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Ermgotthis/r/askTRP30/01/15 11:45 AM
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Think not what the group can do for you, ask yourself what you can do to the group. In other word : what kind of fun do you bring to the group ? Funny stories ? Strange alcohol ? Girls ? Pot ? Music ? You want to become "that guy that always has xxx to bring", so people, when they make up plan, think : "Hey, we need xxx, let's call yyy !"
/r/askTRP02/03/15 01:43 PM
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Man up, brother, it's gonna be okay. You're feeling down, it's perfectly normal, and you ran to the good people when that happens : not your wife, not your mother, but your fathers and brothers. You've got a lot of experience in SysAdmin and Dev, 10 years is a LOT, and organisation value experience over degrees, so don't worrie about that. Get yourself a job, even if it's not something great, just get yourself something you can get your head into, occupy your day with, and cope with the break up…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:56 PM
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She asked "Can we be in an open-relationship ?" Why not answer "Didn't know we were exclusive" This way, you reaffirm non exclusivity without giving her a relationship status.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 09:32 AM
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Thanks, that's a very good piece of information, indeed. I'll keep that in mind next time that kind of thing happens.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 02:58 PM
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Probably. I'm fucking up a lot of things these days. I don't really care. Too bad. Up to the next. Is it me? Good god, man. It's a translation from my language.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 02:07 PM
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You're probably right.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 10:06 AM
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Not sure I want to move my ass if I don't get to f her.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:40 AM
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Weird : when I start to feel sick, working out makes me feel better, actually.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 10:01 AM
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Well, I'm definitly going to teach my sons not to rape, and to respect women. But like hell I'm gonna teach them the manipulative crap they can put out and to never go out of their ways for a chick.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:14 AM
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Smile and enjoy post-coital-meditation, having the chick rest on my chest. These 10 minutes of silence...
/r/askTRP11/02/15 11:33 AM
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Stash them in an archive on a hard drive I don't use for when feelingsof the break up are gone. So I can fap to them again.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 03:15 PM
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You keep her interested by being good in bed. Read the Sex God Method. Text her, fuck her good, then mind your own business. Plates eventually fall, no big deal. Keep lifting and approaching. And... I mean... You just could read what is writen everywhere around here, it's like we all just keep repeating the same things over and over again.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 10:39 AM
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"At what time do you finish on X day ? Okay, let me pick you up, we'll have a drink"
/r/askTRP06/02/15 10:31 AM
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You can realize it once you've fcked a girl enough and she really trust you. Just make sure you know her enought and you know she'll be into it.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 08:46 AM
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Smells way better, indeed. Less needed for better results. Thanks mom.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 02:39 PM
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Thanks for those informations.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 12:57 PM
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Kind of true, but... I buy my washing powder myself. So I should be a target audience. Except I don't give a damn fuck what washing powder I choose. I just pick one that smells good and that'll do the work. Then my mom told me : "Hey, you should pick that Brand, not that noname cheap powder". And seen moms are always right, I now buy Brand powder. But I listened to my mom, not to commercial. So I guess moms are the target audience if they want to touch me.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 11:22 AM
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I'm starting a monkmode february. Which means I've cut off all online apps I used to get plates. Two of my 4 plates fell in the last few days, so I guess I won't fuck as much this month. I don't care. I'm tired of chasing women. It asks such a brain time, it's not worth it. So I'm taking a break. If a girl comes by and I manage to f her, then good. But I won't take more time than needed to get chicks, at least for now. Will I stop spinning my plates now that I'm in monk mode ? No. Because I want…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:45 AM
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This. Also, us CC to send your job to your boss and his boss. That way you have proof you did the job, and your boss's boss it the one that'll make you go up. Not your boss.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 04:36 PM
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Suits.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:41 PM
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populated by rape apologists, revenge-porn enthusiasts, and those who would justify domestic abuse. How the hell can I have been lurking for 4 months and yet never crossed even ONE GUY that fits in any of those categories ? WTF.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:09 AM
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Don't drop the plans, drop the plate. /thread
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:20 PM
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Okay, first, good things you try your way with a chick you don't care. It'll allow you to make your mistakes and have a first plate experience. Eventualy, you'll get higher quality plate with time, but it's good to start with something. Now, with your questions : 1/ You didn't say anything that could make her think you'll make her you gf, did you ? If not, no big deal. If you manage to bang her directly after that meeting, then you don't have to say anything. I mean... Most girls I meet know tha…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:04 PM
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Thanks, seems clear to me.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 01:14 PM
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I tell you, the shittests are high because they want to be sure you're the man in charge. They know the little boy you were, so they have to destroy that image before seing the man in you. Just keep ignoring and leading by exemple, shittests are exactly the same, just not for the same goal. In the end, when things get though for them, you'll be the first person they come at. That's when you'll know they respect you. And that's where you'll tell them : "I can help you with your trouble, but remem…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 08:54 AM
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This guy took the words out of my mouth. A thousand times this, OP. You're comparing yourself to other, this is what makes you insecure and unhappy. Stop doing that, and work on yourself so hard that the only person you compare yourself to is your former self.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 03:15 PM
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Started dating 1 year after my 1st big breakup. I though I was ready to go again, but she was just another pair of crutches I took to learn to walk without my parents. Yet, among the best crutches I ever tried. I was smoking a lot of weed back then. Cigarets, too. I stop smoking for her. She never asked for cigarets, but weed was a deal breaker for her, so I did what I had to do, even if I failed once. So I had to learn to live without these places to run hide when life was though. And I started…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 07:12 PM
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There you go. You don't have to be a model to attract women. Just hold frame, control your body langage, and muscle up to have good posture. Indeed, every one can become "alpha", for it's not a pretty face, but an attitude : knowing that you're the only one responsible for what you do of your life, and working so you make it the best for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:35 PM
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This. Who fucking cares ? You bang the chick just stay playful, and smalltalk if needed. you don't have to forbid yourself everything with girls : as long as it doesn't compromize your mission, why would you act like an insensitive bastard ?
