, had lost interest in her. I call bullshit. Ocasek had written a new will several months before his death and after they'd separated - he disinherited her because SHE had abandoned and left HIM. But oh no- women are ALWAYS the victims - even when they're the perpetrators.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 05:55 PM
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God fucking forbid that you, a man, should have standards and expectations. God fucking forbid you want little things like honesty and forthrightness. God fucking forbid you should reject a woman for having something in her life that you don't want. God fucking forbid you should be clear and explicit in what you want and don't want. God fucking forbid a relationship with a woman should EVER be partially about what YOU want. Fucking hell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 05:45 PM
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Yeah, she waited too long.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 05:43 PM
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This woman should do the honorable thing, tell him she's a single mom and all the attendant circumstances, and let the chips fall where they may. How do you tell him? Just like you wrote it. "I was a 16 year old stupid kid and I let a junkie knock me up. I was playing around with junk myself. My parents wouldn't let me get an abortion and offered to help me raise my son so I kept him. The baby daddy is out of the picture. I didn't tell you before now because I was afraid to." If this relationshi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 05:38 PM
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Are there real women around here? If you are only looking for money and financial support, go your way, since I'm not giving you any. I want women's profiles with nudes. My photos are from 10 years and 50 pounds ago. I don't like liars. I do like quiet women. I have a great job. I am my world. You come here to me, and let's see what happens?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 04:00 PM
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Probably written by Akhmed in the UAE with pics lifted from IG.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 03:56 PM
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Where are the women who has intentions on taking care of us hard working men like myself? I have a high sex drive! full of fun and hard work and experience and yes I have hard cock lol I work full time and full time father. Looking for someone to help me cum as much as I want PLEASE STOP asking for my annual salary!! I don't just talk about that shit to anyone! You can come over here and Netflix and Chill and once I feel comfortable I'll buy you some cheap IPA. Half of you are bitches anyway Pea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 03:50 PM
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Here: Let me show the laydeeez how repulsive this is: Not gonna lie I need a wife ASAP Not even joking. My life got turned upside down last year. Can't get laid for shit. I need a sex partner to take care of all this pent up jizz. I'm underemployed and work at the local dollar store. If you need a dildo or a guy to eat you out, let's chat. I went from not wanting a serious relationship (hey, cuz porn amirite) to dire need of one. I like to cum and would love a submissive woman who does what I sa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 03:40 PM
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Maybe he couldn't afford the child support. Cheaper to keep her. He's in for a world of hurt because now the bitch knows he will take shit from her, up to and including her filing for divorce. Lesson: She files for divorce, it's OVER. Forever. If Mrs. Al ever even takes one step in that direction, we're done because I'll take it the rest of the way. Filing for divorce is not a shit test or a dread move. It's a definitive statement of "I do not want you". Mrs. Al ever "says" that to me, fine. We'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 02:55 PM
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and insurance pays for them if you had a mastectomy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 02:40 PM
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Yes. This is the way. If she never really wanted all that much to fuck you, if she was all "I don't do THAT anymore", if she wasn't interested.... Cut her loose. Be alone. It's better to be alone than to be with a woman who doesn't want you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 02:39 PM
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Her tears are for her not getting what she deemed herself entitled to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 02:21 PM
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I was not going to comment. I really shouldn't. But this should have been underscored and bolded: After talking with others & my therapist, I am finding out that this trauma is very common but very infrequently discussed. Almost nobody wants to admit they love their ex more than their current partner. A little louder for the kids in the back: Nobody wants to admit they love their ex more than their current partner. NOBODY WANTS TO ADMIT THEY LOVE THEIR EX MORE THAN THEIR CURRENT PARTNER. I didn'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 02:21 PM
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Fuck you and get the fuck off this subreddit. Reported to reddit admins for harassment, hate, and threatening violence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 03:48 PM
1

No. There is no general legal duty to assist someone. The only exception would be if I created the hazard that injured the woman; and in that case I would have some legal liability to stop and call it in, and possibly to render aid. As a bystander or passerby, i have no legal duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:11 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:07 PM
1

holding a door, sure, as long as it doesn't inconvenience me and as long as it takes less than a few seconds. Giving up a seat, no. Calling for help if a woman is injured, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:05 PM
1

No, I don't need to quantify or qualify. You're an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:46 PM
3

I do understand. I don't need to ask. lots of other women were just using him for sex Couldn't ask for a better Red Pill example. We all die alone. Every one of us. I will. So will your boyfriend, and so will you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:35 PM
3

Men do want love. They just want it when THEY want it, on their terms, and not as much or as often as they want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:13 PM
1

Big city. Hands down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:11 PM
2

There really isn't one. Not like for the beta bux. The equivalent for women is "I'll fuck you seven ways from Sunday, but I'll never ever marry you".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:09 PM
2

Uh huh. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:08 PM
0

Is he "ranting" too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:05 PM
1

Most women marry men they're not sexually attracted to at the outset. Or at least, not AS attracted as they were to men they used to fuck as younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:02 PM
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I see. When women talk about what men do, it's talking and working through it. When men talk about what women do, it's "ranting".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:00 PM
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I dunno my boyfriend used to be hurt by this, boyfriend boyfriend He was your BOYFRIEND. Not a hookup. You never once told him all you ever wanted from him was sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:59 PM
2

back again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:56 PM
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I love how women say "well, I'll fuck him because I've decided he's not fit for a relationship" as if this is supposed to be some sort of neg. As if a guy is supposed to view "you're not fit for a relationship" as some kind of veiled insult. What the fuckity fuck do I care if you don't want a relationship with me, as long as we're getting to the good part right now? So the fuck WHAT that you've decided I'm "not fit for a relationship"? I don't fucking WANT a relationship. I want exactly what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:53 PM
2

Sure. No, you don't have to convince me. I'm just letting you know I'm not convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:39 PM
5

Instead of downvoting, why not explain why you disagreed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:37 PM
0

Love does not create sexual attraction. The absence of love doesn't cause a lack of sexual attraction. I've learned that the hard way. Your short story doesn't convince me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:36 PM
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Yes. You just proved it; now you're trying to walk it back. Nope. Not gonna let you. You admitted you married a man you weren't sexually attracted to and who was not your type, but stayed with for "love". You should not have married him for "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:33 PM
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Uh huh. OK The point is that he wasn't your type, so you weren't sexually attracted to him. Now, you're with a man who's your type, so there's no chance you'll lose attraction to him. You should never have married your ex husband for "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:28 PM
1

Uh huh. But you weren't sexually attracted to him, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:24 PM
1

Sure. They get husbands they don't want to fuck and aren't sexually attracted to - you're an outlier. Or, they get married for a while and head back out to the carousel after divorce raping those husbands when the last kid is in kindergarten.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:24 PM
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Your notion doesn't follow from mine. If you're a cool guy, you don't need to "bang anything that moves".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:08 PM
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If you're a cool guy, you're not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:05 PM
1

Why did you marry your ex husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:49 PM
1

Yep. Most women do that till age 30, then marry a man they're not sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:48 PM
1

Women all over the place are saying NEITHER. And yet, women still choose one of these all the time. Most women spend up to age 30 doing 1); and then marry 2). Most women are fucking hot guys they can't marry; then marrying men they don't want to fuck. Most women cannot marry men they're sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:48 PM
2

"Reasonable misogynist"!! I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:27 PM
1

for most women the prospect of #1 makes them want to rope, And yet, women still live their lives this way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:26 PM
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These are views that are considered misogynist but actually are not misogynist: --all women are like that --they're all liars --never ever trust women --don't take women seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:19 PM
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Go read in the relationship subs posts where women keep wondering why men just want them for sex. Women prioritise sexual traits then are shocked when the men only give them sex in return. You don't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:56 PM
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Horseshit. Women reject men for being "virgins". They do it all the time. Women are certainly not "all over" that. There is no better way to dry up a pussy than to say "saving it for my wife". What a bunch of unadulterated bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:51 PM
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so... it's YOUR baggage, not hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:49 PM
2

It is a favor. And we'd rather you didn't do it. You yourself pointed out what a failure it was. You wasted your time, and the time and money of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:36 PM
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You can't dispute my point. Thanks for proving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:34 PM
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I mean, you can do what most women do, which is date lots of "yellow light" guys. Red light guys - guys who are an immediate "no" - you will never ever fuck them. Or, you never even see them. They don't even show up to you. For most women, this is at least 60% of men. Most men don't even show up on your radar, they don't even register to you as men. Or, they are immediately unattractive to you for one reason or another. There is literally NOTHING these guys could ever do to make themselves sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:34 PM
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Women judge men for doing the work. Women judge men for putting themselves in a position where they have to do the work. Women judge men for going to the internet to figure out what work to put in and how to do it. Women judge men for not "just knowing" to do this and how to do it. Women judge men for having to learn this and for knowing that this man did this amount of work; while this other man didn't. Women judge men for not just picking this up organically, and for having to learn it from ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:26 PM
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What you do, or how a man's sexual strategy affects yours, is of no consequence to me, or to men in general. If you can't find a lot of men you're immediately sexually attracted to, it's not on men to remedy that. It's on you. But don't waste men's time by dating men you don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:24 PM
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I dont really care if men want me or not because either way I dont want THEM. . So how would they explain me? You're a lesbian. Who cares about explaining why lesbians do what they do? Their effect on the SMP and RMP is negligible. Exceptions like you don't negate the rule, you prove it. By virtue of your sexual orientation, you're an outlier. We don't care what you do or why you do it. So, no, lesbians' existence has no effect on RP or how the sexes view each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:20 PM
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🙄 And that male serial killer, like most male serial killers, ended up in jail and dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:17 PM
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I'd rather my time not be wasted. If you're not immediately sexually attracted to me, if you don't want to fuck me before we've gone out, then I'd rather you just politely said "no thanks" and went on your way. I'd also rather you didn't nuke reject me. Don't make a scene. Don't lose your shit. Just say no, politely, firmly, quietly, and discreetly, and keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:16 PM
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I said nothing of the sort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:37 AM
1

So… one mentally ill man didn’t control his impulses. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:26 AM
0

What’s uncivil about this comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:21 AM
1

Personally I find it extremely unintuitive even at 30m because nearly everything that would lead to arousal in a woman has the exact opposite effect on me. A whole day of romantic activities would leave me drained and distracted. A fancy dinner would put me out of the mood. I've had women do these things for me and it actively takes me out of the mood. I like it though. It's just the opposite of sexual. This indicates you don't know what turns women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:17 AM
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It's not about whether YOU are lying. It's about whether HE is lying. He doesn't have to be honest to get laid. In fact he's got a better chance of getting laid the less honest he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:15 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:12 AM
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uh huh It's not about issues or even about you personally. It's the fact that absolutely NONE of this has ANYTHING to do with "honesty". It has to do with attraction and manipulation/control and what the woman wants, and how much she's willing to lie to get it. That's the bottom line.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:05 AM
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women fuck men they don't want to fuck all the time. They do it because they want relationships. So, yeah - women fucking men they don't want to fuck is "on the table" - because YOU WOMEN PUT IT THERE and you do it because you want relaitonships and money and commitment from men. It's manipulation and lying, pure and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:01 AM
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Everything else you said is BS because it has NOTHING to do with honesty. It has to do with how sexually attractive he is. All this shit about "honesty" is just that - shit. You can be a lying sack of shit, and get laid as long as you're hawt. Hey, you're a liar, but all that matters is you're a hawt liar. Thank you. TRP CONFIRMED. AGAIN.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:59 PM
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He's just an average guy. So I have the answer. You won't fuck him because he's not an attractive guy. So the rest of what you say is bullshit. And a copout.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:53 PM
1

No, I want an answer. You're copping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:50 PM
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Copout
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:49 PM
2

He's less attractive than a Chad. He's not totally busted. He's just an ordinary average beta guy who wants some pussy. How about it, FFF? You gonna give up the poon just cuz he wants some?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:46 PM
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If he's a less attractive man, a nonChad, and he cares only about sex, will you fuck him because he's being honest with you about the fact that all he wants is sex? I mean, he's being honest - it's just that his game is kind of off and he's not hawt. So how about it, Sweetie? He's honest about the fact that all he wants is a lay. You gonna take one for the team and fuck him? Hey - at least he was honest about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:44 PM
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The liar isn't getting treated like shit. He's getting what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:37 PM
1

It's really not difficult to pin down once you understand basic female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:34 PM
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So the liar gets better treatment than the honest man. The Chad and the player get what they want; while the nonChad less attractive man waits and gets worse treatment. You control men by controlling access to the pussy. TRP CONFIRMED. You are a literal walking talking advertisement for the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:33 PM
2

Right. All you need is a general idea. All you need is a woman's general attitude toward sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:30 PM
1

I don't need the exact N. I just need to get a good idea. I just need the hofax. Or the 304fax report, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:29 PM
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It has EVERYTHING to do with control. OK. You make him wait because you're putting on the appearance of high value, then. If he's a hot guy and you just want sex, you'll fuck him right away, then, yes? Why do men from whom you want relationships get worse treatment from you than men who are clearly lying to you and just want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:26 PM
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No, it's not my fault either that women are the way they are, or about who I run into. I'm not accepting blame for how women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:22 PM
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And if you make a guy wait, you've determined you can use and control him with access to pussy. He's less sexually attractive and therefore easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:15 PM
0

That's about women, not me. Not my fault. That's YOUR fault; women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:11 PM
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I am presuming this OP suggests that sluts don't make nonChads wait for sex, because they want those nonChads to get attached immediately and so they'll overlook red flags. I'll C that V, because all experience shows that sluts and high N women just don't operate this way. 1) They make nonChads wait for sex for two reasons. First, they make nonChads wait for sex because they really don't want to fuck those nonChads until they have to. Second, they're putting on the appearance of high value. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:10 PM
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Maybe it will help someone. Maybe it will help men understand why women get into this predicament.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 11:00 PM
1

Why should your personal experience mean anything to me at all? Your experience doesn't make you a better human being than me, which is what you suggested before. Now you seem to be walking that back, which is fine, I suppose. But your experience as a woman doesn't counterbalance anything, nor does it change anything I say as a man. Why do i have to "be fair"? Why should I be fair to anyone who doesn't treat me fairly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:58 PM
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Thank you, sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 10:45 PM
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No, it's more a reflection on the women I've tried to befriend. But of course you would have to get personal. Your experience is your experience. Doesn't make you a better human being than I am. It just means you have a different experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:42 PM
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Yes, but it's me explaining why women make this complaint. Just my opinion. Take it for what it's worth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 10:31 PM
2

I insist this, because that's my experience and the experience of my male friends and female acquaintances. Most of you women tell me flat out you don't do anything for men or male friends because you don't have to, men don't insist on it, and men still put up with your shit despite your refusal to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:26 PM
2

Methinks the lady doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:24 PM
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Nope. This is why I won't help women with anything. If I'm not banging her, related to her, or getting paid by her, she gets nothing from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:23 PM
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No, it doesn't matter what you believe my motives are. What matters is women's basic character.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:11 PM
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No. I don't think women know how to have a "real, honest friendship" with anyone, much less men. I've tried. And what I've gotten is used and abused. When you're married it's harder to have female friends since they think they can treat you however they want, because you're married. A wife doesn't like her man having a "real, honest" friendship with a woman because those relationships can get close and intimate, and that can lead to more. At the very least it leads to tension between husband and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:09 PM
2

Did any of your friend-coworkers ever help? Sure. Mostly because they were required to. It's rare I know, but I'm not sure if it's extreme. I can tell you right now most women would never do any of this for a male "friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:57 PM
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heh. if it works for you, I guess. I found women "friends" to be a waste of time. To women, "friends" with a man means she gets everything she wants and demands that I do everything; while she does nothing for me. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:55 PM
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No, most women are not "dope" people. I'm really not interested in spending a lot of time listening to women prattle on and on about things that don't really matter to me. Everyone has impulses they need to learn to control. Most people just have more than others. Men have extremely strong sexual impulses and must learn to master them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:45 PM
1

Why is having "homegirls" important?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:40 PM
5

I guess if we worked at the same company and department that could be possible, but surely that is very rare? It is but I still did it. You're rare and an extreme outlier among women if you've really done all that for male friends. That said, all your male friends would still fuck you if you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:40 PM
4

