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SMV is directly correlated with sexual attractivness. Sexual attractivness is more related to confidence and experience than anything. Older men are more experienced. Just read women (honest) answers on what attract them here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/dcg8fe/since_everyone_on_this_sub_male_and_female_is_too/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 02:49 PM
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Most women are cowards then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:59 PM
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"I can describe someone accurately, sexual attractiveness included, from just a few words. No I'm clearly not projecting". You're full of shit babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 08:45 PM
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Either you know OP's BF IRL or you're autisticly projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 08:13 PM
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Agreed, posting pictures of yourself isn't narcissistic. It's just seeking validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:55 PM
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A tard can be sexually attractive sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 05:40 PM
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Yes, I think it's particularly relevant for men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:30 PM
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Alpha has everything to do with sexual attractiveness Good girl! You deserve an internet point. I don't understand how you can compare your friends with OP's BF though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:15 PM
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it's hard to have any real power to stop that from happening. That's because you can't. Women are human beings, you can't nor should control them. Even if you could, what would be the value of such a relationship? The only thing you can control is yourself, what you achieve and what you think. Focus on that brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:08 PM
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If you equate being RP to being a shitty old fashionned trad you got it wrong. RP is about understanding differences between men and women. When used right RP is a powerful tool for men to adapt to the way society has changed. I'm personally glad women are now equal to men legally and socially, that's just fair. Many shitty dudes have gone to TRP to whine because their traditional model is dying, they now have to work to be of value instead of having a system do that for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 03:01 PM
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I work out, I am an amateur rally pilot and I am aiming for an acedemician slot on my universty. Hobbies / sports are essential and it looks like you have a mission. Go for it. But still someday I will want children and I just dont know how to get that point, trusting a women enough to marry. You're not at that point, don't overthink this and focus on improving and enjoying your life for you now. Achieve stuff and try new activities (judo, salsa, scuba diving etc.). Don't marry though, marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:53 PM
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Being "Alpha" has nothing to do with having principles / not cheating. Nor being beta. It's called not being shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:41 PM
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I used to have trust issues. Working on being the best version of myself solved that because now I don't need my GF to be happy. Are you actively working on improving your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:32 PM
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That's female nature for you. Be a man of value and your women will have no reason to cheat on you. Except if she's broken, but not a big loss then. Men are hapless innocent victims naive and lazy most of the time That's more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:29 PM
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For me being "Red Pilled" means understanding and internalizing key differences between men and women, and discarding both the blank slate BS and the women are wonderful effect. It certainly doesn't mean being an asshole or a mysogynistic cunt, even though many "Red Pilled" men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:19 PM
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It's a well known tenet within TRP that the most successful LTRs need to involve a mix of 'alpha' sexual traits and 'beta' provisioning traits. Most women deep down know that, even if they won't acknowledge it. Beta traits = "he's not a selfish/mysoginistic asshole", alpha traits = chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 11:17 AM
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While the RP way of viewing the world has helped me quite a lot (coming from a feminist familly) mysoginistic BS like this is a huge turn off to me. I would really like to have some kind of RPlite where you could get the good stuff without the terrible stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:19 AM
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But wait until you get married and settle down. Never settle down or your wife / LTR will become bored of you at some point. That's men's burden of performance. Embrace it or be miserable is my take away from this whole RP thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:06 AM
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It's ok sweetheart, you can let your frustration go out I'll be there for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:43 PM
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I can say the same about women. You know why? Because that's human, both men and women can do that to people who lack self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:02 PM
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A lot of men cant conceptualize any body of thought or movement that doesnt benefit them collectively or individually. I'm equally amazed at how shocked and scandalized some are by the fact that feminism doesn't bend over backwards to help them. WHY AREN'T FEMINISTS DOING ANYTHING ABOUT X MEN'S ISSUE?? This is oversimplistic and kind of insulting. These men believe in equality and genuinely care (or used to) about women issues, probably because they grew up in a feminist familly (single mother, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:05 PM
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How would you describe a male unicorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 11:41 AM
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What is strange about my claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:46 AM
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I'm not blaming these guys for being naive, but they should talk about that / ask advices to men not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 08:30 AM
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This is ridiculous. If that was the case people in islamic countries wouldn't stone women to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:57 AM
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Yeah I don't get why these guys want to talk about this with women. If you let people (women) take advantage of you, they (women) will take advantage of you. People (women) can (will) be shitty if you let them get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:00 PM
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That's my nice chad experience. Making a women cum isn't that hard (technically speaking).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:59 PM
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I will dear girl gamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:37 AM
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Good sex for women is merely related to the performed acts, it mostly comes down to how the man makes them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:05 AM
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Incels are applying RP principles. Consistent =/= easy to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:42 AM
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This is a monologue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:43 AM
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Ah I see you're a christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:01 PM
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"Best" and "available" are two important keywords here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 10:00 PM
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Do you believe men are naturally monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:57 PM
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Men are physically superior. Women bear children. Women choose the best man available. That's what RP is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 09:39 PM
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Jesus christ there is no biological anything. Not that I'm personally a fan of TRP, but do you truly believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:04 PM
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Why doesn't it make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:47 AM
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Womens lives do centre around men by default. Mens lives centre around women by default. Those are called creeps and psychos. Why are you making such a post on PPD then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:26 PM
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That might be true. What about their own quality though? Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:23 PM
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Tell that to people who've been attacked. Certainly not UMC. Anyway "feeling protected" is more suitable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 07:19 PM
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But then I would expect my girl to protect me from strangers. Being a man means way more than money / yardwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:21 PM
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Cool cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:14 PM
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"If you cook and clean for your husband, then you 100% has never gotten an orgasm! Just like me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:12 PM
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Your comments show the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:10 PM
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But somehow the Twitter post in the OP or the comment you responded to does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:57 PM
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That's what I would expect PC people to say if someone said they like to put barbed wires into their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:51 PM
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How about what he brings to her life as a person? Being in a relationship / married with someone isn't just about money / doing house chores etc. Those who list what their SO do or doesn't do compared to them should seriously reconsider either why they do this or why they are still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:43 PM
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Like what the fuck does never having had an orgasm [...] have to do with anything. Taking care of your husband = being in an unhappy marriage / unfullfilling sexual relationship. Which is dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:33 PM
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The vast majority is making fun of her / her husband though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:30 PM
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Other people think easier = easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:47 PM
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It's not sexist, it's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:48 PM
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My bad, seems like we're on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 07:58 PM
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Not sure, in the negative feedback loop of your example, if anything the man sex drive increases because of lack of (meaningful) sex and frustration. He just can't get what he wants. Men and women are wired differently when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 07:31 PM
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Which is very different from sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:57 PM
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Ungrateful nagging usually represses the mans ability to show affection Affection but not sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:27 PM
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This also true for low self esteem women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 10:10 AM
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Why should they be banned if they respect the sub rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:58 PM
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Interesting. Do you have related ressources to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 02:54 PM
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So you're waiting for someone to come with proper papers to validate what you've experienced as an individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 12:57 AM
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Do you have any data to back up your initial comment then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 11:50 PM
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Ah I see. Why are you here then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 11:21 PM
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To be honest I'm against sharing everything in a LTR (married or not) because both can take advantage of the situation if they are shitty/broken enough. Here we are talking about female priviledge. Male priviledge exists too, but that's another topic. The thing is, some women will use their priviledge to take advantage of average good Joe. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 10:28 PM
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Your comment in on point. Women's priviledge comes down to two reasons which are linked biologically speaking : they are physically weaker. Who would expect the weak to defend the strong? they can bear children, which make them automatically more valuable than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:36 PM
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Which is often the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:21 PM
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According to what you said, either they are stupid or looking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:25 PM
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The good old natural selection. I'm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 10:10 PM
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Fair enough. What do you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:31 PM
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Racism doesn't affect me. Why care? Poverty doesn't affect me. Why care? Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:15 PM
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Eh it makes me sad too. Human society is kind of fucked up (we're animals after all), hopefully we can sort this out together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:58 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 07:16 PM
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Hasn't it always been the way to go for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:47 PM
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You hit the nail on the head here. What is your opinion on male disposability? It has always existed but it will obviously be way more prevalent now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:06 PM
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I see what you've done here and let me tell you I agree. Equality of rights is given in my opinion, but what about men place if they can't protect women (they still do however) and can't bear children? Complete equality is an utopy. Regressing regarding women rights is a terrible thing. What can we do to give men a purpose / place other than serve women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:56 PM