/r/askTRP28/01/15 03:40 PM
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Only one Megan, pretty clear story to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:35 PM
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Compared to not breaking up at all ? Please...
/r/askTRP28/01/15 03:32 PM
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Do what you want. Did she lack of respect ? Not to my book. Is she a good lay ? I mean... She's basically offering sex, just take it and stop being an overthinking pussy. That's being beta.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 03:21 PM
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My ex did invest in me, for over a year. I ended up growing higher than she was, and she didn't follow up. That lead to the break-up.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 09:26 AM
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I don't know, it just kind of happens. It was a girl I was going to fuck, like 1st date or whatever. I don't come up and say "Hey, I don't fap !", it just kind of happens... They mostly are positive when they learn it. They have a hard time believing it at first, but they usually get curious about it.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 08:20 AM
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Hum, didn't know you american were such pussies over a word... Again it's a translation from my language, so I didn't say that.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:18 AM
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Ok, OP is just a huge troll, just downvote him to oblivion.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:01 PM
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Okay, I'll just stop answering to you. Just stop whining and shut up.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:47 PM
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Sex is just something you rediscover. For real. It's like a whole new feeling every time, touching, smelling, talking... It's just fucking great.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:46 PM
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You won't be able to watch porn without fapping. Just take my word. Same thing, you won't last long fapping without ejaculating. It might work once, but I doubt you'll resist long. It doesn't change the way chicks look at you, it changes the way you look at chicks. It's like... opening your eyes.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:44 PM
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Your problem is that you're dating online while you should be going out. Shut up.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:43 PM
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And no-one every will, goddammit ! No one is going to come with a little boxed gift saying : "Hey, here's your shot at impressing me!" No one gives a fuck about you. You want a chance to show your charm ? Just fucking TAKE it. Stop waiting for some miracle to happen : it NEVER happens. Either you make it happen or you keep crying like the beta faggot you are. Jeez...
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:17 PM
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Lol this is magic. BluePill in action, I laughed so hard. He like didn't apply ANY of the fucking advices that were given to him...
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:08 PM
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You're whining on an internet forum about how women are bad and don't like you. Yeah, you're not that pathetic, you're worse. Just stop fucking whining and go read. Pretty sure they don't respond because you just drop some stupid line like "hey how is it going" that they receive like 100 times a day. Go read, go lift, go work on a project, stop crying like a pussy and listen to those fucking advices : yeah, you probably ARE ugly. So fuck it and fuck you. Get your balls out and go work on "charm"…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:03 PM
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Learn discipline. Start nofap. Learn to master your sexual urge, and you'll be able to master the urge to do nothing.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 04:59 PM
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Thank you ! Happy to see my life is dreamed by others :)
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 03:39 PM
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Exactly, and they love it ! x) I can't wait to be able to OHP chicks. At least 10 more kg to go...
