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Escochapo18/r/seduction13/09/19 11:32 PM
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Escochapo18/r/seduction18/09/19 05:13 PM
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Good move getting the number. If I was you I would not ask her out off that bat. Just text her something along the lines of how short lived the chat was. She’s clearly interested as she gave you her number. Then just ask if she’s like to meet up for a coffee or something.
/r/seduction10/10/19 07:41 PM
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Well it’s happened. So you need to really understand this and just move on. Sorry to break it to you but if it did go as well as you thought, she would’ve messaged.
/r/seduction29/09/19 08:01 AM
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Just a few assumptions but maybe she’s realised you’re not her type after the date or has a boyfriend. Either way don’t get to caught up in it, there are plenty more women out there and I’m sure if she’s interested she will get back to you.
/r/seduction29/09/19 07:55 AM
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Leave it as it is buddy. You don’t want to come across as needy. If she’s still interested, she will text. But from the looks of it. I don’t think she will.
/r/seduction29/09/19 07:51 AM
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What I would advise is take some time out and make the time about you and set some goals for yourself in what you want to achieve or do. The. Start improving yourself. I know this is going to sound harsh and please don’t take it personally, but, women cheat for a reason and you may of missed something, but now is the opportunity to come back strong.
/r/seduction29/09/19 07:35 AM
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Coffee shops are usually a good place. You will get a mixed range of women who are either working or studying in there.
/r/seduction25/09/19 10:12 PM
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Negging was brilliant. I liked the way you put higher value on yourself and made her feel like she had to do more to get your attention. I liked the initial conversation about her drink and the Harry Potter stuff was good. Overall, well done. Might need to use your bar routine.
/r/seduction23/09/19 02:51 AM
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She is seriously hot buddy. After reading how it’s all playing out, It seems as though she’s given you many indicators of interest and for whatever reasons you’ve not managed to notice them. She possibly could’ve lost interest in you for now, so if I was you, when you see her again just focus on her fully throughout the night, but approach it in a way where you’re having fun and build that chemistry from scratch again, don’t go in straight with any moves and this time at the end of the day/night…
/r/seduction23/09/19 02:31 AM
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Start with a kiss and everything else will just come with the flow. I wouldn’t overthink it buddy.
/r/seduction21/09/19 12:19 PM
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I’d recommend Saw (the first one)
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:35 PM
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Interested to learn why you think masterbation is the cause?
/r/seduction17/09/19 06:45 AM
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I started with a good base and “The Game” by Neil Strauss was perfect. There’s only so many books you can read, and The Game was perfect to help me understand things. After a while I did tweak things and then just rolled with it. There’s is no miracle book or video out there that will make you more effective, it may give you a better understanding, but the rest is with you and what you do in the moment.
/r/seduction16/09/19 11:18 AM
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Well said buddy. Totally agree.
/r/seduction14/09/19 01:31 PM
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No problem.
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:21 AM
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Best tip I can give you moving forward is never come across as needy. Always keep a higher value. I’d definitely text her back and just think of something funny to say about why you messaged her on the app, so that you’ve got that covered and then in regards to meeting up, just say that sounds like a plan and then let her be. If she’s interested she will message you when she’s off, but then if you want you can message her again, if you do message her, don’t mention the date, just ask her about h…
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:10 AM
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Bit weird considering you have her number buddy. Sometimes there’s no need to overthink things.
/r/seduction14/09/19 06:59 AM
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That’s another thing, I recently saw her FB and she has been going on many holidays with him and they seem to be happy together, from what I can see. It’s sad because it happens a lot more now then I can ever remember, especially with the hook up culture. How many girls and guys meet each other and do all the things you would do in a relationship, yet have no defined or even spoken of relationship.
/r/seduction14/09/19 05:06 AM
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Totally agree, especially with the last paragraph. That was another reason why I didn’t want to meet up more regularly. if she’s meeting me, then she must be meeting others as well, so I’m just another guy for her. When I asked her about her BF, she said that she has had a lot of time vested in him, she knows his family and they love her, so the thought of ever leaving him never crossed her mind. For me it opened my eyes and told me a lot about how modern relationships are and as a guy, how bein…
/r/seduction14/09/19 04:55 AM
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Sorry, to answer the boyfriend part, I never really had any interest so the boyfriend bit went over my head, and then when I started having interest, the boyfriend bit never crossed my mind as she would openly behave as a single girl with me and never mentioned her bf again.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:47 PM
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Throughout the period we met for drinks, it was just for a casual chat and uni work related, and you’re right after a while I probably did see it as a challenge, but i just found it strange initially as I never showed her any interest. It’s funny but she played the PUA on me. She would suggest meeting for drinks, she would think of ways to get me alone and all I was thinking of was my work. Then after a while I guess I did start paying more attention.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:43 PM
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From the sounds of it, it looks definitely like it’s related to your past and having that stigma attached to sex. So, it understandable that you feel this way. I definitely think it’s something which you should talk about with your partner or someone else you can confide in. Also, if anything just stop thinking about it and enjoy the experience.
/r/seduction13/09/19 05:33 AM
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Looks do give you a bigger chance to pull, but I also believe it’s how you carry yourself as well. If you have both, then yes, you’re pulling left, right and centre.
/r/seduction12/09/19 09:11 PM
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Probably one of the best reads I’ve had in a long time. Thank you soo much. I’m working through a few anxiety issues and reading your 5 points has helped a lot. I like how you embrace your anxieties and just push ahead. Well done and thank you once again.
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:15 PM
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She said she was busy, so that could include her going out with her mates. If I was you, keep an open mind and don’t text for a few days and then just send something random, not related to a date or anything. You’ve made your intentions clear, leave the ball in her court and in the meantime, there are plenty of other women you can move on to.
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:08 PM
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The Game by Neil Strauss is definitely not outdated, it’s a brilliant foundation for you to work. If anything, I would recommend looking at Ross Jefferies work (Speed Seduction) it’s brilliant and should be enough for you to build on.
/r/seduction10/09/19 05:42 PM
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