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Very good analysis. I'm not quite sure about the mother-daughter dynamic you describe. However, the father-son analysis is on point.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/20 11:03 AM
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It's not just about the looks. A lot of males have a fucked up reward system from constantly giving into instant gratifications. Lifting gives you a reward over the long term when you start to see results and realize it's because of your hard work you put in. Cleaning up your diet and getting rid of all the shit you're eating with tons of sugar will probably follow and then off you go into the realm of compound effects. Going to the gym is relatively easy and accessable, so it's the perfect help…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:29 PM
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Abundance.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:31 AM
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Not gonna lie, they had us in the first half
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:41 PM
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No, we had a D/s style relationship and she broke a few rules I set her in terms of behavior towards me. Cheating is 100% hard next without looking back
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:27 AM
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Bunch of whining about how's she's sorry for stepping over a line. Lots of crying, anyway, I take her back. Two weeks of perfect good girl behavior, then repeat the cycle. Happened about 5-6 cycles, then I cut it off. Best decision I ever made although I miss the sex specifically with her.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:38 PM
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Did that, never again. You won't listen based off how your writing sounds, but regardless: Don't fucking take her back. She will cross the boundary again.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:39 PM
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Is your sleep schedule consistent? Hours of sleep matter much less than how consistent you sleep schedule is. Felt like absolute shit too when my sleep schedule was inconsistent, even though I got 9 hours. When I got consistent (including weekends), everything changed. Also, only needed 7hrs.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:54 AM
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You've let it go too far, if you are honest with both you'll fuck up 2 friendships because you've lied to them for 3 years. If it was 2 months you could've confessed, but you've driven it too far. Keep the friendship with the one friend you like best, let the other one fade. PS Don't burn the bridge, just let it fade so you can go back if you need to.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 08:05 PM
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First of all, block her on everything. Seeing her or talking to her will make this worse. Next, time. Lots of time. This shit's gonna sting and the only thing that will help is your hobbies, the gym, fucking chicks and being distracted. Other than that, it will go away. Good luck
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:58 PM
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Don't become "that guy". You can just cold approach somewhere else. You'll definitely fuck up your place in the social hierarchy if you are not good at cold approaching and now the whole college thinks you're creepy. Practice cold approaching somewhere else if everyone knows everyone. In that environment, it's way more effective to display value through parties, being fun and being the leader of a friend group or president of a club
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:13 AM
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As harsh as it may be some times, you don't owe anyone your time. Sometimes it's better to let go instead of trying to fix everyone's problems. You've got a life of your own which you deserve to live happily without the constant bullshit (whether that's being an emotional tampon for women or being a shoulder to cry on for your cuck male friend). You don't owe anyone your time or attention
/r/askTRP27/04/19 11:45 AM
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I'm an atheist, but you don't have any clue about the extremely crucial cultural role of religion on western society. It's absolutely not something that belongs in the middle ages
/r/MensRights24/04/19 04:52 PM
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This is amazing. Thank you good sir for writing that which we didn't know we needed, but desperately needed.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 07:33 AM
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Most chicks like that, doesn't necessarily have anything to do woth daddy issues
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:22 AM
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The point being? You can't spread useful knowledge because you don't look like Chad?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:07 AM
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When you can't do a pullup, what exercise are you going to do to achieve being able to do pullups? Pullups. To develop social skills in talking to females, you need to talk to females
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:19 PM
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Some of these posts just baffle the shit out of me. It's almost like: Hey my girlfriend, who I totally have oneitis for, is cheating on me and disrespecting me. Can I save my beta cuck relationship??? Be a goddamn man, break up and work on yourself. If you don't respect yourself so much that you're able to leave, how do you expect her to respect you?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:41 PM
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Listen bro, we need stress and something to "fight" against. A challenge, a struggle. What you need to do is find challenges outside your relationship. A hard task at work, martial arts, the gym, whatever. If we have no challenge, it tends to get boring.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:31 AM
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Meh, nobody is a "true alpha" in the sense you're talking about. Sure, you can be "true alpha" but the truth is: Men still have feelings, and a relationship with another human being will leave some feelings. Seeing your ex is just going to distract you unnecessary from your mission and fuck with you. So it's not "weak" if you block her.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:59 PM
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Jezus Christ are you writing a novel? Look at the length of your messages vs her messages. Make her work for it, you just look desperate. Short messages, witty remarks, disqualification, little compliments. Don't write walls of text.
