How do you make the jump?

IV-65536 · 2011-10-12T02:37:05+00:00

Uhh....seduce?

scrubzor · 2011-10-12T03:55:35+00:00

going from talking to making out... you will need to create some alone time with her. Going from making out to sex... If the make out session is intensely building up you will need to initiate. If she puts the breaks on, start making out again and try to initiate again in a little bit.

frogma · 2011-10-12T05:11:17+00:00

This is all answered in the sidebar man. I have half a heart to delete this post because it's obvious you haven't read through the sidebar. [I won't delete the post, just hoping you get my gist, and here's to hoping other newbies see it.]

Making "small talk" and making the girl laugh are all a part of the "Attraction" phase. That's basically when you get her interested. During that time, you should be kinoing, and you should be trying to push the boundaries a bit (in a party situation, what I usually do is just throw my arm around her back as soon as I start talking to her- in other situations, scale it down to whatever's appropriate).

Once you've pushed the boundaries a bit, start paying more attention to her eyes and her overall body language. Mainly look at her eyes though- if she's looking at your lips, there's a really good chance she wants to kiss those lips. Even if she doesn't, it's still your obligation to go for it and see what happens.

Otherwise though, just look at the Di Carlo Escalation Ladder and see how it works. You should be starting the physical intimacy as soon as you talk to a girl- it's not always possible, but it is in most cases. Then you physically escalate from there- instead of just touching her arm when you make a point, you might leave your hand on her shoulder while you're talking to other people (or looking for a good spot, or getting to the TV, or going to the dance floor, or literally anything). Then you progress from there.

Title	How do you make the jump?
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Date	October 12, 2011 2:28 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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