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The best thing unattractive men can do is be assertive and have other masculine traits. Women mainly communicate indirectly because they are too scared to hurt peoples feelings masculine men straight up tell people how it is and that shit turns women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:24 AM
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My dating strategy is to cold approach or join hobbies/ group activities and hopefully make friends with a shit ton of people and get introduced to single women that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:20 AM
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I forgot where on reddit i read this but i vividly remember seeing some chronically online cat lady say how one of her guy friends and girl friends started flirting with each other and going on a first date and she ruined it by telling her girl friend some stupid shit like “oh you dont need a boyfriend this early in life” because she got jealous i assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:16 AM
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Idk why you are getting downvoted this is actually good advice. No one wants a yes man or pick me girl. People who have no backbone or confidence are extremely unattractive and weird. Literally a woman could be a perfect 10 looks wise but if she’s extremely clingy and has like no hobbies or life of her own any reasonable man wouldnt want her as their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:10 AM
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I think the redpill has a lot of truth to it and could definitely get you laid or find shitty short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:09 PM
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Thinking women are superior to you is unironically the biggest turn off to them. I mean i would be embarrassed if some woman treated me or other men like we are just better than her because we have a penis and higher testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:45 PM
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Well tbh my standards are pretty reasonable. Im not expecting some 10/10 super model with no issues at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:57 PM
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Typically yes but I’ve actually seen some fat dudes pulling baddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:53 PM
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That makes a lot of sense as to why literally every girl i get close with has bipolar just like my mother does. My dad is also a very controlling helicopter parent and thats why i hate being told what to do by people. I dont act anything like my parents but im not necessarily the healthiest person either. I have depression and BPD so my self esteem is pretty low. Besides my mental health problems i guess my actual personality isnt that bad since im quite independent and dont rely on other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:52 PM
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But how does that explain all the fat overweight dudes i personally see walking around with girl friends or kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:36 PM
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Well in recent years my anger has calmed down and ive only broke like 4 or 5 things in the past 3 years technically 2 of those things were already broken like this shitty pc and this guitar
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:34 PM
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I mean unless you got a really bad hand like you developed anti social behaviors, cant anyone just become desirable from the gym, learning social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:30 PM
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I know i definitely don’t understand what women actually want in men and put too much thought into appearance. Honestly tho i just think thats how nature works and men are wired to be more attracted to looks than woman are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:28 PM
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There was a post on this sub yesterday about women getting mad at how guys their own age weren’t socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:06 AM
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I personally think women dont care about it until it starts to affect their dating life and they struggle finding guys their age to date. But honestly all that happens is the lonely guys get victim blamed because they choose not to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:40 AM
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Well i know its all the self pitying and bitching i do irl not just on reddit. How i act on reddit is like 75% accurate to real life. I have talked about the pills and other manosphere stuff like inceldom to older women or people who i know dont know about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:14 AM
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My mindset actually turns off women. Theres one woman who genuinely likes me and i don’t understand how she does because i dont even like my own body
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:57 PM
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So then the blue pill and a tiny bit of the black pill is just reality then. I just cannot come to grips that i wont be liked by every woman on earth. That and death always bother me so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:39 PM
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The good news is now that rfk jr is in charge in my country a lot of that shit like yellow 5, high fructose corn syrup, red 3, enriched wheat flour will probably be banned. All that shit. Also i do 15 minutes a cardio a day except on cardio days where i do like 40 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:07 PM
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What even is the blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:21 PM
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Even on like the gen z subreddit they talk about incel related stuff. Cant go anywhere on the internet without hearing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:11 PM
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Thanks. I mean tbh my anger issues are mostly just going on reddit and arguing with strangers or me self pitying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:53 PM
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Im sorry to hear that. I dont really have the best coping mechanisms tbh. My reddit account is basically my release since i cant really say the same stuff i say on reddit irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:49 PM
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I mean im literally 30% body fat. Thats fucking disgusting. I have man tits, double chin, bingo arms, muffin top, love handle. Im literally 5’10 198 lbs im 30 lbs overweight im not that far from being obese. What woman is gonna look at me and think im hot? You tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:41 PM
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When i had my girlfriend that was the best my mental health state was since i was a child. Being single since October 2022 I’ve thought about loneliness every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:38 PM
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Ive never been to the derm before but i have tried multiple skin care routines now. None have worked but my acne isnt as bad at it was when i was younger. I cant look at my high school photos because my acne was severe and hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:37 PM
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Im having a serious quarter life crisis and feel a lot of FOMO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:36 PM
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I mean my life is literally revolved around my 9-5 job, going to the gym for about 6-7 hours a week and daydreaming/ fantasizing about women. Trying to get a girlfriend is constantly bothering me especially since i got blue balls multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:35 PM
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I think a lot of women downplay the male loneliness epidemic until it actually starts to effect them negatively. Recently we’re starting to see more women on social media actually getting mad that when they go out to clubs or bars theres less younger men and their own dating and socializing opportunities are starting to go down. I think having more empathy and not posting on social media about how you dont give a fuck about the MLE would be a selfless gesture that takes literally no time of effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:32 PM
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I go to a therapist. Over time ive stopped breaking stuff or putting holes in walls or punching tvs. The only 2 things ive destroyed in the past 3 years i can think of was this really shitty slow PC that i threw down the stairs and this guitar that broke that i ended up smashing. I would say like a good 95% of my anger issues actually manifest on reddit or discord when i argue with people in their dms who really upset me in some way or another. Going to the gym helps a lot too since i get to lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:22 PM
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I dont have the balls to get confrontational with people and whenever i did in the past i would always cry like a little bitch. So my anger is now at the cost of my own self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:09 PM
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10-15% is apparently what women want in men. No if you do you are called an idiot. The point is im a fat fuck with nothing to bring to the table besides money so im gonna end up being lonely and miserable forever. I think im funny and have a personality but my social awkwardness overshadows it and im always gonna be seen as a ugly creep by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:05 PM
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I wont lie i got really bad anger issues. I dont lash out at people directly but I’ve destroyed shit in anger. I got it from both my dad and uncle as they put holes in walls and shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:03 PM
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My life revolves around wanting female validation and attention. At least im honest about it tho so many women lie to themselves that their life doesnt revolve around mens validation and attention
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:59 PM
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Honestly dating apps scare me. I already have low self esteem and i think it would only get worse if i put in all this effort making a profile just to get no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:58 PM
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Then yeah that proves why i as a not so good looking guy shouldn’t bother going on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:56 PM
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Im sorry im just really having a bad day mentally. Im also physically fucked up in my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:51 PM
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You think im just like most guys on this sub. Sex hungry. Yeah i am and i won’t lie sex is the most important thing about a relationship imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:19 PM
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I have a really hard time making friends. Im really good at making friends but my misery and depression drives people away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:18 PM
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If were dating and we both have a libido then why is there a dead bedroom to begin with? Youre making assumptions that im very strict about it too like im someone who demands sex on the first date. Im actually more understanding of it but ffs if like 3 or 4 months go by and we arent having sex for no reason at all why tf are we in a relationship anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:05 PM
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Im 21 and have a body fat of 30% and bad acne with little experience dating. I should be out married by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:19 PM
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No im not asexual. If i have a girlfriend or wife im gonna want to have sex with her. Im not delusional like some people ik if shes on her period or doesnt want it that doesnt bother me but if shes just giving me a dead bedroom for weeks straight im gonna leave the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:45 PM
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Most men i know want both. I for one only want sex with the same romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:26 PM
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Im threatened by the fact that im 21 and im wasting my prime and seeing other people succeed makes my depression and sense of worth worse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:22 PM
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You cant argue that they arent when all the experiments show chads get way more swipes than average or ugly guys. And any woman can go on tinder and get laid within a couple hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:47 PM
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I met 3 of my “girlfriends” on discord and one on instagram. Ive never used a dating app before because its extremely obvious im never gonna get any matches. Even if I was unbiased and picked only fat women with acne they would never pick me lmfao. Dating apps are one of the biggest evidences that AWALT and the black pill is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:43 PM
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Im 30 lbs overweight and got acne. If i was to use tinder all id do is drop my self esteem even farther down and its already at rock bottom. I could probably take good photos since i went to school for filming for 3 years and my life is interesting enough to showcase a lot of personality, but lets see how much my personality really matters in the context of a dating app where women are literally just picking men based off their physiques they are shopping at the mall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:25 PM
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Ive seen many times experiments where guys make a fake dating profile and make their pfp some google image goth girl and they get like thousands of dms within a few hours. The average guy gets like 1 match on tinder a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:11 PM
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As someone who literally only had fake online “girlfriends” its pretty delusional to think online relationships are gonna be even 10% as good as real life ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:09 PM
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That sounds like me I sit in my room playing video games and bitch and complain about how im lonely. The only difference is 1 i dont blame women at all i know its my problem and 2 ive been going out more and more the past few weeks and been small talking more strangers. If women are starting to complain that guys like me dont go out much they could tell their friends that not every lonely guy is a creep or an incel and is out to “get you.” I saw some twitch steamer named sweet anita talking to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:48 AM
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I was friends with these 2 girls and one of them had a boyfriend cheat on her. They went on a gay dating app and made a fake profile for him using his pictures. I wont lie i think that’s actually pretty funny and he deserved it and its not too harmful. On the otherhand my ex posted a bunch of nudes she got from this dude in his own discord sever because she got mad at him. Thats crossing the line and i shes pulled shit like that with multiple different people and ive seen so many pics of her exe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:37 AM
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Me personally I wouldn’t date anyone whos not drinking age in the us or older than like 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:46 PM
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It doesnt happen overnight ive only lost like 52 lbs in the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:07 PM
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When i dated my ex i was totally fine she was the one who was being dramatic and caused the relationship to fail. As a guy BPD or not i can still be stoic and not bitch about my problems to my girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:05 PM
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Tell that to all the people with BPD in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:50 PM
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Yeah thats me. I used to look really bad in high school and was obese now i go to a gym and dont eat shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:30 PM
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Thats like half of twoxchromosomes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:06 PM
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What 40 year olds can still look good depending if they eat right and have some fitness going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:02 PM
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Most men look their best in their 30s. Look at any before and after photo and between a 17 year old man and a late 20s- early 30s man they typically look way better especially if they dont drink and workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:49 AM
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Its pretty obvious only 2 weeks in. When i “dated” (it was an online girlfriend) she was crying about having to work a job so i told her she should work at a less stressful environment like a library. She fucking yells at me and calls me a bad boy friend and hangs up the phone. I should have known that shit wasnt gonna work out right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:27 AM
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Oh. Well it really comes down to how i dont make any effort to actually get a girlfriend. My social anxiety controls my life and i dont ever approach any women. I mean ive been able to seduce women over the internet many many times before and ive had this one coworker i accidentally like me. I spent all my free time going to the gym instead of socializing. I also fee undesirable because im fat and have acne. If i didnt have those 2 major issues i would probably be considered a chad by some women…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:22 PM
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Well i flip flop on if i am or not. My intrusive thoughts are pretty much what incels believe and i do think to myself that women are whores and promiscuous cunts. But in reality i dont act that way, i dont even hate women or get violent. I had a girl cut me out of her life and in my mind i really wanted to call her a cunt and make her cry but in reality i stopped associating with her and respected her want for me to stop interacting with her despite what i was thinking. Whenever my depression g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:16 PM
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Honestly ive made no progress in the past 3 years. I went in with my life revolving around women and still to this day almost everything i do is with the intention of attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:08 PM
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I actually think i did in the past. I also told her im an incel but she didnt know what that meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:05 PM
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I go to therapy but i only talk about my desire to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:03 PM
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It fucking sucks. I genuinely worry about if i come off as too feminine to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:02 PM
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Well i had sex 1 time in my life but i dont ever talk about it because it was gay and im a closeted bi and homophobic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:47 PM
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Ive been seriously body recomping for the past month now. I’ve gained a noticeable amount of biceps which makes me think i might be genetically gifted in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:45 PM
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I mean id heavily prefer a virgin or low experienced woman because i dont want her comparing me to any other cock she had beforez
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:44 PM
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She lacks self awareness that most men on this earth arent gonna put up with a woman who speaks that loudly. Does she really think men want to come home after a long day of getting bitched at by their boss and have to deal with THAT. Id rather blow my brains out she reminds me of that mr incredible just shut the fuck up meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:41 PM
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Well my BPD is basically just come down to insecurity and low self esteem. I can assure you if i wasnt 30% body fat i wouldnt have any insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:36 PM
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I mean i dont think ive ever met anyone in my life who you can just tell is an abuser
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:35 PM
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Well dont forget that abusers dont reveal themselves at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:24 PM
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A lot of women do fall for the ted bundies or wade wilsons i noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:22 PM
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HARD DISAGREE. Theres a woman I work with and its not the fact that she’s confident that intimidates me or turns me off, its how her confidence turns into masculinity that’s extremely unattractive. My first girlfriend was a very masculine acting abusive woman and it just really annoyed me how she would treat me like i was some kind of child or mentally challenged person. I fucking despise masculine women its extremely weird to see women take charge in problem solving, conflicts with other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:09 PM
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Deadass all I want in a wife is someone who has a high libido and can accept the fact that im mentally ill with BPD and i have jealousy and insecurity issues that i have to go to therapy for i really dont give a fuck about if they have a career or not or what they look like. She could be overweight and have tattoos all over but if shes good in bed or takes the time to understand what i deal with, id be the happiest man on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:56 PM
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Well i personally get offended when women on this sub say AMALT because i know damn well a womans looks are the first thing i look at in a potential partner. Like i would be bullshitting you if i said i didnt prefer to have a dirty blonde blue eyed tan gym chick as a wife but i dont only think they are the only women id date. My first girlfriend was a obese puerto rican chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:47 PM
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Yeah im aware of how being white makes you fetishized by minorities. Literally every girl whos had some sort of sexual interest in me happened to be Hispanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:38 PM
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In my own experience and personally speaking ive known more men who see random women and make comments about how hot they are or how they want to fuck them than guys who dont say shit like that. Im guilty of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:36 PM
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I don’t think all women are that way though. Like one of my coworkers wanted to cheat on her boyfriends for me and i actually seen what he looks like and not even self pitying but hes better looking than me, has no acne and less body fat, im only taller and white. If the idea that women only date up was true then why would she be sexually attracted to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:34 PM
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I wont lie and this is extremely ironic coming from me after what i just posted but i actually think the bar is in hell for men since there are either an equal or just under an equal amount of shitty men as there are decent or good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:19 PM
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I agree that its a general rule and these things you describe are more likely to happen but my problem is that when people start to think that way eventually it will lead to more people becoming hateful of the other gender than there already is. For example black pilled incels exist because of these AWALT ideas they have in their head. I honestly think people lose the plot that love and attraction isnt black and white like people make it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:15 PM
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So when guys say AWALT and they are referring to how women only sleep with or date chads then how come i see on a daily basis short ugly poor balding guys with hot wife’s all the time? It has no basis in reality imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:58 PM
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No i think most men deceive them with their lies of actually genuinely caring about them and not only wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:56 PM
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I mean i have been cheated on and have a pretty bad psyche so if i was to say a girl with a high body count doesnt bother me id be lying so hard but im an example of a mentally ill person, i assume a healthy normal guy really wouldn’t get insecure about it. As for lying about being a virgin, i lost my virginity at 7 to another guy having gay sex so im better off lying about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:49 PM
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I mean yeah i agree that american women really dont have any problem finding a sexual partner as there’s always millions of simps out there who would devote their entire life to worshiping any women who comes their way. Like literally any chick like even an obese girl with anti social personality disorder could go on tinder and get laid the same day. The problem is women tend to find way more shitty men than good quality ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:47 PM
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Well first of all it has nothing to do with gender a lot of American men mainly younger people are just as poor as women. Honestly i think a huge reason why people are so poor in america is because of their high egos and following the standards set by other people their age. “moving out of your parents house” “needing to have a new car” “needing to have the new iphone every year” “needing to go out and party and get drunk every weekend” “needing to go to college otherwise you’re a loser.” These …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:41 PM
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Irl i only know 1 red pilled guy who talks about body count as if its a bad thing but i have heard multiple women talking about how all men are bad. I think they are all mentally ill and have some sort of unresolved trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:19 PM
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I mean the most crazy violent person i know is my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:17 PM
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Yeah i got fed up with everyone thinking men and women are all the same and theres no difference to how our brains work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:16 PM
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I see that more than the opposite but i still see the hot muscle mommy with an overweight guy. Most of the time its Hispanic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:13 PM
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Well i go to planet fitness if i went to golds gym i most likely wouldn’t see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:12 PM
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Lmao way to call me out for shit im extremely self aware of and have no shame for. Literally everything i post on reddit is shit ill never ask women i have any chance dating irl because im self aware enough will ruin my chances. Im not an incel tho idc what you or other people think ive gotten way too many positive female attention in the past 3 years. Incels also dont have women at their job start dreaming of them and come up to them and ask for sex while they have a boyfriend like how i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:11 PM
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Well i go to planet fitness which main demographic is people who are noobs and its their first time in a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:56 PM
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Well im assuming you are talking about men and yes i acknowledge that quite “a lot” of men do act sexually and physically violent towards women but to go around saying that every guy acts that way is how these beliefs are spread and younger inexperienced people who hear this start to form biases against men. The biggest example i can think of is how democrats do this shit all the time and wonder why so many men are identifying as conservatives or red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:53 PM
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From what I’ve experienced healthy normal people dont act this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:49 PM
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Ive only heard the men are bad rhetoric irl mainly from my grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:49 PM
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Honestly tho i see a lot of ugly, broke, short, dudes pulling where i live so idk what to think about it. There was a crackhead loser who i went to school with and hes a complete loser like he had drug problems, he was really stupid, he was definitely on the spectrum, he couldn’t hold down a job because of his anger and drug issues but he somehow managed to have a kid with one of my coworkers and they are married or engaged at the age of like 20. This kid ill give him credit for he was always ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:47 PM
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At my gym i see quite a lot of fat overweight guys with skinny girls. To these AWALT believers that is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:31 PM
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Literally. I work at a grocery store and see couples of all different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:27 PM
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Im starting to see more and more younger guys and girls my age starting to wear tench coats. I used to literally only wear black band ts and black jeans with sneakers or gym clothes in public until around last September. Looking back that felt so fucking cringe and immature especially since now i try to dress either fully formal or semi formal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:54 AM
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Im bisexual and only had gay sex before but i dont see how that’s relevant because i only want a wife/ girlfriend and would only hook up with cis women or trans women. So i basically only talk from a heterosexual stance while being bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:32 PM
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Theres a term for it, its called a limerence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:28 PM
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Fuck man that sucks for me. I only can grow really shitty patchy hair that literally doesnt grow on my chin. Ive had a girl laugh at me for my shitty hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:23 PM
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Fuck man my beard genetics are fucking dog shit so to compensate my clothing style is some tony soprano type mafia shit. Suits, trench coats, bowling shirts, wife beaters, polos, dress shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:54 PM
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Well im mostly genetically gifted as im tall, blue eyed, thick low set eyebrows. The only problem is i have acne and im 30% body fat but ive been going to the gym 5 days a week for 2 hours to body recomp. Honestly if i just lost the fat id probably be above average maybe a 7 or 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:49 PM
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Honestly i feel like only delusional guys think thats the easiest way to get a girlfriend. Not even being black pilled but you have to be incredibly handsome or have a super outgoing personality for it to have a chance of working since most women on this sub say women’s romantic attraction works by the guy doing something for her that turns her on, not really visually seeing a hot guy. The method im currently trying to use to hopefully find a girlfriend is social networking and just making more …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:45 PM
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Honestly tho thats any relationship. A lot of people think just getting in a relationship is the hard part and become lazy which is probably one of the reasons for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:09 PM
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Tbh i do feel like its easier to pull older women. Literally every girl i rizzed up in my life has been like 7+ years older than me. The reason for that is because you tend to be attracted to women who are like your mom and i stg literally every woman in my life has had bipolar just like my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:36 AM
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Too many people dont see that quite a lot of men act that way towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:47 PM
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Its fucked up that they do that and they don’t deserve to have girlfriends or wives when they talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:45 PM
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Well dont throw all of us under the bus because quite a lot actually do that. Me personally i dont believe in this petty comparison shit. I can acknowledge that there are women who are more attractive than my wife and keep it to myself. Yeah its fucked up when it happens but not AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:38 PM
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Well i mean look at her what man wants her. Shes fucking annoying, stupid, shes like a 3 at best, she hates the idea of womens rights im not even a feminist but pearl davis is a perfect example of why feminism exists. Im pretty sure she doesnt even believe the shit she says for money because she doesnt want to be a trad wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:24 PM
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Yeah i mean its gotta be quite obvious when a guy likes you. I mean you cant really blame the women tho because if i was a girl i would love to have simps doing things for me to make my life easier. Look at hot tub streamers and OF women. They make a shitton of money from delusional dudes thinking they will fuck them if they donate money. Thats why i hate the players not the game. Men give these women all the power over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:10 PM
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Literally this. Speaking from my own personal experiences i stopped giving a fuck about womens validation and attention as soon as i got a girlfriend or if im currently focused on one girl. Thats how i know ill never be a cheater because as soon as i get into relationships i straight up stop giving a fuck about other women and see them as only friends at most as to when im single i seek relationships out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:05 PM
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Ill never know how women’s biology works but all straight fertile men are wired on a subconscious primitive level to cum inside women to make more humans. Romantic relationships arent a need that’s something we do because we are smart enough to have them but sex is definitely a need. Obviously we arent cavemen anymore and theres enough humans that some people dont need to have kids and people are conditioned to suppress their needs to have sex but dont be fooled because it still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:55 PM
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I mean its rooted deep in our primitive behavior to want to fuck women to spread our species. Its up to social conditioning and willpower to not act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:44 PM
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Im a guy so this will probably never happen to me but if i had a partner and another girl asked me out i would have to voidzone her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:37 PM
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Well in my personal experience a lot of platonic friendships later became romantic over time and if you have feelings for someone and they dont you basically put your own mental health in jeopardy so its better to just pull back from the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:31 PM
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Ima be honest idk how anyone can feel good about themselves getting pity or paid sex. Sex is really more so in my opinion, be really about the emotional connection between 2 people in love before any physical arousal. If i was bitching about how my life sucks and some girl gave me head or a handjob i wouldnt feel like my life is any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:25 PM
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Better than mine. Its some miserable middle eastern old head whos always a sarcastic dick to literally everyone there. I wont lie tho he gave me quite a few laughs multiple times dealing with karens and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:20 AM
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One of my older sisters. The only true platonic girlfriend i really have at work. My grandmother i live with One of my aunts 5.One of my xbox friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:18 AM
1

