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Appreciate the thorough and well written response man. Yeah, I see what you’re saying and you’re right. I appreciate it sincerely. That helps me move forward with going without her. If it ends, it ends. I know people want to make me feel shame. Hey, I’m not there 100% yet and that’s clear. No qualms there. I do have an opportunity to improve with this situation. With or without her.
/r/askMRP11/09/21 10:21 PM
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I think I follow with what you’re saying and agree but can you expand on what you mean by your last sentence?
/r/askMRP11/09/21 09:14 PM
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Something to think about. I think I’m prepared to handle it. Not looking forward to it by any means but prepared. To me, it’s incredibly insulting to me for her to do this right before an event that’s already been planned and paid for. I don’t see any other way. That’s why I’m asking. Is there something I’m maybe missing? Let me ask you. How would you of personally handled it if you were in my situation? Your wife does something you’ve told her that she simply can’t do anymore without consequenc…
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:33 PM
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Yeah, I see that and regret the ultimatum but already said it. At the same time I don’t know how I would of had any integrity to still take her out and treat her to a nice vacation. I would of hated myself and her the entire time. If it was any other time I would of handled it differently by the removal of time, attention, and commitment. This was a one off that I don’t know how to handle
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:20 PM
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What are your thoughts on just going by myself?
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:10 PM
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You’re right and I’m trying desperately not to be. I’d say about 80% of me is comfortable with enforcing the boundary with the trip and the rest is rearing it’s ugly head. Mainly because it’s our Anniversary. It’s double insulting to me for some reason that she chose to do it now of all times.
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:09 PM
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You’re missing the point. It’s essentially a post about frame and the underlying genetic disposition women have towards it. A woman wanting to care for you is different than a woman feeling guilt, manipulation, etc to compensate for you.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 10:33 AM
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That’s another solid way of explaining it. Thanks for sharing your insight.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:31 PM
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It’s not about taking away responsibilities. It’s about not putting your own on them. Anything potentially insecurity related. Anything that ‘requires’ them to be an active participant for you to still enjoy yourself and be comfortable and confident with yourself. They want to see you in your element. Any time that element requires their involvement their pussy dries up. They want total lack of responsibility for you on every level. When a woman is in a caretaker role any advance made by a man f…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 12:30 AM
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No you’re right. It is common sense. I just had to understand it in this simplistic way and really internalize it to actually truly feel I finally get it where it makes sense across the spectrum.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 11:40 PM
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I see a therapist and a bartender as two entirely separate levels of implication personally. There's a vulnerability there that is obvious to me at least. The dynamic is literally based on vulnerability. If that's all it takes for her. To just feel vulnerable to open up her feminine flirtations to another man in a completely inappropriate setting than I have deeper problems on my hands if I continue the relationship
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:43 PM
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That's interesting. I can see the juvenile impression by my style of writing the post. It was fresh. I'm a little angry. Understandable for me but everyone has their way of venting I suppose. I guess the fact it was her therapist. The person she's supposed to share her deeper expressions of life with and the corresponding vulnerability that implies maybe doesn't read a red flag to you. But, my friend, it does to me. I know everyone flirts. I'm not ignorant to that fact. You start flirting with y…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:39 PM
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Not sure what you're confused about. A girl who lies about affection she clearly is enjoying is not a loyal woman. In my book, she would of ended his advances and shown displeasure to them immediately if loyal. Let alone told me about how he's a creep, etc. Most red flags are subtle with women. To me, this is a red flag that things aren't quite what they appear to be with her loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 09:30 AM
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Fair enough. I see your point.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:19 PM
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I honestly don't think you know two things about the difference between Alpha and beta by making a blanket judgement like that. Being aware of basic body language, demeanor, choice of words and direction has everything to do with leadership. Once you form a 'habit' out of it then yes, you're being a natural leader without intent, but the goal here on this subreddit is to learn that habit through awareness. Are there not leadership classes within the professional world that teach someone basic te…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 08:08 PM
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Haha good point. I meant to imply they dealt with their fear the best by being forced to stay per a questionnaire they answered following. Nice catch
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:16 PM