Just female "friends". All women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:38 PM
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We learn to control it and harness it. We fuck the women who will fuck us, and avoid the women who don't. We learned to control it because if we didn't, we'd end up in jail or dead. Unlike women, we learn to control our impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:36 PM
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Ladies, I told you so. Your male friends want to fuck you. If you give them the chance, they will fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:34 PM
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no, they're not "weird" things. Even if they were, they're all things women claiming to be my 'friend' demanded of me and then called me an asshole when I refused. That's women being "friends" for you. What they wanted was to be able to use me as an orbiter/simp/ bitch, and then ditched me when I refused to allow them to use me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:28 PM
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First of all, tess holliday? Nice face. Disgusting body. Men's standards (or, rather, women's standards for men's bodies and physical appearance) are MUCH more difficult to meet. Most men will NEVER be attractive enough... except for a woman with a Tess Holliday body and a totally busted face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:25 PM
1

huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:20 PM
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What those friends of yours are really saying is "nice guy, I like being able to use him when I need to, but no way would I ever fuck him." Did you notice those friends talking about how their male "friends" did things for them and offered to do things for them, but never ONCE talk about reciprocating? Your example in your comment is a perfect exemplar of how women treat these men. This is why I always test a woman who claims to be a "friend". OK, "friend". Loan (give) me $100 Ok, "friend". Let …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:19 PM
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why is having "homegirls" important? Unless they're a group of women to select potential sex partners from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:17 PM
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and I got downvoted a few weeks ago for saying the same thing. Ladies, I told you so - your male friends want to fuck you. What's even funnier is that we needed a "study" to tell us this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:15 PM
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There's a lot going on there. TRP, The Red Pill, got away from Game and self improvement and has devolved into incels/MGTOWs/MRAs complaining about women. This isn't the first time some PUA got caught paying some woman to pose as a GF or act like she's getting picked up during a day game exercise. Having wives - so I guess that's not red pilled anymore huh? The cuck article has to be a reference to the Jack Murphy dustup where the worst part of it is Murphy acting like a bitch to the woman who b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:12 PM
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I suppose. What they should be walking away from is long term relationships and marriage. Sex? Keep at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:00 PM
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It's pretty damn great actually. Beats the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:47 PM
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There's a difference between "dates" and "relatoinship".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:46 PM
2

There's a difference between "dates" and "relationships".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:46 PM
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Because women want freedom and modernity when it suits them, but also want men to operate within traditional gender roles. Women want it all - modernity when it suits them; traditional gender roles when it suits them. And for men to do it all and pay for it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:10 PM
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No. Not in my home. She lives on her own, she can do whatever she wants. She just needs to know it will negatively affect her future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:05 PM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:03 PM
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Take a woman on more than a few dates. That will disabuse you of any desire for a "relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:03 PM
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All I did was see what the women were really saying. And what they're really saying is "I just don't want to fuck my husband anymore"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:48 PM
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They all boil down to "I just don't want to fuck you anymore" I.e. "bored" The only reason women divorce men now is lack of sexual attraction, don't want to fuck him anymore (if I ever did in the first place). Bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:47 PM
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Nah. It just is what it is. You don't seem to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:41 PM
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all of them - why do you think they even know about any of this "pill" shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:30 PM
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Except for these women, it's never good enough. She's not "attracted" to money; she NEEDS money. That "successful professional" will get divorce raped in 5 years or less. The "bad boy" she gets doesn't stick around and can't pay for shit. The "handsome" guy keeps her around b ut doesn't commit. These women want hot guys with money who will be faithful and stick around. They all want the complete package. THAT is what they can't get. They have to settle, and man, do they get PISSED that they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:27 PM
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These women don't want just any man. They end up divorce raping the men they do settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:24 PM
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I see. It's OK for men to get fucked over; but not women... Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:17 PM
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So, a man does the "right thing", supports his wife and becomes a breadwinner, then she divorce rapes him and takes alimony; and that's his fault? It's HIS fault for doing what women claim they want? It's HIS fault for "being the man" and supporting his wife? Why isn't it HER fault for being a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:11 PM
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Which isn't the same as a century ago. She got Billy beta, but might have gotten to have Chad rail her for a week or two if only she hadn't "settled"! Oh the inhumanity! Oh, the horror! Oh, the hardship! Oh, the pain! Women have never been "not free" in the US. Women have always been free to do what they want. It's just that a century ago, they couldn't force men to pay for it and subsidize it. They can now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:06 PM
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Thinking you're a dime when you're not is not "best for them". It's not about "caring so much like how they live". It's about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:50 PM
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Most men who struggle with dating will figure out a strategy that works for them and move on with their lives. And most of those men will end up in divorce court, living out of their cars for a year, and never seeing their kids again. Sure. That "works". 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:37 PM
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No they shouldn't have. There's a difference between confidence and delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:33 PM
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Because it's a thankless job. You get all the burdens and none of the benefits. You don't even get to do the fun part of making the kid. You can't run your own house. You can't discipline the child, but you do have to support it. You have to put up with the ex husband/baby daddy. in some jurisdictions, if you act as the father would (support, discipline, child rearing) you can get hit with a child support order as if you were the father, even though you're not the father. High risk. All burden a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:27 PM
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Girls really don't want to know the answer to this question.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 03:28 PM

A PSA for you. Stop saying it's fake. Rule 3. This is why we don't say posts are fake without proof. Merry Christmas, motherfuckers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 02:56 PM
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Rule 3. warning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 02:55 PM
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Rule 3. Warning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 02:54 PM
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Yeah, you told me to STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:43 PM
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I never said anything about any school shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:42 PM
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None at all. It was the OP telling me to STFU when I did nothing other than express a valid opinion on why your friend is promiscuous. We are required to have "empathy" for women; but for men, it's "harsh judgment" and public recrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:42 PM
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No, I didn't "cross" any "lines". I wasn't rude or mean. I was blunt, direct, and clear, but I get that to a lot of people here, bluntness, directness, and clarity are "rude" and "mean" and "insensitive".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:00 PM
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No fucking way am I answering that question. I will, however, take my leave on the thread while echoing ex red black piller's sentiments down there. Too bad women get empathy and coddling; but men get judgment and flogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:59 PM
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No fucking way am I answering that question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:57 PM
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Then we disagree on the "why". Your friend sleeps around a lot because she wants to and chooses to. It's not because of a "rough childhood" or "mommy didn't love me" or "daddy didn't give me attention" or anything other than "it's my body and I want to fuck a lot of guys, so I am going to fuck a lot of guys". I am not like most people - I do not absolve women of responsibility for their conduct and decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:38 PM
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It is what it is. Put responsibility where it belongs - on the women who are deciding to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:34 PM
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No, the causation is the woman's decision to spread her legs for a man who's presenting himself to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:28 PM
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Your best friend sleeps around a lot because she chooses to sleep around a lot. That's not her parents' fault or her home life's fault. That's on her, and her alone. Her body, her choice, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:22 PM
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What the fuck is "who hurt you" then? answer my questions. So... are you telling me you women don't know players and fuckboys when you see them? You're telling me... you're all stupid? Women sleep with fuckboys and players because of stupidity on a massive scale? This is all because women are stupid? Once w realize they’re lyin pos’s were out. Bullshit. If that were the case you wouldn't make these mistakes over and over again. Don't you realize what fuckboys and players look like? Can't you tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:09 PM
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Of course. Shaming language. "who hurt you!" Reported. So... are you telling me you women don't know players and fuckboys when you see them? You're telling me... you're all stupid? Women sleep with fuckboys and players because of stupidity on a massive scale? This is all because women are stupid? Once w realize they’re lyin pos’s were out. Bullshit. If that were the case you wouldn't make these mistakes over and over again. Don't you realize what fuckboys and players look like? Can't you tell yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:03 PM
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I call BS. You all know you're getting with fuckboys. You know fuckboys when you see them. You know players and alphas when you see them. And you all know what fuckboys and players offer - good, blow-your-back-out sex from a good looking guy with a good face and body. Good dick. That's why you get with them. Don't give me this "I wuz hoodwinked and bamboozled" bullshit. You women know who these men are and what they're about. And you go back to them time and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:11 PM
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They care about getting that man to marry them so they can use and exploit him. Divorces have nothing to do with it - she divorces him and keeps an income stream from him. She has no problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:58 PM
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She doesn't care about knowing about it because she doesn't care about him. Even if she does know, she won't fix it. she doesn't care about him. All she cares about is that he's there, for her use and exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:54 PM
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Because he's not fine. If one half of the relationship isn't fine, the relationship isn't fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:48 PM
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If he keeps his misery to himself, the relationship is not fine, but she is. She doesn't give a fuck about him or the relationship - she cares only about herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:46 PM
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happy relationships, but from her perspective. Oxymoronic. She cares that SHE is happy. Not that the RELATIONSHIP is happy. Ergo, she dosn't give a flying fuck about the man, and she cares only that some man, ANY man, is there, doing what she wants and "making her happy". She doesn't care about the relationship or the man - she cares only that he is there, fulfilling his BB role and slaving away for her. She cares about HERSELF, not him and not the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:13 PM
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Where did I ever say "have to start living [your] life by what men say"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:10 PM
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OK. Congratulations. Yes, I know women decide men's sexual and relationship worth. I'm well aware of that. I was aware of that when you were learning how to write cursive. If they even still teach that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:09 PM
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How? you've said the relationships that work best for women are the ones where women are in control, and where they can control their men. Women can easily "control" a beta bux. Ergo, AFBB works for women. What's the issue? What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:08 PM
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I didn't say anything of the kind. We men decide what women's sexual and relationship values are. We decide what you're worth sexually and relationally. We decide what we're willing to "pay" sexually and relationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:04 PM
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The reason "asshats" follow him is because he's speaking a lot of truth. At some point you're going to have to listen to what men are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:03 PM
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Uh, well, yeah, we can shame women for sleeping around and us men also wanting to sleep around. Yes we can do that. We can say whatever we want about what women do. Whether that makes us sexually successful or not is a different matter. But we can have opinions about it and we can express those opinions. Don't really care if it sounds hypocritical - it's our opinion, and we have a right to have it and express it. We shame only those women who demand commitment from high value men after sleeping …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:01 PM
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therapy doesn't fix that. All that will do is get women to ignore the tingles, marry a man they're not attracted to, and then destroy his life, their children's lives, and their own lives in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:56 PM
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Your headline says "biggest turn on for adult women". Then you listed out things that "get you long term relationships". OK, but... the things that "get you long term relationships" do not "turn women on". They get you used, exploited, and taken advantage of. They get you married, sucked dry of resources, and then your dessicated husk thrown away like a used Kleenex in the trashcan of the divorce court where your livelihood and children were just viciously ripped from you. Things that "get you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:54 PM
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Yep. AFBB is in women's interest. It's why women do it. u/mrs_drgree points out that this gives women control. So why shouldn't women do this? They don't care about whether their marriages are happy or not - they care only that they got some man, ANY man, to marry them. Hell, if they get unhappy later they can always divorce him for cash and prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:38 PM
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I want an answer to my question: If fuckboys are so terrible and worthless, why do you women keep having sex with them? If the sex is so awful, why do women keep going back to it again and again? It isn't just a subset - it's a vast majority of you. You all have fucked a few fuckboys, and you keep going back to them. You all report having "ho phases" of varying duration and intensity. If fuckboys are so terrible, why do you keep fucking them? THis is the question none of you women ever answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:33 PM
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Really? The one question women never answer is WHY so many of you still fuck fuckboys if you don't value them and like fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:31 PM
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Critique it all you want - he's popular and getting more popular by the week. One of the reasons he went viral is because the woman he put in her place richly deserved it - as do all FDSers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:24 PM
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He does that only during his YouTube videos. He does that because it's his platform. He can do whatever the fuck he wants on his platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:15 PM
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Gee. Why so agitated? Something tells me you took that just a bit personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:08 PM
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They are lying to you. Flat out LYING. They are lying through their teeth to you, and doing so flagrantly and blatantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:33 PM
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I've been the problem. If I weren't the problem, I would never have found Red Pill. But mostly, other people have been the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:23 PM
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😁
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:23 PM
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the fuck does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:21 PM
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Women do value men who sleep around. Women like having them for sexual servicing, and for validation and affirmation. Women like the orgasms they get from those men. Women like the fun sex they get from those men. Women want to get one of those men to stick around, but usually can't; or they figure out that keeping one of those men is more trouble than he's worth. So, yes, women do value men who sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:07 PM
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Women don't like negs only from men they're not sexually attracted to. Negging is "offensive" only if you're a beta. Women think negs from hot guys are funny. And women seem to like it; and the men who do it. It signals that he doesn't need her, doesn't care about her approval, and isn't falling all over himself to prove he "cares" about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:48 PM
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Because when men do it, it's negging. Nope I'm not a bitch. Women's backhanded complimenting is NOT "playful" or "friendly". It's intended to be either masculine or cunty. Women tease friends and loved ones. They DO NOT get to tease their men. Women "teasing" their men are just being cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:44 PM
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No. If you bust my balls, you're either one of the guys or you're a bitch. You don't get to do that to me. I work all day with men who bust my balls and I bust theirs. I don't want to come home to that shit. I spend 12 hours a day doing that. I don't want to come home and spend my evenings putting up with that shit. If you bust my balls, you're either a cunt; or you want to be a man. You're either a bitch, or you're a masculine woman. Either way, I don't want you. The problem is YOU, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:39 PM
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No. It's off putting. Men's backhanded compliment to women is negging. Women's backhanded compliment to men is busting his balls. Men are allowed to bust each other's balls. Women are not allowed to bust men's balls. Busting a man's balls signals either you (1) want to be one of the boys; or (2) you're just a bitch. If you want to be one of the boys, that's fine; but we will then treat you like one of the guys and then bust your balls 4 times as hard as we bust our male friends' balls. Why not? …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:19 PM
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"You know, I don't care what other girls say. I think you're really pretty."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:59 PM
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women love fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:43 PM
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So, your theory is that if a man can get a lot of women to fuck him, then he should also be able to earn money as a provider? No. The male functions of "lover" and "provider" are two very different skill sets and have proven almost mutually exclusive. Experience shows that men who are good lovers are shitty providers; and men who are good providers are shitty lovers. Most men are good at one and lousy at the other. A few men are good at both. A few men are lousy at both. Women who can provide fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:36 PM
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Read this carefully: And most of those women will still find men to marry them, if that's what they want. Any woman who wants to marry can easily get that done. Women who are not marrying, are not, because they really don't want to. They don't want to do the work. They don't want to do what it takes. They don't want to make the necessary compromises. That's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:47 PM
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i don't often agree with you, but on this you're spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:40 PM
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And most of those women will still find men to marry them, if that's what they want. Any woman who wants to marry can easily get that done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:39 PM
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"Dick size doesn't matter" is like "I just want a nice guy who treats me right". When women say this, they leave out the unstated stuff that makes them look like bitches if they actually say it. "dick size doesn't matter as long as he's above average in size." "I just want a nice guy who treats me right but who is also physically and sexually attractive to me."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:38 PM
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I just want to wish all of you a Merry Christmas. If that offends you, call 800-867-5309.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:34 PM
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I don't even care about "the world". I'm talking here about the US SMP/RMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:30 PM
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Yes, 90% of women are "pretty". All she has to do to "be pretty" is to look her best - healthy weight for height. Decent, tastefully applied makeup. Long hair. Flattering clothing. That is mind-numbingly simple and easy for women. Just about all women can do this. They're pretty enough to attract their SMV/RMV counterparts. And that's good enough. That's all a woman needs to get what she needs- a decent man to stick with her. She can even fuck a Chad if she wants to (and damn near ALL women want…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:29 PM
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"Girl game" is just women looking good and being their girly selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:53 PM
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Dating is fine for all but the least attractive women. The only women who have it tough are the 1s and 2s of female-dom. Fortunately, there aren't many such women. Maybe 5 to 10 percent. Almost every woman can succeed if she will follow these rules: --be nice (or, at least, just don't be a bitch) --be pretty --don't get fat --be available Women who are failing are, by and large, doing one or more of the following: --they're bitches --they don't look their best (they DO NOT need to be supermodels…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:45 PM
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Women, by far and away. Women can do and say anything they want, to whomever they want, anytime they want, anywhere they want, and no one can say or do fuckall about it. Women get free everything, paid for by the state or medical insurers. All a woman has to do to get out of a scrape with Johnny Law is (usually) cry, or (less often) offer a handjob. Women get men to do their work, move shit, pay for shit, and get free goods and services, offered to them free of charge - because men hope for a wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:39 PM
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This is either 1) Dating assholes who pump and dump her. or 2) Dating genuinely good men who start out interested in her, but who she loses attraction to and dumps. Or 3) Most likely, dating genuinely good men who start out interested in her. Those men's attitudes shift because she clearly demonstrates she's more interested in her job or because she wants immediate commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 03:49 PM
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Prenup HAHAHAHAHAA Prenups aren't worth the paper they're printed on. All an enterprising lawyer has to do is say "unconscionable" or "adhesion contract" or "fundamentally unfair" and point to his tearful female client who is "about to get thrown out into the street, homeless and destitute". Any judge will tear it up, and presto changeo, all the bargaining and forethought that went into that prenup is gone. She still gets cash and prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:21 PM
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I guess if you want to believe that, that's your prerogative. You have the right to believe bullshit if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:18 PM
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No. Red pill started off with average frustrated chumps, i.e. ordinary beta men, annoyed with how dating had changed and why they were able to get things going with women but never able to keep them going. It started with ordinary men studying Game and pickup, ending their pedestalization of and supplication to women, stopping their toleration of women's bullshit and maltreatment, and either going it alone or holding out for better treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:17 PM
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I guess if you want to believe that, that's your prerogative. You have the right to believe bullshit if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:10 PM
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OK, well, you're still not agreeing with aqua. That might be your experience, but it sure isn't what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:06 PM
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So let’s say whatever your ideal women is (in terms of age, n-count, looks, whatever you value) approaches you and says, “I think you’d be great husband potential. In fact, let’s get engaged right now.” And she does the does the whole kneeling and ring thing. No. That right there is masculine. I don't want a masculine woman. And no "manic TRP dream girl" is ever going to do this. A "TRP dream girl" is happy being a permagirlfriend. Is “husband material” still an insult in this case or are you go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:04 PM
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Men have no problem ignoring the homely girls in their teens and 20s and seeking them back out in order to marry them. This in particular is unadulterated bullshit. Homely girls either get married early to a boyfriend who picked her out before she was 21, or they never get married. Chad doesn't marry Martha Dumptruck or Plain Jane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:00 PM
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Source? r/theredpill r/femaledatingstrategy r/whereareallthegoodmen r/purplepilldebate u/aquachip I'm just doing what you women told me to do. I'm watching you, I'm listening, and I'm paying attention to what you do. Me calling out incels for their hypocrisy isn’t me caring that they know women’s “top secret” information. Heh. Yeah it is. And you don't call out anyone for "hypocrisy". You just don't like men getting ahead. I already told you these two things aren’t the same. Again your extremely…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:54 PM
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More figurative than literal. They get to scream, I guess; but what they do not get to do is blame others or claim I'm somehow being "mean" or "unfair".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:45 PM
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There are some women who don’t do this and some women who do. Most women do this. I don’t care if they figure anything out. Oh yes you do. You're here every other day lambasting and destroying them. You care VERY much what they do and what they know. How is cheating on your wife remotely the same as sowing your wild oats? It's pretty much exactly the same. Some men never get done with sowing wild oats. Still others don't get to until later. So which is it? Can you please make up your minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:44 PM
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Oh well. Women don't get to scream like stuck pigs when the truth gets told.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:39 PM
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Wow. So in your estimation, "Tells the truth about women" = "hates women". Eh, no. You women do it; we're going to tell the truth about it. That's not hate. That's just observation and report. If you can't stand having the truth told about you, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:37 PM
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It's controversial because women do this and lie about having done it. It's controversial because women won't own up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:34 PM
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So, 3 mutually exclusive categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:30 PM
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No. It's "controversial" because women do this and then lie about having done it. It's controversial because women claim they don't want to do this and then they go ahead and do it. It's controversial because women won't fucking be honest about this. It's controversial because you women don't like being called on the carpet about doing this. It's controversial because Sandberg inadvertently revealed the code, and you women don't like that neckbeards and incels and ordinary guys finally figured i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:28 PM
1