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 01:41 PM
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I'm already on my way to cold approach. That's pretty much what i'm working on now that I've a few plates spinning. I don't approach every time, but if there is a girl and I've got the line / time, I try to go for it. I approach more and more, so I know it'll go fine. One step at the time ;)
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 09:17 AM
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My tinder game isn't bad, I've fcked aourn 7 or 8 chicks from there in a couple of months. I have nothing more to say than what's already been said : be funny, settle trust, be aware of attention whores, escalade fast, be cocky, get her number. Set up a date, game live. I don't game much via text, although I try to be as teasing as I can. Right now, since a couple month, I mostly approached via online game, focusing IRL on building social circles. I'm starting to have a couple of cirlces now, so…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:55 AM
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No. It's a good advice, as long as you're the best version of yourself. I love being myself, and women love seeing that I just embrace who I am, and not fake it. Just... You've got to raise yourself to the top so "being yourself" attracts woman. The advice isn' t a lie, it's just not complete : "Be yourself, but first work hard to be the best version of yourself". TRP truth.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 11:08 AM
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If your thoughts about your situation start to become too frequent, ditch her to free your mind. Else, just enjoy the stability she provides you, focus on your mission, and eject after.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 09:15 AM
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She might already be done with you and waiting for another branch to swing to. Withdraw emotionnal support as long as she withdraw sex. She needs it as much as you need sex. Stop being her listing BF. Be there, be touchy, do your stuff, but if she tries to talk you into emotionnal shit, just eject.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 10:39 AM
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Addementum : A plate is a chick you fucked at least TWICE. Else it's a ONS.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:13 AM
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"I would loose you as a friend" "You already lost me as a friend when I decided I wanted to fuck you" There. Out of the friendzone, out of oneitis. Pass or cracks.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:02 AM
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I suppose it also depends on your own level. Some beta with 2 chicks might think 8 is a lot, while a 50+ alpha wont give a damn.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 09:58 AM
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That's up to you. Some say over 10, some over 2... To me, 10 is the upper limit. A good girl should be at 3, 4 top. 20+ ? Don't even think about anything more than a plate. But hey, high numbers sometimes leads to good fucks.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 09:57 AM
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I hold eye contact as long as possible without looking like an idiot (1-2 mins) before i start laughing l eventually ask her why she keeps doing that? You did well, until you broke eye contact. Well in fact, holding it for 2 minutes is very looooong so good enough, but still. Just lay back and stare at her in a relaxed maner. Keep talking to other people but keep looking at her. Show her you're the boss, she has to be the one to turn away. And then you get the "It's making you uncomfy, I like it…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 09:50 AM
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Fap or Nofap, there is not try. To fap or no to fap, that is the question.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:22 AM
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Maybe should you try monk mode for a month or two. I'm in a similar situation, getting less and less interest in pursuing girls (damn, even banging them bores me)... I'm planning on two things : 1/ stop pursuing chicks (as I have a few missions that came up recently) and 2/ focus on social circles instead of game. Maybe a bit of cold approach / day game, but that's it. I'm just tired of all this crap, it's not worth it. I need a break...
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:08 AM
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Okay, first, this is a reddit pole, definitly not respresenting worldwide population. Second, AWALT is about Hypergamy, not about being sluts. Yes, a woman will swing to a higher branch if she can, no, all women don't have a High number of partners. A smart chick will "save" her pussy because she knows it'll higher her value. But yeah, I agree for the rest.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:53 AM
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Yeah, sure, whatever you say, dude.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:19 PM
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That's a sad wall of text you just wrote, OP. Sad chicks get lied to by society as much as we are, and just waist their life on this...
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:13 AM
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ELI5 : She doesn't want you to stop playing game, she wants you to pay attention to her. She asks this in a womanly manner. So you "obey", but she doesn't get what she wants. You win either way : you go do something you like doing, and she will probably not bother you next time you play games.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:26 PM
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Maybe you could tell his wife you know, and tell her that she must tell him or you will. Oh, and if you want to help him, try to gather evidences of her cheating so he has bullets to ram her down in the divorce.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 10:04 AM
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My ex tried to hit me once, at the begining of our relationship. I directly told her that I would take it : "Look, I'm not going to hit you, but that means you're not going to hit me either, ever". She tried to do it again a few days later, to test me. I dropped a deadlook to her, stated again that I wasn't going to accept that : "Equality : I don't hit you, you don't hit me. I'm dead serious". She never hit me again after that, for 2.5 years. Just set rules.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:42 AM
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I feel i need to work harder around him because it is just flat out stiffer competition... That's the very reason you want to stick with him : he'll force you to be the best version of yourself, that's what you want !
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:39 AM
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Don't play powergame jusdt to play powergame, jesus...
/r/askTRP16/01/15 08:33 AM
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WTF. Thisl ooks like kindergarden powerplay. What are you, 5 ?? "Gna gna gna, I don't want to talk to you because you didn't talk to me :'(" Grow a fucking pair, dude. If you want her out, you take her out. If you want to talk to her, you call her. If she pisses you off, you tell her. You text seems like a succession of bitchy move that started nowhere. Why are you two even mad at each other???
/r/askTRP16/01/15 08:33 AM
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Get a knife, a make yourself a nice scar going from your ear to your chin. Then make up a nice story to tell it. Or even embrace it : "Yeah, made it myself, didn't like my face". No need anymore explanation, people will look at you witha weird face, but if you've got your shit together, they'll just assume that was a smart move you did.
