So I'm of the opinion that the grand majority of the people you are attracted to are just not worth your time, whether you're male or female. I personally would like a cute little bookish girl that isn't afraid to stand up for herself and not be a child, who is sincere and faithful.

We all have our opinions on what the other gender is like in a majority, and if you are still looking for a partner then that means you think it's worth the search. So what matters is not debating (nobody can change anybody's minds on here anyways) but actually taking action. That and improving yourself in the ways you are supposed to (but you should already know that).

This is, I'll admit, a selfish desire to find out more about where to look for someone I want that also wants me. But at the same time, hopefully we can help as many people as possible.

So what am I talking about? Well, where to find the person you want. Both in the literal sense and what you need to become in order to get there.

Book clubs? Sport teams? Hobbies, blah blah blah. I don't really know where to start this. I guess tell me the type of person you want? Then I guess this'll grow into a bigger conversation