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Fuck this post. Everybody has their own struggles. You have no idea what it's like to be anyone but yourself. Men commit suicide more often.
/r/seduction20/07/26 04:19 PM
1

This ironically sounds like a new dating coach pitch
/r/seduction16/07/26 10:30 AM
1

Be okay with the fact that you have needs
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:03 AM
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🤦‍♂️ You know that being an asshole is also free of charge right? Or being annoying. It costs you no money to go annoy people as well. You have no idea how strip clubs work if you think that you're somehow the one knight in shining armor that sees the true girl underneath instead of the vile pigs that use her for her body. You know what she's gonna do? "Haha wow, it's pretty rare for someone to genuinely ask about me. I'd love to get to know you better. I'm not really allowed to have a long conv…
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:33 PM
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Practicing "game" at a strip club is like practicing stand up comedy with a laugh track button In fairness, I could see how going to a strip club could help with anxiety towards women in general, especially if you have sexual anxiety or just find it too intense. But going there with the intention of trying to waste as much of their time as possible is just you practicing being annoying. It's quite literally like going into a restaurant, not buying food but just trying to keep the waiter's attent…
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:26 PM
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What makes you laugh?
/r/seduction14/04/26 03:03 PM
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"The fuck boys don't take women seriously at all" Proceeds to write an entire article about taking things seriously
/r/seduction17/02/26 03:16 PM
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Idk man. If she's good for you, she'll ask you questions. If you really like her, you'll have more energy to invest in attention and conversation. It's not just about the words, I'm only starting to figure that out. Talk about stuff that interests you, and ask about stuff that interests you. You guys might not be compatible. You might be compatible.
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:49 AM
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Get to a spot in the conversation where you feel that you and her are vibing. Ask her to coffee.
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:38 AM
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Idk, this is why I don't browse this sub, because of the comments. A girl that leaves is not some kinda test. She just wants out and all you can do is try to leave the best impression you can. After kissing for 5 min you ask if she wants to fuck? That's clearly hookup territory, even if you're not only looking for a hookup. Horniness for women doesn't have to escalate to penetrative sex like it does for guys. There's no big urge to release. Also, you have no clue what that question could've mean…
/r/seduction28/01/26 12:05 PM
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I haven't showered for months and women feel a lot of disgust around me, why aren't they fucking me if they feel strongly towards me?
/r/seduction09/12/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah, it's really wild. Trying to unravel your entire psyche to get the courage to approach, meanwhile some guys get approached all night. It's unfair. You can only do what you can.
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:05 AM
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Way to seize the moment. I have to ask though; how did you state your interest if you remember? Did you say "you're hot"? Like, at what point? Did you say "let's have sex" when you got in the building? Though honestly, you had her the second she decided to leave the airport with you.
/r/seduction26/09/12 11:00 PM
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At SM meetings, what happens? Like are you expected to hook up with people, or what? What do you think in common PUA stuff actually matters that people wouldn't think about? A lot of it just seems to be logically trying to make you emotionally comfortable. As in, I think you can just be straightforward and laid-back casual as long as you can continue being yourself. I never liked the idea of being overly playful or really energetic or whatnot, because it's too hard for me to do that if I'm not i…
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:32 PM
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Little "social value"? So, they aren't good at interaction, whatever. I have friends like that too. Sometimes, they make me feel a little awkward. They still give me 'social value' though because I enjoy their company. Are your friends really worthless to you though? Like, you seriously don't care about any other aspect of someone (especially a friend), like loyalty, trust, companionship, someone to talk about a cool movie you saw, etc. If they are genuinely assholes and are always pissing you o…
/r/seduction13/07/12 04:35 AM
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In all my interactions, I make it a point to never ask for their names, because that's an IOI and I want them to ask me my name first. This matters a lot less than you think. If things are going good, or hell, even on initial approach, you can ask for the name. Don't actively stop your mind from wanting to know her name. 'You're a good dancer, don't worry about a thing. You're doing very well!' Meh, I don't think this was the best thing to do. What you should've been doing is touching her, spinn…
/r/seduction09/06/12 08:31 AM
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Thank you. I would've posted the same thing. OP, who cares how long it takes you? Like I'm asking literally, who cares? Go at your own pace. It might take months or years. Or who knows. You don't even have an idea of what you want out of relationships with people yet, all you said is 'alpha as fuck' which is pretty vague. You can get better sure, but who even knows what a master is. A threesome? A 100 lays? An engagement? Teaching other people? Don't think about how long it'll take, because it's…
/r/seduction04/06/12 04:58 PM
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Being "outcome independent" isn't the opposite of being "attracted to a girl". Outcome independence how I see it is "I like this girl and will try to push it forward but it's okay if we don't work out". You shouldn't actually be going for every girl on earth. You should be going for the ones you actually like. It's win-win in that regard. If I actually don't care what this girl thinks of me I think you are approaching it from the wrong angle. It's as if instead of thinking "oh man, does she like…
/r/seduction02/06/12 09:30 AM
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You show up as a blip by approaching.
/r/seduction02/06/12 09:05 AM
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That "no...what do you think I like?" eye stare lean in was aww worthy. :D I don't think you need to downplay it as just a learning experience. You clearly had some meaningful and fun conversation and intense feelings of intimacy. It's okay to like her, bro.
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:40 AM
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I agree. I hate all the "thank you seddit!!!" posts. You never know what the hell is implied by them. Some people just feel better by only reading the stuff. Some people just feel better making eye contact for the first time. Some people get some tweak fixed, or etc
/r/seduction10/05/12 04:38 PM
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Do you feel physical/emotional intimacy anymore? Do you make that happen or do you wait for her to make it happen? But yeah, this would probably fit better under r/relationships (or might be relationship)
/r/seduction07/05/12 03:24 AM
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Pics of clothes?
/r/seduction06/05/12 04:49 PM
