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Yep. It was more about having my shit together, and having some charm. Most people are -not willing- to speak a foreign language because they get self conscious because they know they sound ridiculous.. Let alone flirt or attempt to say pick-up lines. Only got easier as I dropped weight though. I believe being foreign/language barrier is less a benefit, and more of a filter in truth. Less women will be interested in you then a well put together guy from their own country but the ones that are wi…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:53 PM
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I have some Yugoslavian ancestry, so I can give a little bit of insight. It might have just been that she was with her friends and pressured to appear normal. She might have just been shy or awkward because of her lack of ability to communicate. Some women are quite open about casual relationships when they know they won't be judged, partially with foreign men. (Who are unlikely to blab about any details to their social circle.) Most european women outside of N.A are more conservative, and move …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:54 PM
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That's a load of crap. I've hooked up with an attractive woman who didn't speak my native language when I was 31 BMI. It's often just a matter of timing and luck as much as it is game. In that case, she talked about how she had a 'Gringo lover' for the next month to her girlfriends, because she had never been with a foreign man before. Being exotic has a strong appeal where language fails. In my case, I believe it was because going out with an American was considered prestigious in her circle. S…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:49 PM
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Be an active role model that he will aspire to follow your example. Often men at this age (For they are men now, whether they like it or not) have little personal direction, and can feel trapped and intimidated by the accomplishments of those they perceive as their betters. I'd suggest just offering him opportunities as you are able, but ultimately it's his responsibility to accept those opportunities. If he is an athletic background try to get him in a club, or working at a gym. This will spur …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:39 PM
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Had a situation exactly like that. Very good looking girl during a hookup, and many indicators but she must have grown disinterested halfway through, because the sex was bland and of the starfish variety.. I asked her why she wasn't moving, and she gave me some sort of annoyed grunt, like having sex was a chore. So I got up and started putting my clothing on to leave her room. This was such a blow to her ego that she blocked the door then pushed me back onto the bed. The sex was not so bland aft…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:57 PM
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Panama is beautiful and easy to get by in. It has alot of English speaking expats so Spanish fluency is not as important. Panama City has a very developed feel to it with great places to party in El Cangrejo or Casco Antigua. It's also a very safe city and country compared to other Latin American nations. However, it's expensive compared to other parts of Latin America and the hot women are mostly Colombian, Cuban, Dominican or Venezuelan expats come for economic opportunity.. For cheap backpack…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:02 AM
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I was thinking of doing cardio on off days. The program I am on recommended no cardio due to all the squats. At first I was too tired to run anyway, but now I think I can handle both. I did 2 hours/cardio daily from 360 lbs to 260 lbs, but switched to weights out of concern for loose skin. Figured some muscle would help reduce some of it. I will try some of these exercises you mentioned over the next two months though initially I figured basic 5 was best. I have not been losing weight the last 8…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 09:27 AM
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Do not worry about things you cannot control. I am tall (99 percentile for height in my country) and packing. Do I get regular compliments from women about this? Yes, almost every woman interested in me ends up commenting on both. However, you appear to have most of the shit in order that I do not as a travel bum. (Like a higher count, and secure lifestyle) There, I've spelled it out. Now focus on being better at what you can change.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 07:54 AM
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This was Panama City, where prostitutes can operate legally. They even carry official state working girl I.D cards if they are reputable enough. Though Colombia and Mexico are similar. If you encounter strippers in these places, they are almost guaranteed to offer sex for enough money. There is no distinction in Panama between a stripper or a prepago. The girls also touch freely and because for them, getting paid for a private night is far more productive then a lapdance. I had a friend who work…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:47 AM
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Good advice for people trying to practice game with beautiful girls easily. I used this strip club strategy soon after swallowing the pill to practice the techniques I read about. I was always had social interaction trouble, so it proved a great idea. In Latin America I used to practice my game and my Spanish after I was introduced by a friend to the red light district. I would hang out in strip clubs and dive bars. It forced me to repeatedly turn down the advances of very beautiful women in an …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 07:27 AM
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Sure it sounds awesome. I am not saying this behavior is always a front for a con. I am pointing out that you have no way of knowing the difference between genuine affection, and a long con easily.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:08 PM
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That was exactly how I felt about it until I was involved long term enough to see the ugly side of a mismatched economic relationship. Worst case scenario: it may not be a lifetime of having an amazing wife. It might just be she is fucking you like her life depends on it. Once you put a ring on it she takes advantage of the upward mobility and ditch you. Best case scenario:. She loves you genuinely and is a good partner. The problem is that it is hard to see the signs if you grow infatuated. Top…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:05 AM
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The downside is if you get finessed for your resources. A woman without options will use her body to get ahead. She will get pregnant if she can and lock you in to commit. She may attempt steal your resources. I spent a fair amount of time abroad in Latin America and was involved with some very beautiful low status women. Ones that would not have given me a second look in my homecountry. I was hooked for certain. My post history might give some indication of my state of mind then. The truth was …
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:58 PM
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I think this is good advice if treated as a way to understand lying manipulative bastards. However, I do not think this is good advice for being an effective man capable of impacting the world, because habitual liars are rarely effective men. The op is asserting lying is always preferable to the truth due to its appeal to self interest. I would argue appeal to others through truth is superior. Inevitably a habitual liar is caught by a more skilled deciever and builds little of lasting value. If …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:35 PM
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I think this is good advice if treated as a way to understand lying manipulative bastards. However, I do not think this is good advice for being an effective man capable of impacting the world, because habitual liars are rarely effective men. The op is asserting lying is always preferable to the truth due to its appeal to self interest. I would argue appeal to others through truth is superior. Inevitably a habitual liar is caught by a more skilled deciever and builds little of lasting value. If …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:35 PM
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I think this is good advice if treated as a way to understand lying manipulative bastards. However, I do not think this is good advice for being an effective man capable of impacting the world, because habitual liars are rarely effective men. The op is asserting lying is always preferable to the truth due to its appeal to self interest. I would argue appeal to others through truth is superior. Inevitably a habitual liar is caught by a more skilled deciever and builds little of lasting value. If …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:35 PM
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This has happened to me before. In the bed cuddling with a beautiful woman (HB 8) who was giggling and fondling my crotch. When it did not react, she grew disappointed. What worked for me was reacting with humor and confidence. I did not show my frustration, I just laughed it off and teased her her body with my fingers and mouth. Her response was almost childlike. She crawled on top of me, pouting and beating my hip with her fist saying "I want your dick, up you! Up!". Her attempt at dick whispe…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:41 AM
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Good for you. Pursue that, but do not be too driven. Every instinct is going to be for you to go after her aggressively. Play it cool and without attachment. Just casually invite her out on another date. Do something that you will enjoy regardless of her presence. Careful it was not just a one night type situation. Women can act out of character under the influence of alcohol. So be prepared for rejection or flaky behavior as she examines her actions sober.
