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Bro the highest value man I know is a young 21 year old who had experience leading a company already and working and putting decent weight to his name. Insanely intelligent also but you don’t see him bragging to himself, others, or women. I fundamentally don’t know why society is structured the way it is sometimes.
/r/seduction20/10/22 06:18 AM
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I agree. Everybody has to adopt this mentality. But I would imagine there are some badass disadvantaged mf’s that would have to adopt it harder like a david goggins type beat. It’s something you commit to and don’t look back, don’t complain, find it in you and inspire. It’s impossible on the surface because you can’t write a set of instructions to go out and do it. And I fundamentally believe this is where most modern men are stuck unless you are the shit.
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:52 PM
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I think I needed to hear this. After years of casually browsing this subreddit, I always fell into the mental trap of why even try. I got so far but never past my limits. Now I know where I stand. We’ll make it brahs
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:55 AM
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This is the average man.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:54 AM
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Idk everyone generally shit tests. Just know how to respond. I feel like I know how to respond better to men than women. Sometimes, I feel like I’m willing to beat down another man six inches taller than me. But when it comes to women, it’s like you need some kind of verbal wit to disarm and relax the situation, which doesn’t make sense.
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:48 AM
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Girls : “ I want jack Harlow vibes “ Me: you just want a white dude over 6 feet who makes 7 figures and has good game and status. Superficial and nothing new.
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:17 AM
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See what you did there
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:07 PM
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Hold on… all of these other comments getting salty cuz tall men aren’t toxic, let me clarify… women view perceives a taller man as more toxic 🤣🤣
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:24 AM
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Kind of a weird opinion because women aren’t comfortable with sex too soon and going out may be a fun way to ease that tension. I personally don’t go out on many dates, but maybe that’s why I’ve already invested so much in one woman. I might be making a gargantuan mistake, but honestly… I’m not hot enough to bag a girl after taking a walk in the park 🤣🤣 not Superman out here
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:14 PM
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So with the less attractive dudes, if I’m reading this correctly… they have to make sure their timing is on point. Not too soon otherwise he’s for the streets. If too long then no sex and less intimacy. I’m willing to build a relationship and get to know someone, but part of that is the sex. It isn’t so binary. If I’ve been seeing a girl for six months and we haven’t even kissed or had sex yet, then I would wonder if I could even get to know this person further. It’s massively disappointing when…
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:16 PM
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Still lacking abundance and confidence mindset. Still need to eliminate self-pity and sob stories. I know these are things you need to do as a young man because I haven’t done these things either 🤣🤣
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:50 PM
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My perspective is simple. I’m going to get in the best shape of my life for women. If that doesn’t work, I am in the best shape of my life nonetheless.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:19 PM
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“They’d only text me if they wanna fuck.” I’m sorry I thought this was a rant about struggle? 🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:08 AM
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Kind of problematic how U hint at going to south East Asia for more luck and more lays. I guess it’s true but really off putting
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:40 PM
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He’s a 30 yo virgin turned semi successful with women. Don’t you think the content would ideally cover bases from the most novice of guys to intermediate? Notice how the content gradually progresses from “move on from a girl” to “fingering is great.” It covers the different levels while simultaneously reflecting OP’s own progression at game.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:26 PM
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Alright thanks for sharing
/r/seduction29/08/20 06:29 PM
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Would you date (and have) a guy that is your height or even a tid bit shorter? Penis size is just like height or like the length of your arm. People shouldn’t feel bad about the length of their appendages or body parts. It’s as ridiculous as making fun of the length of my middle toe, but alas I know these people exist
/r/seduction29/08/20 06:23 PM
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Oh ok I get it, I misunderstood. I felt disturbed about the notion that a woman sees a man’s penis size which he cannot control and then despises his person just because of that. On the other hand, an unsolicited dick pic is just an ugly desperation that I can understand as being so off putting
/r/seduction29/08/20 06:07 PM
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The fuck is this sarcasm? If you saw his dick then he fucked you...
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:53 AM
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Just say it straight out, lots of us never had a girlfriend and wouldn’t mind losing our virginity
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:52 AM
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Yeah honestly we spend too much time worrying about how she’ll react. When we are bold and honest with ourselves in front of others, some people will not like that tbh. But at this point I accepted that people and women will hate that and I can be ok with that.
