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There's a lot of echo chambers where someone's favorite YouTuber or streamer made fun of the community so now their opinion becomes there's. They don't realize they don't have social circles like their favorite YouTuber/Streamer and will have to approach a girl to try and get a gf.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:36 AM
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I'm kinda going through that right now and for the most part I'm just sucking it up. Nothing I can do besides go full bald or wear a baseball cap. It's mostly at work that it bothers me since I can't wear a hat there and people can see it. At places like the gym I don't worry bout it since they probably don't realize you even got a haircut. They live in their own worlds and forget about your hair the second they look away.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:29 PM
4

Don't reject a guy a few times before accepting a date if you're interested just say yes. Now a days if I approach a girl and she's acting cold/distant I'll just take it as an L and keep stepping. With all the Metoo and sexual harassment accusations going around, I'm surprised guys ask more than once.
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:30 AM
0

I would just message her something like, are we still on for later today. I know a lot of people go for phone calls but I personally never liked people calling me out of the blue. Even if it is spontaneous and "shows interest".
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:30 AM
2

Working on yourself and "becoming" a better you isn't going to get you girls. It'll get you one girl who will use and abuse you until she finds another guy. You have to experience different girls to see what you like/don't like and learn what red flags are. Also becoming a better you is good but won't won't help with girls if you can't have a normal Convo with them.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:11 AM
1

Ive never been then but is there any clubs or areas that might be more americanized/western. Chances are a Korean girl might go there in hopes to meeting a more American style guy. Some of the clubs in my area play different music depending on the day and it'll attract different people in.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:07 AM
1

To me it depends on the job. If it's a random job you just work at, then go for it. If it's a career or something you intend to turn into a career then don't risk it or be extra cautious.
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:56 AM
3

Gotta look at the bigger picture, 40 approaches and only 5 numbers, it's time to revaluate what can be the problem. Are the girls all 10s and your a 5, are you dressed right, proper chemistry before asking for the number, even the opener can be bad. Women aren't the same as men were we are attracted to what we see. They like to feel a connection/chemistry and then the looks come after.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:05 AM
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You should have asked for her number instead of going straight to the social. It feels like your grasping at nothing now. You should talk to her, feel the vibes, and go for the number.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:02 AM
1

Making an observation and rolling with it has always been my go to but even just a cold approach, the hardest part is the first word. If a girls interested tho she'll help out by actually making conversation back. You'll have a bunch of awkward/random cold approaches but that's the way to learn.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:59 AM
1

I would separate it based on situation. For example, if trying to pick up a girl at a party then it'll be mostly fun and won't care so much about being taken serious. Then on an actual date I'll still be fun but also show that I can be taken serious by listening to her complains/being serious.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:56 AM
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I wouldn't say that just because it seems a little too soon. Maybe if she had flirted or complimented you then it would be a good line. But as a response to "awww" I wouldn't.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:40 AM
1

Sounds like the troubles of a good looking dude. They think your a fuck boy/ have options because of your looks. If I were you, I wouldn't deny the fuck boy part but play into it and kinda tease around it. Sometimes I'll telll girls not to go psycho like the last one or it's weird how she's the third girl that week who's called me a fuck boy.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:37 AM
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It's definitely a benefit. Depending where you live as well, I went out for a little party a few days ago and I looked like the only guy who worked out there. So I was definitely catching eyes from some of the girls.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:34 AM
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Yes and No. There is a lot of diversity here but all of people stick with their own race. For example, I've dated Asian girls for short times because their family would prefer another Asian. There's also this weird thing going on we're every girl here believes there a 10.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:32 AM
1

This is a soft rejection or a sign of disinterest as you put it. There's not much you can do to salvage it without coming off as needy.
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:00 AM
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It's all about experience when it comes to girls. A lot of them will do or say the same things. You'll know what a soft rejection is, what a subtle hint is, you'll even know how to tell if she's interested before you even make the approach.
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:57 AM
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Like someone else said if you're not approaching already then you won't be even if you have your own place. Having your own place really just serves as having a place to go back to.
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:38 AM
1

I think some guys take pick up as this constant approaching women, tricks and gimmicks to get laid but it's really just dudes trying to learn how to have a conversation with a girl.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:52 PM
1