/r/seduction03/02/18 04:10 PM
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I will not get into detail, but I was nearly killed twice in the last month. Both situations were the result of predatory sociopathic people seeking profit and dominance. Not accident or random chance. And I suffered serious setbacks as a result. Those experiences changed how I viewed myself and my problems. It's easy to agonize over long term plans, and small details. Career climbing, women, money management, or expectations of others. Then chaos shows up and suddenly those orderly problems are…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:52 AM
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I quit cold turkey after this. But it wasn't a hangover or blackout or poisoning that caused those side effects. I was roofied too.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:39 PM
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"So we live togther with her mom" Everyone seems to be ignoring this critical statement. The OP is unofficially "commonlaw" married if this has been the case for three years based on my countries lawbook. You are probably feeling scared. This is what is comfortable, this is what you have known for a long time even if it's not perfect. Now it is being torn apart. I know exactly how you feel. You have to be careful of acting emotionally and rationalizing later. Aka "hamstering". "This is the secon…
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:23 PM
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If I could go back to frosh week, I would have screamed at my younger self to get involved. Join interesting clubs that promote social status or look good on a resume (not the videogame or anime club), commit to an athletic sport. Lift weights. Meet fraternities. No video games, no shut in time at all. Talk to everyone. You will never have a better opportunity to network easily then in your first year of college.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:18 PM
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Appreciated but the truth is now I am just the average unfit overweight north American Fuck that, I want to be the top 5%, not the median.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 10:35 PM
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Yes. I have been with women of ncount 100 or higher and they were tight. I have been with lower counts, but they are loose My theory is that fitness is the primary factor. The fitter she was, the better. I surmise there may also be a mild correlation between height/frame and tightness. Bigger women having bigger vaginas. A bigger body means proportionately bigger genitals. Several very highly published studies on dick size with a 10,000 plus sample sizes proved that there was a moderate correlat…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 10:30 PM
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Will correlate on my tightest lay being an Ecuadorian girl. She had the pretty indigenous look to her similar to a Filipina. Personally I think it's a combination of genes and fitness. Especially fitness My favorite woman was not the tightest one I had, she was on the looser side but she had incredibly strong thick legs from biking and squatting with a flat stomach. (She convinced me to start squatting when I asked her about it later.). She could squeeze me like a vice if she wanted anyway, and …
/r/askTRP13/01/18 10:20 PM
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It was a mentality shift for me, because I used to give a shit. But external validation is unhealthy and childish. The funny part is the women in my life ended up being more pleased as a result of my new attitude. As the joke goes: A guy with a two inch dick walks into a brothel naked and smiling. The madam asks him: "who do you expect to satisfy with that?" He smiles wider and says:. "Me".
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 12:07 AM
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This month. Should have clarified.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 08:31 PM
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Sex improved for me greatly once I concentrated on myself, and not her. I started using women's bodies rather then worshipping them. This can seem counter intuitive, so an example below. I like giving oral. I like it because having a woman buck and moan while I do my thing and pin her down is intensely validating for me. In any type of sex. "Hey I can do that, I can make her lose control." That's the feeling summed up versus those who think they have to please their girl every time. One thing I …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 07:00 PM
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Good Started lifting a month ago with good results. Lost another 3 lbs. Quit drinking for good. Sober for 13 days. Bad: Was robbed due to my own stupidity lust and drunkenness. Lost my phone, wallet, gold chain and cross, and countless other things. Total of 1500 usd at least. (FR incoming). Lost employment opportunity. Over budget on the month. Monk mode time.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 05:02 PM
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She wanted comfort. You used her. Women use men all the time, so she is hardly innocent. Just make sure you understand that and decide what kind of relationship you want.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:55 PM
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I will read up on the PPLPPLx
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:48 PM
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I am interested in the sport and powerlifting parts. Bodybuilding is something I will not be able to compete at because of all the loose skin and stretch marks I have, though I have a handsome face. I am thinking long term in this respect. Working towards amateur competition is how I maintain.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:43 PM
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You are correct. This is my history if you wish to elaborate further. I started my fitness regime in March 9 months ago at 365 lbs. My estimate is another 35 to 45 lbs of fat for a healthy body weight. Part of the reason I started lifting was because I hit a weightloss plateau, and my doctor cleared me for weights. Also, loose skin concerns. If I do not build muscle, and lots of it, my skin will be hanging like a sheet off my frame. I currently eat 1500 calories a day. Still gaining muscle due t…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:35 PM
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As someone who was at the very bottom it is my belief that this voluntary exile from the genepool stems from pride. Pride, and a lack of self responsibility The first and hardest thing i have done in trying to become a better man was accepting my place in the hierarchy. That I was a loser addict (gaming, alcoholism) for years. Years I will never get back. That I have peers who have done a lot more then I have done, with less, while I burned my teens and early twenties on valueless pursuits. Fluc…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 10:25 PM
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Of course a rap song gets it right. Storytime: I once had an Ecuadorian girl solict me. I said yes, because she was very beautiful, with a slim figure, an exotic mixed look and long black hair. I was already drunk, and having her hit me for cab money (Taxis being so expensive here, of course) afterwards did not sound so bad. Panama as a culture has a very Machista view on these things, so I did exactly what you would expect in this sort of situation. I screwed her. The whole time I was having my…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 10:55 PM
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I think the thing most folk do not consider if they have gone from one polar end to the other is just how you are treated by the average person. When I was fifteen, I weighed 320 lbs, and was miserable about it. I was sent to a military school, and leaned up over the next two years, losing over 100 lbs, and gaining it back in muscle. In my final year of highschool (Nineteen years old), I weighed 245 lbs, and I had a max benchpress of 320 lbs. My squat was around 370. I did not weightlift as a ho…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 10:28 PM
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It has been repeated. Do not talk about your opinions. Do not talk about the TRP to your friends. Never mention it to women. There is a reason for that. I was lucky enough to be introduced to the Manosphere (Ivan Throne in particular) by a mentor who wanted me to use it as a vehicle for self improvement. (And he was tired of how much I bitched about being unable to get a girlfriend.) I have made the occasional idiotic post now and then showing my spergle side, but generally shutting up and doing…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 09:52 PM
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I can defintely point out that status will have an effect because sex is often viewed in a transactional sense by women. A bitter pill to swallow for certain, but your financial assets and resources will play a huge role in how she feels about you sexually. And how much she will orgasm by extension. While muscles and physical fitness are the first factor by which you are judged, the shit you own is the second. I currently stay at a beachhouse alone. I have two floors, a full kitchenette an outdo…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:07 PM
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Maybe. I got very fat and lost muscle because my diet was weak and weight came on after I turned 21 years old. I want to fix that before I go give him a visit. About half done already. Come to think of it, this was almost going on eight years ago. Biggest challenge has been finding an adult aged non college (mid twenties) club that I can go to in my area to start practicing again. Unlike marital arts dojos, Wrestling clubs in Ontario seemed to be exclusively run through highschools and Universit…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 04:31 PM
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Insulin resistance was a big problem for me. Sugar is very bad for your health. And the USA food setup subsidizes this toxic shit knowingly. I used to buy "low fat" food as a kid that tasted like shit so of course it had loads of sugar in it. Ironically if I had eaten high fat zero sugar, I would have bern better off. It took a very specific diet (similar to keto/paleo) to reduce my resistance, but it's always going to be a concern for me. Before that, I was physiologically disadvantaged to cutt…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 11:57 PM
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I have had weight troubles all my life. I was blessed with the sort of genetics that allow for rapid muscle gain, but also easy fat gain or fat loss. When I was sixteen I was forced into a military school. I lost over 100 lbs of fat in a year because the drill master insisted I run 5 kilometers a day with 100 pushups, however long it took. By eighteen I was pushing heavy weights (320 max bench press) and wrestling daily. But I never fixed my diet. So I had abs, but they were not washboard define…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 04:41 PM
