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She's explicitly told you that you're shit in bed (and you are absolutely horrible in bed based on what you've said here) and you aren't doing anything about it. Why is she fucking a child instead of a man? Be less shitty of a man, I guarantee she's going to wise up and fuck someone better. You can say you don't care, but as you age, women will put up with less of your pathetic teenage style fucking. I sure as fuck hope you aren't so useless in bed that you just make out and then put it in.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:19 PM
2

That doesn't mean the answer is OP should suck it up, accept the role, and live a life of resentment feeling like a servant doing more than her share in a relationship. Just because things might not be equal doesn't mean he shouldn't contribute to household maintenance. Cleaning isn't an illusion.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 06:58 PM
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Why isn't he doing half the housework?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 06:57 PM
1

I see you're a glaring white supremacist per your post history - perhaps that's why you hold this unsubstantiated and horribly unhealthy belief and also are miserable. Food for thought. Consider getting help instead of trying to change your hair for the attention of some men who may very well not be worth your time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 06:51 PM
1

Also, he says that he is fine being accountable to other men, just not to me. For this subject? Or in general? Maybe he believes that porn and masturbation are men's realm for some reason and thinks you won't be able to empathize with him or support him. Now, that's not good or helpful long term, but it would make sense. If he holds this attitude in the marriage in general, that is a huge and blaring issue that needs to be addressed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 06:47 PM
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(Insists that I should be 100% accountable to him for everything.) What happened when you discussed this unreasonable double standard with him? Did he empathize with your position, or assert that only one of you is accountable for how their actions affect the marriage? Does he have this idea in other aspects of the relationship or just this - if it's just this, it's him struggling with his addiction. If it's other things, you have much larger issues to deal with. His perspective on honesty and s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 06:45 PM
1

Have you considered that they aren't the irrational and ill-educated idiots of this situation? Man what's wrong with people, just be a fucking person
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:52 PM
1

Have you considered in the month since you said this the reality that this perspective makes you either a homosexual or asexual?
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 01:58 AM
7

Her giving you head can just as easily cause STDs. So if you're letting that happen, you're not actually freaked out by them and it's a bullshit excuse. ​ Oral = better in bed, fuck off what anyone else says unless you find a very niche woman. No different than a woman refusing to go down on you - why would you waste your time when you have better options? Doesn't mean you've got to do it, live your life, but it's the reality. Just do it if you want to.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:47 AM
1

Except for all the data that we have on the economic impact and death toll of the three solutions?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:58 PM
1

He always wants to close the borders. Because racism. He's just an opportunist taking advantage of the current circumstances to make decisions not related to the current circumstances.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:56 PM
4

Then go live somewhere else if you don't believe in science or the legitimacy of the reality that there are not only individuals because you live in a fucking community. Or the legality of the decisions being made. If you're in the US, you don't get to shout fire in a movie theatre because that "Free speech" infringes on other people's safety. This is no different. Go respond emotionally somewhere else ​ You don't like your government? Get the fuck out and move somewhere else. Not our loss.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:55 PM
4

"No self-respecting man believes in science, and me going to the gym is more important than literal lives"
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:54 PM
1

This is incredibly misguided . You do not seem well educated on the topic and severely oversimplify the issue.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:53 PM
1

You're spending time with people you don't like and you're complaining about it instead of getting rid of people you don't like. This is a you problem.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:50 PM
2

And narrow hips. Bone structure matters.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 10:47 PM
6

Wow the irony, anyone gonna acknowledge the lack of self awareness happening?
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 10:43 PM
0

You don't really believe that verifiable and accurate truth do you. I don't like it and my feelz matter more than reality so it's not true FTFY
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 10:31 PM
3

(he's not a criminal defense attorney)
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 10:27 PM
-1

You also can't teach gender in all cases, turns out
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 08:31 PM
8

Do whatever you want to do? Have sex if you want to, don't if you don't.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 08:28 PM
1

Kanye is literally a shell of a human being and fundamentally lacking in cognitive capabilities. Why would you ever look up to that shill?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:26 PM
1

You all realize that show wasn't celebrating or propping up the alpha male rich family man of the 50s and 60s, right? Donald Draper wasn't put together or alpha, that's the point
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:24 PM
1

Nope, still incredibly pathetic. Just be a worthwhile person with boundaries, don't rely on the assertion of those boundaries by a fucking contract. Jesus people have some standards. This place...
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:23 PM
1

That's pathetic as fuck...
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:22 PM
1

By that absurd biological logic, the same applies to women with many children from many men.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:21 PM
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You very clearly said shit about women not being good people or nice people when you said they inherently all manipulate. No one's twisting your words, you just don't know what words mean.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:19 PM
1