If you met her at a club then take her to one over the weekend. It'll definitely have the physical atmosphere
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:50 PM
4

If you're not trying to fight then just say my bad and walk away. If you still want to chase her then ask her, in front of him, if it's her bf or brother and see what she says. If she says no then ask her what's his problem. If she says yes then leave it be.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:42 PM
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That's an interesting take to have. I don't do approaches with the mentality of being rejected but seeing if there's any attraction from her. I go based off her responses and how she acts right off the Open.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:05 AM
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I've been called everything from "super cute" to "sexy" but mostly from our going girls. I think it's harder to game as a good looking guy because girls suspect you're already talking to someone, have multiple girls or keep their guard up because they think you only want to sleep with them. Then they expect you to have good game because as a good looking guy you not expected to be "struggling with women".
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:03 AM
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I think you should be fine with just balancing the two out. You can be both fun and exciting but also supporting and loving. You don't have to be one over the other.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:59 AM
1

If feel like the tdlr would just be; she must be attracted to you.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:57 AM
0

So pretty much any indirect opener would be best for newbies.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:54 AM
1

When I get the number I'm normally already setting up for a date. So I might say let's exchange numbers and go out for coffee. Then I just message them so they have my number and will setup the date either the next day or later that night depending on how receptive she is.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:11 AM
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I think sometimes, especially as an introvert, people feel like they have to keep a conversation going at all times. People forget it's ok to have silence and let the body language do that talking. Strong eye contact, light touching and things like that.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:08 AM
1

Once I've seen that things aren't going anywhere I just take the L. If the conversation was boring and I wasn't having a good time/good vibes I will take the L.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:06 AM
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For the most part I try not to think about to much. I might go over what I could have done better and what I think I should have tried but at the end of the day, I just take the L and keep on moving on to the next one.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:04 AM
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This is pretty spot on. I've been down voted before for saying similar things. It's always same question different guy and different guy telling them to ignore women and work on themselves. Even tho girls want guys to make the first move.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:02 AM
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I guess it just depends on the situation. I had one girl I've spoken to a few times straight up message me to go to the movies. Some times I'll comment on a recent post or story they post to get a Convo going.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:59 AM
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Don't do that. You're better off just flat out asking her for her number over a letter.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:57 AM
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She'll message you back in the future once she's got nothing going for her. "Right person, wrong time" is a fall back/ safety net plan. Once she has kids and is a single mom then all of a sudden you were always the right guy and then it'll be the right time.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:03 PM
1

I kinda understand what you are saying but the guy just sounds like a dick. If he wants an FWB then he can't be getting mad if someone flirts with the girl. Either claim her or let her do as she pleases. Sounds like he wants the girls and his freedom at the same time.
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:43 AM
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Your title and post info are a little confusing to me. You want to seem more seductive/alluring but then state that relationship, of whatever kind, last about a year. You want to come off as seductive/alluring then smile at a guy from time and hell understand. But guys won't play the long game because they'll think your not interested.
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:36 AM
1

I don't think it has to do with age but with everything an older man brings to the table as well.
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:47 PM
1

Welcome to the dating market of today. You'll take plenty of Ls and few Ws. I'm also a guy who is constantly being called good looking. The last girl I dated turned me down because she felt she couldn't trust me because I was "super cute". All I can do is approach pretty women and hope for the best and that's what I recommend you do too.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:54 AM
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So it's hard to judge off the frame of coming as too strong but from what I'm understanding your missing the flirting aspect. I've definitely done the funny, cocky/arrogant, guy bit, but you have to know how to flirt to build comfort. You'll have to work on giving power up tho. Women use that as an estimate to judge your interest.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:52 AM
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No. They only post the guys who "improved" but not the regular Joe's who failed. There's more to game then just photos and 6 month programs. It's an uphill climb on improving yourself.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:49 AM
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They want entertainment. They don't care if you never meet up as long as it's entertaining. Even still tho I would say be entertaining and setup a date early. Showing indifferent won't work on tinder because she'll just go on to the next guy.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:47 AM
1