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I'll take my case as an example. I grew up in a feminist familly, which is like this because most men in this familly have failed one way or the other, while some women (my mother and my grand mother) have been the back bone of it. And I thank them for that. However they are not capable of properly raising men because their education will be tinted by their female perspective. For example, being capable of seducing as a man is seen as bad, a boy should be nice to others above all else etc. While…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:43 PM
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Appreciate the honesty, cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:13 PM
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But when it comes to Billy betas Relationship them >>>> fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:08 PM
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Fun with Chad. Security with Billy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:04 PM
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TLDR : sex is a currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:03 PM
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In my experience women will start with STR sex with proper LTR guys. If the dude isn't as "good" as she initially thought then sex quality and quantity will go down. It makes sense. A man who waits for sex when she used to fuck right and left is nothing but a wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:56 PM
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You are correct. That's why well adjusted men are sometimes seen as selfish by feminised men who grew up in a gynocentric familly (feminist mother, lack of proper father figure etc.). The issue with these men (Nice guys, incels etc.) is their lack of positive identity, partly because of how medias talk about men, partly because how they grew up. Working for yourself is something parents should teach their children more instead of teaching them to behave how others want you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:37 PM
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Correlation =/= causation. See http://www.tylervigen.com/spurious-correlations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:21 AM
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Is that surprising? It requires less efforts and less sexually stimulating if the woman is ugly / gross enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 05:02 PM
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Hot is different from confident. A "low" self esteem but attractive man will generally go for women way below his "league" (read what his league would be if he was more confident). Similarly average/ugly men can land hot women due to their high confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 04:53 PM
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Agreed. I would add that women aren't the only one to do things unconsciously. A man could be attracted to a woman but since she's already taken, he would just "decide" to be her friend and genuinely enjoy her as such without expecting anything. But then once she is "available" again the way he sees her changes and he realizes how attracted he is to her. She likes him if they are friends so why not try to upgrade the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:14 PM
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Is it though? That's her taste AFAIK.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 11:31 AM
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Reading comprehension isn't your cup of tea. Built into women's DNA to take the long view [...] collapse of society. Women are into alpha traits because of their DNA, not because they can see a potential collapse of society.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 10:51 AM
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These people (mostly men) are already suffering. The classic "just be yourself" isn't cutting it anymore. Society has changed and people have to adapt. They are not brainwashed by the way, they just aren't as lucky as you to be happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 08:13 PM
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Quoting a post below : My father is an alpha, a complete financial loser though. Which made my mother leave him and marry a rich man who took care of me. Alpha fucks beta bucks in its most pure form If you want a familly, Alpha bux is the way to go. Lots of alpha traits (for tingles and not getting shitted on) and a fair share of beta traits (money, status and reliability). Good vetting is a must though.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 06:44 PM
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You're giving women too much credit here, they are not thinking about the possible collapse of our society. It's much deeper, instinct based.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 06:35 PM
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How is this sub negatively impacting people? If we were talking about TRP then I would somewhat agree. Is it negatively impacting you? If you're happily married and debating here makes you feel worse, then I would suggest moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:17 PM
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You came here with the wrong mindset, like many others (deep blues and whinning incels for example). You're right that IRL / most people don't think about relationships like we do here, they just "feel" and go on with their life, happily or not. Just like most people don't think about their environment, the universe etc. With the right mindset, PPD is a place where you can learn a lot about human interaction, you just have to stop being defensive first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:03 PM
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What are you doing on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:29 PM
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Identifying potential causes is the first step. Some examples : not really working for you but to attract women (I've been guilty of that a lot) and women have a 6th sense for these things. not having enough / proper social interactions working for you in "poor" ways (collecting mangas etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:19 PM
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To add on top of your last point, being aware of the other being capable of X doesn't mean you have to be paranoïd (you shound't). It means you should not be naive and oblivious to red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:08 AM
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That's what TRP advocates for. Work for you, success with women is a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:00 AM
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Why would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 06:12 PM
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If I'm not mistaken here you're describing what affection makes you feel / want to do for them. But maybe my question wasn't very clear. How does someone earn your affection / love?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 05:38 PM
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Alright, now please define / provide examples of what affections means to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 05:03 PM
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Is age taken into account?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 05:00 PM
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Define what love is please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:54 PM
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Nature is what caused that Feminists like (need?) to think that humans are somehow different / way superior than other animals and therefore women "oppression" is only the result of men physical superiority and social conditioning (hence the patriarchy). You can't debate with them in good faith because it would shatter their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:52 PM
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What an enlighted comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:20 PM
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Toxic feminism is different from toxic feminity, but that's maybe typo. I'm not saying you said that, but you can hear both from different "feminists". Same applies for men and toxic masculinity. Do I think "toxic masculinity" exists? I think there are "toxic" behaviors which take different forms depending on gender / society etc. These behaviors are unfortunately fueled by their (relative) effectiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:14 PM
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There is no toxic feminity. Also, toxic feminity is the result of patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:58 PM
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C) has conquences in the long run. Now we witness lower numbers of young people in relationships, tomorrow we'll see high numbers of "old" people going to therapy / suicide because they feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:36 PM
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My bad, going through a rough night. By "This and that" I meant that your comment is very vague. Not a big deal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:24 PM
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Agreed with your firt sentence. Agreed with the second one as well. Being gifted IQ and physically means shit if you don't understand how humans / women works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:17 PM
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I expected no less from you, cheers dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:09 PM
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stupid attempt to make you detail your response more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:06 PM
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AFAIK chad is the guy who have "natural" avantages over other guys. An ugly guy who knows the game (and is succesful) is not a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:01 PM
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You don't know what Chad means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:51 PM
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This and that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:48 PM
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What kind of chicks are you going for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:39 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. It's not attractive to men so we can't understand your attraction. Man analysis : this guy is alpha as fuck because he really goes his own way. How long will it last is another man question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:29 PM
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No worries. You shouldn’t trust what you perceive as women’s pleasure anyway, because we always put on a show. I get that but I'm far from inexperienced though. I've never had issues with making women orgasm and always wondered how most men could be so bad at it. All my exs have praised me for being the best (sometimes by far) they've ever known. Maybe you'll think I'm exagerating but hey that's not something I can prove you easily. Anyway the few times I witnessed a "super orgasm", it was after…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:05 PM
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I wouldn't be that much offended, especially if she has a past with cheating exs. What would bother me though is to have to wait 6+ weeks to have sex with her again because STD test less than 6 week after risk aren't reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:49 PM
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I probably offended someone else by sharing my experiences then. Why are you so convinced it's fake? Is imagining something you never experienced impossible to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:44 PM
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I doubt you can fake goosebumps on your entire body. Anyway I won't try to convince you further since you've already made up your mind. Just curious, are you the one downvoting my comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:35 PM
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And I'm telling you I've seen it with my own eyes, last time with my current GF. As a female who actually experiences the female orgasm What's your point here? Also, do you think all women are exactly like you? AWALT confirmed? (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 03:30 PM
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Although, “can’t move after sex”.....sounds fake to me. Happened to me with two separate women. It's called super orgasm IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 03:15 PM
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I've often seen this used to discredit the alpha/beta dichotomy when in fact it's just not relevant at all to wolves. I'm not saying it's completely relevant to humans, but if you take a look at some monkey species (we're "evolved" monkeys after all) like gorillas, there are two "types" of males. Grey backs are alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:33 AM
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Crap you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:15 PM
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That's her blue pill : a fairy tale where things are black and white to benefit / back up her narrative. There is no constructive debate here, let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:08 PM
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This is her "matrix" dude, why would she want to burst her confortable bubble by looking at the bigger picture? Same thing with feminists who ignore / discard men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 11:45 AM
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Which translates to "be in the top 20%".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 11:37 AM
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Interesting, I've heard simular stories. How long have you been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 11:32 AM
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I've been guilty of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:11 AM
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So do I and many of my friends. That's why we're after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 09:56 AM
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Alright assuming you're not trolling, why do you think that? Do you believe women are inherently good/better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:52 AM
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You're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:59 PM
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You think you're rational but you're not and that's the problem. You probably met shitty dudes and there are plenty, but not all men are shit (same applies for women). Either you attract / interact with shitty men because you're shitty yourself or you have poor tastes and retarded expectations (same applies for misogynists).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:24 PM
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There no Truth sweetheart. There is definitely a ton of bitterness from damaged individuals though. But go on and keep rejecting the responsability of your own failure on others. That's what children do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:10 PM
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You forgot "and interested / attracted to an average chick who he treats like a princess"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:35 AM
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Ah the bitterness of inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 11:33 AM
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You are both really insecure yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:25 AM
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In my experience it's the opposite. If I love my GF less than she does (but not way less) then she is crazy attracted and the relationship is easy and fullfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:32 AM
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What is a proper gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 07:43 AM
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I don't understand the appeal of sex bots to be quite honest. It feels like this topic is more some kind of middle finger to women than a real solution to inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:40 AM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:54 PM
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1 year is still young for a relationship, if you can maintain this level of connection for several years then you've struck gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 11:42 AM
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How long have you been together? Do you live together?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 11:36 AM
1