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I don't really think it brings any different amount of better luck. For one, it's easier to say "I like your shoes" versus "I think you are cute", because it doesn't put as much of yourself out there. Plus, in the heat of the moment, you aren't going to logically be thinking about if X guy likes me for me or me for my body, you are going to think of the underlying message behind almost any opener, of "this guy is trying to meet me, do I feel like it or not?". I also think you are confusing [comp…
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:01 AM
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Since when did "don't give a fuck" translate to "continue being an asshole"? You should still be nice and cool with people, but do it from a place of "I'm a nice dude" and not "These people will like that I'm a nice dude".
/r/seduction01/05/12 07:13 AM
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Again I still disagree. I've never lost or started to lose a vibe or conversation or anything because of it. Perhaps we are talking about two different meanings entirely. Maybe my style of it is different. My original intent was to let OP know that it might work, and if it's his forte, he should play his strengths. It'd be good for him to stop if it's the problem, but I think the real problem is doing it out of trying to be that funny guy instead of just saying something in the entire scope of t…
/r/seduction30/04/12 05:02 PM
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Comedy should be a branch of you, not the root. You have to be Jewfro first and then use Jewfro's jokes. Not be Jewfro's Jokes and then somehow place Jewfro in there.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:16 AM
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I think self depreciating humor is okay with the right intent behind it. If you're intent is "i'll share this funny thing about me because it's appropriate for the situation" instead of "i'll take myself down a peg or two for no reason to try to convey that I'm so cool with myself", I think it's fine.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:13 AM
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Even worse if they laugh at their own joke. Nah, I think it's the intention behind that than the action. I laugh at shit I say all the time because it just comes out randomly, so I'm basically hearing it for the first time as I'm thinking it for the first time. It's not out of awkwardness though.
/r/seduction30/04/12 06:07 AM
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Think of it this way maybe; you made it through a direct rejection. The next direct rejections will be no different from that. Yeah the radaring was a bit weird and probably made it larger in your mind than it actually was. That happens. But I don't think there's anything different you could've done because she clearly checked you out and decided she wasn't interested.
/r/seduction29/04/12 04:23 AM
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-People thinking everything is a shit test and trying to be super witty all the time. -The need to be dodgy and mysterious with your answers. The way I see it, someone who repeatedly avoids a genuine question has something to be ashamed of. If it's a stupid question, yeah sure, treat it stupidly, but otherwise, there's no need to turn "how many siblings do you have" or whatever into some answer like "over 9000". -"text game" or anti-flake etc. If you don't get a message back, you've been rejecte…
/r/seduction26/04/12 06:59 AM
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I think a Seddit app could be useful, but NOT in the way that it's being used in the OP. This is almost going against what the goal is. When you start thinking you need a list of responses in your phone to get anywhere is when you start to lose. Maybe some really broad guidelines would be good, maybe a checklist of things you want to work on, maybe some of the other stuff mentioned by the comments. But, I mean I'm just imagining a guy who already feels a little bit of anxiety. On the edge of app…
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:23 AM
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Not only this, but you cannot plan out the best thing to say because the same sentence can have two different meanings. Someone saying "do you like me" could be playful and energetic in one situation and it could be something completely serious in another (maybe she's been ditched/betrayed in the past). When you give some scripted answer like "yeah, though you might be too weird", you might get a smile for the first girl but you'll hurt the second girl. When you just pay attention to what the he…
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:54 AM
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Basically, how do you guys handle rejection? Especially from someone you felt was amazing? How do you move on quickly? The way you deal with it is realizing that you got an answer. It doesn't feel good to get rejected, especially after a good time together. But at the same time, I feel at ease when my mind realizes "oh, so this is what we have" instead of remaining in the ambivalent cloud of "hmmm, i wonder what we could have?". Nothing else happened. Part of this seems to be your fault. Yes, co…
/r/seduction21/04/12 01:18 PM
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You get a six pack Damn, that guy who has spiked blond hair AND a six pack is getting more attention. I'll wait until I find a good salonist. You get blond spiked hair Damn, that guy who has spiked blond hair, a six pack, AND a tailored suit looks great. I'll wait until I find a good tailor. etc. It's certainly not bad to want to exercise and look nice and whatnot, just you have to not lie to yourself about where it's coming from and what it means to you.
/r/seduction17/04/12 05:35 AM
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Just expand. "Yeah I like the way these shoes had this combination of colors and I liked the logo, it reminds me of some cool night hawk or something."
/r/seduction11/04/12 06:16 AM
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You are honestly just awesome. What you do is really nice and sweet, it really just speaks volumes about how cool you are. It's also cool that you made this thread. I don't think there's much more you can do for these guys than what you are already doing. I understand you want to help, but there's only so much you can help with before it looks odd to the other women. Maybe you could try pointing them here? On bar game, how do the relaxed and simple-genuine guys do as compared to the energetic an…
/r/seduction05/04/12 07:57 PM
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You should become Batman.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:42 PM
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I don't care if she was so bitchy that she drank the last of the whole milk and put the gallon back. The fact of the matter is your entire goal was to outbitch her for no reason. You started 'observing' her at a gathering, created some random hypothesis, felt intimidated, and in turn, insulted her so you could protect your own ego (and somehow win her over in the process??).
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:32 PM
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Man, I'm no expert, but this was kind of uncomfortable to read. I mean, it's good that you told her when she was being insulting, but I don't believe in a struggle for dominance. Relax and lead. Your entire goal was to rip apart her confidence and seek status from you. Not engage and lead her. You say you don't want to have sex with her and that she's a bitch, but I think it's kind of clear you actually do want her. She won't make you happy, but her status is a prize to you and you'd feel good a…
/r/seduction05/04/12 05:25 AM
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I've lost too much by waiting too long. Re-contact them sooner than you think.
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:16 AM
