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I'm 29 and I live with my parents and teenager sister because here in Cuba is kinda hard to get your own place. I have my own room, so when I bring a girl in I just close the door and proceed to comfort. I already had a talk with my family and explained them I would be bringing girls and I wanted peace around the house. That's my situation: my family keeps it to themselves and I have sex or have a good time with girls. So, in my opinion, talk to your parents, explain them what you want and what …
/r/seduction26/09/21 12:25 PM
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One of my best friends teaches game to other guys and in order to break the approach anxiety he asked one of the guys "What's the craziest thing you would say to a hot woman?" His students answered "I wanna have sex with you". So my friend took his students with him to downtown to teach them a lesson. He approached around 30 women of all ages and his opener was "I want to have sex with you" while smiling. He got a lot of different responses and even 2 girls considered having sex with him out of …
/r/seduction16/02/21 10:25 PM
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Todd V: Daygame is good!
/r/seduction16/12/20 03:43 PM
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"The Manual" by W Anton, I just read it a month ago and changed the way I saw approach and opened my eyes about social conditioning. I read "Models" by Mark Manson a year ago and it is awesome. I also love two books in Spanish (I'm Cuban) by author Alvaro Tineo: "Antiseduccion" and "La personalidad Intrinseca". I loved those books because they are based on "inner game": how to improve yourself in order to make YOU feel grate, not girls. Girls will feel grate with you if you are comfortable with …
/r/seduction24/10/20 03:20 AM
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Back in February of 2019 I read "How to be a 3%..." and boy, it was like a punch straight into my face. I finally understood all of the things I've been doing wrong regarding attraction for my entire life! I loved the book, I watched some of his videos and read some of his articles. Then I read more books and started my journey of self improvement. Corey's advice was a good starting point for me and I will always thank his prologue for opening my eyes. Of course, there are better books out there…
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:04 PM
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Upvoted, good job man!
/r/seduction21/10/20 02:54 PM
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Can you just call her and talk? Sorry if you got nervous and ghosted, but if you just wanna talk or get in touch with her, then do it. As for the way you ask, don't be so hard with yourself bro. Yes, there are better ways to handle situations like this but don't put yourself down. Just do what you feel is right. If you want to call her, then call her. If you want to video chat with her then go! Do these things that scare you and learn from those experiences.
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:49 PM
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Upvoted, amazing story and I'm happy to read about you and your journey, keep the good work man!
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:18 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story as well, is good to know many more people are conquering their lives. I'm happy for you man, really happy.
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:27 PM
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Let's see how things evolve, but she is the type of girl I'd like to be in a relationship with. However in a few months I could travel back to work on my university and she might return to hers and we would be separated for months. Right now we are enjoying our moments together.
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:38 AM
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I'm ashamed to say this but I found them on sites for free downloads. I saved them on my phone and started reading.
/r/seduction18/06/20 08:06 PM
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Honestly, going out of my comfort zone and throwing myself into the world helped me a lot. I was able to test all those techniques and tricks in real life with real people and later I would analyze what happened and how it happened. I chose the path of self improvement to develop my personality and new skills, while honing my current skills as well. As for more examples, ever since then I changed the way I teach my subjects and now my students are more motivated and interested in learning and de…
/r/seduction18/06/20 08:04 PM
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Hard question. Certainly there were books that helped me a lot and other books that didn't or just were variations of popular advice/theory.
/r/seduction18/06/20 07:57 PM
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Well, for me the success is in every step I take into improving myself. Every time I face my fears or take action it feels great. I enjoy the process of seduction instead of obsessing about the result.
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:29 PM
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Yes, just as you said in your comment, that's the issue with most nice guys.
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:27 PM
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No more Mr Nice Guy, Your Erroneous Zones and several advice over the Internet and from my best friends. Also, putting into practice said advice and recommendations
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:25 PM
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I've met women in several places such as the university where I work, around town, at parties, while traveling to my hometown, in some social events...I'm a bit insecure yet but in those places I usually approach girls who call my attention
/r/seduction18/06/20 03:18 PM
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I am not very attractive hahaha, I'm kinda average, I do have pretty eyes though.
/r/seduction18/06/20 03:14 PM
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None of them haha. I had good dates and some girls even gave me lots of IOI but I didn't get them or didn't advanced with the interactions.