Eh. "I don't want to settle down with you". "I'm not ready to commit to you". Not a lie. Just... incomplete. If it's OK for women to "lie by omission", it's OK for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:17 PM
5

She's saying "I want to use and exploit you for your resources. You'll be a good father for MY (not your, not our, MY) children. You'll provide for me and them. But I do not want to fuck you or have sex with you."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:53 PM
2

Yep. Men are honest with women. Women lie to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:51 PM
-1

Most guys you know are probably like this. But you’ll never know this because they don’t talk about that with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:16 PM
0

No. I was talking about the majority of people I PERSONALLY have met. Not a majority of people. Please read more carefully. If you’d read what I wrote, you’d know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:21 PM
0

In general, the better you treat a woman, the worse she treats you. The better a man is to a woman, the cuntier she is to him. Treat a woman well? You can guarantee she'll mistreat you and take you for granted, use and exploit you, and then toss away your dessicated husk. This is the experience of millions of men. Want to combat it? STOP DOING THIS TO MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:11 PM
6

TRP confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:09 PM
2

Yeah. Most men don't experience that, ever. I've experienced it once, and since I'd never seen it before, I was too naive to know what I'd just seen until years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:02 PM
1

Because "love" is whatever women decide it is or are feeling at the moment. Kind of like "attraction" when women use that word - it means whatever she intends for it to mean at that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:01 PM
1

Eh. It's about what men's love is worth to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:00 PM
2

It's manipulative. It's done so she can get things she wants from that man. It's fake. It's an act. It's feigning attraction so she can extract from him what she wants. Or, if she really is attracted to him, she's giving him what he wants so she can keep him around and extract attention from him. The minute she doesn't "feel" it anymore, she tosses him away like a used Kleenex. Women are the ones walking away from and leaving and maltreating men, not vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:27 PM
1

You mean, women who do "romantic" things for the men who are either fucking the shit out of them or are paying their bills? IOW, the men who those women need to keep around because those men service some need those women have? Response to edit: I've NEVER met men with avoidant attachment styles. That's all women - all because "I's been hurt, I's been done dirty, da menz wuz mean to me, that is never ever going to happen to me ever again".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:23 PM
1

It's not projection. It's how women are and what they do. They do what they do so they can extract from men whatever they want/need. It's not about romance or sentimentality. Even if it were, what matters is what they're doing, and not so much why they do it. I only know the emotions and sentiments I feel. Fair enough. Then this in reality women are very romantic and sentimental with men they are attracted to. Should read I, personally, and no one else, am very romantic and sentimental with men …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:18 PM
0

I am REALLY getting tired of women claiming they have such lofty objectives and noble, altruistic motives when dealing with men. It's unadulterated bullshit. Women are not these babes in the woods who just want lllluuuurrve. Women are not motivated by love and affection. They're motivated by lust for Chad cock and need for beta resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:52 PM
2

What's the difference between dressing and stuffing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:50 PM
6

No. That was true 10 years ago. Not so anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:49 PM
1

Yes you can. But what gets guys laid is sexually attractive and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:49 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:49 PM
3

Stuffing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:48 PM
3

Most women don't want love even from men they want - the minute a woman gets that love from a man she wants, she no longer wants him. She starts treating him like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:35 PM
2

I guess I was being more figurative than literal when talking about "shitstains". Plenty - probably a bare majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:33 PM
0

Stop with the elevation of women here. Women are ruthless savages when it comes to picking men and using them. They're not romantic and sentimental with men they're attracted to. They want to keep those men, so they do what those men want. It's all cold and calculated. Don't give me this bullshit about "romantic and sentimental". It's all an act designed to keep the men you want. EDIT: The downvotes tell me I'm right on target. Hittin' a little too close to home for you girls, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:31 PM
5

I've met plenty of physically attractive men who are shitstains and leave shitstains. Women absolutely love them and put up with that shitty (heh) treatment. I've gotten far, far better treatment from women being a complete asshole than I ever have being "nice".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:19 PM
6

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:16 PM
6

Women don't get "love" from men because women don't appreciate it from men, nor do they appreciate the men who "love" them. Women don't appreciate special or kind treatment, especially not from men who actually give it to them. Whenever men "love" women, women shit on them for it. Women treat men who "love" them like shit. Women can easily get good treatment from men. Women can easily get love from men - it's just not from the men they want that treatment from. Which is why they shit all over th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:15 PM
12

Really? Let me come over to your place and wipe my ass on your bedsheets, and let's see if you don't call me a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:11 PM
9

Shitstain is a "chad" because he's leaving shit stains on a girl's mattress and said girl puts up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:10 PM
4

Uhh yeah - women do date gross and unkempt men. All the time. It's gotten so if you take care of yourself, look good, and pay attention to your own hygiene, you're a "NiceGuy (TM)" and you're to be avoided. This happens because women put up with crappy (heh) men. We are writing about this stuff because we actually see and hear about women putting up with these kinds of men. It's where the phrase "five minutes of alpha beats five years of beta" comes from. Women would rather fuck a literal shitst…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:05 PM
15

skid marks on the underwear - why would you know about that until you do his laundry? Read the post. It was skid marks on the BED SHEETS. one thread that had thousands of upvotes was a woman asking how to talk her boyfriend to start wipping his behind because his hygiene was so poor he was leaving skid marks on the bed sheets Dude can't or won't wipe his ass - and chicks will still fuck him... Chicks dig jerks. Millions of guys out there can take good care of themselves, and women still reject t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:01 PM
1

She will - just not from the men she will want. So she will reject those men and consign herself to a life of vague unhappiness, cats, and box wine. I put it in quotes because I know you have a very different idea of "love" from what most other women describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:52 PM
1

She's not. But I know what Atlas is talking about - it's the good "kind" treatment, the "special" treatment women want. Most women can still get that treatment - it's just not from the perfect men that women want. I gave girls that "special" treatment and got shit on for it. You know why men don't give women that "special" treatment? Because women don't appreciate it from the men who give it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:51 PM
1

5 at best. Also, with that pudge face, he does NOT have visible 6 packs. Looks like he eats the standard American diet. 177 CM is 5 feet 9 1/2 inches. average height. Still a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:45 PM
1

She's 27. She's not old. You're wrong - men would "love" this woman; maybe not the way you'd like to be "loved", but they'd fall all over themselves to give her whatever she wanted, when she wanted it -and she could just dump the guy and get another one if he's not giving her what she wants. Pretty much any woman above a 4 in attractiveness can get whatever she wants- it's just that whatever she's "getting" is never "good enough" and she bitches and complains all over the place about how it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:15 PM
3

As an aside: Why are women who look like this having problems finding men for anything they want? A woman like this where I live can write her own ticket. She'll have men lining up around the block to simp for her. She can get literally ANYTHING she wants, anytime, anywhere. What the fuck is women's problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:02 PM
2

Frat bro Thank you. I agree with at least that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:59 PM
2

I know that women will say that you are not "fit" unless you look like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:58 PM
3

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:51 PM
2

Depends. On a coast, 6. In the midwest, at least a 7, possibly 8. Pluses: More or less H/W proportionate. Nice smile. Long hair. Minuses: Tattoos. Hippy, as in her hips look too broad for the rest of her. Thick thighs that don't look quite right on her. Needs to do something different with her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:49 PM
1

One advantage to being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:47 PM

Dear women: Reason number one why you can't get more or better: You're a shitty woman. You're a bitch. You're crazy. You're a slut/whore. You're broken and damaged. You're unavailable. It's typical that women never figure out that the main reason why they get shitty relationships or get treated like shit, is because they themselves are shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 03:07 PM
1

You've never been "in love"... that's emotional detachment, while you demand full emotional engagement from your man. Sounds unfair and unbalanced to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:36 PM
1

INteresting. This explains a lot. You want a man who doesn't emotionally detach from sexual intimacy, while you yourself emotionally detach from sexual intimacy. Fascinating. But understandable in light of your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:31 PM
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You just don't get it. Most men in this position think this is the best they can do because of past mental and emotional abuse foisted on them by the women in their lives. Women know they're doing this to these men. Women use and abuse these men and they do it intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:26 PM
6

Except - she's not fucking him. Once a month starfish vanilla missionary is NOT "having sex with" him. She's not "building a life" with him. She's using his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:23 PM
0

If you picked a man who's cheating on you, then either 1) he's a shitbag; or 2) You're not doing your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:19 PM
5

Oh yes the girl absolutely thinks he's a sucker. She KNOWS she bamboozled him. She KNOWS she's using him and exploiting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:18 PM
1

This doesn't happen enough even to have an opinion about. It happens so infrequently that it's not even worth discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:03 PM
-2

But I bet if I asked either of those women whether they were competing for a man, they'd swear up and down they weren't. "I am a woman. I don't compete. I don't HAVE to compete. Men come to me." Not a personal attack or slam on your wife. Just how women are. They'll compete - but they'll never, ever admit they compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:04 PM
-1

*grabs popcorn This should be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:02 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:49 PM
4

Men have had empathy for others and get shit on constantly for it - here and in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:44 PM
1

No average men, nor any men really, are asking to live the life of a male porn star and you know it. Getting casual sex "sometimes" and the occasional relationship when you want it is not "living James Deen's life". Not even close, and you know that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:44 PM
2

Right. Cuz respect and consideration work sooo well to get what you want from women....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:39 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:36 PM
1

Be yourself and the right girl will be attracted to you. So Blue Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:32 PM
1

at the end of the day, what people think is "average" is based on their locale - the men and women you see every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:58 PM
0

QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:56 PM
0

How about he pesters this woman for casual sex? Or these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:50 PM
-1

i was asking based on what you've seen. But if you are going to get all pissed off ahead of time, then fine. Don't answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:48 PM
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I see, so "disagreement with facts" is now "mad as hell and start insulting" others. I disagree with "sure! He can get laid!" because you're not answering me. Can he get casual sex with a decently attractive woman? Can he get sex how he wants, when he wants? "Get laid" is NOT AT ALL the same thing as the questions I asked. Answer the questions I asked; not the questions you think I asked or wish I had asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:42 PM
0

Even then, he doesn't get casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:38 PM
-1

Yes, she is average. I am familiar with that body type. I've seen it, fucked it, shipped it up. And she's hooked up with Chad and Brad, and no way will she accept Todd for casual. yes, you are moving the goalposts. You don't get to change Average Todd or add facts. You take Average Todd as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:36 PM
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Uh, no, Average Guy/Todd cannot have sex with average woman. Average Woman wants, and can get, Chad and Brad. Average Woman has hooked up with Chad and Brad. THAT's who she wants. After tasting Chad and Brad, no way is she going to hook up with Todd. The rest of this is goalpost moving. I told you - you can't change Average Todd and you cannot change the facts of my hypothetical. You have to take him as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:32 PM
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k I am 53 years old. I've known dozens of Average Todds. Maybe even a hundred. They don't get laid. They get relationship sex. They get some sex, sometimes. "Getting laid" is casual sex, sometimes, and relationship sex pretty much whenever you want. Sorry - Average Todd does NOT get casual sex sometimes or even rarely. Hell, even way, way above average Brad who actually can get laid and gets casual sometimes, doesn't get it whenever he wants. Where the fuck do you people think the manosphere cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:28 PM
1

And he's had his allotment of casual. He will never get it again. I stand by it - Average Todd doesn't get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:27 PM
1

NO FUCKING WAY are those men getting one or two casual partners a year. That is NOT happening for ANY of those men. There is NO realm of reality ANYWHERE where any of those men get casual more than once or twice, ever in their lifetimes. EDIT: I take that back. They can get casual... if they pay for it. If they get hookers or sugar babies. Those guys are married Wal Mart schlubs. Those guys get relationship sex if they're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:24 PM
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You're missing the point. OF COURSE he can improve. Then he won't be "average". You get casual with 15 year younger women because YOU ARE ABOVE AVERAGE. The point is what do AVERAGE men get. Not what do above average men get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:20 PM
1

I'm trying to use a benchmark stock average. "Average" in DC will be very different from "average" in Paducah or Pocatello. I am sure that the people saying "average" gets laid all the time are men who live on the eastern seaboard where "average" is master's degree, high 5 figure salary, former military, worked on the hill for a few years, and can bounce quarters off his abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:17 PM
0

spare me feminist theory bullshit, please
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:15 PM
1

