Erukpt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I honestly don't get why I got friendzoned The thing is you are feeling hurt, because you feel rejected and humiliated. As hard it is, it doesn't mean you have done something wrong. You don't know what she has in mind. The best is to forget her (I know it's hard) a'd to move on. I always give to myself one week.	/r/seduction	22/05/21 10:08 PM
2	I honestly don't get why I got friendzoned Who said a woman is interested in men because they have good qualities or get dressed well. They are interested, because they can see you as a sexual partner. How was the interaction with her ? Have you showed yourself as needy ?	/r/seduction	22/05/21 09:58 PM
1	How do you manage to pay attention to the pupils when you’re talking? ?	/r/seduction	29/04/21 10:32 PM
1	How do you manage to pay attention to the pupils when you’re talking? Which post ?	/r/seduction	29/04/21 10:31 PM
2	How do you manage to pay attention to the pupils when you’re talking? I can read micro expression, then I can see it But actually it depends on multi factor. Interpretation are really hard. It depends on people, tireness, light, fear, pleasure... I don't know i just notice when it has to. It cachés my attention. Actually, it just shows pleasure. But pleasure for what, you will never know. Body expression in general is better	/r/seduction	29/04/21 09:24 PM
1	How many dates do you go on a week? Quality or quantity ? Quality meetings are the best for sure.	/r/seduction	24/04/21 08:55 PM
6	Stop trying to avoid rejection Completely agree. I don't like this kind of patronizing "don't be scare by rejection". To be rejected is considered as 1 of the 5th psychological hurt. But when you have a good self-esteem, a good confidence, a good resilience skills, then rejection is not hard to cope. I will say more, people who are scared of rejection are people who doesn't know how to cope rejection.	/r/seduction	11/04/21 09:08 AM
9	How to be good at sex She has to take thé responsability of her pleasure. First preliminary : make her cul with your finger or cuni Second : penetration. Océan motion when you shagg. Also let her come on the top of you. So she can control her orgasme. And sex starts before bedroom. Try to find her 'buttons'	/r/seduction	06/04/21 04:59 AM
11	How Do You Not Get Emotionally Attached? That's impossible. Actually that doesn't mean anything. Emotions are just here to tell you how your attachement feels. If you don't have emotions, well that's a huge problem.	/r/seduction	05/04/21 09:22 PM
1	she is too nervous too meet.. Hard to tell. But what it is right is she is wasting your time.	/r/seduction	27/03/21 12:00 PM
12	Just have fun and stop overthinking it When people says :" stop over thinking and have fun", it means they have understood nothing. When people overthought, they are anxious. So it's really difficult to get fun. They need to build first a confident environment, in order to perceive a stimulation as an excitement instead of a stress.	/r/seduction	17/03/21 07:27 AM
4	Dates priority is to having fun not to get to know each other(because is foundation to start a friendship or relationship). Thoughts on this hypothesis what do you mean by screening her personality ?	/r/seduction	15/03/21 08:48 AM
1	What people actually mean when they say "work on yourself" Too anxious. Work on yourself ;)	/r/seduction	23/02/21 11:39 AM
1	[deleted by user] Emotional approach, you connect with your emotion, like laughing, smiling, you share the emotions. There are more a question of 'let it go' The cold approach you are more detached, and you awake the emotion in the other person's body, without living it. There is more a questions of 'control'	/r/seduction	22/02/21 02:00 PM
4	[deleted by user] I prefer emotional approach. Cold approach is too distant and rational	/r/seduction	22/02/21 01:07 AM
3	How to differentiate platonic interest vs romantic interest? Just say : " hey it will be nice to catch you sometimes outside the gym!" and see how she reacts. If she empathises it "oh yeah what a good idea!", If she reacts engaged in this offer, just ask her phone number to get a coffee. if she says : "why not", "I don't know", leave it	/r/seduction	22/02/21 01:06 AM
23	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? It feels like you are not really attracted by her new behavior. So it's really hard to find a game when we are not anymore attracted. I think you are searching too much to stimulate her, but is she stimulating you? It looks she isn't... You are putting too much value on her instead of your connection The attention is brought too much on her. You need to balance it more. Bring back stuff to you, focus on yourself. Stop make too many compliments to her, or change what's you are complimenting.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 02:35 AM
67	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? Is she lacking depth in your conversation? Have you tried to make dumb jokes to see how she reacts? I had a girl like that, really pretty, but empty for me....	/r/seduction	17/02/21 01:54 AM
1	How far can you see a girl, and tell she is pretty? How long to my knees	/r/seduction	01/02/21 09:54 AM