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Do you want to be with girls, or do you want females to confirm your belief of "if I study, I can change my behaviors to something that people accept"? Also you have to remember that you can't get every girl to like you. It sounds like you think that because you have this goldmine of information, you have every chess position calculated. But it's not like that, if a girl doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. Though sometimes, I wonder if there's stuff I could improve about myself, or if I even…
/r/seduction02/04/12 04:58 PM
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I agree with these, I'd like to add my own thoughts on it as some of it is similar. Cold approach pickup, in other words, the act of putting the most of yourself out there (in some way) in the least amount of time, is a hard thing to do. It's harder because you are the one making the choice. Generally, it's the other way around, guys will float about and girls will pick them. Getting a girl, IMO, is basically 3 things •A) Treating her like a normal person in an informal way. •B) Letting her know…
/r/seduction31/03/12 07:52 AM
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•keeps conversation alive
/r/seduction28/03/12 05:24 PM
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But I mean, if this happens, who cares? At worst, it'll be like "Pshhh, what are you doing, trying to hit on me or something?" "uh, well, yeah." Maybe you might get called out on tactics or routines, but just talking to someone because you have some level of interest? I don't think it'll change anything
/r/seduction28/03/12 01:16 AM
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Yeah, it went from something that seemed insightful to "yo dude check out my nights".
/r/seduction23/03/12 12:45 AM
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I was moreso trying to ask about his first version, where it's imagined that you two are together. In his example, yes it's qualifying, but I'm asking, is that qualifying even sexual in nature, and what about my random example? Wouldn't sexual qualifying be something that has to do with energy/presence/physical feature, while relationship qualifying be something that's personality-trait based? Or is there not really even a difference since qualifying is qualifying?
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:22 AM
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So if I said something like that, you don't think it'd be the same thing as it being sexual? How would something like that be reframed as sexual? "I love fucking the shit out of girls as silly as you"? I'm kidding, though that line might work in the right moment, but how would you highlight the difference of sexual nature in your "my type" example and in mine, if there even is a difference at all?
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:15 AM
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I know this. I think you are reading into a different question.
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:10 AM
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Is there a difference between conveying sexual intent and just conveying relationship intent? Like if I've said "you're so silly. It's awesome." Can that be the same thing or is it just random interest?
/r/seduction21/03/12 04:17 AM
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In my head, I think there are some relations between fight/flight and attraction. The same way you could imagine a dude picking a fight is I think the same for conveying intent. You could probably imagine some dude walking crazily and just looks at you like he wants to kill you, and you will start to get a vibe, but he might just be some random asshole who's like that with everyone. However, sometimes people can pull that off really well and really just feel threatening. But other times, it migh…
/r/seduction20/03/12 05:47 AM
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You want this as it relates to 'seduction'? Okay, how about Putting yourself on the line will draw girls in or push them out, generally the former because in order to handle rejection, you need confidence.
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:43 AM
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I feel like this environment has more power than you do. Meaning, they are obviously there and super pumped about Mac Miller, so even if you don't like it (which is fine because he sucks), you have to branch from that instead of rejecting it. If you started talking about your old dog randomly, hardly anyone there would care. The energy there is different and focused. It's probably gonna be more playful, something like "I bet you guys are gonna go nuts on the dancefloor, what's your best dance mo…
/r/seduction07/03/12 09:37 AM
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there might be ...might? ...MIGHT?!?! She approaches you for the sole purpose of talking to you. She comes back. And you only say, might?! Do you know what a "might" situation looks like? "Might" is when she engages you just over the ignore-threshold. Just over that point where she sees you more than a sack of tennis balls. Might is NOT when she approaches, compliments, interests, and RETURNS BACK TO YOU. That is DEFINITE. Who knows why she left. Maybe she had an appointment. Maybe she had diarr…
/r/seduction07/03/12 02:33 AM
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But....you ARE trying to pick them up.
/r/seduction05/03/12 12:05 AM
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MM was way more popular, so I'll just list the similarities and the differences as far as I know. I'm also going to feel like, and be, the biggest keyboard jockey in the world for a moment. Similarities: -cold reads -kino -multiple venue changes or mini-dates -qualification -isolation -sexual intent -no supplication Differences: -opening, transition, teasing: not really written routines, it's on you to be good at conversation -boyfriend destroyers don't exist, it means you and her failed . socia…
/r/seduction04/03/12 08:00 AM
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After the open do you immediately start conversation or do you just hold?
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:50 PM
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When you are in daygame, after you say something direct, do you pause and hold or do you immediately start a conversation?
/r/seduction29/02/12 04:01 AM
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The main thing I took away from that is that most people that approach attractive women are way too sleazy.
/r/seduction28/02/12 02:53 AM
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I basically know exactly how you feel, and have been in that spot before, and emotionally visit it sometimes, but here's what I think about: So you've gotten rejected. But what about the times you did do well? I mean, there has to be at least SOME girls that liked you. Even if they don't sleep with you, or you said/did something dumb in the middle, or failed to do something smart, whatever it is, there had to have been some girls that liked you for at least a bit. All the game stuff is only abou…
/r/seduction27/02/12 06:35 AM
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I've never actually danced in a place like that before, so it was my first time. I don't do any specific one sort of dance. I just move to whatever I feel from the music. Like I said, I'm not trained, so everything I do is just my interpretation of stuff I feel, what I think is and looks fun, and what is expressive. Though for number 1, I was just doing some crip walk type stuff and she hopped in too. Salsa would probably be good when you're one on one. Would probably be even better to teach the…
/r/seduction26/02/12 12:48 AM
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Yeah, deep down this is the thing to do because my brain tied up like a knot while reading and thinking about this. Some stuff it came up with: then I won't be invested in what's going on so it'll crash and burn anyway leaving me hopeless.
/r/seduction22/02/12 10:39 PM
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This is true, though I don't think the problem lies in the excitement. Somebody else would get fueled by that, not run away from it. Even if they want casualness, for some reason, probably from all the random stuff I've read, I feel like I either have to move fast 100% or not at all. Maybe my emotions and logic are both interpreting that to mean completely different things.
