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what is friend treatment vs girlfriend treatment? like sleeping at his place or going on dates?
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:00 PM
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Move
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:39 AM
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I'd say Doctor or Nurse 100%
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:30 PM
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How did you meet them? Hobbies? Work? Apps?
/r/seduction27/02/26 12:41 AM
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Female friendships provide social proof! Will make more women want you. I had a woman go nuts because I was getting attention from my female friend. Overall, it will increase your perceived value in social environments
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:09 PM
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How did you learn this lol?
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:17 PM
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I need to message you, accept my message
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:15 PM
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X2
/r/seduction07/07/25 11:47 AM
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Then sex on the third date? First date coffee, second date drinks, third date movies?
/r/seduction02/07/25 03:43 PM
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Yes!!! people think you can't meet people outside dating apps nowadays! Networking/Social circle is the best for that.
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:33 PM
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I think this experience makes you open your eyes. Yes, by nature looks matter a lot more than personality. But once you believe in yourself you could choose looks + personality. I think the problem we men have is that we settle wayyy tooo soon!!!! idk if it's because how hard it is to seduce that we just don't want to go through the pain of having to start over. But avoiding that pain would only cause you more if you end up in a bad relationship.
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:19 PM
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I agree on being honest with yourself, like really honest. Not telling yourself lies to make you feel better
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:16 PM
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Exactly, it's not just looks brother, it's everything else
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:07 PM
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How dod you meet them? I'm genuinely curious
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:59 PM
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I think it is cool if you genuinely like what you do. But you need to not try to set up dates or anything. Just take pics and practice small talk. I think it's a good idea for you to learn how to interact with women like being playful and funny, but not necessarily to get dates.
/r/seduction26/06/25 12:58 PM
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I have to disagree brother, you can always improve and change your personality haha. It's like sating you can't learn story telling or can't learn push pull. Will you be a comedian and live off of it? Probably not, will you be a bit funnier than you were before? Absolutely
/r/seduction23/06/25 10:53 AM
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Interesting
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:35 PM
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Hahah no, my question was, if you had to pick between both. You can't switch, you have to stick with that skill for the rest of your life
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:33 PM
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Makes sense bro
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:04 PM
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Facts! Friends are very important
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:04 PM
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You never know and you don't lose anything right?
/r/seduction10/06/25 12:42 PM
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100% spot on, never be outcome dependent
/r/seduction09/06/25 12:58 AM
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Facs
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:27 PM
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we all need them!
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:28 PM
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yes! I need to get good at it. It is a slow process but we all can learn!
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:27 PM
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thank you bro!
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:27 PM
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Hey bro, thank you for the kind words. I guess I just put it out there so people know that I have some experience under my belt I guess. But solid advice nonetheless!
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:26 PM
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I guess keep the conversation going. Haha like "are you from here or you're just here for vacation?" And then build on top of that. Just trying to get to know her
/r/seduction07/06/25 06:23 PM
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That's how you know it's real confidence
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:41 PM
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I think thisbis very important
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:17 PM
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This is a very good answer! Thanks!
/r/seduction07/06/25 01:31 AM
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What about spanish accent speaking English lol?
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:44 PM
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Hey bro, thanks for the reply. I am not trying to be someone I am not, I am learning the sounds that don't exist in my first language, so my communication is clear and I actually can tell jokes and be confident. For example, the other day a friend thought I was saying gun when in reality I was trying to say gown.
/r/seduction06/06/25 10:12 PM
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You can still be playful, flirt and try to be funny without expectations. It's like you do it without expecting anything in return and if she tests you, well, you don't react/chase/be needy.
/r/seduction05/06/25 10:38 PM
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Yeah bro, it's hard but I guess the only way out is through 😰😅
/r/seduction05/06/25 10:35 PM
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Bro, not caring is not the same as not talking to women hahaha. I know because that's how it is, I think being monk mode does not get you chicks What really gets you women is to talk to women without any expectation and just making them laugh. I guess not chasing means like if you propose something and they say no, then you don't accommodate to them, just that.
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:56 PM
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So where do you meet these women? Haha in a bar? Or a coffee shop? Like if you don't approach, then how does the conversation start? Be more specific if you can so we can understand a but better
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:49 PM
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Do you ask her this question after you have kissed her or before?
/r/seduction05/06/25 06:17 PM
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How can coffee turn into sex? Can you please tell me your story? I am trying to get very specific here
/r/seduction05/06/25 06:15 PM
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Don't rush it! Let her miss you a bit and then asked her to come for diner at your place
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:19 AM
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Yes, build calluses in your mind and brain. Approach just to break the ice, be curious. Be funny, smile, vibe. You'll start feeling less and less scared of rejection. Actually I'd say this is more important than looks. There are many guys at the gym afraid to talk to women.
/r/seduction01/06/25 06:46 AM
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I'm talking about spitting, cumming and peeing in their mouth kind of insane. Also they like to be thrown around and being put in place
/r/seduction31/05/25 11:07 PM
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But why are them the ones I have the most insane and nasty sex with?
/r/seduction31/05/25 10:35 PM
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Exactly!
/r/seduction31/05/25 06:51 PM
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How do you get nudes if you don't want them? Haha
/r/seduction30/05/25 11:09 PM
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Where did you go btw? Bar? Night club? Were you with friends or alone?
/r/seduction25/05/25 10:49 AM
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Damn bro! Thanks for being truthful! What books did you read? How was your approach to learning? What are the fundamentals ?
/r/seduction24/05/25 07:14 PM
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Read this again. You need an app to help you fuck, otherwise you can't fuck. You should worry bro and assess your situation
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:06 AM
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That's crazy, I have never fucked anyone from a dating app. Everyone I fuck and date are people I meet organically. Which is kind of weird, I thought most people did it this way.