Agreed. If he's defensive / acts butthurt then it's another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 03:59 PM
3

Yes you are and that's dishonest. Whatever floats your boat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 03:57 PM
3

You're putting words in my mouth poppy, not cool. Neither should be praised, but at least men who fuck a lot do more than being available.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:23 PM
7

Nice try poppy. A better example would be : if a weaker guy reaches / goes above the level of a stronger guy then he deserves to be praised more. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 12:46 PM
8

The "both can have sex therefore it's the same" is hilariously retarded. An equally stupid statement would be "both have fists and muscles so both can defend themselves equally". Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 12:42 PM
1

They will stop yeah but the man in question will lose status and look fragile / weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:54 AM
3

If a guy can't handle the banter he has at best a lower status and at worst no place in this particular group of friends which is basically disqualification.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 01:15 AM
3

Women aren't the only ones doing things for subcounscious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 12:54 AM
6

In my opinion men do in a certain, for example with banter which is some kind of shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 12:50 AM
2

Terms and conditions apply Of course there are, this is a prime example of female communication. Always read between lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 03:56 PM
1

Men can cry, but they should do so with confidence. Otherwise women will think you're a man child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 03:31 PM
1

good looking and confident FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 03:53 PM
6

But what about tingles then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:06 PM
1

What a joke. If your precious person doesn't have a "good man" then you probably doesn't deserve one. Self improvement works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:05 PM
2

Saving this for sure. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 11:37 AM
1

Diminushing returns are no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 11:31 AM
1

Yeah, we have a saying here which can be translated as : "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 10:35 AM
3

You're right. I'll work on respecting myself more instead of expecting her to respect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 10:32 AM
11

Ikr. We're having a big fight with my GF atm. She's really insecure sometimes, no big deal because I can handle it and tell her I love her and won't cheat on her. If I happen to be insecure even less than 5% than she is then she gets defensive and accuse me of being like that all the time. It drives me crazy to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 09:47 AM
2

I am not this kind of man but let me ask you. Are you proud of being easily manipulated because of how women work emotionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:48 AM
1

This is liberating to read, thanks. Any tips to help letting go these expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:40 AM
7

some TRP users are just louder. And to be honest these guys are just bitter and seek revenge on what hurts women the most : their look. I don't like them but they are just a vocal minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:23 AM
1

I know a blue mod here on PPD who used to go for 12 yo drunk girls and he hates TRP. There are shitty people / pedo everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:18 AM
7

Fair enough. Considering the majority of men are interested in women, how is that relevant to the OP or my comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:20 PM
4