I dont think its a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:12 AM
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I lost my virginity when i was either 7 or 8 and thats why i lied about my flair for the longest time because i hate not being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:12 AM
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Easy, they dont have to deal with rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:16 PM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:16 PM
1

Make women more untrustworthy of men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:19 PM
4

Yeah people just need to get out more and get off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:19 PM
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I hate that online shit. I mean thats how i met like 95% of all the women ive gotten close and or intimate with but i really wish it was more common to still meet in person face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:50 PM
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Honestly i feel like they are the mentally ill ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:48 PM
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Tbh i feel like thats pretty rare. I only know a handful of people who are genuinely like that and all of them have autism or some other problem. I think most younger guys are mentally capable of being socially successful but they dont know it cuz they avoid going outside and socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:46 PM
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Im my experience you meet women when you dont try. Most of the women ive talked to in my life came from discord servers, xbox live and my job. Im a extremely talkative person and i talk to literally anyone (older women, younger women, women my own age, fat girls, skinny girls, guys my own age, older dudes, younger dudes). I started getting the balls to cold approach/ small talk (i dont know the difference) stacys and so far ive havent had any bad experiences yet. Im working on getting the balls …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:39 PM
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Im going to the bar with my friend for the first time on Thursday. I wont lie im shitting myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:30 PM
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My life experience supports it. If i hooked up with all the women i rizzed up over discord servers or xbox live id have a body count of like 8 compared to the 4 i had real potential to in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:27 PM
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If i was a single millionaire, I wont lie i genuinely find “mid” (to the average dudes standards) women the most attractive. Like fat or skinny, maybe they have acne, dresses in the black tights and uggs or Chelsea boots. That’s basically all i want lmao. Money or status wouldn’t chance me either i genuinely have a thing for those types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:47 AM
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I have a lot going on in life i guess my life is exciting. I have some stories under my belt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:40 AM
1

Im trying to cut down to about 10-15% body fat and i know thats how you see your abs but to get all the individual ones to pop out you need to train them. Im bisexual and i wont lie seeing both guys and women with 6 packs really turns me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:40 AM
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Idc about that shit i just want a 6 pack, and ape chest and back cuz i like women with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:36 AM
2

I just get mad at incels because they make my dating life harder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:29 AM
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Honestly all the times ive spent in shitty discord severs talking to incels and other subreddits ive started to think i was just a pos asshole scumbag but in reality im quite popular at my job and a lot of people seem to like me. Ive also had quite a lot of friends in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:49 PM
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As someone whos trying to get a hard 6 pack, its extremely fucking tough mentally and i really hate doing crunches let alone like 200 a week and eating in a calorie deficit but thats what it takes. The average black piller does not have the mental strength to do it. Thats why they sit on the internet all day bitching about womens standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:38 PM
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Having a good personality isnt really hard. All you gotta do is be a genuinely good person. I used to think i was a really bad person because i have quite a lot of bad intrusive thoughts before i realized everyone does and i actually act completely different in reality than in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:33 PM
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I know a guy whos on the spectrum and he doesnt understand that at all and its kinda cringe seeing him shooting his shot with the same 10 people time and time again who dont like him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:26 PM
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social skills issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:25 PM
5

Yeah thats definitely a good reason to seek marriage counseling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah its honestly quite ridiculous how many women ive rizzed up over the internet compared to the like 2 women i have in person. If i put more effort in going out and socializing i could probably be a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:47 PM
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Well im actually not a real virgin cuz i did actually have gay sex 1 time but i really dont like to talk about it. I wasnt raped or anything bad its just extremely embarrassing how it happened. In the past 3 years tho theres been quite a handful of women i had opportunities to fuck but ive fucked it up in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:44 PM
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I basically fucked over my last chance to get laid back in october by taking like an idiot and i basically turned down this girl and she cut me out of her life for like 3 weeks because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:38 PM
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Idk if im a normal person but i cant fathom genuinely getting pissed off at your wife because she doesnt want to have sex 24/7. I know periods, pregnancy, stress, depression can impact a womans libido without being in a relationship so idk how these guys in it dont know or worse dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:13 PM
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Not to mention that kind of rhetoric towards men makes us look worse than in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:07 PM
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Fuck that chick at least now im doing better in life now and actually get physical intimacy from a woman I know in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:53 PM
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Im just saying what my friends told me when i was dating an abusive chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:39 PM
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No it was this girl i met in a emo discord server when i was like 18 that started to type to me a lot then eventually started to video call and we exchanged phone numbers and like facetimed and shit then eventually we started “dating” and having intimacy over phone calls and made plans to meet in person. The relationship was toxic as fuck since both of us were mentally ill but more so her because i was trying to he serious and reasonable with her and plan out how to make it work and was talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:35 PM
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Well ive personally been pussy whipped before in a online relationship and can assure you that as soon as i told the harpy no and stopped giving her money she cheated on me then cut me out of her life. So im not talking out of my ass i have experienced this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:24 PM
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Well obviously anyone can be in that situation im pretty sure the female equivalent is called dick whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:16 PM
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Okay you mean to tell me if you had a wife and she did everything you told her to do you wouldn’t think shes acting out of desperation or had no backbone to tell you no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:14 PM
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Pussy whipped is a real thing where men are so scared of their wife leaving they will do literally anything to please them and the word no is not in their vocabulary. Typically these dudes end up getting cheated on or divorced because the woman doesnt take them seriously since they dont have a backbone or any balls to stand up for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:09 PM
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“Facts don’t care about your feelings” - Ben Shapiro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:02 PM
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1: who says the women are “down bad” i know a few women who are 40+ who just didn’t want to get married or have boyfriends. I dont see how you’re praying on them unless you specifically chase after women who you dont see wedding rings on. The month i turned 21 a older woman i was coworkers with asked me to take her to the bar and there was a lot of sexual tension there and she got all touchy with me so literally anyone above the aoc can pursue other people. I think the dudes who specifically go …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:00 PM
2

Ive smoked weed a few times before but i got cross faded because i only inhaled a little bit. I also think i did it wrong too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:00 AM
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Well thats good then. I just worry about dudes taking advantage of women who are under the influence. I hear about some really fucked up things like dudes spiking their drinks and stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:41 PM
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Tbh i dont know if i should ever go on drugs since i got BPD and my mom has every mental illness in the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:26 PM
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I live in an extremely populated area. Are you telling me as an average guy i could get matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:08 PM
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Me personally i think a lot of dudes feel shame for hook up culture because of how hypocritical they look when they want to sleep around all day but want virgin pure wives. I dont attempt to participate in hook up culture because i want a gf more than meaningless sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:05 PM
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Well a lot of the women do and i listen to them more. I actually try things they tell me. Some guys too but definitely not anyone with a red or black pill flair. Its just annoying whenever some black or red pilled dude gives his doomer or manosphere advice that is fucking stupid. Im no pilled because i literally work a job where im forced to be in public and literally see relationships of all types. If i sat in my room all day since high school i would be blackpilled too because all id have to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:02 PM
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I only really go on this sub for dating advice tbh thats why most of my posts on this sub keep getting removed. Im not stupid i know damn well to get a gf all you really need to do is be in good shape and socialize outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:46 PM
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Im able to lick the tip but that shit hurts my back when i tried
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:35 PM
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If you really want to know so bad, yes its a need for attention. Me coming on this sub is a need for attention since i dont have a girlfriend nor do i even make any effort to actually find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:32 PM
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Lmfao relax its reddit its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:23 PM
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I see. Thanks for going into detail. Id personally rather not bother trying that method as my go to is just meeting people via clubs, hobbies, other friends friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:30 PM
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Sterotypes, tbh i dont know what the difference is between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:56 PM
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I thought if you do it while drunk theres no consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:53 PM
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Thank you I appreciate the advice. I have been small talking more women recently and its been going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:52 PM
3

I think if you police what your partner wears you are a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:50 PM
1

Those are some of the most common archetypes women make about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:49 PM
2

I dont get it tho does acid make you want to have sex with strangers and if so wouldnt that be rape because if your under the influence you cant give consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:41 PM
1

So im a “nasty violent sociopath” because i hate my sister? 💀 so according to some random on reddit with a banana avatar im supposed to love my sister even tho shes a complete asshole. I guess my parents are both “nasty violent sociopaths” too because they hate her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:35 PM
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Im insecure about being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:05 PM
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I was discord friends with a “witch” and she used to “brew spells” over discord video calls with me and looking back she might of been the most delulu person ive ever known especially since she was doing all this shit sober and not under any influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:18 PM
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Theres one woman i know who is a literal harpy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:13 PM
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Saying that all men are angry, sex obsessed creeps, power hungry, insecure, uncivilized barbarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:11 PM
1

I don’t participate in hook up culture because im demisexual, i would only have sex with someone who i have a legitimate chance being partners with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:51 PM
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Honestly idk why people hook up while under the influence because its sorta saying “i can only have sex when women aren’t at their fullest brain capacity.” Ive been told the easiest way to get laid is to go to a rave and get high off acid but at that rate it would probably be safer to just pay a professional sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:32 PM
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Honestly 30 year olds are more attractive to me than people my own age because i like their maturity “the wall” is just a bunch of bullshit. If you cant date a woman because she starts to develop wrinkles or gets fat then your just a bitch lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:25 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:23 PM
2

I rather train my body to be flexible enough to suck my own cock tbh. Thats a weird flex but only a handful of guys can actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:23 PM
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More like she should join the workforce like most people. Assuming this hypothetical woman chose to be a trad wife and she wanted a divorce, unless they have kids or the guy was abusive towards her its her fault for not going into her desired career and she shouldn’t be entitled to the guys assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:26 AM
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She should take full accountability for her actions then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:20 AM
2

Because i still had intimacy with women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:45 AM
1

No offense but if someone became red pilled because some random woman on reddit said something they didnt like, they are just mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:18 AM
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I bought a few pocket pussies like 2 years ago and ive only used them like maybe 5 times at most and i feel like a fucking down bad pathetic loser when i do so i couldn’t imagine how low id have to be to buy an ai sex bot. Especially since i live at home my dad would disown me so badly if he found it and deservingly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:16 AM
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Its doomed from the start because only social inept people and incels would buy them and last time i checked they dont work jobs so they cant even afford them. That being said i have this long pillow (its not a anime body pillow) that i always sleep with and pretend its a woman or when my bi side is active a man.) Thats as low as i go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:13 AM
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Yeah i wont lie im pretty self aware of how i do this. I could have a happy successful life without ever having sex or getting married but honestly i really crave human connection from women in ways only talking to men can’t provide. It would be the same if i only talked to women id feel like im missing out on feelings you can only get from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:06 AM
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I mean wearing thongs and shit is okay but you gotta be quite a dickhead to divorce someone over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:02 AM
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I really dont see the point in giving your ex wife money or assets. They are no longer a part of your life unless you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:01 AM
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Honestly from what i see, dressing in skin tight revealing clothes is the norm in america and it doesnt really say much about your personality. Like casual outfits are literally a crop top with black ass tight leggings and a sneaker or those sexy ass uggs women wear. Imo i find it extremely sexy when women wear suits or business attire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:56 PM
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Surprisingly for how insecure i am i actually have nothing against if my potential girlfriend wants to walk around with skin showing or mad cleavage or dress hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:50 PM
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Yes i am and i dont give a fuck. I tell my therapist about it not some random on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:27 PM
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Idc my sister is a fucking cunt and i really dont like her. Her own mother doesnt like her either because shes a selfish narcissistic bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:46 PM
1

I meant become friends with lesbian women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:34 PM
1

I wont lie i still talk to her because i dont have any other girl friends besides her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:32 PM
1

Im not a weirdo ive been cheated on before
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:29 PM
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Honestly for all the women i rizzed up over xbox live, or discord i wouldnt be a virgin if one of them lived within a 5 hour driving distance of me 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:07 AM
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Dating apps are so fucking stupid. My sister always tells me to use them because she gets matches (i wonder why) then she gets cum and dumped on one and complains about how men are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:03 AM
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Honestly i would have loved to fuck her because she was a thicc short mexican with huge tits but im not gonna take a plane ticket to the other side of the country just to have a hookup i rather just find a hooker at that rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:00 AM
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She’s actually the only woman i genuinely dont think i had romantic feelings for her personality turned me off. I want to be friends with her but shes too into me that it wouldn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:57 AM
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Honestly i rather keep it that way because i would never date her knowing how shes got the cheater personally traits. At most id have very passionate intimate sex with her only if she was single, im not trying to cuck her boyfriend. I have to see the poor guy once a week and he has no clue how dirty his girlfriend talked to me. Im not gonna pretend like im morally a good person either i know the situation is fucked and I shouldnt even talk to her anymore but she is quite literally my only girl f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:48 AM
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They are the lucky ones then. If other people think straight men and women can be friends with no sexual attraction then good for them honestly because i wish i could believe it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:36 AM
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Oh well that’s exactly what she did to me. I still talk to her like nothing happened even though we both know damn well we’re into each other like that. And everyone else around us can tell we like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:33 AM
1

Dating is a numbers game. Just cold approach 100 women and 1 of them is gonna go on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:30 AM
1

Well having a 6 pack is probably good enough to get you laid by the most shallow women especially for me since im tall and have a full set of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:29 AM
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I have no shallowness at all. Im willing to date women of all shapes and sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:27 AM
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I mean like i said i was cheated on before by the “hes just a friend” and somehow 2 women in the past 2 years almost cheated on their boyfriends for a pointless ons with me when i literally didnt even enable their degenerate behavior. Im pretty self aware that im projecting my insecurities and traumatic experiences onto all men but i genuinely do see them as threats if i was to get another relationship. I go to a therapist and that has never helped me actually get over my anxiety about the topic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:26 AM
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I actually agree. Like im not attracted to emo or goth girls at all but i was friends with one at work strictly platonically. I wont lie the thought of fucking her did cross my mind a bit especially when i saw her witch costume on Halloween but it never manifested anything into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:19 AM
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Idk if you had a girlfriend or wife would you be comfortable with her seeing the “hes just a friend” guy? Unless hes gay (which i know for a fact some guys lie about to get close to women) i wouldnt feel comfortable even if he had his own wife. You never know whos next to fuck your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:16 AM
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Yes. I was friends with this one chick over xbox for a few months and we stayed up all night drinking and smoking weed over the mic every day literally every day for months straight. Didnt know each other in person but started sexting over xbox party chat 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:12 AM
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As someone who has been cheated on and multiple women have almost cheated on with, guy friends for straight women are sketchy at best, catastrophic at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:09 AM
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I think the solution is very simple. Dont settle for friendzone platonic relationships or make friends with lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:05 AM
0

What if your platonic girl friend asks to see your penis one day while she has a boyfriend? How do you keep that relationship going?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:00 AM
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Honestly i just want a straight up platonic friendship with a woman so i can do things like bring her to my job or take her out to eat. I have a guy who i do it with but id have even more social proof if i did it with a woman. I have noticed that when i go out in public with one of my sisters or my cousin more women look at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:58 AM
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I wont lie im kinda on the fence about this. I have experienced keeping women who friendzoned me around and its like a form of self harm imo especially since ive been called “little brother” and been the guy women complain about their boyfriends to before and basically validated and enabled all the annoying shit i hate about the dating market. Ive also almost been the “hes just a friend” guy twice now on accident by just existing. (Thats another reason why I don’t trust womens “guy friends”). On…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:47 AM
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Yeah i go to the gym 5 days a week and work a 9-5 6 days a week and invest most of my income. Honestly idk how i could even fit a girlfriend into my schedule. This fucking old head chick at work took my friend and i over to the side yesterday and told us we need to go out more and start talking to women 💀. She deadass told us that we need to stop being bitches and go to this bar and start talking to women there. When we come back to work with allegations and court dates that will be funny to tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:39 AM
1

I went to a concert last easter and found myself in this group and out of nowhere this blue haired goth chick joined who i assume had autism or adhd because she wouldnt shut the fuck up and talked like ben shapiro. I just imagine she was on drugs and probably gave some random head or something after the show cuz idk where tf she went.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:33 AM
1

Honestly i never used a dating app before because i know im too ugly and i dont want my self esteem to drop even lower. In an ideal world where ugly chicks dated ugly dudes this wouldn’t be an issue but unfortunately in the world we live in so many average mid dudes settle for the lowest of the low and even some obese annoying lazy chick will get picked over a hard working guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:30 AM
2

