Hi everyone, I want to share today my experience while learning seduction and I hope to inspire some of you as well.

I won’t dwell on my past much, suffice to say I became a Very Nice Good Guy who barely got any girl. I arrived at my 26 birthday being needy, insecure, hating myself, virgin, among many unattractive features. I had only one girlfriend, I had a romance with two girls who had boyfriends and I also fell in love with my best friend who wasn’t into me at all. I was able to attract some girls but they will lose interest on me after a few interactions or dates. I refused to take advice from my best friends about how to improve my situation, I used to believe I was a great person and people would love for who I was and the perfect woman for me will eventually show up.

But in the beginning of 2019 I decided to take a look at this “seduction stuff” because why not? I had nothing to lose. As you know there’s plenty of sources in the Internet about seduction and such, also I’m Cuban so I had access to books/videos/etc. in Spanish as well. But I started with “How to be a 3% Man” by Corey Wayne and that was my wake up call. When I read the section “Why this Book Was Written” I couldn’t help but cry because I related with many of the cases he mentioned. So I decided to take this “seduction stuff” more seriously.

I spent months reading some popular books, watching videos on YouTube and putting myself out there, interacting with girls and more people. The funny thing is that I started learning how to seduce women but ended up seducing the best person out there: myself. I learned how to love myself, how to respect myself, how to improve myself. I am a software Engineer and developer, I work in a university as teacher and also I am the one who represents my crew in software showcases and events. Also, since I was a kid I had maaaaaaany amazing qualities: charming, kind, honest, smart, funny, very communicative, etc. To sum up: I was a very attractive person but I didn’t know how to show it, first to me and then to the rest of the world.

Learning Seduction lead me to learning about self-improvement. I was able to start solving/facing most of my personal issues and that knowledge helped me facing my family and talk about our problems at home and how to solved them. I spent years wanting to talk to my mom and dad about their problems and how they affected me but I was scared as hell. After 2019 I was able to talk to them and we started improving our family as well. I felt amazing when I realized the guy I really was, all that hidden potential inside me.

Of course, I made mistakes during this time but I tried to learn as much as I could from them. I started with a mindset and some goals but as read more and more, as I interacted more and more, as I improved more and more, I changed my mindset and goals. I started to enjoy myself and the moment, I enjoyed approaching girls, I stepped out of my comfort zone and discovered a new exciting world where I was also exciting and attractive.

I still have A LOT to do, to learn, to practice, to improve, to conquer, to live and I am eager to do so. By the way, in case you’re wondering about me I am 5’2’’ tall and I have a chubby belly. I don’t have very attractive facial features, I don’t go to the gym but I do some exercise at home and I take care of my diet as much as I can. At first I felt like the “ugly guy” who was rejected so many times in the past and sometimes I still feel a little bit like this, but I put on a warm smile to cheer up myself and I keep moving on.

I’ve met some amazing girls in the past months and even got some of them to my place. I didn’t get any sex because I still have much to learn about escalating and moving faster and creating sexual tension (you can read a couple of my Fields Reports around here), but I got more confident with my experiences. Three weeks ago one of my best friends introduced me one of his friends from college. She is a 20 years old student and I am a 27 years old guy but we got along pretty well. She found me super charming, attractive, mysterious and adorable, we have many things in common and many differences as well. After some “dates” (of course taking many precautions due the CoVid situation) I finally lost my virginity and it was amazing. I was scared because I barely had “foreplay” with my previous couples but everything went so natural with her that she questioned me if I was really a virgin.

So far that’s my story regarding Seduction and how learning it drove me to also change my mindset and my life. Like I said before, I still have A LOT to learn and experience but I’m looking forward to do so. Guys and girls, don’t give up, keep learning and practicing by going out there and facing the world. I wish the best for each one of us who studies Seduction and I hope you can also discover the amazing guy/girl living inside you.