/r/becomeaman15/01/15 11:51 AM
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Sex him good, then.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:31 AM
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You tell him. You tell him how amazed you are by the oaktree he is, how you're lucky to have him, and how you'll never thank him enough. But those are words. Just do what you have to do with you mom, then go back to him, and be the best freaking girlfriend he could wish for. If he is so important to you, show it to him : he deserves it.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:21 AM
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And then go to the fatty. :D
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:19 AM
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Damn you're young. What do you think ? "Time heals all wounds", even the crushed heart of a beta will heal with time. But as a beta, he'll probably catch oneitis again. The alpha, on the other hand, will get its shit straight, and learn to love a woman like a man, and not like boy. Just accept that your ex is gone, that you'll go through a shitty time for a while. The more time passes, the less it'll happen (with ups and downs). Keep working on yourself and on your goal. In a few month you wont …
/r/askTRP15/01/15 06:51 AM
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In fact, getting heartbroken is a great way to learn.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:50 PM
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Same thing. Doesn't change a bit. It's fast reward without effort, it fucks your brain up. You want a reward ? Go work for it. Stop acting like a child and eating candies.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 10:05 AM
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That guy seems to go its own way, which is the real definition of being alpha. So what if he settles down ? He'll find its way on its own.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 02:31 PM
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"she got open relationship approval" Stopped reading here. And you should stop thinking here. Just go for it.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 02:29 PM
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I'm hitting on this girl at work. Chatting playfully as we don't work in the same office. At some points, she kind of states that it seems I have a looooot of chicks going on, which I don't deny. I frame her, telling her that I appreciate talking to her because she doesn't fall in the usual BS I serve chicks, and that I like the fact that she resists me. At this points, she says that now that I know it wont work on her, she'd be glad to continue this conversation on a friendly manner. I told her…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:45 PM
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Cried out of the friendzone ? LOL.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:39 PM
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That's what my ex said, yeah. She also said how I would "fuck a slut a week after we broke up if we were to". Took me 5 days, actually. 3 weeks to get two plates spinning. She had high SMV, she just didn't know it, lack of selfconfidence and of will to change. To bad she couldn't follow up.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 02:31 PM
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Gosh, your story makes me realize why my ex kept telling me how she prefered "thin guys" and didn't want me to get "too much muscles". Gosh she was so scared I was going to leave ! She finished by breaking up with me (probably just after cheating on me) because I "was not going to give her anything". Translation : because I was getting my shit together and she'd have to work hard to keep me around. She actually helped me a lot getting my shits together and rebuilding trust in myself, really. She…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 02:02 PM
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Read the sidebar ??? oO
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:31 PM
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Harvey Specter.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:30 PM
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Raise an eyebrow, look at her, smile, kiss her, get her head rest on your shoulder, and continue to enjoy your post-coitus relaxation time. What is the big deal, here ? No shit test that I see, that chick is just happy : you just did your job here. Act like it.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:29 PM
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Meditation during sex is great.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:49 AM
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I tell them before i bang them. Then I bang them. And they come back.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:57 PM
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Man, that date seemed like so much fun, i'd have loved to give it a try !
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:34 PM
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You've to apply it on life in general. It does not "work", it's a state of mind. Example : you miss a step and almost fall. Instead of feeling embarassed, you just laugh at it : "lol, nice try life, got you on this one". What ever comes to you, just laught it of. Two guys start to bully each other in the sub ? Just enjoy the show. Some chick tries to bring you down ? Smile and ignore, she can't even reach you. It's kind of an armor you use to sweep away the "little boring things of life". Shitte…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:12 PM
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I'm currently trying the "almost full body exposure" pics. Basically, a pic of me naked, croped just over my cock, abs and pecs out, with some instafilter. No face. Plus a cocky line "Arrogant, prententious, cocky, for good reasons. I'm the guy you hate when you have a boyfriend." Surprizingly works well, and cuts out all chicks that don't wan't the D. They ask for facepic pretty soon, that's a reason to get her whatsapp. Then it's up to her : either she likes what she sees or she doesn't. I'm n…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:08 AM
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I got a girl whose profile stated she was a "model" and her hobbies were "fashion" to go mad just by asking her if she was superficial. Ofcourse she was, but god was it fun x)
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:59 AM
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Maybe you are a sensitive pussy who is too emotional, but don't put that on estrogen and shit, because that's called "finding an excuse". You want to stop being too emotional ? You man the fuck up and work your way to the best version of yourself. Eventually, yes, your sex problem will fix themself because you'll stop focusing on her.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 10:18 AM
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Try nofap. Lift more.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 09:46 AM
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Being yourself when yourself is the best version of yourself works. ... Yeah.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 12:41 PM
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You didn't bang her in bed, she wanted you to be good enough to. You weren't. Now she's passed on someone else. You'd have been some good ONS material, you missed your shot. Just tell her "You know where to knock if ever" and softnext.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 07:15 AM
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And they pick the same brickline
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:03 AM
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"I'm not done with you", says I once I come the 1st time. She'll wait the 20 mins rest I need to get her second fuck. And the 20 next to get her third.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:50 PM
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Yeah, good idea, haven't in a while.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:25 PM
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It was, I have to work on detecting them more sharply.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:24 PM
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lol Yeah, let's say that, whatever.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:59 PM
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You're on the slope to ONEitis, dude. That means it's critical that you cut it loose. She'll miss the attention you gave her, and come back beg for it. Just hold frame. Also, I think you really should read more sidebar material, you clearly are still discovering TRP. SHe's a solid 9 ? Great. What does it change for you if you can't get her ? Nothing. So stop giving a damn about her.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:07 PM
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You stop hooking up with her, stop flirting with her, start flirting with other girls in front of her. You're too dependent on her, why would you care about hooking up in front of other chicks in front of her ? You're in no RS, nor anything. You're the one giving her power, by wanting to hook up with her. Stop wanting her, and she loses all power.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:00 PM
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Yeap, I did learn something from that !
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:12 PM
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I'm friend with my bestfriend girlfriend. Basically, she brings me emotionnal support, and I don't care telling her about how I feel because I'll never bang her. Bros before hoes, even if they break up, i'll choose my Bro and not her. But she's very listening and helps a lot when it comes to understanding (and controling) my emotions. So yeah, I just put her and myself in the friendzone, as I get somthing clear out of it. And I wont ever bang her cause I choose not to;
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:23 AM
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This is a great read, it can really be helpful in your interaction with people. Thanks !