That's kind of true but as far as I know most men are straight. Seriously though, what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:11 PM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:58 PM
1

Whatever floats your boat my dudette.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:49 PM
1

You're taking it too personaly unfortunately, I was hoping for a objective / not biased discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:44 PM
0

I do see a difference yes. One is based on a combination of history and geopolitics, the other on biology. My point was more about how your reasoning can be used to serve shitty purposes i.e. dismissing inequalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:36 PM
2

For example if you say black people are jealous for complaining about how white people have it better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:26 PM
4

Kind of yeah. You could say the same of any minority which doesn't have priviledge though (but that would make you a racist).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:18 PM
14

If my dad grants me an important position even if I don't have the skills does it matter? Sex matters to most men because they crave it and don't have it in abundance, it requires work / hard work to get it. I'm not slut shaming just explaining men POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:08 PM
3

Yeah hot women get away with almost anything but we already knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:58 PM
1

What is your sample size? What level of attractiveness do these women have? What is the n-count of the men in question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:54 PM
1

Because most people know it's seen as bad to judge other people sexual activities. Yet most men will have difficulties with / won't commit to high n-count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:49 PM
2

The main difference being that most women dont care so much if a man is high n count (within reason) whereas most men care if a girl is a slut. It's a difference in what each gender cares about as far as preferences. You're looking at consequences rather than causes here. It's way easier for women to get casual sex (good or not is a thing but still) compared to men. A women just have to be available (and not extremely unattractive) while a man has to have game / attractiveness / confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:40 PM
15

This and also how casual sex is easier to achieve for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:36 PM
1

And AFAIK you're a quite reasonable dude. A few days ago this guy also said that men and women all started their life with XX chromosomes and testosterone exposure in the womb turned XX to XY. I won't pay attention to what he says from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:44 PM
1

Tight pussies are for small dicks, what matters it to have compatible sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:45 AM
2

Define what love is please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:26 AM
2

Yeah no problems, text communication is always difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:42 AM
1

Imo it's more If a man needs a women to validate and fill his meaning directly / consciously then he fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:14 AM
1

I though you genuinely believed I was acting in bad faith just to disagree with that dude above. But your "I don't care" shows what your point was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 11:53 PM
1

Ah I see. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 11:43 PM
2

Agreed, this is some kind of "red pill" thought in the original meaning i.e. not a fairy tale but what the real world is. The real world isn't rainbows and sunshines unfortunately. You have to work to be happy and you have to trust yourself to trust others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 11:38 PM
1

Depends where you're from I guess, here in France it's seen as (very) bad to do that. At least if the guy left is a proper dude. The women I was talking about above lost several friends (her friends not his). Her familly will never abandon her but it has impacted how they see her. It has backfired already and will continu to do so when chad will realise she's a manipulative bitch. The job thing was more related to the fact that some women get jobs thanks / through their boyfriend, not very comon…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 08:56 PM
1

Agreed, but don't forget how social pressure may affect them (or maybe you did include it in opportunity). If she knows branch swinging will severly back fire (losing friends, familly esteem, a job etc.) then she will restrain from doing that. Édit : men are even more subject to this social pressure when branch swinging, that's why many imo don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 08:41 PM
1

That's what I thought. It's not a logical fallacy because I never said his whole post was wrong because of his initial statement, just that such a stupid statement at the beginning made me not willing to read further. Communication is a big deal, start with shit and no one will listen to you. For example, if I want to talk about relativity (even if I have relevant things to say) but start my speach by stating that the earth is flat then I have no credibility. Don't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 08:34 PM
3

He's a selfish idiot, props to you for not letting him manipulate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 08:23 PM
2

That question is really hard to answer, but I think it's one of the most important to have healthy relationship. Especially for people who aren't well ajusted psychologically due to their childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 06:06 PM
-1

Then this woman deserves respect for being an upright human being. Branch swinging is a coward move imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:25 PM
2

I never said it's always the case, I think it's somewhat rare and mostly happen while young. Imo it's different for men (not the same mechanism) but yeah some men still branch swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:17 PM
3

Agreed, but that's easier said than done. Emotions can really fuck your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 05:09 PM
11

Recently it happened to one of my best friend, who's a great guy. His GF of 4 years left for a chad she met at work and it all went south in a matter of weeks while they had a good relationship before that. She even told him a few weeks before leaving him that she wanted to spend her life and have children with him. So yes, some women can and will branch swing if they have the opportunity. Denying that is either delusional or dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:56 PM
5

Happened to me when I was younger. I fucked up (doormat, needy etc.) and I couldn't see that the relationship was doomed at that point because of my attitude. She still stayed with me for comfort until she met another guy who she could branchswing to. While I know what I did wrong and deserved to be left, I still feel like branch swinging like this is a coward / selfish move. If you're unhappy with a partner just break up, don't use the other as a springboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 04:50 PM
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I agree but there is an additional layer imo. During the decline / end of a relationship, men generally feel things are going south and that their women don't see them as positively as before. They then act needy / bitter etc. because they miss the indirect validation their SO use to give them. This generally ends up doing the opposite of what they want and further drive their women away because women can't validate a man they feel weak / needy. It leads to women feeling they are even more right…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 02:51 PM
1

Yep that's why I said RP and not TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 10:47 PM
1

Very few tbh, but I enjoy reading what's posted on this sub. Even if I'm blue as hell due to my childhood, I find myself agreeing way more with RP people than BP ones, be it because of what they say but more importantly how they say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 09:48 PM
7

Strawmaning / exagerating what others said is the worst way to debate anything. That's what you've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 09:07 PM
6

Fuck off with your insecurities, you don't know me or my GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:33 PM
2

Then there is nothing to back up your OP except your opinion. See? The thing is I didn't disagree with you completely. You just can't see the bigger picture, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:12 PM
3

Beta = confort / security / trust etc. Important for a LTR but not enough for a good LTR. That's why TRP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:07 PM
6

Are you here to get comfort / security from dudes? If yes grow a thicker skin or move on. The guy you responded to couldn't be more right. Men who go to TRP don't need to be more beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:50 PM
2

It's missing in the manosphere because most if not all guys there are already good at doing that. Hence why they end up in TRP duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:41 PM
11

It's crazy how it changes a woman. Until you see it you can't understand women sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:38 PM
21

I'm a nice chad, can confirm I get less sex / not that good sex from my GF if I care too much about her / validate her constantly. If I care more about myself / enforce boundaries then I get tingles sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:31 PM
4

Bingo. My current GF is easy scared and would not talk to many men unless she's sure she is safe. She jumped on me without knowing me much just because I'm fairly attractive (both look and status wise). What matters is how they imagine you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:23 PM
1

What do you mean? Not a native speaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:08 PM
5