Ahh i would rather just pay a hooker for a quick bj if i want meaningless sex. I only want to fuck women who genuinely want a relationship not just a cum and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:27 AM
1

Why do you think men refuse to socialize?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:25 AM
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Theres this one mid goth chick at my job with really bad acne and always looks like she’s depressed and i stg she talks to literally everyone at work but she stares at me like i got a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:25 AM
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The creep word. Women dont understand how saying that word can really fuck over someones life. Most women dont even know what creepy behavior is anyway lmao. Some skinny af 18 year old with acne going up to you and saying “hey how are you doing” isnt creepy but women will scream and pull out their phone and record it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:23 AM
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My sister is one of those dumbasses who told me i as a below average guy can easily get a gf on tinder. Then 2 days later she goes on tinder hooks up with chad, gets cum and dumped and is now bitching about how men are bad 💀. Tbh i dont blame the guy because my sister is a fucking nut job boss babe with an extremely high ego im pretty sure shes a bipolar narcissist too. If i had a dollar for every ex bf she had id have $25
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:19 AM
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Ive heard women deadass tell dudes to just get high at a rave easy pussy. Thats how you end up with a SA charge on your record imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:17 AM
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Yeah the waiting game tends to work out. Kinda toxic advice but you NEED to play the game. Go get friendzoned by 10 girls but deadass keep talking to them for a long period of time because they have friends, sisters, cousins, who might also be looking for a bf and could refer you and you already have the social proof to help. Or you never know maybe one of the girls who friendzoned you eventually starts to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:13 AM
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Honestly felt. Im deadass just too scared to say hello to a woman but i can sure as shit talk to any random guy like hes been my friend since pre school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:10 AM
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I mean tbh if a young college age girl is at a bar especially by herself what else is she gonna be there for the food?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:08 AM
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Ima be honest i feel like if you try hard trying to get a girlfriend like you cold approach at least 10 girls a day, you go to the bar or night club weekly, you talk to girls at your school/work, unless you are mentally deranged and say some stupid shit you will probably get 1 date with in a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:04 AM
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I can assure you im not shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:01 AM
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The amount of women i see on reddit who say “looks dont matter its all about personality” then you find out their exes or current bf is some chad 💀. Honestly thats why i dont even bother dating until i at least have visible abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:00 AM
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Honestly i think the women who say that shit are just femcels who dont even go outside on a daily basis or they are lesbians so they weren’t even in the heterosexual dating pool to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:58 AM
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One of my girl friends at work asked to see my penis. Nothing ever came from that obviously but honestly i dont believe in “dont shit where you eat.” I think its totally fine talking to women in places you frequent as long as you arent stupid about it and like ask to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:53 AM
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I mean I struggle with socializing its the one aspect of my life i fucking suck at so heres my insight: A big part of why guys and I personally dont approach women anymore is because of how incredibly easy is it to have 1 awkward encounter you fuck up, and then next thing you know you find yourself kicked out of the bar or club or whatever and your reputation in that area is ruined because you gave the girl “creep vibes.” Thats why i dont recommend any cold approaches or going to bars or night c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:51 AM
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Well finding a partner is the life mission for many men. I wont lie i could be a trillionaire, have the biggest muscles, be the smartest person on earth but never finding a parter would be a huge disappointment and make me feel like i missed out in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:26 PM
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Honestly pills are dumb. I see fat short balding dudes working minimum wage jobs with girlfriends all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:22 PM
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All the women i talk to irl are at work. Theres some women i straight up dont talk to because their beauty does intimidate me but i also realize i have no reason to actually talk to them so does that make me a sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:16 PM
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Idk i naturally take responsibility for my fuck ups. Idk why other people cant but i live with a guy who is a straight up mommys boy manchild loser and he does most of the things on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:48 PM
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Yeah ill never understand why some married men let their wife run their life and pussy whip them. I cant imagine any woman respects her husband if hes a yes man bitch and does everything she asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:06 PM
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Yeah pretty much. I was quite a loser back when i was 18 lol. At least nowadays i wont let a woman boss me around anymore and have some self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:44 PM
1

Honestly the easiest way to meet a woman is through actual clubs or group activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:08 PM
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Well she was an online girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:07 PM
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Easiest way to blow money imo. Ill never understand why people buy drinks for women they have no chance with lmao. Honestly your probably better off cold approaching at least you cant lose money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:30 AM
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My ex did this shit. As soon as i grew a back bone and told her no, cheated on and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:47 AM
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Im number 3 i barely go outside because im scared of being rejected or seen as a weirdo. Thats why I don’t bitch about womens standards or what because i know damn well i dont even try to get a girlfriend. Self awareness is a big skill men sleep on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:29 PM
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I mean some dudes like bundy were master manipulators with their charisma but not every dude has the social skills like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:14 PM
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I mean i think it only applies to like psychopaths or really deranged men. I think your average black piller or incel could find a girlfriend if they quit the self pity shit and focused on being a better person or socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:39 PM
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So my mom is severely mentally ill, like she’s actually such a threat to my dad and i that we have restraining orders on her and i wont lie not having a mother in my life growing up really fucked up my development as its the primary reason why i have BPD and also i struggle talking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:10 PM
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I have strong negative opinions on anyone who buys these.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:49 PM
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I think theres dating apps/ swinger groups that cater to that specific relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:10 AM
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Pegging is quite the example since most women arent into it and would probably assume you are a closeted bisexual for being into it without asking them. But i think men shouldn’t expect their partners to cater to their specific wants. Maybe she did suck her exes cock every day but what if she didnt like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:06 AM
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With fish its all about controlling their environment. You need to do a lot of planning such as putting the tank in a room away from any AC, heaters, bright light but also near an outlet. Then you have to determine how big of a tank you want (10g, 15g, 20g). Then you have to see if your floor can support the weight of the water and will need to buy an expensive ass stand for the tank. Then you need to research if you want salt water (which i don’t recommend unless you are experienced) or a fresh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:00 AM
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Good deserved. He sounds like a “nice guy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:53 AM
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Yeah fish you are basically playing god and creating a living environment for them. Its a huge pita but fish/ marine life are extremely pretty and worth it. I eventually want a salt water tank full of clown fish and plants
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:10 AM
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Oh. Yeah i mean i heard from other men that the first time is gonna be rough like the woman will probably make you too nervous that you wont even cum but if hes done it before thats kinda embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:49 PM
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Was he a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:46 PM
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Shit i mean ive never had sex with a woman before but id imagine going down on vagina or breast play wouldn’t be that physically demanding. I have done some research and i sorta know how to stimulate a clit or g spot without ever doing it before using my tongue or finger. As for actual PIV sex, ima be honest i have no clue how to do it well i might have to settle with cowgirl. If it was like a girl i was dating id be more comfortable straight up telling her its my first time with a woman and idk…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:37 PM
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So in your opinion whats good sex? Like does the guy make an effort to help you orgasm before he finishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:19 PM
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I wouldnt worry too much about it. I think normal men dont care about a womans body count thats just insecure redditor talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:13 PM
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I think if a woman wanted to fuck me after a first date i would probably feel safe enough to do it. Right now theres only 1 woman i would feel comfortable with having sex with and thats because she actually came onto me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:05 PM
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Honestly i used to think if a woman was hot enough id have sex with her but then that almost actually happened where this woman i barley knew showed some interest in me and it actually made me really uncomfortable and i didnt want to pursue anything with her. Some gay guy i went to school with but didnt know too well actually asked to hook up and that made me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah the only people who im not compatible with are asexuals. I will say tho im probably a demisexual. The thought of hook up culture really makes me uncomfortable and i could only really have sex with either a romantic partner or a close friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:53 PM
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Yeah i mean i have quite a large range of sexual kinks and fetishes im into so its more so about what the woman wants to do unless she lets me decide. Im probably really sexually compatible with a lot of people since im also bisexual and theres not a lot of things i dont like. I constantly get made fun of because i have a pegging fetish but idc because i can go from getting pegged to railing someone else in the snap of a finger. I also have an extremely high libido so im always in the mood unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:49 PM
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When you say really dominate do you mean as in rough sex? Because i have a bdsm kink and if i was to really be dominant i would do a lot of slapping, hair pulling, bondage, degradation. Of course i would only do what she consents to im not an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:41 PM
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I like both roles but it really depends on my mood. Im a little scared of if i get a gf she wont be down for the dominant role tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:30 PM
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Well im a switch but i prefer being submissive. And it shows that she’s genuinely interested in having sex and desires me if she gets in the mood and wants me to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:01 PM
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I mean id love to have a sex positive wife who didnt view sex as something she had to do in order to keep me from leaving. But i want her to be able to lead or initiate sex 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:41 PM
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Genuine question but what do you like about cats? Im a fish person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:38 PM
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Some dudes are delusional and think they have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:32 PM
1

Well i join groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:10 PM
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I mean i do like to ask people about their interests and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:09 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:08 AM
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I just joined a few group activities for my hobbies such as a cardio group and gym class so hopefully i can make friends in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:59 PM
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I see. Im still trying to figure out how to express my personality in a way that doesnt come off as arrogant or rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:35 PM
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Thank you. Well i mean a lot of it just comes down to me not even having experience really going out an socializing. I mean at my job quite a lot of people go out of their way to talk to me which makes me assume im at least not a bad person. When i was younger i had quite a few friends in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:33 PM
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Does physical attraction have a part in that or is it mostly personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:14 PM
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Well i assume misogyny has always existed if not even more back then than it does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:55 PM
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Well they are fucking losers idk what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:43 PM
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Also people irl can easily tell based off how awkward i interact with women or dont even do it at all. i didnt even tell anyone irl they put 2 and 2 together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:25 PM
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Well im not actually a real virgin, but my flair lets people know im inexperienced and talking out of my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:23 PM
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Most of these people arent even my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:21 PM
1

I think the guys who buy those dont have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:17 PM
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I thought playboy was only a 20th century thing. I personally dont see anything wrong with gooning/masturbating. Its a healthy way to relieve stress or anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:08 PM
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I mean back 35-40 years ago men were just looking at playboys which was their thing back in the day. I dont see how porn makes you less intelligent unless you think real sex works like a porn scene which in that case yeah. I doubt porn makes men more violent towards women. It makes them objectify women but i highly doubt the average gooner 18 year old is going around his college campus harassing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:54 PM
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Im sorry but how is porn not a normal thing? Thats what i never understood about women, why do a lot of you criticize men who watch porn so much but i never hear women get the same social repercussions for watching it. If you say its porn addiction still why is that seen as more social unacceptable than say a weed or drinking addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:36 PM
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I mean i guess thats true. I havent read the bible since i was like 7 so i dont even know the stories or care that much about them like most Christians do. I used to be an atheist up until very recently when i couldnt argue that god didnt create the big bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah pretty much. At least in my experience ive only been made fun of by other dudes my age when i was in school and now at work for not talking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:31 PM
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Well i feel like there are universally more positive life lessons you can learn from reading the bible than if you didn’t. That’s why Christians always pull verses out of their ass or get them tattooed on their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:28 PM
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I mean that guy is just a pos then. Also the Christians who do that are pos too. It just depends on the persons personality tbh. Im sure a lot of atheists are good people as well as many Christians but there are gonna be some rotten apples in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:21 PM
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But my social skills and personality are poor. I genuinely think im a good person morally but i dont do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:03 PM
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I mean for me i think pussy would be an abundance in the future because i got good genetics. Im just fat and overweight but once i get my body fat% to 12 ill have a 6 pack and would probably have an easier time attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:52 PM
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Being a virgin in a male group sucks. I wish women could understand that when they ask why we arent happier single with our guy friends. Idk how women circles work but literally if your in a friend group with 5 guys and you are the only kissless virgin, you will constantly get made fun of, told to “go out and get some bitches”, “become a man”, “its not that hard to get pussy 😭.” Like women really dont understand why us virgin guys become very jaded. Honestly a lot of incels i talked to, their ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:45 PM
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I mean i think if i was truly desperate for pussy id be doing everything in my power to get it or just pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:29 PM
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It’s up to the individuals to act like normal healthy people. I mean my ex was a Christian and she cheated on me. My uncle lies to himself about being a good Christian to justify his adultery. I mean im a Christian but i wont lie i dont care enough to go read the bible or attend church. A lot of Christians would call that blasphemy but i really dont believe in having to show up there every sunday to believe in god. 99% of my family are also religious (christian and jewish) and the only person wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:26 PM
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I mean yeah a lot of people take religion too far but theres also a lot more normal people who dont make their entire personality the fact that they believe in a religion. Im a Christian but i dont go to church or read the bible or know all those stories, but i believe in god and i know right and wrongs. I also know some annoying christians like Andrew Wilson and a few people in my personal life who try to force their beliefs onto everyone else and i think thats toxic. As for dating, i think hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:15 PM
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I mean a lot of bad people use religion to excuse their bad behavior to lie to themselves. I just wouldn’t want to date an atheist who doesnt believe in the same morals as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:05 PM
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I mean im probably not really desperate because i dont actually make any effort to even get a girlfriend but being single and sexless does bother my mental health a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:37 PM
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Ive never been drunk before so hopefully i don’t turn into a baffling idiot if i drink
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:27 PM
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Yeah i like to show people skills i learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:24 PM
1

What about going to bars? Should i start doing that once a week to become a more social person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:23 PM
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I see. I mean i tend to be a nerd and Wikipedia every interest i have and know everything about it. Im currently doing it with black tie dress codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:21 PM
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Back in 2017 i used to play golf literally like 3 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:20 PM
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Same with bowling. I would love to wear one of those tony soprano bowling shirts and show up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:20 PM
2

