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Purge week!rft24/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:40 PM
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100% true. i can definitely say i actually liked men before i found this godforsaken part of the internet. i also feel the same way, that if my relationship were to end for whatever reason i would actively avoid dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:58 PM
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no? i’ve been pretty consistent in that this would likely work on vulnerable and unstable women… that can also include educated women from “good backgrounds.” does that make sense to you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:48 PM
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no, i have the idea about trp that it says in the sidebar and what content they support. i’m obviously not so air-headed as to think men are just walking up to women and insulting them, that’s not even how most organic discussions where negging is involved would realistically happen lol i’m not sure what light teasing has to do with this making a person feel dehumanized. i am a woman who has been on several dates, i have experienced enough of this to be able to talk about it from a human perspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:46 PM
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i just find that people who have a positive self-image generally don’t accept treatment that makes them feel bad. i just don’t think people who have experienced psychological warfare and are aware enough to be able to catch it when it’s happening to them would fall susceptible to this as easily as you seem to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:40 PM
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well educated girls from good backgrounds can also have mental and emotional issues, and being insecure enough to where these tactics would work on you is a symptom of that. it’s also not exclusive to any one group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:37 PM
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imagine having to resort to this. it is really sad what the lowest quality men in our society are coming to. it’s unfortunate that male nature just seems so disgusting…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:58 PM
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it’s why their sidebar says no moralizing, and that trp is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:52 PM
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i think further traumatizing and exploiting already vulnerable and traumatized individuals sounds a lot like things that fall under the definition of emotional/psychological abuse. it’s definitely predatory. you can use the very same internet you use to post this nonsense to do more research on it if you genuinely don’t know (but we’re all aware this is probably just a bad troll). google is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:51 PM
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the fact that you think the same approach will work on both women is hilarious lol ofc they’ll all be willing to fuck attractive men. that doesn’t mean that pua tactics will work on all or even most of them, and it generally isn’t going to work when approaching mentally sound women with healthy self-images. i mean did your own post say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:46 PM
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you think a mentally sound, well-raised, secure woman would accept comments that put her down, pick up tactics that make her feel like a piece of meat, behavior that communicates she doesn’t matter to them past her vagina, and generally being treated in the shitty way rp dudes enourage each other to treat women? what makes you believe a person with a decent self-image and is mentally sound would accept this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:45 PM
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… what’s so evil about advertising vulnerable individuals as free and easy to take advantage of? what’s evil about encouraging people to further traumatize already traumatized individuals for sexual gratification? oh gee, i have no idea! it’s definitely not abusive, dehumanizing, and exploitative! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:39 PM
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men approach, so waiting for them to ask me out was never an issue. i used to let guys know right away that i expected to be married by age 24. if i were still dating, i’d give them a deadline of 1yr to propose. you don’t know if they’ll propose, you just observe and see that they do (or don’t). there’s no need to mention what you’ll do if they don’t, you just leave. if they didn’t get the hint, the will then. there is no “i don’t know how to do it,” you just buy a ring and propose. it’s not roc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:03 AM
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the young guy. i’m 22 for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:53 AM
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i told my fiancé the truth? this question is weird. why can’t people just be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:47 AM
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most people went to parties in college? it’s kinda weird and puritan to put onlyfans girls who are in the club every single weekend no matter their age on the same level as professional women who may have partied in college but eventually grew up and aren’t sex workers. these two things are clearly not the same, even if both groups partied as teens/young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:44 AM
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i can complain about whatever i want. i don’t even really mind age gap relationships that much, but people have every right to complain about whatever they want to. that being said, i can also only choose to date men my own age making however much money i want my partner to be making. whether or not you believe it’s realistic is entirely irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:38 AM
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critiquing people is not controlling. this is just sensitive. no one is controlling you or is being authoritative simply for telling you that your behavior is irresponsible. no one is telling you that you have to live life a specific way. this just sounds like you complaining that you’re receiving any critique at all. it’s sensitive and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:10 PM
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not necessarily. they never approach when we’re sitting together, but if, for example, i send him into the store to get me something while i wait outside; it’s not like the woman who approaches him in the store would know he’s with a female friend. also, he does get approached when i’m not with him. but he’s just one example. he’s not the only guy i know who manospherians would say must not get play, yet he gets more play than most lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:07 PM
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they vary in looks tbh. i know very short, average height, and tall men who do well with women. handsome men, average looking, and “ugly” men alike. fat, skinny, fit, or unfit. whether they work in stem, finance, entertainment, or even just little part time jobs. introverted or extroverted. the common denominator among all of them is that they’re very charming, and they come off as relaxed and level-headed. that and they all groom themselves and dress to flatter their builds, regardless of wheth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:05 PM
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no, they treat the wedding like it’s a gift for women, not the marriage itself. two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:53 PM
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you’re not obligated to respect decisions you believe are unwise. it is silly and childish to expect that people are always gonna respect your decisions and give nice critiques, especially when what you’re doing is irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:52 PM
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his height doesn’t really change that his face is pretty average looking. but like i said, any guy acting like that will make himself more attractive. i have a friend who’s 5’4 and black, and he’s similarly charismatic (also helps that he’s very extroverted). this guy has women approaching him on the regular lol, i’ve witnessed it myself. it’s less about the looks and more about his demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:51 PM
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i love how when you sort by controversial, the downvoted comments are almost always coming from those of us who have more conservative/traditional and/or unconventional ideas. i also love how this tends to be true on any q4w post. hmmm, i wonder why 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:49 PM
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jack harlow is actually a perfect example because he’s not the hottest guy off looks alone (especially before he got fit and grew facial hair), but his demeanor and the way he behaves/interacts with people (especially women) is very charming and attractive. his behavior on any man is attractive tbh. even jay z would be attractive if he behaves that way, and i find jay z to be extremely unattractive physically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:36 PM
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you don’t have to have a wedding to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:59 PM
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i want kids? this is kinda a silly question lol the only valid reason for marrying these days is to have children, unless you’re marrying for money ig. children have the best outcomes when their parents are married, and i refuse to have children for a man who’s not invested enough to marry me. i’d also rather not be a single mom if i can help it. i really don’t think it benefits me very much aside from financially, ofc, but marriage helps everyone financially. women usually end up doing more wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:58 PM
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ehhh, that’s debatable lol what men think is cool definitely will not be the same as what women think is cool. we have very different imperatives for why we go after the opposite sex. maybe it’s not personality, per se, but behaviors? idk. but i think how a person behaves and speaks says something about their personality for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:47 PM
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people can do whatever they want. that certainly will not stop them from receiving critique, whether you think it’s valid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:45 PM
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perfect example of men being like “i’m a great guy!! i don’t get why women don’t want me!” and they’re actually total weirdos lmaooooo then men like you ignoring context, ignoring that these men are weird af, and making women seem like the bad guys for not finding that shit attractive only makes y’all look even more ridiculous and out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:34 PM
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… you realize that just because you may have been in toxic relationships doesn’t mean that you wanted them or went out of your way to choose them, right? what people want and what they actually get are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:31 PM
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i mean i managed to find a guy who fits all of that and isn’t boring at all, so maybe it’s just something to do with y’all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:30 PM
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eh, it is negotiable. i have absolutely encountered men i initially found unattractive, but eventually found them to be attractive once i got to know them and became romantically attracted to them. their personality is what determines whether or not romantic attraction even develops; and once that romantic attraction is there, you won’t care what the guy looks like very much. the opposite has happened many times as well. you initially find a guy physically attractive, but then he speaks and he m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:27 PM
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yeah i second the woman who takes issue with the idea that you should forgive/allow men for infidelity. some even take it as far as saying if your man has any substantial amount of wealth/status, you are wrong for expecting him to be monogamous. that’s definitely bs to me. i don’t think a man should be forgiven for breaking his woman’s trust regardless of his status or how much he makes. men are absolutely capable of being monogamous. i also don’t agree with how trp seems generally anti-marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:06 PM
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oh they always downvote me, but i’ll keep sharing my opinions anyway. if a man doesn’t pay for dates/provide for you, he likely doesn’t feel all that invested in you. i have seen even the most selfish of men become provider types when they’re with a woman they really want. men should be the ones to approach, initiate, and escalate things between romantically/sexually. i feel like if a guy isn’t doing these things, he probably isn’t that into you. i actually don’t think it matters where you meet …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:59 PM
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no. not without some sort of verbal interaction with him, or at least seeing how he interacts with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:56 AM
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i would’ve casually dated a guy who made less than me, but i wouldn’t have married him if i’m being honest. my ideal dynamic involves me being a sahm or working less in order to be home with my future children more, and that’s typically not possible with a man who makes less than you. in specific circumstances, i wouldn’t mind if my partner were to make less than me or be unemployed; but only if it weren’t a long-term situation. i can’t say a specific number tbh. it doesn’t really matter to me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:53 AM
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i don’t really care to judge other women for choosing to opt out wherever they see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:16 PM
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i say do whatever the hell you want, but i’m gonna be enjoying the journey that is life with my life partner while people like y’all are in miserable relationships with people you don’t seem to love or respect very much. doesn’t seem like your priority is emotional connection anyway. if that’s the case, why not just have a kid with a woman and co-parent while remaining single? instead of dragging someone into your mess when you know you’re gonna leave them at some point or another because you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:53 PM
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i can dislike (or even hate) that people only treat me a certain way because they consider me to be conventionally attractive, while also using that attractiveness to my advantage. i can also feel that way and still personally enjoy my own beauty. men aren’t going to understand just how much of a difference your looks makes in your life as a woman and how people treat/interact with you. the reason i put effort into my appearance (aside from personal reasons, like simply enjoying beauty-related t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:40 PM
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sure, but why is it relevant if i am? doesn’t really change that it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:57 PM
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polygamous high value does not compute in my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:52 AM
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not really. my nickname is a joke from a gimp girl post, and is actually a reference to the exact thing i’m pointing out is weird about this comment. also, “ethnic” refers to anyone who is not white. so that doesn’t even specify any particular race. the comment specified just one race (and one ethnic group, russians; who are basically white), not multiple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:44 AM
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it’s fair, but it is at least a lil bit emasculating to be penetrated 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:29 PM
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… are those even hobbies? and tbf, there are plenty of men who say netflix is their hobby so i think it might just be a lazy people thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:26 PM
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you don’t have to be their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:25 PM
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i love how only the black women’s races are highlighted, but it’s just assumed the others are white or something else. kinda weird tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:24 PM
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:ragecry:
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:20 PM
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stem and finance guys. nerds and geeks. which turned out perfect cuz that’s exactly the kind of man i wanted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:19 PM
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no? if i’m not interested then i’m just not interested, it doesn’t have to be a thing about leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:17 PM
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it didn’t really bother me. the only times it did it was when i was obviously busy or just outright refused to talk to the guy and he’d persist anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:16 PM
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your comment still makes no sense. i’m saddened for you because i don’t think what i’m saying is difficult to comprehend at all. maybe you should try doing some research about psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:56 PM
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why do y’all hear/see some women say stupid shit and then stupidly assume the majority also think the same? just stop listening to sex-negative women, and stop assuming the rest are gonna be just as sex-negative. problem solved. it’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:28 PM
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why wouldn’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:42 PM
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what part of “i did not come up with the concept of the five love languages, it already exists” do you not comprehend. i’m not the author of the five love languages book or the idea as it’s referred to in psychology, so take your critiques of it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:40 PM
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i’m lost as to how you came to this conclusion when the point i made was about how being with your partner mainly or solely for their looks feels dehumanizing from the perspective of the person who was chosen for their looks. this conversation had little, if anything, to do with chemistry?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:22 PM
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i don’t. love languages are an idea that already exist, so there’s already basis for it. and none of those 5 love languages is labeled “sex,” it’s usually understood in the social science community that sex would fall under the “physical touch” umbrella. google is free. look up the five love languages. https://5lovelanguages.com
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:33 AM
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i’m not saying you did, i’m just saying that’s where the idea that sex is a reward/punishment comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:57 AM
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i think both are valid ways to be shown love, but clearly people want to be valued for what they provide. in this context, they want to be valued for who they are. i think men just hear sex-negative women and project that onto the collective. there a many sex-negative women, that doesn’t mean the average woman thinks it’s a problem for a man to value sex as a way for showing appreciation. while i think it’s a little gross to make sex into something a woman “gives” a man instead of something a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:28 AM
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no. that’s just setting yourself up for heartbreak. it’s not reasonable to expect single people to act as if they’re exclusive just because you want them to be when you haven’t communicated and agreed on that. people aren’t mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:21 AM
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it is not a love language. it can fall under the umbrella of “physical touch,” but sex itself is not a love language. i also think sex is important to a relationship and makes me feel loved and sexy, so i don’t really understand the point of your question. i don’t think other love languages are necessarily better, just that women tend to value other ways of showing love. maybe because they want to be shown that they’re cared for in a way that communicates they’re valued for more than their vagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:19 AM
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i disagree. being aware of something you need to change doesn’t mean you’re aware of how to change it, what to do, or even where to start. some people need help finding the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:11 AM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:22 AM
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therapy is meant to address issues with mental health and wanting to change your life. i’m not really sure how that’s gendered lol it’s not like this is exclusive to dating. men and women face plenty of similar issues that life just throws at you because it happens to pretty much everyone. it’s not about what problems you have, it’s about whether or not you want to put in the effort to look at yourself honestly and change. simple as that. therapy isn’t going to help a person who doesn’t want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:20 AM
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aw this is really cute. i’m very happy for you that it happened in a way where you can always look back on it fondly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:18 AM
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alright, the reason doesn’t seem malicious. carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:18 AM
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loser, loser, loser, loser, and loser. you’re welcome 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:09 AM
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i don’t really get the point of that? this sounds like madonna whore/complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:08 AM
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i think therapy is only helpful for people who are willing to drop their egos, and face the most brutally honest truths about themselves with a curious approach and an open mind. if you’re defensive about anything, you don’t want to accept certain things about yourself, you don’t want to exert the effort to be better, or you’re just not ready to change then it’s not for you. i don’t think it’s wise to go to therapy because you have dating issues. i would seek therapy if people were consistently …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:06 AM
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did you at least like the guy? also, did you hookup through old?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:59 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:58 PM
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i know, and (shocker!) i don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:56 PM
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Just because you find it dehumanising doesnt mean it is. this isn’t about just thinking it’s dehumanizing, this is about feeling like you are being dehumanized when you’re dating a person who is only with you for your looks. this is about the impact it has, whether it’s intentional or not. the rest of this comment isn’t relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:51 PM
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i’m quite literally explaining to you how this affects the partner who is chosen for their looks. just because a person doesn’t intend to be dehumanizing doesn’t make you feel any less dehumanized. this has nothing to do with consent. the point is that intent does not change impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:50 PM
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LMAO weird to just assume i haven’t found one, my relationship status isn’t even relevant here. interesting how people really think they can know so much about random strangers on the internet and project so much onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:47 PM
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no, just larping as one. i’m kidding, yeah i’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:20 PM
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i don’t believe af/bb is a real thing, and your comment didn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:29 PM
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it’s fair to say some people are born with wiring that makes them better communicators, but i don’t think that means they were just born with great communication skills. i’d assume it just means they’d learn it quicker and easier than others. i believe you learn how to communicate in your formative years, like most other things, from watching how the people around you do it. some people are blessed with charismatic people around them and that gives them an advantage, so maybe you could argue it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:26 PM
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baked mac and cheese and lasagna. everyone says you gotta pick one or the other. the fat american in me says no, i can have both🤗🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:21 PM
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valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:21 PM
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if what you’re asking is whether or not i believe women will find a guy more attractive because him being taken is proof he’s dateable/fuckable, the answer is yes. a lot of women will say no; but observing their behavior, they do. a lot of men have said that they receive more attention from women because they began wearing wedding rings. i’ve opted not to have my fiancé wear an engagement ring for this reason. i think a man being out with his child/children garners similar responses. a lot of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:20 PM
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sounds like she’s bullshitting and neither of you actually believe her 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:16 PM
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why else would they choose to marry a woman if not that? it’s not like you have to get married to have sex these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:16 PM
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i love this framing because this tends to be how women view it. a lot of men are just solipsistic and assume we experience sexuality and attraction the same way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:15 PM
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insanely based.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:14 PM
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i don’t think having a skill or having developed said skill is a privilege. you are born with privileges; and when it’s something that’s earned, we don’t refer to it as a privilege but as a right. the idea that it is is usually comes from people who feel they have no control over getting better, so they don’t even attempt to learn because they believe some people just have innate knowledge of how communication works. for example: the post from yesterday about the 48 laws of power where the op ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:13 PM
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if all you care about is “winning” invisible prizes for “debates” you’re having in your head, here’s your gold star i guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:10 PM
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you’ll come to find that a lot of the guys complaining about lack of casual sex or struggling with women have one or some combination of these things in common: he lives at home with parents/family. he doesn’t have an active social life/doesn’t go out. he doesn’t have the social skills or confidence to know how to interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:05 PM
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if you’re debating and you’re refuting someone’s point, the expected thing to do is provide evidence for your stance. just saying “i disagree” or “research proves this wrong” is intellectually lazy. i’m not refuting the op in my og comment, i just said what negative aspect i personally believe dark triad individuals do to keep negative emotions at bay. i answered the question. you are refuting my comment and are claiming it is factual, so it makes sense i would point out that you didn’t provide …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:34 PM
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we’re obviously talking about this in the context of normal dating and relationships? this comment seems just as deliberately obtuse as a couple of other ones. who said anything about casual sex? because i sure as hell didn’t. stay on topic please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:30 PM
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oh, you’re still with miss moral! how’s she doing? Seeing humans as tools is one thing, being inconsiderate about it is another thing. this is a fantastic point that i haven’t considered, and will likely be pondering on for a couple of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:53 PM
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not everyone finds henry cavill attractive, i know i don’t. i talk about the inner side of my ideal partner because that’s what i actually value. sure, i want my partner to be attractive; but i’ve already been in a relationship where the guy is hot but isn’t attractive past that. it sucks and is not sustainable, and there’s (usually) no real love there. people want love, as idealistic as it sounds; and they wanna be loved for who they are. not what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:48 PM
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this comment doesn’t add anything useful to the discussion at all. nobody said finding your partner attractive is a problem. i just explained to you why this line of thinking is harmful to others, because you’re not considering or caring about the impact it has on others. just like another male under this comment, your response seems deliberately obtuse and extremely narcissistic because you’re still disregarding the impact this has on a person even after it has already been pointed out and deta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:42 PM
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I agree this is problematic. Even if you only value someone for their looks or the value they provide becase of their looks that is not the way to deal with a human. Even if you see them as tools, taking their needs into consideration is just propper usage and maintaneance of said tools this sounds exactly like anti-social personality. i forgot i was talking to barely moral for a sec lol I think quite the opposite. I would love to be valued for what I am (a body) and I don't mind being an acceso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:37 PM
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okay? lol what did this have to do with rules? you’re just stating the obvious. your entire comment isn’t relevant to anything i’ve said and doesn’t really add to the discussion. i’ve already explained why this is dehumanizing, my face and body aren’t things i worked hard to achieve nor are they what makes me me when discussing personality/behavior. to act like that’s not the point seems deliberately obtuse, and honestly extremely narcissistic because you’re still disregarding the impact this ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:28 PM
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sure a guy could feel the same way if it’s about something he has no control over, but that’s not really relevant here because a man could have the same exact complaints i’m making now. i didn’t make my comment gender-specific. also yes, people can learn humor. it’s a skill. i personally know multiple people who work/dabble in comedy. comedians didn’t just wake up funny, they learned it from somewhere and then dedicated themselves to perfecting the craft. like many other things, it’s trial and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:24 PM
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i don’t have aspergers. neither do most women. i also think the only place where every woman is just born with perfect social skills is fantasyland. yes, communication is learned. babies are not just born with information just because you refuse to accept that, like anyone else, weren’t just born with information. i have to ask, how old are you to actually think this is real? no, it’s not “i didn’t know i was doing it.” i said i had to learn these same things like anyone else. i also don’t see e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:18 PM
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disclaimer: (i typed this out under the impression your post is basically saying that it’s fine to choose your partner primarily or solely based on looks. this is all moot if that’s not your argument). your post is problematic because you’re not addressing how this all impacts the partner who was chosen for their looks. not only is it extremely uncomfortable, it is also embarrassing and dehumanizing. you’re quite literally reducing the person to features they had no control over. at that point, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:33 AM
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this dichotomy makes no sense to me lol. i’ll just link a comment i made on another similarly ridiculous post that basically targets the issue i have with these stupid af/bb posts. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/z3b8kt/i_never_understood_this_concept_when_it_comes_to/ixl9bqr/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 i assume men believing women think like this is male solipsism and projecting because they believe in the whole madonna/whore thing. young me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:55 AM
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it is projecting because i am not part of the group of women you’re criticizing (i haven’t said anything against simps and already said, multiple times now, i have no problem with them). you’re just saying that i despise simps because other women said that. yes, this is what people refer to as “projection.” i am one woman, not all of them; and obviously not all are going to share the same exact opinion. i don’t see what me wanting a traditional man has to do with this tread at all. it’s not at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:32 AM
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research you didn’t link or source, so nobody knows what it is or if it even exists. thank you for contributing such great points and showing us your critical thinking skills. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:30 AM
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i didn’t complain about anyone disagreeing with me? i asked why people are shocked a 22 year old engaged woman would want a baby. i don’t see what there even is to disagree with in my og comment, so i don’t understand how or why the word “disagree” is even relevant here. making a statement isn’t misleading just because you choose to project whatever thoughts you have afterward onto me as if they’re my own or as if i said them. i never even implied them. if i simply said “i want a car” it doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:28 AM
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LMFAO wow, i had no idea. if that’s the case, why did i have to read this book to learn these very same things? maybe because no person is inherently born with all this knowledge? you’d think this goes without saying. just yikes 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:21 AM
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i didn’t know making a comment in passing on the daily chat thread was “an argument.” lol, you realize this is the one place in this sub where you don’t have to be arguing right? also, i never said when i wanted to have a baby or implied when. i simply said i want a baby, obviously sometime in the next few years. why are you so bitter about it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:01 PM
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Do you not worry about marrying someone your own age (or slightly younger for you)? no, i don’t see why i would. age doesn’t always determine maturity (at least, not in this context). Also idk your fiancé or his financial situation, but is he able to completely provide for you and a baby at this point? right now, no which is why we’re not having one now. but there are more pressing reasons why we’re not having one right now. he says in 3 year’s time or less, he’ll be ready and he wants to try th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:59 PM
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i’ve had a dog, i also spent the better part of this year being a nanny. i know very well how serious of a commitment it is to have a child. nannying did not make me want children any less, it actually had the opposite affect lol. having children is just not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:56 PM
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clearly i don’t despise simps because i just told this man i don’t think being a simp is a bad thing, even if he believes he is one. maybe stop hearing what one woman is saying and projecting it onto all as if we all share the same brain? i’m not encouraging him to be a simp, i’m encouraging him to do whatever he desires; so if he wants to be a simp, that’s his business. i didn’t get that he had issues with it from the post because he said multiple times he was fine with paying for things. the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:55 PM
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i know very well how much a person can mature in just one year, let alone 4. i have wanted to be a mother all my life though, so my mind isn’t likely to change on that. i’d rather not be trying to start my family in my 30s. in the cultures my fiancé and i come from, it is very normal (and expected in his) to be married by this age and to have already had a child. that being said, we’re not having a baby right now lol. even if the circumstances to have one were good, my wedding is not for a few y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:51 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:48 PM
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he’s 21 so (understandably) very young, and we certainly wouldn’t be having the baby right now lol. we just talk about when we’d like to start trying and when will be a good time for us both. the funny thing about our relationship is we didn’t exactly “date” in the typical sense. we began our relationship on the basis that we’d marry anyway (we got together in early june). we were friends for 1.5-2yrs before we got together, and i’d say he was definitely one of my closest friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:47 PM
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no. it’s literally any person. it’s not dependent on age and gender lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:41 PM
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how is it crazy that a grown adult woman who’s getting married wants a baby lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:40 PM
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of course they do. they have to face themselves every single day and rationalize why their shitty behavior is not shitty (or why it’s okay to be shitty). their mindset is developed to do anything to avoid feeling shame and guilt because they encompass so much of it, and they bury it very deep within themselves. would you wanna live your life doing every shady thing you can to avoid having to feel the deep and extreme levels of guilt and shame you’re hiding behind your dead eyes? would you wanna …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:38 PM
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you know what? i support this because at least he has a comfy looking chair and the place isn’t covered in filth. the fact that he even has furniture is notable enough. seeing this, i can assume he has a bed and not an air mattress. really horrible how low we set standards for men 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:34 PM
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every time i tell someone i want a baby, they look at me like i’ve just told them i’m about to go on a shooting spree. i’m 22 and engaged. why is it such a crazy idea that i’d want a baby???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:33 PM
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no, i’ll explain what i mean by that. we all have different beliefs and value systems. to some people (like one person who responded to my comment) believe being a simp is “bad,” so they’re going to critique it and anyone who does it. some people (like me) believe treating a woman doesn’t automatically make you a simp, and there isn’t anything wrong with being one of that’s the case. by the other guy’s parameters, you’d be a simp. by mine, you wouldn’t. so if your own parameters determine your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:27 PM
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omg, i’ve caught a wild simp!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:20 PM
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how am i setting him up? i’m not involved in his life life lol. if this man chooses to “simp” and enjoys doing that, who am i to tell him not to? again, all that matters is what he wants and what perspective he has. not anyone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:18 PM
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nothing wrong with being a simp if you’re satisfied with it. and if you don’t think what you’re doing is simping, then by your own parameters you wouldn’t be a simp anyway. all that really matters here is what you want and what perspective you choose to hold moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:15 PM
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neverrrrrrr she’s not cute doing all that attention seeking. i’d be mad they even filmed me if i were him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:13 PM
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LMAO that’s not a rule you silly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:08 PM
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yeah, they had “horrible relationships” because they didn’t know what they were doing and didn’t know what they wanted. like you, they just wanted “someone.” then they got “someone,” and that “someone” wasn’t what they wanted (or was the complete opposite). personally speaking, i know i didn’t have standards as a teenager past “he has to be nice to me.” this (unsurprisingly) led to two extremely unsatisfactory relationships with boys who weren’t at all what i wanted in a guy. i wouldn’t have kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:07 PM
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the ultimate chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:02 PM
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not really lol. i barely, if ever, see men in my yoga or dance classes. i prefer it that way, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:52 PM
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i don’t really understand the point of this question. if what you’re asking is “did you ever fantasize about having sex as a teenager,” the answer is duh lol i think you’re confused. women telling you that just wanting any random person is silly (because it means you have no standards) is not them saying that they haven’t also fantasized in a similar way. and yeah, i’d agree that being an adult and living in fantasy is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:51 PM
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OMG YES. my fiancé is british and i stg, he only gets away with saying as much bs as he doesn’t because i love his cute lil london accent 😩😆 he also says that american accents on women are sexy, but on men they’re weird. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:43 PM
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when did thanksgiving stop people from using social media lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:42 PM
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this is true of any group of people. the same is said for women. we can also take this same concept and apply it to race, for example. it happens all the time, to all races of people, that they don’t benefit from the achievements of people belonging to the same group but are all criticized for their crimes. you can swap out race for any other thing, and this would still be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:37 PM
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i prefer a man who fits the image of a traditionally masculine man, but i like to tweak it where it makes sense to in modern times. but i think, really, i want a partner who is masculine leaning but is balanced and can comfortably indulge in his feminine side to a degree. a man who is traditionally masculine, but is also gentile, sweet and nurturing (to me), patient, and empathetic is a perfect balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:35 PM
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yes. therapy was wonderful for me. i’d likely still be depressed and su*cidal if not for the therapy i’ve received. i also think therapy is the reason i’m even remotely self-aware. it forced me to self-reflect and to think more critically about myself, my actions, my thoughts and beliefs, and the impact these things have on others. it’s helped me learn to value myself and my life a lot more. it’s helped me rid myself of my pessimistic outlook. it’s helped me be more understanding and a bit more …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:27 PM
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you do realize this book was written by a man, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:21 PM
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interesting revenge fantasy you’ve got there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:08 PM
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i’m lost as to where anything in my message gave the impression i was emotional. do you always project random emotions onto unemotional language? i can do whatever i want. i don’t have to justify my opinions to you. if i wanted to argue with op, i would’ve left a regular comment and not one under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:06 PM
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people who are aware of their beauty and don’t feel the need to downplay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:28 PM
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a tiny stacy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:27 PM
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idk man, this just sounds like hating to me 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:47 PM
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okay i see, this makes sense. 💯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:37 PM
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based take. i think social media makes men think makeup can do things it actually can’t. it makes women think that too, but that’s cuz they want women to buy this stuff. unless you’re doing makeup artist/drag queen-level makeup on the daily, which the majority of women aren’t, you’re just gonna look like a better (or worse) version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:33 PM
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i’m gonna hold out just to spite you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:25 PM
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i’d like to see you explain this further
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:24 PM
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omg yes, so much this. like they’re fine with the fact that they do it; but the moment you call it out and put a name to it, they’re like “nooooo, that’s bad because x y z.” the best example of this is how women be like “no we don’t like gender roles” and then turn around and be like “but men should approach, initiate, and escalate; they should pay for the first dates, and i’m not seeing him again if he doesn’t.” they don’t wanna accept that they are literally upholding the very thing they tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:24 PM
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lmaoooo i didn’t mean to hurt your feelings now, learn to take a joke my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:20 PM
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oh i didn’t realize i didn’t answer the second part, but no i don’t expect a person i haven’t agreed to be exclusive with to be exclusive to me; especially if we haven’t had the conversation yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:19 PM
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it depends, but generally i’d like to know what i’m getting into before i sign myself up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:15 PM
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people are just hypocritical tbh. i agree tho that relationships are inherently transactional. the only ones that aren’t are those between minor children and their parents. people often say “that’s horrible, i feel bad for your partner” whenever i say that good relationships come with conditions. i don’t understand the mindset you should be fine with just love, even if your partner meets none of your needs or standards. having standards is literally evidence that relationships are conditional. y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:13 PM
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all that matters is if you’re impressed by it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:07 PM
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LMFAO y’all are a mess fr, this has to be a cry for help. this man is really out here comparing legal marriages to prostitution. it makes zero sense to me to compare unmarried people to married people, let alone prostitution which is a hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:05 PM
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i think people can do whatever they want regardless of whether or not i think it’s okay, and my opinion of their behavior is none of their concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:01 PM
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😂😂😂 i’m very much aware there are other countries besides the us lmaooo. also, not every man in the us is circumcised. why, are you offended because you have anteater dick? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:00 PM
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😬
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:00 PM
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when did that become a universal truth? was a signed into law? if not, it’s just your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:59 PM
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you do realize that you can experience both of these things and that’s okay, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:50 PM
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of course i am, i’m ethnic stacy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:40 PM
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i don’t like fat men. fat women are cool tho. women make almost every body type look pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:38 PM
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did she say that she’s one of the few women in the world who doesn’t feel the need to dress like a hoe, or is that what you assumed she meant by what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:35 PM
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i’m lost as to why so many administrators think allowing the children to do no work and still pass is okay???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:33 PM
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not to mention how many are complaining they have to use their own money and savings to purchase classroom tools and decorations because the schools won’t give them enough money to even buy these kids a pack of crayons/desk. and they also have to use their downtime to plan since there’s not enough time in the workday to write out their lesson plans. so they’re not paid for the time they spend doing this (and it takes a decent amount of time to come up with a good lesson plan).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:30 PM
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so are men 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:28 PM
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human weakness is the face of evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:28 PM
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… you’ve only had anteater dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:27 PM
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you know you could become genuine friends with a woman and marry her, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:26 PM
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i prefer 5 guys, they all make $100k+ each (except for one who handles the domestic duties), and i’m the one girl making money off them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:26 PM
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i would advise women to never tell a man this. even if he doesn’t see it as a problem, you could very well be triggering some weird fetish or part of him that enjoys it and then he’ll make it about trying to get you to have sex because he sees it as a challenge to overcome instead of respecting your boundary. be celibate, but don’t go making it “a thing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:23 PM
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you’ll actually find that it’s common for men raised by single mothers (especially black and mixed black men, because he is mixed black) to hold views like andrew tate. these men can be some of the most misogynistic men on planet earth. they are usually the first people to shit on single mothers, and they usually shit on single mothers completely unprompted. it comes off as mommy issues to me every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:20 PM
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i hate the just world theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:14 PM
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i actually think the reason so many women have less interest in sex is because many are on hormonal birth control, which does fuck with your libido and makes many want sex less (or not at all). because i’ve never understood why men believe we don’t have sex drives. many women have told me they’re naturally horny often when not on bc, and i haven’t experienced lack of sex drive on or off bc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:13 PM
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i’m confused on what you mean by “universally prefer a connection over men?” nothing regarding human preferences is universal, nor do we all share the same value system/beliefs. if it was, people would never argue and war would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:10 PM
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you implied they would since you said the women will remain single (as in will stop being approached).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:50 PM
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i am, yes. i don’t literally expect him to get everything done by himself though. i trust my partner completely because he really does get things done, and he somehow manages to get me to get things done too 😅 if you’re in a healthy relationship and you’re both consenting to this dynamic, i don’t see an issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:38 AM
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i experienced the same, especially when i was in college. and yes, the answer that’s likely true is that they’re just not trying to make the first moves. but there are also the seemingly small percentage of young men who are just really focused on pursuing their career and don’t want any distractions. i met a handful of those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:37 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:35 PM
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honestly? feeling free to express myself and my style however i want without being afraid it’ll change how people view or respect me. i think men are critiqued more for liking anything that could be perceived as even remotely feminine, and it definitely limits them in terms of how they can express themselves. i think they avoid things that could make them be seen as feminine, even if they like it, because the consequences for a straight man being accused of being feminine/gay mean less power/res…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:35 PM
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i get it cuz i’m also a mediocre slacker who puts minimal effort into life, i’m not judging them. i just know i can’t be with a man like that cuz then nothing would get done 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:28 PM
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LMAO @ the fact that you think i’ve had my thanksgiving plate yet 😂😂😂 i’m caribbean american. we don’t eat until like 8pm at the earliest, and you don’t eat all day until you eat that thanksgiving plate lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:27 PM
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it’s not that they “show the symptoms more,” it is that there hasn’t been enough awareness to the signs of neurodivergence in women and girls (which is why most women get diagnosed later in life. i myself wasn’t diagnosed until i was 21). i had all the signs of neurodivergence (specifically adhd) as a child, people just assumed i didn’t have adhd because i was female. even to find a therapist who believed women are capable of having adhd was difficult, and that was just last year. i’m not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:23 PM
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it’s not just an idea, it happens irl. you’re obviously not gonna see it. you can disagree, but it’s really not the same. women have more socially enriched lives on average, so it makes sense that they’d be affected more by misunderstanding social cues. whether or not that affect is worse is subjective, but to deny they receive harsher critique just seems out of touch with reality imo. i can definitely say ime i have been criticized and faced social consequences many times for not adhering to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:10 PM
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i can agree with that. i think when people say “equality” they usually don’t mean it in this way. they say it more in a “people should be regarded/treated equally” and i don’t think that’s always true. i guess it depends on the context really. edited to add that we don’t all share the same value system, so who is considered to have what/how much value is determined by each individual’s values. i say this to say we’re not all going to agree on what equality even looks like, let alone who/what has…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:03 PM
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i would say it’s true as a woman who’s neurodivergent myself (not autistic, but adhd). can’t speak for men, but i can say i resonate with that experience and i know other neurodivergent women who feel similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:59 PM
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no. i’m saying that if you’re in a predicament where you’re likely not going to get out of the consequences of your decisions (especially legal ones), you’d be better off taking responsibility for yourself and doing whatever you can to rectify the situation. do you think the courts are gonna give a shit that you’re not the biological father? depending on how long ago the birth certificate was signed, most likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:46 PM
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unfortunately, this is how the law works. you’re responsible because you signed the legal paperwork that says you are, paternity doesn’t determine this. and if you’re married, you’re automatically put on the birth certificate. i’m not gonna frame it as “it’s your fault,” but i am going to be honest and say it is your responsibility to solve any consequence that comes of it because it was your choice. yes, even if you didn’t know. i’ve unknowingly applied for a credit card program because the emp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:18 PM
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they’re approaching less, but they’re still approaching. i can tell you that firsthand 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:05 PM
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if he signed the birth certificate, he is the legal father; therefore he is legally responsible for that child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:47 AM
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plenty of other celeb women tbh. i don’t get the hype around her. i think it’s just cuz she’s a blondie with huge tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:46 AM
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i’d say it’s not a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:44 AM
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this doesn’t make much sense to me. i’m also confused on what you think women value in relation to sex? i get wet for the man i put in the husband category, and don’t necessarily put a timer on hookup guy or husband guy. i would say i like husband guy more since i actually wanna spend time with him outside of having sex and actually put thought and care into how i treat him. how soon i have sex with any of them depends more on what i’m looking for in a partner (or hookup) at the time than anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:43 AM
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why do i still expect men to initiate? because they usually do is the simple answer lmao why would i go out of my way to approach one guy if i already have other men approaching me? even in a setting where we’ve met through a social circle; there’s gonna be other men who are willing to make those first moves, and you’re likely not gonna catch my attention the way they do. i enjoy being pursued and i hold the (seemingly unpopular?) opinion that i like to be approached. i prefer a dynamic where i’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:36 AM
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enlargement? i don’t think so. i do plan to have them lifted after having children and breastfeeding, but no size change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:20 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:16 AM
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if watching porn is cheating… 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:13 AM
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that’s not true! they eat steak and peppers too! and can’t forget salmon! 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:27 AM
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i’m not a man, but i’m voting for oiled asses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:24 AM
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no, i rebuke it in the name of allah 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:23 AM
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bruh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:23 AM
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good evening to the women and the women only 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:41 PM
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hey, at least now you can say you got me to laugh for free 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:40 PM
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😂😂💀 no you’re right, you can’t afford me 💅🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:37 PM
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anything that’s slow and sensual
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:37 PM
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no 😂😂😂 edit: just watched the video and that guy is so cringe lol. glad he got no pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:33 PM
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it’s not unreasonable. i’d do it for my partner if he asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:05 PM
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music
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:02 PM
2