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Not as different as you think. Grass is always greener in the next field. There will always be something you lack. As a guy who never used to be promiscuous (only two women prior) with a long dry spell until a few months ago due to shit fitness, I took the GFTOW advice seriously. (I lost about 95 lbs recently, still have more to go) My observation: 9/10 (HB7 average) of the women complimented me, saying I was packing. (1/10 was a grenade and very loose) I was inexperienced so it took awhile to a…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 10:19 PM
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No just very beautiful. She modelled a bit in her youth. I was the kid with the hot mom. Hookers make far less then a beautiful wife after divorce after all. At least I inherited some of the genetics. Keep that in mind when you consider getting married.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 10:46 PM
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Now, as someone who is a similar age and size to you who also rubs shoulders with multi millionaires on a daily basis due to family connection, but has nowhere near your income.. Dude, you are killing it. I am working to try to be in your position by 35 due to a late start. I can't think of a single person who wouldn't be impressed by that resume at 25. I wish I had that kind of drive at 15, but I became a bankrupt addict instead. Try not to compare yourself to others. Envy is a bitch no matter …
/r/askTRP21/12/17 08:01 PM
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I started Squatting heavy weight a week ago and that helped me. They hurt enough that I am not bothered by most things after. Joining an aggressive team sport also helped because you get shouted at so much. Anything physically difficult, in my experience builds a tougher frame. Take actions that force you to confront aggressive people or situations.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 07:48 PM
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This is exactly what happened to me. I was a so called "promise keeper." Then I figured out nobody was waiting for me. I was raised by a single mother who used my father's extremely generous child support to finance her partying and boyfriends after divorcing him. She used court order to force him out of my life for 8 years. She lied to me about how much he paid, and fabricated an extremely elaborate story about how he cheated her out of a fortune. And how he used to abuse her. (He made the majo…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 07:41 PM
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Taking up drug addiction. You are a moron. Wow, talk about horrifically shit advice. A troll or a moron. As a recovering addict, I will say unequivocally that drug addicts are fucking losers because they have exactly zero self reliance. They will do anything for the next fix. It's a horrible way to live.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:46 PM
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I will try this. When I was dealing with breaking my addiction, I had tried and failed for three years continually. It was when I developed a systemic mindset that I was able to go dry. Now I should be happy according to my goals being met, but life isn't measuring up. It was not what I thought it was. I need another system.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:35 PM
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If she suddenly forgets her money at the shopping center, or asks you out and decides to go to that trendy club or French restaurant.. It is never an accident. You are her wallet for the day. All relationships are transactional. For one side to win, the other has to lose. Sexual strategy is a zero sum game.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:14 PM
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Wrestled for four years in school, and getting back into it now. Very applicable. It was the most frustrating sport I ever tried because the first two years was getting my ass kicked over and over with shit all results. I always had a weight problem, so I had to bust ass to keep in my division. It was also how I met my first girlfriend when she offered to "practice" with me in her house. Wrestling girls were pretty hot in retrospect. I still view my old coach fondly.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 01:57 PM
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I am guessing you are white, american, and educated. Do you have blue or green eyes or other European gene markers? If so that is why your context changed. Pale skin and other European features means status in the third world. Having money gets you very far in the third world. I am a millennial who was raised with the white guilt narrative, so the first time I had a sexy Latina (HB8) compliment me on my " beautiful white color" it was a shock. Then she said it again when I was smashing her later…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 01:38 PM
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Pale skin and you have money. That's what it is. I get the same in Latin America. Women there often fetishize pale color as a sign of status. It's a very common compliment for me. I went from a dry spell back home to at least one lay by a different girl every two weeks.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 01:26 PM
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8 months ago I would have said I would have been very happy to be where I am now. I have my purpose, I just want to learn how to better cast aside my old habits. It is making me miserable.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:18 PM
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Leave. Canada is trying the same where you can get charged on hearsay. So I left. Adjusting has not been that easy, but I do not regret it. Record audio consent with your phone.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:45 PM
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I used to watch all these movies with a 135 lb American heroine who is beating the shit out of guys twice her size. This is obviously dramatic and unrealistic, but the problem is that I think some people are actually believing this is possible. The line between actual sexual dimorphism and perceived is so blurred in entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:26 PM
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Practice. Just continually expose yourself to it over and over. The desensitization method. Go look it up on Google. Meditation helps. It sounds like you want to avoid mind altering substances, but cannabis is an option depending on your location. If you want a lighter crutch then alcohol, Sativa strains of Cannabis are very effective for anxiety, without impaired mental capability in a low dose. I never regretted exchanging that for my drinking habit.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:44 PM
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I am practicing how to be better at this. My thoughts: Relax Talk to everyone. There are some good books on the sidebar that go into detail, but I found those to be the two most important. You just have to keep trying to socialize. It gets better if you do.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 01:39 PM
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Always found it amusing how in my current locale it's the opposite view. White envy. Pale skin is a status symbol, to the point where I get compliments from most women. The women know it too. A white escort will cost you 25 to 50% more, if you want to view it in a transactional sense. Whiter women are harder to seduce too. White skin is viewed as having a direct correlation to wealth, and intelligence, and the brutal no holds barred truth is that this assumption generally holds true here. Yet in…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 02:19 PM
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Hard thing to swallow, but I started seeing this first-hand about a month ago. The behavior was always there in retrospect but I didn't want to see it. Part of me always thought the "Chad" talk was just a straw man argument by envious, lazy little shits. Then I made friends about two months ago with a few very handsome, fit, but otherwise lacking men: broke, no career addicts, violent, lazy. I was trying to hire one of them as an employee to help him clean up out of brotherly sympathy. (Too into…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 02:08 PM
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Oh, you start to get a collection of these sorts of stories if you live abroad. That was not even the worst one.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:46 AM
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If you have a good place to live, and a car. Some status. It's basically like an extended college sex life. It's all about your class within the culture. If you just want to be a sex tourist, there are better places. Panamenas are cute, but have that indigenous look if that is your thing. The Colombian and Venezuelans who come over for work are much hotter. Gringos have a reputation for wealth, so careful of the gold diggers. You will get hit for money often. Note that in this culture, the man p…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:44 AM
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This was in Panama. The girl was a Venezuelan (HB8, amazing DDs, but slim!), but Colombians are also known to try this scam on Americans. Basically, they fuck you passionately for a week or two like their life depends on it, (the sex was amazing) then slowly move their shit in your house. Then they bring their family in, and claim squatter rights under law. This forces you to take care of them. Now you have poor people in your house you cannot get rid of( who will trash it), and she stops having…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 09:03 PM
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I love Latin women. Crazy = better sex. But yes, they are dramatic and very good at making you feel good about wasting money on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:36 PM
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I love Latin women. Crazy = better sex. But yes, they are dramatic and very good at making you feel good about wasting money on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:35 PM
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I love Latin women. Crazy = better sex. But yes, they are dramatic and very good at making you feel good about wasting money on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:35 PM
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I love Latin women. Crazy = better sex. But yes, they are dramatic and very good at making you feel good about wasting money on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:35 PM
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I love Latin women. Crazy = better sex. But yes, they are dramatic and very good at making you feel good about wasting money on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:34 PM
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I love Latin women. Crazy = better sex. But yes, they are dramatic and very good at making you feel good about wasting money on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:34 PM
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I love Latin women. Crazy = better sex. But yes, they are dramatic and very good at making you feel good about wasting money on them. Edit: apologies for the spam hombres, the internet here is unreliable.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:34 PM