Interesting. There's lots of average women. A few VERY above average women. Some VERY below average women. But overall, mostly average, and just fine for casual. Now, dear moderator, tell me true: Are those "average men" at that site going to be getting casual more than once in their lives? Are they going to be slaying mad pussy? Do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:14 PM
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Nope. Guys with no game, guys with some game, guys with decent game. All basically fucked, and not in a good way. You look like Average Todd, no amount of game is going to help you get casual. Your game gets you boyfriend status, and that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:10 PM
1

I've seen MOST Average Todds try and try and try and strike out getting casual. I've seen MOST average Todds settle on relationship sex if that, because that's all they can get. Average Todd does NOT get casual. He's Boyfriend. He's Beta Bux. He's divorce raped beta schlub. The point is that he's really average, not "women average" which is above average masquerading/hamsterized as "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:07 PM
1

Exactly. That's the point. This is average. Now, with a picture of a REAL average man, let's answer it. I see that women are still overworking their poor hamsters though. THey actually think Average Todd can get casual. It is to laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:06 PM
1

No. Average Todd gets casual sex once or twice. Average Todd gets relationship sex, if he's lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:04 PM
4

No, you can't change average Todd. He's as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:04 PM
2

Yes. By definition. "Average" AS MEN DEFINE IT, though. almost all of these women would be just fine for casual sex. Answer the question: Can Average Todd get casual sex more than once or twice in his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:57 PM
2

Followup from yesterday. Meet Average Todd. He's 35 years old. He's "average". He is a 5/10 man. Can Average Todd have sex like the average woman? Can Todd get casual sex WITH A DECENTLY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN and NOT an uggo or fatty more than once or twice in his life? Can Todd get the sex he wants, how and when he wants? Don't hamster this, ladies: You don't get to hamster that your above average men are really "average". Nope. You have to use Average Todd as your benchmark. Does Average Todd get l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:53 PM
2

Chabad Thundercock.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:49 PM
2

Damn, you're more blackpill than the incels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:47 PM
2

r/bigdickproblems
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:34 PM
1

huh? Most guys would take an average guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:33 PM
0

kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:33 PM
1

So are you - crediting ALL the good decisions to the fucked up stepmother when she found a stepfather who was actually willing to be cucked and do most of the work to fix the stepmom's fuckups. I've actually seen this play out exactly the way I've described it. More than once. YOU are the one who's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:29 PM
1

The child will usually establish bonds with the bio-dad and shit on the stepfather. The mother will divorce rape the stepfather and go back to fucking the biodad. Also interesting how you say mom finds a stepfather, then credit ALL the childrearing and work to her. Guess we know where you're coming from on this issue. Women good, men bad, all the time, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:25 PM
2

Excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:21 PM
0

1) Because dick size matters 2) Women are terrible at estimating dick size. They know four sizes: --micropeen/can't feel it/GTFOH/HAHHAHAHAHA; -- average/OK, --above average/ideal/this one is JUUUUST RIGHT! --way too big/painful/tree trunk/get that thing away from me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:19 PM
1

What I want to know is whether "Average Todd" gets casual sex whenever he wants, u/pearllovespink. Does this guy get "casual sex" "all the time", Miss u/pearllovespink?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:15 PM
0

Yes. But you'll just call men worthless shit. OK. Here, let's just do this: You're a liar. We men are worthless shit. There. Now that that's out of the way, out with it. Give us the "real answer".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:11 PM
2

Glad you see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:08 PM
1

OK, but I'm not sure what this means or has to do with intersexual dynamics. Women can get away with wigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:08 PM
0

She's the one who made the decision to fuck the guy. it's on HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:03 PM
5

Can't use celebrities to prove your point. An ordinary guy with Ed Sheeran's looks is an incel. An ordinary guy who looks like Benedict Cumberbatch is an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:01 PM
1

But I want to make it known that having a man "above me" and "takes care of me" makes my pussy drier than the Gobi desert. Seriously, it's gag worthy. Glad you said this too: so at least you acknowledge that outliers exist. Hope you'll also acknowledge you yourself are an outlier in this regard. Your position is in no way the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:00 PM
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It's interesting to talk about what each sex doesn't see in or about the other. But men see and are aware of much more going on with women; than vice versa. Women have no fucking idea about how the bottom 80% of men live. After spending a few years here, women either (a) honestly believe ALL men are out there slaying mad pussy, or (b) don't give a shit. Men, on the other hand, see and understand much better about average and below average women. We know the average woman has a tough time finding…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:54 PM
0

She's the one who makes sexual decisions. The gatekeeper of sex did some pretty shitty gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:25 PM
2

Most men, including most bald men, do not look like Bruce Willis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:24 PM
0

Abstain Um. Do you mean absolve?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:15 PM
-1

The mom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:14 PM
0

Women who say they love bald men are compensating for the fact that they can’t get men with hair. Women who make a point of saying they love bald men are really saying "I can't get a man with hair. I need to convince myself that I'm sexually attracted to bald men by repeatedly telling myself that. I also need to virtue signal to other women. I also need to get this bald man to believe this bullshit so he'll stick around and I can use his resources."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:10 PM
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Yeah, bullshit that "most women" don't want hookups. Women are proving EVERY DAY they love hookups - or else they wouldn't do so much of it. If casual sex is so undesirable, why do you women have so much of it? Answer: Because it's really desirable to you, and you really really like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:16 PM
5

average women HAVE THE OPTION to have sex with hot guys 24/7. Do women always do that? No. CAN they? You bet your sweet ass they can. GMAFB. Sex might not be a big deal to you, but I'm a 53 year old man and sex is still a pretty goddamn big deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:00 PM
2

Wrong, wrong, and wrong. Average women don't get exactly what they want because they don't do anything to pursue it. Women have more options for casual sex because there are legions on regiments of all kinds of men who would give it to them. Average women are NOT limited in their choices for ANYTHING sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:45 PM
5

Yes. I am sure your "average" guy is 6'2" and is carved from granite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:25 PM
8

Yep. Others do not want to see this obvious truth. I've not only seen this, I've lived it. I am absolutely AMAZED at how hard women defend this idea that all men are doing great, and the average man can get casual sex (sometimes, regularly, when he wants, all the time). It absolutely has GOT to be true for these women, or the world will just fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:25 PM
2

OK fine. Yes. An average man can, possibly, get casual sex, once or twice in his lifetime. So, yes. If that's how we are going to define "getting casual sex", then "an average man can get casual sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:08 PM
2

OK. How about casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:01 PM
3

I still call bullshit. Average men do not get casual sex all the time, when they want, or even sometimes. IF they did, there'd be no manosphere. If average men got casual sex even regularly, we can pack this thing up and all move on. But they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:15 PM
8

Those would be above average men, and thus off topic. We are talking here about AVERAGE men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:14 PM
4

Proof that women are never happy - even when he's perfect, she still needs something to bitch about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 09:13 PM
9

Great! So let's agree! Average men get some sex, sometimes. They get relationship vanilla missionary starfish with average women who'd rather have Chad blow their backs out. Average men do not get casual sex. Average women get casual sex pretty much how and when they want. Good talk. Glad you finally agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:01 PM
3

sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:45 PM
3

No, I didn't change anything, "bud". pearllovespink keeps changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:45 PM
3

the point is they're not getting casual sex AT ALL except maybe once or twice lifetime. She's the one who changed it - in the other thread it was "I see average men having sex with average women all the time" and "average people have sex with average people all the time". I say again - average men are not getting casual sex. Average men do not get casual sex all the time, or when they want, or even sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:45 PM
3

Still missing it. I don't even know why I try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:34 PM
5

Yeah it is. This isn't about porn. If it's so pointless, no one is making you participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:31 PM
7

here you go average men do NOT get casual sex. PERIOD. They certainly don't get casual sex all the time or when they want, or even sometimes. Can a guy get casual sex once or twice in his lifetime? Sure. Is it possible? Of course. ANYTHING is possible. But the obvious suggestion from this woman is that average men are getting casual sex all the time. No. No they are not. They are NOT getting casual sex even regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:30 PM
2

OK. we all have the right to be wrong - including you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:28 PM
20

Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:20 PM
8

The average woman can have sex pretty much whenever she wants, with attractive men. The average woman has sexual options. No, I did not say women are automatically getting whatever they want. What I DID say, and what IS TRUE, is that women have sexual options. If they want sex with attractive men, they can get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:19 PM
3

No. It was said, and confirmed, that "average men get casual sex all the time". It is NOT disingenuous. I call bullshit on this claim that average men are getting casual sex all the time, or whenever they want, or even sometimes. Average men are NOT getting casual sex. I stand by that assertion and you can call me whatever names you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:15 PM
3

I'm not confused. Did you read the post? No, you didnt - you just wanted to find something to insult and attack me about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:11 PM
11

It's not even sex with hot women. That you're even asking this question so incredulously indicates what women think of men wanting sex, and what women think of average men in general. Just points up how little women understand men. Something we men want and need - women just dismiss it and handwave it away like it's nothing. Guess I shouldn't be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:10 PM
1

shit eating grin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:06 PM
2

No. If you're attractive enough to date, you're attractive enough to fuck, IF YOU ARE A WOMAN. Fixed it for you. If you're a man, if you're attractive enough to date, you're in a relationship already, and all you're getting is starfish vanilla missionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:03 PM
1

while they say things like "good talk" and "that's dope" and "not an optimal outcome".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:02 PM
1

I have been a six figure dude for 15 years. It is so difficult, keeping the women away. Being a beta bux helps....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:01 PM
8

He's not getting casual sex at all. It's not falling in his lap, it's not anywhere in his vicinity. It's not in his zipcode or his state. Thanks. Thought I was going crazy for a minute there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:59 PM
1

If you're not Blue Pill and you will not put up with bullshit from a woman, you should be OK. You need to looksmax though, and you will probably have to settle for a less attractive woman than you might have ideally wanted (but she'll still be attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:55 PM
1

Just about ANYTHING is worth halfway decent sex. Most of us men have put up with literal rivers of shit for the chance at some decent sex. WOuld I do that now? No fucking way. But I used to, and I fully understand men who have done that or still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:53 PM
6

Right. "Dating". Meaning he goes all in on commitment, and he gets some sex, sometimes. Mr. Average Guy is not getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:52 PM
1

That doesn't mean I can't test their experiences to see how they line up with my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:46 PM
1

Average men with confidence can get girlfriends. They do not get casual. Average men with confidence can earn money to pay hookers. They do not get casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:45 PM
6

Not for casual sex. Cold approach for "let's go out"? Maybe 1/10 or 1/50. Cold approach for "let's fuck"? LOL no. Not average men. If you're an average guy, you are not getting casual sex. You're getting relationship sex or you're paying for it. You're getting starfish vanilla missionary once a month, or you pay hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:42 PM
4

OK, sure. "It happens". Sure. A guy got casual sex once. ONCE. That does NOT mean "all the time". Exceptions and outliers do not negate the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:37 PM
3

Thought you were done. Could you please make up your mind? Are you actually there, seeing them have sex? How often do "average" men have casual sex with "average" women? "All the time", like you previously alleged? Are these alleged "average men" having as much casual sex as "average women"? Are these alleged "average men" having all the "casual sex" they want? As much as they want? Do they have the same options as average women? Post photos of men who look like the alleged "average men" you cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:35 PM
3

Means this was not a "challenge my view" post. This was just discussion. This was just about "what do you see in real life?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:33 PM
4

This was not a CMV. This was a discussion post. Second: This was about what you see in real life. That's all this was about. Third: This was in part to ask whether it's really true that average men can, as a rule, get casual sex just like women can because that was the assertion of a woman in the linked post. Add in "all the time", meaning "when they want". That, and I finally got her to admit she was saying bullshit, like "average men can get casual sex with average women", which is pure unadul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:30 PM
2

Sounds good to me. I'm done discussing this with you - you're not even a man, and you presume to tell me about men's lives. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:29 PM
3

No. photos of people who look like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:21 PM
2

No, I didn't move anything. I'm commenting on what I see women doing in this thread and it's what they always do: call above average, "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:21 PM
2

No, average men can't have casual sex. No, they won't find someone to fuck them. Unless, of course, you're talking about the average man getting casual sex once in his entire life. But casual sex when he wants? No - not unless he pays for it, and then it's not casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:20 PM
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You tell me. What's your experience. No, I'm not misinterpreting anything. "All the time" basically means "whenever you want". Are average men able to get casual sex whenever they want? are average men sleeping with average women whenever those average men want? Right. They're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:16 PM
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No. They don't. They get SOME sex, SOMETIMES. They're not getting sex ALL THE TIME. Oh, so now you're going back the other way. Now you want to say average men get casual sex with average women? Could you please make up your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:07 PM
2

Nope. What you said is bullshit. The thread isn't about you. It's about your wrong viewpoint. And what I'm seeing is more confirmation that what women think is "average" is in fact above average. As well as the fact that you see only apex men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:05 PM
2

I'm saying men who have sex "all the time" are not average or are not having casual sex. If you're having sex "all the time", you're way above average or you're paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:05 PM
4

It's how women work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:03 PM
1

If you put in work to be sexually successful, you're not average. You're above average. If you're sexually successful, you're not average. You're above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:01 PM
10

No. Average men cannot get casual sex anytime they want. That's ludicrous. The only way an average man gets sex anytime he wants is by paying for it, and that's not casual sex. Average men cannot have casual sex with women they find attractive anytime they want. LOL no. The only way an average man can get laid with a woman who's attractive to him anytime he wants is by either (1) being in a relationship with her (and even then it's hit or miss) or (2) by paying a hooker. Neither of those are cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:00 PM
2

Average men get SOME sex, SOMETIMES, in relationships. They don't get casual sex with average women, like you tried to argue. You are still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:56 PM
1

No, what you said is bullshit. I'm concerned about the truth. I spoke it and corrected you. I might be weird; but at least I'm correct
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:53 PM
9

Average men get SOME sex, SOMETIMES, from average women, in relationships. Fixed it for you. Your shaming language doesn't make you right. Do you need to walk it back further? Would you like some help walking it back? A leash maybe? Or a walker or a cane?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:52 PM
0

Like I said - if you're a guy hanging out in dance clubs on the weekends in Staten Island, NY, you are by definition "above average".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:49 PM
2

No, you got caught spewing bullshit and I called you out on it, so you have to walk it back. You have proven you know nothing of the average man's life, much less his sex life. The average man does not get casual. The average man can have relationship sex with an average woman, IF AND ONLY IF he goes all in and commits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:45 PM
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No, I'm saying i'm describing average people sex and I want to know why you're taking such offense to the term "vanilla starfish missionary"? It's a term men use to describe sex a woman CLEARLY does NOT want to have, because we've seen it in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:44 PM
1

exemplar photos of men who look like said men, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:42 PM
-4

The guys in your first photo are frat guys at a tailgate - by definition above average - most are fit and decent looking. Those are above average guys except for pudge Yellow Shirt at left and pudge Red Shirt standing at right. I went to college with guys like that. That was most of my frat brothers. And a lot of them slayed MAD pussy. Above average. Second pic - kinda average, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:40 PM
2

Just average people having average sex. Why take such offense?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:38 PM
2

Post photo examples of these alleged "average" men. Not the men themselves, but exemplars of men who looked like them. First of all - men who hang out in clubs fridays and saturdays in Staten Island, NY, are by definition "above average". There was a movie about this - maybe you've heard of it - made a star out of John Travolta - "Saturday Night Fever"? Tony Manero and his friends - BY DEFINITION "above average".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:37 PM
2

Right. Some sex, sometimes. NOT like average women. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:36 PM
1

Average men getting SOME sex, SOMETIMES. Fair enough. They are NOT having sex like average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:35 PM
3

OK, I went back and read the comment more closely. The "met" link is to a Chad and Stacy. A "Trixie" is a Stacy. You're talking about above average people. Any man who can get casual sex is above average by definition. Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:33 PM
9