only the sub 8’s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:47 PM
3

good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:59 PM
2

lol he lurks. he says it’s full of crazies 😆 and ofc the same topics are always discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:59 PM
3

and?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:52 PM
0

okay but it doesn’t just mean horny, it means being horny at one’s expense. there’s still an element of shame (or shaming, when referencing someone else) there. but yes, down bad can (and typically does) mean “someone in an unfortunate circumstance” and it’s not exclusive to being horny. please tell me you are not a non black person arguing with a black person on what black slang means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:52 PM
1

https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/down_bad question, are you black/african american?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:44 PM
7

insanely based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:40 PM
7

this is hilarious omg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:39 PM
1

omg 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:39 PM
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yeah because he’s a man. if he wants me he should pursue me, as i believe a man should.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:38 PM
1

you have to be joking because that’s not at all what down bad means 💀💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:38 PM
3

i don’t see the relevance because neither myself or the woman in op’s little story said “strong and independent” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:37 PM
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the qualities i wanted in a spouse i did get in my partner. he’s masculine, intelligent, confident, daring, dominant, logical, very honest, and mature (especially emotionally). he naturally leads and takes charge in any situation. he studies/works in stem and finance. he’s a huge nerd and loves math. i tease him a lot for having old man/dad energy lol, but i like it. i like how he chooses to spend his time. he’s loyal, romantic, attentive, patient, gentle (with me 😅), sweet, caring, protective. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:37 PM
1

relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:11 PM
-1

😂😂😂😂💀💀💀 bruh you cannot be serious lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:10 PM
1

i know what it means. do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:06 PM
2

maybe men should grow up 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:06 PM
1

it is one 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:00 PM
0

no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:00 PM
2

an opening is an opening 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:00 PM
2

for casual sex? sure. for anything more? absolutely not. red pill strategy is to put in minimal effort. low effort men aren’t worth more than a fuck, if that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:56 PM
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these men are so down bad they out here proudly broadcasting their lack of ability to get themselves laid, even when a woman is giving them an opening. terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:55 PM
1

no. i’d respond to guys who make an effort to be engaging in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:40 PM
1

obviously it would be harder to get a good partner based on what the individual thinks is a good partner because you’re trying to do it within a specific timeframe. i don’t see how that’s moving any goalposts. nobody said it’s not also hard for men, but that you have an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:38 PM
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yikes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:36 PM
3

omg same 💀 i always used to prefer shorter men because i’m tiny myself, but my fiancé is a foot taller than me and i now i understand the hype 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:09 PM
1

📠📠
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:07 PM
2

i fully respect the honesty 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:39 PM
3

my fiancé exists 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:38 PM
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funnily enough, i’m with a man who meets all of that and the rest of my standards; so i wouldn’t say the ideal relationship for a woman only exists in novels. like i said before, it’s possible. some of us can only handle all or nothing. i know from experience i could only handle being with a man who fits everything i want or being alone completely. i think it’s better for everyone that women not enter relationships with men on the basis that they’re settling, because that man is likely not gonna…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:38 PM
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there is definitely a timer on a woman finding her ideal situation if what she wants (like most) is to have a family, obviously. dating is not easy for most people, and i’m not really seeing where blame shifting comes into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:30 PM
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that’s sad. do you not think your life can be fulfilling without a romantic partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:28 PM
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not exactly? i’ve written lists of exactly what i want and don’t want in a partner, but it’s not like i was using it and checking things off when i was dating. but if you’re asking “do you have standards and do you next guys who don’t meet them” the answer is yes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:27 PM
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lmao nah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:26 PM
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how does it seem like i hate relationships? i said: ideal relationship > being single > shitty relationship clearly i desire a relationship, so i’m not sure where you got the idea i hate them and feel like they’re prisons? i am not all women, i’m one… who said none of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:25 PM
1

based and pink pilled 💅🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:36 AM
1

this place is really something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:18 AM
2

thank you! i have found a man i believe is my one, we just haven’t married yet. soon though! 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:10 AM
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yes. i think your partner should make your life easier and should add practical value to your life. i’m not going to do the same things as him, but i will make his life easier in other ways. me being a sahm is making his life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:06 AM
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lmao please tell me this is larp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:05 AM
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it’s not really surprising at all that people don’t wanna have to give up their assets, businesses, and properties to an ex spouse (especially if their relationship ended in a negative way). i don’t get the hooker comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:05 AM
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it depends but generally no, it means i want to be able to defer to him when there’s a stressful decision to make and i don’t want to or i’m indecisive. he can’t make every single decision. i’m not his literal child after all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:03 AM
3

shit. bitch. fuck. ass. cunt. asshole. dick. pussy. motherfucker. bomboclaat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:56 AM
2

men like you are why i tell my friends to block whenever a guy calls/texts them after they haven’t seen/spoken to each other in weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:53 AM
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Work extremely hard on his looks i just expect him to look presentable, smell good, and be physically fit/in-shape. it’s just a plus that he’s handsome. Have a well paying job this is non-negotiable lol Approach and pay for the dates duh Be more decisive and confident than you duh Fit duh Read all your cues that’s impossible. Do half of the housework even if he makes more/works more nah, i’ll be a sahm lol 50% of the child care eh, more like 25% or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:49 AM
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because there will be some men who meet the bare minimum, and there will be even less men who exceed it; but those men still exist, so i can date and hold out hope that i will find the partner i seek to be with even if it seems unrealistic. because, again: ideal relationship > being single > shitty relationship edit: also we all have different ideas of what’s the “ideal relationship” and have different places in the smp/rmp. some of us will be more likely to find what we want than others. it rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:41 AM
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just because i am capable of being content alone doesn’t mean i don’t also desire a partner. it just means i’m fine with myself and my life if i don’t end up finding a partner that i want. why date men? because: ideal relationship > being single > shitty relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:34 AM
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i think you’re struggling to accept that this is just not how the system works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:14 PM
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it would be any establishment that upholds an affirmative action system and has a majority female staff, or is a field that is female dominated. i’m lost as to why men don’t believe they can receive the same aid? do you think the government has it written in law that these programs are solely for women? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:51 PM
1

