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DiscussionMostlyMute/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 03:07 AM
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MostlyMute/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:55 AM
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I don’t know where I stand on these issues, but very interesting stuff OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:02 PM
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So I should ask my husband for a paternity test...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:53 PM
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What are you implying here? That it’s possible that my hypothetical husband is cheating on me or that he wasn’t a virgin when we got married? 🤔🤨 Either way, it’s a bit off-topic. Sorry about all that betrayal though. That’s rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:35 PM
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Jeez lady. Based off your reaction, I feel like you’re the type of person who would cheat out of spite. Enjoy your games. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:01 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:56 PM
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Well.., this isn’t about your perspective. You are not a part of this hypothetical beyond posing the question. It’s about me and my husband who would know me and who has had years of me showing him who I am. This is simply my truthful reaction to the scenario you placed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:39 PM
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Uhh, it would definitely knock me a few steps back. I’d do it for his peace of mind, but a part of me might always resent him for doubting me like that. I could very well lose my attraction to him and start questioning his fidelity if that’s where his mind is at... It may be an overreaction, but my word is my bond, and if my partner doesn’t know how trustworthy and loyal I am, then it would completely shatter my perceptions of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:23 PM
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It’s both— speaking as the female version of this. Guess I’m sad and boring 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 10:18 PM
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I was having major anxiety about my road trip to visit my boyfriend, (because I have ptsd after a car accident). Anyway, he offered to drive 4 hours, pick me up, take me back, and then another 8 hour round trip once the visit was over. Needless to say, I felt very loved and it gave me the strength to overcome the challenge myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:05 PM
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Yeah, you’re definitely getting your revenge on us by removing yourself from the dating pool. Keep up the good work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:22 AM
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You’re entitled to your opinions. No one cares that you go your own way. You do you, boo boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 01:16 AM
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I busted out laughing when I read that.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/19 12:02 AM
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That was embarrassing to watch.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/19 11:37 PM
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I’m not even sure what s/he’s talking about. Are fish supposed to be women and the fishermen red pill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:30 PM
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My environment is a pretty good indication of my mental state, actually. If it’s gotten out of control, it could be because I’m busy and things are feeling chaotic, or depressed and I stop giving a shit. I do feel much better with a clean, spartan home and that’s usually how it stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:07 PM
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I think speculating over if you’ll ever feel different (and possibly questioning if it will even be worth it?) is a form of procrastination/self-sabotage. I recommend just focusing on reaching your goal, and if mindset is still an issue, address it. Until then, you don’t know what kind of transformation you’ll undertake. So just do the thing and find out. That being said, if I was in your position and someone I knew wanted to be with me after I got hot when they knew I was a cool person even whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:37 PM
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If the Chads are so busy getting laid, what are the odds they will have time or prioritize a friendship with a platonic female over their bros? It’s an interesting theory, but I’m not so sure how likely it is IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:43 PM
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If I were your friend, I’d feel very violated that you’re trying to dissect my relationship with online strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:56 PM
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That’s a very different situation from what OP is talking about. No, I would not (unless the murder was self-defense or an accident). It’s a matter of safety and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:06 PM
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The past is in the past. The whole point of self improvement is to better yourself, and if someone is more focused on who you were rather than who you are? Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:57 AM
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So the issue isn’t that she had these things? The issue is she is relying on them to attract a mate, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:36 PM
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We clearly hang out in different areas of the internet. I’m not sure I’ve ever met a femcel. But what’s wrong with commitment and a job? How are these exclusively male traits? This can’t seriously be a real example?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:18 PM
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That really bothers me too. I don’t like how bystanders will laugh or not try to stop an assault if it’s a female aggressor. But the moment a man defends himself, he gets crucified. It’s fucked up. Major double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:22 AM
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Can you clarify this? I’d like to know some unattractive examples of a women trying to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:17 AM
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How easily some men are manipulated for the chance of sex. I don’t partake in games, but I’ve seen it, and it never fails to disappoint me. It legit bothers me that there’s such a thing as the Pussy Pass. I don’t know if that’s considered red pill, but it’s definitely a theme I’ve noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:43 PM
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Probably because it doesn’t make sense to excuse someone’s shitty behavior simply based off gender. We’re all adults here and should be held accountable for our actions 🤷‍♀️ But I can’t tell if OP was being facetious or not and actually noticed a trend with purple— if so, I’m curious to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:11 PM