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 09:43 AM
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Hahaha, having a guy ask her number for you, this is gold
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 05:30 PM
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5 and 6 I'd say. Still need to work on getting higher numbers. Those two were easy to land, but they allow me to not give a fuck about sex and focus on the rest. I think I'll land 7s and 8s 6 in month from now, according to my self-improvement plans.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 02:23 PM
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Yeah, I understand. Didn't take her panties off, just under the skirt and through it.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 02:21 PM
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French here. It's a whole. It's not only USA or canada... It's the whole occident. I'm pretty sure it's the same in Germany. Yeah, a lot of the guys I know are huge Betas. The only none betas I know are arabs guys that were raised in very traditional families. Guess why it works... So yeah, feminism is making its way in france too.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:53 PM
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Yeah, but it's not as good communication
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:44 PM
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Guys, gay or not, don't shittest you, not that I know. But gays might gaytest you in a way. Basically, they'll challenge you to see if the way you act change around them. That can go from uncomfortable conversations to getting a bit touchy/flirty. In a way, they try to see what kind of man you are, and if you're really secure about your sexuality. If they see a loophole, they might want to tease you a bit with it, unless it gets dangerous for them. But if you're a RP man, that souldn't bother yo…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:35 PM
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I've discovered TRP 2 month ago, but was already on a "i'll conquer myself" mindset since a few more... I got single 3 months ago, and have been grenade fishing since. Banged more chicks in those three months than in my entire life. Changes made ? I started working out about 8 month ago, started nofap 1 year ago, and basically working on myself and my social skills were the last pieces of work. Since a month or so I'm now focusing on the way I dress. But hey, you know the shit : confidence, fake…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:59 PM
1

As I said, hard to get more details. As soon as I decided not to care about what would happen, the problem wasn't mine anymore, and they were the one that had to deal with it, not me. So I didn't pay attention to any thing much. And surprisingly, shittest got pretty low when they both were there : you shittest when you want power over the other. I was out of hand, they were fighting each other (not directly, they barely spoke to each other). Be clear with your plates, and you don't have to deal …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:56 PM
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Yeah, I don't see where this is funny ? Dude, if you can get chicks, of course gays will want you. SMV doesn't only work with chicks, it's for everyone
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:54 PM
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Nah. Plate 1 didn't know my full name, and that gay guy discovered who I was the when I introduced myself with it. Then he told plate 2.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:53 PM
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You got the height and the financial situation right. I'm around 70kg, but working out so it catchs up... I'd take those 30kg of muscles though
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:56 PM
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Meh, probably. I'm not saying it was perfect, I basically don't give a damn about it right now. You'll never be totally in control of an interaction. She didn't put me in her frame because I refused to get in it : she presented it to me, and I ignored it. You're right, avoiding her other fucks is to be avoided. Now the question I ask you is : when it happens, what do you do ?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:46 PM
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Okay, I'll try and add what I can think off... Trick is : I don't really remember a lot of what we talked about. I really just let things go their way, only talked to tease one or the other...
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 02:43 PM
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As I said, she talked about it, I pretty much didn't give a damn and let the topic die. I think it was some kind of a shit test : "that guy was SO awesome" : I don't care, I'm me, i'll fuck you as I want to fuck you, and I'll fuck you good. Don't worry, you'll compare the next one to me. But hey, I'm no bragger, and I'm not playing her game, so I let her talk and change subject. "some guys really don't know how to deal with women". Yeah, whatever, you don't get to take me down with your shit, an…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:27 PM
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That's what I though, yeah. She's getting nothing more than my cock, that's clear. What makes me think is that I might seem to be BB material, which isn't probably the best way to go. I' might have to be a bit more cocky on my messages, but using an online dating app to get those girls, and being too cocky might scare them away. I don't mind waiting 2nd date before fucking, all girls don't sleep on 1st. We'll see...
/r/askTRP31/12/14 01:32 PM
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This, and the comments, are really interesting conversation. That's where we get to the core of TRP : it's not pick-up-artist palace, it's getting to understand relationships with women by getting to know your true self. So yeah, as other said : no matter if you're looking for plates or LTR, theory still applies, you just look for different responses to your approaches.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 01:23 PM
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That's great news, hope it goes on for you !
/r/askTRP31/12/14 09:29 AM
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Read The Sex God Method, it explains pretty well what god sex is. Being a technical expert wont make you a sex god. It's more of a combination of dominance and emotion, to sum up... On my road to alphaness, i've discovered myself being much more dominant and assertive in bed, and i've to tell chicks respond well to it. So... Yeah, work on yourself, sex will naturally become better.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 09:25 AM
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If you're looking for a great man figure, try Suits, Harvey Specters knows his shit.