/r/seduction25/08/20 10:11 PM
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I feel like many of us especially me as guys are afraid of pushing boundaries with women. I don’t have much experience with women because I never initiated or anything but I have a feeling that women want to be pushed around and lead in all sorts of directions. They’re not the ones to do any initiative, it’s on you as a man.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:43 PM
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The fuck you think I’m doing? That’s what I want to do and that’s what I’m going to do. Cmon man, if I say I don’t need the extra sympathy that’s the opposite of victimization Christ
/r/seduction17/08/20 04:16 PM
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We don’t need the extra sympathy to be honest, this society is fucking over a lot of young men from being their best selves and being able to initiate.
/r/seduction16/08/20 11:51 PM
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Yeah I agree with the message. Lately man I’ve been so psychologically horny that I don’t care if I come off too hard or acting like a savage. I want sex and I want to convey that and I want to hear what you have to say about it, I’ve definitely feel like I’ve reached a certain level. In the past I was needy and at best, non assertive and always thinking that maybe something good will happen when I wasn’t being honest with her and wasn’t being honest with myself and was too scared to do anything…
/r/seduction16/08/20 11:48 PM
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I appreciate the advice still and I will keep it in mind. If something pops up for me or you then we can just reply to the previous response. I will give myself the room to live a little and acknowledge my fears as entirely imaginary (yes easier said than done).
/r/seduction11/08/20 12:49 AM
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(Let’s say you’re right about my mindset/assumptions) what would you recommend to a 19 year old who’s got some free time on his hands but not really the opportunities to meet people, because covid? If I’m playing the long game, do you have tips and advice (not just for women but for life also)?
/r/seduction10/08/20 11:10 PM
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The thing with basketball and football, I know with enough practice I can do better than anyone else at it, and it’s as a result of me practicing in an isolated vacuum. With this situation, I feel like I’m just putting my energy and effort for somebody else to like me, and it makes me upset. Because no matter how much effort you put in or how much you think you deserve, it’s all at a whim of another person, and it doesn’t matter your merit. I’m upset about that, and I’m being perfectly honest.
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:46 PM
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Men always expect other men to always use women to get laid. And if it’s somehow not your goal at the moment, you’re using another goal to make yourself feel better about not getting laid (an actual exchange I had recently). Why are some guys so animalistic and simple minded?
/r/seduction09/08/20 04:35 PM
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Very well said. I’m a young guy (19), and recently I’ve been trying to attain self worth that I feel proud of. I was deeply ashamed of myself for what I did for a long time, and when I put in the effort to regain my honor, it felt amazing. Now, I’m trying to reach a new height, I’m trying to attain the highest honor, to be worthy of the highest good. In short, do the things that make you proud and continue to do them, no matter how hard.
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:19 PM
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Dude yeah this puts things into perspective but it was ultimately this perspective in life that made me give up thinking about seduction girls dating and everything such things. Why? I subscribe to the belief that the day I die, whether in one hour or one century, I want to die fully knowing I pushed my limits to self mastery to become my best self possible. I want to know what I’m capable of and I want to die pushing these limits. Damn noble way to go. Because of this belief, I know for a fact …
/r/seduction31/07/20 01:57 AM
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The best way to appear not needy is to be not needy. You are not needy when you know wtf u are doing in life and what you want when you die. You do things everyday knowing if I die, I at least pushed myself and my limits, that’s a noble way to go. If you chase pussy and you die that instant, will you be happy with where you are at? Dying chasing pussy or dying chasing self mastery in your entire being? What’s more noble to you
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:58 PM
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Why did you do it? Was there something you wanted?
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:10 PM
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Yeah it’s definitely part of women’s biology because not to be brash but their biology is a need to be protected for her sake and the child’s. Naturally taller people come off as more protective and therefore more attractive. At the same time, I can’t talk about female biology without male biology. While women are wired to be extremely picky on a biological level, men would fuck almost anything to spread their seed. Men have lower standards of mating. All this is biology but the thing is, we are…
/r/seduction11/07/20 08:43 PM
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In Buddhism, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” You have no reason to share your insights but I am glad that you do. I am at a point in my life where I feel the most disciplined and focused to achieve self mastery. Anything and everything helps.