As long as you take care of yourself I wouldn't say 28 is the downhill. There's guys 18-21 who never took care of themselves and are going down hill. I know guys in their 30s still picking up college age chicks. I'm high 20s and last girl I dated was 21. It's all bout working on yourself in that case. I still hit the gym and have a low body fat.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:45 AM
2

Wingmen are hit or miss now a days. It's best to stay away from then until you can recognize a good wing from a bad.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:14 PM
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Looks matter because a person has to be attracted to you in order to be seduced. A girl can flirt with me all she wants but if I'm not attracted to her then it's not going to work. I always say, as well, to stay in your margin. If you're a 4 then go for 4s, 5s and maybe a 6. Don't be a 4 shooting at 8,9,10s because people want someone who is equal or better.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:13 PM
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It's an expression. Crabs in a bucket will pull each other down instead of letting one escape. So instead of letting you have a victory they would rather bring you down.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:48 AM
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I think some people refer to it as Command Presence. It's big in the Law/Military world so a Google search can help you there. At the end of the day tho it's about showing confidence through body language and certain demeanors.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:38 AM
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I can say from experience that it's not true. As men we can't wait for women to approach us. It just won't happen no matter how successful you are. At the same time tho you should date and get an idea to what traits you like in a women.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:16 AM
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The only way is to approach more girls. I've done so many approaches that went well but so many were I left thinking about how awkward that was. The only way to get used to approaching pretty girls is to approach more often.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:15 AM
0

Bro science. If you want a relationship then go for it, if you want something casual then let them know and go for it.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:11 AM
1

My unconventional advice would be; hit the mall with a buddy, grab some converse and find some good fitting blue jeans. That's what I did when I first started, had a friend help me pick out some blue jeans that fit right and bought a couple of the same pair. A basic style of jeans and plain shirt will look better than no style/weird style combo.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:01 PM
1

It's alright to be nervous chances are she's just as nervous as well.
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:58 PM
2

For the most part just answer her screening questions. It's not that deep. Tell her your age and if you're looking for something serious or casual.
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:56 PM
2

If a girl rejects you then you take your L and move on. No big deal. This sub just isn't what is used to be. Too many newbies or random advice being upvoted. For me personally tho, the crucial thing is to improve yourself and I don't mean through careers and life goals. So many people I've met in seduction need to take a good look in the mirror. Hit the gym, get a proper haircut/shave, get a sense of style, and learn basic social skills.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:02 AM
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The main issue, to me, about guys who have "high" body counts giving advice, is you don't know what they are sleeping with. I know guys who get laid regularly but I want nothing to do with the girls they have. Even really good looking guys will be scraping the bottom of the barrel.
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:55 AM
3

You should flirt back in the beginning to show sexual interest but I don't see the point of texting a girl to sext. If she's being that direct then go for the meet up.
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:50 AM
7

Yea, give her that Tyson hook.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:12 PM
1

It's hard to judge off the scale because 6s could be 3s for us or your 6s could be 10s for us. Like someone else said, hit the clubs were you will definitely see baddies and practice talking to them. 9s/10s will be used to the attention so it's not the same as talking to 6s and sometimes even 8s.
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:08 AM
2

I did the opposite of this at a party once. Acted uninterested in a girl who was getting all the guys attention. I continued to you enjoy the party and then she ends up approaching me to be her beer pong partner. The whole group of guys pretty much got the message that she had picked me.
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:06 AM
7

I think a lot of people forget that the "alphas" or just dude who get laid regularly aren't afraid to take a risk. They'll do the approach and make a move on the first or second date. Nice guys aren't willing to risk it. So you can be rich and in a Lambo but if you aren't talking to girls or making moves you won't be getting laid.
/r/seduction01/05/22 11:56 PM
9

The basics of work on yourself and keep shooting your shot. Also it goes against the narrative but shoot your shot at girls who are in your attraction level. As a normal looking dude I can't always be shooting my shot at models or I'm going to start thinking no girl wants me.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:13 PM
1

It depends on what the "clear" signs are.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:46 PM
13

I wouldn't say it motivates me to flirt but if you want a connection then you'll have to talk, and flirt, with girls. We aren't like girls were we can wait and have someone approach us.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:44 PM
1

