Enf0rc3 Archive

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6	Still having a lot of trouble getting over AA Recovering AFC here. Its always hard the first 5-30 times as most people have never talked to a stranger before, let alone someone that you find attractive. I have done different things to get over my AA these are what i done, with the help of seddit ofcourse. 1)First of all accept that you may be shy and have the fear, just simply accept it and ignore it, don't try justify it, just ignore it and soon it will be gone. (if you cant ignore focus more on step 2 instead of the fear). 2)Next i rememb…	/r/seduction	28/11/11 10:14 AM
3	I value their friendship Still a choice but don't expect to have a gf for much longer.	/r/seduction	16/10/11 05:47 AM
1	How do you make the jump? kino, close together.	/r/seduction	12/10/11 03:25 AM
2	Should I date my ex's friend? How should I approach this? Sure, but remember be prepared for them to talk. they will share stories ect. its hard to be able to trust them not to talk to each other so always watch what you say. but go for it. just be prepared.	/r/seduction	08/10/11 11:04 AM
1	FB convo with japanese girl, think it went well This is true, with the language issue its often harder to be witty with humor, try to focus more on body language and eye contact make them fall for that. also the way you act. make them laugh not through words but through actions. good luck.	/r/seduction	29/09/11 08:15 AM
1	FB convo with japanese girl, think it went well Have read elsewhere its often good to get the woman to wear something that you say as it shows her your dominance and makes you appear more alpha, and then when she complies you can then build attraction by approving of her choice to do what you asked. and this helps build the relationship. not sure if it works, just what i read somewhere here.	/r/seduction	29/09/11 08:13 AM
1	Cute girl in class who I sit next to... Again its still on you following not to let her feel awkward, sure she will probably say yes, but if she says no, its then up to you not to let it be awkward, if you ignore her and don't talk to her, it will be that way. just still say hi be nice, let her see you as a person and not a creep that asked one day and never said a word again. friendly and comforting and the awkwardness vanishes.	/r/seduction	29/09/11 04:26 AM
1	Friend Zoned Well as long as you haven't been friend zoned yet, i just keep up the flirting but don't make an effort to go out there, sms the odd face book chat, i don't hang out as it is likely to sink you into the FZ , unless with a big group of course. but similar to what dejust said, if you run into her you are still a potential mate that they will keep in the back of their head.	/r/seduction	22/09/11 10:21 PM
3	Friend Zoned GAME ALL THE WOMEN!	/r/seduction	22/09/11 09:06 AM
2	Need help getting to the next level! rapport, comfort, kino. also (always assume attraction until she says no).\ Still noob here but this is what i have learned so far.	/r/seduction	22/09/11 09:03 AM
4	Friend Zoned My rule with friend zones, is drop her (sorry i'm not intersted in just being friends, nothing personal) then dont ignore her, but i wait until the guy messes up. they always do. sounds bad but "keep her on the back burner until shes ready to boil" make sure you dont remain that "comfort friend beta crap. will get you deeper into the FZ. college is great infinite potential women!	/r/seduction	22/09/11 09:00 AM
5	Friend Zoned Moved too fast, drop her you are better. you have the confidence, just work on comfort and seduction, make them want you more. Built repport with them as a potential partner, from your first meet you need to make it clear, lover or the highway, dont stress you sound like you are in HS you got all the time in the world. care less about women there is always atleast a few out there that want you, you just havent meet them. tl:dr: move on shes not into you, you would have a shit relationship anyway…	/r/seduction	22/09/11 08:49 AM
1	AFC here again, recently girls have been saying stuff like this, is this a good sign? I always find a good humor check to gauge interest, girls probably don't realize this but if they are into you they will laugh at everything. a good test for me is to say something not funny at all and watch their reaction. if they smile or laugh or give a good vibe, its on. its amazing how much of an indicator it is.	/r/seduction	17/09/11 12:06 AM
3	Walked up to a girl who had gorgeous eyes and said? "Beautiful eyes." Being afraid of rejection is something that needs to be stomped out, its one of the situatuions if you don't put yourself through it then how do you expect the situation to go further, if you had no intention to have a conversation then fine, but if you wanted to practice your game, next time stick around and smile . don't be one of the guys that drive past in cars and shout out "NICE ASS". Being shot down is really hard in person, most of the time i # close just because they are too polite to s…	/r/seduction	10/09/11 11:48 PM
2	Quick eye contact. What is this ? From another thread, Levels of Eye contact Pretty much there is a chick that gave me "the gaze" and i did nothing, Don't make the same mistake!	/r/seduction	07/09/11 08:10 AM
3	How do you # close? "Hey from the other day i didn't get your number, what is it?" and go on from there?	/r/seduction	07/09/11 07:45 AM