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This is just the sort of shit that happens if you have money and live in the third world. I won't go into great detail, aside to say it's my policy to hide all weapons and lock my cash in a safe when I invite a new girl over. Also, pretty sure she won't #metoo because down here they would just laugh at her.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:33 PM
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"Do not drink calories." Best advice for those struggling. Sugary drinks or juices are ridiculously heavy on calories and addictive. Changing your body takes time, patience, and commitment. Years of effort if you are starting out as a couch potato. Break down the goals to avoid being dissuaded.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 06:11 PM
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While not an exact rule, I agree with this to a degree. Some older women just want to extract as much value out of their slowly aging body as possible. Figure out who they are. Avoid them. They are often damaged goods. The others that avoid splattering all over the wall are often amazing lays, because 30+ year old women are experienced and know what they like.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 04:10 PM
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Exit strategy? Literally just pick her up and toss her out your door. It's your house, and if she cannot act like a proper woman, don't treat her like one. I had to do this with a Latina girl I hooked up before with who somehow thought her family could chill at my house and eat all my food while I had sex with her again. She straight up invited them over without telling me. The best part was her telling me she wasn't "in the mood" that day once I got her in my bed Cue the boot out the door. Also…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 04:04 PM
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A practical, though cold observation: Men of low consciousness (what you deem savages) often make use of a breeding strategy similar to prey animals. They impregnate as many females as possible and often pay little or no attention to the offspring. The instinct being if they have multiple children by different mothers, some will survive to adulthood. Men of high consciousness breed with a predatory strategy in mind: they have few children, but invest extremely heavily in these offspring to ensur…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 10:19 PM
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I think it's an individual basis thing. That said, as a big guy (98 percentile for height and frame) I got used to posturing men as a teenager. I do not even notice it anymore. I guess it's the guy equivalent of being a girl with big breasts. In Panama, where they are smaller still, a little over half of the men I meet will display dominance signs when I first interact with them. Higher status men are less likely to do it. Low status almost always do it.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 12:37 PM
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I had doctor proscribed diet that required me to put my body into ketosis before transitioning to a low carb diet over the course of one month It was extremely effective (24 lbs in one month initially, now on month 4) but I was dealing with sugar addictions and very low energy as a result. Miserable for three weeks, but then it got better. I will never eat complex carbohydrates (potatoes, rice, corn, refined bread, etc) or sugar again. Best thing I cut out of my life.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:39 AM
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I would want some more detail on that as well. I know that I tend to store fat very evenly throughout my body, but some people have the majority in their gut or thighs. I always figured that was a body type thing.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 11:27 AM
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I have problems with a condom where I cannot get it off on it, but I narrowed that down to sizing issues. A lot of men are unaware that the typical condom can be too big or small for you. r/bigdickproblems has a good sidebar for sizing. Do a few measurements and pick a good fit. Don't trust the manufacturer to be correct. Dick size is such an egotistical subject that I found half the ones labelled "XL" sizes were just normally sized. I would recommend you stop masturbation entirely until resolve…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 05:29 PM
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Collary: Single moms looking to lock down a wealthy provider will let you do anything you want to them before you are locked in. (Once they lock you down they start often withdrawing sex.) Nothing is off the table in my experience once they see you as their meal ticket. So, have your fun, make sure you flush the condom, and then move on once the pressure inevitably increases.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 04:37 PM
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I used anaface, and I spoke with a plastic surgeon. Turns out I had an objective rating between 7.1 to 8.0 with my current fitness. (5 photo sample) The surgeon (a woman) simply took a look at me and said what they would change for more aesthetic appeal. (Remove double chin, could use minor eye work, liposuction. ) It made sense, women used to call me handsome (not that I had any idea how to capitalize on it) before I spiralled into addiction and obesity. But i needed objective truths to get pas…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 04:05 PM
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Stick with the grind. Women want men who are resilient. They do not want weak men. It's ok to vent to your male friends, but you need to internalize this stress and use it to become tougher. When I started out on the pill, I didn't get shit for results for over 8 months. Completely dry monk mode. And I was consistent daily. Then I got laid by 6 different girls in a month. My conclusion is that once you get your shit in gear, abundance will follow. In my case, I am still dealing with a weight pro…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 12:50 PM
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Nope. Full agreement there. I made the selfie mistake -once-. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 07:12 PM
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Already working full steam on that, hombre. If you can be fit and photogenic, so much the better.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 04:46 PM
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One of the first steps to improving my status was looking at my own life from a coldly rational perspective. I severed all emotional connection, or affiliation with my own identity. This is very difficult to do, because your ego wants to protect you from doing this. It's a painful thing to reflect on, and requires humility. In my case, I had some physical appearances hangups as a result of being a formerly obese man. I made use of some of the facial analyser apps with photos. (A very useful tool…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 04:42 PM
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That is dangerous and bullshit advice. Growing up in a traditional Anglo-American household (Proud British, German roots going back generations) with some old school family, I can tell you straight up that you will never be considered as a white man just because you act like it. Some people are just tribal and close minded. It's a harsh truth, but that is the truth. I know Tamil men and other Asians who do just fine for themselves in the interracial dating scene. They didn't try to hide their cu…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 04:32 PM
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Any recommendations on how to improve photos of yourself? While I have never been a fan of photo alteration, it seems like it's become a fitness test for online dates.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:52 PM
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So I did not fully understand the point of this post based on the title. It seems like good general advice for any dude, not just Asians. Unless there is a racial subtext I am missing. I know that race can play a significant role in physical attraction, despite what the politically correct types would say. What sort of problems do Indian Americans specifically tend to face?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:28 PM
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Wouldn't mind a few tips on getting better at dancing. Advice?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 07:24 PM
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I was proscribed Ritalin four times as a kid for being an ADHD type. I used to hide the pills under my tongue and spit them out. My mother wouldn't feed me unless I "tried to improve". Needless to say I do not talk to her as an adult. I hated the idea of being drugged up because someone else said I wasn't normal.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:22 PM
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This has become very obvious to me over the last two months. One change in my character was my willingness to play "the game" differently. Women use men just as much as men use women. They are not the innocent ones in a sexual encounter. As someone in a position of status in my current environment, it is shocking how some women will throw themselves at me, because I am not used to it. Inevitably I have a good night with them, and then I get invited to "dates" at the local shopping mall or jewelr…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 04:50 PM
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Alright. With that photo, you convinced me to give it another try. And earned some serious credit. You happen to have a similar, though more slender build then me. Loose skin is a bitch, and already inevitable for me. But I'd rather be fit and die at 80. I will look into it. If you can offer any other insights in PM, I'll listen to every word. Curious how much the procedures cost (i know it's five figures)/the toll on your body. Thank you. I am actually surprised I got a quality response like th…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:17 PM
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I will look into it. Thank you.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:39 PM
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I have lost 84 lbs in 5 months. I am not a "lazy asshat." A normal man my size eats 3200 calories per day. I eat 1300. Do the fucking math, because the doctor with a specialization in sports medicine sure as hell did when I paid for the consult. I do one to two hours of cardio plus calisthenics a day. I would rather lift if I could. I waddled into the gym despite the hate I get from people like you. I cannot physiologically gain weight with those numbers. I just have to be patient and wait. Fuck…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:12 PM
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To clarify, once I am done cutting, I am pumping iron. But i get exactly zero gains from 1300 calories a day. I tried for about two months and swapped to calisthenics in order to better prepare for when I can.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:59 PM
