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Do you have any suggestions for hobbies or infield videos that help with having a relaxed fun presence in clubs? My general social skills are good (maybe even above average, depending on the people and circle), so I don't think I need help there. I've tried improv and latin dancing, and they've been fun, but I'm looking for something more that translates specifically to clubs and bars, specifically that high energy environment and approaching different girls or groups of people. Or maybe there's…
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:44 AM
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I'm always as honest and sincere as possible with people. I tell them I have multiple relationships, I tell them I don't have space for a relationship in my life right now, I tell them whatever is true to the moment. I don't expect anything from them, I don't plan to sleep with them. I just stay connected to my body, my sensations, I'm fully present in the moment and go with the flow. And sometimes I'm surprised, like my main relationship right now I was convinced I had absolutely no space for h…
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:29 PM
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cool, good tip. Thanks for your insight
/r/seduction20/12/19 01:59 AM
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Tinder, Bumble, r4r reddit, pof. The dating app is kinda incidental, it's pretty random where I meet a girl.
/r/seduction20/12/19 01:34 AM
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Hey man, pnossiop, I came from a similar position. Had to slowly work my way out. I'm rooting for ya man, it just takes some time and patience, and putting yourself out there. I don't mean to make it sound trivial. But I think the key to making friends is going out there consistently to places and doing things you're interested in. When I was alone, I met some friends by moving into a new house. I met another group at a bar I use to frequent and going to their weekly poker nights. I met a girl r…
/r/seduction27/06/17 07:32 PM
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And plenty of insecurities!
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:07 PM
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Yeah I figured nightlife is probably the best bet. Guess I could befriend some girls there and expand out from there. Just dipped my toes into DJing too, but that's a long shot and more of a hobby than really expecting to get anywhere with that. Anyways, thanks man!
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:12 AM
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Lol. Buddy, I don't need to prove anything to you. I know who I am and I have enough friends. If you don't know any hobbies or ways to befriend hot girls, thanks for dropping by. Now move along.
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:10 AM
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Been to about 30 or so meetups. The general quality of those are absolutely atrocious. Mostly dudes, and very average and plain girls. Now dont' get me wrong, looks aren't everything. I have dated and befriended a few girls from meetups just because they were fun to be around and we clicked, but I'm trying to find a group that has good looking girls. Back in college days that would be the frat, but I'm almost 10 years too old for that now lol
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:35 AM
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Thing is, I know how to join a social circle. I"m not socially inadept. From my experience, I would say I'm decent and slightly above average socially. The problem is finding a social circle with hot girls naturally. I can build a social circle, and I have one right now, but all the girls in it are mediocre. I like them. I enjoy their company. And we go out for drinks a few times and month and talk about guys and dating and general bullshit and have a blast. But... would be great to be able to m…
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:32 AM
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You're absolutely correct. It is in our very nature, and fulfilling it is very good and feels very good too! And it can do great things for our emotional health as well. But, what i'm arguing against is the other stuff. That doing it somehow fulfills a higher purpose, builds value, creates social status (depending on which circle you run in though). And there is the danger that indulging in it fully can be like indulging into another pleasure, like cocaine, which can slowly consume your thoughts…
/r/seduction27/04/17 01:42 PM
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So I've been thinking about what you've been saying, because I have thought the exact same way. Don't take this as an invitation to a flame war, more me working out my thoughts form within. What exactly is valuable about fucking lots of hot women? Well, first off, it shows status. Except... lots of hot women is the effect of status, and not the cause of it. You should get women through expertise in your chosen field, through passion in your life, through your personality be it confident and bad …
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:27 AM
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Ah PUA, my old friend. A dangerous and poisonous mushroom coated in chocolate. What can I do. I am starving
/r/seduction25/04/17 05:01 PM
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Interesting! So I pose this question to you. You can say this because you've conquered your demons and climbed the mountain by fucking girls. Could you say the same if you never did? Can one truly conquer this demon/mountain without the experience?
/r/seduction25/04/17 04:31 PM
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Complaining? Hell no brah. I ain't complaining. You're missing the tone of this whole post, but maybe that's why you're getting defensive. Maybe you're not ready for the truth and if so that's fine, but I'm gonna lay it out for you anyways. You know, I do have scarcity. Getting a hot girl is a very hard and very rare occurence, and I do obsess about it quite abit. It feels like the only way forward is to... let go. To admit to myself that I may never have it. To go and dive into my life and live…
/r/seduction25/04/17 03:59 PM
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You know, I do have scarcity. Getting a hot girl is a very hard and very rare occurence, and I do obsess about it quite abit. It feels like the only way forward is to... let go. To admit to myself that I may never have it. To go and dive into my life and live and enjoy and yes invest in myself. And to have zero expectations. I dunno... that is hard to do. And that runs against everything I've come to the community for. You might as well set up a big sign the first day I came to the community and…
/r/seduction25/04/17 03:56 PM
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First off, thank you for the long and thoughtful reply. So I've been thinking about this alot lately. I’ve been going around in circles for a while now emotionally and with my intent. It feels like I’m making progress, but I’m not moving forward. If you envision my heart and desire as a circle, I’m changing everything else but the core, tiny seed, and that is this desire to sleep with hot girls. It's at the core of everything. The thought of letting go of that core. It’s not letting go now that …
/r/seduction25/04/17 02:11 PM
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