this still doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:49 PM
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doesn’t have anything to do with my dad. he’s been involved in my whole life, and my parents have been married for 30 years. i don’t believe i have daddy issues. i call my fiancé daddy (in and out of the bedroom) simply because i like to. yes we have a dynamic where he’s my dom and he takes care of me, but what i choose to refer to him as whether it’s “daddy,” “mister,” “master” or anything else doesn’t really matter. it’s more about the relationship dynamic than anything else. this is the dynam…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:45 PM
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this doesn’t make any sense. i said the system doesn’t change regardless of who is the minority, that means the system will work the same way to hold quotas for whenever is the minority. not whatever the hell you’re saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:19 PM
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lmao i don’t have to tell you that you’re wrong, i can simply hold the opinion that you’re wrong. but now you know since you wanted to. why do you care if i say you’re right or wrong? i’m just gonna conclude that what you’re saying isn’t factual because you can’t and won’t prove it. simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:18 PM
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that doesn’t make any sense, and colleges aren’t the only establishments that have quotas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:16 PM
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him identifying as single doesn’t change if he told the women they’re exclusive, so the women are not under the impression he is single. i think i have to point out to you that i’m not disagreeing with you, because it seems like you think i’m arguing against you. reread my comments because i’m not. seems like i just misunderstood you or the op. it’s whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:15 PM
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dude, you can just say whatever you want out loud or on a website that’s not gonna censor it. there is nothing real stopping you from being hateful lol, how weird
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:12 PM
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the 40% minority still don't get help like women do. how do they not if the system is the same and doesn’t change based on who is considered a minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:11 PM
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this isn’t a source. so what you’re saying is you can’t prove it so it’s your opinion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:10 PM
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lmfaooooo you’re complaining that ppd mods aren’t letting you say whatever you want about women here? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:05 PM
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lmaoooo men’s libido actually decreases over time and women’s libido peaks during menopause. stuff like this is a google search away man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:59 PM
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i wouldn’t be in a relationship with a large age gap. men are already unappealing, let alone old men. i don’t have an opinion on whether or not it’s “smart.” i think it makes sense if that’s what you like, and if you don’t then it’s not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:58 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:56 PM
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why do you say they’re 60% of college students as if there’s a system forcing this and it’s not just that men are applying and going to college less and less over time? also, quotas are to help minorities in a certain field. if women are the majority, that would make men the minority; which means they’d benefit from the quota instead. it’s not gender specific, it is minority specific. christ, the way people don’t understand how quotas and affirmative action works 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:54 PM
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and who is stopping you from spewing hate against women and wanting preferential treatment exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:53 PM
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“please don’t tell me you’re saying x” is leaving room for you to correct it because i’m obviously trying to understand if that’s what you actually meant. all of that other stuff seems like a weird projection of what you assume my intent was. again, chill out my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:50 PM
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Just because the plates think they're in a relationship doesn't mean they're actually in one. The plate spinner literally identifies as single. This is clearly just women stupidly thinking fucking means they're exclusive. again, if the man told them that they’re exclusive and they choose to believe him; this is different than if they’re not exclusive at all and they just decide that they’re exclusive. there’s cheating involved in the first circumstance, not the second. This makes it even more ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:49 PM
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you said the other women were told they’re exclusive. that means they don’t know the information that the man is involved with others. again, i am not sure how one is supposed to be responsible for information they’re not aware of; especially if they’re being purposefully deceived. i did also say in my standalone comment that there are usually signs, so if the woman isn’t aware there’s a reason for that. what do these anecdotes have to do with anything. what, is that the story you were referenci…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:40 PM
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op didn’t say it was a specific situation from how i interpreted it. i’m saying in relation to a situation where the man is single but is telling women they’re exclusive or allowing them to believe they are, it is not fair to blame a woman for being cheated on. if they’re not exclusive, then cheating isn’t even happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:29 PM
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i used those words because i never said this: Women don't want to put any effort in when it comes to dating. again, your comments aren’t useful. like it’s off topic and it’s not adding anything to discussion at all. if all you wanna do is complain women don’t have to do anything, you need a diary or a blog. not to be arguing with people on debate subs lol i encourage you to use your critical thinking skills to actually say something other than “women bad and anything you say that goes against my…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:25 PM
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how on earth is me asking if you expect teenagers to make no mistakes in dating “snarky?” sir, are you okay? you realize text is easy to misinterpret right? the level of emotional volatility in these comments is ridiculous in relation to the replies i made lol chill out my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:22 PM
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i’ve been blocked by dozens of people, mostly male. you’re not special 😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:19 PM
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how are you supposed to take responsibility for information you’re not aware of? if she hasn’t figured it out and it’s been happening for a while, either she doesn’t have a lot of experience or the guy is a master manipulator. to blame a woman for being cheated on in this manner doesn’t really make any sense to me. what an interesting way to still find a way to blame women for being cheated on. wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:15 PM
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there’s no way to measure that. but yes, they likely know or have an idea. depending on the woman: she might choose to ignore it for her own mental health, maybe she’s some level of toxic and sticks around because there’s something she gets from it, maybe she’s cheating herself, or maybe she chooses to end things and not tell him why. but she likely knows. most of the time, it’s obvious if you know the signs. and once you’ve been cheated on and gotten the sus feeling once, you’ll know when you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:13 PM
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my fiancé and i often say that you should be with the person you’d break your rules for, and if you wouldn’t or they won’t do it for you then it’s not going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:04 PM
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it’s actually the exact reason i tell women now to be with the guy who’s clearly showing he’s eager and he wants you. if he’s not enthusiastic to be with you and he’s not showing you he is, then it’s probably not gonna lead to a relationship that’s fulfilling for you. he also probably doesn’t want you, he just likes what you’re offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:02 PM
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i didn’t say you made a judgement, i said don’t tell me you realistically expect teenagers not to make mistakes in dating. are you always immediately defensive and rude with anyone who replies to you, or is it just women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:58 PM
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i also see, very often, people marrying people completely unrelated to their fields because they don’t wanna be with someone who works in the same field as them. their standard is they want someone who is not like them. i think the idea that we all share similar values is nowhere near realistic lol, if we did we wouldn’t argue this much and war likely wouldn’t exist because what would there be to fight over i don’t think that standards are limited to jobs or wealth (i’m not sure why you keep foc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:54 PM
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i’m confused. do you want a harem or a girlfriend/ltr? because unless you’re one of the wealthiest men on the planet and have women coming in and out like a revolving door, you’re most likely gonna have to pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:47 PM
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i think comparing married people to unmarried people never makes any sense. it’ll just never be the same to me, regardless of the status of the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:46 PM
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please don’t tell me you realistically expect teenagers not to make mistakes in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:43 PM
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i’m not sure how any of this negates what i said or how it’s even really relevant. you’re using celebrity examples, celebrities are like .2% of the population and don’t live even remotely normal lives lmao. they’re never a good example to use in the rmp/smp in relation to regular people because theirs is entirely different. i still think you aren’t grasping that you don’t decide who is evenly matched with each other. you’re not understanding that everyone is not going to agree on what is and isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:25 PM
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lmfaooooo the false equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:23 PM
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yeah because men aren’t looking to women to provide financially or lead their relationship or anything, they’re looking for sex (and companionship by proxy). this post does ignore that men look for domestic skills and the ability to birth and raise children in women. that’s what they actually want, so they’re looking at things that matter for that. basically, men aren’t looking for another man. they’re looking for a woman, and they usually want her to be some level of stereotypically feminine. i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:21 PM
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how is me telling you that you don’t decide what is and isn’t universally valuable to everyone “like fairytale?” lol. how is the idea that everyone shares your same value system realistic whatsoever? you can say this as much as you want to, but reality is just going to be something different because (again) not everyone shares your value system. not everyone finds the same things valuable as you do. therefore, you cannot decide on someone else’s behalf whether or not they deserve what they want.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:14 PM
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i don’t think it’s just left-leaning women who don’t like being approached, this is just you making assumptions. the political groups the women belong to is irrelevant and doesn’t determine whether or not they’ll feel uncomfortable by being approached by random men on the street who are most likely looking for sex. the people who are saying this online are people who exist in the real world. these guys aren’t just waking up and thinking women don’t wanna be approached, they are hearing and seein…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:58 PM
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i didn’t say you weren’t, i was just saying you don’t have to cold approach them. there are other ways to do it. i’m not sure why you think the fact that new social norms exist would stop you from doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:55 PM
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if you want a girlfriend but you’re using trp tactics, yes that’s a conflict of interest. trp tactics are meant to find you casual sex and harems, not ltr’s. trp literally says this, not even just red pillers but the ideology itself. how is wanting an ltr but using tactics that get you fwb’s who don’t want anything long term anything but a conflict of interest? trp men and those who employ their tactics are inherently unmarriagable and not worth more than their dicks if you ask me. the “high eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:52 PM
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i would think the fact that my flair says “ethnic pocket stacy/manlet factory” and my avi is a female presenting avatar makes it clear i’m female, but i’ll say yes i’m female here to ease your concern. “the women” can say they don’t wanna be approached by saying it lol. all you have to do is look up any conversation about approaching on any part of the internet, and you will see several women saying they do not want to be approached. hell, i hear more than enough women complain about being appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:44 PM
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maybe that’s because the women are saying they don’t want to be approached? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:34 PM
1

i wanna fuck you just because you said this. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:33 PM
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it produced the results red pillers are looking: casual sex. if you want a relationship, i’m not sure why you’re using trp pua tactics? seems like a conflict of interest. i can tell you from experience that the low effort guys are exactly the ones you fuck and dump lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:30 PM
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this is an extremely simplified way to view these ideologies. you do realize that black pill is essentially saying your looks determine everything in your life, and blue pill is saying that everyone can find love if they just improve themselves. i don’t see how they are at all the same based on their premises. what people who support these ideologies say /= the ideology itself. people interpret ideologies wrong all the time. don’t base your understanding of them on what people who claim to suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:28 PM
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why are they saying that as if the women got pregnant by themselves and it’s solely their problem to solve lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:26 PM
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no, but science doesn’t lie and the younger you are the more immature you are. that’s just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:25 PM
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they didn’t forget, they never learned and never cared lol. you think most people put this much thought into having their kids? that’s a relatively new phenomenon. before like 2010, it seems like people would just have kids and if the kid survived and finished school, you could say you were a stellar parent. most people were just going through the motions of life or happened to have a kid, or had a kid because that’s just what you did. they didn’t think of it as something meaningful, it was just…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:24 PM
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i would assume the asshole is being more honest than the nice guy, especially when you consider that the overwhelming majority of people aren’t self aware. of course the nice guy will say he’s nice. most people want to believe they’re nice, even when they’re not. if you tell me you’re an asshole, you’re at least being more honest in acknowledging that you’re flawed even if you’re not actually an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:18 PM
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you don’t have to cold approach, you can also meet women in other ways and approach them once you’ve already built familiarity with them. that’s usually how most people end up together anyway, is meeting through social circles or work/school environments. that’s only changing with younger generations now because of old apps (i also think c*vid had a huge part to play in this too tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:15 PM
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what else would provoke you approach a stranger you’ve likely never interacted with in a romantic/sexual context if not their appearance? this comment makes no sense lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:13 PM
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my fiancé is coming to visit for the holidays and my mother decided it’s better to host him purely because she knows we’ll have less sex and my dad won’t complain as much 😭 safe to say, they’d probably be pissed if they knew lol. but i’d never do it while they’re home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:12 PM
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lmfao girl what, since when
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:06 PM
2

depends on the woman. i don’t think i could handle if he was lamenting about really small things all the time. i want a man, not a baby. i’m looking for him to care for me in this parental kinda way, not the the reverse. but if it was like every now and then he wants to let his feelings out and i just listen, that’s fine. some women seem to like the dynamic where they’re more mommy-like it really depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:05 PM
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i’m confused as to what this tweet is even supposed to mean. black chicks doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:02 PM
1

this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:01 PM
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how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:56 PM
2