2	[deleted by user] Yeah I'm sorry mate. I know it's really hurtful. That means you are not emotionally autonomous and you still need to be attached to someone to feel stand. My advice, first of all, cut everything you have from her. Memories, objects, letters, pictures put them in a box, and put it far away. Then you need to contruct yourself. People are not looking to wait for you. They will their life and they expect you to do the same. And if you don't, this is YOUR problem, not their. So you need to stand up, …	/r/seduction	31/01/21 03:02 PM
2	Guy (24 y/o) always mentions that he is talking to multiple girls He wants to reassure himself, saying he has lots of value and if you reject him, he won't be hurt, because he has 'thousands' girls on his side. He is clearly showing an insecurity and he is really anxious. You have 4 choices : Ignore it, but this is not working anymore. Making fun of his behavior to let him understand this is irrelevant to talk to you in this manner Talk with him explicitely about it. Ask him more details why he's saying that with you, and that's turning you off. And if he's re…	/r/seduction	07/01/21 08:23 AM
1	Should I be worried or is everything okay? Wrong reddit. Ask on r/askseddit	/r/seduction	05/01/21 08:34 AM
1	How do I tell a girl I haven't had sex in four years Does it make you anxious?	/r/seduction	24/12/20 12:29 PM
3	What makes a natural a natural? I know a shy guy becoming an alpha after 10 years of work and training.	/r/seduction	21/12/20 04:38 PM
6	What makes a natural a natural? A natural was not gifted, but he learnt the good techniques. What make them natural? Really easy. It's automatic for them. He doesn't think when he does something, he just needs to feel. All the process is made unconsciously. Everything comes automatically after learning by trial/success/fail. Obviously a natural had more success than fail. Some are better to learn efficiently.	/r/seduction	21/12/20 04:14 PM
4	Is there a simple way to not view women as better than you? I can't help it no matter how hard I try. Don't think negatively. You are scared. When you will find your fear, and will be able to name it, you will be safer. Are you scared of being rejected? Lose value?	/r/seduction	21/12/20 12:16 AM
4	Sex and Intimacy Don't put yourself down. That's the reason why you don't find someone.	/r/seduction	20/12/20 12:11 PM
3	What to do when a girl you’ve dated ghosts you? I'm in the same position right now. And I'm wondering how to move on. There is one thing I know : if she's really into you, you shall not be confused Edit : always wondering what I miss. I think I'm filling her time	/r/seduction	02/12/20 07:48 PM
1	What do guys prefer? Easy or difficult? If easy means that every men can seduce her, not my interest. If hard means you have to put a strategy to seduce her, not my interest. So I need to get a sincere relationship in which I can engage demanding feelings.	/r/seduction	02/12/20 04:39 PM
3	She let me down easily but still flirts, what should I do? And the problem with moving on is I am very picky and it takes me like 2 years to find someone I actually like bc I get turned off by almost everything. Then she is not the problem	/r/seduction	08/11/20 12:12 AM
24	Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her? Yeap that happened. This idealisation of pretty women. Like to be pretty is a high value. But what is valuable is the quality of contact and of a relationship.	/r/seduction	01/11/20 04:37 AM
1	My thinking interfers too much with my feelings. What can I do ? Good one. Thanks	/r/seduction	23/10/20 04:23 PM
1	My texting game is terrible... I guess you are making some mistakes. Do you have any screenshots?	/r/seduction	18/10/20 09:06 PM
1	How to get girls to approach you? Be confident and successful, spread positive and exciting energy around you... That's called charisma	/r/seduction	18/10/20 02:59 AM
1	[deleted by user] Which problem?	/r/seduction	13/10/20 02:56 PM
1	[deleted by user] Yeap. Disgust. Disappointment	/r/seduction	13/10/20 02:41 PM
1	Question for guys who have slept with a lot of beautiful women. Nothing to do with physics, but with confidence	/r/seduction	03/10/20 02:52 AM
2	[deleted by user] That's really good bro ' keep it on! Well done. That's a good start I feel like I need to be more impulsive and just embrace the embarrassment and uncomfortable nature of the situation. Well I think you are scared to feel rejected, which can be hurtful. Try to think some rejection you could face, and how you can handle it or cope it. That may help in your action.	/r/seduction	26/09/20 11:56 AM
2	How to deal with lost of interest ? Who knows? Too much pressure...	/r/seduction	24/09/20 05:37 AM
-4	How can I stop being nervous around the men I find good looking? Have THE talk with your father little girl	/r/seduction	06/09/20 01:52 AM
12	Why are american women so picky? What’s the cause of this? Not only American, every woman. Because they give birth.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 09:57 PM
2	How do you handle a very extroverted woman Best advice. Thank you	/r/seduction	11/08/20 10:37 PM