The basic answer is to move on and find someone new. It wouldn't hurt to message her in may or if she messages you first. I just wouldn't but all my faith into it. Just take it as not working out.
/r/seduction23/04/22 10:17 PM
1

I feel like I'm in a similar situation, definitely have an overbite and a crown on my front tooth, could probably also use braces. I just got my teeth whitened and then brush, floss, and use mouthwash. So there not perfect but don't look like I smoke 2 packs a day. So I did that and then with some success I realized some girls don't care. YouTube girls most likely would because their BFs are part of their perfect image but not realistic.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:19 PM
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Like you said, it's a middle ground that people have trouble balancing. I'm not doing her every whim but I'm willing to help her out. Do I come off as rude or straight forward, sure, but not so much with her. It's the middle ground were she knows you can be rude or an asshole but also understanding when it comes to her.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:15 PM
1

People are over thinking it. Just message her an hour before asking if you're still on your send her a message letting her know you're on your way.
/r/seduction22/04/22 10:12 PM
1

Have a couple of your friends take pictures for you and then have someone else pick out the good ones. Unless they know how to take pictures aka are probably female. I have some friends who take pictures out of focus and zoomed out/ too in. Then I have a friend, who's a girl, and can take one picture of me and be the best picture I've had in awhile.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:05 PM
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Sounds like you need some disciple. You should focus on getting yourself a car, something cheap and reliable like a Honda. I think if I could go back into my earlier twenties I would still work on achieving my goals but have more fun doing it. Don't just surround yourself with work/school. Work on getting that social life and have fun.
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:34 AM
2

I knew a guy who was pretty successful on Tinder. I wouldn't say he was a Chad but an average good looking white boy. He would pay for the app but would scrape the bottom of the barrel for sex. I also had another buddy pay for it but he said nothing changed besides bots liking him.
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:33 PM
163

Funny YouTube recommended me a video from Harvey Specter, "If they don't call then they don't call but if they smell the desperation then you won't get what you want anyways".
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:26 PM
2

French kissing should not be all slobber unless it's some drunk French kissing going on. I initiate by simply kissing and then with my tongue touching their lips. You don't know if they're into French kissing or even want to. So it's best to touch their lips with your tongue while kissing. Don't just go shoving your tongue in. If they want to then you'll feel their lips part. As for the kissing, you shouldn't be eating their face/chin. Keep it controlled to the lip area only.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:13 PM
1

Nah for the most part this sub is dead. All the guys who were good enough are long gone. I hadn't been on here in awhile and decided to check it out. Definitely just another advice style sub, blind leading the blind.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:18 AM
2

Don't take the "more" prettier girls serious. You find talking to girls you aren't attractive to easy because you're not worried about the end result. I went out on a date with a girl, who was pretty, so I wanted to make a good impression. She basically gave me the friend talk and after that I stopped caring about the end result. I gurantee the date went up another level because I treated her the same I would with any other girl and that made the date more enjoyable and fun. It's the same with y…
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:37 AM
1

Well if the mentality is, "y'all picked me up at the time I get horny it's not my fault", then have a more sexual mindset. Flirt with a sexual vibe, sexual jokes and shit like that. Then don't come off as a desperate dude but a dude who is sexual and isn't afraid to show it. It's easier when you don't take the situation too serious.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:32 AM
1

It's harder to flirt with girls when the job is more of a career than anything else. Any low level entry job I always say shoot your shot. If it's a career then subtle flirting to see if they show interest and if they don't then move it along.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:29 AM
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Sub isn't what it used to be by a long shot. It used to be called picking up hired guns. Basically girls who are hired because they look pretty. Seduction isn't just for weekend women or social circles but talking to women all around.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:28 AM
5

Just mysterious. I've done it at parties where every guy is hitting on one girl and I'll just ignore her. Next thing you know she's in my space or trying to talk to me. It's because she wants to find out why all the other guys throw themselves at her, why doesn't this one guy. She wants to know what's different about me or what keeps me from putting her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:23 AM
5

A lot of the ugly broke guy examples depend on the girl. One girl might want a guy who's dominant and other might want one who goes with the flow. Some girls like direct speech other don't. A lot of it just goes based off the girl but a lot depends on you too. The joke might sting a little but nothing I can't get over or is it blatant disrespect disguised as a joke. For the most part, personality isn't something you build but who you are. If a girl takes food off my plate I don't care. Most joke…
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:18 AM
1