yeah the first guy is not really attractive. he looks kinda feminine tbh, and i don’t like that. also his muscles look unrealistically big. probably wouldn’t even say anything to him if he tried to approach me on the street lol. he’s conventionally attractive for sure tho. the second guy is way more attractive, but he’s a little too androgynous looking for my taste. guy 1: 5 ig? guy 2: eternal 7 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:56 PM
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none of that says bf material to me. like at all lol. any guy can have those things, bf material or not. “wasn’t acting stupid” seems to not be enough. maybe it’s lack of effort? i’m just guessing because that’s a popular issue and a lot of men seem to think that “effort” means mustering up the courage to ask for a date, initiating and escalating, and then paying for shit lol. that’s very bare minimum. if it’s not that, then like i said i’d ask people close to you what it might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:52 PM
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i think the idea that everyone settles with someone they’re equally yolked with is unrealistic. you’re also forgetting that you do not decide what is and isn’t universally valuable. what is and isn’t valuable is up to the individual, and not everyone is going to share your value system. so while you may think someone is low value, someone else may think they’re a unicorn. also, looks and career aren’t the only standards people have. standards can be as small as “i want a man who’s love language …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:50 PM
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you’re making so much sense that i am left with nothing to refute. well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:38 PM
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sure, but whether or not she can get the man she wants is a different thing. again, she doesn’t have to have the things she requires in a man in order to get that kind of man just because you think she should. the idea that you have to be everything you want in a partner really doesn’t make any sense to me at all, especially because it’s just not true in reality. not to mention, i’m sure a lot of people don’t want a partner who is similar to them in this context (i know i don’t).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:35 PM
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lol yes, basically. but seriously, go read it. rmv basically = bf material you must be struggling with things that are pertinent to being bf material, because if you weren’t you wouldn’t be the “fuck fuck, then dump” guy. you should probably ask people you’re close to what it could be, because you’re probably not gonna see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:30 PM
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i understand your perspective, i’m just saying that you don’t have to understand why other people live the way they do and that it’s okay for them to live in a way you (at least from what it seems like to me) deem as somewhat immoral or simply strange. the rationale can be as simple as “because i want to and this is what makes me feel at peace with my life.” as crazy as that might sound lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:27 PM
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just because you believe in something doesn’t mean it’s a universal law that must always be true. she doesn’t need to do anything. if she can obtain the kind of man she wants, what she has to provide matters to no one except for that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:24 PM
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So since women want masculine men, doesn’t that mean women should go back to being housewives with no jobs? you realize you don’t have to be a housewife with no job to be feminine right? you also realize most men can’t afford that right? you also realize this has nothing to do with the topic, which is approaching and pursuing and which gender holds the responsibility of doing so. if you reply to this comment with yet another irrelevant point, i will not respond. Since honestly that’s more mascul…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:22 PM
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yeah, that sounds like a better idea. you could also try outsourcing the work if you can afford to, that seems to work best for working couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:20 PM
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why don’t you people go read the sidebar and learn about pillospherian terms before you start interacting with the debate sub? edit: i read that out loud and didn’t realize it sounds a lot harsher than it did in my head lol, my b
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:19 PM
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sounds like your average gymbro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:18 PM
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whether or not they’re afraid of rejection is not going to change that women are not men, and they don’t want to pursue men as if they are men themselves. you can say this as much as you want to, but it’s a moot point because it’s useless to the discourse since we already know this. approaching and escalating is the traditionally masculine role. i can only speak for myself, but honestly the idea of me being the one in that role is so repulsive to me i am cringing as i type this. it’s inherently …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:14 PM
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lmaoooo it’s been years and this place is literally the exact same, just new users 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:11 PM
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well if he’s not bothered by it then it’s not a problem, but i’d suggest that he cook more than you make frozen pizzas cuz that’s healthier 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:10 PM
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of course. trp itself is right about a lot of things, it’s idiot men who believe in it that choose to misconstrue it to mean a bunch of things to suit their own selfish narratives. a lot of what’s pushed as trp rhetoric is actually just rhetoric from angry i*cels who adopt trp strategies or want to, and who speak of black pill topics as if they’re actually trp when they’re not. now while a decent portion of this pillospherian stuff is based in reality; when the people who support the ideologies …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:09 PM
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it sounds like you heard the conflicting opinions of one woman and decided the rest must be thinking the same. i’m here to tell you that this is not true, because i am a woman and this entire post seems nonsensical to me lol. imagine if i came to ppd and asked the men “this one man told me he has a toe fetish but hates women who have weird fetishes, why are some men hypocrites?” please tell me you see why this question is silly lol the real answer to this question is simply that some people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:00 PM
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i’m just seeing this edit. why does she need to have the things she requires from her partner and why is the relevant to the image you posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:55 PM
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lmfaooooo no angry feminists too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:54 PM
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https://www.aecf.org/blog/child-well-being-in-single-parent-families?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIhOD0oKDC-wIV-gFMCh1tNg2OEAAYASAAEgJWYfD_BwE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:54 PM
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maybe he just has a different perspective on this than you do? not everyone has to marry someone and call that someone their best friend just because you yourself believe that is what’s right and just.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:49 PM
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and your husband isn’t bothered by this? edit: i’m not trying to be judge mental, it was a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:45 PM
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based, i support it. she is deserving of it simply because she is a woman. now where is the support for me? i’m not a single mother, but i’m still a woman so i deserve it too 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:40 PM
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plenty of those people came from homes where they had a woman for a mother and a man for a father. that doesn’t really determine whether or not they’ll have negative outcomes. also the stats on children having the best outcomes when they come from two-parent homes where their parents are married is independent of gender. that means a kid who has married gay dads and a mother figure is less likely to become a sex worker or thug than a kid who has a divorced mom and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:39 PM
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i think children should have a mother and father figure, regardless of who it is or how many adults are involved in raising them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:35 PM
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in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:33 PM
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😂😂😂 what’s wrong with women being kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:33 PM
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this place doesn’t change a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:33 PM
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lol the title alone is incorrect. this is how men experience attraction. i find men attractive, it is just not in the same way you find women attractive. as per another comment i saw, i agree with the claim op is projecting. i can’t say this is a shared experience but i can say as a woman, i don’t feel attracted to any random man i see or encounter in my day to day life unless i interact with them (yes even when they’re conventionally attractive). physical looks alone doesn’t do much for me. lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:29 PM
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men on this part of the internet are just weird tbh lol. most men don’t enjoy being pursued as if they’re women, and the idea that they would on a collective scale is always coming from young men who don’t touch grass and have vagina envy. i’m not surprised at all that was your experience considering straight men are very adamant about not doing things that make them seem gay or less masculine. to them, it’s seen as disrespectful. seems like a deeper issue they need to resolve among themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:09 PM
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lmaoooo that person must’ve never had a relationship after high school
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:05 PM
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you don’t cook? are you still working full-time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:05 PM
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they usually mean that in reference to huge guys that look like the rock, not guys who look like your average athlete or supermodel (not on roids, obvi). not regular guys with a healthy amount of muscle on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:04 PM
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of course. it depends more on your diet and how heavily you’re lifting. i’ve been lifting on and off for a year now and i haven’t gotten big at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:02 PM
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no, but it does mean you should probably address whatever is making you struggle with rmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:59 PM
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i think your partner should be whoever you want them to be to you, so long as they’re fine with the arrangement and your feelings towards them. i can agree with you that they should always be cordial and respectful towards each other, but i don’t think they have to be best friends. i don’t think marriage has to be romantic or passionate. business partnerships in the form of marriage are okay, and it’s okay to marry for reasons other than love. i support even arranged marriages so long as both th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:54 PM
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to focus on your topic, which was about men (not excusing women, but again, the topic of this post is men.) i think when it comes to physical attraction standards, it’s true people are generally less critical of what men want vs what women want. i think it has to do with how anything women enjoy is harshly critiqued. i’m not sure why society hates women enjoying things, but they do; and they especially love hating on the things women enjoy. i think a lot of it is fear mongering though. it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:46 PM
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you realize you’re gonna have to experience rejection in all areas of your life and it’s gonna happen whether you try to avoid it or not right? how come young men these days can’t seem to handle an ounce of rejection? that in and of itself signals already poor mental health. a person with a strong sense of self isn’t gonna take rejection as if it’s an attack on their entire being, especially in the context of meeting random women for romantic/sexual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:30 PM
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are you confused? most people want children. a woman who cannot bear children is gonna have a very difficult time in the dating world, even among men who claim they don’t want children because so many people who say they don’t want them change their minds later. a huge part of men going after younger women is fertility and women rushing to marry before 30 is the fact that it becomes much more difficult to have a child after age 30. to act as if it’s not a very big and driving force in a lot of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:20 PM
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i knew there’d be someone to say this, and i knew i’d have to tell them it really doesn’t add anything to the discussion at all because women are aware they can approach. we simply don’t want to, and for many of us we don’t have to. the same doesn’t seem to be true for men, per what they’re saying here. so again, yeah it’s an advantage that you can cast your net as wide as you want whereas women are mostly just deciding yes or no to whatever options come their way. you can’t realistically expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:30 AM
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i think it’s a silly saying, and you should ask people who are living in ways you either 1. want to be living yourself (if you’re asking someone of your same gender) or 2. living in ways you’d want your partner to be living. it also depends on what you’re asking for advice on. for example, i doubt asking a woman how to approach other women would be at all helpful lol. if you were to ask them what might help a woman notice you more, they’d likely be able to help with that instead. you can ask any…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:45 PM
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i’ve kissed a girl a couple times. the experiences were nice and i went on a date with one of them. idk if i’d do it again tbh. idk what i am, but i’m engaged to a man so i don’t think i’ll have the opportunity to explore that again anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:36 PM
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i like jordan peterson myself so i wouldn’t have an issue with it lol. i’ve never met anyone who was bothered by the fact that i like him, regardless of gender. i don’t get all the jp slander?? why does everyone seem to hate him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:29 PM
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because they’re narcissistic and believe in the just world theory. jwt means bad things happen to bad people who do bad things (the “bad things” are what you deem “bad” based on what society and culture have taught you is bad and must be repressed). this theory completely ignores the fact that life is unfair to good people who do everything “right” every single day, and teaches you to unfairly judge others for things you yourself likely do or would do if you were in the same circumstance. what m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:07 PM
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at no point did i say you have to lmao, you do whatever you want. the overwhelming majority of americans are living paycheck to paycheck and the average man doesn’t make more than $50k. what makes you believe he can support a family entirely upon that salary alone? most people are not willing to live the most minimalistic lifestyle ever to achieve this, so that “solution” isn’t realistic. that’s probably why you mention that many don’t want to. i don’t think them not wanting to us the reason for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:08 PM
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i’m a city girl and now i want a kooder dryer just to be able to to tell folks i have a kooder dryer 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:12 AM
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i’m not sure how any of that is relevant to my comment. please save the feminist bullshit for someone who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:56 AM
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i would say the entitlement is not one-sided lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:42 AM
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ppd mo*ds: “you can’t take a joke!!!!” also ppd mods: manospherian reeing whenever i make a joke* 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:39 AM
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That and they mad white girls won’t date them. that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:26 AM
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exist. oh, and choosing men that aren’t them. edit: oh! and i can’t forget, choosing not to remain virginal all their teenage/adult lives for some loser, below average, inexperienced, undesirable hermit sperg who offers nothing but one-sided “unconditional love,” untreated mental illness/emotional instability, inability to read a room, bullshit manospherian/pua tactics, shitty dick, and zero orgasms. oh yeah, and a refusal to commit or get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:25 AM
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i can’t believe you’re still here dude. you’re just as much of a stalker cuz i’m not talking to myself lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:22 AM
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not really, there’s nothing to win here. i’m not sure what part of: i respond to anyone who responds to me. you’re still not getting lmao. all you have to do is this magical thing called: drumroll pleaaaase… 🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁 stop responding to someone you said you don’t wanna talk to! 🤗 i’m not forcing you to reply to me, there’s literally nothing tangible keeping you here. i find it absolutely hilarious just how often and how long people will say “i don’t wanna talk to you” and will continue to respond…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:50 AM
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and it costs you nothing to stop making tiny shit deeper than it really is lol this guy didn’t go nearly as hard about this as you did. it’s kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:43 AM
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oh i missed this. okay, i told you that you were hurt. shouldn’t have said it that way, should’ve said i got the implication you’re hurt. ✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:43 AM
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It really doesn't matter to who. it does, because it wasn’t directed at a person lmaoooo You're more emotional about this than I am, it was a joke ok, move on. yes, unemotional language definitely reads as emotional 😂 it was a joke the multiple times you complained i called you naive and emotional lol You're point being if I say why I don't like something in a passionate way, it invalidates everything I wrote? no, it just means you’re not being objective. it’s not just passionate, it’s subjectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:41 AM
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😂😂😂😂 this comment was so shady. appreciate the positivity, dude. even if it doesn’t seem entirely genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:20 AM
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it seems like it applies to anything tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:17 AM
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why are mo*ds so brain dead that they actually believe anyone who disagrees with them is a deliberate liar lmaoooo inb4 some loser whines under my comment: the saying goes: if the shoe doesn’t fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:10 AM
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very interestinggggg that’s why multiple perspectives are helpful. the few trans men i know personally said otherwise, but there’s no way for me to know if that’s a universal or personal experience without asking more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:07 AM
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i’m not sure what part of: I respond to anyone who responds to me, you’re not special. and don’t wanna talk? go about your way dude. you couldn’t comprehend lmao sure, thanks for asking! my day was great. excited i get to relax cuz i’m off from school this week. bf surprised me with a sweet gesture today. got an email for a decent job opportunity today. didn’t have to pay my insurance for this month cuz i’ve already paid in advance. i’m having a glass of soju as i’m typing this now, and i’m abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:05 AM
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just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean they’ll be a good long-term partner for you. she decided y’all weren’t compatible for whatever reason. she obviously wouldn’t have been seeing you if she didn’t find you at all attractive. sounds like this was short-lived, so it’s nothing to worry about much. that’s just dating. there’s plenty more where she came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:52 PM
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i’m just gonna keep reminding you that you’re projecting, allowing me to waste your own time, and none of my language is emotional until you decide to stop lmaooooo i’m not the person here using language that indicates frustration, or is complaining to end this exchange. that’s you, babes. i’m highly amused. maybe take a chill pill. i’ve had a wonderful day actually, thank you for asking. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:48 PM
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if there were enough trans women here (who passed for female, cuz i think it’s relevant), it would probably be more useful to ask if their lives became easier after transitioning to women. from what i’ve heard from a few, being a man was easier outside of dating. i’d like to know what more of them have to say, tho. edit: actually, some (obviously passing) trans guys have said something similar too. that their lives became easier, outside of dating, because people are more apt to take men serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:38 PM
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and the answer is still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:33 PM
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ah i was right, it was projection. you seem bothered. i respond when you do. it’s not about me being frustrated, idk why you think me responding to you means i’m upset lol. i respond to anyone who replies to me, you’re not special. don’t wanna talk? go about your way dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:18 PM
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and? wanting something doesn’t mean you’re gonna get it lmao, the majority of men can’t afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:16 PM
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When did I say this? when you said: Sure I’m naive, emotional, nonsensical anything else you like to add? that was you claiming i directly called you those things. i didn’t. i said these things about your statements, not you as an individual. I've just realised now you know what I internalise as well. if you weren’t internalizing it, then don’t insinuate i called you those things rather than your statements lol They can, same way I can think they are wrong?! Hello? you can, but it doesn’t make l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:14 PM
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i think you just read anyone who says something you don’t like as frustrated and throwing a tantrum 🤷🏾‍♀️ but please, do continue inserting emotions in comments that don’t use emotional language 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:03 PM
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i think you’re projecting and you must not have ever seen someone take the piss out of someone else for shits and giggles. the guy literally said something about women in his comment, it was already gendered? not sure how me responding = i’m frustrated, but okay lmao. i still think you’re projecting. dude this is the internet, ppd especially. the sub is literally about gender dynamics. people aren’t obligated to be positive all the time. grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:35 PM
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yeah ask every woman you know how often she’s taken on expensive first dates 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:29 PM
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boo hoo. i’m such a horrible person for saying men act like cooking is hard and want cookies for simple shit. boo hoo. m*ids think i’m rude because i don’t sugarcoat and placate their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:26 PM
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i’m sorry you feel that way. you’re entitled to your opinion. like i said, if ive said anything uncivil to you then you can report me. otherwise, you complaining that it’s rude to say “tell that to manospherian men” and then project all this extra negative emotion onto it is just you complaining that you don’t like what i said lol it wasn’t rude. you just didn’t like it. as for the rest of what i’ve said, i’m sorry that you think unfiltered honesty is rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:16 PM
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i’m sorry you can’t hear that i believe your statements are naive and nonsensical, and that you’re using emotional language, without internalizing that to mean i’m directly attacking your character rather than your words. i don’t think people have to outright state that they’re sharing their opinions or speculating for you to tell. if it cannot be proven right or wrong, it is an opinion. i did not tell you that you were hurt. please quote where i did, i can admit when i’m wrong. again, what i sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:12 PM
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the onus is on the author to make their writing easy to understand for the reader. it’s not my responsibility to make sense of your ideas, that’s your job babes. toodles!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:06 PM
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oh no, you can’t write. i’m not sure how you expected me to know you weren’t directing that towards me when all you said was “if you’re being a bitch gtfo” without specifying who it was aimed towards. my bad, i’ll try to read your mind next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:47 PM
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Women are demonising men by inventing an intent to their actions and you're pretty much doing same to me? how is speculating about a person’s motivations and stating your opinion on that “inventing an intent to their actions?” like you’re doing the same exact thing you’re complaining about: you’re assigning motivations to women, assuming they’re doing this to demonize men and that they’re being intellectually dishonest on purpose. it’s hypocritical. i just think it’s nonsensical to act as if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:43 PM
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and i think you’re never gonna have jurisdiction over that, so you might as well stop caring now. there’s no rule that says everything on this threat needs to be 100% positive, that’s not even realistic. i’m not at all frustrated, you’re projecting. i don’t see where i said anything spiteful or anything indicating negative emotion, so it seems like you’re just reading more into it than there is and projecting that onto me as if those are actually my emotions. i am just a very direct person and, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:34 PM
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not at all. i wouldn’t approach him even if i thought he was the hottest guy in the room, even if super hot girls wanted him. why? because i don’t have to, he wouldn’t be the first or last hot guy to exist, someone else will probably approach me anyway, and i’m not attracted to men who don’t pursue me. if you see me, catch my signals, and don’t approach; i’m all set. not my kinda guy. i’m the woman here; so if i’m not being approached and pursued, then he is a damn fool to think i’d do his job f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:28 PM
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i didn’t know that you know all almost 8 billion people in the world AND you know that not even one of them enjoys making people deliberately uncomfortable. how’d you do that? women aren’t demonizing men (nor are they gaslighting you) by saying creepy men exist lmao, you’re just hurt women have the audacity to (rightfully) point out negative things about men (obviously men who fit the description). people need to stop throwing that word around. nobody is making you question your reality just bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:18 PM
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idk dude, they sound just about the same to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:11 PM
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it’s not that simple. a guy can have a decent sized dick and still be meh in bed because he doesn’t use it well. if the stroke isn’t right and he’s not going deep enough, it’s just not gonna feel as good. the way you do it matters and does make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:10 PM
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lol if i’m not being civil, report me then. nothing is gonna happen tho, cuz i’m not breaking that rule. just cuz you don’t like what i said doesn’t mean i’m not being civil, babes. you just don’t like what i said lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:08 PM
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no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:07 PM
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Lol no offense taken, appreciate the disclaimer. i tried to find another term besides “forever girlfriend” but idk how to frame that without making the sentence way longer than it needs to be 😅 I would only add that there are no marriage-minded men at 19, 20 years old. So you should add the caveat that girls should leave these guys on virgin status until they are older. interestingly enough, i’ve found that this isn’t always true. there are, it’s just rare to find one who’s really serious about …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:06 PM
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you can try, but you’ll fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:53 PM
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“If you’re being a bitch” implies i’m being a bitch, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:53 PM
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i didn’t say these individuals want to make people feel creeped out 100% of the time. i said: there are people who enjoy making people deliberately uncomfortable, and those people are creeps 99% of the time. meaning 99% of those people are creeps. i’d think it’s clear that we’re talking about creepy in a sexual or scary sense (you know, people who are actually creepy?), like the guy is making her feel unsafe and he’s obviously doing it on purpose. not a guy who’s just shy and can’t read the room…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:53 PM
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nobody is entitled to anything. i think folks have made that more than obvious by now. men like you are why i encourage women not to cohabitate before a wedding/marriage date has been set, to wait until a man is emotionally invested in you to sleep with him, and to seek out marriage minded men in the dating phase. inb4 libfems and voluntary “forever girlfriends” come whining: obviously, i wouldn’t give this advice to women who don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:48 PM
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i know. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:42 PM
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tell that to the manospherians.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:39 PM
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literally anything relating to the body. i’m not even being facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:38 PM
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there’s no need when you’re with someone who does it well enough. if sis has to fake it, she needs to just go find a new man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:37 PM
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i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:35 PM
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i am with fun people 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:33 PM
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it wasn’t a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:33 PM
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i’m not being a bitch by telling you what is common sense. you’re obviously not going to be aware of something that happens unconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:32 PM
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LMAO @ the insinuation that men who deliberately make women uncomfortable don’t exist. there are people all over the world who enjoy making people deliberately uncomfortable, and those people are creeps 99% of the time. when folks say “x person doesn’t exist” i have to wonder just how often you go out and socialize. intention doesn’t matter when the result is the same. the person feels creeped out, therefore you are creepy. sorry you don’t like it, but this is just what’s logically consistent. y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:32 PM
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it is selfish and entitled, very; but that’s human nature for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:30 PM
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everyone gives free passes to attractive people for being attractive, this is not news. it’s called the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:25 PM
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because it’s entertaining, like any other form of social media. the funny part is women like talking about relationships, sex, and gender dynamics regardless of their relationship status and ability to attract decent mates. men, however, only seem to wanna talk about these things when they have an issue with it. so you’re assuming everyone is on here for that reason, but it’s not true for everyone (i’d even say it’s especially untrue for the women, cuz it seems like most of us are paired up alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:23 PM
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no, it’s pasta.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:20 PM
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then men who make women deliberately uncomfortable aren’t creeps? like you’re just not making logical sense. whether it’s intentional or not, it’s creepy; therefore, they’re all creeps for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:09 PM
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and i think you might need some more experience if you think that is what determines whether or not someone’s a good cook 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:08 PM
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yeah, but the closure usually happened as the break up was happening; not after the fact. i think a lot of people seem to believe closure just means emotional dumping on your ex for one last time lol (or fucking them for one last time!)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:03 PM
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lmao why do men act like cooking is so hard y’all want a cookie for the most simple shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:01 PM
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so essentially the women in your life are made to deal with the worst parts of you. and y’all wonder why y’all struggle with women or keeping any good ones around? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:00 PM
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that’s not saying everything a man does is deliberately to make women uncomfortable. it literally says creepy men deliberately make women uncomfortable. i’m not sure how you came to any other conclusion because this is a very clear and direct statement that’s not at all complicated to understand. reading comprehension is 🔑 unless you think all men are creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:56 PM
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at no point did i state “hard work overcomes all.” i said: people have autonomy and the only real thing that stops them from doing a lot of the things they wanna do is themselves. if you got anything else from my comment, that’s your problem. if i didn’t say it, then that’s not what i’m saying. you’re obviously not gonna be able to do everything you want, but i didn’t think i had to state the obvious. we’re also not talking about big, unrealistic dreams; or at least i’m not. i’m talking about pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:12 PM
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you don’t have to be 6’ and 200lbs to work on something you’re passionate about and make more money unless the career you aspire to is something physical that would require this (and the overwhelming majority don’t, so there are plenty of others to choose from). i don’t need to be smoking something to point out that people have autonomy and the only real thing that stops them from doing a lot of the things they wanna do is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:53 PM
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where did anyone say this…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:45 PM
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no offense to you, but i hate that almost every q4w is one that doesn’t even need to be asked because the answer is extremely obvious. what makes a man successful is whether or not he succeeds in whatever he wants to do. i’d think this is just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:43 PM
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then why don’t they go do that instead of complaining they don’t get to do what they want when nothing and nobody tangible is stopping them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:40 PM
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LOL i always know people who say shit like this don’t actually know many, if any, actually traditional people or relationships. westerners have a ridiculously narrow view of what a traditional person/relationship is, and i say that as an american. plenty of traditional women i know do not fit even half of the things you put under that title, whether they’re american-born or foreign women (the foreign women are actually tougher and stricter with their expectations ime). plenty of liberal women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:34 PM
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it has less to do with having a mental illness and more to do with if/how you choose to manage it, and whether or not it’s significantly affecting the people around you. the funny part is, the people i’ve seen and heard say mental illness is a dealbreaker mostly seem to have mental illnesses themselves; they just don’t know, ignore it, or somehow delude themselves into believing they don’t have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:27 PM
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no i think that assuming a woman having a child or wanting to means she has no bodily autonomy is bizarre. so is the notion that the majority of women having children in the western world to say are doing so because of pressure from men or society. like i have never seen anyone say anything like this, and that’s bad because there’s a lot of weirdo shit i’ve seen people say on the internet. never this tho lmao i’m mean this from a place of concern: this entire post and everything you’re saying is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:22 PM
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i think you should seek therapy because this is a very extreme and bizarre perspective that makes me question your mental state. i mean this in the most respectful way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:18 AM
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it doesn’t matter if it lasted or not when it pertains to dating lol it also doesn’t matter because my point still stands. clearly i don’t value physical attraction over all else. just accept that you’re wrong about me and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:16 AM
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i’m not lying just because you can’t fathom the idea of a person not prioritizing looks over all else, or not choosing partners primarily based on looks. i have literally dated men i wasn’t even physically attracted to at first because i valued our connection over everything else, this is literally how my last relationship began lmao. clearly what you’re saying is bs because my actions align with my views, i’m not a liar because YOU continue to assume and project otherwise. like just accept that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:32 AM
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how is my personal wish to be a mother “patriarchal brainwashing?” i personally don’t have an issue with patriarchy. i thought it was clear that i’m not into this feminist shit from my comment lmao again, it’s very bizarre that you can’t fathom the idea of a woman who just wants to be a mother. nothing more. not because of a man, but simply because she wants to be a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:27 AM
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Why do you want marriage and children? i want children because i want to be a mother. marriage is just a prerequisite. What can a man give you that you can’t get for yourself? Is it children? duh. i also can’t be a father to my own children, which is kinda the point lmao I thought you believed that men who want children are selfish because they don’t think about what women’s bodies go through during pregnancy and birth. this is oddly specific and entirely irrelevant. might wanna edit this out be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:37 PM
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sure, but they’re still like that and it’s still kinda fucked up. i don’t see why men have so much trouble with caring enough to listen, while simultaneously being understanding about giving people time to process their emotions before giving solutions. i do it just fine. for people who are supposedly the logical gender, y’all sure do struggle with seemingly simple shit 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:23 PM
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the point is that saying it’s important doesn’t mean it’s the most important thing. if you can’t grasp or fathom that, then i can’t help you. i have every right to disagree with your statement lmao. it’s not about me wanting to argue for the sake arguing (even if it’s fun), i just don’t agree with you. and i really don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:19 PM
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i’m sure some of them are and some of them aren’t. i’m neither a feminist or an anti-feminist. i just don’t give a fuck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:14 PM
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these aren’t the same groups of women dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:25 PM
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Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts? yes. What would you even consider to be a high n-count? 15 partners at age 30? 30? 50? 100? I want to hear your definitions and boundaries. idk cuz i’m young and wouldn’t date anyone more than 5 years older than me. where i’m at now, i’d say more than 15 is probably where i’d draw the line on that. How do you/would you feel when discovering that your male partner has a high n-count? Is there jealousy? Disgust? Insecurity? Do you feel th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:23 PM
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eye contact, held for 3 or more seconds. looking at the guy several times. smiling at him. winking at him. trying to get closer to him. finding literally any excuse to talk to him. talking to him more than anyone else or any other men around. compulsive giggling. the men who detected it would just approach eventually, the majority didn’t need me to do more than smile or wink tho. the ones who didn’t realize just kept doing whatever they were doing lol idk what’s the most obvious they missed beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:42 PM
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i love how you said that’s not how men are, and then proceeded to say that’s exactly how you are 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:00 AM
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just because they let it out for a moment doesn’t mean the emotion has completely passed. it just means you’ve gotten out the worst of it. they get upset because they’re still emotional, and being given solutions in the moment makes them feel like they’re being bombarded with all the things they should be doing next when they haven’t had enough time to process everything beforehand. i mean i get it cuz i’ve often been the person giving the advice, but i’ve also been the person venting; who just …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:55 PM
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I do actually know a guy IRL who had been dumped because he cried at a funeral, I don't know the full story since obviously, I'm not him and I don't know him well enough and not close enough to call him a mate. this is very extreme. i don’t think even most women would dump someone for crying at a place where you’re literally meant to cry. but if they do, then they’re just dumb 🤷🏾‍♀️ Some women genuinely do dump their men from crying because of that reason alone, just for showing weakness and vul…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:33 PM
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idk who you think you are, but the argument was over once you had no rebuttal. there’s really nothing to apologize for lmao, it’s not like you’re the president. if you don’t enjoy debating with me, there’s this really simple solution called not replying to my comments. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:11 PM
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the “y’all” was towards men, collectively; not you, personally. that being said, yeah i’ve heard of this; but only online tbh. i’ve never actually seen that play out irl. just like height and plenty of other weird stuff people fixate on that’s mainly amplified online. there’s also the phenomenon of men saying this, but then you find out he is seriously mentally ill and was crying, lashing out, and/or emotional dumping onto her; whether it happened once or consistently. i imagine the guy i dated …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:08 PM
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it’s really sad that this is what you have to resort to because you have no real argument or rebuttal to my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:03 PM
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i’ve seen him cry countless times and i will continue to see him cry plenty more, because he is a human being with emotions? i handled the situation by being emotionally supportive? i mean what kind of answer were you expecting? not to be rude, but why do y’all stay asking this dumbass question? just stop dating women who see you as robots and you wouldn’t have to ask. that would require you choose partners more based on character than what she looks like, and idk how many of y’all are actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:29 PM
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men say this shit all the time lmao, submissive or not. younger ones especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:15 PM
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the best scenario is for you all to remain single and sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:14 PM
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i didn’t know you were my iphone and you could determine when what i write is a typo and if i just can’t write . you can reference my comment history if it means that much to you to prove that i don’t know the difference between there, their, and they’re. you would be wrong, tho. anyways. here’s the edit you missed: turns out the divorce rate is significantly lower, actually. 15%. its probably because people marry less and less as culture progresses. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-us-divorce-rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:42 PM
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If writing for you is so easy then why don't you understand the difference between "there" and "they're?" i do. it’s called a typo. If you want to be snarky then I can play that game, too. go right ahead, babes. No, you can't buy a woman. Not in the western world anyway. So, at best you're renting her. Sounds like prostitution to me. You even said "you're paying to do shit with them." I think this is the first time I've seen a woman straight up say that they are essentially prostitutes. it’s not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:34 PM
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it doesn’t. you’re just neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:38 PM
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i’m on mobile too. writing isn’t that difficult. whether it’s that they’re undesirable or less desirable doesn’t matter, the point remains. also, i said most women are married. not that they’re getting married, just that there married. which is true, most adults in the us are married. also, you can’t own women, so you’re not really buying them. you’re paying to do shit with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:38 PM
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Have I ever said that relationships and marriages don't still occur? way to miss the point. the point was that even if you think women aren’t valuable, there are more than enough men who do. Why are you so angry? not sure what in my comment gave you the impression i was angry, maybe that’s projection? you didn’t say anything worth being upset over lol Are you saying that behavior increases women's value? at no point did i say anything about that? like you came up with that whole scenario lmao, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:32 PM
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and yet, we’re still out here getting dates, boyfriends, husbands, and all that. must not have lost as much value as you think. this is really just a you thing lol relationships still exist. hard to fathom when you’re bitter and alone, i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:14 PM
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radfems are not at all liberal in comparison to actual liberal feminists. people who believe trans women aren’t actual women and are entirely against the idea of referring to them as actual women are the antithesis of what it means to be liberal in america today lmao my dude, there are different kinds of feminism. some of them are conservative and some of them are liberal. not all feminists are the same or believe in the same things. this is not a hard concept to grasp. and a lot of the women he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:12 PM
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Hookup culture has greatly diminished the value of women. …to weirdo reddit dudes that nobody wants anyways lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:01 PM
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i would appreciate him very much, so long as he’s still affectionate. i think it would make me more attracted to him in general, which helps the sexual attraction as an aftereffect. it wouldn’t really make me any more or less aroused though, i don’t see why it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:48 PM
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wanting a man you’re attracted to /= looks are the most important thing like dude. it’s not that hard to not be ugly, just don’t be fat, do something with your hair if you’ve got some, and wear clothes that fit you. unless you have a facial feature that’s really extreme and distracting, you’re not really ugly. you just can’t style yourself well. nobody said looks weren’t important at all, just that they’re not the most important thing to everyone. some people place more importance on other thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:01 PM
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if they’re looking for significantly younger women, then yes they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:45 PM
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sure, but that has fuck all to do with my comment. i said looks isn’t the most important thing for every woman. if you interpreted anything else from my comment, that’s your issue. not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:43 PM
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it’s not at all important to me, it’s nowhere near my list of “top 5 traits he must have.” i never once thought about height while i was dating. i feel you about the guy being too tall. i have a preference for men shorter than 5’9, but i’d be willing to date a guy who was a bit taller. above 6’ is where i draw the line too. for me, ideal is between 5’4-5’7. i don’t mind a couple inches shorter, but approaching 5’ and below is dwarf territory for a man and i don’t think i could do that 😭 if i’m t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:40 PM
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some men will call any negative thing a woman does “masculine” lmao, they seem to think this is like one of the worst insults you can give a woman or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:24 PM
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no, i just didn’t typically date complete strangers. and i’ve never once said “let me go talk to him” about any man, whether i found him attractive or not lmao. men approach me, not the other way around. usually you’d know these things about a man if you knew him beforehand. people who don’t just date based on looks only and actually have intentions to do more than just waste time care to do their research beforehand. in the event that i did date a stranger, i did not go out with him until i lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:17 PM
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actually, for a lot of us, physical attraction comes after things like personality/emotional compatibility and financial stability. two things that determine whether or not you could live with someone or marry someone. looks are important, just not as important as the actual practical shit that determines whether or not we can actually be together long-term with a guy. and if you would rather be with the kind of woman who chooses the more physically attractive guy over the guy who she clicks bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:19 AM
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👎🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:35 PM
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You think modern women are sexualized so much by guys on Tinder and in the media that they immediately view things through a more sexual lens ? yes. Like did we inadvertently discover the best question to ask dates to find out the the ones who had sex on their minds more..for better or worse? not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:35 PM
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no, i’m asking if you would specifically say that exact statement to them. even better, say you’re in that exact scenario and your mother is the server. would you still say it to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:58 PM
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would you say that to your male friend? would you say it to your mom? please answer both questions. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:55 PM
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👎🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:42 PM
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your knowledge is severely lacking if san andreas is your main point of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:50 PM
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he’s probably older than that. a lot of them lie and say they’re younger than they are so you can’t filter them out. smh. old men need to realize nobody wants them unless they have money to spend and leave folks alone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:45 PM
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i have dated several lossless virgins and anyone adjacent. no they are not all ugly. many of them are decently attractive, they just have some other issue(s) that makes them bad relationship partners. unfortunately, a lot of it is the result of having no experience; other times, the “no experience” thing is a symptom of a bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:17 PM
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been there, done that. not worth it. a guy with experience is better. sorry to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:13 PM
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that’s wrong too? wtf? so because women do bad shit, that means it’s okay when men do bad shit? like what kind of dumbass logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:12 PM
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do you know what a debate is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:57 PM
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the post is in reference to divorce and marriages, not just pregnancy. marriage is relevant to the discussion. i interpreted that as him saying women have the final say in everything, not just pregnancy. he didn’t dispute that. if there’s an issue past that, it’s yours. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:56 PM
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yeah but even so, you still wouldn’t resort to taking advantage of someone to this extent just for sex. if it weren’t for societal and social discouragement, most men would probably already be doing that. shit, i’d say at least half have done it or still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:53 PM
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okay, and that has what to do with the argument exactly? this proves your point… how? your deflections aren’t gonna work, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:52 PM
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it is not, sweaty. “to have and to hold” doesn’t at all reference sex lmao just because you’re obsessed with making marriage and relationships all about sex doesn’t mean you can just completely re-define what marriage and marriage vows mean. https://preengaged.com/examining-the-wedding-vows-to-have-and-to-hold-from-this-day-forward/ Saying that you will have and hold someone is a commitment of love, gentleness, tenderness, and giving – not taking, grabbing, or demanding. To demand sexual perform…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:47 PM
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of course not. men are only as respectful as you require them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:38 PM
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both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:37 PM
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“to have and to hold” is not in reference to sex, fucking hell man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:37 PM
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i’m sure you do plenty of other illegal shit and don’t bat an eyelash at it. just go get a girl who will let you pay her for sex and leave innocent people alone. who the hell is gonna catch you? nobody gives enough of a fuck and they barely have an intact police force anywhere in the US right now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:34 PM
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because women aren’t thirsty for sex anywhere near the degree that men are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:33 PM
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are you gonna support your own argument with a quote or are you just gonna be lazy about it? again, nowhere in the bible does it say not having sex with your man whenever he wants is grounds for divorce. if you can prove my statement wrong, be my guest. i have no issue admitting when i am wrong. usually, christian married couples are encourage to have designated time for sex once or twice a week. if she’s doing that, then she’s already holding up her end of the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:32 PM
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i didn’t know that a man impregnating a woman and the woman choosing whether or not to have the child meant that they were automatically forced into marriage. this must be a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:29 PM
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that doesn’t make any sense or fall in line with biblical teachings lmao that was never part of the contract. if anything, women were specifically taught to be sexually frigid to keep them from sleeping around. sexual frigidity is not sexual deviancy, in fact it’s the complete opposite. i mean, history? do you know it, dude? yes they’re supposed to have sex with their husbands, not sure what that had to do with my comment tho? i didn’t really say anything about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:26 PM
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it’s less that women want you to be disagreeable and more that they would rather not have to make the decision themselves, and others really do just prefer to have a man who will call the shots. a lot of women won’t admit it, but they still want a man who will lead and they still want trad relationship dynamics. i get it, i prefer that too. it falls in line with traditional masculinity. it’s not so much about self-importance or seeing men who don’t do that as weak (it’s not when your passivity i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:25 PM
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all that “to have and to hold” and matrimony shit comes from the bible. the idea of marriage itself comes from religion. so if you’re gonna talk about what’s in the marriage contract, it’s related to the bible. it literally comes from biblical teachings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:15 PM
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no, but women can leave their husbands who cheat now much easier than they could decades ago. that makes a huge difference, because now men are expected to actually be decent husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:14 PM
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cheating makes all that null and void. even the bible says cheating is grounds for divorce, it counts as “sexual immorality.” Matthew 19:9 (ESV) “And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” this isn’t even the only reason that biblically justifies divorce, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:13 PM
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he is using the typical manospherian definition of value. it usually only relates to smv, i.e how attractive or desirable one is to many people (mostly physical). men and women tend to define “hvm” differently. women include rmv, men don’t because they don’t care for much more than looks anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:08 PM
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ah yes, women are literally forcing men into marriages. what has the world come to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:04 PM
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yeah i’m the same way. plus, sometimes it’s within your best interest to avoid unnecessary conflict, depending on the situation. it also takes a lot of energy that i don’t feel like wasting just to argue with someone. so it’s less about other people and more about self-preservation. presenting as agreeable can help you make connections, because people will see you as easy and pleasant to be around since you’re not unnecessarily combative. it can be helpful, if used correctly, in your social life…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:00 PM
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Do you think that women who want to be homemakers have been let down by feminism? i don’t think i’ve been let down by feminism. i think the modern-day version of it doesn’t serve me and how i, personally, want to experience womanhood. How has this affected dating for you? i think it made it easier to weed out guys who just want sex, because today’s feminism is all about sex positivity; so a lot of guys are upfront about just wanting sex because enough women oblige. although it was unfortunate wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:25 PM
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huh? the guy literally said rape was justifiable before i even replied to his comment. you’re trying really hard to make it seem like i’m being dishonest, and i haven’t been at any point in this exchange or the other one. you’re projecting your assumption of my motive onto me, and i don’t appreciate that because it’s untrue. just say you don’t want to accept that there are nasty men in the world, and on this sub, and go. btw, i could find more comments like that one for you if you’d like. there …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:59 PM
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i just told you we’re not equal lmao there’s no reason for any woman to be offended by that because there are plenty of other men who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:48 PM
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nope, visa and mastercard only
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:46 PM
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then go get cheap sex and don’t date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:42 PM
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no, we’re not equal. now pay up, sucker 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:35 PM
1