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:12 AM
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Quit. This jobs is not going to get easier. Work on your value by working out and working on your wit and social skills. Your SMV also influences how other men view you. Who, as a boss, would you be more comfortable with having a confrontation about his tables, the massive social alpha dude, or the skinny awkward beta guy?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:19 PM
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I'm from Western Europe, AMA :)
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:31 AM
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Enjoy you time alone, and schedule hours for reading books
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:33 AM
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Don't judge OP for being a Hot Babe
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 06:15 PM
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No need to buy a drink. Make some eye contact preferably, walk up to her and say something and then introduce yourself. Just don't make it something really corny like "You have nice eyes" I.e. if she's not smiling: "Hey there, don't frown so much, aren't you having fun?" And then introduce yourself "I'm Steven by the way, nice to meet you". After introducing just make small talk to she if she's throwing IOI's. Bonus tip, take a small step back after you've made your first comment. This will give…
/r/seduction16/02/19 05:58 PM
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First of all, don't sweat it so much. "Once in a lifetime" seriously, with this scarcity mindset you won't achieve shit. Have a good time, agree&amplify, tease the shit out of her and just make it your playground
/r/askTRP16/02/19 05:42 PM
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You framing of the last question is just the cherry on top of this pathetic post. Get yourself together man. Have some fucking standards. You are in HER frame. You are being in HER trial mode. You are asking us how you can it's possible for YOU to get better so SHE will like you more and put you out of "trial mode". Soft next. If you have any value to her, she will reach out, and then you put her in your frame. If she doesn't contact you, you didn't have any value to her anyway Good luck.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 09:26 AM
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Depends, some of these men really do enjoy this submissive behavior and it's consensual. BUT, It's hard to draw a line of where it's not possible for someone to consent to this so I do get your point. In the end it's legal if both parties are above the age of consent and it's voluntary.
/r/MensRights28/11/18 07:20 PM
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Don't scratch it. Observe the feeling, feel the itch, but do not scratch. You will feel it fading away. Focus on your breathing if it helps distract you.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 10:27 AM
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TL;DR Guy uses weird tactics to get attention from a group while he doesn't just say: "Hi, I'm ...... " which was probably more effective.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 06:23 AM
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You don't need toys to dominate. Domination is mostly mental, not physical. Just have sex as you would like, don't change your entire sex just for her.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:36 PM
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"Who's this?" Don't explain, just ask the question. If she pressures you, make a light joke like: "I delete contacts that don't message me often enough ;)"
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:28 PM
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Hahaha broooo, you can be alpha without being a disrespectful, mean guy
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:26 PM
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You're taking this quite literally, substitute with "Grab a coffee" or "grab an ice cream" and you're good to go.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:05 PM
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First of all, you sealed the deal so good job on your part. Get some ice cream and happy fucking. There are a few things I'd leave out to perfect your game Cut the "I'm really respectful". This is had niceguy written all over it. It looks like you need her validation that you're a good guy, no matter how you intended to say it. Leave out it that "lol" at the end. It's just unnecessary and reads like you aren't really sure about what you're saying/are ashamed of it.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:42 AM
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I personally never do dinner man for potential plates/FwB. It just reinforces the BF/GF setting too much. I'd propose (but in an assertive manner) to grab some drinks somewhere. If she's down to fuck and your frame is okay, she will go home with you.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:35 AM
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The Red Pill is a toolbox, you grab what you want to use, leave the rest. You feel like talking to them a bit instead of pure logistics? Go ahead. Nobody fucking stopping you. You do you. Advice wise, I would suggest keeping it pretty minimal on the texts. You can play around a bit, ask some questions, make a little bit of fun of her. But don't go having full blown conversations with her. Just invite her to grab some drinks with you. If she doesn't want, she isn't into you. If she agrees, there …
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:35 PM
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Marriage or LTR's are not necessarily "bad". What is bad, according to Red Pill philosophy, is turning into basically a slave for sex and attention from your ONEitis (GF/Wife). The problem is that with marriages and LTR's, is in order to make them work you are going to have to be a little bit bèta. What is exceptionally hard is showing a bit of bèta attitude inside of your alpha frame. The balance between alpha en bèta needs to be just right. Also, in an marriage or LTR, you are getting constant…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:27 PM
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Nice.