No. Work on improving your profile and bio. My buddy paid for premium and said it wasn't worth it at all. Nothing changed.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:19 AM
1

Power dynamics plays a roll. At my job I'll see the younger women flirting with the older guys. They can either flirt with me, a dude wearing casual clothing and driving a 90s car, or one of the older guys, in suits and driving expensive looking Mercedes. Younger women are attracted to older men who seem to have it together in life.
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:25 AM
3

Definitely agree tho, if you're going to be loud at times, respect is key. Let them know they won't be shamed for sexual expression.
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:57 AM
3

My suggestion would be to take a look in the mirror and honestly ask yourself what can you improve. I've seen so many guys with patches that make a "beard" or hair that's "style" but is really outta control, "style" that doesn't fit the situation. Take a look at yourself and see what can be improved. What's a quick fix and what isn't.
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:55 AM
1

I would wait for the day of the date and see if she messages you. If not then send her a message asking if you two are still on for the night. It's something I always do if I make plans before hand with a girl. It's also something girls have messaged me before if we make plans. Once I was super busy with work when a girl messaged me if we were still on. I had completely forgotten and would have accidentally stood her up if she hadn't. Asking if you're still on is normal in the dating world.
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:52 AM
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A tip I give to new guys having success with women is move in silence. Women don't want to sleep with the guy that sleeps with all women, some do but most wont. A women would rather sleep with you and feel like there was a connection instead of thinking they're another body for your list. Also women don't want a bad reputation so it's better to keep quiet about it and let them decide if they want other to know or not.
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:47 AM
1

Slight alterations can definitely be a big change tho. Ive seen guys who are 5'7 walking and talking with a confident vibe about them but also 6'1 guys who try to make themselves seem smaller.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:38 PM
2

I've been doing seduction for awhile, I don't have crazy numbers or anything like that, but even now as I think about settling down I find myself wanting to chase other girls. I think it's hard to let go of the chase, especially, if you have low self-esteem or using users to validate yourself.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:34 PM
5

In highschool you want to have a basic wardrobe. Unless you're into fashion or have a nice style, for with blue jeans and converse. From there talk to everyone and make friends with everyone. That's how opportunity comes knocking.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:27 PM
5

If I plans with a girl I pretty much always clean my place up, light a candle so it smells good and open the windows so it airs out a bit. Then before I leave I turn off the candle, shut the windows, and see how the night goes. If I get laid at my place it'll be clean and if I don't, at least I'll come home to a clean place.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:26 PM
2

I was thinking about this earlier when wondering why this sub turned to shit. It used to be a lot of informative post and guys talking about results/tips. Edit: You're fighting a losing battle on the comments but anyone with basic seduction knowledge knows your right.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:04 AM
2

It's inevitable that feeling will get hurt if one person wants something casual and the other wants a relationship. The best thing is to be upfront about it like you say you are.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:00 AM
-1

Game is definitely overcomplicated and can seem overwhelming to a new person. After awhile you're almost doing things instinctively. Honestly tho, you're better off watching YouTube and reading stuff other than reddit. I don't know what happen to this Sub but it went downhill during the quarantine. I almost feel like messaging the mods and asking them what happen. So much shit advice.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:58 AM
5

It's also because women want to be chased after and it's easier for them to do it over texting. In person they show interest because they're in the moment and enjoying it. Many men are getting tired of chasing is the thing and women don't care because they'll have some one else chasing soon after.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:53 AM
8

That definitely sounds like a victory and a good time. Next time just go upstairs to "see the view" if two people want to have sex they'll find a way to make it happen.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:42 AM
2

They're used to not dealing with rejection like men are and sending a hey puts them at a chance for rejection. They would rather you jump around in circles then take chance at being rejected.
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:08 PM
1

Someone's going to come in here and say just call her one night women love spontaneous stuff like that. Don't do that. If you want to call her just ask. I've seen/heard so many stories of guys just calling and not getting an answer.
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:04 PM
3