interesting..?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:32 PM
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lmao it’s not that hard to wear clothes that don’t clash, fit you, and are appropriate for whatever event you’re attending. this isn’t rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:31 PM
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we’re noticing different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:30 PM
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here you go. this is what i mean by “rapey sounding shit,” for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:29 PM
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just say you don’t know the definition of the word “asshole” and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:27 PM
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i also love how i literally said men on ppd will deny that men say this fucked up shit, and you’re quite literally proving what i said to be true. you can’t make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:21 PM
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I have off the top of my head never seen even the most psychotic unhinged man publicly say this. were your exact words. i believed you were talking about admitting this publicly irl, so ig i misunderstood you. regardless, an anonymous poster on reddit isn’t publicly announcing anything imo; because you can’t attach their opinions to a name or a face. they’re still hiding behind anonymity. if they weren’t, they wouldn’t be admitting these things. if you mean you’ve yet to see it on ppd, just spen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:21 PM
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you’re not alone in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:35 PM
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Your discussion ignored that sub type of asshole. yeah, because i obviously wasn’t talking about “that kind of asshole.” what you’re describing is a bully, which also fits the description of an asshole; but isn’t at all what i was talking about, nor does it have anything to do with my point. “asshole” and “bully” are two different words with two different definitions. a person can be both at once, absolutely; but being an asshole doesn’t equate to being a bully. they’re different words for a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:34 PM
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what man is going to publicly announce that he believes rape is okay? and at what point did i say this was common? maybe you need to read my comment over again to see what i actually said. again, i was referring to a specific comment section under a post that was made here yesterday. not any of the other shit you’re talking about. stay on topic or go make your own comment to whine about women’s sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:29 PM
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i’m referring to the godforsaken comment section where several men basically said some variation of “rape is okay,” which certainly wouldn’t be the first time i’ve seen that rhetoric spewed by deranged men here. manospherians will tell you you’re lying or that never happened when you tell them you’ve heard and witnessed men say things like this (many of them already did so in the same thread). even if you show proof, they’ll find some way to excuse it or downplay it. shit, some will even continu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:59 AM
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sure, but being an asshole doesn’t automatically make one a bully. the discussion was about assholes, not bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:50 AM
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every woman has a different style they prefer. i don’t care about a dude’s style, i care if he looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:48 AM
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i graduated from high school just a few years ago. i think i have a good idea of what teenage boys are like lmao it is not a minority of them who are like that. not by a long-shot. being an asshole doesn’t necessarily mean being loud, it means you tend to say and do things that offend people. the thing is, people call plenty of things asshole-ish that aren’t even asshole-ish, so the word has lost some of its credibility; because the guy could be polite, just confident (even cocky), and people wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:37 AM
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being an asshole doesn’t mean being a bad boy. bad boys are stereotypically characterized as violent men who exhibit risky behavior, rebel against authority figures, tend to have legal issues, are manwhorish, and have a string of toxic relationships. essentially, it is a trope. you have to have multiple of those characteristics to fit, not just one. a guy can be a stand up citizen on paper, and still be an asshole. that doesn’t make him a “bad boy.” it makes him an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:35 AM
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i love how ppd men will fight so hard to deny that men say fucked up shit, then read a man say that exact fucked up shit just a few scrolls down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:19 AM
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just wear shit that makes you look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:17 AM
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can’t relate. sounds like you have an interesting picker, though, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:58 AM
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those users of those subs often also frequent subs related to abusive relationships, so i wouldn’t use them as an accurate representation of women’s relationships on a collective scale. especially considering people in happy relationships have no reason to post on a sub like that. the sub is moreso about looking for advice than it is about gushing over your s/o. people who think of social media as an accurate representation of reality clearly have zero understanding of how social media and algor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:54 AM
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wow, it’s almost like women actually do have some variance in what makes them attracted to a man. who would’ve thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:48 AM
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he didn’t say anything that indicated he was a “bad boy.” his description of himself sounds like it fits the overwhelming majority of all existing teenage boys. arrogant and obnoxious /= “bad boy.” that’s like most teenage boys until life or an individual humbles them. ppd men are just so fragile that any man who’s not a people pleaser is a “bad boy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:44 AM
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you all because you want them to fuck you. why else would you be in your feelings about women not wanting to fuck y’all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:38 AM
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yeah she needs help. definitely not the several men in the comments advocating for the rape and mistreatment of women solely because they don’t wanna fuck men they’re not attracted to. these comments are exactly why women find y’all disgusting, and rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:30 AM
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the guy literally said his friend was a rapist in the same thread???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:13 PM
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In your opinion what is the perfect male height? i like short guys, preferably somewhere in the 5’4-5’7 range. i prefer a slim/skinny body type and i think it looks better and more proportionate on a shorter man. Can a man be too tall? yes a man can be too tall. after briefly dating a couple guys who were 5’10+, i decided i didn’t like it. the height difference is just too drastic and it makes things awkward. When is a man too short for you? a man who’s too short for me would have to be a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:55 PM
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it’s basically like saying you’re “stiff competition.” you have a positive quality (or multiple) that overwhelms people. the best way i can describe it is through black slang lol idk if the girls still do this but for a while they’d say “pressure” to other girls or comment that under their social media posts. to say “pressure” is to say she’s applying pressure, as in she’s pushing you and/or others to get on her level. you said it was meant positively so i would assume your friend meant it this …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:26 PM
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well i certainly was not expecting such a civil response, (nothing personal, just that a lot of ppd dudes are super hostile for no reason). i am pleasantly surprised! I thought u meant that men & women find confidence equally as important & attractive because it’s definitely more important & attractive to women. no, definitely not. men are usually more apt to forgive or overlook flaws, especially personality flaws, as long as said flaws are tolerable to them. I bet I’m the first person on Reddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:51 PM
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Dudes will date an insecure girl just as fast as they’ll date a confident girl as long as she’s pretty and doesn’t have relationship harmful personality traits because all men want is beauty & peace. okay? this doesn’t really negate what i said lol, i didn’t say anything about who is willing to date who. insecure men date too, plenty of these manospherian dudes who are obviously insecure af have had dating experiences. not really sure what you were trying to do with this point. A girl will NEVER…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:36 PM
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lol no? there is actually some variance in what women are attracted to. like what even is an “athletic” body to you? please do tell, because i guarantee i will not like it lol. men like to see other men with big muscles, i don’t find that attractive; or a tall stature either. not everyone is into the stereotypical jock look.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:29 PM
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this trait is universally attractive to everyone lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:23 PM
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i would just think she’s kinda weird lmao (because the man is still straight; race and gender aren’t really comparable to me), but it’s whatever because a lot of white people already think like that anyways. it’s not a rational opinion, but it’s still valid. the dating world is inherently discriminatory. it always has been and it always will be. it is the one area where discrimination is totally legal and okay, because we’re just not gonna find everyone attractive (whether the reasons are ration…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:15 PM
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it’s not so much disgust, because they don’t disgust me; it’s just a turn off. these are def ideas i’ve learned from external influence (idk if i’d agree that it’s biological, in this context), but i can’t exactly change what i’m attracted to. i think acknowledging it, at least, is good though. in terms of trans men, the only thing that turns me off from them is that they do not have functioning penises; and even if they could, the technology to make a surgerized penis at least 5 or 6 inches doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:00 PM
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no because women aren’t held to traditional gender roles to the degree that men are on a societal scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:40 PM
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like someone else said, it gives me the ick. to be completely honest with you, knowing my man fucks other men would emasculate him in my mind to some degree; and i think the “ick” is a result of that. it doesn’t fit the standard of a traditionally masculine man, so it kind of messes with the fantasy of one; and that’s an issue for women who prefer trad relationship dynamics. i recognize that this is probably an unpopular and very conservative opinion; but i think a lot of women (and even some ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:38 PM
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i would think he probably doesn’t care about me that much if he has absolutely no reaction to it. if that’s not the case, then i would think he’s just weird (and not in a good way, no offense lol). it wouldn’t hurt, but it would bother me a bit. no jealousy at all is weird to me. i would be less concerned about the jealousy and more concerned with him not having any reaction to it. yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:55 PM
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in the smp/rmp, looks is absolutely more important because it’s what first attracts people to you. the more attractive you are, the more options you have, and the more valuable those options become. i believe men are visual and they mainly choose to marry beautiful women, so beauty is possibly a woman’s most most valuable commodity in the dating world. it’s unfortunate that a woman’s worth is often tied to her beauty, but that’s just reality. in terms of ltr’s, though, personality is more import…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:51 PM
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the people who will say yes are the same people who die younger than their counterparts. we can see why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:45 PM
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what idiot thinks he’s gonna find traditional/conservative women on online dating apps like tinder or bumble??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:44 PM
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what are you expecting? tinder is full of fucking weirdos, the women included lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:44 AM
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they were nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:39 AM
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all the options are too tall. nowhere near my minimum lol shortest dude i dated was about the same height as me when i wore heels, so like 5’2ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:37 AM
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5’5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:36 AM
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yes, only when the guy was obnoxious or cocky though. for example: dudes who would just grab at me without my permission, dudes who would approach me with the assumption that i already found them attractive, dudes with obvious superiority complexes, dudes who i caught in lies almost (or sometimes) immediately after meeting them, and dudes who wouldn’t take several “no’s” for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:33 AM
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i would reject them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:19 AM
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do you see friends holding hands, kissing, telling each other “i’m in love with you,” sleeping in the same bed, cuddling, and establishing monogamy together?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:53 PM
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you don’t do romantic have romantic relationships with a friend, otherwise they would not be called “friends.” if your relationship is romantic, then it is more than a friendship. you don’t expect your friends to be affectionate with you, romantic with you, to meet your family, to be monogamous with you, etc. now why would a woman sign up to basically have a boyfriend she can’t refer to as a boyfriend? what sense does that make? (*hint: the answer is “none.”) i mean really dude, how old are you …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:49 PM
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okay. fuck you, i don't want to be in the weaker position, i want you to be in the weaker position.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:50 PM
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lol i’m gonna have to use that one 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:15 PM
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oh sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:13 PM
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the same thing can, and does, happen with guys on your level of attractiveness or lower. y’all act like average or below dudes can’t use women as placeholders too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:11 PM
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yeah i do think if the guy doesn’t take the initiative, then he most likely won’t be all that into you. men themselves say this too, just not the weirdos on this sector of reddit lol. many of the men i know have said they do not like when women pursue them and they do find it to be a turn off, or they don’t take those women seriously. i’ve seen even some of the most passive dudes find some sort of courage to go after a girl when he liked her enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:09 PM
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LMAO not whitney 😂😂😂 you say the funniest shit bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:02 PM
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he still pursued you, even if you approached first. it’s different if you are the one pursuing him, even after the initial approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:58 PM
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that must be a recent thing because before, there were way more q4m than q4w posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:21 PM
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yeah, i wouldn’t call that true love either. it sounds like perpetual infatuation. people confuse infatuation for love all the time tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:13 PM
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oh we don’t take the hoteps seriously either lmfaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:05 PM
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i honestly couldn’t give a fuck if i tried. wouldn’t be the first time i’ve heard about shit like that happening at umass. it’s just not news to me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:05 PM
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if racism exists, then yes white privilege exists. the privilege is that they don’t have to experience racism (or at least, not to the degree a poc would). the privilege is that they’re not being (tangibly) discriminated against because they’re white. obviously, this mainly applies to western countries that are diverse to some degree, but still majority white. to me, it’s kinda like how you can’t believe in a christian God without believing in satan. if you believe in one, then you believe in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:50 PM
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having it just for a weekend is a bit different. you’d probably explain that if someone asked. that was not the case for the guy in my anecdote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:40 PM
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it’s been true ime. the dynamic i had with guys i pursued was very different from the dynamic i had with guys who pursued me. the latter was actually enthusiastic and intentional about dating me, the former was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:37 PM
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actually, the divorce stats are *skewed by folks who’ve had multiple marriages (the more marriages you have, the higher the chance of divorce). around 30% of first marriages end in divorce, so most end up staying together. also, who files says nothing about who ended the relationship. it literally just means the woman is the one who did the paperwork and sent it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:18 PM
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yes, it is something i genuinely want for myself. How come women don’t just catch a man and then see where it goes? i want to be married and have children. why would i waste my time “seeing where things go” when we all know that means it’s never going to go anywhere 99% of the time? does that make logical sense to you? so i’m supposed to waste my best years “seeing where things go” with a man who will most likely never marry me, and then end up struggling to find someone decent to settle and sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:01 PM
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a boyfriend. even better is a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:37 PM
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even worse is when they tell you they have one kid so you’re not suspicious about the other 3 he’s hiding from you, this happened to a friend of mine 😭 i even once met a guy who tried to get my number, and i saw a booster seat in the back of his car. i asked him if he had a kid and he said it was for his sister’s kid, as if that was believable 😂 he also lied about his age (and he wasn’t the first to do it either). men will hide very important details about them (cuz they know you’ll probably rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:40 PM
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not to mention, a lot of them lie about the kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:18 PM
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just go on instagram and look at celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:16 PM
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shhhhh, we don’t do the “logical thinking” thing here on ppd! you’re making too much sense 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:13 PM
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oh sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:09 PM
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actually there was a stat that showed that in causal relationships, the man typically is the one who wants to progress the relationship into an ltr and the woman typically wants the relationship to remain the same. not sure where i saw it, but maybe i can find it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:13 AM
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because being husband material means you’re respectable, competent, and pleasant enough to be considered marriageable. fwb material means you are absolutely useless to me because i’m not at all interested in that. my question is: why do the men in this sub think “husband” is synonymous with “not attractive?” why do you all assume that if a woman wants to get married, she doesn’t find the man she wants to marry attractive? i just find this idea to be bizarre because i don’t see it parroted anywhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:54 AM
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the part where you said: Yeah, that's such a fake first world problem it's ridiculous. yes. did you read my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:30 PM
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no it’s not true. about 30% of women earn more than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:38 PM
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i wouldn’t. i would just end my relationship. if i wanna cheat, that means i’m not feeling you like that anymore; so there’s really no point of continuing the relationship just to cheat on them. all that’s gonna get me is nothing but strife, guilt, and preventable drama. no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:43 PM
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i think if a woman likes that arrangement, then all the power to her. i know a lot of women don’t like that arrangement though, some who fear it, some who’s husbands reluctantly married them, and some who have ended their relationships because of it. i know only one woman who is genuinely satisfied with that arrangement. Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? because they tolerate it. What would you recommend to women in that position? to leave and go find someone who actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:41 PM
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it’s not a fake first world problem lmao, the first-world countries obviously don’t work the same way other countries do so the culture is going to be different. duh. you have kids in poor countries so that you can use them to make more money. that’s not how it works in most first-world countries. in first-world countries, the cost of living itself is so expensive that adding the expense of a child to the mix is not an easy feat and often gives people a valid reason not to have children. you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:26 PM
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I am not satisfied with myself, doesn't that mean I am emotionally connected with myself? sort of. at least you can recognize your emotion and properly label it, and that’s great! the issue you’re having is now changing your mindset so that it’s not so fucking negative. and it still means that you’re not emotionally satisfied or stable. Am I supposed to be deluded about my dire life situation and resulting emotional state? you’re not starving, you’re not homeless, and your basic needs are met. y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:18 PM
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This says enough really. You don't care about emotional maturity, you care about winners, a winner personality. how did you get this conclusion from my statement? this is looking like a lot of projection coming from your end. wtf is a “winner personality?” there is no such thing. An average man that is treated like shit by women, is not going to have high self-esteem and feel confident around women. That's a trait earned by men born with privileges like being 6 foot tall and good-looking. They g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:13 PM
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yeah. all my exes and past dates fit the descriptions of what i want in a guy in some capacity, but only few were everything i wanted in a guy. i did end up with my ideal, so i can’t complain. i guess you could say i did put my money where my mouth is then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:57 PM
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you’re clearly not satisfied with yourself. that’s the point. you can’t offer someone emotional stability and emotional satisfaction when you don’t even know how to offer those things to yourself. call it gaslighting all you want (which tells me you clearly don’t know the meaning of that word either lmaoo), but until you deal with your personal issues you’re not going to be satisfied with anything you get. you’re looking for something to fill the void and you think women is the answer, and you’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:49 PM
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this sounds like a lot of what a man who doesn’t personally know many women (and doesn’t have more than just surface level discussions with them) would say. In the eyes of women: The best boyfriend is the best-looking boyfriend they can show off to others. sorry you only know shallow women 🤷🏾‍♀️ All of the things you mentioned are of secondary importance nope. long-term relationships don’t last off a man being good to show off. everything i mentioned is most important for longevity, that’s the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:46 PM
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you’re lying if you say men collectively value commitment more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:36 PM
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you’re a very bizarre individual. nowhere in my comment did i say anything about love? Gaslighting men into believing they have to love themself first, when they have never been shown even a hint of love from anyone in society, is psychopathic. you need professional help, sir. you also clearly don’t know what psychopathic means lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:25 PM
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just don’t bother women and don’t procreate because clearly you aren’t mature enough for a relationship in the first place. i spelled it all out for you and you’re still coming up with 101 excuses why you can’t be a half decent boyfriend. again, emotional incompetence makes for bad relationship material. and no these aren’t the same from platonic relationships, but you wouldn’t know that because you’ve never been in a stable ltr. it is not, nor will it ever be, the same. you do not have sex or r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:24 PM
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then maybe they should go for women who find them attractive? just being a good partner isn’t going to do much for you if the person you want isn’t physically attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:16 PM
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duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:15 PM
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been there, done that. wouldn’t recommend it 😆 you’re correct about the orgasm thing 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:14 PM
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east, and you’ll just have to see for yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:35 PM
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that is not at all balanced because it literally goes against the feminine imperative. that’s not balanced, that’s just giving men what they want and women not getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:30 PM
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90%+ single motherhood rates. sub-5% marriage rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:48 PM
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no there wouldn’t. it would just make even more men stop offering commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:46 PM
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i’m a northerner. and i say bizarre because it’s true, i am unusual in many ways. an outlier, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:38 PM
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yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:35 PM
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they accuse you of lying when you say this happens too 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:18 PM
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was there supposed to be a point to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:14 PM
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It’s not anyone’s responsibility to care, even other guys. Idk why people prop it up as a gotcha argument. Even admitting women have it easier today won’t prevent the same discussion coming up here tomorrow 📠
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:13 PM
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ah yes, the infamous old studies; where there are very few women to begin with. disgustingly ugly /= unattractive if men are physically unattractive, they can either make themselves more attractive physically or become more attractive in other ways to appeal to women; or they can stop going for women out of their league. i have a hard time believing it’s about ugliness because, like i always say, the ugliest man i have ever met is happily married. the difference between him and (supposed) ugly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:11 PM
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i live in the us and a lot of what these people say doesn’t match my reality either 😂 you’ll find that a lot of the people this place seems to attract are bizarre individuals, not excluding me lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:08 PM
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i know we’re not, but like i said, i’m not the one who turned a decent discussion into a “who has it worse” fest lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:06 PM
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wow, a man on ppd who hasn’t been radicalized. stay wholesome, young grasshopper!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:51 PM
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Most women don’t give a shit if some ugly guy puts in effort. and that’s why i said: high value to women is a man with high smv and high rmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:49 PM
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it would make you have low smv, yes. very few people are disgustingly ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:45 PM
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just say you have no argument and go babes. 💋
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:45 PM
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If we’re going by what women actually value, physically unattractive men, meek men and poor men are low value. these adjectives are not synonyms for “men who put in effort.” women don’t define high value as men who have high smv. high value to women is a man with high smv and high rmv. it is men who define a hvm by his smv alone. you cannot be low-effort/low-investment and simultaneously have high rmv. therefore: men who don’t put in effort are the definition of low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:44 PM
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i’m sure the woman in your life will appreciate it 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:42 PM
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And then you also said I'm biased. Like no duh, Sherlock, so are you. okay, and? i’m not here pushing a “my gender has it harder” agenda babes, that’s you. i at least try not to be biased. Introspection, bruv, try it some time. funny, because i could easily say this to you as well. I repeatedly said dudes need to get over it. But you want to reject that its a reality altogether (thats fantasy), and pretend its just dudes whining. i’m not sure what you read or how you came to this conclusion. i s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:41 PM
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you realize that you don’t only face rejection in dating, right? and even so, women often face rejection when it comes to commitment. so to act as if women don’t experience rejection because this is a touchy subject for you, you’re particularly biased towards men, and you feel the need to play the oppression olympics with women is just silly. whether it happens to men more doesn’t matter, what matters is if they’re allowing it to literally make or break them. and this is coming from someone who …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:13 PM
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you’re much too kind!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:09 PM
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men who don’t put in effort are the definition of low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:09 PM
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women also experience rejection, and some experience social anxiety too. rejection is just part of life. you (general you) will face rejection in pretty much all aspects of your life, that’s normal. not sure why so many young men today are so fragile they completely lose the ability to socially function (or, more specifically, can’t socially function around women) because people rejected them. it’s just a very weak mentality, and i don’t think most people these days find that attractive regardle…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:02 PM
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then dude is just gonna have to enjoy his life of loneliness and trying to fill the void with women he pays to like him i guess 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:41 PM
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he’s kinda right though, he isn’t offering enough. he is not offering emotional connection/satisfaction, and that’s because he can’t offer that to himself. being pleasant to be around would certainly help him with getting a woman, but he’s gonna have to fix his emotional instability if he wants to keep a decent one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:38 PM
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it means he’s stopped going out of his way to make her feel important to him, he has stopped meeting her relational needs, and/or he hasn’t met needs she has been continually asking him to meet. ex: she wants to go on a vacation and has been saying so for at least 3 years. in all those years, her husband hasn’t gone on a vacation with her and has done nothing to work towards it. ex: they would go on dates weekly when they first got married, but now he doesn’t take her on a date unless she practi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:28 PM
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mutual feelings of love, trust, companionship, support, loyalty, and compatibility. someone you can always go to and depend on for anything, who shares your values. someone you know will genuinely love and care for any children created between you, with whom you have shared goals. someone who inspires you to be a better person, invests in you (not just money either), cares about your health and well-being (often times more than you do). someone who respects you, treats you well, defends you, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:43 PM
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no, i think it made it easier to weed out guys who didn’t want to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:22 PM
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um, no. a person who is useless in emergencies, even if the person in need had no relation to them, is not respectable. and even if i did have casual sex, i wouldn’t have done it with someone who clearly doesn’t care enough about me to even attempt to help me when they can obviously see i need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:21 PM
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a woman should act however the hell she wants. i think it’s preferable to be both and know which situations call for more feminine behaviors and which situations call for more masculine behaviors. it’s like code-switching, you use whichever language makes sense in the context of the situation. for example: i’m often told that my appearance and demeanor is “girly” and i have feminine hobbies; but i’m also told that i’m direct, opinionated, disagreeable, and solution-oriented. it’s true that i’m a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:43 PM
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figure out what kind of woman you want, then observe the kinds of men that kind of woman goes for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:37 PM
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1) those women aren’t securing commitment from these men, so that honestly doesn’t matter. the majority of billionaires are committed to women who are highly educated and/or have successful careers of their own. this is typically true of uc men. see: billionaire’s wives and girlfriends. 2) you probably don’t know many umc or uc men. if you say you do, you only know weird ones lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:22 PM
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you probably missed where i also got some shit for this comment, from a man in particular lol young western folk just don’t like anything relating to spirituality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:25 AM
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will do 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:03 PM
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LMAO sorry dude, i can find more wholesome rap for you if you want tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:54 PM
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i only recently got interested in country music, and i’m finding that a lot of it is very trashy. they talk openly about drugs, sex, booze, and being white trash on plenty of the songs. not sure how this is any different from rappers rapping about the same things, minus being white trash. instead, they rap about violence because that’s just what many of them saw and experienced growing up. if they were white trash, they’d rap about being white trash like eminem. people just love talking shit abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:53 PM
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https://youtu.be/PfhkERulnpA https://youtu.be/fOKtbJfNLFk https://youtu.be/7HX4SfnVlP4 https://youtu.be/trlIQcdi2QI https://youtu.be/5RHmXnubI0g i can find more for you if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:48 PM
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because you’re making it seem as if that one specific artist speaks for all of them when they don’t. there are plenty of others who do make trashy music, you’re just only bringing up the one who doesn’t (as if one example is even enough) and rationalizing why it’s not trashy when they do it, but it’s trashy when rappers do it. here, let me find you some trashy country music so i can watch you hamster on about how it’s not the same and not as trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:42 PM
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the pistol annies literally have a song called “takin pills.” plenty of their music describes taking drugs, some in detail. they’re not even the only country singers to do it too. come on dude. are you really gonna make me find more examples of this? because that dude isn’t the only country singer to exist lmao just admit you have an unfair bias against rap and go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:38 PM
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all you’re doing is confirming what i said: you’re just paying attention to mainstream rap, like everyone else who makes this same complaint. see my last comment about the trashy thing, because it’s obvious you just have an unfair bias against rap. i listen to literally kinds of music. all of them make trashy music. people only ever complain about hip hop and rap. it’s clear as day what that’s about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:36 PM
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and yet, i hear plenty of country singers, rock singers, and pop singers making music about sex, drugs, and booze. they make trashy music too. why aren’t you complaining about them? (hint: this is a rhetorical question. i already know the answer.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:31 PM
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i meant to respond to a different comment 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:25 PM
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good for you. i didn’t ask for your respect. you can keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:24 PM
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https://youtu.be/xQ3OStBQfwk like it wasn’t hard to find bro. https://youtu.be/fzzMOMkjm8A https://youtu.be/MPlb9HoOCxs here’s one by the rapper you decided was rapping about shit: https://youtu.be/JaitMPKJMyA and you act like rappers can’t be versatile and rap about sex/drugs/whatever and rap about important shit too. just say you’re looking for confirmation bias and go lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:23 PM
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no you’re ignorant because you’re assuming that all spiritual people believe in the same shit. like wtf does this have to do with crystals and whatever else you’re talking about? to y’all believe in God = believing in magic. it’s just silly and ignorant lol. like this is very childish. you’re an adult man going out of your way to make fun of believers as if they’re the ones deserving of shame, and in the process making yourself and nonbelievers look like assholes with a false sense of superiorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:17 PM
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what’s popular is mainstream rap. you looked at one person on that list and decided your conclusion was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:14 PM
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tell me you don’t know anything about spirituality without telling me you don’t you don’t know anything about spirituality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:13 PM
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no it really doesn’t. you’re just showing how ignorant you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:11 PM
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validation that you’re better than me because you have a different belief system. you can have it though. better you say it to me than someone who’d be hurt by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:11 PM
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these people are just making nonbelievers look ignorant and immature. not everyone here has entirely western ideas. not sure why people feel the need to look down on folks all the time, but whatever people have to do to make themselves feel better ig lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:10 PM
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because you don’t listen to enough rap lmao there are rappers that come from places outside of chicago, and plenty of rappers (including some from there) don’t make that kind of music. you, just like everyone else who makes this complaint about rap, aren’t checking for it. you’re just paying attention to what’s mainstream and assuming that’s the entirety of rap. as if there aren’t people like a cordae, a little simz, a chika, a noname, and that’s just among the young rappers. as if rappers like …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:07 PM
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this doesn’t even make sense lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:00 PM
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oh you’re still here? here more of that validation you’re looking for. satisfied now? did you get what you were looking for? feel better about yourself now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:00 PM
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oh here, let me give you more of that false sense of superiority you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:50 PM
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you don’t know how to clean up after yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:49 PM
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maybe you should listen to rap that’s not about fucking hoes and shooting people then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:47 PM
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to you. let people enjoy things. it’s not gonna kill you. what do you have to gain from this? a false sense of superiority? here, you can have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:41 PM
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bizarre, but i’ll take it. whatever makes you feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:29 AM
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eh it’s cool. a lot of people like to mock spiritual folks, and that’s fine. at the end of the day, i know i’m a whole person. i don’t feel the need to mock non-believers, because i really dgaf for one, and for two i have nothing to gain from it. their mocking is coming from a place of not understanding. i expect that kind of immaturity from them. folks need to learn to just let people enjoy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:27 AM
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The other one probably fears commitment and has AIDS. i hadn’t even thought of this, that’s true that they’d be likely to have aids because someone reckless enough to have 100+ ons is definitely not using condoms (at least, not consistently). dude probably has 1-4 sti’s; and we know how men hate to get tested cuz they’re nasty and love refusing to address their health issues, so he most likely doesn’t know he has them (or knows but refuses to get tested/admit it) and is spreading them all over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:14 PM
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if i have to choose: the second guy because the idea of being with a man who’s had more than 10 sex partners is disgusting to me. the virgin has higher value in general, simply because he’s not a hoe. i also believe in energy transference and soul ties. no thanks on a guy who’s got everybody and their mama’s energy all up in him, i don’t want that. a man who sleeps around like that has completely opposite values than i do concerning sex, so i’m not interested. realistically: i would choose neith…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:58 PM
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because your comment made no sense in relation to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:07 PM
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more like delusional lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:59 PM
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is english your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:59 PM
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i’m not sure where i said monogamy was natural. i don’t know who’s comments you’re reading, but they’re not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:52 PM