/r/becomeaman31/12/14 08:44 AM
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Could be true, but remember that you can't force any truth down anyone throat : if the man doesn't want to change, nor TRP or your pastor will make them change.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:29 PM
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If the only manipulation you see in this world is femcentric, you are pretty blind, sir. It's just a portion of the whole manipulative shit everyone is trying to push down your throat. Open your eyes wider.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 01:30 PM
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I can't freaking wait for this shit to come out. They say 2017...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:12 PM
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If I don't know him and some steering contest starts, I'll just incline my head in an acknowleding way. It shows respect, yet doesn't make you backup. Real alpha will simply acknowledge you back, and go back to their own shit. Betas will either look down, or try to piss you off. Either way, they are betas, you know how to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:27 PM
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Just put you ego so high that no word can hit it, would you ? Reacting to other people word is giving power to them, and you don't want that. Don't get pissed of in reaction to what people say, be pissed of in reaction of what people do.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:18 PM
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Yeah, dude, being an adult is not about getting offended when you're being insulted. It's not giving a fuck about it because you know they are just words that don't impact you. I should be able to call you a stupid-fat-fuck-cock-blocked-son of a bitch that eats to forget what a miserable piece of shit he is and you shouldn't react. You know why ? Because I'm some nobody who don't know you and has no clue to judge you. Wtf, man, you just reacted to some guy on the internet, what would it be IRL ?…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:16 PM
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I decided to stop smoking entirely. I've got too much to loose going down that slope again. But I don't care if other people smoke : I go my own way. I act like a goober/lose confidence become super self conscious. That might mean you need to strenghen who you are deep inside yourself : it takes time to change the core. When I drink, my will not to smoke or to mantain my cool is weakened. So I force myself to reinforce it while drunk : maybe does it reinforce who you are closer to the core ? Try…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:08 PM
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Don't outshine the master, but it doesn't mean you have to stop. Your comments are valuable to her, and makes her job easier, therefor your are her ally in this. Don't criticize her EVER in front of the other, but go talk to her appart when she needs advice. She'll appreciate and soon you'll officially become her right hand.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:15 AM
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Different lives, different objectives.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:46 AM
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I could fap from 20 min to an hour a day a year ago. Now I don't fap anymore at all. Yeah, I got plenty of time on my hands ;)
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:43 AM
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Well I can't tell for the others, but as far as I'm concerned, I'm way more detached and more outcome independent about whether I get sex or not. It might be a package, and nofap is just a part of it, but it sure helped. Plus, it does release a lot of time and energy that you can spend improving yourself and working on your mission. Finally, the sexual frustration that sometime can come, combined with a certain selfcontrol, will make you way more cocky when it comes to playing. The guy that does…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:28 PM
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NoFap is a way to get to control your sexual urges, therefor, by mastering them, you take that power away from women. It's possible to acheive that control without nofap, but nofap is a great school doing so.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 11:29 AM
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A woman never want advice. A woman want to be listened, to feel emotionaly connected. Women want hugs.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:40 PM
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If your woman is complaining, she doesn't want advice. She wants presence. Show that you listen, then hug her. You can then ask her "What are you going to do about it", and whatever she answer, you can deal with "Whatever you do, I'll support you the best that I can". Then you get a blowjob for being such a comprehensive boyfriend. Not much job to do being a good listener, actually.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:40 PM
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Even your own mom. And to your sisters. And man, the look of proudness in the eyes of your mom when you get all red pill in front of her : "OWH MY GAOD MY SON IS SUCH A HOT GUY I'M SO PROUD OF HIM" Priceless
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 10:33 AM
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"The greatest battle are those you win over yourself" If you're struggling at containing your urges, you're weak and should start working on that.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 03:51 PM
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You had it coming. One does not simply turn a plate into a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 03:38 PM
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That's a lesson you'll have to learn : you will always be lonely. Even when you're surrounded with people, you're alone on your ship. Learn to be happy on your own.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 08:49 AM
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Whenever that happens, by 27 or 37, you want to have become that guy. This says it all. Just because it works now, doesn't mean you shouldn't work on yourself. And working on yourself will have her work on herself, to stay good enough for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:35 PM
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Play with their guns, start and online petition and make it sign by all the guys you see hitting the gym. Equality, bitches. And go whine like those little girls :3
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:23 PM
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I still play a bit. Something like 2 or 3 hours a week, a bit more on week-end. But way less than before, and I do a lot more stuff aside. I enjoy it, it's a good distraction, but it's a hobbie : my life doesn't revolve around it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:13 AM
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Christmas gift to all of us ! This is going to be so much fun ! pulls out popcorn
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 05:06 PM
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This topic is so refreshing... Thanks OP !
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:17 PM
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Now why did you get down voted ? That's some smart thing you're saying here. I think traditional mariage can work. Just don't marry some occidental cunt. Go get you wife in south-america or in lebanon. Classic values here.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:20 PM
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It does feel good reading this and cutting the crap out from all those fembashing.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:19 PM
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Just eject from your country and go work for another rising civilisation, like China or Russia. Fuck USA & Europe, they're lost anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 09:49 AM
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Pro-tip : lifting and building muscles will naturaly get you to have this posture, if you do it right. Plus it freaking confortable to sit that way, with all your muscles just naturaly holding your manliness together. Great post, OP. Might have needed a link to a "body langage" introduction course. ;)
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:02 PM
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Sorry for you loss, man... Life is a bitch, I really hope you'll find her again...
