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| 1 | Girlfriend devastated after I told her she has put on weight since we started dating. Where to go from here?She's into me. I've used dread game in the past with her and it has been highly effective. I agree I need to lead by example. Which is precisely why I will be joining the gym and hitting the weights. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend devastated after I told her she has put on weight since we started dating. Where to go from here?was on my phone at work... thanks for the heads up. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 01:37 AM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: How to Handle Salary Negotiations.This is such an awesome post, thank you so much. While this is important for the corporate workers here it is invaluable advice for ANY man in almost any career. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 07:37 AM |
| 1 | "Well, it's not all about sex." How do I respond to my girlfriend going cold on me 1 month into our relationship?do you have anything Rollo has written about cohabitation? I'd be interested in reading it, he does some good stuff. edit: found it, he brings up some great points. I don't want to live with her though... I just want a place where we can both comfortably fuck without having to deal with family. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | "Well, it's not all about sex." How do I respond to my girlfriend going cold on me 1 month into our relationship?Yeah the logistics suck for sure. I have no recourse until she moves out next year once she lands a job. Obviously we have to make things work in the mean time but I just don't see it happening. Thanks for the input. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 12:24 AM |
| 0 | "Well, it's not all about sex." How do I respond to my girlfriend going cold on me 1 month into our relationship?Mistake number 1. Guys don't initiate the "DTR" (define the relationship) talk. You dont' ask a girl to be your girlfriend. You just let it flow there, if it's going to go there. She initiated that talk. I just settled it. Had to clarify that. Mistake number 2. You need to just tell her she can't bring that up anymore. It's done and over with; and if you bring it up again we're done. Sick of it. I told her she can't keep bringing it up again but she clearly is not listening. I guess I'm going to… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 11:56 PM |
| 4 | AWALT? The late night hit up.I know you may feel like you have an abundance of it because of your brother but she's still trying to use you. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Kino & "Sexual Harassment"?Basically, the only difference between kino and Potentially getting hit with a sexual harassment charge is whether the girl is attracted/comfortable with you or not? Pretty much. You need to learn how to ready body language and read it WELL. Best way to do that is just observing people when they talk. give them your undivided attention. Don't just listen to what they are saying but also look at what they are doing. Talking is only 50% of the way humans communicate; the other 50% involves non-ver… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 05:03 AM |
| 9 | Should I next this girl? I'm a newbie.She's not special. She is no more special than any other girl you meet. Don't put her on a pedestal. She could be seeing someone else and ignoring you but you don't know that for sure. She may be in a busy major but if she isn't returning texts for over a week there is something wrong. I've dated girls in some of the toughest medical majors out there and they still were able to respond to me at least in a timely fashion. What should you do? Send one last text. Nothing long. Just tell her to meet… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 04:46 AM |
| 4 | AWALT? The late night hit up.Was she smoking your stuff? If yes, then you have your answer: she just wanted to chill with you for your weed. If she brought her own weed then chances are she just wants an orbiter to bitch to - ie you are her time ho. Either way doesn't seem like a favorable situation for you; if she's smoking your weed, she's wasting your money. If she's just hanging out with you just to talk about bullshit and bitch to you she's wasting your time (and your time has value, same as money). What would I do? Sh… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.Not necessarily. It's not for everyone. I got in to work today and within 5 minutes of being there I was elbows deep in shit (literally) with a patient that the previous shift didn't clean (guess they just wanted to save it for me to do). I'm immune to the smells now but it took a little time. But I know plenty of people that just simply can't deal with the sight/smell of piss/shit/vomit/wounds/etc. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.you right you right. I followed this golden rule for my entire life until now. I plan on leaving my current job in the next month or so and we hardly work the same shift together so I figured it wouldn't matter too much. But you are absolutely correct. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.I discovered the red pill over 2 years ago after I broke up with a LTR. I've been internalizing the information since then but now I finally have an opportunity to apply it. I'm going to be honest I was a little unsure about doing the whole time out thing but from what I have read on here and the main TRP page it was very effective so I stuck with it. Just don't ever break your frame or she will pounce on the opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 05:21 PM |