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This is total bullshit. It is true that you create your own reality that you perceive for yourself but reality is reality at the end of the day. As much as I believe that I'm going to be a rocket scientist I'm simply not going to be one without a path laid out by the giants before me. We live in a human based society and there's a structure you can't just pretend doesn't exist that has common patterns, common interpersonal reactions, and knowledge based systems that are continuously compounded u…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:52 AM
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Codependent isn't just that at it's extreme. Sacrificing ones own self in any way at the attempted control of another to stay close in your domain is symptomatic of codependency. Everything about being beta is the attempt to control a girl by placation. Placation at it's core is trying to control the perceived dissatisfaction of another.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:33 AM
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You are correct. The more I think about it, while he did consider Jesus himself a mortal and probably the only real christian he detested the religion as a whole for the weakness he saw portrayed internally for its followers. I was assuming you were referring to the oft quoted God is Dead quote that is severely misconstrued. Especially on the internet. Touché good sir. I'm, in fact, the hypocrite with my statement.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:25 PM
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Listen to the Nietzsche series on the 'Philosophize This!' podcast if you get a chance. Not saying there's a direct correlation between Jesus and himself but by the correlation you made about the apparent contradiction shows you have assumptions yourself about some of Nietzsche's most famous quotes that are in error.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 09:23 PM
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You make good points and like anything different wording will backfire on different people. Delivery is important. I guess the underlying point is to never directly say sorry when she's being irrational or unreasonable with something she can't drop but do address and acknowledge her emotional state however that may be. Most importantly don't explain why you did something unless directly asked. It will almost always lead to unnecessary time and energy.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 09:17 PM
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I'm sure you've often heard it here that woman are essentially children when it comes to interpersonal interaction with men. Unfortunately that happens to be just a fact of life. While I understood intellectually RP truths for years I really didn't fully grasp many aspects of it until I had a child of my own. The parallels are astounding and the corresponding results of treating a woman similarly are without question. It's not meant as a disrespect but a frame of reference that's easy to underst…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:35 PM
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Because to her the emotion she feels is more powerful than reason. It's all about the moment to her and that translates into everything. Ever try to reason your way into having sex when the figurative moment is already gone with a woman? You should be able to recognize how that feels even as a man. The same dynamic applies to all interaction with women. It simply doesn't matter if you meant whatever offense or not to her. She felt something negative from you and to her that's as real as the sky …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:08 PM
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Yes I didn't use paragraphs for that one. I don't really give a shit. It was a rant. Second nothing in there propagated endorsing a LTR. And no, that's not RP 101 to never get in one either. Calling me Blue Pill does nothing to me. You wasted your time. Everything in there was a complaint on exactly Blue Pill bull shit we've been seeing in this sub recently
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:25 PM
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You're right. We are in agreement. I know I ranted so I take responsibility for that with miscommunication and possible misconception
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:21 PM
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You're missing the whole point of even having an Alpha mindset in the first place. The burden and blame isn't solely on women for why western society is the way it is right now. Men are equally responsible for the beta mindset. Men are leaders. Women follow. If a woman, cock carousel or not, experiences the other half, ie Us, properly her past will become irrelevant and she will quickly respond. That's the point. Spouting this insecure shit off in TRP is like saying we need to avoid being around…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:15 PM
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And this is where I disagree with you. TRP used to be about being a better independent man and understanding why women respond and respect a man of that mindset. Now it's become a pocket calculator for treating women poorly to achieve a desired response.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:01 PM
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Well that was a straw man and a half. If part of being red pill was about the family, which I actually agree with, then this subreddit has really gone to shit then. How many times have you seen the advice of don't get married on this forum? Countless. I'm actually advocating for real discussion again about being a better man in and out of a relationship. Not this crap. The world doesn't revolve around me. It revolves around the insecure fucks here who make baseless assumptions all rooted in a fe…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 09:55 PM
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You may be right. I'm formulating a deadline as suggested here. Like I said if it wasn't for my boy this would all be far easier.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 07:11 PM
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Some good tangible approaches. I appreciate it and will definitely try them. You're right about her being a PRO. I'm realizing this relationship just turned into RP hard mode where the regular tactics just backfire now. Thank you
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:56 PM
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I'm not sure but it did all start almost immediately following it. I've read up on it and apparently it happens often where a physical trauma brings emotional trauma up