What makes someone more interesting is it their hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:13 PM
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I like playing golf the most because it gives me a reason to wear all these preppy clothes i bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:12 PM
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I mean i don’t consider myself as part of the “dating market.” I kinda just live life and occasionally every few months a woman comes into my life i have interest in but i either get rejected or make no move. Thats how its been for the past 2 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:08 PM
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So you are saying if i go join a basketball league, go play golf, go play bowling, go out to a bar, join a gym class, get a motorcycle license, learn how to scuba dive that will all make me a more interesting person than just someone who works a 9-5 and goes to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:05 PM
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I mean being religious gives you better morals than just winging life doing whatever tf you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:01 PM
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Id imagine liberals cheat more because they tend to not be religious and i think religion is one of the things that keeps people in line. Thats why i think meeting a future wife would be better at church rather than some club.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:57 PM
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Even then like i have the idea to meet women via my hobbies but i dont actually know what im doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:14 AM
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Yeah i want a gf. 2 main reason why im too scared to talk to girls. 1. Being called a creep 2. Rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:09 AM
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Yeah im only a half incel because when i get depressed or feel bad about myself i love venting (bitching really) on reddit. In reality i know exactly what i should be doing to get a gf im just too much of a pussy to actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:56 PM
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Its easier for me to bitch and complain about why i dont have a girlfriend than for me to just shut my mouth, go out and socialize and take rejections until i eventually meet a woman who likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:50 PM
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If you are ugly and or socially inept like me yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:31 PM
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Yeah then you can make the first move and be called a creep and or jailed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:16 PM
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Them making the first move would be a huge help. Instead of expecting men to approach them then complaining about how no men do it these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:24 PM
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Yeah thats why i dont go to bars or clubs the thought of cold approaching some random woman because i thought she was hot makes me extremely nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:31 PM
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I mean i talk to a few women at my job on a daily basis but i would never talk to a stranger if i had no reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:28 PM
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Yeah. I get pretty nervous around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:08 PM
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I mean i dont like to lie about it. The guys at my work are always calling me a pussy for being too scared to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:29 PM
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Yeah being a virgin in male dominated spaces is like being a satanist in a church.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:21 PM
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Im pretty insecure about it because i get made fun of all the time for never having sex with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:12 PM
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Well i am a “virgin” so i actually have no real life experience with being intimate with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:09 PM
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You can tell that im inexperienced and dont actually know what im talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:04 PM
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Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:50 PM
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Honestly all my kinks are giving my partner what she wants and i use common sense so im not even worried about being bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:37 PM
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Yeah I remember very vividly my ex telling me how i made her feel certain ways when we were intimate none of her other boyfriends ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:20 PM
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I got a saliva kink so id love to french kiss/get super intimate. Honestly i think kissing, titty sucking and eating pussy is way better than PIV. Honestly my dream is to make a girl cum on my face by giving her just oral
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:16 PM
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Deadass the fantasy of going down on a woman is better in my mind than penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:12 PM
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I feel like a lot of guys have way too high expectations because of all the porn they watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:04 PM
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I was having phone sex with my girlfriend and she made a big deal about how i was moaning to all her friends. I guess she found it hot since a lot of men are quiet during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:02 PM
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I agree. If i got into a relationship the first time shes on her cycle id ask her if she would like help and if she says yes ill always automatically do what she wants and also go out of my way to buy her stuff to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:57 PM
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I get called boring by other dudes all the time because i work a 9-5 6 days a week, workout at the gym all week for 2-3 hours and my hobbies are basically video games, playing golf. Idgaf tho because im working when im young so when im older i wont have to do this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:50 PM
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They are just dumbass insecure dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:30 PM
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Well it sounds like a miracle that it only lasts 6 hours and not 3-4 days. Yeah if i have a girlfriend I’ll definitely ask her how i can help her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:12 PM
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Oh im sorry to hear that 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:10 PM
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Dont worry blood doesnt gross me out. Id be more than willing to help clean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:09 PM
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I mean i know women are more willing to talk to guys who they see waking or talking with other women but im not really into that hookup culture lifestyle i just want a loyal gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:31 AM
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I can provide for myself. Im not wealthy enough to the point where i could provide for a wife or kids yet but even if i could i would try to agree with my wife to do whats financially best for the kids and set them up to have generational wealth which would hopefully last way into the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:59 AM
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My retribution is seeing the kids who bullied me badly in high school are fat and on drugs. Its just really ironic how they used to make fun of me for being really fat and 4 years later ive lost a lot of weight by going to the gym and they are bigger than me and i have more self esteem now than i did back in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:46 AM
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I got my ass bullied so hard in high school but I pretty much cured my trauma via therapy. Also a lot of the kids who bullied me are just not doing well in life i heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:41 AM
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So its actually really ironic. Id say from about 7th grade- graduation i just became extremely scared of talking to women and barely spoke to any in my school which was like 2000 women. That being said i hold literally 0 resentment or anything negative about 99.9% of women i went to school with and i take full responsibility for never approaching literally anyone and trying to make friends. I know a lot of incels/misognists have their villain back story from getting rejected in school but i neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:38 AM
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Honestly if i fell in love with a woman id still get married so the ring can tell women to back off im a happily married man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:41 AM
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Incels honestly let me know i have less competition but also poison my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:38 AM
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Thats actually why i made the post. I heard a lot of men downplay womens periods or simply dont care, and also ive read comments of many women here saying they wish men asked about more than 6 packs and how much money they make.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:32 PM
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Im happy to hear that you got him to help. I wish more men were like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:59 PM
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Thank you. Yeah i got the idea because i kept reading on this sub women saying they were tired of men asking them about things such as if they found 6 packs or making 6 figures a year and wanted guys to ask more meaningful questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:58 PM
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Thats good that you have someone that attentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:56 PM
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I can do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:54 PM
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Thats really nice of your husband. What made me make this post is i heard more men dont act like your husband and instead do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:52 PM
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Yeah i would do whatever my partner wants
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:50 PM
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Damn im really sorry to hear that you go through that. Also no offense but he sounds like a dickhead. My first girlfriend had some similar problems with constant vagina burning and it sucked to hear her go through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:30 PM
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Im sorry you feel that way. I genuinely would love going out out of my way to help my partner out. Since i heard theres more men out there who would rather downplay your period or blame you for it i figured more women would appreciate a guy being empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:28 PM
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Tbh i didn’t really understand the units on how mens penis work let alone anything with womens anatomy. I learned more from my ex girlfriend teaching me than the sex ed in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:22 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:18 PM
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Yikes. Yeah i wish the american schooling system did a better job with sex ex. They taught us in 8th grade as if im gonna remember anything about womens bodies until assuming you lose your virginity when you are over 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:38 PM
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I have a platonic friend whom we basically share saliva with by eating the same piece of food and sharing straws and forks so blood definitely wont disgust me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:41 PM
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Especially that last part because i one time had a guy complain to me how his gf doesnt have sex with him when shes on her period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:33 PM
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Okay i will definitely communicate with any potential partners i have about it and accommodate their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:26 PM
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I will easily do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:24 PM
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Oh someone told me the opposite so i guess it comes down to peoples individual wants and good communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:09 PM
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Yeah i mean i think i have good communication skills so that will come into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:02 PM
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I see. Yeah I’ll definitely be extremely willing to be as supportive during it as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:01 PM
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Well thats why im asking this sub because i dont want to get thrown in with the men who dont care and i genuinely want to know so i can be the best partner possible to any potential girlfriends i might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:00 PM
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Periods dont gross me out or make me uncomfortable/ irritated at all. Yeah id be happy to buy a woman im dating whatever she needs to help soothe her problems. Id also communicate with the person quite a lot so i can understand how to best help her depending on how shes feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:58 PM
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Yeah i heard that the prices of tampons are outrageous in the us where i live. I would be more than willing to buy them if i knew the time was coming up. I wouldnt mind also reading up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:52 PM
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The internet… funny. Im doing more than just a google search of “how do periods work.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:48 PM
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Like im literally trying to ask women how they would like men to better understand their problems i will never experience and thats the sarcastic shit i get lmao. Funny too because most women on this sub always complain about how guys always ask them questions of if they like abs or 6 figures and not more thoughtful questions like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:44 PM
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Well i dont really understand how periods work or how i could help say any potential partner i have thats why im asking. I could just be selfish and not care about what happens to women and make fun of them like how most guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:40 PM
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Almost every woman i know who has gotten laid had the guy initiate it. Like idk how guys can say women gatekeep sex when its basically always the guy who approached women and rizzes them up first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:08 PM
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Being the step day that shows up is a flex for some dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:28 PM
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I cant speak or anyone other than americans but here in the USA i think diet has a lot to do with it. Americans eat a lot of chemical shit factory made ultra processed junk. Im talking enriched wheat flour, high fructose corn syrup, seed oils, yellow number 5, blue 2, added sugars, soy, fast food. If you eat that shit long enough i assume that you eat a lot of that shit you will lose testosterone, get estrogen, and your sperm count/ egg quality would decrease drastically. Also factor in smoking,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:29 AM
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Thats what im gonna do if that situation happens to me. Or at least pay for a cuddle buddy for 1 night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:22 AM
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Idk what you mean but me personally, im really not shocked at all why i dont have many friends because i literally never go out. My life is work 9-5, 2 hours of the gym, cooking, finances, video games, sleep. I need to do more things like play golf, bowling, go to the bar, visit family, join clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:19 AM
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I mean yeah boring people arent fun to be around. It takes one to know one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:23 AM
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Well tbh im not actually a real virgin as ive had sex before. It basically causes me a lot of anxiety though. Like im super curious about how womens anatomy and orgasms work. When i had a girlfriend we never had sex but i helped her masturbate using vibrators and i genuinely enjoyed helping her orgasm. But since ive never actually had foreplay or inserted it in, I would like to experience the feeling of someone being comfortable/wanting me to have sex. But honestly even just literally sleeping i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:11 AM
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Well im not OP. Like i said tho id just go the polite way about it and just hire a professional sex worker and tell her my situation and how i really just want to get it done once in my life so i can at least know what its like and i wouldnt be a beggar for my desires either even just sleeping in a spoon position would be enough tbh. Yeah honestly its not even my virginity i care to “lose” i just want to sleep im the same bed with a woman in the literal sense. Ive slept with my guy friends in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:03 AM
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Tbh idk if hes an incel. The fear of dying a virgin is extremely scary and i personally have that fear too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:01 AM
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Well even facing death, i think being a man and having the higher testosterone levels will still make you horny. Honestly if the guy asks all his friends then yeah shame him but what if he hires a sex worker in the most respectful way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:57 PM
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I mean me personally, if i get diagnosed with cancer or something else and im still a “virgin” id actually pay for a sex worker so i can at least experience sexual intimacy with a woman once in my life. Thats the only reason why id ever hire a sex worker too btw. If i actually pass away from natural causes at like age 88 a virgin i wouldnt be 100% content but it is what it is. Sometimes people just never meet 1 person they could truly connect with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:55 PM
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I mean cant the person just hire a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:53 PM
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Honestly i assume the only sex workers who genuinely feel bad/ like their customers are those types of dudes. The ones who are diagnosed with a terminal illness and want to lose their virginity before they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:52 PM
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Honestly im guilty of doing the same exact thing i said most men do. A lot of the time someone vents to me i have no clue what to tell them besides “damn that sucks.” Now a lot of it comes to me genuinely not caring a lot because i have my own mental health issues i can barely deal with. I think its sexist to assume men lack empathy and women exist just to vent your problems onto.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:40 PM
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In my experience if i tell a guy i have bad depression, most not all of them either dont say anything and blow it off or they say “damn that sucks.” The women i told my mental problems to most not all offered solutions to help. I believe women do have more empathy than men do but you only see it from women who care about you not strangers. For example i barely speak to my mom but when she calls me and i tell her my problems she’s empathetic to me. My dad whom i live with downplays all my problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:38 PM
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My job has definitely made me a more miserable and less empathetic person but also at the same time o think it helped me grow a backbone with dealing with people who cause me conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:26 PM
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So how do i not be creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:44 PM
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Okay i was trolling to cope with my own problems
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:31 PM
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My sister does this shit all the time. She keeps getting in and out of new relationships because her communication skills are non existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:03 PM
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Ive seen those street interviews where women admitted they slept with guys just because they had 6 packs or were hot so i feel like women objectify men just as much as men objectify them they are just not as open about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:01 PM
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I learned proper hair care and have a full set of brown hair that smells good, i got blue eyes, i have a lot of formal clothes like suits, trench coats, ties, dress shirts. Honestly im just working hard at the gym trying to lose another 30 lbs of fat and gain muscles because im overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:40 PM
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So what if i told a girl i was interested in that i have goals for the future but they don’t reflect who i currently am and i have to sell them on a pitch of what the future would look like, ie getting big muscles, achieving financial freedom, being a father, being a homeowner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:37 PM
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What is improv?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:34 PM
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Im serving a life sentence in mental prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:33 PM
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Yeah i hate thinking thats the standard that i as a man have to live up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:33 PM
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I mean a lot of women think im 6’0 when in reality im 5’10 1/2, and i work out 5 days a week at the gym, i have a full set of hair and blue eyes so i think im fine in the looks department. I guess im dominant i like to be in charge and throw myself headfirst into uneasy situations. My job is meh, i work full time at a grocery store but i invest the majority of my income into income producing assets that pay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:31 PM
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Yeah i know i was unintentionally being socially awkward. My social skills were a lot worse when it happened. I think shes just over dramatic for putting me in the wade wilson tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:20 PM
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Well I did try to “ask out” a girl last week. I got so fucking nervous talking to her that I ended up saying some stupid shit to her and i was stuttering the entire time. I didnt even ask her out because i wanted the conversation to end before i got to that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:39 AM
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Ive been going to therapy for 3 years now. My problem is i lack the confidence to just go join a club and talk to women because im so fucking scared of social rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:32 AM
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Well it traumatized me to the point where i still bitch about it to this day and every time i see the girl she causes me physical pain such as my heart rate goes up and my fight or flight activates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:26 AM
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Im being dead serious. That event is what ruined my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:22 AM
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Wasnt so dramatic when i cried about it to my therapist for a year and still never mentally recovered from it and still to this day i dont have any confidence or self esteem to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:21 AM
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Literally i fucking hate when women go around using that C word left and right. They dont understand how that word can literally ruin a mans life. First of all thats a massive fucking self esteem dropped. Second word to mouth gets out and all her friends wont talk to you because they think ur a potential wade wilson. Third some soyboy simps might come after you. Honestly i would say its not even worth it to talk to women but just being in their presence is enough to get called the C word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:16 AM
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I mean i got called a creep by a popular girl just for looking at her for a few seconds because she was taking to my friend and i walked into their conversation. Thats basically the same as getting a false allegation in terms of life ruining events.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:10 AM
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Im shit out of luck i cant look like that even if i tried. I had extremely bad acne when i was a teenager and my face is now covered with acne scars and wrinkling at 21. People mistake me for a 30 year old because of how shitty my skin is. I also have a huge scar on my forehead from when i busted my head open on a street sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:05 AM
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If i went to college it would only be to learn something im interested in not to get a “better job.” I have my own business and im trying to think of other businesses i can make to give me passive income by doing more work. Im actually lucky to have a 9-5 because apparently not everyone can get one and i use it to pay my bills and fund my business. I genuinely don’t believe being a doctor or police man is a “better job” because yes the pay on paper is more than what i make but if your bad with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:00 AM
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Technically “my dads car” is really my car because i pay for all the gas, car insurance, inspection, and maintenance the title is just not in my name and i could easily move out of my house tomorrow i have had 2 coworkers and one of my older sisters ask me if i want to room with them. Literally tomorrow i could go out on facebook marketplace and come home with a used $8k ford mustang but thats an idiotic and stupid financial decision. My ego isnt that big where i would do that just so women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:53 AM
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My problem is that i lack confidence to even talk to women. I genuinely think unbiasedly that i would make a good partner since im selfless and would put my partners needs infront of my own. I just dont have enough self esteem to talk to women because i feel like i come off as creepy and weird since i have social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:21 AM
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I do all those attractive traits you mentioned. I still feel like im un datable due to my own mental illnesses like low self esteem, low confidence, BPD, social anxiety disorder. I definitely dont hit the red pill criteria of man but almost everything you said minus comfortable in your own skin i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:09 AM
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Probably yeah :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:31 PM
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Ive been going to therapy for 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:21 PM
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Whats a pretty boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:20 PM
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I mean i have had a few platonic friendships over the past 3 years. Most of the time i dont even bother trying to make friends or talking because i got low self esteem and a poor self image and i just straight up think im gonna creep or scare a woman by approaching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:07 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:29 PM
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Honestly when they say all of that I just think to myself how i see a lot of looksmatches irl. Rarely do i see couples where one is significantly more attractive than the other. I highly doubt the woman settled for them. They probably both lowered their standards and expectations to be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:16 PM
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I wont lie some times those high standards that rp men set do make me feel insecure about myself for not hitting them. Now im no pilled because go out in public every day of my life and see all kinds of relationships but i do notice that most relationships i see, the dude is physically in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:36 PM
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Idk if this is considered a hobby but i like to dress up in suits or other old fashioned menswear clothes like i role play dressing like im Al Capone or tony soprano. I like animals, plants, being out doors. I really like to play golf. Im considering joining a church group to meet women who are also religious. Ive applied for a firearms license so i can get into the hobby. Im basically waiting for the weather to get hotter so i can go outside more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:18 PM
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Im actually very weird about it. I want to he in good physical shape but i want a gf who is plus sized and even if she was obese i wouldnt be turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:10 PM
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I dont want muscles that are that big. I just want ones that are big enough to be universally impressive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:09 PM
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So your telling me more women would find me attractive if i decided to become a manager at my job and go from making $30k to $50k? I already work full time and im perfectly content with doing it. Actually being full time is even a stretch for me because i was supposed to be a part timer but i guess im good enough at my job they keep forcing me to work full time and im the first person they call in if they need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:53 PM
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Consensual but some people told me what i did since i inhatiated it was CSA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:51 PM
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Im going to the gym just to get “big” muscles and a 6 pack. Im pretty much doing it just to attract women. Im not gonna get to the point where i look like sam sulek but definitely like patrick Bateman christian bale levels of muscle is my goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:48 PM
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I had done the deed with another guy when i was 7 or 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:46 PM
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I mean im pretty scared to even interact with women and i really just dont talk to any unless they talk to me first. I guess im a good guy because dogs always seem to like me immediately. I know if you’re a truly evil person with fucked up intentions dogs can sense it and go after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:23 PM
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When you say “huge muscles” are you referring to like actually body builders or just any dude with a 6 pack and above average muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:19 PM
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Why tf would i voluntarily sign myself up to join the slave rat race and wake up at 4 am so i can hop in a shitty car and get to work at 6 am 6 days a week for an extra $3-4 an hour? I already got offered that position for being employee of the month and i hard declined because what my job wanted me to do directly impacts my own desires. Thats what the problem with women is they just like the status of telling their friends “oh my husband does this for a living isnt he so amazing.” If a woman re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:32 PM
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I mean its just part of the lifestyle i live. Im pretty scared that i can’t convince any woman to take what i do seriously and they wont date me. To an outsider im just some broke loser who works a “dead end minimum wage retail job” when in reality im like 30-40 years away from becoming a 1%er.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:13 PM
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Me personally i have a lot of resentment towards college education. I was made fun of by my high school friends for having a low gpa and told im not gonna be able to go to a good college and get a good degree to get a good job like how they would. I get made fun of for working full time at a grocery store. The thing is im not book smart but my dad is extremely smart with money and taught me for free how to invest money and build a cash flow that generates me passive income. So at 21 years old i …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:00 PM
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I mean one of my platonic friends is like that towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:37 PM
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I view myself as assertive. I have goals and know what i want, ive also developed a backbone recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:36 PM
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What if i told you that im not college educated instead im financially educated with how to invest money and not as in crypto bro or rp ways but from doing what dave ramsey, robert kiyosaki, warrent buffet do would that be a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:33 PM
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I work at a grocery store and somewhat do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:31 PM
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Actually yes for a few seconds then this fucking old creep came into our conversation and straight up said “are you trying to mingle with the different sex?” And i fucking walked away awkwardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:30 PM
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I go to the gym and buy a lot of income producing assets so i feel like money and looks arent an issue for me its 100% personality based.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:29 PM
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If i had to guess most women want a husband who takes care of his health, treats her as an equal and not just a sex object or house maid and child bearer, doesn’t let his anger take over, has good hygiene, willing to do house work and help raise the kid, excellent communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:27 PM
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I mean its extremely obvious to me as to why a lot of guys struggle to find girlfriends and im just as guilty of doing it: they barely try and have these unrealistic expectations of women. Or they just have a shitty personality. Like im probably projecting onto other single dudes but thats the clear reason to me at least why i dont have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:21 PM
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Yeah you are completely right im not gonna bs you i got some racism behind it because i get extremely jealous of particularly black dudes in interracial relationships. Its something im kinda scared to tell my therapist about since shes a person of color.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:17 PM
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Yeah i learned most of this stuff from this YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@gentlemansgazette?si=S-fSKD6HI6qx5byX I dont really have a “type” im particularly attracted to i only look at women’s personality as deal breakers like my first girlfriend was extremely rude and nasty to me and everyone else in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:13 PM
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I mean i have self taught dining mannerisms and etiquette that im sure the majority of people would find me weird or quirky for having and think im putting on an act when in reality thats how i act. I also dress like im from the 1920s and deadass wear mostly formal clothing in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:04 PM
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Thats exactly how i fantasize finding a girlfriend lmao. See my problem is im not confident enough to go and actually do it. It takes quite a lot of balls imo to talk to strangers. Im really bad at taking rejection because i have BPD, not in a incel or nice guy way but i get emotionally hurt especially in the past when it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:01 PM
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Me personally i cant see myself sleeping around with women i would just be with my gf and show her my high libido so i cant relate to guys who do hook up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:55 PM
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Well i watch a lot of BDSM without doing it irl and even i know it’s common sense you need extremely clear communication to do it safely. If people cant do that then they are just idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:51 PM
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I thought all this “what women want” talk came from Andrew tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:50 PM
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I mean i did recently “ask out” a woman (i didnt even ask her out i just talked to her) and i was stuttering quite a lot and didnt know what to say. I have no clue if she was flattered or thought im a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:47 PM
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So your basically saying rp men have a lot of excuses to why they cant just be a decent guy and ask out a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:46 PM
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I will admit, irl black dudes make me feel extremely insecure about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:44 PM
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I mean theres this coworker of mine who gave me her blessing to ask out her daughter and when i went to i got extremely nervous and had the most awkward conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:41 PM
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I personally know that the pills arent real cuz i work at a grocery store and see couples of all different types on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:40 PM
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So i view myself as someone who’s capable of having a healthy long term relationship but i don’t feel like women view me that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:38 PM
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I mean im not red pilled i think that shit is too extreme and i view dating as being in better shape helps but isn’t necessary. My problem is i lack confidence to even approach women because im pretty aware of how most women view men as potential treats or creeps and that turns me away from even trying when i know i wouldnt act that way in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:37 PM
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I mean I sorta consider myself to be an incel just because im socially awkward and dont have a lot of confidence to even approach women romantically despite having a few platonic friendships. Im like 99% sure if i was to get in another relationship, id probably do a good job since im educated on things like emotional intelligence, boundaries, communication also im extremely self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:33 PM
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I feel like rp dudes are insecure with being seen as feminine or weak and that will turn off women so thats why they put on macho man performances. But also i feel like theres just some chivalry rules men should follow like you should always walk slightly infront of your girlfriend on the street incase if another dude tries to harm her, or you should walk closer to the street so if a drunk driver comes you will put her more out of the way. For that last sentence i just heard that from a doctor K…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:29 PM
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Lmao im bisexual and do like 300 for their 6 packs. Me personally i definitely tend to act nervous when im talking to women im attracted to but i pin it on lack of experience. Im sure the more times i do it i wouldnt even be scared anymore. I like to think of myself as a good guy i mean in a relationship context, i was pretty selfless when i had one, i go to therapy to work on my self esteem and shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:24 PM
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So whats the best way for a normal non RP guy to demonstrate his romantic interest in a woman without coming off as a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:14 PM
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The sad part is i know of more men who are like that than ones who arent. Now when do women realize a guy acts that way like do the guys tell on themselves or are they good at hiding their selfish intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:11 PM
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I personally like how rough black dudes get with the women in these videos. Obviously i know this shit isnt real and most women don’t actually like rough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:52 PM
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I was told im a push over by my own boss but when i act the way i would in my household i get told that im an asshole dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:42 PM
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Well my first girlfriend deadass literally used me for a wallet and as soon as i grew a backbone she cheated on me and broke up, that didnt last more than a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:39 PM
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I actually watch that niche genre because it helps me psychologically get over the fact that i got cheated on. I fantasize that the white dude getting cheated on in those videos is the fucker who cucked me irl. I got nothing against interracial relationships because I always imagine my future wife being white like me but in reality the only women ive ever gotten along with and dated were all latinas from Puerto Rico, Mexico, Ecuador.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:35 PM
1

High testosterone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:29 AM
3

If i keep seeing anything with “cheating” ima confront her about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:26 AM
2

Blacked BBC cheating wife would definitely be a deal breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:36 PM
2

Ive never heard someone unironically like or be a fan of abella danger or lana rhoades or want to do them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:35 PM
1

I wouldn’t care as long as shes not making comments like “hey this guy is bigger than you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:32 PM
2