You act like how you look doesn't matter to women. Money doesn't make you attractive, neither does status, it just makes you someone they're more willing to settle for if you happen to not be hot enough
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:17 PM
1

How is he based? Sounds bitter and like he needs a hobby if anything
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:11 PM
13

If you call it a dick appointment you aren't ready to have sex.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:10 PM
3

Why is your mom part of your sex life?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:09 PM
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Yeah you sound insecure and/or antiquated. You also not going to take off your shirt at the beach because as a man in a relationship your body should be for her eyes, not seeking validation, otherwise you're not conservative or modest enough to merit an LTR?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:06 PM
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She feels the same way about you. Be a normal person and deal with it. Also, if you don't trust scientists or value human life you got bigger issues my guy.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:05 PM
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You made all of this up. It is not founded in facts or indicated to be true in any way at all by statistical measures. 99% of men are not like this. Stop making things up and treating them as facts. Additionally, most men aren't stupid enough to need to be explained to that women are people who don't want to be treated as objects that can be cast aside and ignored after sex. Not her job to train him to be a human.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 01:35 AM
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People like sex and variety. What are you confused about? This isn't news.
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 01:58 AM
2

But if it's a woman then suddenly she doesn't?
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 01:51 AM
1

Marriage is a bigger commitment than having children? Or dropping out of school or quitting your job forever?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 12:20 AM
1

"women with behaviors mirroring borderline personality disorder are toxic, unstable, ruining dating, and horribly abusive. Stay away from them, they're the bottom of the barrel people. That being said, your dating strategy should be to mirror borderline personality disorder tendencies. But it's not abusive, manipulative, or pathetic when you do it because reasons"
/r/askTRP02/05/20 12:10 AM
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Holy unsubstantiated generalizations batman
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:58 PM
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I'd love to see a source that actually concludes what you're suggesting and doesn't loosely correlate them or just listing general divorce rates (if it's him feeling inferior causing divorce for example, it doesn't back such a claim). Besides, nothing wrong with being the change you want to see in the world instead of just continuing archaic and biologically unfounded traditions.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:52 PM
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Why do men do the same to female spaces? People are crazy and love to argue and get triggered.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:35 AM
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I'm sorry are you sitting here telling us you think you know you don't have an STD because you don't have symptoms? That's literally all you have to "prove" it even though you know that means jack shit? How the actual fuck do you know you don't have an STD if you aren't getting tested? Jesus fuck the education system is making idiots out of this entire generation Fucking educate yourself you idiot kid
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:12 AM
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Because being a parent means mothering both of your children and not just dealing with the one causing a problem?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 04:45 PM
1

So... your claim is a bunch of unsubstantiated pseudoscience armchair psychology and low grade bitter ranting about unrelated topics
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 04:43 PM
2

Oof you should really work on surrounding yourself with better company
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 04:42 PM
3

Because apparently modern medicine isn't real
/r/MGTOW12/04/20 03:56 PM
2

It's almost like being a shitty selfish partner isn't productive or attractive. Wow. Who would have thought. "We could have talked about this but instead you chose to break up," no shit. If she pulled that bullshit on you would you want to talk it out or would you tell her to fuck off and use someone else?
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:56 AM
1

"cozy’ relationship which is an adjective that reeks of codependence and the idea of a relationship honestly kind of is weird to me at this point." But you think women are the ones broken and unable to pair bond by current sexual practices...
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:48 AM
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I've just never come across someone who thinks that a man getting laid is a man being fucking loved and doted on and all these other benefits that women don't give to their hookups. it directly contradicts the point subreddit, which states that you bring more to the table than being a piece of ass. Sure, wait for commitment or don't for sex, it doesn't make a difference, but either way suggesting that he gets everything he wants just because he's getting fucked is so dismissive of men's depth an…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 12:37 AM
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...yes, through therapy. Which was their advice
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 12:27 AM
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Exactly. It's no different than women looking down on and being less attracted to older men, especially men who wasted their youthful and most virile years winding up angry and bitter because of bad relationships. You wouldn't want to marry a man who needs fixing and emotional labor after he's bonded with and then been then broken a serious relationship with someone in his youth. It's not his job just like you wouldn't want it to be your job.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 12:25 AM
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"Just settle for a man you aren't attracted to instead of being a happy single person. You're not entitled to a partner you are compatible with, but there's nothing wrong with winding up with a man who doesn't take care of himself. And make sure to ignore the statistics that women who date older men die younger"
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 12:23 AM
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Exactly. It's no different than the fact that women find men in their 20s more sexually attractive. Sure, they find men their own age more Attractive (on the whole), but that won't change the reality that they're checking out fit young guys at the beach over fit 40 year olds. Even though they'd most never sate, or even sleep with, the hotter guy. Reminding women of this and the fact that there is just different language around it based on the gender you're talking about tends to help them grasp …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:44 AM
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How did you go from him getting sex to him getting full on wife benefits from her? That's a leap and not what's being discussed. He drops his plates because she's all the things besides sex. Because men care about more than sex.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:41 AM
1