/r/seduction22/02/12 10:35 PM
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It's something I need to find out, but to me, there's a really fine art to that. Finding that line between positive self-motivation/correction and just blaming shit on random stuff. There's a million possible shapes you can fit into the why-something-is box, but it's hard (or just tricky) to find that "well what should I reasonably do" solution (whether it be an answer or a question).
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:57 PM
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If you're thinking that, then you must not be very excited about the girl. You are probably right on some level, but it's quite the opposite actually. It's a little like watching a movie in theaters for me. Even if the movie is average, I'll be like "yoo damn, that movie was fucking amazing!" I get really caught up and excited. EDIT: But then, it's like trying to decide if I actually liked that movie or not. Maybe I could try casually dating multiple people, but I dunno yet. I feel like I need t…
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:55 PM
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That's pretty cool, damn. I'm curious about the few other guys because I can't think of any other big names that aren't those 4 and the ones that have already had AMAs on here. Only other ones I've heard of are Cajun, the guy from 60 years website, and the guy from the Girls chase website.
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:36 PM
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If he used the same words but put a different spin on it, I think it'd be hilarious. Like instead of "girls like you are what give me the motivation to work out", say "I wanna get as big as you one day. How do you do it?"
/r/seduction22/02/12 07:52 PM
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"Hey, you've been in a lot of my classes but I don't think we've ever really talked. I'm (your name here)...." and so on, you'll have a better idea where to go irl. No gimmick, no pre plan, just what was already in your head in the first place. If she's cool, she'll talk. If not, then whatever, find someone else in class.
/r/seduction16/02/12 03:45 PM
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Tell me though, what is natural? Is natural some random gusts of wind pushing you and a girl's lips together? No it's not. The guy has to make the move at some point.
/r/seduction16/02/12 02:29 AM
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How is your relationship with Tyler Durden, Mystery, Ross Jeffries, Steve P? How are they doing, if you know? What do you like about each of the schools now, espcially RSD? Pick up is now generally moving away from routines/indirect and towards just pure direct intent. How do you feel about this? What did you take away from routines? What are some of the most interesting and extreme positive and negative reviews/responses of The Game that you've seen? What are some routines that you're actually …
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:47 PM
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What are you going to ask? If it fits in, I'll ask it for you on time.
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:36 AM
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I mean to say choice, because normally the choices would be "act right this second, do it slightly slower, wait a bit and then start", whereas the only choice in this case was acting right that second.
/r/seduction14/02/12 02:46 AM
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Yeah, I just decided to resubmit because it said it was 5 hours old (creation time) when it wasn't (post time). Not that it would make a ton of difference regardless, but I figured why not. I do that whenever it happens.
/r/seduction13/02/12 11:37 PM
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Goddamn that's a good letdown. Ironically, if I heard that letdown, I'd probably get super attracted and fall in love just for the pure beautiful genuinity . I'm a dude btw sorry to get your hopes up.
/r/seduction13/02/12 02:22 PM
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I saw a bit where Juggler just said "Do you wanna talk to me or him?" If she says anything other than 'you', you just leave.
/r/seduction09/02/12 06:25 PM
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I 100% guarantee one of the questions will be "Can I get a female's opinion on something?" If nobody else does it, I will. Though... I actually have some questions I want to ask him. Damn it.
/r/seduction07/02/12 04:29 PM
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It might just be me, but that back and forth was pretty uncomfortable to read. Now, I'm no expert, but I think the best way to use texting is to cut the bullshit and just arrange a meet up. Of course you can still converse over texts, ask hows it going, ask about a cool movie, etc, but I don't think you can base the entire dynamic in texts. Save that for person-to-person. You'll get a better read on how she feels. Girls especially text all the time, so who knows how engaged she is. If you allow …
/r/seduction05/02/12 07:58 PM
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What percentage of the girls you approach stop+listen? How are campus girls different from general day girls on the street? Where do you guys live? What's the most common question or comment you get on YouTube?
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:44 AM
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and hooked BOTH her legs around my foot. We were kino pinging back and forth with our legs. I’ll prob try to go into ‘S’ phase. I think I’m going to test out some SS routines I picked up. Dude, fuck the routines. Seriously. You have basically already won (her over). If you want to have sex, just make some alone time available.
/r/seduction08/01/12 11:26 PM
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I open up the one girl who looked like their 5th wheel. What do you mean by this? Does that mean she was technically part of the group but seemed ignored?
/r/seduction11/12/11 09:49 PM
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my wings are not working hard enough to keep the other girls from CBing Honestly thought of chicken wings before I thought of what you actually meant. Damn your turkey leg. Also, well played. Curious to how you've handled other groups in the past.
/r/seduction11/12/11 09:43 PM
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Sure, not exclusively though. If a good FR is posted (good doesn't have to mean they closed), then who wouldn't want to read it?
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:20 AM
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I'm not questioning this because of the signature really. A signature really 'proves' nothing. What I do find odd about the story however is the lack of details or anything related to the specificity of the interaction. Anyone can write about how person made them feel nervous but they kept their cool, but especially from a dating coach website, I'd expect things to be broken down instead of a flowery tale. [Emma Watson] could just have easily been replaced by [Jennifer Lopez] or [George W Bush] …
/r/seduction06/12/11 01:35 AM
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Based off of my amazing detective work, it seems that her "E", no matter how sloppily she makes it, is a lot curvier and the bottom half is more exaggerated than the one you got.
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:04 AM
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You need someone else to be happy? So your ideal match is someone else who is normally unhappy?
/r/seduction04/12/11 07:29 PM
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I'd like to be happy too Why aren't you happy?
/r/seduction04/12/11 07:23 PM
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I don't want to escalate and ruin it You're going to have to take that risk to get anything out of it
/r/seduction04/12/11 06:56 AM
2