I personally would only watch it if my gf would be gone for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:02 PM
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Me personally when i had a gf i stopped watching it and its the only time my willpower to quit actually worked. It wasnt until i told my ex that i stopped because i thought it was cheating if i gooned to other people and she told me its not cheating that i went back to watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:56 PM
1

I mean i got acne scars on my face, my breakouts are very small compared to when i was like 15, 16
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:07 PM
1

Whats a good face? I got full brown hair, medium sized nose, blue hunter eyes, thick eyebrows, small lips, acne am i cooked?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:04 PM
1

I mean im good with money so i guess the people i naturally talk to would somewhat be on the same financial literacy as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:59 PM
1

That dork 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:58 PM
1

I go to therapy for it but im extremely bad at developing feelings for most of the women ive been friends with in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:57 PM
1

Talking to women is scary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:56 PM
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Im curious to know if people think they are average men or above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:46 AM
3

Idk dude i have pretty bad social anxiety. I tried to talk to some girl the other day and it went as awkwardly as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:57 AM
4

Me personally im going to the gym to get a 6 pack and im hoping thats gonna be good enough to get women to notice me maybe even approach me if im really lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:49 AM
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Life would be so much easier if i could cry in peace over getting overwhelmed and not called gay or a ag. I hate having to bottle up my tears until i get to a secluded area.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:48 AM
2

Well me personally i dont feel comfortable telling my coworkers my mental problems. Now obviously you might say “well no shit you arent supposed to be talking about your mental problems at work.” And thats the problem i have literally NO ONE else to talk to about my problems. My family all sound like they are from the 1940s and don’t believe in mental health. Any time i would tell my male friends my problems they would call me gay or not know what to say. My girl friends would get turned off by …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:46 AM
7

I mean a mans income is still a huge factor in modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:40 AM
19

My grandfather apparently rizzed up my grandmother by asking her for a pack of smokes. Now hes dead and my grandmother always complains about how she shouldnt have married a drunk abusive deadbeat at 18. I feel like he definitely had it easier than i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:38 AM
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What do you rate a guy who has a 6 pack?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:36 AM
1

Yeah like wade wilson
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:36 AM
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Me personally im currently training at the gym for a 6 pack and since im 5’10 1/2 i guess im “tall” and would be above average idk what you would rate a guy who has a 6 pack but id say atleast a 6. I always had a thing for women who are plus sized, i like curvy overweight - borderline obese women. A big part of it is because ive spent most of my life being overweight and obese at some point, so i find them easier to relate and get along with than any skinny or in shape woman. Im expecting for da…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:35 AM
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Yeah i mean ive met some really weird creepy dudes irl but even they would probably never say shit like this. I think its only online incel talk. I mean me personally i feel like divorce is a last ditch effort and should only be done in abusive cases or if you tried to make things work and it’s obvious it wont. I still think women divorcing men because they “get bored”’is a dumb reason but its a human right to be able to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:26 AM
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Im genuinely sorry to hear he did that to you and you deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:12 AM
1

The average man isn’t worshipped just for existing. Maybe the top tier famous people or people in power are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:53 AM
1

Tbh a lot of people are really ignorant and uneducated when it comes to financial freedom. In america we teach our kids to “get good grades so you can go to a good college and you will get a good job that pays a lot of money!” Meanwhile they are being brainwashed into joining the rat race like most people. Me personally i didnt go to college, i was a NEET for a year and a half and at 21 years old my net worth is actually in the top 25% of americans aged 20-29 because i work hard at a 9-5 and shu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:34 PM
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I think the systematic collapse is because western countries are so good that people can get alway with lazy easy lives. Me personally if i really wanted to i could be a lazy fuck like my uncle and have my mom cook me every meal and live off of social security income (hes not handicapped or anything bad, his job went out and business and he said he doesnt feel like working) but that’s pathetic and i genuinely couldn’t live life on easy mode like that. I will admit i am a slave to the rat race 9-…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:27 PM
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I feel like we need to normalize men taking on more responsibility with the kids and home. In my parenting philosophy id love to change my kids shitty diapers and take them to the doctor. I also genuinely like to clean a house and make the lawn look nice. I know the traditional ways comes from flawed philosophy of men go to work and pay women stay at home and clean and i dont think that leads to happiness. Obviously im talking without experience i heard my grandparents and my dad did this shit a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:21 PM
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I feel like only incels say that shit about not wanting to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:06 PM
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Reminds me of that one dumb fuck change my mind rape culture isnt real on a college campus. He might not think rape culture is real but hes a believer in abusing his pregnant wife culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:04 PM
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I mean i dont think any legitimately non empathetic or straight up abuser should be in a relationship but who am i to tell some socially awkward dude that hes not fit for a relationship. I struggle feeling like im worthy of a relationship because I’ve listened to so many people like that and gaslit myself into believing im not capable of being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:17 AM
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Honestly i have BPD and i always day dream and fantasize about sex but every time it has a legitimate chance of happening it causes me a lot of stress and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:10 AM
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Me personally as much as id love to go down on a woman, i know that wouldnt cure my depression or BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:58 AM
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It’s extremely contradictory when people say “fix yourself before finding someone else” but then its common sense that everyone has problems and no one is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:52 AM
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Im pretty scared to even get intimate with someone. My coworker tried to set me up with her daughter and i damn near have a panic attack talking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:04 PM
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Um no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:40 PM
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Idk what theres is to disagree about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:31 PM
1

Me personally im a people pleaser. I avoid arguments at all time but its like other people want to start trouble with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:20 PM
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Im sorry to hear that. Yeah i mean i personally have no experience being stalked or know of any stalkers besides the one i mentioned, but i know a big part of why women are scared of men is because of potentially getting slaughtered just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:22 PM
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Why cant people just find partners they get along with and not cause arguments. I mean ideally what is there to argue about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:15 PM
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Some girl on my street got stalked and killed last year outside her apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:10 PM
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Nothing. Im overweight and got a shitty personality and a lot of mental illnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:46 PM
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Well dont forget that i have BPD and intimacy is extremely hard for me to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:34 PM
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I don’t believe in love honestly. Like what exactly am i supposed to love about someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:41 PM
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I mean its kinda hard to prevent that from happening. Nice guys can be very deceiving. I guess not being friends with men is the only way to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:16 PM
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If they are a nice guy then thats a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:12 PM
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Admitting to yourself is the easy part. Telling the girl is hell. In my experience i get bitched at and cut out of their life for having romantic feelings god forbid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:09 PM
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Literally thats how most women tell men how to get a girlfriend but in reality 9/10 times that happens irl they throw a tantrum over “he pretended to be my friend just to hit on me”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:08 PM
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This. I literally had a coworker who was already in a relationship i was interested in but i didnt act on it because its a skill issue not being able to control yourself. After about a year she actually came onto me and started asking me for sex. I assumed she broke up since out of nowhere she was into me. Turns out she was trying to cheat on her bf with me then got pissy with me for showing her sexual interest back and got angry with me for being into her, and cut me out of her life which was f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:06 PM
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Its really not a big deal knowing someone likes you romantically. If you are a normal person you can control your self and act appropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:57 PM
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Do you have any erotica books in particular to recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:36 PM
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I feel like theres a lot of skill to it. If you are attractive and socialize a lot you will have an easier time finding a partner or at least casual sex but looking good isnt really up to luck. Sure being born short sucks but gyms exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:03 PM
1

Honestly when i was younger i watched sports like basketball and football. Rn my favorite team is okc and they are like the best or someshit but nowadays i could care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:09 PM
1

Honestly for me it kinda sucks. If i get horny it can keep me up at night or really bother me. I also get in the mood at very inconvenient times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:28 PM
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Probably because they dont want mixed feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:58 PM
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I look like henry hill from goodfellas with a bit of chub. I can dm you a pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:39 PM
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She was definitely one of a kind. Funny enough i started going to the gym last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:29 PM
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He’s about 5’8, dad bod, yellow crooked teeth, smells bad, unfortunately he probably passes as average looking. I wont lie i think im better looking than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:25 PM
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Hes a fucking weirdo without a filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:23 PM
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Im sorry to hear that. Yeah that relationship lacked any communication of our needs. Thats actually what happens when sex acts dictates the entire relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:19 PM
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Well for starters he hates plus sized women or old women quite a lot. He told me hes only into extremely petite women with big asses and he likes to pin them against walls and fuck them from behind. He told me he likes to pick up women and fuck them while holding them up in the air. I assume he likes anal the most. He told me that women like it when men stare at their ass. He calls strangers “sunshine, beautiful, darling.” He uses mirrors to stare at womens asses without them knowing. When he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:13 PM
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Ima be honest with myself, im not mentally ready for a relationship as i have BPD and intimacy scares me. I love the idea of finding a relationship and i even fantasize about it all the time but whenever it actually has a real chance of happening i realize that im too scared and prefer being alone. Some older woman at my job just this week tried to set me up with her daughter and i liked the idea of it then when i was actually taking to her daughter and reality hit me i was too nervous and scare…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:07 PM
1

What about if you got a kink for fucking in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:01 PM
1

1 guy stares at women from the upstairs window and calls me when he sees women with really big breasts or asses, he also follows them around the store from behind. Hes also married with a pregnant wife and tells me all his degenerate sexual fantasies. Another guy is like 70 years old and looks at women my age and comments about the size of their asses. Another guy literally does no work and spends the entire day talking to women and he even tries to hit on his girl employees. Some guy my age alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:57 PM
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I mean i see how a lot of my coworkers act towards women and thats all the evidence i need to prove to myself that im not even a creep. They are legitimate fucking weirdos and stalkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:50 PM
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I agree those are legitimately creepy behaviors. Also the guy i was talking about was me in a 3rd person. Of course i realized what i did was at most weird and awkward after my social skills got better, but i did get called a creep for it and it really hurt my self esteem and i cried about it to my therapist for months before i eventually got over it and use it as a learning experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:46 PM
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My ex gf said guys who go to the gym or watch sports are losers and are cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:41 PM
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Okay what im trying to say is women (and a lot of simps) need to stop calling socially awkward men creeps. If a fat person goes to the gym you dont see people call him a fat fuck or a tub of lard. Its not the same when it comes to social skills. A lot of people will label any guy a creep for doing something thats the slightest bit awkward or goofy. A creep in my definition should be reserved for someone who’s actually doing creepy things like staring at womens asses all day, going inside womens …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:39 PM
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Tbh i dont think my standards are high at all as i only try talking to women who are just as fat if not fatter than me. Its also hard to work on your social skills when no one gives a fuck about what you have to say and you are a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:33 PM
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But its not because it becomes his therapist’s problem, his family’s problem when he decides to sit in his room the rest of his life and not get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:32 PM
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Imagine if some social anxiety guy who already has low self esteem and low confidence gets called a creep because he stares at a womans eyes for a few seconds and because he rarely socializes he doesn’t know what else to do. That would legitimately be a traumatic event on his psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:28 PM
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I mean it can legitimately ruin a guys life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:24 PM
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It reminds me of that wheat waffles video where he said asking a woman for dating advice is like asking a competitor fisherman how to catch fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:21 PM
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AMALT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:19 PM
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The problem is most women throw that creep label around like its free candy and now most guys i talk to and myself are too scared to even associate with women because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:18 PM
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That does more bad than good because in my experience every single time i did that the woman ended up cutting me out within 3 days of realizing im into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:16 PM
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Thats the most down bad degenerate way to get laid. Might as well just pay for a hooker at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:12 PM
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So basically every guy who struggles with dating is just on his own and shit out of luck?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:11 PM
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Thats how i feel getting horny too. Its annoying and a waste of my fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:58 PM
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Mentally ill people, nazis, pearl davis, incels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:21 PM
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Its also how i realized i dont really actually care too much about sex because i genuinely want companionship with a woman not just to cum and dump and never see her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:22 PM
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Well the majority of women dont actually get turned on by attractive men like how if i saw a woman with a big fat ass id immediately get turned on. It has a lot to do with testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:18 PM
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I mean me personally the thought of having sex with women is normal for me until shit actually has a chance of happening and every time i get extremely nervous and anxious. Only one girl in my entire life i ever felt genuinely comfortable getting sexual with and thats because she was my friend for over a year. Nothing ever happened of course but ive never felt comfortable actually talking about sex until she brought it up with me. Im pretty sure im a demisexual the way I only would get intimate …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:17 PM
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I mean i have an extremely high libido and even i can wait for sex so maybe its just a skill issue for other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:07 PM
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I always say to go to walmart and they will see how bs the blackpill is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:16 PM
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I feel like only mentally ill guys actually think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:19 PM
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Money isnt an issue for me as long as my girlfriend works a job since im pretty financially stable and know how to handle money. If she made more money than me it wouldnt make a difference in the dynamic since i can still hold my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:49 PM
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From what i hear a lot of guys are soy and dont want to do it. I genuinely get off on paying the bill in full.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:33 PM
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Power to people i guess. I would find it weird if this happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:32 AM
2

Another question is are the guys who dont use condoms pro abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:17 AM
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Just do anal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:13 AM
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Whats bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:31 PM
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I know damn well the reason why i dont have a girlfriend is because i don’t socialize. Theres quite a lot of chronically online people who act like they know about the other gender but in reality they never go outside or talk to anyone outside of the internet. Its not rocket science. A lot of the manosphere are young guys who are trained to hate women from all the horror stories and awalt and to get a girlfriend you need to be a chad with 6 pack abs and a shit ton of money. Meanwhile whenever i …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:16 PM
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I mean i dont really wear jewelry. I only buy jewelry to look like a mobster. I would rather buy my girlfriend expensive asf jewelry and fuck her while she wears them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:26 PM
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I have a few luxury jewelry like this one $6k diamond sapphire and gold ring. No one really ever says anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:22 PM
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Having a good car isnt a sign that you are good with money. Especially if a younger person is out with a new tesla or bmw. Now if it was a motorcycle or a boat that would be a flex and status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:15 PM
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Honestly you would think he would try impressing women at a car meet lmao. At least the women there would actually be interested in his car and they have a common hobby to talk about. I do the same stuff when it comes to wearing suits. I actually do get compliments for how i dress but im trying to get invited to parties or maybe a club where i can talk to other people who are into the fashion hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:05 PM
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I always imagine the dudes with those run down 4 door sedans are always balls deep in women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:01 PM
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I drive a 2002 toyota Avalon and its a ugly pos but idc cuz the insurance is cheap and the car maintenance is too. The interior actually has nice leather seats and surround sound jbl speakers so im content with it and could care less what women think of my car. When ever i see women driving pink cars i think they are ugly but its none of my business and i genuinely hope they dont care about what others think too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:59 AM
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I tried explaining this to my uncle. He keeps telling me i need to drive his ford mustang to “pick up” women. I highly doubt any woman would sleep with me because of the car i drive if anything what happens if you actually attract someone using that car but then she realizes i was just bluffing and dont even own that car? Id be shit out of luck and exposed as a fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:55 AM
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Luxury cars are actually for broke people who are bad with money. If you cant afford to buy the car twice without a payment plan then you cant afford the car. My dream car is a dodge challenger but i know damn well how shit they are with gas mileage and how they are one of the most stolen cars. Instead of buying that car i would rather be smart with my money and buy a used Toyota or a kia soul. Idc what women think of my car cuz when i take them out to a top tier restaurant and pay 100% of it th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:52 AM
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But like you said the way to actually attract a woman is to do something for her that turns her on? Lowkey better dating advice than any manosphere youtuber could give.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:25 PM
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Ive heard rumors of women with higher t levels being more sexually aggressive than the average woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:58 PM
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What i dont understand is why is attraction so different for men and women is it really the different level of testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:47 PM
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Lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:35 PM
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What about men who dress like its 1912 and wear top hats and suits with bow ties and set up their dinner table in their house formally?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:12 AM
1

I wont lie I just genuinely think women get better with age. Obviously i know their skin gets wrinkly but its the way they carry them selves which is omega attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:07 AM
1

Jokes on u cuz i just did approach someone like 15 minutes ago. Also i had a girlfriend for like 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:07 PM
1

You sound like an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:39 PM
1

You’ve gone to white tie? Where
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:19 PM
2

Why cuz i can actually date a girl without having my testosterone control me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:52 PM
1

I just learned about it its when you wear a full tuxedo with a black bow tie and black shoes. I also know what white tie is with the fucking evening coat and white bow tie and flower. Sucks that the odds of me ever going to a white tie event are basically 0
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:21 PM
3

Thats scary asf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:19 PM
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Idk what you expect me to do. I have my own interests like money, clothing, mafia movies, eating out. Im not gonna give up my hobbies for the chance to be more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:23 PM
2

I like to think of my self as grounded and realistic. I dont really have many deal breakers as im self aware that im a nobody with nothing to bring to the table except large amount of potential. I mean i think i might be a loser mainly because im lazy and have problems committing fully to things such as going to the gym, dieting, but then there are other aspects of my life i actually naturally do like manage my money smart, work a lot of hours at my job, only wear nice fresh clothes in public, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:22 PM
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Well idk how else to word it. I mean im also 21 years old and only go out in public in suits so im quite literally not like a lot of my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:14 PM
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Well buddy i actually had a girlfriend for about 2 months and was intimate with her in other sexual ways rather in PIV penetration. Also technically im not a real virgin because i did have gay sex before but i dont like talking about it. So yeah you look stupid now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:53 PM
2

Well i mean i would feel off putting if a woman wanted to fuck me after only knowing her for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:50 PM
2

Yeah i mean im super attracted to them. The only problem is i dont actually know many women who are like that. Most women i know are actually straight up trad wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:48 PM
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Oh i mean i view divorce as a last ditch effort. Like if its just extremely clear that no one is happy and boundaries were crossed. If kids are involved i think it’s appropriate to at least wait until they are adults to separate because my parents decided to go their own ways when i was like 7 and now im fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:15 PM
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Maybe im in the minority but i feel like its a lot hotter and sexier/ romantic to wait to have sex. Like me personally, i would rather build up to it by getting to know the person more and more through dates and wouldnt mind waiting like a good 6 months to fuck. Especially if you kiss a lot or start talking about sex. Im really not complaining what other guys do tho because i heard holding back on sex is one of the “filters” women have on determining if a guy is gonna be a catch or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:10 PM
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Yeah. I mean i was all dressed up and ready to take her out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:50 PM
1

What? You literally base how you act around what morals you believe in. And yes politics are sorta a part of my personality because i like the firearms hobby and the left threaten it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:50 PM
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I mean, i genuinely dont think ill ever get divorced. Im not a bad person, not a cheater or abusive. I prioritize others wants over mine. Ive actually been cheated on before and i just take it as i got with a toxic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:48 PM
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I feel like historically trp is how most relationships went. Now in America at least, the vast majority of women dont rely on men anymore so I think dating has gotten no pilled and people choose to have partners for their own enjoyment,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:44 PM
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I think giving her an expensive asf ring is hot asf and shows ur dedication and commitment and exclusivity. Besides that, i wouldn’t actually want to deal with shit like divorce or alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:20 PM
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I mean tbh im a Christian American with right leaning beliefs who wants kids but even i think marriage is a bit goofy. I fully understand that getting married is setting my self up to get fucked over if god forbid things go south and i get cheated on or whatever the fuck goes wrong. Despite knowing how dumb marriage is, im still gonna marry any serious partner i have because i genuinely feel like it would make any woman happier and i guess its a status symbol to walk around among my peers with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:14 PM
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I mean id probably spent a fat $20k on a ring and get some kind of black tie dress code event going on if i had a girlfriend i was gonna marry so im on the extreme end of the spectrum myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:48 AM
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It was a coworker friend who asked me out to the bar. I actually got ready to go but she ghosted me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:43 AM
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Believe it or not i almost went on a date with a like 47 year old for my 21st birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:20 PM
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One of my high school teachers who was really pretty and would probably be considered a stacy told us her husband proposed to her on their couch in their house. Thats how i learned all that other dramatic shit is just from the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:32 PM
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Oh. Thanks. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:53 PM
3

