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| 5 | I’m going to file tomorrow morning.I commend you on your strength and your bravery man. I wish you the best of luck on the journey ahead and I hope nothing but the best comes for you. Good luck king, you got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/20 04:07 AM |
| 3 | How do you handle your daughter being around your ex's new boyfriends?No kids in my situation but I hope you find the solace you seek. It sounds rough and you’re incredibly strong and brave, don’t forget that my guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/20 02:19 AM |
| 5 | 24 married high school “sweetheart”I’m sorry you’re having trouble man. But I would do what your heart and mind both agree on. And I hate to be that guy but if you’re in this divorced men subreddit, on Valentine’s Day, seeking validation for a relationship you know has its past and present struggles...maybe just look for solace in that prose | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Is there anyone divorced who maintains a peaceful relationship with their ex?I think you hit the nail on the head there. If there are children involved, a parents duty and obligation is to keep them safe and maintain being a positive example and role model. Therefore, I feel like in that situation you’d suck it up and just do the best by your kin | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Is there anyone divorced who maintains a peaceful relationship with their ex?God I couldn’t imagine keeping my ex in my life. I hope you find the answer you’re looking for. I guess my take on it is if the break up is amicable, you wouldn’t likely need to reach out for support, like we are here LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Red FlagsI love this question because we all here have likely pondered it heavily. 1. No one in several generations of my family ever divorced. Her parents and grandparents have a total of 8 divorces between them. 2. She isolated me from my friends. Didn’t allow me to see them unless she was present. 3. she gave me a curfew, yet abided by none herself 4. She’s justify spending hundreds of dollars a month on nonsense, but if I bought a beer I was putting us at risk for financial disaster 5. The man should… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/20 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Emotionally distressedI’m sorry to hear all of this King. Try to keep your chin up, think of your feelings as being toward one individual rather than the group. Easier said than done I know it, but honestly, holding on to that won’t get your far, as you’ve probably noticed. Feeling alone and being isolated are normal during the grief of a break up. There isn’t a right amount of time some will take to get through this. I hope it all works out for you. I have a feeling that things will change in regards to your outlook… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/20 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Fresh and rawSo go with your gut here. Decided if this is something you can survive or not. Don’t think about her feelings and don’t take the blame for what happened because at the end of the day choices are our own. If you can’t. Then you do what you need to survive this. I can’t tell you what that’s going to look like, but I’m happy to always here you out and allow you to bounce ideas off of. Stay strong my guy. This is a dark time but it won’t define you if you take the right precautions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/20 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Weird feelingChin up king. You’ll need to make it through this part because quite frankly it gets harder after this. Go through the motions, feel what you’re needing to feel, and always reach out for support. You’re in a group of people who have likely all gone through this. Dm me If you need a pal to bs about things with. Been 3 months for me and my pains down from 10/10 to 4/10. At the very least, it gets easier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/20 12:57 AM |
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