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I used to hate aging for similar reasons. I was very similar to you and your situation. There are two kinds of reactions to envy. The first is when a man us driven to succeed because of it. He asks "how can I earn what they have?" Then he goes out and acts. The second reaction is to feel self pity and inadequacy. That man asks "How can I take away what they have?" Then he whines and trys to bring everyone down to his (shitty) level. But you need to ask yourself this: which person described am I?…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:51 AM
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Measure yourself. My experience improved greatly when I started buying the right size. Part of the problem is condoms are touted as one size fits all. They are not. If you cannot feel anything, it might be too small or tight. That was my problem.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:55 AM
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I think they are both important. Muscles equal attraction. A cut guy is going to pull more then a fat tall slob. That said Women prefer tall men usually in my experience all other things being equal. (hard truths here buddy, this is TRP.) Every single woman I have been with has commented on my size in a positive manner. (6 foot 5 large natural frame). Usually multiple times. Especially during intimacy or sex. Part of it I surmise is that bigger guys usually have bigger dicks. (Obvious again, rea…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 12:02 AM
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Well said. My sex life has improved immensely after I read the entire sidebar and spent eight months applying the teachings. And I am still not even close to being actualized. I had more sex this month then I did the other seven combined for example. I think for a lot of blue pills starting out, the issue is similar to what happens if you multiply a number by zero. Certain requirements just have to be met, or fuck all gets accomplished. Correcting zeros (whether it is physique., resources, socia…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 08:48 AM
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I work very long hours (13 avg day) I do not have to work very hard however and have easy internet access. I didn't sleep that night at all, just went straight back to work. There is a distinction. I also do not waste my time playing moronic videogames, or working for a corporation who does not give a flying shit about me. I would rather build my own and live on the beach in the tropics.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:36 AM
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Then stop whining and go fix the problem. Look up systemic desensitization. Apply it to your social anxiety. (Because it's pretty obvious you have some.) Stop giving a shit what people think. Be proud of your status and fuck the menials and what they think. One of my extremely hard working Colombian friends said it best: "The problem with Norte Americano people is that they are so proud, and often have no reason at all for it. They lack humility." That coming from a guy who works seven days a we…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 10:41 AM
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Uh. Fire their ass. I have some management experience in jobs (not careers by comparison) and the reality is that most employees working a job are mediocre. They only work to satisfy base needs and hobbies, and are without ambition. You cannot change them, only replace them. If you cannot be assertive (read, asshole) when required, you are not cut out for it. Change that.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 02:39 AM
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I lived there for 19 years. Original danksters comment is spot on. I used to think women were frigid cold and distant, and that you had to really try to get along back in my early BP days. Now I realize that was just Toronto women. I moved to Panama and the difference is noticeable. Women like to be stared at and flattered. They enjoy attention, and are more gentle with rejection. They also put out more and with less drama/LMR. I will note however that Latinas are flaky. Extremely so. Good and b…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:40 PM
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I fully agree. So happy I left that shit city.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 12:22 AM
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Once you punch your card, you will realize how much angst you have over nothing. People in worse positions then you have managed. It is possible. If you really cannot get over it, go buy a beautiful professional escort and explain you are a virgin to her. You will have a good night and quickly realize how largely you have overblown this. Fuck, I wish I had started professional studies by 22.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 12:21 AM
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You should be trying to kiss her by at least the second date, though for me it's usually the first. By the fifth, if she is still going out with you, it's because she really wants you to make a move, or she likes that you buy her free stuff. Don't know how to kiss? (Which is also a common problem for a virgin) She probably knows how. Just copy her tongue movements with your own, and gradually build up. If neither of you know how, well lucky you. You get to experiment. The big thing is to start g…
/r/seduction21/11/17 06:59 PM
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If it was easier to be rich than fit, I would see way more rich people then fit people, I do not. The evidence is to the contrary. As to your second question? Yes.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 04:14 PM
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This applies to women that you are not in relationships with I think as well. Such as family and friends. Acting like an adolescent gets you zero respect. Part of the problem (which I was contributing to prior to certain TRP realizations) was that institutions like college have effectively resulted in an extended adolescence for many young men. People are growing up and assuming responsibility more slowly, which is a problem. I am reminded of a comment from an acquaintance when I was younger, an…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:33 PM
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Honestly, women just change their minds often because they are so emotional. If she is flaking, it's probably because she is just not that into you. Or, she was sort of into you, but now she doesn't feel like driving X hours, or taking X hours on the train. It's really not worth thinking on too much. When I have had girls who see me as a serious asset, they make time out of their schedules without a single input on my part. They will move their entire schedule just to see me. If this happens rep…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:25 PM
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I am reminded of when I was a boy. I was walking to an elevator with my father's wife, (a former model, Ukrainian.) and a wife of one of his business partners. The latter being an avowed feminist. Two workmen fixing the electricity wolf whistled as as she strode into the elevator, myself and the other woman moving behind her. The feminist began complaining on the elevator, commenting on how sexist and unappealing it was that my father's wife would be treated so. That it was off putting that loos…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:11 PM
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Possibly. I cannot surmise a high officials bedroom situation in entirety, nor is that the point. The point is that it is a good example of a man who is ugly, physically unimposing, and he has everything anyone could reasonably want. Should a man lift to increase his sexual chances, all else equal? Of course. Does physical attractiveness correlate with sexual success? Obviously. I would argue it's far easier to get jacked then build a multi million dollar fortune. So that makes it TRPs number on…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 12:32 AM
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You obviously have never lived in a conservative Catholic village. I have been lifting for six months, but I started out obese.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:08 AM
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I did not understand this until it happened me about 5 times. (I have a field report with a good example of it.) It is very simple. When you make 100x the salary they do, that is not beta bucks. It is power. Go look up Stephen Mnuchin`s wife. (U.SA Secretary of finance.) Guy is nothing special, he's kinda ugly actually but he gets an Hb9 model because he has power. And if any handsome chad meathead tried to get with her, well that Stephen has a security squad of handsome powerlifting meatheads o…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 01:01 PM
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Then read the book. It's exceptional for this sort of thinking.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:59 PM
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I plan to travel to China in the future for business opportunity seeking. Any insights you have as a white male who put down roots, aside the dating scene?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 07:23 PM
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Wrong. This is the classic bullshit losers say to avoid improving at all. They hamster shit like having a long face, being short, or weak physical frame as a reason they do not get any. Because, yeah, that shit cannot be changed. But make 50,000,000 usd and you will have to hire someone just to manage all the bitches you will be getting. Life is not fair. But it can be just.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 07:00 PM
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That's pretty much how I intended to approach it. I work 6 days a week fourteen hours a day, so frankly I do not always have time for women. (Starting businesses requires this.) So I am willing to work out an arrangement, (gifts, cab money). I just do not care for prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 02:37 PM
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A poor translation on my part, but I will take this under advisement friend.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 12:59 AM
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Any tips on how to spot it/deal with it? I can see a prostitute a mile away, but not someone suddenly trying to get paid. This probably will not be the last girl that tries this.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 12:58 AM
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This just kinda sounds like you are building on ideas from "The nine laws" by Ivan Throne. That, or adopted a very similar thinking process explained in a more internet friendly fashion. It's good stuff to reflect on.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 10:28 PM
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His epitaph was inspiring in its declaration: "I was Epictetus, a slave and maimed in body, a beggar of poverty, and dear to the immortals."
