Just a little help with The Big Question.

panzer22222 · 2022-01-28T15:04:41+00:00

I continually hammer into my son to avoid single mothers. He is 20s, nerdy and never had a gf. He is making US$140k, by 30 it will be over $200k. Men are hard wired to give their life and money to women and women know it.

I have a male relative who recently got grabbed by a single mother, similar circumstances, never had a gf until her. He has built her a house and pays for all her kids. She is a horror, never happy with anything, complains about everything, even the house he built her...like fuck me bitch you had nothing and were on welfare.

Buster_Cherry92 · 2022-01-28T17:11:16+00:00

Calling men in this subreddit incels is just a form of manipulation and "calling out" men for "hating women" is just a form of virtue signaling. Both of which are on a group scale vs the normal individual manipulating these women do in relationships and personal interactions.

You can see all the same concepts on a smaller scale while interacting with these types of women in the real world, especially if you were ever in a relationship with one. They will project all of their shitty personality traits (manipulation, gas lighting, virtue signaling, dishonesty, infidelity) onto a man before the man even realizes that she's the one doing all of that.

This has obviously happened to me over the course of a couple long term relationships with these types of women and has happened to almost all of us here. We learned from it and can hopefully instill the lessons we've learned to men who have yet to experience it or men that are still naive to it. With the progression of OLD, social media, and the internet connecting strangers on a whole, hopefully this type of behavior will continue to be exposed more and more. But for now, we cannot fall for the mass manipulation of men that are starting to question the majority of women's horrific behavior.

Make money, keep your head on a swivel, steer clear of these types of women, and most of all: share what you learn. That's all.

polishknightusa · 2022-01-28T16:22:33+00:00

I want to add that in the context of early dating, generally people (rarely) ask anyone to change really. They utilize identification and rejection to achieve that end. Young women even seem to believe that men should naturally be made to comply with her expectations "Real Man". When he doesn't comply, she uses such language. But if such men were already "Real Men", why would they need to be shamed?

Change is an essential part to our human existence and relationships. Circumstances change (we have children, etc.) so the same person who was fun to be around during dating can be an "immature loser" who doesn't like to work long hours and do house chores. Nonetheless, people need an incentive to change: Will the other person also change to satisfy their needs? Will that person RESPECT the changes they make to be more "reliable" and not then dump them because "I don't feel tingles anymore?"

If men are guilty of anything, it's changing and trying to please women too much. There are plenty of beta males happy to please women and respect them as equals, but women find such men repulsive. In the meantime, a culture of chivalrous victimhood for women has resulted in women who have been giving out criticism for so long and not receiving it.

All these factors in place, including women in their early 20's who have access to several times more sexual partners than men of the same age, makes them arrogant which is deflated as they approach an age where men finally have something to bargain with.

An impoverished single mother in her 30's doesn't HAVE to change, she is perfectly free to be miserable and poor and drag her children down with her. It's as sad as it can also be amusing (amusing in the classical sense) to "generate awareness" that young people should avoid following in her footsteps for her children's sake. Young men are also mocked for living in their parents' basement, but he has to be provided motivation. Will his efforts be rewarded with a loyal, respectful wife?

askmrcia · 2022-01-29T19:57:33+00:00

"You need to call men out for this! It's their fault women are like this!" No, we don't, and no it isn't. The entire world "calls men out" 24/7/365

Well said. And here's the kicker, every other manosphere space DO in fact call men out.

Redpill? 80% of the sub was calling guys betas, saying they have no game and need to lift more and they still got banned. Kevin Samuels? If you're not making six figures then you're not a high value guy. Alpha Make Strategies? Same. The guy literally said he started his channel because of all the guys doing mgtow content were coming across as whiny.

And all the other Youtubers, subreddits and blogs I came across.

Now personally I do not have an issue with anyone calling guys out and I really don't even watch those guy's content that I mentioned earlier because everything they say has been said by redpillers and mgtows for years.

What I find funny is how much hate the manosphere gets and no one has anything to say when men are called out being betas, low value men, Tyrones, ponkies and Ray Rays, basement dwellers, neckbeards, "niceguys" or whatever.

BUT as soon as women are called out then everyone comes out with pitch forks and torches and that right there is the problem. Women are off limits. Men are supposed to sit there, take it and not respond.

Like we can laugh at men for having no job, no high paying job, be a virgin in his mid to late twenties, and whatever else.

But the moment someone calls out a woman for being fat and/or single mother then it's problem? Now it's "you hate women".

Can't make this up

otter6461a · 2022-01-29T02:08:45+00:00

That’s about the clearest piece of writing I’ve ever read.

Just a little help with The Big Question.

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Title	Just a little help with The Big Question.
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