But does he? That's the question. Fixing your own problems you should do no matter what. But if he isn't concerned, it's not on you to carry and fix the problems of the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:38 AM
1

Okay let's step back from the conspiracy theories for a second. This just screams MGTOW illogical and rabid ranting
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:33 AM
0

But it wasn't more feasible for women to stay at home compared to today... Did you make a new account to repost this when you didn't get the answers you wanted last time, or is this just a recurring theme suddenly?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:30 AM
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US history isn't even close to the bulk of human history or in any way representative of gender dynamics. And for the bulk of human history 99.999% of women worked, handled money, were alone without their husband managing the work plenty of the time, etc. In all honestly, while I recognize this is a rant, you really do come off as quite lazy. You're complaining about having to do what almost every human, man and woman, that has ever existed since the dawn of time has had to do. It's a reasonable…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:28 AM
1

This isn't true though. You wouldn't date an ugly or even mediocre looking man just because he has money, after all. Everyone needs to be attractive to be a partner that is listed after. It's not some female curse. And being attractive won't get you as far as you think.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:26 AM
1

By recognizing that it means everything to everyone. You wouldn't lust after or be interested in an ugly man just because he has a good personality or money. It's no different for men. The same goes for friends and employers. You're judged on your appearance by everyone, and you judge everyone on their appearance. This isn't some secret gender revelations, it's people being people like we've all known since birth. And you "forgive" yourself by recognizing that not being what people want you to b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:23 AM
4

"let me tell you what you think and how you feel based on experiences you've lived while I explain that men are one dimensional, flat characters void of basic human needs and desires." The misandry my god, go hate men elsewhere
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:18 AM
2

Yes it's good to know you have similar values and hopes from a relationship. It's productive for platonic relationships, too
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:17 AM
1

Exactly. How some think both people in a relationship don't need to be respected and trusted in order to fully feel loved is beyond me. It's always concerning how much of a revelation it seems to be for some, as it's something we all need. Good on you for spreading that awareness
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:16 AM
4

But then this place is flooded with "if women were the submissive, feminine, docile gals they're supposed to be then men would want to have meaningful relationships with them." The lack of awareness is astounding.
/r/MGTOW04/04/20 01:11 AM
1

Lol hold up now, you think she's the one with red flags and has low SMV showing? Your post history, fucking kids jesus. I'm genuinely shocked a girl is willing to fuck you
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:04 AM
1

Lemme guess, moon landing and Holocaust denier, too? Yeah, let's just fuck the world economy and drain resources as a liberal conspiracy guyz, it'll be fun! Just because the hospital near you isn't overrun doesn't mean others are fine. What is this "if I don't see it in front of me personally it can't be real" bullshit?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:26 PM
1

"come on you sheeple, New York always runs out of body bags and people die in the hallways during flu season. Stop pretending otherwise. Use logix, but yes you do have to ignore facts and statistics for it to work."
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:25 PM
1

Like the man above me said, it really doesn't seem that way. I hope you guys work on making things either more equitable or find a way to reprioritize, assuming you don't decide to stay at home when this is all over of course.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 01:51 AM
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Even if it were a social construct (studies to date disagree) and ignoring that no one brought it up, to suggest having a worthwhile personality isn't 10,000% necessary to be a whole and attractive individual to either gender is just plain ignorant and a cop-out. Not to mention the consequences to personal fulfillment if OP took that to heart. Let's not go giving bad advice just because you don't think she's prioritizing the way she should (again, ignoring that she knows that and is actively see…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 05:50 PM
1

And feminine not-too-short dresses are now, too? \
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 05:48 PM
2

Or OP is shit in bed
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:39 PM
1

It's really not, when it comes to the incredibly easy-to-Google question you posted
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:38 PM
1

So then why the fuck would a girl waste her time on you? Because you have half a job? You don't have time for the gym means you don't have time to have regular sex OR maintain a relationship. Also none of your positives are positive. Congrats, you listed the attributes of a slightly-below-average-to-average human being, and your negatives bring you to below average.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 05:33 PM
2

It always bothers me that the assumption is that it's promiscuity that leads to (or just correlates to) higher infidelity and divorce compared to lack of promiscuity and those who hold values related to monogamy and virginity actively avoiding divorce and infidelity. Religious people are less likely to get divorced even when they absolutely should, for an oversimplified example. So far these studies have all been grasping at conclusions and I haven't yet seen a good one correct for even the most…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 03:28 PM
1

That's even more far fetched and even worse "science," though.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 03:24 PM
3