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I’m a big fan of stoicism and I think a lot of women could benefit from it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:51 AM
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My first instinct when I see a huge disparity in attractiveness is; either the underdog is exceptional in some regard, they’re bond is strong, or the “hot” one is into that type. My second instinct: it’s none of my business and my subjective opinion of their looks doesn’t mean jackshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:05 PM
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I find your condescending attitude intolerable. Why do you even bother using a CMV tag? Look, I follow r/nattyorjuice just like you, so don’t talk down to me. I am aware that movie stars are rarely natural. I’m not going to bother giving examples because I’ve wasted enough of my time being told what I find attractive. Thanks, but I think I’ll take my own word for it. Edit: fixed r/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:55 PM
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If I suspect a man is on juice, it’s a hard pass. I definitely prefer muscular but lean men. I don’t like a lot of mass, so my ideal is definitely natty attainable. But I’m far more interested in personality and character. Yes, I want to be attracted to my partner, but people become more attractive to me when I like the person they are. The vice versa is true too. Someone can be a beautiful asshole, but if I have to interact with that person, all I see is an asshole. Granted, I don’t do casual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:43 PM
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I think it’s been beat into us as little girls that men inherently want something from us, so it’s hard to trust them as a friend. At least, that’s the subconscious bias I’ve noticed in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:09 PM
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Not a red pill, but I gotta know what’s up with your username, u/EmpoweredGirl, if you’re a 23 y/o man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:19 PM
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Sounds like you want an assertive introvert. You’ll probably have to meet her on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 06:30 PM
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That’s why I’m Purple. Each side makes compelling points and even Red is spot-on for a certain type of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:54 PM
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In what context are we talking? Because there’s plenty of consequences for actions in society... I put a lot of stock in personal responsibility because I have two narcissists, an ex-bully, and a perpetual victim in my immediate family. I got some excellent examples of what I don’t want to be. I guess you could say my family taught me. Honestly, I’ve grown positively from the majority of the disfunction in my family, but not till I moved away. I think our 20’s are meant for addressing the damage…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 07:27 PM
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I don’t see why anyone should be shamed for not showing up to an event like this. Of course men aren’t obligated. You trolling us, OP? EDIT: added “like this”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 05:51 AM
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I had to think about this and do some self-introspection. I came to the conclusion that, in my case, I am only attracted to men I perceive as more intelligent than me (which is tricky because that can be measured in a variety of ways) But yes, I prefer men who are superior to me in that regard. I don’t know how other women operate though.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:59 PM
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I don’t know which gender puts down the other more and I don’t care. Shitty people are going to say shitty things. Lots of people suck. I don’t see the point in keeping score. But I will admit that r/MGTOW is a real letdown. The other day I saw them cheer on a man knocking out two women in a mob-like street brawl and I found it utterly disgusting. Almost everything they post is exposing a horrible-manipulative-garbage-bitch and painting it like we are all like that. It’s sick. You’d think the la…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:09 PM
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Good luck explaining the scars. Just own your height, dude.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:25 AM
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There are dating websites for aces if you really think she’s asexual and not aromantic. It’s just a google search away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:14 AM
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I recommend using veggies as filler. The trick is to get vegetables to taste good. What I do is sauté with plenty of pepper, salt, garlic powder, onion powder, and at the end(ish) a splash of sherry or white wine. I don’t recommend adding oil, but if the veggies are going to burn I throw in some water. At the very end I’ll add a small amount of butter, that way you get to keep the taste while using way less. You can also roast veggies which is less labor intensive, but more oil is involved. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:54 AM
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Yup, firmly in the first category. I’m a big believer in personal responsibility and I don’t see how gender is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:06 AM
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Well obviously there’s going to be confusion on how to treat women as a group because WE ARE INDIVIDUALS Judge us by our character, our actions, our history, etc. but don’t judge us by your batshit manipulative ex. Those were her actions. I find AWALT rather infuriating. You can try to lump us all together all you want, but it isn’t reality. If you want to know how a specific women wants to be viewed, you’ll have to ask her. Anything beyond that is generalized conjecture. Edit: those bold caps w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:55 AM
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I’ve read romance novels since I was 18. It was legitimately my sexual awakening, but it’s more than porn, it’s entertainment. The ones I read are usually about 90-95% plot. It’s like watching a movie with a sex scene or two. But there was a point where I used romance novels to get my bad boy fix in. Or just a relationship that is hot, but what I’d never want to deal with IRL. Basically I used it to get a vicarious experience without putting myself at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:02 PM
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Someone who mocks another for something they can’t change is just showing you who they are. Thank God, and good riddance. But not all women feel that way. In fact, some of my biggest crushes were in the 5’2”-5’4” range. A couple weeks ago I saw a man who was around 4’10”, and was extremely attractive. There are girls out there that prefer short guys, it’s just a matter of finding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:50 PM
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Look into stoicism.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:29 AM