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what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:51 PM
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i found the manlet of my dreams too, just got lucky enough to find him young 😆 and you’re in your 30s aren’t you? that’s not really old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:50 PM
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wow, the cognitive dissonance here is hilarious. all 4 paragraphs tell me just how much you don’t care. again, it is illegal for taxpayer dollars to go towards unnecessary abortions, so this idea that you keep perpetuating is just factually incorrect; but i won’t deny you of your perceived reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:48 PM
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yes, a lot of these men underestimate the degree to which a woman can be seduced; even by a man she wouldn’t typically find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:06 PM
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just stop using old apps and that won’t be a problem. but then you’d have to actually approach women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:05 PM
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The have no game, they watch too much porn which messes up their thought process, and they spend too much time doing things in isolation (like playing games or watching stuff on your own). this is what creates radicalized men who hold unhealthy beliefs towards women. then they feel entitled to sex with women way out of their league, delivered to them on a plate as if tinder is door dash. then these radicalized men are somehow shocked that women do not find them attractive. yeah, because men like…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:02 PM
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have you ever considered that the majority of women that exist are not the ones commenting on these posts? or that most women aren’t going to randomly announce their height preferences unless they have a specific height preference? or that this is just what you choose to pay attention to online? have you ever gone outside and watched any and every kind of couple? i challenge you to go to the busiest place in your area on a friday or saturday, and tell me just how many couples you see where the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:55 PM
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manlet lover reporting for duty! 🙋🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:40 PM
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no, it’s because y’all project that onto all women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:39 PM
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same sis, but they just don’t want to accept that the problem isn’t their height or their looks. i had an ounce of sympathy for them when i was foolish enough to believe they’re struggling because they’re ugly… until i personally saw and spoke to self-identifying inc*ls. trust me when i say it’s not because they’re ugly or short, especailly because i’ve yet to see an ugly incl yet. now i’m certain they’re almost all mntalcels and volcls. 90% of the incls i’ve spoken to have notably moderate-seve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:36 PM
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them or a nonprofit organization like planned parenthood. nobody’s taxpayer dollars are going towards abortion because the feds made that illegal in 1976: the hyde amendment. the problem’s already been solved lmao, this is exactly why it makes zero sense why men care so much about policing whether or not women have abortions when they’re not the father of the fetus being aborted. even so, it’s her choice at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:56 PM
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it’s true, other zoomers call me a prude for not wanting to do sexual shit with other women. it’s… kinda weird to me. not lesbianism or bisexuality, but this push to encourage women to do it and to shame them if they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:39 PM
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yes, actually. thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:13 PM
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“i can’t understand this person’s point so i’m just gonna keep telling them what their own argument is instead of actually trying to understand their argument, on top of giving barely any effort to actually logically debate.” again, you go be blessed now. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:18 PM
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that’s not what my first paragraph states. you’re just coming up with conclusions that aren’t what i’m saying at all. i’m not even sure how you came to that conclusion in the first place lmao at this point, you’re just reading my comments and projecting your interpretation of them onto me. it has now become a one-sided argument. it’s just not on me to teach folks reading comprehension, so if you don’t get it you just don’t get it. you go be blessed now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:15 PM
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maybe you should reread. not sure how you came to your conclusion, but idc enough to explain further. you just don’t get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:10 PM
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just read a post on twoxchromosomes about a woman who was a former stripper and she’s upset that her husband went to a strip club, she feels it’s hypocritical. the comment section is just… a mess. there are decent replies, even gently letting her know that this is just what most folks’ understanding of monogamy is. it’s all just people downvoting and giving no logical explanation as to how it’s hypocritical, because they can’t. it’s clearly coming from an emotional, “everyone should accept sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:58 PM
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women have always prioritized commitment and stability. the times are just different now so they can explore sex a bit before settling down, like men have always had the freedom to do. just because they have sex doesn’t mean they don’t want commitment more? just like being in a relationship doesn’t mean you don’t want sex more. like these two things aren’t mutually exclusive lol also, most women don’t have a “hoe phase.” the overwhelming majority (at least in the us) have 10 or less sexual partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:57 PM
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because a guy comes eventually. if she wants the guy to come to her, she should be making herself seem as approachable as possible. that being said, if you mean she’s just sitting at home and expecting a good guy to come to her door and offer himself to her… bless her heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:54 PM
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yes, because i am an individual. i’m one woman, not all. also because feminism has fuck all to do with my comment. go ask a fucking feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 12:48 PM
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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 real shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:04 AM
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i don’t know, that’s their business lmao you don’t see me asking for empathy, so go bring that to someone who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:51 AM
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then why did this man ask me why i expect men to empathize with female specific issues? i asked a very simple question, and i think we all know the obvious answer is “no.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:48 AM
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oh how sweet! i remember you snoo, it’s good to see a familiar user. recently had to rebrand to ethnic stacy. it was just time for a change. haven’t entirely given up on the tradwife thing tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:45 AM
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do you see me asking for empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:46 PM
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when the “bad apples” are so loud that nobody, not even the people who identify with your movement, knows what your actual objective is; and all they do is spout toxic nonsense about entire demographics of people, it reflects very poorly on the rest of the community. it says these “bad apples” were not discouraged enough and barely anyone had the decency to actually teach them what the point of the movement is. almost all incels are complicit because they stay silent when the “bad apples” contin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:37 PM
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you’d think you wouldn’t have to explain something so goddamn obvious lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:24 PM
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i think you’re using the wrong term to describe whatever phenomenon you believe is happening. this word has a established definition. you don’t get to change it to suit your narrative. what you’re describing is positive bias towards women and in-group bias among women. not a matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:22 PM
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what kind of comments are you expecting under ig pictures of a conventionally attractive guy who’s literally posting thirst traps? “i love your personality! 😍” “you have such a great sense of style!” /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:53 PM
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the incels will just follow and ruin it again. they always find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:51 PM
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i didn’t say it wasn’t possible, i said it wouldn’t work because men’s experience of sexuality is heavily influenced by male thirst. they wouldn’t understand our experience because they don’t understand female sexuality. reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:49 PM
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our government is not ruled by women, so no. if by “the west” you mean america, it is not matriarchal by the definition of the word. women aren’t holding the overwhelming majority of positions of power. it’s men. that is literally what a patriarchy is. if you mean feminism is getting popular, sure. doesn’t mean the society is matriarchal. i’d agree with you if you were talking about a specific groups like african americans; but the us, or even the west, in general? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:47 PM
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yeah, i’m already over the blatant straw manning too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:23 PM
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it’s less that they care about women’s careers and more that they care that she has one in most cases; and if you’re dating umc+ guys, yes they care about career and education. but you wouldn’t know because you’re probably a man who does not date other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:21 PM
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… how?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:16 PM
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that’s fine. i disagree. you have a good day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:52 PM
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nah, it’s cuz he knew he’d get reported and possibly banned with the quickness lmfaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:45 PM
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dude, i left ppd for a few months and it’s already gotten moderately worse than when i found it last year. why are like 90% of the new names i’m seeing here such lazy debaters? like significantly lazier than usual. really takes the fun out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:41 PM
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we can just agree to disagree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:36 PM
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i know very well how monogamous a man can be, i’ve been in a ltr for 4 years lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:35 PM
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i am simply saying men prioritize and want sex more, this is what drives male thirst. you stating that men would prefer casual sex over commitment is literally just proving my point. If you’re instead claiming men universally prefer a short-term mating strategy to a long-term one, you’re dead wrong nowhere did i make this claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:34 PM
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I mean there's guys who stay in deadbedroom marriages for a long time, and those men are happy and satisfied, and totally have no qualms about being deadbedroomed? and sex is a need for a lot of women in relationships also. never said it wasn’t. just that women don’t prioritize it the way men do; because, obviously, women don’t experience male sexuality. Biologically the most successful strategy is for both parents to invest in their children. But the problem with that evopsych stuff is that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:31 PM
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which just proves sex is more of a priority to men than commitment is. if it wasn’t, they’d have little complaints about deadbedrooms and wouldn’t discount a woman who doesn’t put out within the first 3 dates. except a good number of them do. the ones that don’t usually have some moral reason as to why; but without it, they’d want sex asap too. you just don’t get it cuz you don’t date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:24 PM
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it’s lazy because there was no argument against the actual point i made, you know the one relating to the topic at hand? now you’re just being pedantic and derailing lmao not sure what i was wrong about, besides missing one sentence in the original comment. past that, it’s just derailing. if “proving me wrong” is your way of seeking validation and you need, so badly, for someone to tell you that you’re right. here, i’ll give you some scraps. “you’re right.” alright, did i scratch that itch now? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:22 PM
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no, i just believe that men and women have different biological imperatives; and our wants and wishes don’t negate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:13 PM
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i‘ve never used tinder for dating for one; and for two, i think you don’t understand that male thirst is a variable that heavily influences the way men go about dating. it was very cute of you to ask if i don’t have a male friend tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:13 PM
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dude, you didn’t even try to argue back. this is such lazy debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:09 PM
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do you think those men would remain in relationships with those women if they stopped having consistent sex? no. to men, relationships are not worth investing in unless sex is on the table. we can see this by just observing how they respond when they get consistent sex vs when they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:08 PM
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yes, religion also plays a big factor in that; but it’s still men being socialized to seek commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:05 PM
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i don’t care about reordering or any of that other shit because i didn’t address that. i simply said believing in the patriarchy and believing that it’s oppressive to women is not radical feminism, it’s literally just feminism. my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:03 PM
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i didn’t say “men never prioritize commitment or don’t want it,” i said “men don’t prioritize commitment the same way women do.” let’s be real here, you think the men who have an abundance of options would rather settle down and marry than to sleep around? a minority of them, sure; but certainly not the collective. most would sleep around until they got bored of it, then they’d want to settle. this is what i mean. sex takes precedent. men themselves admit this. this is literally what drives male…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:01 PM
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first of all, nobody is gaslighting you by stating their opinions. use that word correctly. secondly, it obviously hasn’t been around long enough for it to even be something academics would study as much as they have feminism. let’s not forget that feminism has existed for almost a century now. lastly, yes. i have seen and heard many men say things that i see manospherians say and believe in. i’ve seen it irl and in media. so yes, plenty of men believe in these ideas and don’t even realize it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:56 PM
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i think you just don’t understand what feminism is, which is unsurprising because most manospherians don’t. https://www.hoddereducation.co.uk/media/Documents/magazine-extras/Politics%20Review/Pol%20Rev%20Vol%2028%20No%204/PoliticsReview28_4_Ideas_Feminism.docx?ext=.docx All feminists agree that there is an economic aspect to patriarchy and that women are discriminated against in the economic world. However, for socialist feminists the economic system of capitalism is a central cause of patriarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:49 PM
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men’s biological imperative is to seek sexual access and create children. it has never, and will never, be to seek commitment. that’s something they’re socialized to do because, for a long time, women would not give sexual access without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:46 PM
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sweaty. feminism itself was literally created as a response to “the patriarchy.” 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:43 PM
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where in that definition of liberal feminism does it state that liberal feminists don’t believe that patriarchy exists or that it’s oppressive to women? or even just feminists in general? i’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:39 PM
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the negative part is that it doesn’t serve (manisospherian) men’s imperative; which seems to be a woman should have no standards, no confidence, and no agency so that you’ll let him do whatever he wants to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:38 PM
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no because if men had an abundance of options, they typically would want to explore them. that’s what most men with an abundance of options do. men don’t prioritize commitment the way women do, so it’s just not the same. men don’t really understand female sexuality, so i don’t think it would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:35 PM
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for one, i don’t care enough about what you’re saying to downvote you. for two, literally nothing you just posted negates what i said lmao also, you might wanna let up on the name calling. it would be a shame if someone reported you for not being civil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:31 PM
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i just don’t understand all this hoopla around something as simple as a compliment. like i don’t understand why either gender makes this into such a big thing. i dole out compliments to literally anyone as long as there’s a reason for me to compliment them, and i compliment the specific thing i like about them or how they look. even complete strangers. i have never been raped, stalked, groped, or anything remotely close to that simply because i complimented someone. this is unnecessarily extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:29 PM
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in their parents’ basements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:17 PM
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i wish we could do something like this the other way around, but it just wouldn’t work because male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:16 PM
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actually, i think it’s because we don’t care. i also think it’s because manospherians keep telling us we live life on easy mode; as if, because they somehow “have it harder,” this negates any dating issues a woman could have. think about it logically. do you really expect women to agree with this notion? i mean, really. i just don’t understand why men are trying so hard to compete with women on this particular subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:14 PM
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radical feminist ideology has kind of made it's way into mainstream society almost undetected, in the sense that a lot of women are holding radical feminist beliefs without actually being aware that those beliefs are classified as radical feminist. it’s funny because we can say the same thing about trp and the manosphere in general. it’s almost as if spending less time socializing and more time in echo chambers on the internet creates radical people. also, what you’re describing isn’t even radic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:09 PM
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it’s not easy, but it’s still bare minimum simply because it’s the basis of emotional stability. every adult should be able to emotionally regulate, because how are you going to deal with life if you can’t? the bar is in hell if emotional regulation and stability isn’t the bare minimum. that is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:02 PM
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i’ve had the same exact experience, and like you, i thought an emotional connection was enough; but i was also afraid of being seen as “shallow.” it wasn’t until i dated a guy i actually found physically attractive that i saw the difference in the quality of the relationship and how i felt about the man, especially when it came to sex. sex with someone you’re not sexually attracted to is like going to a restaurant and eating something you don’t care for because they were out of your favorite dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:44 PM
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it’s because older men are capable of providing the stability that a lot of women want, it has fuck all to do with looks (especially cuz, let’s be real here, most men don’t look better with age. older men certainly do not, as a collective, look better than men in their 20’s or even 30s. that’s just cope). a lot of young men aren’t even making average salaries, let alone above average salaries. the “biology” you’re talking about is just women’s desire for stability to raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:50 PM
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the greatest skill a young man can develop before he gets in a relationship is the ability to deal with negative emotions and experiences by themselves because no one is coming to save them . Sometimes you're gonna give up and that's okay but as long as you pick up the pieces by yourself you're golden. pretty sure that’s something every adult should be able to do lmao like this is just bare minimum shit. i am so sad for the future of humanity…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:12 PM
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i’m sorry you’ve only had the experience of dealing with vapid women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:59 PM
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just don’t be the guy who’s always upset or complaining about a problem but never does shit to solve or fix it; or is always in a negative mood, but does nothing to correct it. i always say, just don’t be pitiful. basically: stop throwing pity parties and emotional dumping, just to do it all over again and again and again. it just makes you look weak af… because it is. i think u/ ihavesalesquestions gave a perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:05 PM
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LMAO, you have a lot to learn my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:35 PM
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so you actually expect her to genuinely believe that you’re the chadliest of chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:56 PM
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no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:55 PM
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so men don’t want their girlfriends to be realistic? because even with a chad, there is always someone “chadlier.” i don’t see why being realistic about your partner’s attractiveness is a bad thing. i certainly don’t expect my partner to think i’m the most attractive woman, because objectively speaking, i am not. that’s just reality. that doesn’t mean i’m not attractive though. sounds like men need to grow the fuck up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:00 PM
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lol you just found this out? plenty of women go after guys because “i can fix him” or “i can change him.” these women like men who are projects, they want to build a man into the kind of man they think is ideal. this isn’t really news lol many like players or men who have that “bad boy” vibe and get involved with them hoping that the man will change for them. a lot of young women are this level of idealistic until they learn, whether through experience or observing others, you just can’t change …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:52 PM
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i wish i hadn’t googled this person’s name
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:33 PM
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they’ve been doing this with the terms frequently used here for quite a while now. i’m not surprised it’s gotten worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:57 PM
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haha, you remembered! this is a good idea, thank you! ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:45 PM
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i think i’m at least a 7 tbh. i’m basing that off how other people react to my beauty and what they tell me about it. in my personal opinion, i am so hot i get turned on by my own reflection. i don’t expect other people’s opinions to align with this though. i’m certain this gonna attract lots of bs responses, but i figure why not. it’ll be amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:02 AM
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the point is more that other men are thinking this same exact way about your female relatives and you’re only encouraging it further by continuing this mentality rather than discouraging it. you don’t have to go out of your way to be nice to women, but you don’t have to go out of your way to mistreat them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:17 AM
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yes, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:08 AM
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no fat guys. gross. i would die under him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:45 PM
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can’t answer this one cuz i’m a stacy 💁🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:18 PM
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lol idk but i ended up getting sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:17 PM
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i’d be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:17 PM
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first bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:04 AM
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any sex with someone you’re not in an explicitly committed relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:01 AM
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i don’t understand how someone thought it was a good idea to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:56 AM
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because i deserve to have my own man, simple as that. i do not want to share, i should not have to, and i refuse to. i can have a wonderful life with a desirable man and not have to share him. i know that seems unfathomable to you, but it’s not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:50 AM
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sometimes it’s every 1-3 days lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:01 PM
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yes, everyone does. not necessarily. some of the most egotistical men i’ve ever met were very physically unattractive to me, but i’m not sure if that’s just because i have negative impressions of them. both. yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:30 PM
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Men want commitment too and they value it a lot more than casual sex. mmmmm, idk about that. For women their standards for casual is higher than relationships. to men. you’re still not getting it. that’s a high standard to men because men are finding it difficult to reach the standard of being exceptionally attractive to obtain access to casual sex. women’s physical standards for casual sex is higher, everything else is higher for relationships. so it’s actually that standards for casual sex are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:27 PM
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lol for real. if i was doing this for attention, i’d be on tinder or instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:51 PM
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this is like the third time i’ve seen someone mention that the women here are older, where is that coming from? there’s a good handful of us who are young tho. and why the assumption that women spend time here for male attention only? women actually like talking about gender and relationships, so it’s not surprising to me that women would be in a forum like this. men typically only care to talk about these things when they’re having issues with them and do a lot of things solely for female atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:09 PM
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i think women value commitment more than casual sex, which means they value men they want commitment from more than men they just want casual sex from. what you’re saying doesn’t negate that. you are continuing to project male imperatives onto women. the above paragraph doesn’t make sense to you because you are a man and you want casual sex more than commitment. the opposite is true for women. you are assuming women collectively think the way you and other men do about casual sex, which is obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:18 PM
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no, i’m saying you’re assuming that women view men as high value for being able to have casual sex easily and that’s not true. that’s what men define as a hvm, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:41 AM
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no, you’re just projecting male imperatives onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:34 AM
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about a year. it’s really not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:51 PM
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he’s “objectively” better than the men looking to commit to her because men want to be like him, that doesn’t mean he’s objectively better. it just means men think he is. when are y’all going to understand that women don’t value casual sex to the degree y’all do? it’s like saying having a lot of sex makes you a hvm, that is true to men not to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:51 PM
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i did, but i didn’t have sex with any of the guys. the assumption has always been that the guy i was going out with was probably seeing other people too, and it’s never a good idea to put all your eggs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:48 PM
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i find it unattractive when a person can’t hold a conversation, and i particularly find helpless passivity to be unattractive. shyness, in the sense of being reserved, is attractive to me. shyness, in the sense of being fearful, isn’t. reserved and introverted is great, but a person can be both those things without also being seemingly afraid of talking to people. i don’t mind if he’s shy, just not so shy that he completely avoids social situations or embarrasses me at social events. so how woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:48 PM
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because that’s weird to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:30 PM
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okay, that’s you. if the shoe doesn’t fit, don’t wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:21 PM
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sometimes it is that someone hasn’t tried hard enough. there’s nothing wrong with saying that. there is blame on both sides for almost every relationship problem, especially deadbedrooms. if anyone gets upset about that, maybe they should ask themselves why? if you feel like you’re trying your best, then you shouldn’t feel attacked when people point this out. if the shoe doesn’t fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:13 PM
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those men are low on the totem pole, they’re not who women want; if they were, they wouldn’t wanna opt out in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:09 PM
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The guy isn't constantly responsible for you being in the mood. not sure where you got the idea that i made this assertion, but i did not. regardless, i’m sorry you don’t like how female sexuality works. unless you’re physically attractive enough to elicit raw sexual attraction from your women naturally, you’re gonna have to do something to turn her on. again, female sexuality is reactive (especially to arousing thoughts). your woman isn’t gonna have arousing thoughts if you’re not giving her a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:03 PM
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not that i don’t believe guys can do that, just that i hear men say this but see them marry the most beautiful women they can get most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:00 PM
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what does them spending more money on dates have to do with addressing lack of emotional intimacy? it’s not a baseless claim just because you disagree with it. your claim was baseless because you couldn’t even find proof that married men actually do take their wives on more dates. even if you did, it still doesn’t address lack of intimacy; which is the point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:58 PM
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attractive men aren’t a rarity, for one. for two, a man being attractive doesn’t make him high value. it doesn’t make him marriageable, it makes him fuckable. to men, that’s high value. it’s not to women, women don’t value sex as highly as they do relationships and marriage. to women, a high value man is a man with high rmv who is also attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:25 PM
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funny because married men take their wives on more dates, but still have less sex than non-marital couples, sound like women are ones who get lazy after men bring more commitment, safety & security. source? and taking them on more dates doesn’t really address everything else. you can take a woman out and still lack emotional intimacy, which is really the focal point. that's why dread game works, it makes women anxious and suddenly they have high sex drive again lmao. good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:24 PM
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props to you for being consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:22 PM
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nope, i’m serious. how does them being attractive, and nothing else, make them high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:16 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:04 PM
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nowhere did i state my comments were anything other than my opinions. it is my opinion that they do the same shit, i even gave you an example. you disagree, that’s your business. an opinion can’t be wrong. that’s literally part of the definition of an opinion. why would i concede and say my opinion is wrong? does that make logical sense to you, calling an opinion “wrong?” i’ve already told you that you’re not gonna change my mind, it’s made up. you’re looking obviously validation because you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:04 PM
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an opinion can’t be right or wrong lmfaooooo, you don’t even know what you’re talking about. do you need me to define that word for you? imagine telling someone they have a huge ego when you start arguments with people for the sole purpose of derailing their arguments so that you can “win” and “be right” about a fucking opinion 💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:54 PM
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lol sure. keep crying about it because you wanna be “right.” my opinion can’t be wrong. it’s an opinion. do you know what that word means?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:50 PM
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oh, i should’ve known you’d pull the “are you communicating your needs??” bs. obviously anyone with a brain is gonna tell you nobody can read minds. in some cases, what you’re saying is valid. in many other cases, the man doesn’t give a shit no matter how much you ask him “what have you done for me lately?” and tell him what you want exactly. i have been in situations where i’d tell the guy, verbatim, exactly what was bothering me and what i needed from him; and he didn’t even attempt to underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:49 PM
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they seem to think it should be as easy as ordering a pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:47 PM
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i could go back and find more, there’s just no point because you’re just gonna say the same shit over and over again. we can just agree to disagree, because you’re certainly not going to change my mind and i don’t care enough to try to change yours. yes yes, anyone who doesn’t kiss trp’s asses is a misandrist. we’ve heard it all before. you all sound like whiny sjw’s anytime someone says anything that doesn’t kiss your asses. there’s no bias because i already said fds does the same shit. you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:45 PM
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this is such a strangely specific and narrow definition of “traditional.” “traditional” doesn’t automatically mean “religious.” they just tend to overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:42 PM
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do you expect women to have low n counts if they want to qualify for ltr’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:38 PM
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i don’t care because that wasn’t my point. my point has been proven. you’re just moving the goalpost now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:36 PM
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i don’t know how to answer this question because it’s too impersonal. a relationship isn’t as simple as “blue pilled beta provider works hard and gets nothing.” the ideal man is physically attractive and is a hardworking provider. dead bedrooms happen with time. it’s not like you get married and everything goes to shit the day after. and truthfully, i always say the reason a woman isn’t fucking her man is usually because the man has stopped trying to seduce her. female sexuality is reactive and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:34 PM
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confident means carrying yourself in a way that shows you like yourself and have a healthy sense of self worth. then his attitude, confidence, or looks aren’t as great as he thinks they are; or he needs a new environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:27 PM
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if you can’t handle people saying things to you in a way you don’t like, maybe you shouldn’t use the internet. regardless, my opinion remains. wasn’t about whether something was encouraged or not because that was never part of the conversation. the point is that they do the same shit. go take that up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:24 PM
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i asked how it directly relates to nice men not having success. i’m still not seeing anything that directly addresses nice men. what i really want to know is how does one’s success negate the other’s? i still see nothing in your link addressing that. and i don’t remember asking for proof they were doing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:23 PM
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okay, so then these things don’t negate each other. why do you assume nice men cannot see initial success too? how does dark triad men seeing initial success negate nice men getting the same? do you really think a man who is nice, attractive, and confident is not going to see similar success?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:17 PM
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so you assume a small group of failed women on the internet speak for the overwhelming majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:15 PM
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the comments and all that other bs don’t matter to me, the point is in the posts. i knew you were gonna try to bring that up as a “gotcha” and posted it anyways because it doesn’t matter. the point is, they do the same shit. if you want me to look for more examples, i can. i saw stupid ass rants on both subs. telling the truth isn’t rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:14 PM
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how does a man being attractive make him high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:12 PM
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no, because you’re men. y’all can come up with your own saying to describe fucking around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:11 PM
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why do you assume every woman who waits is doing it because of past traumas? are you a man who cares about n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:10 PM
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it’s funny you say this because it wasn’t a stereotypical fuck boy who fucked me over, it was a “nice guy.” you know, the nice, nerdy, introverted, average guy all the red pillers keep saying women should give a chance to because they make the best relationship partners or whatever. turns out that’s not as true as they wish it was. at least the fuck boys were upfront and honest about how they just wanted to fuck. it’s those “nice,” quiet, average guys who seem nice but actually have bad intentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:03 PM
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sorry dude, but people who are at the bottom of the totem pole get the shittiest picks. fat and ugly bitches get pumped and dumped and treated like shit by dudes too. it just is what it is. if you want that to change, become desirable to your target demographic. if you’re not willing to do that, then you’re just gonna have to deal. the market doesn’t give a shit about what’s fair, so learn to work with it or accept what options you can get as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:00 PM
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“watch what they do, not what they say.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:53 PM
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have you considered that the women saying they have a right to sleep around aren’t the same women complaining about being used for sex? and why is it that y’all always assume attractive men will pump and dump? as if nobody has ever managed to have a physically attractive boyfriend who’s not a complete piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:46 PM
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so it doesn’t actually prove that nice men can’t have success or that these things are mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:37 PM
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fds portraying men in a negative light and commiserating over them: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/o80qln/why_are_so_many_men_so_unhygienic_and_disgusting/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf trp portraying women in a negative light and commiserating over them: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/of9lnv/a_woman_will_always_have_a_hoe_phase/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf still not seeing much of a difference dude. just say you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:36 PM
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both of those descriptions sound like “hot” people to me. either way, handsome men aren’t a rare find at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:35 PM
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you didn’t answer either of my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:34 PM
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i’m not seeing what that was supposed to prove. i saw no scientific studies in there that addressed my question directly, but maybe i missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:33 PM
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i’ve already seen them. they look like they’re doing the same things to me, just using different words. People hate FDS because they constantly shit on Men. They take one story of a guy acting like a jackass, apply it to 90% of men is what someone said fds is doing. i see men at trp doing the same, just reverse the genders. you said: Fds is a circle jerking echo chamber filled with people unable to see reality for the way that it is i see men at trp doing the same, again, just reverse the gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:23 PM
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how do you even come to these conclusions? it’s like you’re talking to yourself lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:17 PM
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where? where did i say they become sociopaths? please quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:13 PM
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nobody said they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:05 PM
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obviously people engaging in the same behaviors can be compared. if the rp men are acting like them and engaging in the same behaviors as them, what makes their behavior so different it’s not comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:01 PM
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you do realize that a lot of women just say they’re feminists because they’d be heavily criticized and shunned by their fsm if they didn’t, right? i’ve had a lot of private conversations with women who are self proclaimed feminists until we’re alone and i tell them they can drop the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:59 PM
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what are you even talking about? science disagrees with observing people’s behavior? that study wasn’t about how psychopaths’ brains work, it was about their behavior. what’s not clicking? you mean to tell me comparisons between how people behave isn’t valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:55 PM
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that doesn’t make any sense. what’s happening in their brains doesn’t matter if they’re acting the same. what we see is their behavior, not their thought processes. they’re not studying their brains, they’re studying their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:46 PM
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how does dark triad men seeing initial success directly relate to nice men not having success? how does one negate the other? i don’t see how these two things are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:44 PM
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that’s not surprising. men are more narcissistic, so it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:42 PM
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you think there aren’t men who let beautiful women do whatever they want to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:41 PM
1

