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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Gym gameso she started a convo with you then? | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 06:25 AM |
| 7 | Gym gameBut how to you befriend the 35 year old in the first place without being a creep? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:17 AM |
| 17 | I don’t go out to bars much because I really don’t drink much and I hate dating apps - what do I do? How do I meet women? (28M).Does day game actually work? I’m always hesitant because Ive been told girls don’t want to be approached - its like wtf am I supposed to do? Lol | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 08:30 PM |
| 38 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"Yeah but you need to give evidence at least on how it backfired? Whats your arguement here? | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 06:28 AM |
| 15 | Talk to pretty girls.Don't mean to sound arrogant but I have no idea what that means? | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 06:15 AM |
| 56 | Talk to pretty girls.But how? How do you talk to women? I'm not talking about going up to a girl at a bar or a club and offering to buy them a drink I'm talking about everyday life when i'm out and about during the day running errands or whatever and I happen to see a pretty girl walk by at the mall? Or the coffee shops cashier? Or the girl at the park? Or the girl at the supermarket? How? | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.Well, whats typically your strategy when you see a girl you want to approach? How do you do it? What do you say? I desperately need help in this department | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.This is great to hear positive feedback from cold approaching as I have been trying to get out there and do this myself. May I ask how and where do you cold approach women? | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 19 | Update on the cashier who's number I got... interesting day.I'm glad things went you're way. Just 1 single warning: if you catch feelings, and things down the line become more serious where you both want to be in a relationship.. please just remember, she cheated on her boyfriend with you, which most likely means she can do it to you with another guy if you ever become her boyfriend. Bottom line: tread carefully Thank you for the post. Youve inspired me to take more chances and just not overthink it by keeping it simple and just handing the girl a note. … | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 06:25 AM |
| 0 | I (25m) met this girl (23f) I helped at my job last week. Is it ok if I go into her job to ask her out?Haha you at least lightened the mood and got me to laugh a bit. Appreciate that man! | /r/seduction | 24/09/20 07:36 PM |
| 23 | Just a post for the ladies of r/seduction26m here! YES!!!!!!!!! To all you ladies! Help us guys out sometimes! Do this more often!! | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Update on my cold approachTo be honest i wouldnt change a thing. Who knows if the bf thing was a lie? It could be 100% true but you just so happened to approach a girl who cant turn down attention so instead of telling you upfront that she had a bf she strung you along | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Update on my cold approachOh yeah! I saw this one, i commented on it. Any other news though? | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Update on my cold approachAm I crazy or do i not see it on your page? | /r/seduction | 21/08/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Update on cold approach successI dont see anything wrong with just asking her next time you goes meet for food. Just ask in a friendly non aggressive way "so how come you didnt tell me you had a boyfriend?" Maybe she will lie, but maybe she will also indirectly give you feed back in her answer that tells you, you came off as a friendly vibe I agree, you didnt seem to do anything to insist you wanted to be friends but maybe there was something different from her perspective that she might tell you | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Update on my cold approachJust keep it going!! | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Update: 2nd update on my cold approach successSick dude! Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm really good at cold approach but idk how to escalateHow do you normally cold approach to achieve such success? | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Update: 2nd update on my cold approach successAny update?? | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach updateJust commented on it. Let me know what you think. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Update: 2nd update on my cold approach successOk so if I were you what I would do is not answer at all TODAY. Instead, text her tomorrow and reschedule for ANOTHER DAY besides monday. Say something like "monday doesnt work for me i'm busy that day, hows wednesday(any other day that youre free)" it still puts you in control, it shows her she has to respect your time if she wants to see you, and it shows youre not there waiting around for her. Do this, trust me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach updateKeep us updated brother! | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Cold approach updatePlease continue to keep us updated about tomorrow! The bright side to take away from this is it sounds like you are in the mind set of not putting all your eggs into one basket and wanting to still approach women. That blonde was just a sign for you | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | I finally did a cold approachYeah for sure! Thank you for the taking the time to respond and i'm super proud of what you did and what it led to, whether she shows tomorrow or not, this thread is extremely proud and inspired by what you did! Yes please keep us updated! I know i want to know for sure! | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 10:20 PM |
| 2 | I finally did a cold approachI love the success story but could you give more detail on how you got the conversation going? Like, after you asked if this seat was taken, what did you or her say next that led to a two hour conversation? | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 4 | What’s your opinion on approaching girls at the gym?How does a guy offer his number to a girl? | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻Thank you! | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻How did you do it? Help us gents out, give us some details to learn from! | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | I moved a curl behind his earBut these all seem like very subtle things that he could have easily missed. What were you hoping for him to do by doing these things? | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 04:36 AM |