You say you teach good guys how to get better. What are these already-good guys lacking that experience doesn't correct?
/r/seduction03/12/11 07:03 AM
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I've never entirely understood why Well, that's a little weird, considering you answered it in the second sentence. They are going around initiating contact, you wait to be contacted.
/r/seduction03/12/11 06:40 AM
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One of the guys said that it's better to sort that list on the side by most recent instead of the order it's in now, so that there is incentive for Iama's to even happen (so that their name is actually out there). Why isn't it like this? I agree with that and think it would help. Also, Herbal from 'The Game' did an IamA, though it wasn't on seddit (I'm not sure if it's worth putting in the side, there's some info in there but a lot of it seems to be people opposing him). Maybe you guys could try…
/r/seduction01/12/11 04:42 AM
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Aw shit, I know nothing about pork roast game! I gotta read!
/r/seduction27/11/11 08:05 PM
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Props on getting in and being friendly. I wouldn't exactly label it "talking your way in" when you had yummy snacks to offer, especially one that causes peanutbutter-chocolate hallucinations. Flirting has rapport in it, but they aren't one and the same. You build rapport with your cousins, your bros, your parents (if they are cool at least), etc on some level. Flirting has a sexual undertone to it. Note that "sexual undertone" is different from "having sex". By this, I mean something that says "…
/r/seduction20/11/11 11:28 PM
1