So you're walking it back. Before it was "average people have sex with average people ALL THE TIME". Now it's just "average people have sex with average people". Right - average men have commitment sex with average women. Average women DEMAND commitment from average men before sex happens. But average men are not getting casual sex from ANY women, much less "average" women. You're wrong. You lose. Your shaming language doesn't make you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:30 PM
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You are still wrong. Or, you're walking back what you said. You said "average men get sex all the time with average women". Not true. It's average women who don't want average men. Average men want average women - but average women demand immediate commitment from average men. So you are walking it back - "Having sexual all the time does not imply that they get everything they want. It means they have the ability to get set like every normal human being on the planet." HORSESHIT. You got proven …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:25 PM
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No, I really dont - I'm one of the most irrationally overconfident men you'd ever meet. You're still wrong. Average men get SOME sex, sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:23 PM
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Hooking up? You mean casual, one nighters, or FWB or FB? Average men getting casual sex? Really? Post photo examples of these alleged "average men" - not the men themselves, but examples of men who look like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:23 PM
4

Exactly. The "average" man can get some sex sometimes. He can't get casual. He can't get NSA. So the statement "average people have sex with other average people all the time" is bullshit. Average men are not having sex with average women "all the time".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:15 PM
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I'm asking only about what you're seeing. Right. So average men get some sex, sometimes. They don't have options and they aren't having sex "all the time" with other average women. They aren't getting casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:13 PM
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I'm using you as an example because your view points on this are so divorced from reality it's beyond belief. I know I'm not bad looking. But I'm a slightly above average guy and I can't have sex with "average women all the time". I don't have the options an average woman would have. I can't just go out and get casual sex anytime I want, like an average woman can. No, "unattractive" men do NOT get decent women. They get NOTHING. I am using you as an example because you're so colossally wrong abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:12 PM
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"average" men can have casual sex all the time? "average" men can have casual sex with attractive women anytime they want? That's the sex life of the "average" woman - sex with attractive men when she wants; options with lesser men when she wants. So you're saying average men with confidence can also have sex like that? Really? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:08 PM
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I really just wanted to know what you are seeing in your real life. I was asking for personal experience, not so much commentary on the social scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:05 PM
2

"having SOME sex, SOMETIMES" is not the same as "having the sex you want". "Missionary vanilla starfish" is not having sex like an "average" woman. The average woman has options. The average man does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:02 PM
1

Instead of downvoting, can you just answer? Sorry you don't like the response, but that's what this other user was asserting. Can average and unattractive men have sex as much as average women can? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:01 PM
0

So, "average" men can get sex in a relationship. Sometimes. Missionary vanilla starfish. Makes sense. And consistent with what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:59 PM
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Yeah. Average men get some sex, sometimes. If we count missionary vanilla starfish sex once every month as "having sex", then, yeah, sure, an "average" man can "have sex". EDIT: The average woman has options. The average man does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:58 PM
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Can average and unattractive men have sex as much as average women can? Because that's what this other user said - average men are having sex "all the time".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:55 PM
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Shaming. You're still wrong. Average men have SOME sex, SOMETIMES.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:53 PM
2

average men get some sex, sometimes. They are not "having sex all the time" and they're not having all the sex they want. They are NOT doing what you say they're doing which is "having sex all the time". That implies they're getting everything they want. They're not. Average men can't "still have sex". They don't have options. You can dismiss this all you want. You're still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:52 PM
2

What's "average" sex? I know what casual sex is. What's "average" sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:50 PM
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Post photos of examples of "average" men - not men you know, but men who look like those "average" men you know. EDIT: Still waiting for the pic examples post them, please SECOND EDIT.... crickets.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:49 PM
5

Yes. I did forget that women think an "average" man is in reality an above average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:48 PM
3

what's the difference between casual sex and average sex? I think i understand dating sex - that's relationship sex. That's average starfish vanilla missionary premised on him going all in on commitment and he's not fucking anyone else -he's required to give up any options he has. She, however, can do whatever she wants- including fuck other men, if she so desires. What's "average" sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:47 PM
2

OK- you don't understand submission and you don't want to. I'm done here. Men just CANNOT say the word "submissive" to women. Especially not here, not today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:26 PM
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By the way - we think most men are unattractive because women like you tell us flat out here and in real life that most men are not attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:19 PM
5

And out comes the shaming language. Was wondering when you were going to do this. You lose. No, your point was that average men are having all the sex they want and can sleep around all they want. That's just blatantly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:18 PM
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No, it is not a confidence issue or social skills. No, average people are not having sex with other average people all the time. I just told you: Average men are having relationships and some sex, sometimes, with average women. Average men are not out there hooking up and getting what they want sexually. That's why there's a red pill. average women have those relaitonships with average men and have average vanilla missionary starfish once every other week. Average women have casual sex with very…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:17 PM
9

No. Average men get relationships and some sex, sometimes, with average women. Average men are not out there having one nighters and FWBs with average women. Avaerge women have one nighters and FWBs with very attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:10 PM
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No. You're seeing extremely attractive men dating and sleeping around. You're seeing average men getting some relationships sometimes. You're seeing average men getting into relationships with average women. And, yeah, those men are getting some sex, sometimes. What you are NOT seeing is average men dating and sleeping around. The "Decent men with jobs" are average men getting average relationship missionary vanilla starfish with average women who would rather be dating and sleeping with very at…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:06 PM
0

Yeah - the fact that he can't see himself doing certain things is part of the problem. The fact that he can't see himself paying for sex - part of the problem. Dude - men always 'pay' for sex. Husbands pay for sex from their wives. Men pay for it from their girlfriends, FwBs, fuckbuddies, and one night stands. Men ALWAYS 'pay' for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:58 PM
0

No. He needs to fix the structural things first - like his face. At the same time he needs to get some experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:55 PM
1

This is going to get yanked. But I'll give you some advice. go to a high priced hooker and turn in your V card. Then start cutting your teeth on divorced women and single women your age and older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:52 PM
1

I ain't skeered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:50 PM
33

Most men are not attractive enough to date and sleep with women like women can date and sleep with men. This is pure apex fallacy - you're basing your opinion on the men you yourself date/sleep with and who you see dating/sleeping around - only the top 10% of men can do that. Most men simply cannot do what the average woman can do. THe only way for men to do that is to pay for it with hookers. I simply do not understand how it is that women can't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:48 PM
1

Yep - this is what those men need to do. Seriously. 20 year old men need to hit up cougars
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:44 PM
2

Yeah, it's MILF, not MILM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:43 PM
2

Yes - and we're honest about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:42 PM
42

Because men are horny in their 20s and they want things too. It just never occurs to women that men want things. Men have wants, needs, hopes, dreams, and desires too. Men work for those things too - and get consistently frustrated and stymied after they do everything blue pillers and women tell them to do. Men don't want to wait until they're 30 to start getting their dicks wet because men want and need things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:42 PM
1

Submission is not "bowing down". In any realtionship between 2 people, someone has to do it, and it works better when the woman does it. Women hate having men submit to them because they don't like being the ones to do the hard work and make the tough calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:23 PM
1

Nah. RP is just an "echo chamber" and a "safe place". What do you care what I think? You know it all, dude. Please, do thrill me with your acumen and wisdom, o 26 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:22 PM
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But remember, guys: It's MEN who always do this to WOMEN. Women never ever ever do this to men. Nope. Nuh uh, never ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 04:20 PM
2

Submission goes only one way. Either he submits, or she does. Men say they "respect" women like this so they can fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:17 PM
1

No, I'm talking about respect - admiration and deference. Submission is a "special" kind of "respect" from a woman to her man. I will NEVER EVER submit to a woman. There are about two women in the world I respect, and both of them are lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:15 PM
1

No, that's not what respect is. You're talking about politeness and common courtesy. I treat most people with politeness and common courtesy. I don't respect most people, because they haven't earned it. Respect is EARNED, not given.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:13 PM
2

Goddamn it Most men can't even get women for anything. A lot of men don't get sex or respect from their wives. Here on planet Earth in the Western SMP - the most fucked up SMP and RMP ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:11 PM
1

Love's a fleeting feeling. Comes and goes. Respect flows one way, really - from a woman to her man. Women don't want men who "respect" them. Women hate men who respect them ("respect" meaning "admiration and deference").
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:10 PM
0

How much do I submit to a GF/wife? Not at all She is very feminine looking, and a nice person; but very masculine in her thoughts, acts and desires. The masculinity seems to come from insecurity though She'll have problems. Most men, even less "masculine" men, are not going to put up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:08 PM
2

No, sex and respect are damn near impossible for men to get. You really don't understand how this works for men, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:08 PM
2

I'm actually hearing about more women having to pay CS and some alimony. One woman I know claimed to have been "homeless" for a while after her divorce. That probably means she had to move in with a friend for a while and they had box wine and Haagen Dazs parties every other night; I don't know. But she and her ex did have to sell their house, meaning they both didn't have a place to live for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:07 PM
3

OK. Then they don't want to submit, almost always because of lack of sexual attraction. That in itself is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:01 PM
-1

Um, OK. I know some masculine women like this. They make me vomit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:57 PM
3

But those women don't like, have affection for, or have sexual attraction for, their betas. Sure, I know wife worshipping betas. They'll soon be divorce raped schlubs paying alimony and child support. They love their wives; their wives hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:56 PM
1

Sure; but "love" is fleeting and it's just a feeling. Men want sex and respect from their partners. To men, respect is love. Respect requires action, commitment, and proper attitude. Respect requires effort and conscious work. If my partner doesn't respect me, she doesn't love me and I'll be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:55 PM
3

Sex and respect are NOT easy to get FOR MEN. OK, well, I can see this isn't going anywhere; all you care about is what women get from relationships. That's fine; but it's not interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:54 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:53 PM
3

"Married to" does not equate to "sexually attracted to". "Married to" does not equate to "like" or "have affection for".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:51 PM
2

I thought the convo was over
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:50 PM
2

Exactly,.. like i said.... Beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:50 PM
1

We can get mom and dad, brothers and sisters, friends, to love and care for us. We want sex and respect from women. Oh, yes, here comes the shaming language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:50 PM
2

Men want sex and respect from women. This conversation is not about what I personally want. It's what men want, as a general rule. I speak in generalities; I don't find it useful to consider exceptions and outliers, which is really the "no gender is a monolith" and "not all X are like that" position. That's really just but but but I know this ONE GUY over here who is NOT like that, so your "rule" is FALSE! nanny nanny boo boo! I find such discussions useless and of no value in getting to the tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:49 PM
1

First of all, you're 26 and don't have a lot of experience Second, Red Pill is one of the best ways for men to get a crash course in this and to detox from Blue Pill bullshit. Maybe you didn't get blue pilled as a kid. If you weren't, all the better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:45 PM
3

But do you know what advantages men WANT? What you give is irrelevant if men don't want it. What you offer is worthless if men don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:43 PM
1

You're a 26 year old man? Um.. OK then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:41 PM
5

Most guys don't like it. And most women don't like it either - including women who are like dudes. Most women "who are like dudes" are still women, and they aren't sexually attracted to men they can't submit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:40 PM
0

No, 800,000 ppl died allegedly AFTER TESTING POSITIVE FOR Covid. There's no way to know whether their deaths were directly and proximately caused by Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:38 PM
3

incels don't do bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:37 PM
4

No. We men want different things. Talk to us men about the shit WE value, not what YOU value and then demand that we also value. Men are not women. Men are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:32 PM
5

No, they're not. Speak for women, not men. We, not you, will decide what "advantages" we get from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:31 PM
1

all i can see is a square.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:28 PM
2

For a year? I'd be done interacting with her inside of 3 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:27 PM
-5

No. Women who are more like dudes want to run the relationship and can't submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:26 PM
4

Yes. You're a beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:24 PM
2

Spoken like a woman who never dates/ fucks women. No. It's not paranoia porn. It's male self protection. If she's faking it, then you won't know if she's "worth it" or not. Unelss of course you've been Red Pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:23 PM
1

Bill Clinton is NOT "laughed at like a clown". He beat the rap. People have come at him multiple times and he's won every time. He's a respected former president and elder statesman of the Democrat Party.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:19 PM
7

If a man "respects" you, you won't be sexually attracted to him. We want you to want to fuck us. YOU are the ones who are supposed to respect US, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:17 PM
1

Casual sex is not risky. Pregnancy can be easily avoided. STDs can be cured or managed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:16 PM
3

Women do this all the time - for commitment, money, marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:16 PM
7

Those are things YOU WOMEN get. What do men get? I'll wait. [Crickets]
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:11 PM
7

No, gives YOU advantages. Does NOT give MEN advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:11 PM
1

Women fake it for the specific purpose of locking him down and getting the ring, then cutting him off immediately after the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:09 PM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:06 PM
6

I understood what you meant about nonmonogamies. My disagreement is with "Bullying". I disagree that men are bullying wives into anything. Bullying means "do this or I'll [insert threat of death or imminent bodily harm here]." Bullying does not mean wheedling or whining, begging, nagging, complaining, or even threatening to divorce or cheat or "i'll just go do it anyway". Any man does that last bit, he's begging for a divorce rape baseball bat rammed up his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:04 PM
7

Even when men want open monogamies, they don't "bully" their wives into it. They can't. Any wife who feels "bullied" can just drop dime to the cops, and that'll be the end of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:55 PM
1

Um. Yeah, as to the headline. BS as to everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:53 PM
3

A very, very few women can lock down a 10/10 man. Sure, a very, very attractive man might be able to bang a model. Anything is possible. What we need to talk about is probabilities. What will you probably be able to pull?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:45 PM
17

"Bully"? I kinda doubt that - most men don't have what it takes to "bully" wives into anything. "Bullying" leads to divorce lawyers, arrests, and law enforcement involvement. Men have much less power in marriage than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:43 PM
6

You mean, sexually unattractive husband. As most husbands are, or become
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:42 PM
7

That's what they WANT to do. Most dont, because they can't. Unlike women, however, men accept this about themselves, and most make decent husbands. It's women who make shitty spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:29 PM
2

Wife/leftover
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:28 PM
-1

Well, you don't have anything to fear from men. You have pepper spray. And, no, I didn't say "nothing". I said "not as much as you women think".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:22 PM
1

BULLSHIT. If a woman is willing to marry you that's about all she wants. She won't fuck you or date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:21 PM
14

That's an oversimplification, but yeah, we're not much more complex than that. The issue is not that men are "emotionally unavailable". The issue is that most men are not sexually attractive enough for most women. You don't give a flying fuck about our emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:20 PM
1

The most pro-men country? Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:15 PM
-1

Great. So not a problem. Why'd you even bring it up? You keep it moving, you don't talk to strangers, you avoid most men. Like most women do with most men. And life goes on. It's not even an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:14 PM
1

No. Men's is lower for casual sex. Women's is lower for marriage. Women's is still high for "dating" , which is everything else short of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:09 PM
0

close enough. You're strong and independent. I'm sure you can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:05 PM
35

No, I think he's saying 'here's why you can't find partners to emotionally bond with'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:00 PM
4

Such is life in the Big City. This is the life women wanted. So I don't have a lot of sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:57 PM
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The only way to challenge your view is to tell you that there's no way to challenge this view because there's no way to define "emotional unavailability". I really don't think most men even are "emotionally unavailable". When women say a man is "emotionally unavailable", what she's really saying is "He does not, or cannot, relate to me precisely the way I want him to, how I want, when I want. He has his own wants, needs, desires, hopes, and dreams, and those things just are not important to me."…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:56 PM
0

Did any of them actually injure you or put their hands on you? What kind of threats? Did you report them to police? Take photos? Take down license plates? Get info on these "stalkers"? Did you swear out complaints? Did you file lawsuits? Did you take out restraining orders? Did you take ANY legal action?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:48 PM
1

Success is fleeting too. We men have to prove it every day. Women never have to prove anything - all they have to do is show up with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:42 PM
1

They will all pick success because they're not. Just like all men will pick sex object, because we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:41 PM
2

Most women have intrinsic value. Most men do not. Most women will be valued because we need every womb we can get for reproduction. Most men are not valued because we really need only the top 10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:41 PM
1

You want to be valued as "success objects" when you're...not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:40 PM
1

There isn't any possible way to bring this up without sounding like an autist or an asshole. I suppose a better way would have been to be the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:34 PM
2

to get married or to use the men as beta buxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:32 PM
5

partially. I don't believe for one minute that women are under constant threat of rape and murder at men's hands. The worst that happens to most women is, while on a date, getting touched someplace you don't want to or before you're ready. Some guy moving a little too fast. Women DO NOT date down. They have sex with the hottest men they can possibly find.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:32 PM
4