Just take a joke and laugh off someone putting a blow drier in your face like a normal fucking person. Get out of here and go outside instead of wasting your time on this shit
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:22 PM
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So they aren't disrespecting you at all, you're just a boring emotional little bitch. Got it. That's nothing to do with TRP or women, you're just a moody teenager and no one likes that. Go outside, kid.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:13 PM
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No need. They're neutral statements just like the one you said. OP isn't a 7 year old and there isn't anything healthy about never being able to outright state obvious truths that aren't even particularly harsh. Some would argue it's less harsh than outright calling him abusive (though he is, based on the OP). I could easily hear a loving aunt say what this person said.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/20 01:40 PM
2

Yes women are expected to women and men things, as they habe grand for grand bull grand human existence. And men are expected to do men things and "women" things, as they always have. Would you want a husband who only focused on career and ignored the "make yourself look good, have interesting hobbies that make you a well-rounded human being, be able to manage and taking care of a home, have a healthy social life and role in the community, and be a capable father" roles? Nothing you've described…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 11:57 PM
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Yeah fuck your reputation and status, it doesn't matter!
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:48 PM
2

You have your 10/10 and she has hers, what's your problem?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:47 PM
3

But this is MGTOW so what they find desirable doesn't matter to the discussion
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 12:04 AM
1

Yeah I know, I don't know when this subreddit suddenly flipped or advocated for blatant inconsistency. What a bummer
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 12:01 AM
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Statistically there are more stupid (and more highly intelligent) men than women, this study has been done. Stop being pathetic, blundering on the internet looking to fuel your superiority complex over women and go outside to do something useful with your life. Most of the women I know aren't stupid enough to ask this question or most of the others you post about, so maybe work on your own smarts given that you're lagging
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:13 PM
2

You grow the fuck up and don't care like a normal person
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:11 PM
0

Damn that's some stupid perspective. Fuck logical concern over consequences because lizard brain.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:54 AM
3

Man that was a trash story
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:52 AM
0

Sometimes people have shit to do that's more important.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:50 AM
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You recently made a post called "am I really being abused," wherein almost everyone said there were huge and unhealthy problems with the relationship, unreasonable sense of entitlement to use your body at the drop of a hat from your husband, and other issues. Your daughter sees these things every day. It sounds like she doesn't want that life and for good reason, but you've actively chosen to ignore her concerns and personhood here so she is understandably (even healthily?) stepping back from it…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 01:11 PM
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Because she isn't an idiot. Don't you have anything to do with your time? Jesus this place
/r/askTRP23/02/20 02:43 AM
0

No you're just not capable of logical thinking or meaningful sentences, that's all. You don't gotta be butthurt about it, you can't help it.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 02:40 AM
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"TRP is supposed to be about logic and reason but I'd rather react emotionally instead of having a consistent worldview or rational opinion"
/r/askTRP22/02/20 09:45 PM
1

You are not a smart person, you poor creature you can't even help it
/r/askTRP22/02/20 09:44 PM
1

I'm confused how do you know that he didn't give her HPV? It's the statistically more likely option.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 02:14 AM
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You fucked 20+ girls in a year but are disgusted by sluts? You're desperately grasping at the possibility to upgrade, but you're sick of hypergamy?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:12 AM
2

You're responsible for your ridiculous and intense insecurities showing here. And the habit of being hot headed and explosive (read: dramatic, unnattractive) as you put it. Just break up and stop bitching if that's how you feel.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:43 PM
4

Yes. It's a fucking poser picture at drinks. Stop overthinking shit that doesn't matter or mean anything.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:41 PM
4

I dunno, you're looking pretty emotional and stupid all over this thread
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:26 AM
10

Someone doesn't understand basic human anatomy
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:25 AM
1

Be good at sex. Don't be bad at sex. Profit.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 02:26 AM
2

I'm glad you got out of that house - though it's weird that he think he shouldn't be the one to leave for a week since he doesn't contribute to the household in any way - consider staying out so you no longer have to raise him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 07:36 PM
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Absolutely do not just trust that he will do the right thing, that's absolutely irresponsible to suggest to her. A family requires more sturdiness than that, and he could easily ruin her life by up and leaving her homeless and unmarketable as a single mother - a much worse fate, financially and otherwise, than him losing assets in a divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 07:30 PM
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There are billions of men out there. You have options, don't settle for someone who doesn't want the same life as you. People are getting married left and right, you're not going to die some spinster cat lady because this one guy doesn't work out.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 07:28 PM
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he drops that he will never get married Is this just a way of telling me it won’t happen with me What else would it be? Break up and find someone else to have children and a marriage with
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 07:26 PM
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It isn't that you cum quick, it's that you're bad in bed overall. Be good in bed and this isn't an issue.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:11 PM
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