I meant you specifically. I'm just curious.
/r/seduction20/11/11 10:29 PM
2

How did you open the sets?
/r/seduction19/11/11 10:01 PM
1

I didn't really post that as a personal therapy session, though I'd be lying if I said absolutely nothing from that applies to me. Even if it came across as that, I'd at least like you to elaborate or something because I like some of the stuff you've written in this thread. I was merely giving a background of why these 'techniques' even exist, or even SHOULD exist. I felt like you'd disagree with that quoted line when I wrote it, which is why I said "don't read this as you". It also doesn't help…
/r/seduction18/11/11 08:17 PM
1

Couple of points First, just because something is written in text DOES NOT make it manipulative advice. I don't see how "talk from your chest" or "joke around" could possibly be misconstrued as such. Second, yes, take the super specific techniques as you will. BUT from the (I'll call it) screenplay I think I see, you've skipped over chapter 1 and 2 and are on 3. Ideally yes, you should start at self-love and move from there. But not everybody is like that. People need to be liked. They need to k…
/r/seduction18/11/11 03:51 AM
1

I really don't think he should follow a girl to the bathroom unless she invites you. I'd hate to be followed when I'm trying to leave. If she leaves, the best thing to do I'd think would be to go somewhere near but not waiting for her to get back. If she comes back to the spot, it's on, if not, it's not.
/r/seduction14/11/11 06:41 AM
1

Pretty amusing stuff. Seems like you had fun with it. One thing I noticed was that you didn't qualify any of them. Except for that last one, when you said "oh youre from [Canadian town]? Now we have to talk" as she left, and she decided to stay. It's a really small qualifier and really has no meaning behind it, but it worked. And with the second one, you did something that worked and something that didn't. With the first, you said "adorably lame" or, a neg in other words. The other one told you …
/r/seduction10/11/11 11:52 PM
2

I doubt they are correlated at all. I've gotten media advice from girls I don't really have an interest in. I check it out just because I like entertainment and they bothered to recommend it, lol.
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:04 PM
2

"Yeah so I'll have the chicken parmesan, thanks"
/r/seduction08/11/11 11:42 PM
1

Couple of things -What is dipping girls? -The reason you aren't focused on flirting is because of But I want to practice being able to befriend people in solo mode not just my targets Kind of silly realization, right? -IMO, getting a boner while dancing with a girl who then leaves is a huge opportunity to make something happen. -With the "who the fuck are you get out" thing, I don't think you even need to prove yourself by doing dance moves. Unless it's the norm to dance while talking to people,…
/r/seduction06/11/11 06:19 PM
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Don't worry, I typically hate receiving things in my end too.
/r/seduction06/11/11 04:09 AM
1

This is bad if you don't monitor this though. It looks really lame when you try to force yourself to be best friends with everyone. Just be cool around all of them.
/r/seduction06/11/11 03:38 AM
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This doesn't even make any sense. You are telling me that if there was a cool, fun, social guy, you'd suddenly just stop everything because you were consciously analyzing him instead of just hanging out with him while he's clearly having a good time? There's 3 things I can think of that don't align with this. The guy you are envisioning has no sense of awareness to attune his 'obscene-ness" to match your level. It is always maximum, and it is never fun. However, a social guy in the real world is…
/r/seduction06/11/11 03:25 AM
2

Destroyed. I can't think of a better way to put it.
/r/seduction06/11/11 02:45 AM
6

This is simply my knowledge, not the universal knowledge, even though that's obvious. This is just from my limited just approaching people stuff, so I don't really have knockouts under my boxing record, but I do have some sparring experience. Don't worry, you can't get every girl to like you. Also, YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIKE EVERY GIRL. Think about concepts. If you think about specifics, you will lose. She should be the one having fun with you. You don't need her, maaaan. How does she fit into your …
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:17 AM
1

Moving past looks is a cool thing. Though I'm talking about attraction without reason, just the fact that you are two people enjoying each other's company.
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:15 AM
6

I really don't think it matters at all. Additionally, I generally don't put a question mark because I'm just lazy. I only use punctuation as necessary in texts.
/r/seduction03/11/11 01:23 AM
7