it’s the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:41 PM
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they’re not that rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:40 PM
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if that’s what they wish to do and it’s realistic for them to achieve, i don’t see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:32 PM
1

sure it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:29 PM
1

good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:30 PM
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i already knew that, i was just waiting for you to stop lying. you’re not gonna rile me up by trying to call me a pickme in an intellectually dishonest manner. do you have something more entertaining to come at me with or are you finally done now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:28 PM
2

this isn’t something women generally complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:26 PM
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they just don’t seem to understand that these are the reasons women, even their own wives and girlfriends, don’t like them lmfaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:24 PM
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yeah yeah. we know already, everyone who disagrees with y’all is a blooper. are you done now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:24 PM
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wow. no offense to you, but this is such a childish mindset and it’s near-impossible to take people like this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:15 PM
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what the hell does this even have to do with the question??? lmfaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:14 PM
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i’m expecting 9 out of 10 of the answers to be “no.” i’m not surprised this post didn’t garner many responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:01 PM
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everyone goes insane over good looking people tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:01 PM
2

uh huh. more proof that y’all call anyone who doesn’t kiss men’s asses a blooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:57 PM
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i know you wish someone did, hon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:57 PM
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you asked, i answered. if you’re not satisfied, that’s your problem. you can find books and articles stating similar ideas to trp dating back from the early 2000s. they’re just not explicitly labeled trp books.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:54 PM
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i didn’t say trp is negative, i said all those terms are negative. to act as if these terms don’t have negative connotations is delusional. you know very well, as does anyone who has ever had any understanding of social cues; calling someone a land whale or a slut is insulting, and to deny so is to be intellectually dishonest. just because you keep calling it reality (which really is just your opinion, btw) doesn’t negate that these terms and descriptions are negative. you can find less negative…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:51 PM
1

many would say trp does the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:48 PM
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because people usually do not like negative feedback and many take it very personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:41 AM
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Read up on the social rules and guides that where made way back in the day. There's a lot of rules meant to protect women and their image and what have you. interesting. how does protecting their image show an active concern for women? that’s not really addressing the issues they had to face. i’m not really sure how that would prove people did care about women’s issues before feminism. doesn’t seem like they did, especially considering people opposed feminism very strongly when the movement was …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:37 AM
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how can they care about women before feminism while simultaneously not caring about their issues? that doesn’t even make sense. yes, i think something would come of men collectively making political and legal efforts to help themselves. that’s what every disadvantaged demographic has done, and still does, whenever they want to see large-scale change (and many have actually gotten somewhere, even if it’s not as far as they wanted to get). i’m lost as to why men believe they can’t do the same, con…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:17 AM
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that’s just the way people interpret them, but og redpill didn’t say shit like this. i mean just read the shit they were saying 10-15 years ago. it’s a different vibe than the shit you see on trp sub now, much less hate for women and making it into a competition of who deserves the title of “the worst gender.” the ideas are kinda similar (not so much women are incapable of love or that all women cheat, because that’s obviously not true and couldn’t possibly be lmao), but at least they said shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:14 AM
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i certainly wouldn’t describe it as that. it’s not about anyone being superior or inferior, it’s just about seeing the truth for what it is, accepting it, and figuring out how to make things work in your favor with the knowledge they give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:17 AM
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i know you wish i did, hon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:15 AM
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people didn’t really care about women until feminism happened, which was women caring about women and demanding everyone else care too. so i just don’t really see why men expect people to care about them, as a collective, when they themselves don’t. when men start caring on a large scale, maybe we’ll see change. whining on the internet about it isn’t really doing much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:15 AM
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wow, what a wonderfully insightful argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:13 AM
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what does that have to do with the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:12 AM
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i think other people will care when men collectively start caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:33 PM
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i mean it does work for them because they say they’d rather be single than settle. their whole thing is about never settling; so to them, you’re winning as long as you’re not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:28 PM
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i don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:38 PM
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all those terms have negative connotations. you’ve gotta be delusional to say they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:37 PM
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i don’t think rp ideology is about men being superior and women being inferior in the first place. trp as a movement/reddit sub isn’t the same as being rp/believing in rp ideology. pretty sure blue pill is what’s considered the “female supremacy” pill. have you forgotten there’s a purple pill? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:29 AM
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you beat me to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:41 AM
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i think it’s because many of them come off as hateful and bitter towards men like trp is towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:34 AM
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at least you can admit it. acknowledgement is the first step in changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:33 AM
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you think fds came up with terms like “hvm,” “lvm,” “smv,” or “rmv?” i was under the impression trp came up with these terms, but maybe i’m mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:28 AM
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how is any of that blue pill??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:25 AM
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shit, and here i was thinking our brains were already rotten because they’re attached to female bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:25 AM
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i can’t really objectively rate myself, i just know people think i’m good looking because practically everyone i encounter tells me so. at some point or another, you start to believe all the people telling you that you’re beautiful. maybe that explains why i don’t have ugly friends. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:08 AM
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people feel this exact same way about trp. just reverse the genders, and it’s the same shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:47 PM
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i don’t think marriage is good for anyone but the children produced from it. yes and no. they should sacrifice for individual men in their lives when and where it makes sense to, they shouldn’t be sacrificing for men as a collective. same answer as #2 basically, just switch the genders. i think so, for the most part. i’d say the ones who don’t are the ones who have never engaged in casual sex and never plan to. brock turner was proven to be a rapist. i think any sane person would agree that rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:46 PM
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yeah, you’re definitely right about a perspective you’ve never, and will never, actually experience. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:18 PM
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literally anytime i say anything that’s not kissing men’s asses, some fucking idiot calls me a blooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:27 PM
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i thought so too, but someone once told me i come off as pink pilled and another told me i seemed to lean blue before so now i’m questioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:19 PM
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i was trying to the demo survey and realized i don’t even know what pill color i belong to anymore. i just know it’s not bp, it’s probably not even rp, and it’s certainly not fds lol fellow ppd members, pls tell me what you think my pill color is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:06 PM
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if men just want to fuck. again, we’re not talking about what men want and we’re not talking about casual sex. women have to do more than just exist to get the men they want and to receive commitment from them. let’s stop projecting male imperatives onto women, and remember that they have their own imperatives which means they must have a strategy in order to serve them. who gives a fuck? women, duh. you don’t get a “hvm” by just existing. those men expect more. are you incapable of considering …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:45 PM
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thank you, same to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:20 PM
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okay so if men have standards, that means women have to do more than just exist. if a woman just has to exist to get a man, that man has literally no standards (and let’s be real here, those men are 9x out of 10 bottom of the barrel). yes, i just walk outside my house in my house clothes and a man will approach me and offer commitment to me asap. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:04 PM
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I answered this question when i said that's not how people work. But men making excuses is not even relevant to the discussion so why bring it up? it’s not relevant, i’m just curious. and really, i dislike that ppd men make it seem like women are the only people on planet earth who want to serve their own imperatives at the expense of others, as if men don’t also do the same. and/or they make it seem like 90% of men are wonderful and want to commit to a woman forever and wouldn’t ever hurt a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:02 PM
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okay, that might be true right now. i’m not talking about right now, i’m talking about in general. sir, you’re not gonna get me to change my mind. you can keep trying if you want to, but my opinion has already been established and it’s most likely not going to change. again, we can just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:35 PM
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and this is exactly why i said we can just agree to disagree. you don’t even wanna debate, you just wanna be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:34 PM
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if the answer is yes, why do you assume others can’t do the same? are you that special and extraordinary? does that mean nobody is being honest with themselves then? which means they’re, in turn, lying about everything they tell other people about how they think and feel about things? answer these questions please. do you assume men are honest with themselves? why do you assume women aren’t capable of being honest with themselves, or others for that matter? please answer all my questions individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:25 PM
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do you think you’re being honest with yourself? if the answer is yes, why do you assume others can’t do the same? are you that special and extraordinary? because if this is how humans function, that means it applies to you and men too. does that mean nobody is being honest with themselves then? which means they’re, in turn, lying about everything they tell other people about how they think and feel about things?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:19 PM
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except it’s not. that’s just what you believe it’s about. it’s clearly about helping women get the kind of partner they want, there’s just a lot of commiseration happening too. trp is not all that much different from where i’m standing. you can hold the opinion that it’s more sexist than trp, and i can hold the opinion that they’re equally sexist, and we can just agree to disagree. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:19 PM
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no. i’m gonna do whatever the fuck i want and if you don’t like it you can ignore my comments or block me. anyways, you can read here because i’m not typing all this out again. especially because you’re being unnecessarily passive aggressive and are obviously trying to get a reaction out of me by saying stupid shit like “that’s a cop out.” https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/odpceh/why_all_the_hate_for_trp/h41qox9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:07 PM
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right. so we’re just gonna ignore all the parts that tell women what kinds of men to avoid, what to look for, how to conduct themselves with men, and everything else that’s in the sidebar. it’s still a strategy. just because it’s not all about self-improvement doesn’t men the subs aren’t at all comparable in other ways. both subs are about giving people strategies to find what you want out of dating. people who say trp is about anything other than helping men improve their sex lives don’t know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:05 PM
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not everyone wants to get married. and there are certainly men who expect their girlfriends to do more than just exist. just because you, or other men, may have standards that low doesn’t mean every man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:03 PM
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i don’t think it’s a bad thing, but it’s obvious that many people do. obviously nobody likes being considered a bad person. you asked if they’ll be honest about it to others or to themselves, i answered yes. the yes was an answer to both questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:02 PM
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you can say it’s logical all you want to, but what is the purpose of arguing over whether or not they’re comparable when you’ve already come to the conclusion that they’re not despite me already saying i believe they are? what’s the point? no matter what rebuttal i have, it’s not going to make a difference because your opinion isn’t going to change. we can just agree to disagree. idc if you think that’s a cop out or not, i think it’s not worth debating over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:00 PM
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i actually feel like i drink less when i drink alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:23 PM
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he kind of is though. when the average person is fat, that makes anyone who’s not above average by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:21 PM
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yeah no, guys (at least the one worth actually paying attention to) actually expect you to do more than just exist. edit: sorry for the sarcasm. it’s recognize that it’s unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:20 PM
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i don’t really see a point in arguing over opinions that aren’t going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:19 PM
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we don’t want “a man,” we want men that we actually find attractive and want to be in relationships with. you don’t get that by just existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:08 PM
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it seems as if you’re not understanding. there is level up content in the sub that is literally part of fds. they do have level up content, they just have a designated sub for it that’s not the main fds sub. do i have to explain that again in a different way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:07 PM
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to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:06 PM
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there’s no way for you to know whether or not this is “accurate.” it’s just speculation and opinions. you just think it’s accurate. and you know very well it’s considered a negative thing, you’re just being deliberately obtuse. and yes, i think they will be honest. men seem to forget that women have a feminine equivalent to locker room talk. the women who thot and bop talk about every new man they get involved with, it’s just news to y’all because they’re not telling men about these things. now …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:05 PM
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that’s your opinion. my opinion is that it is comparable. everyone needs a strategy. imagine thinking every woman gets the exact kind of man she wants by just existing lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:42 PM
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right, now tell me again how this isn’t just you looking to rant about “women bad?”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:40 PM
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of course you don’t, because those strategies benefit you. they’re not that different. that’s my opinion. just because they’re not blatant doesn’t mean they’re not hateful (and i’d argue they are still blatant about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:38 PM
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i mean stats do show that children who come from two-parent homes have the best outcomes; but separated parents is certainly better than parents who hate each other but stay together for the kids. i don’t think even most two-parent households are as you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:38 PM
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i literally said the level up sub is adjacent to fds, they’re two different subs. you’re not gonna see level up shit on fds because fds isn’t for the leveling up who, the leveling up sub (which is like a subset of fds) is lol. and there are dating “strategies” (to me, it’s not so much strategy and more self defense), they’re mostly in the sidebar and required readings. there are thoughtful posts on occasion. trp sub would call women those things if it wouldn’t get them banned, let’s be real here…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:36 PM
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that’s interesting because many of these women stated infidelity, abuse, addiction, and irreconcilable incompatibilities to be the reasons they got divorced. i can see why a person would feel free after leaving a relationship like this. and, for one, these aren’t my actions so i don’t feel called out in any way. i just find it hilarious that men like you actually believe 99% of women live like this. and i think you know very well these are things considered negative and wrong. you yourself proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:31 PM
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those poor children. again, good luck with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:25 PM
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i don’t think women get into committed relationships and marriages because they want to ride the cc and whatever else, but i know you’re just gonna rant about women bad yet again so go ahead and indulge. enjoy yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:25 PM
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there is a sub about leveling up that’s adjacent to fds, it’s just not as popular. regardless, they are both movements that are supposed to serve their gender’s imperatives at the expense of the other. they’re not all that different in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:23 PM
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you must not really understand the point of fds then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:22 PM
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good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:19 PM
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no, it’s because black twitter is entertaining. black culture in general is always more entertaining, but i’m not denying any bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:19 PM
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what do you believe are “tradwife benefits?” i’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:06 PM
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the same reason people hate fds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:54 PM
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the only part of twitter worth paying attention to is black twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:49 PM
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wow. maybe it’s just my environment then, because i see most people still wearing masks indoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:01 PM
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i already am boo, but this isn’t about me. now tell me why an attractive man who is kind and faithful would be overlooked and ignored. how are those men being ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:00 PM
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we’re not talking about kind men though, we’re talking about attractive men who are kind. stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:37 PM
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omfg 💀💀💀 you must live in a red state because i see people wearing masks all the time, even though most people around here have been fully vaccinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:07 PM
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no it doesn’t make sense. those men aren’t ignored. attractive men aren’t ignored, whether they’re kind or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:06 PM
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i think anyone with a decently working brain realizes that you can’t expect a top notch partner without having something of substance to offer them that’s as valuable as what they’re offering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:45 PM
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why would an attractive man who is everything women want be overlooked or ignored? that doesn’t make any sense. everything else you said is just your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:43 PM
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i see what you’re saying. i’m sure there are people who just say that to make their relationship seem better than it is, but it’s not impossible that there are people who actually don’t feel restrained by being in a relationship. none of what you’re saying feels restrictive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:41 PM
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what is with this strange idea that finding a man who is attractive, kind, and faithful is near-impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:04 PM
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no, but is this really restrictive? i’d assume you can go to most places and do most of what you want, just nothing your partner considers cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:00 PM
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but why do people feel like commitment is restrictive? what because you can’t be romantically or sexually linked to other people? i have never felt that way. obviously i can’t do things my partner would consider cheating, but i don’t see that as restrictive because i chose to make a monogamous commitment and i prefer that over dating/sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:58 PM
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i do not live in a village, but i resonate with that. most divorces i’ve seen, there was something serious going on to cause the divorce in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:56 PM
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agreed. i’ve never seen any woman divorce her husband “just because.” every single one had serious relationship issues (like cheating, abuse, incompatibility, too many issues, etc.). and you’re right, there’s almost always blame on both sides for the demise of a relationship. people just like to scapegoat because they don’t wanna be held accountable for their part in it. it’s funny because these guys love saying women are allergic to accountability, as if men aren’t just as allergic to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:55 PM
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i know how nice it feels to get away from because i’ve dealt with that before lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:51 PM
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i feel like almost every divorced woman i’ve encountered has said the end of their marriages felt like regaining freedom. they all look happier and healthier after being divorced. what makes people feel restricted as a result of being in a ltr/marriage? (of course, besides having to remain faithful if they’re monogamous)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:44 AM
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it’s funny because i know i’m not at all average, but i don’t need to brag about it. you just gave me a good reason to though. 😘 trust me when i say beautiful people know they’re beautiful, because the world never lets you forget it. everywhere you go, whether you’re wearing makeup or not, people compliment your looks. at some point or another, you start to believe them. but really, you don’t know and you probably never will because you can’t judge a face you have never, and (very likely) will n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:35 AM
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this is exactly what happened in my relationship, we’d been together for like 1.5 years when i left for college. we’re still together. so it’s not always doomed; it depends on how often you get to see each other (if at all), if/when you will get to be together physically soon after (maybe 1 or 2 years max), and how strongly you want your relationship to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:55 AM
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asian cultures generally expect everyone to be exceptional. it’s not even gender-specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:43 AM
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it’s not all genetics though. science has proven that the sun, smoking, and stress all negatively affect your skin and age you quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:21 AM
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and?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:20 AM
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i’ve been wearing makeup since i was literally 12. plenty of it was cheap shit i could manage to buy with change i’d find around my parents’ room. i’m now 21 and still get mistaken for a middle/high schooler when barefaced. it’s not the makeup itself that fucks up your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:41 PM
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i don’t see how that’s gendered because men are doing these things to the same degree. can you prove they’re not? and no, the existence of sexlesss men is not proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:34 PM
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It's giving third world failing to assimilate teas. 💀💀💀💀💀 you always manage to make me laugh with your comments. i’m definitely a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:28 PM
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no. men with high n counts (relative to their age, of course) are disgusting. and of course celebrities have been ran thru, they’re celebrities. we can have crushes on them because the idea that we’ll ever even get to meet them or have a romantic relationship with them is slim to none. it’s not really a good comparison. like others have said, the ideal man is a man who could have a high n count but chooses not to. no, that’s not a unicorn because my bf is exactly like this lmfao. it’s really not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:07 PM
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this is really not as difficult to find as y’all think it is lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:02 PM
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what men think a hvm is certainly is not the same as what women think a hvm is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:59 PM
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why doesn’t that apply to women? you can say whatever you want, we can stop seeing people with low n counts as more disciplined when men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:58 PM
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this is the only correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:55 PM
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it’s very unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:45 PM
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i would consider collecting things to be a hobby. it still takes effort to find things to add to your collection. it doesn’t have to be strenuous or take a lot of effort, just some. i have a hard time considering watching tv to be an actual hobby. it can be if you’re defining the word very literally. idk if i’d say attending concerts is a hobby either, but i can see why you could consider it to be a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:19 PM
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something that actually requires some physical and/or mental effort and practice for you to become better at it. like music, sports, fitness, outdoor activities (like hiking), cooking/baking, fixing up cars, building stuff, computer stuff (like programming, building computers, or creating games), video games, makeup (not like simple makeup, but artistic stuff), things like that. to me, those are actual hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:16 PM
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so then your statement was speculation, because you can’t prove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:08 PM
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i honestly think this is just how they get sexual gratification and get to interact with women on a consistent basis, so i do understand why and i do pity them for it to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:01 PM
1