/r/seduction18/06/20 01:48 PM
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What happened here is that OP had to get a good job and be stable and ask out a ton of girls before one eventually decided to give him a shot Not really, I had my first girlfriend when I was 17 at highschool. During my teen years and on college I had some girls interested on me, but since I was a good boy I lost my chances with them. Many of those girls gave me two, even three chances to "man up" and take the lead role in the interactions but again, I screwed up.
/r/seduction18/06/20 01:19 PM
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I started with "How to be a 3% Man", then "The Mystery Method" and "The Game". "Models" by Mark Manson was amazing, "How to dominate women" by Gary Brodsky (is not an offensive book at all), "No more mr nice guy" by Robert Glover and some stuff by Tom Torero. I watched many videos from RSD and they are awesome as well. In Spanish I read the books of Alvaro Tineo "La personalidad intrinseca" and "Antiseduccion" and those two made me realize some mistakes I was making and helped me changing my min…
/r/seduction18/06/20 12:53 PM
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I thought it was natural to become friends first and then jump into a relationship Yeah, I used to do that and I ended up losing the girl, don't worry, you can have a girl and also be her friend, just let her know your intentions before becoming her friend. Any idea how to practice seduction remotely? Umm, I don't know what to say. This last girl, we talked a lot mostly by WhatsApp due to the situation with the virus. I started interesting conversations and eventually things would get intimate o…
/r/seduction18/06/20 12:43 PM
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Thousands? No, barely one hundred.
/r/seduction18/06/20 12:38 PM
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To be honest, I feel hurt by your words. "Preying", "this is a fetish", "extremely creepy". I know this is the Internet and I should not care about everyone's opinion but, why are you so aggressive with your comments? I am by no means a predator or a "player". I'm sure you haven't read all of my responses but I didn't learn "seduction" to fuck every girl I see. When I approach a girl I'm not thinking "Damn, she is a solid 9, I will use the technique X to get her naked on my bed". I learn seducti…
/r/seduction26/03/20 01:53 AM
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When I told her that I had other plans, I mean it. In case she couldn't go out with me that night, I was going to visit some friends, so I did it after I left her. I didn't used those exact words but they reflect the idea I tried to communicate.
/r/seduction25/03/20 11:40 AM
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Thanks, I've been working on myself and dating again for a year now after a period of 4 years without dating. A year ago I didn't know many of the things that I know now regarding interaction people to people, dating and such. I'm still new to this and I share my experiences so people can give some general ideas.
/r/seduction25/03/20 11:36 AM
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He just sounds like a horny Indian teenager trying to get with a chick he likes and realising she's not reciprocating. I am Cuban, 27, software developer, university teacher and public speaker hahaha
/r/seduction24/03/20 11:17 AM
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Hahaha, I am not a 8-9. I might be a 6-7 according to women here.
/r/seduction24/03/20 11:09 AM
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I have genuine female friends, some older than me, some younger than me. Many of them are very attractive. I felt attracted to a few of them when we meet, I tried a romantic/sexual approach but nothing happened and we remained friends. Some of them...I just liked them as friends from the very beginning. For example, I met a cool girl on my first day in high school and I instantly liked her as a friend. She is very hot, but I don't feel "that way" towards her, even when we have maaaaany things in…
/r/seduction24/03/20 12:31 AM
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Thanks. I know I need more interactions and to practice the skills I want to develop.
/r/seduction24/03/20 12:20 AM
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The origami collection I have it on a display on my room, she got curious about it and asked me some questions, she even wanted me to craft her one. The funko is also on another visible place, it got her attention and she got curious, even took a few pics of the funko because she liked it. I was gonna make my intentions clear but not in the first two minutes of having her, it never worked for me before. Some people said I didn't properly take my chances or used better opportunities and they migh…
/r/seduction23/03/20 10:33 PM
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How old are you? I just started learning "pick up" when I was 26, a year ago. Before that, I was always the "nice guy". But if you are older than me, don't feel bad about it, I have met men and women older than me who were also too much of a "nice person" and now they are enjoying more interactions with more people, being themselves but not giving themselves fully until they make sure the have met the right person.
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:55 PM
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Not yet, let's see what happens. If she doesn't, it's OK to me. I posted my story here so you people could give me your opinions and see more perspectives on the topic.
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:28 PM
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Thanks, I'm still new into some things regarding interactions with girls.