Use the girl like a riot shield to block the seeds. Also, if I was really sharp/if it felt right, I'd be like "this guy's trying to spread his seed on me. I need protection!"
/r/seduction01/11/11 12:08 AM
2

Wow I'm dumb. I didn't notice it said "sprays the other monkeys". I thought that the scientists sprayed the monkey that climbed the ladder with cold water.
/r/seduction30/10/11 12:56 AM
1

I don't get why the monkeys beat each other up in the first place.
/r/seduction29/10/11 07:59 PM
1

You say you don't put women on a pedestal, but it looks like you have. Were you trying to use common seduction terms so that people would continue to read, thinking it was a FR, rather than ignoring it like they do with all the other "how do I get this one girl" topics? This is a oneitis-lite case. Additionally, you sound friendzoned.
/r/seduction23/10/11 05:47 PM
5

I don't think the point of this was the actual salsa dancing. I'm sure just any casual but high movement dance would have a similar effect, though the salsa multiplies this by an amount. My favorite part in this was Back to PUA guy, he finishes his DHV/Negs and I say, “hey, this is boring. Let’s go dance” Also about this: I could have said I work in medical devices (which I do) to trump her This isn't entirely a correction, moreso just a side comment. Something you could keep in mind is that you…
/r/seduction22/10/11 04:33 AM
1

Direct opener, transition, escalated kino WHILE locking in, bam, makeout.
/r/seduction21/10/11 08:46 PM
1

The measure of conveying yourself as nonphysically attractive.
/r/seduction21/10/11 08:22 PM
2

I'm still super duper introverted. I don't have the energy to be out a lot and I like my personal time. That being said, I'm much better at using that small energy I have.
/r/seduction19/10/11 03:12 AM
80

I'd like to add my own stuffs. •be happy for people •compliment them on stuff you find cool about them •express gratitude •make other people seem good
/r/seduction18/10/11 03:38 AM
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Wtf? That is creepy as hell. The way I see it, there's 2 things you can do. 1) give her her damn ipod back but just be a cool person when she has to get it or 2) tell her you are somewhere and that you guys can meet up there, then go back to your place while being cool on the way back and give her the ipod. Arrange a later date from there. Also, there's actually no "winning move" here, this may very well be just a lose/lose. Since you do have this person's number, there's probably a more ideal w…
/r/seduction17/10/11 12:30 PM
2

Uh... what game?
/r/seduction17/10/11 12:20 PM
10

Post a pic of your face.
/r/seduction15/10/11 05:53 PM
12

She doesn't have to appear to be abundant lol, she already is. She has at least 10 guys on her list of contacts right now that would fuck her anytime, any place, in any situation, if she just straight up asked them. That being said, yes, girls do think about some of this stuff consciously. They'll be like "okay make him jealous by doing this and this, and make sure to laugh at all of his jokes, and talk about how good his clothing is, and dont call back immediately". To my knowledge, they dont t…
/r/seduction15/10/11 05:43 PM
2

As stated before, HB scale isn't about attractiveness. It's about her attitude, how often she gets hit on, etc. A hb7 in the day might be a hb10 at her favorite bar
/r/seduction15/10/11 05:29 PM
3

People will flood the advanced section with tons of newbie questions, because why wouldn't you ask the place that is more advanced than the other?
/r/seduction13/10/11 12:10 AM
1

Uhh....seduce?
/r/seduction12/10/11 02:37 AM
1

I'd say "Yeah I can see that, you are the only [her full name] that I've ever met in my life."
/r/seduction12/10/11 02:30 AM
1

Some of the things I've said: "Yeah i wasnt sure if you were my age or not cause I thought you were a kid :D" "What'd you say? I can barely hear you from up here" "I heard drinking milk helps with that"
/r/seduction11/10/11 11:58 PM
5

Good luck AMOGing the ghosts
/r/seduction08/10/11 04:06 AM
27

Make eye contact look away for a second Make eye contact again Smile and look downleft/downright as you break eye contact There's absolutely no way I wouldn't approach if someone did that to me.
/r/seduction08/10/11 03:53 AM
1

Literally: ...I guess. Kind of like if you are alone, you are the best smelling and worst smelling person there. You are the best and worst at playing Zerg. etc. Seduction terms: Alpha, from what I understand, is just self-confidence that comes internally, which means yes.
/r/seduction07/10/11 07:34 PM
41

in Morpheus voice How will you know when you're ready? You don't have to enforce your ideas on a group, they will present ideas and seek your approval. You won't have to walk in front of a group, the group will surround you, wherever you are, and follow your lead regardless of if you asked for it. When you are ready, you wont even ask for it. You wont even have to want it. You will have it. PS. don't try to tool a group of people you are with, just be cool with everyone.
/r/seduction06/10/11 05:05 AM
2