From the very beginning, we are all female to begin with (XX chromosome) and some with exposure of testosterone etc become male (XY chromosome) Masculinity is by no means a "default" state, it is attained. This is as false as saying the earth is flat and consequently your post loses all credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 09:37 AM
1

It sure isn't as easy as some men think. That said, what are you expecting men to do / say regarding this? It's like incels expecting women to empathise / acknowledge that dating is hard for low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:57 PM
2

man up bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:10 PM
1

And they aren't reliable either, unless you're a natural dom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:00 PM
0

Agreed, but the alternative isn't prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:59 PM
3

She's talking about girth not lenght duh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:52 PM
1

Teach them to vet properly i.e. security > tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 01:58 PM
2

There is nothing more disgusting than a weak / unattractive man trying to improve cheat because he is unhappy about his life right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 11:37 AM
9

Like most women/BP here. In their head RP = bitter incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 11:29 AM
1

What would you say lead to you cheating on him? Not fullfilling relationship, very hot rando, little empathy toward him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:14 PM
2

Agreed, but since I'm a man I don't pretend knowing better than women what they should / shouldn't do and judge how easy or not their side is. Both sexes have pros and cons. Young men are certainly too insecure, but I would only tolerate a man telling me to man up because he knows what it takes to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:08 PM
3

I can agree with that. Dating back then was different though because men had status just for being men so rejection was easier to handle. My point was just about how it sounds condescending from you to say millenials are weak for being afraid of rejection when you haven't experienced what it is to be in their shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:22 PM
3

What don't you agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:57 PM
1

So your bf never found out? Are you still together?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:52 PM
7

No but it sounds hypocritical from someone who've never been on the other side of the fence. Also, things have changed a lot since you were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:50 PM
7

You've ever been a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:33 PM
5

You're not wrong but coming from you it gives the same vibe as a SAHM who never worked giving advices on how to have a successful career.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:28 PM
3

What happened after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:29 PM
1

That's what being gifted means for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 06:05 PM
11

Yeah I'm beginning to think these bloops are severly retarded or only here to circlejerk on incel stuff. AFAIK TRP is strongly against getting married in the first place and advocates spining plates. Fuck hot women and never commit. Yet we have these ridiculous posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:50 PM
12

Exactly. Women expect to be equal regarding work, house chores, child care etc. (which makes sense) but still expect men to protect / take care of them both physically and emotionally while not doing the same thing for them. Equality works both ways, if not that's just more privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:43 PM
1

This guy is a troll right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:02 PM
1

You're probably right, good genes resulting in a nice looking face and body helped me a lot despite huge familly flaws. If I wasn't that lucky I would 100% be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:59 AM
2

I disagree, I had a shitty self esteem (regarding women) almost my whole life due to the environnement I grew up in, I improved over time and now it is not even comparable. Maybe I'm an outlier though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:50 AM
1

Nah it's all good we're here to discuss this kind of things anyway. IME good sex depends both on your abilities and the way you behave. Being gifted at making women orgasm isn't enough, you have to have the right attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:45 AM
1

Status and good genes means little if you lack self esteem though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:40 AM
2

Having sex and having good sex is not the same thing ime. Most dead bedrooms relationships started with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:37 AM
1

Because women (here) don't want a man child.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 12:33 AM
1

That's some extreme exageration. No one wants a hollow shell. All I'm saying is (moderate) (genuine) vulnerabity is attractive to men. If you need a good woman to make you feel secure at any time then you have better bring a lot of quality to the table.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 12:32 AM
1

Makes sense, he is a doormat basically though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:23 AM
2

Hopefully you're not an ugly overweight lady. Othewise you're screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:42 PM
0

So you want a doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:41 PM
1

What about sex though? It's one of the most important factor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:40 PM
1

Agreed, what does the *"yes man" caricature* means though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:38 PM
1

I agreed, what he descrides is a (rich) beta, not a high beta. IMO a high beta is an alpha potential who has a lot of beta traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:35 PM
1

A low alpha is a for example a succesful drug dealer / gangster, who can generate tingles in low value value / broken women because of his IDGAF attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:31 PM
3

That's what a high beta is. He could be an alpha but he's not selfish enough to be one. Or not self sufficient enough, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:27 PM
3

I exagerated it a bit I reckon, but that's basically what your comment means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:37 PM
2

> you're still saying "chase after someone who doesn't like you." No, read again and please stop putting words in my mouth that's dishonest. Asking and answering these question helps you decide if she is worth it while also improving yourself / removing the annoying part of your behavior. There are plenty of fish yeah, however if you get rejected often by people you're attracted to, then it's time to question yourself instead of playing the number game or hoping for a unicorn to show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:28 PM
5

Now you're projecting your own insecurities. There are more than one alternative, things aren't generally black or white. OP should work on him / his self esteem / the way he sees relationship in order to stop being needy and increase his attractiveness. Ask yourself questions like "Ok if I give too much it leads to poor results, why am I doing this in the first place, is that to try to make her love me more? Why do I need her love so badly? What would be a good balance, give enough but not too …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:13 PM
1

Is that TT from bulgarian dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:05 PM
1

Always be sligthly less invested in the relationship than your GF is is the secret formula. Of course you shouldn't be a fat man child who plays video games all day and is a porn addict, but that's obvious right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:31 PM
7

"Just be yourself, if she doesn't like you she just isn't the ONE." Classic shitty blue pill advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:26 PM
9

Could it be linked to the fact that women generally don't enjoy seeing their man vulnerable / weak emotionnaly and therefore think men feel the same? And yeah I'm a dude and I 100% agree with vulnerability boosting my investment in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 09:19 AM
3

Yes, I would add it's more than one dimensional and it somewhat depends on the culture / society. People seeing it as binary (both blue and red) are either dishonest or stupid. Or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 12:16 PM
1

"Les rivières pourpres 2"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:01 PM
1

I suppose what they want is a naturally hot guy who doesn't really care about being validated physically (or at all). A guy who uses "tricks" like make up etc. is basically cheating in their eyes, and consequently a lower value male.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 02:11 PM
6

Women are cowards. They approache only if they are certain they have chance and the prize is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:36 AM
2

You kind of described me, lucky me for having great genes. I would be an incel if I wasn't physically gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 10:42 PM
3

The boy becomes a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 10:36 PM
2

Many women (including my current GF) did with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:07 PM
4

Agreed. A better analogy would be an attractive man giving way less comfort / security / affection to his current SO than to his previous (shittier) GFs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:23 PM
0

Yeah that's really simple. A man fucks a lot of women because he is high value, not the other way around. I think this is what confuses a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:44 AM
10

"Don't listen to what women say, look at what they do" I would like to see poppy looking at her husband having a conversation with an attractive and sexy dressed woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 11:55 PM
1