You could try to setup a date/ exchange numbers within the first few messages. In all honesty tho, that's just dating apps in general. I was talking to a date about tinder and she was telling me how she only has about 20 matches because she's very selective on who she swipes on. Women always have options and unless she's really interested in you or you're entertaining enough they'll move on to the next message.
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:01 PM
1

I would go along with this. I've hung out with girls who I wasn't sure if I should escalate or they were not receptive to my escalation so I would stop trying. Then later be told how I never tried to make a move.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:57 PM
5

I don't use FB and rarely use Instagram but if I wanted to DM girls on there I would build my profile like an online resume. All good pictures that show how fun and exciting your life is. That way it makes a good impression when they check it out.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:55 PM
1

Fucked it up during the date. If she wasn't receptive to your advances then you shouldn't have gone for the move. If she didn't react positively to your advance then I'd take it as a negative. It seems like the date wasn't going to well and then you went for a last effort kiss. I probably would have called it a day and gone for a second date that was better planned out.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:53 PM
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I've used the "take me to dinner first" a few times but more when they're subtle flirting or showing attraction just to tease/call them out on it. Not really as a flirt technique. The problem with most of the lines you have tho is that they aren't really flirty and more teasing or playful. They don't have sexual implications or show sexual interest. For example, if a girl ask me what I think about her outfit, I might say something like; I like it you look really good, especially in those jeans s…
/r/seduction22/03/22 07:55 AM
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I invited a girl out for coffee last week and we met up. Turns out she doesn't like coffee so she ordered a tea instead. I also had another girl who kept suggesting higher end restaurants and I rejected. We ended up not going out. moral of the story, I guess, if she's interested and not just in it for the dinner, shell accept something cheaper or work something out.
/r/seduction22/03/22 07:43 AM
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Always foreplay with them. It's what really gets a women going and you can tell the difference between getting right into sex and leading up with foreplay. If I bring a girl home and I'm making out with her, I'll touch around the inside of her leg but not directly, or around her breast but not straight for the nipples either. Don't just jump into it but tease her. I'll say something like, "let me enjoy you". You don't have to verbalize kissing to undressing. You'll be feeling her up and then rem…
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:50 AM
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It depends. Your title says after 30-40 minutes but your post says you've been talking to her a lot. If you have a connection built up and want to date her then you can. On a cold approach it wouldn't work as good. I've tried it for awhile were I skipped the comfort/rapport and went straight for the number/date and rarely worked.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:39 AM
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Sometimes it's good to pull yourself out of an approach while the iron is still hot. You don't want to talk to her and then just stand next to her awkwardly. Kinda like you went and sat down instead. She continues to eye you because she wants the approach again.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:36 AM
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It's a skill like anything else. You'll be rusty if you stop but after awhile you'll get back to improving.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:34 AM
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Don't spend to much time talking and setup a date.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:42 PM
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It's hard based off what you said. There's not much to work with. Would need a follow up on her actions the next day or some time later. You could say hi to her if you see her around or before/after class.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:57 AM
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For the most part, if she wants you she'll reply to anything you say. If a women wants you they'll make it easy for you. N.1 tip on dating right there.
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:22 PM
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Love lil peep. Slide in the dms off that thirst trap picture. You won't be the only one those because that's fishing for attention
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:34 PM
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I normally just offer advice and disregard the bigger picture but not this time. You said it best, get your head out of your ass. You shouldn't even have to chase her or try by the sounds of it. You're the catch prize here. Find yourself a better women.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:33 PM
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Not much of a perfect line but I would wait for her to post a story or new pic and slide in
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:23 PM
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Compliment based on appearance and see how they react to it
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:21 PM
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I wouldn't read too into it. In that situation it's just natural to lock eyes with a person and you're over analyzing the small things.
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:49 AM
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Talk to other guys at the school who are more of the party type. If you know party people that's how you get invited to parties. Then to have cool and frequent experiences you should make friends with everyone. That way you'll actually get invited out.
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:44 AM
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You should question the quality of the women they sleep with. Obviously 1k in six month is fake. A friend of mine has slept with two girls this month. He can brag about it all he wants but he definitely scraped the bottom of the barrel on those two.
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:41 AM
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I enjoyed the post but this would definitely be the tldr.
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:38 AM
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