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:53 PM
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No disrespect or implication but how do you know this? Have you been here before? It really did start following her accident. At least that seems to be the correlation
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:51 PM
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Yeah, you're 100% right. This is the reason and logic side of our brains that see this as an obvious. The older I get the more it seems that woman don't really have the ability to actually love in any genuine way where they can put their shit to the side to actually show their loved one respect first before their own emotional turmoil. I've been through hell and back at various points in my life and I never treated anyone that way. If anything I made it more of a point to show to compensate for …
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:47 PM
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You make some good points and I appreciate it. She is seeking therapy but therapy isn't cheap these days so it's not that often. There's definitely more she can do on a individual level than she's doing but at least she's doing something. You're right about the conflicting statements in that last paragraph. It has more to do with my boy than her but I do care about her as a person and as the mother of my child to where if I dumped her on the curb I don't think things would turn more positive for…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:38 PM
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Hipster girls are the fucking worse but also a hotbed of great sex. My brother used to live in Portland. The quasi-source of it all. The only thing I appreciated about that place was the strip clubs were fucking phenomenal and the music scene was not too bad. If you can stand the verbal garbage coming out of their mouths and the occasional odd smell these girls are usually the dirtiest in bed of them all though. I'm ok with any girl wanting to be the 'cool girl' in the sack. Don't disregard goin…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 04:56 PM
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Appreciate your feedback man. One of the better posts I've read in a while
/r/askTRP12/01/17 08:15 PM
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I think you're right and it probably is a combination to some extent of everything you listed. Thank you for your feedback
/r/askTRP12/01/17 08:15 PM
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I hear you man. You're right. Something I have to swallow. I'm currently just choking on the pill because of my coward driven dry mouth
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:04 AM
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I appreciate it. Yeah, the mix is what I'm trying to balance. I often go one way or another too much and then have to spend my time remedying the balance again. It's definitely a lot more work than spinning plates but has pay offs for sure
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:54 AM
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It is my place. My house actually. I'm not quite ready to NEXT her which is why I'm asking for advice to curb this behavior
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:52 AM
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Yeah I know I fucked up on the cohabitation. For the most part other than this it's been pretty amazing though. Food, she's an amazing cook. Blowjobs whenever, however. Sex that would put porn to shame. She has quite a few qualities I haven't seen in many women. Btw her friend is a girl. We've all known each other for years.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 03:50 AM
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Please expand on the 'tries not to laugh' bit? Appreciate the feedback. She does have a history of liking to be chased on a subconscious level by some of her choice of shit tests
/r/askTRP12/01/17 02:33 AM
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Move on and for fun dread the fuck out of her with all the women she'll see coming over to your place. You're too young to get caught up in this. I know everyone says this who's older, including me, but don't even bother having or even exploring a LTR until you legitimately have your shit together. BTW the best way to plate her is to forget about her and pursue yourself and the qualities you need to grow as a man and secondly, pursue other women. If she sees this she'll come a knockin' but just …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 07:58 PM
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This is absolute gold and I'm not confused at all to your choice of wording. It all makes perfect sense and I've emulated very successfully many of the the things you've stated in LTRs. The outcry is coming from those who's minds are mush by current culture on how to be dominant to a female without being an asshole. Equality is not reality. Dichotomy is. And if any of these libtards and purple pill warriors could remotely grasp that they'd see that the female in this type of LTR is very satisfie…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 08:24 AM
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This is so true. My ex-wife was a damn near 10. Great sex till the end. I remember distinctly during the last ending arguments we had that she kept throwing in my face how I'll never have someone as hot as her or good in bed as her again. The funny thing is I never saw it more clearly in my life than at that moment that a woman is just a fuck toy. No matter how amazing they may be and how great of a time you had fucking them all toys get old after time. Especially toys that break. You have no de…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:57 PM
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It's funny that the best players always had a coach who couldn't nearly play as good as them but somehow taught them in a way that they could be at their best. It's an analogy of course what both you and I are spouting. Remember TRP is psychology. Psychology is a concept based on the information we know about people through observation. Some do field work. Some look at others field work and make even a better observation based on that same information. Noone is better and this sure as shit is no…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:53 AM