Your comparison is bad and you know it. There is an obvious difference between an error from a third party and cheating + lying on such a matter from someone you're married with. You're either a misandrist or really stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 07:37 PM
1

How do you define morally wrong? Also, there is difference between saying cheating is wrong and not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 07:57 PM
1

Have you ever considered therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 10:47 AM
3

This post is tagged Q4M, you have to post under the automod. I didn't know out of the picture meant being cheated on, lied to for more than a decade and finding out your children aren't yours. The misandry is strong in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 10:35 AM
1

That's not only a matter of permission from the father / child, a judge has to specifically authorize it. More information : https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9lf4ct/society_mocks_beta_males_who_refuse_to_raise_the/e77tuhc The official site has been modified recently though (12/05) so it's now shorter / less detailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 09:14 AM
3

Where I come from TRP would be considered as women hating non sense. I'm grateful toward TRP for opening my blue eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:55 PM
1

I use to be blue because I grew up in a "feminist" family, I consider myself purple atm. Real life experiences and no empathy from women brought me where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:51 PM
0

What do you mean my south american brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:29 PM
13

At that point I'm convinced only men can empathize with other men, but to a lower extend than how women empathize with each other. Take care brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:54 PM
2

Fair enough. Seeking revenge especially toward children is a wrong move IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:50 PM
1

Aren't you the guy who said women are perfect in a recent thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:23 PM
2

While we are not as religious as the US, cheating is still considered a very shitty behavior. We are not as depraved as some people think. For example we don't have the fuck fest that college is in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:59 PM
3

As long as you don't get caught yes. However you can't use the results for anything except to decide if you should leave your wife / GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:46 PM
1

If you are caught with either a test or the results of a test you can go to jail. That's a shame IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:07 PM
7

r/relationship and r/relationship_advice are two different animals. The former is clearly misandrist/always shows double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:38 PM
8

If you can forgive that then more power to you. I for sure couldn't. But yeah I would not be able to abandon the children either. It would fuck me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:33 PM
3

But wouldn't you lose your parenting rights in that case? And would you have to pay for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:28 PM
8

I do live in France haha. Merde
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:25 PM
34

In France the official reason is to "protect the familly" which means protecting everybody but the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:24 PM
11

Lucky you for not leaving in France, here paternity tests are forbidden and you can end up in jail for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:21 PM
2

Men are far from perfect and I had to point that out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:45 PM
1

Yeah but OP is serious right? Or am I oblivious here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:44 PM
3

What should I try dear Peter?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:07 AM
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Complaining is for sure unproductive and somewhat childish. So yeah I certainly agree with the title. The body of your post however is rubbish. Women are perfect? Dude you're a special kind of delusional. No one is perfect. Some are better than others regarding certain things, which might be appreciated (or not) by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:03 AM
1

How does that invalidate my previous statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 08:25 PM
3

A children would say the same about his/her parents. More seriously, why do you react on such ridiculous threads? Why are you on PPD in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:32 PM
1

Couldn't agree more. If research is funded with private funds then it's none of my business, but in my opinion there are way more important issues (global warming, human rights etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:26 PM
1

Correct, the only difference is how active/passive are men/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 06:30 PM
1

If they don't meet a man hot enough then they won't think about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 05:52 PM
0

Certainly not, did I sound like I was implying the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 05:22 PM
1

Yeah they are delusional, similarly to some feminists who believe men and women would be the same if society wasn't so patriarcal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 01:26 PM
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AFAIK they defend the gender/sex dichotomy which I have no issue with. A biological man will never be able to be pregnant though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 12:51 PM
3

Fear of getting caught and having to take responsability, and most importantly a guy hot enough to cheat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:54 AM
1

OP we need an update.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:48 AM
2

A man will eventually become a woman. Minus the ability to produce babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:47 AM
1

I advise readers to look at the comments on the thread linked above, most are way more accurate than the OP itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:38 AM
1

If you want that well paying job, you just have to be competent for that job. Simple right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:10 PM
0

It's amazing how people can resort to fucked up mental gymnastics instead of saying "ah maybe you're right, I'll think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:05 PM
1

Not really mon garçon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 10:03 AM
4

They care about how good you make them feel. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 11:48 PM
1

Similarly, the amount of abusive husbands is what %? Should we stop considering that also?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:46 PM
1

Female validation, affection and sex. I used to be pathetically needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 01:52 PM
3

Some women have particularly strong taste (and so do men) which can make it difficult to enjoy depending on your experience with CL. My GF tastes pretty neutral and my attraction to her definitely plays a big role in us enjoy it. But I have not so good memories about some of my exs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 01:44 PM
4

Yeah this is retarded and dismiss the fact that people have different tastes / sensibilities. How dare people be different than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 01:39 PM
1

I definitely prefer small boobs to large boobs. Face attractiveness is by far my main criteria, a fit body comes second but is still way less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 01:30 PM
2

Being a couple without being married. Why do you need to sign a contract to love each other and properly raise kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 01:03 PM
2

Agreed, confident normal man >>> needy / not confident awesome looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 07:06 PM
1

I can confirm that's not true. If you lack confidence with women you're fucked unless your SMP is way higher than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 07:04 PM
1

I traveled quite a bit when I grew up thanks to my parents and movies helped a lot, but ultimately it's mostly due to my job (automotive engineer doing a PhD while working).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:02 PM
1

Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 09:35 PM
3

He is the master of strawmen, conciously or not. Every time someone diverts from / disagree with an aspect of the BP ideology, he's automatically a "RPer" and he will exagerate / assume you're a shitty person. It's exhausting and defeats the whole purpose of this sub imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 07:41 PM
2

It's a trap!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 06:02 PM
2

"But you shouldn't care about external validation!" No shit, yet we all do. That's like saying "But you should have a strong self esteem!" Humans need validation / appreciation to build a proper self esteem. Men / Women ways to get / do that are different, but still share many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:41 PM
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That's understandable. What about your SO though? It's good if he thinks you're hitting on him right? My GF rarely complements me even though she's crazy attracted to me, as if she is willing to regulate the amount of validation she's giving me. She knows I care about validation but she will not provide any if I have a "needy vibe". If I don't really care then she'll give me plenty, which sounds a bit ridiculous to me. On the other hand I validate her a lot when she needs it and she really appre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:31 PM
5

I know several women who have never masturbated, or at least that's what they told me. So who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:19 PM
4