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 03:13 PM
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A man once said : "No real man exists until he has known the loss of the woman he loved". Nice story, bro.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:53 PM
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Yourself answering my post in a defensless posture is yourself finding yet another excuses. Doesn't matter. Build yourself on those shelves you wrote, you'll take them off one day, when you'll be strong enought :)
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 08:43 PM
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Yeah well... My real friends just became my friends the second I talked to them. Directly. Other than that, it takes work to get someone to be your friend. Basically, I can't. Either it clics, or it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 04:01 PM
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That's exactly the same for me. I just don't give a fuck about them. If it doesn't directly "clic", socialising is a pain in the ass, and tires me a lot. Sociopath is the term. Learn to be happy on your own, I guess... You'll cross other sociopaths on your way.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:37 PM
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That's bullshit : social pressure won't stand long once you learn not to give a damn about what other people think. Selfdiscipline works way better than any external motivation.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:44 AM
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By telling about your goals to people, you give them the power to crush them. And they will. Keep. Your goal. To yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:44 AM
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Thanks, sir. The butthurt in this thread was trough the roof. OP should stop seeking excuses for his own failures. Bringing people down (male or female) is a beta attitude. Work on yourself. Stop giving shit about chicks. And the fact that OP posted such a long post about them pretty much tells that they still are the center of his universe. Pedestal, eh :D
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:37 AM
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Thanks for your answer. Can an hobby be "to decompress" as would meditation be ? (Damn, seems like I'm looking for excuses...)
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 02:40 PM
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Yeah... Guess we won't agree on that one. Happens.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:53 PM
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If your success depends on others, then you are the one doing it wrong, and you'll never be happy.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 12:43 PM
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The central question was basically : are all hobbies supposed to bring something to the table or are they time off ?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 11:35 AM
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Yeah, but "Hobbies" are supposed to have you take a break, right ? Weed doesn't bring anything to the table either. That's my question : should hobbies always brind something to the table ? Can't they be limited time you allow yourself to waist to let your brain/body rest from all other activities ? I'm not talking about some kind of nolife hobbie, but something you manage, as the rest. Frank Underwood plays CoD, does that bring him anything ? No. But it helps him rest, and that brings something…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 11:06 AM
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How are recreations suppoesd to fit in the role model ? I mean I can get it if I like drawing, it could go like "Developping my drawing skills to be able to create visual worlds like Disney", but... what about Video-games, if that's a hobbie I want to pick ? Or about going out with friends ? One might pick smoking weed, what would that bring him ? Are hobbies supposed to be bringing you something, or are they real recreations - just a damn break?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:49 AM
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I must disagree with you, sir. You should not depend on society's judgment to feel good. You must not let other judge of wether you are successful or not, because that's giving other power over you. You are the only judge of your life, thus you should put aside judgement from people you don't care for. I recommand selecting a few people you know you trust the deepest to be some kind of the guardians of who you want to be, that would be there to remind you of who you want to be when you get lost …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:41 AM
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I laughed so hard
/r/askTRP19/11/14 03:26 PM
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"Im not a slut, i never fck on the first hour" And get ready to next that one.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 11:24 AM
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Basically, you have what it takes to become a sociopath, because you don't bond emotionnaly to people. Use this at your advantage : develop personnaly, and use what you learn to evolve professionnaly.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 02:20 PM
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You need to read this, OP : www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/
/r/askTRP18/11/14 01:40 PM
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She already touched you through this mail, and by getting your mind to think on her, you're giving her time she doesn't deserve. Delete the damn mail, and next her as soon as you got your things back.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 05:02 PM
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"I don't think I need to defend, explain, or apologize for what I do with my time, period, and particularly not during work hours. I'm completely willing to help out with housework and such, and regularly do, but on my terms and at my discretion, based on what I think needs my time and energy." That's what you should have told her, then you should have hold frame for the storm to pass, until she comes back tail between legs.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 04:48 PM
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Frank isn't alpha. He's sigma. He evolves in another dimension, and doesn't need to bond to alpha-beta-omegas' rules. He just plays the powergame, and is a goddam good player.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:28 PM
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You're not asking this question to the good people, OP. Actually, these "good people" won't answer you, because they are not waiting for you to play the Game. All those answers above or below me are probably written by real Alphas, that get social interactions, that bound emotionaly to people, that have a group of friend or followers. But they don't see the big picture. The "Game" they are playing is not the Game. They're just about manipulating chicks to get laid, thus using Gametalk. They're g…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:39 AM
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I haven't met her BF, neither have I met her BGF, she just talked about it, and I cut it out. She gave me an advice and I clearly told her I didn't need it, so I did call her out. But it might be my fault as English is not my native language, I light fail at passing some subtilities. I'll tell you more once I fucked her.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 03:29 PM
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As long as I enjoy it, who cares ? ;)
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:25 PM
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That's one hell of a plan ! Good job here sir !
