Whats up Guys. I’m 19M and I’m in a situation right now that I don’t know how to go about and I’ve read through the community and gotten really useful information, and I was looking to get some advice too. My whole life I was overweight and had almost no confidence in myself so I wasn’t really noticed by the ladies. Usually that wouldn’t be a factor that got to me in my younger days until I got to high school and was often bullied about it, thus killing my self esteem even more. Eventually I moved, started a fresh and began working on myself. Fast forward to last year and I had a dramatic change that could be noticed. I used to keep my standards in the women I go for low when I was younger, as I felt those were the only type of women I could stand a chance with. Now that I have lost weight and took care of myself, I began to get attention from the ladies which is something that is extremely foreign to me and I don’t even know what to do with it. The girls of my wildest dreams are now attracted to me and for some reason I panic when I’m talking to them and I literally can’t spit game with them. At first I thought it was something that I didn’t know how to do, until I realised how simple it comes to me when I’m talking to women I don’t feel heavily attracted to. Although I have realised that my confidence around attractive women, increases gradually as i hookup with women slightly more attractive than the previous one I hooked up with. I don’t if this is the way for me to gain the confidence to be able to talk to beautiful women or if there is any other way, because I’m not really enjoying settling for less.