Women's bars are lower for marriage. Men's bars are lower for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:30 PM
3

He’s very career focused and has a good job Which is why she married him. Firefighters, cops, body builders, etc. are for fun. Career focused nebbishes with good jobs are for use and exploitation marriage. $1000 says they're divorced in 10 years or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:07 PM
2

It's not a meaningless promise. No more meaningless than "I am asking you to promise never to lose your job and to never get depressed."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:24 PM
3

To avoid wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:23 PM
3

No, he's saying he has standards. $1000 says she'd break up with him for losing his job and getting depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:23 PM
4

Good for him. He has standards and expects her to meet them. She basically told him "fuck you, you don't get to have standards". He's right to nope out. This is the same kind of woman who would break up with him for losing his job and getting depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:22 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:18 PM
3

The beckiest Becky LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:18 PM
10

I guess, but I might not state it so starkly What's really going on here is that each side has good points but way, WAY overstates how shitty things are. Most men are not going to get divorce raped and left destitute in a divorce. Most men are already destitute so a divorce won't leave them any worse off, really. Most men aren't getting sex anyway either. Most men aren't getting any because they're not even working for it or trying. Most women are not going to get beaten, raped, or murdered by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:20 PM
1

Women get away with all kinds of things. --passive-aggressiveness --overall unkindness --getting others to do their work for them --talking shit to people's faces ("Don't hit me, I'm a girl!") The only thing men can get away with is being in "the bad part of town" at 3 am
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:51 PM
4

What are the "subjective rewards" you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:48 PM
1

I think we run in the same circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:24 PM
-2

Or, I’ll make the girls a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:02 PM
2

I’ll make you girls a deal. I won’t judge, shame, or guilt you about who you put into your vaginas, if you don’t complain about it, and especially if you don’t complain about the consequences. Sound good?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:50 PM
1

Um. Yes. That’s why I wrote it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:45 PM
0

Nope. Objective facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:29 AM
0

Mine has a basis in fact and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:17 PM
1

mmmmhmmm. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:24 PM
1

Wow. So a reddit admin is on record as saying that reddit is OK with hate directed at whites and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:18 PM
1

Screenshot? Please send/post that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:09 PM
1

Screenshot? Please send/post that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:09 PM
1

it might devolve into endless discussion about who is an incel, who can't be incel, what an incel is, "define incel", etc....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:59 PM
1

the one that closed (well, went private, really) was r/inceltears the current one is r/inceltear and is stil open for business
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:57 PM
3

Well, they can and do get upset about it- what they can't do is expect there to be no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:52 PM
3

Right. We were stupid and took women at their word, because to us, words mean things. To women, words have whatever meaning the women ascribe to them, or no meaning at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:28 PM
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You just don't want to appear shallow or be judged on your preferences. YOu want the beta bux men to think there's hope for them, so they can be snookered into committing to you. They're there when you need them. So you lie to them and tell them there's some hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:27 PM
2

"What benefit is there for women in lying about sexual choices?" 1) Snagging and roping in a beta bux for commitment and an income stream. 2) Virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:23 PM
1

Props. You tried, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:22 PM
0

Don't hurt yourself with that strawman....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:14 PM
1

Not true. Some sexual attraction has to be present. But, o woman, please, do tell me more about what being a man is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:13 PM
1

"very unattracted to" is NOT "totally unattracted to". I'll still let you have your Rice A Roni.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:12 PM
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fucking into a gloryhole is NOT the same thing as KNOWINGLY fucking an uggo. You lose. Try again. Better yet, please don't. You can still have your free Rice a Roni!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:44 PM
1

No, but they have a basic nature. Women can be generalized about, quite easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:41 PM
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WOmen contradict themselves on here all the time. This isn't hard to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:30 PM
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I don't agree that men have a hard time accepting female selectivity and that men can't accept it's greater than men's selectivity. What men have a hard time with is women's deception about female selectivity. Be as selective as you want - but don't lie about it. What men have a hard time with is women's inability to accept with and be happy with what you get. When you settle on your final decision, accept it. If you can't be "happy" with it, at least accept it and be content with it and don't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:20 PM
2

If a woman offers to split the check, she's not sexually attracted to you. She's signaling no way will I ever fuck you and I don't want to feel like I 'owe' you anything. So if I pay my half, then we're even and you can't say I 'owe' you anything and you can't say I took advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:37 PM
1

Heya! look who it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:32 PM
1

Because you're prime beta bux material. She's going to think you are a beta bux. She will try to use, exploit, and take advantage of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:03 PM
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This. It really isn't that hard to get a good idea of a woman's sexual history. You won't know everything. But you will find out enough to see the big picture. But then, you don't need to know everything and you don't need to see all the details - just so long as you can tell what you're looking at. Most of the time if you're paying attention and you know what to ask and look for, you'll glean this info from the woman herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:01 PM
1

have an upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:58 PM
0

Hate "Gifts" as a love language. Newsflash for women: "Physical touch" is ALL men's love language.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:56 PM
2

Mr. IHave, Have you ever viewed a date as an opportunity to murder someone? Have you ever thought "Hmm. Nice woman. Think I might murder her"? Ever thought "I want to take this woman out on a date, and murder her"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:53 PM
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How many times have you been murdered? Exactly, NONE. You're right here, alive and well, shouting at men. How many times have you been physically threatened? Did you report it to police? What happened? Did you file lawsuits? What happened? Who is threatening you right now for expressing your opinions? How are they "threatening" you? How many times have you been actually threatened with death or imminent bodily harm on a date? It is absolutely mentally ill to think that every man you might go on …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:51 PM
3

I see. So now you're walking it back and you're goalpost moving. You can't even come up with your "examples". HA. You lose. I saw a middle aged 5’ tall, 250lb alcoholic woman who smelled like shit…not smelled bad, but literally smelled like shit…..get laid like tile. Then I guess there was attraction there. As I said and which YOU CANNOT CONTRADICT: There's no accounting for taste, after all. You name "it" in a woman; there's someone attracted to "it". There's men out there who are into SSBBWs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:47 PM
1

Is your point that married men discriminate against unmarried men? Only in terms of employment and professional advancement, I suppose. But that's not a function of married men as a group drawing conclusions about single men individiually or as a group. It's more a function of corporate culture which is composed of both men and women drawing conclusions about unmarried men. That's not married men doing this, per se. If anything the individual married man is like all other humans - he suffers fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:40 PM
1

So, some outliers and exceptions? Those just prove the rule. Please stop going "but but but there's this ONE exception and outlier over here, so YOU'RE WRONG!! nanny nanny boo boo!" We don't base life on outliers and exceptions. We base it on the general rule: Men don't fuck below their attraction floors. Go ahead, find your extreme outliers and exceptions. Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:36 PM
2

meh. Cry harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:28 PM
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Then there's attraction there. There's no accounting for taste, after all. You name "it" in a woman; there's someone attracted to "it". There's men out there who are into SSBBWs and uggos. So sexual attraction is there. The fact that you cannot understand that sexual attraction does not mean it's not there. You'll have to show me more than a photo to "prove your point".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:27 PM
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We're not talking about commitment. We're talking about sexual attraction. Men have an attraction floor below which they absolutely will not go under any circumstances. Men will not fuck a woman they're not sexually attracted to. Men will not fuck women at "any" level unless sexual attraction is present. Men will refuse to have anything to do with a woman they're not sexually attracted to. Men will jerk it to porn before they'll fuck women they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:58 PM
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Not me. I'm talking, debating, and interacting. But, oh yeah, I forgot. When women come here to talk about intersexual dynamics, they're talking. When men come here to talk about intersexual dynamics, they're "whining".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:47 PM
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If you were "strong and independent", you wouldn't get so angry over my opinions and you wouldn't be attacking me and calling me names. That's what little girls do. That's junior high stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:41 PM
1

I didn't. You and I agree on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:39 PM
1

Not at all. The girls are over there, "Fella".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:39 PM
4

Nope, not going to shut up about it. Sorry-not sorry you don't like my opinions. But they're not going away, and neither am I. Do you want to be strong and independent, or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:38 PM
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I'm not angry at women for telling the truth. I call them out and confront them for LYING about this. I call them out and confront them for doing what they want and then being dishonest about it. I call them out and confront them for doing what they want, being honest about it, and then demanding that they suffer no judgment or consequences for it or demanding that I suffer the consequences for their doing what they want. That I most definitely will not tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:37 PM
1

I took no umbrage. Nor am I "wound up" about anything you're saying. Shouldn't you be over there with the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:35 PM
1

Women aren't the same. They're even worse about this than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:34 PM
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So I'll have my opinion, and you can stand over there with the girls, impotently complaining and bitching about it. OK, "fella".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:32 PM
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Of course. Men, like all other people, are only as faithful as their options. Women are even worse about this, so you can go ahead and judge all you want. At least we men are honest about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:31 PM
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The point is that I'm not complaining about any of this. YOU and WOMEN need to STOP complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:30 PM
0

Sure. That's fine. I'm not complaining about this. Women are. YOU are. Stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:27 PM
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Women wanted it this way. They want to speak their minds like men. Then they can take male consequences. If you want to get your dick out and act like a man, you'll be treated like one. Or you can put your dick away. Do you want to be strong and independent, or not? Are you strong and independent, or not? No, "male anger" is not a legitimate threat to women. Male anger has been completely criminalized and neutralized. All you have to do is peep "I feel unsafe" and post haste, white knights will …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:27 PM
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Not even "held accountable". Just judged. You do X. I judge you for X. I draw conclusions about you because you do X. It's how life is. That's life for men all the time. A man is or does X, people judge him for it and draw conclusions about him because of it. For women - same thing. If a woman wants to be strong and independent, then she can take the judgment and criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:24 PM
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Men optimize - they get the best they can. But they are attracted to women below their level, at their level, and above their level. Women are attracted to ONLY those men ABOVE their level. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:21 PM
1

Do better, then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:17 PM
1

But but but MEN DO IT TOO!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:17 PM
-1

So... you have no problem with women fucking a lot of dudes; you just have a problem with using the typical word for "woman who fucks a lot of dudes"? I have no problem with either one. What's your issue with calling a slut a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:15 PM
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Or... do the crappy thing, take the consequence, and shut up about it. Do the crappy thing and withstand the "judgment" of men who you'll never meet or fuck. I mean, she's never going to meet or fuck them anyway. What does she care what those men think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:10 PM
3

OMG WHAT??? Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:08 PM
1

it is absolutely true. That women date up doesn't mean they'll date Mr. Incel from Cornell. If he's an incel in Ithaca, New York; he's an incel in Bumfuck, Illinois.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:06 PM
4

Meh. Cry harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:05 PM
1

An incel on an Ivy League campus is an incel everywhere. Chad in a trailer park is Chad everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:04 PM
0

It does not amount to the same thing at all. It's done at different rates, different times, for different reasons. Women are much more able to do this (optimize) than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:04 PM
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Sure, maybe 3 points higher. Also, do better than a 2018 "study". Since then, women have pulled even with men. As to the second graf - that's in the UK - who cares about them. I care about the US market. I call BS on the idea that men are more likely to divorce in the case of wife infidelity - it's just the opposite. Right now, a man divorces his wife for cheating, he'll be living in his car for a year. He'll have to pay out the ass to get out of a shit marriage. A wife who cheats, leaves with c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:02 PM
1

I see just as much sensitivity from us men Speak for yourself, "fella". Maybe because people in general don't like to be lectured about their personal choices regarding sex and dating. Tough shit. Then they need to stop lecturing men. Because people in general don't like to be insulted... it's really not rocket science. Tough shit. Women insult men all the time. Don't dish it out if you can't take it. You really get your jimmies rustled over a lady fucking some hot guys? "Have an opinion about" …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:00 PM
2

Hookers and escorts are prohibitively expensive and illegal. No they can't go slumming - even uggos want Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:57 PM
0

No they are not. Men optimize. They are not hypergamous. And no, there's a few examples of men who dump a frump. Most men don't do anything of the sort, because they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:50 PM
4

No, men are more likely to WANT to cheat. Most men don't cheat because they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:49 PM
1

What screenshot? As to the second statement, that's speculation. No it doesn't stand to reason - you need a study to back that up. You have no studies to back that up as to men. The OP is full of studies that back it up as to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:31 PM
4

NO, it does not matter in the same ways, not at all. Men and women are different. Sure we want to. We don't usually get to. Women want to, and get to, all the time. I aim to at least call you out on it and call attention to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:28 PM
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Not in the same ways. Yes, we men need to have a premarital history - otherwise we don't get jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:27 PM
4

No one says anything of the sort, like "take no umbrage at any insult thrown your way". Even then, that's not what happens. What happens is female hypersensitivity at ANY suggestion, however slight, that what they're doing is not productive or beneficial- particularly since they are constantly in here complaining about the consequences of the very actions they claim make them so "strong and independent". What women actually say is "I get to do whatever the F I want and I should not have to suffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:25 PM
2

Mmmhmmm.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:15 PM
6

OK. my bad. I'll remember for next time. It's telling that the only response you have is to correct me on your identified gender. You can't disagree otherwise. The statement stands. Do women want to be strong and independent or not? Do they want to stand on their own two feet, or not? Answer THAT. Answer the ACTUAL SUBSTANCE of the questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:14 PM
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Busby, Willoughby, & Carroll (2013) set out to determine whether the number of sexual partners was associated with poor relationship outcomes while controlling for relationship length, education, race, income, age, and religiosity. The results, using a sample of 2,654 married individuals, indicated that the number of sexual partners was associated with lower levels of sexual quality, communication, and relationship stability (excerpt). Athanasiou and Sarkin (1974) found that one’s number of life…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:12 PM
0

And what do women say about "pair bonding"? Crickets....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:08 PM
3

Disagree. You WON'T answer. You're not "strong and independent".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:06 PM
12

Yes, her history matters. Women don't want to admit this, but yes, it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:00 PM
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That's a nonanswer. If you can't answer, just say you can't. The fact that you're complaining about all this means you're not a "strong, independent" woman. The fact that you're complaining about the "attacks" means you're neither strong nor independent. You want to say and do whatever you want without consequence. Doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:57 PM
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So, the fallout is things like men getting rejected? So, just, the status quo? I'm asking because I want you to explain it. "You" is the generic "you" - not you personally. I don't know you personally. I understand women just fine. I understand most of them want to either be "strong and independent" but not have to take the consequences of that; or they want to lie and be quiet but still be given benefits of "strength and independence". They want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:50 PM
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OK. That's fine. Your choice. What "fallout" do we have to deal with when you pipe down and lie? Women marrying men they're not sexually attracted to? Women rejecting men? The status quo? Why can't women just be honest, like they said they wanted to be? You do not get to have it both ways. Either do what you said you wanted to do and be what you said you wanted to be ("strong and independent"), and take the shit; or lie and be quiet, and take what you get. Make a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:39 PM
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Do you want to be strong and independent, or not? Do you want to stand on your own two feet, or not? Grow up. Be a big girl. Be "Strong and Independent", and take the slings and arrows. Or...not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:29 PM
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No. Just the opposite. Men cannot date up in SMV. They cannot date or marry women who are above them in SMV. It simply will not work. Men cannot attract women above them in SMV. Women will not date down. They will not date or marry men who are below them in SMV. They absolutely refuse to do it. Their hypergamy won't let them do it. Their stomachs literally tighten up and they puke in their mouths at even the THOUGHT of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:24 PM
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Consider yourself fortunate. I had a blue pill mom - I'm still cleaning up her mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:21 PM
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With due respect: Women wanted it this way. They wanted to be "equals" and "strong and independent". Well, part of that is the fact that people get pissed at you for speaking the truth. Part of standing on your own two feet in society is that you take the slings and arrows when they come at you. You don't get to have it both ways. Either you're strong and independent and you take it when shit gets flung at you; or you pipe down and lie, and get called out on it. (Annnd here come the downvotes ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:19 PM
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Men are not hypergamous. Like women, they seek the best situation for themselves; but they are not hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:17 PM
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But when they ARE honest, a huge proportion of men jump in with vitriol and call them hypergamerous sluts with unrealistic standards and that they should lower their standards So what? People get angry at me all the time for telling them the truth. It's still the truth no matter how anyone feels about it. I really don't care how anyone feels about it, I'll still come here and tell you the truth, downvotes and personal attacks regardless (and you people downvote and attack me ALL THE TIME for tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:13 PM
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Red Pill is spend as little as possible on dates at all times, and definitely before sex happens. Women you haven't had sex with do not get nights out, meals, or entertainment. Women you have not had sex with yet get one-drink dates or walk dates. Make her earn more, and the way she earns more is sex. Yes, you're paying for the dates, because if you don't, there won't be a second. It's just how the game is played and how women view this game - "you're the man, so you pay". Red Pill is no marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:01 PM
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I just know male and female nature. That's all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:34 AM
1

mmmmm..... I thinks they still want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:29 AM
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Yes, you can still have male friends. And you will never fuck them, and they will never fuck you and they will never admit they want to fuck you. And they will still be your friends and do friend-y things together. For years. Decades. They still want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:29 AM
1