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:10 AM
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It could help other to get to where they fit, and hadn't the chance of reading Gervais theory.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:03 PM
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But the weakness of being solo is that you have no protection when fighting against an alpha and his followers. Basically, the sigma will just give no fuck about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:50 PM
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Thanks for clarifying things. I probably have just started a vocabulary (thus useless) debate.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:47 PM
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Then there is a difference between an alpha, and the alpha of a group, witch is not necessiraly alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:24 PM
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Tell her to go fuck herself. Hold it for 3 or 4 month, get money appart, find a place you can live on your own. Then, leave without telling her, preferably when there is a TON of work to do in the flat. Have fun watching her deal with her shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:02 PM
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"13. I promise to let the past be the past. I will not ask about your ex and I will not talk about mine unless you ask." Talk about a double standard...
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:55 PM
1

I just pass on these chicks. Not worth my time : i'm the one shopping, she doesn't get to choose what client will buy her.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:38 AM
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Damn that is a manipulative bitch, but she knows what she aims for. All beta will just pass it on, but... Fuck, a real alpha wont buy this bullshit, I mean : she's selling herself way too much, it clearly states a lack of confidence and a selfawareness of her lowering SMV : she's getting panicked, but still want to find a read mate. I wouldn't touch her with a stick.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:35 AM
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I'm a nofapper of 10 month. My goal is to get to 1 year. Then I suppose i'll allow myself fapping, but not porn. Although porn is the main problem, it's not the only thing nofap is about. Nofap will teach you selfdiscipline. And nofap will grant you great sexual energy, and some kind of sexual pressure that'll push you like hell to get those chicks. Nofap is a great school, but one day every leaves school. ;)
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:53 PM
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Your Open-bag technique works so well because the girl helps you, and so thinks she must like you a bit, seen she likes you. Same thing as asking help to someone that doesn't like you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:45 PM
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Great boy, great... Stay firm on your positions, stay an independent man, accept what she offers you, and offer her what you WANT to give her. You'll do great, see you on /r/relationships ;)
/r/seduction31/10/14 10:35 AM
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I've got this idea for a street opener. Go to the girl and say : "excuse me, I'm looking for eer...". Then look around as if you were about to ask for a place. Don't wait too long then add "for a reason to come talk to you, do you have one?" And then, just go on with classics questions... Haven't tried it yet, because I'm not comfortable with going great to girls in the street yet, but thought I would share. Feel free to give it a shot.
/r/seduction28/10/14 03:58 PM
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Lol, that end.
/r/seduction26/10/14 10:41 PM
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I'm in the same mood as you. Well bars don't bother me, but it really depends on which, and I hate clubs. Basically just go in coffees on afternoons, chicks are out and not really expecting to get hit on so... As long as they are sitting, you can go for it. Else, they probably are running from a place to the other and won't have time for you. Still, just pick bars according to your kind of personality, you'll find girl of your style.
/r/seduction26/10/14 09:00 AM
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"let me teach you" Then, teach her.
/r/seduction22/10/14 01:46 PM
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When approaching a girl, the question is not what YOU should talk about, but what your should make HER talk about. Ask questions you're interested in, listen to her answer. Basically, just let her do the work. Being silent is a mark of confidence. Bonus : read "How to win friend" by Dale Carnegie & "Great art of small talk" by Debra Fine. Those will change your life.
/r/seduction22/09/14 12:11 PM
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First, read that book : http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/93409.The_Fine_Art_of_Small_Talk One chapter a day, apply what you learned in that chapter to the day. At least once. Then, read : http://www.amazon.fr/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671027034 Same thing, try to apply each chapter, one chapter per day. Apply this to EVERYONE you meet : guys, girls, old, young, the bathroom lady, that campus gard or this teacher. Practicing will make you learn like hell. In a month, you'll have gain…
/r/seduction22/09/14 11:42 AM
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You need little "game" to get laid if you're already awesome. This is so... true. If you swallow the RedPill, the advice your mother gave you ("Just be yourself") will work. Because being yourself will be better than 90% of other guys. Thanks mom, you could have given me the complete advice.
/r/askTRP
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You're either a joke or a troll. Either way, you're funny as hell. Lurk more, you've got such a long road to do.
/r/askTRP
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Hahaha man thanks for the laugh! So alpha, much macho, wow
/r/askTRP
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Yeah... Yeah sure man, whatever you say. I'll let you the grunt and leaving your chick assburned while I enjoy my time knowing I did my job fucking her good and not giving a damn about the rest of the world.
/r/askTRP
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Chat with some girls, and make sure she can see it. When she puts it out, ask her how it's different of what she does. Her reaction will help you evaluate where you stand.
/r/askTRP
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Grow a pair, text her "we won't be seing each other again", then delete and full block.
/r/askTRP
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1+ year nofapper here. That testosterone pic is something you can really feel, and it basically feels like hornyness. It happens to me once in a while when I don't get to see my plates. What did nofap bring me ? 1/ Selfcontrol. Sexual urge are among the most difficult to control. Learn to control them, and you can control any urge of your body. 2/Energy. You don't imagine the energy fapping takes away from you. I mean, you just start doing things because your mind isn't numbed by those dopamine …
/r/askTRP
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She is on her period, she won't cheat unless she's some weird creep. You might check what kind of clothes she takes, but I see nothing to worry about right here. Either you give too little info...
/r/askTRP
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