In situations like that, all I do is nod and say "Yeah." as if they were confirming today's date. No expression, no reaction. Also what can be fun to do is to catch something they are nerdy on and be like "Whoa I didn't know you were nerdy too!"
/r/seduction05/10/11 11:13 PM
7

No, I think as a boyfriend, you have to find that balance between freedom and protection. I think what OP did was good. He didn't make her feel bad by being like "omg what are you doing dont get hit on by guys" and he didn't make him feel bad by doing a similar thing either (like "back off buddy, shes mine" or something stupid). He just forcibly put himself there so that the 3 parties knew that he was (literally) an obstacle and he wasn't there to budge. For the future, you should just do a simi…
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:53 PM
1

I tried making a post like this earlier. I hate to sound like I'm begging for attention, but I was surprised that nobody cared about a really lengthy thing I posted. Then again, it's not something EVERYONE can learn from, but I thought at least someone could.
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:44 PM
1

Aw mang, this was supposed to be part inspirational, part "how did I do/what could I have done", part entertaining, part "share your stories". I'm left hanging.
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:48 PM
-2

lol what the hell, that dude suggested randomly you bring the wine? Also, my mind was blown by this. It's like Wily Cayote and Road Runner, except RR looks over Wily's plans and make suggestions and wants to fall into them. Not that I'm saying that attracting girls is "trapping" them. But its also a good thing because people (myself included) can get a perspective on how things look from the other side.
/r/seduction01/10/11 07:36 PM
3

Whoa, thats amazing for a first time
/r/seduction01/10/11 06:15 AM
1

I always end up touching people and have people touching me. Not for any interests IOI bullshit, just because I want the space, I think of it like "if you wanna join me cool, if not that's cool too". If she was intentionally touching you, she'd look over at you often or smile or get nervous or whatever. Sometimes people don't care.
/r/seduction29/09/11 10:34 PM
0

Ah, so this is a subset of flirting huh. Based on the examples, it looks like a combination of chase framing (jokingly putting the situation so that it looks like shes chasing you) and teasing.
/r/seduction28/09/11 05:12 AM
2

I've kind of been confused on what "banter" or "playful banter" is in this kind (pua/seduction) of scenario. Also, can you describe your kino escalation?
/r/seduction28/09/11 03:54 AM
2

As we parted, she told me her full name to add on Facebook, but I forgot it when I got home, lol. Though it turned out we have a class together
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:31 PM
2

It's not really a pure interview mode, plus I only ask about things Im interested in, but I'm not scrambling to find something, I just chill out.
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:22 PM
3

I hear Amazon has a pretty nice erotica novel category, you should read those if you wanna get turned on
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:19 PM
2

I opened with something along the lines of "we're late".
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:05 PM
1

No. wat
/r/seduction27/09/11 02:04 PM
2

more details on the escalation and leading to the kiss
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:43 AM
2

maybe learn a phrase in japanese that says "So how did you like playing the balls (testicles) yesterday?" but say it as if you meant basketballs and that you didnt know
/r/seduction23/09/11 01:24 AM
2

Honestly I think the worst rejections is when it's (trying to be) subtle.
/r/seduction22/09/11 11:12 PM
0

I haven't really traveled anywhere and I would still be scared to beat the crap out of someone because me potentially getting stabbed, jumped at a later date, going to jail, etc. isn't worth it. Now, what kind of person are you?
/r/seduction21/09/11 11:30 PM
9

Please people. Please use protection. Don't half ass it. Use protection. For yourself, and for humanity. What a stupid article.
/r/seduction21/09/11 11:21 PM
1

Ask them how close their house is.
/r/seduction20/09/11 11:09 PM
6

That was pretty nice. "my minute is up but youre fun..... i like that". I think it would've done you good to deliver that line with sexy eyes but make it playful afterward. Also the boxing thing at the beginning seemed a little out of place. How long have you been at this?
/r/seduction08/09/11 04:08 AM
1

Nice implementation man. How long have you been at this?
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:48 AM
1

If she's asking the question when you're in comfort, if you have low compliance, can you explain these 2 things more?
/r/seduction05/09/11 02:26 PM
15

Say there's two guys. John and Bob. John happens to be the son of your parent's friend. He comes over your house because his parent came over too. You talk to him, he's a pretty cool guy, he eats dinner there, you guys figure out a movie to watch. His parent already left. "Yeah, I'll head home when the movie's done," he says. He does too. "We should hang out sometime soon," he genuinely says. Doesn't seem like a bad idea. Went pretty well. Now you have Bob. Bob can be kind of cool sometimes, in …
/r/seduction05/09/11 12:04 PM
3

How do you feel about this guy and his advice? This isn't meant as a bot ad or something lame, just asking cause I read it earlier. http://www.girlschase.com/
/r/seduction04/09/11 05:29 AM
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