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:46 AM
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Hmm okay I think I’m starting to understand what you’re getting at. Something along the lines of how your path in self mastery is prioritized much more strongly to a point where women really don’t matter. I misunderstood, and I still have much to learn. It’s so easy for me to fall back into old thinking habits that women are extremely valuable and that I would be openly willing to share my attention and affection with anyone who is willing to accept it. I must create my own Thor’s hammer, one th…
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:31 AM
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Oh yeah mental battles are the toughest but all battles are fought and ended within the mind. I agree that I deluded myself into thinking women are worth more than me sometimes. I take it as a sign that I haven’t been working on myself and feeling good about myself recently. However, you had me lost when you say women are expendable like material possessions. While I can see the viewpoint that casual women who come and go fit into that category, of course acknowledge when a woman is worth learni…
/r/seduction06/07/20 03:48 AM
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Fuck yes. I grew up without anyone who would be considered a male father figure for me. Still that doesn’t stop me. I take extreme ownership. My life fucking sucked for 9 months? It’s my fault and I have to take ownership for that time wasted. I may come to my death and realize I’ve wasted years of my life? I must take ownership of that realization before it eats me away. Me myself and only me am responsible for my happiness, wellbeing and self mastery, and that’s the one thing nobody can take a…
/r/seduction06/07/20 03:24 AM
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Hi friend I’ve spoken to your before on this subreddit and recognized your user. Always appreciate your insights however harsh they may be delivered. I made a comment on this post as well if you want to check it out.
/r/seduction06/07/20 02:47 AM
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Here’s my advice from a fellow 19 year old kissless 5’4 racially discriminated not good looking virgin. And you’re not going to like what I’m about to say. YOUR GOAL IN LIFE IS NOT TO GET LAID OR KISS A GIRL. IDEALLY YOUR GOAL IS TO BUILD YOURSELF TO SOMEONE YOU ARE PROUD OF. I can go more in depth about how my mindset changed, why I build sexual discipline, and why self-worth, self love, and most important self mastery are things so so important to me right now. I’ve fallen into despair chasing…
/r/seduction06/07/20 02:40 AM
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Still, I appreciate the meaningful insights. I don’t see that nearly enough here, only once in a blue moon. How would you say a man gains the insight to make these codes and principles? Surely he isn’t born with this self guidance. Edit: religion and politics and to some extent science allow men to follow something because they have not fully developed their own internal guide. That is my view.
/r/seduction03/07/20 04:47 PM
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Knowing your self worth is not ego. Ego is desire, ego succumbs to false hopes and delusions. Self worth is character, foundation, internal codes and principles.
/r/seduction03/07/20 04:37 PM
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True, but we live in a world, so all accomplishments are the result of living with said codes and principles. It naturally follows. No need to force accomplishments. I think this is something we can both see being true.
/r/seduction03/07/20 04:36 PM
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Also thanks for the positive message. When you know your worth, truly know it and feel it, I think women become secondary. Your dreams and aspirations are always first, king.
/r/seduction03/07/20 07:56 AM
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You have to know your self value before you find out your value to the world. When you know you’re a king, your actions and accomplishments will show it.
/r/seduction03/07/20 07:53 AM
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Yeah! Love this post, especially the last part. I only start chasing girls when I lose sight of what I ACTUALLY NEED TO DO IN LIFE. It's hilariously shameful. Anyways, I'm not working on myself for the hope of impressing others or for the hope of getting girls. I know working on myself is something of a life purpose! I should not lose that sight because the honest effort I put in is the reward! Peace.
/r/seduction02/07/20 04:49 AM
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Lmao wtf it’s not that simple
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:24 AM
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Uncle Iroh, is that you?
/r/seduction18/06/20 07:48 AM
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I would be proud to be half the man he is.
/r/seduction18/06/20 07:47 AM
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Thank you. Many of our problems aren’t solved by fixing what we think must happen on the outside/surface/externally but by turning inward we can find life’s greatest treasures.
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:33 AM
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When we take hold of our life, we are no longer spectators but the decision makers of our actions and intentions. A man of this caliber is dangerous, for he must as well be a thinker.
/r/seduction15/06/20 01:44 AM
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It only takes one girl. One girl to be interested and attracted to you to shift your mindset. I bet you’re young and often in love like me, despite having never made it work before.
/r/seduction12/06/20 08:22 PM
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Hah ok thank you. She has called me cute a lot of times. Damn bro I’m gonna be honest I have so much self doubt because I never made love work and love is really hard when young. Thanks. Not to get sappy that’s just me haha
/r/seduction12/06/20 10:35 AM
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I feel that you may know something about being desperate. There’s this girl I absolutely adore. I always worry I come off as desperate because I have done that in the past. Behavior only becomes desperate when it’s obvious they don’t like you back...right? Should I continue my advances until my intuition tells me that they aren’t the right person for me?