What does cmv mean Christian male value?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:51 PM
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I mean im all for getting rid of gender norms and dismantling the patriarchy but i strongly just think paying for women or if you ask a guy out is the correct etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:08 PM
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I personally have had number 1 happen to me irl. I even feel guilty about not cold approaching women because i heard some people consider that a “closeted creep.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:51 PM
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I mean me personally, i dont go to bars because im too scared to so im talking out of my ass. I know deep down inside if i actually want a gf or to at least get laid i need to go to them and talk to women but i got more important things going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:48 PM
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I mean im a “conservative man” (i voted for trump and im a christian and im a fan of the 2nd amendment but i dont call myself one) but i dont make my political opinions my personality at all and im actually quite quiet about it. Honestly i think having the same religious beliefs are way more important than politics. I genuinely dont think i could have a LTR with a woman who doesn’t have the same morals as me especially on topics like marriage, divorce, how to raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:43 PM
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Well part of getting a gf is having a good friend group first. I never heard of any successful relationship where both partners didnt have any other friends besides each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:30 PM
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What if your a guy who genuinely wants to pay the bills tho? If i dated a woman long enough to get to like a 5th, 6th 7th date id straight up only go out with her wearing my black tie dress code as thats how i dress when i go out by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:26 PM
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Tbh i actually feel like paying for the date is a flex more than anything. I could probably get away with women paying half but i genuinely want to pay 100% to show that i have gentlemen traditional traits. If i was to ever invite a woman to my house for dinner, id wear a white tie dress code with a top hat and have the most elegant dining table set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:00 PM
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The more i personally thought about it me being attracted to women way older than me like 30+ was never gonna work. As much as my ego wants to believe that im ready to be a homeowner and a husband, my mental health and financial situation say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:52 PM
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Its only sexist if men aren’t allowed to a “bros night out.” Im tired of people talking about equality but then they don’t actually practice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah look at how men act throughout history when they are able to get away with whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:48 PM
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Yeah i mean i ignored quite a lot of blatant red flags cuz she admitted to me the reasons why she broke up with her other exes and i thought i was him, turns out i was a desperate r slur
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:02 PM
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Yeah i mean i did simp big time and gave her like $300 when i didnt have a job but nowadays id never fall for that shit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:48 PM
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Yeah even other women i told about it all told me she must have her own problems and might just have a problem with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:40 PM
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I was mainly thinking of my ex who im 99% sure only kept me around cuz i kept giving her money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:05 PM
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The narcissist in me likes to think of my self as a good guy. I mean I genuinely do care about the people in my personal life but then i remember how i have anger issues and irritation. I mean the way i justify it in my head is i only flip out on people who do something to me first i never go out of my way to antagonize anyone. The biggest fuck up i had was recently when a coworker of mine started hardcore flirting with me while she had a bf and then i started enabling her behavior back. She eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:56 AM
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I cant imagine having sex with random strangers or ONS. Especially with all the kinky BDSM shit i watch i feel like only a gf or close friend would be willing to actually try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:41 AM
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I think that is quite funny how these feminists apparently label men not wanting to talk to them as “closeted creeps.” Theres someone in my personal life who actually called me a creep because i smiled at her while she was arguing with a coworker of mine, so naturally i stopped interacting with her. Then a few months later next time i saw her i straight up ignored her presence and she apparently called me creepy for doing that too. Its like do you want me to acknowledge your presence or not? Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:36 AM
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The point im trying to make is if these super clingy dudes filled their free time with other stuff other than worrying about women they barely know they wouldn’t get so desperate or attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:23 AM
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Are these examples of real people you’ve seen? Because if so they probably have mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:20 AM
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I have this problem of simping for many different women in the past 2 years now who clearly wanted something transactional out of me like my money, free labor, attention and i get fuck all out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:16 AM
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Yeah im a virgin because i never actually met my ex irl and only dated long distance for about 2 months. We still got extremely intimate over phone calls and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:13 AM
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My ex after breaking up with me kept having fantasies about marrying rich 50+ year old men so she can be a house wife to them and they can financially provide for her. I think she was saying that to me as some kind of fucked up revenge fantasy towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:11 AM
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If you have a lot going on in life ie work, responsibilities, hobbies, family, other friends then you probably wouldnt have the extra time to be clingy to a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:08 AM
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Tell that to my ex gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:51 PM
2

I think the sex is the most important thing. I cant imagine having a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:51 PM
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I feel like the porn i watch is pretty tame and realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:45 PM
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I find curvy bigger women more attractive too. For some reason they just really look hotter and more natural than skinny women. I like gym girls if they got abs or big muscles too. Despite wanting an overweight or “bigger” woman, i myself aspire to be in good shape and muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:30 PM
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I think its perfectly normal for you to want your SO to be as healthy as possible especially if kids are involved but it crosses the line when someone threatens to leave over it. Imo you know what you sign up for if you willingly get with a drug addict or obese person and get mad at them for being one thats ur problem,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:22 PM
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You can switch from eating pussy to fingering too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:17 AM
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How else are you supposed to learn what to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:08 PM
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15-20 mins of pussy eating or titty sucking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:08 PM
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I keep falling into the red pill because i feel like thats what you need to do to get a girlfriend that will be loyal and not cheat on you. Then i realize most dudes arent even that good looking (they still mog me) and they have girlfriends and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:05 PM
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I met all 4 of my girlfriends online 0 irl lmao. I guess im cooked. Tbf its a lot easier to talk to women on the internet than in irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:36 PM
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Im a switch so for me i could do whatever but if im really in the mood to be rode and she doesnt want to do it after i fuck her how she likes it that would actually be a deal breaker for me. Sexual needs not being met is definitely in the top 3 of relationship killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:38 PM
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I would rather have extremely kinky sex with a plus size woman im talking like BDSM bondage rough sex than some basic PIV with a stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:36 PM
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It seems boring to fuck the same way. If anything id watch different porno genres with my girlfriend and try to copy what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:34 PM
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I feel like i could have extremely long sessions because i go to the gym a bit and i practice edging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:23 PM
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I ain’t gonna lie it doesnt sound hard to have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:18 PM
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I feel like my social skills aren’t really all there. Ie when its just me and another person i can talk to them Normally but when theres a group of people i just stand there quietly not knowing what to say or how to act. I also can’t really tell if people are joking or being serious when they talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:37 PM
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I feel like its not that hard to have good sex. Dont you just gotta have some nipple stimulation like sucking or squeezing then eat or finger a womans clit and rub it in circles and then use a vibrator or dildo on her to get it nice and warmed up then you stick it in and gradually increase the tempo?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:45 AM
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If you cum too early cant you just go back to foreplay for like 5 minutes until your ready to go again?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:40 AM
1

I work in a grocery store. I did end up meeting one girl who was very interested into me but i had no clue she actually had a boyfriend and considered cheating on him with me which obviously ruined that. I had another woman who really wanted me to take her out to a bar but then when i was about to take her out she ghosted me. I never heard from her again but it turned out she was an alcoholic and was very violent. Im kinda scared to go out much. I got one friend that i usually go to restaurants …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:22 PM
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What i dont understand is where are people my age going to meet people to find partners or have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:38 PM
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It does. Its like i know how i want to act its just hard to be perceived by women that way because of shit i say or do i have no clue are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:10 PM
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I have internalized misogyny im working on in therapy from my trauma so if i were to say i did hate them id be lying, id also be lying if i said i didnt have some prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:34 PM
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A little too extreme imo. I feel like most women actually like when you do things for them. Ie i swept this room for this girl at work and she literally took a photo of me doing it and jumped on my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:34 PM
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Oh. I have low self esteem. I sorta took myself out of the dating market because i know damn well if i had another girlfriend id have insecurity issues with other guys. Thats not to say if some woman showed me interest first i would decline it. Its pretty hard on my ego to basically not even try to find a girlfriend but i know deep down inside im actually making the right move.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:00 PM
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I mean i dont really hate women or am rude or have no empathy. I think dating sucks because i have no clue how to get a girlfriend or where to even meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:51 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:46 PM
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Idk maybe as i get more life experience and my social skills get better i might be able to have more charisma. I still would only limit my self to either my partner or extremely close and i mean extremely close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:23 PM
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Okay i will admit, im a little biased because i know i dont actually have what most people consider “husband material” traits yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:04 PM
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You’re the one trying to make an argument out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:54 PM
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Yeah but then when we flip it onto women and say “wife material” then you hear bitching just like a lot of different things women bitch about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:49 PM
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Well no shit that women want a guy who provides but calling that husband material is offensive and objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:38 PM
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I wont lie i hate hearing other men in my spaces talking about their sexual experiences. Ive been the only dude in groups of women when they were talking about their experiences and it didnt bother me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:32 PM
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I dont have a idea of what a future girlfriend or wife does because im not dumb enough to think all women act the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:30 PM
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Okay imagine if some guy told a woman shes wife material because she knows how to cook and clean. Its the same shit with men. We get offended when women assume because we can work on cars or earn enough money to provide that we are husband material implying that if we dont have those skills we dont deserve a relationship just like how wife material implies if a woman cant cook or clean she doesnt deserve a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:26 PM
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Bro you can resist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:22 PM
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If some chick called me “husband material” cuz i make a shit ton of money and can get us a house that implies that if i couldn’t do that i wouldn’t be deserving of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:05 PM
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0 is kinda ridiculous imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:55 AM
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I would personally only have sex with either girl friends or extremely close fwbs no way in hell would my own body count get that high
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:49 AM
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I cant fathom having sex with more than like 5 women in my life so idk how other people can do it. To me it seems like an extremely rare thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:46 AM
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How is it tough to say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:12 AM
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How hard can it be to eat pussy? Dont you just circle the clit with your tongue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:38 AM
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The only filtering i need to do is to make sure i dont end up with another girl who is predatory. I seem to keep attracting those type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:06 AM
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Bro doesnt even view you as a human
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:03 AM
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Yeah literally ive only see that shit with extremely religious people and reddit users. Ive never heard an average guy say that irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:59 PM
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Am i a normal man just because i couldnt care less what a womans body count is. I mean obviously if its some crazy high number like 30+ then yeah i would be intimidated but if a woman had sex with 8 different people i dont give a rats ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:55 PM
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Yeah i literally see mad dudes who arent even that good looking (not that im a physical specimen) walking around with girl friends or women. Shit like that is why i sorta think the bp is bullshit from chronically online losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:46 PM
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Thats really how these people view women and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:40 PM
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That guy ends up dying alone with no kids or family members that give a shit so who cares fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:31 PM
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I mean if i care and love a woman im not gonna treat her like just another bro ima put in the extra effort to show her my appreciation for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:30 PM
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Well thats just how i am. Im not like most people i dress formally despite working a minimum wage job too. Within 1 month of a relationship id already be going to high end restaurants with serious dress codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:28 PM
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From a mans pov, its a status symbol that you have your shit together and have good values. Nothing is more attractive than when a guy is a full on gentleman and makes all the reservations and planning, drives to pick up his date, opens all the doors for her, buys her chocolates and flowers, pays for every meal, always walks closer to the street and slightly in front of his woman, always waits until the date gets inside her house safely and texts 30-60 mins later asking if she got home safe. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:30 PM
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Its not even an American thing. Dating and gender dynamics are incredibly different irl than on reddit or social media. A lot of incels would actually pull if they went outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:22 PM
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Me personally i dont avoid or ignore women but if i dont have a reason to talk to some random woman im not going to. Same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:32 AM
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Okay thats a little over the top. Theres no need to cut out half the population. If you cant control yourself not to cheat you shouldn’t be in a relationship. Its like the mfs who go on dates to hooters and refuse to even acknowledge their waiter, its weird and awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:26 AM
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Idk im not a women. But imo men should protect other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:29 PM
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I read the post, the guy imo is a pussy. As a man its kinda your civic duty to protect the defenseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:12 PM
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Yeah that’s actually a big reason why the patriarchy still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:07 PM
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I think the problem is men already dont have enough options as it is and if they were to be honest about their standards they would put themselves in a really small dating pool and also get criticized about their preference of skinny women (not me i love fat girls)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:08 PM
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Well im a man and from my perspective, i cant really have standards for women because if i did then id really have little to no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:22 PM
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Idk what you want out of me but im starting to feel like shit. Maybe thats your intention to make me see my own contradictions and reflect on them or if you’re just toying with me for entertainment. Either way i know my view of women needs work and i should get off reddit and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:00 PM
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I will cuz I’ve already accepted the fact that ill die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:55 PM
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Idc if im a “nice guy” i will get fucked over just by existing anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:53 PM
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If they are lying to me about me then they are evil manipulative liars and are contributing to my declining mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:51 PM
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I highly doubt that the women in my life are actually lying to me or are scared of me. One of them actually starting getting sexual with me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:48 PM
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Yeah ik… ima be honest i only really come on this sub or others related to tell on myself and look for help from internet strangers because i know damn well im a red flag and not mentally stable enough to have a relationship which im desperate for. Believe it or not I’ve actually been going to therapy for almost 3 years now yet i have a severe inferiority complex, low self esteem and a unorganized attachment type that i have no cure for and I genuinely feel like im fucked. Contradictory to that,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:59 PM
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Or it’s because we dont have unlimited dating or sexual prospects like how women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:36 PM
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I watch or look at pornography like 4-5 times a day does that make me a gooner because im 99% sure i dont have a porn addiction. I also didnt know gooning was a “popular thing” for lack of a better term i just thought it was some small community of people who like to describe their masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:18 PM
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I dont think that im a “loser”, i might be socially awkward and have a lot of issues but im a law abiding citizen who works a full time job and contributes to society. I find socialization to be extremely difficult and i rarely speak to women outside of the internet so idk what they think of men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:09 PM
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Thanks. I cant help that im severely mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:02 PM
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I feel like the red pill is out of my league. Mainly with the gym shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:01 PM
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Because living at home with my family is one of my biggest insecurities and i feel like a loser having to do it. I also know damn well i cant have a girlfriend because if i bring her to my shithole house and she sees how bad it is because my uncles are filthy man child hoarders then im fucked and shes gonna break up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:58 PM
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I genuinely dont see anything wrong with that age gap. Most women that age are already taken so what else are you supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:46 PM
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I wouldn’t know i havent done either of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:45 PM
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I could live alone perfectly fine but i choose to sit at my house and invest money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:44 PM
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Theres one woman in particular i always dream about and constantly have sexual fantasies for. The thing is she actually was the one who told me she feels the same way about me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:30 PM
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I feel like most people will eventually actually find love if you actively pursue it. People these days are just too impatient and want it now. I highly doubt if you constantly go out in public even 5 days a week and participate in a lot of social events you wont at least get laid once in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:45 PM
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Yeah thats my biggest problem i find most women attractive and fall in love with them extremely easily and thats why i struggle with dating. I guess maybe my best solution would be to stay at home until i have enough money invested to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:12 PM
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My philosophy is different. I personally fantasize about the idea of meeting a woman and moving in with her because i cant stand my current household. I also want to feel fully responsible and independent because my dad is a helicopter parent and i cant stand that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:00 PM
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I honestly dont even know anyone my own age (21) whos living by themselves yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:56 PM
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Yeah i know that feeling too well because theres 2 people living in the same house as me who refuse to get jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:55 PM
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Thats how it see it. I think moving in with your partner is a clear sign that you are serious about the relationship and arent in it for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:54 PM
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My ex gf was the only person who didnt have a problem with me doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:00 AM
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Ill take it out of the library next. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:05 PM
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The second scenario is literally my uncle and tbh idk how his girlfriend put up with him for 10 years. Hes actually the person i thought of when writing this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:56 PM
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I feel like a lot of americans feel societal pressure to move out as soon as they hit 18 or graduate college and thats how society makes great employees 😂. Yes i just read rich dad poor dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:53 PM
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Oh nice. I just recently like in the past few days started getting religious again. I was listening to a lot of trump and charlie kirk which made me rethink about my world views.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:46 PM
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My cousin was with her high school boyfriend for like 10 years and literally the day after she moved in with him she called off the wedding because she couldn’t stand living with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:41 PM
2

I live in one. I kinda wish the home i currently live in would just stay with my family since my relatives built it in the 1800s in a wealthy part of new jersey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:39 PM
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Do you think its reasonable for people to choose to live with their parents due to the economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:39 PM
1

Are you a Christian?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:38 PM
2

If i end up meeting a woman before i ever own or rent my own house or apartment, id make it my goal to move in with her asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:37 PM
2

Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:36 PM
2

Fair. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:36 PM
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Thats what im doing im currently saving up to own a house in my late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:38 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:37 PM
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Well technically outside of reddit women ive talked to irl seem to actually care about my well being. I think if you look for shit you will find shit. Its also very important to remember that most normal people dont go on reddit or discord and most of the people on social media are socially incept or very opinionated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:06 PM
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Bro my skin is so fucking bad multiple women though i was 30 years old when im 21. Their excuse is “you carry your self like a very mature person”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:01 PM
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Better yet go on any blacked.com video and see the comments of women begging to get bbc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:58 PM
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Being fat (i lost 50 lbs now im just overweight) has been my 1 flaw. Im white, passable for 6’0, technically packing big, good with money, american, not disfigured. But im fat. Being fat literally makes my skin look like shit cuz i have stretch marks and acne and my cheeks are always bloated. I occasionally go to the gym but it’s actually a huge waste of time because my diet sucks the big one. I genuinely think if i wasnt fat i would be at least a 6 or 7 out of 10 and would at least get laid som…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:56 PM
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I have a problem of basing my entire life around what i think women like in men. The only exception is i wear suits every day despite a friend i had on reddit telling me thats weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:50 PM
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Women are full of shit about a lot of things they say. Ill admit i lie too. I say idc if a woman has a only fans but i know damn well i wouldnt be mentally capable of dealing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:47 PM
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I think the male suicide rate is only higher for men cuz they use more lethal methods like shooting themself. That being said ive been going to therapy for almost 3 years now and my mental health has only gotten worse to the point where becoming a religious Christian is my last fallback otherwise im just gonna accept that my life sucks and will always be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:53 PM
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Yeah people forget escorts or prostitution is very easy to find. The problem isnt how most men cant get laid its how we cant find women who genuinely loves us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:48 PM
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No shit im not as amazing as i think im self aware of how shitty my life is which is why i have to cope by going to therapy. Most people who cant get a partner know their life sucks lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:46 PM
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Or you could be someone like me who cant get a girlfriend because their mother wasn’t really in their life and was raised by a narcissistic dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:44 PM
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Lol gardening and beekeeping are actually things im interested in i just never do. Thats my problem i have quite a lot of hobbies or interests but im just too lazy to ever actually do them and instead waste all my free time doing stupid stuff like sitting in my room.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:25 PM
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Yeah which is ironic because im pretty sure more women have mental illnesses than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:16 PM
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Im a guy and i relate with this so hard. I hope you find someone for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:04 PM
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My mental health is very weird and inconsistent. Some days all i care about is getting a girlfriend and others i dont give a shit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:57 PM
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Thats all a bunch of bull shit. I could get laid in 1 hour if i wanted to by going on an escort site and booking an appointment. Im talking about real sex that matters like actually meeting a woman who genuinely loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:17 AM
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I guess you cant win if avoiding half the population makes you a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:34 AM
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What if you know a guy who works a full time job and hes a very shy person but when you get to know him he immediately becomes the most extroverted person and will take you out to dinners and dates weekly? And you would never guess that hes into the gym or financing until you meet him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:23 AM
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Ive told all my female coworkers about the blackpill and all of them think im on the internet too much. If i deleted reddit and went outside more with the intent of getting better social skills, id be a less mentally ill person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:14 AM
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Idk if im an incel or not because i feel like my mental state causes me to act poorly and if i wasn’t depressed id be a somewhat likable person. A lot of “incel traits” are literally people with BPD or a disorganized attachment type have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:12 AM
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Lmao thats me. I constantly tell people im financially educated and wear suits out in public because i know damn well my body fat% isnt anything women will fawn over and my personality sucks the big one. My parents really never gave me attention so thats why im fucked up today. I actually go to therapy for my problems but it hasnt helped
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:08 AM
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I have BPD and a disorganized attachment style. Im literally a walking red flag yet a very small % of women in my personal life tell me im a good guy and deserve a girlfriend. I somehow attracted a woman so much she almost cheated on her boyfriend with me. I even talk about my black/red pilled beliefs to them and they still think im a normal person. Even i know im a walking red flag with how fucked up my mental health is yet some women disagree. I genuinely believe that if i didnt spend all my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:05 AM
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Im mad i didnt find out about it so i could fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:35 AM
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I dont have a power dynamic lmao. Btw im not a creep i actually go out of my way to avoid talking to women because i know how they view men and dont want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:27 AM
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No im just tired of all the men hating rhetoric that society gives us. Especially white American het cis men we are made out to be the devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:25 AM
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Its hard not to be entitled as a man when literally thats how western society conditions you to be. We’re expected to work all these blue collar jobs and build infrastructure for society just to go on tv and hear some libtard old hags say “dO wE NeEd MeN?” Men build the support beams of everything in society just to get told we are all angry uncivilized uneducated barbarians. Sure theres a lot of truth to it but thats the point we’re at as a society that its okay to view men as a whole as gangis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:09 AM
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I heard the shooter was a femcel. Definitely looked like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:00 AM
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Okay money has nothing to do with it. If you fix your mindset you can be a billionaire too. Poor people all seem to think money is hard to come by and work their entire life for money, wealthy people make money work for them. Yes i read rich dad poor dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:59 PM
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I dont understand women at all. I cant tell if they want a guy whos above average in every aspect of life or someone with a personality. I know men well. Men want to fuck any women walking around except those past the age of 35, small boobs or ass. Of course you will get the rare man like me who doesn’t have any physical standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:56 PM
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I think the problem is younger gen z men and women need to shut the fuck up about red/black pilled shit and just start fucking each other and getting married and eventually having kids. Fit people should together while overweight people should get together. Losers with losers. Rich with rich. Poor with poor. Disabled with disabled. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:49 PM
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The problem is that love/human connection (platonic relationships arent gonna give you that) is actually a need to live a longer healthier life. Ik incels like to say sex is a biological human need but its really not, the real biological need is a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:52 PM
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well you can thank dumb ass fuck boys and simps for that. They give these women too much power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:47 PM
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Im a man and i rather marry a larger women who actually loves me than some hot asf woman who doesnt even want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:45 PM
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You ever think the virgins here cant get laid cuz the majority of gen z women wont ever give us a chance until we either hit 30 and have net worths of <$100k or walk around town with 6 pack abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:39 PM
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I mean you will find the rare guy like me on this sub who is a “young guy” (im 21) who genuinely likes older women and doesnt give a rats ass about physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:35 PM
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Me personally im a 21 m who’s attracted to older women like 27+ so i see nothing wrong when an older man is into younger women. Im a very financially ambitious person who wears formal suits every day in public. I seriously can only relate to older women who are trying to settle down with a home and kids. I dont view younger women as “easier to manipulate” or “have power over” i just view most of them as too judgmental over physical appearance compared to personality. Most of them wouldnt look my…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:28 PM
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The funny part is a lot of married or taken guys act like the biggest incels i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:03 AM
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Theres this common trope in western media where a group of women are out in public and see a really hot guy and all of them fawn over him ie icarly, big time rush, and the women all fawn and have love at first sight. Seeing that shit at a very young age made my perception of how women view men very tainted. I actually have no clue if thats how women act when they see a very hot guy but i know for a fact thats how it works when a group of men see a woman with a big ass or boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:07 AM
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I would pick a thicc woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:20 PM
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Okay what if your like me where your white american not disfigured and you are tall and good with money but you are fat actively going to the gym to lose weight? What % does that make me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:02 PM
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Well all i hear women bitching about is how men treat them like objects so apparently the majority of men act that way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:51 PM
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I heard that if you are just a normal weight and you treat women like humans and not sex objects or send them dic pics then you are already in the top 25% of men in terms of being a dating prospect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:10 PM
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I mean i wont lie, as soon as my chest and shoulder gains come in from the gym ima start wearing skin tight polos and dress shirts. Thats why i don’t criticize women who dress sexually appealing cuz id do the same exact shit as them. I already get a small glimpse of it when i wear suits in public and women from my bank or job all tell me i look nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:52 PM
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The only way i see it working is being a niche genre like trans or femboy. Or being a famous person. I only see it working for me if im fucking my girlfriend whos got clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:46 PM
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Ive been cheated on before. My ex was a very weak minded, selfish person and its her loss not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:00 AM
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It refers to how women can make money by getting naked on only fans. I will admit, i get quite annoyed when women say only fans is “hard work” meanwhile i work a minimum wage job 8 hours a day 6 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:47 PM
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Thats why i talk to older women like 27+ women my age seem more cruel and vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:41 PM
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I mean yeah these guys do exist but in the grand scheme of things they just make the dating market easier for genuine men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:48 PM
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I find that the longer i stay on the internet mainly reddit, the longer my world view gets fucked up. At least in the town i live in i always see guys and girls being friends and none of the blackpilled shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:30 AM
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I feel bad for all involved and hope they find the peace they need in life. I think anyone defending her behavior is enabling her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:28 AM
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Well im not speaking on my behalf im speaking for the incels or nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:21 PM
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I think the problem is how that stereotype is called “nice guy” and that confuses a lot of men and makes them believe they have to be rude to women to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:38 PM
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Yes id go the philip rivers route and have like 10 kids and id buy my wife and kids a $1M medium sized house in a gated neighborhood. Id buy them all dodge challengers. Id probably go on a lot of vacations and have a lot of sex with my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:09 PM
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Matter of a fact my dad is a stupid fucking bitch and i hope he dies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:03 AM
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Tbh i dont know if the black pill is really real. I see so many fat or ugly dudes with girlfriends and wives all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:56 PM
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Yeah i will admit, hes not the best source of wisdom for dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:28 PM
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Honestly idc what other men think of that. My uncle saw me cleaning my room and genuinely thought i was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:16 PM
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Not me. Out of the 4 women ive dated in my life 2 of them were obese and didnt wear makeup or do their nails. Im sure im in the minority for mens standards. I just personally find most women physically attractive and i have quite a broad range of different things i like to see. For me the only thing that really makes me consider romantic partners is their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:14 PM
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Yep. If we didnt have like 4 cats we would probably have a mice problem too. We also constantly have mold problems. This shit is so unsanitary and disgusting and when i move out ill never live like this again. I cant imagine ever bringing a woman or any of my friends to my house again i dont want them to see this shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:24 PM
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I will listen to them especially dark matter2525 cuz that username reminds me of cod lol, thank you for the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:22 PM
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Im not educated with dieting but cant you just take pills to make up for a lack of nutrition?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:21 PM
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Im glad you say that because i live with people who are pushing 50 and dont do basic things like tale out trash or clean the house and we have cockroaches because of their hoarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:09 PM
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Im eating burger king rn. This shit causes stomach cancer and probably has yellow 5, high fructose corn syrup, enriched flower. It tastes good tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:08 PM
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Thats what im planning to do. I dont see marriage as a transactional relationship. Im marrying because i genuinely love someone and desire to have kids with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:27 PM
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Its not like i lack self awareness i know i need to get off this app and go outside more to get rid of my depression. I had an addiction to reddit and self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:19 PM
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What if you’re a man like me who works, cleans and cooks without being told to do so and doesn’t rely on my wife for any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:09 PM
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I dont need a wife to tell me to cook and clean i already do it automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:08 PM
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Well i sit on reddit mainly this sub all day and have little real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:06 PM
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Idk what to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:05 PM
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:) i got no shame to admit this but in the past 2 years quite literally all 4 of my girlfriends and platonic girl friends expect 1 were overweight or (on the bmi scale). I think me being obese at the time is what led to me having the empathy and compassion to plus sized people. Now that ive lost weight and im actually closer to being a healthy weight i still have that empathy for them and ive helped one of my friends quit drinking soda.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:37 PM
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Real men like me love and accept overweight women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:30 PM
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I definitely cant speak for anyone but myself but i feel like believing the pills is a sign of mental illness in particular BPD, and social anxiety disorder due to the fear of rejection. I constantly shift from black-red-blue- no pill depending on what i witnesses irl on a day to day basis. I wish more women would be understanding to male loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:28 PM
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When i wear boots i think im genuinely 6’0
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:24 PM
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Well how i interpret the red pill is thats their entire goal to have a wife and kids. I dont understand why people call that the red pill since thats the goal for most men throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:24 PM
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Well apparently all the married couples with children do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:18 PM
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Well i cant speak on behalf of all red pillers or conservatives but i actually asked out a single mother of 2 im friends with when i was 18 and i dont see anything wrong with it except how unrealistic that was to work. The women he debates on the whatever podcast are not forced to spend their free time to be on that show and so they arent free from criticism. He might be in support of the patriarchy and I will admit him forcing his Christian beliefs onto everyone is quite annoying and narcissist…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:14 PM
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It would take me meeting these male feminists (or any feminist) irl and having a real debate with them for my world view on them to change. I live in a conservative town so i doubt there are many of them here anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:03 PM
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Because i was in a discord server full of them (it wasn’t advertised as one but mostly everyone in there turned out to be one) and they all seemed like a cult of liars and tried to force their world views onto me. I got nothing against women who are feminists my problem is the radical feminists who are genuinely misandrist and these so called “male feminists” who from an outside perspective seem to only be in it to increase their chances of getting laid and genuinely seem to love shitting on men…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:48 PM
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I interpret him as someone with a lot of wisdom since hes married and has kids who genuinely wants the best for society and young people. I think he looks fine, but i dont like the drinking and smoking that makes him look worse. He only dislikes women and men who engage in sexual degenerate behavior ie men who sleep around with different women and dont commit to one or women with only fans taking advantage of simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:37 PM
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My dad taught me that caring about your looks is for gay guys and women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:45 PM
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As long as they take themselves out of the dating market and make it easier for me idc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:37 PM
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Male feminists are just liars trying to white knight their way into getting laid. The way they put down other men is pathetic and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:08 PM
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I got a better solution, we should get rid of male beauty standards because worrying about how you look outside of basic hygiene and grooming is stupid and a waste of time and causes people to have mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:02 PM
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This is a cope but i hate how there are beauty standards for men. Imho, men shouldn’t care about looks all that should matter is muscle mass to body fat ratio. Men are supposed to be the ones building infrastructure and doing all the blue collar jobs so idk why society expects us to look “beautiful”. Im not saying men shouldn’t care about looks at all i think you should shower and groom yourself and wear presentable clothes but all this canthal tilt, predator eyes, equal facial thirds, norwood r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:01 PM
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Andrew wilson is a better example of true masculinity than 99.9% of people on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:26 PM
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Im sure if i just be myself and don’t pretend to be someone im not I’ll eventually attract someone out there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:34 PM
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Im pretty scared my own personal beliefs or wants significantly limits my dating pool. Ie i have the majority of the right wing views minus abortion. My dating view is a mix of blue, red and black pill. I personally want to be an entrepreneur and home owner with kids asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:25 PM
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Idk if going to the gym will make women magically attracted to me ill find out in about 6-8 months of hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:13 PM
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Thats my biggest problem with dating, idk what women actually want in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:37 PM
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I dont get it, most women i see who are married irl or on the internet marry those types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:28 PM
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I try to smile more but i got fucked up teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:23 PM
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When im actually honest about my height it turns off women because they think im talking shit about my self. Cant win with these people 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:32 PM
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Most people are just really dumb when it comes to the height because they claim they NEED 6’0 but dont actually know what 6’0 looks like lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:26 PM
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I can lie and say i want some short hair masculine acting wife too. When in reality i subconsciously want a wife whos feminine and lets me do all the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:22 PM
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She can do whatever she wants i just feel like when you hit 35 and no man wants to take you seriously as a romantic partner dont blame all men for being bad like most of those women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:20 PM
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Its the truth, if you’re not an attractive guy you have to have status or money to get a wife. Idk why women shit on alpha males/red pillers, they all want to get with them but dont like to admit it cuz they have high egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:17 PM
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Well those women are stupid cuz im 5’10 1/2 and literally women argue with me all the time irl telling me im 6’0 and i don’t know my own height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:15 PM
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I feel like if you just got a 6 pack like this ceo killer 90% of women will fuck you. Probably got a higher chance of getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:11 PM
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Thats a lie to feminize men and tear down society
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:10 AM
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No pill Yes I go periods of time where im red or black pilled back to no pill which i think is my natural state because i have severe mental health problems such as BPD, depression, social anxiety, low self esteem and i am a very lonely and miserable person and i rarely talk to women because my world view is based off reddit, fresh and fit, whatever, fitxfearless, legion of men because i have barely any real world experiences with women. Yes I wish i could be blue pilled and believe that being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:23 PM
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Andrew tate hasn’t even held much weight on young men since like 2022 💀. People like Andrew Wilson are what feminists and these woke women should be scared of. More men should aspire to be like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:01 PM
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Literally the other day i swept the room at work and these 3 women back there were so shocked to see a man doing it they took pictures of me and one jumped on my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:34 PM
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Thats what a lot of women get wrong about us. We dont view women as sex objects we genuinely want to marry and love girlfriends/wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:48 AM
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I will its one of my favorite hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:35 AM
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Do you have any advice or help for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:20 AM
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Well i wish i could talk to women irl but i have no confidence, my world view is based off what ive seen on the internet due to covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:17 AM
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Ever since my hormones turned on when i was like 12 i started getting too scared to talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:12 AM
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I sat inside my house for 2 years during the end of high school and now im a fucking mess when it comes to talking to women my own age. Tbf i already didnt talk to women when i was in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:03 AM
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I masturbate quite a lot like 3-5 times a day. Im not an addict either i never watched porn at work or school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:58 AM
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I have the highest libido of any human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:56 AM
2

As asmondgold would say “covid fucked up our development”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:52 AM
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Fuck man i cant even get a date cuz i dont talk to women in my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:51 AM
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Men have to be held accountable too. Its their fault for wanting to sleep around with women all throughout their teens and 20s then deciding one day when they are miserable and lonely because they never bothered to have a meaningful relationship to settle for some woman they dont even like. Thats why the first girl i fuck im gonna genuinely try my hardest to get married with and be her provider. It takes time to be at a point where i can do that, i need to be in top shape and have my money in ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:18 PM
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https://youtu.be/lA84ICn1TRA?si=5mUNH5__ZFI3Lz8a
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:03 PM
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Well i only see her as a friend, i friendzoned myself. Even if they ever broke up and she wanted to date me id never do that because i saw how willing she was to cheat on someone. I would be friends with benefits at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:57 PM
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It seems like men cheat because they are too scared to get rid of their girlfriend. This is what happens when you cant live with being single, you get in shitty relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:54 PM
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Cuz i like her too. Although i have moved on from her onto pursuing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:52 PM
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Listen just go to the gym and make money and you can probably fuck 50% of western women, probably 90% of eastern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:39 PM
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The men who are the real problem are the soyboy blue pilled simps. They give women all this power and entitlement. Im not saying women shouldn’t have the same rights as men either. Im just saying that women truly are entitled and they have the right to be but they also have the right to be criticized for it too. Now when you have all these destiny or bropill types who claim to be male feminists i dont believe them. They are obviously trying to appeal to what they think women want and are actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:33 PM
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No. I had no clue that women cheat because they arent getting dicked down good enough or emotional support from their man which is a really stupid reason to cheat. Idk why men cheat i never cared to look it up because i know i would never cheat if i had a girlfriend so its not my problem. I would just break up with my girlfriend if it wasnt working. Cheating is for weak minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:24 PM
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I almost fucked a married woman at my job recently. She actually came onto me and started telling me that she was having dreams of me then eventually she started getting sexual with me and asked to come over my house and see my penis and we actually made plans to fuck but she backed out a few hours before. I felt bad for her man but i just assumed she must be into me cuz he’s abusive or something bad, this was before i researched why women cheat. Now that i understand how women work im glad i di…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:36 PM
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I don’t talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:54 AM
1

I do know game. I would gladly give my girlfriend head whenever she wants and caress her body and make out with her lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:21 AM
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Idk if online girlfriend counts but yeah i talked to this girl for most of 2022. Technically got intimate quite a lot with her over the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:14 AM
1

I have talked to a very small amount of people there but they all approached me first. It just seems very awkward to approach strangers outside of social events.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:12 AM
2

Well i dont talk to anyone cuz i have social anxiety and the gym seems like a place where no one wants to be bothered. I know i dont want to be bothered there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:09 AM
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Well im a virgin but im pretty sure its all about foreplay and giving your partner what she wants. If you can eat her pussy out well and lick the labida and clit nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:55 AM
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Recently turned 21. Only had online relationships and got cheated on. I talk to a few women irl but im mostly scared of interacting with women so i avoid doing it. I also dont really have my mother in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:29 PM
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Idk why. Me personally i know im either average or below average and i only actually try to shoot my shot with women who are too. I feel like like im more likely to get a gf than delusional guys who only want 8s or above with big tittys or ass and blonde hair white women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:14 PM
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Being average looking only works for women. Guys have to have personality, status or money to compensate with. And most average dudes are jaded with women and come on here to complain because its bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:03 PM
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Well im the exception because i actually find bigger women more attractive than skinny ones and i want to actually be a guy in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:51 PM
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I dont talk to anyone at the gym i meant i go there so i can mog other dudes and have a higher chance to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:48 PM
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I go to the gym just to get a girlfriend, doesnt mean its gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:45 PM
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Tbh that doesnt really work. If it did gymcels wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:39 PM
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The amount of men who say cleaning is a “womans job” is so absurd. I mean i take care of my house and clean everything but thats because i grew up living with hoarders and cockroaches so im now conditioned to never live like that again. I also feel really masculine when i clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:35 PM
3

Thats sounds extremely enjoyable for me. I can easily do that to any woman im having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:27 PM
1

Me personally i actually know the solution to my “woe is me” just gotta go the gym (which i do) make more money (which i do) work on my social anxiety/ personality (im sorta struggling with). My problem is more based around how i hate feeling like as a man im forced to do these things in order to get a girlfriend but women dont have to do it to get a boyfriend. Now i understand the grass isn’t greener on the other side. I dont have to worry about getting hit on by strangers or potentially saed e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:37 PM
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I think good sex means being in the moment and just listening to your partner. I mean thats what it seems like to an outsiders perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:11 PM
1

I mean ive been friends with “the bad boys” in high school and they were really weak minded dudes. They got girls but they cheated on them and bragged about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:05 PM
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Im a 21 year old zoomer man. I hate bars because i dont drink and im shy but i really dont know where else to go. I ruled out clubs because that shit is just way out of my comfort zone and doesnt match my personality. I rather just join a small club with like 5-10 people on a consistent basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:03 PM
1