| 21 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.It's also important to note that we are at a very early stage in our relationship. I want to cut this shit out now. If you apply this method to a LTR where you have been dealing with this bullshit for months or years she is not going to take to it kindly. Be prepared. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 03:16 AM |
| 15 | Never underestimate the power of walking away/radio silence. It works wonders when a girl is behaving how you don't like.It's pretty great for a multitude of reasons. Guys don't get caught up in the gossipy bullshit that other female nurses do. Female nurses are inherently wary/afraid of a male nurse in the workplace so they won't bully you as much. They'll pick another weaker target. Bullying is very common on many nursing units. You are valued for your physical strength and willingness to work. I can't tell you how many of the nurses I work with are obese, slovenly, slow, and just don't give a shit. You will be … | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 03:14 AM |
| 2 | what about the skinny guys?/r/gainit is the way to go. If you want to gain mass you need to do 2 things: Eat at a caloric surplus Hit the gym and build muscle Everyone knows that working out takes discipline. You need to set up a regimen and train your body to become stronger. This same idea applies to eating more and gaining mass. Training your stomach is literally the same as working your back/chest/biceps/abs/legs - you build on your previous workouts and incorporate a little more each time until it becomes normal. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice about financesNow is when husbandry becomes an art. I don't think that word means what you think it means. Apart from that, good points. Definitely needs to focus on your points you laid out. Clear and concise. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Is nofap a waste of time?In my honest opinion its useless unless you are severely addicted to masturbation. I consider "addicted" more than once a day. After I broke up with a girl in a very sexual relationship in 2012 I did my own thing. MGTOW, all that shit. I basically had no sexual contact that entire time (until this summer actually). You have to take care of that need somehow otherwise you'll go insane. I feel like masturbation is really overemphasized here on TRP. If you focus on building yourself up in your othe… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Too busy to hang out, but upset when I don't respond to her texts. Where do I go from here?truth, thanks for the input. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Too busy to hang out, but upset when I don't respond to her texts. Where do I go from here?okay so zero contact seems to be the way to go. I just don't want to push her away by seeming too distant. I also know that responding to every little text and talking too much just ruins attraction. I guess I need to find a medium between the two. thanks. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Marriage is nothing but a fail-safe for a woman and provides no benefit for the manWhat is the cost of this? (Getting the egg and a surrogate to raise it for 9 months) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | You don't pick a fight with someone bigger than you.What am I supposed to do when the chick at the bar calls over a dude and he starts wailing on me? Walking away from physical abuse is a viable strategy but not in every situation. Sometimes you have to stand your ground. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 01:36 AM |
| 0 | The ultimate shit test: withholding sexI can understand abundance mentality and dread game if you are just spinning plates but I don't see how it works if you are in a monogamous relationship or marriage. Can someone explain how this would work in that setting? I feel like it could give her grounds for divorce if you cheat on her. She would just say: "Well HE cheated on ME, your honor!" Same for a LTR, she'd make you look like an asshole if you cheated on her (and I believe it does make you an asshole if you cheat on someone in a mon… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on "I am still not happy"One thing I have learned (that may not be the same for you) is at some point therapy/journaling stops being helpful. Because it tends to focus very strongly on the depression. Making it bigger than it actually is. You need to, at first, and for a while to understand who you are and how to change. But at some point, your energies and efforts have to start being focused on something else. changing how you define yourself. From "I am depressed" to "I am dealing with my depression" to "I have depres… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | The Real Pussy Pass for Shoveling Snow, or Tinder Girl Gets Chumps to Dig Out Her CarTruly, the chumps chomping at the bit to shovel her out are just as much at fault as she is for using them for free labor. Lesson learned from this post: don't be that chump. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 02:08 AM |
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