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:26 PM
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Hi to the two of you girls. Thanks for your opinions regarding this topic. I am by no means a stalker or a "player". I did made many mistakes in the past with my first girlfriends, such as being needy, too obvious about my intentions, clingy, too much of a nice guy and all those things that turn girls off. It took me a lot of time and help from very good friends to get into the right path and become a guy way better than I used to be. A year ago I decided to learn seduction not because I wanted …
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:24 PM
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I was going to "make a move", but we spent like 15 minutes on my place and she spent 10 of those 15 minutes on her phone. Usually it takes me more time to "make a move" because I like to build comfort with the girls I date before going all physical. This is the first time that this happens to me, so I shared my experience here to hear your opinions about it.
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:10 PM
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I am Cuban. We say "Querida", which is the equivalent of the American "darling". Also I barley called her like that, I called her mostly by her name.
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:04 PM
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This is the first time that this happens to me, the actions I took were based on previous interactions that went "bad", I tried to be polite without being rude. I understand what you mean about letting her believe she can get me anytime.
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:02 PM
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No I didn't, I was going to but I didn't and I regret it because I could avoided a bit this situation.
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:00 PM
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making my interest known This man, this is very important. If you only go in "nice guy" mode you will fall in the friend zone. Is OK to have female friends but it hurts when is someone you actually like "that way". So go on and express your interest. It takes courage to do this, I know, I feel scared too sometimes but I'd rather feel bad because one girl rejected me once than having her as a friend when I wish she was my girlfriend.
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:04 PM
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"Hahaha, who isn't?" and keep talking
/r/seduction28/08/19 02:28 PM
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Thanks, I'll look for it
/r/seduction02/08/19 11:22 AM
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It's the same for women, if her friends hate you or you don't have your own life she's likely going to move on and find someone that her friends will like and who has a life of their own. I am curious, what do you mean with this about her friends? In my experience, when your friends don't like your couple you should think about it. I am talking about good friends, those you can count on and you have met for years, people who know you very well; I don't mean by friends someone you meet now and th…
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:59 AM
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Good luck to you, my friend :)
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:40 PM
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I loved it because is a good example of someone who went from "rock hits bottom" to "I'm on the top of the world". I related with his story because I had a personal situation as well a few months ago, but I started working out, reading about pick up and dating, improving myself and such. I was helped by my friends as well and my life is doing great, I can't wait to achieve more steps on my self-improvement process. I hope you can make your own plan and become the better version of yourself.
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:20 PM
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i just want to look good Work out. I started a month ago doing home workout, one hour for three days, resting one day. I lost a few pounds because I'm also doing a diet and my body shape started to change to a shape I like.
/r/seduction26/04/19 06:33 PM
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Read this and the comments, it might help you starting
/r/seduction26/04/19 06:30 PM
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I have heard that hetero men find it a turn off when women bluntly tell them that they want no-strings attached sex It depends on the situation, the girl and your relation with her. For example if one of my female best friends told me so it would be very awkward because I don't feel attracted for her, she is very pretty and sexy though but I don't like her that way. Now, if one of the cute girls I tease now and then one days asks me to have NSA sex I will accept. It depends.
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:12 PM
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At least the floor got wet that day...
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:28 PM
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This, just treat her like another person and be nice.
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:25 PM
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I took a piece of ice with me and broke it in front of her. She was like "OK, what in the actual fuck?" and I was like "I'm just breaking the ice, how are you?"
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:10 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction22/04/19 12:25 PM
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I've been reading about what you mentioned and about changing my mindset when I am about to approach a girl so this kind of thoughts doesn't show up in my brain. Guess I need more practice on that topic.
/r/seduction22/04/19 03:14 AM
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Well if you are not sure about how you feel for her and you have more girls knocking on your door, move on then.
/r/seduction16/04/19 02:47 AM
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I like this answer!
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:18 PM
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I could give you my info, if you like. I like girls like those too hahahaha
/r/seduction10/04/19 12:44 PM
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Some guys actually like girls with "resting bitch" face.
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:16 PM
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You can start by reading here on Reddit on different subs and asking more questions related with your issues. Search post online written by people going thru your same situation and read the responses they get. As for people, a professional doctor could be a good start. Also if you have good friends, people you trust, open with them about your vulnerabilities, talk about how you feel. My friends have always been a good source of support for me, they listen to my problems and if they can't solve …
/r/seduction08/04/19 04:43 PM
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I can't give you right now a guide or deep advice, bro, however work hard on dealing with those bad feelings. Don't put yourself down and don't let others do the same. Looking for help is hard but once you find people glad to lean you a hand/ways to deal with your bad feelings, you'll start feeling better. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:43 PM
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My ex girlfriend once had this super...thick? lipstick, chocolate flavored and gave me a kiss that shook my world. It tasted so damn good.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:37 PM
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Honestly I failed there. I approached other girls before and got their numbers. Nothing else happened after the first date though, but I moved on.