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:05 AM
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in the future yes, rn I don't have bandwidth. please send me your website or instagram over direct message
/r/seduction23/05/25 05:06 PM
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For sure, I'd pay that price because I know it's flat and is not dependent on how much money I make. Always when I talk to a dating coach they ask "what do you do for a living?" "What country are you located?" "How much do you make?" "How much can you afford?" It feels I'm getting scammed. I have never actually paid any money because of this tbh
/r/seduction23/05/25 03:43 PM
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I guess I haven't seen this kind of dating coach lol
/r/seduction23/05/25 03:38 PM
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I am interested
/r/seduction23/05/25 03:20 PM
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yes and no, I think you pay a decent flat rate for the personal trainer, but when it comes to dating coach, it is insanely expensive for no reason, it feels like a scam. I say this because most dating coaches don't have a flat rate, they just ask you how much money you make and they ask you to pay them 4k or 10k which is insane for something that does not guarantee success. I think you rather use those 10k and spend it doing looksmaxxing and social skills
/r/seduction23/05/25 03:20 PM
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How do you ask her to go back to your place? Do you go alone to a bar or nightclub? Or you ho with friends? I always manage to make out but I never take them home. Something is missing
/r/seduction23/05/25 02:12 PM
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I think the habits are more clear. Let me explain, in the 20s bracket, you can't tell if someone has a good diet/ healthy habits based on their body since some women can still drink, don't sleep and eat junk food and still look hot. In the older bracket, if you have not slept, drank every day and eat nothing but junk food for 10+ years, then it is easier to tell. All of that just to say that good and bad decisions compound over time (the same is true for relationships)
/r/seduction22/05/25 08:09 PM
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Dancing clubs, cooking classes, etc. Find an activity or hobby and make friends. These friends will introduce you to more friends and boom
/r/seduction21/05/25 06:25 PM
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Yes! The more you love yourself the better you'll take care of yourself and will look better. However it's not all just looks, it's also personality (dressing better and taking care of yourself is part of your personality)
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:10 PM
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Practice practice practice. You will feel cringe and awkward and it's good! Most people avoid the pain of being cringe so they will never improve. Don't try to avoid the work, keep going, it's a good thing brother
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:24 PM
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Good and interesting opinion. I agree, it's very difficult to be self aware and we only change after a tragic moment. I think I have changed a lot personally, specifically when it comes to people because of the same, I'm not as comfortable as before, this has made me make a decision, either be a loser and accept my place in the world or learn how to play the game and win. But looking at it deeply, I've always been this way, I've always wanted to win so bad. That part of me hasn't changed, what h…
/r/seduction16/05/25 11:50 AM
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So fucking true, been there, done that. Your friends are your system that will help you feel less lonely and less needy. Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction15/05/25 07:04 PM
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We all need the social aspect, if you feel something is missing is because you might be ignoring or not paying attention to this. And you must! Nobody is gonna come to your life if you don't put yourself out there. It's natural to feel this way, social interaction is just as important as going to the gym, having a mission or eating healthy. Pay attention to it, don't neglect it!
/r/seduction15/05/25 07:03 PM
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I have to agree with this. I used to feel lesser for being immigrant and having a thick accent, but actually women are into that
/r/seduction02/05/25 09:49 PM
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I have a question for you. How funny or serious are you? I am not saying that to judge you, even I don't think I am that funny. But I think if you are good looking and have a good job, you just need to be less serious, more light hearted and funnier. Practice, practice, practice! Women are going to feel comfortable with you if you can make them laugh. Understand that women and men are very very different even if society is pressuring us to behave alike. Us men, we are super fast falling in love …
/r/seduction02/05/25 09:47 PM
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You just said it right! Most people fear looking cringe or awkward. That is a huge discouragement, but if you don't fear it or do it anyway you'll enjoy all the major benefits in life my friend!
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:46 PM
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Brother, the best way to approach this part of your life is by loving yourself and being social. That means having friends, an attractive lifestyle and caring about your appearance. If you don't love yourself, you'll come off needy and women would not pay attention to you.
/r/seduction29/04/25 07:16 PM
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This is news for me haha
/r/seduction28/04/25 11:30 PM
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Are you in France? We don't have those beaches in the us. I guess just imagine her in a non sexual way
/r/seduction28/04/25 11:13 PM
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Not necessarily, the problem is that he doesn't like to hear people having sex. I have sex but also I hate hearing my neighbor have sex when I'm lonely hehe. So when I have sex I try to be very loud so they feel the same. But I would say if something is making you uncomfortable why not just addressing it instead of ignoring it?
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:21 PM
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This is a triggering event, I would feel the same. I can't give you advice but definitively you should not ignore it. Take action, like for example changing roommates or rooms, maybe live with some none that doesn't bring girls over. Idk
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:38 AM
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My guy, this is normal, don't worry about it. I'd say invite her out, enjoy it. Don't expect anything, just enjoy the moment, she might say yes. Don't be afraid or rejection. Do you think that is what is holding you back? how would you react if she rejects you? would it hurt your ego? maybe it will. But if you think about this and you think it might hurt you, then it is because you are having big expectations, this means you like her
/r/seduction24/04/25 10:50 PM
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I loved this post and you are 100% right, but I would be very interested in knowing more about how did you change your approach? Like, everything you say here is true, but one thing is knowing something and another thing is actually performing or doing it well. You can show me a spin in salsa and I can look at it and be oh yes, know I know what is a spin, but it doesn't mean that now I can magically do it. It takes practice and feedback and time. How did you do it? how did you practice? how did …
/r/seduction23/04/25 02:50 PM
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Hey man, let us know if this has worked, it is definitely harder I think, but if it works for you then so be it!
/r/seduction22/04/25 10:35 PM
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