| 2 | I moved a curl behind his earWhat are some things you do to try to make him notice you? | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I like this girl, who SOMETIMES comes around my group of friends. Whenever she does, we dont say much as we are both shy, and she is even more shy being shes a few years younger. How can I grab her attention?What would her body language be like? | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever slide into a guys DM's they wouldnt be interested in?How does one be flirty? | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How do can you actually grab the girls attention in a crowded room?Whats peacocking? | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I like this girl, who SOMETIMES comes around my group of friends. Whenever she does, we dont say much as we are both shy, and she is even more shy being shes a few years younger. How can I grab her attention?See.. youre a troll haha | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I like this girl, who SOMETIMES comes around my group of friends. Whenever she does, we dont say much as we are both shy, and she is even more shy being shes a few years younger. How can I grab her attention?Youre a troll lol | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I like this girl, who SOMETIMES comes around my group of friends. Whenever she does, we dont say much as we are both shy, and she is even more shy being shes a few years younger. How can I grab her attention?Youre a troll lol | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I like this girl, who SOMETIMES comes around my group of friends. Whenever she does, we dont say much as we are both shy, and she is even more shy being shes a few years younger. How can I grab her attention?Mr. Wick.. we meet again Of course i am i just havent been focusing on her ass and tits. Ive been trying to get attention not be a pervert. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 08:33 PM |
| 7 | How do can you actually grab the girls attention in a crowded room?Fuck how could i have missed this?!?! THANK YOU!! | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 08:21 PM |
| 0 | I like this girl, who SOMETIMES comes around my group of friends. Whenever she does, we dont say much as we are both shy, and she is even more shy being shes a few years younger. How can I grab her attention?I havent actually checked out her ass, thats not my intenstion | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I like this girl, who SOMETIMES comes around my group of friends. Whenever she does, we dont say much as we are both shy, and she is even more shy being shes a few years younger. How can I grab her attention?What? | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 19 | Guys, how do you deal with competition ? (Girls opinion also wanted)Except thats not how he meant what he was saying at all.. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Does the material from the movie Crazy, Stupid, Love actually work?Eh maybe youre being a little extra.. its a fantastic movie | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Do girls ever slide into a guys DM's they wouldnt be interested in?What is flirty? I know what youre thinking.. and yes, this is a serious question. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Another good Tinder matchDid she work there? Or was she just a random customer? | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Do girls ever slide into a guys DM's they wouldnt be interested in?Hahaha thats a good one | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Another good Tinder matchHow did you approach the girl at the store? | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.What do you do on dates that lead to them being so successful? | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever slide into a guys DM's they wouldnt be interested in?I'm not afraid of rejection. But dont you think there should be some sort of build up before simply asking out of the blue "want to go on a date?" | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 2 | What is the easiest advice on how to meet women you can give to a 26(m)Dam that was good. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Another good Tinder matchCan i ask whats the first thing you say to your matches? | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Another good Tinder matchWhat do you say to your matches on tinder to get them on a date in only a few messages? | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What is the easiest advice on how to meet women you can give to a 26(m)How do you flirt? | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the easiest advice on how to meet women you can give to a 26(m)How do you slide into a girls dm successfully? How do you start? How do you learn the daygame? | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | DAY fucking 6Sick stories bud good job. How do you START the conversations though? | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | My first time in a social gathering in months...and i just fucking CRUSHED itWhat were the conversations like with the girls? How did you START the conversations? | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 2 | "Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world."What do you mean by rubbish? | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveHuh? | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Out of all the books youve read, which is the most recommended in your opinion? | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Live with 2 attractive bartenders, here are my thoughtsSee thats so crazy to me. The girl had her backed turned to you BECAUSE she wanted to be approached, where most guys would have took that as she wanted to be left alone. How did you approach her if her back was toward you? | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested.What would you consider a quality snap or text message? | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Live with 2 attractive bartenders, here are my thoughtsHow do you learn to connect with them? You said you learned how to socialize more and connect better. How do you do that? I feel like i can walk up to a girl but cant keep much of a conversation or let alone know what yo even open with? For you.. is it really just about being honest and talking about whatever the fuck comes to mind? | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How can you connect with a girl you find attractive over social media and potentially get her number?I hate to be asking you so much but you have me interested. How do you carry a conversation? What type of question do you generally ask? | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | How can you connect with a girl you find attractive over social media and potentially get her number?But how would you open? Like what would you say? | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How can you connect with a girl you find attractive over social media and potentially get her number?I'm a little confused, can you explain further? Mind sharing your story in addition? | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How can you connect with a girl you find attractive over social media and potentially get her number?What have you dont thats worked? Thank you for the