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 01:15 AM
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I will also put forth envy as a big part once results are achieved via TRP. There are, two kinds ways to react to toxic envy: Try to get what the person you envy has through accomplishment. Try to take away what the other person has by stealing it or dragging them down to your level. Your post primarily describes these losers trying the latter approach versus the former.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:33 PM
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My thoughts on dealing with similar issues when younger as a virgin: Quit the pornography or at least reduce it to once a week. No weird fetish stuff either. Do not Jack off before you see her. Try to improve your diet, and exercise. That was the biggest change for me. If you cannot get it up just by thinking erotic thoughts, or lack morning wood and absolutely require touch, you probably have a masturbation problem. Relax. Try to enjoy it, she wants you after all. Bag it too. Get condoms and pr…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:00 PM
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Concentrate on a place to meet up. Do not talk to her about herself in text, you can do that later in person, focus on logistics. Tinder is not my jam, but people only swipe because they like you. Remember that. Dates work like this: you, the man do 90% percent of the work. You are the entertainer, she gets entertained. A woman's part of a good date is usually where she just shows up looking smoking hot because she spent time in front of a mirror for an hour just for you. (Though if you ask, she…
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:58 PM
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Build a routine. Write it down to make it real. Adhere to it. It is as simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:51 PM
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Even a crippled man in a wheelchair can fix his health through exercise. You have to focus on what you can change, not what you wish you could change. Entertaining fantasies is for women and boys. Ruthless self analysis is required.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:49 PM
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It is a numbers game. Sounds like you know what you want, and are handling rejection like a man.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:54 PM
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My impression is that she is terrified he will leave her. Honestly, it might happen.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:43 PM
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Of course I am being used for money. Just like she is being used for sex. Every woman uses men for resources. The difference is in whether you buy favor because you want to, or because you have to in order to keep a woman. I pay on my terms, not hers, but I will still be expected to pay somehow. Especially in a conservative culture. The difference is I am choosing the transaction terms, and suckers let predatory women choose the terms for them. I will not buy sex, or attention, but I will pay fo…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:08 AM
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A very good success formula for a wealthy lifestyle. I know some very rich men who used these exact principles to get ahead. 5 languages is also impressive.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 02:41 PM
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Read the sidebar and apply it. I recommend Rollo Tomassi s posts on creepiness to help understand what is going on. Your invisibility is probably because you have low SMV. Look at it from a detached perspective and start fixing it gradually.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 02:29 PM
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Work on your health. It will help you reframe your situation. You probably have hormone deficiencies causing you to be depressed. Go run and lift. Do what calisthenics you can. Eat properly. If you play any videogames or watch tv, quit that shit. Quit the porn if you watch that too. There will never be a good time to start. You just have to do the best you can each day.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 02:25 PM
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I am traveling to Medellin for a business convention soon. Colombian women are stunning, and I had to try not to openly gawk last time I was there. I recall pointing out this one gorgeous girl on the street (HB8, huge bust, big ass, long flowing brown hair, slim, and with perfect cheek bones) and my companero shrugs in that detached manner of a veteran degenerate and says "She is about average, amigo." I later saw enough of the country to confirm his comment.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 02:01 PM
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She was not a prostitute it turns out.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 01:42 PM
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I made some inquiries since the report. She was not a prostitute. Has a legitimate retail job. (Hb7 for Venezula, means more like Hb8 in North America. )Just a typical pretty woman off the street who thought she could get some sex and money. She just wanted one more then the other in the end. The line is more blurred down here, I now realize.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 01:12 PM
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This is exactly the sort of comment that I was hoping to find when I made this FR. Thank you for explaining something I had realized in my gut, but not yet mentally made the connection. This is by no means the only encounter I've had here, but it was the one that demonstrated what you have said the most.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 07:28 PM
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The city feels modern and alive. It has terrible urban planning, but it is generally a far safer place then during the dictator era. If by Romance district, you mean Casco Viejo, (Which is the old city, with the coca cola sign) it is a combination of slum, and entertainment district, filled with squatters, but also the best bars and clubs in Panama City. I was there for a Halloween birthday party in one of the rooftop hotels and it was an incredible party on every block, with so many people that…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 07:25 PM
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Yeah, I think you summarized it very well for my situation. This was the part I was mulling over and trying to make sense of, because I do not have much experience with this kind of economic mismatch. I never used to think of sexual strategy this way. In my own country, I was pretty well off in resources, but here it is about being a bigger fish in a smaller pond. One of my friends who is heavily involved in business startups and stock trading described it as 'Your share value just went up by mo…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 06:37 PM
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You may be thinking of another Latin American country. Panama is actually pretty safe when it comes to violent crime, especially if you are an individual with some status. (Like an expat or a wealthy man with a good ZIP code.) Lots of petty theft, but the murdering and assault tends to occur in other countries. Obviously, walking through a slum is a bad idea, but I do not need to ever go to those sorts of places.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 06:06 PM
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I made gentle inquiries with one of her male friends to make certain I hadn't mistakenly stumbled into a cathouse party the day after I dropped her off. If I had gotten any hostility, I probably would have paid, and never contacted these people again. Pro escorts always count the money first, and insist it is on the table when they walk in. I've enough experience with that through business. They do not get hot and heavy and start drinking first, or spend five hours seducing a John. (Hardly a goo…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 06:04 PM
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Losing weight is difficult to predict over long term as your body changes. Your minimum calorie intake and metabolism can change as you lose fat. Hence my six month estimate. It's a topic better left for a different discussion thread.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 04:57 PM
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It took about 5 hours of buildup, but I enjoyed most of it. I was not objective oriented. There is a certain 'push and pull tension' I think to these sorts of interactions that I never noticed before my TRP readings. Someone else might be able to explain it better. But the result of that tension was I had a pretty damn good night.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 04:40 PM
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You are entitled to your opinion, subjective as it may be. I do lift, and I do exercise. I've lost over 60 lbs in the last four months. In six more months, I will probably hit 10% BMI. In my athlete days, I lifted very respectable numbers due to my natural size and frame. The reality is that you have to work with what you have in this very moment, and strive for better each day. I am confident in myself because I know I am doing the very best I can for my health at this particular moment in time…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:45 PM
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I have heard Southern Panama has pretty awesome Marlin fishing. Will do. I have heard similar comments of Gringo targeting by 'normal girls on the street', because I asked a close friend who I knew would keep my confidence his opinion on this. Good that someone here is confirming it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:18 PM
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Possibly. I am still not certain. Language barrier is a bitch. I am inclined to think she just saw me as an easy target to get some money, and not necessarily as a working john. It was clumsily executed compared to other call girls I have known.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 02:41 PM
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My opportunities are not at an end. I just acknowledge the ones lost because the lessons allow me to move forward. If there is a hint of narcissism in that, so be it. As for Fight Club, it was written by a homosexual who happens to be one of my favourite authors, but I do not think that his nihilism is applicable to my life or relationships. It's just edgy shit young adults love to quote.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 01:09 PM
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I had a similar upbringing. One of the hardest things to accept was cutting my toxic mother out of my life. That she just could not love me the way I wanted her to. My father was a very forward, successful man whose drive resulted in him catapulting from a poor working class life into wealth. When he left my mother, taking most of his money with him, she decided the best strategy was to use the courts and his children to attack him. As a result, I lived largely without male influence until I was…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 10:40 PM
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Well I will preface this by stating my experience is tainted by the fact that in terms of status, I went up quite a bit on the scale by moving. As a gringo who speaks passable Spanish, and who is putting down roots and pursuing business that makes me different then the typical tourist. In other words, my SMV went up significantly by moving. Still, I will point out a few differences I noticed that makes for a friendly place: Contact culture: Generally, you greet women here by kissing them on the …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 09:40 PM
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Cannot have something taken away that you do not own, and never tried to claim in the first place. You are not entitled to a girl simply because you have feelings about her. A good lesson to learn.