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:49 PM
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Is not a problem for me, every opinion must be listened, even negative ones.
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:23 PM
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Thanks, will look for your recomendations
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:22 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:11 PM
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his game was weak Any suggestions then? I'll really appreciate any advice.
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:10 PM
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I see what you mean.
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:10 PM
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Is that so? Thank you very much, I'll keep it present for next approaches and if anything happens with this girl.
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:08 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:07 PM
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Well, work hard on solving your issues related with failure and disappointment and then work on getting the girl you want. I had to do it myself this year: solving my issues, talking about my fears and how to overcome them, reading about how to handle rejection...The only thing that falls naturally from the sky is rain, if you want something you must work for it. This might sound crazy for you, it did for me a few months ago but I decided to change and be better. At first you can't see the chang…
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:07 PM
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Don't worry, is not the first time that happens (if she actually flaked on me) and won't be the last.
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:53 PM
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You seemed very obviously desperate, nervous, kiddish, etc. to talk to her How so? I do want to learn in order to improve, thanks
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:49 PM
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It sounds like you're showing her too much interest in the sense that you're not on the same level as her, but looking up to her Care to elaborate this?
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:03 PM
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Thanks, you're right
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:01 PM
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If she is in a relationship I'll be OK about it and move to another girl ​
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:47 PM
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If she is in a relationship I'll be OK about it and move to another girl
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:46 PM
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Thanks! I've been reading and applying Corey Wayne's teachings from "How to be a 3% Man" and he mentions the same things you defined as critical hehe.
/r/seduction05/04/19 04:33 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/seduction05/04/19 04:32 PM
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"Hi, what's your name?" Watch for indicators of interest, if she is into talking to you then proceed, talk for a few minutes and then invite her somewhere and ask for her number to keep in touch. Or "hey I gotta go but I'd love to keep in touch, can I have your number" or "so you are no free today to go out, why don't we exchange numbers so you let me know when you're free to go out?" or something among those lines. You're ugly? fine, what are you good at? A friend of mine is a 4, maybe a 3 but …
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:17 PM
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Then go and hit on another girl, and if that fails then go for another and another until you find the one who will get you because YOU are 1000000 times better for her than any other guy.
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:10 PM
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Hahaha
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:02 PM
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Thanks. Honestly I don't have problems talking to people, specially women. However I get super nervous when I think too much about talking to a girl, but everything is fine when I just approach and say "Hi, your eyes are beautiful, what's your name?" Hell, when I was doing military service I was at a place with PLENTY of women. I was polite and nice to all of them, always flirting when possible and even got a girlfriend there hehehe. Again, I have no problems talking and making conversation but …
/r/seduction05/04/19 12:47 PM
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Step 1- Be handsome
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:16 PM
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Given the current situation about rape accusations and guys getting in trouble while hanging around with ladies, maybe it was a good thing you didn't go with her?
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:07 PM
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I only "approach" girls on the bus if they sit next to me. I look at them and then try to start a casual conversation. Most times they have no interest on keep talking so I make a cool move and end the talk, but a few times we keep talking and very few times I got some phone numbers.
/r/seduction28/03/19 04:40 PM
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This...is a very specific situation...
/r/seduction24/03/19 12:02 PM
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That's the attitude! Well done bro, keep up with the good job. I'm improving myself as well.
/r/seduction21/03/19 11:56 AM
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Well, I tell to myself things like "I like that girl, I'll approach and introduce myself" or "that girl looks lovely and cute, I like her! time to introduce myself" or the basic "she is hot and I want to bang her, time to introduce myself". Sounds weird right? I know, hahaha, but as soon as I see a girl I like I try to approach IF the conditions are right, for example I wouldn't approach a girl in the intensive cares unit who is wrapped in bandages and bleeding, get my point? If conditions are w…
/r/seduction20/03/19 07:54 PM
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You can either have excuses or results, not both. I used to be like you until I took some courage and started approaching girls. If you can't do it yourself you can ask a good friend to introduce you to girls, until you have the courage to do it by yourself.
/r/seduction20/03/19 05:46 PM
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I am super curious about how they reacted when you asked for a selfie, care to elaborate a bit more? Also, did you take a selfie with every girl, even the ones who rejected you?
/r/seduction20/03/19 05:44 PM
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When approaching girls don't think of them as goddess but as regular people, hence talk to them as you talk to your friends, being charming and funny and at the same time letting them know your intentions. You need to practice but eventually you'll be better at it.