not necessarily when it comes to debates in particular, but i’d say just in general. like women seem to be awful at accepting negative feedback compared to men, i myself have observed this difference in my male vs female friend groups. the women here are kinda unusual in this regard lol also, men’s subs do ban you for similar stuff so i wouldn’t say it’s just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:56 PM
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35+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:52 PM
1

the family enabled it though, and her father ran the show. they’re just as much a culprit in this as the courts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:50 PM
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nobody can assess a stranger off the internet well enough to figure out whether or not they’re a murderer. how could you do that through a text message thread? i have to ask, do you feel the same way about men who end up going out with women who mistreat them or are otherwise bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:48 PM
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lmfao imagine thinking women don’t have actual hobbies. and no, watching netflix isn’t a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:46 PM
3

who said this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:37 PM
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i considered it until i realized how much school i’d have to go through to actually do it. yeah, fuck that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:37 PM
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i said modern women aren’t all the same person. is it impossible for you believe there are different kinds of people or something? like you realize the existence of once group of people doesn’t negate the existence of the other, right? i didn’t say you were wrong. i do not care enough to prove you wrong, and your opinions can’t be objectively right or wrong anyway. anyway, where are your studies? you made a claim about modern women, are you going to show anything to prove it? because you said it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:26 PM
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it honestly depends on how my hair is done. it’s like no matter how my makeup is done or what i’m wearing, the frequency of the approaches changes most when i make any changes to my hair. they approach a lot when it’s long, and i can almost always count on at least 2 men trying to hit on me literally anytime i go out while my hair is long. when my hair is short or not done up, i do still get approached but i can go out and expect not to be approached at least most days of the week. it mostly hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:22 PM
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what studies? i never made a definitive claim or mentioned any study. i have no reason to bring up a study, and i wouldn’t be able to find one that “proves” these particular opinions anyway. that’s why i made sure to state they were opinions. you, on the other hand, did make a definitive claim; so the onus is now on your to prove that claim to be factually true. unless you’d rather conceded that your statement was actually speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:16 PM
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i mean i’m 21 and i feel like my upbringing was the opposite. almost all the adults around me, from parents to teachers to mentors, made it seem like these things were no big deal & they were normal, which made me feel indifferent about it in the first place. i never cared to seek it out because it was never made out to be a big deal or some taboo thing to stay away from. it could be that i was raised in a pretty liberal state, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:05 PM
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obviously sex that happens outside of a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:00 PM
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can you point to a study that proves your speculation is factual and women are all “throwing their clothes everyone and eating out every day” while “having no reasons to improve?” if not, then it’s exactly that, speculation and assumptions. i see plenty of marriages where the couple never does any of that shit lmfao, again not all marriages are the same. and at least i have the decency not to discuss my observations as if they’re absolute, or treat my opinions as if they are facts simply because…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:59 PM
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You're talking about a group of people that will get proposed to because they have a vagina. i’d hope men propose for reasons besides that, for their own sakes. Why would I believe people that have no reason to self improve, throw their clothes everywhere, and eat out and door dash everyday would go to work and do household chores? well your mistake was assuming they have no reason to self improve. do you think men and dating is an all-encompassing aspect of life for women and they have nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:49 PM
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lol you must not know enough modern young women then. it’s not delusional just because it’s an opinion you disbelieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:36 PM
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the existence of one doesn’t negate the existence other. it’s not like all marriages are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:34 PM
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what does anything in your comment have to do with making marriage desirable to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:31 PM
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i actually have a preference for white and asian men, donny is just an exceptional hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:30 PM
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i think the women stop having sex in part because the men aren’t taking them out, or romancing them, really. and the problem is not with cooking and cleaning, yes single women do this (how else would they manage to live on their own?), it’s with being responsible for most or all of the domestic duties while also working a full-time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:29 PM
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he’s not really my cup of tea, but he’s obviously good looking. an 8. exceptional hottie. easy 10. another exceptional hottie. 9. yet another exceptional hottie. 10. he is also good looking, but i don’t really find him attractive. 7. i don’t find him attractive either. 7. very handsome. 9. they’re all extraordinarily good looking, even if i don’t find them all attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:12 PM
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just because stats say one thing doesn’t mean women aren’t frequently observing marriages where the husbands are lazy sacks of shit. those stats don’t negate that there are plenty of marriages where the woman bears most of the responsibilities. women are, rightfully, weary of marriages for this reason (among others). similarly to how men are weary of marriages out of fear of being left and divorce raped, despite alimony being involved in very little divorce cases, most first marriages not result…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:24 AM
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You're a Stacy depends on who’s looking at me. the flair is a joke. dating a 4? yes. i don’t have a problem with a guy being kinda ugly if he has a great personality to make up for it. i’m not currently dating the 4 anymore though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:31 AM
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do you think that’s a universal rule that applies to every marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:29 AM
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my ex bf is a 4 at best and i met him through a church choir. not sure if choir counts as a “female dominated activity” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:11 AM
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i recognize that children need two parents, which is why i said i’d never marry if it weren’t for my wish to be a mother. personally, i don’t care to replace the birthrate. i don’t see why i should. and yes, i’d say men do need to take equal responsibility in relationships. i refuse to be the woman who’s fulfilling both roles in the relationship. either i’m a homemaker/sahm and he’s paying the bills, or it’s 50/50 and my husband is doing his fair share of the domestic work. i refuse to do both. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:26 AM
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aw, sorry about your dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:06 AM
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funnily enough, it’s only regular and small sized people who have complained about me using the word. not once has a fat person complained to me about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:01 AM
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why? do these things even need to be resuscitated? many men and women alike don’t see marriage making sense unless children are involved, which is understandable because marriage honestly does not seem very appealing. i myself say all the time i’d never marry or cohabit with a man if it weren’t for my wish to be a mother. why? because, as my aunt says, “once you live with a man, they stop taking you out. the dating stops. they stop putting in effort to do nice things for you. they stop taking ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:00 AM
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exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:45 AM
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i know that, but if a person isn’t using it maliciously then what’s the big deal? it’s not like the word fat is a slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:45 AM
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same, just got a lecture from a friend about how calling people fat is rude the other day lol people are soooooo sensitive to that word. it’s like calling someone fat is like calling them a cunt or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:16 AM
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i’m confused. how can one cheat on someone they’ve never made a monogamous commitment to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:28 AM
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so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:11 AM
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but my point is whether or not these men cheat doesn’t matter to most women because most women couldn’t get a man of that caliber to commit to them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:52 AM
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dear God, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:27 PM
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why? this is an extremely small demographic of men, the overwhelming majority of women are never going to come close enough to a man like this to have the opportunity to have a relationship with him for him to even cheat on them. whatever applies to them doesn’t apply to the rest, like the divide between the rich and the poor, so it doesn’t even matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:17 PM
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why do you guys say this as if the women who like casual sex or are slutty don’t already know this and admit it? liars exist in all demographics, but that doesn’t mean everybody is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:11 PM
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anyone who uses “incel” as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:01 PM
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i think they’re calling them incels because they’re struggling with sex and dating, just like self-proclaimed incels are. i don’t know how many are or aren’t incels, but i do know the woe-is-me posts always happen at a higher frequency when subs where they frequent get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:59 PM
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it’s a fantasy. and you said not all low n count women get an n count pass, so why should i care about whether or not it raises the n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:55 PM
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i don’t expect many incels to be at r/ askmen, and i‘d like to think they have enough sense not to berate women in spaces where that’s obviously going to attract responses shaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:55 PM
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yes, the evolving reality that reddit’s getting rid of incel subs and they’ve got few other places to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:35 PM
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to me, showing up is an effort. it can count as “no effort” because it’s extremely little effort, but it still counts as some kind of effort. like i said, it’s still “something.” how much effort a guy has to put in doesn’t really matter. the point is, even chad has to do something. he has to show up and exist with exceptional genes to offer to women. that’s his “something.” he’s just lucky his “something” is easy. you think chad just walks outside and a woman is standing out his front door with …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:34 PM
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my fantasy is being romanced and provided for by 2-5 men, each fulfilling needs that aren’t being fulfilled by the other(s) and i can sleep with any of them at will. i’d never sleep with more than once at once though, i’m just not into the idea of that. i’d rather focus all my attention on one man in the moment. but it’s less about other people, and more about how gross i’d feel about myself in the aftermath.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:24 PM
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i didn’t say it was about effort. what are you going on about? it’s already been established that chad’s offering is his exceptional genes, that’s his “something.” other men have to offer “something” else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:05 PM
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well, unfortunately for them, the other men don’t have his genes, so they’ll have to offer something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:07 PM
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okay, and his “existing” still counts as something because he’s existing as someone with genes that everyone wants their children to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:50 PM
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it still counts as something. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:48 PM
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actually, chad does have to do something to get women to drop their panties. it’s just that, luckily for him, being exceptionally attractive counts as something. every man has to do something, chad is just lucky that his something is a lot easier than other men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:31 PM
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yes, many women are hypocrites. your mistake was assuming i’m a feminist just because i’m american. in this country, paying for dates is considered traditionally masculine and it has always been a thing for men to pay for the dates. modern feminism has changed that. not sure how they define masculinity in your country. if it’s not provision, then what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:07 PM
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except it does. what actions are considered masculine? providing and protecting. how do you provide? with $$$. no, handing money to a woman isn’t masculine; but paying for the dates is. that’s why, traditionally, the man always paid for the dates. so why date women who aren’t feminine if what you want is feminine women? do you expect feminine women to pay for dates then? yes, the man paying for the date benefits the woman. that’s obvious. doesn’t mean there couldn’t possibly be any other reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:45 PM
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well at least now i understand your thought process better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:32 PM
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so you still expect women to be feminine, yes? then you should understand why women want the dude to pay for a “minuscule thing like a coffee.” because that’s how men can demonstrate that they’re masculine, by providing. that means paying for “minuscule things like coffee.” why men expect women to be feminine while not offering masculinity in return is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:19 PM
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do you want an answer to your initial question? if so, then please answer: why does a dude want me to wear a dress or have long hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:13 PM
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so even women who don’t engage in casual sex can still be considered the same as high n women, by no fault of their own? so basically, you can be a slut even when you do everything right. then why should women care to keep their n counts low anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:11 PM
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well the act of a man sucking another man’s penis is homosexual, by definition. so, by that definition, that man can’t be straight. yes, but does that make them a rude person? does that one time make them a person who can be defined by their rudeness? no he would not be straight, but i don’t think this analogy really makes sense here. for one, sexuality is much more complicated. for two, your example is asking if they’re still straight after engaging in gay sex. i’m asking if even doing one “slu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:10 PM
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so any woman who is not a virgin is a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:04 PM
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so she doesn’t get a pass, even though she only had sex with the guy because she believed he was her legitimate boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:03 PM
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why does a dude want me to wear a dress or have long hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:03 PM
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“many” is defined as “a lot.” just because a person believes 2 is “a lot” doesn’t mean that’s objectively true. okay so if someone says something that’s rude one time in their life, does that automatically make them a rude person even if they’ve only ever been rude once?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:24 PM
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i hate when people do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:05 PM
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“slut” is defined as “a woman who has many casual sexual partners.” how can a woman who has only had casual sex with one or two men be a slut, then? one or two is not “many.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:59 PM
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you asked “is sex a transactional matter?” i answered: no because whether he paid or not, i still wasn’t gonna fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:56 PM
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yeah, probably. it’s weird because like i said, it seems like half aren’t into it at all and the other half are already settling. it’s like we already knew which of us would settle early and which of us would exercise their options once we graduated high school. what i’m seeing is that the people who wanted to be in relationships are in relationships, and the people who wanted to exercise their options are still doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:55 PM
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i believe you, lull.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:48 PM
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i know, which is why i asked. anyone can answer, although i’m very curious to know pickle’s opinion on the n count topic because it seems to be significant to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:48 PM
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it can’t be transactional if sex wasn’t on the table to transact in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:47 PM
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it’s just a joke. whether or not i’m attractive is for other people to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:47 PM
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no i see that too. most people i know in ltr’s that have lasted longer than 1-2 years have already moved in together. i feel like in the next couple years, i’ll be seeing these same folks getting engaged and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:46 PM
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this is not resonating with my experience as a gen z woman lol plenty of us want relationships and do find them. i know of at least 5 couples around my age who are engaged/married right now. that’s not even including the many ltr’s i know of. i wouldn’t say they’re the majority, but they’re certainly not exceptions either. if anything, it’s more like half and half. half still want relationships, half just want casual situations. i know women who like casual sex and do it often and women who pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:37 PM
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her n count is relevant because i’m asking what makes a woman “high n.” whether or not she’s single isn’t relevant in the particular discussion i’m trying to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:33 PM
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saw something on a pickme sub about how you have to run if your man ever sees a stacy and stacy comes in all flavors like “goth stacy” or “tradcon stacy” and she included “ethnic stacy” as its own category, and i thought it was really funny so i decided to make it my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:31 PM
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oh, there are passes? how entertaining. what about women who thought the guy was a legitimate boyfriend and only slept with him because of that, and she didn’t know the guy was only committing to get to sleep with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:24 PM
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so any woman who has had casual sex is a slut, even if she only had casual sex with one or two men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:21 PM
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he said if you’re a woman who has had casual sex, then you’re not a woman who “doesn’t do hookups” and you should just accept being treated as a high n woman because that’s who you are. so even if a woman had casual sex once or twice in her life, but married one man and stayed with him; she is still a high n woman? or, like in your example of a 28 year old woman who had casual sex once in her youth, she is still a high n woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:10 PM
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what if you’ve had casual sex and your n count is 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:05 PM
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no because whether he paid or not, i still wasn’t gonna fuck him 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:58 PM
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no because he’s still fucking me, just a younger version of me. it’s weird, but it’s still me so it’s technically not cheating. i don’t think it would be cheating the other way around either. if i’m fucking future him, it’s still him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:57 PM
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yes. it’s probably because he doesn’t initiate the conversation or meeting up after. plenty of dudes have gotten my number and then i never heard from them again. not sure why they expected me to hit them up first when they were the ones who went out of their way to get my number in the first place. i wouldn’t be surprised if this is the reason for 33-50% of dudes who make this complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:54 PM
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it’s not that we can’t, it’s that we don’t have to. so of course we’d have to if we were average dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:48 PM
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my favorite is when people leave long comments or multiple comments (usually including insults) on old threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:45 PM
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offer commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:39 PM
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it’s actually true that you can still be the pockmarked 70-year-old lady even if you’re attractive. a guy being attractive doesn’t automatically give him consent. just because some women will let an attractive guy do just about anything to them doesn’t mean we all will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:16 PM
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gross tbh. it honestly makes me feel dirty, like i need to take 1 million showers to wash the smell of male predation off of me. it’s unfortunate that terrible men have made me feel this way about male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:02 PM
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it really depends on the individual, what they believe in, what they want, and mainly what it’s supposed to be helping. for someone who just wants casual sex or short-term relationships and/or someone who believes sex doesn’t have to mean anything, then waiting wouldn’t help. for someone who wants the opposite or believes in opposite ideas, waiting would help. personally, i choose to wait. there is never a set time, it just depends on when the man has demonstrated emotional investment in me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:38 PM
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i actually agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:42 PM
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i would learn to be seductive and screen for relationship-oriented women. if that were to yield negative results, i’d just stop trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:41 PM
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depends on who you’re asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:31 PM
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yes. people are always shitting on sahp, whether it’s a man or a woman, because american society seems to believe that people are only valuable once they have a successful career and a 5 or 6-figure income. also, notice that most of everything considered stereotypically feminine has a negative connotation to it. men and women both seem to agree that stereotypical femininity is worthy of shame and avoidance, while stereotypical masculinity is celebrated and encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:08 PM
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the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:00 PM
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i don’t think you know what “dominant” and “submissive” mean then. the capacity to be observant and care about other people has nothing to do with whether or not a person is dominant in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:54 PM
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