WoMeN NeVeR LiE....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:22 AM
1

Beats saving up for a 401K.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:21 AM
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I have news for all you women who have male friends. Your male friends want to fuck you. I don't care what they say. They want to fuck you. They've known you for 15 years and are married to your bestest girlfriend. Yeah... they want to fuck you. They swear up and down they are not sexually interested in you.... Yeah... they want to fuck you. You've spent holidays together, triple dates, gotten drunk and shared all kinds of super secret stuff, and you trust them with your lives. Yeah... They stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:20 AM
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Oh yeah that's what Weka said it was. It was poking (heh) fun at the idea that anal sex is this great and powerful fun thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:17 AM
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That's beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:03 AM
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oops... Smurfy the word "anal" should not appear in anyone's ordinary discourse. (We are not to talk about butt sex in real life...lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:01 AM
2

Weka explained it but I don't even really remember. To me it just means like the pinnacle of sexual experience, the very best coolest mostest hottest sexual thing you can do. If you're getting "giga anal", you're getting the very best of sex a woman has to offer. Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:59 PM
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Yup. i know I'm not the only one this has happened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:44 PM
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Heh. And then when I say I read between the lines, I'm excoriated for it.... We men just can't win for losing. If we read between the lines; we're excoriated. If we don't, we have no social skills...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:13 PM
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Right. it's like we don't show up on a woman's radar until we do something to set off an alert or alarm. And we can do things to drop off radar after we show up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:06 PM
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that is funny, not gonna lie. Took me some time to walk through all that though....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:04 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:03 PM
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more proof that women lie - they don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:03 PM
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"Giga anal" is one of the funniest things I've ever seen in the manosphere. I think wekacuck was the one who first said that, at least that I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:02 PM
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She can do it too.... she knows how
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:01 PM
1

The only other route is of questionable legality. Proceed at your own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:59 PM
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If you want those assholes off the streets, then swear out criminal complaints. Don't delay. Go STRAIGHT to the hospital ER, announce you've been raped, and demand that they do a rape kit and get a city police officer and rape counselor down here RIGHT FUCKING NOW. File affidavits and reports with police. Press charges. Bother, hound, and harass local police and law enforcement to do something. Harass the DA about when charges will be filed. File civil lawsuits for damages. Maybe he can't go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:54 PM
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Everyone knows you're really talking about butt sex. OMG OMG giga hand holding is really giga anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:19 PM
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no they won't the people who are dying are the very old and the alarmingly large percentage of people with adverse reactions to vaccines.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:07 PM
1

plays out all the time in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:03 PM
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All you'd have to do is intentionally "misinterpret" something one of those men said or did. Bonus if the dude really did do it. Fuck - if he really DID do it, that's a seven figure payout right there. Not only can men not defend it, their employers can't either. All they can do is shut the fuck up and get their checkbooks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:51 PM
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Yeah man. Women with tats and unnatural hair colors. Pierces everywhere, women turning themselves into Pinhead. And godDAMN, they are FAT. Disgustingly fat. Another thing - why should men get hawt for fatties, tatties, and pinheads? Why shoudln't they be soyboys? Why should they self improve? Fattie Tattie ain't gonna fuck him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:46 PM
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No one blames women for going after the top 20% of men. Or Chads. We just want you to be honest about it. We just want you to not use, exploit, and take advantage of bottom 80% men. We want you to not complain about it when we tell you facts. We want you to not complain about it when we confront you with reality. And if you settle on a bottom 80% man, we want you to not complain about it and we want you to accept it and live up to the promises you make. IF that's too much for you, then chase the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:26 PM
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I don't need 100% knowledge. I just need enough, and I have way, WAY more than enough to discuss and draw conclusions about this particular situation, and you, and your male friends. Ignore male nature at your peril. Your choice. I'm right about this. Your disagreement does NOT make me wrong. You can have the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:13 PM
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Maam, your ignoring male nature means you're ignoring reality. That's your choice. I choose to pay attention to male nature, and therefore, to reality. As I said - ignore male nature at your peril. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:08 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:58 PM
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ok, if that's what you want to believe, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:58 PM
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Okey dokey. I'm really not concerned. I'm simply saying I know male and female nature, and you're ignoring them. Those natures and rules apply at all times, everywhere, regardless of your wishes, your awareness, and your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:43 PM
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Yes. I do understand. I also understand nature - which you are ignoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:40 PM
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Peril simply means you're probably wrong about this and things might not go as you think they would. You're probably not in physical danger. I can tell you without fear of contradiction that I'm right about your friends' natures, though. "Ignore it at your peril" is just a figure of speech... which looking at your flair, I kind of see why this entire convo with you has gone as it has today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:39 PM
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Maam, you do not know ANYTHING for 100% certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:38 PM
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The rules ALWAYS apply, maam.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:37 PM
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But I DO know how men and women think and act generally, because I understand their natures as men and women. I don't need to know everything about everyone. I just need to know the general rules. Ignore them at your peril. You can do that if you want. I will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:21 PM
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You're REALLY invested in being correct on this. I don't blame you - but ignore what I say at your peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:20 PM
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Yep. I know whereof I speak. I didn't make the rules - I just observe and report on them. Ignore them at your peril. EDIT: I can say without fear of contradiction that most of the men you know would fuck you if you gave them the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:20 PM
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There are none so blind as those who will not see. If you want to think they're inaccurate, go ahead - it's not my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:19 PM
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No one is projecting anything. I just understand male and female nature. Those natures are what they are. I didn't create them - I just understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:18 PM
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I'm not a mind reader. I just understand male and female nature. I also won't ignore male and female nature, nor will I ignore what I know to be true about human beings in general. Don't shame me - I'm not going to be scolded like a dog that just pissed on the carpet, simply because you've been confronted with uncomfortable facts. Your discomfort isn't my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:17 PM
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hahaha good one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:15 PM
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I don't care that you refuse to pay attention to male and female nature. Your refusal to face facts doesn't mean I have to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:15 PM
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I'm not a mind reader. I just understand male and female nature. I also won't ignore male and female nature, nor will I ignore what I know to be true about human beings in general. Don't shame me - I'm not going to be scolded like a dog that just pissed on the carpet, simply because you've been confronted with uncomfortable facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:14 PM
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First - citation, please. Second: If we're talking about "punishment" then those are criminal matters. Standard of proof is much higher in criminal matters. Third: Most women don't even report. Of those who report, they don't press charges. Of those who press charges, most wait too long and allow vital evidence to decay or disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:01 PM
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I promise you, you're not. You are a woman, and they are NOT telling you everything here. These men aren't being 'dishonest" with you. They're just not telling you everything. They're also telling you what they think you want to hear, to preserve the longshot that they might get to fuck you someday if the time and circumstances are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:00 PM
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If he receives a blow job, handjob, titjob, rimjob, he's not a virgin. I'd think women would love that. You don't want men who have not had sexual experience. in truth there's no such thing as a male virgin - there are only "men who have not had sex". Virginity is a concept applying only to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:58 PM
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STOP trying to law. Testimony under oath admitted in court which is found credible is "truth" at law. If you testify under oath in a trial and the jury believes you, then that's the truth. The jury decides what the truth is, and if they believe you over the testimony of a man who says "no I didn't rape you", then what you said is "the truth". A judge MUST accept your word as proof if the jury decides it was proof. The jury is the finder of fact and decides what the truth is in a full blown trial…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:53 PM
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No. If you are a woman and you've touched a man's penis for the purpose of your gratification or his, you are not a virgin. If his penis penetrated any orifice on your body, you're not a virgin. If you've given a BJ, you're not a virgin. If you've done receptive anal, you're not a virgin. If you've done anything ending in "-job", you're not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:50 PM
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My having a vagina doesn't matter to them, that's why they're my friends. Oh, my sweet summer child..... Lol literally nobody in our social circle randomly talks to another man's wife about things we discuss. mmmppppfff LOL Maam.... These men will talk VERY differently to a man than they will to a woman. $1000 right now says I'd get a different story. You're their friend... but you're their FEMALE friend. As such, you're not getting the straight dope on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:47 PM
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Why is that "likely"? He raped you. You can prove it with your testimony! People HAVE to believe you - I mean, you said it, so it must be true, right? Everyone believes women when they say they were raped. So what if he's pissed off. You've won. You got what you wanted - a verdict in your favor, issued by a jury of your peers who decided that you were telling the truth. He must pay you a judgment now, and you can bring down massive pain on him for not paying it. People are watching him now - you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:44 PM
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Yes... those men said that... TO YOU. I wonder what they'd say if they were talking only to me, out of your earshot and the earshot of anyone who might tell their wives.... Kind of makes the "I loved X, BUT NOT WITH YOU" story a bit more plausible, yes? "Not wanting to fuck your future husband means you don't love him and are not sexually attracted to him, and if you aren't, then you shouldn't be marrying him." Women don't like prenups because it means they have less leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:19 PM
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The very epitome of an illusory contract. more like Wife: Sex if I feel like it and as long as I don't have to do anything I love doing, but won't do with you because I'm not sexually attracted to you!! Husband: Money that I know the government and you will forcibly extract from me on pain of imprisonment and wage garnishment!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:08 PM
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The only thing worse than being a golddigger is being a foolsgolddigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:00 PM
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Sure... that is, if it really was rape. Or "rape". I'd take on a female client suing a man for rape. My argument to the jury will be "she's a woman, you are REQUIRED to believe her. She wouldn't lie about this. Women NEVER EVER lie about sex, and especially don't lie about rape." Work it up and settle it. Submit her to her depo. Take his depo. Dig into his private life. Find some sordid shit. Tell him it will all come out in a very, very public trial. Make a settlement demand. Accept a reasonabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:53 PM
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All women who claim to have been raped: You should be hiring lawyers and suing these men for damages. Rape and sexual assault are simple intentional torts. You don't have to prove duty or breach of duty. You don't have to prove "failure to exercise reasonable care". All you have to prove is he did something to you that you didn't want him to do. All you have to prove is lack of consent, and damages. The damages are easy to prove - women are on here every day talking about how injured and ruined …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:50 PM
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Tough answers posted an article about celebrities asking their hookups to sign NDAs before the fact. Also - asking a woman to sign a consent card BEFORE the act is in no way like a "rapist" "forcing" a woman to sign on AFTER the fact. Women do not do anything they don't want to do. The stuff you women call "rape" is not rape. It's drunk sex, regret sex, buyers remorse sex, and "assault" (some guy tapping you on the shoulder or some weirdo goosing you in the library). Those latter two might be "a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:34 PM
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Telling. So a celebrity asking a woman for an NDA = rape. Goddamn you women have rape on the brain. That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:23 PM
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The remedy for breach is probably suing these women for damages, but most of these women are judgment proof anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:22 PM
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Yep. But a man asks a woman to sign a prenup, and she loses her mind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:22 PM
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I see what you did their.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:20 PM
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Welcome to a world in which you learn about things you never knew about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:19 PM
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Hilarious. And people were losing their shit (heh) over my posts yesterday and the day before. Today we're talking about ACTUAL shit. Where's the outrage? Where's the scandal? Why aren't women losing their minds with rage over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:18 PM
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The other thing is that they don't want men to talk about this. Men who talk about this are "whining". "Just fuckn' break up then! Sheesh! Why we gotta TALK ABOUT THIS?? Weirdo! Misogynist! INCEL!!!!!!!" The only thing that makes girls more squeamish than anal is talking about the men who they don't want to do anal with. Anal comes up because if your girl will let you fuck her in the ass, you KNOW she loves and cares about you. You can't parse this in any way that isn't about anal, because whene…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:13 PM
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I don't know. The womenfolk gravitate to anal because then they don't have to admit that it's about lack of attraction. Then they don't have to admit they're just using and manipulating and exploiting these men. If it's about anal, then they can talk about the act, and not how they feel about the men they like doing the act with; and the men they WILL NOT do that act with. Because it is about lack of attraction, first, last, and always. This is how women make decisions about men - there's men fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:44 PM
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I did not say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:15 PM
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No. Any woman can demand anything she wants for commitment or marriage. "Hypocrisy" doesn't matter. All that matters is whether she is attractive enough to command what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:14 PM
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I got hundreds of comments talking about different subjects because women and some men do not want to face the truth that this happens, because it makes women look bad. Women don't want to have mirrors held up to them. They do not want to face the truth about themselves. What percentage of women do this? Don't know, but I suspect it's way, WAY higher than anyone wants to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:11 PM
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No, it does not rest on assumptions at all. If you aren't going to talk to me in good faith, let's just stop here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:09 PM
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No it does not. It rests on the truth that women don't do sexual things they don't want to do and they are well able to resist pressure if they wish to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:03 PM
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By Jove, I think she's got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:58 PM
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Thank you. Jeez man. I have been at PPD on and off for 6 years and I have NEVER seen this group miss the point as hard as they do on this. This is willful and deliberate misrepresentation for the specific purpose of evading the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:56 PM
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They weren't "anal sex threads" and they didn't start out that way. What happened was the "you used to do X with 15 prior guys but don't do it with me because you're not sexually attracted enough to me" threads; and women lost their collective shit (heh) as their buttholes puckered up and they went "OMG OMG you pervs just want to fuck women in the ass all the time" and "OMG OMG why is it always about anal!" When it was not and never was about anal sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:51 PM
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I doubt we'll see another thread. This community is completely unable to talk about the "used to do this but don't anymore" situation with women. This community absolutely refuses to talk about the actual topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:47 PM
1

I forget. How old are you? Mid 30s? The "did a lot of stuff short of P in V" is common among my age cohort (50s, gen X)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:33 PM
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Remember, though - he's a gay man. Gay men are going to run up higher Ns. But 300+ is really high, even for a gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:32 PM
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Don't ask
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:30 PM
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so have all my partners How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:29 PM
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I'm in the apparently unusual situation of having a lot of hookups that were just oral/fingering/fooling around but no intercourse. I don't think this is unusual at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:28 PM
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Of course. Because having any standards at all for a woman is "abuse".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:26 PM
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Yes, if she did an abrupt about face and won't do anal with me after talking about absolutely LOVING doing anal with her ex. FFS- this issue is NOT about anal sex. This issue is about ANYTHING a woman used to love doing with the whole goddamn world, but refuses when she gets to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:19 PM
2

I think this is incomplete. Most women themselves are fine with taking money for sex. We call these women "wives". Lots of women are OK with being sugar babies - they'll do pay for play or get "allowances". Women love taking money from men in exchange for sex. And hate the men they take said money from. It's not so much that women "don't want men to be able to have sex with a 10/10 giga-Stacy whenever he wants." They know damn well most men can't do that and most men haven't gotten within 50 fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:05 PM
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I don't buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:00 PM
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No, it's really not complex at all. People run up Ns because they can and they want to. People who don't run up their Ns, don't want to or cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:59 PM
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They say that about BJs only with certain men. With attractive men, they love giving head.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:56 PM
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In other words - they didn't want to talk about THE ACTUAL POINT. I don't care how "uncommon" people think it is. Talk about MY POINT. If you want to talk about another point, make another thread. It isn't uncommon - it's been talked about thousands of times in the manosphere. I didn't make this up. I'm not the most vocal about this nor was I the first to talk about this. In fact before I got to the manosphere I had never heard of this happening to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:54 PM
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Lulz.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:52 PM
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Every single one of those points was thrown at me yesterday and the day before on my thread and in subsequent threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:51 PM
0