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:52 PM
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For what I see she seems to have a bit of interest on you so...What about asking her on a date? That would be a good move for you. If you do things right she might show her true colours. If not, move on bro and find another girl you'll like to date.
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:42 PM
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Hi bro, I'm 26 soon 27 and this year I found the book of Corey Wayne and it changed my life. It made me realize all of my mistakes and motivated me to improve my game at approaching/dating girls. For years I made all kind of mistakes, got friendzonated because of my own actions...I was pretty much as you are now. But again, reading that book made me change, open my eyes, start looking for help in order to be better. I don't only read his book but others, I also watch some videos about how to app…
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:40 PM
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Bro, I felt the same when I started my game but you can't let yourself down because of a rejection. Instead, search how to properly deal with rejection and move to another lady if things with the first one go bad. Putting yourself down won't help you at all, instead fight back your sadness and keep up.
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:26 PM
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Oh, my bad, didn't read your comment properly. I agree with OP then, I'll talk to them and see if we have common likes, that's how I've made some of my best friends (both male and female).
/r/seduction19/03/19 04:17 PM
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Looks DO matter because you approach women you find attractive and then when you get to know them better you find their flaws and greatnesses, like being a good cook and conversationalist. I am not a "looks are the most important" type of guy but I approach first women who I find attractive on my standards.
/r/seduction19/03/19 03:32 PM
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This!!!! What a great answer
/r/seduction19/03/19 03:27 PM
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There are a lot of things I know now I wish I knew back when I was 15. I made maaaaany mistakes with girls when I was younger, things I don't do nowadays. My advice for you is: look up for those common mistakes, look up for ways to approach and talk to girls and how to deal with rejection. The book by Corey Wayne helped me a lot starting to understand my mistakes and then I moved on learning from other sources.
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:32 PM
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I say make your move before you become her male girl friend.
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:12 PM
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Same here, if there was interest what took you so long to approach her?
/r/seduction15/03/19 02:55 PM
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Yeah, I totally agree with this post. Keep approaching and polishing your flaws, practice makes perfect my friend.
/r/seduction15/03/19 02:52 PM
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Courage is what you need. Someone posted on Reddit long ago: You don't need confidence, you need courage, and the great thing about courage is that you don't need it for that long. Thirty seconds. Confidence is doing something knowing you're good at it. Courage is doing something knowing you're scared, but doing it anyway. ​ I can't tell right now the link, but that post made my day and changed my perspective about approaching girls. Once I beat those 30 seconds, everything is great. If she like…
/r/seduction15/03/19 02:47 PM
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Sounds like a winner to me. so, ask him what's his secret.
/r/seduction08/02/19 07:01 PM
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This, this is gold
/r/seduction29/01/19 08:11 PM
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You must change your ways, otherwise you won't get anything. I used to be like you, but then I changed the way I was and things got way better for me. 1- I am always shy to talk to women I am attracted: Practice by talking to other women, not just the ones you like. You'll gain more confidence and realize is not as hard as it looks. 2- I am very picky on who I let see the real me: Wrong, you always must be yourself and let people know who you really are. I understand your point though, we can't …
/r/seduction29/01/19 08:02 PM
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Stop being stressed. She has a life as well and she likes doing things alone or with her friends, same as you do. Do you do EVERYTHING with your girlfriend? I'm sure you don't, I bet there are places you go /things you do alone.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:01 PM
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Well, I don't know how deep is your relationship with her but is OK if you like other women like celebrities and so. Sames as if she likes other guys/celebrities. My ex girlfriend had a crush on...Pitbull!!!! LOL I didn't care, but she got very pissed whenever I said something like "Damn, Jennifer Lopez is hot!" That's the hole point, don't give it too much head or else you'll get jealous or distracted by unimportant stuff. As for your situation, my advice is to start approaching her "the other …
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:15 PM
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When I was in high school I slowly fell in love with this girl who had been my friend since first year. In our last year we got closer and closer and I declared my feelings for her. She felt the same and we gave it a try, we were a couple for 5 months but we broke because though we love the same things we are different. It took me some time to recover but we're still friends after almost 9 years. It was risky because I could loose her as a friend, thanks god everything worked fine and after we b…
/r/seduction23/01/19 04:42 PM
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I'm on hard mode as im 18 trying to get 30 - 45 yo women Damn! Reminded me of me at his age jeje.
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:12 PM
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smack that ass Yeah!
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:59 PM
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