/r/seduction12/06/20 09:57 AM
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I suppose why I find this problematic is that I’m not chasing after millionaire athletes. I don’t have an abundance of options and what does value even mean? I only care that they are a good person. I care that they care for me. Gifts, love, cuddles? Fuck yes if they can provide it. I suppose I would be extremely content just having this. I suppose if they require more than that, I would find that extremely problematic. My time and effort is enough and should be enough. The same holds true for t…
/r/seduction12/06/20 09:39 AM
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Dude then I live in a fucking hopeless dystopia if this is true. I will let myself be misguided so I can find out for myself. Thank you anyway
/r/seduction12/06/20 09:21 AM
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Lol if that’s the case then I’m screwed right? How willing is every guy able to sacrifice their time, effort, and pleasure for someone else to be happy?
/r/seduction12/06/20 08:39 AM
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I was thinking more along the lines of: you can offer love, support, and care. Loyalty, commitment, adaptability.
/r/seduction12/06/20 04:24 AM
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Hmm I really don’t give a shit. I just want a girl who cares loves and supports me the same way I do for her.
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:41 AM
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Thank you for the mature comment. There’s nothing wrong with liking someone. There’s no such thing as caring too much and you won’t ever look stupid for caring about somebody. The girl that doesn’t acknowledge you when you show you care about her... she doesn’t deserve it. Also remember we are all human.
/r/seduction08/06/20 11:17 AM
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With the knowledge that you have pooled together, it makes me think you have applied lots of these tenets to your life. I want to know: what has been your journey executing on these beliefs? I’m on a similar path and of course, kind to myself yet focused on these processes. Please let me know, thank you. Edit: deep respect for you friend, if this is how you live your life. Learned a lot from you and what you believe in.
/r/seduction07/06/20 01:06 AM
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I don’t know how to describe my emotion: a mix of jealousy and astonishment, that my inner ideals and knowledge are expressed in a post and resonates a lot. Jealousy that I know knowledge like this is quite powerful when executed. Well done friend, will continue to deeply internalize these points.
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:56 AM
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I have a caveat that I learned after just getting. turned down constantly (and never entering a relationship). Shoot your shot not because you envision some awesome cool relationship! shoot your shot because you like, no, love them!
/r/seduction27/05/20 08:58 AM
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Thank you and I appreciate your insights. Getting money, working out, building a career, these are all things that make the uncertainty of the future, more certain. We like certainty but once we learn to embrace the uncertainty of life, I think that’s when we stop deluding ourselves that we can control things obviously outside our control (getting women to like us, is one example). +1 for your outlook on life
/r/seduction11/05/20 08:40 PM
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Wow you said spot on what I was thinking. It seems weird that our society rewards people who are less emotionally invested because that’s more “attractive,” when to me it seems it should be the opposite! Yeah, i think the true mark of independence is when someone can be happy through their self and not what they think will make them happy (getting laid or approaching). If I were to add on to this post, I wouldn’t ask people what are hobbies/skills/interests that they think they should prioritize…
/r/seduction11/05/20 08:05 PM
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I suppose these points are indeed very true. Appreciate the post, +1 for insights and perspective
/r/seduction11/05/20 08:00 PM
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I feel that I resonated with the framing of this post, that ones main priority should never to be chasing women. I think to have ones own goals is the mark of independence. However, if we do this for the sake of becoming less emotionally invested when the time comes (?)... I find it problematic that we feel the need to be emotionally detached in order to be liked more. It seems like a superficial script that literally makes no sense. Even if it’s true does anyone else think it’s a bullshit idea …
/r/seduction11/05/20 07:47 PM
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If your end goal is to have women flock for you, then let it be your goal. If your goal is to be committed with someone and grow a garden of love and romance together, your outlook will only attract women with similar outlooks, no? These two contrasting goals, I feel, are what separates what we think will make us happy and what actually does. Who doesn’t want happiness?
/r/seduction11/05/20 07:35 PM
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It’s unfortunate that you are downvoted, but I do have to say I resonate with the point on being a good partner versus being a good provider. It’s something like reality versus societal expectations/roles. The reality is that when you enter a relationship with someone, you need to learn interpersonal skills to love them and nourish a garden together. On the other hand, it seems like men and women alike are given these societal scripts that they must fulfill: men, you cannot be loved unless you a…
/r/seduction11/05/20 07:32 PM
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Hot take: confidence is overrated, competence can be faked, and only drive matters (if you had drive, like real, real drive... you wouldn’t be wasting time here on this subreddit trying to learn fake impressive skills). Hot take.
/r/seduction11/05/20 07:21 PM
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I know this is unpopular opinion but most of these girls prob already have an active social life through dorm living experiences. Keeping this in mind, I’m not sure how many are actually down to date but keep pursuing to your heart.
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:04 PM
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Bro what
/r/seduction31/12/19 11:05 AM
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They are probably asian brother and sister it seemed fine to me. Bubble tea shop keywords
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:33 AM
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