Define "conventionally attractive". Define "dating and social lives".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:45 PM
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"Why are you guys so upset that we fucked 15 other guys 7 ways from Sunday, but we won't do that with you? Huh? Why does that make you so mad? Now STFU and get your ass back to work, beta bitchboi! Where's my Louis Vuitton handbag? Where's my new car? You want what? A handjob? GTFOH, beta bitchboi!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:39 PM
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OMG OMG RAAAAYPE OMG OMG fuckn shut up OMG OMG you are such loser incels OMG OMG porn OMG OMG you are so insensitive OMG OMG you just want to hurt women OMG OMG this is just about anal (in a thread that TOOK GREAT PAINS to point out that anal was an example only) OMG OMG why is this always about you pervy perv pervs wanting to fuck women in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:37 PM
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I think today, I'll check out other peoples' threads and deliberately misrepresent their positions. Instead of talking about what their points are and responding to their points, I'll lie about what they say and tell them they have no right to say what they say or think what they think. Just like was done to me over the "I love X, I've done X with 15 guys before you, but I will not do X with you BeCauSe i HaVe cHaNgEd aNd I aM NoW diFFeReNt!" threads. Instead of actually responding, I got "OMG O…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:21 PM
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You could not be more wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:48 AM
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Really? I'm sorry - if you did that wasn't clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:37 AM
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Because you'll do what you're doing now... calling them losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:37 AM
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OMG you really don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:36 AM
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Sigh.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:36 AM
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No I'm not posting 15 times a day. Not my fault other people are interested in it YOU are tired of it... not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:20 AM
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This isn't something a lot of men want to admit to - because of women like you who will call them losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:15 AM
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AFBB/TRP CONFIRMED
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:06 AM
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WHY did you choose to spend it eating serial Guess we will watch out for all those cereal killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:03 AM
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Heading even further down the road of "LALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!" There are none so blind as those who will not see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:02 AM
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fair enough...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:01 AM
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Not when they lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:59 PM
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THen you should have a problem with beckys who spend 10 years hooking up with Chads then "sell" themselves to Billy Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:51 PM
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I think hell just froze over. Have an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:50 PM
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QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:50 PM
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Um... AND?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:46 PM
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Goddamn. You really don't get it. I can't anymore. You'll just have to live with not understanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:43 PM
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It's still not what we're talking about. That is NOT under discussion. We are NOT talking about perfumes or TV shows. We are talking about something intrinsic to a relationship and that's important to men. How do you like this: He is not obligated to support you. He supported you financially before, but he no longer wants to, so now he's decided he's not going to. He paid for his prior 15 GFs, but he doesn't want to do that for you because, well, you're just not all that important to him. You'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:38 PM
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Maybe you should read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:36 PM
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Maybe this might help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:35 PM
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OH MY FUCKING GOD Read this You women will NEVER EVER understand the life of a young unattractive man. Never. You will NEVER understand the scarcity mentality so many men operate under, the educational malpractice they're subjected to, the lies and the fraud. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:31 PM
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Yes, they were losers. Yes, they did do that. Their hope is that by talking about this stuff, they can learn, and help others learn. The point is that THIS HAPPENS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:27 PM
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This is nonsense. No man has a problem if you say you won't do X because you tried X once and didn't like it with some other guy 10 years ago. No man has a problem if you say you used to like X but you stopped doing it 5 years ago and you've never done it since. What we DO Have a problem with is "I Love doing X and did X with 15 guys before, but I will not do X with you". Because that's "I was hot for those guys; but I am not hot for you." I have now explained this to you, personally, twice toda…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:24 PM
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Not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:23 PM
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You're a woman - of COURSE you haven't encountered this and even if you yourself had done this you wouldn't even be able to identify that you had. Only the dumbest woman alive would actually say, “I love X with everyone but you”. Sure are a lot of dumb women out there, because this has been discussed thousands of times in the manosphere. And only the dumbest man alive would think “oh, fine; no problem, nothing weird here” Sure are a lot of red pilled guys out there to whom this happened - and wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:20 PM
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People keep bringing this up because women are deliberately lying about what men have a problem with. Women can't wrap their minds around the situation in which all of a sudden a "change of heart" happens when she gets a beta bux from whom she's demanding commitment, and "certain sexual practices" are out the window for Billy Beta but definitely on the table for Alpha Fux. There's no change of heart. She loves X, but Billy doesn't get X because she's not sexually attracted to Billy That is the O…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:18 PM
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Nope. Thousands of men in the manosphere have written about this. HUSBANDS have written that their WIVES have said this to them and done this to them. Most times, you don't find this out until you're months into the relationship. Sunk costs, declining sexual compatibility. This might explain it a little better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:12 PM
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You continuing to say this doens't make me wrong, or you right. Give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:11 PM
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Nope. You don't get it. LIke, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:09 PM
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It's not schematics, it's the proper word. Since it's not my fault and we're in agreement on that, stop bringing it up and stop throwing it in my face as if it's supposed to support some point you're failing to make. It doesn't. It's your personal issue. So stop putting it on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:09 PM
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I've never seen such willful and deliberate failure to understand a topic Women do not get this at all. They absolutely cannot wrap their minds around it I have explained this at least 30 times in the last 36 hours in crystal clear language and they are deliberately LYING OUT THEIR ASSES about what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:05 PM
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OMG you people are STILL Missing it. This is NOT the issue. The issue is "I did X with 15 guys before I met you. I love X!! But, um, oh, Mr. Beta Bux, I love you, and I have CHANGED!! I did X with all those prior guys, but I will not do X with you." This is NOT about "grew out of liking it". Men have no problem with that as long as she didn't suddenly, fucking YESTERDAY, "grow out of liking it". This is not about "unhealthy relationship". Because that's not a sudden "change of heart" or a "I lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:00 PM
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Not what we're talking about. Read the example again and you should be able to see that I'm talking about something very, very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:54 PM
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That's COUNSEL, not "council". Get it straight. Three broken ribs and a fractured socket.... OK. That speaks volumes. Not my fault, so don't blame me. Not men's fault or Red Pill's fault, either. Might not be your fault; but it's definitely not my fault, and you're NOT going to put that shit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:52 PM
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Nah, I'm right. You've missed the point, really, REALLY hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:18 PM
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Exhibit 5,895,322 of "missing the point hard".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:08 PM
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I'm not wrong. And you've still missed the point. It has nothing to do with degradation. Want to keep going? Want to miss the point even harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:53 PM
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she is. And so are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:40 PM
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just abotu everyone here has, including you and me. So... yeah. Attempted personal attack falls flat again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:39 PM
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Purple Pill Woman what finally got me laid. Woman... finally got me laid Um... what's the issue here? Women can get sex anytime they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:38 PM
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WE men have no problem with settling. We settle and we're happy with what we get, as long as what we "get" isn't misrepresented or withheld. It's women who seem to have such a huge problem with this. Women are the ones who "settle" and then spend the rest of their lives complaining about it and then ruining the life of the man they settled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:37 PM
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"you" is the generic, general "you" I don't know what you personally do and it was not directed at you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:26 PM
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Nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:21 PM
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If it's fiction, it should have gone away years ago; or never got off the ground. It has legs because it resonates with a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:19 PM
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if we don’t put out in five seconds we’re stuck up Strawman. It's "if she doesn't put out as soon as she put out for Chad, she's not sexually attracted to us and we need to move on".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:18 PM
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We wouldn't compare ourselves to your past partners if YOU were not comparing US to your past partners. If you want us to stop, then YOU stop. We don't care about experience or inexperience. We just want whatever Chad got to have; we aren't going to let you fuck us over; and we are not going to let you use us, lie to us, or take advantage of us. We will not "pay" more than Chad "paid".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:17 PM
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Can't disagree with much, here. Good job. Do you get it, girls? We do not want to get played. We do not want you lying to us about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:14 PM
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You'll have to ask your women friends who talk about this. I mean, it's the in general stuff we're talking about, not so much the specifics and blow by blow. And no one is saying the specifics get talked about all the time, though I'll confess that women have talked about specifics with me before - without me asking. Dick, men, whatever - there are lots of us men out there. You have no trouble replacing us men anytime you want. Women do this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:11 PM
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A post about nothing, that no one asked for. The answer to a question no one asked; the "solution" to a "problem" no one has. At least, one that men don't have. No one here, least of all Red Pillers, believes in The Perfect Woman. We at The Red Pill have learned that if there's ANYONE who IS NOT perfect, it's women. If there's anyone who should NOT be on that pedestal women constructed, it's women. We've deposed you from said pedestal long ago and well understand you don't deserve to be up there…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:06 PM
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outstanding response
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:59 PM
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There are in the manosphere. Men know this because --she out and out tells him this --he finds out because she lets it slip in conversation --he finds out because one of her friends lets it slip in conversation If you really want to, you can replace a man as easily as changing a light bulb. For women, dick is like water: Cheap, plentiful, everywhere, free, and of good quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:57 PM
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That might be true. But it's not about anal. It's about the fact that she did it for 15 prior guys; but she will NOT do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:54 PM
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if the guy asks her point blank snd she answers, it’s okay as long as she does the thing with him? Yes. She loves doing X. They talk about it. He says "who did you learn to do X with/from?" She says "Chad, and it was FANTASTIC! And I love doing X with you too!" And they do X lots of times. That's no problem. Like I said, the problem is if she has a preoccupation with Chad and doing X with Chad and talking about doing X with Chad. The issue is NOT her denial, so long as she denied everyone else. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:53 PM
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Ah, I see. So you are taking this equally personally. I see why. Still on report for personal attacks. You are not going to rake me over the coals for shit that other men allegedly "did" or said to you. That's not on me. That's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:26 PM
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We are not talking about sexual rejection. We are talking about THIS topic. We are talking about "I love doing X but I won't do X with you". We are NOT talking about "no sex at all". Even if it did happen, you can replace that husband with a new partner inside of 24 hours - all you need is a phone and a dating app. Or you can go without and take half his shit. We men - to get rid of you we have to give you half our shit and then go without for weeks or months. So we men have it much, much harder…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:23 PM
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You're not a man. Men don't do this to women. Women do this to men. Women can easily replace any man who ever did this to them. Men cannot easily replace a woman who does this to them. Usually it's because it happens after marriage; or because a man simply can't replace her as easily. You can replace a man inside of 24 hours. We men wait weeks or months and we work our asses off to replace a woman. During that time, we go without. We simply get nothing. Not complaining - that's just how it is fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:20 PM
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Just had to throw in a "But MEN DO IT TOO!!", didn'tcha?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:17 PM
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address the topic, not the messenger. When you find yourself unable to do that, you lose. When the only way you can "win" is to personally attack, you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:15 PM
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And it's about the attitude women have. It's not about men. It's about WOMEN. Thank you for at least obliquely, as best as you could, addressing the actual topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:08 PM
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So you're going to willfully refuse to see it. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:05 PM
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No, you haven't addressed it. You're being personal now. You don't want to address the point. You just want to make it about me. You dont' like the message so you have to shoot the messenger. Which of course means you have lost the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:04 PM
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It's happened a lot to men in the manosphere. Of course it's irrational to end up in. It's happened to a lot of pre-red pilled men, though. It's not common to you women because you can extremely easily replace any man who did anything like this to you. Men can't replace a woman so easily - particularly when said man is an AFC or a typical nonalpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:03 PM
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Horseshit. It's women who are usually the ones demanding open relationships, or just unilaterally opening them up and informing their husbands afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:02 PM
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No, they're not. Because women get laid anytime they want. Men have to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:01 PM
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OK. So, do you want to talk about my topic? Because I really don't care about yours. I've heard these protests so many times and I really don't care. I've addressed and disposed of all your arguments and claims before. So. Back to my topic. What do you have to say about the actual topic at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:59 PM
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I did. You just don't want to address it. I don't ask "veiled" anything. I am brutally honest and direct at this subreddit. I speak very clearly and plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:57 PM
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Maybe. But we're not talking about those things. Talk about my topic, not all the things you want to distract me with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:56 PM
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Still missed the point. Women don't do things they dont want to do? Pure projection. I assure you, we are generally more easily led in intimate relationships than men are. Bullshit. Even if that's true in your case, you don't get to penalize later men for shit YOU did in YOUR past. I guarantee you there have been women who tried something and quit right off the bat, even in the middle of the first time. And that's not even if they were bullied- that's if they genuinely thought they might like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:54 PM
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We aren't. We do not have a problem with "hypothetical" anything. We have a problem with real things that real people did in their real pasts and lie about it to us, and what those real people really do to real us right now. What we have a problem with is: when she loves doing X and did X with 15 prior guys right up until she met you, and then gets to you and says "oh I have all of a sudden changed and I just don't like doing X anymore! I have suddenly come to this realization with you!!!" It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:52 PM
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That too. Most of the women on this subreddit lack the courage to face - and speak - the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:49 PM
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Missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:45 PM
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How is it unclear? I have said the same goddamn thing, the same goddamn way, in the same words, no less than 20 times in the last 24 hours. No, she doesn't suck at life. She does this because of lack of sexual attraction. This is a "question" because a lot of men have been through this and report it, and women call us liars and accuse us of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:44 PM
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That.... isn't the point. The point is to get you to see that the problem is not fucking Chad. The problem is women who loved fucking Chad and 15 other guys and then they get to their beta bux and go "oops, no more fucky fucky cuz don't like it anymore!" Why are you willfully refusing to see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:42 PM
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Women's willful and deliberate refusal to understand the actual topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:36 PM
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Women's willful and deliberate refusal to understand the actual topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:27 PM
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I'm fine with that. What I'm not fine with is the constant talking about what Chad did/said/liked/didn't like. In your example, She's all "Chad liked/Chad didn't like Chad this Chad that Chad here Chad there here a Chad There a Chad everywhere a Chad Chad." Go ahead and DO all the shit Chad liked. Let's have fun. I don't care that you learned it from Chad. SHUT THE FUCK UP about Chad. In fact, please just shut up in general.... Once again, for you people who are willfully not paying attention: A…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:27 PM
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A lot, based on reports in the manosphere. I think many of them do pre-manosphere involvement, based on what I read and hear about. (OK, go ahead... I know what you will say... "BuT ThAT iS jUsT a BuNcH oF InCeLs!!" Go ahead. Complete the insult. I'll wait.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:22 PM
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It's a personal attack. She's calling me stupid and autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:03 PM
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No. I'm just giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:58 PM
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You're in a subreddit specifically set up for people who love to discuss intersexual relationships. And about men talking about what's important to them which isn't important to women. And women talking about what's important to them which isn't important to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:53 PM
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There sure are a lot of women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:51 PM
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Sure. Whatever. OK. If it makes you feel better, OK. I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:51 PM
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Sigh. "Women are/do X" "But I am not like that and my friends are not like that, so X is not true!!!" :: eyeroll Of course. I forgot. PPD women don't fit the generalizations. Every one of you are exceptions and outliers. Yet here you are claiming that alpha men can never be bothered to stick around. I don't claim that. YOU WOMEN claim that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:49 PM
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Sure it is - that's how women finally get commitment. If what you are saying is true, then why are so many of you bitching and complaining about "aint no good men" and "where are all the good men" and "the men I love fucking don't stick around but I can't get rid of the men I don't want to fuck"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:43 PM
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Beta bux is not about money. It's about commitment and access.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:39 PM
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No one charged anyone here with anything. Stop taking this so personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:39 PM
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Personal attack. Figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:38 PM
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That quote is not about episiotomies and you know it. Stop being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:36 PM
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Then thousands of men in the manosphere who have said the exact same thing I am saying are lying. I'mma go with "those guys are telling the truth". I really don't think thousands of men in the manosphere are going to come here and lie about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:35 PM
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Sure we do. You women generalize about men all the time. Most times unfairly; sometimes fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:32 PM
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The manosphere is FULL of men who have met women like that .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:32 PM
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I did not "make personal assumptions about women". I stated facts about the women who do the specific thing I wrote about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:31 PM
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You do call that out, all the time. Women just don't like being called out on their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:25 PM
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BOOM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:23 PM
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No. It is not. Not at all. You just FEEL that it is because "eww sex practice/man I don't like!!" Your feelings don't determine the truth. This is not about "her discomfort". This is about her lack of sexual attraction for the man she picked. This is about her loving those sex practices but her not wanting to do those things with him. Never mind. You will never understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:18 PM
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