/r/seduction11/11/17 05:11 PM
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I would agree with the Toronto comment. Lived there all my life, and when I finally left for Panama City, there was a brief moment of culture shock at just how friendly and flirty the average woman is with me now. Latins are big on touching and getting close to one another. (Contact culture?) It is at the point now where I meet vacationing countrymen, and it's awkward how far apart they stand, with no signs of affection upon meeting new people. Torontonians are frigid and cold like their city. I…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 12:55 PM
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I would recommend "The Meditations" for anyone who wishes to understand this concept better, and without the rose glasses. OP is correct, but can be misinterpreted due to choice of language. After all, the steaming pile of self help shit "The Secret" made a pile of cash distorting this kind of wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:19 PM
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I want to get better in the sack. Started picking up women after a lengthy dry spell, but I cannot get them off, or satisfy them all consistently. Nothing more satisfying to me then a girl who looks up at me with a dopey smile after a long night of good sex. I want that to be every time if possible. Any good TRP resources for learning more?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 07:04 PM
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Opinions on compliments about her body during sex? Would that be an exception to the OPs view on beauty and pedestals? Example: "You have a great ass." (While using it appropriately.) I have found women love compliments about their beauty in bed, but I am willing to hear other opinions. Still working on GFTOW.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:11 PM
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Good job brushing off the short guy comments. Women will often nail you where they think there is a chink in the armor. I am a tall man, but fat and currently on a diet (its working well) and I have to deal with the same crap about my weight or my glasses. I learned something from this FR.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 12:56 PM
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I do not think it is a generation thing. I think it is simply that most people will not work hard. They want the fantasy of easy attainment, and their narcissism prevents them from cold self analysis. This is honestly why I stopped posting in loseit subreddit for example. 95% of the posts there were about whiny people who wanted to not be fat, and just bitched about how they didn't feel good. Or photos of formerly obese people who were now just overweight and still unattractive. It's a great sub…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 04:05 PM
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I think you nailed part of his mental block. The reality is that the OP is approaching game from the perspective of taking something from the girl (her pussy). Rather, he should think about how to get said girls to want to stick around, and what he offers them. Takers vs givers. It's a mentality.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 01:49 AM
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I would add the observation that women make friends quickly, but they are quicker to lose friends, or change social circles. Men make fewer friends, and form bonds more slowly. However, they keep the bonds they have for a longer time.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 12:38 AM
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Single mothers are the single most likely group to go on social aid. They are on average 14 Iq points lower then a person who married and retains a dual parent family with children . They are on average 8 IQ lower then a single person. There are outliers that the feminist narrative likes to preach. My mother was an outlier on intelligence (though lacking in a desire to learn or improve beyond a high school level.) Her single mother friends (all if them were single moms, single mothers tend not t…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 11:07 PM
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Well, I can appreciate TRPs tell it like it is mentality. The truth is a lot of Canadian women are just happy getting knocked up so they never have to work again by collecting welfare, disability (because they are too depressed to work, obviously), alimony, and child support checks. They couldn't care much for the father or the kids I have some bitterness because it is personal, but that realization does not make me hate women at all. On the contrary I am glad I "get it". They are only doing wha…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:07 PM
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My point is, a lot of these useful idiots, having walked their ranks, do not know any better. The only role models they have are their cuck public teachers.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:21 PM
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I was one of the dumbfucks. I swallowed this hook and line in my youth while in the Canadian system. (Raised by a single mom, no male influences because she insisted on sole custody so she would never have to work again.). Eventually though, after some really bad results, I figured it out the exact same way I taught myself to shave, through trial and error. Part of me is angered by how I was clearly a commodity for others gains, and how hard it was to accept that I never saw that as a kid. Smile…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 01:19 PM
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No. It is a pep talk to spur posters, and a litmus test for envy. There are two ways people experience and deal with envy. The first way is to ask "How can I earn what they have?" The second is to ask "How can I take what they have away?" One of these paths is a losing strategy.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:57 PM
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That after he asks 100 women out, facing rejection after rejection he will realize this one is nothing special.
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:37 PM
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I observed similar reactions to you. I could not lift as much, and I became more introverted. Fatigue as well, harder to wake up. However, after sex with a woman, it is the complete opposite for about three days.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:33 AM
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If she flakes, ask out another girl the next day. Even if you do not like them much.
/r/seduction31/10/17 09:56 PM
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Sounds like a more colloquial writing of the dark triad man according to Ivan Throne. I agree with all of these points, and the down to earth examples. Wish I had read this shit when I was a teenager.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 09:21 PM
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Hot chicks often act dumb and conceal their intelligence. The smartest women I have met are also often the most beautiful because life is not fair. As the charming politician Benjamin Disraeli often said: Never complain, never explain
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:19 PM
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I have gone vegetarian occasionally. It is good for your health if you eat the right way and get enough protein. I have met some very athletic men (especially Sikhs) who do not consume meat.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:12 PM
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This can also apply to lack of confidence despite obvious competence in a given skill, or quality.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 11:24 PM
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I think the most helpful realization for me is that women like sex just as much as men do. They just have to abide by a different playbook then men. (The reason why TRP exists being that so many men are taught the wrong playbook.) If you can set up circumstances where women are not afraid of being seen as a slut, they are far more likely to want to enjoy themselves. Once I thought of it that way, and then more importantly, felt it to be true, I started having ONSes. I especially agree on the for…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 01:01 AM
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While this has potential, I pose the following counterpoint: Why do this when you can pair up with a buddy whom you trust who has his own value, thereby showing your worth. (Because you are friends with a cool dude, people assume you are too). I think this strategy only has value if you only have lame friends.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 10:39 PM
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I posed this exact question to my sister's mother who is an M.D with specialty in aesthetic medicine. Her response was that fucking around with hormones is a bad idea, because aside from what you just listed, other irreversible changes occur. A woman on heavy steroids will have her facial bone structure change over time, developing an oversized masculine jawline, and a pronounced brow. The doctor had had more then a few once attractive women who abused steroids (for weight control and muscle ton…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 08:50 PM
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Anyone who thinks Buddhism is a 'religion of peace' that is 'not productive'' needs to get out there and learn more. One of the best treatises I have read in philosophy was written by a Buddhist who was instructing Japanese sword masters in the 1600s. Taukan Soho wrote: "If you do not train in technique, but only fill your breast with principle, your body and your hands will not function." (The Unfettered Mind, William Scott Smith Translation.) The difference is that the Zen Master Taukan was no…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 11:55 PM
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Who says the girls have to match your age? This also applies to girls younger then you, who see a guy in his late twenties with his shit together as more valuable versus the aimless twenty year old who is "finding himself".