/r/MensRights06/08/18 01:20 AM
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You have to work on yourself and really internalize that abundance mentality. Just getting under someone new will only distract you.
/r/seduction05/08/18 03:35 PM
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The money thing is really petty and overkill. It's not worth it. Ghost her, and don't look back. The problem with the money thing is that it enforces a kind of "punishment", as if she must receive one. It's not about her. It's about OP. He needs to break up and never look back PURELY FOR HIMSELF. Not to "punish" her, but because he is worth more than a cheating girl.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:10 PM
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Read the sidebar, apart from that just get good grades in school and work out
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:35 PM
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Be proud of yourself for being here at TRP, questioning if pussy is all that matters. You will be surrounded by these boys. Build yourself during this time of your life. Get an amazing body, learn a language, build yourself.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:32 PM
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What is the question exactly?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:28 PM
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Enjoy it, and always thread with caution
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:28 AM
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Being interesting is mostly about just a tiny percentage of what you say. What I mean by this is that you don't have to everything right to be interesting. People love to talk about themselves, just ask questions. You stated that you were a bit introverted. This is great for you as you will rarely have to talk. Just fire away with the questions, and when they answer, ask a question about something in their answer. Ask questions about them and let them guide you to what they are most passionate a…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:26 AM
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Never suck it all up. Talk about stuff. That being said: Never do so with her. Do you have a close friend? A parent, brother, sister to talk to? Dealing with it all alone can be very hard a frankly terrifying. Find someone, preferably a male close friend you can share things with and vent a little.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:19 AM
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You will know if you are fucking her against her will. As for fake rape allegations, send her a text the day after: "I had a great time last night". This will invoke a reply along the lines of: Yeah, me too. Which you can use if she claims you raped her
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:16 AM
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I will almost always send her a text the day after with a simple: "I had a great time yesterday". This is just to give her the message that I found it enjoyable. (Women generally want a kind of validation, assuming that you held a nice strong frame) For setting up a second date, either set it up after the "great time" message if she seems super eager. Otherwise, wait until like the third day. P.S. Do not text her the third day if she didn't even respond to the "great time" message. If you are im…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:05 AM
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This is a hard truth and you may not want to hear it, but if you give in to this she will lose interest fast, your attractiveness will go down drastically. Ultimately, this being available all the time will kill your relationship or give her all the power and control. Deny her a bit. Being always available brings your worth down. Have some time for yourself. Have your own life! Create routines. Go to the gym once a week on a set day instead if chilling with your LTR. Go to a hobby of yours every…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 09:54 AM
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Don't apologize, just call her tomorrow and ask when she's free to grab some ice-cream downtown
/r/seduction24/07/18 04:19 AM
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That's why I wouldn't recommend it
/r/askTRP24/07/18 01:57 AM
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Follow up text made you look really beta. If you really wanted to text her her about it, which I would strongly recommend not to, make it a joke instead of such a beta needy question + "lol". It's just a plate. Go to the gym and watch an episode of The Red Pill interviews. :)
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:05 PM
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It is not.
/r/MensRights21/07/18 02:33 PM
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I'm sure. Besides, look up: "Women's only parking spots" on google. You'd be suprised how common this discrimination is.
/r/MensRights21/07/18 10:14 AM
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The last 3 words made me laugh out loud. Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:14 AM
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Yeah America is a really marvelous place to live in. /s Regards, An European
/r/askTRP09/07/18 01:21 PM
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