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I think you hit it on the nail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 06:17 AM
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^
/r/askTRP17/02/19 03:17 AM
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Eh, it is what it is, but I definitely formed a judgement on them based off that single interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 03:01 AM
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I’m with you on this. I hold doors open for men and women alike. It’s just the polite thing to do if you’re already there. The only time I regret opening a door for others is when I really, really had to pee. But on instinct I held the door for these two women behind me. Only to realize my dumbass just let them ahead of me in the bathroom line. But the part that stuck with me was they completely ignored me and brushed by without so much as the decency of eye contact. It was rather jarring, becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 02:21 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:55 PM
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Whoops! I just realized we don’t have the same personality type 🤦‍♀️ so please disregard my questions. Serves me right for trying to reddit with a birthday hangover!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 07:07 PM
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I don’t know about that. They seem to be really intent on self-improvement and raising their SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:22 PM
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I wouldn’t call them losers. I just think a lot of them were hurt and to reconcile what they’ve gone through, they need to lower women as a whole and raise themselves up. It’s more than a sexual strategy, it’s a confidence strategy. If it weren’t so toxic and hate-filled, I’d appreciate it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:02 PM
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Interesting. I click much better with women (though not many lol), but that probably has more to do with my upbringing: I’m not religious but my parents sure are, so I’ve been conditioned to by wary of men. I actually never formed any sort of meaningful bond with any male until my SO (however he’s very feminine—more feminine & high maintenance than me). Even though I’m considered one of the guys in our friend group because I’m the only female, I don’t feel particularly close to them. And I suspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:36 PM
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RPW? Is that short for red pill women? If so, how does that work? I’m not opposed to red pill philosophy, though I don’t agree with some of it. The “AWALT” thing might be my biggest gripe. I’m under the impression that there isn’t much for women to gain out of the philosophy, so I’m curious to hear more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:42 AM
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Hah, I think you might be right. This thread has more of us then I’ve ever encountered before. Then again, it’s not like we walk around with our personality types on our sleeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 01:33 AM
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INTJ female— I only mention my gender because we are supposedly rare 0.5-1% of the population according to google. I think that explains why internet strangers I talk to (who don’t know what I look like) automatically assume I’m a man. I like how I am, but I wouldn’t mind being less of an introvert. I’m alright with social situations but the drain is unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:55 AM
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Sometimes being too smooth is a warning sign for us to be suspicious that you’re a player. And no one wants to get played. The best liars are the ones who have fooled you into thinking they’re a bad liar. Stumbling every once in a while could actually be beneficial for your game, but who knows. Obviously I’m not as well versed in red pill philosophy as you guys. But I do think breaking frame every once in a while is a good shit-test for her, to see if she’s LTR material (if that’s your goal.)
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:21 PM
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You’re right, I don’t, but I finally got access to the sub and I think that version on hypergamy is real, but I don’t think all woman do it consciously. Literally everyone tests potential partners to see if they’re the right fit. You’d be a fool not to. That’s how you know if you’re compatible or not. Although I don’t like the term “alpha” but if it represents high value or what one finds attractive then sure. Don’t guys do the same thing?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:03 AM
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I honestly didn’t come here to argue. I was expecting to answer questions on whether I think a certain scenario would work on women or not.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:20 AM
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I looked up hypergamy and I’m not sure I agree that being a woman automatically means I get to “marry-up”. There are plenty of women who marry “below them” but I’m a big believer in partners that compliment each other being the best matches and as long as they view themselves as equals it’s all gravy. But I’d like to know your opinion: What makes a man better than me in a relationship to the point you assume he’s settling to have me? (Not offended, just genuinely curious)
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:01 AM
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That sub is quarantined, but that doesn’t change the fact that I can’t see sidebars anyway.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:43 AM
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Please define hypergamy and shit-testing for me. (I’m on mobile and can’t see the sidebar)
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:37 AM
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Feel free to edify me then. I’m perfectly capable of not being offended by things I don’t agree with.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:33 AM
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I think that incels blame other people for their problems and that’s unattractive and will further compound the issue. I don’t like the thought that there are some men out there that think I owe them sex. And I would feel the same if it was a “Chad” who thought he was entitled to my body. I prefer short men. I don’t think I could be attracted to someone I find repulsive, but I also have noticed that if I like someone’s personality and find other traits impressive about them, then it’s almost lik…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:29 AM
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Since that’s quite a subjective matter, what you’re really asking is how confident I am. I’m confident enough not to have low-esteem and humble enough to recognize I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea. Basically, if you like extremely short chicks with disproportionately large breasts, then sure, I’m hot. If you don’t like that, then I am merely cute.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 08:01 AM
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Please spell it out for me so I know we are on the same page of what RPT is.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 07:36 AM
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