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 11:27 PM
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Honestly. I do not really pity the women who used to turn their nose up at me getting what's coming to them. I know the type you are referring to, and it's not applicable to all women, but these particular ones can deal with the results of their terrible choices. I have zero pity. Nobody fucks you harder then time, after all. That said, I do agree with you that women, as well as men are being lead astray by the ridiculous cultural marxism that seems to pervade North American society.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 09:08 PM
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It's largely irrelevant where you approach women just that you do so often and in a way that makes you continually face and escalate your discomfort. Keeping social conventions in mind, I do not recommend workplace, or any location where you are there for another purpose. (Do not shit where you eat.) Ideal locations can be ones where you are forced, or incentivised to talk to women. In my case used to go to strip clubs, and brothels (Prostitution is legal in my current location, and the ladies o…
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:37 PM
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'The Meditations' is one of the few philosophy books written by someone who became a man of sovereign authority, wielding the power of one of the most successful empires in history. Marcus Aurelius was not just a scholar of renown. I highly recommend it as a resource for self improvement. I reread it every year.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 03:30 PM
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Walk up and open your mouth to talk to her. Refinement comes with practice. If you have 'mild social anxiety' the best thing you can do is repeat what makes you uncomfortable over and over. That is generally how you conquer any given anxiety, though like most things in this subreddit, it is easy to say and hard to do. Statistically you will probably fail to charm her. I am going to repeat that. You are probably going to fail, and that is perfectly fine. Failure is a foundation of confidence. Nor…
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:04 PM
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Fortunate then that you took the pill at a young age. I bloody wish I had had a resource like this when I was going through highschool, or college. I would have avoided many mistakes. Words of advice from an older guy however: Do not make girls (Especially highschool girls god forbid) your mission. Now is the time that you need to identify your strengths in school and start applying yourself academically. Whether high school ends in university, trade school, independent entrepreneurship, or some…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 02:16 PM
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Fair point on the meathead mentality. I have a bad knee as a result of wrestling, and some cauliflower ear. Main reason why I stopped was that no clubs existed in my area outside of collegiate competition.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:11 PM
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I think you have thought about this too much. While thinking and argument structure is important if you are a thinking man, so is brevity. People who think too much are often concealing fear of uncertainty. TRP is based on heuristics. The only way to know is to try.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:53 PM
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I know when I was that young precocious behaviour was a sign of advancement, but if you are dealing with a girl who was having intercourse at 12... That is too young. Your feelings of desperation when thinking about her being sexual so soon are going to be replaced with disgust once you have a little more years. Guaranteed. If you wouldn't have wanted your sister doing this, then you do not want the women you date doing this unless it's one you do not care about.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:39 PM
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Been looking for a new martial art to take up soon. I earned my black belt in tae kwon do when I was fifteen. (McDojo, mom didn't do her research) and I wrestled for four years until I turned twenty. (Freestyle). In bad physical condition now, but keen to get back into it. I have had several friends recommend Krav Maga as a good overall martial art, though it's ethos (inflict maximum damage shortest time possible) is not one I necessary agree with. Any ideas offered are appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:28 PM
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Yes, they are the same. Plato was one of the first to theorize the concept in The Republic, and Roman philosophers borrowed from the Greek idea. Then the church borrowed it from them. A very simple explanation on my part because I do not want to write a paper, but this is a concept thousands of years old.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:09 PM
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I will quote my buddy, a professor of South American Art History: "There are seven women for every man in Colombia because all the men like to kill each other." Hence my preference for Panama, though I am involved in business and have friends in both countries.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 03:40 AM
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I was referring to Panama, Colombia, and Venezuela specifically. Though the latter is a place I do not recommend anymore.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 07:47 PM
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Yeah. The countries in question I was referring to specifically was Panama and Colombia. Other nations I have travelled can have a different vibe, but I particularly found Panama to be a welcoming place because it's a trade based country with tons of expats that doesn't have the same level of violence seen in Colombia.. (Though nothing beats Colombian girls on average in terms of looks. Must be something in the water.)
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 07:46 PM
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That is part of it. All of these girls are raised Catholic and the countries have an extremely high church attendance rate per capita. I theorize it may also have a language component to it. It's hard to victimize men or enforce false gender neutrality when you are speaking a language with an inbuilt masculine/feminine structure on a day to day basis.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 07:08 PM
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I know exactly why Steve Jobs did this. I know because the exact same thing happened to people I know. Only difference is the man paid his ex wife a multi million dollar unofficial settlement out of a sense of guilt towards his children. The end result was that he was told upon handing her the cheque: "If you think I am going to thank you for this, well I am not!" She then proceeded to withhold his children from him as much as possible until they reached age of majority. In the end, they rejecte…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 06:56 PM
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I would send my kids to college if it meant they could mix with an elite community for the purpose of long term networking. That my child had the talent in order to take advantage of this as well. Plenty of people go to Harvard and don't come out with this. That, or if they had the chops for professional training. No matter how the world goes to shit, society can always use a doctor or an engineer. Otherwise, it's a waste of money and a great way to become a debt slave. Online education is cheap…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 06:47 PM
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I find the irony of this sort of movement is that the same women who admit to this sort of thing happening to them tend to be the same ones who support cultural diversity and moral relativism. They consider 'inappropriate' touching and catcalling to be a serious issue, but vote for allowing immigrants into their countries who grew up in a culture of arranged statutory rape. The kind of places where women on the street are held down and gang raped. With the same breath they condemn their own for …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 06:43 PM
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Recently moving to Latin America, I have noticed a huge difference in how the women act here. They /smile/ at you on the street. It's unlike anything I would see from girls back home. As a gringo coming from a cold 80/20 city, this was a big ego boost initially and strong motivation to start looking around. These girls are very motivated to find successful men, and act in a very feminine (Though fiery, the spicy Latina rumors are true) way compared to how dates went in North America for me. Most…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 06:35 PM
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Virtue is a path towards self improvement, and by extension, women. However, I encourage you to consider these concepts not as presented in most material which is often as some vague and pathetic attempt at moralizing with little reason backing it. In this post I am only discussing fortitude, others will be discussed in other posts. Fortitude is measurable. It is the space between thought and action. The less the distance, the greater the quality displayed. That is often why it is seen as a warr…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 02:40 PM
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As a fellow former addict, (gambling,), It destroys your power. I remember begging for money from anyone I could when I went broke. I laugh hysterically at relationship troubles I have sometimes because compared to breaking addiction, women drama is easy to handle. And that was not an opiate addiction I had. Any former burnout drug addict tends to have two things I immediately notice: Low self esteem Impressive ability to deny self gratification. A strong will. One of those traits is characteris…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 01:37 PM
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