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I don't know if you've ever played sports or MMA or anything even remotely skill based but the way you master something is drilling the basics over and over and over again. All any of these posts are is just a rehash from a slightly different perspective. Last time I checked there's no new theory being added to the red pill. They're all based or derived from the fundamentals. The guy who thinks he doesn't need to drill the basics is the one who always plateaus thinking he needs to somehow make i…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 09:42 PM
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You don't go into a business meeting not having some kind of outline, do you? Things will never go how you planned but with some sort of outline you have an idea of how to refocus or distract back to your ultimate goal going into the meeting. Plus, unless you're a natural good storyteller, which most people aren't, it's useful to have interesting experiences you've had somewhat rehearsed in your head that can fill a void when necessary. This isn't scripting. It's being prepared for the inevitabl…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 08:37 PM
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No I'm just tired of seeing people contribute nothing to a post. That's not a trigger. That's me contributing to the way people process and why you should just leave the man alone and move on if you don't like it. Just because someone isn't like them in their post count doesn't mean this guy doesn't walk the walk. How would any of us even really know? I'm sure a big chunk of guys on here don't walk the walk but it intrigues them. They may understand it. They may be able to put it into words and …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 08:14 PM
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I don't know why everyone cares about this so much. If you don't like what he has to say or feel he posts too often then don't read it. You can see who posted it before you 'waste your time'. You're not somehow obligated. Everyone who responds this way ironically comes across to me exactly what you're accusing him of. You literally just wasted your time to post that. The beauty of text is it can't enter your mind and consume it if you don't read it. Follow your own advice and occupy your life do…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 07:52 PM
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This is the biggest difficulty I've always had in LTR's. I'm good for the majority of the relationship and have always been incredibly picky in picking women that absolutely love sex as much as I do. But time always complicates things. What starts off as a disconnect that has nothing to do with sex always eventually rears its ugly head into that aspect of the relationship in one way or another. I've tried to implement red pill tactics at this point many times but after failing and the relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 08:54 PM
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I think this is true in general but there definitely are exceptions to the rule. In fact every LTR I've actually dabbled in wanted to fuck at least as much as me and was one of the main contributors to me sticking around. There's nothing better then a girl that genuinely wants your dick and have her body pushed to the limits. Not just to placate you. I'd say about 30% of women out there are more on our level with sex IMO. You'll find them almost always with a fetish or kink that falls more in li…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:31 AM
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Very simply well stated sir. Especially the part about them relying on you to have a good time. One mistake I think a lot of red pillers make is they play the game well with initial strategy but the plate moves on quick because while they're so busy being stoic and nonchalant with interaction they forget that she's relying on them for a 'good time'. Women, in general, are boring but eager to be a part of something. You'll spin them significantly longer if you don't wrap yourself too much in the …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 03:55 PM
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Why not just try to fuck her first and the moment she gives you a shit test or you feel Beta tendencies coming then bounce? Win-win in my book. You still get the shake up and you either potentially fuck her on the first meet or at a later time because her pussy is dripping watching you first hand having abundance mentality right in front of her. It's really just a pussy move to not show up. She's only walking away thinking you're an asshole, not even remotely an Alpha. Not that it matters I supp…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 03:09 AM
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I agree with this but caveat it with any girl that's not a 9 or 10 will be significantly more slutty with you because of a variety of reasons usually rooted in an insecurity of sorts. I usually avoid the hottest girls for this reason. I'm dirty and like a good mess of a fuck. A girl, as long as she's not overweight, are all pretty much the same naked. And even if they have a butterface there's some kind of strange hotness that forms on even the most fucked up faces when they get dick drunk.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:51 PM
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Every single girl. Literally every single one said to me after I banged them by the first or second date that they've "never done this before that quick". Lesson learned: They're all full of shit. And I don't mean they have poop soup waiting to come out of they're butthole...
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:44 PM
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They all do it. Shit I've even seen my mom do it in front of my dad. The difference is in the maturity, if you can even call it that, of how they go about it. A LTR or a girl who somewhat cares about you will be more subtle and discrete about it. No different from a guy who looks at other women out of his peripheral while walking with his girl. Don't take it to heart. Your goal with any plate or LTR is to just be yourself as an Alpha. They'll come running back. If not or if it's too disrespectfu…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:00 AM
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"The Greatest Failure is the Failure to Try" ...great quote I try to live by I got from a Drill Sergeant years ago
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:53 AM
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