It’s because they dont care about what people think which at surface level is attractive but they typically have more red flags or turn offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:25 PM
2

I like foreplay way more than any PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:42 PM
1

I guess its all about self control. You can probably get good at it by masturbating a lot of edging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:40 PM
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Im genuinely really sorry to hear that a lot of women have to deal with that. 😔. Ill do my best to never be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:44 AM
3

That’s exactly what my guy friends and i talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:31 AM
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Ive only been friend zoned in my life. Its a real thing its just a way to keep someone around as external validation. I dont think theres anything sexist about it as its not exclusive to happening to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:12 AM
5

Lol at least im not scared of a little vagina fluid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:03 AM
2

Whenever i lose my virginity i kinda just want to slowly stick it in and like leave it in and just start making out with her. I cant imagine that hurting at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:59 AM
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I think eating vagina fluids are taboo and gross too which is exactly why i want to eat it. I dont have a golden shower kink but ill deadass love for a woman to squirt in my face because i ate her out so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:51 AM
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Im having a really hard time conceptualizing men that genuinely don’t care about their partners experience. Im a virgin but id make my girlfriends orgasm my goal every time we fuck. Is it like really common for men to not care about womens orgasm because i stg every comment here said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:46 AM
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Tbf i have no clue if you can control cumming too fast. I dont think its a big deal tho. I heard if you cum too early you are supposed to go to foreplay for 5 minutes until you can go at it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:35 AM
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Im into all that high intensity BDSM rough sex like slapping, hair pulling but also slow soft intimate sex too it just depends on my mood idk if theres a term for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:29 AM
3

Does PIV actually hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:20 AM
2

Im insecure about a lot of things but being bad at sex isnt one of them because im more into foreplay than PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:08 AM
1

Im 5’10 1/2, women mistake me for being 6’0
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:37 AM
3

Ive noticed that if they said this to me ive been friendzoned. The most brutal one is “i see you as a brother” 😂 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:58 PM
4

I feel like im only really able to connect on a deep level with my gay friends. Toxic masculinity really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:38 PM
3

Thats easier said than done. For context im a bisexual male so its like natural for me to subconsciously treat other guys the same way i treated my girlfriends but most straight het men dont want to bond that deep with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:37 PM
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Yeah im 21 so im young. Im considering going to trade school for a handyman job like plumbing or electrical but i mean if i do that, i would have to give up my guaranteed $50k a year so its a huge risk and im in no rush to do that. Especially considering that my dad gave me a free financial education and i know how to invest money and generate income sitting on my ass doing nothing. My family spoiled the fuck out of me because they let me live rent free and i don’t have many bills to pay so i ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:37 AM
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Yeah im actually planning on owning a $400k house in new jersey or Pennsylvania in 4 years. I just fucking hate myself for being a NEET for a year and half if i didnt do that I would have a net worth of around $85-$90K today
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:28 AM
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Well heres the thing im 21 years old and debt free making $50k a year so for right now im actually doing extremely good for myself so theres no rush to get a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:25 AM
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Its pretty bad for the state i live in. Im pretty sure to live comfortably by yourself you need to make like $70k. I mean if i had a wife and she just made $30k we could live comfortably together and probably afford to have 1 baby. Im not even gonna factor in my investments but i technically make over $50k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:21 AM
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I invest most of my income into a roth ira retirement account so in about 10 years I’ll actually make more money from compound interest in my account than i do from my actual job. I just hate actually working cuz its sucks i typically do 45-51 hours a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:17 AM
2

What if you’re someone like me who hates their job but they managed to get promoted and make $50k a year just because i did well at my job for 2 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:06 AM
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I work at a job where they are basically forcing me to be a manger and make $50k a year. Im doing it cuz i got nothing better to do instead lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:04 AM
2

Im the person who said that lmao. I know the blackpill/ redpill isnt really real in real life scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:38 AM
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I disagree. I think women have good dating advice. Although i will say its quite annoying getting biased advice from like your family ie both my sisters keep telling me to use tinder because it worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:07 PM
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I only shave my facial, pubic, titty and arm pit hair. Idc if shaving my airmpits makes me less masculine i rather not risk smelling like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:55 PM
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This is so true lmao. Its a night and day difference between how the dynamics are with a straight guy friend and a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:30 AM
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Yeah i cant go as deep into learning about other men because they view it as gay or weird but i think because im bisexual i never had a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:27 AM
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You’re right they shouldnt have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:58 AM
2

I guess thats true. Whenever i actually meet my dream wife bigger woman she will have no clue how hard i worked on myself for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:43 PM
0

I shave mine because i think its scientific proven to make you smell better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:06 PM
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I do out of fear that ill smell like shit if i dont
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:42 PM
2

My plan is to just play the dating game very shortly and come out with a wife Im very serious about getting married and what i want in the next 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:31 PM
2

I mean i already go to the gym and diet just to get a girlfriend and i hate doing it but thats what society forces me to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:27 PM
2

Thats the problem i dont understand why i need to be a guy in top shape in order to basically date someone worse than me in the looks department
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:22 PM
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I wish i was average but I don’t think even any bigger woman would give me a chance. Even if i was in top shape with a 6 pack my type would be bigger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:19 PM
2

Dating wouldnt be so shitty if good looking people got together, mid people with mid people, ugly with ugly. But unfortunately thats not how the world works
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah the good looking dudes are and any chick despite her looks can get hook ups while ugly dudes are left single
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:06 PM
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The problem is most women have insanely high standards that the average man cant hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:52 PM
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To my understanding if you arent a guy who makes at least 6 figures a year with a respectable career, and dont have a 6 pack then gg trying to hit female demands
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:28 PM
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I agree i actually think sex is a must have need in a healthy relationship and if you don’t want to have sex then marry someone whos asexual. Now obviously i dont think men or women should force their partner to have sex whenever they want but if it gets to the point where you have a dead bedroom and havent had sex because you’re partner keeps declining and its not for some reasonable reason like they are sick or not physically capable to, then i would say entertain the idea of a open relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:06 PM
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Yes and it pisses me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:29 AM
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Well i actually hate when fat women get made fun of or called landwhales that shit isnt okay with me. My therapist told me i have low self esteem because i got bullied and have neglecting parents but never actually told me how to get high self esteem. Believe it or not, I actually go to the gym and watch what i eat but the thing is idk why i should be forced to do that shit to be enough to be seen on most womens dating radar. Allegedly my personality minus my depression and mental health issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:59 AM
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Well thats just the truth. No woman wants me. Ive been rated a 3/10 and the only women i have any chance with are fellow overweight women but they would never in a million years want to date me because im too fat for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:46 AM
1

In todays dating market women only want to date up while men are forced to settle with dating down
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:33 AM
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Lmao i wish i could but they only want black dudes and im white.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:00 AM
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Lmao but men are supposed to date fat women (which i want to actually do even if i was in perfect shape i rather marry a fat obese woman)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:51 AM
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Lmao them its over for me 💀 i work a dead end job and am fat and overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:54 AM
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Whats your idea of an average man? Because mine is someone who works a dead end job and doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:49 AM
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I cant speak for other men but me personally I don’t have a hate or dislike for women i have 0 chance with they just exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:58 PM
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Oh. I mean theres not a lot of women i dont want to date. The only women i wouldnt want to date are asexuals because they dont have libidos. Id treat them like how i treat my sister or mom or any guy im not gay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:49 PM
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Most men don’t even find women ugly or invisible, you just havent seen how desperate men get for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:45 PM
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More like women only want chad and not the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:43 PM
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I mean i dont hate any woman in particular except the hags on the view. I personally love fat girls but ive gotten ridiculed for “objectifying” them. I dont hate stacys but i cannot ever get along with them because they think they live a harder life than the average man which is just a bad take and they seem to have superiority complex over men. The only women i ever talk to irl are ugly or fat women because they look like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:42 PM
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It probably wont but thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:38 PM
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I mean ive never had a girlfriend before so i wouldn’t know but thats what it seems like to me from what ive read off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:37 PM
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Theres really not. I mean i guess having good social skills help but really its just a good body and money you need to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:34 PM
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Im too lazy to consistently go to the gym. I pretty much force myself to do it because i genuinely think i wont ever get a wife if i dont. As for money im pretty much 99% sure ill be successful because i got a financial education from my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:26 PM
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I mean idk how to talk to women especially after the brutal fuck up i had today but im still hopeful someone out there will like me despite how socially awkward i am
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:54 PM
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I wouldnt know i dont talk to girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:36 PM
1

I do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:38 PM
0

Well i think the solution is to not use dating apps and meet your partner though real life encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:26 PM
1

Tbh i cant speak from any experience because i never used a dating app but from what I’ve heard they aren’t good for people like me who have low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:00 PM
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Women have all the choice on dating apps. ie my sister. She keeps arguing with me telling me i should just go on a dating app to find a girlfriend and her evidence is how every time she used one she found a match within a day despite her being in the minority and being desired especially since shes a big fitness person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:51 PM
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The women are the only ones with a choice. Men have no say in who they match with and just swiping right on every girl is their only real choice. Idk why so many dudes degrade their self worth by going on those apps when they could just meet women irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:48 PM
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How come most women who use tinder complain about how the guys they match with only want to sleep with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:44 PM
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Well its gonna get worse because these fucking simps keep validating all these women and it inflates their ego while also emasculating the guy. If you’re a grown ass man with any self respect you should not be giving random women you dont even know external validation or your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:42 PM
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Well id argue taking shirtless gym photos of your 12 pack all sweaty isn’t necessary “the best looking photographs” but most women would pick that rather than say some average looking dude with a $3k camera out in a safari petting a hippo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:29 PM
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Im trying to give women the benefit of the doubt. I know deep down inside that they would only pick chad on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:24 PM
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Woe is me is the harsh reality of the dating market. Most men have to become red pilled to have any chance or rot alone without a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:08 PM
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I actually dont think anyone can do anything for male problems except the men themselves. Mens problems literally are just not being able to find wives. I truly believe any guy can solve their problem of being lonely by going to the gym and making money. The only legit problem i have being a man is how the left makes us out to all be bad potentially violent sexual barbarians especially if you’re a white guy. Most men are conservatives because conservatives Dont villainize us like how the left do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:55 PM
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Instead of having the ability to swipe right on every single person you should have a limit of 1 every 24 hours that way people really have to be picky and really think deeply about the persons bio/interests. I think that would stop guys from just swiping on literally every girl when 99% of them are out of their league and women wont just pick chad every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:45 PM
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Thats why if i had a girlfriend i would just be quiet about my problems and go to my male friends/ the gym to get my mind off my problems
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:34 AM
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Most of the stuff i actually like doing is all outside but i cant do them during the winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:33 PM
1

I go out to the mall and out to eat with my friend like at least once a week. Im trying to find more stuff to do but its hard because i work a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:31 PM
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Well apparently from what i read on reddit, a lot of women get pissed off because their husbands/ boyfriends dont even do those basic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:23 PM
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Okay you caught me. Im just talking out of my ass because im an insecure man and am desperate for a wive with only a limited experience of how relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:57 PM
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I need a wife badly. Theres a lot more than just sex like i need someone i can actually love in more than a sexual way. Platonic relationships dont do it for me i desperately crave a romantic relationship. Im not just talking out of my ass either i actually had a girlfriend before and the dynamics are a lot better than any platonic friend could give.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:43 PM
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I go to the gym and looksmaxx but i hate doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:14 PM
2

Im not just gonna do hookup culture with random women the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:59 PM
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What about introverted men are we all supposed to just stay single because we dont like to go partying or clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:58 PM
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Looking good is out of your control tho lmao. Can gymmaxx every day but it doesnt matter when you have subhuman genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:10 PM
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Thats my problem with women, all they want to do is go out but if i dont secure a roof over their head to comfortably afford that shit what do they expect me to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:22 PM
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I literally just want one because having friends never was enough for me i needed something more intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:42 PM
1

A man has to provide quite a lot for a woman meanwhile all we get in return is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:41 PM
3

Well i sleep naked because its hella comfy but im sure someone out there would have a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:40 PM
1

Sex is a must have for a successful relationship in a non asexual marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:32 PM
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Because women in a marriage need to have sex otherwise they will go and get it from chad or Tyrone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:17 PM
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Thats cute and all but most people in the dating market dont think that way. It tends to only be men who have the lower expectations meanwhile women who are single at like 30+ have to settle for any guy they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:00 PM
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Most men dont want to be seen as a settle by women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:53 PM
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I think most of us men do want wives but it’s just unclear what women actually want from us. It seems like the average western woman only looks at superman as a potential partner from what i read on the internet but then when i go outside i see dudes who are not superman with girlfriends/wives and it throws a monkey wrench into my (and probably most zoomer mens) idea of what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:49 PM
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Most of their boyfriends are just trauma bond obese dudes. My cousin used to be really obese and almost got married to this other morbidly obese dude she met in high school but she broke up with him because he lives like a slob, lost weight and is now getting married to an average looking skinny dude. Funny af how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:59 PM
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I might actually have a chance on a dating app then. I never used one before but i always thought that if i did i should be extremely picky on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:47 PM
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Are you saying that if guys read womens bios before swiping they would have more success on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:43 PM
1

I really just have 1 friend whom i hang out with at least once a week. Typically just go out to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:30 PM
0

I live in a city area
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:24 PM
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Id like to think im a man of value who can bring shit to the table. Ie im 21 and working on my career and am about to become a home owner in less than 5 years. I actually clean my household and cook every meal while working a full time job. I go to the gym and do skin care. I genuinely dont understand what im doing wrong that women dont like. I even waste my time and money going to therapy and a psychiatrist. I guess it’s because i dont go out to party or drink and do drugs which is why im singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:20 PM
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The only way a guy can get a girlfriend is being a provider of some capacity. Either money, emotional, sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:00 PM
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The dude is probably good with money or statusmaxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:54 PM
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Thats why i never used a dating app. I dont want my ego to be shattered by wasting time taking pictures just to get no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:51 PM
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Im pretty sure dating apps are 70% men so they just flood your dms. Ive seen videos of guys making fake accounts posing as women and overnight they wake up to a shit ton of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:43 PM
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Dating apps cockblocked me so hard. I keep arguing with my sister over this shit because she keeps telling me “you just need to use a dating app and you will find a girlfriend easily because you’re tall.” Her evidence is based off how she finds matches within literal minutes despite being a gymgirl and living in a major city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:39 PM
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Any woman who says ick is an ick. I already know its gonna be some stupid shit like they hate guys who sleep in their underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:31 PM
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The only women i dont like are skinny ones. I select women off of how big their thighs are. I love fat women quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:28 PM
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I never traveled once in my entire life, it seems boring to me also i cant afford that shit or even get time to do it. I’ve accepted the fact that 95% of women are already out of my dating pool because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:26 PM
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Have you tried dating your looksmatch? I know morbidly obese women probably won’t even date a guy who is too but its not like most dudes are gonna settle for them even tho they are desperate for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:21 PM
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Literally this ⬆️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:18 PM
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Women genuinely are better at listening to you bitch about your problems than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:37 PM
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The sad part is those women dont even give their looksmatch a chance they only want guys better than them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:16 PM
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Idk ive seen some really obese women with boyfriends or husbands who are dudes in shape. I genuinely dont think there are any women out there who are invisible as there are just too many men that will take them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:15 PM
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I barely even talk to women but ive gotten more empathy for my problems than any guy gives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:11 PM
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Something about normies i don’t understand is how they always claim “the only way to be an incel is to label yourself as one” yet when they read something they dont like from a guy they are the first ones to call them an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:31 PM
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The term “incel mindset” is more cringe than labeling someone an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:20 PM
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Heres the thing tho being a creep doesn’t automatically make a guy a incel, he could just have bad social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:58 AM
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Throwing out incel to any man they think is creepy or weird just makes more guys who arent even real incels fall into the trap and probably actually become one. ie i didnt know what an incel was until some dipshit who didnt even know the real meaning called me one as an insult and i looked it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:51 AM
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What if your someone like me who finds going to the mall shopping fun how am i gonna post that on a tinder profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:55 PM
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Its cuz they only want Tyrone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:48 PM
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Having to spend mad money going on cruise ships in the Mediterranean sea or vacation in miami just to take pics for a “fun instagram” is fake asf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:46 PM
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Number 2 is such facts. Im lucky enough to have girl friends i can ask for dating advice with but many times (mainly on discord) ive been called a creep or weirdo for finding a woman attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:14 PM
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Older women have way less standards than gen z ones so the men must be shitty partners
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:51 AM
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Just like how you’re not an oppressor for being a cisgender white man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:30 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:26 PM
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Society is normalizing misandry imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:59 PM
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This is a troll right? Who genuinely believes this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 12:52 PM
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Unpopular opinion but women look their best during and post pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:33 AM
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Me personally im attracted to older women like 30-50 range
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:10 AM
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Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:28 PM
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Wasnt this posted yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:28 PM
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crying helps i do it all the time i dont feel less manly. Its better that building in my emotions then lashing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:24 PM
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Yeah that shit would just lead to accidental pregnancy or spread stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:03 PM
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A house is quite a milestone. I am 21 so if i meet a girlfriend now she will have to deal with the fact that i live with my dad but im more than willing to find an apartment with her asap. Actually id prefer to move in with my girlfriend early on into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:05 PM
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All i can give her is loyalty, love and effort, most likely financial stability because i am getting a financial education. I hope that’s good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:23 PM
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The way i see it is id probably make a good husband because i learned from my prior relationships and know what to do in the future and see a therapist. I just dont know how to find a partner thats my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:20 PM
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Heres the problem no one has any answers on how to be a partner these women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:54 PM
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What are you supposed to give women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:52 PM
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I dont talk to women in real life unless they approach me because i have no clue what they want. It seems like most of them dont want any guy to ever approach them yet they have boyfriends/husbands i dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:48 PM
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Tbh what ruined dating for me is finding out how women act. Before i talked to a bunch of feminists i thought women want to be approached by men and married i had no clue how they actually view men as potential threats and really don’t want to be approached. Im also genuinely scared of approaching any women because i have no clue if they are gonna whip out a phone and make up some bs life ruining accusations on me. Shit like how they go to the gym to film and call any dude looking at them for .5…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:05 PM
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Well tbh i think im average despite what discord tells me but i guess im actually a 2. If i moved down to Alabama id probably be considered a 8 or 9 with how obese they are down there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:48 PM
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Im a 2/10 and i probably could rizz up some hot chick just based off my financial status and willingness to commit to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:39 PM
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I dont see women as “mid” or “top 10%” its really just if they seem like a good or toxic person. I see ugly dudes pulling women out of their league all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:27 PM
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Yep. In my experience thats how a lot of these guys act. Even yesterday i had a coworker call me a pussy for not approaching some attractive woman from behind while shes grocery shopping and try to rizz her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:56 PM
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I mean not really old but i wanted to take this 48 year old woman out on a date to the bar. 2 of my exes were obese, wasn’t a turn off at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:50 PM
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Tell that to me who finds the majority of women attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:38 PM
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At my job quite literally all the guys i know and even the some of the women objectify the other girl coworkers or customers. I feel forced to participate in the culture out of them just assuming im gay if i dont which im actually a semi closeted bisexual and really dont want most of them to find out. Theres this one guy in particular who openly talks about his sexual fantasies out loud with no shame infront of other people and refers to women hes friends with as “hoes, bitches, 304s.” There’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:44 AM
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