Good point. If she's a good enough actress then you can't do anything about it. Her fault for not being able to communicate / being dishonest. However if a guy haven't witnessed any "true" female orgasm ever, he won't be able to distinguish fake from genuine and won't have any incentive to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:16 PM
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Do you brag about it though? My GF keep saying I'm a god in the bed, but if I say "yeah I know" she's pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:11 PM
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Agreed, I might not fully realize how shitty the situation is in the US. Here in France, while finding a proper job is far from an easy task, we have almost free education and health care. t takes free time to meet and vet a partner and maintain a relationship with them. You don't have to look for someone, you can just be open to people you meet naturally though work, school, friends etc. Additionnally, having relationship experience helps a lot with vetting. I can't imagine someone with little …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:22 PM
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The whole student loan situation in the US is a real shame tbh, I can understand how it affects stress levels etc. But IMO a proper relationship can (should) help regarding that. anxiety over whether or not we'll ever occupy the kind of place in society we've dreamed of isn't the most potent aphrodisiac. It's still stressful as all getout to be a young person in the present economic climate. Most people will never end up anywhere close to what they've dreamed for several reasons (overestimation …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:11 PM
4

So if I understand this correctly, it means most feminists are internalized misogynists right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 01:54 PM
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To me it feels like you're just not much into relationship / sex and you value your career / money way more, which is fine. I don't think that's case for a majority of women though. Bonus question : how would you describe your parents relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 11:46 AM
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AWALT confirmed by a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:30 PM
3

Even better when you have no choice but to fight once in a while. A broken nose is not a big deal right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 12:10 AM
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I feel like people here keep confusing TRP as a sub and what being truly red pilled means. Sure the sub is full of desperate guys trying to "improve" because they feel like shit, but imo a proper RP isn't complaining about the state of the SMP because he's actually taking advantage of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 03:27 PM
2

Agreed, I also think that their reaction is actually a major cause of their lack of success, some kind of vicious circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:29 PM
1

Alright thanks, but you'll agree that relationship sex is way easier to obtain for low value / low self esteem men so it's not completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:08 PM
1

My bad, thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:51 PM
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Maybe I'm understanding celibate wrong (not a native speaker). Does that mean no sex ever? One guy could have fucked once in a high school party with a drunk whale, if he's 28 and hasn't had sex since that on time, I would still consider him an incel because he is most likely in a similar emotional state.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:49 PM
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Which is mostly security / comfort. That's why some average women claim to dislike "hot" guys and prefer more average looking / ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:36 PM
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FYI incel doesn't mean virgin. It means not being able to have a relationship. Edit : my bad, see my answer to Mercedes for clarifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 11:39 AM
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Haha chill, no need to be upset like that. I was just pointing out that saying hot people aren't (looking) interesting is as ridiculous as saying ugly people are always interesting. It's oversimplistic and dishonnest, and gives a strong vibe of mental gymnastics. It's okay to be more attracted toward less hot guys if it makes you feel better about yourself / more secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:46 AM
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Well being hot doesn't equate being boring or not unique, just like the opposite isn't true : ugly people aren't always interesting and unique. Either you haven't met any hot interesting person or you're generalizing in order to feel more unique / interesting yourself as a non hot person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:26 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Because I wanted to be the hot(ish) one in the relationship. Isn't it a bit narcissistic though? Or is that more related to having the upper hand / being more in control of the relationship? I'm not being judgemental, I'm myself guilty of the latter with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 04:09 PM
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I actually don't even like super hot guys. Why do you think that tough? It feels like it comes down to insecurity but I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:50 PM
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I grew up in a feminist familly and was very "respectful" of women during sex. Several told me how they love being dominated, choked and taken almost by force. Of course not with every man (read only by a perceived high value man). I was shocked initially, but I've had some crazy hot sex that way since then and it changed how I see women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 07:42 PM
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I think OP is an example of a woman who's afraid to be submissive to a man because he might end up being abuse. But that's because OP has bad vetting skills regarding men. Being submissive (out of respect) to a man can be great if the man deserves it, but it can be nightmare if the guy is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 06:17 PM
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This sub really interests me and I read PPD threads daily. I would like to participate (more) but being a non native speaker with average english skills, I find it difficult to express my POV without it looking childish / stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 11:28 AM
2

Not working is different than doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:21 PM
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If she doesn't want to fuck you (anymore), then it's a matter of time before the LTR crashes and burns. Being and remaining (sexually) attractive is one of the most important thing to do in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:41 AM
1

Please share which academic portal and which keywords you used.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 12:00 PM
2