encouragememt! | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Theory guy finally taking actionWhats your stratedgy though? | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Theory guy taking action DAY 2Keep the stories coming man! We all wanna hear about the girl from the gym | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Theory guy taking action DAY 2AHHHHAHAHA THIS ONE FOR ALL THE BOYS BACK HOME!!!! Keep it up bro and keep posting some inspiration for the rest of us on here.. we need it, trust me! I appreciate how you quoted the conversation! It was easy to grab some tips that way. Congrats man!! On a side note, how good looking was she out of 10? And how old was she, was she your age? | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveThis helps a lot! Great advice! Question though, if youre on such high alert all the time (which i absolutely believe) why dont you ever look at us? Sometimes ill past a girl and she doesnt even look my way. Even if i'm not attracted to the girl i still want to see whos walking by me or in my area | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Life lessons I learned going from sexless loser to sleeping with over 50 different women.But how can you apply these to women you want to engafe with over social media? Any chance you can list some examples of how to go about this? | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveInstead of complimenting her looks as the first thing you say to her, what would you suggest instead? | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI really appreciate this advice. Has this ever happened to you? | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 05:14 AM |
| 10 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveOk fine but then how would you build the conversation from something after that? | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 02:37 AM |
| 239 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI'm a guy 26m. You make a great point and i appreciate you posting this because guy love hearing the girls side of things. My question that i dont get it, if a guy wants to cold approach you, how can you "meet them first" if you never met them. We as men basically come up to you and compliment a look because we dont know what else to say. We're not trying to be creepy or cliche, but if you (and i'm sure many other girls) dont like that approach, than how else should we go about it to randomly co… | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Approaching while she is with her friend?I would really like to hear how approach 1 on 1 as well. What do you? What do you say? Id love some tips | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think it takes that long to get good at game/seductionI'm sorry can you explain. Whats a semi? Thats your job? | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 03:58 AM |
| 3 | I don’t think it takes that long to get good at game/seductionMay i ask what it is you do for a living? | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | What sets that 1 guy apart from the rest from a females perspective?Yeah but sometimes girls dont say much and when they do that its like theyre testing you to see if you can come up with something clever enough to keep the conversation going and make it unique and not so cliche | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever successfully slid in someones DM's?See i think thats my problem. I do the same, ill compliment or comment something about there picture, but that SECOND and THIRD comment to gain momentum and keep the conversation going, i'm clueless and have no idea what to say | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever successfully slid in someones DM's?From your perference, how would you like a guy to message you, what would you like him to say to kick off the convo instead of "hey"? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever successfully slid in someones DM's?Have these ever led to a date? What kind of things do you normally say about there stories? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever successfully slid in someones DM's?What was your first message like? How did you get a response? What did you say? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever successfully slid in someones DM's?What was the first message you sent to her like? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever successfully slid in someones DM's?What did you say to get her attention/reply? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever successfully slid in someones DM's?Do you mind sharing how he started the conversation? Or did he right off the back ask you out as his first message? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | This might sound silly, but in this day and age as a 26 year old male, is it acceptable to approach women in public you find attractive during the day?How do you nornally approach someone whos so much younger than you? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 06:24 AM |
| 1 | This might sound silly, but in this day and age as a 26 year old male, is it acceptable to approach women in public you find attractive during the day?So basically youre just saying that its a numbers game, and you just ask girls, some who might be into a 47 year old some who wont. Correct? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 05:02 AM |
| 1 | This might sound silly, but in this day and age as a 26 year old male, is it acceptable to approach women in public you find attractive during the day?How do you do it? How do you make yourself attractive for them? What is it about you that makes them attracted to you? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 01:56 AM |
| 2 | This might sound silly, but in this day and age as a 26 year old male, is it acceptable to approach women in public you find attractive during the day?Whats an opener you feel personally works for a beginner? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Don’t give up: my personal experience with SeductionBut where did you learn your techniques from? What was the most helpful peice of material you have read on learning your technique and knowledge on how to approach women. Do you use dating apps or are you approaching women in public? If its out in public what kind of places are you approaching them in? Coffee shops? Malls? Libraries? Sorry for all the questions i'm just genuinely curious on this stuff | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Don’t give up: my personal experience with SeductionHow have you generally been meeting women since all of this? | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Don’t give up: my personal experience with SeductionWhat peice of information do you think helped you the most? Whether it be a book or a youtube video you have read? Which peices of content was the most effective for you? Also I, and I think many other people reading this would LOVE to hear some more examples of success you have had since becoming more knowledgable on seduction. Good job man! | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 07:22 PM |
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