I'm a judo black belt, in France if someone tries to beat me up and I end up hurting them I can go to jail. The same applies for professional boxers. Using such skills are considered the same as using a knife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 08:49 AM
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Be the top of what she can reasonnably get. Blue pill men often aim (consciously or not) for insecure women though, who tend to value security / confort above all else. Which they are happy to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:29 PM
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Luckily things aren't binary in life so there is a sweet spot combination of A / B for every man. In any case, a proper frame is needed if you want to have proper sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 12:44 PM
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And here we are with this shitty conversation. I have my share of responsability but man you didn't even try. Isn't this sub more than fighting each other? Perhaps straw man wasn't the proper word (not a native speaker) but your first comment was a huge exageration. Don't do that dude I agree with you though, attractive / confident guys are repulsed by insecurity, partly because they don't need his GF insecurity to feel more secured and don't know themselves how it feels like to be insecure, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 05:21 PM
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Dude you've reading comprehension issues. I never said such thing, I was just reminding you the obvious. Regarding why it's more a turn off for women : because men usually provide security to women, not the other way around. Simple really. I said men can so it doesn't apply to every man. Of course not all of them do. I know plenty who does as long as it's not too much and the GF hotness / personnality etc. make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 02:13 PM
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Everyone has insecurities about one thing or another in life. Some more than others. And some people have qualities to make up for this. I'm obviously not talking about crazy levels of insecurity, but I guess you had to straw man to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 01:22 PM
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However it is way more a turn off for women than men. Insecurity can be cute for a man if he can manage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:47 AM
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Yup every man knows it's better to not fuck at all rather than fuck too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:48 PM
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TL;DR
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 12:36 PM
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Neither men nor women can feel "true love" because it doesn't exist. We have a different definition of it. In then end, love is defined by how the other person makes you feel. OP is delusionnal if she thinks women love men for who they are. If a man become weak for whatever reason (job, health etc.) he'll most likely experience e decrease in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 08:08 AM
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It confirmed a few core RP ideas regarding succesful relationships. It also revealed me women generally have little to no empathy toward men relationship wise and aren't really interested in understanding what it is to be a man. That being said, I'm disapointed by the behavior of a large part of PPD posters which prefer to dismiss, troll and / or mock instead of having a proper discussion with the goal of improving / helping each others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:31 AM
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The thing is, humans have always been cruel and most still are. Cruelty has always come from a lack of empathy toward the victim, generally because they don't share something in common, be it skin color, culture, social status or gender etc. While feminism has reduced cruelty levels from men toward women thanks to improved awareness and empathy (and also the natural tendancie of men to be kind with women) there is still a long way to go to reduce cruelty toward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:14 AM
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That's probably because you can't see the bigger picture, like most women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:04 AM
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Where did I say that? No really, quote me. I reckon I was a bit strawnmanning here, my bad. Yeah, duh. Agree / disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:33 PM
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You said "OP's husband". It is obviously directed at me. Not a native speaker so I guess the misunderstanding stems from that. I was refering to you yes, it doesn't mean I'm interested in discussing this with you. You are ultimately basing this on the assumption that I treat act similarly on and off PPD. I mean like most of us here? What's even the point in playing such an obnoxious role if in the end it doesn't reflect who you are / what you think. Rhetorical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:24 PM
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I wasn't refering to empathy toward people on PPD but rather toward men in your life. I also never implied you should give a fuck about qualities people here may or may not have. I don't know why you pulled that from your ass, I guess it was a pathetic attempt to win this argument. Also my comment wasn't directed at you, I couldn't care less about what you think since you're clearly a delusional and bitter cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:43 PM
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In France, you can't prove that unless a judge authorizes it. There have been many cases where the paternity test was refused just to protect the child (and the mother) at the expense of the man. Source : I'm french Edit : On top of this, if you purchase an "illegal" test online or possess "illegal" paternity results, you can be fined up to 15k € (mean salary in France is about 20k € before taxes) and 1 year of jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:20 PM
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I remember a similar post and I corrected them. See below. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/95mg2q/why_do_many_people_mostly_women_not_seem_to/e3uj8ma/?context=3 Edit : More sources (in french again, I can translate if need be) https://www.santemagazine.fr/sante/droits-demarches/pourquoi-les-tests-de-paternite-sont-ils-interdits-en-france-172914 https://www.testdepaternite.fr/site_faq/test-de-paternite-interdit-france-non/ France in one of the rare country where you can be fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:46 PM
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Says it's very (too) easy for women to have sex, which means a woman with high N count has little merit other than not being completely ugly and being able to spread her legs Says that it's demonizing female sexuality to have little respect for women with high N counts You're a special kind of delusional. Men have to work way more than women in order to get sex. That's why a man who fucks a lot of women is perceived as a "winner", because he most likely has what it takes to achieve such a number…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:31 PM
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Agreed. That's exactly why women are "shamed" for having high N counts while men aren't. Funnily some women aren't able to understand such an obvious difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:10 PM
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Yet that's exactly how incels / low value men etc. are treated by women. They don't give a shit about their humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:32 AM
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These women have little to no empathy toward men, yet they expect it from them. Men should be strong, caring, comprehensive, generous and attractive but if they feel bad about something they're loosers and get less support / affection / sex because of their weakness. OP's husband is nothing but an asset, which will be discarded at a point if he's not strong enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:16 AM
1

Good boy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:42 PM
1

You could rape men. No one cares as long as they are not family members etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:39 PM
2

Please tell me what I do believe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:44 PM
6

Can it melt steel beams though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:51 AM
1

That was hard to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 04:11 PM
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Question : why do feel the need to behave like that? Do you think it helps people understand you? The point of this sub is to share views / ideas with others, not to fight like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:48 PM
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Reading this reminded me american cops are really not the kind of cops you want to deal with. Good for you though, here in France they're a bunch of cowards and you can't count on them to defend you. Getting suckerpunched has litteraly no consequences (unless you're a woman), better stay on your toes.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 11:30 AM
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Not really, it has to be validated by a judge in a few very specific scenarii. Outside of that it's illegal. Source (in french) : https://www.service-public.fr/particuliers/vosdroits/F14042
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:54 PM
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IME it's especially true for women. Mystery plays a big part in women's attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 11:43 AM
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In what part of the world do you leave if that's not too much to ask? Also regarding the other comment below, I'm French and while yes there is some feminist bullshit here, the situation is better here than where you come from / in the US. At least for smart guys for took the pill.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 10:32 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:43 PM
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I was comparing straight vs gay, not saying they like gay men a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:40 AM
1

Well I think it's difficult to say who has the hardest time because it impacts children on different levels, but I king of agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:39 AM
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IME they like gay men more than straigth men. Not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:19 AM
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And on the other hand, men rarely seek advices from strangers (and even close friends) for relarionship issues. Something related to being proud no matter what, which is a shame because it hinders their potential improvment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:16 AM
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Women definitely can't understand men. Many guys get married because of social pressure or in order to not loose their GF. These guys think getting married is a way to improve their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:36 AM
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Speaking from experience, having a big dick requires you to be extra careful and always pay attention to feedback in order to not hurt. But according to my exs and my GF a well mastered big dick leads to the best sex (but anal can be a literal pain in the ass) At the end of the day, a man who's good in bed is the one capable of understanding women's body and adaptating to their feedback / bodylanguage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 02:15 PM
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Being a non native speaker, I may not fully understand what you mean. In western countries (i.e. NA and EU) being white is clearly an advantage but I won't tackle this question because it's off topic. Let's keep it simple : in such countries, a mediocre white man is more disposable than a white 'equally' mediocre woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:32 PM
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Agreed. A mediocre man is considered more disposable than a mediocre woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:08 AM
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Men see children as burden This is the most stupid stereotypical shit I've read in a while. You don't know what you're talking about and probably generalize from a miserable experience of your own. Your credibility has dropped to 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:50 PM
1

FYI it's Joie de vivre
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:17 PM
0

You just proved that women are unable to understand men. If you're basing your opinion on what you read on reddit, maybe you should turn off your computer and experience what the real world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:27 PM
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Amen. Some people are so blind it's painful to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 11:23 PM
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Because attractive doesn't mean being shallow or constantly seeking validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 06:06 PM
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While I agree it can't disapear just like that, I think it can be mitigated to a reasonable degree through education and emotional awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:34 PM
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I don't see young men in relationships letting their girlfriend/wife walk all over them and then the woman divorcing/breaking up with him because she's bored with him. I've seen that quite a few time actually, but to be fair those guys weren't really aware of how women emotionnaly function (very few does though). Note that I live in France, where strereotypes are less strong than in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:56 AM
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Quit strawmaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 11:34 PM
2

Women ask up in value when they ask a man out. That's what happened with my current GF. It worked out great because I lack self esteem, even if it's not obvious to others. Edit : I'm french not american, felt it was worth mentionning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 04:17 PM
1

Thanks for sharing. I'm curious about your never lonely experience, how often have you stopped an exclusive relationship to start another with someone who you felt better with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 07:55 PM
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Props for being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 05:18 PM
1

Because he wanted advices / explanations regarding his sister's behavior? Isn't it obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:47 PM
1

Because he wanted advices / explanation regarding his sister behavior? Isn't that obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:28 PM
1

Looks like it's a shit test, nothing more.
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